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Field ReportMrGoodStuff05/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 09:46 AM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:27 PM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:40 PM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:17 AM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP27/01/16 01:14 PM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP06/06/16 07:34 PM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP20/12/15 12:01 AM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP27/11/15 06:52 PM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:28 AM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP15/12/15 02:55 PM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP08/01/16 01:53 PM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP07/12/15 02:24 AM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:29 PM
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MrGoodStuff05/r/askTRP13/01/16 08:25 PM
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I really want her to see the end result no
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:52 AM
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Sorry you had to go through that brother. I can relate to you in the sense of wanting to be honest with oneself and not accepting the friendship. I think above all else that's a great attitude to have in life and in the long run I think it'll do you more good than bad. Good luck and remember it gets easier everyday.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:51 AM
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Funny that I just discovered his channel this week too and had the same thought. I skimmed through that same video you're talking about and it was meh at best. It's like he just discovered the pill and is trying to make ad revenue on his 1 week old stories. He's basically a male version of Tana "whatever her last name is" story time videos. I think one of his videos was about how he used to chase pussy or something and drove 30 mins to a bar... 2 weeks ago. The only reason I can see someone watc…
/r/MGTOW01/11/18 03:27 PM
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Why would I care about the opinion of whoever I am ghosting and blocking. I could argue not blocking them shows you care more since you're getting dopamine hits from getting those texts and ignoring them.
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 08:57 PM
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Is the original meaning a man who raises offspring that are not genetically their own? If that is the definition you are referring to, would it then be safe to say that maybe if not most men, but a huge percentage of men (maybe close to 40%?), are indeed literal cuckolds seeing the epidemic of single mothers and beta men marrying these women?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 05:08 PM
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Scarcity mentality....
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:22 PM
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This is a good mentality to have but you gotta find a middle ground between keeping it cool and giving them free validation. The trick is to reward good behavior. You want to show some interest, and if she reciprocates then you give her some validation. An example would be something like... say there's a girl you been talking to and you invite her out for drinks. She says yes, that's good, you can give her some validation when she shows up. If her body language is positive and she's touching you…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:40 PM
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"I dream of leaving you, and I want to make my dreams a reality. Bye felicia." Block her and move on.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:12 PM
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men that cannot get into the top 20%, women are 100% not worth the time. I think this is what I have been realizing lately. It's not so much that a guy like myself can't attract an attractive girl, but the effort would be way more than what Chad would have to do. I'm not trying to simp for a girl that gave it up to Chad a few hours after meeting her. If she doesn't treat me like Chad, I don't want her, and the only girls that treat me like Chad are way below me on SMV.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:12 PM
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Join a Gracie Jiu-Jitsu school
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:12 PM
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the final beta You're a long way off. GFTOW
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:01 PM
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Why would they bother grabbing drinks with a rando off Tinder if they can go to chad's house get boned all night. Cold approach or even night game is so much more effective. Out of 10 approaches you'll pull 1 chick, whereas with Tinder, out of 100 matches you'll be lucky if you pull 1. I'm glad more people are starting to get it. I swear some people here might be tinder marketing team.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:52 PM
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Black pill is simply delusional. Last 5 women I pulled were at least 2 points below my SMV. The memes write themselves.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:31 PM
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I think you're referring to my comment. Feeling kinda depressed That's good and normal. It means you're almost done swallowing the pill. many guys on this sub are delusional and that at every single stage of life, women have easier access to casual sex than men, ceteris paribus, and how older men get approached by young hot women not because they find them attractive but because they have money, ie betabux. This one is hard to swallow. The problem is you're still tying your self-worth to how man…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:17 PM
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I might get down voted but I'll give you my opinion. It's a cope. Women will, at every single stage of their lives, be able to obtain casual sex easier than men. You can make a tinder profile yourself, and put a picture of a 35 year old man, and a 35 year old woman. The woman will have maybe 10x the matches as a man will. The advantage older guys have is that they're more stable, got more money, and therefore more viable option to settle down. Women go after these men not because of sexual desir…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:27 PM
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third worlders flooding our countries... ok mr. native american
/r/MGTOW15/08/18 01:05 PM
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Mogging is normal masculine behavior if it's done within the boys group while shooting the shit. It is not normal to mog your friend in front of girls. First of all, most girls can see right through you putting your own friends down and it just comes out as tryhard and pathetic. If you mog your friends in front of girls you're not only a beta but you're also a bitch, and nobody respects you.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 07:12 PM
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I feel like you're making excuses for yourself when you say you have certified asperger. You seem pretty coherent in what you're writing there, I don't see why you couldn't communicate just as effectively in person. Also, I've had "friends" in the past who also try to amog me all the time especially in front of girls. I have one cool trick to deal with that. It's called getting new friends. These friends will never respect you, and that's ok. You will get a lot more fulfillment from life if you …
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:39 PM
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Find other options outside of work. I think most of us are tired of saying don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:03 PM
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I ignore them, especially if they are young and pretty. I do get the bag if she is elderly I wish more dudes were like this. The problem is most simps actually do the opposite.
/r/MGTOW15/07/18 11:02 PM
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If she's a solid 6 and she dressed well and acts normal/fun it'll give you CRAZY preselection. TAKE HER.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:23 PM
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6s and 7s get pumped and dumped pretty often so they're bitter. 9s and 10s know they can use their looks as an advantage in life so they're generally nicer to people knowing they will do favors for them. I have nothing to back that claim up, just my 2 cents.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 02:26 PM
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I'm not 60 so I can't talk from experience but I feel like at that age you're not really that worried about fucking that much anymore. I think we've all heard about nursing homes (although people in nursing homes are older than 60) and how all those old people are fucking in there all day so my assumption is that at that age you fuck anything that moves. So I think if you find someone who you can tolerate, the attractiveness factor won't matter much, you'll just wanna fuck.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:28 PM
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I would say a little. 2+ years ago when I started reading we had many different topics and strategies being discussed. These days every other thread is about go lift, or some humble brag field report. Don't get me wrong we still get good threads but they are not as common anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 05:41 PM
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This is on her. At some point as a person you have to realize when to walk away from someone. She didnt. It sounds like you gave it a shot and you're just not feeling it. If you're not happy just dump her and be firm. Dont take her back. If she was the one that wasn't in love she wouldn't feel bad about dumping you.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 06:09 PM
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She did not answer, then she blocked me. What should be the next move if I want to ask her out? WHAT???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? can you give me a few tips on how to forget her quickly It won't be quick, but you will forget about her. Make a conscious effort to think about something else…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:51 PM
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You gotta pick a struggle. If you ugly at least get fit and rich. Have good hygiene. Shave, get haircuts. Dress with clothes that fit properly. Not too tight not too baggy.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:48 PM
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I dont know about going for a refund, he might try to guilt you into letting him fix it and fuck it up even more. And yeah he did fuck up.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:52 PM
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Sounds like she has nothing to offer you but sex. If that's the case, why care about nuking it, because to be honest downgrading a 1.5 yrs LTR to plate is almost impossible unless she wants to fuck around too. Soft-next is when you don't hit someone up but you reply if they hit you up. Hard-next is when you feel disrespected by someone and you take them out of your life, no matter how many times they reach out to you.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:30 PM
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Seems like a fuck up and not a bald spot, but it could be worse. Just go to another barber and ask for a high fade, nothing off the top, half on the sides. Make sure the new barber you get is good at blending.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:21 PM
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Maybe she feels like your SMV is higher than hers and she's trying to instill dread on you by showcasing other guys being attracted to her. You can take many routes here but usually ignoring works well. Show her you are unphased at other guys trying to talk to her.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:11 PM
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GFTOW. It ain't that easy lol.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:07 PM
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She isn't interested. If I read that right, she declined 3 invitations. If you think about it, that could've been 2 other girls you could have invited instead of her, and maybe have had 1 to hang out with this weekend.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:06 PM
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Uhh tricky one, she declined the party Friday night and didn't offer an alternative date after. Usually this is not good news, but I don't wanna scare you. I also don't want to tell you to not invite her out again for that weekend since the next time you'll be able to see her is a whole 30 days later, and I understand you probably wanna see her. Honestly, I can't recommend you invite her over again, it might look needy. And maybe, just maybe, she might even want to come Saturday, but maybe she f…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:00 PM
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It's happened to me twice already. Both came back. I felt disgusted at the fact they thought they could throw me like a rock and then come pick me up whenever they wanted.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:55 PM
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Bruh if she asked you to grab some ingredients to make you dinner it's good. At that point that's not even a favor that's just getting the materials to setup a date where an opportunity for sex happens. The only exception I can think of is if she's asking you to bring 2 steaks, sack of potatoes, all the spices, basically a whole shopping list just to make you dinner.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:51 PM
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Plates break. Maybe I should repeat that in my head over and over. You know what pisses me off the most? The fact that they won't go straight and say "Hey I'm not interested anymore, it was fun!". I feel like they just ghost in order to keep the door open, if something fails they usually hit you with the "I'm sorry I been so busy" text and try to pick you back up. I totally totally hate this so much with a passion. I hate when they try to come back and pretend like we're all good. Like if they n…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:41 PM
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I feel like I am similar to you in the sense that it motivates me more to improve myself when I have a relationship (be it LTR, FWB, FB) than when I'm completely single and have no prospects in line. My friends always tell me I'm weird because they say they are the complete opposite: When they're alone, they work hard because they want to attract, when they get a girl they get lazy and fat. Anyways, to answer your question. I think what you should do, which has helped me, is to do things that im…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:35 PM
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I agree. I think getting over revenge fantasy is one of the latest stages of swallowing the pill. Once you let go of that fantasy, you're almost all the way woke. Something else I forgot to mention, is that maybe you can improve to the point where a girl who used to view you as beta now sees you as alpha. However, the effort you'd have to put in would be far greater than than the effort you'd have to put in for a new girl, it's just not worth it.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:53 PM
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I think two reasons. One, she doesnt give a fuck about your greatness. Once you're beta in her eyes, you will always be no matter how much you improve. Two, once you block her, her opinion of you is meaningless. She's dead to you.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:29 PM
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This guy is shit testing himself lmao I've seen it all. Maybe I should have told her I want to fuck the shit out of her while looking at her straight in the eyes? Lol what?
/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:38 PM
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I think you have a point. Thinking back, I think I did start behaving like a bitch and THEN they treated me like shit. Which is a vicious cycle because the shittier they treated me, the more beta I became, and subsequently thinking back, the better women have treated me the more alpha I've behaved. I think I just realized it's almost counter intuitive for women to treat men like shit, I feel like women would be happier if they treated their man with respect and in return they can be the strong r…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 03:00 PM
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for example, girls who didn’t receive attention from their fathers when they were children seek out men who will treat them the same way I'd be interested to hear more on this.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 02:52 PM
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I think I figured out why I developed oneitis I am 26 years old and my parents have been married 27 years. I have grown up with both my parents my whole life. I grew up around my dad being a beta bitch to my mom since I can remember. My mom would always treat my dad like shit, talk to him like shit, and my dad would always be trying to please my mom on whatever request she had, never objecting, always pleasing her. I think this shaped my definition of love and relationships from a young age. I t…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 01:33 PM
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This is gonna sound cliché, but becoming happy. I took some steps into making my daily life fun and enjoyable, and I became really happy with my routine. This has made me incredibly less needy and when a girl isn't interested it really doesn't phase me. My life is fun, I have many hobbys, I'm making good money for my age and I have cool friends to hang out with all the time. Anything else I get is extra.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 01:35 PM
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8/10
/r/askTRP01/04/18 03:37 PM
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penis kegels
/r/askTRP25/03/18 10:27 PM
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Not those exact words, but that was the point.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:50 PM
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I'm going to point out something I don't think I've seen anyone mention from skimming all the replies. So this was your first class and they had you sparring? Doesn't seem like a good way to start. All the gyms I've been to have you train for at least a month before any kind of sparring to protect not only yourself, but also your partner since as a beginner you don't know how to hold back and you could lose your cool as well. I would look into a different gym. It just sounds like some bully in y…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 06:40 PM
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pros are almost zero competition for a guy who takes care of himself Came to say this
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:28 PM
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Is English your first language? Because I'm not sure I understand what's the problem. Tell me if I'm wrong: you established yall would be monogamous, then you contradict yourself by saying you never intended to go past plate which you did, and now you want out because she's been doing exactly what you wanted her to except for the fact she's going on a trip with a girlfriend? Where are they going? Vegas or camping? Partying or exploring? This makes all the difference to me. At the end of the day,…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:44 PM
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I was literally going to post the same shit almost word by word. Do this. Even stubble and undercut!
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:20 PM
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As the other replies have stated, this doesn't look good. I don't see many scenarios where this comes out well. We got back to my friends (since was staying at his place for the night) she conveniently sat in b/w us instead of on my side. She annoyed in the middle (not related to this) so I sat down on the side. She stayed where she was and shared a blanket (upto her legs/body still 90 degrees away) with my friend. This pisses me off and she's not even my gf. I'm at a point where I have a very l…
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:42 PM
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Works better if they're ugly and have several hot girlfriends.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:24 PM
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You sound iamverysmart. I bet your IQ is over 150.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:13 PM
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I wish I could go back and invest into Apple.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 02:08 PM
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keep it low effort this x1000
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:11 PM
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Her ex is retarded. Your LTR is retarded. You will look back at this one day and laugh. I say focus in school, find some cool hobbies, and literally give 0 fucks about this girl.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:07 PM
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Just get a new haircut. Ask your barber for a slick back undercut.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:48 PM
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Don't let it phase you, at the end of the day, it is what it is. Keep approaching. 3.5b women out there.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:18 PM
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I banged her sister So tempted to stop reading here... I know I'm walking a thin line here, but I want to fuck her again, cuck her boyfriend, then possibly lead her on to break up with her BF. And then, "Never mind, this is such a mistake I can't do this" her ass... Do you really have this much free time in your hands to go along with this super revenge fantasy? I'll share something with you my friends. I've done it. I've gone through the whole revenge fantasy dream. It's not worth it. At the en…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:57 PM
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Maybe she's aware that when girls upload couple pics they get significantly less likes, and she's all about image and wants to keep her likes count high.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 05:23 PM
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Oh boy I hope you like this girl lol.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 02:10 PM
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She wants commitment.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 02:07 PM
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CG's hamster- warpspeed! I lol'd in real life
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:38 AM
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Whoever is less invested into the relationships holds the power in the relationship. Looks like you were more invested into the relationship than she was. have you guys ever been in an LTR where you loved your girl and you were sure at 100% that she loved you back? Yes, but it doesn't last forever. After a few months, shit gets boring.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 08:09 PM
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To piggy back on the previous comments, you need to make these ideals a habit. Some days you'll be on top of your game and some days you'll regress to your beta ways and be all gugu gaga over average chicks. On those days, step back, meditate, freshen up on some sidebar material, and reassess the situation.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 03:15 PM
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IDK preparing yourself through reading, lifting, and eating healthy? Your question is too broad...
/r/askTRP25/02/18 06:22 PM
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Do you think she's posting questions on an online forum about how to bring up beta shit she talked about to some dude years ago?
/r/askTRP25/02/18 07:01 AM
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I might be the unpopular opinion here but to me this is literally a non-issue. She probably just snaps a bunch of dumbass pictures to her friends that got nothing better to do with their times.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 04:06 AM
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Or a beta
/r/askTRP23/02/18 09:23 PM
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Next
/r/askTRP23/02/18 09:15 PM
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Good responses so far. If anything I'd like to add is, don't listen to what she's saying, pay attention to her actions. Just try to escalate whenever possible. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, game other girls, meet new girls, do not only focus on this one girl.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 09:13 PM
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Doesn't sound too crazy but I'd watch out for more signs.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:07 PM
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I don't think I understand exactly what's going on, but I also don't think even you understand exactly what's going on. At any rate, she sounds like she lost interest. Girls are weird man, gotta strike while the iron is hot. I say you stop replying, act as if nothing happened around her, and if she ever brings it up to you in person just casually ask her out somewhere in a totally chill matter that communicates you don't care either way (which btw you shouldn't care either way).
/r/askTRP23/02/18 06:44 PM
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Spending time and money with a girl and not getting what you want in return Giving her constant compliments and her just replying things like "aww thanks" Being her emotional tampon Helping her with problems knowing she'd never go out of her way to help you out Being her friend if you are attracted to her Any situation in which she is getting some type of benefit from you be it emotional, financial, or physical and you not getting what you want from her in return
/r/askTRP23/02/18 06:39 PM
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I see no reason to tell her if things are going good. If she was starting to get out of line I would casually mention it for dread. But if shit is as good as you say you gain nothing from saying that.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 03:56 PM
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I think you are confusing love with oneitis. You can love a woman and not have oneitis for her. Just like how you can have oneitis for a woman and not truly love her; even tho you might THINK you love her.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 06:55 PM
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Definitely not oneitis, otherwise I wouldn't have let it go.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 06:51 PM
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Ignore her bullshit: "I can't move on from you, what will I do without you, You're the only one I want" "You made me do this to you, I had to do X because I loved you too much, This is your fault". This is just emotional terrorism. I needed to hear this. I recently just broke up with my LTR of 1.2 yrs because I found she was going to start stripping. I don't ever go through her phone but she had been coming home high off drugs for 2 days straight and I was legit concerned for her well-being, so …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 07:44 PM
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this sub has literally gone to shit
/r/askTRP05/05/17 12:50 PM
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Ok so here is what I would do, and it might just be the inner blue pill in me so i might get thumbed down to oblivion. But, i would be like "oh nice i got off work that day/dont have any plans, ill come with you itll be fun." If she get angry and says "NO! You cant come!" Then you know shes fucking him. If shes meh about it, but still lets you come, she was probably going to fuck him, but she knows the game. If shes excited and happy youre coming, and wants to show you off to the other guy, then…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 02:02 PM
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To be honest with myself, not much dude. The first maybe 2-3 months she would cook a lot for me, breakfast lunch dinner. I feel like she's getting (too) comfortable in the relationship.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:57 AM
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i know i should have low expectations from women but i think a soup when im sick is reasonable
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:55 AM
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There's a few things you can try before and during the encounter. As far as before, for preparation you can practice masturbating until the point you are about to cum, then stop for a few seconds, then keep masturbating, then stop when you're about to cum again, and keep repeating. This exercise helps you learn your body better and know your limits, it will help you control the situation, if you feel you're about to come, switch the position or stop for a few seconds. During, you need to relax. …
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:30 PM
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If you want to save this one you're gonna have to kick up the dread. You do not say anything to her, that will display insecurities and low value. Start openly flirting with other girls in front of her, light stuff and always have plausible deniability. Show her you can easily game and get other girls. Start hitting the gym more often and be less available. Subtly throw in how other girls from work have been flirting with you. Google 12 levels of dread and go up to at least level 8.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 03:05 PM
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I don't believe she's your girlfriend, no way. Maybe you misunderstood a fuckbuddy for a gf, if you guys have even fucked.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:44 AM
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You don't learn how to catch fish from other fish. Anyways, what does she tell you? I am kind of intrigued at this point.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:43 AM
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Never listen to what she says, only look at what she does. This took me a long time to fully digest.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:44 AM
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The endgame here at TRP is to not end up with a fucking whore and you my friend, willingly or unwillingly, are on the right path.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 05:48 PM
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Underrated comment and harsh truth for women.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 01:06 AM
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-_________________-
/r/askTRP07/07/16 03:01 PM
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That's like saying I am fat, would eating more McDonalds be the right choice for me? Of course not. You don't have to go full Chad to be redpill. Just have some self respect, know when to walk away, lift, improve yourself, etc.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:23 PM
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Yes, it can happen, but it's really really hard. Let me see if I can explain this clearly, it's kinda complicated. The reason why alpha widows are so bad to date/LTR is because you are not competing with another man from her past, you are competing with the idea she has of this man from her past. That alpha left her at the pinnacle of attraction before showing any sort of weakness or negative traits. Because of this, it's really hard to keep up the balance and outperform an illusion she has in h…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 01:26 PM
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Still plugged in.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:38 PM
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This. I probably even think she believes she can take him in a fist fight.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 06:48 PM
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Her SMV is higher than yours so you are scared of losing her and not finding someone else as attractive or as good as her. You can fix this problem by increasing your own SMV so not only it reaches her, but it passes her. Once your SMV is higher than hers you will not only solve the problem of being jealous, because you will not give a fuck about losing her, but you will also create more attraction and she will drop the attention whoring to not lose you. Right now she knows her SMV is higher tha…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:24 PM
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They're usually already taken by their late teens or early twenties.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:02 PM
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Yeah but don't show her the girls directly. Let her wonder. The more she wonders, the more she's thinking about you. The more she thinks about you, the more her attraction raises for you.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:56 PM
3

First thing I would say is that dread is best when it's subtle. If you had just showed pics of you at the club without the girl you would have let her hamster wonder if there were girls around or not. By directly showing her you killed the mystery and basically showed you were hurt, trust me girls are not dumb they notice these things. As far as what you did, just use less words next time. Show little investment. I would have just said "Cool I'll be at X."
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:20 PM
3

Shit post, but I'll try to help. To finally swallow the pill you gotta go through some sort of experience that validates what you have been reading here (doubt you've read much). What did it for me was being nice and respecting (beta) my ex-girlfriend during our relationship, only to have her decide that she no longer wanted to have sex with me because she wanted to do things "right" with me (I dried up the vagina more than the sahara dessert) and eventually she left me for her ex that was "abus…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:29 PM
6

Relax man.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 03:02 PM
3

I bet $100 bucks you're under 21.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 11:15 PM
1

Revenge fantasy has finally been fulfilled by one of us.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 10:06 PM
18

My thoughts exactly. When they break up... Reasons Why I Hate You: You're always trying to teach me lessons like if I was a little kid You're too slow You are always trying to take me away from my friends You don't make me happy I hate the way you are You are too clingy Your jokes are of bad taste You're always judging me Your ugly lips I can't even trust you You make me feel like I am not good enough You are always too quiet You're always too touchy in public You always throw a fit if I don't d…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 05:34 PM
1

More accurate
/r/askTRP14/06/16 02:30 AM
1

A HB10 for me could be a HB6 for you.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 04:14 PM
2

I can guarantee you that this feeling won't go away. Cut your losses and let this be a lesson to you on how women feel once they see you as weak or beta. The same way you can't let go of her being a slut is how women can't let go of you being weak. Learn from her mistakes.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 01:55 PM
9

I think we should have an age requirement in order to post.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:22 PM
2

Plenty of fish in the sea man.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:19 PM
2

You didn't fuck her as good as she wanted to be fucked. Next and work on your sex game.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 12:50 PM
2

Remember that a lot of these "happy" relationships you see only appear happy on the outside. In reality, most people in relationships and marriages are not happy, but they stay together for a variety of reasons (kids, comfort, think they can't to better, etc...). The few relationships that are actually happy is because the man is alpha and leads the relationship. As far as your post, you just pretty much want a relationship. There is nothing wrong with wanting a relationship, if you want one the…
/r/askTRP08/06/16 12:44 PM
5

Agree on that shit. My dad wasn't absent but he was BETA AS FUCK with my mom and abusive towards me. I think the only reason my mom didn't leave him was because they're from different times. If my mom grew up in these times she would have left my dad AGES ago. And growing up under his conditioning, I grew up beta as shit. And his abuse only led me to be a Nice Guy™.... shit reading NMMNG really woke me up, and I'm only half way through it. And fuck that shit, go to a music festival and pop some …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 01:43 AM
9

I know exactly what you mean because it happened to me to exactly in that way. It's like, she's backing away, "oh better start pursuing harder to show her I care" when in reality if I had just backed away it would have created more attraction and made her come back on her own. But then, at the moment, it's like, I love her, I gotta go after her, I gotta show her. Fuck man... all the fucking Hollywood movies fucked up my mating strategy.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 01:02 AM
1

The breakup was so bad I highly doubt she'll ever come back. I myself don't want her back. If we hadn't said a lot of the things we said to each other towards the end I am 100% sure she would have been back in a few months or years. But after all the shit we said to each other, this is a closed chapter.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 01:01 AM
7

Tell me if I'm wrong but I think to some degree it's not even about ignoring the warning sings so they don't actually exist. I think the biggest part is how counterproductive all this stuff seems. It's like... would doing this at this stage really strengthen the relationship? I think once we are in love and in the moment, we have this feeling like doing this stuff is actually gonna be bad towards the relationship, when in fact it's probably the only thing that could save it. I think the most imp…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 12:14 AM
2

Textbook description of what happened to me. Those same signs. I'll definitely make them earn my attention next time.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 08:09 PM
5

You got a fucking point here.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 08:03 PM
6

I don't know if the texts are out of context but I cringed a little. Drop all the extra shit and stick to setting up the date and get off the phone.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 07:29 PM
1

GFTOW
/r/askTRP23/05/16 05:28 PM
1

A girl that is interested in seeing you will not forget. If she "forgets" you should be happy for not wasting your time.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:59 PM
0

Make plans for tomorrow in case she bails you have something else to do. Then proceed to hit her up maybe about an hour before going to pick her up/meeting up at the place to confirm. If she declines, proceed with the backup plan. If she goes, fuck her right in the pussy.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 12:50 PM
2

I want to put random dudes in the hospital. I can't stop laughing lol
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:47 PM
5

This is oh so important to someone going through a breakup. So many guys, regardless of being alpha or beta, go through a breakup and suffer so much because they only remember the good times they had with their SO. The fun times of partying, going out drinking, bonding, fucking, etc. Girls are so much better at dismissing all the past good experiences and only focusing on that one bad thing the guy did to turn them off and trigger the breakup. That's why it's so important to realize those things…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 03:29 PM
4

You know how we say you can't save a slut? Same thing with a beta
/r/askTRP17/05/16 02:49 PM
2

Reward good behavior in order to imply you want more of those things. If you want more BJs, take her to dinner after a BJ. If you want her to cook more, give her a compliment when she's cooking. When she doesn't do either of the things you want her to do, be more distant. Don't explicitly tell her what you want.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 07:21 PM
2

Don't listen to what women say, look at her actions. This girl is screaming alpha widow and you need to run away.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 06:51 PM
1

By the time you get to the party she will probably have fucked someone else. Focus on getting more freedom from your parents. Tell them this is a once in a lifetime event.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:07 PM
3

The attraction is dwindling and it looks like this relationship has an expiration date. The best thing you can do is work on yourself right now so when it's finally over you can get other chicks faster.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:46 PM
17

Great post, just want to give my input on something that came to my head. If you're reading this, chances are that you already know how to deal with shit-test. But, if you're of more curious personality, you're probably wondering why women shit-test in the first place. The best and succinct summary of why women shit-test was following: "Suppose someone gives you a crystal ball and tells you it's unbreakable. What is the first thing you do? You try to break it." But let me expand the metaphor fur…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 07:49 PM
6

Dude what the fuck you're going thermonuclear right off the bat. Have you even read the 12 levels of dread? Have you even read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:44 PM
1

Lmao. You tried to use logic on a woman. Good luck buddy. No but seriously, when a woman says "all you want is sex" just say "and sandwiches".
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:36 PM
5

So treat them all the same. I guess I can roll with that.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 02:20 PM
6

Move on, one thing I've learned is that when a girl is asking to break up they're not doing it to see if you would "fight for them" or some other underlying motive. She really wants to break up with you. Is that the real motive? That's another question. We don't have enough details to make that analysis. If you been fucking her good and everything has been good, then maybe. If not, maybe she's branch swinging and has already fucked the new guy. When girls talk, they power talk which means she wi…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:25 PM
2

She's only been with 2 guys but she does MDMA and you met off Tinder. OK.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 04:01 PM
37

This relationship is already over.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 04:11 PM
4

It's not enough to act the part you got to be the part.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 02:52 PM
9

You are too focused on getting laid and when you approach these women they can tell how thirsty you are, which is a big turn off. You will never get laid with that mindset. You need to hire an escort, fuck her until you have no more sexual needs, and then go game other women without being so fucking thirsty.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 02:30 PM
1

Abundance mentality bro. Don't settle for a girl who is a 5 in your books. If you're only with her because you don't want to be lonely you're with her for the wrong reasons. Break up with her and find a woman that actually gives you tinglez.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 04:32 PM
1

That would be very very stupid. That's like if she texted you to reiterate that commitment is an important part of any 'relationship' you guys might have and that if you aren't on the same page, just move on. That's gonna make you run, isn't it? Just escalate, escalate, and escalate.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 04:26 PM
1

Exactly this. Let go of women that perceive you as beta because that will never change. Even women who perceived you as alpha at first, but with time transferred you to beta are a waste of your time. Game new women.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 04:23 PM
3

An alpha widow can be created at any age. You can read more about it here, he does a way better job at explaining an alpha widow than I can: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2s1coz/what_is_an_alpha_widow_and_why_does_it_matter/ As far as my alpha widow experiences, without writing too much about it, it's just a feeling you get that the chick you're with is TRYING to love you but she just can't because she still wants that alpha that left her. Alpha widows try to love other people but…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 03:20 PM
2

I remember this quote from the show House that said: You can live with dignity, we can't die with it. I think it applies to this. You can live like a man, you can't die like a man.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:54 PM
4

Yeah man just keep it casual and friendly. Don't make it a big deal. But don't see her again, don't waste your time. I've been involved with 2 alpha widows and it's not a path I would wish on anyone.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:51 PM
9

With enough game you could have fucked her but after that last conversation it's pretty much over. The thing is that it's hard to fuck a girl that take sex "completely off the table" because if you try to escalate you're always gonna have that thing in the back of your mind about how she doesn't want to and you will feel like a rapist. Not wanting to have sex again until marriage is one of the biggest sign of an alpha widow and trust me on this one, you do not want to get involved with an alpha …
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:22 PM
2

Setting up any ground rules will dry up that vagina faster than anything I think of. If a girl is gonna cheat or branch swing she will do it regardless. Just focus on you and don't give a fuck what she does or doesn't do.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 12:49 AM
0

Women only talk about guys they are attracted to. When she brings him up you can just look uninterested and change the topic.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 12:23 AM
7

Come on man
/r/askTRP02/05/16 05:51 PM
10

I actually think this is a blessing rather than a curse. Your cock is all she knows so to her, it's the best cock out there (aside from those few times with her ex). If you really like her that much, just teach her man. Trust me, you rather be with someone you have to teach than someone who has much more experience than you and you can never satisfy. As far as it hurting her vagina, just foreplay longer so she can be more wet before you go in. Or buy lube.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 03:12 PM
11

Low partner count Doesn't shit test often Fucks me on the regular Is not a liar Has a job Doesn't have more male friends than female friends Isn't big into social media Fun to be around with Those are just a few off the top off my head, but I'm sure there are more important ones too.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 03:08 PM
12

Why be with someone who doesn't want to have sex with you? Don't second guess yourself man, you did the right thing. Demote this girl to plate, if even that, and she can never again become a LTR. Work on yourself, gym, learn to code more, pick up another hobby and game other girls. As you said, she will try to come back but just use her as a cum bucket and nothing more. Show her absolutely 0 respect.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 02:39 PM
2

Google 12 levels of dread and start implementing that from the beginning of the relationship. Do not wait for things to start going bad before you start implementing that.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 06:11 PM
15

You're dating a child and you are a child too.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 03:42 PM
-1

I think that test message is fine, if she's into you she will come and if she isn't you will have your answer and won't keep wasting your time. If she agrees to go masturbate like an hour before she gets there and/or buy a sex pill from any gas station or pharmacy store. There's some that are over the counter that will help you last longer. I say this because it's your first time and you might come a little too fast and she will be terribly disappointed. In the time between now and then practice…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 01:52 PM
3

Is it working?
/r/askTRP21/04/16 07:44 PM
3

Perfect opportunity to create new friends. You're in college, you will never have access to such a huge pool of people be it friends or plates. Go to the gym on campus and make friends, join a club, even just walk around after class and talk to people. She isn't a special snowflake. I can tell you probably didn't even know her for that long. You will literally forget she even existed the moment your dick enters another vagina. I bet my life savings on it.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 04:44 PM
0

LTR and marriage is mostly for low value men who don't have many options. They try to secure a woman believing it will lead to constant sex and companionship. Only to later be in a dead bedroom relationship and find out she's cheating on him and taking half his shit. Don't get married.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 04:29 PM
1

Start being beta to her. Ask to see her everyday, get mad if she doesn't reply within 5 minutes, be clingy, start telling her your problems, tell her you love her (like a lot), blame her for not loving you as much. She won't take more than a month of this.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 05:49 PM
8

Well it took her leaving you to find TRP. But you're doing pretty good for yourself if you can pull something like that naturally, now with the knowledge you can potentially learn here you'll be able to keep pulling and next time keep them around. One thing you must remember tho, she's never yours, it's just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 06:48 PM
4

I think this sort of comes down to the fact that women don't like to be blamed for anything. They want the man to take all the decisions, in case something goes wrong, it's the man's fault. That's why women will never pick the restaurant where to eat at, because if the food is bad then it's their fault that the food taste bad, since they picked the restaurant. You can pretty much apply that mentality to everything in a woman.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 06:46 PM
12

Sorry, but this is not the type of girl you LTR. She just doesn't have the qualities you're looking for, and trying to force a LTR dynamic on someone who just wants a FWB will blow up in your face. I tried that once because I like LTRs too, but the girl only wanted to be FWB. After convincing her and a few months down the road, she just started complaining that I forced her into the relationship. I say downgrade to FWB and find another girl that actually wants that LTR dynamic. Once you do find …
/r/askTRP15/04/16 04:10 PM
20

So what you're saying is women don't really rather be "a guy", they rather be Chad Thundercock. I too would rather be Chad.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 01:50 PM
7

Having gone through a recent breakup this is right on the money. On the beginning of the relationship when her interest was peaking, I could literally do no wrong. I was asking her to see her almost every day, not texting her much aside for logistics, regularly escalating to sex, and helping her out shit she needed. Then, something happened, I'm not sure what. But somewhere in there, I must of down something to turn her off, or she simply found some other dude that she liked more. After that, as…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 01:44 PM
1

I think this is a comfort test, but she's kinda weird for asking that. If she's been behaving good just throw her some comfort.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 04:59 PM
3

She knows you're not hers, it's only her turn.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 04:56 PM
1

I think that's pretty similar to the anger phase. It could also be depression. Have you been doing things that you like to do on your own without any female company? Don't put your happiness on bitches. You make your own happiness, women are just part of the journey.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 02:46 PM
2

This one is tricky because if it's too low she will see you as low value, if it's too high she will see you as a man whore. The best thing you can do is just change the subject or hit them with some sort of amused mastery, like if she asks how many girls you've slept with you say "Today?"
/r/askTRP14/04/16 02:23 PM
2

I think you're going through the anger phase. I recently just got out of a LTR and I too find myself with little enthusiasm for putting up with girl's shit. I think the secret is to just date different chicks and not get too invested in them, if they turn you off just next them and meet more chicks. Eventually you'll get out of the anger phase and you'll find someone who you are willing to put up with. Notice how I said get out of the anger phase, and not you'll find a worthy chick, because reme…
/r/askTRP14/04/16 02:20 PM
1

I will agree that LSD is fucking amazing. I like to do it at festivals.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 02:12 PM
2

Are you fucking them good when you guys have sex? If you're meh then they're not gonna be chasing you for sex. You need to put it down during sex and then they will chase you.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:34 PM
5

He is an orbiter.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:51 PM
2

Well that changes everything. I will go ahead and say I am not qualified for this level of shit. Wait for archwinger to read this lol...
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:20 PM
11

You don't ask questions. You keep gaming her until she's the one that starts asking if you guys are exclusive. Then you will know she's being exclusive with you. If you ask her shit like that you will look like the biggest bitch of all time. Women ask for commitment you just keep plowing that pussy.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:06 PM
2

Well obviously, not to mention the advice given here is limited to what the person writes. Only the person in the situation knows the WHOLE deal, no matter how much details they provide for us. However, I think the advice given here is good most of the time. One thing I like to do when asking for advice is click on the person's profile and see if they're relatively new or someone that has been around trp a while. If it's the latter I tend to value their opinion a little more.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 02:07 PM
4

Brilliant. A lot of guys here claim they don't give a fuck about losing their plates or LTR so they go into overdrive with the dread shit and when they push her away they come here crying AWALT, which I'm not saying is not true, but if they had only been smarter about their dread game and been more implicit they could have kept her around and both parties would of been happy.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 07:35 PM
1

Are we back in high school or what?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 07:27 PM
4

It means she is hinting that she wants your commitment. But you're not gonna give it to her because then she won't want it. Instead, you're going to fuck her. You're going to pretend like if she gives you sex, you'll give her commitment. But then you still won't, because when you do she won't want it anymore.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:27 PM
1

Why would you ask her directly? Just think about a girl directly asking you to suck your dick, wouldn't that raise a flag? Gosh... Just go on the date and have fun, touch her, escalate, tease her, 2 steps forward 1 step back...
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:19 PM
2

I think you're thinking too much into this. Just tell her you're gonna hang out with some friends before seeing her. I think she just wants to know if you're bringing people over (which obviously you shouldn't).
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:16 PM
1

Don't come off too strong either. 2 steps forward 1 step back.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 11:56 AM
1

Of course, if she's hanging out with you it's because she's interested. Women vote with their feet and if she's next to you it's your responsibility to create a scenario where sex "just happens".
/r/askTRP24/03/16 02:31 PM
1

Just shoot her a text and tell her to bring those red panties you like or something like that. If she tries to bring up the argument just ignore her shit test and act like she's a little girl. You're a man that doesn't have time to be arguing.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 02:21 PM
3

It's not so much what you do but how you do it. Anything you do can be alpha as long as you do it with confidence. If you say "Can I add you on facebook?" That comes off as beta because you are seeking her approval to add her, if you say "What's your facebook?" It comes off as alpha because you are going to add her and you just want to know her facebook name. The same thing with the compliments, if you just say "You hace nice eyes" and you don't even look at her in the eyes you will look like a …
/r/askTRP23/03/16 06:44 PM
7

If you LTR her, you will no longer be Chad and she will find another Chad to fuck behind your back while you're at work.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 06:39 PM
3

Amused mastery. I been getting old since I was born.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:23 PM
157

Saying this is cringe worthy is an understatement. I have mixed feelings when it comes to the fighting, on one hand no bitch is worth fighting for, but on the other hand that other dude was talking a lot of shit so maybe whooping his ass wouldn't have been a bad idea. And I totally agree with the tunnel vision comment, this dude literally walked in on his girlfriend cheating on him and he's talking about come back home with me? What else does he need to see? His dick inside of her? How is she go…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 03:36 PM
2

Glad I was able to help!
/r/askTRP22/02/16 10:48 PM
3

Your insecurities are telling you you don't deserve someone of high value, so when a woman is pursuing you you subconsciously think she must be of low value. That's a very feminine way of thinking, usually girls do that not men. Work on your confidence.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 08:41 PM
2

Amazing story. Thanks for sharing and giving me your perspective. Hopefully I can learn from your mistakes and my own and avoid situations like these in the future.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:59 PM
1

Touche. I'll start giving too many fucks from now on.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:33 PM
3

Yes, I already am lifting, been lifting for the past 2 months and can already see improvement, but there is room for growth. Currently I am a little skinny so I want to put on muscle. I've started to bulk for the past 3 weeks and drinking a heavy calorie protein shake and forcing myself to eat more.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:32 PM
2

Because of further vindication that women would rather share an alpha than have a beta exclusively for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:14 PM
3

23 . I used to bring my ex over once in a while and my dad (surprisingly, my mom did not give a fuck) would always give me all this shit about not bringing girls home because it would be a "bad example" for my little sister about women behavior and all that... And yes I am house hunting, I just got pre-approved by my bank for a pretty decent loan amount, and I am now looking for realtor. I didn't want to rent because it's kinda wasting money so I have been saving up and now I can afford a nice l…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:12 PM
1

I agree with everything you have said here and will absolutely follow this advice. I know I am BB for now, but one doesn't go from BB to AF in a day. First step is realizing, I will now change my behavior.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:11 PM
5

I hope you understand that I am not saying that I am like this and want to keep being like this. I am just stating I have come to the realization of how I have been, and i WILL change that behavior. It also put up the fact that I know I will not change overnight... I know I'll still have some beta tendencies but I will change all of them as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:09 PM
7

Yes, I have that "make him wait" aura around me. Even with girls I have fucked in the past, after having sex for a few months they start taking sex away from the table because even when I start as alpha, I shift to that beta "making him wait" bux persona. I believe they even do it unconsciously, it's just nature making them do it.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 04:53 PM
3

I have thought about this and it is a plausible possibility. I do agree I should have tried to escalate harder the first night but I took things [too] slow. Did he do anything wrong? I mean, he knew I liked her...
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 04:51 PM
5

I still consider him a good friend but I wouldn't bring any other new girls around him unless we are either constantly fucking already or in LTR status. I do feel a little less of a friendship there seeing as he'll take girls he knows I am interested in.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 04:49 PM
6

Well, this new girl does drop MDMA (even currently, after all the church BS) so your story could possibly be straight up facts.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 04:47 PM
6

Amazing reply. Let's try to answer all your questions. You make a good point with the having a friend that's a girl part because I have not fucked any other girl thanks to her, but I have had a handful of girls approach us and try to make conversation because we look friendly. Thing like this never happened when I go out with boys. Still, the marginal increase of this does not warrant me buying her drinks and shit, so you might be right on the aspect it being useless. As far as my friend Chad, y…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 04:44 PM
2

The part about it being really hard to get out of that cycle is really true. From now on I will set goals on myself to spend less and not go over a certain dollar amount on girls.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 04:33 PM
29

I try to tone it down, I really do, but I always end up scheduling activities that make me spend money. I still currently live with parents (but I am house hunting so soon I will be out) so I always invite girls out because I don't want to bring them home with my parents, it's a little embarrassing. So when I invite them out, it's always to drink, have dinner, whatever, and since I am the one who invited them I feel obligated to pay. I know I have to stop... but it's a cycle where I feel I am ob…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 04:30 PM
48

On my third read of the sidebar, lifting 3-4 times a week, it will take some time but it'll be worth it. Thanks for the encouragement.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 10:08 AM
3

So far so good. Just keep doing what you are doing and let her bring it up a few more times. Comfort her when she does and then eventually surprise her with like a nice dinner and bring up the conversation. Just remember, LTR is redpill on hard mode, so be careful.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 01:03 AM
10

I'm sorry to tell you this relationship ended 8 months ago. Actually this relationship ended the first time you cried in front of her. Never, and I mean NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVER, cry in front of a girl. Let me put it this way, you have more chances of a girl staying with you after walking in on you fucking another girl, than after watching you cry. Hard next, focus on yourself, keep yourself busy. Whatever it is, just keep yourself busy to the point where you don't have time to think about h…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 12:56 AM
3

Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 08:19 PM
8

My ex would ask me that question all the time. She usually asked me that when we were hanging out together and there was silence for a few minutes. She kinda used it as a way to break the silence and talk about something. I don't think it's necessarily a shit test, maybe you're just a quiet person and she's trying to get you to talk. My recommendation is not to ignore it but just bring up something fun to talk about, something you both got in common and is interesting. Don't be too much of a col…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 06:03 PM
3

I think you have oneitis.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:50 PM
9

A man and a woman are not the same. A man can fuck 100 women and still have the ability to form a bond with the 101st woman. Women cannot develop a bond with her 10th lover as strong as she did with her first or second. Sometimes it starts getting into the realm of alpha widow, but that's kind of another topic. Also, a man with a high partner count is a man with high SMV. You will never see a fat ugly dude that's fucked 20 women, but you will find ugly fat chicks that have fucked over 20 men. Th…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:44 PM
2

I think you did it perfectly. Just leave it there and wait for her to hit you up. On the mean time game other girls and forget she exists, she will hit you up when she's free.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 08:10 PM
2

Is not so much about faking it as it is about striving for it. To say to live with abundance mentality it to realize that if things don't pan out with a certain girl, it's not the end of the world. There are a million other girls out there, probably better than the chick who it didn't work out with. There's other girls out there that are better looking, more caring, more affectionate, fuck better and so on than any girl you leave behind. Abundance mentality is just that, a mentality. You need to…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 08:06 PM
4

I have to agree here. I also wanna add that girls feel more attracted to guys whose feelings are unclear. If you reveal you like her there's no more mystery anymore and she will be turned off. You only say things like that if you guys have been fucking for a while and she throws a comfort test at you, but this seemed more like a shit test and you kinda failed it.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 01:26 PM
1

Walk around the beach?
/r/askTRP01/02/16 06:09 PM
2

Sometimes the best solution is time. Just give yourself time to feel out those emotions and make peace with it. On the mean time just work on yourself. Just because you think about her doesn't mean you aren't making progress. If you're lifting and continuing your education you are moving forward. Train your mind to think about something else when she pops into your mind. One trick that helped me get over my ex was to talk to anybody as soon as she popped into my head. Even if it was midnight I'l…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 01:34 PM
0

I don't think you should be friends with women you want to sleep with but they have no interest in you.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 01:04 AM
3

First thing you need to do is take her off the pedestal. She's no special snowflake and she's no unicorn, she's just a slut like all the other women out there. Just imagine her getting gang banged by 5 big dicks and liking it, because it has probably happened before, you just see her in a different light and think she never would. After having that picture, think to yourself, is this really someone that deserves all my respect? No, then treat her as such. Second, don't be shy. It's easy to be fl…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 03:08 AM
2

I have to agree here, depending on how she said it you might want to either ignore she said it and just talk to her, or hard next because you're annoying her. The thing is, if she was being playful and just said it as a joke, and you really stop talking to her, you're going to look butt hurt at a simple comment/joke. But if you're really annoying her, you want to get out of that asap. You're the only one that knows how she said it, so pick accordingly.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 06:04 PM
1

I think this is my favorite approach so far. I'll definitely use this if it comes up again, thanks!
/r/askTRP27/01/16 03:13 PM
1

She's usually the one that starts contact, and when she does I just set up a time and a place to see her.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 07:43 PM
7

It doesn't matter how it makes you look. She has 0 respect for you, and the evidence for that is the fact that not only did she go out to the club, but she also put up the picture/status on Facebook. Do you really care what this girl thinks about you? She obviously doesn't care what you think about her.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 07:02 PM
21

I think you shouldn't have put that boundary in the first place. That itself made you look weak. I think you should just cut her off with no explanation. Block her on all social media and delete her messages without even reading them. She will start texting you A LOT but just ignore it. She broke a clear boundary you set up so I think at this point your only choice is to walk away. Don't give her the satisfaction of an explanation or she will take it as validation.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 05:16 PM
1

I mean... that's a decision for you to take. I feel like your asking strangers on the internet for permission to cheat on your girlfriend. If she's such a nice girl as you say she is, and it is as hard as you say it is to find someone like her where you live, then why cheat on her?
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:10 PM
6

Agreed. Also, I think the canadian line put the nail in the coffin. It looked way too out of place.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:08 PM
1

I don't think I catch your drift.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:03 PM
5

You want a cookie?
/r/askTRP14/01/16 03:44 PM
1

I will try. I was kinda asking not if I should keep both, but how I should keep both. I guess my wording was off. But I think I managed it alright, I saw B and today I'll see A.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 03:15 PM
1

I think you are onto something here. I know I fucked up but I'll tell you this, I won't take her on another dinner date until I fuck her at least twice.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 03:14 PM
1

This is the type of advice I was looking for. I wish I would have read this yesterday and actually done this, but instead I rescheduled on A, and didn't get shit from B.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 03:14 PM
3

Your turn is over. Go find another one to take your turn on.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 08:36 PM
2

In that case I don't think you got much to worry about. Scratch the soft next and just go over to her place and I think you know what to do from there.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:56 PM
2

Maybe she didn't want you to consider it a date by paying for her. It happened to me a few times with this chick, I invited her out like 3 times and she never let me pay for her. My hamster told me she was independent and all that, but in reality she just wasn't interested and didn't want me to feel entitled to anything by paying for her, so she payed her own stuff. I say soft next, but you do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:12 PM
2

So you want to jump from friends to LTR? Now I want to bring up that I want to have a relationship with her. That's feminine energy. What are some ideas of bringing this up and handling this situation? You don't. She's supposed to be the one bringing up the relationship. Your job is to provide her with tinglez and hook up with her, and eventually if you're doing everything right she will bring up being exclusive. Start by inviting her out as a date, say something like "Hey dinner at x on Saturda…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 04:47 PM
1

I think I was forgetting some of the stuff you mentioned. I agree that is emasculating to do the asking and I think I was being a little beta expecting her to take the lead. Thanks for setting me straight.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 03:35 PM
3

The thing about online dating is that women have too much of an advantage over men. They get flooded with hundreds of messages a day and only reply to the top 10% men. Just use it as throwing shit at a wall and seeing if something sticks. I would recommend you start with cold approaches at a mall or a bar.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:21 PM
1

No do not confront her, it will make her lose respect for you and make you look weak. You just need to play the game... stop texting her first, stop contacting her first... Inaction is an action in itself, just focus on your mission and purpose. She will come around once she realizes you are an independent man that doesn't need her. Also, instill Dread game.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:19 AM
0

Definitely worrisome. I've found out that around the 2-3 year mark women tend to become bored of the relationship regardless of how good you're treating her. I can't really explain to you WHY she's doing this, but I can try to tell you how to fix it. You say she's not inviting you to events she goes to, like that party, then I suggest on the days she does that you go out and do something on your own. Bonus point if there are girls involved in this activity you do, and extra bonus points if you c…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:35 AM
5

My ex used to go to church and volunteer and was pre-med student at a nice university. She had fucked over 15 guys by the age of 20. No place is safe.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 03:04 AM
1

You cannot save someone that doesn't want to be saved. I use to be the one in your friends shoes, albeit with a slightly different scenario since the chick wasn't a single mom. My friends were extremely red pill and all tried to open my eyes, but I was getting laid and figured they're all bitter losers who were jealous because their LTR left them. They don't know any better. Fast forward a few months, and the same tune plays as many of us here in TRP have heard. My SO was branch swinging, going …
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:20 PM
0

Will it look needy if I try to make it interesting now?
/r/askTRP20/12/15 12:08 AM
1

Ugh, we declared victory too soon. I texted her to ask if she's ready and she texted me saying she couldn't make it bcuz she was at church. I said alright, let me know if anything, and she said ok thanks, and that was that. I'm gonna soft next and see where I go from here. Back to the gym.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 11:00 PM
-2

Well it either means she is not interested in you or she wants a MMF threesome and is dropping subtle hints.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:53 PM
2

I think it went rather well. This is how the conversation went down: me: Hey how's your week going? her: Hey you... doing great thanks her: How about you... I really wanna start the gym :) we were talking at the mall how she wants to start the gym but doesn't have the motivation to go by herself, she needs someone to go with her, so I told her if she's really going to take it serious she can come with me, but to not bullshit me me: I'm doing good me: I feel you, I started hitting the gym hard an…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:20 AM
1

Perfect! I'm gonna go ahead and update you later on what she replies. Thanks!
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:37 PM
1

That's great. Next time try to just set up the time and place on the spot when you make the plans.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 03:20 PM
1

Would you just go straight to asking her out?
/r/askTRP15/12/15 03:16 PM
-1

Sounds great. So something along the lines of "Hey good morning, hope you're having a good day at work. I was thinking about you and was wondering when are you free to get together this week?" ... Or is that too much? Maybe break it into 2 texts (say good morning first, wait for a reply, then invite her out?)...
/r/askTRP15/12/15 03:11 PM
-13

Dread game her.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 09:14 PM
0

You dun goof'd. You're gonna have to become twice the asshole you were to even have a remote change of gaining back the power. She broke you and she knows it. To piggy back on frequentlywrong's comment, if she starts turning you down for sex it's over.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 09:09 PM
2

You have oneitis. You have one of the worst cases of oneitis I have seen. Damn, I knew I had oneitis, didn't think it was the worst one someone has ever had lol (since I'm sure you've seen many). But you are right, Michelle is a whore, everybody told me, I just thought I could change her. I will practice saying Michelle is a whore 100 times a day till it goes away. Maybe by then I'll start wanting to fuck whores.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:29 AM
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It is perfectly okay for you not only to have sex outside a relationship, but to have sex outside your relationship. Virginity, monogamy, and fidelity are concepts that are only important for women. You have no obligations in this regard because it doesn't fucking matter. I feel like either you have swallowed the pill to another level or I haven't swallowed the pill at all. I agree with most of your post except for the part about fidelity. I have never cheated nor do I ever want to cheat. If I e…
/r/askTRP11/12/15 01:40 PM
1

you will continue to be terrified of being alone and will let her walk all over you. This is very accurate. While I was with Michelle, towards the end, it was extremely obvious she was losing feelings for me and I was so terrified of her leaving me, so I let her walk ALL over me. And it's kinda funny what I found out, which is women will not leave a relationship until she has absolutely 100% lost feelings for the guy. When a women leaves you, it's not because she's starting to get turned off, it…
/r/askTRP11/12/15 01:30 PM
3

Are you just saying you want to swear off sluts? In a sense, yes. I don't want a woman with a high n-count. This raises the question, how high is too high? It depends on her age and circumstances. I would say double digits by the age of 20 is a problem. You only want to date good girls with morals/values? Yes, or at least one that hasn't fucked everything that has tried to fuck her. You want to withhold sex until after you've become exclusive??? And yes, I only want to have sex with girl I am ex…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 05:33 PM
1

Closure is nice but if you have to have closure to get her out of your mind then you're still attached. The first month I was calling and texting every few days begging her to see me because I just needed closure. She denied to see me every single time, which hurt like a motherfucker. But now... I'm good. I don't feel like I need closure anymore, and even if she was to text me saying she wanted to see me to get closure out of this, I would tell her I'm good and politely decline.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 04:13 PM
0

Just be sure you don't get oneitis and lose your abundance mentality or get married. I feel like that will be my biggest challenge as I take on this particular lifestyle. I hit oneitis HARD with michelle and I would even think to myself there was no better woman in the world than her. I've been recovering slowly and I've shifted to more of a meh she's alright opinion about her. Hopefully in a few weeks she's just another slut to me. But I fear with the way I want to go about things I will develo…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 03:56 PM
7

I just read your article and a lot of the comments in the post and I gotta say there is so much truth in all of that. The line that hit me the hardest was: Note that this is about the number of partners, and not frequency of sex; a woman that fucks the same man a thousand times a year would have men lining up to marry her, a woman who has slept with a thousand men, not so much. This is sooooo true, at least in my personal feelings. If she had had 2-3 boyfriends and fucked them 1000 times each, I…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 03:47 PM
1

Any reading suggestions?
/r/askTRP07/12/15 02:57 AM
3

SO basically do the opposite of everything I am thinking about doing?
/r/askTRP07/12/15 02:57 AM
-4

How can I do those things when I know her number by memory and she has her profiles as public? She blocked me to begin with but kept her shit as public for some reason. I even went as far as deleting all of my social media but once in a while I relapse and I just have this itch to check her social media (about every 3 days).
/r/askTRP07/12/15 02:43 AM
1

Sorry, typo, I meant to write blue pill. EDIT: And yes I have very bad onitis, to the point I am almost borderline depressed. How does one move on from onitis? I tried going out with friends to bars and picking up girls, but theres a huge problem. On the nights I have success with girls, I feel better and making progress. The nights I strike out with all the girls I attempt, I get sent back to square 1 and even more depressed, and end up checking her social media and wanting to text her (even th…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 02:40 AM
2

I think you pretty much hit all the main key points. Understood...
/r/askTRP27/11/15 10:26 PM
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