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OP we need more detail on your relationship and why you are asking this. Otherwise this is considered a low effort post. Please edit and I can unlock.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/26 02:56 PM
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We don't allow drive by, low effort posts like this. Please add more detail including answering the relationship questions below from the automod and I will unlock.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/26 02:32 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/26 12:01 AM
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OP, we do not allow you to delete your comments so I'm going to lock this.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/26 01:55 PM
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OP do you want to be more feminine or do you want to remain masculine? Here we are talking about more than looks but overall personality and way of being in the works. The latter would not be a fit here but the former, we can help with. But you clearly need to state what your goal is.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/26 06:52 PM
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Note the OP has updated the post to state they live in a remote location with 20 available men only. Consider this context in your responses.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/26 03:05 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Do not insult the community or it's members.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/26 02:41 PM
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OP you did not engage much with your previous post. Please be sure to engage with the commenters here on this one or we may lock the post.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/26 01:57 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9 > your personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/26 07:48 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/26 03:42 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/26 02:48 PM
1

Please add line breaks to make this easier to read.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/26 01:40 AM
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OP Please engage with your post or it will be locked. We don't allow drive by postings.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/26 04:39 PM
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We won’t tolerate baseless accusations like this against our ECs. Engaging here requires understanding nuance.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/26 09:56 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/26 07:32 PM
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Well this has been fun but it’s time to lock the thread. The OP has not displayed interest in advice or learning, even from the ECs. Reading one wiki post after years on the men’s spaces is simply not enough if you aren’t willing to learn and grow from those women who are more experienced.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/26 12:53 AM
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To clarify, I didn’t ask you to remove it. Just making sure you know what our perspective is here and not to trust random non-endorsed folks who may be incorrectly stating what RPW is.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/26 02:08 AM
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The commenter is incorrect. But yes please read the sidebar to understand who we are. Here is a good start: https://reddit.com/r/redpillwomen/wiki/index/tableofcontents/axioms
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/26 12:46 AM
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This is incorrect. Please read the sidebar. Here is a good place to start. https://reddit.com/r/redpillwomen/wiki/index/tableofcontents/axioms
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/26 12:44 AM
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OP please engage with your post.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/26 03:43 PM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 10:11 PM
8

Thank you for reposting. Follow ups are really great for helping others learn. It is against our rules though to delete posts, so please leave this one up.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 04:40 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/26 08:51 PM
2

Done, well done Noressa!
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/26 01:48 AM
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Violence is not tolerated by RPW and it’s considered outside of our scope, requiring professional intervention.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/26 04:40 PM
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We aren’t a debate sub and we aren’t for men.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/26 03:48 AM
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Locked, no men are allowed to post.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/26 06:40 PM
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We appreciate your interest in us but we aren't here for outsiders to study. Read our posts or check out the wiki if you are curious about RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/26 01:38 AM
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I'm shutting this down and issuing a ban. We don't talk disrespectfully about men like this here.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/26 05:05 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/26 03:07 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 10:01 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 08:30 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/26 06:36 PM
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Please engage with your post or it will be locked.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/26 05:10 PM
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OP please engage with your post or will be locked.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/26 01:39 AM
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Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. Encouraging people to just be alone and live their best life when that’s not what they want is not RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/26 05:38 PM
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We are here to support RPW theories and this isn’t it. And if I see more comments like this, you will be banned.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/26 06:01 PM
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No feminism. This has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/26 02:29 AM
1

Be polite or be quiet. Do not insult the community or it's members.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 11:08 PM
1

Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/26 03:15 PM
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Appreciate the effort but RPW does not equal trad/traditional. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/26 03:06 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/26 03:01 PM
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Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/26 03:00 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Also your personal experiences aren’t advice.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/26 03:36 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Do not insult the community or it's members.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/26 02:14 PM
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I will leave this comment because I think it’s decent advice, but per our rules, please do not identify yourself as male. Good advice is good advice and should stand alone without having to preface it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/26 02:13 PM
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No feminism. This has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 07:02 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Do not insult the community or it's members.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 06:57 PM
1

Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 06:53 PM
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OP please engage with your post or it will be locked.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/26 03:33 PM
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Please answer the relationship questions in the auto mod (link in bullet 1) for a better response.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/26 03:47 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/26 03:01 AM
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We don’t allow drive-by postings. If you would like to revise, answering some of the questions from the auto mod below or adding more details about yourself and why you were asking the question, we will approve it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/26 05:53 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/26 03:17 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/26 03:11 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Do not insult the community or it's members.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/26 02:49 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/26 02:40 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 07:54 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 07:49 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Do not insult the community or it's members.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 07:48 PM
2

This is unnecessary. We do not have a locker room environment here, we focus on telling truths with compassion and providing helpful advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 04:44 PM
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Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/26 03:45 AM
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This doesn’t even make sense. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/26 05:52 PM
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Modding heavily on this post. If you are a man that has nothing to say other than praising her, then just don’t comment. She needs to legitimate advice from other women.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/26 02:09 PM
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Ew, no. Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/26 01:36 PM
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Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/26 07:11 PM
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This is just it, we are an advice focused sub and we should be giving actionable advice. And while you did not directly give advice, you made your point of view very clear. Many times men come in with a view that comes from their lived experience but it stands to benefit them as men, not the woman. The men’s comments can also really sway a woman because she thinks “if a man says that it must be true!” which is wrong. As the RP men say, “you don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish, you ask a fisherm…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/26 01:54 PM
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I’m going to leave this up because I think it’s a valuable perspective and you’ve contributed positively in the past but warning this is dangerously on the edge of being advice very focused on your personal preferences and what men want vs. focusing on what is best for this woman. Future advice needs to be more woman centric or will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/26 04:26 PM
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She realizes she’s the problem and you blame him? This isn’t red pill advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/26 03:46 PM
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We appreciate your interest in us but we aren't here for outsiders to study. Read our posts or check out the wiki if you are curious about RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/26 08:29 PM
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You don’t get to decide how her marriage is labeled. Also advice is not actionable. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/26 05:39 PM
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No thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 03:52 PM
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. Very wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/26 03:03 PM
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lol absolutely not.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/26 10:49 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/26 04:40 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/26 03:33 PM
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Take it to the Red Pill.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/26 02:29 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/26 02:29 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/26 11:01 PM
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I’m gonna go ahead and presume you’re a man who doesn’t meet the criteria to be here and remove this. Your advice isn’t the worst, but this is pretty much unreadable.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/26 02:39 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 03:10 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Sorry you are a 27 yo single guy. You aren’t qualified yet to speak to what older men want.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/26 10:19 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/26 06:24 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/26 07:52 PM
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Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/26 07:50 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/26 06:49 PM
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RPW is for women to discuss sexual strategy. Content must serve to help women, deviations from this are off topic
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/25 03:51 PM
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I’m removing this not because it’s not true (not sure if it is or not) but because you aren’t giving advice or seeming to be helpful in any way.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/25 09:10 PM
4

Not even close to enough context. Please edit and answer the relationship questions below.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/25 11:30 PM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/25 08:11 PM
1

No insults. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/25 03:43 AM
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We don’t allow feminism here. If you would like to remove the references to feminism and update this as a discussion post, I will reapprove but please familiarize yourself with the goals of red pill women as they are not feminist in nature.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/25 05:56 PM
2

Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/25 06:48 PM
4

You do not need to apologize. Sometimes those of us that are more experienced forget what it’s like to be young and new. Nonetheless please thoroughly read through the women’s wiki and stay away from the men’s content.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/25 04:15 PM
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Please be the change you want to see on the sub and post your own red pill theory, field reports, etc. While I agree there’s a lot of these posts, complaining here isn’t really ideal unless you are actively involved in contributing posts yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/25 04:13 PM
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Locking this post as OP has not engaged. OP if you want to participate, please send the mods a message and we will unlock.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/25 05:08 PM
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Please give more details on your situation - see the auto mod questions to answer. Once you revise your post, we will unlock.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/25 03:55 PM
1

You aren’t. That comment has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 05:11 PM
1

Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 05:11 PM
2

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/25 04:10 PM
3

The “leave him is not the first piece of advice you should give” rule applies to committed long term relationships, usually marriages. This rule is not intended for dating scenarios since women should be vetting and, in many if not most situations, ending a “dating relationship” before it becomes a committed LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/25 01:04 AM
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OP your previous post received a lot of responses but I am not seeing that you interacted with your post at all. I will leave this one up but please know you will be required to interact with it, otherwise it will be locked as we don’t allow rants.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/25 09:49 PM
3

Your first sentence is not red pill advice, removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/25 04:11 PM
2

And a man. No.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/25 02:41 PM
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I’m going to lock this. RPW is not for men’s questions or to help you understand something better. We are really here to help women.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/25 09:48 PM
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I think your general point is OK and would not have been removed if not for the phrasing around looking out for men’s feelings. No one is talking about defensiveness or avoidance here, you are projecting that in an emotional way onto the situation which along with your language indicates you are coming from a man’s perspective, rather than looking at what’s in the best interest of the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 06:36 PM
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Rule zero: You are leading with what is best for the man and not the woman therefore not taking a woman’s best interest to account. Advice here has to benefit women. Also as you acknowledge, rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 06:14 PM
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We don’t do the “all men are evil” thing here. Locked and suggested you come back here only after you’ve working on improving yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/25 04:16 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/25 09:14 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/25 09:14 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 06:53 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 06:53 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/25 12:23 AM
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OP you need to engage with your post or it will be locked.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/25 02:10 PM
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We need more details on your relationship status and challenges to help. Please answer the relationship questions listed here from the auto mod.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/25 03:30 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/25 03:24 PM
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No, bad.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/25 02:09 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/25 03:15 PM
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I’m locking this as it’s extremely similar to your last post you deleted which is not allowed. Either you are a troll or you are making the exact same mistakes a second time - and similarly trying to defend them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 10:49 PM
1

Your preferences are not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/25 03:37 PM
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Men's questions are not permitted on RPW. Please post instead on https://www.forums.red/i/asktrp
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/25 02:31 PM
2

Removing as the vetting advice is for women, not men. Your vetting should look very different.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/25 02:30 PM
1

Be polite or be quiet. Do not insult the community or it's members.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/25 01:40 PM
2

Removed. You got your point across already.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/25 07:32 PM
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OP please check modmail. Locking post due to multiple accounts and repetitive posts.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/25 02:34 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 01:04 AM
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"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/25 04:54 PM
1

Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 03:42 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/25 03:02 AM
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Removed, this is not RPW advice. I know you are trying to be kind but you know nothing about this stranger on the Internet to say if this is true for her or not.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/25 07:33 PM
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We don’t allow rants here and that sounds like it’s what you’re doing. This is a warning, be willing to engage with the advice given. If all you want to do is argue and call yourself names then we will lock the post. It’s bad for other women reading this and doesn’t reflect RPW values.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/25 07:31 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 04:16 PM
2

Sorry, but this is not red pill. Red pill is amoral, see rule 4.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/25 05:06 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/25 04:22 PM
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We aren’t a venting sub, it’s specifically against the rules. We require self reflection here so this is why you are getting push back, because we don’t see you explaining why you are with someone who it seems pretty clear should have been vetted out early. It’s recommended you take a look into the wiki to learn about what our community is about and/or add more detail about why you are with this man, what has changed recently, what you have done to try to address the issue already, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 03:33 PM
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I’m going to lock this post since you are not responding.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/25 12:55 AM
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OP you will be expected to engage in this post or it will be removed. I don’t see an engagement from you in your previous two posts so mentioning it now.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 07:56 PM
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Please answer the relationship questions listed on the rules for posting. I will unlock once we know more about your situation.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 03:50 PM
1

The issue is you saying the higher, the better. This is not in line with red pill women strategy. We are not red pill men, we are red pill women.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/25 04:15 PM
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We aren’t here to educate men. Please refer to the wiki if you are curious.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/25 03:30 PM
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Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/25 03:28 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/25 02:31 AM
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Not at all helpful to women.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 06:10 PM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 05:45 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 04:24 PM
2

Removed, we don’t believe in talking about men in a negative manner here. Besides that, your statements are untrue.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 10:43 PM
1

Removed, stay on topic.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 10:42 PM
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My issue is your first comment saying most women here are seething for no reason. If you view the community and its participants that way, not sure you should be here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 01:38 PM
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Do not insult the community or its members.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 01:36 PM
2

Removed. Entirely off-topic and has nothing to do with the OPs question.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 01:24 PM
1

RPW is amoral.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 05:21 AM
3

Grouchy was an appropriate user name lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 09:51 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 02:11 PM
1

If you feel this way about red pill then you don’t need to be here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/25 09:54 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/25 12:28 AM
1

Removing this as it’s not RPW advice. We believe here in working on relationships, giving our men room to grow and change when possible. You are making a lot of assumptions here that you cannot make from this post alone.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 02:29 PM
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This is not a dating site.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 02:25 PM
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This is not a dating site.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 02:24 PM
2

It’s the second time I’ve seen you just posting (what seems to be your self created) video links so I’m removing.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/25 09:31 PM
3

OK, this is your second comment like this totally out of place, this doesn’t seem like the community for you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/25 02:50 AM
1

No insults, removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/25 12:01 AM
1

No insults to others’ partners.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 09:15 PM
2

u/deliaallmylife gave a thorough response. We are here to find the best man we can who is a leader, not just any guy who will say yes.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 06:03 PM
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I am ok with a challenge as long as it's based on theory. Your response was removed because it lacked nuance and specifically goes against documented theory on the wiki. Please read through Art of the Bad Excuse. These are RP sanctioned actions to signal to a man your interest without brazenly cold approaching them. This is most likely to lead to success as it allows the man to lead and you to remain a follower and the pursued, which is more likely to result in finding a man who is capable of be…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 05:18 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 03:56 PM
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Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. Cold approaches are not recommended for women by RPW theory.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 02:06 PM
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Removed them from the community. That comment alone would have been ok had it been supported by solid reasoning but that user had a bad history here so seems they aren’t here for the right reasons. In the future, please report comments using the report option so we can address these.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/25 04:51 PM
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RPW first and foremost supports men leading and women following not from a religious perspective necessarily but from the perspective that we believe it is the recipe for the most successful relationships. The previous comment has been removed because this man is not familiar enough with red pill theory to be commenting here so please disregard him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/25 02:36 PM
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Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/25 02:14 PM
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You don’t seem to have the RP knowledge we require of a man to post here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/25 02:13 PM
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Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 02:45 PM
2

Just because they are empathetic does not mean they support RP theory. We are here to truth tell. See the highlighted mod notes.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 02:45 PM
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I know of no RP theory that supports this.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 02:42 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/25 10:19 PM
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This is not RPW advice and instead is full of empty platitudes. Same for your other response. Take a pause from commenting as a man here please.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/25 10:05 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/25 10:03 PM
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OP you need to engage with your post or it will be locked.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/25 01:12 AM
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You don’t need to be here if it’s not in good faith.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 09:46 PM
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Going to lock this one as well, please take it to purple pill debate.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 09:41 PM
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I’m going to go ahead and lock this post. It’s been a good conversation but multiple folks have mentioned feeling like OP is not here in good faith.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 09:39 PM
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OP I agree with u/leosandlattes. If you have legitimate questions that’s fine but if you are here to just debate then that’s not the purpose of our sub.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 08:13 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 06:10 PM
1

Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 05:16 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 05:12 PM
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“Be yourself” is a sweet message but it’s not red pill advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/25 09:31 PM
2

Soft reminder: do not announce you are a man here. Please read the guidelines for men on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/25 01:46 PM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 07:33 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 07:32 PM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 07:31 PM
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If you don’t have positive things to say about the sub, you don’t need to be here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/25 08:46 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/25 03:14 PM
1

That’s enough, banned.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/25 10:14 PM
1

Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/25 02:18 PM
1

Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 01:54 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 01:54 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 04:20 PM
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RPW is for women to discuss sexual strategy. Content must serve to help women, deviations from this are off topic
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/25 01:50 PM
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OP, your previous posts mention you as 22 but here you say you’re 27. This leads to doubt in the truthfulness of your post. I’m locking this. Message mod mail to explain the inconsistencies if you would like to reopen this. Edit: I see you also don’t have a job either. Not unlocking.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/25 03:12 PM
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What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory. While it is certainly fine for people to have boundaries, we also need to acknowledge what makes relationships successful in the long term based on red pill principles. Telling someone good men are a dime a dozen and she’s special, a queen, etc, is not red pill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 06:38 PM
1

Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 01:15 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. You seem to know the rules for male posting since you called them out yet still decided to break them.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 01:10 AM
1

Removed, no insults just because people don’t share your perspectives.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 03:10 PM
1

Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 03:08 PM
2

Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 03:06 PM
2

Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/25 07:17 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 01:39 AM
1

Removed. Tradcon is RPW but RPW is not Tradcon.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/25 02:54 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 06:39 PM
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The sub is not about simply traditional values for women, it’s much more complex and nuanced than that. As an OP, you asked a controversial, debate style question and seem to be reporting people who disagree with your opinion. A woman advocating for a later marriage rather than an earlier one is not violating any rules, she simply has a different opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 12:21 AM
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Be respectful, especially as a man here.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/25 06:22 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/25 05:24 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Also RPW isn’t trad.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/25 09:17 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 08:53 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 02:37 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/25 03:29 AM
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Removed, no name calling.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/25 09:02 PM
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Removed, low effort.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/25 01:24 AM
1

Removed. No moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/25 03:45 PM
1

Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/24 03:58 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/24 01:49 AM
1

Men are not solely defined in terms of their career. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/24 02:29 AM
1

It’s actually not a good look to insult other community members. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/24 02:27 AM
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Your only responses here are argumentative and not fact based so far so consider this a warning. If you are just here to argue, the ban will be for you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/24 05:42 PM
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You clearly haven’t read the rules, we are ANTI-feminist here and the post has been reported by community members so it warrants a comment.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/24 05:26 PM
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Approving this as long as we are focused on things we should be considering in finding a fulfilling long-term relationship. The first part of this is getting dangerously close to feminism and if it goes in that direction, it will be locked (rule 5).
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/24 05:00 PM
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OP please participate in your post or it will be locked.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/24 06:43 PM
2

Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 08:49 PM
1

Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 08:44 PM
5

Not speaking for all of the mods here, but just for myself, we know that good advice or concepts can often be downvoted if it does not fit perfectly into “trad”. This is why all users should be aware of the Flair Guidelines and look toward the advice with not just the most up votes, but those who have been endorsed by the community.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 01:33 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 04:07 PM
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You don’t have to agree with it, but it’s part of our red pill philosophy.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 11:20 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/s/WUrNfroo0R
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 11:14 PM
1

Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 08:36 PM
4

Please read The fear of the wall and why I am sick of hearing about it
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 08:31 PM
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That is exactly what everyone here is trying to tell you, those are not accurate spaces to gain realistic advice. Red pill men is not for women.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 08:30 PM
3

And where are you finding these men that say this? Is this something your father says or your grandfather or the people in your church? Or is it something you were hearing from a bunch of angry men online?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 08:28 PM
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Have you read the material we have on the wiki for the wall? If not, you should read up. It does not claim that women are unattractive after 30, it is that peak attractiveness happens in the early 20s. Just like a bell curve, just because you are at a peak at one point does not mean you go from 100 to 0. You don’t turn 30 and all of a sudden no one wants you. I encourage you to look through the readings we have.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 08:06 PM
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Don’t insult their community and its members.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 07:52 PM
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We as RPW acknowledge the existence of the wall. While OP is absolutely taking this too far, your comment is not aligned with red pill theory so it’s been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 07:51 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 06:04 PM
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You did not break a rule, but if you are 14, your age is relevant so please just update. Edit: I see you did, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 05:16 PM
2

Please see the added mod note
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 05:15 PM
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OP please update your post to include your age. It should be noted for everyone else - this is red pill women, not red pill teenage girls, and underage girls who decide to post in this forum need to go in with the understanding that we are going to treat them like grown women unless we know otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 05:11 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/24 07:48 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 07:43 PM
2

He has been excused for this community. Calling us feminists clearly shows he doesn’t understand us. Thank you for reporting.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 05:09 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 05:07 PM
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No insults to our members. I have left a majority of your comments up because I feel we need multiple perspectives on this topic and to avoid an echo chamber, but if you take it to insults or feminism, I will remove.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 04:27 PM
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It’s ok, it’s been removed. We just need to stay focused on RPW topics. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 03:16 AM
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Violation of rule zero: stay on topic. Content must serve to help women.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 01:26 AM
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It is against our rules to delete posts. Our contributors take a lot of effort to reply and these replies are helpful to others. If you prefer to make an alternative account so that others cannot see this post, feel free and we can approve.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 05:57 PM
1

No insults, removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/24 06:12 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/24 02:37 PM
1

Removed, no feminism. Rule 5.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/24 02:36 PM
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I find your comment extremely valuable and I want to leave it up but please don’t approach a RPW about messaging as this is against our rules for men. I’m going to assume positive intent here but please beware.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/24 01:14 AM
1

Of course, we got you! Please ignore those comments.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 07:20 PM
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We shouldn’t have to say this but reminder of the rules for male participation. If you are a single guy who knows nothing about red pill theory coming here to kick OP while she is down, you will be banned no questions asked. In fact threads like this are very helpful for us to clean our house!
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 07:13 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 07:11 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 07:07 PM
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The irony of a single guy with a Reddit name “Big Donxx” advising women about being traditional is laughable.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 06:59 PM
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No, this is not the right way to think about it. The commentor is a single man with no actionable advice for women, and he has now been permanently excused from this community.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 06:57 PM
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You don’t meet the rules of being here and are not sharing any actionable advice, ban issued.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 06:56 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 06:52 PM
3

We don’t do insults here. Removed. Future comments like this will get you a ban.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/24 10:38 PM
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Reminder that OP has accepted an engagement and this is her fiancé. Ending an engagement is a serious decision. Advice should not jump to leave him without a thorough explanation about why this is her best option if you believe that to be the case.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/24 03:07 PM
3

There is nothing here that is even close to abuse, this is not the sub for you. Banned.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/24 03:00 PM
4

Advice must be from a red pill women perspective. You are jumping to conclusions here and bordering on feminism. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/24 02:57 PM
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She does not mention this virgin friend was a man. This is honestly beside the point, we want advice here to be direct and clear. There’s lots of confusion here so that obviously is not the case which is why the comment was removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/24 07:57 PM
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This was a random guy she met at the bar. I’m not sure what post you are referring to but I think maybe you have it mixed up.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/24 06:22 PM
2

Removed, advice/comments should stand to benefit and help the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/24 03:29 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 05:27 PM
2

Removed. Low effort comment.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 03:46 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 05:52 PM
3

You are jumping to conclusions and stating your opinion as fact. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 05:50 PM
2

Strategies should be from a red pill perspective, removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 05:49 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/24 06:13 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/24 06:12 PM
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Additional specific warning: do not ask for DMs. You can lurk but if we see this again, you will be banned no questions asked.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 08:49 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 08:47 PM
3

OP has updated and we discussed. I think this is a relevant discussion, particularly the final line/question.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 01:33 PM
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I’m going to lock this and ask that you send more context to me via DM to discuss reopening. Right now this sounds like a complain about men post and it’s not clear how this relates to RPW. Any of us can come up with a “do some men do this” or “it turns me off when men do this,” but in order to be posted here, it needs to have a RPW slant. If it is a question of “why do men do this and how can I get them to stop,” then please confirm and add examples.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/24 08:47 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/24 06:37 PM
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Removed for rule 9. This sub is not a place for women to answer men’s questions. Furthermore the answers you seek are pretty easily found on r/TheRedPill. But warning, don’t post this victim puke over there. Go read.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/24 08:56 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 11:36 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/24 04:52 PM
1

No low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/24 04:51 PM
2

No insults to the community. Final warning.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 09:01 PM
4

Removed. Don’t insult the community. If you aren’t happy with our style of advice giving, you are welcome to go elsewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 08:59 PM
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Locking this thread. This is a perfect example of why we ask posters to be upfront and honest with their situation in the initial post. We cannot give good advice when you are not upfront about your situation and only come out with the facts later.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 08:55 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/24 08:55 PM
1

No name calling. We don’t talk about men like that here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 01:51 AM
1

Removed, this is unnecessary.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 06:02 PM
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Agreed!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 06:01 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Furthermore, there seems to be nothing in this that is helpful to women.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 03:36 PM
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Removed. We don’t do “all men are bad” here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 11:32 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 04:55 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 04:55 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 03:04 AM
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I’m going to lock this as a rule 2 violation. All posts must be made in good faith and you cannot ask questions on behalf of someone else. It appears you are not legitimately trying to date this guy but doing some sort of experiment for a friend. While I think the topic of conversation is valuable, I think commenters are going to be frustrated when they find out this isn’t a legitimate dating scenario.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/24 11:22 PM
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I don’t believe the RP men’s group allows seeking advice posts from women FYI.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/24 10:42 PM
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Please make a stand alone post about this seeking advice so it doesn’t get lost in the comments.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/24 02:54 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/24 09:52 PM
5

Thanks OP - helpful context. Unlocked.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 02:53 AM
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OP I’m going to lock this and ask that you add more details about your history. Rule 2 asks that everyone post in good faith and while I’m not saying you are not, you are leaving out critical information about your transgender history and religion jumping that will be critical for readers to understand before commenting. Details like how long you have been Muslim, what your parents religious background is, and your reflections on why they might be pushing back would be helpful. It becomes frustr…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 02:26 AM
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I’m locking this post. Besides the fact that this is the fourth post in three days (one I removed), OP is making inaccurate generalizing statements about American women, a rule 3 violation. OP, please take some time to reflect on your prior three posts and the advice you were given, and implement it before posting again.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 03:58 AM
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Please do not announce that you are a man, read rule 9. Solid advice should not have to be predicated by your gender.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 02:14 AM
3

Thank you, helpful context.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 02:00 AM
1

Do not ask people to self doxx, particularly as a man here: rules 8 and 9.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 09:44 PM
2

I’ll leave this up but warning: do not announce that you are a man. Please see rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 09:42 PM
3

Removed. Advice is not red pill centric. Telling her to take the lead and be altruistic is not red pill advice because it does not set either one of them up for success in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 02:29 AM
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The commentor is in fact a married woman and she has good advice for you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 01:51 AM
4

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 08:08 PM
3

You clearly aren’t familiar with the rules of the sub. Please make yourself familiar. This isn’t a place for low effort or drop in comments.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/24 10:29 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/24 08:46 PM
1

OP you are posting this and posting on porn accounts on the same day. You aren’t a fit for RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 06:53 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 06:51 PM
1

Removed for rule 10 violation, we don’t do moralizing here.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 02:51 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 02:07 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/24 02:45 PM
3

Sex before marriage is not antithetical to RPW philosophy. This is not a trad community and many here have achieved successful marriages that included sex before marriage (and some successful long-term relationships without marriage at all). RPW is not one size fits all
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 07:39 PM
2

I think we don’t jump to conclusions here with such little information. They appear to be in a committed relationship of just under a year. It’s unfair to hold a man to a standard that if he has sex with anyone because of the country/culture they both live in then he’s a bad person or a user automatically.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 06:56 PM
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This is not red pill advice. We should not be demonizing men for their desire for sex. Furthermore, this seems like a very westernized comment. It’s extremely common for people to sneak around and have premarital sex even in restrictive cultures. It does not mean he’s a bad guy. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 06:47 PM
1

This borders on moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 03:33 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/24 01:12 AM
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Actually removing as you are a man. No posts from men rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/24 01:12 AM
2

Removed. Your comment history is just you asking various posters where they are located…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/24 08:30 PM
1

Removed four rule 3, do not insult the community or its members.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/24 02:14 PM
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Please remember to be respectful to OP. While tough love is certainly welcome, she is also welcome to express her hypergamy urges here (because if not here, then where). We should be focused on giving productive advice, not insults.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 04:26 PM
1

Don’t insult the community or its members. If you aren’t happy with the community vibe, you don’t need to comment.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 04:23 PM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. You becoming “black” pilled is not OPs problem and the fact that she is experiencing hypergamy by no means justifies the conclusions you are jumping to.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 04:21 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 04:18 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 04:15 PM
1

Removed, low effort and not helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 09:19 PM
4

We have nothing to support that she’s a troll and if she’s asking questions respectfully and wanting to learn, we should support that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 04:35 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 03:31 PM
1

No low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 01:05 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/24 04:41 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 04:19 PM
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This is a gross generalization and leaning toward feminism. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 04:14 PM
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Removed for no response. See mod comment - if you want to repost, please just answer the relationship questions.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/24 08:46 PM
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OP please answer the relationship questions in rule six and share more about your specific situation. Otherwise this post is way too generic, and you can just read the wiki.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/24 09:00 PM
1

No low effort comments, removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/24 01:59 AM
3

Do not insult our endorsed male contributors. This is completely unacceptable here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/24 01:18 AM
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OP, please edit your post to answer the relationship questions in rule 6. I will unlock the post at time.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 07:45 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. We don’t allow questions from men.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 04:19 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Also, your personal preferences aren’t relevant.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 02:29 PM
1

Removed for strategies must come from a red pill perspective and no feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 02:25 PM
2

Not only is this removed for low effort, it’s not even relevant to the question being asked.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 01:47 AM
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I will be removing all comments from non endorsed men encouraging her to wait without very clear RPW theory behind that statement. Otherwise, it’s appearing self serving.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 12:38 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 12:36 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 12:26 AM
3

ECs have elicited the additional information needed such as specific examples and ages in the comments.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 08:43 PM
5

For better readability, please add some line breaks. TY!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 07:24 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/24 01:24 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Your personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/24 12:33 AM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. You seem to be coming at the situation from the man’s perspective of what you would want if you were being broken up with, not what’s best for the woman. Advice here must be RP and benefit women.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 09:50 PM
1

Thank you for your response, just a friendly request to add line breaks into your comment for better readability please.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 06:49 PM
1

No hitting on OP.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/24 08:39 PM
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RPW doesn’t deal in “fairness.” Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 10:26 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Feel free to head to the wiki and learn more about the purpose of the sub. Glad you enjoyed the content but it’s not intended for what you are seeking as it’s advice for women in relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/24 09:02 PM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. Low effort comments will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/24 09:34 PM
1

Advice must stand to benefit the woman, removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/24 07:34 PM
4

Men are allowed here if they meet the criteria which this commenter does. This question is relevant given we don’t allow people here who are only here only for research purposes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/24 05:43 PM
2

Our rules here encourage actionable advice. Your response did not provide anything other than leave. She does not need advice or permission to leave, she already states in her post she is aware that is an option. This is why the rule was created, to help create fruitful conversations that offer solutions.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/24 10:38 PM
2

Her question specifically is how to approach the conversation with him about the home. I do not want this to turn into a thread of “leave him” responses because it’s not helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/24 10:31 PM
3

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. Also Why Buy the Cow.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/24 10:16 PM
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While well intended, comment is removed because it does not include actionable advice.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/24 01:10 AM
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You are correct. Comment removed and reminder stickied.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/24 09:52 PM
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Reminder: do not insult OPs man. Not only is this considered a low effort comment, but it results in the poster feeling defensive of her partner and therefore not accepting of the advice. Comments like this will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/24 09:51 PM
1

No clue what any of this means. Regardless, don’t argue with the mods. If you have a legitimate question about a rule, feel free to mod mail and I’m happy to explain.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/24 04:08 AM
2

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/24 12:40 AM
2

Do not insult members or their personal choices. Just because you don’t have the same goals doesn’t mean their goals are wrong. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/24 01:04 AM
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Locking this post as OP has deleted content. OP, deleting posts and content is against our rules.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/24 01:09 AM
1

Advice must be from a red pill perspective. Removed and banned.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/24 09:42 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/24 01:46 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/24 10:45 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/24 03:09 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/24 03:50 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/24 03:49 PM
0

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 06:32 PM
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You can frame up your comments in a way to express what you are trying to without the direct insults. It just takes a little more time and thoughtfulness to write out!
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 12:30 AM
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No insults to someone’s partner. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 12:27 AM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/24 10:15 PM
1

Removed as RPW does not allow postings for research purposes. If you would like to become a participant of the community and would like to repost this with more personal questions following the posting guidelines, we will consider approving. If you do repost, please make it more focused as these are some very broad questions that can be easily answered from just reading the wiki.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/24 12:30 AM
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Locking this post. OP has received lots of good advice but has made her desire to leave clear and doesn’t seem interested in repairing so the community has done all we can.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/24 04:55 PM
1

Removed for rule 3: no insults.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/24 01:26 PM
4

Do not add another comment stating the same point when your first one has been removed. You have no idea if he will take her seriously or not. Your advice is not red pill because it is not nuanced. See rule 4.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 11:26 PM
1

Removed for rule zero: stay on topic.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 03:44 PM
3

Removed for man here. Please take a step back and read the rules for men. Your personal sexual experiences are not relevant for the sub or helpful to women.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 03:39 PM
2

Removed for man here and advice is not helpful to women.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 03:34 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 10:48 PM
4

OP is a woman. Please take some time to understand the OP and what they are asking before you jump to conclusions.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 11:25 PM
1

Violates man here, your personal preferences are not advice, and don’t insult others.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 07:50 PM
2

Removed. You are a man in a woman’s sub and our whole purpose here is to discuss issues important to women. There are other subs you can absolutely go to and discuss whatever you want to about women, small breasts or flat ass included.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 03:16 PM
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OP, you posted this recently (with some more detailed information), received some good responses, and then deleted the post. Please note deleting posts is against the rules and any future violations may result in a ban.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/24 08:55 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/24 03:23 PM
3

Advice here should stand to help women, not discuss what moves are best for the guy. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/24 02:30 AM
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OP, please add line breaks to your post as noted in Rule 7: Posting Requirements.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/24 12:38 AM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/24 10:58 PM
3

Removing this comment for rule 9: man here. The first part of your comment was ok but the final lines show more understanding of women is needed and ventures too far into “petting the unicorns” territory.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/24 05:49 PM
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Removed for rule 3: do not insult the community or it’s members. You’ve made an accusation about other commenters yet have not put forth any specific advice from your side.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 12:04 AM
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OP, removing this post as it is low effort - none of us can know what is going on in your relationship more than you and with such limited detail. This does not follow our guidelines for asking relationship questions which include answering: What is the problem, and what do you think is the root of the issue? How have you contributed/attempted to mitigate the problem? What is your current relationship status and length of time? Conversely, you could add more detail and post this as a field repor…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/24 08:02 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Please read through these rules as your comments indicate you have not met the requirements to post as a man.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/24 04:34 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/24 02:41 AM
1

No low effort comments, removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/24 03:43 PM
1

No low effort comments, removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/24 03:42 PM
1

No low effort comments. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/24 01:06 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/24 10:20 PM
1

Same warning as yesterday. You are not following the guidelines of men posting here or understanding the purpose of our sub is not to explain ourselves to men. Please take a break from commenting and read the rules carefully. Guidelines for Men
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 02:49 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 01:58 AM
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Removed. Rule 9 - man here. Conversations should be focused on the female perspective. We are not here to help men understand women or to discuss TRP concepts.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 06:20 PM
1

Removed for rule 9: if you are a man here. This comment specifically is very male centric.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/24 03:22 PM
1

This was unnecessarily rude. Be kind. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/24 09:07 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/24 04:19 PM
1

Gentle reminder of rule 10: no moralizing. Please refer to u/FastLifePineapple ‘s response above.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/24 05:09 PM
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OP, I would recommend you update your initial post with this information. The initial post does not give the level of context to the situation that is needed for commenters to give the best advice.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 05:58 PM
3

Removed for rule 3: do not insult the community members or their partners.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 03:51 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 01:33 AM
2

Please read rule 9 “if you are a man and you are here.” It’s OK to lurk and read but please make sure any comments are not stating your gender and are aimed at giving actionable advice to women. We are not here to help men understand women better, that is best suited for TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 01:22 AM
1

Removed for rule 3. The harsh speech is not necessary here in the tone you are using which does not seem aimed at helping a community member.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 07:40 PM
1

Removed for rule 4: strategies should come from a red pill perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 07:37 PM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 04:55 PM
1

Removed for rule 3. While the point you are trying to make is fair, the language toward a community member is a little bit much.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 04:55 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Please pay specific attention to the section about fawning over “women like us.” It’s recommended you start with the male red pill subs first.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/24 11:43 PM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 03:15 PM
2

Removed for Rule 5: No Feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 07:08 PM
2

If you have concerns, please report them to mods and we will review them. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 03:58 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 05:37 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Also no insults toward women.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 05:35 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 04:32 PM
2

No low effort or insulting comments.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 06:21 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 02:58 PM
4

Removed. Leave should not be the first option. RPW seeks solutions to keep marriages together.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 11:04 PM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 04:19 AM
1

Removed. Advice should be actionable for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 09:10 PM
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