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| 1 | Got the confidence, good enough looks but can't form a sentencePractice, don't do anything, stop reading this so you don't over think it | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 08:55 AM |
| 0 | What's the purpose of this subreddit?But women shouldn't be the center of improvement for people. Women shouldn't be the driving force for a better life. Seeking external validation from women to improve one's life only digs a deeper hole in one's psychological issues. Having one's social life geared towards meeting women exudes a neediness and need for validation that can be immediately sensed by any quality woman. | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 08:16 AM |
| 5 | Grocery cashier girlEh, not other people around. That seems a bit too awkward for me. Unless your goal is to be awkward. But if it's just the two of you ask her out on a date and remember to be candid, normal, and honest with your intentions. Just say "do you want to go out on a date sometime". What's the worst that can happen? Anyways, she's obligated to respond in a friendly way | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 07:08 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who started working out because of this sub, how did you start?Not from this sub but starting with stronglifts is a great way for beginners to indoctrinate their nervous systems into working out. If you stick to the program and you never lifted before, you're guaranteed at making lifting gains until you plateau in a few months, then you have to work harder. In terms of women, sure it's better. The confidence, self investment, and looks is a huge boost but it's not the most important thing when it comes to seducing. | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 07:05 PM |
| 4 | What is some optimal dating advice for a male autistic adult (22 years old, just graduated college)Really just read Models by Mark Manson. It really changed my life with dating. And it's really the only self help dating book you need in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 02:41 AM |
| 1 | TRP and nice guys are very similarIn social interaction, being needy is defined by being more obsessed in the other person's perception of you, than you are of yourself. Constantly going out to clubs to have sex with women for the sole reason of sex, posting and bragging one's successes with your friends on forums, altering one's behavior to put on the "performance" that you are someone else, is needy behavior. It's needy because TRP isn't fine with your sex life, they need validation by females and that's why to constantly go o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/16 07:54 PM |
| 1 | TRP and nice guys are very similarBesides being condescending and patronizing, the only thing you did say was how I don't "understand" TRP from PUA with nothing to back it up. I guess it's my fault for figuring I can argue or change the mind of a bunch of narcissistic, butthurt, angry young boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | TRP and nice guys are very similarNo argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/16 09:05 AM |
| 1 | TRP and nice guys are very similarWhat's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/16 05:52 AM |
| 1 | TRP and nice guys are very similarWhat's the difference? My points are still valid, both TRP and PUA exude needy behavior in the same way, and both TRP and PUA are afraid of expressing their desires and feelings unconditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/16 05:43 AM |
| 0 | TRP and nice guys are very similarBut women do react that way. There's nothing emotionally more attractive than expressing one's desires in an unconditional and non-needy way expecting nothing in return. TRP is only superficially about sex. Under the macho veneer it's about correcting years of emotional trauma from woman by objectifying and treating women like sex objects. It's to correct am extreme need to acceptance and validation from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/16 12:09 AM |
| 0 | TRP and nice guys are very similarIt's needy and objectifying. It's not bad to want to have wonderful connections with women around you but spending an absurd amount of time solely for sex is needy behavior. Learning the side stroke isn't the same as interacting with a fellow human being and I hope that's evident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/16 12:05 AM |
| 3 | TRP and nice guys are very similarIt's not about making every attractive women you see cum five times with your seductive smile, it's about finding the need to go to TRP. There's thinking a fivesome with four supermodels is amazing, and then there's the notion of needing a fivesome, needing it so much you need to use Internet forums. One is needy, one is just a lofty fantasy. He actually values his own time. He is not going to waste his time interacting with a women if he isn't going to get laid. This is what I have a problem wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Most women won't turn a guy down just because he agrees with TheRedPillIt depends on his behavior. If he holds sexist generalizations about all women then any girl who has some self respect would leave. If he resorts to tricks and sleazy game instead of being honest with his intentions then any girl who has some self respect would leave. It's about the actions that are unattractive and needy, not what the guy thinks. And what he thinks shouldn't matter because his actions are reflected by his feelings and what he thinks. So most women would turn down a guy who agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/16 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Sigma males: the hottest but also the worst father figures ever?What's up with these pill reddits and the glossary of terms you have to know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/16 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Does talking to girls make you panic?Unless you're a vegetable I can't think of one reason why you can't fulfill those fundamentals. | /r/seduction | 10/09/16 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Does talking to girls make you panic?If I were you I would skip all that reading books and over-analyzing. Before you even start meeting women you need to have a base lifestyle. That means you have to start investing in yourself. You have to get all of these thing done in order to build an attractive lifestyle. You have to build at least a foundation first. Copy and pasted from Mark Manson's book Models: Join a Gym: If you’re not already a member of a gym, join one. If you’re not familiar with how to work out properly, hire a perso… | /r/seduction | 10/09/16 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Do you want to be "challenged" in a relationship?Did you just read what I said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsNo it's not. Vulnerability also calls for saying no unabashedly, if you refuse. People will respect you even more if you're unconditionally honest and wouldn't play game. If you were the opposite, people will try to take advantage of you. Seeing how you are dishonest, you would be an easy target due to your lack of emotional development. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsThere's vulnerability and then there's being a crazy narcissist with huge emotional baggage. Fix that first before you try to catch girls. It amazes me this type of "incel" archetype of what is primarily brought up in these types of hypotheticals. It's like trying to be a race car driver without ever even have karted or driven. It's like trying to be a Navy Seal without knowing how to swim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsWhoah, that sucks to have every one of your working relationships to be rooted in dishonesty and manipulation. Your partner should be attracted to you, not the superficial qualities you pretend to have. And this is a topic for a whole new post, but it's mostly dependent on gaining a nonneedy mindset. The redpill garners a needy mindset by creating the need to lie about one's true identity and prompts needy questions like "How do I get her to like me?" Instead of wondering what will make her attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsIt's psychologically healthier than suppressing one's emotions and trying to be a rock. And I didn't say everyone, only people you like and they'll trust and like you more for being honest and not playing games. You did not used to live your life this way. You still fail to understand the concept of vulnerability: being a nice guy≠being vulnerable. But whatever works for you. If you want to attract women like yourself who are sexist and emotionally immature, then fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsI don't want to be anywhere around someone who unconsciously plays tricks or mind games, that's a scary thought. Even if being manipulative is an instinctual and subconscious thing, you have to make a meditative decision to say true things to expect something in return. Either way it's not vulnerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 10:57 AM |
| 5 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsVulnerability calls for unconditional honesty about one's feelings, desires, and intentions. I'm not sure how one can do that and still be manipulative. Also the simple fact of revealing true information about oneself isn't vulnerability. They are incompatible. Vulnerability is a mindset, not a tool, and until one stops using it as a tool then they will never truly unconditionally express their feelings and desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsAlso what do you mean it simply isn't? Was I and every one else who is in an honest relationship deluded? Were the awesome relationships fake or wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:45 AM |
| 3 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsI think you're talking about people who aren't ready for relationships. The type of person you're describing needs serious help. It's like a guy who has terrible posture and never seen the inside of a gym wants to get a 4 plate deadlift in his first week. It's not going to happen unless that person puts in serious work. If you have major insecurity, emotional baggage and desperation issues then you shouldn't be trying to pick up girls. You might need a therapist to help guide you on your path ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsDidn't see the second part. This goes beyond dating but being 100% honest actually is a great way to live. There's being honest, and then there's having a malicious intent which many people confuse. It could be both but most of the time people can be honest and nice at the same time. The only situations were someone should be dishonest is either to themselves in certain situation, like convincing themselves they're on the last lap in a long run, and in situations of dire need like if you're bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:20 AM |
| 3 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsSure, if his intention was to tell everybody and not just women he wants to attract. I'm not saying to be an open book and it really seems like you're nitpicking. There's also the notion of boundaries, screening for great women, and logistics. In the redpill world, anything that's warm and has a hole seems to be fair game. But if the honest man has boundaries, screens for quality women, and logistics allow, that man will be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:11 AM |
| 5 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsYou're mistaking vulnerability for a tool, not a mindset. In fact using vulnerability as a tool is the exact opposite as being vulnerable, being vulnerable calls for expressing your true feelings and intentions, but since that "incel" used it as a tool. It's manipulative and masks one's true intentions making it not vulnerable. You're also forgetting that this is still unattractive behavior. Seduction, in its simplest form, is liking a girl less than a girl likes you. Now, if that "incel" really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:59 AM |
| 7 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsBefore this devolves into an argument over semantics, the reason most men go to TRP is NOT because they were vulnerable. Vulnerability is choosing NOT to hide one's emotions and desires from someone. Vulnerability is the exact opposite of neediness. Neediness is changing one's behaviors for someone else and vulnerability is the unconditional act of one's emotions and desires. Emotional health is measured by non-needy and vulnerable behavior. What you're proposing frustrated men to do is EXACTLY … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Ways people neglect dealing with their emotionsBy being manipulative, objectifying, and sexist, it disconnects emotional development for the reasons listed above. If you don't allow yourself to be vulnerable and have your emotions be freely expressed like the conditions above, your emotional health will suffer and fester. It's like trying to improve one's freestyle swim without ever stepping foot in water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you want to be "challenged" in a relationship?Must tell a lot about the type of girl interested in him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:30 AM |
| 5 | Do you want to be "challenged" in a relationship?I don't see any reason to challenge the other. It's a relationship, you're supposed to be working together for maximize happiness with each other. It's not a pitted match against the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Lets discuss "women are children"You are proving my point. They are essentially two sexually and emotionally repressed groups, blaming each other instead of taking emotional responsibility for themselves and their relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Lets discuss "women are children"The more I read this subreddit and pill subreddits I realize how similar its proponents are to their enemies. Replace the word feminism with patriarchy, women with men, female sexuality with rape culture and you get the exact same thing. Both Tumblr feminists and the red pill come from the same place of emotional trauma and use feminism/patriarchy as a means to not deal with their own emotional trauma and instill a victim mentality in themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Being "warm", especially in social interactions, is more of a masculine traitNo idea where you got this from. My experience is the exact opposite: women, especially the really beautiful ones, are really friendly and nice and don't play tricks. I understand that a lot of depressed low self esteem teenaged women act rude and unattractive, but that's just because they're depressed and have low self esteem, which is certainly not most. I understand how they could act cold and mean when a guy slyly approaches them while they're trying to get some work done or read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 12:49 AM |
| 3 | AWALT is destructive in the sense that it creates incompatibilityThere is all women are attracted to status, looks, and charisma And then there is all women are incapable of unconditional love, all women are Machiavellian in nature, all women are more selfish than men, all women do not care about male weakness... the list goes on. Just look at the fundamentals of TRP. The notion that women like when a guy is cute and makes her laugh, is pretty universal and obvious and I don't need to make that exception. Saying "oh AWALT isn't bad because I know women like c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 04:26 PM |
| 2 | AWALT is destructive in the sense that it creates incompatibilityThe Red Pill does advocate for improvement but I think it is mostly in a superficial sense, though going out and approaching strangers is really emotionally hard and fulfilling. But some of TRP's self improvement does quite a bit of damage. Instead of introspection and analyzing one's true feelings, TRP advocated to suppress those thoughts instead of dealing with them. I remember the word "suppress" being used when dealing with one's personal weaknesses instead of dealing with them directly. Ano… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 04:07 PM |
| 3 | AWALT is destructive in the sense that it creates incompatibilityI'm not talking superficially. I'm talking about beliefs, mindsets, and emotional security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 02:01 PM |
| 5 | AWALT is destructive in the sense that it creates incompatibilityLike attracts like, in social psychology it's called the assortment effect. If I believe not all women are manipulative, and I find a girl who's trying to deceive me, I'd leave her therefore screening her out of my life. But if I believe that all women use manipulation and tricks in an egregiously dishonest way, then I would tolerate her behavior and still let her in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 01:42 PM |
| 6 | AWALT is destructive in the sense that it creates incompatibilityBut what they did have was immature emotional strength. Not only do straightforward beliefs attract like minded people, but also emotional security. If you're insecure, you'd attract insecure girls as well. There's a quote from No More Mr. Nice Guy that applies, "There's a reason why Nice Guys keep finding themselves with narcissistic drama queens. They're a good match." You can use all the Blue Pill certified methods you want, if you're not an emotionally secure guy, cheap tactics won't get you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 01:39 PM |
| 3 | AWALT is destructive in the sense that it creates incompatibilityEven if this case was plausible, one can sense the dishonesty of a blatant lie miles away completely nullifying what will happen. Women aren't dumb, they have a sixth sense for finding out intention. If I was a girl I would have screen his intentions out and recognized him as a manipulative, hurt, insecure guy he is and leave him. Anyways, it's not that hard being manipulated, it sucks and nobody would prefer it but I swear sometimes you redpill guys are just as irrational and acting on emotions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 01:15 PM |
| 2 | AWALT is destructive in the sense that it creates incompatibilityWhat does having a prior sexual history have to do with manipulating a partner? I understand if she's dishonest about her prior history, that's a problem but what is manipulative about once being a slut for another man, what is deceptive here? I think AWALT shifts the blame from the man's emotional development and blames it on the girl. An emotionally secure man would not feel angry or resentful if a girl he likes was once a slut for another dude. Who needs to come to terms about the truth of se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 12:53 PM |
| 2 | AWALT is destructive in the sense that it creates incompatibilityI don't think they're acting manipulative because they're bored, I believe it's because they're both emotionally immature. From my perspective, no human being wants to be taken advantage of or abused or have their feelings played with. That's why I think this is incompatible. They tolerate this behavior because they're too emotionally insecure to have mature and unconditionally honest relationships. It's like an RPG where their Emotional level is 10, and in order to have honest relationships the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 12:30 PM |
| 3 | AWALT is destructive in the sense that it creates incompatibilityBut is that more All Women Are Like That or humans are naturally disposed to emotional baggage from negative experiences? In that case, the woman wants to know if that guy is truly interested in her, so you have to question her intention. Is she manipulating the guy to shield her own sexual vulnerability, or does she genuinely want to know if that guy is interested in her? Either way, she is establishing boundaries and trying to maintain those boundaries. Whether it's manipulative or not depends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 12:24 PM |
| 3 | AWALT is destructive in the sense that it creates incompatibilityI still think it creates incompatibility. Nobody likes being in a relationship where both sides constantly play games and shit test each other. These types of relationships are a toxic theater of abuse and games, and nobody likes that. But I see your point. Like attracts like, and so technically it's not incompatibility if someone who subscribes to TRP's ideas also attracts a narcissistic drama queen, but it's certainly not optimal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 12:14 PM |
| 3 | AWALT is destructive in the sense that it creates incompatibilityIt's the assortment effect. Those with similar beliefs attract one another. And yes, you can attract hot nymphomaniacs if you do share similar beliefs to them. If you yourself are hot, you maximized what you can do with fashion, fitness, and your genetics, and you are very comfortable with your own sexuality then you will attract women like that. What do you mean in your second statement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 11:27 AM |
| 1 | HOW TO GIVE HER SHIT TESTS?Be honest with what you think and say what you really want her to know. | /r/seduction | 17/08/16 06:47 AM |
| 1 | The hardest partTalk to another girl. Appreciate the fact she rejected you so that you won't be around someone who doesn't like you. | /r/seduction | 17/08/16 06:45 AM |
| 1 | What TRP gets wrong about "assholes" and getting laidIt seems to me TRP is trying to force vulnerability. Women and people really are attracted to the honesty and expression of genuine thought and feeling. That's what I mean by vulnerability: the conscious effort to not hide one's true thoughts and feelings. And this can be exhibited by being an asshole. But it's still being an asshole. It's still negging and giving douchy comments. And so many girls can see through that, that you're just trying to neg so that you'll like them so it's fundamentall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/16 01:25 AM |
| 1 | If TRP, MGTOW, men's rights activists, if they are consumed with the wellbeing of men then why are all their posts about women?I see, I got caught up in the definition of what TRP is. I thought it was all about being a better man, and my definition of a man doesn't place women high in its priorities, that's why I found it to be ironic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | If TRP, MGTOW, men's rights activists, if they are consumed with the wellbeing of men then why are all their posts about women?It's odd because their purpose is to make better men, with women being the number one focal point. To TRP, discipline, exercise, approaching, are just supplements to having women. It seems ironic how frequently TRP is against pedestalizing women and yet they're still consumed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/16 11:01 PM |
| 0 | If TRP, MGTOW, men's rights activists, if they are consumed with the wellbeing of men then why are all their posts about women?A heterosexual male has to have relations with women, but their life shouldn't be consumed with women. It doesn't matter what you call yourself. If you're trying to be a better x when all you're talking about is blaming y than you're not being a better x. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/16 05:42 AM |
| 0 | If TRP, MGTOW, men's rights activists, if they are consumed with the wellbeing of men then why are all their posts about women?So Lifetime and TRP are basically the same thing? They're not similar in what they talk about but they do like to blame others instead of taking self ownership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/16 05:40 AM |
| -4 | If TRP, MGTOW, men's rights activists, if they are consumed with the wellbeing of men then why are all their posts about women?So being a man is all about understanding females? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/16 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personBut point 2 is what this entire thread is about, honesty and vulnerability, not being reserved about one's intentions and true feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personBut you're completely ignoring the existence of more sophisticated women. What about volunteering agencies, book clubs, technology seminars. There are some very beautiful women who go there. Some guys don't just want to get laid. They really want to enrich their lives and relationships. If you want just sex then I'm sure TRP is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personWhy is TRP better for people who are starting to improve themselves? In Models Manson says social status is a big factor. But it's not a constant in every situation. Meaning if you're a successful computer programmer who hates loud music, then you're not going to be attracting a woman who goes to clubs regularly. And it's not a book about "scoring pussy", it's about becoming a better, more honest man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personHow so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personExcuses man. Don't talk yourself down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personI don't know, those beliefs seem pretty self limiting. You're right, ugly, fat, socially awkward men are unattractive. But not because "they were born like that", it's because those unattractive men aren't honest with themselves and what they want, if they wan't to be superficially attractive. If they were true to themselves they would improve. I disagree with you on how physical attractiveness trumps all other forms of attractive features. At least not the women I'd want to attract. Maybe physi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personFor physical and facial deformities and actual fucked up mental traits, that's unattractive to an extent. If you're awkward then you're not being vulnerable. Awkward people keep on clinging on to their ego and want give it up for the social situation. Vulnerability calls for a relinquishment of power and ego. I think a lot of people here make vulnerability seem like it's weakness, timidity, shyness. It's not. If one is truly vulnerable then he or she wouldn't really care what contentious and sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/16 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personIt can't be used as a tool. It's manipulation and not being honest if you "act" honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/16 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personYeah. It's attractive. You're being upfront and to an extent authentic, which is attractive. But it doesn't negate being needy and whiny. Seduction is simply having more of an investment in oneself than the other person has for you. That type of approach would still be unattractive and self work needs to be done. So honestly to oneself would be a priority in that case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/16 06:46 PM |
| -1 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personThat's not what vulnerability means. Vulnerability just means just means being comfortable with one's own weaknesses, not suppressing and being able to honestly say what you truly believe. You're mistaking egotism, which is what you described, with vulnerability. Semantics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/16 06:28 PM |
| 9 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personWeakness is the opposite of vulnerability. Being comfortable with one's own weaknesses is the very essence of strength itself. It's completely honest. "Being honest or vulnerable to someone creates a greater deal of trust and intimacy, removes games and ambiguity, creates sexual tension through bold behaviors, accelerates sexual and romantic relationships, builds self-esteem and (usually) demonstrates confidence to the other person." - Lazily quoted from Mark Manson because I'm tired and about t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/16 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Vulnerability is the most attractive feature of a personVulnerability is the opposite of weakness, which is what it's sometimes misconstrued as. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/16 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Let's talk about degrading sex actsI suppose it's different for many males. What really gets me off is getting my partner off. From what I heard about female sexuality, women don't necessarily have fetishes, they pick up what their partners are into pretty quickly if they like their partner. From what I know, women love to be dominated, only in the bedroom though. They also love quite a bit of other things, the depths of male sexuality is what you just described: choking, slapping, biting. But there are some women that can get of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/16 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Q4BP - What contradictions do you see in RP? RP feel free to answer underneath BPYeah, but I see how they're always consumed with the idea of being a "man" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/16 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever seen or heard of a guy that was an ultra nice, pushover doormat, then when rejected suddenly turned into a violent, angry asshole?Yeah, this does exist. It's an aspect of humanity. I'm not saying it's a good thing, in fact it takes great strength and discipline to recognize and transcend this. This is relevant to the original post, a lot of guys feel this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/16 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever seen or heard of a guy that was an ultra nice, pushover doormat, then when rejected suddenly turned into a violent, angry asshole?Sure, but he's letting himself be seized by the situation, which is not taking self ownership. He can make the decision to not direct anger towards the employer and go about productive activities, but he's surrendering to the external influences and letting himself be angry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/16 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Q4BP - What contradictions do you see in RP? RP feel free to answer underneath BPWomen are irrational and primarily emotional but cold, Machiavellian, and manipulative? Women are emotional beings and direct their hatred into themselves, but also TRP does this by directly their hate into themselves and fails to become disciplined, and they consequently blame outside forces, "AWALT" and being obsessed over "alfafas". TRP aims to create better men, but their posts are generally about women. TRP are a lot like the feminists they so dearly dislike: they blame society for being co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/16 12:31 AM |
| 9 | Have you ever seen or heard of a guy that was an ultra nice, pushover doormat, then when rejected suddenly turned into a violent, angry asshole?Maybe not immediately after being rejected, in such a way as you described. But that hate and anger is channeled somewhere else, mostly towards women and "alpha males", I've seen tons of guys direct their inner pain towards external forces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Looking at the fundamental beliefs I found something pretty contradictory.Sources? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/16 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Looking at the fundamental beliefs I found something pretty contradictory.But that doesn't mean currency existed for most of human history. As if prostitution is bad. Hunter gatherers lived in egalitarian settlements, meaning everything was shared, whatever products that had plus sex was shared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/16 05:10 PM |
| -1 | Looking at the fundamental beliefs I found something pretty contradictory.Primatology, archeology, hunter gatherers are still alive today, evolutionary psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/16 01:11 AM |
| -1 | Looking at the fundamental beliefs I found something pretty contradictory.That's a common misconception about hunter gatherer women. They were promiscuous only for the sake of protection and goods | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/16 12:27 AM |
| -4 | Looking at the fundamental beliefs I found something pretty contradictory.But my whole point is that this is self contradictory. And evolutionarily anthropologists have ruled this theory out. Women in primordial times didn't exchange their vagina for goods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion] This Dr. Nerdlove blog seemed to critically distill the ideas of TRP. Responses or refutations?It works because a lot of the things you say are true. Increase one's self investment by working out, reading, dressing better, improving one's hygiene, and actually approaching women. These things do work. What doesn't work or is unhealthy and abusive is the ideology attached to the Redpill. I don't think he's looking to TRP as "competition", he sees legitimate problems and issues within this ideology. I think like two people in this actually thread answered something that was an actual respons… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/16 06:21 PM |
| 3 | In high school and need some advice [M 17]Exactly. Sexual suppression only exacerbates your sexual issues. Instead of looking within and addressing one's sexual primal aspect and embracing it, they suppress masturbation and blame their inadequacies on something that has nothing to do with masturbation itself. | /r/seduction | 01/04/16 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Are We Sexual Omnivores? | Christopher Ryan | TED Talks -- Humans are not innately monogamous.I could use the same argument you're using for Saxon herself., if she's even a she. Lynn Saxon isn't even her real name and the sources that she uses are a bit iffy. If anyone's points should be taken skeptically, it should be the points of someone who doesn't even exist, someone who created a character, someone with no known background. Also, which one of William Crocker's work was being cited? | /r/seduction | 20/09/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Are We Sexual Omnivores? | Christopher Ryan | TED Talks -- Humans are not innately monogamous.Although he's not an anthropologist and he states that he himself isn't one in his podcast many many times, why would any of that matter if or if not he has made some decent points about human sexuality? I'd also like to know why his personal sexual preferences matter since he's formulating his points on scientific anthropological evidence. | /r/seduction | 20/09/15 08:09 AM |
| 3 | What do you guys think about NoFap?It's only a problem if you put too much attention into jerking off. You can masturbate three times a day but that's okay to some extent if you don't make such a big deal about it. If you constantly fixate on how much of a loser you are for masturbating rather than just removing your urges is tons more damaging. If it really gets in the way of your life, as in it severely affects how you can improve yourself or interact with people, then you should change how you masturbate. Not completely cut it… | /r/seduction | 12/09/15 06:06 PM |
| 1 | This article on Tinder rings a scary truth. It reminds me of Brave New World.Interesting the line "time to swipe right to something better than this" . What do they propose? | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 07:04 PM |
| -1 | How do I send a good first message on online dating?Eh, that's really boring. Anything with hey in it or the likes will just be glossed over. Be spontaneous and fun and weird and impulsive. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I send a good first message?Just think of the first thing that comes to mind, 90% of the messages girls get always have Hello or what's up or something boring in it, and don't start out with a compliment, that's the other 5% . Be as unique as possible to differentiate yourself from all the other guys. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Post the feedback you've had from womenEh, I don't like the idea of this. It seems really egotistical and we're what we are now, not what girl in the past. | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 06:07 PM |
| -2 | So if a girl being intoxicated means she cant give consent, why would anyone ever try to pick up chicks at a bar?To have fun and not always try to stick your wing wang in some drunk girl's wizard sleeve. | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 04:50 AM |
| 3 | How do you approach girls whole clubbing?"Those heels look painful, what an odd fad" "I made this beat yo" It all depends on the situation. You can think of something easily, you just have to connect. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Guys who were never good at "talking" their whole life, how did you change/improve?Sounds cliché but you just have to be in the moment, don't worry, don't notice how awkward you may be, don't think about what to say. Don't even focus too hard. Be of now. After all, the vibes are really 75% of the situation, not what you say. | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 11:25 AM |
| 2 | 1000 right swipes on tinder - 0 swipes, what's wrong?Dude, just talk to girls. The challenge of it will build character and it's so much more fun than meeting girls on your phone. | /r/seduction | 05/07/15 11:40 PM |
| 8 | Tinder , Okc and Online dating - favoring girls ?The newer generation prefers these online dating websites because it's easy, not because it's better. There's so much lost online even on a microbial level, you have to smell their hair and such. But the greatest reason I think directly approaching is the best way for men, not even in seduction, is because it brings one out of their comfort zone, this can build character and it can be so much fun for both sexes. Try to approach in real life, it favors you because no other guy actually has the ba… | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Am i a selfish seducer?No. | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 05:05 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to a girl's "you are not my type", "you are ugly" or facially expressed "euhh"?Let this truth diminish your ego and make you stronger and walk away. | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you?10s aren't only attracted to 10s | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 07:06 PM |
| 1 | The problem with dating appsAlso there's so much more to attraction, that's going on in the microbial level. You have to smell each other's pheromones, their hair, and such. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 06:58 PM |
| 3 | How to masturbate responsibly?Don't make such a big deal out of it. | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | A 9/10 girl's review on Pickup - "With great power comes great responsibility"There is a reason PUA is synonymous with self-improvement, because it is. I rarely see people use it as the nefarious 'tactics' that people use just to abuse women. Everybody just wants to have fun and PUA allows that. | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 10:22 PM |
| 2 | How long should good sex take?I don't see why you're getting downvoted so much. Probably because as a guy two hours seems like such a long time but for women that can be utterly amazing. | /r/seduction | 18/03/15 04:16 AM |
| 2 | How long should good sex take?There's no correct answer, one night stands it doesn't really matter but when you're with a girl you really like and wish to please her there really is no definite answer. Girls want the entire spectrum of sex. Women take a longer time to climax so really slow, sensual, passionate, sex can be a really good thing for her. Get to know what she likes, there is no time limit. | /r/seduction | 18/03/15 04:12 AM |
| 2 | To get girls you have to get rejected - Just do itAlright guys, we've solved this subreddit. It's been fun but gg everyone. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Approaching a legitimate 10.I have self esteem problems. Can you post a picture of yourself? | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 09:31 PM |
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