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To see how easily they can break your frame
/r/askTRP10/06/21 01:31 AM
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This is a great post! Both Logan and Floyd are MEN that grab life by the balls. Taking life too seriously is detrimental because it means you give a lot of weight to failure, but being afraid to fail just doesn't lead anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 03:09 AM
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All my dates I've set up through text. But you can also send them a voice memo through the sms, but just make sure your voice sounds good on a recording. I like voice messages because I can convey tone and attitude more easily, and girls usually also compliment my voice so its something extra I can use to make then want to set the date
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:48 PM
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I also thought of this, because some girls really love to suck dick, and like you said, sometimes they might even cum doing the act. At the same time, it ties with the TRP theory of a girl from a broken family, or that grew up with a beta father, and how you would never want to marry a woman with such a poor upbringing or with unresolve childhood traumas. Everything needs to be taken as grain of salt in this subreddit, because humans are just too complicated to narrow it all down to Kama Sutra
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 07:21 PM
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Very interesting point, and of course it's very hard to prove. However, my current LTR says that she doesn't like sucking dick, but that she would suck mine anytime-anywhere. I specifically told her that I love getting blowjobs, and fucking her throath, but that I could definitely notice she doesn't like to do it because she wasn't very good at it. After I told her this, she started to do it more and more often, just to prove that she can please me sexually the way I like it. I might marry this …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 06:30 PM
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Men pierce their nipples too 😂 It has become a trend and you know that women love bein in trend. Goes from nipple piercing all the way to making tik tok dances.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:26 PM
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Sounds like you need good ol Stoicism in your life
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:03 AM
1

What are you spending time on now that you only go once a week? If you are depressed not going to the gym will only make it worse because working out releases endorphins. Just go even if you don't want to, and even if its half assed you need to go more than once a week.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:13 PM
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Well I mean yeah cuddling is cool and whatever but after fucking a normal plate I don't feel like I need to cuddle, or anything that might hint that there's feelings involved. I'll take her to eat, or back to her house so that I can continue living my awesome life and working on becoming an awesome software engineer. Ain't nobody got time for that! But I do see why my plates keep breaking, but tbh I just dont give a fuck about wasting time with women yet, maybe Ill grow out of this phase.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:18 PM
16

Never thought of this, I will try it out
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:19 PM
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Im an introvert, and I want you to remember that growth comes from getting out of your comfort zone. I do agree that as introverts we will always concentrate in quality over quantity but putting yourself in situations where you need to be social is super beneficial if you have a growth mindset. The same goes with extreme extroverts in the opposite direction.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 10:27 PM
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This shit is actually solid advice!!
/r/askTRP19/01/21 04:01 PM
13

You can try but chances are he will not listen at all
/r/askTRP22/12/20 07:58 PM
1

I see it as trying to tickle the clitoris and all surrounding areas with my tounge. Combine that with wide tounge strokes and some slight suctioning. I don't have crazy experience but most girls prefer a less aggressive approach when it comes to oral (not like porn).
/r/askTRP28/11/20 05:29 PM
2

You'd be surprised how awesome your body can get with just bodyweight/balance movements! Look into calisthenics and just start with the basics. Do a shit ton of repetitions with short periods of rest and you can at least do this until you build the confidence to do whatever the fuck you want when you beckme 18. People were inventing shit at 18 so Im sure you'll survive without your father if he ever goes nuts on you for wanting to exercise.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:17 PM
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I'm on the same boat, and I honestly don't feel it's "too late" or feel like a failure. Im studying CS and Im more passionate about my education and my progress now, so now Im doing it. I wasn't that passionate about it when I was 19-22 so it's just a few years I need to make up?? I feel like Im more disciplined now so Im just trying to keep this momentum going without worrying about age
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:27 PM
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Diversify! You can start with the easy steps of buying stocks with an app like WeBull. You can also buy crypto currencies. You can also drop money on the S&P 500 and other ETF's. You can aslo take more of an active approach, in which you will have to learn to trade options, or trade cryptos or trade in the foreign exchange markets.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:17 AM
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Solid advice! OP: You'll get your Rolex bro! Just make sure that when you do buy one rolex, you can afford 3 Rolex more on top of that ;) Be patient, and be diligent with how you invest your money. You have an advantage not many 19 year olds have so don't let that get to your head.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:12 AM
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Just hope you took advantage of last year when BTC was down to 4K.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:08 AM
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If you kept buying even more after that, so you probably also bought when it was at 4K. In which case you are balling right now sir 🤙🏽
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:02 AM
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Bro fuck the rolex, that shit is not going to add value to your life at all. Buy Bitcoin and let that money grow!!
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:38 AM
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Yeah, as long as you make their hamster wheel spin you are in control. You can start in your car and finish at the hotel room but you should have kept that part to yourself, and make it seem like it was just you being spontaneous and fun ;) Im sure you'll play your cards right
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:31 PM
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Yeah dude, a hotel room just makes you look way too invested in this exchange. I would definitely try to just do a normal car date with her and see how she responds to your light kino. If she gets nervous, blushes, smiles, thenyou are golden and you can go for the kiss. Since you are in a car things might escalate but depending in how adventurous she is you might not be able to F close. However, personally I feel that leaving them wanting more really makes them want sex even more. Good luck
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:27 PM
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Woah! First Reward! Thank you anonymous.
/r/seduction19/10/20 01:58 PM
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It's a mentality you nee to develop as a person, is not something you particularly "gain". You just have to realize that you dont live a life of scarcity. In fact abundance mentality does not apply to women only. It applies to money, health, knowledge, career and basically everything. So for example, let's say that you all of a sudden have to pay a big amount of money for a car repair. Instead of feeling beat down or angry or stressed, you just smile pay that shit because you LIVE IN ABUNDANCE. …
/r/seduction18/10/20 09:42 PM
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Abundance Mentality
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:48 PM
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I tried, and I didn't mind, until I did mind and now I find it disgusting 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:45 AM
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Simple, honest and vulnerable. Honesty is always appreciated, and since both are now in the same page this is going to fun real fast.
/r/seduction12/10/20 09:08 PM
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Stop whining, that ain't getting you anywhere.
/r/seduction12/10/20 07:52 PM
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💯💯💯💯
/r/seduction12/10/20 07:51 PM
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Agree!
/r/seduction08/10/20 07:11 PM
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Trampoline park, mini golf, beach / pool (unless you haven't been working out), Axe Throwing, Arcade, Ive even taken some to play basketball
/r/askTRP06/10/20 05:17 PM
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Yeah dude, there's no time for you to even think about why she dediced to cut you off. Chances are she is going to try to "give a try" at another "relationship", fail and then just text you in a few months. In a few more months you are probably already way more jacked from the gym and with an even stronger frame. Pussy comes and goes as long as you take care of frame, mindset and physique.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:36 AM
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Your approach to TRP is so immature, and you are not even enjoying the process. You can definitely be direct like that, BUT that will only work with CLASS A HOES and you definitely don't want to raw dawg a bitch that agrees to fuck over text like that. Everyday is different, and women might not want to fuck but maybe hangout. If you play your cards right she will start feeling horny during your time hanging and even tho they didn't even feel lile fucking that day you made her want it!! I have ne…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:30 PM
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Have plates everywhere dude! Post pictures with other girls and see how some old plates start cing back for no reason lol
/r/askTRP02/10/20 05:10 PM
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Dude this is a no brainer haha! Be Bold!! Women love it when you do bold shit specially when she's already thinking about giving head, gets them even more excited for you.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 07:28 PM
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100% agree to tell her that you are a virgin, it shows you aren't afraid of being vulnerable and real.
/r/seduction30/09/20 10:11 PM
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You can just high five her, and tell her "Want me to set you up with one of my hot friends?"
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:11 PM
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Totally Agree! I only said she's already winning because clearly this guy has no game. And both parts are playing the game, so if OP isn't spinning more than ONE plate, then by default he wont have a chance to really be red pilled with this woman. Personally I only have 2 - 3 girls actively being spun. I do however have more girls that are lurking or orbitting around me, because I just always leave them wanting more. I work full time and go to college full time, I have 0 fucks who is fucking who…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:04 PM
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Wheres the red pill content in his post? He's just venting like a beta bitch.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 10:44 PM
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This isn't relationship advice
/r/askTRP17/09/20 10:35 PM
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You are not wrong at all!! We are human beings and we must ride the wave of life. Of course we are bound to feel lonely! Thats why I have friends and family! Sex is also something we humans are bound to seek! But I dont none of those things to not feel lonely but to feel even more connected to people in general. But like I said, I first took care of knowing myself and really enjoying being my own company by doing the things I like. I met people by doing me, and thats how I met almost all the peo…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 10:23 PM
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I can 100% agree with this!! When you are your own best friend loneliness is never a thing!! When you are just enjoying the process of working on yourself everyday, the thought of being alone never pops up! Whats amazing about this mentality is, that when you realize than none of us are really alone because we have our own company, women automatically get attracted by this sense of resilience and self love. Stoicism really helps to build a life thats fulfilling.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:31 PM
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The point is to have multiple women in idle status. All of a sudden they see you doing well or working out or hanging out with other girls, and boom an idle girl pops up in your Snap chat looking to have some of the fun she already knows you can provide ;) Do not think you have to invest too much time on all of them. Just strip away any expectations from your mind and let things flow how they should. Never ever care when a girl stops fucking with you.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:27 PM
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Women always have their option open with very little effort. Meaning that if you only have one plate, shes already winning because she will always have orbitters. Which are plates that basically fell from the sky because she has a vagina, so that makes you just another orbitter. When you have multiple plates, you are already different from all her other orbitters making you instantly more attractive.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:20 PM
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It's been two weeks, she calls me today asking me, "what is happening"?Just because I sent her a cool song from Banes World, she thought I was telling her to leave me alone. Its hilarious when the hamster wheel starts spinning in their heads and you just reply in a non chalant way how dumb she is for jumping to random conclusions...... HILARIOUS.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:16 PM
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Absolutely, you can use it to build sexual tension and plant a sexual seed for the next time she is alone in her apartment in she will text you to see what you are up to, and she will most likely be extra horny for you.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 04:29 AM
1

Honestly not even too long, the confidence working out gives you is the real game changer personally. Also stopping masturbation gave me an even bigger increase in confidence, confidence that you can hear, smell, and see. You begin radiating that energy and women just become curious as to what makes this man be so confident and content. When you start realizing the effect you begin having on women then it becomes so much more easier to approach girls left and right. Simply because you know that …
/r/askTRP15/01/20 08:29 PM
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Just do you my friend, you dont know shit about me. More actions less words 💯
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 07:24 PM
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I call it self love, I dont question self love. I just do, I dont talk shit on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 07:16 PM
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There's no concrete answer, everyone defines success differently. Accomplishing goals that matter to you require some amount of discipline. Some goals are harder to accomplish, which means it requires more discipline. To me its all about falling in love with the whole process of improving yourself constantly, keeping active and being heavily involved in your daily routines. There's peace in knowing you are actually moving forward at a steady pace.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 07:02 PM
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I want to learn forex trading
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:10 AM
1

It happened literally 5 minutes in and I asked her if it was normal for her and she said it is but no one ever made it happen that fast. I told her that I loved it and I thought it was hot. The thing about the situation is that I dont want to ask "why didn't you want to have sex last night?" That shit is needy and does not align with abundance mentality. I guess Ill take her out and show her good time, just to take her mind of anything sexual.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 02:59 PM
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As a guy who used to lie all the time, I cant agree more to this post. Stoic philosophy heavily condemns the acto of lying because its seen as weak and a hindrance to growth. My parents where very controlling and I always felt I had to lie for me not get fucking screamed at lol. I then carried this into dating and work, but thanks to Stoic Philosophy I was able to deeply impactful it is in our lives to tell a single lie I started to be BRUTALLY honest all the time, 0 fucks given. I started calli…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 03:02 PM
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Its true, even when you do jerk off and bang a bitch. After the bang sesh your voice and whole aura feels manly as shit.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:50 AM
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Talk louder than usual, it helps establish presence and gives you a confidence undertone.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:42 AM
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But crazy treats my dick right lol
/r/askTRP19/08/19 03:51 PM
1

Thats the case for 90% of women in Tinder anyways. I just want to bang her and hopefully keep her as a plate. Yesterday was our first time meeting and tbh I was a little shy cuz she is definitely an HB8. But I kept my cool and managed to get a kiss from her even though I had a nasty blister on my lip, so I consider that a win already ahaha.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 03:50 PM
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Precisely what I thought but I cant seem to pin point what makes this a red flag. Could you maybe shine some light on why this is a red flag??
/r/askTRP19/08/19 03:40 PM
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So shes using me as a way to make her crush jealous in hopes hell come after her? I thought her ASD will make her keep our little date quite, at least for a while.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 07:09 AM
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I cant run away if I want to fuck her
/r/askTRP19/08/19 07:04 AM
1

Well I feel like practicing Stoic principles, for example the Stoics emphasized how you have no control of somebody else’s action other than your own. So in that instance, you never had any control of someone taking your pack of gum. But you have a problem, which is no salivation glands or whatever. However your problem will not seize to exist by having that pack of gum, the problem will still remain with or without it. Since the problem that you have is 1.unknown to others 2.Pretty much minuscu…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 09:31 PM
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Well you shouldn’t give a fuck about the chewing gum, you definitely have to give a fuck about your saliva production. Separating this two things is important, since the gum is just a temporary fix to your real problem. Like other people have mentioned, it was better to go with a more nonchalant approach, because when women see you reacting emotionally to anything they will start poking you more and more, to them is super fun lol And there was never any reason to act emotionally for a pack of gu…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 09:10 PM
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Lol who gives a fuck about gum man, buy another pack if the bitch wants to have the whole pack. She was only teasing you because you got angry at her and like a child it amuses them. Show no emotion, especially for unimportant things. You should’ve been more stoic on this matter but you chose to act like a boy instead of a man.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 08:58 PM
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Obviously, women usually go in tangents that are based on emotion and I just ignore half of it because its useless information.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 10:28 PM
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Hi everyone I first heard of the red pill about 9 months ago. Its been a mind blowing experience. I was that kid who was afraid of other peoples opinion and was just beta as fuck, still am but at least now Im aware of it so I can catch myself in my own bullshit(sometime). But I did find out that I already did a lot of the activities that were recommended in here. I read stoic philosophy and self help books, I work out very consistently, I don’t play video games, I meditate occasionally but someh…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 06:41 AM
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This is SOLID!
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:49 AM
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Bro its crazy but my FWB was telling me that the first few days we went out, she perceived I had a “Big Dick Energy”. I got curious and asked her how “she knew” I have a big cock (I don’t btw, its average). She told me she looked at posture, muscularity, and attitude. I was mind blown! Ive learned so much from the relationship I have with this FWB.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 05:38 AM
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Brooo I thought about jumping in the middle! I still ended in the middle of both haha.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:43 PM
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Yes, noticed that she is just asking me to validate her when she's feeling lesser. At first I didn't know how to react to this load of shit. I quickly tried to make her feel better, but she just continued with her dilusion. Then I just took the approach to mock her insecurities and took them into an extreme to see if she noticed that she was being dramatic. None of the above things worked. I just told her to complain about her "problems" with another of her insecure friends.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 07:30 PM
1

Yes I am describing 90% of women, and that's why I wrote this post. I wanna understand the TRP insight on how to approach this insecurities and just understand my role as alpha male when she starts dumping shit into my plate. My plate is already full with all the REAL problems I have to deal with, I dont need more shit in it.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:38 PM
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I just told her to not come to me with those stupid insecurities that she calls "problems" because is not worth my time. That she should text her friend Camille (equally insecure girl) because she will probably understand her better than me.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:14 PM
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How come she doesn't realize that shes been a victim of her own insecurities? We live in world where everyone looks for the quick fix. But we all know quick fixes are just band-aid solutions, it isnt fixing the initial problem is juts feeding the insecurities.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:08 PM
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She is blaming her period lmfao
/r/askTRP19/07/18 04:44 PM
1

I appreciate the time taken to help me figure out a possible course of action on how to breakup with a plate with the least amount of investment, and at the same time keeping the door open. I'm slowly internalizing TRP since I have seen how it can lead to more meaningful relationships, and it is slowly transforming me into the man I should be. I will never again put a woman before anything in my life. I think it is pointless to even continue talking to this plate when I move to Colorado. I will …
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:16 PM
1

Yes, I am trying to figure out what is best for me, I'm just not sure what is best for me. One part of me wants to end all contact and just continue with my life meeting other women, the other side of me (beta) wants to keep in touch with her to see if she takes the initiative to come along. I also dont want to be a complete asshole because if I ever come visit PR theres a possible lay waiting for me.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:51 PM
2

I'm sorry what is foing?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:40 PM
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I see what you did there, I assume telling me I sound like a cartoon because I used exclamation marks, was your way of showing me that all it takes is to speak your mind and not give a fuck. Fuck, I never thought I was just getting tired because I was filtering mysef! That makes so much goddamn sense. I can think of at least three ocassion that yesterday I filtered my words just to avoid unnecessary conflict. I tend to avoid conflicts. Im trying to do small little things on a daily basis to crea…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 10:46 AM
0

Hey is not like that! Im just trying to get some ideas from someone that went through the same. Maybe someone can give me ideas on what baby steps I can take to slowly become outcome independent
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:39 PM
1

Most girls are more scare of you than you are to them, they're are full of insecurities too. Enjoy being a dominant male, embrace your power.
/r/seduction26/05/17 05:03 PM
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Ok so I already mentioned we planned on going out this Friday (yesterday). I was supposed to pick up Marcela and Victoria at Victoria's house but when I arrive Marcela was not there. She had to stay home yo take care of her child, so I took Victoria to a Club. We danced and drank for 2 and a half hour. She then tell me "Damn now you have to drive all the way to Dorado (where I live)! If you want you can take a power nap at my house before taking off." I gave her this perverted look and she smile…
/r/seduction26/03/17 12:22 AM
1

What do you mean when you say "building boundaries". And thanks for taking your time to comment. I'm trying to not care about validity of women but I'm 21 and I've only had ONE real girlfriend. I've been single for 3 years now and I miss being loved by a women.
/r/seduction16/07/16 01:19 AM
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Actually most are random girls that approach me at college, usually they know something about me and they approach me with that. For me is easier this way because I'm not expecting anything out of the conversation and I feel more empowered knowing that she approached so it means that she finds me somewhat attractive. Most of the time they don't ask to go out on a date with me but they give me clues like "We should hang out more at college or I need help with my homework", if I like them enough I…
/r/seduction08/07/16 01:09 PM
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Ok ok I get it yeah maybe I'm too self conscious about what I say or don't say.
/r/seduction07/07/16 04:17 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to show me some light, I'm desperate dude! Yes I'm needy, I have a bunch of friends that are in serious relationships or getting laid constantly, but when it comes to me just a few girls show interest in me. When they show interest I get attached too fast and I feel it, it creeps me out sometimes. I want to have a more social life, or at least more active sexually for gods sake I'm 21 and I have only fucked 2 girls in my life. I'm not a bad looking guy, and I go to the…
/r/seduction04/07/16 12:09 PM
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Yeah I'm pretty bad when it comes to seducing potential partners.
/r/seduction03/07/16 11:52 PM
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Well she told me that the only day we could see each other was going to be Friday. Even before telling me she wanted to fuck. I don't go out much so I literally don't know where to go or what to do late at night. This has always been a problem when dating, she picks me up and asks me what are we going to do and and I always say "I don't know, or take me anywhere". I don't go out as much as she does mainly because I have no car, so she definitely gets disappointed when I tell her I don't know. I …
/r/seduction03/07/16 11:20 PM
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I think I'm just going to accept the fact that she will only be a good friend. A friend, not because she didn't want me sexually but because I didn't play my cards right. Honestly, I don't know how to play this game, I just do whatever happens. I don't think I'm the seductive type of guy, I don't enjoy going out or actively search for new sex opportunities. It almost isn't an issue for me, but sometimes my testosterone really wants me to get sexually active or else I'm going to end up masturbati…
/r/seduction17/06/16 08:17 AM
1

Well I didnt fuck her because I didnt have a place to do it right then. We both live at our parents house so it was going to be hard. If she wanted to fuck wjy she said NO?
/r/seduction14/06/16 04:18 AM
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What did I do wrong? Im sure my neediness showed through way too much.
/r/seduction14/06/16 03:25 AM
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Where can I see the steps of such ladder?
/r/seduction06/02/15 08:08 PM
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Thanks! I'll do it
/r/seduction06/02/15 06:32 PM
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I see........Im a hard to get treat, my plans here are to be in a relationship with her. With that said, should I give her occasional gifts like a flower or a handmade necklace, something small but that says that I care and think about her? Or is that just the. cliché thing to do? Any books you know of, about the flirting game, I want to start being flirty with her but I don't know if she will like, how do I know when it's ok to flirt without creeping her out (I've done this a couple of times :/…
/r/seduction03/02/15 02:59 AM
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I've already gone out with her a just a couple of times (3). The last time we hung out she said that she's starting to really like me and that she would like to give us a chance (we were high). Do I still don't call her or should I do at least talk with her a few minutes to flirt and have her excited for our next meeting up?
/r/seduction03/02/15 01:36 AM
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