Second date

Regular-Yesterday-58 · 2022-09-08T14:43:27+00:00

Depends on if you kissed or hooked up.

Kissed = wait 2-3 days and hint at wanting to hang out in the future

Hooked up = text later that day that you enjoyed the night and propose a type date that you want, so she'll only have to say yes or no

If you haven't done any of the above, I honestly wouldn't bother because she is probably not into you. I'd let her make the move. And If that move never comes then so be it.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-09-08T14:30:04+00:00

At the end of the first

Neo-Rio · 2022-09-09T02:20:37+00:00

Never.

If sex isn't happening on the first date, for whatever reason (I would always try and push for it), then I leave her with my contact information.

If I did my job properly on the date - but just for some reason she was a bit iffy about coming over so quickly - she should call later and want to see me. I will then say that I'm staying home but I would be happy to see her. She then does the rest.AT NO TIME do I let her suggest places to meet up in public or any dates somewhere. It MUST be on my schedule. This is to ensure that she's not going to try and jerk me around either. If she tries it, I politely decline and say that I don't feel like going anywhere today, but would still like to see her at my place.

If she doesn't call, she was never going to sleep with me and I consider her not calling as a saving of both my time and emotional investment.

2022-09-10T05:11:17+00:00

i asked as soon as i got home and she said yes

foxyua_93 · 2022-09-11T17:52:51+00:00

Typically 2-3 days. But if she’s into you , she might write you earlier. And then you chat a bit and “when you’re free to get together for bla bla?” Done! Date is set! Don’t blow her phone or text a lot. Use as an instrument for setting dates (in the Beginning).

Title	Second date
Author	Molteni-
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	September 8, 2022 1:33 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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