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NYCman11229/r/seduction01/01/12 10:46 AM
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NYCman11229/r/seduction23/03/14 05:05 PM
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NYCman11229/r/seduction03/03/12 06:01 AM
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NYCman11229/r/seduction17/03/12 01:16 PM
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My transformation as a person to the man I am today started at 19 years old. I 2 months I turn 22 and 2 weeks ago I lost my virginity. And I didn't think anything of it. It does not mean anything. I enjoyed not because of the physical pleasure it gave me (which it didn't give me a lot because I had a condom on and wasn't used to it) but, because I connected with the person who I was with. I told her that, that time with her was my first time and she just seemed a little surprised. Due to whateve…
/r/seduction07/04/14 06:15 PM
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Keep your interactions in a bubble of sorts just between you and one other person. It keeps you from having to be high energy just because you're around a lot of people, and creates familiarity and attraction between the people in the bubble. It's not hard getting a girl into your own bubble. If your standing put your arm around her waist and start talking softly to her, if your sitting make sure you sit closer to her or she does, if you act confident in these motions they will not be creepy, be…
/r/seduction05/12/13 08:12 AM
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Escalate and isolate. If shes pulls away then shes not attracted, but if not then go for it.
/r/seduction12/11/13 03:55 AM
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You can say anything the fuck you want as long as you keep on escalating. Just talk about random shit as long as you get close to her and just keep on looking into her eyes. Then more escalation and isolation and k-close and more.
/r/seduction12/11/13 03:52 AM
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My life was already in a good balance, but I was a bit depressed for a few months and solo travel helped immensely.
/r/seduction14/05/13 02:43 PM
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That bubble shit is true. I did it last year with a girl in social game. There was only maybe five more people in our dorm room suite, and it was obvious to everyone I was into her. And ended up with a k-close that night.
/r/seduction14/05/13 03:33 AM
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Sounds similar to r/pickup. I like it! Oh BTW the #Reddit-Seddit IRC is down.
/r/seduction13/05/13 11:48 PM
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On the surface it does seem as though the end goal is to go after all the women. But that's just a side benefit. Maybe not pickup in general but the r/seduction community teaches you to grow and become a better man. If it wasn't for r/seduction I would not have had the balls to kiss girls or even ask them out. This sub helps out people that don't know where to start on making their lives better. Maybe women are the motivators at first but if you do it right, having a better life for the sake of …
/r/seduction12/05/13 09:28 PM
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In my experience at my three years of University so far, Social Circle and the Long Game are best. Join clubs, societies, Greek Life to get hobbies and keep yourself busy during the week. In addition to the friends you make in those circles have three or four social circles. This means that you always have something to do on a weekend, and will always be invited to something and have something to invite someone to. Make friends with people in class, guys and gals to build your social circles. St…
/r/seduction08/05/13 09:20 PM
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I have a bit of a stutter, but sometimes. It's weird. Most of the stutter is saying my name. What helped me out with that a bit was just to say it slowly. And I go through periods where I have really bad stutter, so much so that I try to avoid people and conversations. And sometimes it just ends and I'm back to normal. I could get stuck on a certain word here and there, but most of the time I sound like any other middle-class, college-educated, northeastern NY student. I can't help you with your…
/r/seduction12/12/12 04:01 AM
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People might not be familiar with your phone, especially when they're drunk. A pen and paper is foolproof.
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:54 PM
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I can't tell if your being sarcastic or not, but I can assure I came up with this on my own. But Twilight Zone was a good inspiration.
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:07 AM
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I'm going as the devil, but the deal with the devil-business suit wearing kind. My outfit will be some nice black shoes, slim black jeans, dark red button down shirt, and suit jacket. When people ask me who I am supposed to be, I ask them their greatest wish/ desire. I than ask them if they are willing to trade away their soul. Once I encourage them to do so, I produce a soul contract and make sure they sign their name and number for contact purposes to inform them the deal has been finalized. W…
/r/seduction09/10/12 04:53 AM
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Having a watch is more convenient, but from my own experience, you get more compliments on watch from other guys than girls. But that's because it's simple and elegant, it's shouldn't be used as a prop piece but rather it should add a little class to your outfit.
/r/seduction04/10/12 08:26 PM
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We are only trluy unmasked when we are by ourselves. To all others, family, friends, and significant others, we wear one mask or another. The key is that that masks represents a genuine part of you. I prefer the school of PUA which teaches you to better yourself and be truly high value instead of just trying to demonstrate it. So when a PUA hits on a girl, and if he does his job right, he directly tells her what he is interested in, her. Unlike the proverbial "nice guy" which tries to sneak into…
/r/seduction14/08/12 04:52 AM
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That's the thing, pickup and life in general is not "traditional". You have to do it yourself and make mistakes along the way and realize them. All the people that wrote books on the game and the psychology of pickup did everything themselves and put it on paper to build a solid foundation for anyone reading it. As Issac Newton said, "We are men standing on the shoulders of giants", meaning a foundation has been laid for you, go ahead and expand on it yourself.
/r/seduction27/07/12 02:07 AM
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In pickup as in life, there is no book that can be a complete reference tool for you. You can use /r/askseddit for a lot of the beginner's stuff, like how to respond to a certain text or whatever. But the more you do it, the more you realize on your own the best responses and actions.
/r/seduction26/07/12 04:39 PM
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Once you have the basics down, you don't need a book. As for meeting girls, join clubs. All of my hookups last year have been directly or indirectly were made because I was a member of a club. So join a club that interests you, or just jump around from club to club in the beginning of the year to see if you like it or not.
/r/seduction26/07/12 03:06 AM
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Go in for the k-close while dancing to Frank Sinatra. Any song works really, but I prefer "Come Fly With Me".
/r/seduction03/06/12 03:18 AM
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Nice job dude! I had my first k-close earlier this year too, and all it really is, is building enough rapport and attraction to just go for it.
/r/seduction29/05/12 03:12 AM
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I used to have a slight stutter when trying to say certain words. What seddit taught me was to talk slower. Talking slower allows more time to think what your going to say, and that combined with pauses makes people hang on your every word. Like if your doing cold approaches, "hey" pause for a little bit, "I knew if I didn't introduce myself to you I would regret it" pause, girl blushes a little, "my name is NYCman11229"
/r/seduction19/03/12 10:09 PM
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If she was into you she would have tried to get in contact with you, but since females are subtle creatures I'm not surprised that has not happened. Meh, do it. The worst possible thing that could happen is she says no, and then you move on.
/r/seduction06/01/12 08:33 PM
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That's fine. If she says yes then your golden. If she say's she's busy try to set something up in a few days. And if she keeps on giving you excuses, then forget about her for now and since you got to the same university if you end up seeing her in passing invite her to a coffee date in person. My dad says in life, you can always find a million excuses if you don't want to do something, and I feel that that applies with girls especially.
/r/seduction05/01/12 02:19 AM
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No! Avoid all meaningless contact with her through Facebook and texting. If you do not have a number then you can use facebook to get her to a coffeshop or whatever between classes, but I highly suggest you get her number and don't leave her a message but don't call constantly either. Try to make sure she answers so you set this thing up. Read this FAQ. In fact say you don't really use facebook that often so you should exchange numbers to stay in contact.
/r/seduction05/01/12 01:30 AM
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Try to do it next day and with a phone call. Gives her less time to think it over.
/r/seduction04/01/12 07:12 PM
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They asked for your contact info. Big IoI. Now just go on facebook and set up a coffeshop date between classes with the HB8 from your school.
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:30 PM
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Don't over think it. Read some stuff from the side bar which has some general common sense stuff and explains a lot of the terms we use, it's really useful. What worked for me was to just get in the mindset that I will do it, and as soon as I escalated and isolated I did. I also learned that girls don't really know what they want and you have to show them what they want (you). They think extremely differently than you and I. And try not to say things like "I like, love you", you have to show it …
/r/seduction02/01/12 09:28 PM
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True that. Speaking like a true PUA, who doesn't have any fucks to give! And your original reply was spot on!
/r/seduction01/01/12 07:47 PM
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My parents would have been thrilled to see me using all my moves on her, but her dad seemed serious and barely had anything to drink the whole night. But I have a feeling he won't stop if I pursue relationship because we're both Russian and Jewish.
/r/seduction01/01/12 06:14 PM
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Definitely, hopefully it just gets better and better.
/r/seduction01/01/12 06:10 PM
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I will call her later tonight to invite her for some ice skating next weekend, but I will just tell her to wear warm clothes because we'll be spending most of the time outside and that's it. So the ice skating will be a surprise, hopefully.
/r/seduction01/01/12 06:10 PM
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We definitely need more FR's from girls. Gives us a perspective on the other side. Thanks for posting and keep it up!
/r/seduction01/10/11 06:56 PM
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Guy Fawkes
/r/seduction01/10/11 04:34 PM
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Read the sidebar, read this and join University Seddit. And talk and approach EVERYONE.
/r/seduction30/09/11 04:27 AM
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University Seddit
/r/seduction29/09/11 04:53 PM
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If you start thinking of yourself as a great catch, and showing you have confidence girls will respond and complement you which will boost your confidence even more. It's just a cycle which needs to start at some point. Here's one of my examples. I went out with a few friends expecting to meet girls but the party I was at was a complete sausage fest and got the bus back to campus when I see a HB9 get on the bus, and I'm like, "I came out to meet girls and that's what I'm going to do!" So I sit n…
/r/seduction29/09/11 03:30 AM
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Get dinner, then go for a casual walk around campus and relax because there's no pressure. But still always go for kino. If you think your hitting it off, invite her back to your dorm to listen to music or something and put on some classical music like Mozart and offer her to waltz. Chicks go crazy for this stuff, It doesn't matter if you do or don't know how to waltz, as long as you keep your confidence up, and if she does shit tests like, "do you really know how to waltz?" You ask her,"what do…
/r/seduction29/09/11 03:22 AM
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Good for you. Conquering Approach Anxiety or AA is the first step and what some people consider the hardest. It's honestly just talking to more and more people, opening up sets and over time your AA will disappear. I'm not an expert by any means but you can see my progression if you read my Field Reports or FR's.
/r/seduction27/09/11 03:27 AM
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When it gets colder I wear these fingerless gloves/mittens from Iceland and once I've opened a set and offer to warm the girls' hands by putting theirs into mine. If I go out myself I tell them I got them in Iceland last summer, If I go out with friends they usually tell the girl about it which seems to demonstrate a higher DHV than if I told them about it, myself.
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:46 AM
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Link?!?
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:39 AM
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I saw some guy use that trick on TV, but I feel situational openers are best, you don't need lines but sometimes they do help.
/r/seduction22/09/11 05:44 PM
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