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It’s the equivalent of saying “I’ve a good job and take home pay of ten thousand a month and yet no landlord will rent to me.” In such cases, you know a person has tons of evictions or half a dozen rabid pit bulls. There is no such thing as a truly single woman who has realistic standards, there’s always a guy out there. She’s living in the past, likely telling herself she’s gained maybe fifteen pounds since she was twenty five when she gained fifty instead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/25 03:24 PM
25

She’s getting closer to the truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/25 03:05 AM
20

Things are never as complicated as they make them seem, her rambling all comes down to: The power differential has shifted, my ability to dominate a relationship (as I could from age 17-35) is really and wholly over.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/25 01:58 PM
20

This chicks couldn’t live a day in a guy’s life when it comes to dating or interacting with women, if this disappoints her, she’d be shattered within a week. Could she stand to have her picture and profile blasted online? Does she know what it’s like to chat with a girl on an app, to have the girl pretend to be interested only for her to then link her cash app or onlyfans or say she needs money for her electric bill? Does she know what it’s like to have harmless banter transformed into a sexual …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/25 02:12 PM
28

Hypocrisy is lost on her. You get to be her gay best friend basically.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/25 01:41 PM
71

She’s actually remarkably close to seeing the self defeating scam for what it is. The only step that remains would be to consider; High Value to whom? It’s totally irrelevant to her prospects that she’s allegedly high value by her standards or by FDS standards, women can’t make guys find them attractive. Surely, a standard which nullifies 99.99 percent of all men is self defeating? Would we accept a homeless person saying 99.99 percent of housing is unsuitable?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/24 06:22 AM
15

Likely dumps the kids on her parents.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/24 03:23 PM
19

Answer to your first question: Grants, Scholarships and Student Loans, food stamps and AFDC/ Cash Assistance and Child Support. Tons of aid available to single mothers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/24 01:59 PM
18

Yikes, tons of chicks like her at truck stop bars.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/24 03:00 PM
22

This is a request for a lifestyle subsidy. A husband / boyfriend who can pay for everything and be a shoulder to cry on, during the rare times when she’s home.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 02:41 PM
39

Most of the requested interventions aren’t requests for help escaping ( there’s tons of resources to help women leave) but requests for help to get the guy to stop being violent so they can stay. These guys have more value to women, despite their abuse. A writer I cite said he saw such guys find a new woman within a week. He even observed the following: 1. Abusive guy assaults his girlfriend 2. Takes a basically fake overdose so he sent to the hospital instead of jail 3. While in the hospital, f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 03:08 PM
43

I guess I fit her criteria but I’m cool. Not interested in playing father to Jaden, Hayden and Baden. Edit- Though idk how my dick compares and I guess she wouldn’t like black guys who read books.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 02:29 PM
40

Theodore Dalyrmple wrote about this. It’s all about the vessel, violence from attractive guys is an expression of their love and care and isn’t really violence at all. It’s only ex post abuse; meaning it becomes abuse only after the man has left her. However conflict or even interaction with ugly guys (at work for example) is unacceptable. Thus a woman will take her guy sleeping with other women, taking her money and hitting her as a sign of his care and value while being utterly appalled if her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 02:27 PM
11

This is important to consider: She lies not because she doesn’t get takers, she gets tons, but because she doesn’t get the caliber of guy she wants. This is the difference between all women and most men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/24 10:53 PM
2

This is true, even if a guy is violent, they are interested because he’s been with so many women, it’s an endorsement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/24 01:13 PM
3

Yep, but tension only exists with attractive guys, guys who other women want. If you are ugly, it’s bad “vibes”, “creepiness” etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/24 09:48 PM
16

It’s why good looking but abusive guys can go from woman to woman to woman. Theodore Dalyrmple (a British slum doctor) writes about such guys finding a new woman (after being left) within a few days or a week. I knew of violent guys in middle school who dated all the attractive girls in our class.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/24 01:21 PM
26

It took me a surprisingly long time to learn that some women consider abuse from a good looking guy to be their own personal soap opera, something that gives life meaning. While they consider even a slight conflict with an ugly guy to be near rape. The same chick who’ll take punches will have you into HR for looking at her wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/24 12:33 PM
19

Six feet of weave as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/24 02:24 PM
68

How many potentially attractive women have hidden their attractiveness under 30-40 pounds of excess weight?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/24 02:45 PM
12

Yep, she’ll have multifaceted financial problems, cash flow problems and tax problems as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/24 01:19 PM
28

The twist is that she gets to have a boyfriend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/24 01:25 AM
32

Waiting for a divorce to happen often means making a divorce happen when you’ve found a top quintile guy. Also, has it occurred to her why perhaps some older guys want their homes to themselves, as opposed to having it taken over by some chick and her kids?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/24 01:28 PM
5

I agree (my dad was a pastor as well, while holding a regular job) but I understand the point. Especially in the black churches, how could a pastor condemn single motherhood when half the flock are single mothers?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 09:20 PM
9

This is like a recent row on Twitter where a black woman begged black guys to start mentoring young black men (all from single mothers), one guy said that salvation isn’t in mentoring but is in not mentoring i.e offering no help to dysfunctional aspects of our society so they simply burn themselves out. I wonder if the Catholic Church too should be stern and say: nope, you had kids out of wedlock, you will not get us to retroactively endorse your decision. Will a turn around take such sternness?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 04:50 PM
6

I’m not Catholic, but wouldn’t the other couples have been denied the marriage sacrament back in the day?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 04:28 PM
17

She can flip a coin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 02:31 PM
23

Her best option is the father of the children, if they are unfit (which would be just as much her fault as his) she should give up her silly dream that a rich Chad will wife her. Why fewer and fewer women understand the order of operations around family (dating-engagement - marriage-child) is a mystery to me (this is sarcasm, they can do it out of order because unfortunately, they usually can find a guy).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 01:50 PM
16

The thing about it is, she absolutely has options, not guys who’ll “spoil” her, but more prospects than a comparable guy. The mention of spoiling is a dead giveaway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/24 04:02 AM
14

Just to expound, feminism is two pronged : 1. Designed to empower women to control and capture attractive guys, whom women love and will always love 2. Designed to empower women to deride, exclude and attack all other guys. A woman cannot exercise her power if you don’t approach, swipe or speak with her. She can’t reject you, build her ego and then (all while “complaining”) get to whine her friends about all the ugly guys she’s constantly rejecting. Women feel that lack of approach acutely as th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/24 02:25 PM
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She wanted the decision making to be in her court. She’d complained about how he’d spoken to her, so he stopped speaking with her, she then complained about that. It was about power, some women want supplication, they want to be the ones to reject or turn you down. It is tinder empowers them far more than bumble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/24 12:26 PM
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Overall, yes, though many women actually like the feeling of rejecting ugly guys. It reminds me of a work situation where a guy got in trouble for NOT speaking with a woman. So, there are complaints for being to forward and also a complaint for not being forward enough, she wanted him to supplicate himself so she could choose how she could react. It’s an ego boost, some women like and enjoy being in the power position wherein they can crush ugly dudes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/24 02:57 PM
17

This is all about wanting all his resources for her kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/24 06:40 PM
50

I once read an advice column where a woman was pissed that her boyfriend wouldn’t give her oral, she literally had herpes but was still pissed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/24 01:34 AM
9

Invite god after the fact, lol, god never got any invites until now. Was God not available when she was making her husband a cuckold?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/24 08:57 PM
15

Sheesh, absolute madness
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/24 01:53 PM
4

Yeah, mark me down as not believing her. I’m sure half a pack a day isn’t really “smoking” to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/24 11:11 PM
9

I can smell the cigarette smoke.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/24 01:56 PM
22

She talks about her life in the third person, as if she’s not a party to it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/24 03:06 AM
12

They are masters at discernment, but only with men they don’t choose. The power works over the internet, they can confirm for example that all guys on this sub are incels, gay, embittered, ugly, insane and corny, they cannot however discern it in guys they meet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/24 02:27 AM
1

I can see it via this link, but not via a browser.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/24 04:03 PM
23

As I said, $100 bucks says that if the car wasn’t purchased by her parents, it was likely purchased by some guy who is trying to buy her. If it’s the case, this guy is subsidizing her life and making it easier to fuck other guys. Many a member of Chad, Tyrone and Co will have done all manner things in the car.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/24 12:02 AM
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Stuff like this seems absurd from a male point of view, it only seems this because a lot of guys misunderstand what’s going on. They think such apps/ websites are created for all men/ all women, so that relationships can be formed. Thus, they find it strange to see women openly asking for money and they doubt if said women are ever successful. Sadly, such guys misunderstand the situation, these places are created to facilitate access between all women and 15-20 percent of the men. The remaining …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/24 04:08 PM
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People are indeed to quick to discount things. 99 times out of a hundred, I find all these posts believable. Women have a staggering ability to rationalize their behavior around the matters of sex and money. I mean, they are the ones who fall in love with serial killers and school shooters, that marry prisoners, leave their husbands to pursue felons, who become more attracted to incarcerated guys and who have shown that they’ll happily be a side women for a Chad rather than marry a normal dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/24 04:00 PM
1

Women and their male fellow travelers know this is true, especially for women who are millennial or younger. To them, ugliness is offensive, we live in a world we’re a disgusting cow who is a three will think she’s a 8 because some drunk 8 let her blow them. And it’s even worse for all Asian guys and well adjusted black guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/23 07:11 PM
1

Yeah, lol at believing high value guys are in grade schools.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/23 11:44 PM
27

With a profile like this (an obvious party girl who almost certainly gets into acid and ecstasy and lets masses of dudes rail her) you’d still be shocked at the fact that many guys wouldn’t see the warning signs, they’d try and date, some would even try and wife her. Guys have gotta see the signs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/23 04:54 PM
5

I caused some controversy on here recently when I pointed out my recent issue with nurses. Though they were a Latinas (which has become a thing for me) lol, they get hit on a lot, understandably so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/23 03:57 AM
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Lawd, two kids at 18 and a “cosmetologist”. From my own experience, cosmetology chicks are the disagreeable sort, they don’t have any money and can’t hold a job, so they do hair or makeup perhaps making a few hundred dollars per month. When time and opportunity costs are taken into account, they actually lose money and would be better off working at dominos or Walmart, but those jobs are icky because they require structure. Can’t trust the pullout game with her, gotta wrap it up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/23 02:58 AM
2

Some guys are indeed unrealistic and want only the top five percent of chicks, and many of them are hyper judgmental (like calling Margot Robbie without makeup ugly). However, most guys / incels just want someone who matches them. If you are in shape, in crazy to think you must accept a fucking walrus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/23 10:01 PM
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Many guys will dispute you, but you are 100 percent correct, especially if she lives in a leftist area, but she’ll find someone regardless.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/23 07:03 PM
11

Yeah I agree, but such violence is almost always intimate partner violence (husbands abuse their wives less than cohabitating men abuse their girlfriends). The fear of incels is crazy because they by definition have no access.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/23 07:51 PM
7

Many male fellow travelers and women respond to such situations as follows: “You focus too much on the most attractive girls, why not ask her out?” Points at some Homo Habilis looking chick. So it’s suffer alone or fuck a whale.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/23 06:30 PM
11

This misunderstanding can cause disastrous situations. The nerdy guy who heard a beautiful classmate say she finds xyz haircut irresistible on men, goes and gets said haircut and asks her out, not knowing that she actually likes said hair cut on the head of perhaps five percent of the guys in school. The nerd asks her out, then she burst into tears, cries into her friends arms etc. A simple no would’ve sufficed, but only full Homo sapiens get such courtesy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/23 06:07 PM
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Yep, this explains the obsession with incel related violence. Outside of a few prominent attacks, incels are harmless, most women who are harmed are harmed by an intimate partner, incels by definition are almost never in a position to hurt anyone. Indeed though, a woman would rather take a punch from Chad as compared to the slightest disrespect from an ugly guy. Ugliness is offensive and the modern HR machinery / social media landscape (like Tinder with its swipe feature) is designed to punish u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 03:11 PM
29

Whenever a woman mentions a trait (money might be the only exception) it should be presumed that their statement presumes a certain level of attractiveness. So, if they like nerdy, dorky, shy, smart, funny guys etc, they aren’t implying that their ugly neighbor would have a shot if he was one of the aforementioned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 03:06 PM
11

She wants looks and drive when she only has the mate value for one or the other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/23 11:27 PM
17

This is largely about the fact that she lacks the mate value to get a secret billionaire Chad or whatever archetypal guys she reads about in novels.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/23 05:37 PM
53

The classic problem of women confusing what they like in men, for what men like in women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/23 03:42 PM
2

This would be the only way. Family formation is completely fucked up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/23 12:01 AM
18

Yep, in her world, you’ve gotta be a 7.5 out of 10 to even qualify as an ugly guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/23 11:03 PM
30

I recall reading about the Gingrich / Clinton Welfare reform of the 90s. It was said that two thirds of the women benefited while a third were worse off. In my world, we’d need to graduate women to full citizens by withdrawing all support which I think would benefit/ cost society in a way similar to the 90s welfare reform. Today, women don’t actually have to carefully consider who the father of their child will be, they don’t have to consider the whole package. They don’t have trade off looks an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/23 05:10 PM
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Yep, I think a lot of guys on here also drastically underestimate the extent to which many guys are willing to date / marry single moms. I think it might be because there’s a lot of 25 and younger guys on here? Regardless, women wouldn’t be making profiles on tinder where they talk about being single moms if they felt they’d get no takers. I do think that even outside of governmental action, a mass revolt by guys where we refused to date such women would help, I just don’t see that happening.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/23 04:40 PM
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A fundamental disagreement I have with lots of guys on this sub is my belief that it won’t really happen on any massive scale. Every governmental and cultural institution teaches women that nothing is ever their fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/23 03:44 PM
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I noticed both on this sub and in my personal life that people with all sorts of personal problems often portray their bad circumstances as pure happenstance or bad luck. They act like a spectator to their own life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/23 03:11 PM
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In the end, barring some sort of cultural revolution (a non political one obviously) where women adopt better taste in men, the only way to reverse this would be a massive condemnation of single mothers. Guys would have to start swearing them off on a mass scale, women would have to know for sure that becoming a voluntary single mother would destroy all their future prospects. Today, most women know that a second, third and fourth chance will always exist. Today, the bad decisions of women are e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/23 03:09 PM
1

Yep, some of the commenters have no idea what a beautiful woman in Miami or Dubai will be offered lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/23 08:59 PM
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She’ll have a choice though, without question.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/23 08:39 PM
8

I agree with this, it applies in most places, but not everywhere. The behavior of people varies, places with poor male to female ratios or with a lot of guys who’ve got money engender different behaviors. In such environments, 7s get chased and marriage proposals after a few dates or they get open offers for a sugar daddy relationship. It’s hard to be normal in such places, it’s why people like Geoffrey Miller actively recommends guys leave such places. If you are physically comparable to most g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/23 08:30 PM
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Yep, but she’ll get takers though. Her mentions likely light up like a Christmas tree. It’s undeniable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/23 05:20 PM
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Absolutely not BS in certain markets / areas. If you think a chick working Big Law in LA will be ok with taking a stroll on a first date, you’re living on mars. Especially if she’s 35 or younger / not fat. She’ll have too many other guys, offering diamonds and helicopter rides and shit. A good looking woman in Miami will literally have 40 year olds with Ferraris proposing to her and stuff, unless you were extremely high status or attractive, you’d get no play if you refused dinner on a first dat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/23 04:56 PM
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This list only applies in hyper-specific markets. If you are working at big law firm in Manhattan or Miami or LA, and if you are trying to date another lawyer in the firm, it applies. It would apply in other such situations/ environments, but for most guys in most cities, you absolutely shouldn’t be spending large amounts of money on first dates. It’s simply a Chad subsidy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/23 03:00 PM
34

The thing is: she wouldn’t be settling at all. Picking from your only possible options isn’t settling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/23 02:08 PM
55

As per usual, her ambition was almost certainly obtainable before the pregnancy. Almost certainly she could’ve found a guy who would’ve made her a stay at home mom. The issue is that she wanted to have fun first, also, the guys who would’ve married weren’t the like the super Chaddy hunks she fucked in back alleys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/23 02:03 PM
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Yep, foolish to think otherwise. If it wasn’t true, this sub wouldn’t even exist. I wish you were wrong, it’d be better for society in the long run. We’d need fewer social services and the prisons would be half empty. As a rule, I wish all guys adopted the following : if said woman wouldn’t have dated me in high school, then I refuse to date or acknowledge her at any other time in my life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/23 05:11 PM
7

More guys are learning the folly of spending significant money on a first date. Unless you are in certain subgroups/ expensive areas, it’s unnecessary and is simply a subsidy for Chad. You feed her, she kisses you on the cheek and then Ubers to Chad’s place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/23 01:43 PM
73

lol, like saying one is completely STD free with a twist : They’ve the clap.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/23 10:48 PM
56

Yep, you’ve gotta be a real Chad though, but indeed such men more or less end up being paid by women to live with them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/23 03:45 PM
16

Do they even know that our per capita income is nowhere near 100k?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/23 03:44 PM
6

Indeed, the Bernie bros and Cornel West say we aren’t paying enough. I don’t mind providing some subsidies, I am however annoyed at the prospect of supporting women who’d no doubt have disliked me had they met me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/23 04:06 AM
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Two issues : 1. Despite her complaints, we all know that she’s turned down masses of non-chads who despite themselves, would actually love and marry a harlot. She’s complaining that her Chad Thundercock co-stars (or guys like them) won’t wife her up, she’s not complaining about a total lack of prospects. As always no woman is an incel, she’s lying when she says she can get no affection 2. In the past, women were taught by their aunts, mothers and grandmothers that being the town bicycle, whilst …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/23 03:19 PM
20

“Not sure who said it but a phrase I’ve heard is “she’ll makes rules for betas and break rules for alphas”. As cringe as those terms are, the concept applies.” Yep, guys only learn this if they themselves have the experience of being a girls first choice or if they at least have friends who can advise them. In this day and age, taking a tinder girl out for a $200 dinner on your first date is your making sure she’s fed before the late night fucking that Chad will put on her. Outside of certain so…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/23 05:09 PM
63

One important lesson of manosphere/ red pill thought is that taking a woman to dinner (who isn’t your wife / fiancee/ serious long term girlfriend) is a suckers game. More guys seem to be getting it. The whole point of the date is the interaction of the two people, if a woman really likes you, she’d share a 7-11 pizza with you. Indeed, if she really likes you, she’ll fucking cook and bring the food to you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/23 01:35 PM
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Yep, this also explains why befriending a woman with the hope she’ll give you a chance is foolhardy. All you are doing is making it easier for FWB, you provide emotional support, take her shopping, take her to dinner etc, her FWB receives all your help as subsidy and can simply fuck her. Outside of certain religious circles, if she’s not fucking you, she’s fucking someone else. You can date a chick, she’ll tell you she’s not seeing anyone else, she’ll say she’s not sleeping with anyone and wants…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/23 09:43 PM
70

The type of women who can pull guys like this don’t need to join a website.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/23 02:58 PM
12

Yep, this happens. Many guys couldn’t even conceive of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/23 12:29 AM
28

Yep, Gen xers and boomers don’t get this, but taking random chicks out to dinner is a losers game, you feed her and then she Ubers to Chad’s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/23 03:45 PM
20

Lots of guys have fantasies. As for the nurses, I think the stress gets to them, maybe that explains the late and crazy calls I’ve gotten from them at strange hours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/23 05:16 AM
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Speaking only about myself and experience as a dude with a weakness for Latina nurses (and Latinas period) they get hit on a lot, even by patients and their jobs are stressful…So, that plays a part.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/23 06:11 PM
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It’s instant and genuine feedback about where you rate with her. It’s also feedback about your frame, because they don’t simply do it to guys whom they find physically disgusting, they must feel you are disgusting AND weak. A chick who asks that you do for her marriage level shit involving lots of money or time is telling you something. As I’ve said, by doing boyfriend/ husband level shit without boyfriend/ husband level benefits you are only making it EASIER for the guys she likes to fuck her. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/23 06:05 PM
23

Yeah, well notice that I wasn’t speaking about all nurses.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/23 03:18 PM
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Unfortunately, recent events in my life are leading me to feel that same thing about nurses, especially ones who attended fly by night places like Strayer etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/23 03:00 PM
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Yep, it can be truly jarring (especially for younger bros) but it’s truly the case that certain behaviors from women are clearly expressions of how they classify you. These chicks would never treat Chad this way and would be shattered if it were done to them, had one of these dudes reacted with real anger they’d have called the cops. You know instantly where you stand with women based on such things, pulling things like this, asking for huge favors etc are all signs that she thinks you are a pie…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/23 02:55 PM
3

I went to an upperclass high school for one year, I certainly noticed the difference and I certainly got more attention in that one year than I got in three years at the ghetto school.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/23 12:07 AM
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What’s crazy about today is that tons of women group in environments where single motherhood is so rife, they honestly don’t see the downside until it’s too late. Some of you may doubt this, but if you went to a low income high school (as I did) you’d know it’s true. These girls see their friends getting pregnant at 16, they see their moms and aunts having kids with random dudes as well, it doesn’t occur to many that they’ve fucked up until it’s too late. The “corny” guys (like myself) are revil…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/23 03:19 PM
1

I’d never heard of such an arrangement as you described concerning your uncles. Were/ Are they chads, is that how they did it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/23 08:05 PM
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Chicks like her make up most of the likes / engagement on dating apps for guys over 30. She’s pushy type who’ll damn near chase you about a bar or conference hall, especially if you are black….
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/23 03:00 PM
11

Some women are telling the truth, but usually, it means you are a place holder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/23 02:37 AM
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Yep, when they like a guy, everything is construed in his favor, when they don’t, everything is construed against him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/23 03:16 PM
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Yep, this shows a couple things 1. When a woman tells you she’s struggling with dating or on a break, it’s usually isn’t so, certainly not in the way that a guy struggles. A woman saying that to you is rejecting you, if you were a Chad, conveniently her break would end. Her frustration at guys only wanting sex would end. For years, Eva Mendez stated she didn’t date actors, until Canadian Chad Gosling appeared, she’s can’t crank out his kids fast enough. One of my classmates was an anti-natal rea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/23 03:11 PM
5

I ‘d do the same, if she can get guys to buy her dinner, then she can get guys to date and marry her. I literally know a guy who married into a similar situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/23 07:28 PM
10

I didn’t mean myself, but I wanted to express that she’ll get takers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/23 03:16 PM
19

Plenty us of so low (unfortunately), she’s not a pig or something. She’ll get options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/23 03:04 PM
38

Franco culture is distinct from the Anglo-Saxon one and yet the universality of female nature shoes through. She likely had a drunken night a Pierre and is thrilled to be a vector for his genes. Who knows, they might still be seeing each other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/23 02:30 PM
40

Had she been an Alpha Widow with only one kid, she’d have far more prospects, with four she’ll have much less, but she’ll still have some. Sometimes bros like to comfort themselves into thinking such women have no prospects, it isn’t true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/23 02:09 PM
29

Just this morning, I was talking with my mom (a 60s boomer, married to my dad for forty years), she doesn’t understand how most women live online. I’ve no shot, never really had one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/23 03:33 AM
10

If you are really good looking and good with women, you literally don’t have to work for a living. Women love good looking guys explicitly and implicitly, see the sexy son hypothesis.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/23 03:31 AM
43

Yep, but people would be shocked. I’m a an older millennial (30+) and tons of chicks my age live life like that. I know of some 40+ chicks who do too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/23 02:53 AM
6

😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/23 02:37 PM
30

Guys drastically underestimate the first one. You could literally be a homeless dude but if you looked like Gosling or whoever, it’d not matter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/23 02:26 PM
77

She’s a decade late, her reformed badboy will have much younger choices. She still doesn’t understand where she is. Even at 39, she’s basically still interested in 2-3 percent of guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/23 01:57 PM
11

I don’t mind social spending or the welfare state, I just hate the ethos that a lot of people have. They honestly believe that we don’t really even have a welfare state, that we should be taxed far more. As for the chick in the post, though I’ve never met her, I feel I know her, I feel I know her baby daddies. All of them would’ve almost certainly have been the types to give me crap back in school, now she’s subsidized but would still think she’s better than us. Society should have some defense …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/23 09:00 PM
12

All while thinking that what she gets still isn’t enough and that people like us aren’t paying our “fair share.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/23 11:46 PM
14

Only slightly more insane than a typical tinder girl.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/23 11:13 PM
48

On a personal basis it’s disconcerting that I as a single male must have my taxes raised to support a woman who’d have certainly disliked me if we’d met. She’s obviously had her fun as have Tyrone(s) as it regards being a layabout and producing kids. What help she gets, she’s almost certainly not thankful for and she likely feels owed even more. When the total cost is calculated (schooling, food stamps, cash assistance etc) her cost to society is staggering. And those are just the tangible costs…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/23 04:37 PM
30

I briefly was a social worker. In my experience, two out of ten people I worked with were “persuadable” types who just needed temporary help. The rest were not and were near pathological.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/23 03:36 PM
74

If it wasn’t already clear, no amount of raising taxes / welfare spending can fix this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/23 03:30 PM
28

Stay trappin? Does she even what that actually means?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/23 02:16 PM
10

Yep. The main thing is : she knows you are in the friend zone, she knows what you are doing. It won’t work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/23 12:19 AM
31

Complete solitude is preferable if this is the only alternative. I couldn’t imagine suffering the difficulties associated with raising children when said rugrats aren’t even mine. If I’m going to be disrupted in the middle of donking my wife by a crying child, he better have gotten half his genes from me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/23 06:21 PM
36

Life is so fucked up. The sick part is that many women do what to be pursued, they want guys to ignore no and keep pushing when said guy is a Chad. With all women, it’s always about Chad/ Tyrone and not normal guys. What’s awful is that non-Chad might mistake this as applying to them as well and end up getting themselves in huge trouble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/23 02:47 PM
63

So much of the struggle that guys have with women, starting even as teenagers, arises out of the mistaken notion that one can take a woman’s words literally, like a guys words. This misunderstanding leads to many a crushed and humiliated guy, who after hearing her say that they love guys who are funny, silly, smart, have x type of haircut etc approach said woman only to be shot down. The misunderstanding is that “guys” and “men” are highly specific terms which consist of requirements around look…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/23 02:37 PM
106

Intelligent mothers raise their daughters to do it. Every smart woman knows that the right time to secure a guy is in their 20’s, preferably before the guy is super successful and becomes unreachable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/23 01:54 PM
71

100 percent right. Hypergamy among women usually means that they end up dating guys who are older than they are. Her experience is easily predicted by redpill theory, she blew her youth partying, likely got fucked by Chad but couldn’t actually keep him. She also almost certainly would’ve rejected many of the same guys that she now sees with younger women. As time has passed, things have inverted and she sees life passing her by.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/23 01:51 PM
26

Not sexual, but has got kids? Are we talking virgin births? Thus we see the inherent silliness of many women, that a man who isn’t the father of their kids, would invest time and money being a platonic stepfather seems insane, right? Well, indeed, it’s hard to pull off, but not impossible to pull off (sadly). There’s a popular meme of a girl who is holding her baby, a guy is in the picture she says something like “he’s such a great dad, I hope he finds a nice girl!”. So, shit like this does actu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/23 01:40 PM
8

It’s seems more complicated, some reform is possible, Florida has limited alimony and child support payments.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/23 01:42 AM
56

A society where we suddenly re-adopted negative views of single motherhood, removed the welfare state support for single motherhood and made it such that child support was only owed for children conceived in marriage, might be cruel (at first) but if it drastically reduced this outcome, it’d be worth it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/23 05:22 PM
11

Yep, and then they even enlist the black church to facilitate the bullying of single black men into marrying them. I saw one black mega church pastor condemning men who would refused to marry a woman and take care of another dudes child. He’s raising false hopes in women and is instructing them exactly opposite of how he should. He should instead say 1. Try and make it work with the father of your kids, that’s the best option by far 2. If the father is unfit for a relationship, both you and he a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/23 03:13 PM
51

Appreciate it. The phenomenon occurs with all women, with black women though, it prevails in the middle classes a lot. I know a university educated black woman who is a successful businessperson, she’s had multiple children with a bum / knucklehead. Her daughter is an elite RN program at a major university, instead of dating a campus guy (of any race), she’s also taken up with a bum. I know another university educated black woman who despite working at an elite accounting firm, got pregnant by a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/23 11:00 PM
90

Homie has a receding hairline which is worse than that of my dad. To all non-black guys on this sub, I hope you understand that such attitudes prevail amongst perhaps 70+ percent of black women, thus you see the staggering difficulty that black guys face within their (our) own racial group when they aren’t a Tyrone. This same woman would complain mightily if she saw the same “ugly” guy with a Hispanic chick or an Asian woman. One important thing to remember about girls like her: she’ll eventuall…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/23 03:09 PM
37

Utterly monstrous. Anybody from the black community knows this girl, you can almost hear the obnoxiousness coming through the screen. If she’s the type that I suspect, she’s just as much victim as she is perpetrator. She’s the type to torture any black sort atypical or eccentric black guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/23 03:04 PM
30

Yuck. Remember gentlemen, modern society feels that it would be wrong to stigmatize her. Instead, it’s better that Tyrone/ Chad be able to sow his oats and she be able to live with the illusion of independence. God forbid we reinstate cultural penalties so discipline could again be imposed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/23 02:06 PM
25

With women like this, you can never be too cynical. She might simply want money to make her baby daddy dinner or to help pay his bail/ bills. One thing is for sure, women don’t ask Chad’s for money, if she asks you, block her and check your fucking frame.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/23 03:41 PM
25

“Wow, that’s tough, hopefully it works out, maybe try contacting the father of your kid. He’s the most invested, if he won’t help then the person in the mirror is to blame.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/23 03:29 PM
11

Yep, lots of feminism is nothing but a Rod women can use to attempt to control attractive men and brutalize and assault unattractive men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/23 03:56 PM
4

I feel for you. It can be tough to be categorized this way when you are simply trying to be chill or even when you are off by yourself. Negative attribution is brutal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/23 12:21 AM
13

They weren’t technically married, but it was still wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/23 09:53 PM
235

If there’s not a ring on your finger, you should assume nothing. Unless the guy is a psychopath, all his characteristics were plain to see. Women will see a guy covered in tattoos, with scars up and down his body and with priors and will claim that “they had no idea he was a bad guy.” I’ve known women who knew that guys were wife beaters (going back to middle school!) whom they still pursued. It’s been studied, when you are good looking, people ascribe positive motives you. This guy (if she’s te…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/23 02:29 PM
20

Very little thought seems to go into how one gets what’s in that picture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/23 03:44 PM
35

Notice the language? “The” kids, she has “the” kids. It might seem to be semantic quibbling, but it’s actually of grave consequence. Like a criminal who says “the knife went in” or that “the gun went off”, she is being extremely deceptive. They aren’t “the kids”, they are her kids and Tyrone’s kids. Though it would be very unpleasant for awhile, the only way of pulling us back from the brink might be the return of stigma and shunning of such women. People whom she’d never look twice at (indeed, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/23 02:38 PM
43

Once again, we see the ex post facto thinking. Why didn’t she search for maturity before? How hard would it be to only sleep with guys who are father material? Very hard apparently. Society is paying a huge cost for the short term tingles women get out of such things. Edit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/23 02:19 PM
16

And if one guy won’t pay, we all do, via taxes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/23 03:06 AM
30

Kids, plural, where was this level of care and forethought before conception. Women have from time immemorial, been judging the father potential of guys. Many women have no issues finding responsible guys, now it seems that the selection process has been truncated. All the consideration is AFTER the fact, it’s the not first guy who is limited, who must wait for sex, who must be judged, it’s the second guy. Chad gets a legacy, she gets a legacy and somebody else gets to pay. It’s like it’s uncons…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/23 02:23 PM
2

Time horizons are different from intelligence. You can be of modest intelligence whilst worrying about the future and knowing that you must make provision for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/23 02:02 PM
2

Yep, simple education in biology and evolutionary psychology would make this clear to women : fucking a nine doesn’t make you a nine. The idea that it does permeates female thinking, you ever wonder why a chick who is obviously not on your level waddles up to you confidently and flirts, like she has a shot? Well, Chad and Tyrone and Jose, with their lack of impulse control are the reason why.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/23 05:08 PM
16

Ex post facto thinking, the time to consider these things isn’t after a child comes but before. Differences in the ability to plan, differences in time horizons and the inability to engage in connected thinking are to me the biggest differences between the lower classes and the upper classes. I’m positive, if you were to ask this woman how she could be in this situation; alone with two kids and another on the way, she’d attribute her current situation not to her own mismanagement but to fate, ha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/23 03:17 PM
116

This is real shit and many women sincerely misunderstand this. Women confuse sexual attraction with overall regard, so surely, the Chaddy guy who just did a line with them before fucking them actually likes them, right? A few encounters with a drunk, high, depressed or horny Chad can screw with a woman, they’ll spend years thinking that because a nine let them give him a blow job, they are thus themselves a nine. Strangely enough, a guy making a similar argument would get criticized as an incel …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/23 02:21 PM
18

Yes, this is a good description. She’s obviously fucking some other dude (she’s likely in a rotation) she wants a friend zoned loser to provide what Chad will not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/23 02:06 PM
22

It’s a hard a lesson, but some guys never learn it. They’ll be 60, divorced and fat, in the strip club and convinced that they are truly friends with the strippers. The women see them coming and fleece them blind. One cannot be too cynical with dealing with women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/23 02:22 AM
90

Yep, when women talk to you about other guys, it means they aren’t thinking of you sexually.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/23 10:03 PM
143

Yep, once you learn that women don’t even see unattractive men as fellow humans, much less as actually men, everything falls into place. To most women, unattractive men are disgusting troglodytes, lower in rank than their Labrador. They are atms, whose purpose is suffer, pay taxes to fund programs, collect the garbage and do any menial laborer that needs doing. They are like a black person in Alabama circa 1929, they are to not been seen or heard, even their making eye contact is an insult. True…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/23 03:35 PM
34

A guy who takes charge, but who is still chill? A guy who has money but wants to sink it into a massive hole / sunk cost? Such a dude would have a myriad of alternative options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/23 03:14 PM
12

And they still feel entitled to shit on single non-Chad guys. Nothing equals the contempt that women feel for unattractive guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/23 05:45 PM
12

Yep and if anything, we are told that we aren’t putting enough in the pot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/23 05:39 PM
12

The sad part is 1. These women assume that after they have a child with Chad, Chad will stay. On the off chance that he won’t, they assume they can find a simp 2. Unfortunately, many of them are correct in thinking that they can find another guy. The blight of single motherhood could only be stopped in one of two ways, one way would be the abolition of the welfare state and all money transfers; the second way would be if all men swore off dating or even associating within single mothers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/23 01:50 PM
12

She’s covered in tattoos, doesn’t really seem conservative. She’s likely whatever she needs to be in order to lure in a guy with cash.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/23 02:48 AM
23

Many things with women are ex post facto. Her looking to start a family AFTER being pregnant also illustrates ex post facto / ad hoc style living.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/23 03:15 PM
222

Honestly, getting turned down, explicitly so, is a new experience for many women. Due to the popular culture which states that single motherhood is fine, and given that most people in society don’t do any connected thinking, women who become single mothers simply never think that it would damage their mate value. Many women freeze their lives at the age of 23, when their value is at its peak. It must be quite something to experience rejection after what could be years or even a decade (starting …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/23 03:11 PM
28

As it conveniently doesn’t even show the guys face, we can guess who took the video. I for one am flabbergasted that he didn’t think more of a woman who immediately blew him in public. As for the chick, tumblr, most of Reddit and Women’s studies departments have all told me that that “sex positivity” is a good thing. If she explains to bro, I’m sure he’ll understand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/23 05:25 PM
84

Something like this will dog OF women. We are close to seeing a tidal wave of such posts “Somebody sent my fiancé pictures of my old OF, now he wants to call off the wedding” “My son is in sixth grade, he came home crying today because some boys at school found my old OF”. Separate from the internet forever issue, we’ve the “I am no longer a harlot” issue. Many women really don’t seem to get how insulting it is, one set of guys get sex at no cost, no need to wife her, provide emotional support o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/23 04:04 PM
31

And strangely enough, tons would argue that thirty percent isn’t even enough. I’ve long believed that the availability of welfare actively changes the mate choices of women. In a world of subsidies, no need to consider things like reliability and conscientious, instead you go for what you want and know that society will make up the difference. There is of course, no such thing as “society”, there are only individual taxpayers. And yes indeed, we are forced to support such women who’d not look tw…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/23 05:03 PM
66

She’s living in the past, when she didn’t have a kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/23 11:44 PM
9

Jackie O used to pull it off, she was a Fox though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/23 11:41 PM
17

Ha, it’s likely the case that they were never dating. She was just a member of the rotation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/23 04:52 PM
59

To be 27 and exhibit such immaturity is bonkers. 27 and unable to manage relationships such that you’d have a relationship with the father of your child. Sadly, she’ll get takers, but hopefully fewer. I think more and more bros are understanding such situations, this is basically her spreading the genes of her preferred gut whilst trolling for a caretaker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/23 03:11 PM
12

Certainly, the photos are deceptive. We know that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/23 01:51 PM
9

A cultural misunderstanding. She’s talking about a particular type of black dude, some of which do go to the barber weekly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/23 01:14 AM
34

Dancer? Stripper (possibly)? Also, this is another preposterous case in the literal sense of placing before that would should come after. Children are post a relationship with a good dude, not pre the relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/23 02:30 PM
22

Whilst it not technically impossible that a good chick could find herself doing OF, more likely, she’s a person in love with adoration who would be incapable of coupling. Also, her activities would drag the reputation of any bro who was with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/23 06:52 PM
65

Examine the term “most guys can’t handle it.” Basically, it explains everything, she claims to want a relationship and yet, most of the cohort whom she would be interested in would not be interested because of her job. That’s the answer, she’s actively pursuing irreconcilable things, she (like many women) presumes that her shortcomings are actually the problems of guys (thus, her use of the term “handle it”). Just as we men can’t make women feel attraction to fat guys or poor guys, no amount of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/23 03:09 PM
116

So, a guy is supposed to go over to her pigsty of house, replete with a child, animals and (undoubtedly) a boyfriend or husband to Netflix and chill?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/23 02:13 PM
76

Apparently, one can go undressed to the gym but still complain when someone looks at them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/23 04:13 PM
11

Focusing on race again, I wish there was a way to let well adjusted young black guys know that nothing is wrong with them when they refuse to react violently to every little thing. The popular incentives are not favorable and many must semi-alienate themselves from the popular culture to get respect. “You don’t have kids or priors?” Weirdo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/23 01:14 AM
19

It’s worth pointing out for younger guys: often a well adjusted guy who pursues such a woman will find himself humiliated and embarrassed as she mocks and insults him, in such a case, the guy should cut her off and maintain frame. For, though many women will willfully take abuse from a angry Chad, they’ll call the police/ HR in cases wherein a good guy has even raised his voice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/23 08:31 PM
21

Indeed, such people are now the majority and are the vast majority among black and Hispanic women. It complicates things for guys who pursue such women. It’s really sucks for Hispanic/ Black men who are normal, it’s harder for such guys to induce tingles with women who are accustomed to yelling, screaming and punching as the truest expression of masculinity, thus antisocial behavior is now seen as the best behavior among most women. Most women do grow out of this belief, but not until they’ve ha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/23 05:02 PM
60

This attitude is pervasive of among black women, but also women of other races as well. It’s truly damaging to black guys who are socialized and mainstream. It’s the constant misunderstanding of the context of violence that a majority of women have. So many think : Violence = Masculinity, regardless of the context. This is how they end up in abusive relationships, this is how they learn to see normal guys as pussies. They see the loudmouth, angry guy with priors who gets into fights when someone…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/23 03:36 PM
17

“No hookups” is more useful prior to the pregnancy, now, it’s hypocritical and a punishment. Does she even actually know which of the prior two guys is the father?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/23 04:50 PM
12

I didn’t mention the fat option, but that would only apply if she only very recently loss the weight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/23 08:26 PM
40

The answer/ the cognitive dissonance of most feminists: They are situational feminists, for all non Chads, they can be angry, spiteful and insulting even if a non-Chad should fail to avert their gaze on the street. For actual Chads, they can be fun and giggly. This is how most women balance their feminism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/23 05:19 PM
22

If she is really who she claims to be, if she’s actually moved in trad con circles / religious circles, she’s likely turned down DOZENS of good family oriented guys. Never forget that about any and all attractive 30 something women you meet. In the same way, you understand that for every wrongfully convicted prisoner, masses of guilty people go free or are only convicted for a fraction of their crimes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/23 04:59 PM
14

Indeed, that’s the business of the mom, the daughter and her father. It’s also fascinating that instead of working to achieve their goal, they were basically shopping around. Fascinating they simply expected things to “arise”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/23 02:14 PM
12

Your post is something that these women simply don’t get. I honestly think it’s due to a general lack of biological knowledge, these girls don’t get how costly it is to for a guy to raise kids not his own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/23 12:39 PM
11

Awful indeed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/23 09:11 PM
29

Don’t comfort yourselves into thinking she’ll get no takers, she will (sadly) and guys of a decent caliber too. Among her (which is also mine) age cohort, she’s in the 60th percentile just by not being a fucking cow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/23 06:15 PM
8

Ignorance of basic biology is such that women who post shit like this really don’t comprehend what they are asking. If her profile was rewritten to be honest, it’d say “I had sex with a guy to whom I’m viscerally attracted, either I didn’t make him use a condom, I failed to count the days, I find birth control too complicated to use or I wanted to get pregnant. Now, either because I’m a poor judge of character or because I managed to have sex with a guy of superior SMV, I’m alone. I need moral s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/23 01:26 PM
9

Probably because it’s a proxy for redneckism. Many people think all rednecks are bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/23 06:56 PM
89

People who admit to lying about their age should be banned from all such sites and apps. I can imagine how she might of looked 20 years ago, she’s taken that image of herself and frozen it in her mind, she doesn’t get how her value has dropped. A guy who is all things she wants is dating women a decade younger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/23 04:19 PM
14

“What am I doing wrong?” 1. You (despite working in a male dominated industry) are obviously ignoring the prospects which are right under your nose. No doubt, most of the men at work don’t even truly register as “men”, to her they might as well be transmen. To her, only guys in the top 15 percent are men at all. 2. You have turned down 6-12 serious prospects for marriage so that you could travel 3. You have an attractive friend, who herself has a Chaddy husband, you’ve decided that you require a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/23 01:13 PM
9

This is an issue that many single moms encounter. Once 1. Their pregnancy fails to ensnare Chad. 2. After the babies comes and the hormonal rush and daydreaming end: They realize what an utter struggle raising a child alone is, they realize that society has no real investment in the child. Also (if they are honest) if the child is male, they soon realize that he desperately needs positive, male role models in his life. Many women literally can’t provide this out of poverty (sports teams, the Boy…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 02:08 PM
11

In the end, your child is valuable only to you and the father, nobody else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 01:40 PM
7

And you must always remember with remember with women (unlike men), they always had the option to settle down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 01:38 PM
37

That it never occurs to such women that such guys are best that they can do is fascinating. If, during normal employment, I apply for 100 jobs and can only get work as unskilled labor, it’s not indictment of society but a statement on my skills and qualifications. Not being able to date a Chad is a fucking empirical signal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/23 03:45 PM
8

“Plays supports” does she mean sports? Judging by her gym comment, you can’t work out (but I’ll bet you still gotta be in shape.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/23 12:57 PM
5

Preferably means exclusively, hopefully non-Jews know that in this case, but it applies to all groups.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/23 07:01 PM
73

There was a recent blowup on Twitter in which women complained about a guy marrying a 27 year old woman. 27! She was allegedly a child, according to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/23 12:39 PM
59

She’s looks 40 almost. Like I’ve said, finding a drunken or depressed Chad and getting him to fuck doesn’t mean that you yourself are capable of dating a Chad. Women don’t understand male sexuality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/22 03:31 PM
19

Indeed, much that we do, if we are not careful, simply facilitates the fucking of girls/ Chad. Another subsidy for Chad is when a guy is “friends” with a woman. You provide the emotional support and companionship, Chad doesn’t have to and can fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/22 02:31 PM
41

With few exceptions, dinner on a first date is literally some sucker shit. Dinners are for serious relationships only. Take your wife / fiancé out to dinner, not every hinge/ Instagram lady. Taking some Instagram ‘model’ out to dinner is the earned income tax credit for Chad. You feed her, he doesn’t have to, he just fucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/22 01:41 PM
30

Indeed, understandably disappointing, but not ghosted or stood up. Welcome to the world of any bro in the bottom four quintiles. Women could not live a single month dating as a guy, women can be utterly vicious to you, in ways that’d have her in therapy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/22 01:32 PM
38

Absolutely, it’s utterly bizarre to claim otherwise. This woman is a bombshell compared to some of the utter cows I’ve known who’ve gotten dates. She absolutely could date, but is likely pursuing single, childless guys ie guys with superior SMV to hers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/22 01:29 PM
32

Men absolutely date single moms, without question, tons of our bros do it every day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/22 01:27 PM
41

And don’t think that the kids raised in such environments aren’t eventually aware of how they are passed off. Society pays a massive cost for kids raised in female incompetence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/22 05:14 PM
15

Always wondered why those who commit infidelity can’t simply use condoms or count the fucking days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/22 01:55 PM
16

But the time realizes, it’ll be too late.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/22 03:32 AM
43

This would require her to stop aspiring to be her younger, prettier friends. All women have within their circle at least one attractive woman who in turn has a high status boyfriend or husband. In the same way that a broke person can fool themselves into thinking they are rich by keeping company with rich people, so to can an unattractive woman fool herself into thinking she’s attractive by hanging out with attractive chicks. The competition between women is such that many couldn’t stand “settli…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/22 06:10 PM
4

Some of us don’t like it all and won’t even go that far, but I agree, a black obsessed chick is not long term material. Sometimes it’s interesting to get pussy thrown in your lap, but in general these chicks don’t want black guys, they want a meek mill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/22 12:07 AM
11

I could just imagine the smell of her house (if you aren’t an especially clean person, owning dogs and cats turns your place into a pig sty). And I’m black, but I’ll take a hard pass. The “only dates black guys” type chick is usual trouble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/22 12:52 PM
27

To be fair, some guys don’t like it when their lady puts on heels and is taller than them. When people have a thing for such an immutable characteristic, there’s no use arguing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/22 01:51 PM
101

Her statement of her height and her love of heels is a roundabout way of saying she wants a 6’ tall guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/22 01:33 PM
21

Indeed, it’s bizarre to see. Sure, two unemployed people can increase their prospects by lowering their demands, it’s still the case that a world renowned surgeon has more leeway to lower his demands than a professional fruit picker does. A woman who is a two can never date a five, but she sure can fuck one. To extent the five refuses to date her, she’s not an “incel” because she could easily date a four. A guy who is a two is in the bottom rung, he couldn’t hang around a desperate five and fuck…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 08:49 PM
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Yeah, because women all know that they could get a man if they simply lowered their standards. They assume all men could do the same, when in reality only some men can. The bottom portion of guys cannot actually lower their standards as no woman wants them anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 08:14 PM
26

This is empirically untrue overall. There are masses of data which clearly show that online dating, most men find most women to be attractive whilst most women find most men to be unattractive. Obviously, there are hyper selective guys who basically make themselves incels, there are however a great many guys who have no prospects. It’s inconceivable that any woman could go on tinder and find that nobody has swiped right on her. Both sexes can lower standards to increase their prospects, but wome…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 08:01 PM
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This is part and parcel of the belief that many women have that there can be nothing which belongs only to men. The Boys club must become the Boys and Girls club, the Boy Scouts must allow girls (having the Girl Scouts isn’t enough) and the definition of incel must be stretched from its original meaning to include women. Incel means involuntary celibate, and whilst you can come across some incels who are such because they think they deserve a super model, that isn’t the case with most. Guys are …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 01:46 PM
17

Certainly isn’t classy to willfully plan to be a single mother. She’s a clear avoid, sadly, some dude(s) will give it a go for sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 03:22 PM
11

Conceivably, the benefits go both ways.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/22 12:05 PM
54

She’s being treated in a way commiserate with her status. It’s basic reality that you can gauge a person’s respect for you by how they treat you or what they ask of you. If you are a guy and a woman you aren’t serious with asks you for money or time consuming labor (like that which a married guy does for his wife) then you are clearly not a real prospect for her, because Chad doesn’t get asked such things. As for this woman, the “disrespect” she sees is likely nothing more than the fact that she…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/22 11:35 AM
17

Her issues are obvious. She’s clearly pursuing guys above her SMV. She thinks she’s dating guys, but she’s actually not even not even ‘dating’ she’s simply making herself available for sex with guys who’d never consider dating somebody of her caliber. If she dated guys on her level, she’d not have trouble finding guys interested in commitment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 12:42 PM
1

Her field used to be dominated by men, now, especially with psychologists under 40, it’s 80 percent women. It’s gotta have something to do with the spiking divorce rate. She needs a husband, because her job will pay bunk, psychology is normally among the most majored in subject on any university campus, so it’s drastically oversaturated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/22 12:56 PM
3

The money could legitimately be used (in part) to make a nice dinner for her real guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/22 11:48 AM
3

There are babysitters who charge that, but that’s Doctor/ Lawyer/ Football player lever stuff. One of colleagues was such a babysitter in one of the wealthiest places in America, she might watch kids for a weekend for a grand… Obviously, no single mother is on that level.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/22 11:45 AM
12

Sadly, tons of guys on this sub are CERTAIN that nobody dates single moms, how wrong they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/22 11:40 AM
5

That he didn’t know why any black guys would be interested.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/22 03:46 PM
20

She’s on a glide path to death. She’d be at risk of dying in child birth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/22 12:07 PM
21

You know the answer. There’s a subset of us who’ll always kiss the ass of white women, any white woman, purely because they’ve a 1940’s mentality. My grandpa was born in GA in 1923, I can understand why men of his generation might have been curious about what it would be like to fuck an attractive white woman, today however there should be no novelty. If you wouldn’t fuck a black woman of identical weight, then don’t fuck a white, Asian, Latina chick of the same size..,You aren’t impressing anyo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/22 12:07 PM
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Hopefully nobody of my co-racialists from this sub will, but sadly, there will be some bruh out there who’ll do it. Unfortunately, to a certain type of black guy (usually out of shape, from a poor background where he didn’t interact with white people much) all white women are exotic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/22 12:02 PM
13

They all do though, it’s sad but true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/22 12:25 AM
29

And it only gets worse, her image is likely being used across the internet without her permission, no decent guy will want her and at some point, her future children will learn of this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/22 06:04 PM
9

Nothing more awful than solo pregnancy pictures.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/22 06:02 PM
4

If you got tricked into it, hopefully you learned a valuable lesson.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/22 01:48 AM
4

Indeed, she’d borrow from Peter and Paul to wine and dine Tyrone or to bail him out of jail. Like I’ve said, if a woman you aren’t married to / engaged to / seriously dating asks for wife level stuff (work around the house, car repairs, help moving, money etc) it means you are giving off beta energy. You should dispense with such women, work on yourself and immediately refuse her requests.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/22 01:26 PM
13

Absolutely not a joke. It’s strange that you think that, there might be some hyperbole but I’ve seen some of these before. The buy extra meals / babysitter demand absolutely occurs in real life. To be clear, if a woman demands this of you, you should refuse, she’d never demand this of Chad/ Tyrone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/22 12:30 PM
12

This is important to know, there is an iron law of dating, no matter a woman’s crazy demands, some bro somewhere will be willing to pay the toll.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/22 12:27 PM
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Has a kid, doesn’t want more = I’ve mated with Chad and will carry his blood line forward, you need guy; well you’ll not get that privilege.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/22 12:25 PM
6

Here, you see the penchant for women to project their standards onto guys. Because she cares about occupation, intelligence and salary men must care about it too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/22 04:11 PM
13

It’s why you should never get familiar with anyone at work, when you get sent to HR, people like her are adjudicators.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/22 03:36 PM
44

The 90 days applies to the new targeted safe bro, obviously, she would be actively sleeping multiple ex-boyfriends. When you are in a relationship with a sexually active woman, and when you aren’t having sex with her, all you are indeed doing is greasing the skids for the guys who are fucking her. By removing the boyfriend responsibility from him, you are subsidizing both of them. So, when you buy dinner for her, you are freeing up funds so she can cook for her fuckbuddy, buy him clothes, watche…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/22 03:43 PM
18

Strangely enough, some women honestly think they can flip the script on this as they do with only fans and obesity. They feel that they can create a stigma on people pointing these things out. On the specific issue of the number of partners, it’s a huge red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/22 02:03 PM
9

It’s awful work though, as many such trades are. My dad and multiple uncles were construction guys, it destroyed all of them physically. Every time white collar types claim that drug dealers and criminals can be reformed and made carpenters, plumbers etc, I chuckle, such jobs are super competitive and require tons of discipline and hard work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/22 01:53 PM
9

So, she seems to want an LL Bean guy, full goatee and beard with flannels, who benches 315 and deadlifts 600. Even from her profile, you can tell two things 1. She is indeed almost certainly fat and not curvy in the sense that Eva Mendez or Beyoncé are curly, and 2. Despite this, she has still been active in the dating market, such that she has actually dated enough guys to learn what traits she dislikes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/22 04:42 PM
21

Don’t insult those guys, they do well financially and somebody has gotta do those brutal jobs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/22 04:13 PM
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I’m surprised she didn’t say “Who is gay, not bi, but still fucks women.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/22 11:42 PM
14

It’s made worse by the fact that most women, say 80 percent at least, despite not deserving it, absolutely have had multiple opportunities to choose family oriented guys. The type of guys who’d stay in a loveless marriage rather than leaving their kids. This is what must be kept in mind when you hear women complaining about their prospects, all women don’t have access to finance bros as husbands but they all have prospects.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/22 12:20 PM
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Defining deviancy down, now, chicks with only one kid will walk around like they are special. Edit- the reaction on Twitter or Instagram would be “Don’t single moms deserve to date, what if she cannot find childcare!?” All these questions, which focus purely on the wants and needs of the woman are exactly the problem and show how woman centered our societies are. It never occurs to them to ask what guys want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/22 05:23 PM
14

I’m Six Foot three, but I assume her list of particulars isn’t comprehensive, so she’d surely have tons of reasons to still dislike me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/22 02:53 PM
12

Yeah, or she’s got a voucher for housing from HUD.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/22 04:04 PM
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And don’t think that she won’t get some takers, these profiles exist because some desperate/ sad / depressed bros will take a swing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/22 03:38 AM
10

I think this has been circulating for a good while.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/22 01:34 PM
15

One who has a thing for roughnecks. She’s been thrown from the carousel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/22 01:06 PM
27

She’s got all the time in the world, she’s got time enough at last. It’s worth saying with all such profiles, if you feel she’ll get no suitors, you are dead wrong. She absolutely will, such is our state of affairs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/22 01:26 PM
4

It’s not just real, it’s common as even a woman who is five can live this way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/22 05:09 PM
13

Indeed, she’s not counting Daytona or Cancun or work trips.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/22 05:07 PM
17

This is like how Onlyfans is/ will be. No amount of cultural shaming will make us guys change our minds about this issue
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/22 04:58 PM
29

This is why most all women, whether they be conservative or radical, simply cannot perceive the life of a guy in the bottom 70 percent. Guys in the bottom half might as be subhuman mongrels. They tear up when they must settle for a guy with love handles, they couldn’t imagine going on tinder swiping right on everything only for nothing to come back. There is no comparison in lifestyle between a guy who is a four and a girl who is a four.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/22 05:28 PM
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The reaction to this shows the apex fallacy. Some are calling for a sex strike, just at a time when many men are going without sex for long periods. Many of my fellow millennial bros are having less sex than guys the same age 30 years ago. These women literally have no clue what’s it’s like to be a bottom 80 percent guy. You cannot take what a person doesn’t have. A sex strike will only apply to Chad, but we all know he won’t be denied. https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2022/06/25/abstinen…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/22 11:30 PM
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“Spend money on me, I’ve a womb with a kid, I don’t know what to put here because I no real personality.” It’s fascinating that she need not bring anything to the table and that she’ll get takers for certain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 08:59 PM
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She’s the type who would simply send them, unbid. She’s the type who bothers guys with SMVs higher than hers. Think back to middle school / high school and the pushy and ugly chicks who constantly bothered you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 04:19 PM
17

Whenever they are explicit about things they won’t do, they are telling on themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 03:53 PM
59

And you know, she absolutely does send nudes, she’s a liar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 03:41 PM
8

I’ve been on such a trip with a client.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 05:28 PM
51

Also, you’d spend money on the hobby and not on them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 04:45 PM
4

I’m ready to settle down as well, that is all we have in common.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 12:17 PM
21

The fucked up part is that there is a common law assumption that a child born to a married woman is her husband’s child. He must begin divorce proceedings post haste, hopefully before she gets pregnant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 04:08 PM
32

This is the sad part, we shouldn’t fool ourselves into thinking she has no prospects, because she does (unfortunately) . Posts like this disprove the notion that women can be incels, if a woman is an incel, it’s willful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 12:33 PM
7

As was recently illustrated by Will Smith, an open marriage equals no marriage. Any man who abides one (the potential paternity issues) that would arise almost deserves what will happen to him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 09:21 PM
9

The casual dishonesty about age on apps is insane.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 01:29 AM
1

Indeed, there are obviously exceptions, but generally if it’s going to happen it will be obvious. It can be a hard lesson to learn, but it’s important nonetheless.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 11:30 PM
11

Indeed, I pointed this out in the past (that pregnant girls / single moms have tons of prospects) and was showered with negativity here. Anybody with experience knows it’s unfortunately true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 04:39 PM
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Im willing to bet cash she’s not 35. I refuse to believe that such a person was only a grade ahead of me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 04:33 PM
25

How fascinating to base your profile around an obviously rhetorical question. Obviously we can infer 1. She’s telling on herself about her past taste guys. She’s got a thing for shitheads, but doesn’t have the juice to domesticate one 2. Once a shithead lover, always a shithead lover. She doesn’t suddenly like good guys 3. Any non-Chad would be a fool to get with her, she’d only be in the relationship to bide her time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 04:29 PM
24

Sadly, she’s not attractive enough to have emotional issues. Marilyn Monroe was fucking nuts also, even her looks couldn’t supplant her psychosis (see: Her dating life / marriages).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 04:35 PM
11

Though many guys on this sub seem to doubt it, I too, have pointed out that it absolutely happens. Pregnant chicks wouldn’t be on bumble or tinder if they had no prospects Just as a pans handler would be out on the corner if nobody gave him money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 01:56 PM
60

Indeed, it’s fascinating that even with us wicked guys with our fucking penises out of the way, difficulties still remain!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 05:08 PM
32

It is indeed hard to be a man, it’s fascinating that female nature manifests itself in same sex relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 05:06 PM
27

There absolutely is a market for single moms, it’s unfortunate, but there is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/22 07:26 PM
53

Sadly, depending on the circumstances (ie, her physical attractiveness, the male to female ratio where she lives) she actually might not have to wait long. Pregnant women wouldn’t be on tinder or e harmony if there wasn’t a market for them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/22 07:16 PM
17

I’m busy as well, gotta clean out my aquarium, no time for a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 01:35 AM
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Yes, but don’t you forget that women aren’t just objects to be objectified! Everything isn’t about sex, until they want to put you down, then it’s all about sex and your physical appearance. “What, you responded to my argument about the patriarchy by pointing to the myriad of statistics illustrating mens physical, social and psychological struggles!? Fuck you, you fucking ugly queer, man loving incel, go jackoff your best friend!”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 02:02 PM
34

It’s a remarkable defense mechanism, putting the responsibility for their shortcomings on others. As if we guys must have a responsibility to handle herpes, obesity or some other guys kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 04:05 PM
26

There certainly is a subset of women obsessed with it, it’s an absolute red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 07:47 PM
17

Here you see the difference between being a Chad and being a JAG (just a guy). For all we know, she spent a night with a bro in Daytona, he could’ve been so drunk, that he’d barely even remember her name if he saw her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 01:05 PM
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Exactly, the difference between an incel and a femcel is the difference between an unemployed person today and an unemployed person in 1935. An unemployed guy in 1935 was literally such because there was a glut of labor such that there was low demand for even jobs like fruit pickers. A femcel is a present day unemployed person, with a degree/ significant experience who complains about the wickedness of capitalism and the greatness of Bernie Sanders because every time they apply for a 100k job, t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 01:55 PM
19

But the patriarchy, our higher rates of suicide and injury are impossible, because of the patriarchy or something. The vast gulf between the experience of a guy who is a four and a woman who is a four illustrates much, the guy who is a four is almost an incel by definition. He cannot (as a woman who is a four can) go out to a bar, hover around women with superior mate values, and wait for them to get drunk before hitting on them/ chasing them around until one who is depressed, high or on the reb…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 01:41 PM
17

The “practicing witch” bit is a strange sort of thing that an outgrowth of feminism, when I’ve encountered it, it usually means anti-Christian (rather than non religious).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 01:23 PM
70

Female nature is universal, sometimes I feel for guys who deny this obvious fact. The wealthier a country becomes, the more obvious it becomes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 03:10 AM
6

I think there is a small portion of women who would care. I’ve women who I’m friendly with (rather than friends) who are good people, I’ve told them of my difficulties and they were genuinely shocked and disgusted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 07:11 PM
20

It shows the ignorance of women, and it also shows how most women have no real male friends. If they did, it’d be no mystery to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 01:11 PM
18

As it seems people got the DBZ reference, let’s go one deeper into nerdom. Women complaining about hookup culture are like Atris in Star Wars. It was Atris who thought she was protecting the Jedi Order, when in fact her actions nearly destroyed it. In the same way, 80 percent of women going after 20 percent of guys is what is responsible for hookup culture, it’s a consequence and it could stop tomorrow, if women opened their eyes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 06:29 PM
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This is a Uber nerdy reference, but modern women complaining about a culture they created are like Trunks in DBZ Super. Trunks suffered a lot, but it turned out that his actions (manipulating time) literally inspired the villains. Women are the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 03:09 PM
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That women haven’t gotten that feminism and sex-positivity are goldmines for Chad is bizarre to me. A society without constraint, where people focus purely on the short term, could only result in a situation where guys with advantages in short term mating make out like bandits. Chad has always existed, but he has never had an easier time or easier access. The Chaddiest Cro-Magnon couldn’t in a lifetime access as many horny females as a modern day Chad accesses in a month. When will women get tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:57 PM
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Yeah, the confusion of sex with commitment permeates much female thinking. Women don’t understand men, they constantly project feminine characteristics onto guys. Just because she would only fuck a guy she’s attracted to, she presumes that it’s the same for guys. Women constantly chortle, “Being nice isn’t a ticket into my pants, buying me dinner isn’t a ticket into my pants”, yet they seem to think they can buy a man’s love through sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 01:52 PM
13

People really don’t know how rare such a height is. I remember Tom Brady talking up his TB12 method, saying “I’m no genetic freak!” Brady is Six Foot Four, he’s a freak by definition.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 04:56 PM
5

It’s certainly true, and it shows how different guys are. I’ve had unattractive women literally feel me and hit on me, it’s nothing to get sad about..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 06:45 PM
2

You are certainly correct about it taking a trauma. Most guys are cool and raised to give the benefit of the doubt to women. Guys ascribe positive qualities to women, so indeed it does take shit like: A guy who trying to be Mr. Nice Guy, rents a car for a woman, only to have her abscond with it and Chad. Or, lending money to a female friend, help her pay bills only to learn that she used it to make Chad dinner. Or, finding out that their female “friend” actually doesn’t know their name. The earl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 06:39 PM
4

Harem works as a word. I wrote on here recently that to certain women, unattractive guys are literally the lowest pieces of shit on earth. Not even invisible, but disgusting and contemptible. To these women, when such guys aren’t unclogging their toilet or mowing their grass, they should be tools to help her secure more Chads. That’s where your harem idea comes in, tons of guys to buy her things, lend her money, worship her, be a shoulder to cry on while she prepares herself to get Chad. Everyth…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 02:06 AM
9

This is apparently too radical for some.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 06:05 PM
30

This. There are apps/ forums for meetups and for people who just wanna hangout. Reddit itself has subreddits for every town and city, on which people post about meetups and such. Friends and friendship are important, it’s annoying to see such words used euphemistically for “sugar daddy”. More vexing is the fact that certain inexperienced guys will take her literally, guys who are going through a dry spell or have never been successful with women might agree to be her friend, just for female atte…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 01:57 PM
84

Nothing hurts more than when you find out that your “kind” and “pure” love who doesn’t have much sex with you because of how “uncomfortable” it is or who is “just not into sex” actually turns out to be far more experienced than you. Furthermore, it’s hard to ignore when all the guys she’s been with look very different from you. Guys should really be suspicious when a woman they are with has a history of nothing but Chads in it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 02:10 PM
1

I spoke about this in another thread, it’s truly bizarre when little girls chase grown guys. If she was 16 chasing a fucking 30 year old, who wants to guess when she actually became sexually active, middle school perhaps? Edit - This post further shows why social media is important, people behave like it’s secret or something, they behave as they really are, you can learn a lot about them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 01:34 PM
3

She literally admits to being violent and temperamental. The fact that she admits she would’ve “shown out” means her ex was right. Also, using such language makes me feel we are dealing with a black woman, it’s unfortunate when people live up to stereotypes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 01:29 PM
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This is why we all come here, to read between the lines. Race is a factor in this for sure, her husband to be likely (correctly) figured that but for his money, she’d have not gone near him. These two were about to be unequally yoked, bro was to make ten times what she made, it was to be a male led relationship, he has all the advantage, that she would tell him that shit was not his business is insane. For certain, he figured out that her prudishness is fake, guys can tell when their lady, despi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 01:26 PM
25

Women go father shopping that lawyers go venue shopping. A women gets the genes she wants, passes off the child as being that of some Beta and Reddit tells bro “Well, you thought you were the father and acted like one, you basically are.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 07:33 PM
72

There are always girls of that age bracket who want to be “grown” and there are guys who’d absolutely take them up on it. It’s an extreme form of feminism or sex positivity. I can think of so many cases, I recall another girl I’d known since third grade, she got involved with an 18 year old when we both would’ve been 14. This same 18 year old also became involved with another one of my classmates when we were 14. I recall all the comments from the girls about how “immature” we guys (who were the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 05:31 PM
107

A reasonable suspicion for sure, bro’s dad could be anyone of maybe half a dozen guys. I’m not necessarily blaming her, but going back to eighth grade, I knew of girls bragging about their relationships with grown men, it’s so disturbing. I certainly don’t think such a woman would be good material to commit to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 04:56 PM
398

Her little boy is better off with the grandparents. Regarding her getting pregnant by a junkie, I offer the following comments: 1. It takes one to know one. Sober people rarely cavort with junkies, thus if the father was a druggie, so was she. 2. “Junkie” does not refer to people who smoke weed, it refers to users of heroin or crack, there’s a significant chance that as a minor, this chick was getting passed around by drug addicts 3. If based on the aforementioned, we can conclude that she’s isn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 04:40 PM
6

It’s likely some tattoo of Chad. She’s still living in the past, the absolute hash she’s made of her life hasn’t yet occurred to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 12:47 PM
16

She is indeed expensive, either to some guy or to society at large.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 12:46 PM
1

Wasn’t it the case that most of the letters he got were people trying to join his “family”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 04:19 AM
1

I’m saying that you cannot be an ugly guy who is violent. Serial killers get love letters, but those who do are like Ted Bundy, not like the non-Chad looking serial killers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 03:55 AM
20

Whenever somebody says they “settled”, what they mean to say is : I had higher aspirations, but I was forced to accept the best possible arrangement I could manage, which was not my preferred arrangement. That is what settling is, it’s a euphonious substitute for the fact that she wanted a Chad, but couldn’t get one. The fact that she feels accepting reality is a punishment shows her immaturity, everyday, people “settle” for houses, cars , educations and other things they can afford.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 12:44 AM
20

This, and certainly I’d expect that she is comparing herself to other women, whose husbands make more money and who are more attractive than her. When will people understand that it’s not what other people can get, it’s what you can get.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 12:38 AM
-3

Wouldn’t it be violence caused by certain men? I.e. They are aren’t attracted to violent betas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 12:31 AM
14

For real, when you feel stressed and need a sexual release, it makes sense to seek it from the person that you are not in a relationship with. Isn’t that what everyone does!?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 12:28 AM
3

Being that nobody is perfect and seeing what the average woman is, she’s got a nice body. It might be my age (30+) but I see a lady who looks after herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 04:23 PM
2

You are speaking gospel as my father and uncles illustrate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 01:13 PM
2

I’m aware of that, all statistics are inherently retrospective and take a snapshot of the wages of those active in the field. It doesn’t include those who were driven out of the field due to competition or other forces.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 04:32 AM
4

I know where you are coming from, sometimes I think when people reference the trades, they simplify things, that’s all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 02:58 AM
55

So, apparently, there’s no sex, but homie has a big mouth and can deride and insult you until you cum? Also, how can one be concurrently asexual and Demi sexual? When I see this, I see ‘Chadsexual’, Chad will fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 02:40 AM
23

For real, is one of us supposed to openly date her, while she’s married and spitting venom about her current husband?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 02:36 AM
12

Not to disagree, but I come from a family of tradesmen, being successful at them still requires skills and intelligence, they are competitive. The blast of competition has driven out many a plumber or carpenter, I know this for sure. I’m not attacking you, it’s just some people post salaries from trades and forget that it’s easy to take a poll of successful members of any group.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 02:32 AM
4

Stuff like this trickles out, if you read the NYT or Wapo, you can actually find much truth in their reporting (note I said reporting, not their op-eds)on social problems, you often have to filter it. When I was briefly a social worker, I was in a leftist environment, still, many people at the state agency absolutely knew that masses of women, starting as young as middle school, formed terrible tastes in men. One of the old timers told me that back when all our work was in person and unrecorded,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 04:47 PM
12

Exactly, I’m sure it was painful for them to publish such a finding.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 02:32 PM
19

This is true, the black community is a test run of what happens when the government facilitates the creation of a matriarchy. In the the 60’s, government aid became a substitute for marriage. A world where women must seek husbands and take into account the tastes of men leads to certain outcomes, a world where women are provided government stipends leads to another set of outcomes. The outcome will be the same for all, rising fertility rates for most all women and for the section of the black ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 02:06 PM
6

That’s more of a reason to buy it, not less. The progressive policy institute is a left wing think tank, they regularly deny the importance of marriage, so for them to admit it was huge, it goes against their ideology. Also, non left wingers sometimes work at such think tanks, Walter Williams and Thomas worked at the Urban Institute in the 70s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 01:51 PM
9

As with wokeness, the dysfunctional aspects of US culture are regularly exported. It’s (unfortunately) a measure of US power that peculiar phrases like “Uncle Tom” which make no sense in say a British or Dutch context are being used.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 08:25 PM
15

This is the case of the power of the vagina and the habits of some of our fellow men who will fuck anything. She’s been passed around at the club and likely even been fucked by Chads and has made the error of confusing sex with actual attraction. Also, looking how she looks and having her attitude, she seems to have a bit of narcissistic personality disorder or else, she was raised by people who lied to her about her beauty (which happens a lot).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 08:23 PM
15

It’s literally like that. And if a guy wants a black housewife, there are tons of better prospects in London. She’s gotten high and been passed around by dope boys, now she thinks she’s a queen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 08:14 PM
8

Indeed, the point is find the right guy before pregnancy. The point isn’t to be a vector for Chad’s genes and then, after the fact, search for a beta.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 07:56 PM
19

As it concerns us guys, I say we should do better, as in : avoid such women, they WILL get pregnant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 01:42 AM
3

There are ways to challenge it, in some US states, it requires a bro to follow the letter of the law. In FL for example, a guy can challenge it but he has to play his cards right, avoid any promissory estoppel (i.e. telling her “I promise to do my part” when she tells you she’s pregnant). Also, I personally think guys would do well to attempt to avoid women whom they know are fucking several guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 04:12 PM
4

For real, women pick the father when they fuck, not after the fact.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 04:01 PM
1

A great many women use apps (not just dating ones) for this purpose. Her rank honesty gets her +.05 points, which doesn’t actually make a difference, still. I think we can infer that she’s passed around by guys who don’t complimenther, thus we get further proof for the notion that compliments need not be present for attraction to exist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 04:04 AM
1

I’m never one to blame society or culture for peoples personal choices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 09:12 PM
6

Exactly, she’s wants “passive” income. She wants a comfortable annuity or some rental properties. She simply wants more than what she has.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 09:09 PM
3

Certainly, it’s also about Chad. I’d bet money that if you checked her Instagram you’d see either : 1. One of her girlfriends married a Chad 2. Some Chaddy guy (whom she might not have ever been with) she knew got married. Some might struggle to believe that people get heartbroken over people they were never with, but I actually know of such cases.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 08:02 PM
8

There is likely some longing for a Chad as well, Chad always plays in. So, it could be about a Chad from her past (who recently got married) or it be about some local Chads she’s seen around as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 07:47 PM
4

Indeed, if one only has the skills to earn the median pay. Not that’s there is anything wrong with that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 07:24 PM
5

It really sounds like she wants a higher standard of living, without having to produce the additional funds needed for such a life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 07:16 PM
8

I don’t mean to insult anybody over their earning capacity, but it is certainly possible to earn enough make daycare viable, provided she has the skills. I know of multiple women who have done so, if she’s in such position, she’s nobody else to blame for her lack of competitive economic skills.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 06:37 PM
14

This seems totally about money. If I could guess, she sees what other women (her sisters / friends) have and is jealous. She is upset that her husband basically makes the per capita income, which isn’t bad. She also seems to be determined to move to a more expensive area, despite the financial issues. What’s stopping her from working, perhaps a “disability” or fear of Covid?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 06:33 PM
49

Exactly, I caused some recent controversy when I said I said I felt our ideas weren’t massively spreading. She’s being put out to pasture, not because tons of guys are redpill, but simply due to her age. She’s not desirable and the guys she turned down prior have better prospects.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 02:16 PM
15

It’s not even that in all likelihood, it’s simply that she has changed, she’s aged out of the desirable bracket. She’s extrapolating from her own experience.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 02:14 PM
20

This is a nerdy reference, but as Damian Wayne says (to his father Bruce as he is on his way to a date with cat woman) “There are no former criminals, there are simply criminals who are not committing crimes at the present moment.” The calculus applies in this case.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 04:13 PM
4

My response was to his contention that somehow that there is a large scale amount of guys who buy our ideology. I’ve responded to this already, basically I think the drop is due mostly to women and their ever increasing unrealistic standards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 12:40 AM
9

What evidence do you have that the dropping marriage rate isn’t due mostly to women, there higher levels of education and increased/ unrealistic standards? There is masses of empirical data showing that, I’ve seen none that says a critical mass of guys are in any way supportive of our ideology. The falling marriage rate is due to hypergamy, men are being driven out of high places (women are a majority of college students and increasing their numbers in professional schools) and the masses of wom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 11:35 PM
6

Based off what she’s heard about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 11:08 PM
-1

What proof do you have that it’s not simply due to rising standards among women and their low view of men? One can find a myriad of articles by social scientists complaining about the lack of marriageable men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 11:01 PM
1

If a critical mass of men actual bought our ideology, it would obviously be noticeable. You’d see it in the drastically reduced prospects for single mothers. The idea that such a large scale change (which allegedly is already happening) wouldn’t have noticeable effects is strange. I said that the tide is turning but there is no proof of a revolution, I’ve been told that somehow there is. Sometimes I think is red pill types are like communists from the 40s, who are certain that they are growing a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 10:57 PM
2

There’s no evidence that it’s because of guys being red pill, a large reason it has fallen has been due to changes in women and their increased standards and lower opinion of men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 10:51 PM
1

It absolutely would be noticeable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 10:49 PM
7

You aren’t understanding what I am saying, I’m saying that if the ideology of this sub was actually widely subscribed to, you’d see effects in society. You’d see mass support among men (across political lines) for the abolition of government subsidy for female nature (Medicaid for pregnant women, housing vouchers, cash assistance) you’d see feminism and its popular outflows (magazines, shows etc) collapse as women fled them. Most importantly, you’d see the reassertion of stigma in society concer…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 06:53 PM
3

That’s anecdotal, if our ideology was actually catching on with a balance of guys, you’d know it, it would cause societal changes on a scale equal to those of the 1960s. You’d also see political changes as guys ((whether liberal or conservative) changed their voting patterns. I’ve seen no empirical proof that masses of men agree with our diagnoses of the problem, much less our prescription.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 06:32 PM
22

You are overstating things, plenty of guys are getting married / cohabiting/ having kids. To the extent they aren’t there’s no proof that it’s because they’ve adopted our ideology, if the ideology of this sub was was catching on massively, we’d see massive cultural, political and social changes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 06:04 PM
70

The tide is slowly turning, not fast enough to bring about a revolution, but it’s turning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 04:31 PM
8

I’m black, the community is unfortunately a matriarchy. And yes, in low income communities without marriage, I wouldn’t doubt that a minority of the men produce a majority of the kids in the portion of the community without traditional mores. Without traditional mores, you see female nature manifest, women don’t have to weigh reliability, predictability, fatherly qualities v. raw attraction, they can simply focus on attraction. We all know that most women only really like a minority of guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/21 12:30 AM
3

It’s a tough lesson that I had to learn on my own, my dad nor my brother ever told me, but it’s simple : To some women, a guy they aren’t attracted to is less than a piece of shit. It’s straight contempt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/21 12:01 AM
4

One of my family members is a lieutenant in the fire department (which he joined at 21) and a nurse practitioner on his off days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 04:01 AM
7

You should consider the fact that the women who specialize in such behaviors often have multiple guys whom are they exploiting. They can get a nice racket / flow of gifts going. It can be tough to realize that somebody you are attracted to doesn’t think shit of you, it’s still important though. At least you can prevent yourself from being abused or used, to such women non-Chad “friends” are just tools to be used to get access to more Chads. You would’ve struggled to help her move, put her bed to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 03:23 AM
3

They literally misunderstand assortative mating and biology. The competition for mates is not between the sexes, it’s within them. Seriously following FDS literally only makes it easier for non-FDS girls to get guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 11:41 PM
83

The sad part is, if she is 43 and looking beyond looks, she’d literally be happily married with kids had she adopted such an ideology earlier in her life. Unlike men (who might never really get any chances) all women always get multiple chances at marrying good and decent partners.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 11:18 PM
173

Notice she says”..at this point I am just looking for chemistry and a good person…” This implies that such things weren’t important prior, I wonder what she was looking for before…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 11:13 PM
12

What if I put it in quotes ( I intended to) as what she would say, I obviously didn’t intend to take up for her, the post was intended to attack her shallowness and banality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 08:47 PM
4

It’s unfortunate, such situations exist in every possible permutation. There are women who persist by going from one such guy to another. They can see the signs in a dude. To them, there is a narrow band of guys who are actually men, whom they fuck with, the rest are just speed bumps or tools to reach that top band of guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 08:45 PM
11

I see it this way, it’s not possible for you or I to be attractive to all women. If a woman doesn’t find me attractive, fair enough, however her lack of attraction isn’t a green light for disrespect or dehumanization. Thus, if the cunty woman at work / school / out a bar can be nice and friendly to Chad, she can at minimum be cordial to me. If she wouldn’t ask Chad to do something, she shouldn’t ask me to do it. Sometimes I’ve gotta be careful because (not to toot my own horn) I really am a nice…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 08:32 PM
15

100%. Yeah, you can come across such beautiful alpha widows, but they are a tiny minority of single mothers. Usually, you find women whose single motherhood is a proxy for all manner of other issues. Worst of all, such women still walk around like they are in their physical prime, and like they are doing you a favor. Some will even wonder why you are 30+ and never married with no kids, “Why haven’t you entered into a lifetime commitment only to welch on it, why don’t you a souvenir (re: a child)…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 07:08 PM
26

I’ve always said, you can measure your worth to a woman by the outrageousness of the favors that she asks of you. Like you said, Chad doesn’t get asked for money. So, if any woman whom your not in a long term relationship with asks for : serious work to be done around her house, serious car repair work, to borrow your car or money, that you co-sign a loan or credit card etc you can be sure that she thinks of you as a subhuman piece of shit. In fact, if you are a guy who consistently gets outrage…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 05:47 PM
12

Exactly, those guys are meant to be seen but not heard. Women like her are why you must never take chances with any woman at work, I mean not even attempt to build a rapport or even become work friends. All of your attempts are seen in a negative light because you aren’t Chad. Non-Chad guys aren’t to behave as human beings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 05:31 PM
14

The problem is that there are unbalanced women, who will read her shit and take it seriously. There are women out there who can only pull a guy who is a five, a guy with flaws (like all humans). They’ll read her shit and forgo the attainable for the unattainable, which is a perverse inversion of game theory. They’ll raise their standards, blow their prime getting passed around by Chad’s, who’ll fuck them but never commit. Eventually, once they are thrown from the carousel, they’ll find that they…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 05:03 PM
25

Bingo, it’s like a bunch of 6th grade guys, all talking about the girls they’ve fucked (who all happen to go to other schools). She’s projecting, I’d put money on the fact that she is talking bullshit, there are literal bombshells, high earning women who are gorgeous who cannot afford such standards, most coastal urban areas are crawling with ladies light years ahead of her who couldn’t begin to afford such standards. Imagine living anywhere in DC/VA and saying you will ghost all guys with any d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 04:56 PM
8

Indeed, there’s a semi-revolving door between many alphabet agencies and Silicon Valley and wall street. Is she really claiming she would not date a Stanford grad who is currently working for Google because he spent a few years in the CIA? Of course not, she’d immediately make an exception.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 04:48 PM
55

“Yeah, he was a piece of shit, but even his voice made made me quiver, and the eyes, his lovely hazel eyes, I always wanted a baby with hazel eyes”…(I’ve had woman say such things to me concerning why they had kids with such men) And, shouldn’t Billy Beta feel honored to see to her upkeep and raise the child? Edit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 02:17 PM
30

For real, any non-Chad has no chance to keep her, 20 times is a ton. Not only will you be raising the current bun in her oven (who is Chad’s) all future buns are likely to be sired by Chad as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 01:56 PM
10

It’s astounding, the amount of tattoos literally repels anybody outside whatever subculture she comes from, it’s wild that she would (semi) permanently brand herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 08:20 PM
8

Parts of American society are, if you are poor urban and black, you could very well grow up in a completely black environment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 05:44 PM
14

It’s most common when a black guy is from a mostly black environment and is unfamiliar with interacting with whites who aren’t the cops, teachers or social workers. To some it’s a status, I’ve seen what you’ve noticed it’s dismaying. If you wouldn’t go near a black landwhale, you shouldn’t go near a white one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 04:49 PM
7

Exactly, she’ll post deceptive pictures on tinder and not swipe on any fat bro. She’ll make a date having behaved deceptively and then she’ll get pissed when she get ditched / ghosted by guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 04:33 PM
13

I’ve always found this excuse to be bizarre in an American context. It’s hard to get in peak shape, it’s not hard to get an acceptable body as a woman, especially when you consider how flexible we guys are. If she cut out all sugary drinks and junk foods, whilst having only a single cheat meal per week, she’d be 70 percent of the way there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 04:29 PM
18

Not to inject race into this, but she’s the white chick who sees a black dude who is a seven and feels that we black guys grade white chicks on a curve, so she has a shot despite being a 2.5. I’ve dealt with such women since high school.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 04:25 PM
3

The idea that one can decrease their caloric intake whilst increasing their activity level might as well be calculus to some. There are entire subreddits, with massive followings, that are directly dedicated to refuting the notion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 04:12 PM
31

It’s pre-selection and mate copying. You know what her guy friends could do to finally appear to her as something other than asexual nobodies? Get girlfriends, then she’d suddenly realize how she’d always liked them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/21 12:44 AM
32

It’s likely never occurred to her to give them a chance. If by chance there is a nerdy/Chad hybrid in her class, he’d have to high a mate value for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 12:23 AM
16

If only she cared about such things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 12:19 AM
174

So, she’s attractive, but not as attractive as what she thinks. She’s trying to lockdown bros who : 1. Simply don’t want relationships or 2. See her only as a fling. Being that she’s in a competitive engineering program, she has access to masses of similarly aged, single and childless guys. We already know she won’t give any of them a chance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/21 09:23 PM
5

It’s not all women (tm) but I’ve noticed the utter contempt that some women hold non chads in. I’m no Chad, but I’m above average, I’ve literally been treated with contempt multiple times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 11:09 PM
25

Yeah, letting some guy come all over you while his wife is out is not “dating”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 03:50 PM
20

It’s a matter of projecting their feelings onto guys while concurrently putting in no effort to see things from mens point of view.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 03:49 PM
7

So, she was in a two year period, with several dozen guys, many of whom were high status. She couldn’t keep any of them and is pissed. If she was really like a Zendaya or something, she wouldn’t be on an App.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 03:47 PM
10

If you go to any large city in the world, that has a large finance /law sector, you’ll find plenty of single and never married 30+ guys. Becoming a successful lawyer (in big law) can take 80 hour weeks for 6-7 years after law school until career stability allows you to cut it down to say 60 hours a week. It’s the same with startups or with trying to make full professor in a competitive academic department. It’s the same thing with trying to build a stable medical career as a Doctor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/21 01:05 PM
16

I don’t share this line of reasoning, so a guy didn’t get married and then divorced, so he lacks issues of alimony, child support, custody etc and this is a problem? This is one step from “Why don’t you have kids?” which women pose often to 30+ guys. Why couldn’t the question be: Why did you, after taking a vow until death, back out of that vow, why should I trust you? Why is the guy suspect and not the other way around?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/21 12:36 PM
53

A widespread belief in the Apex fallacy permeates female thinking. The bottom 80 percent of guys don’t really even register and humans, much less as sexual beings and possible mates. It really shows how the facts of life are unknown to women when they think hookup culture, which most guys don’t have access to, is responsible. You really wonder, do these chicks know any normal guys at all? Saying that hookup culture makes dating hard is like a rich person going to Beverly Hills to go home shoppin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/21 12:29 PM
3

They knew that being unmarried with kids carried stigma, they certainly wouldn’t have advertised themselves as a prize.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 04:42 PM
3

Even under the best possible circumstances, blended families face challenges, it becomes far harder in todays world when women are so unfamiliar with such challenges. Has it ever occurred to her to look at things from a guys point of view, has she considered that she’d be seen as a financial burden? Has she really cut ties with her baby daddies, or will a guy have to fear their getting back together?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 03:48 PM
1

Theoretically, the president might very well have that power with government backed loans. He for example has the absolute power to freeze interest and waive payments..Whether he has the power to cancel it is more debatable. Regarding her, she’s likely living off child support, alimony and state benefits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 03:38 PM
3

Oh boy, look at those pictures, one really close up and one really far away..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 03:36 PM
7

She’s obviously got a problem with her facts, for all we know, the pictures are years old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 03:34 PM
11

For real, trying to build up equity with her (as if she was an investment) is doomed to failure. With few exceptions, you know almost immediately if you really like a person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 09:22 PM
35

Holding out her affection, holding out the “maybe” can legit cause you to waste years. It can actually cause you to ignore women around you that actually like you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 09:16 PM
5

Even if you loosen her legs by spending money, it’s self-defeating, what you do to get her is what’s needed to keep her. The price will go up, with no underlying passion, dinners won’t do, eventually it take weekends away, then entire weeks away ad Infinitum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/21 06:48 PM
65

For real, it’s a tough lesson but men must learn that dinner dates are for serious relationships only. You take your fiancé or wife out on a real dinner date, not some tinder chick. And you are right, she’ll share a big gulp with you if she really wants to be with you, indeed, she’ll bring food to your place or cook for you if she wants it. If more guys only knew what it was like to be truly wanted v what it’s like to be settled for (i.e. she’s hungry or low on cash, so she’s having dinner with …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 11:38 PM
40

For real, this is why it never makes sense to think you can get her by biding your time or being nice. If she’s a sexually active woman, she is fucking somebody. To the extent that you play the nice guy who provides boyfriend services to her without receiving girlfriend services in return, you are simply facilitating things for another guy by taking such chores off his plate. When you take her out to dinner, you are saving him money, when you go shopping with her, you are saving him time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 11:29 PM
15

Based on the fact that she is an experienced engineer, we can infer that she’s had plenty of chances and has willfully forgone them. How do I know this? Well, most all women have by her age, but it’s obvious in her case, she’s not unattractive and is in a male dominated field. How many honest and educated bros has she met, at minimum, dozens. I’ll bet she’s looking for a guy whom she perceives to be opposite of the men she works with, a tall men’s health looking bro or maybe some finance type gu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 06:56 PM
16

In terms of behavioral economics, it makes sense to start with a hyper-specific criteria so long as you are willing to adjust your criteria should it prove to be maladaptive. It’s a shame that biology/ economics aren’t more widely understood such that it would common knowledge.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/21 04:10 PM
21

Chad cannot even see or recognize the words. She’s absolutely down for a hookup, everyone is, under certain circumstances.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 06:27 PM
10

She’s bigger than what she seems, anybody into chunky women?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 03:34 AM
3

Looking at her, you can tell she had her chances. She’s not bad looking, even today, so 25 year old her likely had plenty of choices. Was an extra six years of vaginal, oral and audial intrusion from Chad worth it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 01:35 AM
1

Yeah, I’ve not forgotten her. To bad I was to dumb to do anything about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 06:04 PM
24

Indeed, I’m prepared to share responsibility, I’ll live my life, you live yours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 06:00 PM
19

Evolutionary psychologists have proven that girls raised away from their father enter puberty earlier, it’s gotta be contributing. I’ve never understood why a 14 year old wants to live the life of a 22 year old. Said girls are easy prey for predators. These girls get into clubs and shit, if you are a guy who hangs around such places, you’ve gotta be careful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 04:05 PM
21

It’s literally disgusting. They did it because guys their age were “immature”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 03:56 PM
12

100 percent perfect. Leafy greens, grass fed meats and quality fats are wasted on her. I hope her guy finds out and moves on. If you are a guy who has run the gauntlet, whose made it to your late 20’s unscarred, you shouldn’t settle for any lady who isn’t at minimum very excited to be with you. This chick doesn’t like him, he’s carrying the relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 02:54 PM
19

There are women worse than her even, going all the way back to freshman year of high school, I knew of “mature girls” from my class who were fucking grown dudes. In 8th grade even, I was told that one of our classmates was one of the girlfriends of a grown ass man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 02:47 PM
27

She hasn’t updated her CV, she’s still living in the past, when she was more physically attractive. While most CV’s get better with age and experience , the inverse is true for women, now it seems that she isn’t even attractive enough to be Chad’s side woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/21 11:23 PM
15

For real, she’s no war widow. And her “family time” consists of her drawing public assistance and living with her folks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/21 12:51 AM
2

Or, if she talked you into adopting the kid, she can divorce you at any time, take him and get child support. Theoretically, she could divorce you, move back in with the father and get child support from you even as she lives with the father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 07:12 PM
7

It’s a rejection of biology and the basic imperative we feel to spread our genes, not somebody else’s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 06:39 PM
30

For real, getting banged in some other country or other countries. It’s eat, pray, love. Guys in foreign countries (Italy and Greece especially) swim through masses of such foolish women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 12:31 PM
24

Indeed, on many apps one must weed through bots, women whose profiles are just links to their onlyfans, fake profiles who use pictures of Instagram models to try and catfish guys and finally, escorts, just to get to the real women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 08:31 PM
30

Yeah, because all the men that really exist to them are Chad’s, who in-fact do have many conquests.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 08:14 PM
21

You beat me to it, bro could have her back in his bed with a text.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 06:45 PM
9

For real, and at such meetings, as if by magnetism, all the women still to move towards those men who are NOT seeking a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 06:44 PM
66

Many women really struggle with this. They project their experiences on to men. Even an average woman gets approached or complimented, it’s rare for non-Chad’s. I can more or less recall every instance in my life going all the way to the first real time, when I (a sophomore in high school) was leaving the locker room shirtless after football practice and had an incredibly attractive cheerleader walk up to me and run her hand down my chest while giggling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 06:41 PM
23

You’d be shocked at the extent to which society pays for the college education of single moms. I’m not speaking bullshit, I’m speaking from professional experience. If she’s been single long, she’d fill out a fasfa with two dependents, you are talking pell grants + other funding for sure. I know of women who made money going to school under such circumstances. Also, if she’s a full time student, qualified as an independent, she’d be getting food stamps and TCA ( Temporary Cash Assistance).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 06:59 PM
8

It’s preposterous even in a literal sense of putting before (the kids) what should come after (marriage).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 06:55 PM
234

It’s truly damaging to society when we’ve masses of women who are so clearly disdainful of the relationship formation process. It’s dating - engagement-marriage-children and not Chad-Chad-Chad then beta bucks. And to be pregnant from a former relationship, for heavens sake. I love me some Eva Mendes and Natalie Portman, even I would not go near them under such circumstances. Being around pregnant women sucks, but to be around her as she carries some other guys baby to term would be to much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 05:07 PM
5

Yeah I agree, she’s cute. How many more years until she drops the bizarre list of requirements?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 03:09 PM
3

It’s good to know our bro’s overseas are likewise getting more redpilled, surely, her age has caught up with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 03:07 PM
14

The thing is, it’s women who associate with guys who call them such things, as if such guys were the only guys around to choose from.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 12:22 PM
16

Now, both in the US and UK, such women complain when their children have to share bedrooms, thus we end up with cases like yours. I shared a bedroom with my brother until I moved out of the house.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 06:31 PM
3

Their right to insult is what matters most, that’s why it doesn’t matter if you talk to them/ not talk to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 06:08 PM
14

The Welfare state as applied to unmarried women actively facilitates their poor choices. It actually lowers the cost of poor choices. In the past, a woman with the baby rabies knew that she had to find a guy, she had to get married first, the social cost for single motherhood was high. When it came time to choose her man she had to be realistic, she had to trade off tingles v reliability and such. These circumstances gave non-Chad’s a chance. Today, women can indulge themselves, let Chad go raw,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 05:11 PM
18

Food assistance is fine, but supplemental assistance to pregnant women for additional kids needs to be cutoff. The Clinton/ Gingrich welfare reform did the same narrowly on the issue of TCA ( Temporary Cash Assistance). So if a woman who was already on assistance had another child, she could not collect more funds for the new child. That principle needs to be expanded drastically.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 04:06 PM
79

I honestly feel that if we got rid of Medicaid for pregnant women, food stamps (specifically those for pregnant women / their children), cash assistance, WIC, HUD Vouchers for housing and all state support for collecting child support, our society would turn around in less than 20 years. This is state sponsored decadence, our crime rates are in part state sponsored. If chicks like her couldn’t get state help, we wouldn’t see such behavior.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 03:17 PM
9

You aren’t lying. I mean honestly, you know you are in a difficult situation when both not saying anything to a person and making small talk about football/ the weather are BOTH considered creepy / harassment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 01:14 PM
11

I give her credit for being surprisingly devious in her description, saying “I’ve made good choices and bad…” Well, if she’s made 100 choices, with 99 bad and 1 good, she’s telling the truth I guess
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 12:22 AM
34

I found that to be a bizarre comment on her part. Almost like a vagabond saying they once owned a house.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 11:20 PM
14

Yes indeed, it’s sad to consider but true the nonetheless that there is no objectively creepy behavior. I mean to say that, outside of criminal actions (filming up a woman’s skirt for example ) there are no behaviors which are automatically sexually harassment nor are there any behaviors which are necessarily“safe”. It’s all based on identity, so going up to a coworker, commenting explicitly on her body isn’t harassment if you are Chad just as as standing up and smoothing out your shirt isn’t ne…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 11:07 PM
25

You aren’t exaggerating at all, your post is succinct but it hits bro. Obviously, neither unattractive men or women have it easy, humans are visual creatures after all. However, the spite that non-Chaddy bros can draw can be nearly cartoony in its outcome. I’ve legit had bland work conversations, about nothing but college football be recast as harassment. It’s not the typical woman to be sure, but some women legit see non-Chad’s as subhuman. The non-Chad category can include all guys of a certai…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 10:15 PM
13

So your college had Jim Crow style lunch counters to separate GDIs from the frats?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 10:08 PM
26

Or the abuse she suffered when her best friends boyfriend, whom she propositioned, had the gall to turn her down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 10:02 PM
55

Nobody would have any sympathy for a guy with such a malady. Also, keep in mind, even being a four as a woman means she can still fuck guys way out of her league, guys who are drunk, on the rebound, who are just horny or traveling etc. A guy who is a 4 couldn’t do the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 01:47 PM
65

This, unless we are talking some bizarre exceptions, she’s absolutely positively had plenty of options going back to her early 20s. With such women, the “holding out” is normally a consequence of their wanting what only the top fraction of women can get, a physically attractive, committed, financially well off guy. She’s likely had had tons of chances, certainly more chances than a comparable guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 01:42 PM
7

Apparently, there’s a whole culture (couch surfing) of women who do this. Perhaps she’s home after aging out of the hostel market overseas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 11:10 PM
11

Given that a real relationship couldn’t form in a few days, it’s either 1. Booty calls or 2. Free food and drinks for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 10:41 PM
8

Women really struggle with this notion, but it shouldn’t be complicated. If your prior boyfriend(s), his friends, acquaintances, random strangers got to do anal, ass to mouth etc, it says something about that you’d only allow your steady boyfriend to go missionary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 01:53 PM
38

We all know “curvy” has a flexible meaning, it certainly doesn’t mean what it used to mean. Judging by her attempting to have her weight off limits, we can draw an inference about her. She’d do better to be upfront about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 12:26 PM
11

Exactly, there is no comparison. A woman, outside of rare circumstances, can get sex if she wants it by lowering her demands. Many men simply cannot do this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 09:32 PM
78

In any reasonable world, a 5’ woman would consider a 5’6” bro tall…However, we all know “tall” isn’t a relative classification, rather it’s an objective measure : 6’+ or bust.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 06:22 PM
1

Yeah, looking at your profile, you obviously have a much better understanding of this sub. Certainly more than me! I only started posting yesterday!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 06:08 PM
8

I’m not even sure I understand the point of your post. My point is about her prospects v the prospects of a comparable guy. I know multiple guys on Tinder who’ve swiped right on every woman with 50 miles and got not a single match. This woman, at minimum, had consensual sex and got pregnant (and presumably didn’t have to pay for it) there are masses of guys who can’t get that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 05:44 PM
24

She, like most single mothers, would do well to realize that the child is a handicap. She will love the bugger, but the world won’t care.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 02:44 PM
43

Much criticism gets thrown at men for not being “empathetic” or not “seeing things from the woman’s perspective”, however all the aforementioned apply to her. I doubt that’s she’s spent even five minutes out of her 35-45+ years on earth attempting to see things from a man’s perspective. She’s like many women in this regard, it’s why so many single mothers genuinely don’t understand that it’s a handicap.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 01:54 PM
30

To be clear, this is not a joke post, such women exist. Perhaps nothing better exhibits the fundamental disparity in dating prospects as it concerns men versus women than do posts such as this. Don’t ever let anyone, rather women or their fellow travelers, convince you that the bottom half of women have it just as bad as the bottom half of men, or that “women can be incels”, outside of rare exceptions it’s not possible. The male equivalent of this chick doesn’t exist. A guy with such scattershot…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 01:48 PM
20

This is the case for sure, I’m in my early 30’s, even I can still remember some of the after school specials about the problems of single motherhood / teenage motherhood. It’s wild that it has become so common that many women will meet a childless guy in his late 20s/ early 30s and flip the script on him “Why do you have kids!?”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 12:07 PM
6

She does have an idea, she thinks that what she wants in men = what men want in women. She wants a highly educated, high earning, worldly Chad. Thus, she assumes us bros want the same, as if some guy wants to wife up a women who was a dopey tourist who was crushed by dozens of European dudes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 06:38 PM
13

Yeah, she is “sprung” this guy owns her 100 percent. If you married her, it’s even money that your kids would actually be his. If you are actually still in the dating game, you must take reasonable steps to discern if a woman is broken/ Chad obsessed, if she is, run away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 06:26 PM
21

So, basically she wants J-Cole or Drake. It illustrative of the conditions of the mating market that such a person could make such hyper specific demands and actually have some probability of attaining them. She’s obviously got baby rabies, no dude should go near her, unless he wants to be a dad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 02:52 PM
16

So, some other dude got the pleasure of her body pre-child birth and another guy is expected to “man up”. It’s truly bizarre that modern women don’t get why such an arrangement is unattractive to any guy with options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 04:00 PM
11

You are better off as a result.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 05:42 PM
3

It’s a subset of the black population, she’s the unattractive type who’ll see a black dude with a far more attractive woman and still think she has a chance because of the “white discount”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 05:38 PM
5

For everyone’s consideration, wanna perceive the difference between a man’s value in the mating market and a woman’s? Imagine this profile, but written by a man. No way that man would’ve been able to sire three children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 10:25 PM
2

Indeed, Eva Mendez is curvy, Beyoncé is, Rihana too. Such a bastardization of the language.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 10:21 PM
25

Imagine the scenario, she goes on Tinder, she’ll get tons of swipes, after weeding through the myriad of guys, she finds one she wants to seriously date. We can all picture bro, I can guess his name even, Sven or Neils. Anyway, she seriously dates bro, demanding lunch, dinner, brunch, weekend getaways, gifts etc. Bro stumbles onto this, and finds that’s he’s paying a premium for what was once given away. He imagines that it likely meant she did anything they wanted, for little more than some Del…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 07:02 PM
2

I know you blacked it out, but I can guess which company she works for. White women like her cause all types of issues, she’ll go up to a guy who is a nine, but who happens to be black, and expect him to grade her on a curve.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 01:22 PM
22

She absolutely might work, going all the way back to the community investment act, we in the US have had masses of state subsidized activists. Though strangely, they are always leftists, they are in everything from voter registration to so called “environmental justice.” So indeed, she’s likely a state supported troublemaker. Wanna know the biggest group of state supported troublemaker? Public School teachers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 01:17 PM
7

They are all good, but numbers 1 and 5 are especially important. Especially concerning number 5, guys should learn to keep their mouth shut about such encounters, talking about them on campus/ at work can blow things up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 01:08 PM
5

I think there’s a strong chance she doesn’t really look like that. This seems like an open racket where your funding of her will also fund her boyfriend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 12:28 PM
6

Though many would be angry to hear it, stripping is a glide path to being an actual call girl. So, when one combines the usual meth problems they have, with their inability to pair bond, you’ve got real issues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 12:16 AM
37

And for real, she was a raging alcoholic by 18? If she’s really sober, great, but a substance abuse issue by 18?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 02:12 AM
60

Like I said, the implicit assumption that a “nice guy” will always be there in the end has done true damage to society. It’s been a boon to Chad and it’s resulted in masses of fatherless children being born. A single generation of no “nice guys” (whom women secretly hate anyway) would resolve so much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 11:45 AM
11

This is preposterous, in the classical sense of putting before that which should come after. It’s : Dating/ Courting -> Love -> Engagement -> Marriage -> then kids. It’s not, Woman turns 16 = Fun with Chad -> Fun with Chad -> ( Throw a few kids in) -> Hit the wall, then find a beta. What were we supposed to do this whole time,wait?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 10:21 PM
16

Many have attractive friends, they see what these women get away with and proceed to reason poorly, they confuse correlation with causation. Amy is very mean to men, Amy always has a boyfriend, thus Amy’s meanness = why men like her. They overlook the elephant in the room, Amy isn’t a massive landwhale.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 12:14 PM
8

And to be clear 99 percent of Instagram “models” / OF girls hold their fans in contempt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/21 03:12 PM
7

The rewriting of history is the best. To find out that they “always liked you” but it took them “time to realize it.” They’ve “been through therapy” and “gotten over their love of toxic men”. What’s worse is when they pretend to not recall mistreating you “Really? When you asked me to homecoming I screamed no/ cried/ laughed out loud? I don’t recall that.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 02:17 PM
19

You aren’t lying. There’s very little variety in what women want, the same nucleus of Chaddy bro’s is all that interests them. If a given subset of Tinder has 100 women and 600 hundred men, something like a majority of the women women might really only be interested in 15 of the guys. Those guys will clean up, all to say, the 80-20 principal might be over optimistic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 02:46 AM
143

Another thing, this is an inherent problem when a guy lacks confidence or has had a long dry spell. Sometimes, they see the signs, but they fear loneliness as well, so they decide to ignore the signs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 12:56 AM
17

It’s so bizarre, a relationship was so facile that you aren’t even with the father by the time his kid is a month old. So, what are we talking, a one night stand during a pandemic, where she didn’t use protection and he didn’t use protection? I’ll bet she still lives with her folks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 12:53 AM
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Or worst of all, she could stay and he could be stuck raising some guys bastard. A kid who strangely doesn’t look like him, whom everybody chuckles about behind his back. She doesn’t love him, she stated she’s “settling” which means she thinks she’s better. Likely started at 16-17, she got on the carousel and was an internal and external receptacle for Chad’s semen. She’s been thrown from the carousel and doesn’t want be an old maid. Hopefully bro or his friends will see the truth, hopefully he …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 12:47 AM
64

Those ex’s who she deeply loved could have her back with a text. When you love somebody, you don’t focus on their flaws, you actively focus on their strengths. Hopefully bro finds out about this and leaves her, lest he end up raising some other dude’s kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 12:40 AM
4

Yeah, many with two or more kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 11:32 PM
15

There is a post on here about a guy who was setup with a woman by the singles ministry of his church. They lied to him about her age and about her having children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 01:56 PM
117

This is an incomplete story, what you don’t know about the woman is that she had a kid. Churches are hunting grounds for single mothers, oftentimes with the active help of the leadership. Also, though there are many women in churches with traditional values, more and more, you can see AF/BB active in the churches.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 01:48 AM
2

This really is a consequence of biology not being taught. Even a child-like understanding of biology, via our bro Darwin, let’s us know how important procreation is. By withholding that, she actively ( and unknowingly) undermines herself. In fact, she will actively repel good family oriented guys and attract Chad-types. She’s inviting the opposite of what she wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 10:30 PM
2

Always love seeing this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 12:15 AM
8

And to be sure, she will put her ass in a sub-100k car, she likely just did. Her ex took the bus. Such women do exist, but aren’t on Tinder talking bullshit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 11:37 PM
4

Indeed, it doesn’t say much about her character or likability. I know several older versions of her (I’ve got a real thing for latinas) their being single into their 30’s is for cause.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 04:56 PM
4

All I have to say is, physically she is completely my type.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 02:10 PM
15

Wildly enough, there are guys who’d agree, if it meant a relationship with a loving woman that included regular sex. The problem is that she wouldn’t let such a guys come near her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 06:19 PM
6

Idk the look she’s going for, goth type with the peace sign. Homie must smoke a ton of weed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 11:05 PM
28

But recall, it’s we guys who have insane standards. You show any guy 1000 women, he could easily be attracted to more than half.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 04:00 PM
7

So many women are raised thinking their shit doesn’t stink, what a social disaster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 03:27 PM
109

And the lies and evasions of women who claim that the friendzone doesn’t exist. It does to exist, wanna know if you are in it? Tell your Friendzone Fiona that you are not interested in seeing her anymore, that your shoulder isn’t available to cry on anymore and that you don’t have time to shoot the shit anymore, do this and watch her reaction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 01:06 PM
12

It’s applies to both sexes, but especially to women who are still childbearing age. A woman who is alone either has insane standards or is just an awful, awful and insufferable person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 08:06 PM
42

The grimey thing is that she COULD absolutely find a guy to wine and dine her, I know this without even seeing a full picture of her. The issue is, such a bro wouldn’t be some hotshot finance guy or the personal trainer she ogles at the gym, the guy also wouldn’t be the ripped dude she longs after at the beach. The guy in question would be a normal dude with flaws. The aforementioned isn’t good enough for her, how do I know this? Well, experience has told me almost any woman outside an asylum, w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 05:36 PM
27

Now that you mentioned it, this Latina chick I was interested in has her Instagram covered in pictures of a dead ex who died under some such circumstances. To marry a war widow would be one thing, to be second fiddle to a dead POS would really anger me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 10:39 PM
23

It’s important to know, nobody wants to be somebody’s rebound or place holder. To get really nerdy, nobody wants to be a Dooku while the master waits for Anakin to come along.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 10:23 PM
6

Has this been posted before?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 10:21 PM
48

It’s funny you mentioned death, you aren’t joking either. There is a post on here wherein a single mother wouldn’t allow her fiancé to say he was her child’s father, that honor belonged to the child’s dead drug addict of a dad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 10:18 PM
67

That’s why I run from such women. I say scan their social media, if it’s full of uber Chad’s, let her go immediately (unless you are a Chad). Or, if all her ex’s look extremely different from you (i.e you are a 5’5” Asian Bro, and all her ex’s are white Abercrombie and Fitch Types).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 06:32 PM
49

You know what will make her really mad? When her ex, who allegedly didn’t want to get married, marries some 26 year old thing and she starts cranking out kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 05:47 PM
215

I wish her name could be attached to this so that any bro that dated her would understand where he ranks with her. For her, it’s like this: 1. Her Ex 2. Empty 3. Empty 4. Anybody not her ex. No matter what, even if you married her, her ex could have her with a text message.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 05:25 PM
1

For heavens sake, sheesh. Into Disney at 30 years old?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 09:33 PM
31

And what are the odds that she’s even a really beautiful alpha widow? More likely, other than her vagina, she’s got nothing going for her. What an error she makes when she assumes an entitlement to a man’s resources.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 05:52 PM
10

To them it’s “I like my children” thus “Everyone loves my kids.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/21 06:54 PM
20

That’s a succinct way of putting it. Women can punch above their weight as it regards sex, they err when they conclude that because a drunken 9 will let them blow him, that they are thus equal to him ( a 9). Their mate value is like you said: equal to the most attractive guy who will commit to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 12:38 AM
27

And either of us, not knowing her or them could point them out to her. Women have got to learn, only the most attractive ones can get a Chaddy looking guy who is also a good dude. As for the rest, it’s a trade off between looks and character. “Girls” ( the Lena Dunham show were the homely protagonist constantly seriously dated model looking dudes) is mythical nonsense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 10:40 PM
99

What are the chances that she, a woman who allegedly wants a full relationship not based on sex, met a bro on Tinder, which ( despite their rebranding) is a heterosexual version of a gay hookup app? What are the chances she filtered purely for looks? What are the chances you or I could likely easily ID a dozen guys in her life who’d seriously date her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 10:25 PM
3

It’s based on the notion that they just need some help. We’ve tried decades of help, we’ve only gained more dysfunction, maybe we should try a few decades of no help?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 05:10 PM
5

This is true, it extends to outright conniving on the part of black leaders. If I am not mistaken, there was a post on this sub wherein a young black dude recounts the single’s ministry at his church setting him with a single mother, to do this, they lied about her age and her having children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 04:42 PM
9

This is exactly right. That’s a fucking horrifying picture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 09:55 PM
1

I wasn’t talking about myself, thanks anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 07:22 PM
2

The sad thing about us guys is that there are many of us who’ve never had any chances.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 07:13 PM
11

Whenever a woman argues this, I know that if I shadowed them for a week, I could easily spot a dozen men in their life/ circle who would be happy to seriously date them. When they claim no prospects, they mean “I who am a four got a drunk 10 to take me home and fuck me. Not only was he drunk, he was also depressed and on the rebound. I begged him and I sealed the deal by agreeing to let him go ass to mouth. I texted him the next day but he blocked me, I’ve never come close to landing a 10 again,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 07:10 PM
2

This is the right attitude, her sadness is because she knows her past decisions have caught up with her. She knows that she had her chances.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 07:03 PM
1

Yeah it’s like the woman who had thousands of matches on Tinder and still claimed no serious prospects. Offer a guy an age adjusted cohort of 3000 women and he could easily find a wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 06:59 PM
6

It’s legitimately possible for a guy on Tinder to have nobody swipe right on him. It’s inconceivable that any woman could experience that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 05:41 PM
30

When Chad returns a “changed man” you’ll be kicked to curb as “My child deserves to live with her real father!”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 02:43 PM
30

Single motherhood is so rife that many women honestly are unfamiliar with the downsides. There is the issue of the child but also the issue of the father. One can’t be sure if you aren’t simply being used to make him jealous / draw him back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 02:25 PM
41

The organization is a matriarchal racket. The crazy thing is, there is already forced community support of single mothers, not to the crazed extent they want, but we already pay off such women. To be clear, one could argue that such single mothers don’t need more support but that they need less support. Perhaps if there was no money, food stamps, healthcare, housing associated with such births, there would not be born a mass of fatherless children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 02:04 PM
54

They might have, but I’m referring to the main BLM website (now scrubbed) which condemned the nuclear family and called for community support of mothers. Given the people who started BLM, it’s perfectly understandable that they are no fan of traditional marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 01:46 PM
111

She can get her homies at BLM to support the child via communitarianism. I’m black but I know I’m not her kind of person. Also, I’m not into subsidizing my own cuckoldry by giving her a place to stay while she continues to fuck the kids father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 01:10 PM
25

Indeed, Fancy Dinners, work around the house, car work etc are for committed relationships only. You take your wife / fiancé out somewhere special, you blow a Saturday fixing your wife’s / fiancé’s car, you don’t do such things for a woman off tinder whom you don’t know. If said woman asks for such things, you bail.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 03:27 PM
103

One can never over-estimate the extent to which the dating game is just a way for women to get free meals, gifts and even work done around the house. Bros must realize that attraction cannot be bought, as my grandpa said, “What you do to get her is what must be done to keep her.” It’s something I had to learn, if a chick really wants you, she’d happily chill at Taco Bell with you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 02:33 PM
42

So accustomed to getting whatever she wanted, whenever she wanted. Oh, to be a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 02:17 AM
2

Lots of girls in gyms like that. A girl in great shape is an amazing ride
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 06:54 PM
2

Yes, I couldn’t imagine donking somebody who I felt nothing for. I mean, it’s one thing if shes got a dynamite body with and ugly face, I can deal with that, but not somebody who is ugly all around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 06:04 PM
2

Luckily, the science of economics has disproved the concept of a quantifiable need. These whales don’t require sex anymore than we do, they’ll live ok as celibates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 06:02 PM
1

And yet some women seem to have no issues picking correctly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 05:59 PM
2

I’ve never been so drunk. I’ve been semi-blacked out until I woke up to being fondled by some whale, but I’ve never consented to lying down with a pig.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 03:18 PM
6

I’m 32, I was raised by my mother and father as follows : If you go to a restaurant and somebody else is paying, you are to eat what you order. No excuses, anything else is rude, don’t be wasteful. My parents taught me that as kid, it’s wild that grown women don’t understand it.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre30/07/21 02:14 PM
28

For real, that adds a point to her rating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 02:27 AM
27

It’s bizarre, women dredge the bottom and actively repel good guys. Then they ask if any such guys exist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 02:16 AM
16

Funny how that seems to always happen with women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 02:11 AM
24

Some of our fellow bros will fuck anything, for me, there isn’t enough booze in the world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 02:10 AM
3

Indeed, the concept of missed matches is absurd. Humans are a visual species.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 09:35 PM
1

Such was once widely understood, not so much anymore. Women in the past, via their mothers, grandmothers, aunts, older sisters, women at church etc would be taught that there is a trade off of excitement v. Marriageability and that sadly, most women are ill equipped to get a husband that scores high in both, thus a woman had to understand where she fit and play the long game (i.e. don’t sent away the upstanding and good dude with slightly above looks for six months of intense fun with a guy who …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 05:00 PM
11

Who is also gay ( not bi) but fucks women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 11:49 PM
1

And what were you, chopped liver? I guess you and your bro’s were to just wait, after she’d had fun, then you could have her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 05:57 PM
46

“I’m unemployed because I intimidate employers. They seem put off when I recommend large scale changes to their business model in interviews.” Or “The economy is awful, we need a revolution because I, with a 7th grade education, am unable get a job which pays me $100 per hour whilst offering the unlimited annual leave to which I am entitled.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 04:26 PM
8

The wide assumption of the apex fallacy by women continues to baffle me. Most men are truly invisible to women. Yes, there are guys who can literally fuck 3,4,5 plus women at once, but it’s bizarre to think this behavior is typical. The whining of most women, especially feminists, body positivity types etc can be better understood when you realize they are all complaining about their struggle to capture that top 20 percent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 04:19 PM
21

We can’t risk people from here attacking / brigading anybody. We could get shutdown for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 01:59 PM
3

It’s remarkable how few people understand this, even dogs know that you better not bite the hand that feeds you. I was reminded of this recently when a 1099 for my company threw a tantrum and tried to explain to us how a business should be run, he was shocked when he got no more work from us.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 12:48 PM
6

If you’ve ever been to a prison to visit somebody, you’d know that almost everybody in there says they are innocent. “I didn’t shoot anyone, I just brought the gun.” “I didn’t steal anything, I was just the lookout” etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 12:43 PM
33

Yeah, the word ‘men’ is loaded and refers to only a minority of guys. She’s unintelligent, if you keep going after a caliber of bro and if you can’t keep any of them, you are obviously shooting to high.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 01:20 PM
5

Something that all women should be aware of in today’s world, guys fear these scenarios, as we get into our late 20s and beyond, we hear stories like these. Every guy, even if he doesn’t have firsthand experience with such drastic examples, knows of / has experienced the following example :1. He meets a girl with a kid, she promises dad is out of the picture. She claims he is no threat 2. She says biodad was a bum, that SHE broke up with him 3. Guy gets serious with her, they move in together 3.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 08:51 PM
6

Yeah, unless his GF and Step-Daughter suddenly had brain tumors, this isn’t sudden behavior. He doted on her/them, they were low character people , by subsiding them, he made it worse. Also, he is in part to blame by choosing such a cunt as a GF.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 06:09 PM
5

Good for homie for having a strong finish…However, he got such slovenly behavior in part because he subsidized it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 04:56 PM
28

Indeed, this is why it’s foolhardy to take them seriously and believe they are “on a break” or “aren’t seeing anybody right now.” It’s even more foolhardy to think you can buildup attraction via friendship, a guy who provides boyfriend services to a woman w/o getting boyfriend benefits in return is simply subsidizing the guy who is fucking her, he’s taking the tasks off of homies plate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 04:59 PM
9

For real, in the past, everybody aspired to it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 08:28 PM
63

For the various elites who promote polyamory, polygamy and expressions like “pan sexuality”, I hope they are happy. Sure, highly educated / high earning people can engage in such behavior with only minimal issues, but the low-classes cannot afford to engage in such behavior, more frankly, society cannot deal with a lowerclass who embraces such ethics.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 06:21 PM
1

Dog comes first?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 10:43 PM
27

Indeed, you either have the displeasure of dealing with a cranky pregnant chick first and then her infant ( which is cool if it’s YOUR bun in her oven) or she gets to use you to make baby daddy jealous such that you get kicked to curb when he comes back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 04:04 PM
2

She looks great for sure, in a world of outta shape women, she looks even better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 03:59 PM
1

It’s absolutely possible that she looks like that, I know of multiple single mothers who honestly put in the work to look like that (Thus the temptation)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 03:59 PM
14

You get with her, you better be ready to fight / shoot her baby daddy. She’s all but confirming he’s a shithead. Single motherhood is so rife that many women don’t think asking you to fight their ex is at all unreasonable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/21 01:20 PM
26

One of kids is an infant, meaning she exercised bad judgement only very recently.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 01:11 AM
2

In my business, I work with a few engineers who are independent contractors who run solo shops. These are structural engineers who I use to consult on things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 08:51 PM
13

This happens a lot, a guy gets put on child support, he quits his job which makes wage garnishment impossible. He then finds a job in construction/ other cash only industries or uses prepaid debit cards to make his cash liquid ( or he finds a woman and uses her bank account).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 01:26 PM
11

“Full Time Mum To Be” homie seems to believe in predestination, what makes her think that she’s done the work which would allow her to be a full time mom? I guess she knows the state will provide. In the old days, being a full time mother came with being a full time wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 01:23 PM
73

This is hilarious but true, I’ve known of many women who reason this way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 01:19 PM
17

Indeed, it’s that and likely that she’s pursuing guys of superior SMV. It’s like being qualified to interview but not to hire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 05:34 PM
2

Exactly, we can bullshit but all physicists must know math. She can bullshit, but she can’t change the objective reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 11:26 PM
1

There would be the same issues associated with any other single mother. You’d also have to determine if she’s got a black fetish, normally a “black” fetish is really just a low class and trashy fetish.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 06:02 PM
4

Yeah, she’s got no clue, it’s seems that she’d rather be seen as being a “ride or die” chick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:55 PM
18

So, little homie is going to be named Devontae, after his (suspected) father? (I’m black so I’ve clearance to say this) Naming a child a stereotypical black name can actually be a real burden on them when job hunting, I’ve brought this up with women I know to no avail.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:40 PM
69

It’s being used more and more by straight women who reject the notion of marriage. It’s use is a dead giveaway for radical feminism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 08:32 PM
14

(I’m black) I’ve hyperwoke homies who are utterly appalled at the prospect of being fetishized such that they’ll refuse one night stands. I’ve no issue turning down ugly women who approach, but I’ve never been able to turn down a nice piece of ass just because she’s got some strange thing for black dick. I don’t fault white guys for fucking non-white chicks who fetishize them, it happens throughout Asia.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 05:59 PM
151

Boy, I do not like the substitution of “partner” for husband. In general, women who use such terminology are to be avoided. She wants the benefits of having a “partner”, but lose your job and see what happens.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 05:44 PM
5

This attitude actually does occur in real life, I was once a social worker. Both from that experience and from my own family experience, I promise that there are people who choose unemployment over working lowly jobs, it’s not just right wing propaganda.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 12:50 PM
2

I knew of a number of dudes who took low paying jobs as English tutors in Japan based on the belief that Japanese women would be different. Besides the small portion who are just crazy for foreign guys, female nature is universal in all wealthy societies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 12:04 PM
10

I second this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 10:35 PM
5

Black men is faaaaar to broad, she dates low SVM black dudes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 10:31 PM
7

Oh bother, my co-racialists are responsible for the existence of such women. Note, she claims to like them tall, dark and handsome but she’s likely only been with short, fat and acne covered. A tall, dark, handsome homie doesn’t need to jump under the bridge and fuck a troll. I’m tall, somewhat dark and above average in looks, it’s always hilarious when women such as her approach and demand I grade them on a curb.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 10:24 PM
11

This is an unbelievable insult, when you are black, some white women assume you’d give them a discount. So, if a black women has to be a 7, a white women needs to be a 4. Oh, how mistaken they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 05:59 PM
3

Wow seriously, so if you are a white guy with black bro’s, don’t post pictures with them? She likes segregated photographs? Also, I’m black and I pose with dead fish, so where does that leave me?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 02:20 PM
8

What a tawdry picture, is the four being anchored by an empty bottle of crown?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 05:16 PM
1

She dates black guys? So, you’re saying there’s a chance!? Well, this black guy will likewise pass, I’ll leave this obviously insane, narcissistic and unattractive lady to my fellow bruhs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 05:14 PM
14

Has her shit together? I wonder if she’s even a real nanny? I know of a woman who nannies for rich families in my local community, she does well, this chick seems like a babysitter. Also, any bro who was in shape would have to drastically under train in order to be her gym partner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 06:35 PM
1

She goes into the no column, she’s baby crazy, if she gets attached you, she’s getting pregnant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 06:32 PM
4

The ironic thing is, if she simply stopped drinking calories (soda, juice etc) and worked out four days a week, the changes would be significant. She’d see the caliber of guy who’d want her tic up noticeably.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 01:18 PM
57

Is she implying that younger guys ( who might want kids) don’t see a 40 year old as a long term prospect? That instead, they spin her like a plate until they can find somebody from their preferred age bracket? ( who could have a child without undergoing a high risk pregnancy). When you are attractive enough for sex, but not attract enough to date, the problem and solution are obvious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 01:15 PM
6

I actually think there are other reasons for the rule as well (scholars have argued as much), but this is not a debate sub and I don’t want to distract from our mission.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 01:23 AM
5

Wow, her with an OF, monstrous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 12:29 AM
3

Exactly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 12:28 AM
17

It’s wild that she’d use a profile picture which might as well have been taken from the moon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 12:26 AM
18

Not to make an anti-Islam comment, but, it’s indeed something that a Muslim man can intermarry but a Muslim woman cannot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 12:24 AM
29

If she’s telling the truth, that means gradually, things are changing for the better. If a woman has a past full of anti-social bro’s, she couldn’t be satisfied by a normal bro, either that or she’ll require more of a regular guy ( he doesn’t give her tingles, so he has to do more, pay more etc).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 12:54 PM
4

It’s not impossible for such a child to come from such an environment and be a functional member of society, however it’s rare. The child is much more likely to turn out bad, to be the kid who bullies other kids ( and she’s the type of parent who’ll do nothing to stop it.) I’m not saying the old days of shaming and homes for unwed mothers was ideal ( nothing is perfect) but it wasn’t all bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 12:36 PM
1

To protect our subreddit, we want to protect ourselves from allegations of bullying or Brigading etc, we don’t want to be accused of directing harassment at anyone. Showing the subreddit means the post could be found easily.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 04:23 PM
1

I think you need to obscure where the post came from.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 04:19 PM
20

I’ve been plenty of times, you can watch the herds graze for free on the internet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 11:43 PM
59

Exactly, you don’t show up to the Golden Corral to watch everyone else eat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 11:34 PM
2

Lookup, Life at the Bottom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 04:15 PM
20

Bingo, this is rarely pointed out, teaching is seasonal work. When their pay is calculated per day worked, it’s favorable for sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 04:14 AM
17

This is confusing sex with love. “He fucks me, he must really like me, right? After all, I only fuck guys I really like.” The FDS mentality in its rejection of biology and evolutionary psychology, causes the problem of projection, those women think guys and gals are basically the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 04:10 AM
6

Exactly, you’ve lost even if she’s asked you. She’s never ask Chad to do this or anything else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 05:15 PM
67

But only because the trainer “manipulated” her or “entangled” her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:38 PM
120

This is 👌🏾, the past of a woman is easily discernible via her social media. If it’s full of Chad’s and if you aren’t a Chad, let her go, you couldn’t please her. Your stability will be confused with a lack of passion. The British Psychiatrist Theodore Dalrymple writes about this phenomenon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:32 PM
33

The fallacy of confusing sex with commitment permeates female thinking. The same people who call the old days ( of social stigma, shotgun weddings and such) outmoded and promote a culture of sexual promiscuity, willfully misunderstand the rules of the current game. Women constantly tell us we are not owed sex but they themselves believe sex equals commitment. Thus, if a woman likes a guy and fucks him, he MUST necessarily want to commit to her and the child at HER leisure. A great many children …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 03:21 PM
54

Ha, her profile is a ledger of expenses. Did she kick daddy to the curb because he “only” made $75,000? (Note, 75k is significantly higher than the per capita income in the US).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 01:10 PM
3

Indeed, it’s not rocket science to figure ( with a high level of certainty) which guys are long term relationship oriented and which guys are not. The problem for women is that overlap in the Venn Diagram ain’t all that big, so they trade off cues of reliability for HAWTNESS. Many women want both, but they don’t understand that only a select group of women can get guys who are both.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 12:46 PM
5

It’s wild, it’s literally their MAIN job. Is she implying that there is no such thing as consent? Does Natalie Portman ( who is married) necessarily have to sex with me? If I got her pregnant, could she tell her husband that it wasn’t within her purview to say no to me?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 12:41 PM
11

Basically, it’s a fact of life that women and men have different advantages and disadvantages in this arena. Try as women might, they cannot copy the advantages of men, despite what the culture tells them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 12:37 PM
9

Denying men sex absolutely positively is a woman’s job. Given the cost differential, it’s logical that women would exercise a high level of due diligence, this would include using the myriad of long term, relatively affordable reversible contraceptive options ( if she is to be sexually active) and completing an analysis of the fatherhood characteristics of men she’s with ( if she wants to have a child). To say that sex is more costly for women is logically to say that women, out of necessity, sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 12:34 PM
3

Oh, I kinda feel she’s underselling what a basket case she is. It’s always best to avoid crazy pussy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 11:54 PM
32

Is she so old fashioned that she’ll agree that in the case of marriage, all property and assets will be held in his name only? Or, is it the case that she took this as a way to get free food and drink?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 01:09 PM
5

These are the girls who will actually pursue guys. Many men, when hit on by a fat women, get upset, they say “why does she think I’ll ever get with her? I’m a seven, she’s a 4”. They are thinking about it all wrong. Just as a new restaurant in a competitive environment has a grand opening with special discounts and such (i.e. they lower their prices) when these women approach guys, they likewise lower their price. Many of them know that they don’t have your SMV, they know if you are 7 you ideall…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 02:35 PM
1

FYI, these are the people who dominate the public schools, especially the poor and underserved schools. Her manifest BS and lack of intelligence wouldn’t fly in middle and upperclass portions of town, but it does fly in schools in poor parts of town where teachers like her end up after a few years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 02:12 PM
5

There are indeed big girls who, having a high level of maturity, decide that to compensate for their size they must leverage all other characteristics to compete. Unfortunately, a lot of fat women are being trained to NOT do this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 02:04 PM
5

This, there are plus sized female models, there really are no plus sized male models. The gay bro’s who run the fashion industry aren’t about to put fat dudes on a runway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 01:58 PM
2

What’s moronic about it? That they’ve different values that cause them to rate different characteristics differently ( money v. Height etc)?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 05:38 PM
4

Your right to exclude short guys = my right to exclude extremely skinny women or dog obsessed women, it’s an aspect of freedom. I feel I have some credibility in saying this because I’m not some tall white dude ( the most advantaged group on OLD) saying this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 05:28 PM
3

I agree with your interpretation and find no fault with your prior statements. I’m not short but I’m black. There is a mass of empirical data which shows that black guys are among the least preferred people on OLD ( though I think Black Women and Asian guys rank lower), I’ve long ago stopped caring about the preferences of others and I’ve too much pride to try and convince some chick who doesn’t like black dudes to give me a shot. The most productive use of my time is to deal with those who’ll h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 05:19 PM
3

You still appear to be dwelling on it though, if a woman is into tall guys, what of it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 05:12 PM
3

Or, she’s just gross and should be pursuing homeless bro’s, instead she’s pursuing guys in the top quintile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 04:55 PM
7

It really is that simple no need to get into existential nonsense, in a fucking species where men do all the approaching its 1. She’s got radically high standards, above her SMV 2. She’s manifestly unattractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 04:50 PM
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Also, many women who’ve had their fun incorrectly assume that men have likewise had an equal amount of fun. They swam through dick, we swam through pussy, they’ve no fucking idea.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 04:37 PM
20

Indeed, if women cared about only what was on the inside, such negative traits would’ve been progressively burned out of the gene pool.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 07:03 PM
58

There really is a mass of empirical data to show 1. Women tend over estimate what the average height is (its not six foot, which is above average) 2. Women prefer taller guys. The women of Reddit talk bullshit when they deny the obvious truth. Personality does matter, but it’s one of a bundle of things women consider, many such women will trade off personality for appearance and height, this is the real truth. Some women are biased against shorter guys as they are against non-white guys, Reddit …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 05:31 PM
77

Online, women twist themselves into knots to say that height does not matter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 05:23 PM
5

Such a straw man, is this what feminists accuse men of wanting in women?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 10:21 PM
63

More than that, if you ever talk to a single mother who complains about the father of her children ( he’s erratic, unpredictable, emotionally unstable, unreliable. He won’t keep a job, he wastes his time on stupid business ventures, he is always dating multiple women) just note that in most cases, these allegedly awful qualities were obvious to her and she got with him because of them and not in spite of them. When you are Chaddy/Tyroney, you aren’t “erratic” you are instead “spontaneous” you ar…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 04:05 PM
49

It was a phase or they turned you down because “of peer pressure” they’ve been in therapy and discovered “that they always liked you.” Or, one of my personal favorites “I don’t recall ever turning you down or humiliating you, I don’t remember the time I cried with immense sadness after you asked me out.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 03:48 PM
8

Nah bro, their signals are clear! Looking in your general direction for 2.5 seconds = get inside me daddy! She used the trash can next to your table, how much clearer could she be?!?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 06:10 PM
3

I’m younger than you but I too find it unfortunate that some of the traditional experiences regarding romance/marriage/ sex have been outside outside of my purview going back to high school. Not to say that I put the blame totally on external factors, I could’ve done some things differently going back to high school, however the outcome wasn’t completely in my control. Women, freed from certain bounds of tradition, are now able to pursue only a narrower band of guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 03:43 PM
1

This is has been posted before, oh, how unfortunate that she’s not romantically interested in divorced guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 03:21 PM
3

I didn’t blame black women for anything. Why did you jump to conclusions and assume I did? I stated I hate women like her, she isn’t black, why would you assume I was referring to black women as a whole? Are you inadvertently admitting that most black women are like that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 11:27 AM
41

Indeed, a couple of my co-racialists got high and passed her around, now she walks around as an effigy of a black woman. It’s vulgar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 10:45 PM
208

Fuck her, I ( a black guy) can’t fucking stand chicks like her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 10:08 PM
24

I had a coworker who was very smart in a mathematical kind of way, he was morbidly obese and constantly complained of back problems. I didn’t work with him long enough to build up a relationship such that I could’ve pointed out the obvious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 09:11 PM
39

People who walk around looking like that seem to forget that on earth, we’ve gravity and shit, it’s not healthy to carry that around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 06:00 PM
39

Oh bother, somebody has gotta tell her that doing an imitation of her super attractive friend will NOT turn out well for her. A bro would have to be an utter vagabond to take shit from her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 05:53 PM
2

Does the rainbow mean she’s non-binary or something? Also, she’s a mother, she apparently gave birth, which means a bro came in between. Fellas, we must do better, no amount of ecstasy, weed or alcohol could justify jumping on a hippo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 05:25 PM
11

It was clear from interviews that she was a grade A cunt and man hater. She, an actress who made millions despite not being able to act, was an utterly embittered person. It was very unattractive, her hubby had to have known she was cunt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 05:20 PM
16

You’ll legit get women on Tinder and such asking you for money. Oh “I’m short 200 dollars on rent, they’ll kick me out if I don’t pay etc”. It’s such a disrespectful thing for a woman to ask of a man that she wouldn’t otherwise speak with. It’s how you know you aren’t Chad, they’d never ask Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 01:23 PM
6

The inversion of this simple fact has caused much sadness among women. Those are “your” kids not “our” kids. As a single male who earns more than the per captia income, I’m already subsidizing them via my tax dollars.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 01:18 PM
46

Gotta dig the logical fallacy: I am a mom, if a top 20 percent guy dislikes me it must be because they hate moms. There are no alternatives. If you don’t like her, you hate your mother, grandmother and all women in your life with children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 12:46 PM
19

This, the collapse of tinder has been astonishing, it should be studied. You are talking about an app which had a limited launch with vetted profiles of sorority girls and models etc. Now we get this and much much worse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 03:49 PM
29

With most such women, who say there are no “men” around or that “men” are just using them, I want to offer the following wager: You say “men” aren’t interested in you, they simply pump and dump you, if you will allow me to shadow you for one week as you go about your daily routine, I promise that I can find at least five guys in your life who are interested in seriously dating you. The agreement is thus, I’ll point out these guys and you will approach them, for every guy who turns you down, I’ll…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 01:56 PM
4

Some women really care about this, it’s a hard pass for me. ..”An admirable evasion of whoremaster man, to lay his goatish disposition on the charge of a star!” ( William Shakespeare).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 06:06 PM
18

Absolutely no shame in it for sure, but yeah, the five kids makes a huge difference. In my state, she’d qualify for food stamps ( for both herself and her kids) due to her low income and large family (even if she had child support coming in).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 03:06 PM
37

Get ready to pay for EVERYTHING. A CNA is a person on the outskirts of the healthcare system and are thus paid accordingly. People must do the best they can as it regards a trade, but a healthcare system is Doctors - Nurse Practitioners-Registered Nurses - LPNs - CNAs. Guess how much she earns? Guess how far it goes with FIVE kids!,
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 02:57 PM
8

Thats not what gaslighting is, gaslighting is when somebody outright denies the past or attempts to confuse it. For example, if you were abused by your mom because she burned you with cigarettes, she could gaslight by pretending it never happened or by demanding a level specificity about the incident which is unattainable i.e “If your memory is so good, tell me what day of the week this allegedly happened on? How was the weather that day?”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 02:52 PM
24

Indeed, it’s wild that women in their 20s to even 30s, still come with the shit tests. Such ‘tests’ mean you should walk away immediately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 02:34 PM
1

Also, it really is a way for activists to get comfortable state jobs. I live close to a university with a massive school of education, the students / recent graduates dominate Tinder. The types who are ‘Marxists’ but who’ve never read any Marx other than the first few bars of the Manifesto.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 08:35 PM
2

I noticed Jill Biden’s dissertation contained a great amount of cognitively meaningless information about the history of community colleges in Delaware.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 08:32 PM
4

It’s the reason that less and less of K-12 education is about reading, writing, arithmetic etc. Actually teaching a child to read phonetically is HARD, especially if a child comes from a very oral culture and doesn’t have access to books at home. The educational establishment avoids hard work by stripping more and more schooling of actual academic work. It’s brutal on poor kids. Many of the majors ( re:women) are activists, state subsidized activists.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 06:46 PM
6

For real, she’s presses my buttons for real. 😔
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 05:59 PM
3

With her, you run a risk of her continuing to fuck the x, bro has got her. If he even breathes at her, she’s back in his bed. The paternity of any of her kids must be listed as “to be determined”. Also, idk why I feel she’s capable of inflicting violence on you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 05:56 PM
6

I think it was Thomas Sowell who absolutely pilloried ‘education’ as a university discipline. He even argued that all professors of education should be paid to retire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 05:50 PM
116

The wild part is women mature faster than men, so they are even more wrong than they know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 02:35 PM
117

She absolutely positively does NOT enjoy hiking, empirically speaking, most people don’t, but it’s obvious in this case. Is going to the state park, parking and then maybe walking fifty yards now considered “hiking”? Can I claim I was “scouted to be a model” because some employees from the local Abercrombie and Fitch used to pester me about “modeling” (actually just working) there back in my undergrad days? Had I worked there, could I have to claimed to have modeled in the same way that a bro si…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 01:32 PM
5

This is 100 percent true, especially if you are 30+. Those places become hunting grounds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 06:07 PM
6

In cases like this, despite her alleged trauma, both she (and her crotch goblins) will likely compare you to dad/Chad. Such can be the case even when Chad was a good for nothing drug addict. Keep this in mind when you think you can replace a Mac Miller Style drugged out bro.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 11:44 PM
3

I noticed that as well, she isn’t claiming she’s unemployed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 11:39 PM
3

What a chore it seems like, she critiqued him physically (under 6’) financially (a high school teacher’s salary) but she’s still cool because he’s her indentured worker. I have strong inkling that she’ll posse-out as soon as a bro with some money smiles at her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 06:27 PM
2

To be charitable ( in the Aristotelian sense) many of these women are poorly socialized when it comes to choosing men. Usually, women would learn about the positive traits of a man by observing their father and how he treats their mother within the bounds of a marriage, where things such as looks aren’t the only the only things at issue. Instead, more and more women grow up in houses of serial-stepfatherhood, they’ve no frame of reference as regards the positive traits of guys, the only feedback…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 02:24 PM
6

Such women will legit make paradoxical arguments,”Bad boys are exciting, good guys are lame.” When the matter blows up and somebody tries to gently remind them of their poor choice in men, they’ll say “What does it matter, all guys are the same!”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 12:58 PM
12

Indeed, people don’t suddenly become addicts, she saw the signs. Maybe he only used recreationally at first, but the signs were there, but oftentimes if a Bro is good looking, his instability and such will be attractive, it only becomes unattractive when he proves uncontrollable and unreliable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 12:00 AM
6

Indeed, a man outside the top 20 is invisible to most women. Frankly, given the contempt with which these women hold non-Chad guys, invisibility is a benefit. Visibility can get HR involved, it can get you slammed on social media. The notion that the typical guy has half a dozen girlfriends is bizarre and poisonous. Also your comment about feminism is correct, it’s about upperclass women’s wish to control upperclass men, they don’t give a shit lower class guys or lower class women, for example, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 04:26 PM
4

It’s happening at white churches too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 09:00 PM
3

Try mostly black or mostly Hispanic churches. Enjoy the pressure that will be applied to you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 08:01 PM
6

Or else she’d show up at your job, confront the woman and get you fired.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 05:46 PM
24

Now that she’s played her part as a vector for Chad’s genes, somebody needs to man up! Indeed, such language is often used in churches as more and more members of churches are single mothers on the prowl.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 03:33 PM
7

This will happen, it might already be happening. These chicks have no time horizons, they can’t see past next week. A lack of time horizons ( more so than race, IQ etc) is IMO ( as somebody who was briefly a social worker) the biggest difference between the bourgeoisie and the underclass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 03:36 PM
20

Gotta keep her hands on bro’s resources, in this case what’s good for the gander isn’t good enough for the goose. I wonder if she has anyone in her life (perhaps and older female relative) who could sit her down and spit facts, unless she’s one of those super attractive alpha windows, if she wants a childless guy she’s going to have to go old or she’ll need to massively lower her standards. Suffice it to say, a single, childless, fit, never divorced Chad who is uber domestic and gives great oral…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 12:00 AM
30

You aren’t joking, there are late 50s/ early 60s divorced/ windowed guys who’d take her, unless she’s in that category of super-attractive single mothers, that’s where she should be looking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 11:51 PM
2

I’m not sure I’d call this cat fishing, if she doesn’t mention the kid, she’s behaving deceptively.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 11:41 PM
22

I’ve put it to my bro’s like this, a woman who is sexually active is necessarily fucking somebody. If it’s not you, just look around, consider the usual suspects. If you are incurring boyfriend costs, without boyfriend benefits, you are simply taking such chores off another bro’s plate and thus making it easier for him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:28 PM
14

It’d have to be a deeply inexperienced bro who’d buy that, sadly, such bros exist. They aren’t even pretending, this dude can her anytime he wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 09:06 PM
49

This is profound, the internet is forever, our generation of OF/ Tinder ladies do NOT get this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 04:32 PM
42

“You say womyn like criminals!? That’s an incel stereotype! Women like nice guys, looks don’t matter!” Ha, he fucked her 10 minutes before this picture. It’s remarkable, is this actually meant to attract guys? Does the modern woman actually give a shit about attracting guys at all? Is any guy who matches with her going to be obligated to accept her male “best friend”?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 04:17 PM
3

Loves money but likely not at all interested in improving such that she could make her own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/21 05:17 PM
6

Ha, she’s still in the mode of her 20’s, of being wined and dined and courted. In a large city, there’s tons of women like her, she’s after an elder Chad ( a 40 year old bro who is educated, fit, high earning and childless) such guys need not kiss ass to get laid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/21 12:31 PM
11

( I’m black so I’ve clearance to say this) She might as well have wrote that she’s looking for a “real nigga”. The nails and the reference to weed are a dead giveaway. So, it’s for people like her that I pay so much in taxes every year.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 05:24 PM
3

Indeed, such profiles also illustrate a collapse in positive female role models as well. Can this girl’s (likely single) mother actually express to her to what to look for in guys? Was she in any position to express to her daughter that good father qualities often trade off with raw attraction and that only the highest quality women can demand the best of both? No, it’s likely she didn’t, instead she’s absorbed the FDS/ Steve Harvey ethos “I’m a prize”. She wouldn’t know a high quality guy if he…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 05:20 PM
5

Her mention of physical characteristics is to me a giveaway, she’s a side girl for bro’s out of her league.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 12:34 AM
7

She’s absolutely not looking for validation in these guys, more likely she’s pursuing men of superior SMV. If you are a 3, a 7 will seem unattainable. It’s not that these men are unattainable, Chad’s get married, it’s that they are unattainable to her. Her retrospective psychoanalysis shows how pop-psychology permeates our culture. There is no need to go all Freudian such that you make an excuse for why you can have what you want (coincidently such analysis externalizes the blame to the guys buy…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 11:38 PM
16

It’s truly disconcerting to realize that with this chick’s daughter, history stands a good chance of repeating itself with the consequence that the daughter becomes a single mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 05:23 PM
60

Basically. I actually know of another (admittedly very attractive) single mother who sells Real Estate by day and is a hostess at a Gentleman’s Club by night. It’s apparently necessary because real estate commissions can be irregular.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 02:34 PM
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Ha, she’s legitimately a younger version of a black obsessed ( I’m black) chick in my area I recently dealt with, they are even in the same industry. More and more women like her are in real estate, their looks are a lure. She’s got two kids at 24, given her comment on chivalry, homie tried to domesticate Chad only to fail.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 01:44 PM
30

It’s funny you mention that, sometimes the extra meal you pay for her to take home to her kids is actually just for Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 01:31 PM
62

Holding back on her biography, as if to imply it’s some secret, likely means she’s got even more handicaps than usual.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 12:31 PM
22

I was a social worker for a bit, so I know. Indeed, a woman living off a mix of welfare and child support will (without irony) consider themselves independent. The children are basically avenues via which they get child support and state support. The women get the sensation of having their own household without actually having to generate the resources to sustain one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 06:37 PM
1

How attractive! You can marry her and thus give her an actionable claim against your wealth and income, whilst she gives birth to another bro’s kid ( with all that portends about the common law presumption that all children born of a married woman are necessarily her husband’s) whilst subscribing to her cam feed!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 05:51 PM
41

It’s literally a function of the spread of low-class ethics, only such women who live in environments where single motherhood is rife see it as a common and acceptable life event. It’s furthermore sad that she’ll get some takers, some guys are so down on themselves that they wouldn’t just donk her, they’d consider raising the child. The lessening social stigma, the unfortunate existence of betas and the existence of the welfare state subsidizes this. Women need not put the care into choosing the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 03:13 PM
7

Such statements are my favorite, it’s always ironic how these secret crushes reveal themselves after shes given the best of herself physically to a myriad of random dudes. After she’s cranked out kids and wrecked her body ( note, I’ve no problem with stretch marks on a lady, provided she got them from cranking out MY kid), after she’s allowed tons of dudes to fuck in her every position ( positions which she will suddenly tell you she’s never liked). I find it a little convenient, also it’s annoy…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 10:52 AM
4

This is true, the last time this occurred to me, my competition was a dead drug addict who was plastered all over her social media.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 02:13 AM
44

She won’t treat you as well because “All those wild things I did from ages 16 -28 were done under duress, I never actually liked doing them! Yes, I let a bunch of guys go ass to mouth on me, but I just learned that you can you get infections from that! So, I’ll just lay on my back for you once a quarter.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 02:16 PM
70

Women will say to guys without irony “Oh I’m so glad I’ve met you at this point in my life, a younger me wouldn’t have appreciated you.” or if they knew you in the past and had repeatedly turned you down “You know I’ve always had a crush on you, when I rejected you, it was because of peer pressure.” The real kicker in the AF/BB dichotomy is when they pretend to not remember you / not remember shitting on you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 01:53 PM
34

Exactly, the answer to her question is embedded in her statement. The fact that she says that these guys literally do nothing in the relationship means that there is no relationship at all. She’s a side piece, she is a backup, a girl these guys call for a quick session during lunchtime when they are working at home and horny. I’ll bet that if you and I could meet her and shadow her for a week, we could point out to her 5-10 guys whom she already knows who’d love to have her, who’d love to go 50-…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 01:36 PM
44

It’s dope to speak as if you are third party to your life, like you are simply acted upon. She has either 1. Constantly pursued guys with superior SMV, such that she cannot hold them down (if the prevailing wage for a widget maker in my town is 25 dollars per hour, I shouldn’t be surprised that I can’t get employees if I offer 12 dollars per hour). She seems to be after Chad only as she references guys cheating on her, the typical guy doesn’t have the ability to cheat. 2. She’s got bad taste in …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 01:19 PM
7

And 10 might be high. It’s bizarre that women think guys are mirror images of them, like how they can get horny and have a dick in them that same day, they legit think guys are equivalent. They mix up “guys” with “Chad”, Chad has plates, Chad has a rotation, the typical bro does not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 02:12 AM
10

It sucks,because outside large cities once you hit 28+, 80 percent of these chicks have kids. And they genuinely expect that you’ll thrown down with Hayden/ Jaden / Tralens dad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 02:06 AM
9

I’ve legit seen tinder profiles where a woman says something like “My baby daddy has got felonies, so you gotta be a man to date me and deal with him.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 09:42 PM
16

On the off chance a non-convict / non- Chad could hold her attention, bro better be ready to fight daddy. Often Chad doesn’t care about his kid / his ex-concubine UNTIL she meets another dude, then Chad wants in the kids life. Single motherhood is so rife, many women think that it’s normal that the new guy should be able/willing to fight the old guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 08:13 PM
29

As the great British writer Theodore Dalrymple would say, this woman is both a victim and an accomplice to her own suffering.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 07:25 PM
53

Profound, women are masters at gaining background information, indeed they often learn such information in their quest to disentangle the guy from some other chick. A guy doesn’t suddenly become a drug addict and philanderer who ignores the birth of his child whilst donking another chick. We can infer from his relatively easy access to women that he is a Chad. Further, we could rightly suppose that he isn’t really her boyfriend in any sense, that they weren’t really together and she likely tried…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 07:20 PM
61

The app is ageist because it seeks to objectively convey an objective and irrefutably fact I.e age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 06:06 PM
4

Indeed, it takes a minimum of fours years of training to be an RN, throw in another two years to be a practitioner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 02:34 PM
36

It’s something to see women unintentionally admit the AF/BB mentality in their profiles. “Has their shit together” is a catchall phrase that means you are never married, childless and in at least the top quintile on the income scale. Also, you must be willing to believe that “she’s always liked you, even back in high school” but that she only refused to come near you “because she was immature” and that’s she’s happy “that the two of us can start over!”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 06:17 PM
9

Indeed, an allegedly profound ideology like FDS should in fact be able to be succinctly explained, you shouldn’t have to deflect anything. Always fear people who won’t defend their ideas. Recently, I recall trying to have a conversation with a local Dave Ramsey follower ( one of the local teachers in financial peace university who speaks at churches and such), note I expressed no hostility to the principles, I just wanted to have a discussion about the empirical basis of Ramsey’s Axioms (debt is…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 06:02 PM
3

All requirements subject to retroactive waiver for Chad. If you’ve the tingles, she’ll vote a straight Republican ticket in the midterms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 05:50 PM
6

Don’t foreclose the possibility that she herself has kids though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 03:27 PM
11

Unencumbered is a good way to describe it. Critical thinking imposes on people, when you think critically, you realize the expected consequences of your actions. A person encumbered by critical thinking would’ve refused Chad when he asked to go raw inside her or had she not refused, she’d not have had any expectations that Chad would hang around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 01:33 PM
8

Indeed, and because the common law presumption is that all children born to a married woman are necessarily her husbands, a guy who agrees to an open marriage is a fool who is inflicting terrible paternity issues on himself. It’s conceivable that a wife could give birth to her boyfriends baby, leave her husband to be with said boyfriend and then force the husband to pay child support for “his” kid. The husband would have to have the resources to fight this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 11:15 AM
14

She really does portray the extent to which she is a provincial dope. In today’s day and age, it’s common for 30+ guys, especially highly educated 30+ plus guys, to not be married. It’s even more common in urban areas. Would she sneer at a physics professor at a top flight program who did 4 years in undergrad + 2 years in a masters program + 4 years in a PHD program + 2 years in post-doctoral studies? Oftentimes such guys ( as well as medical doctors, or lawyers who practice big time law or MBAs…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 11:10 AM
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She posted this in a bubble, it’s like asking a group of insurance salesmen if whole life insurance makes sense. Obviously she’s over her skis, she’s got an advanced science degree and has likely gotten plenty to opportunities to get one of the bro’s from her class, however she’s likely into Chad. And you know she doesn’t have the looks to get non-science Chad and she could never hope to get science Chad either. Thus, instead of recognizing that she will need to accept what’s been offered to her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 08:04 PM
9

I’d not be surprised at all, to extent that any woman is ever alone it’s because she has decided to be alone / has standards so high that she’s turning down interested guys. Bros on the otherhand can literally draw no likes / swipes. I know of guys, living in urban areas who’ve used tinder, swiped right on every girl only to find out that nobody, not a single girl had swiped right on them. Women, even the bottom quintile, have zero conception of this, they’ve zero conception of what it means to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 03:19 PM
14

And one must remember, she would be the one setting the age range, so those 2000 guys already represent a subsection of the population. Thus even when using parameters of her own selection, only a subgroup of a subgroup was acceptable. Note, it’s guys who are told we are obsessed with looks, not women, women see what’s on the inside. Various studies (even allegedly scientific studies) say women want first and foremost kindness and a sense of humor. Women want these things, after a guy meets thei…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 11:07 AM
3

They don’t deserve a woman like her if they are tinder, but she herself is on tinder. Is homie actually proposing a paradox?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 12:42 AM
15

If you get down on yourself enough, you can fool yourself into thinking the cost of female companionship to even the slightest degree requires you to endure such things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 10:52 PM
1

Yes, but more often when It’s been when I’ve obviously gotten interest from women with higher SMV than the person she’s trying to set me up with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 09:00 PM
13

For whatever reason, it’s never the case that they have an attractive single friend for you to meet, there is always a caveat. She very unattractive, she got kids etc and she’s always got a lower SMV. I started to get wise to this in high school, when I ( though certainly not a Tyrone) would have girls of one level interested in me / I’d be with such a girl, there was always some super attractive matchmaker type who who would try and get me with a friend who was worse than what I already had. Th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 08:19 PM
26

It’s underhanded and I feel justified in really hammering the chicks who try it. ( Note, this applies to the busybody chick who plays matchmaker and not the friend / third party. I’m always polite to women whom are forward but whom I’m not attracted to). Like I said, the matchmaker type is almost always attractive. In many cases, I sensed that it was almost a joke or game to the matchmaker, with her thinking “I know he wants to fuck me, let’s she if I can get him to date my troglodyte of a frien…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 07:24 PM
64

I remember telling a friend who was in such a situation something like “You realize there are other girls? You realize you don’t have to listen to her talk about how she deepthroated some other guy last night, right?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 06:56 PM
46

Women seem to LOVE pawning off their loser friends on us guys. Both and I my friends have multiple experiences of some chick (usually a very attractive one) trying to pawn off some slag of a friend on us. Its a deep insult and a diss and should be met with utter hostility. It’s like, “Oh, he is single, he must be desperate, so of course he’ll like my disgusting, unstable, criminal friend who has got VD and three kids.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 06:36 PM
23

Hopefully bro refuses to deal with her from here on out. Regardless of whether he had romantic intentions, he doesn’t have to take that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 03:27 PM
10

Lolz, not at all obvious homie will do better, she’s advertising via the party and social media, thusly we can infer she didn’t have another guy lined up. My conclusion is bro got tired of her shit and paid the penalty to be free of her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 01:40 AM
20

There was a case in Britain of a welfare mother with tons of kids who complained at the prospect of her kids having to share rooms. I fucking shared a room with my brother until I was 18. Here in the states, the housing voucher program run through HUD often has to pay rents of $2750+ per month to house such women. And before anybody says it 1. This is in a low cost southern state and not an expensive area 2. I used to be a social worker, so I saw this firsthand, I’m not talking about what I hear…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 06:42 PM
1

Yeah, I understand where you are coming from, I’ve absolutely had bad experiences with Chad’s, though some of my best bro’s are Chad’s/ Tyrone’s etc. I think differential is Chad v Asshole. The categories often overlap, but not always. I’ve known many a Chad who have a ‘Bros before goes’ attitude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 03:54 PM
2

It can be hard to take as a kid, children (especially middle school aged children ) lack filters or political correctness. How brutal female nature can be, feminists talk about the inherent power differential between the sexes as it concerns violence ( though new feminists concurrently argue that all differences are constructed socially) but so long as a guy isn’t violent, all such differences are meaningless. Thus, women are absolutely able to devastate men from a young age. What’s more, the po…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 03:22 PM
7

Such behavior would also facilitate the creation of more such men, it would incentive positive behavior and it would stigmatize behaviors women claim to hate. The problem is that women don’t hate such behavior, or if they do, their lust for Chad overcomes any hatred. Women like the pursuit of Chad, they like feeling that they will be the one who will get him to settle down and they know intuitively that if they fail they will always be a guy out there to catch them. A single generation of men sw…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 02:20 PM
2

It’s important to realize this, though to be clear, I’ve never been anti-Chad. Going back to middle school I’ve appreciated that Chad, Tyrone and Enrique, through their behavior inadvertently teach us a lot about women. It’s through Chad that I learned that women aren’t “bitches” or “cunts”, at least not all the time. Women are such things to people they don’t respect, they blushed and flirted with Chad, they sneered at me. It took time to set in, but the lesson was there for me to learn, female…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 01:05 PM
5

The only way it could possibly be acceptable would be if the woman had truly realized that she was 50 percent responsible for her abandonment, that she had bad taste in men. She would need to be introspective and realize that with the magic of modern contraception, she willfully got pregnant and had dreamed of how cute Jaden would be if he took after his dad. If such women did the aforementioned, if they realized they were wrong, then maybe it would be worth taking a chance. However, most single…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 12:48 PM
7

This is the final circle, this is the real divine comedy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 01:10 AM
5

I think she wants that good Nordic stock. Which one of my bro’s wants this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 12:05 AM
73

We are marked safe homies! 😁 she’s the type of white chick who got hit on by a black dude five years ago = “ Ugh, black guys are ALWAYS bothering me!!!”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 12:04 AM
31

Especially when you know you haven’t changed much. If you’ve more or less always been a good dude, always cool and respectful (with gradual growth over time like compound interest) then you wonder. If they wanted no part of you from the ages of 16-25+, why do they want you now? It’s not that you have changed, it’s not that they have changed, instead their situation has changed. Chad’s rugrat keeping them up at night, the constant filing and refilling for public assistance, it’s the empty bank ac…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 12:00 AM
5

But in this case, not even through tax dollars but by marrying Chad’s ex and playing father to Chad’s kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 04:20 PM
94

Yeah, such guys are situational alphas, ex post alphas. Their wallets are what’s alpha. Their predictability is alpha. The same stability and predictability which made them boring before now makes them ‘alpha’. What bastardized language, what an appalling attempt at rewriting the language. Such guys are sought after the fact, in the same way Chad’s flaws are flaws only after the baby has come.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 04:09 PM
25

Ha, a hero, so much so that the women in question ignored them until Chad had knocked them up. Also, does she even read her own writing, she admits that it is a sacrifice but she gives no reason as to why a guy should incur it, no reason other than an opaque pronouncement. If such a bloodline did continue for 100 generations, it would be Chad’s bloodline.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 04:03 PM
1

Indeed, there’s that certain type of woman who reviles any non-Chad guy behaving like Chad to even a modest degree, i.e. they hate it enough to go to HR about it. Many women are ignorant of how SMV inverts over time and they are stunned that some guy who they felt was “gay”, a “loser”, “boring” etc can by late his 20s have a higher SMV than them simply by staying in decent shape, remaining childless and growing within his career. That such men can casually brush them aside must be damaging, espe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 12:30 PM
3

This is another reason why guys should 1. Check the social media accounts of any women with whom they want to get serious. People are often radically honest on social media. 2. All guys should carefully review the peer group of any women with whom they want to get serious. If her peer group is nothing but embittered cunts, your relationship will not last, her ‘friends’ will rip you apart, everything you do will be cast in the most negative light possible. Everything you do will be ‘abusive’ by d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 12:17 PM
3

Notice how they accuse him of being a virgin (re: incel), but remember, it’s we guys who are sex crazed. When guys exercise our prerogatives and screen out single mothers, we really throw things off and become renegades to our new societal roles. Chicks are to start fucking with Chad, Tyrone and Co, in high school, through college and into their late 20s. After a few kids, the woman is owed a good guy, with a diversified stock portfolio and a good career, said guy is to be one of the dudes whom …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 12:04 PM
25

The FDS response to the biological clock argument is to point out that women can successfully give birth at say 40. They never point out that these women are usually upper class and can afford hormone, fertility and other such treatments, they also fail to point out that even with this, the risks are huge to the child.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 07:27 PM
22

Just to follow-up, it’s sooooooo important that inexperienced and hyper-literal bro’s do not take take woman literally when they complain about men. Many guys might think “So, if I am nice, never ghost, never send dick pics etc, she will respect me.” The aforementioned is incorrect because the complaints are aimed at Chad, non-Chad’s don’t count, a non-Chad sending a dick pic risks getting the cops called on him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 06:20 PM
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Convincing women that they can behave like Chad has been a boon for Chad/ Tyrone etc. Judging by the amount of embittered chicks my age ( I’m 32), it’s clear that most women cannot hang with Chad, and rightly so, biologically speaking, sex is more costly for women. Also, there are tons of dudes who don’t exhibit such behaviors, I can honestly say for example that I’ve never sent a dick pic or ghosted a chick. Then again, I’m not Chad (I’m not ugly either) but I’m no Chad, so she isn’t talking ab…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 05:47 PM
81

“Men” = a guy who is at minimum in the 80th percentile. The creatures beneath them are subhuman, they need to need to continue to work 90 hour weeks, somebody’s tax dollars have got to prop up this society”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 04:36 PM
9

“I’ve learned that life is not one long meme of female exploitation, Chad won’t see me, he’s fucking younger versions of me. Do I have any recourse?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 04:21 PM
5

On the contrary, they are taken when applied to you, perhaps even gay only when you come around and they cannot get it up for you because you aren’t attractive enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 02:12 PM
3

Homie, this is profound and lies at the root of much female unhappiness. I don’t act like my Chaddy bro’s who are MDs/ in Finance/ Hotshot lawyers because I simply cannot get away with. Chicks gotta stop imitating their attractive friends.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:17 PM
1

Probably an unattractive woman with attractive friends, she sees these bitchy friends getting chased and thus concludes bitchiness = guys chasing you. These chicks get chased in spite of their attitudes not because of them. Correlation is not causation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 05:00 PM
9

In the end, it will be the boyfriend’s fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:54 AM
41

Exactly, we are constantly told that relationships are on women’s terms. If she wants you as an emotional tampon and a ready supply of technical expertise or labor, you are an incel, freak, spree killer if you object. If she wants to date you and you don’t want the same, you are an abuser. It’s all on her terms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 03:57 PM
1

Oh to put the cart before the horse, to want something serious post the arrival of children. It’s like wanting to become a CFO with fiduciary responsibilities AFTER your conviction for embezzlement and mail fraud.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 03:50 PM
10

This is like FDS, subconsciously, it’s intention is to ruin the lives of other women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 10:56 AM
2

In one of his books (the vision of the anointed) Thomas Sowell broke down a study from a feminist group that considered it abusive when a man angrily left the room after arguing with his wife / girlfriend. So, this isn’t super far fetched.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 10:54 AM
3

Yes indeed, maybe that girl who slid into his DMs was shooting her shot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 08:28 PM
11

His response was sound for sure. Many people try and convince guys that shit tests are acceptable, they aren’t, they are simply disrespect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 05:25 PM
11

Agreed, she’s not fucking any random dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 01:04 AM
61

It’s so not embarrassing, we guys deal with such matters in public. Being rejected privately ( and apparently by a bro who did so nicely and is thus unlikely to publicize it) is dating with training wheels. Guys get accustomed to public rejection and humiliation starting when we are 11-12.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 09:53 PM
18

It’s so not embarrassing, we guys deal with such matters in public. Being rejected privately ( and apparently by a bro who did so nicely and is thus unlikely to publicize it) is dating with training wheels. Guys get accustomed to public rejection and humiliation starting when we are 11-12.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 09:52 PM
27

From the perspective of a guy, where we are forced to do the approaching, it’s hard to turn down a prospect just because they (she) has an unnatural fetish for you. It’s wears on you though, especially when you know you cannot live up to their expectations of the stereotype.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 10:53 PM
59

Such women tend to have a very specific idea of blackness, as in expecting me to pick them up and throw them across the room, expecting me to behave like Meek Mill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 08:41 PM
24

She’s doing it because it works. Why do dope boys hang on the corner? Because there’s a market for their product.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 04:46 PM
350

Notice that she posted this on social media, people act like their public profiles (complete with photographs which identify them) are secret. It’s so important to check their social media before they can scrub it, it never fails to disappoint. I was recently talking to this Latina who seemed cool, during our conversations I sensed that she had a fetish for black guys ( I’m black and I try to avoid such women), so I checked her Instagram, on the very same Instagram where she advertises her busin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 04:22 PM
129

Wanting a traditional family but producing the child first is fucking preposterous, in the technical sense of placing before what should come after. It’s dating, engagement, marriage then child. It’s not, fuck, fuck, fuck, then child, then dating then marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 04:09 PM
11

She’s not interested in finding anybody, she’s likely got a boyfriend. Her profile screams attention, the idea that she’s never on the phone is bullshit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 04:01 PM
21

Indeed, all such media basically exhibit slightly tweaked versions of the same dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 03:54 PM
41

Such bro’s don’t even qualify enough to be rejected, they aren’t even considered human. When women use the phrase “guys” they are talking about the top quintile only. It’s those guys whom they want to be funny, empathetic, caring, charming etc. The other quintiles are made up of lower order apes, who belong in animal skins as they chase mammoths across the tundra.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 01:53 PM
105

This shows the inherent flexibility and realism of men. We could’ve grown up loving Eva Mendez or Natalie Portman, but it would never occur to us to hold women in our lives to such standards. It’s women, who literally seem to be holding out for one of the gossip girl bro’s, it’s women who literally expect real men to look / behave like characters from a fictional story which was crafted by a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 01:46 PM
3

“My becoming pregnant was unexpected! Yes, I engaged in masses of unprotected sex, and yes, sex is about procreation, but I’m flabbergasted!” Meanwhile, a bro who has never even been in a fight gets reported to HR if he uses an even semi-stern voice with a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 01:42 AM
9

Working with children is rarely remunerative unless a person owns a daycare 2. She lists astrology as an interest, that’s a HUGE red flag. 3. Saying “now I want stability” is euphonious and simply means she’s only previously been with fuck boys. Her kids are Chadlets and I’ll bet she’s likely crushed many a good dude, she only wants a good dude now that’s she’s encumbered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 04:12 PM
240

Why do I get the feeling she’s still fucking the father? Why I do suspect her obviously lethargic lifestyle means she’s chubby?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 12:22 AM
5

As would I, my thing for Hispanic chicks is something I can’t shake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 01:10 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 12:40 PM
84

“Decent” meaning a physically fit, never married, childless, high earning guy who will worship her. “Decent” doesn’t mean what you think it does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 12:28 PM
116

Your quip about working five hours a week is funny, because when women actually find a guy who does well, they bitch about the time he spends working. They’ve no concept of the time investment needed to excel financially.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 12:26 PM
4

The sick thing is that Chad can be Unemployed and she wouldn’t care.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 09:36 PM
2

I think saying “easily” is a vast overstatement, most people don’t earn that much. If it were easy, everyone would do it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 09:35 PM
8

Been posted before.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 04:59 PM
26

Her behavior is so contemptible, this is how non-Chad guys get treated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 03:43 PM
64

You will be surprised at how open women are with such behavior on social media pages which aren’t even private (private pages provide less validation and less traffic to their OF). Check that social media homies, before they have a chance to scrub it. That single childless chick who has been “working on herself” for a year and thus “hasn’t been with any men recently” might very well have a child and multiple fuck buddies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 03:42 PM
20

Exactly, it’s all the man’s fault, there would be no need to worry about such a woman’s loyalty, morals or ability to pair bond. There would be no need to worry about her bringing STDs into the house or having a meth addiction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 11:43 AM
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Ha, so she is not into anything sexual, but she’s pregnant? So we are talking about a virgin birth or we are talking about her waiver of the no sex rule for Chad. Also, if you were waiting for the right one, you’d chill with the pregnancies. “I’m waiting to buy the right house, thus I’m screwing my credit by defaulting on all my responsibilities, spending all my savings and quitting my job.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 12:29 PM
20

A lot of times, this is a consequence of women having friends who are more attractive than them. They think they are entitled to a Chaddy husband / boyfriend because Sheila has one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 12:23 PM
1

6’3’, I can discern it as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 07:08 PM
38

The answer is no of course, but all douche bags are douche bags, she’s a chick who runs with bad dudes and who is attracted to bad dudes. “Guys” here refers to Chad and his various ethnic derivatives, the other beings who are around her, who’ve testicles and hairy chests don’t qualify, they are scarcely even great apes. Do women get how dumb it is when they ask if all men/ guys are bad? Do they expect the answer to be yes?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 05:05 PM
36

This is so true, one night with a Chad who was 1. On the rebound 2. Away from from home / traveling 3. Drunk/ High 4. Horny can ruin a lady’s life, she’ll spend years thinking she can actually date him or a guy like him. Women don’t understand how male sexuality works, a one time fucking does not equal commitment, nor does it mean that the woman has an SMV equal to Chad. A woman’s SMV = that of the most attractive guy who will commit, not the most attractive guy who will fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 02:32 PM
8

Indeed, an RN is a pretty technically demanding job.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 02:24 PM
98

Women can be masterful at hiding the fact that they have kids, they’ll scrub social media, try and meet only at your place and do other such things. The illusion of a childless woman can last months.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 03:28 PM
25

This notion was once widely understood, a woman such as this, unless she was a widow, would take any non-abusive and employed guy. It was known that a man caring for somebody else’s kids was taking a burden off of society and onto himself. My grandfather took in my mothers older siblings in the 50’s when he married my grandmother, he was seen as a hero. I couldn’t imagine a modern version of my grandma on tinder, spitting out demands. Single motherhood is so rife, a ton of women really have no u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 12:15 PM
7

I wonder if by “Teacher” she means an assistant at a daycare, a job which would consist of her serving crackers and occasionally reading Dr. Seuss to the children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 12:05 PM
115

All such negative qualities are only such in retrospect, after a baby comes. Such qualities which make bro a bad father made him an attractive lover but are problematic now. What was deviant, rebellious and vivacious is “manipulative, controlling etc” now that it makes bro uncontrollable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 06:03 PM
1

Feel free 😆, it’s nice to be appreciated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 05:54 PM
10

Being charitable, let’s say he is a trucker and he isn’t yet making decent money, maybe she means that. It still doesn’t change the underlying issue, no self respecting guy would be comfortable with bro staying with her. Though her story is still inconsistent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 10:54 AM
13

Word, if you are in a relationship with her and if she got pregnant, it’s likely to be Chad’s baby. Single motherhood is so rife, that many single mothers don’t even understand it’s downsides. Let time and loneliness be their teacher.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 10:47 AM
7

What a radically obtuse chick, she will either get a clue or stay alone. The only way she and her baby daddy aren’t fucking would be if HE is not interested. There is a reason that more or less all the worlds great religions say a man should never be alone with a woman he isn’t related to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 10:38 AM
34

In other words, nobody should waste their time with such an obviously daffy and disordered woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 03:29 PM
1

It’s also just disrespectful, they’d never behave that way to Chad. They know that guys aren’t on such places for platonic friendships, thus they waste the time of such guys by even engaging them. Shit like this pisses me off, it’s the reason I had to back off the dating game. Coming across such women really makes me angry, I don’t like walking around with such anger in me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 12:29 PM
1

Indeed, bumble is a dating site, tinder is a hookup site, it’s obtuse to act otherwise. More and more women use them as a way to fill out their roster of emotional tampons / physical laborers. Many a woman can get their car fixed / work around the house done by such guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 12:19 PM
36

Yes, it’s hard to feel butterflies for normal bro’s when you spend your time daydreaming about your Chaddy neighbor who doesn’t even know your name. It would be hard for me to accept the house I’m to live in if I spent all my time obsessed with million dollar homes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 12:08 PM
6

What a remarkable request, especially if (like a lot of guys) it takes a long time for you to grow out your beard. To request that of somebody you don’t know is just wild. She’s likely the chick who turns her boyfriend/ husband into a male version of herself complete with matching outfits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 12:04 PM
1

She’d totally waive this requirement for Chad, all such requirements are subject to waiver for Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 11:59 AM
1

“I’m new to this church thing, I come to church multiple times a week. Why do the members of the church feel I’m interested in becoming a member or converting? If I’ve been taking classes in the history department of my university for years, why is it assumed I’m interested in history?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 11:58 AM
20

There are in society, many men available, if she’s confused as to who is a man v. who is a boy that’s on her. What she means is “I like guys who’ve so many options that they aren’t monogamous, I want a Chad I can control. A “man” isn’t just a sexually mature human male, it’s a guy who walks, talks and acts like Chad but who will submit to me.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 07:24 PM
10

How many marriageable bro’s has she turned down in her life, dozens maybe?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 07:19 PM
17

Just as fat positivity only applies to women (it’s a racket whose purpose is to convince fit bro’s that fat chicks are dope) “open relationships” are just rackets to give women access to Chad. It’s a fucking racket for all guys outside the top 10 percent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 02:23 PM
7

This is basically a satirical profile which might as well have been written by a member of the Southern Baptist convention. All my left wing friends swear that people such as her don’t actually exist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 02:19 PM
15

Indeed, the beta will have the privilege of raising Chad’s baby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 02:17 PM
5

Whereas the feminist movement is dominated by upper class white chicks, who have a very narrow view of what men are allowed to do, their views of acceptable male behavior aren’t universally held by women. I’m black, I know from experience that certain black women have zero issues with a man loudly verbalizing sexual interest. It’s similar with Latina women (under certain circumstances).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 10:33 PM
6

If we are talking about the same video, it’s was taken in NYC, in places like Harlem and Spanish Harlem. Thus the video was taken in Black / Dominican areas, both black and Hispanic subcultures have different views of catcalling as compared to waspy white culture. Indeed, after that video came out many black / Latina feminists pointed the aforementioned out. As for your overall point, of all the handicaps that come with being a non-Chad, the natural bias suffered is the largest one. Chad is assu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 10:17 PM
11

It’s because guys are allegedly the visual creatures, not women. The complaints of non-Chaddy bros, that women constantly construe their every move in the most sinister way possible, must not be allowed to gain traction in the wider society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 09:38 PM
1

The belief that Asian women are somehow superhuman has suckered many a gullible (usually white) guy. Women are women, I think there is an exception with poor countries or Asian women who have a black/ white fetish, but in general female nature is female nature. The prospect of mass orgies is why tons of college educated western bro’s take low paying jobs teaching English in Japan.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 05:04 PM
2

So she wants a finance bro, even having no photograph of her, I suspect she’s not the type of chick that finance guys go for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 04:56 PM
4

It’s possible to be a low earner at any job, but I take your point. ( I’m from a family of tradesmen, contractors and subcontractors, so I speak from experience).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 04:52 PM
34

Yeah, the kid is owed a relationship with his father i.e. the person who supplied half his genes. She is of course only concerned about her relationship and her ability to draw resources.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 04:46 PM
2

Is isn’t really only done outside the US? Also, isn’t it alleged to be really painful?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 03:30 PM
17

I absolutely disagree with this, if you are talking about poorer asian countries, then perhaps, but not Japan and not the wealthy areas of China or India. Female nature is universal, you can’t extrapolate from the the minority of Asian women who are obsessed with western guys. Throw in Urban Korean women, outside of the portion who are into western the dudes, the rest might as well be Manhattans as it concerns their attitudes, they are after Korean Chad’s with jobs at Samsung, Hyundai etc, I was…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 04:59 PM
43

Nah she wants Meek Mill ( who I love as a rapper) a dude with felony on top of felony on top of felony. A bro who is anger incarnate, she wants him or his derivative. She wants to be picked up and thrown across the room, that’s how real homies fuck ( apparently).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 12:52 PM
46

For real, fuck chicks like her, she’s been focused on a tiny sliver of black guys, from them she’s extrapolated to all black dudes. Women like her cause guys like me a ton of annoyance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 12:46 PM
69

(Fellow Negro here) I don’t like her tone as it concerns her reference to black dudes. She seems to be referring to a very specific sort of black guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 12:40 PM
2

Indeed, what portion of the female accounts are just gateways to Onlyfans or accounts for escorts?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 03:00 PM
5

Whether it be from the popular media or even the churches, I hate the notion of “stepping up” and all that it implies. So, the woman and Chad’s kid are on a pedestal and a single, childless guy must raise his game to reach her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 12:36 PM
5

Ambitious = I want a great many things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 12:33 PM
50

We as men are constantly told to be empathetic, to put ourselves in women’s shoes. Women aren’t called to do the same, they often think our lives are the same. Women get constantly propositioned, so they assume the same of us. I’ve told the story on here about a chick who after seeing me chat with my female neighbors for like ten seconds, assumed that I was fucking them and every other chick in my building. It’s the Apex Fallacy, you are either Chad or nobody.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 06:56 PM
21

Thus we see the epistemological mischief with the word “men” though used interchangeably with its classical meaning actually means “the nigh infinitesimal portion of guys who’ve an SMV far above me. The Chaddy husbands/boyfriends of my friends, sisters and co-workers. The Tyroney guy who lives across the hall, who after a year still doesn’t know my name. These are the “men” I speak of!”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 06:42 PM
13

You can also ogle/ approach fit bro’s and disrupt their workouts by trying to flirt and make conversation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 03:17 PM
11

A way to test her statement, have an equivalently fat bro approach her, we could then see if she herself held “archaic” beliefs about being fat. Fat chicks, of all races, love them some fit bro’s. I’ve tons of stories about hyper-bold fat chicks 1. Shitting on fat guys and 2. Approaching fit bro’s as if they were on an equal plane.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 03:13 PM
7

Indeed, being fat was also evidence that you didn’t do undignified physical labor for your living.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 03:09 PM
14

It’s interesting that 6’ has become a baseline.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 03:40 AM
14

Hopefully bro finds out so he can leave her. They are finished, she’s never loved him. You cannot buy a woman’s love with money or attention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 06:18 PM
273

This is a stream of consciousness which our bro Faulkner couldn’t even match. My translation: Chad knocked me up and left. A short guy showed up and helped me out. He proposed in front of others, I accepted but now that my personal crisis is over, I realize he is subhuman. Help please.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 05:23 PM
15

She might be trying to leave him, or he could be Chaddy and she could simply want to use another guy to bring him in line. There are so many possibilities, none of which are worth finding out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 12:58 PM
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She literally admits in her own statement what her problem is. She absolutely cannot relate to 85% of men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 03:00 AM
2

It’s always worth checking her social media, people post their true feelings (under their own name no less) on SM. If you are getting even semi-serious with her, check her social media before she scrubs it. You’ll find all types of stuff, like how her male “roommate” is the father of her children or you might even learn that she has kids to begin with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/21 05:32 PM
30

I literally don’t know what matching energy even means. How could one come correct under such circumstances?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/21 10:18 PM
50

Fat acceptance is for women only. There are tons of female plus sized models, there are no equivalent male models.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/21 03:38 PM
76

“Now that all the other guys have had fun with me, you get to spoon with me.” 😁
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/21 03:46 AM
190

She’s 31, homie looks to be over 40. It’s remarkable that she feels she can still get away with an attitude, being pleasant as a woman can only help. It’s crazy that more women haven’t unlocked the secret of simply being nice, we guys will trade off some looks for a lady who is nice to be around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/21 01:31 AM
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It’s happens a ton in everyday life, a lot of women are brilliant at learning the backstory of a guy, they fall in love with the bro on paper. Society is fucked when so many women have such misshapen judgement. It’s not the guy who clearly telegraphs his antisocial attitude who they are afraid of, no, it’s the normal and law abiding guy who doesn’t kiss their ass who is the dangerous one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 06:52 PM
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Allegations against him are longstanding, if he committed these acts he is morally culpable, but the women had forewarning. I’ve become unfortunately cynical because I know of so many cases where women have gotten with known abusers, who’ve literally weaseled into such relationships, said women are flabbergasted when said abuser is abusive. Meanwhile, I’ve never hit a woman, I’ve not been in a fight in over a decade but I’ve been called “stern, severe, angry, unstable and just too much!” Women e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 06:39 PM
17

Unfortunately, homie is not physically equipped to be loud, sarcastic and chatty. She can be those things, sans a man or she can change, they are mutually exclusive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 12:53 PM
14

Brutal 😆
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 07:44 PM
2

She could 1. Pay the guys to be with her, I know of some high earning women who do this. 2. She could agree to be just one of many women in Chad’s harem. If she were mature, she’d stop lusting after the Chaddy boyfriend’s/ husbands of her attractive friends, she’d take what she could get now, before time takes its toll on her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/21 10:17 PM
6

A clear thinker is able to clearly express themselves. She’s talking of Chad, she spent years trying to hogtie him, she failed and then angrily swore off all “men”. Now, she’s drifting back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/21 12:21 PM
49

If you limit your selection of men to a tiny subsection, exclude all others/ only pursue guys with SMVs way higher than yours, then yes indeed they’ll always cheat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/21 11:59 AM
9

Life is not a soap opera or some trashy erotic novel where you get pursued by identical twin Chad’s, words matter, actions have consequences.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 02:19 PM
98

It eliminates most men of all races.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 01:07 PM
22

Not in this case, but it does in other cases.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 12:55 PM
106

Women need to stop posting such photographs, you can’t tell who she is. 2. Why the need to shit on Asians? If you are not attracted to Asian guys, fair enough, but there is no need to be preemptive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 12:47 PM
52

Meanwhile, the same woman will report the awkward guy to HR who made a clumsy remark about her dress.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 01:43 AM
23

Of all the benefits that Chad/ Tyrone get, the most important one is the tendency of women to assume that they always mean well. Not having such a benefit is the biggest handicap non-Chad’s must face. I’m not a Tyrone, but I’m far from ugly, it’s wild that I’ve had purely innocuous interactions at work be recast as my nearly flashing a woman. It’s wild because long before me too, I’ve had a no flirting / dating policy at work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 01:11 AM
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Thus my cynicism, I know that there are women who are blindsided by bad guys, but often they have forewarning. I’ve known of cases where women got with guys who were known abusers, said women were shocked when they were abused. The past behavior was recast in a positive light. The same women who will happily hookup with wife beaters will claim actual fear when the Nice Guy they strung along gets tired of their shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 12:57 AM
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So from this, we conclude that women will happily sleep with and have children with trash. The trashy traits of Tyrone only become problematic after the fact whilst the traits of the beta become positive only after Tyrone’s kid shows up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 12:36 AM
1

Yes, there are also things like co-pays and such which vary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 10:28 PM
1

Better capitalized means access to better equipment and training. So that a worker in France/ Germany /US doing the same job as a worker in the UK is likely to have better equipment and more training.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 10:17 PM
3

Nope, US workers produce more output per hour than UK workers, as do German workers as do French workers. So even if Americans worked less hours, they’d be more productive than UK workers. Also, the point about exchange rates is moot because the measurement is taken in PPP dollars, which is an economic abstraction which allows countries with disparate currencies to be compared to each other. Im not saying the US is superior or anything, our high productivity has less to do with American grit and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 08:50 PM
5

That’s not it, US workers produce more output per hour and work longer hours. https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/labor-productivity-per-hour-pennworldtable
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 08:00 PM
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The bot did find something, https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelsWithoutHate/comments/huqkqf/sex_worker_has_a_difficult_time_finding_love/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 07:53 PM
6

He did.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 07:46 PM
13

I think this has been posted before.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 07:36 PM
3

It would be rarer in the UK, the per capita income in the UK is noticeably lower than it is in the US. So I’m not sure if it would be better or worse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 07:19 PM
9

Obviously people are entitled to their opinion, I see no point in bothering people about such things. I’m black, I know some women don’t like black guys, it’s not not a big deal. I do think some women are unfamiliar with the height distribution as they are with the salary distribution. If you hang around athletic teams on campus, you might conclude such bro’s are plentiful, if you live in Palo Alto, you might be led to believe that a 300k salary is modest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 06:36 PM
4

Even six months of clean eating and exercising would do wonders for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/21 03:19 PM
1

Being black myself, it’s cool to be fine with interracial dating, I think it’s different to be “into interracial dating.”. Personal experience has taught me that women such her are widowed by Tyrone, they disdained responsible black guys and went after Tyrone. Sadly, the bucking bull threw her off, after impregnating her. Now, after a screed on social media against all black men, (black men being restricted in definition to Tyrone), she wants a non-black guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 02:01 PM
2

No fair reading of my comments could lead to such a conclusion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 05:02 PM
41

“Elevating and building together” so, if a guy can provide a nice house, vacations and cars she will bring the ready made family. Thus their contributions will be equal 😁.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 03:03 PM
2

Save the race card talk, use it on someone who is white and not black. This isn’t a matter of democracy, it’s a matter of economics. Politicizing something like it only creates confusion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 02:04 PM
2

Also, the actual minimum wage isn’t 7.25 nor will it be 15.00, it’s 0, because try as it might, the government cannot make any individual worker be worth any particular wage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 01:08 PM
1

Actually not shocking at all, your point is silly in a country of 330 million people, you are talking about a tiny slice of people, many of whom are young/ inexperienced or who work in industries exempted from the minimum wage. There is also no such thing as wage slavery. Agreeing to be paid what somebody will offer is not slavery.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 01:05 PM
4

Europe isn’t a country, you got shared currency but disparate fiscal outlooks with separate sovereign bonds. Are you one of these Europeans who somehow knows that the US is awful and that everyone here is poor? As I stated prior, most people here earn far more than the minimum wage in any case.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 12:39 PM
9

Most workers earn far more than the minimum wage anyway, a large portion who do earn it are young and experienced people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 12:34 PM
3

The minimum wage is increased all the time, just on a state by state level, it’s less often increased federally. Any state (or city) are free to raise it above the minimum and a great many have. The United States is to large and diverse a place for apples to apples comparisons to most other countries.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 12:29 PM
54

When will women learn, only the most attractive women are worth the struggle of wading through a phalanx of cunty friends. Edit- No women are worth it in reality, but you guys understand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 02:14 AM
35

“So ladies watch out.” As if to imply she had no part in the pregnancy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/21 06:51 PM
7

Note, this is a not a case where the wool was pulled over her eyes. Even in the portion of the article posted, she admits to knowing of his awful character . So often with women, they’ll see antisocial characteristics in a guy, but if the guy is a Chad, these negative characteristics will be recast. He beats his current girlfriend? Well, he’s simply emotional and passionate, he hits her out of love. She knows that he disappears on his current girlfriend for weeks at a time? Well, she’s overbeari…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/21 12:15 AM
22

I wasn’t aware, can they match the whoredom of strippers? As it regards meth, I really doubt anybody can match the tastes of strippers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 11:44 PM
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If she wants to be taken seriously, she needs to get alternative employment. Trying to play the old “I’m a stripper with a heart of gold” game ain’t gonna work. When people think “dancer” they think STDs and meth, there’s no way around that unless you are a ballerina.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 06:43 PM
5

Sometimes they are about moving to cheap places, most of the time they are about going way past delayed gratification and living on almost nothing. They utterly reject the notion that it’s possible to find a job you love so that one could possibly never want to retire. For example, the famed economist Walter Williams just died in his late 80s, he always said he’d teach until he died, he kept his word, he was still an active teacher because he loved it so much. The FIRE types would reject the not…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 04:42 PM
5

Also, as a consequence of my employment, I interact often with British people. I know you guys don’t really have property taxes,still, I’d guess that the state has the right to seize your property in the event you refused to pay them their cut of your income.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 04:25 PM
3

I understand, I was making a larger point. On YouTube especially, there is a FIRE movement (financial independence and retire early). It’s filled with economically illiterate people who don’t understand that our lives are independent. We should all work towards acquiring assets and such, but it doesn’t work in the way they say. Also, the belief that working for somebody else is inherently exploitative is actually literally a Marxist argument, it’s hilarious to see arch-capitalists mistakenly mak…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 04:21 PM
12

Anybody who lives on the grid, and relies on city water, electricity and municipal services is dependent, no matter how rich they are. You are billed for those services in arrears meaning you always owe the state money perpetually. Even if you pay off your mortgage, you owe taxes on the house, you owe taxes on the land as well in addition to various other fees. Indeed, all assets owned are priced based on economic interactions outside anybodies control ( ie. Adam Smiths invisible hand / Marxian …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 02:47 PM
5

Shivery is not dead? Obviously our homie meant “chivalry”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 02:30 PM
67

It’s wild that she thinks she is the prize. You’ve always gotta be cognizant of your current SMV, not your SMV before you had kids, but SMV today. She’s living in the past for certain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 07:24 PM
3

It’s more likely than what you may think, see: Life at the Bottom by Theodore Dalrymple. He is a Doctor who practiced in a British slum area, the behaviors he described among the white underclass are remarkably similar to the behavior of the Black American underclass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 04:30 PM
6

Subcultures where single motherhood is rife, in the United States you are talking about the black community unfortunately (I’m black). But more and more it applies to Hispanic and White communities as well, especially among the working class and poor. If you live in place where 80 percent of the women are single mothers and as such most of your prospects have got kids, it makes a difference. Nobody wants to run the risk of some roughnecked baby daddy showing up to whip your ass. I know of severa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 04:18 PM
10

I’m a huge sports fan, but her post is the equivalent of woke and uneducated guys like Lebron and Kyrie calling themselves “more than an athlete” etc. I love both dudes as players, they seem like good bro’s but one cannot profess that they are an intellectual.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 03:03 PM
4

“No exes hanging around” could also mean no violent ex-con hanging around to jump you. It also means that she’s not still fucking him. If you are not familiar with such subcultures, it can be hard to fathom, but for guys who date single mothers, it makes a difference for sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 02:59 PM
11

Looks like she looking for a capital infusion. I wonder who the father is? Perhaps Chad or Sven or Parker from SigmaAlphaBetaGamma?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 01:16 AM
3

Wine Consultant means she works at a liquor store. Also, as a member of the Black American delegation, I will testify that homie isn’t thick. If she is, the word has no meaning. Mellisa Ford is thick, Beyoncé is thick, only in a post modern world is she thick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/21 05:08 PM
27

They want to be able to shoot down undesirable men and concurrently, they want to be desired by Chad. Chad is always free to approach, normies aren’t, though normies not approaching is an insult because they deny her the pleasure of being to reject them and complain about such men on social media. As regards women approaching men, many women consider a brief look at you and an ambivalent smile (which could be directed at anyone) to be putting themselves out there in a way equal to a man approach…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/21 04:30 PM
3

Online Dating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/21 02:24 AM
6

Exactly, nobody else has got any investment in the child other than the father, its wild that she expects some other bro to provide a husband experience.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/21 01:16 AM
26

Sooooooooo many of them, despite their leftism, are trolling for guys with good careers or who are business owners. I live in a place near a University with a massive school of education, there are also many grade schools in the area. OLD around here is teeming with them, hyperwoke, state subsidized activists. Some are unfortunately very attractive, so I find myself out / in with them. It’s dope to be absolutely ruthless with them as it regards shitting on their leftism, many such women are comp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/21 10:15 PM
25

Not too long ago, there was a post on here from an alleged born-again Christian woman who was a single mother. Conveniently for her, she “wasn’t attracted to divorced men or men with kids.” Her post was saying, Mr. Childless Beta Bucks, come and take care of my ready made family.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/21 05:05 PM
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The point about her being a teacher is important. Chicks like her dominate the public education system, especially in poor neighborhoods. It’s why the kids in those neighborhoods (who desperately need a good education) suffer so much. Manifestly unqualified people like her collect in these schools, get tenure and spout ideological bullshit everyday. When you are actually unqualified, you naturally limit the amount of teaching you do. Given how misshapen her personal life and philosophy are, you …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/21 04:53 PM
1

That’s nice to know 😁, though sometimes I’ll find myself dealing with a woman and thinking “back in the day, she would’ve wanted nothing to do with me.”. Then I get mad and ghost, I admit it’s problem but it’s not worth solving, what I’ve experienced in the past helps me see things clear, I’m immune to manipulation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/21 03:57 PM
5

It’s sad how profound this is, and my unwillingness to “man up” comes in for criticism from certain members of my family and certain parts of the black church. I’ve had women who were awful to me going back to high school, ask around about me. “Can you bring him around?” “He doesn’t appear to have a social media, can I get his number?” “He used to be so nice, I don’t know why he’s such a shithead now.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/21 01:40 AM
8

I’m such a black man, though my hard stares sometimes scare my niece, I am legitimately law abiding (no warrants), I’m tall and fit as well. I’ve got a good career, something tells me she is the type I’ve always struggled with. The type who is suspicious of English properly spoken. Girls like her passed me over for roughnecks, called me “lame” a “pussy” (because I didn’t constantly get into fights). I admit that I like the ass and that anal is the bees knees, however, I think access would take m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/21 01:22 AM
5

Another thing I suspect, her talk about being adventurous and open minded = she wants an open relationship where she can fuck her baby daddy / girlfriend. I suppose the guy she’s looking for on tinder would have the pleasure of the boyfriend/ husband responsibilities.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 02:59 PM
19

She legit has another bros genes in her, and yet she wants me to come over and spoon her? Do I understand her correctly?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 02:37 PM
47

It’s dope that being unwilling to care for another man’s seed makes one a pussy. The responsibility on our part is presumed, she talks as if her right to a man is manifest, like the laws of physics.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 12:36 AM
11

Nothing, because the slight improvement doesn’t mean she still isn’t Chad-Thirsty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 08:56 PM
1

That’s a good summary. The idea of gratitude is lost, they’ve no understanding of what a single childless guy takes on when he enters such an arrangement. Basically, look at the fucking census data, women and kids without a man = poverty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 06:45 PM
19

This woman is a *slight improvement over most women, because she at least acknowledges that non-Chad guys are actually human beings. So many women use men/Chad interchangeably, so a woman with an inbox full of messages from normal guys can say “Where are all the good men!?” She ignores the good guys at her peril.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 06:34 PM
18

Exactly, she can’t make relationships work with guys who don’t see her as relationship material. The guys she doesn’t like are the best she can do as regards relationships, she better pick one now because over time, they’ll begin to fall away as well. She should take a five before a three is the best she can do. Most of all, she should let Chad go, give up her dreams that he’ll take her as a wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 06:25 PM
1

So many single mom’s claim to want good men, if they did, they’d take stock your statement and do everything they could to convince us guys that we weren’t just place holders for their baby daddy’s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 01:27 PM
5

I’ve seen it all in the regard, I have come across women years later who shitted on me in high school. The high school I went to was working class, so inevitably all these women had babies with random dudes by their early 20s. Normally, when I see these women, I make no special acknowledgment, after all, I’m an educated white-collar guy whose job has me dealing with business interests in other countries, I’ve nothing in common with such women. Sometimes they’ll recognize me first and once they s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 12:57 PM
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The way I see it is thus : They once felt you had nothing to offer them, fair enough as everyone is entitled to their opinion. However, now they’ve nothing to offer you, fair enough as everyone is entitled to their opinion. Bad choices on their part aren’t an emergency on our part. If Chad, Tyrone and Co. were superior, if their every quality was cast in a good light (they weren’t irresponsible or unstable they were instead spontaneous and expressive) whilst our every quality was cast in a negat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/21 07:35 PM
66

I truly enjoy the common (but oftentimes unstated) belief, that starting in HS, the Chad’s, Tyrones and such get to start fucking their way way through all the chicks they want. Said chicks get to have their fun, when the bill(s) (re: kids) come due, the rest of us guys are to pay up, to man up in lieu of having a real family. Nobody has to be responsible or plan, save for us.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/21 06:30 PM
9

Her post is symptomatic of our modern disease. I doubt she’s given any real thought to what a guy would likely have to endure to be with her, just to name a few : 1. Dealing with her and the prospect that she’s really just holding out for the father(s) to return 2. Dealing with issues of being a father figure to her girls, with all that entails 3. The financial strain of such a family, which is to be incurred suddenly and not gradually as it would be in a normal family. 4. The possible conflict …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/21 03:10 PM
3

That’s what I suspected, she works for a sales company which sells freight space, but she’s not a salesperson, she’s just a customer service person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 03:28 AM
14

Yeah, if a guy making 90-100k took her and the kid(s) into his house (which is certain to be nicer than anything she could afford) and paid the bills, including her bills, she’d feel that she was pulling her weight by cooking and fucking him once a week. I’ll bet her job title means she’s a customer representative. 90-100k isn’t a million bucks, but I’d bet Ms. Has My Shit together, couldn’t conceive of what it takes to earn such money, she’d feel her partnership with such a guy would be an equa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 09:22 PM
44

By “has shit together” she means not currently homeless and that her kids don’t starve.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 09:10 PM
9

I wonder if her job is as a sales person selling freight space? Tons of fly by night companies have popped up doing that over the past decade, it can pay well. As such jobs are sales based and require long hours, I doubt she’s doing that. Considering the picture is only partial, I still feel I’d fuck no problem, though she wouldn’t be a long term prospect. She’s deluded if she feels having a job = having your shit together. For all we know, she could be getting all/ some of the following: Child …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 09:07 PM
1

A tidal wave of matches doesn’t equal a tidal wave of high quality matches. Women have a surplus of matches but they don’t have a surplus of good matches, they claim to want HVM, but HVM don’t have to take this shit. This woman should be an instant block, no questions asked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 04:16 PM
26

Oh how people misunderstand freedom, freedom is absence, the absence of coercion. It doesn’t imply acceptance. Glamour, Vogue and Buzzfeed may have said how dope sex work is, that doesn’t make it so. Women cannot decide among themselves what guys like. Just as we guys cannot decide among ourselves what women like.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 03:46 PM
3

One of my colleagues at my first job was a radical Latina activist who allegedly hated white people. Her husband turned out to be the whitest of white guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 02:44 PM
5

Exactly, who’s going to take care of Tyrone’s spawn if all the educated and acculturated black guys go off and do what makes them happy? How are the women to revel in the pleasure of rejecting him? How are they going to mock him on social media and text groups as some little bitch if he goes off on his own?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 02:43 PM
3

To be sure, I’d never put “Hispanic or White Only” out there because there are some mighty fine black women and I wouldn’t want to deter them, but from one black guy to another, I understand your frustration. I don’t blame you for noticing that other groups of women are demonstrably more interested in you. I noticed such in high school and especially in college as well, positive feedback is dope especially after years of rejection. Specifically about my college years, that’s when I got over any …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 01:48 PM
8

They want you to: 1. Toe the line and live up to the stereotype or 2. Continue to pursue them so they could have the pleasure of rejecting you as “lame” a “pussy” a guy “who lacks swag” who is a “not real”. Your absenting yourself from the game and having the unmitigated gall to pursue only the women who like you is fucking up the system homie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 01:10 PM
8

They want the pleasure of rejecting you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 01:04 PM
2

The inmates are running the asylums now. Churches have singles ministries and clubs, from what I can tell, they are mostly single mothers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 01:54 AM
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They aren’t doing it for nothing (the churches I mean). When the pews are more and more dominated by single mothers, they’ve gotta placate them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/21 10:15 PM
41

I’m indeed an educated black men, but I’m clean shaven, thus I’m out, gosh darn it! Which one of my Bruhs is going to step up? The BLM tag implies that she’s a professional Black Person, in the same way some women are professional feminists. Race seems to be all encompassing to her, the central pillar of her life. I’ve always been cool being black, but it’s no accomplishment. Edit- By professional black person, I don’t mean a Black Person who is a professional (like myself) I mean a person who s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/21 09:45 PM
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Haha, let’s try some reverse psychology, let’s outsource my insecurities to others. Let me operate under the assumption that it’s the job of some other dude to care for Chad’s child. Honestly, I cannot blame her for thinking this, masses of the popular culture teach that she’s a catch, hell, even some of the churches are into the “man up and marry the single mother” ideology.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/21 08:01 PM
13

Yeah, because he’s married or something. I hope it wouldn’t be because she’s ugly, he’s paying her rent after all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/21 06:58 PM
43

So, if I understand correctly, she is claiming to want both a boyfriend with all that entails while concurrently being able to continue to ‘have fun’ with the guy who pays her rent. In this case, I’d guess she wants the boyfriend for emotional support and for appearances sake ( somebody to take her to parties, functions and weddings) because the guy who pays her rent is ill suited to the role perhaps because he’s married or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/21 03:36 PM
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If she could go on “real dates” (re:expensive dates) she wouldn’t be going to Taco Bell in the first place. Going and grabbing a Baja Blast is the best she can do. Women on OLD can instantly gauge their SMV, she’s already doing the best she can, from here it only goes downhill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/21 02:32 AM
2

Hippie women will absolutely waive political requirements for Chad. I can think of multiple radical feminists from my undergrad days who are married to Republican Chad’s. These are chicks who stated they’d never take their husband’s last name (they did) and stated they’d never have children (they have).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/21 02:13 AM
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Indeed, it’s FDS pure and simple. It’s FDS concentrated. It is exploitation, such women must be avoided because their life is about getting guy number one. She calls guy #2 and asks for money to buy groceries? It’s to cook for guy number 1. She desperately needs to use #2s car? It’s to go and see guy number 1. She gets a key to #2s place? She’ll fuck guy number 1 there. With such women, you cannot be cynical enough, you gotta be fucking Metternich at the Congress of Vienna cynical.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 07:32 PM
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Women such as her, with their militant immorality and militant vulgarity will crash into the wall. When they do so, with 2-3 kids in tow, they rewrite history, deny responsibility and try and entangle the second guy. When they do this, they’ll try and scrub their social media of stuff like this. Don’t be the second guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 06:24 PM
3

Unless you can fund a trip to Sweden for her, you can’t vote no.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 06:00 PM
16

Green eyes, thus he’d qualify.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 03:31 AM
18

You are right about her wanting a white guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 03:19 AM
14

I honestly have a hard time even picturing it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 02:57 AM
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Gosh darn it, I’ve dark brown eyes, I’ll leave her to you guys. Looks like she’s into that Nordic and Anglo Saxon flow, which of my European descended homies is going to help her spread her seed? We in the Black delegation would love to help, but eye color homies, other than Smoky Robinson, we are disqualified.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 02:45 AM
8

And women think doing that or half smiling in your general direction ( such that you can’t even really tell if they are smiling at you or somebody else) represents a flashing green light.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 01:16 AM
13

This is appalling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 11:03 PM
5

Well, I honestly can say I’ve never tried to eat more than 20 in a single sitting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 08:50 PM
7

Chick fil a nuggets or McNuggets?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 08:47 PM
14

I think it has to do with people imitating their attractive friends. Being unattractive and behaving like you are attractive is damaging to both men and women, only in different ways. For women, it just means you’ll struggle to get a guy, for men it’s worse. For men, there are legitimately women who find a non-Chad guy who behaves like a Chad to be an abomination. I’d guess 30-40 percent of the caseload of any HR Department arises out of woman’s fury that an unattractive guy dared to approach th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 08:15 PM
12

She’s got the attitude of the southern belle types I went to college / law school with, yet she ain’t got the goods to pull it off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 07:52 PM
17

5 is high, but idk how a living human being can be negative 🤣.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 07:11 PM
42

The crazy thing is, she’s not misshapen or anything, so if she lost weight the caliber of guy she could get would go up markedly. Now, she’s forced to go to parties and hope that Thurston Southernman III gets so drunk that he’s unable to say no.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 07:06 PM
42

I’m like 230 pounds and I’m unsure if I could, are we talking McNuggets or what? Honestly, if she’s to be my wife, I can’t have her emasculating me by out eating me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 06:58 PM
14

I get the feeling she’s into southern bro / frat types guys, thus I can mark myself safe from her, but many of my friends cannot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 06:33 PM
27

She and I are the same age, I’d honestly donk 😅. To be sure, claiming you don’t like fuck boys in fact signals that you prefer them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 06:27 PM
3

It’s indeed true, and as I said in another post, a guy can easily gauge what camp he’s in by her behavior towards him. Our bro Flounder was there for comic relief, Ariel (if I recall correctly) gave up her voice for the prince. Guys should look at their relationship as it regards women they are sexually interested in and see if they are more flounder or more Prince.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 04:09 PM
9

And when such a guy realizes that there will be no reciprocation, when he gets mad and tells her why he doesn’t want to deal with her anymore, HE is the dangerous one, the incel, the “good guy”. Apparently, if he wants either sex or nothing and if she just wants to keep the status quo where he’s her servant, what he wants is irrelevant. He must continue to maintain the prior relationship no matter what, he can only leave with her permission.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 03:48 PM
5

I agree, their definition of “men” is conceptually narrow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 03:43 PM
9

Female nature is universal, many western guys fool themselves into thinking women from other countries are immune. It’s because these guys are unfamiliar with foreign chicks. I knew of a guy who had a Peruvian girlfriend, who described to him her desperate need for some cash to send home to her family, it turned out that her whole plan was to use the money to fly her Fabioisque boyfriend into the US so she could fuck him. Thus we see: a guy she loved = she was willing to steal for. A guy she did…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 12:53 PM
15

True, it can be a hard pill to swallow, but you can more or less gauge a woman’s respect / attraction towards you by what she asks of you. I’m too fucking old ( early 30s) to believe I can buy a woman’s respect. I obviously cannot be attractive to every or even most women, I can however demand respect. I am not doing anything for any of them that they wouldn’t demand of Chad. A cunt who can be courteous and respectful with my Chaddy colleague, can be the same with me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 03:58 AM
21

The sick shit is that if women don’t respect you, they’ll legit ask stuff like this of you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 03:00 AM
8

The closest I’ve come to getting with an utterly disgusting woman was a time in college, I blacked out at a party and woke to find a fucking ape of a woman fondling me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 01:29 AM
13

I’m not the type of guy who can get drunk and tap up a woman I’m manifestly not attracted to when sober.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 10:01 PM
39

Not exactly the type of gym girl I’m personally into, but I won’t judge all you guys who want it. 😁 Y’all have fun, and watch out for the father(s) of her children, judging by her looks alone, bro(s) ain’t nothing to fuck with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 09:49 PM
36

Yeah, it’s awful to consider that I was once that guy. I have a small group of women I’m truly platonic with (not counting my female family members obviously) if it’s not one of them, I cannot engage in normal or friendly behavior as I would towards a guy. These women will take everything, that money you ‘lend’ them for bills will be used to fly in Chad, the extra meal you order for them at dinner will be taken home to Chad. All the while, they’ll dismiss you with contempt. There is nothing like…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 09:39 PM
65

For real, I’m not doing husband / boyfriend shit without husband/boyfriend benefits. You want your oil changed? Rollover, spread those cheeks, cook my dinner, pack my lunch. edit- the galling irony is that there are masses of dudes who’ll take her seriously, they will help her move and shit. When they do this and make a move, she’ll reject them. If they get pissed and ghost her, they’ll be the bad guy, who is “ temperamental” or an “incel”. Meanwhile, Chad will get in between for a bag of Dorito…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 07:05 PM
29

I love how people appoint themselves as being beautiful. Beauty is in part objective ( evolutionary psychology has shown this) you cannot simply deem yourself as being beautiful. Beautiful compared to what exactly?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 06:54 PM
41

It’s wild that you literally cannot take the words of a fellow human at face value. She’s spouting deceptive nonsense, being a supine ugly guy won’t help you because she wants a supine Chad. She wants Chad to follow her around, she wants to be in a female led relationship with Chad. If you are Chad it doesn’t matter how you act, even Chaddy serial killers get love letters. She is perpetuating the lie that you can build up equity with a woman like you do with a stock or other investment, you cann…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 05:35 PM
3

But the original post / profile didn’t even mention black guys at all, we are responding to the speculation made by someone else. Also, it’s not anecdotal, it’s empirical, interracial relationships aren’t all that common, most people date / marry within their race.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 05:20 PM
12

This is profound, many single mothers are obtuse about it. Any single mother who wants a guy must be able to clearly exhibit that they aren’t just holding a flame for Chad to come back. Oftentimes, all it takes for Chad to return is the thought of another dude around his kid, when this happens, the Good Guy gets kicked to curb so “I can have a real family with the father of my child!”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 01:21 PM
6

Once you pop, the fun don’t stop homie. She’s a cutie though, if she’s really single, it’s likely because of madness, she is an HR chick after all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 01:17 PM
31

Open minded meaning she can judge your behavior but you cannot judge hers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 01:14 PM
20

I think there was a story about an Instagram ‘model’ who hated her fans.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 01:13 PM
12

There’s truth in what you say for sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 02:18 AM
1

It’s sad stuff, especially when’s it manifestly obvious that bro could do better. In such cases, it’s sociological, wherein a guy feels honored to have a black woman show interest in him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 02:16 AM
2

It’s always sad when I see a bro in such cases that could obviously do better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 12:26 AM
14

Rule number one of OLD, refusing to post a photograph = U-G-L-Y you ain’t got no alibi you ugly. She’s not fooling anyone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 11:12 PM
3

Like I said, if a white chick is comparable to the other women I’ve shot with, it’s cool, but I don’t grade on a curve. And I’ve certainly noticed what you’ve noticed, I’m nobody’s backstop and I go ghost if I get a vibe that she’s settled. Our thirsty brethren are responsible for this, I lived in an a all black neighborhood that was ravaged by crack for the first ten years of my life, from there I’ve lived in white and Hispanic neighborhoods. Thus, I’m familiar with white women, I know there is…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 10:39 PM
13

Exactly, the small subset of our white worshipping co-racialists have fucked these chicks up. I like you am not some super attractive guy, but I’m Six Three, in really good shape and am far from ugly. I’ve no wish to trade down to go white, any white woman I talk to is comparable to the women of other races I deal with. I’ve got stories homie, as in times when I’ve obviously been at a bar with another woman (in this case a Hispanic woman) who had literally been sitting on my lap. She goes to the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 09:39 PM
11

I too sensed an attempt at irony or humor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 09:28 PM
3

That’s a class phenomenon, I wouldn’t give such a woman the time of day. And I’ve encountered plenty of thirsty fat white women going back to college, even when I’ve been drunk out of my mind, I can proudly say I’ve never indulged. I can vouch for all the college educated black guys I know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 09:17 PM
74

Exactly, fellow negro here, every black dude isn’t willing to accept all manner of white pussy. I wonder where the idea that we are came from? Every black dude isn’t a drug addict or ex-con that will stick their dick on anything. The idea is so pernicious that I/ my homies are always shocked when a manifestly unattractive white chick approaches us when we know they’d never approach a group of white guys of equal caliber. Edit- To be clear, when such women approach, I’m always nice in how I turn …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 09:14 PM
39

So, we’ve an obviously insecure woman who has been fucked and ghosted repeatedly by fuck boys. She thinks withholding a photograph is a power move when it’s actually a massive red flag. Also, fuck boys need not apply because they are already hired, from her DMs directly into her vagina.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 06:59 PM
6

I went to law school, the only interaction with other grad students we had was with the odd person who was doing a MBA/JD.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 05:20 PM
5

This is the danger of any person, man or woman, imitating their attractive friends. An ugly bro shouldn’t try and behave like a Chad/ Tyrone, doing so puts you on a glide path to HR or even a restraining order. And moreover, busted ladies need to stop imitating their beautiful friends. A woman can push all a bros buttons physically and even still push him away with a shitty attitude. What chance does she stand?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 04:53 PM
10

I wonder if she’ll say “The guys in the picture with me are gay, they are no threat! They just happen to be the type of gay guys that like to sleep with women, but like I said, the sex we have is meaningless!”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 04:44 PM
1

I too am on team Latina (I’m not white). I swear that it’s not purposeful, I didn’t even realize it until a woke black woman I know confronted me: “Mundane, why is it that last eight women I have seen you with have been Latina?!??!” I then realized, that she had a point, lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 04:37 PM
0

Latina is indeed an unwieldy term.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 04:34 PM
11

I suppose so, but there are cheaper ways to do that. Also, you and I know that having a master’s in social justice won’t make her more attractive to businessman type Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 04:08 PM
23

You certainly don’t go into a grad program in social work for the purpose of meeting a guy who will be a high earner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 04:05 PM
18

I was briefly a social worker, it’s pays shit, which is why I didn’t last a year. The private sector is superior, I’ve more than tripled my income in the seven years since I left.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 04:02 PM
2

Unfortunately homies, I admit to having a MASSIVE weakness for latinas, I’m not white though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 03:59 PM
6

You are talking about Theodore Dalrymple, a British Slum/ Prison Doctor and now a conservative writer for City Journal. He had spoken about the anecdote in speeches, a person would tell him they fell in with the wrong crowd, he’d respond by saying it was funny how he met lots of people who fell in with the wrong crowd but he’d never met any members of the wrong crowd itself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 01:30 AM
7

Think about the extent to which most people are shitty dog owners, it’s exponentially worse with horses. Owning a horse is an utter money pit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 01:18 AM
8

That’s fucking appalling, wow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 01:11 AM
3

Indeed, or he lives out of town.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 12:40 AM
20

Especially when you consider she said they all came inside her, meaning they used no condoms. Thus, the guys were going behind each other and were actually coming into contact with the bodily fluids of other guys. I could see how a certain woman might like this, I’m unsure why the guys would.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 09:18 PM
12

I’m not only talking about women, I’m talking about guys as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 09:13 PM
12

Reality would indeed help these women, many of them are single mothers. Reality: Single mothers have lower SMV than they would have if they were childless. Thus, if they want a guy to come into their life, they should be sure to live their lives so as to not exhibit the stereotypes about single mothers (financial issues, issues of disorganization or cleanliness at home, constant battles with their ex, constant condemnation of all men, having a secret love / lust for the ex so that the new guy is…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 08:05 PM
26

That place is a sign of the failure of our educational system. Those chicks don’t understand the basics biological competition for mates, they talk as if they are competing with a man to somehow get the man to commit. The competition isn’t between the sexes, it’s within them. The point isn’t to overpower some “HVM” into marrying them, it’s to out compete other women who want the guy. By definition a HVM has options, thus he doesn’t need to take a woman’s shit because there are always more women …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 07:24 PM
21

Such talk makes it obvious that such women haven’t got any ‘HVM’. Those chicks are like 14 year old boys who brag about all the chicks they are fucking when everyone knows that they are virgins.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 07:11 PM
6

Indeed, she lusts after roughnecks, but has been unable to hogtie one. Now, she alleges to want a good dude, but a loving, calm, honest and stable guy could never give her tingles. When I see nothing but trash in a women’s past, I move on immediately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 05:20 PM
11

Agreed, evolutionary psychology has shown rates of domestic violence skyrocket in step-parent / cohabitation environments. In what cases are a woman / children most unlikely to be abused? When the woman lives with her husband and when the kid resides with both of their biological parents. Thomas Sowell pointed out that married women are less likely to suffer violence than single men are, various interest groups opposed to marriage try to obscure this by lumping married women into heterogeneous c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 05:13 PM
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Color me confused about the appeal of gangbangs, going back to high school, I’ve never understood the attraction of getting off in front of others.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 05:04 PM
3

Yeah, Jay-z is a poor example, I doubt he’s sold drugs since the mid 90’s (when reasonable doubt came out and he started his record label).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 05:00 PM
17

She absolutely is available to niggas ( I’m black so I’ve clearance to the use the phrase) when women use such statements, interpret them as if you are in Bizzaro world ( Where saving Lois Lane actually means killing her). All of the shortcomings she mentioned should be taken as spark notes for all the types of guys who’ve come inside her. Normal guys should avoid chicks like her, you couldn’t keep her happy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 04:59 PM
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To the extent they are attractive at all, I went to an allegedly “high class” club pre-covid, 65 percent of the chicks were busted. I think the foundation of the place was made of meth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/21 06:20 PM
8

I actually have no issues with an atheist organization refusing employment to a religious person, or a religious group refusing to hire an atheist, I say this being pro-religion. Society is more peaceful when you allow voluntary association to whatever extent possible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/21 03:02 PM
4

I’m not attacking you, but I always find it strange when third parties say what shouldn’t/ should matter to others. As in : I don’t see why it should matter to an employer if a perspective employee sold nudes? Honestly, employment cases are idiosyncratic, I don’t know why a employer should have to account to others about their decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/21 03:00 PM
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I don’t agree, I only care that employers refrain ( for the most part) from discrimination based on immutable characteristics. Having an OF is volitional, if an employer has a negative perception of it and wants to withhold employment, that’s cool.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/21 02:55 PM
63

The underlying problem is that guys and even a lot of women already think less of these girls. Cosmopolitan and Buzzfeed will never be able to undue the inherent suspicion that society feels towards such women. Allegations of slut shaming are made towards guys, but much of the suspicion comes from women, who don’t want to compete with these women and who don’t want a society where their boyfriends/ husbands are around such women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/21 02:21 PM
2

And those feelings are obvious love for the dead guy and willful obtuseness about his role in his death. She sounds appealing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 11:42 PM
2

I was just using men of stature as examples.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 11:38 PM
23

Everyone, ask yourself this, if her fiancé was Steph Curry, Ryan Gosling or Tom Brady, would she dare speak to him as she described speaking to him? If she was engaged to Tom Brady, and if he said “I’m the boy’s father”. She wouldn’t say shit, she’d faint of happiness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 09:29 PM
9

We all know, the dead druggie was a Chad, I’ll bet he was an animal in bed, he probably beat the shit out of her pussy. Her fiancé, not having a fucking chemical dependency, is stable, disciplined, empathetic and worst of all, predictable. In essence to her, he’s boring. If her fiancé was a Chad, she’d be honored to have him be her child’s father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 09:23 PM
5

I was once a social worker in the states. In my particular state, it’s not at all clear if he would be made to pay support.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 09:17 PM
9

She’s also talking bullshit about addiction, addiction isn’t just : person takes a substance once = addiction = overdose / death. There’s a drug rehabilitation industry which implies that, buts it’s more complicated. Theodore Dalrymple, a British Doctor ( Psychiatrist) wrote a book about addiction. In the book he cites masses of pharmacological evidence that shows that 1. Withdrawal symptoms from drugs like heroin aren’t severe and most symptoms are the result of anticipatory anxiety 2. To becom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 09:15 PM
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