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I'm in Eastern Europe, mid sized city but big university hub so lots of students. And yeah it's definitely volume based and way more state based than people want to admit which I think it's a good thing. If u feel good u pull more but the girl also has to make u feel good if not it will never work. Just my 2 cents.
/r/seduction26/02/26 02:02 PM
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Yeah man, the more I mature I realize confidence is something independent of prior rejection, it has to come internally and quite honestly has to come internally, I'm more confident now then I was before all the rejections even if it makes no sense so yeah gotta keep flipping coins eventually one is going to land.
/r/seduction26/02/26 01:40 PM
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mostly clubs a few day ones aswell but I was so raw from the breakup and they could feel the neediness and insecurity so yeah that wasn't a great idea but at least I'm quite desensitized now.
/r/seduction26/02/26 01:26 PM
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Go, never stop and don't forget that nobody can help u, find the strength within u. Giving up is not an option, there will never be any ROI with giving up.
/r/seduction26/02/26 12:36 PM
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I got to around 50 in a row after a nasty breakup and I'm still here still breathing and still going on dates. Head up soldier.
/r/seduction26/02/26 12:47 AM
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happens to the best of us, forgive yourself.
/r/seduction22/02/26 09:32 PM
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This is a great question actually and the truth is half the women u meet will be either prostitutes like u said or they will need u to have money but he cool part is that the other half won't fucking care cause they only care about attraction signals which is what this sub is all about. Women love power but money is only a proxy of power not power itself so the great thing as a man is that u can more or less change or circumstances and luck completely which is exactly the point of this sub.
/r/seduction19/02/26 12:48 AM
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If I'd try to logic my way through every weird thing a woman has ever done I'd be in a mental asylum by now. Think of it as why does a cat suddenly bite the carpet or run around the house or stuff like that. The exact same with women.
/r/seduction15/02/26 06:52 PM
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Some things women do have no explanation just move on.
/r/seduction15/02/26 06:48 PM
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absolutely do as u please buddy, but ur in the wrong sub if ur first instinct is to correct how this guy adresses women instead of giving actual advice.
/r/seduction10/02/26 06:31 PM
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They call unattractive men worse names, let's not pedestalize all women here.
/r/seduction10/02/26 03:49 PM
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What is there to explain?
/r/seduction09/02/26 12:51 AM
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Sure, I was a scrawny insecure emotional kid. People would make fun of me, girls would make fun of me, etc. I was intelligent enough to realize that I'd never be able to have satisfying relationships if people don't respect me. I started hitting the gym, eating more, helped a bit but it was slow. I became obsessed with why are some people more admired and respected than others so I started emulating them. Hours on end of voice inflexion tutorials, my voice deepend, I talked louder, I noticed peo…
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:11 PM
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I can tell u it works, I practiced my walk, my voice, to the point where people perceived me as a stud, deep down I still felt like that insecure kid and it still catches up. Point is practicing this stuff works.
/r/seduction08/02/26 02:56 PM
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It works surprisingly well to just paste ur number in the convo been doing this for a while with great results. Reads as cocky I guess.
/r/seduction08/02/26 02:23 PM
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This was truly an early red flag, won't make the same mistake twice trust me, learned my lesson with my ex of 4 years.
/r/seduction07/02/26 11:30 PM
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She's not interested stop analyzing it.
/r/seduction06/02/26 05:42 PM
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I'd fuck her a couple times then text her husband from an anon account to let him know.
/r/seduction06/02/26 02:18 PM
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It really is no fun if it's too easy.
/r/seduction04/02/26 02:03 PM
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godspeed
/r/seduction03/02/26 08:48 PM
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They won't care if u troll them and u'll still get nothing. If u really want to take revenge become an abundance god first.
/r/seduction03/02/26 08:41 PM
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Search this sub not another sub for posts about texting game.
/r/seduction03/02/26 08:15 PM
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Search the sub for "tinder text game", got a bunch of dates after being bolder and more shameless.
/r/seduction03/02/26 08:05 PM
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Damn. Thought so too, still getting used to dating after a long time and it's so much more contrived than I expected.
/r/seduction03/02/26 05:44 PM
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Sure, all the time, thing is with this girl in particular she asked a mutual friend about me before coming and he told her I'm a womanizer so she literally texted me before the date to tell me she's not easy so I avoided asking her to come to mine on the first one.
/r/seduction03/02/26 02:15 PM
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This feels like you’re arguing with a PUA strawman. Most guys aren’t mad women are “unpredictable,” they’re just trying to make sense of interest that shows up and then evaporates. I didn't ask "why does every woman I date ghost after a first date" I asked why this specific woman who she herself proposed another date got cold feet even tho nothing really happened in between. I didn't even asked her what happened that's your own inference. She said she'll be there, she wasn't, that's it.
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:33 PM
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I have a lower flake rate when I ask for a same day date that's why.
/r/seduction02/02/26 06:32 PM
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Wtf are u on about?
/r/seduction02/02/26 06:30 PM
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Then I should always go for same day dates? Is it a valid strategy?
/r/seduction02/02/26 05:22 PM
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It was more than that she actually wanted to shake my hand to make sure I will show up. She seemed really into me.
/r/seduction02/02/26 02:23 PM
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how was i so eager?
/r/seduction02/02/26 12:09 PM
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that's a grounded way to look at it actually, I realized I never asked her what she's there for and she said she made the account for fun not seriously. Still it's such a large discrepancy between how these women act moment to moment. It's like the wind. The more masculine and logical u think the bigger the wtf is.
/r/seduction02/02/26 01:18 AM
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I already do everything by the book, I look and act masculine, I'm well groomed and I had girls prettier than her before while looking and talking the same or even worse then. When does it stop? Do I really have to do years of work only to fuck some mid bitch?
/r/seduction02/02/26 01:07 AM
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I meant if there's any fix I can implement in myself, any more I can do, it bothers me that I couldn't hook her.
/r/seduction02/02/26 12:58 AM
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Any fix for this?
/r/seduction02/02/26 12:35 AM
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why would they talk for 20min if i did something "very" wrong
/r/seduction31/01/26 10:58 AM
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seems so insane to me, I get super demoralized after around the 4th and when every night is the same it's kinda depressing.
/r/seduction31/01/26 09:41 AM
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had 3 20min convos last night and none of the girls followed me back in the morning.
/r/seduction31/01/26 08:17 AM
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Nice man, asking cause I'm exactly in your first situation, 3-4 approaches per night mostly rude, but if u say there's hope then maybe I should power through a bunch more rejections.
/r/seduction24/01/26 01:50 PM
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True story? what percent of those were rejections?
/r/seduction24/01/26 12:57 AM
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Yeah agree, we were outside waiting for the cab so physical escalation there was a no go in this case.
/r/seduction12/01/26 02:47 AM
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Few years ago when I was first starting in the game and was heavy in it girls would run away disgusted and avoid me like the plague and some would grind on me and make out with me 10 sec after meeting them. Same club same everything, it feels weird cause it logically feels that if ur attractive u should be attractive to all women but yeah I'm still really curious about why this is.
/r/seduction12/01/26 02:40 AM
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To be honest with u I never really studied openers ever cause I still hold the belief u can say anything if ur cool about it, to this particular girl i said "gorgeous brunette hair miss" and introduced myself. And yeah had a good convo she didn't seem to talk to me out of politeness and got the insta but it led absolutely nowhere and next day she was back in the club so yeah. For me it was a big event but for her I'm one of hundreds. Definitely lost a bit of hope since I wrote this post.
/r/seduction12/01/26 02:36 AM
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It's always something like I love ur fit, hair or tattoo whatever I think stands out about her in the moment. I try to be as honest and as bold as possible but it doesn't work that great for me. Maybe the fact I'm piss drunk all the time cause I hate clubs doesn't help but yeah at least approach cause if I didn't drink I wouldn't be there anyway.
/r/seduction10/01/26 08:01 PM
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Usually I give a compliment and then introduce myself but in this particular instance I extended my hand to her and she pulled away disgusted and told me to fuck off.
/r/seduction10/01/26 05:41 PM
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cause women's attraction is hollistic and very state dependant and u need that confidence from ur achievements to be secure enough to attract a partner. When u feel ur best u pull quality and quantity.
/r/seduction10/01/26 02:52 PM
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I agree, the universe is deterministic and rewards pure input regardless of how hurt ur ego is.
/r/seduction10/01/26 02:48 PM
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yeah absolutely but it's still crazy to me how rude club girls can be cause I can't imagine such a rude brush off happening anywhere else.
/r/seduction10/01/26 02:46 PM
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Exactly my experience aswell. Not even worth thinking about leagues and stuff like that when they clearly don't exist. Volume is the only thing that matters.
/r/seduction10/01/26 01:27 PM
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was really drunk cause I didn't go to approach but changed my mind. I held the door open for her while leaving the club and said "gorgeous hair" or something like that and she was really flattered. She was with her friend so I was juggling both while keeping attention towards the one I like. Bantered a bit with both and told her I'd love to take her out and she said she'll be in the city next week. Idk if she'll text me but felt good to have a normal convo instead of getting told to fuck off. Al…
/r/seduction10/01/26 11:41 AM
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Didn't need shit it just flowed. Point is every girl can reject u but odds are there is one who won't and it's worth it to just try and infinitely try. What else u gonna do?
/r/seduction10/01/26 02:51 AM
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If I went home without trying once more I would have been depressed for a week. If u are a decent normal dude just approach until the night is over. Only good can come out of it and if bad comes ur a man and u will deal with it.
/r/seduction10/01/26 02:39 AM
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this
/r/seduction09/01/26 03:25 PM
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I'm a pretty good kisser so definitely not the latter.
/r/seduction09/01/26 02:35 AM
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might aswell try even without signals as long as ur not pushy
/r/seduction08/01/26 12:17 AM
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well u go on a date with some sort of a baseline attraction at least, for me not getting a kiss on a date is way rarer and given that she was also laughing more than anyone I've ever dated I thought it was easy game.
/r/seduction08/01/26 12:16 AM
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haha what?
/r/seduction07/01/26 11:30 PM
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yeah that is usually my main concern when dating showing I'm bold and masculine quickly so I don't waste time but ur right sometimes it's probably too fast for some. Forgot to mention that she said she hasn't been on any dates before me and that all her past situationships were guys she met through friends, maybe played a part that she was inexperienced.
/r/seduction07/01/26 11:15 PM
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Recently got back in the dating market after a 4 year relationship and I'm still getting the hang of it again even tho it's frustrating as hell. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction07/01/26 09:32 PM
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I partly agree with what ur saying but I have done the same thing many times and a bunch of them were pleasantly surprised, seems like she wasn't. It really does seem like I have some sort of calibration issue but regardless I always go for it no matter the signals so I don't regret it but I probably should pull back a bit. Thanks.
/r/seduction07/01/26 09:24 PM
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Apologize for what? I wasn't pushy in any sort of way and she still left rudely af leaving me with the check.
/r/seduction07/01/26 09:04 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Kinda bummed out she was really smart and had good convo.
/r/seduction07/01/26 08:46 PM
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I appreciate it really and I'm sure it would have worked better here than just going for it but with most women It's the other way around at least in my experience.
/r/seduction07/01/26 08:33 PM
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Hard disagree on this I kissed dozens of women and never once asked beforehand.
/r/seduction07/01/26 08:31 PM
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I asked her, see my reply. Went to a good date place even, our knees were touching I was resting my hand on her thigh etc. What is odd to me is how well we flowed intelectually and was still a miss.
/r/seduction07/01/26 08:30 PM
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I asked her why she left so suddenly and I suspected that it was because of my kiss timing and she replied with "yeah i dont wanna be mean but u should ask before kissing a girl on the first date and i really didnt feel the vibe" which is so odd because we got along really well and she laughed her ass off constantly. Probably kissing turned her off. I want to be better and learn but this situation specifically seems to me like a her problem.
/r/seduction07/01/26 08:26 PM
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I actually went to the date without thinking about kissing at all but since we got along so well I just went for it, I laughingly said oh sorry kinda wrong timing huh? after.
/r/seduction07/01/26 07:53 PM
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Well my body count is 2 tho ive just got out of a 4 year relationship with my ex and 1 in a bar recently but it's moving kinda slow for me. Thanks for the reply G.
/r/seduction20/12/25 11:40 PM
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Where did u find 16 girls to sleep with? Genuinely curious where do u approach or what's ur game. We re the same age.
/r/seduction20/12/25 11:28 PM
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Last point is bad advice. Works wonders if ur a girl but as a man he must learn to go after what he wants and pursue. Getting laid doesn't come easy for the majority of people regardless of age and he definitely should stack up as many forms of experience as possible instead of sitting around waiting.
/r/seduction17/12/25 01:32 AM
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If there was a straightforward answer to this the whole sub wouldn't exist. Welcome to the club buddy.
/r/seduction16/12/25 10:13 PM
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Yeah I usually try to fake it but I'm not always good at it tbh. That's probably the best advice, I should try and pull in different environments or not at all. Usually I go to the club when thoughts of my ex having fun occur so I don't even go for myself, I only go to not get left behind in body count by her tbh which I know is very toxic but it's just the reality of how I think at the moment.
/r/seduction05/12/25 12:59 AM
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probably doesn't help that I'm drunk and sad about my ex.
/r/seduction05/12/25 12:51 AM
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She liked my pics on insta and I asked her out.
/r/seduction04/12/25 10:08 PM
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not looking for girlfriends tho, looking to get laid.
/r/seduction04/12/25 10:05 PM
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Exactly the blunt response I was hoping for. Thanks g, trying but it's damn hard.
/r/seduction04/12/25 01:37 PM
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Tbh after she left me I cannot bring myself to see myself equal to her as I did before so I lowered my standards in hopes I could get some and I failed and it feels that much worse knowing that even if they said yes they are still not near my ex
/r/seduction04/12/25 03:25 AM
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how do you get out of the desperation loop?
/r/seduction04/12/25 03:21 AM
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Yes, you are somewhat right, only time I could fully focus on the having fun experience in clubs was when I was together with her and secure in the relationship. No amount of exposure now would make me feel that way again except for maybe a new relationship which is quite paradoxical. Means I can!t pull in clubs.
/r/seduction04/12/25 03:19 AM
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not on the hunt I'm actually trying to have a good time with my friends and only approach when I feel that a girl either looks at me or constantly bumps into me while dancing and for some reason it still hasn't yealded any results.
/r/seduction04/12/25 03:10 AM
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Yeah I agree, I'm currently facing a very cruel reality and it's actually more than humbling. Devastating i'd say
/r/seduction04/12/25 03:00 AM
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Yes I was aware of that and I was actually very content with the not so optimal results i got in the first few weeks after the breakup cause I knew I was not only rusty but also for sure displaying some neediness inevitably. But now after almost 4 months since the breakup I have this expectation that I at least have to be able to pull girls as attractive as her and I can't for some reason and I spiral when I don't. Like I had this super attractive girl for 4 years and now I can't easily get girl…
/r/seduction04/12/25 02:52 AM
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I constantly see guys uglier and fatter than me pull in clubs and it just makes it so much worse
/r/seduction04/12/25 02:41 AM
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I am good looking enough that I expect 40 approaches to at least yeald some great results. Am I too much of an idealist?
/r/seduction04/12/25 02:40 AM
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I'm absolutely not fully over it, every approach I make seems like a fucking chore cause I always think of her and how easy I had it.
/r/seduction04/12/25 02:36 AM
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Common rejection phrase when she doesn't want u. Move on.
/r/seduction28/11/25 04:55 PM
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This sub gets bombarded everyday with clueless people like u who no offense don't understand jack shit about how this process of seduction works. I remember years ago when these bullshit white knight posts didn't exist but unfortunately this sub has become way too mainstream. Do what u gotta do guys and don't listen to guys like him.
/r/seduction20/11/25 10:42 AM
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If ur not getting a decent amount of matches without paying don't waste ur money
/r/seduction19/11/25 08:34 PM
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fantastic response
/r/seduction16/11/25 01:30 PM
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I feel u. It's so though being always "on" like u said and sometimes it's better to have a break from that.
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:30 PM
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I agree, sometimes when u are in it and actually live it u can lose track of reality, game and everything u have learned but that doesn't mean these underlying "games" disappear. They will always go on for both people at a subconscious level and this is a hard pill to swallow for me too tbh.
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:28 PM
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Better to know the truth than to live in a lie. Real "love" doesn't exist in its idealized version anyways.
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:21 PM
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You're not always going to be alone and if u keep doing it even if it feels very unnatural at first u will have days where u are proud of yourself. Ur going to soon see approach anxiety is only the first hurdle in this process but don't get discouraged, there is no better way. Godspeed brother and congrats!
/r/seduction05/11/25 09:16 PM
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I feel exactly the same and maybe it will pass one day or maybe not. Regardless, some feelings can't stop us. Just like u said, do or die. Godspeed.
/r/seduction02/11/25 01:39 AM
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If u are thinking of what to say u are not there yet. Practice and get rejected until that thought no longer crosses ur mind. Then ur ready.
/r/seduction31/10/25 01:40 AM
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Very insightful comment, this is exactly what I was looking for. As I said she didn't give me strong signals from the beggining but seeing she was somewhat comfortable around me I went for it anyways. Wasn't at the right time conversation wise, I'm at least a decent kisser tho and my breath smells good, but yeah she broke it off first. Probably kissed too early? Are u saying to not kiss in absence of strong signals? What's the main thing I can take from this?
/r/seduction22/10/25 12:45 AM
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She seemed more teasy than serious about it and that's why I asked in the first place, to not make anyone feel uncomfortable in the off chance I did.
/r/seduction22/10/25 12:38 AM
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I think u are bringing ur own biases into this. Calibrate is a very good word in that sentence meaning I will try and be more attuned to social and romantic cues not that I am a machine. Nothing that I said implied I don't see others as human beings. Thanks for the advice tho seems she wasn't that into me, I'll leave it be.
/r/seduction22/10/25 12:24 AM
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She kept kissing me too u guys act like i pushed for it in absence of any signals. Trying once more after she tongued kissed me is a normal reaction my bad for not asking her nicely for a kiss.
/r/seduction22/10/25 12:21 AM
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Thanks for the feedback. I might have overstepped a bit but it's my first date in 4 years so yeah. I'll calibrate.
/r/seduction21/10/25 09:51 PM
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I got a 4 year amazing relationship from this type of situation so maybe u can take something from it. She followed me so i tested it out, I liked her most recent pic and she did the same so I knew it was game on. I was absolutely detached cause i had like 50 rejections the month before her follow and just spoke my mind and said "hey u look nice, thought I'd shoot my shot" we went back and forth about 20 messages and asked her out, she said maybe idk which is expected and then I said "no problem…
/r/seduction21/10/25 09:15 PM
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she kissed me twice and turned her head twice, after the first 2 i thought she wasn't being serious so i tried again thinking i need to progress the date a bit more and tried at the end but still no - she didn't seem creeped out though. Still recalibrating after a long relationship so I'm probably rusty with cues. That's why I came here.
/r/seduction21/10/25 09:02 PM
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You are most likely right in hindsight but in the moment i took it as a dumb test and probably hurt my future chances quite a lot. U think it's recoverable?
/r/seduction21/10/25 08:27 PM
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care to elaborate?
/r/seduction21/10/25 08:04 PM
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Text. What do u have to lose?
/r/seduction16/10/25 10:20 PM
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You are absolutely right. It can definetely happen and you could acquire a reputation of being desperate among the people who know eachother. I'd recommend pairing cold dming with actual real life cold approaches or normal approaches and always do it sparringly. I've done a ton and it did help me tremendously with my confidence even if I didn't know it at the time. Any action is better than no action. Keep that in mind.
/r/seduction05/03/24 12:20 PM
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Got my gf this way. She followed me randomly and liked a pic of mine so I knew it was game on. You can also do cold approaches on insta dm's but the success rate is maybe 2-5 percent. Still worth it though.
/r/seduction05/03/24 09:32 AM
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