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| 2 | Do you think that women are partly responsible for men's insecurities?Sorry, I don't speak English, it's not my first language, so I use ChatGPT to translate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that women are partly responsible for men's insecurities?Why should women care though. Out of empathy, just as some feminists demand that society should care about women's issues, so too with this. They could find someone who doesn't care, they are not my problem ultimately. I mean medium is fine, above average is hot And below average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that women are partly responsible for men's insecurities?You're right, it's just that in the case of men, penis size can be a point of great sensitivity and stigma. While other physical characteristics in women can be accepted, modified, or even valued independently of their conformity to cultural standards, such as breast size or body shape, men with a small penis may face a different reaction. Society tends to associate penis size with masculinity and male sexual attractiveness, which can create overwhelming pressure for those who don't meet those s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that women are partly responsible for men's insecurities?How is it my problem if men are insecure over my preferences? Genuinely curious It's not a problem that concerns only you; rather, it is an issue inherent to women as a whole: the lack of balance. Well yea, big dicks are hot What will happen with small penises? Wouldn't you feel insecure if you were in that situation?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that women are partly responsible for men's insecurities?Women can have these preferences; they do, period. The problem is that these preferences can cause insecurity in men due to how limited they are. Female preferences are not as diverse as those of men. It is more likely to find women who prefer large penises than the opposite. If men with small penises realize this, they perceive that there are few women who don't care about size and many who do. It's natural for them to feel insecure, but this insecurity is generated by women due to their limite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 06:09 PM |
| 0 | Desexualization and InsecurityBecause you can't change it, so it makes zero sense to fixate on it. How does ruminating on something that you can't change benefit you? It’s logical: the human brain is designed to solve problems. Solving problems generates satisfaction, but these problems always entail negative aspects. Negative bias is powerful; any negative information carries considerable weight. To counteract it, positive aspects must be constant and repetitive. Acceptance of things that you don't like but cannot change !=… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 05:52 PM |
| 0 | Desexualization and InsecurityYou accept without question that having a small penis is inefficient for PIV, but how does that acceptance benefit you? Repeating that you are useless and cannot provide pleasure through PIV does not help you at all. Yes, we can work with what we have, but that is something that those with an average or large-sized penis can do as well. What really matters is that it does not provide you with gratification nor make you feel sexually worthy with that part of your body; you simply avoid facing rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Desexualization and InsecurityThe problem persists: insecurity continues to perpetuate itself, which is dehumanizing and objectifying. Your approach is too pragmatic and phallocentric, something any feminist would criticize. You are not proposing a solution that adequately values the characteristics in question. This is the main point of my post: to dignify those characteristics that are often desexualized. I don't see any point in continuing to discuss this with someone who does not understand the essential point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Desexualization and InsecurityThis is because you can't change those physical characteristics. Height is whatever, but something like a micropenis is going to be a negative for most partners simply because it is less functional and limits the types of sex you can have. Rather than wallow about something you can't change, it is more adaptive to focus on the things you can change. But insecurity persists because, even if you try to compensate by changing another characteristic, the underlying message remains the same: you cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | It's outrageous that you can't talk seriously about incels without being censored.No, I have only stated that I am affected in my sexual self-esteem by women's comments about liking BBC Men because I have a small penis. It's like women with obesity reading or hearing comments from men about liking thin women, I think it's a bad analogy but I don't know how to explain myself. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/08/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Women do not have diverse tastes.Never mind bias, everyone is biased and telling me I'm biased is biased. The point is that these are stereotypes that most women like and there is no variety in that physical aspect, I haven't met women who are attracted to small penises and if there are any they are exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:20 PM |
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