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oytrp/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:26 PM
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Think of it this way. An attractive 20 year old woman can sleep around as much as she wants. So, how much sex does a unencumbered 20 year old want? For most of them, a great deal.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 01:18 AM
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Sounds like she already sees you as a friend. Next.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 05:41 PM
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That's the issue with self reporting. Take for instance the statistics on infidelity. Depending on the study, the number can vary greatly, but nothing too shocking. But then you see a study on blood tests proving men aren't the father of their children at a rate of 1 in 25. That's only the women cheating who actually got pregnant with their lover. Imagine how many are doing it and using proper contraceptives or having abortions. With information like this we KNOW the infidelity numbers HAVE to b…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:19 PM
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She lost interest before the honeymoon phase even got started. This is dead.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:11 PM
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Only slept with one guy (she is Young) and it took him a few months to fuck lol, sure. Kissed a lot of guys like 15 but did not do anything sexually with them she says Yeah, nothing sexual happened The green flags don't matter with red flags like: You've already had breakups Guy friends Exs are still in the picture Drugs
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:08 PM
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act like it's just a coincidence She'll know better. This will come off as neediness or desperation and make you not attractive. Abundance. Move on.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:04 PM
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Don't see the point in admitting. Want to absolve your guilt, go to confession.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:02 PM
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Stop treating her like a girlfriend. What you said in your first paragraph is all you need say. If she starts encroaching you don't need to waste your time talking, just soft next her. She'll get the picture and either fix up or bail. Plates break, the important thing is for you to not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:58 PM
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I already cleared the sidebar. Instead of clearing it, try reading it. Because you continually ask questions contained within it.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:55 PM
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It is the OP minus the anecdotes.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 03:54 PM
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My one submission is literally examining my own shortcoming. If you have this many shortcomings you need to stop posting and start reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:49 PM
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Great, another word you don't understand. Don't you have 10 more retarded topics to post?
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:47 PM
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Like 10 topics a day about his latest oneitis.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:46 PM
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You're using projection wrong again. Exactly what I did Yes writing a giant post trying to calculate how to interact with her is "forgetting her". hahaha
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:44 PM
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"Who said anything about sex? You have a dirty mind." I find it very hilarious that she threw it out of nowhere In tinder world, fun is code for hookup. That's why she said that.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 08:26 PM
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1st understand that AWALT. She is not a special unicorn. There are millions more like her and hotter than her. 2nd cultivate some abundance for yourself. When you know there are 3 different girls who will come over to fuck with just a phone call then you won't have this level of infatuation.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:45 PM
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Maintain eye contact doesn't mean staring contest. You don't have to make sure she breaks first. Just don't be a bitch and quickly look away when you look eyes. 5 seconds and a knowing smile is more than enough to get the point across. Then you go talk to her after class.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:40 PM
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Did anyone ask for your opinion? If not, then why bother? You gain nothing by "owning" them with your facts. Just use amused mastery. Smile and giggle to yourself while you listen to them parrot dumb talking points.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:32 PM
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Whip it out and push her head down. Or at least tell her to.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:51 PM
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Too much wasted time. Texting back and forth for 3 days? Who has time for that shit?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:48 PM
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look at the mental gymnastics you have to do for one girl. The fact is, the more you analyze and plan around one girl the less attractive you'll be. Forget about her, game other women. Then maybe one day she'll pop into your head and you send a simple message.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:41 PM
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The reward is good grades that lead to a great job and a shit ton of money. If that's not reward enough then try some meditation.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:37 PM
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Your life seems to revolve around getting laid. Find something better to do with your time.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:36 PM
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Red flags are for LTR not plates. If this is too much drama for you then soft next her. Otherwise just ignore and fuck.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:35 PM
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Your mission comes first. The Gym is for building your body, not gaming women Class is for education and hopefully a career, not gaming women Work is for work. Don't fuck it up by gaming women Feeling like you need to pursue women at these places comes from a scarcity mindset. If you had abundance you would know that there are literally millions of hot women elsewhere that you can game.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:31 PM
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What are you, crying after sex?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:24 PM
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No. She'll never tell you the real reason anyway.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:23 PM
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The date can only feel like an interview if you allow it to be. She'll naturally ask questions, just don't ever give serious answer and make light of any answers she gives. Eventually you'll riff into some more light conversation.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:27 PM
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If I was back home I'd them tell her to shut the fuck up and stop acting like a child but out here I'd be branded as a misogynistic fuck-wit for insulting a vagina-wielder like that. Worse than that, you'll be labeled a butt hurt faggot with no frame. No reason to flip out or cause a scene. Just sternly and seriously turn to them and say "hey, you're being rude" and then just carry on with what you were doing. They'll either feel embarrassed by their behavior or they'll try and start an argument…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:02 PM
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Then there's nothing to decide. Just keep politely declining.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:19 PM
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Wouldn't touch this situation. 8 years, she probably feels like family to your cousin's side of the family. Which means you can't really treat her like a plate without causing drama. Either LTR or do nothing.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:05 PM
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I wouldn't go out of my way to hang out with her. Too many other hot single women.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:51 PM
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Even ugly girls have options on dating apps. Women that are 5s and 6s are hooking up with 8s and 9s. Imagine how many options the real 8s and 9s have?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:48 PM
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Can't you walk into a bar and not drink alcohol?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:40 PM
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c'mon... don't shit where you eat. You want to fuck her because she's probably the first girl you've talked to in weeks. Stop this scarcity nonsense.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:09 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. Are you this scarce that you have to resort to gaming people at work?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:06 PM
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The negative is: Ignorance is bliss Do you want to be Neo, or be one of the happy people in the simulation never knowing any better?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:02 PM
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Love what you're doing.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:57 PM
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She's kindly telling you to fuck off. I suggest you do so. Why waste your valuable time with a person like this?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:53 PM
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Cute = he thinks I'm average. Shit. I better suck his dick good. We already went over that this is your perspective. Girls don't think cute = average. You're better off not complimenting her appearance ever unless she's in your bed.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:29 PM
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I only rub it with my pelvic bone.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:21 PM
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Since you called me a dick, yes. You care a great deal. Not sure why you're so butthurt. I applaud you for taking this approach, you're just fucking up in this one aspect. Take the criticism.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:15 PM
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OP is showing that his success is coming from his minimalist approach. "Text me" is enough "validation" to show interest but not enough where the girl thinks you're hooked or over invested. But then to follow up that with "you're cute" pretty much takes that away right off the bat.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:10 PM
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It really hasn't been a negative at all. Yeah in all of a handful attempts. SMV will trump even the biggest mistakes. Try that with higher value women and watch what happens. Do you realize how statements like that make you sound? You think I give a shit how I sound to you?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:05 PM
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It's dating, of course it improves your game Nope. Say it with me BUFFER. No approaching, the most important part of game. I night game successfully most weekends. Then why are you spending hundreds of dollars and hours on tinder? I'd like to see you try to keep a girl pipeline full week in and week out while also keeping up a high demand job, lifting, taking care of your personal shit, shopping and cooking, keeping up a non-girl social life, and still have leisure time to read and whatnot. Good…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:03 PM
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Some will take it that way for sure though so I get your point as a whole. Good, then you should realize how stupid you sound. Doesn't matter what YOU think cute means. What matters is she finds it as validation which she does not yet deserve from you.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:34 PM
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Why did you message her? Don't dig through the trash.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 02:33 PM
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Get off facebook and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 02:31 PM
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Being called cute is validation. Telling her to text you and suggesting you go out is more than enough to show your interest.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:28 PM
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The flood of pessimism and ambivalent responses is surprising. It shouldn't be. Online dating is a crutch, doesn't actually improve your smv or your game. You're just fooling yourself if you don't think this is anything more than a buffer for rejection. This sub should be steering men away from dating from a women's frame, which is exactly what Tinder and the other apps are. Essentially 100% of girls who respond to an opener will eventually go on a date with me. Fuck off with your anecdotes. If …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 01:42 PM
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I've had my time with tinder. Got laid... but it wasn't worth it. Going out and picking up women was a far far far better investment of time. As for your example, it's very simplified. Yeah that can happen but it's not the norm. Girls will literally message you begging you to come over and fuck them. Then you ask for their address and they are gone. Instead of spending hundreds of dollars on camera equipment, premium accounts, boosts (LOL), and hours upon hours using Tinder and writing about it,…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:57 PM
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They way you're doing it, yes.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 08:40 PM
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If you actually break it down it isn't a benefit, especially for you considering how much effort you put into tinder. You aren't getting equal return for your time and effort. Put in the same effort with real life game and the returns are much greater. Think about the hours swiping... how many are matches Think about the hours messaging... how many lead to dates Think about the hours dating... how many are much fatter? How many flake? How many lead no where? and ontop of all of that, tinder does…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 08:29 PM
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Well that's a pretty dumb tactic. Put the whole game plan together and apply.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 06:54 PM
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yeah, but it seems like you're just winging it. None of this really reflects any of the day game guides on here.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 06:38 PM
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This is "better"?
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:23 PM
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Don't deserve to be secure. Fix yourself and become a confident man. Lift, read and apply.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 04:22 PM
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Girls like drama. You are acting like a girl. I suggest you just put it behind you. If you must confront then be a man about it.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 03:51 PM
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Okay before I start, I’m not having a “oneitus” Wrong. Look how much you wrote about a girl you fucked one time. If you're pining for her, you'll never get her. Girls smell that shit a mile away.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 03:46 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP09/10/18 03:45 PM
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Yup. All those hours of swiping, texting, going on dates. That all could have been spent bettering yourself.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 03:37 PM
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Look at how much work you're putting into Tinder. It's not worth it. Wasting hours of time on fakes, flakes, and validation seekers. Yes you can get laid, but if you actually approach in real life, you'll find it's much more efficient. Stop being a bitch and drop the buffers.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 03:24 PM
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K
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:21 PM
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Nope. You've built some retarded straw man about walking up to randoms and grabbing them. You can lightly touch the outer arm of a stranger when in a conversation. If you think that will net you a sexual assault charge then you're just retarded.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:17 PM
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Again, you need to read the sidebar. Kino =/= randomly touching girls
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:11 PM
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I think the sub as spoken. You're firmly in the minority.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:08 PM
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Nope. If you think you don't need to initiate physical touch then you are lost. Start from the top of the sidebar friend.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 01:49 PM
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You build attraction enough you don't have to initiate physical touch. whew. Sidebar friend. I think I know why you're only banging fat single moms.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:09 PM
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My second example clearly shows a scenario where letting her initiate kino is the best option. That's never the best option. Men lead. You were a pussy and she had to take charge. The only reason this still worked was because she was a low value woman. You apply kino first and then calibrate. You start small, just touching her shoulder when making a point, hand on her back to walk by. You don't wait to start Kino, that's what timid bitches do. THEN you calibrate. Did she recoil? Did she touch me…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:02 PM
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All of this is sunk cost. Society had nothing to do with your fuck ups. Now that you've got the tools time for you to evaluate your situation. Can you right the ship?
/r/askMRP08/10/18 05:52 PM
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Not reading this wall of text. Your assertion doesn't even make sense logically. Me: Applying a brake is the most important part of stopping You: No, it's HOW you apply the brake. What? Do all the calibrating you want but you won't get laid if you don't establish kino.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:44 PM
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She can't force you to date her/be exclusive. Just keep gaming other girls and when she brings up exclusivity, shut it down.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:13 PM
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If you hype it up thinking it's going to be better, you'll probably be disappointed. If you're fucking girls properly they shouldn't be better... just easier.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:12 PM
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There is nothing to calibrate if you don't apply kino. "hierarchy for cultivating attraction" lol, wut.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:07 PM
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Yup. This is basic stuff. A&A and AM
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:04 PM
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No shit.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:00 PM
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Who said calibration wasn't necessary? Can't calibrate it if you aren't applying it at all. Hence why I find it so important.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:41 PM
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red flags are for LTR. As long as she is hot, not crazy and doesn't cause drama then you should fuck her.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:27 PM
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If banging low value women is a win for you then so be it. Your post was too much of a self-congratulatory circle jerk for the little amount of accomplishment contained therein. Hard to find any valuable take aways from your post, so I'm providing them here. You're resorting to low quality women, because you are a low quality man. Skinny, bad finances, has a kid. Can't change the last one, but you can fix the rest. Lift and get a real job.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:26 PM
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I found that Kino is THE most important aspect of game that leads to getting laid. It is absolutely essential. I'm not an affectionate person by nature so I struggled initially. But when I made a conscious effort to apply Kino it made all the difference.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:21 PM
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Like many pointed out, she's an alpha widow. every time it gets brought up The fact that her relationship with these guys has come up multiple times in 3 months is a HUGE red flag. Not LTR worthy. Demote to plate if you can.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:13 PM
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The advantage is that psychopaths can't place blame on themselves. We can recognize our shortcomings and work to improve them. Like in your example, he hamsters "Day game doesn't work" instead of "My day game doesn't work".
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:09 PM
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The difference between the two mindsets is acceptance. Incels: Are bitter about women. And whine that Life isn't fair. "Why won't they fuck me". TRP: Accept that life isn't fair, understand that women's attraction to men is based on their biology and know that any shortfall with women is their own fault.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:07 PM
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Stacie is a cardio bunny with perky tits and a nice ass Single mom has stretch marks, saggy tits and wrinkles.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:56 PM
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No. They are used up and low value. Usually post wall too. They have more options in terms of getting laid because duh, they're a woman. But they seemingly have no options when it comes to commitment. Maybe the newly separated or divorced moms are looking to get back on the CC. But the far majority are looking for their next beta bux. They throw their pussy at every interested guy because that's the only value she has at this point.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:52 PM
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Don't brag about banging desperate single moms. For girl #3, texting waaaaaaaay too much. Stop wasting your time on dating apps. Go lift and approach in real life.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:13 PM
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To be flirty just don't ever respond seriously. Tease her about what ever she is talking about. You don't really need to be sexual at all. Just be fun and keep it light. Doesn't matter what you are talking about if you're escalating physically.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:47 PM
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Good report about how to drop a plate.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/18 02:40 PM
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Yeah, but that's more for advanced lifters. Noobs should stick to compounds.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:06 PM
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Don't make using the smith machine a habit. It isolates the muscles so you don't get the full benefits of a compound lift.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:29 PM
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Why am I like this Because you're insecure and measure your self worth against others. You create the bar you need to measure up to. What everyone else is doing does not matter to you.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:27 PM
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However, I really don't know if I should try to escalate with her, because if it doesn't work she will just see me as one of her orbiters. If you don't escalate then you ARE one of her orbiters. Don't rely on others to increase your SMV.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:25 PM
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Without knowing the specifics of her rudeness, it seems like an appropriate action. Anything short of an apology and being nicer should result in a next.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:23 PM
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Why are you friends with an ex? Dumb. It's a legitimate gripe on her part. But you can do whatever you want. Just hold frame and don't DEER. When she gets pouty or gives you the silent treatment, act like everything is completely normal.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:22 PM
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What would you do in my situation? Pretend she doesn't exist and move on with my life.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:20 PM
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Projection? lol. Clearly you think it means something that it is not. Good luck with your soulmate.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:19 PM
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Poor lad. Can't accept that you bitched out and missed your shot. If you're this needy now she'll most definitely reject you and then you can never have your true love! There's this one girl...
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:43 PM
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Also, trad advice is always err on action instead of being too passive. Yeah and you blew it. You had your opportunity when you were in person. Best to now wait. You just admitted that the comfort isn't there to ask her out. And we know you can't build comfort or attraction through text. Stop with this scarcity mindset and game other women until you see her again.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:27 PM
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Can't wait two weeks? you're too invested then.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:15 PM
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You won't FEEL closer. When you were blue pilled you probably FELT that you were soulmates and loved each other unconditionally. We know that FEELING was just an illusion. Now that you know her true nature, of course you won't match that feeling again ever. But what does that matter if that feeling was fake? What's important is if the relationship is better.
/r/askMRP05/10/18 04:10 PM
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insta-date is supposed to avoid traveling. Hit the college coffee shop or cafeteria.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:07 PM
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When you care about nothing, it's a great opportunity to start anew. What do you have to lose?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:55 PM
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Do an insta-date. "want to grab a cup of coffee?" Framed this way is low pressure and isn't really seen as a date.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:53 PM
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Depends. Are you comfortable with her fucking tons of guys while you remain celibate?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:51 PM
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And? Still not evidence that it's focused on broken women.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:42 PM
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What matters is which parts help of trp help attract and keep women without daddy issues? All of it. Your assertion that it doesn't help keep women without daddy issues seems to be based on your own experience.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:41 PM
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Just saying dark triad over and over isn't evidence.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:42 PM
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Don't dig through the trash.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:41 PM
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Ok? So because you suck at internalizing and applying theories and principles you blame it on others and hamster into thinking "well I must be failing because this doesn't work with GOOD women". Think that covers it.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:40 PM
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The point is that all things uniquely advocated by trp will see success from only variously broken women. Not true at all unless you think all women are broken. This is what I posit. Without evidence.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:32 PM
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rejection.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:30 PM
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If you have any doubts it's best to just pass. Not worth it.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:29 PM
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Stop snapping and chatting with her. Set up a time to hangout and then escalate.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:28 PM
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Plates break. As soon as you start facetiming and sending texts to "check in" then you have a girlfriend. If you're attractive and fuck them good, they will come back even after 30 days.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:26 PM
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Picking girls up is the same everywhere. Be attractive. Don't be needy. Set up logistics.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:20 PM
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meh. It could seem that way when viewing TRP through the lense of the noobs who haven't progressed past the anger stage. But that's not representative of TRP in general. This perspective is like thinking the Westboro baptist church is representative of all Christianity.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:18 PM
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Literally millions of other girls you could be fucking. Why dig through your own garbage?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:12 PM
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So what's the point? Sounds like you know what to do.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:11 PM
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AWALT is a biological imperative. Culture can either repress or allow that impulse to flourish. But the imperative is always there.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:54 PM
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You don't "break up" with a plate. You are treating her and acting like she's your girlfriend. Oneitis.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:23 PM
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Yes you blew it. Move on and don't be a bitch next time.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:53 PM
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10k every other day = OP Not lifting = OP Follow along here.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 03:32 PM
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If you are looking at all around fitness We're not. We're looking at aesthetics. Yeah, you want some cardio vascular fitness just for your own well being, but a 10k every other day is just dumb, ESPECIALLY in the absence of any lifting.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 02:08 PM
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You should be serving HER with divorce papers.
/r/askMRP03/10/18 08:44 PM
0

Work capacity? Cardio is a gainz goblin. You're only hurting your lifts.
/r/askMRP03/10/18 08:34 PM
1

I’m scared that she will track me down and fuck up my marriage/kids more than it already is. Maybe you shouldn't be doing catch and release until you are not afraid of that outcome.
/r/askMRP03/10/18 08:29 PM
1

Don't waste your time with Tinder. "practicing" online doesn't prepare you for game irl. You could be don juan online, but irl you'll still have scarcity until you can flirt and attract women in person.
/r/askMRP03/10/18 06:17 PM
1

Next. Even if she is still interested she sounds like more trouble than she's worth.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:43 PM
3

"That's too bad" then next.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:41 PM
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Ignore their first message. "Hey" or whatever they send is really just and invitation for you to start the convo. But the better option is to get off bumble/tinder altogether.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:40 PM
1

Unless you think he wants to fuck you, this isn't a shit test.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:38 PM
2

One plate = girlfriend Abundance just means having options. You could literally have zero plates and still have abundance when you're a high value man.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:37 PM
1

The anger comes from people coming to the harsh realization that the world they thought they knew is completely fictional. Imagine spending years thinking the world was one way to only find out it was another way. It's very jarring when you first digest the material here. But overtime, people who take the time and get passed the anger stage, accept this truth and move forward. For most of us it even gives us a greater appreciation for women and what drives them.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:33 PM
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Ignore and keep kino to an absolute minimum. Allowing that might be giving her the idea that your down to hookup. If she ever puts herself out there and tries to make that happen, you'll have to reject her or give in to her. If you reject her she could go to HR. If you fuck her, she could go to HR. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:28 PM
1

You work for your manager. Best thing you can do is take 100% responsibility, make zero excuses and ensure it never happens again.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:25 PM
1

You come across as almost angry in your responses Sounds like projection. The crux of my advice is that he has oneitis and needs to forget about this girl. You seem to think it's okay because "he needs to start with one girl". But that's just wrong. You don't start with one girl. You better yourself to the point where you are getting IOI from women in general and know by their reaction to you that you could pull if you tried.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:23 PM
3

Treat her like you've already fucked her.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:19 PM
0

No. He's obsessing over one girl. You don't "get" the first girl by obsessing over her. He has to have abundance mentality by not caring what this girl does.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:18 PM
8

Google: James Woods girlfriend The answer is, as long as you keep your SMV high enough.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:00 PM
16

Women should not be your goal. They are just a byproduct of your success. Focus more on your mission.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:58 PM
1

AWALT. She has an allegedly low N count. Every woman lies about her N count. There are no such things as unicorns. Just because she likes bowling doesn't mean she doesn't ride the CC. The shy innocent ones sometimes have the highest N counts of all.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:23 PM
0

You can't have game with oneitis. Women are attracted to men who can have her drop out of his life and he be perfectly fine about that. Once you have the scarcity mentality and place her on a pedestal, no amount of "pick up" is going to overcome that.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:20 PM
1

Tinder is a waste of time. Filled with scam artists, validation seekers, and attention whores. Using it does absolutely nothing to help you improve yourself or your game. The hours of swiping, messaging and dating are not worth the effort to get laid. You can get laid much easier by going out and approaching.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:46 PM
1

Search TRP for: "Please break up with me".
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:43 PM
3

No. Fucking 5s and 6s doesn't help you bang 8s and 9s. If they pass your "will you fuck them" test, then go ahead. But don't purposely lowers your standards because they are easy.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:40 PM
1

Finish through oral.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:39 PM
2

The problem is your frame. Stop caring about what she thinks. You should approach sex as being for you. If she enjoys it too then so be it. If she thinks you suck, then fine, you have 10 other options anyway. Don't worry about them talking about your performance. Women don't even believe eachother when it comes to this kind of talk. You're a stud on Sunday, and a limp dick two weeks later when you haven't called her.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:37 PM
1

Take this as a sign that you need to raise your standards.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:32 PM
1

Two posts on a "plate" you've only fucked twice. Oneitis.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:29 PM
2

I don't really see that as true. In the case of Kavanaugh, it's pretty clearly a hail mary attempt to prolong the confirmation process in hopes of senate seats flipping blue.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:17 PM
6

As long as it takes for you to become an attractive man with options.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:15 PM
3

Read and understand the sidebar. After you do that, it's interesting to see RP theories put into practice and to read the discussions as to the validity of those theories.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:14 PM
6

Yup. Just own your shit and when the shoe inevitably drops you'll be on to the next one. Don't worry about "wasting" your years with them. If you accept AWALT then you know that the next one could do the same exact thing.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:10 PM
2

Read the sidebar on ASD. Just agree and keep escalating. "You're right we wouldn't want to get ahead of ourselves"... while unbuttoning her pants.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 07:42 PM
1

Do something no other guy has done with her before. Be exciting and spontaneous, do not be boring nah, be the prize. Make yourself an attractive man and the "boring" date she had with billy will be exciting and fun with chad.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 07:39 PM
1

Basically you forgot the isolate in isolate and escalate. I'm not one for PDA either. All you need to do is step out "for some air" and insist she join. She'll be much more receptive with a little more privacy. 30 minutes might be fine with a rando at a bar well into the night, but too soon for a girl you're on a date with. Talking about your sexual conquests is never a positive. It sounds like it didn't hurt you, but there is no reason to bring it up.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 07:26 PM
1

Cliffs: OP got drunk and talked to a girl.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 07:16 PM
9

The fact that she would even entertain these scenarios shows you have no boundaries and weak frame.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:28 PM
2

Going out would be better. Requires more of an investment and builds comfort and tension faster. The most important thing is that you're able to isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:24 PM
4

"You're soooo cool, guy!" Butt hurt. Just STFU and ignore or if you have to just A&A. "You're cute". -She is isn't she? and then grab her ass.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:21 PM
2

dating apps are a waste of time. Hot girls are everywhere. Bars, clubs, cafes, parks etc Go outside and meet one.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 04:50 PM
10

Well you definitely can't meet them when you are.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:22 PM
10

The best tip is to just know your shit inside and out. When you know something like the back of your hand you'll enjoy talking about it and even be happy when someone poses challenging questions. Think about something you are passionate and know a lot about. Imagine how easy it would be to talk about that topic. Turn your presentation into your momentary passion and it will feel the same way.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:21 PM
11

Can't meet girls if you are locked away in your apartment all day.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:19 PM
3

Mormon girls have some of the sluttiest reputations around. It's not that they don't have morals, it's that they are compelled by their biology to act in a way that doesn't fit with traditional moral values.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 04:22 PM
4

Only because you haven't tried it. Taking a blank slate and teaching her how to please you is an investment but worth it for a LTR.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 04:20 PM
1

Stop caring if she cheats on you or texts you back. How do you do that? By having a line of women waiting. Abundance.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:25 PM
1

Live modestly and don't talk about it. Pretty simple.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:24 PM
6

It's a valid feeling that you should listen to. Not LTR worthy.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:21 PM
3

a woman with good morals Got bad news for you...
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:11 PM
2

Every woman will cheat in the right circumstances. Maybe if her bf/husband is her first ever partner? They are less likely to cheat based on some of the studies related to pair bonding. But it can still happen. If she has opportunity to fuck chad and you've become a billy beta, she'll take it. All you can do is be the best you can be. Make her afraid to cheat on you for fear of losing you.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:10 PM
4

Optimal is 0. Whatever N count she tells you, know that it's likely much higher. All you can do is vet her for red flags and decide accordingly.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:03 PM
3

Oneitis.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 02:55 PM
1

OP, give your characters fake names. Reading V and M makes this painful.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 02:04 PM
1

Ironic. I understand that's the way life is, and act accordingly. You whine about it online and think you're an advocate.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 01:33 PM
1

Thank god for brave men like you... posting on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:59 PM
1

Your emotional reaction won't change the fact she was beaten to death. This is a sub for sexual strategy. It's for practical advice based in reality. Not this fantasy world of equality that you are talking about.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:59 PM
1

I would like fairness. I would also like to have been born to a wealthy doctor with a huge estate. Shitposting on reddit isn't advocating.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:05 PM
3

Go on a cut and do your best to keep your lifts the same. If your lifts start to dip then you're losing muscle mass.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:43 PM
2

Just pick one or two times during your day where you are generally not busy and it's convenient for you to go through your texts and respond. But more importantly, there is no such thing as text game. Just get to the logistics and stop texting.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:41 PM
2

You're the man. You're expected to always initiate and lead. You're already been in touch today, no need to make plans already. Just give it a day or so.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:20 PM
0

That's the way the world works right now. Don't like it? Run for congress or something.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:15 PM
1

You can cry about fairness all you want. I never said it was fair. Talking about the reality of the situation.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:13 PM
1

Have another apple device? ipad? old ipod?
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:59 PM
1

Just be up front with her. You have no reason to feel guilty if she knows you're fucking around and continues to stay with you.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:56 PM
48

How can I prevent it? Stop getting into LTR. Just spin plates.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:31 PM
2

talk about pseudo-intellectual.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:14 PM
2

We all know it's the truth. So what's your fucking point? That life isn't fair? Yeah, we all know that. Thanks for your insight.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:06 PM
2

Let me ask you again. When the girl gets pregnant and keeps the kid against your wishes, what do you do? There is literally nothing you can do. Either be their dad, pay the support or be a dead beat. Whining about the way of the world accomplishes nothing.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:56 PM
-2

Your question is fucking irrelevant. There is nothing you can do about her choosing to have the kid. Own YOUR shit, you can't control her. Stop being a bitch blaming everyone else for your problems. Also stop caring about down votes, embarrassing.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:42 PM
2

Not if he is a high value man.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 03:31 PM
5

With my time. Going out and doing fun things.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 03:30 PM
2

Don't know what a red flag is? Side bar is right over there. She has a sky high N-count.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 03:27 PM
2

You can't worry about other people. Handle your own shit. YOU are responsible for fertilizing her egg.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:24 PM
5

Red flags everywhere. The biggest of which is you already have oneitis. Not LTR material.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 03:20 PM
6

You're responsible for your own birth control.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 02:52 PM
2

Yeah, a little extreme but I understand the thought process. I think that's a legitimate choice to make, but if you go down that route she'll never see him as an alpha. He's a weak beta who took her back because he has no choice. Her actions have no consequences. She'll ultimately cheat again and maybe this time she'll leave him for chad and you're in the situation you mentioned above anyway.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 02:11 PM
2

That was the general consensus. Top post of the thread: I’ve found stages to be best, and telling instead of asking. For example, the first stage might be, “hey, let’s go grab some lunch.” The second stage might be, hey let’s just pick up lunch and eat it at my place... etc This has actually helped me Day game and close same day. Now where in there did he tell her "lets go fuck"? That shit doesn't work and has been talked about thousands of times on RP. Never communicate overtly with women is a …
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:03 PM
3

If you read that post then you know direct doesn't necessarily mean overt. i.e. lets take this food back to my place v.s. lets go to my place and fuck
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:55 PM
3

It won't work if you're insecure about it.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:51 PM
2

Never communicate overtly. Going out with her communicates your interest. Escalating and ultimately closing shows you want to fuck.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:48 PM
7

You have to isolate her so it's only one on one. Stop making small talk with the girl you "definitely think" likes you and take her out. As soon as chad invites her to his dorm to study you're history.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:46 PM
3

She didn't just fuck someone in the past. She married a guy, had his child (presumably) and fucked another guy. To take her back shows he can't enforce that boundary. Not being able to enforce a boundary shows you are weak. Everything you said is true, but there are somethings there are just no coming back from. If she can get away with fucking another guy while he's deployed, play "house" with him, and even introducing him to their child, then what can't she get away with?
/r/askMRP20/09/18 08:43 PM
2

Make yourself actually busy with your mission and cultivating abundance. Meet up and fuck when you want to fuck.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:24 PM
2

"HEY COME TALK TO ME" Which you didn't. So instead of seeing your lack of interest as rejection, she got her hamster to spin and decided you're a creep.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:53 PM
3

Ignoring the past as BP man and moving forward as a RP man would be a contradiction. He can't accept her back after crossing that boundary without consequence and still be RP.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 05:50 PM
5

It didn't help that you didn't approach the 1st time. "Oh look it's that creepy guy that was staring at me at the train station".
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:26 PM
7

Beta bux.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 04:13 PM
15

Asking her schedule implies that you are willing to rearrange yours or cater to her needs. If you have abundance and a "I'm the prize mentality" you should come across as a busy high value man. Offer a time that is convenient FOR YOU. If she can make it great, if not then her loss. If she is really into you, she will rearrange her whole life to make that date. If she is interested but has a legit conflict she will suggest an alternate time.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 04:12 PM
2

Doesn't sound like LTR material. As long as she isn't crazy or creating drama, I see no reason why you can't keep her as a plate. Despite saying you're not emotionally invested, the way you talk about her suggests you have a touch of oneitis, so work on your abundance.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:57 PM
1

Nope, He's waiving his interest so that she may set up a trust for his benefit. If you or her were to prevent him from receiving his share, you'd be sued with interest. The only way he literally gives up his money would be to gift it over to you/your mom where you would have to pay estate or gift tax on that money. Which clearly hasn't happened.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:44 PM
1

Is your SMV so low that you have to resort to this? If you must, the approach is the same as anyone else.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 08:42 PM
1

What now? On to the next one.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 08:31 PM
1

You know what you're getting into with a club. Loud, shitty music, crowds, over priced drinks, but with attractive women looking to get laid. With bars you can find one that's more your speed. They have loud obnixious bars, but there's also quiet pub like atmospheres as well. I wouldn't just swear off bars altogether. Find one that suits you.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:05 PM
2

The call and ghosting is what I was referring to. You were clearly giving her a bf vibe and when you showed her that you aren't she bounced because you weren't alpha enough. Girls will settle for a beta on their terms or they'll do anything for an alpha on his terms.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 06:15 PM
1

She's as good as gone. If she cared about losing you she wouldn't create drama.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 06:03 PM
1

Obviously not if she nags you about going out and then ghosts you.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:55 PM
1

Sounds like you've got a girlfriend and didn't know it.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:42 PM
1

Paying for your school and you can't even sack up? Makes it even worse.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:59 PM
1

Hmm, I see thats why everyone else disagrees with you You think I care what others think? But please man, if calling a Rugby player You're not a rugby player.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:02 PM
1

You asked a question: Am i being a pussy or not? Answer: you're being a pussy. Shouldn't ask the question if you might not like the answer.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:51 PM
1

I think your ankle is the least of your worries. You clearly have some head trauma.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:35 PM
1

A pussy and dumb. If you're worried about your "career" then don't play rugby at all. Sitting on the sideline like a bitch while your teammates are putting themselves on the line is a bitch move. So are you a bitch or not?
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:31 PM
0

And? You're either a rugby player or not. Suck it up or drop it completely.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:24 PM
0

You sound soft for a rugby player. Being uncomfortable is an integral part of the game.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:16 PM
19

If you're getting this reaction it's because they see you as beta bux.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:04 PM
2

Stop being a bitch. I got laid while driving a minivan. Girl's won't give a shit if you can own it.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:01 PM
2

It's practical if you're a busy guy who can't seem to accomplish everything he sets out to do. The only way to fit more in is to get better at what you're doing or have more time. But when Arnold was training and competing, he slept all damn day long.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:26 PM
17

Don't worry about it. First, she was an HB5. Hopefully your future pursuits will be higher than that. But also, the build up to hooking up with a date will make it easier for you to get aroused. With a hooker, it's quick and cold like business transaction. Real life won't be anything like that.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:43 PM
1

Bro I honestly didn’t feel like getting walked in on in a female only dorm either She correctly sees you as a faggot. I tried to take off her shirt anyway and she didn’t want to. It's called ASD, they all do it.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:35 PM
2

Stop being a retard. Unless your brother signed a document saying he is forfeiting his money, he is going to get his money. The contingencies you could put on would be: Annuity: He and his wife will still get the money every year Maximums: He and his wife will still the money piece by piece Time period: He and his wife will still get the money when they are allowed. There is no contingency that he can only get the money if she doesn't benefit from it. That doesn't exist. Whether you think she is…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:34 PM
2

You should write for a reality tv show. Give less fucks.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 07:41 PM
4

You let her ASD and fear of other 18 year old girls not even in the same room walking in on you stop you. She thinks of you as a pussy.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 07:39 PM
10

I’ve always figured out that there 24 hours a day. You sleep six hours and have 18 hours left. Now, I know there are some of you out there that say well, wait a minute, I sleep eight hours or nine hours. Well, then, just sleep faster, I would recommend. -Arnold
/r/askTRP18/09/18 07:18 PM
2

The money is no longer his Wrong.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:52 PM
1

It's still his money, it's just in a trust which he is a beneficiary of. You only own one third of the property. Your other siblings own the other two thirds. Unless your brother agrees to ban his own wife, she'll be there. Go ahead and "ban" her. Your brother is going to hate you and she and her lawyer are going to laugh in your face about how stupid you are for not knowing a thing about trusts/estates
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:51 PM
3

And the trust is for the benefit of....... The children including... your brother You have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 05:27 PM
1

You have no idea how trusts and inheritances work. You can't "ban" her from anything. You'll brother will still get his and she'll get hers through him.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 05:26 PM
11

It's just looks and timing. Are you good looking enough? Is she horny? Does she have the logistics to go out or have you come to her and hook up? That's it. All you have to do is not disqualify yourself by saying/doing something dumb.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:24 PM
3

Just like anything else. Isolate and escalate. The hard part is finding someone willing to meet that night.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 03:58 PM
2

Take it for what it is, a rejection. Trying to change her mind will just make you less attractive.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 03:08 PM
1

Why are you talking to broken plates?
/r/askTRP18/09/18 03:06 PM
1

the opportunity is lost forever Oh no, whatever will you do!? Do you realize this is scarcity mentality? Even if you do meet up with her she'll smell this desperation on you.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:57 PM
1

go for guys around their age more often than men in their 30s or older and that's the bottom line BECAUSE IT IS FACT Correlation does not equal causation. Of course women in that range go for men closer in range because of proximity. 23 year olds are around other 23 year olds all day at school, at low lever or entry level jobs, at the same clubs, concerts etc. Those are women who are limited in their options. Look at the lengths high value HB9 and will go to pursue an older high value man. The d…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:51 PM
2

It was her last night. She wanted a quick fuck with an attractive guy. Mission accomplished, now get out.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:39 PM
2

The two most important things for you are: Keep things light - Never talk about anything serious. Don't bother asking her about herself, she'll do that herself. Teaser her about almost anything she tells you. Never answer a question seriously. Kino - it will build the sexual tension and will naturally escalate things.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:30 PM
3

Don't tell them, show them.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:23 PM
5

Just have them invert it into a vagina instead.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:22 PM
5

Tell her you want to put this make believe shit into reality. Stop sexting and meet up.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:20 PM
2

You know what you need to do, you're just afraid to do it. You're using your upbringing as an excuse. If you want to fuck sooner, make a move sooner.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:17 PM
16

Should I be concerned? Her ex is reaching out to her and she has him on her mind. What do you think? Red flag. Also, she lied about it when you first asked. What else will she be willing to lie about? Red flag.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:14 PM
4

DNGAF doesn't mean abandon all your responsibilities and let mommy and daddy take care of you. Jesus Christ.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 02:08 PM
2

She's getting the money no matter what dumbass. Here are the two outcomes 1: She gets the money 2: She gets the money and you create drama with your family forever. Choose option 2 if if makes you FEEEELZZZZ better, but it's the illogical choice.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 01:37 PM
1

It isn't on the line. The money is going to the brother and therefore indirectly to her no matter what. Not a penny that was going to go to OP is going to her or the brother. So yeah, this is a "not my problem" situation. It's the brother's money, he married the gold digger it's his share that's in jeopardy, not OP's.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 01:35 PM
2

Changing your name doesn't change who you are. That is some autistic shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 01:32 PM
11

3rd date absolute maximum. Read up on LMR and how to get passed it.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:01 PM
1

Saying that you need to keep fucking to find the right partner is like me saying I'm going to major every subject till I find the right one You wouldn't go to EVERY city, but you'd go to a few for a frame of reference wouldn't you? You wouldn't fuck EVERY girl, but you'd experience a few for a frame of reference wouldn't you? You're all over the place and inconsistent. Instead of fucking you can just find a chick you like and be man enough to actually work shit out, she cheats then move on to an…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 08:38 PM
3

To be fair, I cant possibly expect to convey to a stranger online the betrayal I experienced. That's because you're emotional rather than logical. Pros: Nothing Cons: Strained relationship between you and your brother & family. You seem hell bent on labeling her a gold digger... okay she's a gold digger. So what? She's your brother's problem not yours. If there is any blame to be placed it's on your brother.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 08:34 PM
0

Ah, you're just a MGTOW faggot. AWALT so I'm gonna join them and contribute to the problem Blue pill thinking. AWALT is not a "problem" just a fact of life. Stop whining about it. Also, sleeping with a lot of women won't stop them from sleeping with a lot of men. Why do you feel the need to fuck around? Do you feel powerful? Cool? Successful? Incapable of pulling women so you put down those that do? Even from a pragmatic view, fucking lots of women allows one to adequately evaluate my potential …
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:24 PM
1

Cold approach doesn't have to be completely random like it's sometimes portrayed here. They'll still IOIs if they're interested during the day. See an attractive woman, make solid eye contact and smile. Does she smile back? Get flustered? Well now you know she's interested.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:07 PM
0

Going by your logic, why wouldn't you just fuck tons of women first?
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:03 PM
2

Unless your pencil is your penis, you're doing kino totally wrong. Physical touch builds sexual tension. A wooden pencil does not. In fact, it's just weird and dumb.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:02 PM
1

You just advocated for having LTR and then turn around and say "a girl is going to be a waste of time". Which is it?
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:00 PM
2

That's an advantage for you, not a detriment. Now, you're the guy with balls willing to approach outside of the bar, something they aren't used to. And yeah, that's purely insecurity. Hot girls don't just leave the house to hit the bar. The same girl you're chatting up in the bar is out at Starbucks, shopping, hanging out in the park etc. If you're attractive she will be receptive. Doesn't matter when or where.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:58 PM
1

Depends on the context. Ideally you'll be seeking out IOIs before you approach to minimize failures.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:54 PM
1

You might not have ever pulled from day game, but I guarantee your approaches are significantly less. Your lack of success is probably only from lack of trying.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:50 PM
4

Having balls is a thing to be admired, but you can overdo it. If you just float around taking rejection after rejection, it starts to become pathetic. When you realize you are getting hit with lots of rejection it's time to self reflect. You might need to dedicate more time working on yourself before you approaching more.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:42 PM
11

Probably not. Work, hobbies and lifting are more important than pussy. You can still pull outside of the bar scene but it requires more time/effort/higher SMV.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:40 PM
2

In terms of efficiency, yes. You'll get laid more often with less effort in a sexualized environment. That's what bars/clubs provide. They're all there looking to get laid. If you're just spinning plates, red flags don't really matter except crazy bitches and drama.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:33 PM
3

It has no purpose but pleasure which is what makes a man weak and no different than taking drugs and wanking your dick off. A lot more reading a head of you. Spinning plates makes you more attractive to the opposite sex. Pre-selection, + abundance mentality. Just the experience alone will be invaluable to you before settling for a LTR (if you so choose).
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:27 PM
1

Well then yeah, she might very well be a gold digger. But either way, it's not your problem. Like you said she's not entitled to any money, but she'll reap the benefits of your brother's inheritance. That has nothing to do with your share. So no matter what she is going to be profiting from your dad's passing. Banning her from the estate just is pointless, makes you look petty, and will ultimately cause more problems with your family. You're thinking emotionally because of your tragedy. If you'r…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:10 PM
7

Money makes shitty people do crazy things. I doubt she was after your father's estate when she married your brother unless your dad's fortune was well known. Seems like she's just a greedy bitch who sees an opportunity to make money. Don't really see the point in banning her. You'll probably just cause problems with your brother and she'll get her money either way if she's entitled to it. If you really don't want her there, just ask your brother directly. Say you want it to be immediate family o…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:47 PM
1

She's a broken plate. You don't even need to acknowledge her existence.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 03:13 PM
40

Don't bother telling them your age unless they ask. When they do, don't give them a straight answer: "Don't worry I'm legal". If they keep pressing then tell them the truth in a complete nonchalant way. If they shit test you after learning your age, just A&A.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 03:12 PM
1

None of this means anything. Isolate and escalate. That will tell you all you need to know.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 03:07 PM
12

You don't soft next your girlfriend. You break up or demote her to plate.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 03:04 PM
8

No. Showing pictures of you when you were unattractive will do nothing to help you get laid. They will either be indifferent or turned off.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 03:03 PM
2

I thought shit like: "she expected me to be taller and probably regrets coming here". This is an example of how someone insecure's brain works. I decided to ignore my brain and keep it completely cool. The real reason you were able to ignore your brain, keep cool and not give a fuck is because you knew you were significantly more attractive than her. Now imagine if you acted that way all the time regardless of her attractiveness.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 02:49 PM
10

Wedding band? Are you operating at dread level 11?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 02:12 PM
1

If she is even moderately attractive, then almost certainly.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 01:22 PM
1

How? By finding something more important to do with your life. You're in university, focus on your studies and finding new hobbies/clubs.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 01:20 PM
2

So many losers diagnose themselves with a bad something or other and user that as an excuse to not train. Go to a doctor and let him/her tell you something is wrong.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 08:07 PM
1

Don't blame your wife for you eating 6 slices of pizza fatass. Have your meals/ingredients prepped ahead of time. As much as I want to pick up the phone and order a pizza after a long day, I'm not going to let the chicken I took time out of my busy day to prep, go to waste.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 08:01 PM
1

I don't get it. You're already eating your cake and having it too. What more could you possibly want? To fuck a new woman EVERY night? If you're leading in the bedroom, there is no way years of sexual chemistry can be better than a 1st time with a random.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 07:58 PM
2

No. 10% is pretty low BF. If you're at 10% and not happy with your physique then you're too small and should bulk.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:42 PM
0

Doesn't matter what women make relative to men. The 35 year old man will always be at or around the most attractive he's ever been (assuming he took care of himself) And the 35 year old woman will be 10 years away from when she was at he best.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:35 PM
2

Oneitis. Scarcity. Have some self respect. You are coming off as a desperate pathetic loser. No way she wants to fuck you now. Move on.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:32 PM
1

Next. Cold approaches are always flakey, not worth the effort.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:27 PM
8

Has nothing to do with bitterness, this is just reality. Your relationship with your hypothetical wife will be based on the sum of your parts. You can get away with texting immediately occasionally, or spilling your feelings occasionally, as long as you own the rest of your shit. The name of the game is attraction. You can get away with a lot more unattractive behaviors when you have a 6 pack. But make no mistake, every time you show weakness to your wife, she will find you less attractive. If y…
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:23 PM
1

You should always lift heavy. Whether you should cut or bulk depends on how fat/lean you are.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:13 PM
3

1st one is easy: When they fuck you you give them your time. You don't do dinner, concert or whatever they want you to do until after you fuck them. 2nd one is all about how you carry yourself. If you present yourself as a high value man with options who doesn't take shit, then you will be treated as such. Do you think Tony Soprano needs to tell his bitches not to flirt with other guys?
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:56 PM
3

Stop with the pity party. Worry about things you can control/change and act to improve your life Take some medication/see a doctor
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:47 PM
4

We tend to ask questions because it shows that we are expressing genuine interest in them as a person. BUT, this doesn't make a woman attracted to you. In fact, it backfires because your interest implies that she is higher value than you. I never ask questions, because I don't really care about what they do or how their day was. All that matters is being fun and sending them on an emotional roller coaster. Just build on whatever observation or response you got from them and never be too serious.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:29 PM
6

Waiting outside for her makes you seem creepy and over invested. "Where are you going?" Same thing: seems like you intend to stalk her and are over invested. "Gotta get that money somehow" Boring and a dead end in the conversation. You went for the n-close even though she showed no interest in you whatsoever. This is a girl in your class that you'll see again, no need to force it there.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:03 PM
3

"hollow cheeks" are like the same thing as abs. Just keep getting leaner until you have them. But cheeks are the last thing you should be worried about. Your general physique and the way you carry yourself will be what attracts women to you.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 05:57 PM
1

You need to either keep looking or raise you SMV so you can attract a higher value woman.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 05:54 PM
4

They're boring and spend the bulk of their time focusing on shit that just does not matter at all. Stop thinking of women in the blue pill perspective of "being your best friend". You don't need her to focus on exciting shit that matters to you, that's what friends are for. You need to find a woman who has little or no red flags and adds value to your life. Someone that can maintain a home, and raise children. Someone who doesn't cause drama in your life and has sex with you.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 05:42 PM
2

Why are you trying to give off LTR vibes? Just be vague and say something like "I'm just taking it day by day" or "lets just have fun and see where it leads us". If she's into you she'll go along with it.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:31 PM
1

You know exactly what you need to do. You're just too much of a pussy to do it. she wanted to see my room. She wanted you to fuck her. You're the man here, you need to take the lead and initiate. Can't get laid if you don't make a move.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 01:59 PM
3

I completely disregard those numbers because women lie.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 01:53 PM
2

Just a shit test and a round about compliment. Since she said he looks like you, it's easy to just A&A. If hot guy starts to come up often in conversation, then it's a red flag.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 01:51 PM
56

I tell her there was no way she's going to find me as the name I gave her is not my actual name. It's my nickname. I tell her the reason for this is that as I was beginning a new phase in my life some time ago I decided it would be best for me to adopt a new name. Stop this retarded nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:49 PM
5

So why are you complaining about looking young? you don't look young you'll be looking older than you really are in a few years Enjoy thinking you look young while you can.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 08:55 PM
10

Whew, don't even need to read this. That much text = oneitis Definitely too desperate/needy. Move on to the next one for your own sake.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 08:40 PM
1

With that hairline you could pass for 35.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 08:36 PM
4

Yup you're fine. Just keep your mouth shut.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 08:34 PM
2

Just invite for drinks. If things are going well then move to your place.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:50 PM
1

I think slut remorse is really only a thing that happens when we hit it and quit it. They think we bounced because we don't respect them from sleeping with them so soon.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:59 PM
5

Girls that are all over you just want to fuck. When you have the opportunity and don't, they think you are going to be "clingy" and looking for a relationship. That's why you should always be closing. After you f close you will see them again unless you didn't fuck them well.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:38 PM
2

When it comes to reactive depression, the academics point to a lack of meaningfulness. Meaningful job, meaningful relationships. Sounds like you are severely lacking in the latter area.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:15 PM
2

No such thing as text game. Texting is for logistics. Get her off the phone as fast as possible and into a real life meeting.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 04:30 PM
1

If you're pretty sure she's dtf, then just come up with a good reason for her to come over. Just do better than netflix and chill.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 04:28 PM
1

It can be both. Some depression is legit, some is just self wallow and pity. If taking meds fixes the problem then it's clear the source is the former.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:37 PM
6

The point is: always be closing When you don't f close it leaves room for the woman's hamster to spin and disqualify you. Why didn't he try to fuck me? He must have been too afraid He must not be able to get it up He must not find me attractive enough He must be a loser who lives in mommy's basement.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:31 PM
3

You basically admit you want to be blue pill so just keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:27 PM
1

Today my girlfriend was acting distant and annoyed with me. I asked her what's her problem Entering her frame. If she's annoyed, that's her problem not yours. Don't even ask, just carry on as usual. I told her why I don't go You DEER'd, breaking your frame down even more The root cause here is you became an unattractive man. To fix it, you need to start owning your shit (going to class) and stop breaking frame at home.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:25 PM
2

These kind of red flags only matter for LTR. When it comes to plates you just need to make sure they aren't crazy, dirty, or create drama.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:15 PM
9

If you drink slowly, this will never happen to you. There are times where I can feel it after 3 drinks, other times I'm fine after 10. When you drink slowly you can feel where you are at and change your drinking accordingly.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:14 PM
1

Your message is too overt. Watch a movie and chill might have been plausible deniability 7 years ago, but now it's too synonymous with hooking up. Also "You trying to chill?" is totally weak. Don't ask them.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:06 PM
10

Option 1: Break up, have fun at school, meet lots of fun women Option 2: Don't break up, fuck no one while she fucks everyone
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:46 PM
6

No such thing as texting game. Build attraction in person.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:38 PM
15

It was just 2 minutes of your life. Forget it. Stop getting so drunk.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:37 PM
3

I'm sure you're just a stud muffin. But, the gym is a terrible place for pick up. Women aren't as receptive at the gym as they would be elsewhere, and it's distracting you from doing something much more important than pussy, lifting.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 08:08 PM
1

A feminine woman can't squat more than 300lbs. Less flirting, more lifting. You don't nearly have what it takes to attract a HB10 anyway.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:58 PM
1

A dime piece isn't going to be interested in a chump that can barely squat more than her. Don't shit where you eat: The gym is your sanctuary. It's for lifting only.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:49 PM
2

Telling a woman she fucked up achieves nothing. They will justify their actions and try and start an argument. What works is exactly what you did. Withdrew attention. Trust me, she can correlate her actions with you going cold, and if she cares enough, won't do it again. Confronting her only shows that you have a weak frame, that her words and actions can have an impact on you. Now it's time for you to be stoic and hit her up like nothing happened. Or hard next if you think she's not worth the h…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:42 PM
1

Dread.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:31 PM
1

I am wondering how it is with girls Have you fucked anyone yet? There is your answer
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:27 PM
1

Stop worrying about girls. The desperation exudes from you right now. Girls can smell it and will run away from you like a skunk. Stop pressuring yourself to get affection from women. Just go out, have fun, and socialize. Do you think genuine high value guys simply pick their friends from a roster? You need to get off your ass and cultivate those relationships. Join a club/fraternity, introduce yourself to cool people.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:55 PM
2

Online dating is a waste of time. Stop using it.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:48 PM
2

She's not yours... and apparently it wasn't even your turn.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:42 PM
1

If they are just plates they won't care.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:40 PM
1

Looks like an attention whore with no intention of ever meeting up.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:34 PM
1

What do you think happens in strip clubs? Don't want to be touched by one, don't go to one.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:32 PM
1

Not gonna reminisce like a little girl or anything. Then why would you keep them?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:27 PM
2

No. We're handing out the resumes. They are offering the position.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:26 PM
1

He literally just spelled out why it's the best line. There are many other lines you can do, but none of them accomplish all the things he just highlighted.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:23 PM
3

Relative to everyone else around you. You might be a 10 at comic con but a 5 in the college locker room.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:19 PM
1

No. You're pegged as an unattractive beta. Not worth the time or energy to convince her otherwise. She is not special. Have some abundance and game other women.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:16 PM
1

Always be closing. Escalate until shut down or f close.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:14 PM
1

Maybe you're just fatter or uglier now (relatively speaking)? Maybe you're not approaching girls? Maybe those years in a clingy LTR have make you give off beta vibes now?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:14 PM
276

It's not rocket science. No parental supervision + Good logistics for fucking
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:36 PM
20

You're too pushy and come off as needy. She's was into you and even suggested coffee. Should have just done that and moved to a second venue.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:11 PM
2

1: SL is just a starting program that's good for newbs. Start following it, and if you feel like you aren't getting enough work on your arms, then add some accessory lifts or change programs. 2: I was taught that mixed grip just allows for a more secure grip when doing dead lifts. It works for me but just do whatever feels comfortable.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:08 PM
1

Don't get involved with people at work. Stop texting every day. Texting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:54 PM
25

If she was interested she would have suggested another time.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:13 PM
3

This doesn't really mean anything yet. You're either her emotional tampon and her next BFF or she's into you. Just go out with her, isolate and escalate. In the future, don't ask her so many questions. It shows too much investment and makes it look like you are looking for a relationship.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:10 PM
17

Block her on instagram. What you don't know won't hurt you.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:01 PM
2

She has to care about not getting your time or attention for this to be an effective punishment.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 05:52 PM
1

Setting boundaries that don't have consequences actually prompt them to cross those boundaries. I have no doubt she'll do this every time she wants to purposely hurt you.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 04:12 PM
13

What makes her LTR material is based on your vetting and the lack of red flags. She either doesn't see you as a provider or already has one. Either way, right now she's your plate and you are her plate.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:42 PM
2

It's not a shit test. You just delegated an important responsibility to someone who isn't reliable.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:05 PM
1

Biology, natural selection, evolution etc.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:51 PM
1

By having abundance. And by knowing the truth that she only likes you at the moment. She can lose attraction as fast as she gained it.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:51 PM
2

Things to consider: Logistics - close to your place or her place (most important) Some place YOU want to go. You want a place that if the date sucks you can still have fun or game other women Place with options. A good way to build comfort is to hit multiple venues. Choosing a place with other local attractions is a good pick A place that allows for Kino. You want a place you can sit down and have moderate privacy. Avoid packed places that are standing room only.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:49 PM
7

I guess the takeaways are: Hotel Bars are easy mode Closing at last call is easy mode Having a six pack will get you laid even if you suck at game. And people wonder why we always say "Lift".
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 02:29 PM
2

I usually offer to buy them a water.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 02:27 PM
1

3x5 means nothing if you're lifting 30% your max. And I just read another one of your posts where you said you're on a calorie deficit... of course you're not gaining muscle. I normally think personal trainers/nutritionists are a waste of time, but in your case, I'll make an exception because you are lost.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:21 PM
9

Looks like you are seeing the fuckups, which is much better than all the "WHAT DID I DO WRONG :(" posts. Just keep re-calibrating, you'll find the sweet spot. The things that jumped out to me most, you already touched upon: Kino is probably THE most important thing to ramp up sexual tension. Keep practicing it and go through the progression (light touches when making a point, to hand on small of back, to hand on knee etc) and watch her receptiveness Never communicate overtly with women. There re…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 02:12 PM
1

Yes, because you lift like a bitch/you are not eating enough.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:55 PM
1

it’ll take years to see just a gain of a couple of lbs. lol, total BS. Stop being such a pussy in the gym and eat some goddamn protein.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:39 PM
1

As long as you don't care about getting laid, then okay.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:24 PM
-2

You have no understanding of the courts apparently. Under the influence =/= can't consent.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 07:43 PM
5

At a time when women are present.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 07:42 PM
4

You're just in the anger phase. Get a hold of your emotions and ask yourself: Why do you feel so entitled? You deserve nothing. No one said life is fair. Stop expecting fairness, life does not care. Deal with what you can control. Crying about your situation will not help you.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 07:38 PM
-2

Just because she blows a bac of .09 doesn't mean she can't consent.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 07:28 PM
0

You failed her shit test and cuddled all night like a good beta.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 07:09 PM
1

If fear is stopping you from doing what you want to do then you're in her frame. If you don't want to bang other women then it's irrelevant. Have kids and DGAF if it ends? Lol yeah being poor sounds awesome... We're all signing up for that when we get married. That's why it's illogical.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 07:07 PM
2

What has frame to do with this? Everything. You lost your shit because of how some irrelevant hoe thinks of you.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 07:02 PM
1

What is unknown generally becomes known. Maybe that's a good philosophy to hold as a safety measure, but I don't think it holds any truth. Most things we can never know. I go through all the hassle of extreme vetting and then want to test if she thinks her value is close enough to mine to replace me? Sunk cost fallacy. Plus, once you start operating under, "I can't do XXX because I'm afraid she'll leave me", then you're already operating in her frame. Ultimately if you're in a LTR you should be …
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:38 PM
1

We're talking about different things again. I'm not talking about a mistress that's publicly known to your LTR. That's not what a side chick is. Might as well be spinning plates at that point. You seem personally invested in this Projecting maybe?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:15 PM
1

cheating will outweigh it for a high value girl Look at you believing in unicorns. AWALT. Obviously some women have a hardline regardless of the circumstances. What's 100% wrong is your earlier assertion that cheating will prompt your LTR to also cheat. High value women will not tolerate cheating in an LTR, period. Bull. They won't tolerate it from a guy who is lower SMV than themselves. Try that shit and find out. Especially with kids... enjoy the divorce raping. Stop talking out of your ass an…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:05 PM
0

Actually the OP was suggesting the LTR would know if I read correctly. Well there was nothing in the OP, unless he posted elsewhere, I see no indication of that. Cheating does not show you as high value Being desired by women makes you high value. Whether you cheat or not is irrelevant. ultimate dread is not something you would apply in a good relationship You wouldn't NEED to apply it. Doesn't mean you couldn't apply it anyway. Even if he can she will make him suffer. 1) only if she knows about…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:51 PM
0

Dread is one of the best ways to ensure that situation doesn't happen. No one is suggesting having a side chick means your LTR knows about it. Cheating can show that you're a high value desirable man. Women will share an alpha if they have to.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:40 PM
2

Every girl will cheat in the right situation. It's just a matter of circumstance and opportunity. AWALT.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:34 PM
1

If your wife is such a fuck up, why did you put her in charge of such an important task? Delegating important tasks to the wrong person is a sign of a poor leader.
/r/askMRP10/09/18 05:31 PM
-1

Or she is probably fucking, going to fuck, or did already fuck someone else. That's true whether you have side chicks or not.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:22 PM
4

You have no frame. Why did you even ask about her BF to begin with?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:10 PM
1

Who cares? You wanted a one time thing and you got it. Who cares what she thinks?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:09 PM
40

Social media obsession is a red flag. Dump or demote
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:04 PM
8

Women don't break up unless they know they have a concrete option. Most of the cheating is just her getting her alpha fucks. They know the alpha isn't a sturdy branch to swing to. If the branch is sturdy they will break up. How often do guys cry about seeing their ex with a serious bf like a week after their break up? It's because they've been together longer than a week.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:44 PM
1

You have no idea how body fat works do you? You could be 300lbs and single digit body fat.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:25 PM
1

There's no magic cure for approach anxiety. You just have to do it. Read the sidebar and internalize RP theories. Most importantly you need to remember that this girl you're approaching isn't special, and that there is another even hotter girl around the corner.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:21 PM
1

Women like dominant strong men. Even if you are shredded at 150, you're still only 20lbs heavier than your average semi attractive woman.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:18 PM
1

Not if your BF is near single digits.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:16 PM
1

Sex God Method. Immersion is the most important aspect for me. Just get into it and the rest takes care of itself.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:10 PM
1

What matters is who you can fuck. People say you look 80 but can bang 21 year olds? Fine by me.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:09 PM
1

Why didn't you close when the vibe was right? When you don't close when they are giving you the green light, they look at you like a beta.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:06 PM
1

Height is only one aspect of your SMV.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:04 PM
1

Better to get fit and meet the woman you want rather than settle for the first woman who "likes" your profile and you inevitably get oneitis for.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:02 PM
2

I don't kino in "non-pickup settings". Isolate and then kino.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:57 PM
1

Yes. Narcissists often can't think critically about their behavior. They blame their failures on external factors outside their control. IMO, TRP theory and application is best when you are your own worst critic.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:54 PM
1

lead them to another venue before closing. Going to multiple venues in a night builds more comfort.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:52 PM
16

First of all: they don't. A lot more women have cheated and are living their relationship like nothing ever happened than the ones that "come clean" For the ones that do come clean, it's usually a last resort after several "please break up with me" cries for help.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:45 PM
6

Lesson learned: Good looks and job can help you overcome bad game.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 02:36 PM
3

tl;dr AWALT. Women like sex with high value men.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 02:22 PM
2

Advice? Just move on if she rejects.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:32 PM
1

"Hey something came up"
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:13 PM
3

FWB aren't required to check in every 4 days.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:02 PM
1

As usual, OP talks about a plate that is really a gf.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:00 PM
1

huh? She's a plate. Who cares if she's texting you or not? Do you expect her to initiate or something? That's your job as a man. As long as she answers your text when you try to fuck her there is no problem here.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:59 PM
1

You were too available which shows you aren't a high value man. She lost attraction.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:57 PM
1

Nothing worth doing is easy.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:09 PM
1

Cold approach only work if you're attractive So make yourself attractive. There are no shortcuts.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:53 PM
1

Yeah, you're right. There's nothing you can do about it. Enjoy your noodle arms forever.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:52 PM
1

Can't think of a single professional athlete who stopped lifting due to a concussion, can you? I'm sure you're just special. But seriously get another CT scan or something, that's not normal.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:28 PM
2

presently. The shy innocent ones have sneaky high n-counts. Don't be fooled.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:24 PM
0

Either you have other issues or you're just being a bitch. Can't lift due to a concussion that happened a year ago? Sounds like BS excuse.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:23 PM
1

You can't recover from a fuck up that bad. Next.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:16 PM
1

It's possible when you have no job, a personal trainer, a nutritionist, a personal chef, and steroids.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:15 PM
1

I don’t hit on women on Facebook That's a good rule to follow.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:11 PM
2

Take it as a sign to get off tinder. You'll have more success irl.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:06 PM
1

This is just a healthy dose of dread which is good news for you. Ignore her complaints, just watch how the quality and quantity of sex increases. Edit: I just saw the pics OP posted. She might just legitimately think he looks retarded.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:04 PM
1

So go try faggot. What's pathetic is looking for encouragement on a message board to send a message on facebook. Good luck.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:01 PM
3

She's not special. Just isolate and escalate like you would with any other girl. The shy ones always seem to have the most sex.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:59 PM
2

The difference between results and stagnation isn't 1-2 hours of sleep a night. Keep pushing yourself a little at a time. Drop the loser mentality that the max you can do is 2 sets. 2 sets is not enough to do shit. Do 2 sets this week and 2.5 sets next week and 3 sets the week after that. If your lifts aren't improving, then you're not improving.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:57 PM
1

The advice this far is don’t try. Why not try? Because you have oneitis Because you have scarcity mentality Because these "positive responses" you keep talking about actually mean nothing She has baggage You can make better use of your time getting off social media and gaming real women
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:53 PM
1

Why go through the charade if you don't have to? If she's down to come over then do that. Only you'll know if she's attracted enough to you and has enough comfort to do that.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:51 PM
1

No. I don't tolerate sex being used as a weapon against me, so I don't do that to others.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:47 PM
1

k. You got advice. You don't like what you heard. So you really didn't want advice. Why are you here again?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:44 PM
1

Here's the common theory on being the cheater in a dream: Being the cheater in your dream: To dream that you are the one having an affair suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You have compromised your beliefs or integrity. Sometimes the cheating may not be about your relationship, but rather a situation where you cheated or where you were being dishonest. Alternatively, your affair with someone else may be about some quality in this person that you need to incorporate or acknowledg…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:39 PM
1

Then why are you asking our permission? Did you need us to pat you on the back and tell you how she totally wants you so you'll stop being a pussy and ask her out?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:33 PM
2

I've never done well online. Always much better in real life. Then why are you wasting your time? Anyway, your photos could be better, but Tinder is just meant for low effort fucking anyway. I say use the photos, and check tinder rarely. Don't spend more than 30 minutes a week on it. If something pops up, great. Otherwise just focus on RL approaches.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:26 PM
2

You are a loser. She liked your post and you took the bait and came right back into her orbit. Get the fuck off social media.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:23 PM
1

Personally, I wouldn't waste my time. Either one on one or I'll find someone else. You're approach isn't bad if you just have a mindset of a regular night out. Just go out with the intention of having fun and game everyone; the girl, her friend other people at the bar, everyone. If you get locked in on the girl you invited out, you're going to have a bad time.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:19 PM
3

You're her orbiter. You took your shot but you either took too long or gave off beta vibes. Stop wasting your time. On to the next one.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:14 PM
1

wow, it's like you've already had sex! congrats.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:11 PM
4

Not everyone can be funny. The worst thing you can do is force it. Maybe you'll pick up a thing or two listening to comics. But the best thing you can do is to have more social interactions. Practice. The more comfortable you are in a conversation, the more quick witted you'll be. Say something funny when you think you have something funny to say, and don't force something when you don't.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:02 PM
3

I have photos of the marks and a voice recording of her admitting to it (single party consent here) so I'm safe. It's good you have that, but it's not going to help you when the next incident happens. It might stop you from being charged, but you'll still be handcuffed, thrown into a cop car and put in a holding cell for many hours. You'll deserve whatever comes next if you stay there. Even a hotel would be a better option.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:57 PM
4

Closure conversations are just for women to conclude that you're a beta and feel validated in their decision to not see you anymore. Why would you give her the rope to hang you with? Obviously you have a bad case of oneitis. This girl is not special, you just have no options. Go get some abundance with higher quality women.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:53 PM
2

Yep scarcity. You said she probably doesn't even remember you. She's a bartender and gets hit on all the time She might have a boyfriend. Stop being a desperate fuck. There are attractive women everywhere with much less baggage. Have some abundance.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:50 PM
7

You're being a bitch. I have to finish my thesis and can't lose any time to move Bullshit excuse. we just got into a big fight over something small. I yelled a lot and threw things and "menaced" her. Why the fuck are you arguing with a woman, especially an EX? Stop DEERING. You're lucky SHE didn't call the police. Guys can get locked up for just for throwing things. She's a woman, she's not going to face any consequences. You better believe that she is now going to take any opportunity to get ba…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:48 PM
3

You shouldn't have gotten butthurt about not being able to finish. This is your fuck up. Apologizing after she DEMANDS it seems weak, so best to just pretend like this whole thing never happened. Ignore any further demands. You could apply some comfort by just giving her a hug and a slap on the ass saying how excited you are for these great plans she's made for you.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:41 PM
3

Don't game women on facebook. Scarcity.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:36 PM
1

TRP theory teaches us to never communicate overtly with women. It seems OP has defined direct game in the extreme sense. I think direct game isn't saying "want to have sex?", but rather making your intentions clear and it doesn't have to be overtly. Just your gaze, demeanor, and kino is a direct approach.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 02:33 PM
9

I think you're pretty much spot on in your analysis. Posting pics with you will turn off her orbiters. This and her obsessive social media use are red flags.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 08:53 PM
4

"So what kind of drink are you going to buy me." "How about a water with ice?"
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:42 PM
5

You're clearly just trying to spin your hamster to justify fucking this fat bitch. You don't need my permission to fuck fatties.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:38 PM
2

You make it sound like you're doing very well. If you're banking 25k per year, you can afford a 12k pay cut without even changing your spending habits at all.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:28 PM
2

Anything other than hell yes is a no. If she's interested she would propose another time. You can either just next her or hit her up one last time like a week later.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:27 PM
35

She's getting laid, you're not. Stop wasting your time and energy. Next.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:45 PM
11

You're being retarded. Want a challenge, go fuck some HB9s.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:40 PM
1

The more you eat the more energy you'll have to lift.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 06:23 PM
3

Wouldn't be surprised if she already is.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 06:21 PM
11

No. Her rationale will be: I landed a 7 when I was a 4, now that I'm an 8 I can land a 9.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:18 PM
2

She doesn't want sex with you because she's getting regular dick from Chad. This woman is making you a cuck and adds no value to your life. As to your questions: Conflict is a two way street. Don't engage and there is no conflict, just her yelling at you and you not giving a fuck If these deals are so financially important to you then move.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:15 PM
9

Don't bother. The fatties who get hot always branch swing. So many fat mom's suddenly wake up and lose the weight in their 40s and cheat on their beta providers.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:06 PM
2

1: We all have moments we look back on and cringe. All of us. What's the point of harping on it? Can't change it. Just learn from it. 2: If you still want oneitis, then you haven't even begun to take the pill. AWALT, there are no unicorns. This is fundamental. You will go nowhere if you can't accept this. 3: Sounds like you're asking if it's okay to stop trying to improve yourself. The answer is no. You don't have to take everything you read as gospel but more reading can only make you better. Q…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:04 PM
6

Stop seeking the validation of others.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:58 PM
54

Just treat it like a shit test. A&A or playfully suggest you're not going to be friends. If she really doesn't find you attractive then it's a lost cause anyway.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:56 PM
8

You're the man and are expected to lead. Act accordingly. Taking initiative and seeing her when YOU want to see her is very different than having scarcity and seeming desperate.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:54 PM
2

No it isn't. Unless you were blowing your boss, your next salary shouldn't be abysmal. Before you even look at cutting back on your expenses, look at your savings.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:49 PM
2

It's not difficult to determine. Your Expenses are X You need Savings of Y Based on that you can figure out what is the minimum salary you need.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:26 PM
1

No. You should have been stoic and not cared that she was mad at you. Instead you showed that you have no frame and got butthurt.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:43 PM
2

Wtf? You don't need to "open up" to people regarding physical pain. What the fuck are they going to do, cradle you in their arms while you cry?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:40 PM
1

Great, more girl-friends. All the gossip, and venting and none of the sex. Awesome.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:38 PM
1

Either move on or try again in a week or so. A better approach would be to invite her to do something interesting you are already doing with or without her. She can "meet" or "hangout" with any dude at anytime. But planning a specific activity shows her that she might actually enjoy herself and that you can LEAD.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:36 PM
1

Cold approaching during the day is a numbers game. One girl an hour is ridiculous. Need to find a better venue to day game.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:28 PM
0

Not reading all this shit. You have oneitis.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:24 PM
2

Recognize and remember it as a huge red flag and remove any thoughts of commitment from your mind. Otherwise, just listen and appear nonjudgmental so you can keep plating her.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:22 PM
0

No. Breaking a dry spell is one thing. Making a habit of it is another. Fucking 5s doesn't help you fuck 8s.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:20 PM
1

Did you fuck her yet? Seems like you are rewarding her with your time without her earning it.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:18 PM
1

Why would you want a friendship with a woman? I understand the benefits of using her social circle to meet more women, but then you're not really her friend. You're using her.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:13 PM
1

Just agree and amplify. Where I'm from, friends fuck with and make fun of each other. I would probably make the same jokes, even though I would certainly bang an 18 year old. So maybe they are just fucking with you, maybe they are legitimately appalled, maybe they are jealous. Doesn't matter. Just don't care what they think.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:09 PM
1

You attract more flies with honey than vinegar. Being "the asshole" might help you get laid at the bar, but it won't help your professional life. You need to learn to turn it on and off.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:04 PM
2

I don't feel like fucking a married chick with 2 kids. Then why the fuck would you?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:02 PM
2

You need to work on your frame. He thinks he's better than you? Ha, who cares what he thinks? Lions don't concern themselves with the opinions of sheep.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:57 PM
1

Just set something up. "You can't leave XXX without first seeing YYY"
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:54 PM
2

If you're already financially set as you bragged about, then why does it matter if you quit the job you hate and get another job that you like which pays less? Stop being a bitch.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:52 PM
1

Same as anywhere else. Approach women you want to fuck.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:48 PM
2

The whole point of plates is that you don't have to put much effort into them. Just meet girls, have sex and keep in touch every so often. There will be times where the plates break one after another, and there will be times where you look at your phone and realize 3 girls are hitting you up on the same day.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:44 PM
7

SMV is more than just your body. If you can't attract women that you THINK are the same SMV as you then you your SMV isn't nearly as high as you think it is. You either aren't approaching enough, failing shit-tests, or just give off a beta vibe.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:39 PM
24

You've just been a lump of shit floating through life. Not taking care of yourself, Still haven't finished school, Still at home, Not gaming women. Changing jobs won't fix anything. If you got your dream job tomorrow, you'll still collapse into the fetal position because you're a bitch. Work on what you have right now. Prove that you can do SOMETHING before you change ships yet again. Start small. Accomplish easy tasks and build up to greater ones. Take the same mentality that got you to lose 50…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:33 PM
10

It happens to the best of us when we're young. He'll see the light when he finds out she is fucking the next desperate 20 something that smiles at her.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 02:24 PM
39

Treating a whore like a princess is a Pretty Woman blue pill fantasy.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:38 PM
4

Stop being a pussy and say you don't want to see her anymore. Don't worry, she'll be fucking someone else by Friday.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:16 PM
1

'* Given your woe is me attitude and your complete laziness, Fixed.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 07:39 PM
2

Why doesn’t she show interest though? I’m not all oneitis about her since I’m spinning plates but what gives? Spinning plates, and yet you do have oneitis for her. Stop giving a shit about her.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:32 PM
-1

It's like any other business. Is it filling a need? Does it have Niche or broad appeal? What separates you from competition? Quality? Price? How profitable will it be? This all starts with asking yourself if you're skilled and competent enough to accomplish this.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:29 PM
36

Pick you up at 8.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:26 PM
16

She's a woman, you'll get taken to the cleaners no matter what her profession is. Cliffs: Don't get married.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:25 PM
5

Track your calories and eat a shit ton. If you're still having problem follow GOMAD (gallon of milk a day).
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:23 PM
1

Sidebar......... Just pick a recommended program and bust your ass. Watch some videos on proper form if you're a real noob.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:22 PM
2

I explained my reasoning pretty clearly. He's putting in a lot of effort for little return. Hours swiping right, Hours messaging, and Hours going on at least 3 dates before getting laid... And his prize? Some HB5 you wouldn't fuck if they paid you. He's been working out for a year and has made little to no progress. Tell me, where would he be if he went monk mode and really lifted and dieted? He would be banging HB7s with ease months ago. Fucking all the 4s and 5s in the world isn't going to hel…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 06:20 PM
58

Just hanging out at 2AM. whew.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 05:34 PM
8

Your frame is terrible if a couple of HOMELESS guys can rattle you. They are fucking homeless! They sleep in their own piss. Who gives a fuck what they think or say?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:28 PM
1

You dont even know what his gym schedule is my bro I know he's still a fat piece of shit after working out for over a year. So I know it's not good enough. This body shaming got you riled up I see.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 05:27 PM
1

Picking fatties up off the floor isn't practicing game. Want to hit in the big leagues? Practice hitting 95 mph fastballs, Not soft toss.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 05:23 PM
-2

In moderation. You can pick out the dudes that are just so happy to be out in public with their gf. A sure sign of oneitis. Escalating and capitalizing on a moment is fine.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:18 PM
4

It's all in how you deliver the message. Calmly looking at her and saying "you're being rude". Is better than whining "why are you being so rude to me". The real trick is after you call them out, they will often want to engage in an argument. Don't DEER.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:16 PM
2

Eventually you will get to a point where other people's motives do not matter. Does she love me for being me? Does she love me for being successful, and attractive? Well if you make yourself successful and attractive, then she is loving you for being you.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:10 PM
3

OP doesn't need to specifically spell out dread for it to be dread. He stated he wanted her on the back burner in case his current girlfriend doesn’t work out. Yeah, that's what dread is. Keeping an abundance mentality and keeping your LTR on notice.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:10 PM
0

Don't bang them because you are desperate. Bang them because you want to.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:08 PM
2

Stop moralizing fag. Besides, OP said he doesn't plan on getting with her. Gaming other women (even without intent of cheating) is an important part of dread.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:05 PM
1

(who is exceptional in bed, and who i dont want to lose) Your problem is in your first sentence. You're putting her on a pedestal and are afraid to lose her. She knows or can sense this and that makes you unattractive. Act like a man who can walk away from her bullshit and she'll change really quick.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:02 PM
2

Brother, you have a lot to learn. They CAN be common if you put yourself in the right situations.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:59 PM
1

Yes. Why are you talking to her if you're not in a LDR?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:55 PM
1

Yup. Which is why we say "always assume attraction". You'll act as confidently as you do with the 8s and 9s that you know are into you.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:54 PM
1

Doesn't matter how much of a baby face you have if you lift and get big.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:51 PM
1

You've been looking for red flags... you've found one, a big one. Not only that but she lied to you about it. You would be crazy to keep her as a LTR.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:47 PM
2

Just put 12k a year into the stock market.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:43 PM
1

Your scarcity mentality is making you afraid of losing this plate. Don't want exclusivity, then don't give it. If she wants to walk, see ya later.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:41 PM
1

I think you're making this too complicated. Treat her like a kid. She's sad because you're not around just say "aw there there and give her a hug and a kiss", then go about your business. A little comfort might go a long way.
/r/askMRP04/09/18 07:44 PM
1

Don't forget to paternity test.
/r/askMRP04/09/18 07:37 PM
1

The increased respect and attention from people should be reward enough. Once you notice it, you'll be even more committed.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:43 PM
1

Porn provides zero value to you. In fact, it's very arguable that it is a net negative. Try not watch it ever.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:41 PM
3

Check out the married red pill. Lots of good info there. What the good relationships have in common: The Men take care of their shit. They have good careers and work hard at it. They make sure their house is in order. And most importantly they lift and stay in shape. If you don't do all of the above, your LTR will get resentful, naggy or even straight up branch swing. The Men Lead. It's not enough to just take care of their own shit, they have to lead the family. Making sure your house is in ord…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:37 PM
1

No. Going out of your way to explain you were partying with girls overtly is too try hard. She sees right through that.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:23 PM
2

After you stop cool off and then re-escalating fails a few times, get her going hot and heavy and then just abruptly stop. This happened to me where I was already fingering her for awhile trying to escalate to fclose. "Lets go to the bedroom" ignores me Later after really warming her up: "I'm going to fuck you" She says: "Fuck me with your fingers" After a minute or two I said "Maybe we should call it a night". She is pouty and says "fine". When I start to put on my shoes she stops me and says "…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:17 PM
1

Act like you've been there before aka abundance mentality. Being thirsty is the quickest turn off.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:05 PM
1

As long as it's legal, do whatever you want. There are guys out there who prey on HS girls because they have a scarcity mentality and can't compete in College.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:01 PM
4

Just take a minute to appreciate the abundance of hot girls You could approach 10 a day and still have hundreds you've never met by the end of the year. If one of these chicks isn't interested, there are literally a thousand more you can approach.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:54 PM
2

The point is to never argue with women. Was she actually arguing with you or asking a question/trying to save you money?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:40 PM
0

If you don't care about who you fuck then just go gay, you can get laid on the subway. If you want to bang someone that weighs less than you and doesn't have facial hair, maybe wait and work on yourself until you're ready to play.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 01:47 PM
141

Any girl hiding her body is telling you she is fat. You were not catfished.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 09:08 PM
16

Bench Press Squat Racks Plenty of free weights/bars Good to go.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:20 PM
5

Don't respond at all. Flake seeking validation. Next time, just say you are doing XYZ (whether she comes or not) and she should join you.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 06:00 PM
8

Could be such a good thing You need to read the sidebar. There are no unicorns. She is just like everyone else. The only difference is her alleged low n-count. You can find a girl with a low n-count in your 30s after you are more experienced. Repeat this over and over in your head: She is not special.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:54 PM
11

That's when he's at his highest SMV and can then select the highest SMV partner possible.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 03:48 PM
3

Your mission always comes first. That being said, if you have a golden opportunity to game that won't hinder the pursuit of your mission then don't walk away from it either.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 03:46 PM
20

AWALT. The "good girl" isn't a unicorn. Also, you're 26... no need to be vetting for marriage at this moment (if ever). Go back and find the virgin when you're in your 30s.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 03:33 PM
14

Taking a tinder thot to dinner? C'mon OP.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 03:12 PM
1

Cons: Dude gets pissed at you, calls you a liar, forger, jealous etc. Things get awkward at work Pros: ???? Maybe you feel good about yourself?
/r/askTRP31/08/18 03:10 PM
1

I believe this wasn't in the sidebar. Side bar explains you should shoot for an "Insta-date", i.e. immediately suggest coffee or drinks after hitting it off. Guess you have some re-reading to do.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 03:06 PM
2

Amused mastery. Just smile and chuckle to yourself knowing that she is bullshitting. Literally no reason to be mad at all. People lie to protect their egos, reputation... whatever.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 01:45 PM
1

With a day time cold approach you have to do a public meeting before inviting to your home. This didn't seem weird to you while you were suggesting it? Come on man.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 01:43 PM
3

Because you're not approaching women. You're not escalating. If you don't do those things you can't close. Stop being a pussy and approach.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 01:39 PM
4

She's a single mom. She'll fuck you for free.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 01:37 PM
2

Grats on facilitating your own cucking. Did you ask him to film it so you can jerk off later?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 01:34 PM
2

Same rules apply. Not all red flags are apparent from the beginning. Did the sex dry up after the honey moon phase? Is she making new guy friends at work? Did she go through a depressive episode? You read about all these red flags and more... on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:37 PM
3

Who cares if they are happy for you? The only question you need to ask yourself: Do they add value to my life?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:35 PM
3

The balance is based on the individual and their mission. The short answer is: As much time as you want as long as the time and effort you are putting into gaming women isn't hurting your mission.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:31 PM
1

Yeah... you went from this: You need to complete 4 years in Sherlock Home Institute of Forensic Science to ask couple of questions to see if things are adding up? To now admitting that asking a couple of questions isn't good enough to see if "things add up". Don't know what imaginary world you're in where someone is "screaming for her head". Like I first said, calling the police for her and watching her actions is a lot better tell then going "oh honey, how much did you have to drink". The latte…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:27 PM
1

what? The topic is the time and place you want to meet. If you're asking for help on how to have a conversation once you go out then you're already in over your head.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:21 PM
2

It's just a mental hurdle. It's really no different than if she were solo.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:18 PM
1

Texting is for logistics. Set up a meeting.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:16 PM
1

The side bar can explain it better than I can. Cliffs: No red flags, low N-count
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:14 PM
1

She was at a party and fucked him. Maybe there's a 10% chance they texted after that and if they did she would have deleted it by now. See how this isn't so simple?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:12 PM
11

What worked for me is being tasked based. Start with small tasks and the momentum of feeling accomplished led me to accomplish more. That's why lots of self-help people say the most important thing you can do is make your bed. Seeing things on paper and planning out my day stops me from just drifting toward being nonproductive.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:11 PM
1

What were you drinking? How much? Why were you drinking so much? She could answer all of those questions truthfully or dishonestly and you still have no idea if she was raped. What are you talking about?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:07 PM
1

No need to be all dramatic. Ask her again to go out 1 on 1. If she says no just say ok and never talk to her again. Remember: anything less than hell yes is a no.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:02 PM
1

You don't have to be a detective to know if she is lying or not. Been reading TRP long? Then you know their hamsters can spin overdrive to the point where they believe their own lies.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 07:59 PM
2

I'd get on the phone and call the cops myself. If she rips the phone out of my hand then I know it's BS.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 07:58 PM
9

Second this. I don’t feel myself around her. Then be yourself around her. She don't like it? Tough. Are you scared she's going to yell at you?? awww I’ve lost loads of my hobbies - No freedom Stop being a bitch and she'll stop treating you like one. Do whatever hobbies you want. paying a mortgage stops me from going (been together since 16) travelling and having fun Whose the retard that bought a house he can't afford? The problem isn't your GF, it's you. You're being a pussy and letting her wal…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 07:51 PM
1

You're already behind the 8ball. If you were actually leading this would be a non-starter. She would have asked permission and you could have just shut it down. So now your option is to let your LTR who views you as much less than a captain to be far away unsupervised. She'll be on a new cock before Wednesday. Abort.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 07:42 PM
1

Then it's all good. You don't need permission from us. Just be careful not to lower your standards just for the sake of getting laid.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 06:48 PM
1

Like you mentioned, that love doesn't exist. The love I'm talking about, is real love. How did you deal with learning Santa Clause isn't real? It's your husband's job to teach your son how to be a man. Just let him do that and don't impose the blue pill fantasy of how he should treat women.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 06:47 PM
7

Would you hit on her and take her back to your place if you saw her in a bar on a random Saturday Night? Or are you just desperate?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:52 PM
3

Lame. Just mention something about their pictures or bio, something that is essentially questioning their worth.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:49 PM
3

Meet at a location near their place. When it's time to split, just make an excuse to see her place. Mention something you guys talked about during the night. "I want to meet your dog". "You should show me this espresso machine you were bragging about". Whatever. It could be something as simple as "Hey, don't you live close to here?" When that fails I usually suggest "Talking" in my car, but I guess you're just screwed. Don't underestimate logistics.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:46 PM
1

That is your true love. Your love is based on the merits and ability of your partner. There's nothing wrong with that. Being self aware just means you might have better impulse control and not branch swing to the first alpha that smiles at you. But even just having the initial urge means there is something deficient in your relationship anyway.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:41 PM
2

How do you adjust to the fall becoming winter? You put a jacket on because this is your new reality. Pretending it's not cold won't stop you from getting hypothermia.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:32 PM
2

Never bring it up. Let her do that.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:03 PM
37

Just keep working on you but don't ignore iois. If you're hot enough, they'll make it easy for you.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:02 PM
7

The interviewer just confirmed that you're too much of a bitch to work for them. Grow thicker skin OP. That's a legitimate and important question.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:59 PM
2

Yes and yes. If she lets you go in raw, others have gone in too. Not worth losing your dick over.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:58 PM
2

Possibilities: Branch swinging Giving you crumbs to keep getting validation from you Using you to make BF jealous
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:52 PM
1

It only back fires if you take the advice literally and never text anything other than time and locations to meet up.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:48 PM
1

You don't tell women you are interested in them, you show them by escalating. In your case it's already too late. You've been in her orbit so long you've already completed several full rotations. Kill the oneitis. Next.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:40 PM
3

NEXT. If you lay good pipe, she'll hit you up when she's on break.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:29 PM
1

Keep reading the sidebar. Accept that AWALT. Get some abundance. viola, you're cured.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:27 PM
1

Because this place is mostly filled with social retards. The internet is the only way they can communicate with girls.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:25 PM
1

Worst thing you can be to a girl is boring. Always be closing. Escalate.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:23 PM
2

You already have oneitis. He did you a favor. Read the damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:21 PM
4

You don't. If she texts you, you can text back. But consistently checking in just to keep her interest is needy and pathetic. It screams "you're my only option so please don't fuck anyone while I'm gone".
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:16 PM
2

"If you make it worth my while". If she's available when you want and fucking you good you still need to reward her with your attention from time to time.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:14 PM
1

TLDR; Girl looked at OP. OP did nothing.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:12 PM
2

Depends on what you're talking about. Matches to lays? N-Close to lays? Dates to Lays? Those ratios are all going to be low, except dates. Once you get them out on a "date" it should be pretty much 1:1 unless you fuck it up.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:06 PM
2

Read: How to win friends and influence people.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:03 PM
1

After you've k closed and given her the tingles.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 01:59 PM
3

Sounds like you have a girlfriend, not a plate. Yes you have oneitis. How does having a LDR add value to your life? You'll just pine for her and she'll be riding cocks. Tell her it's been fun, but an LDR is not fair to either of you. Reconnect when she's back in town.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 01:57 PM
1

pop a little is one thing, but it sounds like OP spends a significant amount of time gaming these ugly chicks.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 01:53 PM
0

I thought fat dudes were supposed to be jolly? Take the criticism, stop being a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 01:49 PM
1

He's still obese. So unless he was 500lbs, 2 years is enough time to get in great shape even at 280. Maybe he's spending too much time gaming HB5s and not enough time in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 01:47 PM
2

What's a better use of his time? Fucking HB5s? or working on himself? He's spending days texting these girls and then going on a minimum of 3 dates before he even whiffs pussy. That's a lot of hours in the gym/on the treadmill.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 01:45 PM
1

Maybe this is worth it for you fat dudes out there. But for anyone with decent SMV this is just a waste of time. literally days of messages to just maybe go on a date. Spend your time lifting, reading, anything of value.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 01:41 PM
3

I just forced myself to consciously do it. Read the side bar on KINO. You start small, just occasionally touching a shoulder at first. When you realize how receptive they are to your touch you'll want to apply more KINO. If you're getting shut down consistently then you need to look in the mirror and make yourself more attractive.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 01:11 PM
1

Now days it seems quite properous no? No. Maybe relative to the 90s but not relative to any 1st world countries. You're conflating USSR with Russia. They aren't communist anymore.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 09:01 PM
3

Think you need to read up on Russia mate. Men were especially oppressed during and right after the revolution. Everyone is oppressed over there.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:54 PM
2

Retarded opinion aside, it beats having your dick turn into a toad. Then you can't fuck anyone anyway.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:29 PM
6

So don't fuck the ones with short hair. Plenty of thick girls with long hair.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:27 PM
1

That's what your education is for. I guess you were fucking around? It's never too late to start though, you'll just be behind. Study something that interests you and that you can make money in.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:25 PM
1

Bullshit cop-out excuse. A dude with MS that became a body builder was on the frontpage last week. You're being a bitch and a bitch is how you will be treated.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:24 PM
1

But almost everyone can be attractive. Lift. Get big and shredded.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:14 PM
9

Stop being a pussy.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:03 PM
3

Because Russia was endgame communism. The oppression never ends. It starts with the rich and continues to attack new oppressors until there is no one left and the system breaks.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:01 PM
1

The trick is to find a job that you won't ever want to retire from. Alternatives to that is: Work your ass off and make a ton of money short term and retire early Live frugally, accumulate modest wealth and move to an area with very low COL.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:59 PM
7

KINO. When it comes to getting laid, this made the biggest difference for me. Apply Kino and keep escalating.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:55 PM
1

Not if you're attractive. Read up on kino, you don't start by putting your hand on her thigh. You work up to it. When you casually put your hand on her shoulder you'll know based on her reaction if you can take the next step.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:53 PM
1

By touching her. Kino Escalate and gauge her reaction. Keep going until you are rejected.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:38 PM
1

How you crack them is by not being intimidated by them. Treat them as you would the waitress or nurse... like a little girl.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:37 PM
8

Tears make the best lube.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:52 PM
1

To gain respect, you have to earn respect. Just keep taking the arrows without getting butthurt. Make your mark on the community somehow and they'll respect you.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:59 PM
3

lol, you look fine. My neck is a red mess after I shave. That is nothing.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:56 PM
6

I put my hand on her knee - she doesn't move I kiss her - she kisses back What's so hard about this? Just escalate until you are shot down.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:54 PM
2

Yes. Life is fucking hard. If it was easy, everyone would be Jeff Bezos. You're an adult and can build your own future. Being a bitch wallowing in self-pity will only ensure your life sucks.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:51 PM
2

Want a companion? Get a dog. Women are for fun and sex.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:49 PM
2

No. It's your life, do your own research.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:47 PM
4

You're probably a coward. If you are remotely attractive, and approach women that you are attracted to, you will eventually have sex. Stop being afraid. Is rejection really worse than taking your life?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:46 PM
1

She sees you for what you are: a loser. Stop being a loser and she'll start to be attracted to you. How to not be a loser: Take care of your shit
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:43 PM
4

Stop treating her like a unicorn. I can't think of a bigger red flag than being diagnosed autism. Have you researched the sexual habits of women with autism? It's not good. There are low n-count and virgins out there if you make an effort to find them.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:41 PM
11

Eye contact = attention. This is much better than the alternative (indifference).
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:35 PM
5

Not really. All the feminists and equality junkies quickly drop the act once they meet a true alpha. They are feminists so long as it is trendy. Very little upside (especially since you intend to LTR) given that she is a literal retard.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:34 PM
4

Don't over think it. maybe she is already fucking someone else. maybe she thinks you're ugly. Once you sent that text you shouldn't even think about her again until she texts you back.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:31 PM
13

I've never known an alpha to have such scarcity that he would even consider dating a woman with autism.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:21 PM
1

Just have fun and stop giving a fuck what people think about your dancing.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:19 PM
1

Game just like you would anyone else. It's more difficult to pick up IOIs but just assume attraction and escalate until you get shot down.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:18 PM
1

I don't get the whole confrontation. Who cares what Bob thinks about you? Let him think and say what he wants. Why end your night early?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 03:36 PM
2

You turned into a slob and she found a better mate. Yes, women are really like that. That's why being married is TRP on hard mode. Have to always stay on top of your game.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:26 PM
3

not really an option when you're fucking several new plates a month. STDs
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:17 PM
3

Just don't jerk off to your own supply.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:12 PM
3

It's a matter of personal preference. All of us want to bang 9s, but if your SMV is a 6 then it's going to be a while before you're able to do that. Personally, I treat all women the same. I game everyone. If they pass the boner test, then I'll escalate.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:08 PM
5

There's truth to that. And you also have to consider that the 180k job will lead to a 250k job. But if you're just worried about social life, I'll say that a lot of the jobs I had with crazy hours had excellent office relationships. When you work that much with each other you become a family. Lots of happy hours, fun on business trips, company softball games and picnics etc... Of course YMMV depending on the company and their corporate culture.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:06 PM
4

I either give a made up silly answer or I just frame my actual profession in a humorous way. Finance: "I spend other peoples money" Teacher: "I am a child wrangler" you get the idea.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:01 PM
2

I've been in a similar situation and chose the easy commute and shorter hours. The change in pay wasn't that drastic though. I guess it would depend on if it's a 100k job vs a 50k job or a 180k job vs 90k job. i.e. would you be very comfortable with the 50% salary anyway?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:58 PM
1

This is just some dread making her hamster spin. It's a good thing. Don't engage with her seriously.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:53 PM
1

You need to escalate. Kino. Start with non-nonchalant touching of her shoulder then work your way up to putting your hand on her knee. No resistance? Go in for the kiss first chance you get and keep escalating from there.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:51 PM
4

It means you're a harmless little man. Does that sound like someone women are attracted to?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:46 PM
1

Plates are for fun and sex not for feelz.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:45 PM
1

Why is she your only option?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:43 PM
7

Show me a community that doesn't have some racists in it.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:42 PM
1

In the work place you overcome by being right, making new profound insights or getting praise from those even higher.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:41 PM
3

Depends on a lot of factors. Is it a job you enjoy? When you're doing something that you believe in, you'll find that 70 hours is nothing. The kind of job that you love so much that you're doing it in your off time anyway. And, what's the alternative? Is it a similar 40 hour job that pays 75% that amount? Or being a waiter working 20 hours a week making 25%?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:40 PM
0

You sound like a nice guy. Why are you giving out your number? You're supposed to take their number.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:36 PM
2

Build real confidence. Get the physique you want by lifting Get the success you want by putting in the time and effort.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:59 PM
4

You don't need a social circle of young 20 somethings to fuck them. All you need is a car and a popular bar/club.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:58 PM
1

A lot of people have already hit on the more in-depth reasons to avoid it. That's all true, but it's really simpler than that. IT'S A WASTE OF TIME It provides no value to you whatsoever. Time that could be spent, reading the sidebar, lifting, gaming women, participating in a hobby, etc. is instead spent staring at a screen with your dick in your hand. And what you think is only a few minutes of watching, invariably ends up being much longer. One video leads to the next one and before you know i…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 06:31 PM
12

Yup. She did you a favor. No where in your head did you think about your job if this goes wrong?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 06:16 PM
1

You let her wear the rings you gave her while she fucks stumpy?
/r/askMRP28/08/18 04:00 PM
1

Just block and move on with your life. You can find an easy lay at just about any popular bar late at night. Remember: abundance
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:55 PM
1

You don't make girls attracted to you by speaking well and making comments in class. That doesn't matter at all. You need to approach outside of class and escalate.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:48 PM
1

I already did. Don't give bitches second chances. If she was too sloppy to fuck that night, just next her and move on. Redflags abound.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:47 PM
1

Good. just use common sense. Stumbling/slurring/getting sick are all pretty obvious situations to walk away from.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:37 PM
1

You demonstrated that you do not have abundance, which means to her that you were not as high value as she thought you were. You also aren't doing yourself any favors by having hours of pillow talk.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:35 PM
1

Be more attractive. Have better pictures.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:32 PM
1

Just because she has a .09 BAC doesn't mean she can't consent.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:31 PM
2

Next this dirty embarrassment. You have serious scarcity mentality for even entertaining the idea of going out on a date with her after this.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:26 PM
1

Just ignore everything a woman ever puts in their dating profile. They all want the same thing: a high value man.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:21 PM
1

Trust your gut. At 3 months you can dump her just for looking at you wrong.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:20 PM
3

Learn on someone you can fuck. Context is everything. Your entire interaction is meaningless when there is no chance to fuck.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:16 PM
1

You want the girl to think of you as an alpha. You want her to submit to you and have wild uninhibited sex. If she's actively cheating/being shitty, then she does not see you as an alpha and will either bail on you or use you as a piggy bank.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:12 PM
1

It's really dumb to have the logistics and not use it. That being said, I have bad logistics and always go to their place. Pretty simple. But the longer you spin the plate without bringing them over, the more likely they'll start to give you shit about having a girlfriend or being married. You'll probably have to placate them eventually.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:09 PM
1

You can never be 100% safe. The tatted up biker chick you met at the bar could have an STD, and so could the conservative librarian you met. AWALT Always wear protection. Get checked regularly. That's all you can do.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:59 PM
0

Stop worrying about their orgasms. Your performance anxiety only makes you worse at it.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:56 PM
1

Lift and be attractive. The rest works itself out.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:55 PM
2

Who cares about your response? There is literally nothing you could say that would get her to fuck you. Stop wasting your time and energy on a girl across the country.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:52 PM
4

It's toxic because now you have limited options. You now depend on that one girl. Most of the time, that dependency will show through and be seen by her as neediness. That will make her put you in the beta category.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:49 PM
13

Doesn't matter what you say, just don't give a serious reply. "Looking for someone who can teach me to play guitar" "Hoping to find a getaway driver for my heist crew"
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:46 PM
6

You're comparing apples and oranges. Having sex with 4 new women in a month is pretty good. Having sex 4 times total in a month when you have a girl friend is pretty bad. Not every girl is going to become a plate and sometimes plates break. But eventually when you have 4 plates spinning at once, then you have a situation where you can have sex 20 times in a month with several different women.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 02:23 PM
1

Nice FR, but I don't think most people would find it encouraging. "all you gotta do is live in a major city, have your own place, be in good shape and make 130k".
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 01:57 PM
3

Really dumb to text that unprompted. You've already fucked 3 times. Only say when she wants to have "the talk".
/r/askTRP27/08/18 08:29 PM
5

maybe there was something there, maybe she was working you for tips. Either way, don't get fixated on this one girl. Have abundance.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 08:26 PM
3

The ideal shape for every guy is jacked. Saying that being jacked won't look normal at your size is just an excuse. Bulk up and re-calibrate at different bench marks. Try being lean and 160 then go form there.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 07:32 PM
1

Having a type is dumb and only limits your options. All women are the same. Just find one who you want to fuck, and has little or no red flags.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 05:29 PM
2

Ignore what she says. Watch her actions. You're going to kill any attraction she does have for you by not escalating.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 05:26 PM
3

You need to figure out why you want a relationship. Are you being a woman and operating on feels or does it actually provide value to your life? What you're experiencing isn't paranoia, it's the reality that AWALT. But why are you letting that stop you from doing what you want? There is always the possibility that she has or will cheat on you. When you find out, you next her and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 05:23 PM
2

All oneitis is cured by having abundance. How do you get abundance? By becoming a man worth fucking.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 05:18 PM
3

LDR + College = CC Stop wasting your youth. Next.
/r/askMRP27/08/18 04:13 PM
2

There's a difference between arguing and saying "no". Arguing means that you have started to DEER. When you shut her down and just say no, you aren't arguing. There shouldn't be a back and forth, you're in charge. Just being adversarial gives her the roller coaster of emotions she's looking for. No need to DEER.
/r/askMRP27/08/18 04:09 PM
1

You must feel light as a feather unloading all that baggage.
/r/askMRP27/08/18 04:05 PM
1

Like you said, a lot of married girls like to test the waters and back off so they can hamster that that aren't cheating. They are not worth the effort. Game them as you would anyone else, but as soon as they "scoot back" forget about them.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 03:54 PM
0

Love that you looked it up. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 03:32 PM
0

You don't have the slightest idea of what discourse means. Passing the test isn't the goal of TRP. Being a high value man is. With this, you're just a facade of a man. But if that's the route you want, fine by me.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 02:53 PM
0

This isn't discourse. This is a "cheat sheet". The whole point of TRP is real self improvement. Not becoming an actor reading someone else's lines. When you run out of index cards, you're going to fall flat on your face.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 01:45 PM
1

Doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:41 PM
-1

So is coddling newbs who won't read the side bar/use the search function. This will be posted twice a day.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:20 PM
2

By crying about it and feeling sorry for yourself. That will work.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:49 PM
-5

If you need a "script" to pass shit tests, then you're not going to successfully game women. Just remember to agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:40 PM
1

You invited a girl on vacation before fucking her. Yes, that's blue pill. She has to earn your time.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:35 PM
1

ignore her and hit her up when you're back.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:28 PM
3

That's where you went wrong. She wanted you to fuck her. Passing up TWICE made her put you in the beta/looking for a gf category. Remember to always be closing. NEXT
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:26 PM
3

Not even worth reading. Don't shit where you eat. Done.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:25 PM
1

Yeah man, you're just a poor victim of God's crude sense of humor. Nothing you can do.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:28 PM
2

It's just your standard ASD and LMR. Learn to navigate it.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:26 PM
1

I never mention logistics until after they are in my car. Then you can mention something they brought up earlier: "I want to see those vinyls you were talking about. Is your place close?"
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:23 PM
3

I don't give out my number. I tell them to give me theirs.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:15 PM
1

Sounds like she wants to fuck you but you are self destructing by being annoying and hyperactive. When you get her isolated, chill the fuck out.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:14 PM
2

Biology brother. So much of RP theory is based on biology when it comes to women, it applies to all of us. Eat or be eaten.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:08 PM
1

Ignore what's in their bio. Contact as you normally would.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:01 PM
13

Dude, you were drinking and doing drugs. Normal people don't just fall asleep on stairs, in hallways, in the middle of the floor.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:59 PM
1

OP, it's only going to get worse from here. NEXT.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:52 PM
1

You're too high up on the chain to fuck with that.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:49 PM
3

You were passing in and out consciousness. You definitely could have blacked out during that time.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:48 PM
2

Sounds like you didn't f close on these 2 dates.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:43 PM
1

You probably couldn't have handled that worse. Never argue with women. You DEER'd all over the place. This guy is doing you a favor. These comments make you out to be a player, which make your LTR more attracted to you. Just A&A whenever you hear the comments from him or her.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:40 PM
3

Then you're not in monk mode.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:36 PM
3

All of this is your fault. Whining about it won't help. Throw away the tissues and start working on yourself.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:30 PM
1

Hard to say if it's worth it without knowing how much time you put into it. If you're just adding a few pics every so often then it's probably fine. You shouldn't waste your time looking at anyone else though.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:23 PM
2

You can't keep your girlfriend if you won't fuck her.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:20 PM
1

Terrible. Lots of good advice here already. Just remember you need to lift heavy. If you can lift it 12-15 times, then it's not heavy enough.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:19 PM
24

Sounds like you're not even in a position to remember anything that happened. Stop getting so fucked up.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:16 PM
0

You're not special. Texting is for logistics. "Keeping in touch" just makes you an orbiter. If that's what you want, then go for it. Sounds like you're already there anyway.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 07:19 PM
0

If you read the sidebar you'd already know. Texting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 07:06 PM
3

You are putting this girl on a pedestal solely based on her age. You act like there are no 21 year olds out at bars, clubs or in dating apps. Want to fuck one? Try there. Say it with me Joe, ONE-I-TIS
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:49 PM
3

Poor decision for someone who wants to fuck them so badly.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:43 PM
3

It's not oneitis... yet here you are talking about how you're desperate to fuck her. There are thousands of 21 year olds. Go fuck another one that actually responds to your texts.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:37 PM
2

Drop the oneitis and move on.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:29 PM
1

Are you sure you're just not being a bitch? There was a guy on the front page who was a body builder with MS. If there's nothing medially wrong with you, you have no excuse.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 03:02 PM
1

If you're upset with what she does over the phone with you, imagine what she does when she's horny in college surrounded by horny dudes and 500 miles away from you.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:57 PM
1

You know the answer: You weren't good enough. Asking why is just sad and pathetic.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:48 PM
1

He already told you. Abundance. Have a rotation of 3 HB8s who you can call and fuck on short notice and see how hung up you are then.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:46 PM
2

Because men and women aren't equal.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:40 PM
2

It's just a matter of what you want and are willing to tolerate. It's worth practicing passing these shit tests because over time it just becomes natural. You don't even see them as tests anymore. They can actually be fun. But I understand where you're coming from. An HB8 wants me to jump through some hoops to show I'm good enough, okay. An HB5 tries the same thing, I might just pick up my drink and walk away.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:38 PM
3

Texting is for logistics. Soon as you establish a rapport you set up a meet.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:30 PM
2

Why does every social retard blame aspergers? Does that make you feel better about yourself? You suck at socializing because you've been a cave dweller, sitting along in your room playing games and jerking off. Want to get better at socializing? Socialize more. Practice talking to people and more importantly, practice LISTENING and paying attention to their social cues.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:29 PM
3

No way to bring it up without looking like a beta since you checked her phone. As others have said, this is not the behavior of someone who is LTR material.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:25 PM
8

It's normal. The fear of rejection is turned up because now it goes beyond just you and the girl. Other people could witness your failure. The fear is misplaced because most guys will respect you for taking the shot. It's basically approach anxiety but turned up a bit more intensely. There is no magic method to get passed this. Just have to do it. Practice, be confident and dngaf.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:22 PM
3

It's explained, IN DETAIL, in the side bar.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:55 PM
2

Abundance. Have 3 hb8s on call at all times and you'll realize sally ain't so special.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:51 PM
1

Find a hobby. Go game women. Get another job. Doesn't matter as long as you enjoy it and it's productive.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:49 PM
3

imagine how you talk when you're not nervous. Do that. As far as body language: Stand up straight, maintain eye contact.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:48 PM
4

Shitting where you eat can have consequences at these jobs too. If things go awry, it's got to come off your resume. Think about how that would look. Maybe it's no big deal, maybe it's a serious issue. "Oh you never worked over the summer?" Now you look like a lazy piece of shit. And if you ever go for a job in government or private that requires a high level security clearance, they are going to find out anyway. Bottom line is: Don't have a scarcity mentality. There are a million attractive wom…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:19 PM
3

You struggle to get dates because you are a bitch. Stop the pity party.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:04 PM
1

A lot of guys think it's valuable because you can get laid from it. The reality is, they are timid bitches who are afraid to approach in real life. If they put half the time they put into the app into a approaching in real life they would get twice the amount of lays. Don't get me wrong, it has it's purpose. Sending a message at 2am and getting laid at 2:30 is a magical thing. But that's about all it's good for.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:02 PM
1

Every aspect of your post is wrong. Women LOVE drama. You follow through on your revenge plan you're just the crazy dude who lost his shit when he got dumped. She will talk about it forever and frame it in way that she is just so irresistible that you were devastated. It's cheap to cheat when you lose a low value man. Become a high value man that she can't afford to lose and she'll act differently.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:59 PM
0

This is really beta thinking. The consequences of her cheating is you leaving. If that's not enough of a deterrent then you need to make yourself a higher value man. As to what she would rather have, who cares? Your life is not one iota better when her life is worse. In fact you are making your life worse by putting energy into a dumb thot instead of putting it toward your mission. Put away your revenge boner.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:29 PM
3

You need to get out of this blue pill revenge fantasy. The ghosting shows you really don't care. Don't care if she's happy, don't care if she's devastated. She is a stranger now. Seeking revenge puts you squarely in her frame and is a beta move. She's posting public videos on facebook. People close to her know she's fucking around and flaunting it for her friends to see. Yeah, keep fucking her like a good little cuck... that'll show her.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:49 PM
1

It's just quintessentially blue pill. Why do you need a LTR? Why are you dependent on the validation of a woman?
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:44 PM
5

You're setting the expectation that you're going to fuck her. That's the wrong mentality. Set the expectation that you're going out with this girl and your friends and are going to have a good time. Focus on just having fun and just escalate naturally.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:40 PM
2

Nothing different. Approach, escalate, close. Side bar has a wealth of information, read it.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:33 PM
0

Stop the pity party. Lift. Practice being social.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:30 PM
1

watch what you put in your mouth.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:28 PM
2

She's a low value whore looking for money and you care about her? I suggest you work on yourself if you think there is value there.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:26 PM
6

tl;dr: OP talked to a girl, nothing happened.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 02:10 PM
2

You've only been dating her a few months. I would just wish her well and move on. The opportunity to plate should be there when you get out, but don't go back for a LTR.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:13 PM
5

Plate whoever you enjoy fucking that doesn't cause unnecessary drama
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:07 PM
2

Opener: "Hi how are you?" Closing: "lets get out of here" No need to get complicated. It matters very little what you say. How you look and how you carry yourself is 90% of the battle.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 07:52 PM
8

Hypergamy. You really think she's just going to ignore all the bountiful cock while you're gone? Her giving you shit and guilt tripping you is her already in the process of moving on. She's making you the bad guy and giving herself the excuse to step out. "he doesn't even care". If she was standing by supportive like a good soldier maybe you'd have a chance. But no way now.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:21 PM
1

Just turn off the dread and weather the storm.
/r/askMRP20/08/18 05:11 PM
1

Side bar. Never communicate overtly.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:47 PM
2

I think I'm very vengeful by nature. You're beta by nature.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:30 PM
6

What do you care? As soon as you are locked up, you no longer have a LTR.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:28 PM
1

Completely unacceptable unless you are told and believe her N count is nothing more than 0.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:26 PM
2

Escalate.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:14 PM
2

Why did you commit to someone who has issues with an ex?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:12 PM
5

All the shredded chads on tinder do the same thing. Be desirable and your opener doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:00 PM
2

Start applying your own dread or up what you have already been applying. If your absence doesn't bother her, time to get out.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:58 PM
6

All women are basic. Learn to talk with them.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:49 PM
1

Vet your women. Be as high value as you possibly can be. Apply reasonable dread.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:43 PM
1

Just by posing this question, we know you have oneitis.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:39 PM
2

But is this a healthy lifestyle? No. Other than busting a nut, visiting a prostitute provides no value to you. If you say you want a LTR in the future, you need to still be practicing your game, passing shit tests and making yourself as attractive as possible (beyond just your looks). Don't get me wrong. Banging hookers has it's place, but to drop gaming women altogether will have a negative impact in the long run.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:34 PM
1

This is only an example of what a waste of time dating apps are. What OP calls a "hook" is really just him getting their numbers which is really no investment at all from them. Out of how many #s turn into dates? How many dates turn into lays? If you add that up and compare it to the hours spent "gaming" them via text, you realize how much of a waste this is.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 03:04 PM
1

Check out r/adultery By the posts there, more than half are having an affair for that very reason. But they are all married. I don't see why you stick around.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:07 PM
3

The people that sit on social media all day posting dumb shit have nothing going on in their lives. aka low value.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:53 PM
1

I run a bank heist crew. Need a getaway driver. Sound like you?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:50 PM
1

Are you asking us for permission? Do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:46 PM
1

probably because it shows she's low value, which makes you wonder why he LTR'd her to begin with.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:40 PM
1

Very true. But for a 1st date, it's dumb to get dinner anyway. Just say "no" or "I have dinner plans beforehand".
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:38 PM
4

Just rip the bandaid off. As soon as you get an IOI or even feel like approaching you just have to do it. Planning your lines and shit never work anyway. Doesn't have to be more complex than "Hi, how's it going".
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:33 PM
1

Lesson: don't argue with women. Don't worry about your "record" unless you are interested in serious government work (i.e. major security clearances). If you don't need the references you can just move on. If you do care about that stuff then lawyer up if this progresses to termination.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:30 PM
3

If your tone gets her to apologize and still want to fuck you, why would you change it. Don't listen to what they say. Seems like your only mistake is getting into an argument at all. Don't DEER.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:22 PM
3

You just shouldn't come across as needy. Waiting a few days and reaching out is fine.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:21 PM
1

You have oneitis. You need to create a sense of abundance, so you know if/when things go south that you'll just keep on chugging.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:18 PM
3

Whose fault is it that you are bored? You are the man, correct? You should be leading both of you on fun activities. You want her to plan everything like your mommy?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:39 PM
4

This is your family we're talking about, not some random guy who could be a nut job carrying a weapon. Be as firm as you can be. They'll either respect you for it and things will get better or everything will get completely volatile, which then you'll have to distance yourself.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:32 PM
1

This was a major problem for me in my LTR. The main thing that helped me was honestly not giving a shit if she walked out. I just did what I wanted to do. Stopped fighting about it, stopped explaining myself, stopped listing the reasons why I should do whatever it was. I just did it and if she didn't like it, that was fine. And when she would say mean things about me, I'd just remember she's just a little girl and laugh.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 04:27 PM
1

Know idea what the fuck you're talking about then. TRP touts being independent. No one said anything about being social = happiness. It's always been explained that the path to your mission is the source of your happiness. Read the sidebar for fucks sake.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:59 PM
6

I think you need a better frame rather than cutting them out. You need to not give a shit about what they say. Ignore it. Who cares if they don't like you being ripped? As to the disrespect and sabotage, you need to confront that directly. If you know it was intentional, grab him by the collar and say don't do that shit again. Your brother thinks you're a pussy and your lack of action confirmed this. Same thing with the texts. Confront directly. Stand up for yourself.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:56 PM
1

Because being a lone wolf and independent aren't even that similar. Being social doesn't mean you're dependent.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:51 PM
5

Read the side bar. Yes, all of it. Lift.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:47 PM
1

Stop being a bitch. Unplug the xbox and make every thing you do during the day have a purpose. If it's not improving your life in some way, then don't do it. Start doing things, small accomplishments lead to greater accomplishments.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:45 PM
1

Do you think Ted Kaczynski lead a life worth emulating?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:39 PM
2

No. I'm not an affectionate person. I have to actively think about applying kino, which IMO is probably THE most important thing you can do to get laid. Some other things come naturally to me. I've always had a DNGAF attitude, so for the most part I've been able to pass shit tests before I could recognize them. I don't think that's true for the average guy. From my experience, guys act negatively and fail shit tests when they don't recognize them. So basically: depends on your personality
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:22 PM
3

I went on a date Did you fuck her?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:08 PM
1

Depends on the context. A guy who meets a young HB with (hopefully) a low N count. Spends years vetting and cultivating a relationship. Marries and has children. I respect that. It's not ideal and maybe not in your best interest, but respectable. A guy who has had meh luck with women and meets a post (or fast approaching) wall woman and settles after dating for a year? Soft. Seems like option two is becoming the norm among millennial. Like clock work, as soon as they get a LTR at 28-30s they sud…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:04 PM
11

Your physique changes based on your diet. My guess is you aren't eating enough calories. Fix your diet.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 08:16 PM
7

A hug and a slap on the ass is usually all they need.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 08:13 PM
3

Everyone's got an excuse. Most of us can never hope to look like Arnold in his prime. That doesn't mean we don't look SIGNIFICANTLY better when we have greater muscle volume and low fat.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 08:12 PM
63

Always treat them like a child. That should be the default. How would you respond if a 5 year old asked you the same thing?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:47 PM
3

Don't dig through the trash. You've been down that road before. There are literally millions of other hot girls, why bother?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:42 PM
3

Some people make their mission: advancing their career, starting a business, founding an organization, running a marathon etc. Only you can decide. And if you lurk around here for even a week, you'll see many topics made by people who feel the same way. So very common.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:41 PM
82

"I'm going to X place at Y time. You should come if you think you can hold your liquor this time."
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:21 PM
1

Just game her as you would anyone else. Just be extra careful to maintain subtlety.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:19 PM
2

You are a year in and not red pilled at all. a part of me yearns coming home to watch TV with a LTR after a long day of work As a divorced guy, you should know more than anyone that this is a fantasy. You're clinging to the fleeting good moments in your last LTR and forgetting about all the bad. If you feel empty, it's because you don't have a mission. Seems like you made it your mission to prove to yourself that you are still desirable. Not a great mission, but you accomplished this. Now, onto …
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:15 PM
1

Alpha widows will suddenly start dating only a certain "type" of guy. "I only date biker guys" - because the last alpha that fucked her was a biker. You get the idea.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:18 PM
1

Just judging by your desperate desire for a relationship, you are probably coming across as needy. They see you as a beta and drop you. Probably has little to do with your financial situation, unless you're just a total loser floating through life.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:12 PM
1

Because they grew up in an era where you got naked in a locker room.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:06 PM
1

No. I live in a major metro area. I like my chances going out for 2 hours and even if I don't pull, I'll have had a good time.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:44 PM
6

She's thousands of miles away. She is getting your attention for nothing. Stop wasting your time. "Hit me up next time you are back around". The end.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:35 PM
14

You're asking us to teach you to not be a bitch. Sounds like you get off on debating people and "winning" arguments. Stop. You are just stroking your own ego and accomplishing nothing. How do you fix this? Next time you see him, just act like nothing happened and stop being a bitch from now on.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:30 PM
30

Never go down on a rando. I only go down on women I am very comfortable with. If you feel like you have to do it at all, this is the best approach. Use your common sense and err on the side of caution. The reality is, nothing short of getting tested right before going down on her can give you assurance she is std free. It can happen even if you are in a LTR.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:25 PM
1

That's why you need to read the side bar. If you've read it all, you know which guys are talking about things grounded in proven theory, and which guys that are just making shit up as they go.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:20 PM
1

You're really good at patting yourself on the back. What has 2 years of connections gotten you? Some fun parties? Not going to do you much good when you're 40. There are thousands of comedians in Montreal. and there's a reason for that. How many great comedians stayed in whatever shit town they were in? But hey, you know better than everyone right? Why'd you ask us in the first place?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 08:07 PM
1

That's fine, but working in a restaurant where you have a manager barking at you all night doesn't avoid that problem does it? Seems to me you are running around and "building connections" that all lead no where. How much more time do you need to find yourself? You're 28, time to be a man and accomplish things. You want to be a comedian? Go for it. But where is there a better place to start than in Montreal?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:15 PM
3

Good. Banging girls shouldn't be your mission. Find one.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:02 PM
0

Just realize that they are all doing the same thing and don't feel even slightly guilty. If you're upfront with your plates/fwb about not being exclusive then there is nothing to be guilty about.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:56 PM
1

Just wear what you like and looks flattering on you. I think skinny jeans and scarves look faggy, and would never wear them, but if some guy who does is getting laid then who am I to say?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:52 PM
1

Yeah, this is a no brainer. Just from the perspective of your career: If you're not moving forward, you're falling behind. Whenever you finish this quarter life crisis and want to jump into that career, you're going to have a more difficult time finding a job and you're going to be back to square one at a 64k salary (if that). Stop being immature. Being an adult is about responsibility and building a real life for yourself. Not serving burgers and getting drunk with your friends.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:47 PM
18

A+ This is what abundance looks like.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:41 PM
1

Abundance with high value women. If you legitimately are banging 3 or more different quality women, you wouldn't care.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:35 PM
2

Depends on the BS you are talking about. If someone is just saying their own BS opinion, there is no need to "call them out". Let them think whatever they want. Not your job to "correct" them. If someone asks you specifically about something then just say whatever you want and if they disagree so be it. Trying to be right is just pointless dick measuring.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:32 PM
3

All the times I've shown my rage have been directed at her. Maybe that was my problem. Some of those times I felt in the moment like it was helpful. "That will show her I mean business". Nope. What ever issue it was still persisted.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 05:15 PM
26

this is a high IQ woman who listens to egalitarian podcasts on an almost daily basis. Does she watch rick and Morty too? Good post. The number of times showing my rage has helped a situation or improved my relationship is exactly zero. Took me a long time to figure that out.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 04:14 PM
1

Abundance.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:30 PM
2

Her hamster is trying to spin that just following someone isn't communicating. We all know that's bullshit. She crossed a boundary. Either there are repercussions, or there aren't. You would be wise to next her given the red flags and breaking this boundary.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:29 PM
2

Keep lifting until you are a 10.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:10 PM
2

This revenge play is stupid and proves you're in her frame. You shouldn't give two fucks about this girl.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:10 PM
1

Valid points I do agree with you minus the oneitis You're not being honest with yourself. You called her one of the best you've been with and just wrote a novella about how she's being a bitch and yet you want to know how to keep her around.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:06 PM
1

Girls go out to bars to find dick. If you consider that slutty, then yes. Whether it's the clubs, the frat house, or the 5 different dating apps they sign up for, almost all girls have their CC riding days.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:02 PM
6

You need to realize that she is not special and that there are millions of other (and better) girls out there.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:54 PM
1

Be more attractive. Lift.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:45 PM
2

You keep them as plates by rewarding good behavior, i.e. spending time with them and by never conclusively saying I don't want a relationship. Instead you say "lets just keep enjoying each others company and see where this goes." You shouldn't even really care if they find out about each other. Always be vague about your plans and if they have some inkling you can just say "we're not exclusive". All plates our bound to break eventually, so don't sweat it and move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:40 PM
9

Agreed. OP should be spending more time "Getting his life together", instead of obsessing about girls and telling us that he talked to 3 people that had no interest in him.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 02:31 PM
2

It is a state where you know your worth, confident in yourself, and not get rattled by others. And yet here you are seeking someone else's approval by doing gymnastics through text. Texting never supplements your game. It either hurts it or is indifferent to it. But hey, you must know more than the collective experts here.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:59 PM
2

Because you're jerking off at night and she's riding a new cock a week.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:23 PM
2

Without attraction and comfort you are not getting her None of which comes from a text message. You are thoroughly in the frame of the girls you are pursuing. "I need to please her with my texts". No. You are the prize. Come and get it or get lost. How many times did your slick witty banter lead to nothing? I bet a whole lot more times than converted to a lay. All time wasted that you could have put towards the next one. You got a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:22 PM
-3

Move if you can but 5k people is plenty. Own your shit, lift and run game.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 06:05 PM
-3

No, It doesn't depend. It's easy to date the 55 year old overweight single mom too. Doesn't mean you should do it.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 06:02 PM
1

This is scarcity mentality. If she needs "comfort" via text then you didn't do your job when you met. She just doesn't think you're hot enough. Texting for logistics roots out the validation seekers. Not enough comfort for her? Not my problem. On to the next one.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:58 PM
9

Everybody thinks they are some special case where the rules don't apply. No. Small town, I don't care. No pussy is worth hurting your career.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 05:53 PM
1

What's your mission? fucking girls? Get a new mission and work towards that. Tinder can get you laid, but it's not worth the time sink.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:47 PM
0

haha poor guy. Doesn't even realize that he's the orbiter.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:44 PM
2

Having balls and putting yourself out there is half the battle. He'd have a ton more success if he dropped the beta traits though.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:42 PM
1

Being a woman. You're halfway there.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:40 PM
1

Even more so. Traditional = strong, stoic, powerful man. You aren't any of these things. If you want to be emotional so badly, maybe you should transition.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:39 PM
2

Your dick in a box.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:36 PM
-1

Your time is your most valuable commodity. Why would you waste it on someone who won't have sex with you?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:36 PM
1

Especially in marriage. Hypergamy is biology. Feminism, marriage, culture... nothing trumps mother nature.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:34 PM
2

You need to always run game. You relax too much when they are an SMV point or more below you. If they are dropping you that quickly, you might need to objectively re-evaluate your SMV.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:33 PM
1

It's a great feeling for you, but for her you are showing yourself to be a weak beta. Over time she'll either leave you or get her alpha on the side.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:30 PM
4

You didn't need to leave her on read for 3 days. You need to strike while the iron is hot. Don't take that to mean you should have texted her immediately, but 3 days is too long. Also, only text for logistics. "How's your week been" makes you seem boring and it's a deadend conversation.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:26 PM
1

Get emotional support from men. A close friend, brother, father, or therapist. You can read any of the topics on hypergamy to see why showing vulnerability will eventually lead your woman to branch swing to a better mate.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:24 PM
3

She's using you for validation. Next. You have scarcity mentality. If you actually had options you would never see a girl after 3 dates and no sex.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:20 PM
3

You didn't read any the side bar if you're asking these things. They are covered. If you can't read a book you'll never be RP'd
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:18 PM
1

Best way to deal with beta traits is to read the sidebar, internalize it and practice.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:12 PM
0

1) Don't be outcome dependent. Picture the worst case scenario and realize that even that is not that bad. The world will keep turning and there will be another HB for you to game. 2) Be confident. If you think you're the shit, you won't care about her rejection. It will be her regret later on, not yours. 3) Practice. The more you talk to them, the more you realize they are just like the rest of us.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:10 PM
2

Frame is everything. Guys with weak frame, asking can sometimes come across as "hey, ya know, if you don't mind, maybe you could uh, have a drink with me, if that's okay with you". Which is why RP theory says, don't ask. Even if your frame is flimsy, saying "Come grab a drink with me" never comes across like the prior example.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 04:22 PM
3

That's not the night club scene at all, which is what OP is talking about. Night clubs are majority women and mostly HB8s and up.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 04:18 PM
102

This didn't need to be nearly this detailed. It's pretty simple: Works with you? NEXT Has kids? NEXT Hangs out with people who do hard drugs? NEXT You could have stopped at the first one.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 04:01 PM
0

There is a reason they are called Unicorns. Unicorns are not real. This girl is not special. You just have no other options.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:33 PM
2

fat girls are low value. They can't keep their weight at a healthy level which is indicative of other poor life choices.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:28 PM
2

It means you've already been orbiting her and need to stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:14 PM
2

How do you know? Because AWALT. Just questioning that proves your oneitis.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:11 PM
4

Yes you have oneitis. She is not special. In fact, she is less than special because she won't even fuck you. Virgin? Only because she isn't counting anal or the 23 guys she blew last month on tinder.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:00 PM
5

That would be essentially demoting her to a plate. So why not drop the LTR facade?
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:38 PM
11

She's either a plate or an LTR. If she's a plate, who cares what she does? If she's a LTR, then next.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:35 PM
2

When talking about potential plates, yes. Use discretion and common sense when talking about a LTR.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:12 PM
7

Do what you want. If she doesn't agree then on to the next one. Get into an abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:40 PM
1

Side bar. Specifically read: "When I say no, I feel Guilty".
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:30 PM
3

For whatever reason she sees you as betabux and not chad. This must be from how you handled yourself during the dates. Other than that, you need to implement the techniques to get passed LMR.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:24 PM
2

Sounds like you have made women or getting laid your mission and found it's an empty pursuit. Find a real mission that makes your happiness independent of others.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:13 PM
1

No. The girls on there have an abundance of attractive and desperate men. The hoops you have to jump through and the time you'll waste on the app is not worth it.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:11 PM
10

Eventually you realize they are just detours in your mission. When you become the man you want to be, you'll have abundance and can get laid with ease.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:12 PM
8

If you have abundance mentality, then this would never cross your mind. Even if it's a 1% chance that things go sideways, this ONE GIRL is not worth hurting your career.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 04:15 PM
1

You might be killing any chance you have by not escalating. She's either interested or using you for attention. Only way to find out is to escalate.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 04:13 PM
1

Tons of examples if you use the search bar. Things like pulling away from a make out first. Or after having already kissed her, going in close like your going to kiss her again and then pull away. There are entire topics made by ECs on here if you search for it.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 04:12 PM
9

And also read "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty"
/r/askTRP08/08/18 04:06 PM
11

Because women can be useful and enjoyable if you know how to interact with them.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 04:04 PM
1

You probably could have lowered her ASD by pushing more during the date. It puts her in more of a frame where she is chasing you. Once she is in the mode of pursuer, she is more likely to jump at your invitation. But in that moment, she basically just said she is down for public sex. You could have just escalated even further. If she is horny enough, she's not going to turn down the invitation, especially when you gave her plausible deniability.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 01:29 PM
3

There is plenty of room for thoughtful discussion. You're just asking for a list of ways to "push". Would you like me to just copy and paste an old topic for you? Stop being a lazy shit.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:07 PM
1

Shouldn't shit where you eat anyway. Even though It's a shit job, you'll still need a reference when you finally get a real job so they know what you've been doing these past few years.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:00 PM
2

Seems like you knew what I wanted to say anyways, but did not provide an answer to my question. Because it's been covered hundreds of times already. Search bar, friend.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:58 PM
6

Is she basically using me for attention / validation? Yes.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:33 PM
5

You have it backwards. Pull=pulling the girl Push=away There are dozens of topics on this.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:30 PM
8

your look is fine. Work on your game.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:27 PM
2

Most men will hit their peak SMV in their mid 30s. You'll be more desirable and have a greater selection of potential partners at that time. The sidebar has information on SMV peaks.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:25 PM
1

Do both. Party in moderation.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:18 PM
0

Women want you to lead. Sounds like you let her do everything and then had no idea what was going on.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:13 PM
1

Starbucks.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:07 PM
2

Who cares what anyone else thinks? You thought about it and after careful consideration (I hope) decided it wasn't for you. Maybe you'll change your mind, maybe you won't. Some people want kids to leave behind a family legacy. Some people avoid kids because of they can be leveraged against you via child support. What matters is what YOU want.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:06 PM
2

Her number should have been blocked so you never got this text to begin with.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:55 PM
1

"Come have a drink with me at XXXX tonight. I'll be there at 8"
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:11 PM
6

Same rules apply to men. It's a time sink that adds no value. Things that could be accomplished, books that could be read, all other acts of improvement could be done are put to the side. So the question is really, is she up until 2 am hunched over her computer watching video after video, or does she just watch it once a week to get herself off when she's extra horny? The real red flag is that you know she watches porn at all. If she told you or bragged about watching it, that's a red flag. If s…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:05 PM
2

As long as you don't expect that same love in return.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:48 PM
3

It's "trendy" counter-culture nonsense.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:31 PM
1

Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do. She said she was upset by being called a bitch - BUT she let you continue to escalate She said she wasn't going home with you... BUT if you navigated this basic ASD she would have wound up in your bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 07:07 PM
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