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I'll read that one too, thanks man!
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 06:22 AM
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There's a great book that I'm reading, it's called The power of Now, by Eckhart Tolle. What it says is, we're basically living our lives dominated by the past or future,which compared to the present are not real, and we can't control them, instead of living in the present. A very interesting point of view. I would strongly recommend reading it. It gives you a different perspective on things. Check it out.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 03:07 PM
2

I've never read a book in a club 😁. Sometimes people approach you, sometimes you approach them.
/r/seduction25/10/19 04:20 PM
4

Do it enough times and it will feel natural. It's a great way to meet people. Just try it a few times.
/r/seduction25/10/19 04:16 PM
1

Do it enough times, it won't hurt anymore.
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:08 PM
1

statistically speaking, the odds of any of us to accomplish something that remains throughout history is very small. Sure, some dudes accomplished "great" things, but compared to the many many many more who did not accomplish "great" things, the chance is very small. That does not mean to not strive for excellence, it's just the way it is. I don't think it's constructive to look at it like that, instead compare yourself to what you were in the past. Are you doing something better than what you u…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 02:40 PM
3

building quality things takes time, learn that and accept it. There are shortcuts, but weigh the risks very carefully.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:48 AM
1

if she wants to fuck you, she'll fuck you anywhere. Keep it clean though. It's all in your head, stop worrying about it for now. Get a better place whenever you can.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:52 AM
1

cold showers may help. The idea is that usually you rarely have uncomfortable situations as a cold shower in your day to day life. And it will make you less anxious about other uncomfortable situations. Try it for a month and see what you get. 30 seconds to 1 minute once per day. If it works for soldiers, should work for you as well.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 09:16 AM
1

I am having them just, like I said, once or twice a week I found was ok for me. I know how to make french fries :D first thing I learned to make. Nothing beats french fries made out of real potatoes for me XD.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:29 AM
1

need no. But the cravings drive me nuts. I love pasta, ice-cream, french fries. Basically all the bad stuff. I found it helpful to have some from time to time, eg once a week, so as not to just go crazy. To each his own.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 01:55 PM
1

have a cheat day, once a week, and choose your poison. It's very hard to give up carbs all together.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 09:11 AM
3

I would say, don't make decisions for other people, unless asked to. Let her decide if she's too young for you, if she's of legal age.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:49 AM
1

I'll quote something I heard a stripper say once "I just fuck men for money, I don't suck dick for money, therefore I am not a prostitute" Stupidity is universal and is found everywhere.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:52 PM
1

There's men out there who do not want kids as well. As for the cooking part, it was just an example. Some men want their women to cook for them, some don't really care about that particular aspect. My face is mediocrity itself, I've never given a blowjob, I eat all my meals in restaurants, and I don't even want kids. Pick what you can improve from that list and other things, and start changing them, if you want different results, change what you are doing. Up to a point, beauty is subjective. Ma…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 01:00 PM
1

well, whatever it is you're doing is not working, so change your game. Change venues, join a gym, or wherever you think men that you'd like would hang out. Here's a joke about this predicament: An unusual High-Street store in New York selling new husbands had just opened. It was publicized that each woman could visit this store ONLY ONCE! There were six floors and the value of the products increased as the shopper ascended the flights. The shopper could choose any item from any floor, or choose …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 11:09 AM
1

From what I read, you don't sound very feminine. And there's no such think as an unattractive woman, there's just men who have not had enough to drink. So, being unattractive physically is not that big of a deal. Find a hairstyle that suits your facial bone structure disadvantage. Start working on what you can control. You need to learn to seduce, so start reading about it. How to dress, to talk, to behave in order to seduce men. Generally speaking, it does not take much if you just want to get …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 09:38 AM
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The Mongol Empire was the largest contiguous empire the world has ever seen. British was bigger by land mass, but it was not contiguous.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:31 AM
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Discipline or medical reasons.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:26 AM
2

Block her.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 02:54 PM
1

Being confident is not the same as narcissism. Figure out a way to boost it (work out, pick up some hobbies etc), it will help you in everything you do, not just with women interactions.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 02:38 PM
2

You're overthinking, why do you care about this female friend? You asked her out, she said no, end of story.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 11:08 AM
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despise women ^ ^ I like women. I don't despise them. How can I get over this dude, romantically? Time. Give it time. See someone else. Keep yourself busy.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:06 PM
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get money, fuck bitches.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:54 AM
1

sometimes your dick just won't work. Happens to everyone at some point afaik. Quitting porn and MB is fine if you want to do it. Things will get better, don't worry.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 09:51 AM
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a part of me feels like I don't deserve it. I feel guilty. Why? Any past trauma? It may help to see a professional about it if you don't figure it out.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:48 PM
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Nope. Unless she insists repeatedly to know about them. I keep it short, "things didn't work out etc". Sometimes they ask, sometimes they don't.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 09:01 AM
2

Having boundaries is not the same as being a dick. If you have no boundaries, people will walk all over you. Learn to have boundaries. Stick to your beliefs. Being "nice" as in overly nice is not actually genuine. Get No more Mr Nice Guy and read it.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:32 PM
1

There's no advancement without pain. Remember that, get used to it. Life will throw shit at you, no way around that. So, what you can control instead is how you deal with it. If you think you can't sink any lower and feel worse, well, that's good because the only way to go is up. good luck.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 02:44 PM
1

2g of proteins for pound of your body A DAY, and come on that is really expensive Buy whey protein powder. It's really hard not to mention expensive to reach 2g a day per kg of body mass without protein supplements.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 07:56 AM
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126g .
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:02 PM
1

Thing is you won't get any answers so Don't dwell on it
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:24 PM
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To gain muscle, you need around 2g of protein per KG of body mass per day. Are you getting that much? If you are, then you should see improvements with time.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:09 PM
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Next day she blocked me on WhatsApp! This fuckin' hurt Why? you just went on ONE date with her. Work on not giving so many fucks. Tinder is a numbers game. Go out more.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:03 PM
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Library.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:34 PM
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Practice. Work out. Dress well. Don't give up, you'll get there eventually.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:33 AM
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lolwut. It is a number game. If she likes you enough, she'll say yes. 3rd or 4th sentence. If not, you saved some time, and time is valuable. As with everything, it depends on how you say it and how confident you are.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:05 AM
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XD. Um, ask her out on a date.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 04:53 AM
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No.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 08:53 AM
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Throughout interactions, I know that the women are going to act as if I'm invisible. Fix whatever it is you need to so that you don't think like that. As to "being attacked" learn to not care, cause the more you care, the more you'll be picked on. You have some serious work to do on your self esteem man.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 04:16 AM
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pay is good. It's a way to earn a living. You can do other things besides work, if time allows it. Work is necessary.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 10:51 AM
1

Software testing. Kinda boring, but it pays well.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:29 AM
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Drama. Lots of drama.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:28 AM
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nah, bro, you should go to her workplace, wait for her with some spanish music dudes, and serenade the shit out of her, ask them to sing the mariachi song. Also have 500 red roses, one huge box of chocolate, and for sure you'll get her right back. Follow her around until she sees what a nice guy you really are.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 01:31 PM
1

I doubt there's any correlation. Unless she's not getting what she wants out of the sex with her partner.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 10:34 AM
1

Do what you gotta do man, it's not necessarily bad unless it can be sensed. Anyway, Rome was not built in a day, keep at it and you will improve.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:36 PM
2

So you're faking shit. That can work, for a time, if you can sell it right. You say frame is everything, perhaps it is, but you're asking a girl out for coffee. See, the more you think about how to do it "the perfect red pill way", the more you doubt yourself, and doubt is useful sometimes, but not for this situation. Confidence, you need confidence, you can argue confidence is part of frame. Ask for her number, ask her out, worst case she'll say no and you'll learn something from the interactio…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:20 PM
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Learn how to walk before you run. How did she invite you to the game? Get her number before the game then, and ask her out. It's very simple, you see her, you ask her out, there's no frame to talk about unless you're socially awkward.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 06:58 PM
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As I said you're overthinking it, stop with the frame talk , you're asking her out, not for her to be your wife. Ask for her number if you don't have it after you ask her out, that is if she accepts.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 06:45 PM
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One thing you have to realize, is that to become the best at something it will take many years of hard work and lots of failures in between. Keeping at it even when bombarded with failure, is what makes the greats truly great. Study their life, make a choice, a plan, and follow it.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 06:19 PM
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you're overthinking it. Go, ask her to come grab a coffee/ice-cream/whatever after the game and go from there.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 06:15 PM
2

Chanel Antaeus Bvlgari Man in Black Givenchy Gentlemen's Only Intense
/r/askTRP13/10/17 01:14 PM
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No problem, best lessons are learnt from failure. Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:52 PM
1

Well, if you think you know what you're doing, by all means, worst case you'll learn something from the interaction.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:45 PM
1

Rule is don't stick your dick in crazy (which I did not always follow and well, regretted it afterwards). You're playing with fire. Your choice, beware of the consequences.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:25 PM
1

So I grew weak and asked her about us getting back together and starting over I tried that 2 times. Both times did not go as expected. Never again. My questions are how can I recover from this depression she put me in She did not put you in a depressive state, you allowed yourself to be vulnerable enough to get to that state. Learn from it, and internalize AWALT, abundance, and whomever is ready to walk away the most has the most power in a relationship. As simple as that. Get a hobby, read, wor…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:22 PM
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Tell you what, next time some chick is hitting on you, call her and tell her about it, and see how that goes.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:17 PM
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I would suggest looking into cryptocurrency. You'll have to get some knowledge about it first. There's serious money to be made, if you apply yourself.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:35 AM
4

Mind your own business. I've seen too many people getting fucked, sometimes for life, for getting involved where they should not have been involved. Getting physical with someone should be done when it's the last resort and only when people close to you are in physical danger, family, friends, wife, kids. Call the police if you want to do something to help. Especially if you have fucked up laws in your country regarding assault and self defense. Or stroke your ego and get beaten to death, or bea…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 08:23 AM
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I am honorable. They are my opposite. Get off your high horse bro. All is fair in love and war.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 07:34 AM
2

I feel that at 27 years old it just won't be the same and it is just too late. Never too late to improve. It's all in your head, stop making excuses and complain, and actually do shit. The past is gone, learn from it and make your future.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 04:01 PM
2

to keep it simple, the asshole has more chances of survival when shit hits the fan.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:05 PM
1

Try swimming, if it's allowed. It's not that intensive if you don't make it intensive. Try learning an instrument. Change always happens, sometimes good, sometimes bad, make the best of it. I would also recommend to read The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph by Ryan Holiday. Good luck!
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:27 AM
2

I would say most valuable lessons are learned when you fail. Do I continue to ride the wave not give a shit? Sounds about right to me. Let things flow as they may.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:23 AM
1

you're welcome.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 03:48 AM
1

See, as with most things, the more experience you have, the better off you are on the long run. Knowledge is an asset. But don't chain yourself if you don't have to. Have fun with it.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 05:27 PM
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Not everyone is using tinder, at least where I live. Thinking that you lost the battle before you started it is not going to result in a win. It's in your head. If you're truly convinced that's the way things really are, become "Chad". It should be easy, right?
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:29 AM
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the only time when it's too late is when you're dead. So, get to it. You can make new friends.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 05:35 AM
0

Well, that was the theory. You have to find how to exercise that. But it can be done. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 05:17 AM
1

Perspective. Internalize the fact that you are one of 7 billion people on this planet, and in the grand scheme of things, the world does not give a rats ass if you think you're embarrassing. It's all in your head. During that time I approached thousands of women (and got rejected by virtually all of them) Change your approach. Maybe you're not as attractive as you think or you're doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 07:20 AM
5

Time is precious. Explaining shit takes time. I'd rather do something else.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 02:04 PM
3

That wouldn't work if I tried it And you know this because?
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:58 PM
1

cause it puts the hamster into overdrive.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:54 PM
3

Don't volunteer information about bad shit from your past unless being asked specifically about it. If it comes up keep it short, eg "Mistakes were made".
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:53 AM
2

Don't leave if you don't want to. Also, she's an adult, she can make her own decisions.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:29 AM
1

Love does not equal happiness. Seems to me you are more invested than him in this relationship, and that means he has more power. The one that desires less has more power. I don't know him, might work, might make it worse, depends on what kind of man he is. I wouldn't, I'd leave, but you're not me. Takes 2 to tango.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:13 PM
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Should I ignore him? Hang around more male friends? Indirectly imply our relationship isn't as serious as he thinks? Break up? If you're not happy with the current state of affairs, why are you still there? As for ignoring and attempt to make him jealous, that could work or it could backfire. Depends on what kind of person he is.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:12 AM
1

Watch the hamster spinning. Assuming it's not a troll.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 05:02 PM
1

Maybe it's all in your head. Did you think about that possibility? If he has no idea what you do in your private life, why do you care what he says if it's not true?
/r/askTRP16/09/17 04:58 PM
1

you're not a special snowflake, there is no One True Love TM, there is no SoulMate TM. So? Just live your life and have fun man. If you want kids, take a gamble and make some. You may find a decent woman, decent enough to have kids with. But that will be a gamble. Might turn out ok, might not. Or, find surrogate mothers and raise your child(ren) alone then, if you can afford it.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 05:26 PM
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Learn from your experience, you dodged a bullet. Be glad you did not get her pregnant.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:13 PM
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there's no place for sorry or remorseful when you send nudes to other men. It's a choice she made, not a mistake. A really bad one. It's inexcusable.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 04:41 PM
5

Why can't you do both? Improve yourself and be in a relationship with him.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:33 AM
5

Do you want to fuck or not? If you have some fairy tale fantasy with having your first time "specialTM" with TheOneTM, you're probably going to be disappointed. If you truly are not attracted to them, don't fuck them.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:31 AM
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It's easy to blame others for your issues. Even if what you claim is true, it does not help your current situation at all. Stop with the mental masturbation. Identify what you need to improve, and start improving. It's as simple as that. If you think you need professional psychological help, get it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 12:01 PM
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she FORCED me to meet her later that day How exactly did she force you? Nevertheless, you made the right call. Plenty of fish in the sea, find another one that's this crazy.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 11:56 AM
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she sounds crazy. Find someone else to stick your dick in.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:33 AM
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He could have a low libido, he could be cheating, he may not be that attracted to you anymore, he could be jerking off instead of having sex with you. However, as you can see, because he's not giving you enough attention, you're still attracted to him, perhaps even more so if he would give you more attention. Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it. Talk to him about it and see what comes of it.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 07:17 AM
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that I've wasted 4 years and my future I had planned with her This is a problem. It's called sunk cost fallacy. Read about it. There's plenty of women in the world, have you met all of them already?
/r/askTRP04/09/17 04:03 PM
1

but then how are we able to change a thing? You can change yourself, but not the world or other people, unless they want to change too.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 11:43 AM
1

Depends if I find a proper woman to have them with or not. Which these days does not look easy. Oh well. We shall see.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 01:30 PM
1

Yep.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:05 AM
1

Try doing things, see the ones that spark your interest.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:02 AM
1

but I still want that one goto person It's up to you. If you think that there's only one person for you in this world, aka The One , then you won't. I don't see why meeting someone else to have the same or even stronger feelings towards would be impossible. That being said, is giving unconditional attention to that S/O being my closest friend is not TRP at all. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Good luck!
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:59 AM
1

What's your definition of love? If it's a Disney fairy tale definition, that does not exist, as far as I know. Lear to accept that everything in your life is temporary.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:03 AM
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I'm 32 now anyway so it's too late for me for the most part It's never too late. Apply yourself, get your shit together.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 05:30 AM
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you don't pay escorts for sex, you pay them to leave afterwards.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 08:54 PM
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Have you been in a family where they spouses stayed married for "the children?". I have. I wish my parents got divorced.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 01:56 PM
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a lot have been pressed into awful marriages with absolute trolls They got themselves in those situations. They ate the bullshit like candy, and that's the consequence. Learn from other people's mistakes. It's their fault too for putting up with that shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 11:28 AM
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Ok. Suit yourself.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 01:19 PM
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You ask him to stop his behavior. If he does not, get proof, which op should have (emails), talk to HR or management. If that does nothing, there's plenty of jobs to go around.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 01:15 PM
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Standing up for yourself and sabotaging someone anonymously at work are 2 different things. Manipulation is a woman's tactic. Feel free to use whatever.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 12:59 PM
1

There's no point in arguing with most women (maybe all of them, who knows, haven't met them all). Cause feelz before realz. So, just walk away until she calms down.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 12:51 PM
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it isn't if you can control it. Thinking about causing some shit to an asshole just because you can is really not productive. Think logically, what would messing "anonymously" with his work do? Get him fired? That's woman strategy. You're not a woman, are you?
/r/askTRP27/08/17 12:48 PM
1

But I realised that If i fight no matter what happens, I will be the guy who got manipulated by a girl into a totally unnecessary fight Only way to win that game, is to not play it. I think you made the logical choice. Think about it, you were going to fight and hurt (or get hurt) for some words a stupid bimbo throwed out. Don't fall for that. I would go so far to say that unless you or those close to you are in immediate physical danger, these days it's just better to let it go. You can always …
/r/askTRP24/08/17 07:40 AM
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The world does not owe you shit. If you want something, work for it. The end.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 07:34 AM
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So, an unstable woman shits on her life and future to be with her "one true love" TM. Should have seen it coming. I hope you learned some lessons from this experience. I'm no saint, I have made plenty of stupid mistakes of my own.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:30 AM
1

No. And I've fucked some questionable women in my time.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:27 AM
2

Unlike feminism, egalitarianism True equality is an utopia. Others have tried time and time again, and failed with catastrophic consequences. That being said, I believe everyone should be equal as far as legal proceedings go.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:24 AM
1

Cold showers. Gym.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 02:47 PM
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Only way not to get STDs is celibacy. So, make a choice.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 07:39 AM
1

Here's a novel idea. Do whatever you want, not what random strangers on a reddit forum propose.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:24 AM
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No bread. No pasta. Cut down sugar intake as much as possible. No beer. No potatoes. No pizza. No deep fried food. Grill it. Meat is ok. Dairy products are ok. Basically remove almost all carb intake, and you will see results. As for alchohol, cut that down as well as much as you can. For social gatherings, try a glass of dry red wine. Now, once a week, you can choose one of the nos above. Meaning, once a week, you either eat pasta or pizza or whatever. That's to help you keep going, because at …
/r/askTRP18/08/17 07:13 AM
1

I get that companies have rules, I just think he did not break any. But what do I know, I'm just a random dude on ze interwebs.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 03:25 PM
1

ok, so basically, the openness and communication that they (and by they I mean these companies) promote, is just bullshit. Unless you speak about what they want to hear of course. Just like in communism. Great evolution.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 02:57 PM
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Playing field is leveled, and has been for quite some time now. True equality is an utopia. People are not equal, never were, and never will be. Some people are smarter than others. Some people can do a certain job better than others. Discriminating based on color or gender is wrong. But what did google do? They fired a guy just because he raised some points that may or may not be valid. Where's le old 'murican freedom of speech? 30 years ago in my country you were persecuted if you spoke agains…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 11:49 AM
3

use your brain, make your own path.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 05:19 AM
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Didn't say anything about free speech. I just think it's not all about the work per se, it's also about whatever bullshit they feel like you need to be force fed. I find it very similar with communist propaganda. Granted, as long as it's on company time, I'll do whatever useless training as long as it's not illegal.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 12:07 PM
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how is it about the work when they force feed you unconscious bias training?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 11:26 AM
2

I don't lie for people I don't know.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:59 AM
1

Stand up for yourself, no one will do it for you. And that's something you should teach the kids as well.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 11:47 AM
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The problem is love. It's all in your head. Let go of the Disney fairy tale "The One True Love TM" which is not real. Sooner you accept it, the better you will be.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 11:42 AM
1

True, most likely LTR/marriage should grant easier access to satisfying sex. I was just saying it's not guaranteed.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 05:13 AM
1

I don't think it's normal at all, if I'm in a relationship/marriage with a woman, and she withholds sex, I'm out. Still, can't hurt to learn from other people's experience.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:38 PM
5

There's an old saying, luck comes once, but bad things keep chaining up. Now, whenever you feel particularly down about bad shit, and you think you've reached the bottom of the despair pit, only way to go is up once you're there.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 10:23 AM
1

don't stick your dick in crazy. Not worth the trouble man.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 10:20 AM
1

Taking action and failing is better than missing potential opportunities by not taking action.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 05:53 AM
5

and yet, not everything is as it seems. If you take a look at /r/deadbedrooms, there's plenty of men and women not getting any in marriages.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 05:51 AM
1

Get money, fuck bitches. Or something along those lines.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 02:02 PM
1

More vegetarians, more meat for me.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:13 PM
2

you dodged a bullet. Be thankful. Stop worrying about things you can't control.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 12:56 PM
1

practice playing my bass guitar. Read a book. Going swimming. Go out for drinks.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 12:42 PM
1

Thanks for this man, good stuff!
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 06:17 PM
1

Pick up what you find useful, test it, discard what you don't like or want to use. No one is forcing you to do anything, it's up to you to decide what to use and what not to use.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 07:58 AM
20

The possibility of cheating always exists. Think about it, it happens to famous high SMV males as well. You can't control other people, only thing you can control is yourself, so only thing you can do is be the best version of yourself. You are suffering because you were convinced that is not true. Learn to accept it. Move on. You've learned a lesson, use it well. There's plenty of women around.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 07:55 AM
1

I enjoy my own company. If there are opportunities to be social, I go out. If not, I can be fine on my own. And I can always go out by myself and meet people.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 01:15 PM
1

Probably to have kids.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 11:35 AM
1

Fuck no. You can eat whatever you want. Don't tell me what to eat. I had the impression you were against meat, my mistake. I think you need meat if you do physical exercise. It's just way more efficient as a fuel than vegetables. Now, this does not mean to eat only meat, as with everything, balance is key. Meat is good, vegetables are good, fruits are good. And for cholesterol, good red wine, 1 glass a day (150 ml) will keep that in check.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 04:40 AM
1

It's very hard to get laid in Romania Not in Bucharest it isn't. Constanta is the same. I don't know about other cities.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 02:16 PM
0

flip a coin, heads the rational male. Tail, 48 laws of power.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 08:32 AM
4

There's no way to actually prove it, since it can be confirmation bias. But, worst case scenario it's an exercise to strengthen your willpower. So, test it and see what happens.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 07:16 AM
2

wait 10-15 minutes. Go again. Problem solved. Have sex often, and things should improve.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:29 PM
9

Was I wrong in not sleeping with her? No. Don't do things you don't want to do. Simple as that. Assuming you have a choice in the matter of course.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:26 PM
2

Find a new job. In my experience, what's not written in some official mail/paper, it's not happening. Happens everywhere.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 07:42 AM
2

Correction, you allowed yourself to be destroyed. So, learn from your experience, and move on.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 02:23 PM
2

At least get the man's name right ^ ^ it's Peterson, not Petersen.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 07:45 PM
1

so your image of the world is not what you thought it is? Tough luck, join the club. Get over it. The world is what it is, and there is nothing you can do about it but play by its rules. Or quit the game. Adapt or die.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 07:17 AM
1

The problem is, sometimes I actually feel GUILTY fucking these girls. Why? Their adults, they know what they are doing. And they like having sex. Stop trying to stroke your ego by thinking you are somehow responsible for their actions. You are not. As long as you're straight forward and honest, I don't see a problem. All is fair in love and war.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 08:46 AM
1

Adapt. Or die.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 09:27 AM
1

Thank her, you dodged a bullet. Better to find out about that shit asap. Why can't I just find a girl with an acceptable past? Someone I wouldn't be embarrassed to bring home to my parents. This kind of shit happens to me all the time and I can't take it anymore. Relax. Getting angry about it won't solve your problem. Nothing to do but keep trying. And watch for red flags man.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:31 PM
4

Are you captain save a ho? If yes, by all mean, "save" her. If not, move on.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:24 PM
3

would you feel better if you paid for a 40 pounds date and then get to fuck her? If you would, think that you have. It's all in your head. Stop putting yourself down, there will be plenty of people in your life to do that.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 11:55 AM
1

Swimming will help with overall physical condition as well. I prefer it to running, but that's just my personal preference.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 07:44 AM
1

if you want to correct your posture, swimming will help with that. 2 times a week should be enough. I used to have lower back pain, a doctor recommended swimming, and presto. No more pain and great posture.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 06:52 AM
3

Could be a troll. In any case, there's lots of confusion, resentment and naivety in that post. I hope it's a troll.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:39 PM
24

And you believe her just because she told you so? Look man, you don't know why she does it. Her "boyfriend" could be her pimp for all you know.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 01:35 PM
1

It's all in your head. Or maybe you need new friends.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:24 AM
4

Abstinence. There's shit that does not show, you can't be sure of anything. Shit that does not appear in blood tests. It's a risk you choose to take or not.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:21 AM
4

Find a job that pays better. It's as easy as that. And if he wants to match the offer, don't take it, leave anyway. It's all bullshit. If you are worth more, you will find another company willing to pay that amount.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 02:34 PM
1

Vitamax. Ginseng. Whey Protein powder.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:15 PM
2

You're welcome.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 09:18 AM
1

You need other people in your life, otherwise you're dead. At some point people will catch on of your ways and won't interact with you anymore. Sure, you can move around, question is for how long?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 09:00 AM
2

You can try skipping rope.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:52 AM
1

you like playing games of chance, try some slot machines in a casino, it's cheaper.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:33 PM
1

Np.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 05:16 PM
1

The Obstacle Is the Way by Ryan Holiday.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:56 PM
1

Read. Learn something you want to learn (play an instrument, dance classes, acting/improv, whatever floats your boat).
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 02:44 PM
1

You can't be all nice, you'll get eaten by others. You can't be all mean either, no one will want you around. Balance.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 03:46 PM
3

here is to get some closure on this experience Not worth it. Learn from your experience. Don't try to understand, because you can't. You can't cause you're not a woman. They don't make sense. They feel. That's all there is to it.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 03:15 PM
1

There's this theory that these young men lack a mission, and the extremists provide them with just that, a mission. And the reason that they buy into it is that some people in the western world claim that men are inherently evil and hellbent on destruction, and it's gaining traction. Well, these radicals are becoming just that. Shit is getting weird.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 03:07 PM
1

True. I just think those dudes don't know much about the world. And being bombed to hell and back is not probably helping. Catch 22. Or maybe they're just really really confused or crazy. Either way, not good.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 02:41 PM
1

you can add to that extremists of all kinds (politically correctness fanatics, feminist fanatics, vegan fanatics, eco fanatics). Not that different from an extreme religion, it's just they are not that violent. Yet.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 01:43 PM
1

Slavery has been around for a long, long, long time. It is what it is or was. It's simple, you either fight, or get subjugated.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 01:41 PM
1

it's their turn to be insane now There was an Ottoman Empire at some point as well, though they would not blow you up back then, they'd just attack you, kill the men, plunder your shit, your women and your children, and pay tribute each ear in gold, and slaves.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 01:24 PM
2

I really don't know man, to me the old Christian Church was not very far from the muslim extremists we have today. They were called the Dark Ages for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 12:19 PM
1

What would you do in my position? Learn all you can, then bail. It's as simple as that. If you think there is nothing left to learn, find another job.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:38 AM
1

incapable of blowjobs I know that part is not true for some of them. At least for the women I got myself acquainted with. That being said, there's a combination of the rest in various degrees.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:36 AM
1

No. Still learned something from that experience.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 04:42 AM
1

check your testosterone levels, maybe they are off.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 07:29 AM
1

Are all humans equal? No. They aren't. Some would like to be treated that way though. But, my perspective is, you have some influence on how people treat you. You can change the way you are treated. It also makes me feel resentment if I see that you are fucking better girls than I fuck. Then you're not better at picking up women than him, are you? An opportunity to learn. That is, if you want to learn.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:31 PM
1

No. I wouldn't. Because I think that if you're not happy, you can't make other people happy. In my case, they stayed together. The resentment, the fights. At least I learned what not to do.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:07 AM
2

how I am not capable of dealing with it and telling me I should kill myself She's right. You need to "kill" what you are now, and be reborn a new person. Only you can do it. And it can be done. Just make a plan, set some realistic goals and achieve them. And go from there.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 05:56 AM
2

do it and find out. Do it for yourself. It will help your self-esteem. Try it. What do you have to lose?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:52 PM
4

Most are heavily preoccupied with making it though the work day awake and avoiding confrontation by wives and husbands at home, or avoiding kids. What the fuck are people doing? And my relatives keep pestering me about getting married. I mean, I saw personally how well that turned out for them. Sheesh.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 02:35 PM
2

Ah, I get ball busted all the time by my friends. I find it funny and good practice for come-backs. Most important is to not take it seriously cause it's just jokes, sometimes bad jokes, but jokes nonetheless.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 01:02 PM
1

how can i gain extra confidence, maintain more eye contact, and be able to become a better conversationalist? Practice. Next time you'll do at least 1% better.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 12:49 PM
7

I'm pretty sure it's just banter dude Is that the same as ball busting?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 12:38 PM
1

Dude. I like to drink one glass of red wine from time to time, especially if it's home made. It keeps your cholesterol in check. Now, as with anything, excess is bad. Oxygen kills you too, it's just very slow. Everything is killing you. You die, you're not immortal. Deal with it (preferably not by drinking yourself senseless).
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 12:02 PM
2

I just come here, read stuff, test it, and if it works, I'll use it. It's always better to learn from other's mistakes or experience. as for the nerd rage betas, that's not my problem.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 04:26 PM
1

I don't want to get laid I want to date So you want a LTR is that what you're saying? Well, again, if you don't like her, then don't pursue her.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 02:43 PM
1

I got a hb8 sorority chicks number last night and I just pretty much said to myself fuck this bitch is boring and I'm not working for it. Do you want to have sex with her? If yes, then that's your hamster talking itself out of it. If not, well, if you don't like her, don't pursue her.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 02:24 PM
1

do you honestly think you can't do better? If you do, work on yourself until you know you can.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 02:21 PM
1

Well, it's not the first time that happened. We'll see how it turns out. If we're still around.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:59 PM
2

I was making the point that they replaced their traditions with the new rage that was going around at the time. Then, one of the things was Christianity, now it's excessive sjw PC feminist bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:58 PM
2

I did plenty of stupid things as a kid and even later. But, looking back, there were consequences for my actions, and that's one lesson I learned. That's a lesson everyone should learn, it seems to me that today there is too much emphasis on rights, and not so much of the responsibility which comes with said rights. The way I see it, if you tolerate the behavior you dislike, it won't stop until you do something about it.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:13 PM
11

Tipping well nets advantages. Free shots. Getting you invited to parties. Getting a table without reservations. Now, that does not mean to overdo it.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 12:07 PM
0

Very low return for my time investment. So, I just stopped and replaced it with real life interaction. If it works for you, by all means, keep using it.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 11:55 AM
3

Ok, here's a plan for you. First, start small, and increase it bit by bit. So, let's say, go 3 days without beating the one eyed snake and watching anything that would arouse you sexually. After you achieve that, go 4 days. Then, 5 days, you get the point. Ideally, you would cut out porn completely, but if you can't (I believe you can, you just don't want to), reduce it bit by bit. And find something else to do with your time. Work out to exhaustion, run, swim, something. Read, watch some lectur…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 11:09 AM
2

Short version, Roman empire faced barbarians and internal issues, they allowed barbarians into their ranks, they changed what made the great in the first place. They became decadent and permissive, weak. One of the many factors that contributed to the fall of the Roman Empire was the rise of a new religion, Christianity. The Christian religion, which was monotheistic ran counter to the traditional Roman religion, which was polytheistic (many gods). At different times, the Romans persecuted the C…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 09:53 AM
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He touches those points in some of his lectures. I would recommend you watch it when you have some time, he also touches on the importance of men having a mission, to improve themselves and maybe the world around them too. There's some bits about sexual strategy as well. And he emphasizes that the direction in which western culture is heading, with excessive PC and feminism is not going to end well.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 09:46 AM
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I don't know about all the points you make, we don't have many of those where I live yet. The orthodox Church is very powerful here (Romania) , and they will not allow the rise of feminism simply because they would lose power. Now, I'm not a fan of the church either, but if I had to choose, I'd choose the church. Of course, things can change, but it will take at least 50 years if not more.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 09:06 AM
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Well, as I said, it's a theory. We'll see if it's right or not at some point. I just find this refugee business similar to the barbarians and the roman empire. And well, you know what happened with the roman empire.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 07:38 AM
4

Nah man, Eastern Europe is good for now, at least from this POV. The feminist agenda is well, kinda toothless here. The church will never allow it.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 07:34 AM
1

I really CBA about it but the fact that it even takes the slightest of energy from me annoys me. Pick one, CBA or be annoyed.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 08:06 PM
177

Here's an interesting theory by Jordan B Peterson: Jordan Peterson Lecture What he theorizes is, men test ideas, and women test men. And the more egalitarianism gets traction, pushing out and demonizing western masculinity, the more a subconscious need for a dominant male rises, which in this case would be the refugees. Now, as he says, we never had women in political power to the extent we do today. It may all go to shit. We don't know, but from the look of things it may very well do go to shit…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:52 PM
3

Get your shit together. Just because your BP fantasy is not what you thought it is, it doesn't mean your life is over. Find a mission and stick to it, plenty of shit to fix in this world. Possibility of getting cheated on is not certainty. It may or it may happen, you just need to be prepared in case it happens.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 02:38 PM
1

Don't burn your bridges. You never know what happens in the future. Be professional.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 02:01 PM
1

Glad it worked out for you.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:01 PM
1

You can't fix baldness, but you can fix the overweight issue. Do you think Jason Statham has issues because he's bald? So, start losing weight, that will help with self esteem issues to a point. Pick up some hobbies. Whatever floats your boat, the ones in which you interact with people will help more.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:07 AM
1

is anger a reliable source of motivation (by itself)? It eats a lot of energy. Maybe, if you can control it, careful not to let it control you.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 08:44 AM
1

I thought friends would support eachother when they are coming back from a shit life Looks like they were not your friends. Maybe they were using you to feel good about themselves. Who knows, make new friends.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 08:40 AM
1

I like his lectures. I don't agree with all his points, the religion points to be more precise. But good stuff nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 09:34 AM
1

You said it, not me. There are people who deserve to be helped, and those who don't. You found out in which category your colleague is.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 09:32 PM
1

I disagree to an extent. Your professional/work/business reputation matters.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 01:59 PM
1

So, nice coworker that I am, When someone says that, usually they are not nice at all. But that maybe isn't you. As for the issue at hand, stop getting angry about it, it solves nothing. Don't help her anymore.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 06:37 AM
2

Sure, first you cut off your balls, then you take some bull's balls, attach them to yourself, and then maybe you will talk to this girl and ask her out for a coffee or something.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 06:34 AM
2

Don't do it. It will solve absolutely nothing besides making your ego feel good. You can't change the past. Learn from your mistakes.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 06:33 AM
3

Most don't support their families, they don't cook or clean for their men (it's oppressive) Maybe in the US. Over here (Eastern Europe), not so much. But, that might change in the future.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:11 PM
1

prenup? Be safe.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:15 AM
1

bust a move, and see what happens.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:13 AM
1

That one as well.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 06:39 AM
2

who cares. Keep at it.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 11:53 AM
0

Why don't you ask her out and find out.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 11:53 AM
2

If she's legal, and she does not seem crazy, go for it. Just...feels...creepy? Taking advantage of someone who doesn't think ahead? She can make her own decisions. You're not her dad or her brother.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 07:38 AM
1

I personally liked Original Sin and Cruel Intentions.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 07:35 AM
1

I proposed a very simple way to get laid, you dismissed it. It may seem hard to you. Most things can be learned, and practice makes perfect. If you think that women have it easy, you're contemplating killing your balls, become a woman and find lesbians.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 09:02 PM
3

If you truly believe that, go for women that are shorter than you. I know guys your height that are slaying left and right. Placing blame is very easy. It's all in your head.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 08:52 PM
1

If she was hot, probably. I don't act like this in real life. ok, have you heard of body language? Have you ever talked to someone and you got a feeling they're not doing ok? Asked them if they're ok, and they would tell you that they're not? Those opinions that you have about yourself are subconsciously being picked up upon, especially by women, because, for some reason, they're better at picking up body language signals than we are. I'm short. There's plenty of short people not having the issu…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 08:41 PM
1

As for the rest I'm already interesting Well, if that's true, then TL:DR Can't attract women/I can't attract women and it's tearing me down how is it that you can't attract women? Perhaps it's an issue of how you're presenting yourself? Would you date/fuck a woman that is acting and speaking the way you are just now? I've met some women in the meantime things went nowhere. I'm usually a fun laid back guy but everyone else getting a gf and me being single is just too much You don't want escorts, …
/r/askTRP30/05/17 08:20 PM
3

If it's simply getting over the virginity part, you can hire an escort. Other than that, and I know they don't care about me Become someone they would care about. How? Make your life interesting. Work out, have financial security, pick up hobbies. Amateur acting, learn to play an instrument, dance classes. Whatever floats your boat, preferably hobbies that involve some form of interaction with people.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 07:27 PM
3

Get undepressed first. May sound condescending, but fix that issue you have first. Doctor may help. So, start with that. And then, set small goals to achieve, and achieve them. When you think you can handle bigger goals, set some of those and achieve them. And keep going.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 03:21 PM
1

and illogical as any woman Now that I know is not true. Not for me at least.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 01:34 PM
1

no. That's does not sound like a healthy way to think of people.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 08:30 AM
3

I'm feeling old, sad and pathetic. how to cope? Do things for yourself until you don't feel that way anymore. Even older women reject me brutally. Well, no wonder if you feel bad about yourself. They can sense it. Would you spend time with a woman that describes herself as you did?
/r/askTRP28/05/17 08:23 PM
2

There's one way to find out
/r/askTRP28/05/17 06:08 AM
1

I think it offers an unbiased (hopefully) perspective on your shit. What you do with it, it's your call. Try it and see if it helps. Start small. Edit: you cannot change the past. What you can control is your present actions.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:56 AM
1

how many women did you pick up in Reddit 0 How many women you have slept with? Enough to learn some shit from the encounters, and bottom line TRP is right about most things that are explained on the side bar. I used to make the mistake to think that AWALT. Not anymore.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:51 AM
2

Do what you want to do. It may not pan out, but it's an opportunity to learn even if you fail.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:49 AM
7

I'm pretty sure life throws shit at you to make it interesting. Get back up, and keep at it.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 09:30 AM
1

You're welcome. Take care man.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 04:18 AM
5

It will pass in time, you will get used to it and be more in control. Just be mindful and don't let your anger control you.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 03:33 PM
1

What did it for me is sincere compliments from others. Get one, ok, maybe they're not seeing right. 2,3,4,5 and not only from women you're fucking, just people around you, colleagues at work, friends etc. After 3 I started to believe it. It was very hard for me to look at myself that way, in my mind I didn't look that different. There's still lots to improve, so still working on it.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 03:29 PM
2

What I would ask of ATRP is how did you deal with similar situations? I have had one similar that happened when I was a teenager, about 20 years ago, except the person that attempted suicide twice, did not succeed. Their choices brought them to where they are, which is not a very good place, but whatever suggestion I have that I think would improve the situation is dismissed or ignored. Any help I or my family provided was squandered. We have a saying, god will give you opportunities, but he wil…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 03:24 PM
1

Find a mission. Set realistic goals. Accomplish said goals. And seek a therapist, it may help. People are fundamentally bad Not true, if it were true, we'd be extinct by now.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 06:53 PM
2

The moon. Edit: or maybe Mars. But the US are not there yet, at least not that we know of.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 06:48 PM
4

Cut contact, and move on with your life. Get your shit together, fix whatever there is to fix, and meet new people.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 03:03 PM
3

i really would prefer it if this girl didn't hurt herself. And I would prefer there wouldn't be people starving. You can't control other people. You can offer advice, whatever else happens it's their decision. But how the fuck do i deal with this? I can't just ignore it. Yes you can. Cut contact. Find someone else, preferably a professional to help you with your mental issues. And don't put yourself in a similar situation again. It's not clear to me if you actually met her in person or not. LDR …
/r/askTRP23/05/17 01:36 PM
2

I like Black Mirror. I think it's brilliant. It reminds me of The outer limits.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 11:47 AM
1

They make more money, go to the gym more, go out You should do these for yourself, not for anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 06:25 PM
1

Give cold showers a try. I think that in day to day life there are few things that make you as uncomfortable as a cold shower. 30 seconds should be enough. If that does not help, go see a doctor.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 07:27 AM
1

I tried it. I cannot go over 30ish days, unless I have a woman to smash, in which case it's easy. I do see some positive effects, the one I like the most is an increase in confidence, and I am in the process of cutting porn completely out. I see some benefits for myself, so I will keep at it.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 07:23 AM
0

Live and learn. Could be fun to try.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 12:52 PM
13

buy a wedding ring and wear it? Could it be that simple :)).
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 12:17 PM
1

I would recommend swimming to fix your posture. It will take time but it should help.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 05:11 AM
3

Flirt, gauge reaction, go from there. She's an adult, you're an adult. Good luck!
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:04 PM
1

First chance you have to get out of there, just take it. College, find a job and move to another city, or whatever else is there.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:16 PM
1

Ah, I see. It's not the case, I'm not that easily offended, especially by what opinions people I do not know have on the interwebz.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 02:58 PM
1

Well, I suppose by his definition I am. Who cares, I like having fun, drinking and meeting new people even if I go alone. Hint, at some point you'll have people to call and meet up, so you don't do it alone anymore.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 02:26 PM
2

Really? It's weird to go out and have a drink and meet people? Ok, your opinion, I don't find it weird.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 12:07 PM
2

'but we have only done one trip this year. I want to travel!' Here's the door, have fun.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:10 AM
1

Bucharest, Romania, Eastern Europe. It is. They just come up to you and ask you to buy them drinks. From what I've seen, works best on tourists.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 03:01 PM
3

A part of me wonders though if girls that "hunt for drinks" Where I live, there are actual women that spend their night trying to convince dudes to buy them drinks. At clubs. They're called fake customers. They get paid for it, I don't know how much. After the night is done, they leave of course.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:33 PM
1

longer you wait, harder is going to be. Go out there and hit on girls/women. If you fuck up, there's plenty of others to practice on.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:06 PM
2

ree with everything you're saying, but still curious as to WHY so many responses in the thread were negative about abs. Because women do not mean what they say. Most of the times. Or all the time, fuck if I know, it's safer to just go with watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 12:38 PM
1

Chanel Antaeus A warm, woody fragrance with notes of Sage, Patchouli and Labdanum. Bvlgari Man in black Top Notes Rum, Cardamom, Cinnamon Heart Notes Tuberose, Iris, Leather Base notes Benzoin, Tonka bean, Guaiac wood, Black amber Givenchy Gentlemen Only Intense Top Notes Green mandarin, Black pepper, Birch leaf Heart Notes Patchouli, Texas cedarwood, Leather Base notes Tonka bean, Amber, Incense
/r/askTRP08/05/17 11:58 AM
5

Am I too old to go from skinny to ripped in say, 6 months? It will take years. Unless you use steroids. And I would not recommend that. My goal is that I double the size of my arms in a year - is this even physically possible for someone with my body type? It's not possible with any body type without steroids in a year. 2-3 years maybe. If you keep at it and eat right. Start working out. Get 2 g of protein per kg every day you work out. And go from there.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 02:01 PM
0

it's different. It's not easy. If you think it is, change your gender and go for it.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 01:49 PM
2

If you cannot pickup any women to have sex with, go for it.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 01:47 PM
1

I think all girls can be like that given the right circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:44 PM
1

From what I see, some people are unhappy with their life, but do not want to take action to change the current state of things. They just continuously wallow and complain, because even though externally someone can suggest ways to go about it, they prefer the safe and comfortable, albeit unhappy, life.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:15 AM
5

No one cares about me. The world does not give a fuck about me and if I were to die it would not make even a drop in the ocean of a difference. Why the fuck should I carry on living? That's your ego talking. See, the world and the universe for that matter does indeed not give a fuck about you or about me. Accept it. There's nothing you can do about that. What you can do is get your shit straight, meet people, make friends, find a mission and stick to it. And remove any people in your life that a…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 07:42 AM
5

Sounds like he's enabling her behavior. If he's not enforcing his boundaries, this will keep happening with every woman he ever meets.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 07:18 AM
1

Here's the thing man, I would not want game a woman that works 12 hours a day. Fuck that, and I mean, someone else fuck that, cause I ain't doing it unless she's banging at my door. Her job is not my problem, it's hers.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 06:08 PM
2

And not every girl that can't find a free evening is playing games. Playing games? Maybe not. Not interested enough? Yes. If there is not 1 evening during the week that we can grab a cup of coffee, then how do you suppose she'll make time to come over?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 12:56 PM
1

Depends on how smart they are. But to achieve an AI to mimic humans will take quite some time, unless there is a big breakthrough in computing power, storage speed and capacity. As for a mate to procreate I imagine cloning as an alternative. With improvements, removing any genes that would affect the clone like congenital disease or poor eyesight mental illness and so on. Of course, this is most likely science fiction territory, but 200 years ago people were reading science fiction about getting…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 08:52 PM
2

I think not so far into the future (10 years? maybe less), most of the lost BP men will go the sex bots route + VR.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 02:22 PM
3

Humans are social creatures. We are where we are today because we worked as a group. So, you need other people, and other people need you. If you're referring to emotional support, well, I dunno about that. I think you need some of that too. But emotional support can be received from friends.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 01:56 PM
3

25 years old LDR girl dumped me Don't do LDRs. It's not worth it. Second, as time passes you will feel better about yourself if you do something about it. Keep busy, work out, go out and have fun. Further I am totally scared that I never get a girl again which looks so good like her or even better. There's shitloads of women on this planet. Statistically speaking, what you fear is not possible, especially if you improve yourself as much as you can. Fuck fear. If you want to, and apply yourself, …
/r/askTRP01/05/17 12:36 PM
7

Religious. Low sex drive. Crazy. Fat.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 12:46 PM
1

If you don't want to feel lonely you need to be near people. Find other things that you enjoy. Maybe a team sport.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:22 AM
1

Anyways do you guys ever get lonely or anything or what. How do you counteract that if anyway at all. No. I keep busy. If I want to go out, I go out to a bar or a club. With or without friends. Usually meet people there and hang out.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:03 AM
1

From my POV, as long as she contributes financially to whatever we buy when I'm married I have nothing against getting her money or whatever back.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 07:59 AM
1

Anything more than a week or two will leave you frustrated and desperate. Nope. It will not. The human brain is very malleable. What has been taught can be untaught. It's not easy. But it can be done.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 08:07 PM
2

Get an escort.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 08:01 PM
17

Divorce where I live (Eastern Europe) is handled differently for now. Everything you have aquired before the marriage is yours.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 03:24 PM
53

Divorce the bitch. Reduce contact to minimum. Killing them only puts you in jail. And you need to be there for your kid. Assuming it's your kid to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 02:15 PM
1

I have not. I'm never getting / staying married then if truly is how you say. Or maybe I'll get an exception.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:46 AM
2

k, finished it. Would be nice to post the results :) when you're done. Thanks!
/r/askTRP25/04/17 08:41 AM
2

Depends on how much you are willing to fork out. for around 100+ EUR you can get 8s+ here. 50 EUR up to 7. I agree with the expectations part. Depends on what you watch ofc.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 08:39 AM
8

It does. But when I'm in a long dry spell, I get an escort. Prefer it to jerking off to porn.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 05:26 AM
1

it was easier to quit smoking.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 05:19 AM
1

Good sex is a major bonus in an LTR but by no means a given. Are you for real? If it's not a given, there is no relationship. Period. That being said, there are bigger issues to solve in OPs family than getting it on with his GF.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 07:57 PM
1

I've gone down from 4 times a week to once every 6 months or so. So you can severely reduce it. And strongly believe I can eliminate it completely. It was a lot easier when I had a woman to smash, cause for me real pussy >>>>> pixels on a screen. When I was in a long dry spell (read 1 year), I got an escort. Not ideal, but still better than porn for me.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 07:38 PM
1

ok. Still think you put too much emphasis on what others think about you. But whatever works for you man.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 07:32 PM
1

Strange, I like it when women pay for me. It feeds my ego, which may not be good. Oh well, to each his own.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 03:10 PM
3

Instead one should accept who they are and work with what they've got instead of trying to be something they're not. You can find a list of people that actually achieved the exact opposite. I'll just leave 3 names here : Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, Bruce Lee. Everyone told them they're not going to make it, and guess what, they did. Do you think these three behaved as you suggest? Can't speak for everyone here, but this subreddit helped me understand some things : Keep fit, get yo…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 03:03 PM
1

Looks that way to me as well. So /u/SwagPope is this just for US?
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:56 PM
1

do you live in the US? US have doctor - patient confidentiality If you're in another country , look into that. I can't say that I have much experience, besides a time in my past 15 years ago where I was in a very dark place, so I thought I should get help, so I did. I did not receive much help, the doctor said it will pass and that he will not put me on medication. Looking back, I guess he was right cause I'm still here. I won't be anonymous like I am here. You seem to have an issue with what pe…
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:11 PM
1

I know it's not easy. Just get professional help. I hope I can go all the way to freedom someday. You can, if you set your mind to it.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 01:31 PM
1

Way I see it, if she makes me feel good, I make her feel good as well. Reward good behavior.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 01:06 PM
5

I've probably got clinical depression or some shit but I don't wanna go to a psychiatrist because I feel like I'm not supposed to be doing that. Says who? Dude, there are problems you cannot solve yourself. What if it was something that required surgery? Would you think the same, that you're not supposed to be doing that? How about talking to professionals about these issues? Like doctors. Just get your shit together and go see a doctor. Might be physical or psychological. And if you have not al…
/r/askTRP24/04/17 12:58 PM
4

Nope. Unless you don't like it.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 09:10 AM
1

Whatever man. Good luck.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 04:44 PM
2

so because your view of the world does not match what it actually is, you want to just die? Listen man, you in the grand scheme of things, as me, and as everyone else, don't matter for shit. Accept that, and find things that make you happy and go for them. It's been this way for years, and I've just kept working and trying, and working and trying, and everything has been destroyed, all beyond my control That beyond your control is the best part. Why be upset about things you cannot control? It's…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 12:28 PM
1

I'm not judging, I'm stating what I know.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 06:23 AM
1

The dude worked as a dj in his uncle's strip club. Been to jail shit like that. He was slaying pussy left and right. Then he falls for this stripper, and well in 2 3 years they get married and move to a Western country. That's all I know, the seem happy part is from their Facebook. They may not be, I wouldn't know I'm not there.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 03:51 PM
1

Oh. Well then. I mean, he could have thought of that before marrying her. It just so happens that I know a dude that married one, they have a kid and they seem happy but I wouldn't do it. Probably one of the fewer happy cases? Dunno.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 03:46 PM
1

Sometimes i feel like i should just go to a prostitute and get it done with Then go do it. Use protection.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 01:12 PM
6

Get whatever you want as long as it's not interfering with your boundaries and with your goals.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 01:02 PM
2

Sound like depression. I dunno what else to say than to find something to work towards, a goal, a mission. Perhaps try volunteering? Helping others may help you as well. Keep strong, you can do this.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 09:17 AM
6

First step, the past is the past, you can't change it. What you can change is what you do now and in the future. So, learn from your mistakes from the past and don't wallow on it. Second thing, start working out. It may be hard in the beginning, but you can get used to it. Third step, find something to do that you are passionate about. Amateur acting, or playing an instrument, reading books, something that adds value to your life. Cut the harmful shit as much as you can in your life, by that I m…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 08:54 AM
1

Thinking of the woman I'm with kissing some other guy/fucking another turns me off Stop thinking about things you cannot control. If she does that, it's her choice, you can't stop her, what you can do is remove her from your life.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 07:32 AM
1

you're 17, do LTRs later. Much later.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:24 PM
1

happened more than once. Move on. If she wants to, she'll get back to you.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:22 PM
1

you could also go out to said parties and meet people there.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 07:13 AM
2

Stop letting things that you do not have direct control over bothering you.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 07:10 AM
1

My thoughts exactly, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 05:29 PM
1

My stuff works fine. I feel great. Blood tests this year were also great. Afaik imbalance in serotonin leads to depression. So even if it does do what he says I will take the risk. I am doing it for like 2 years now.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 04:16 PM
9

I know she is the hottest girl I can get because to be honest, she is on magazines and what other girls look up to and strive to be. Wrong. You have not even tried. Are you a clairvoyant to know the outcome of your future? It won't be easy, but you need to get your shit together, the sooner the better. Find a job, preferably one that pays decently, start working out, and start some hobbies. Move to a bigger city when you can, bigger city more women, more chances. As for this deep oneitis you fin…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 01:04 PM
2

I can't dispute that cause you know, I'm no scientist. For now it works the way I explained, I hope at one point I won't need it anymore. I do it after workout at the gym, and that means 4-5 times a week 30 sec to 1 min max exposure to cold water.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 11:50 AM
2

Eat her out, if you enjoy it (I do). Works for me every time, I don't have to ask for blowjobs, I just get them.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 08:54 AM
1

If you want to go through with it, consider getting a prenup, if it's possible.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 08:50 AM
2

Only if I find a suitable partner. If not, well, shit happens. I don't care how many men/women she fucked, I care what she does when she's with me. She can lie anyways, so what's the point to be upset/bothered about something you cannot control.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 08:05 AM
3

Annnnnd, they fired me. I hope you learned your lesson from this experience. Life is not fair, and it never will be. Accept that and act accordingly within the legal constraints, otherwise there will be consequences to your actions. And as other people said: Don't shit where you eat
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 08:02 AM
3

Cold showers It helps me with my anxiety. I spend like 30 seconds at most under under the cold water shower. I'm no scientist, what I think happens is that you get used to the uncomfortable feeling you get when you do something that's out of your comfort zone. Edit : Of course, it could all be in my head, if it is, it's still working for me.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 07:39 AM
1

I know a dude that is 45 and bar tending in a club. Ideally, you would not want that unless the pay is really good, but as a temp job you can do it. However, depending on how packed the club is, it will be stressful. It's not as easy as it looks, as with all things. And if you don't have experience, you may end up a bartender aid first.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 08:27 AM
1

Enjoy it. At some point your hair will get gray.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 08:22 AM
5

Wrap it up, and go for it. But why sell yourself short, try with younger ones as well.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 09:52 AM
1

You need to find a mission. Identify what that mission is, then assess what steps you need to take to make it happen and start working on it. You can start small and grow as time goes on.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 08:25 AM
1

whatever works for you man. As with most things, balance is key.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 08:01 AM
5

manlier in a fun way not boring shit like discipline See, to be manly you need to be disciplined. It's one of the core values of being a man.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:51 PM
2

sounds legit to me. She may want to improve, especially if she's not good at it. If she is, then well, she may seek praise/validation.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:31 PM
9

Has to be a troll, right?
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:28 PM
4

Stop drinking when you feel you're going too far. Or, stop drinking altogether. Up to you. If you keep going on this path, you will get in trouble sooner or later.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:25 PM
5

Only thing nofap does for me is give me more focus and more confidence. Could me all in my head. However, there's lots of dudes there that think they were "objectifying" women and ramble about some connection they feel with women they haven't even touched yet just by looking at them. As with most things, take it with a grain of salt, try it and see what happens. But, at some point you may get very thirsty if you can't make anything happen.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:40 AM
1

can overcome his hunger for sex Sure, you can, up to a point. You can give up heroin too, if you set your mind to it. Nice try to get more views on your channel.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 01:35 PM
1

Nope.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 08:26 AM
2

It's not all over. The brain is a very adaptable part of your body. You just have to power through it, mix in some physical exercise and you should see improvements unless the cause is something else, like low testosterone or some other psychological issue.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 12:40 PM
2

Cause it builds discipline, and you need discipline in your life to achieve your goals.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 12:33 PM
1

American Gods - Neil Gaiman.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 12:30 PM
2

crazy ones mostly.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 12:29 PM
1

get a prostitute. And keep working on yourself. Your desperation is sensed by people. So, get that out of the way. Good luck!
/r/askTRP10/04/17 08:48 AM
2

It's ultimately up to you. If you don't see a reason why to do it, then don't do it. Working out makes me feel good about myself. Getting to fuck hot women also makes me feel good about myself. Having financial security is also making me feel good. So, bottom line, because it feels good. That's why I do it, for myself, to feel good.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 08:40 AM
0

I enjoy my company. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:40 PM
7

I see some scalpel work on her face.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:12 PM
1

If I had to choose between being feared and being disrespected, I'd choose being feared. That's what I was trying to say.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:53 PM
1

For me, easy access to satisfying sex and all the good shit that comes with it, touching, kissing. That's it. If for some reason I would lose my libido, I'd be single until I die.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 09:04 AM
1

Put a condom on and go for it. Your first time will not be "ideal", get that out of your head. Good luck!
/r/askTRP07/04/17 07:36 AM
1

:) that's not how the world works, is it? You can't always get what you want.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:16 AM
2

but still is it "low" to go out alone lol. Nope. Met lots of people like that. Danced with ladies, no f close though. I go out alone to clubs almost all the time. My friends are married or not into clubs. So it's fun, as long as you're not insecure about it. I sit at the bar usually. Tip the bartender. Always, unless there's an objective reason not to.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:22 PM
-1

Deny deny deny. There's no way to prove it, it's your word against hers and your mates that has your back. Be more careful next time, and um cut your so called friend out of your life. Edit: I am assuming you want to keep your GF.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:12 PM
1

I do not hate feminine "energy".
/r/askTRP06/04/17 12:35 PM
0

better to be feared than disrespected imo.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 09:34 AM
3

also part of the reason I never approach Do you want to fuck them or to talk about nuclear physics with them?
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:31 AM
1

As Lao Zhi said, let things flow as they may. You get fucked, no problem. Start over. Nothing else to do. Only person in the world that truly cares about you, except maybe your parents, is you. That's the way it is and it will always be.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 12:50 PM
1

take it easy with the nihilism dude, jeez, chill out. Find something you like to do and do it. You don't have to fuck if you think it's pointless, or any other thing you mentioned. The way I look at it, my ancestors did something right for me to be alive. So I might as well thank them and have fun until I die. So much shit to do, if you know where to look. Everybody dies, there's nothing new about that.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 12:45 PM
1

Things can get better, but you have to work for it.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 08:53 AM
1

Get a job. Bar tending will teach you a few things about working with people for example. When your finances allow it, move alone. Learn whatever is needed to do something else that pays better (1-2 years). Go to college if you feel you need it, but if you do, finish it. Exercise. Whatever floats your boat is a good start, running, swimming, lift weights, contact sports. Go from there.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 08:52 AM
14

There's a reason why most guys dont want to have female roommates in my experience it's not very pleasant. Too much drama.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 12:56 PM
1

after 2,3 text interactions suggest meeting in person, coffee or pool or something. If she's interested, she'll accept. If not, move on.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 09:41 AM
1

Body parts are washed and cleaned. Your expectations are unrealistic to say the least, but if that's what you want, good luck finding that unicorn. I can't imagine dating a girl that enjoyed having sweaty hot sex with another man, sucking his dick, drinking his cum. You can't control other people, and most importantly, you cannot control the past. What you can do is be the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 09:11 AM
1

Discipline is what I gain. Some other things perhaps, but they are hard to quantified. Motivation to go out of my comfort zone.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 08:45 AM
2

it's never too late to improve, unless you're dead, and even then, nobody knows what's the deal after you die.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 12:17 PM
1

Have some nights to go out and nights to rest. Depends on you, really, how much can you take.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:30 PM
1

Aight, good luck.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 08:51 PM
5

imo it's pointless, since you know you should watch what women do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:27 PM
1

but she said at the same she doesn't feel the same but that we should see each other more and maybe in the future something will happen. She does not want to hurt your "feelings". Bullshit, nothing will happen. Just let it go.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:44 PM
9

Hell no. Use common sense, bail when you need to.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:41 PM
2

why do you care for things out of your control? Have a read about stoicism, and embrace the fact that you cannot control people, therefore you should not care that much about what they do. You can apply this to pretty much everything that is not under your control. Practice it, and you will feel better.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 09:28 AM
1

it most likely means he was never in a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:40 PM
1

That's an easy way to fix it. And it will work, provided you find a decent escort. If you don't want to, you need to somehow not appear desperate, because being desperate can be sensed by others. Catch 22.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 01:40 PM
1

If I wanted a sex object, I'd get a fleshlight. Or a sex doll.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 04:00 PM
3

women talk to each other. Just tell her you don't want to see her anymore.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 10:17 AM
1

I sold mine for a 5k Chrysoberyl crystal.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 11:18 AM
1

I believe you're approaching the issue wrong. From what you wrote, you don't believe you are worthy of a quality woman stick with me AND stay attracted to me Fix that. Become worthy. Become a person that people, not only women, want to hang out with. How? do things that increase your confidence. Work out,educate yourself, pickup interesting hobbies, socialize. Improvement requires effort, and it is up to you, and no one else, to get to a position in which you feel you are the prize.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 04:17 PM
5

I know a guy who married a stripper. They seem to be happy. They have a kid together. This dude was slaying pussy left and right. I don't know more details. I would bet he's still slaying pussy left and right.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 03:26 PM
2

the classic "I know" may do the trick here.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 12:49 PM
2

I had lots of fun, but this is not working anymore for me, have a nice life, bye. Preferably in person. If you can't/won't phone-call, if you don't want to do that either, sms/whatsapp w/e.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 02:01 PM
2

what he says.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 07:34 AM
1

Your parents will find out either way, so I would say after you get the eviction notice tell them, better to learn from you than from the school. Take responsibility for your actions. Other than that, there is a lesson to be learned here, and I hope you understood it. You cannot turn back time, what you can do is apply yourself and do not fuck it up next time.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 01:34 PM
1

you mean porn and no jerking off? See, the way I see it, if you have easy release at your fingertips, and infinite variety of pixels, that will kill your desire to go out and meet women.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 08:28 AM
3

I decided I want to stop watching porn and limit jerking off to an absolute minimum. Best I did was 32 days. But porn is off limits for like 3 months now, I have banged 2 women in between, and now I have a stable sex partner which is great. I did notice an increase in confidence, but that is very hard to quantify and it's of course subjective. My advice, try it and see what happens, give it 2-3 months for no porn, and upto you for spanking the one eyed snake.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:17 PM
1

The Ladder Theory Main point Many women want to argue this point and say things like " I have lots of guy friends." Maybe. There are exactly 3 cases Intellectual Whores has identified whereby a guy and a girl can be friends: The guy is gay The guy does not find you attractive The guy already has a woman much higher than you on the ladder
/r/askTRP07/03/17 11:27 AM
2

it was a battle with mutant alien leeches. I won, they didn't.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 09:11 AM
5

foot the bill as in pay for everything and getting pity sex, if any, throw some kids in the mix and voila, misery awaits the dude.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 08:09 AM
1

she doesn't desire me (I'm better than all of her ex s in every sense you can think of both physically and mentally, she and her friends said it themselves through both body language and verbally It does not matter why. And this sentence comes from your ego, how can you, the greatest of greats, which you may very well be from your pov., not attract this girl even though your perception is that you are better than the others. There could be lots of reasons, but I assure you they are not logical a…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:26 PM
2

that's quite a lot of red flags, to me that woman seems extremely unstable. So, ye old "Don't stick your dick in crazy" applies.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:11 AM
2

nothing worth doing is ever easy. So, get your head in the game, put your willpower to work and keep doing it. You will reach your goals, if you apply yourself.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 04:03 PM
1

I would say, fix the things that bother you, if you can, if you can't fix them, don't fret over them. Meaning, if you feel down, getting people to react positive to your interaction is going to be quite hard, because it can be sensed. I know it sounds cliche as fuck, but find inner peace first, then reach outwards.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 01:41 PM
3

it's 95% if you suck at "gaming women", which I do.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:29 PM
1

Red dry wine on dates (1-3 glasses depending on duration). When clubbing or drinking with friends, JD with coke or orange juice. And always still water, 1 L+.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:06 PM
1

What geeky stigma? Where I live, IT is one of the best places to work to make $$$. Now, I can understand if you want to do something else. There is no stigma past high school methinks. So, I would not worry about it.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 02:18 PM
6

Do you watch porn? If yes, try not doing for a month or so and see if there is any change. Also with masturbation, if you are doing it. If that is not the problem, try visiting a psychologist perhaps. That's all I have. Good luck!
/r/askTRP16/02/17 02:14 PM
2

:) was some time ago, perfect example of female "logic". A week before I was the greatest guy she ever met. After I said that I do not like the idea of her going to a wedding for 3 days in another country with her ex boyfriend from 15 years ago who beat her but were still friends (?!), the lines I wrote above surfaced. I was the bad guy cause I did not trust her. Shortly after it ended. Great story to tell. Lessons were learnt. Still learning.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 01:30 PM
1

"You're like a robot!" "You never did anything for me!" "All you think about is sex!"
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:27 AM
1

well, I'd say that does not have time for me. I do know "watch what she does, not what she says", so it's pretty clear now, I just wanted some outside opinions since I am biased because I like her.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:40 AM
1

I did try to setup something else (friend of a work colleague), but didn't go anywhere. There is this cute woman I keep bumping into when I take the elevator home, time to make a move. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 02:49 PM
3

My "expectations" kinda went away since she said she does not have time at all during the week. Wellp, back to finding another one I guess.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 01:16 PM
0

ok, I need a piece of advice. I went on a date with this woman I like. Talked, a bit of kino (warming her hands, I am naturally warm, she has cold hands, and it is winter), I said to go over to my place to watch a movie, she said some other time, which is fine. So date is done, I called her the next day in the afternoon to setup another date, and she could not. I texted her on monday again to setup another date during the week, and she said she's not available, but we'll see about the weekend. K…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 12:26 PM
3

Easily accessible form of creating discomfort for yourself. I do it regularly to combat my anxieties. And it works for me.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 09:55 AM
1

getting mad at attractive women having it "easy" is like getting mad at gravity, so you need to learn to accept it and act accordingly. Meaning get to a point where attractive women will be attracted to you.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:34 AM
2

Look for job opportunities that pay better. Get the official job offer. Leave your current job. 5 years is a long time in IT.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 12:52 PM
1

yep, just go for it.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 11:00 AM
2

your dick shouldn't care about how smart she is. You're not marrying her, are you?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 10:27 AM
1

so you think all white people are rich? Please. Most people had a time in their life when there was not much to eat and struggled financially. Only way to fix that is to work at something (education, acquiring skills) to get out of that situation, which you are already doing. Life is not fair, it never was and it will never will be. You just have to learn to accept that. Thinking about what others have or have inherited is not productive, unless it's done to understand how they did it (business …
/r/askTRP04/01/17 03:31 PM
2

It's fine to fail as long as you learn something from your failure. And usually there is always something to learn.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 11:31 AM
1

can't find any. Wellp, I was wrong. Thanks for the info.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:29 AM
1

thanks for the insult, i needed that. Now, if you read a little bit, you'll learn that swimming promotes height growth, assuming you have not finished your growth process. Now, if you'd like to stay ignorant, that's your choice.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 12:09 PM
1

there are medical procedures to lengthen your leg bones, however afaik they are painful and take quite a long time, years. Alternatively, swimming may help if you are not finished growing yet (before 25). Edit:seems i was wrong about the swimming part. can't find an official study about swimming increasing height.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 01:53 PM
3

it's called willpower and you can't buy it.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 10:33 AM
1

only way to do that is try and see what happens. You can succeed, or you can fail. From both you learn valuable lessons, I'd argue that you learn more when you fail.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 01:34 PM
6

"no, you're not, I have 30 other women in my closet waiting for you to leave"
/r/askTRP24/11/16 04:17 PM
2

your ego is your enemy. It clouds your judgement. Learn to not listen to it. The world does not give two shits about you or me individually. So you should adapt to the world, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 09:54 AM
1

there's always a bigger fish, or in this case a bigger dick. Don't think about what you cannot control. You can't change what happened. Let it go.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 08:47 AM
1

Last time I agreed to move to be closer to an ex ended up real bad for me. Basically I had to move 2 times in 3 months because of my idiocy. Lesson learned. Never do that.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 09:02 AM
-1

only way to win the game is to not play.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 01:58 PM
1

it does not matter. What matters is how you handle that possible situation. Learn to handle it well and enjoy what you have until/if it gets to that.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 01:37 PM
1

yw.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 08:17 AM
1

if it's one thing that I learned the hard way and I find to be true, is women talk with their actions, not their words. So put yourself in a position where you can see how she acts. My2c.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:11 PM
9

don't burn the bridge if you don't need to. Keep your options, who knows maybe in the future you'll visit that area again. Do monosyllabic responses. Let the hamster work.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:09 PM
1

bowling, pool, darts, karting. That is if she's into those as well of course.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 12:14 PM
1

I think it's not about the looks, but about the excitement and the amount of perceivable effort and passion your partner puts into it. Some of the best sex I've had was with average looking women.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 12:09 PM
1

ok, let me ask you this, do you like being around women because you find them interesting or do you just hope you can get to fuck them while being around? If it's the second option, it's very unlikely that will happen. Read this. The ladder theory However, of course you are free to do as you wish. But being friends first rarely works out as far as I know.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 09:29 AM
1

As Patrice said, a fish does not teach you how to fish.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 08:32 AM
1

Make some male friends to "hang out with". Ask women to grab a coffee etc. Why do you want to be in the dreaded friendzone is beyond me. Good luck.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 08:30 AM
1

if she wanted to have sex with you, she would. So, if it were me, I'd gtfo. Once a month is not acceptable in a presumably monogamous relationship, is it now? You can't negotiate desire. My 2c.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 10:52 AM
1

Hire help. If you can.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 08:00 AM
6

just wanted to say, may not look like it, but that guy is actually helping you. Helping you get rid of a toxic presence in your life. You started on your path of improvement, keep going.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 11:25 AM
1

so you can't think of anyone who was in "lower social hierarchy" that managed to get higher on that hierarchy also by learning things from people who for whatever reason were higher on that hierarchy. I'm not saying that's all it takes, I'm saying it can help. But this is besides the point, for you it seems that it's just challenge or defer, there's no other option. For me, there are other options. To each his own.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 10:06 AM
1

imo there's always someone smarter, better, faster than you. You can learn things from such a person, of course assuming you can actually hang out with the guy. Explain to me how is that beta.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:26 AM
2

since when having good friends is beta? what the hell man...
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:46 PM
1

some of the cons you listed can be worked on and improved, except maybe the stupidity one. The way I see it, you could give her direction for things that can be improved upon, assuming she wants to follow your lead. Up to you really. However, where I am from there is an old tale about a guy who wants to get married, a peasant. So, due to some adventures he manages to recruit the services of a little devil to help him pick a wife in his village. So he goes dancing on Sunday, and he finds a woman …
/r/askTRP19/08/16 07:33 AM
1

Probably as much as some men abuse women. Anyway, nice trolling bro :).
/r/askTRP19/08/16 06:45 AM
1

Ah, you got me. Username should have given it away. Good one mate.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 06:44 AM
1

Nothing. Everything. Something. I wouldn't know. It's up to you to be happy, nobody is responsible for your happiness.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:16 PM
1

yes, I am serious. It was not enough for her, it meant something to you, but not that much to her. If it were, she'd still be with you. That's what I was trying to get across. You will realize that all these whys and what could I have done are pointless. You can't turn back time. Time heals everything man, you will feel better.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:16 AM
1

dunno where you got that, I don't see it in my post. Care to elaborate?
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:40 AM
2

that's your ego talking, not you. Just accept and let it go. I was good to her, I was two years of her life. Apparently it was not enough.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:20 AM
3

If she does not cover her part, I'll pay. Some women pay, some do not.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 05:44 AM
1

because men usually think women are these angels that wouldn't never do anything wrong? I think it's this part. I think it generally means to not put women on a pedestal, just like you said. And about unfaithful things, some men do it, some don't. Probably the same with women.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 05:26 AM
1

Nothing much to tell really. I do think I feel more energetic because I don't do it as much as I used to, but that could be just in my head, no way to know for sure. Bottom line, I feel better, I changed some things about my life (started working out, quit smoking), but I don't know if it can be credited to nofap or not. Give it a try, if you see improvements, keep doing it, if not, don't do it. It's not like it's going to kill you or anything. I think whatever you read on internet forums should…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 07:25 AM
5

women will fuck other guys with you holding her hand in bed. You should stop caring so much.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 07:23 AM
1

Find a purpose, usually to do that you need hobbies. What is it that you enjoy doing? Things like playing an instrument, or a sport, or playing poker, or board games, or whatever, find one and improve that.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 08:55 AM
6

Stop playing Why? Do you ask people to stop playing chess? Or backgammon? Or poker? I agree if you do it most of your spare time or if it affects your life in a negative way, then you should cut down. Otherwise, it's a leisure activity as any other, and as such if done in moderation it should be fine.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 09:34 AM
3

if what they say is right, his previous wife was batshit crazy. "Slavica, a docker’s daughter from Croatia, first encountered Bernie in the pits at Monza in 1982, while on a modelling engagement. Apparently Slavica’s first words to him were: ‘If you come any nearer, I’ll kick you.’ The scene was set for a fiery marriage. She would furiously accuse him of having affairs when he was simply a workaholic, threaten to leave him and abuse him as he sat in silence during meals. ‘She shouts a lot,’ he o…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:03 PM
1

you can give swimming a try, might help with the asthma as well. Ask your doctor if it's ok.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 07:06 AM
1

hm, ok. You can try and see what happens, not much else to do. Edit: sounds almost like Gone Girl material jeez what a nutjob you had for a wife :/
/r/askTRP29/07/16 03:50 PM
1

thanks for the clarification. I would not know about media outlets in the US, but even so, assume you get some media coverage, what would that ultimately solve? If there is a possibility to overturn the court's decision, try it and see what happens. If not, I dunno if it's worth it. Good luck!
/r/askTRP29/07/16 03:30 PM
3

ok, so here's what I think. If I understood correctly nobody believes you. Can you change that? Unless you have some video proof, you cannot. So, either accept what is happening since you cannot change the past, or you could try getting your wife/exwife to assault you again but this time get some sort of evidence/an eye witness. I know the second option sounds crazy but I can't see any other way. Were there no physical injuries from the assault? Marks, scratches, cuts stuff like that.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 03:08 PM
1

I'm not saying to do exactly what you did last time and expect different results. I'm saying that even if you did not pickup you still learned something, something like body language of women who are not interested in you. Am I wrong?
/r/askTRP29/07/16 02:26 PM
-1

did you try your best? That's all that matters. Sure, it would have been nice to pickup someone, it just did not happen. Keep on trying, there is no other way.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 09:11 AM
1

look man, self pity won't get you anywhere. Crying about shit on the interwebz won't do that either. There's of ways to get laid: 1) hit on women, go out with them and maybe you will get to have sex with one. 2)get an escort 3)tinder this is pretty hard to do, but if you persist you will get results 4)okcupid could work if you try long enought
/r/askTRP28/07/16 07:46 AM
1

complaining on reddit won't solve that. Do something about it :). Or maybe you are, does not seem like it. If you want to fuck, fuck, if not, don't, simple.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:22 PM
2

It's never too late to change or improve. Never.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 02:36 PM
3

1995 is in the 90s is it not? :)
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 02:35 PM
2

Edit: Find some activities you enjoy that you can do alone. Read. Watch movies. Play video games. Listen to music or practice an playing an instrument. Learn to cook. Brew some alcohol. Get a telescope and watch the night sky. Possibilities are endless.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 02:26 PM
1

was under the impression it's mainly for women, I was wrong. Still, HPV vaccine can prevent most genital warts. Most is not all, better than nothing though, I'll give you that.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:32 AM
1

I use rule of two. Meaning, it can happen once. Two in a row, not worth it.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:03 PM
1

HPV can be asymptomatic or the lesions can be really small. There's no sure way to guard against it apparently there is a vaccine for it, but it protects against most strains. You can get it even if you wrap. Use protection. For most of them.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:00 PM
6

Russians still hold strong. For now.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 12:07 PM
5

Lisa Su from AMD might be it. Remains to be seen. She's doing alright so far.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 12:02 PM
1

went out with a woman last week on tuesday. Had a couple of drinks, first date. Light kino and touching from me and her (hands touching). When we left the bar I offered my arm and she took it. When we parted ways, she said she had fun and she hopes to see me again. I proposed to walk her home, she refused. As a side note, this woman did not answer her phone at all when I tried to contact her to set-up the date, sent an SMS and she replied after a day excusing herself and accepting to meet me. Ne…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 02:16 PM
1

it can happen, if they like you and you want to ofc.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 08:24 AM
1

ah, yes. Sounds familiar. Sounds like you're a bit depressed. Besides consulting a psychologist, if you want, you should imo do physical activities (lifting, running etc). It will make you feel better and look better as well, if you keep at it. Only one who can fix you is you, all you have to do is want to, and you will find help. Sounds to me like deep down you have not forgiven yourself for something. Find out what it is and let it go man, nothing good comes out of it. Good luck!
/r/askTRP25/07/16 08:20 AM
2

You'll get a desperate reputation if you act butthurt when they reject you. If you act natural, it won't be an issue. Stop hamsterizing. Only way to get good at approaching women is to approach women. Alternatively, you can practice approaching somewhere where nobody knows you, thus removing the I give a fuck factor. Good luck!
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:53 PM
2

even in failure you learn something. Don't beat yourself over it, no one is perfect. Nothing to do but get up and try again.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 02:37 PM
1

Get an escort. Maybe hard to find one that knows her stuff, might be worth it. If your dick refuses to listen to you, big deal. I doubt that though. Good luck.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:33 PM
1

Jaded? Nah, keeping my head cool yes, and not sweating over lots of shit I used to.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 01:08 PM
2

as far as I know, stoicism does not exclude action. In fact, it encourages it instead of getting angry, complaining and so on. If I understood stoicism correctly, it just states that you should not fret over things you do not have control over. You should care about what you have control over, and if you want something changed, act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 08:30 AM
7

for me, it was 14-20. Why? cause I was an extremely shy dude around chicks and you know where that leads.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:32 PM
1

OP does not seem to be having those issues, if she does then it will probably be more difficult to attract men. All I'm trying to say is that I saw plenty of "plain" women in relationships with men that looked clearly better than them comparatively. So, it is possible.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 07:13 AM
1

depends on who defines the standards. Anyway, I'm not here to convince you of anything. I just answered a question, and you don't agree with my answer.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 01:01 PM
-1

^ ^ ok, so for you it's impossible to find someone attractive that other people don't. Doesn't mean it's impossible for someone else.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 12:58 PM
-3

:) ok man, I'm sure you never saw a friend with a woman he liked and you did not.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 09:41 AM
-5

is a woman that isn't very attractive worth it? Just keep in mind, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Meaning, attractiveness is subjective, what I find attractive, some guys won't. To answer your question, yes, it is. Simply because there are men out there who do not place much value on looks alone.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 08:12 AM
4

not looking for hookups might be ASD, or a shit test upfront :). But I see what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 09:16 AM
2

not better, just a lot easier.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:59 PM
1

Besides wearing glasses, no.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 12:33 PM
1

Scent is one of the most important things for me when interacting with a woman. Perfume is just a part of someone's scent, but it matters. That being said I like Bvlgari Man in Black, Chanel Antaeus, Givenchy Gentleman Only Intense, Burberry Touch. Go to a perfume shop and see if you like em.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 12:22 PM
1

hm, good point. Forgot about those. I'll edit my reply.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 11:55 AM
2

... to me sex always includes a woman, if not it's not sex, it's something else, masturbation whatever you want to call it.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 08:21 AM
2

depends on how you define sex. For me, it's the act of engaging in sexual relations with a living breathing person. To each his own.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:51 AM
1

it's not sex is it? it's a jerking off machine, like fleshlights and sexbots and so on.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:41 AM
1

leme know when you can have straight sex without women.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 02:51 PM
1

I would recommend fucking someone you're not particularly attracted to. Try it.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:05 AM
2

I dont understand why I got friendzoned Ultimately it does not matter. Assume you knew, it could be a thing you did or did not do that is not attractive to this one girl. It could be something that makes you attractive to other girls. Bottom line, stop trying to find out why in girl related matters, because it's pointless, a waste of your time and there are answers as many as women whom you interact with.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:01 AM
2

no problem. Just remember, if you don't like you, it's hard for others to like you.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 07:43 PM
1

see if it helps, it might. Otherwise it might take a long time to get over it. Good luck!
/r/askTRP11/07/16 05:01 PM
1

:) jesus, get off the goddamn tear train Cinderella. What the fuck. Start improving and you'll get there, whining about it is not going to change anything. Good luck!
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:34 PM
3

Work out. Working out releases endorphines which makes you feel good about yourself. As a side effect, in time you will look fit as well. Next, you need to find your positive traits and emphasize them. Dress well. Be groomed. Go out and meet new people, and make conversation with them. Dunno what else I can say, ultimately you can try a psychologist and see if it helps.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:20 PM
2

is there any trauma in your past? Like abuse of some kind when you were a kid? Usually that's where low self-worth issues arise. But I'm no professional, try a psychologist and see if it helps.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:17 PM
1

Just be natural and have fun with it. Don't have any expectations. I liked it as an experience. You see lots of types of personalities, some ok, some not so ok.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:12 PM
1

I read somewhere, can't remember where, that you should only consider the present. What is in the past cannot be changed, so you should not care about it, ideally, same with the future, it has not happened yet, so it's not something to be concerned about. There are exceptions of course, this is a general view of things.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:58 AM
1

he could also try to stay around the bar. Getting to know the bartender is always good imo, especially if you visit the place often.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:56 AM
1

haters gonna hate. I have a colleague at work constantly throwing shit at me. Dunno why he acts like that sometimes. As far as I can tell he's trying to make jokes at my expense. Doesn't bother me that much, usually I say nothing, or agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:52 AM
1

only one way to find out. What have you got to lose? If you don't care much about your job, go for it.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 08:44 AM
3

what I've accepted is that indeed not all women are sluts, but if given the right circumstances, they could be. Just accepting it as a possibility has helped me tremendously as opposed to "she'd never do that to me" etc which is the culprit of getting absolutely destroyed when it does happen to you.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 02:19 PM
1

porn is not that far off from prostitution imo. Whatever, it's their lives.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 07:01 AM
2

the style of writing reminds me of spammers from Nigeria.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:56 AM
1

Look man, from what I read I think you dodged a bullet. Good for you, and remember, when you're down at the bottom, the only way to go is up.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 02:05 PM
1

find a job that pays better and has better hours. How? Start planning for it, you will get there eventually if you really want to. Study for it or whatever you need to do, get an apprenticeship somehwere. This should be priority number one, because if you don't have time because of your job, you can't work out, or go do fun stuff to meet new people. Don't hang out with negative people, they will only drag you down. To not go crazy, try reading in your spare time. Borrow some books from your loca…
/r/askTRP01/07/16 02:41 PM
2

How much do you want to change? You will probably need to cut ties or drastically reduce the amount of time you spend with your beta AF acquaintances. They are not your friends if they are holding you back. Put yourself first, always. You can't make others happy if you are not happy yourself. To fix the rage problem, work out/do a contact sport (martial arts, boxing etc).
/r/askTRP01/07/16 07:27 AM
1

take the pussy off the pedestal.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 12:59 PM
1

well, if just her word is enough... that's fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 07:11 AM
4

to each his own, no need to insult other's tastes in women ^ . ^ . Take it easy bruh.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 06:07 PM
4

what the fuck! how can she prove it though? Or there is no need to prove it?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 06:02 PM
2

imo, you're overthinking it. Play it cool, do other shit, if she wants to see you she will follow up. You could try the direct approach and see where it takes you, try and engage her in sporatic text conversations this does not work in my experience.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 06:42 AM
1

I can't answer that question. I have yet to meet a woman of which I can say I had an enlightening or fun conversation that I did not have with my male friends. So, for me, it's just for the physical intimacy part and the chase I guess, foreplay, sex,etc which I enjoy very much.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 03:00 PM
1

How can I not be so nervous and stop overthinking girls? Practice. Go to a bar or a club where nobody knows you. Optionally have 1 drink (something light). Approach girls/women. Say whatever. In time, the anxiety will go away. Keep doing it until you feel fine talking to women.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 12:27 PM
3

Because you usually can't game prostitutes. And to find one that mimics the real deal, not just sex but real physical intimacy and attraction is expensive as well most likely. It depends what you want, if that is enough for you, by all means, do it. Add to that the higher risk to get a STD. Condoms can't protect you from everything.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:20 AM
1

what would I tell her to wear? something like this : hot stuff A picture is worth a thousand words.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 11:30 AM
1

haters gonna hate. Keep at it man.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 02:56 PM
1

I know what you mean, and it does not make an ounce of sense. Which is to be expected. If all men wanted was sex, there'd be lines at prostitute's establishments 24 hrs.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:52 PM
1

Get over depression (i think it was depression dunno) that was 15 years ago Move around, get various jobs. That helped me figuring out what I want to do with my life and how important is to have a job that pays relatively well. work in a strip bar as a bartender. The insight I got into female nature while working there is priceless. My mistake was thinking that not all women are the same. Had oneitises for strippers, shit happened. It's in the past now, lessons were learnt. Had some short term r…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 12:57 PM
1

You're taking it too seriously imo. Just relax and have fun. Accept things as they are because you can't change them. Hating is not at all productive. So what if they cheat? There's plenty more out there. Move on. You can cheat too if you want to. Hardest part for me to swallow was that there is no such thing as "the one". As soon as I got that through my thick skull, it all became stress free. No fucks given. Now, if you want to have kids, it gets more complicated I guess. I'll cross that bridg…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 12:36 PM
1

0 so far. But I've been doing it the other way (blue pill way) for so long and it was not really working for me. Nothing to do but keep at it. I'll get there.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:54 AM
1

don't hate the player, hate the game I guess. Meh. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:52 AM
2

only using them for sex or blow jobs I never get this part. If they're not enjoying themselves, just gtfo. Nobody's keeping you tied to a wall.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:59 AM
1

party till you're pregnant.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:52 AM
1

yep, that's what I see as well. It's a good time waster for when I'm on the subway to work.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:35 AM
1

it's not, it's all in your head. You'll see. The more you do it, the easier it gets. You can make it a game, make it fun. It is fun :D. The way I got over it is just to set a target when I'm going out, get 10-20 "No". It's easy, go and introduce yourself to the woman, and then just ask her to say "no". If she's not interested, she'll say no. That's great! only 9-19 more to go. Some will ask you "No to what?" , and you can play with that. Make something up. Try, experiment etc. Edit: The hotter t…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 08:44 PM
2

what /u/fnordsnord says. I've been using this app for like 2 years on and off, only got 1 meeting face to face and I got that by asking directly for a date on a specific day at a specific place, from the matches I had, which were not that many, maybe 20 or so. And that one I messed up probably. She was very flaky and kept talking about her exes and how she met a "player" bla bla bla. Kept teasing, tried to get her to come over, she said no. I went on that night and drank till late. Next day I as…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 08:35 PM
1

mkay
/r/askTRP19/05/16 01:16 PM
1

Then Ninjesus will show up and kick your unholy ass.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:53 PM
1

what if a meteor falls on your head? what if the end of days is coming? Figure it out, bruce lee.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:28 PM
2

walk on the street and pick on people, however you might get your ass kicked as well. Why not join a full-contact sport and do it in the ring? Might learn something valuable in the process.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 11:51 AM
1

if you go the "don't tell route" and she somehow finds out, deny deny deny.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 08:21 AM
2

I got to low points several times in my life. Grew a thick skin, I don't really care anymore about the negative outcome. So keep doing it, it gets better. You will see.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:30 AM
1

Learn from them. Observe and learn.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:21 AM
2

escorts will solve your pussy problem temporarily, until you find someone. Could be risky, STDs and what not. Your choice.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:20 AM
3

I don't know. He should find a devout christian and be with her if he cares so much about that.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:08 AM
0

That's what it looks like as well to me. The way I see it, either accept the rules and play by them or stay angry and bitch about it.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 12:51 PM
2

If I don't make it, then that's the way the cookie crumbles. I'm still having fun on the way there. Dunno about others.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 08:39 AM
0

Maybe I'm easily entertained, dunno.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 08:59 AM
1

that sounds like the correct approach to me. I think in most things you learn, use what works for you and discard what it does not. Lots of people lots of approaches.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 08:58 AM
10

No. Define your boundaries. Just say no. It's not hard.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 03:04 PM
2

downvote me to hell, but being in a monogamous relationship with someone and having sex once a week? fuck that, I'm out. Which she could have done, but she didn't.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 01:49 PM
14

nofap for me is about quitting porn and jerking off, and it is working for me. Now, as everywhere on the interwebz there will be idiots who proclaim "superpowers" simply just because they stopped watching pron and jerking off. It helps me get over my mental blocks that I have about interacting with women. It boosted my self confidence indirectly, I just want to work out now and feel more energetic, and want to do more with my life. It helps me have purpose. No, women are not falling into my dick…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 01:33 PM
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yep, I mean like taking a situation and making jokes of that situation, improvising, using witty wordplay stuff like that. As I said, not that many, 2 so far to be fair.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 12:36 PM
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mmm dunno about that, I personally know women who are funny, as in I find they say funny things. Not that many though, I'll give you that.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 12:00 PM
3

Don't cancel it. Have 1 glass of red wine to help you relax. Don't chicken out, go and see what happens. Even if nothing sexual comes of it you will learn valuable things. Trust me, I've been there. What usually helps me is in my mind I set no expectations aka outcome independence.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 08:32 AM
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There's this great Chris Rock stand-up where he says men cannot go backwards sexually, and women cannot go backwards in lifestyle. It's pretty funny. Chris Rock
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:17 AM
1

Maybe. Anything is possible if the right circumstances occur.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:58 PM
9

Move to another country. Somewhere more traditional. Problem solved. Edit: Thanks for the downvotes. Tell me if you have another solution besides bitching on reddit about the state of women in your country.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:16 PM
3

have to pretend you are all happy and having fun just to be able to score pussy eh some of us actually enjoy clubs and bars. And drinking. And dancing. Dunno how many, but I am one of them.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:13 PM
3

I've been single most of my life, so it's not anything foreign to me. Women came and went away, nothing longer than 6 months. Either I broke it off or they did. I'm fine. I used to think about it some years ago, but not anymore, I just really am not bothered. For reference, I am 33 years old, and getting married is not really on my to do list. It's at best nice to have.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 10:01 AM
2

one thing to keep in mind when lost. Defeated. Broken and need help in anyway possible. is that now the only way to go is up. Perhaps consider some therapy sessions to help you get over this moment in your life.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 11:50 AM
0

why not eat the same food every day?
/r/askTRP10/05/16 11:39 AM
0

You're wrong. There is, you just don't want it enough. But you have other priorities, which is fine.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 05:18 PM
2

see if you find something to your liking here: Magic Mike XXL: Original Motion Picture Soundtrack
/r/askTRP06/05/16 01:11 PM
1

it depends, try it and see what comes of it. It does not work well for me. I know people who say that it works for them.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 08:30 AM
1

imo it's a perfect example of what a Lucifer's daughter can do to a gullible guy. I recommend it. The ending is well, unexpected. It's a good movie nonetheless. I have not seen Gone Girl, but I will watch it.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:50 PM
1

you can add Cruel Intentions to that list. Also, Original Sin.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 01:04 PM
3

it took me a loooong time to realize this emotional support crap. Waste of time. I spent so much time trying to come up with solutions for their problems, when they did not want any, they just liked to complain about stuff. Better late than never. So, I'll provide advice when it is requested. If not, either cut it short or if it's something remotely interesting which does not happen very often, I'll listen.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 08:04 AM
1

I once worked with a guy who was alpha as fuck, as in, he fucked everything that moved, he constantly had plates. At some point, he dumped his GF of 5 years, for a stripper/prostitute that had a kid from another relationship; eventually he married her and now they have a kid together, and seem to be very happy. I assume because that's what he wanted and he got it. And I'm not making this shit up. So, apparently, some women can change. Maybe you have what it takes to do it, maybe not. Question is…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 08:54 PM
1

hunting, fishing, fighting, cooking,making booze.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:56 AM
1

19 years old. Met a woman (she was 25 I think), she was upset about a fine that she got, I told her to not worry about it. She calmed down, met at a club later that evening and... well, next day she invited me over.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 09:58 AM
1

not where I live, not yet at least. As I said, nuclear option. As in I'd have to be extremely pissed off to do that, because honestly it would not solve anything besides making her more angry.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 06:34 PM
2

Smile. or, nuclear option, spit in her face. Which will in reaction get you more slaps.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 06:43 PM
1

but it's not the optimal diet for human health says who? For each study you cite I can find another one that says the opposite thing. I mean, people have been eating meat for a long time. Granted, if you choose not to, it's your business. But I do not agree that eating just plants is healthier, which in itself is quite hard to measure accurately, simply because nowadays you don't know what you eat anymore if you go for meat unless you raise your own stock. As I said, I think balance is key.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 08:27 AM
1

then don't drink. Or get very little alcohol with orange juice, or whatever juice you like. Fresh juice if you're worried about the calories. If someone I go out with does not drink, I know better than to try and convince them. It's their choice. It would be very similar to a vegan trying to convince me to eat only vegetables, or me trying to convince a vegan to eat meat. It's not my place to "convert" anyone.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 07:42 PM
2

you're forgetting one thing. Efficiency. How many plants you eat to get the same results as eating 100g of beef steak. Personally, I think balance is best. Meat+vegetables+fruit. To each his own.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 10:58 AM
0

well, I'm a newb, but this part is cause she always tells me about them, and I think part of is it I'm afraid to be as firm as I should because then she'll just run to these other guys. what people call dread, and she seems to be using it on you. Ultimately, she's her own person, and if you're not happy with how things are going and you can't change them, well... find a way to dread her. I don't know how, that part is for you to figure out, or maybe someone else has some ideas.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 02:38 PM
1

he may actually wanted a hug from you and not from your sister. You never know on which sides of the fence people roll.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 10:41 AM
2

How is everyone else who's my age, seem to be doing so good you don't know that. You're assuming based on appearance. Maybe they have issues as well, just because they are not observable does not mean they are not there. That being said, you are the only one who can do anything about changing your current situation. And as others have said, life is not fair. Get used to it, the sooner, the better. Stop living in the future, or past. Just let go of past shit and stop trying to find meaning where …
/r/askTRP29/02/16 02:06 PM
7

You come across as lacking confidence. How do you expect people to have a positive attitude towards you when you do not have one about yourself? I know it's tricky because I'm working on the same problem, self esteem. But fix that first and see where it leads. Also, keeping fit is for yourself first, the attracting women part is a secondary effect imo.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 09:54 AM
6

Except where he is developing oneitis for the detective nah, he just seems intrigued why he can't get her most dark deepest secret. Even so, I like the show so far. I hope he doesn't go oneitis, cause then it would be boring and they should rename the show.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 09:04 AM
3

sounds like you were suffering from oneitis. You'll get over it. Don't be salty.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 12:51 PM
3

I think we enjoy a blend of both (sex+emotional connection). Having physical intimacy with someone who desires you is way better for me than just having some sex with someone you're not attracted to or they are not attracted to you. If that was enough, every man would go to prostitutes. And masturbation is just meh.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 10:39 AM
1

Just try it and see what happens. I mean, if you do it often enough, you'll at least become acquainted with the bartender/waiter. And when people ask me if/why I'm drinking alone, I tell them I never drink alone, I always have my 2 of my imaginary friends, Ahmed the snake whisperer, and Vladimir, the Russian balalaika player. IDGAF. I go out alone all the time. Might be hard at first, but you get used to it eventually. Mainly because my friends which I see very rarely these days are either marri…
/r/askTRP19/02/16 07:05 PM
1

I'm looking for Jesus Christ in my life I'm looking for Bigfoot/aliens/vampires/werewolves Am I doing it right?
/r/askTRP18/02/16 05:46 PM
2

There's an arguably funny joke around here. I believe it embodies the concept perfectly. Let me know if I'm wrong. It goes something like this: The rooster is chasing a chick to bang her. The chick is thinking "If I sit still, he'll think I'm a whore. If I keep running and he won't catch me he'll think I'm stupid. What if I trip and fall?"
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 02:52 PM
1

hm... well, does not seem excessive. Stopping altogether for a while may help. May not, it's worth a try, up to you. Try getting a doctor's opinion as well.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 02:34 PM
1

well, besides what has been said, are you watching porn and jerking off? If yes, try and stop and see if it fixes anything. By stopping I mean like 2 weeks or so, no porn and no masturbation. You can also try some multivitamins (E, B complex etc) and ginseng. And check your blood sugar levels as well, while you're at it. I hope this helps, good luck.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 10:36 AM
1

Whatever works for you, you get the point.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 03:39 PM
1

Here's how I am currently getting over that. After a talk with a friend who has more game than me, I got the idea from him to play a game, specifically the "No" game. The point of the game is to gather "No"s. Set a target, say 10 Nos. Then go there and get it. Pick women who are hot or not so hot, the purpose of this activity is to approach them, introduce yourself and ask for Nos. They might say No directly, they might ask "say no to what", which you can improvise on etc. Just keep asking for a…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 02:49 PM
2

wish I knew that 10 years ago. Oh well, better late than never.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 12:48 PM
1

thanks for the pep talk :). I'll give it a try next time I'm out. Which would be this week, perhaps even tonight.
/r/seduction12/11/15 09:57 AM
2

do you have anything against them going to promote the club? Are they strippers? If not, I fail to see what the problem is. If yes, uhm, I dunno depends on you I guess. I'd go for it.
/r/seduction11/11/15 03:26 PM
2

no one is worth being persistent, imo. Not really. Playing hard to get does not entice me at all. I read it as disinterest, and if she's not interested in me, why are we together? My 2c.
/r/seduction11/11/15 03:21 PM
5

I find it very hard -.- . I'd rather jump through a flaming ring. However, I'm taking baby steps. I tried recently and got half-rejected. Anyways, gotta keep trying, there is no way around it. Only thing I'm more afraid of is probably stray dogs.
/r/seduction11/11/15 02:52 PM
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