Ok so I've had this crush on a girl that's at my college. One day she randomly sends me a "Hello" in FB: needless to say I was very excited. We started talking almost everyday for a few weeks I ask her out to the movies but I didn't do any type of kino or any approach to get more intimate since she was my crush I was just trying to play it really cool and not give her too much attention. However this girl drives me crazy, so we keep texting back and forth and she starts telling me that she wants to fuck and wants me to eat her out, but she does that through texts or when shes very far from her house (she lives fairly close to me). So she agreed on a second date, at first I was trying to play it cool and waiting for her to make a move but nothing was happening, so we got in our cars and headed out to eat, in my car I was screaming to myself that I needed to touch and get rejected I needed to be the savage that she proclaimed SHE was (she bluffed). When we get to BK we were going to be eating in I started some gentle touching (putting my hand around her waist or shoulders). Slowly went down and rubbed a little of her ass, and I kissed on the cheek while we waited to order. After we ate we just chilled at the parking lot, we talked for a few minutes and then I asked her to kiss me. She did, then I reciprocated and we made out for 2 minutes. I tried to put my hand between her legs but she quickly took it out and said "Now we stop" I laughed and told her "ok just let me took her face and kissed her nose very gently she didnt reject me) then each of us left home. After this date I was " HOOKED" I dont usually get dates with any girl and my CRUSH wanted to date mee I couldn't hold it up together and I started texting her things like "Ive never kissed some one so passionately before" or "I like you a fucking lot" but she never said "me too" she never complimented me and she said things like "Stop telling me you like me cause its not true". One night she told me " I hope you dont mind me having sex with other people". That text hurt so much haha I ALWAYS GET TOO ATTACHED WAY TO QUICKLY and I hate it. So I said "do whatever you want, just know I won't ever trust you with intimacy" and asked her if we were talking for something serious or if she wanted to fuck around with me" she said she didnt know. So I keep texting back and forth and she then tells me that she wasn't taking anything serious so I quickly went from being respectful to her to being a horny needy fucking retard and told ger that we should fuck to figure out if I would be just a one night stand or a fuck buddy or FWB. This is were she told me that she didnt want to fuck me because she liked me and she didnt want to hurt me (she used this because she knew I was desperate for her since I continuously told her I liked her, I was hoping for a ME TOO). I want to know how can I stop getting so involved with any women that demonstrates some type of interest ? I wanted to fuck her so bad but now I think im friendzoned and I think I pissed her up with my neediness. Im pissed off too because she told me several times that she wanted to fuck and that it was hard for her to contain herself on our first date, but she then puts me on the friendzone. I obviously did something wrong.