Feeling kinda depressed after reading a certain comment on my post from yesterday and I'm starting to believe in the black pill.

red_philosopher · 2018-08-21T18:08:06+00:00

one comment which caught my attention in particular which mentioned how many guys on this sub are delusional and that at every single stage of life, women have easier access to casual sex than men

So? At one point in history supposedly only 1 man reproduced for every 17 women. The Red-Pill is an uncomfortable truth. What you do with it is up to you and you alone. The Red-Pill says: if you want to have a fucking CHANCE at getting laid, you need to put in the work. This is no different than any other aspect of a man's life.

It is the way it is. You can despair about it, become a MGTOW/incel, tug your Johnson to digital photographs of the latest Instagram thot, wish you were getting laid, and then in the final moments of your life decide it's all bullshit that you were born male and kill yourself surrounded by the blue-pill media that you desperately want to be real.

Or, you can get a fucking grip, accept it for what it is, and use your time wisely to improve your life and realize that women aren't the purpose of life but an addition to a good life created by you for you.

You get that choice.

You get to decide.

Nobody else chooses for you.

CainPrice · 2018-08-21T17:54:44+00:00

As a late 30s guy, I don't have much trouble meeting women in their 30s and late 20s.

There's something funny about the dating market when guys are in their early 20s. Some of the guys have lots of casual sex, and some of the guys, while perfectly decent, normal, not undateable guys can't seem to even get a date. And it's not always based 100% on hotness, nor is it entirely clear why the guys in column A are where they are and the guys in column B are where they are.

My personal theory is that it's a lack of game. Guys in column B are wasting time with women who aren't interested instead of quickly identifying ones that are, don't know how to talk to girls in a way that leads to sex, and need to learn how the casual sex culture works. Something about the way they act outs them as a guy who isn't part of the casual sex culture.

whysointp · 2018-08-21T18:26:26+00:00

I can understand where you’re coming from I will give you few tips as a guy who is also around your age and had the same issue when starting TRP :

1) Start off small. A lot of guys will recommend you to go after whomever and that is good in all but it’s best to start with 5s and 6s until you get used to talk to women. Also just talk to anyone in general to build social skills.

2) Stop caring so much and expecting something to happen. Speak with girls just to speak with them, if you seem like they’re showing signs of interest, escalate.

3) Don’t go to bars or clubs trying to pick up girls is recommended. Just meet them in your everyday life or get a hobby where you can meet girls but don’t get the hobby JUST to meet girls.

4) Go on a women break for awhile and focus only on yourself.

5) Don’t masterbate or watch porn!!!!!

6) Play your strengths. Try going after girls that are interested in your before you’re interested in them. (Learn how to read people and the signs girls show when they’re interested in a guy; body language)

Hope this helps. Incel life is a quitters life.

FixYourselfFirst · 2018-08-21T18:15:58+00:00

Do you really stand a chance if you're not a genetically superior Chad?

Sure, you just have to work harder/smarter than a Chad. Most people are too lazy to work hard enough to realize their dreams.

MrGoodStuff05 · 2018-08-21T18:17:55+00:00

I think you're referring to my comment.

Feeling kinda depressed

That's good and normal. It means you're almost done swallowing the pill.

many guys on this sub are delusional and that at every single stage of life, women have easier access to casual sex than men, ceteris paribus, and how older men get approached by young hot women not because they find them attractive but because they have money, ie betabux.

This one is hard to swallow. The problem is you're still tying your self-worth to how many girls you have fucked/can fuck. I'm only 26, so I'm not much older than you, but once you realize that getting sex from girls isn't that big of a deal, you will feel much happier about life in general.

Now this really got me thinking, considering how easy it is for woman to hook up with attractive men even when they are post wall, do you really stand a chance if you're not a genetically superior Chad? I am 23, financially stable and in very good physical shape yet I struggle to get dates, and

The short answer is yes. If you're in good shape, got your finance together, and you're only 23 you're doing better than 95% of 23 year olds. However, stay away from online dating. It's a waste of time for average guys. You might just need to get better at identifying which girls are interested in you and which girls are a waste of time.

I know many guys who are in the exact same boat. I hate to sound like a bitter incel/mgtow but after thinking deeply about this I'm honestly starting to feel this way.

I know what you mean. These days the sexual market place is FUCKED UP. Women have these long lists of requirements, I think we've all seen many memes about it. They want a 6 foot jacked guy that is a rich, and all they have to offer in return for the most part is some other dude's kid. Even the other day my girl cousin who is like 300+ lbs showed me her DMs on IG full of thirsty dudes trying to take her out on a date. Some of these guys aren't even bad looking. She's my cousin and all but she's a landwhale, yet she has dudes on deck hoping to take her out, that's why the dating market is how it is these days.

We men fucked ourselves up, our thirst gave rise to all these IG models, twitch female streamers, and bitches thinking they can all get Christian Grey. Part of the problem is that these chads will fuck all these women because they don't give a fuck, so in their mind they think they can consistently pull these high level value men, so when a decent looking guy around their same SMV level is interested in them, they reject him thinking they can do better. And wanna know the worst part? In most cases, THEY CAN! There will always be another simp ready to take her, and a lot of these simps aren't even that bad looking. Women for the most part get to have their cake and eat it too. This wall shit you see around here is cope for the most part. Some end up cat ladies but most get rescued by simps.

I don't even have that much to add without starting to ramble and repeat myself, you can just read around and make your own conclusions.

MrGoodStuff05 · 2018-08-21T18:20:41+00:00

Black pill is simply delusional.

I've been told I could do commercial modeling multiple times and in fact I've modeled for a barbershop a few times and I get a hard time pulling women on my SMV bracket. Last 5 women I pulled were at least 2 points below my SMV.

And I also have my shit together. I'm very successful for my age - I make over 100k a year (STEM job) and I'm only 22. I have my own apartment, I dress and groom very well too. None of that has ever significantly helped me pull.

Women will always prefer an ugly man who sparks the feels on her instead of a hot one who comes off as boring or neutral. I've seen it multiple times. They are more attracted to character traits rather than physique.

Blaming your failures with women on your looks or money is pointless. They do not matter.

onlinehumzu · 2018-08-22T01:53:04+00:00

What does your face look like?

oytrp · 2018-08-21T18:04:17+00:00

You struggle to get dates because you are a bitch.

Stop the pity party.

JamalChic · 2018-08-21T18:04:20+00:00

What does your face look like ,though?

room_303 · 2018-08-21T18:04:30+00:00

At your age some of the teens and most of the early 20's hot girls will be having relationships with men in their 30's/40's (look up Rollos SMV chart for the sexes) -- Your smv is simply way too low at this point in your life and you will be mostly invisible as you have found, women see men in their 20's as too boyish with not enough life experience etc.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2018-08-21T19:42:44+00:00

Not every one wins dude. Someone, somewhere is always taking an L in something.

endertheend · 2018-08-22T04:25:18+00:00

OP, a lot of dudes who upvoted the post youre talking about, and upvote those kinds of black pill things are from the closed down incels subreddit, theyve long infected this sub.

Untill Mods do another round of cleaning up, it's best to look for an EC or Vanguard flair attached to any black pilled advice.

RylanBlackwood · 2018-08-21T18:48:09+00:00

Everything boils down to dominance and power. Women want to mix they're genetics with high testosterone healthy men. More muscles more power more money more power (most of the time) stronger frame more power more friends more power etc. It's not about the materialistic things that give you power, it's just about the power and the materialistic things communicate that power. Put a lad in his mid twenties against a lad in his mid thirties against each other, with equal muscle mass and financial success, the lad in his mid 20s will always win. Because he has younger healthier genetics. He will just look younger and have that slight edge.

Title	Feeling kinda depressed after reading a certain comment on my post from yesterday and I'm starting to believe in the black pill.
Author	Believeinyourflyness
Upvotes	1
Comments	23
Date	August 21, 2018 5:40 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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