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ADVICENandemodekiru/r/RedPillWomen18/03/20 07:07 AM
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Just sounds like he has a huge ego. No one deserving of the title of king wants to be called king
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 11:53 PM
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Even churches would consider his divorce biblically sound. Worry not.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 12:34 AM
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I think it’s just an economic thing for most of them; either a side hustle because their main job doesn’t pay enough to live (see: that EMT girl who was outed in a news article) or they do it because they have a chronic pain condition of some kind, aka disabled, and it’s a job they can work from home to sustain some sort of income, ie. that one girl who was using Only Fans to pay for her cancer treatments. And don’t get me started on student loan payments. This has been well documented in the su…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 08:30 AM
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May I suggest (to ease your worries) and to curb your anxiety, that you check in with a fertility doctor to make sure all your hormone levels are good to go? Are you anxious regarding time limit, or are you just anxious because of outside pressure (i.e. feeling like you’re behind on life benchmarks based on what you see your in your social group’s lives)?
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 01:42 AM
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Along with what u/SunshineSundress said, the other case studies we could look at are those of Ottoman Sultans, or even King Henry VIII. The sultans had multiple children with several concubines, but they ended up killing each other while fighting for the throne, which happened across multiple generations. There was even a rule installed that allowed for the custom of ritual fratricide of all male kinsman once a new Sultan ascended the throne, even if they were full blooded brothers. However, the…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/23 08:54 AM
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Be careful though; keys can break off in locks due to wear and tear. Best to not overuse the key to prolong its use.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 03:28 AM
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I think these kind of men never think of the risks of STDs, crazy people, potential unplanned pregnancy, or how it affects their children.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 12:38 AM
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You absolutely can and could have told him. Don’t play games. He asked a straightforward question and it is your job to be honest with him.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 06:16 AM
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Emily Wilson
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 08:37 PM
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Obviously
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/23 01:23 PM
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When I saw his Twitter post about how he was practically forced and nagged to go and watch it and wanted to make a review video, I knew he was full of shit. The man fully intended to go watch this movie for the sole purpose of ragging on it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/23 07:40 PM
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Aba and Preach are decent; they have also made several videos exposing F&F and Pearl for the clowns and liars that they are. In terms of women, Emily Wilson is a very good conservative and religious woman to learn from, REGARDLESS of if you’re religious or not. Her points are universal. But just note that if you don’t want to see, hear, or even really know about his cheating… it’s almost like you don’t really want to acknowledge that he’s doing it… therefore you’re not actually okay with him doi…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/23 06:51 AM
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I was bullied all the time when I was young, but never for my appearance. I’ve been called graceful, pretty, cute, “like a model”, etc. Blonde, blue eyed, 5’9”, size 0-2, etc. But I have also been called “mid”, so objectively I’d rate myself at about a 5 or 6. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, after all.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 10:45 PM
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Definitely simple ballet exercises. Practice walking on your toes and balancing. I also recommend belly dancing for hip and hand movements. There is also a dance from Eastern Europe known as lezginka where the women look as if they’re floating: https://youtu.be/GBsjvAvf9W0 https://youtu.be/z-cmXIwlXNo You’ll notice that they’re on their toes for the most part.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/23 09:05 PM
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Regarding the Jewish thing, they can raise the children as religiously Jewish (take them to synagogue, learn Torah, observe kosher), but they are not considered Jewish by halachah. Once the children grow up, they would have to undergo a formal conversion (which is annoying, but typically an understanding with the Rabbi can be reached). Nothing to do with the rest of your comment, but it is something that I noticed 😅
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/23 04:30 AM
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I can DM the discord link if anyone wants it
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 07:11 AM
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Look at you completely ignoring the very first part of my comment. This is exactly what I am talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 01:48 PM
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You read and then emotionally get defensive at the slightest perceived hint of criticism. Chill tf out. The reason men won’t date you is because you reek of low confidence and desperation because of a requirement list you have posed upon yourself without actively looking at yourself as to why you’ve never been able to secure commitment, even in your twenties. The fake breasts and nose job? Superficial. Who are you as a person? What are your hobbies? Are you kind, instead of just nice? Do you go …
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 10:19 AM
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Watch cinema from other countries and cultures and suddenly the men become 1000% more attractive. Hrithik Roshan, Sidharth Malhotra, Arthur Chen, Mark Chao, and Regé Jean Page are all freaking hot to me when they would not have been before I watched them act in masculine roles. Goes to show how personality and positive masculine attitudes go a long way. So yes, lower your height range and expand your race bracket. You may very well be surprised once you open your mind to other people, and open m…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 10:04 AM
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The vanity one is greatly subjective, plus associating vanity with femininity is… a bit of a backslap. A man who takes care of his appearance is not a bad thing; I really don’t care if he has more clothes than I do.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 03:37 PM
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There are literally metal bands that cater to that whole dark feminine aesthetic: Yousei Teikoku: https://youtu.be/l9CpJlnL97g https://youtu.be/kP1l9RGB7js Babymetal: https://youtu.be/cK3NMZAUKGw Thank God for Japan
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 11:35 PM
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Morticia Addams would like a word
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 11:27 PM
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Check both your fertility AND YOUR HUSBAND’S with a doctor. Another woman on this sub had that issue that it was her husband with a low sperm count while her body and eggs were perfectly healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 02:55 AM
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Unfortunately I got a rash from Biossance when I was exposed in the sun for a long period of time (after reapplication) :( it’s sad because I love their other products. Do you have any other clean alternatives that you recommend?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 05:10 AM
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Care like a mother? Like a sister? Like a common friend? History is in the past. It can’t come back.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 04:11 AM
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Tough love and reality checks are not talking down to you. Instead of being blindsided, actually listen to what we’re trying to say. Your husband has made a shell, a HUSK, of you and is the reason you aged physically in 5 years. Your stress has literally aged you. Your husband is quite literally bad for your health. Either you accept the cheating and the lying (which you clearly haven’t been able to), and decide to stay with the drug that continues to kill you, or you mind your own business and …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 04:09 AM
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You have a lot of nerve to say “how dare you?!” when you came here asking for advice. Hold yourself accountable and understand what the light your situation and actions have put you in looks like to other people. It’s not a situation that people respect you for.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/23 11:54 PM
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And what kind of love is that? You’re not “in love” with him, so it’s obviously not romantic.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/23 11:51 PM
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I used to be a gymnast, so being exposed so-to-speak doesn’t bother me. Just any old stretchy leggings, sports bra, and a T shirt is good enough. I wear a hoodie / long sleeve shirt if I’m cold.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/23 12:11 AM
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The advice is useful so long as you make use of it, friend. That being said, there is only so much that we as women can help you with. I’d recommend the following subreddits for more male guidance which will be more applicable to you: r/marriedredpill r/TheRedPill r/cleanlivingkings r/RPChristians I recommend the first, third, and fourth (if you’re religious), especially. The second one often can get very dark and jaded… more complaining than actionable advice, with risk of engaging with pickup …
/r/RedPillWives24/01/23 06:52 AM
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Already feminine women are typically attracted to already masculine men. If you wish to find a feminine woman, then you need to become masculine before then. Otherwise, you’ll need to find someone who is willing to grow in her femininity, even if she is not there yet. Four pieces of advice: Go to the gym and figure out a workout plan. Don’t be unattractive. Collect a group of trustworthy male friends who will hold you accountable. Healthy male relationships are essential for a man. Have a hobby.…
/r/RedPillWives24/01/23 03:46 AM
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Loreena McKennitt: https://youtu.be/LzE32ChEp24 Kalafina: https://youtu.be/XkSjf0ah-O4 Aimer: https://youtu.be/kxs9Su_mbpU Mindy Gledhill: https://youtu.be/2y4jSkOVgbI Yuki Kajiura: https://youtu.be/JfRo9G4rPHA Colbie Caillat: https://youtu.be/AWGqoCNbsvM The Civil Wars: https://youtu.be/9hkhrmmlDeI
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/23 02:43 AM
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Have you consulted a doctor?
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 11:25 PM
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Menstrual sex is a thing 🤷‍♀️ Orgasms are great for cramp pain relief
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 01:57 AM
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My mom had my brother at 31 and me at 39. He’s 6’7 and a physical therapist, while I’m 5’9 studying to be a landscape architect. The eggs are not GONE. Women are born with over a million eggs, with one released each month until menopause, when eggs stop releasing. It’s the egg quality that tends to decrease, along with hormone production.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 07:45 AM
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He’s a pimp, and that’s all I need to know about him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 07:19 PM
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Do they not have food at a jazz bar? I think you’re reading too deep into it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/22 11:51 PM
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The Indian actress Aishwarya Rai has a lovely countenance in her movies that I greatly admire and that just screams femininity. I recommend the films Jodhaa Akbar, Umrao Jaan, and Guzaarish. She also played the “role” of Elizabeth in Bride & Prejudice, and the “role” of Marianne in Kandukondain, Kandukondain (Bollywood Sense & Sensibility). In regards to music, I recommend Aimer, Mindy Gledhill, and Loreena McKennitt if you are alright with international music :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 10:34 PM
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I think it’s best to reiterate your timeline, and this time to not sugarcoat it. Ultimatums aren’t recommended only because the woman isn’t ready to deal with the consequences of either outcome. You told him you wanted to be engaged by year 3. Ask for a plan of his timeline. Not “a rough idea of a plan”, like “working on his stressors”, but a full on PLAN with deadlines and actual steps to take. You can tell him that you wanted to be committed by year 3, but are now doubting if he’s ready to get…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/22 12:14 AM
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How are you betraying your values by keeping your mouth shut? If you know well that none of these people are going to listen to you / are going to judge you fairly, then what’s the point of shooting yourself in the foot? Live by actions, not by words.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/22 04:39 AM
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Spoken like someone who had never seen war. This isn’t cute behavior, and your excuse of hiding behind playing Devil’s advocate is flimsy at best and malicious at worst, especially given the context of World War II. Villains are fun to explore in fiction because it gives room to explore the depths of human emotion and motive, but this doesn’t have real world effects. Fiction vs. reality. The entire reason Mein Kampf is still published is so we understand Hitler’s line of thinking and motives in …
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/22 07:07 PM
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Because even witches will tell you that emotional rituals contain enormous power. And an emotional ritual suicide would release a huge burst of energy, and that energy is not good. Dark magic is called dark magic for a reason, and suicide NEVER coincides with good / light magic. It always coincides with negative energy, which means that you would be releasing something incredibly dark (demonic) onto your environment.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/22 05:32 AM
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Have you talked to your husband about this? Other than the ritual of Jauhar, I’m afraid that I do not know much about this subject. The practices of Sati and Norse paganism were often cases of force. And Jauhar was used as a desperate measure in times of war in order to preserve the women’s dignity and honor… and because they believed in reincarnation. You mentioned no extended family, so I assume no parents. Do you have friends? Suicide is discouraged by most spiritual practitioners and religio…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/22 07:16 AM
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Danke shöne 😊😚💕
/r/RedPillWives19/11/22 02:35 AM
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It depends. If it is for removal of loose skin after pregnancy or weight loss, then I think it is fine, and actually leans more into a necessary medical intervention due to the weight and subsequent pain that loose skin can bring to the shoulders and body.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/22 02:32 AM
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My thesis presentation went well today! Time to pass out for the entirety of Thanksgiving break 😪😴
/r/RedPillWives16/11/22 11:52 PM
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It is not unfeminine to seek clarity for your heart. https://youtu.be/zgr92-XEiHk
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 06:03 AM
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Username checks out
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/22 07:55 PM
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“You women” Chill out. Look in the mirror. Reflect. Humble yourself. You’re not special. If you have rational advice, then say your piece and then let it go.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 03:10 AM
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If even the drunk girls in the bathroom at the bar will say no… the answer is NO
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/22 07:21 AM
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Curiosity question: What do you think about prenups?
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/22 11:09 PM
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Alright my guy, take it somewhere else
/r/RedPillWives03/11/22 05:55 AM
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Well… you’re not proud of him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/22 10:37 PM
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I guess the honest way is just to get to the root of the problem. “What have I done to manipulate you? What have I done to cause you to distrust me?” Essentially, where is all of this coming from? Focus in on his interpretation of your actions because it will cause him to actively think about it and name specific things, and you’ll make progress. If he can’t, then now it’s a question of what these people have convinced him to believe, especially in the realm of AWALT. Regarding AT converting to …
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/22 04:12 AM
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Repeating my comment here in case it gets lost in the sea on your other post: “Under MY house, everything is MINE.” And who turns the house into a home? Honestly if that were me, I’d respond with “If I have no degree of autonomy, then what more am I than a doll in my own home?” Marriage requires a certain degree of trust. “If you don’t trust me, then why did you even marry me?” I’m not going to advise divorce. I think it’s possible to bring him out of it, but it requires that you be the bedrock …
/r/RedPillWives27/10/22 01:21 AM
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“Under MY house, everything is MINE.” And who turns the house into a home? Honestly if that were me, I’d respond with “If I have no degree of autonomy, then what more am I than a doll in my own home?” Marriage requires a certain degree of trust. “If you don’t trust me, then why did you even marry me?” I’m not going to advise divorce. I think it’s possible to bring him out of it, but it requires that you be the bedrock while he is emotional. Naturally this conversation will happen again. Stay cal…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/22 12:46 AM
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Personally, if you desire him, I think a great way to help would be this: https://twitter.com/probasociopath/status/1580629363762290688?s=46&t=iExGvDLMYdW5l-82BLQExg
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 05:54 AM
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Chill. All she was saying is that if there are three different women, and they all have attention and validation issues, then it is probably because there are traits of this that you are subconsciously attracted to. No need to start with the whole “women logic” backhand. That having been said, I personally think these women are crazy. It will take me hours, possibly days, to respond to texts simply because I am not in the right headspace to respond, or I am busy and will forget or not have time …
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/22 03:19 AM
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Is he a sub / bottom?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/22 05:56 AM
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You’re a grown woman. So you made this post vomiting about everything and noted CONSTANTLY that you have a sht ton of issues that you need to fix. So *FIX THEM. Talk this out and learn healthy behavior from a trained therapist, not a Reddit forum. Your boyfriend deserves a sincere and heartfelt apology from YOU for your, quite frankly, shameful and borderline abusive behavior. Do I think you should break up? Possibly. I think you’re sucking him dry. But if you want to keep him and spend your lif…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 12:05 AM
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Option 1.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/22 09:17 PM
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A trick that I’ve seen work is trying to put up your hair with your head and eyes downcast and then slowly (lazily, almost sleepily) blink and look up at him and in the eyes through your eyelashes with your head still facing a little down. This will work if you’re sitting a little far away from him and you know he’s looking at you. It’s a very low-key and subtle method of seduction; it’s almost innocent. Throw in a smile if you so choose.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 07:03 PM
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Depends on the tattoo, its purpose, and where it’s located. Extremely tatted men are really unattractive to me, w/ face, neck, and chest tattoos being a no-go.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 03:35 PM
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She’s been making posts over the past few days. Her last one wasn’t even a full day ago.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 05:22 AM
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But by that point, why should she care what he thinks if she’s trying to end it? He can think whatever he wants, but at that point it has nothing to do with her.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 02:43 AM
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Thank God!!!
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 12:08 AM
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I’ve seen Andrew Tate everywhere recently, who is currently “king” of the Manosphere at the moment. I wonder if this is the man who he has been watching. It wouldn’t surprise me if he’s been watching a lot of YouTube “shorts” recently.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/22 10:32 PM
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All I’ll say is that “in sickness and in health” was put in marriage vows for a reason. I wouldn’t recommend taking him back if he decides to come back once you’ve healed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/22 05:39 AM
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An honorable man, to be sure. I’m sorry for your loss.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 04:29 AM
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I was just thinking about this. Something like men are 6X more likely to leave or divorce a woman after a medical accident or diagnosis compared to if it was the other way around. Truly messed up stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 01:32 AM
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I’m going to add to this by saying that in some hospitals in the US, if one of you gets into an accident, they may very well not let anyone other than family into the room. A significant other is not considered family in many cases; a spouse very much is. I’d check the laws in your area, OP, and what it has to say about that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 01:28 AM
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So ignoring the rest of this, I have two simple questions to ask: A. Are you in love with him? B. Are you attracted to him?
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/22 06:52 AM
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I think you need to go to an actual therapist to work through this fight-or-flight feeling that you are having. I see that you have gotten away from the previous a**hole, and I’m glad that you have, but I wouldn’t be surprised if your previous experiences have given you emotional turmoil. I personally think you need some time to heal before trying to find someone else yet.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 08:09 PM
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So, let me get this straight: You’d be okay with this, so long as you didn’t have to hear it, see it, or even really know about it… almost as if, you really don’t wanna acknowledge that he’s doing it. Therefore you’re not actually okay with him doing it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 02:49 AM
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Curiosity question: what was the anime that gave you a bad impression when you were younger?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 05:43 PM
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I don’t really care to be honest. It’s just nail polish.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 02:54 PM
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Wtf? This confuses the hell out of me too. If he says that he doesn’t like anything about you, fundamentally disagrees with you, doesn’t even want children with you, then why on earth did he even keep dating you? You’re not having sex with him, there’s literally no other reason for him to keep “tolerating” you. The only possible thing I could think of is that you look good in the eyes of his family and are the type of woman he is expected to bring home. Ugh, what a godawful human being. OP, I am…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/22 07:41 PM
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Uh, the second one. Too many crazies out here and if he fucks around and gets someone pregnant or gets himself an STD? Guess who’s now a grandparent dealing with an unready parent or has to cover for health insurance on an STD. Probably me, in this economy. Promiscuity is gross. There’s not much more to it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 11:00 PM
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Great catchphrase from my mom, still married to my dad almost 40 years later and of which I can still hear them getting entangled from the bedroom across the hall whenever I visit: “There’s no law against looking.” Both my parents check people out, and sometimes even tell each other who they find attractive. Dad, watching the Olympics track & field event: “Can you imagine the beautiful babies I would make with that woman?” Mom: “Ha! As if you will ever make anything this beautiful again!” (gestu…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 08:15 PM
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In her earlier albums (debut, Fearless), perhaps that was the case. In Speak Now she takes accountability (Back to December) and never blamed Harry Styles in 1989. In Reputation she took accountability w/ Getaway Car. Other songs were blaming other people (Kim & Kanye) who were actually in the wrong. And then of course, her albums Lover, folklore, and evermore have her taking accountability on all of them. She’s greatly matured since Red (when she was a 22 year old girl). She’s 31 years old now.…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 05:19 PM
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I agree with everything you said here, just want to recommend breaking it up into paragraphs for easier readability 👍🏻
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 04:54 AM
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What about donating or giving them away?
/r/RedPillWives17/03/22 05:50 AM
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I’m pretty sure you just got played. Hope I’m wrong, but I really think you should just cut your losses here.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/22 01:00 AM
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Or just anything at Kohl’s. They typically have a LOT of different brands of feminine clothing!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 08:36 AM
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And what exactly would you call it?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/22 09:35 PM
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Dang 😔
/r/RedPillWives10/02/22 07:19 PM
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I went to a belly dancing class today… and what I’ve found is that my hips indeed don’t lie and their truth is that they don’t exist 😭
/r/RedPillWives10/02/22 01:03 AM
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そうだよ!
/r/RedPillWives02/02/22 03:38 PM
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Didn’t Fresh & Fit get exposed for dating sugar babies and being on sugar daddy websites? If you have to pay a woman for company and sex, you’re not the “alpha” you think you are.
/r/RedPillWives20/01/22 09:20 PM
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Gonna need a scientific study for that one, chief
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 09:13 PM
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Yes, my doctor recommended that I see an OBGYN, so I’m gonna start looking soon. She listed it in my papers as a hymen abnormality. Vaginismus is honestly what I was hoping to not have, even if I had my suspicions…
/r/RedPillWives14/01/22 01:29 PM
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Slight NSFW I went to the doctor yesterday to complete my physical… where they attempted to give me a PAP smear. I say attempted because they couldn’t get it in 🙃 Apparently my… opening is smaller than normal. And it freaking HURT to the point that I was whimpering and borderline screaming after they promised me that it wouldn’t. This is after she simply tried to put in a FINGER. This has made me absolutely terrified to have sex in the future because of the sheer pain. Which makes me upset becau…
/r/RedPillWives12/01/22 08:20 PM
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Your post history is a mess. If he is unable to forgive you for what you did, he will hold this over you forever. That being said, you clearly need to talk to him about the whole moving situation and ask what his intentions are, because at this rate to stretch out something (a break up) that you’ve both seemed to claim is inevitable is just cruel. I will say this: someone who is constantly hot and cold to you, is not reliable. Of course, he’s 22 years old and won’t have everything figured out, b…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 07:01 PM
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It’d be nice if he liked anime too 😪
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 12:41 PM
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And does he know that you’re married?
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/21 09:06 PM
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My brother found his wife using Bumble 😊 They now have a beautiful baby girl!
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/21 06:22 AM
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NO. To all of this, NO.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/21 08:33 PM
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His poor soul.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/21 12:18 AM
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My semester has finally wrapped up! I got 3 A-‘s and a B for “Biology was never my strong suit” 😭 I pulled an all-nighter to put together my final independent study document and sent it to my professor about 3 hours before final grades were due, BUT it all worked out 😅 The three novels I preordered in August have FINALLY arrived and I am so excited to read them!!! They’re doing GREAT in terms of rankings on both the Amazon and Barnes & Noble websites; it’s so nice to see a thing you love be succ…
/r/RedPillWives19/12/21 06:19 AM
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Yes, that’s what I keep telling myself 😆 My brain just concocts too many fantasies that I’m like “welp 🙃” I agree with you on the rest
/r/RedPillWives19/12/21 02:18 AM
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No offense taken 😆 I just meant that in the sense of “wow, calling me out rn”. I agree with you though. I commented a similar line of thought on her post in the rpwomen sub
/r/RedPillWives19/12/21 02:15 AM
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Lastly, virgins are ridiculously desperate horndogs who crave some action. Ma’am, I’m just sitting here 😭 Really though, it’s hard out here when you’re trying to keep to your tenets 😞
/r/RedPillWives19/12/21 01:47 AM
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And why do you need to get married to live together? Unless you’re religious?
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/21 11:25 PM
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Your choice to remain a virgin until marriage is not selfish, but a God-given command according to our texts. “Why are you telling me to disobey God?” I’m amazed that he calls you selfish when this is one of the most well known tenets of the faith. It’s not a matter of playing hard to get, but keeping in line with God’s will and understanding why he commands chastity of us until we are married. For that matter, it’s comes off quite hypocritical of him to say that you’re the one being selfish whe…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/21 11:24 PM
1

I hear you, and think similarly. Luckily I’m in a major where thinking deeply tends to be the point, so I’ve developed a female friend group who are always willing to have in depth conversations off the bat. I personally tend to not differentiate between “shallow” and “deep” when it comes to conversation, simply because everything is merely a discussion. It turns out that what I may find to be a simple analysis of something, my teacher or colleague go “Wow, that was deep,” and I’m like “Wait, re…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/21 09:55 PM
3

I don’t know why you’re getting voted down when you’re right and have said nothing offensive 😐
/r/RedPillWives15/12/21 07:30 PM
1

Sigh. Your experiences are not universal.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/21 10:09 AM
16

To you. Not everyone is the same.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 05:37 AM
20

If they’re not attracted to them, then yeah, probably. People are individuals. While there tends to be a trend of women preferring dominant men, this will not go for everyone, and frankly it’s their own business. God knows I’ve seen women who are into putting on the strap. Again, not really our business.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 04:43 AM
1

Nah, good ole’ US 😆 I simply love the language. Hoping to go to Japan next summer if they decide to let foreigners back in 🤞🏻
/r/RedPillWives11/12/21 07:48 AM
1

I only have (1) exam, for my Japanese class. My religions teacher switched it on us at the last minute and told us to do a project instead… on Monday, with only a week left to do it 🙃 I turn it my Bioremediation project tomorrow, and then I’ll have until Wednesday to get my independent study, my reflection paper, and this new project. On the other hand, the group project that I did for my Japanese class (a skit) won the class competition, so 20 extra points baby! 🥳 It’s here if you’re interested…
/r/RedPillWives10/12/21 04:26 AM
1

Thank you!!! 😊💕🙏🏻 I’m just trying to live 😩😭
/r/RedPillWives09/12/21 01:46 AM
3

I’m a student 😅 part time job is necessary to eat
/r/RedPillWives08/12/21 05:40 PM
4

It’s about to be finals week. I’m tired, hungry, stressed, and SO ready to be done with this year.
/r/RedPillWives04/12/21 11:29 PM
4

Yes, if done correctly. See also wit. I also believe that women can make a great straight man in comedic roles.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/21 02:02 AM
18

Probably because the extreme was shifted the other way. I believe that women in the US weren’t able to open a separate bank account until the 1970s, therefore they had no money of their own. They felt trapped in their situations with men who weren’t fit to lead.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/21 06:18 AM
4

It may be best to at least check with a gyno or fertility specialist so you can see if everything is in order. I’ve mentioned this before to someone else, but check your progesterone levels, because that hormone is essential to keeping a pregnancy. Start preparing your body now. Eat right, get enough sleep, start working out. Give yourself the best chance possible.
/r/RedPillWives18/11/21 08:53 AM
1

Well there you go. I’m sorry, but I also think you should let him go. You fulfilled his “checklist”, but it doesn’t sound like he’s in love with you. He’s frustrated because he’s soft and comfortable? Well, you’ve given him everything. You’ve given him no challenge. You’re the one who gave him his job. What has he actually earned? He doesn’t seem to be attracted to you, because your life together lacks excitement. He’s seeking other things. He wishes to be free, and likely to be promiscuous. You…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/21 01:36 AM
1

Just had another thought: I wonder if due to his clear introduction to RP concepts, he is going through the anger phase towards women, and is so focused on developing wealth because he thinks it’s the only way / reason you’ll stay? I don’t want to speculate too much, but I have to wonder if he’s starting to think that you’re only with him for his finances and not because of who he is as a person? (Because all women are obviously soulless gold digging whores who will leave if you aren’t an alpha)…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/21 12:02 AM
1

I’m sorry, but he just called your existence an obstacle for him. He TOLD you that he won’t be home to help raise them, that he won’t find you attractive. He’s TELLING you this. When he tells you who he is, believe him. Is his parenting style something that you want for your children? Do you want a husband who won’t be around to help you raise them? Who calls you unattractive, who wants you to leave him alone and finds your company annoying because it’s distracting? You don’t have time to wait a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 10:57 PM
19

It’s normal. Many women I’ve talked to get the baby fever in their early adulthood, including me.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 06:03 PM
1

Why do those patterned tights remind me of 80’s leg warmers 😭
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 05:33 AM
5

NFTs?! 🤨🤨🤨🤨
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 01:18 AM
2

You know what they say about bald men… they sacrifice hair for POWER
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/21 12:14 AM
3

That entire cast was a thirst trap, I swear! Even my mother said that Laurence Fishburne was quite the hottie when he was younger! 😂 I love that show, hope it comes back to streaming services
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 10:14 PM
5

When you mentioned pretty boys combined with gruff and rough, I thought of Hugh Dancy when he played in Hannibal 😩 this rings so true, because I was not attracted to him in earlier roles and yet I found him so hot as Will Graham
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 09:38 PM
2

Am fighting a cold / fever on my favorite holiday… :( However, I did go to a Halloween themed salsa night dressed up last Wednesday, and went to a haunted house hosted in an ACTUAL paranormal location on Friday, so I’m still glad that I got some spooky time in the midst of classes! I also started a part time job… I don’t mind it, but I low key regret taking the morning shifts 😅
/r/RedPillWives01/11/21 04:35 AM
6

My mom had me at 39 too. Granted, I was not her first child, but there is an 8 year difference between my brother and I, of which there was a miscarriage somewhere in that time period. It’s not impossible, if you indeed now want children.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/21 06:53 PM
3

Truly, I will never understand.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/21 07:00 AM
9

Wasn’t Fresh & Fit exposed for some extremely shady stuff recently?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 09:51 PM
17

All those red flags from a year ago and you still married him….
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 09:45 PM
2

How old is she?
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/21 08:00 PM
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7-8 hours is not enough sleep, no matter what corporate America says. The amount of missing hours of sleep will only build up and take its toll. Your boyfriend is headed for a crash. He’s using the weekend hours to catch up on sleep, sex be damned, unfortunately. Have you inquired after his health? Have you asked what you can do to make it better? Have you brought up your concerns?
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 03:37 AM
1

You know how we say drunk people can’t consent? This applies to men too. Don’t worry too much about how aroused he gets while drinking; just make sure he’s staying safe.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 08:01 PM
2

Nope, not silly, never silly! My dad says that Pride & Prejudice is his famous romance novel, and he ADORES Elizabeth Bennett. Literally fawned over her traits to me and everything 😂
/r/RedPillWives14/10/21 11:43 PM
2

I relapsed a bit with my eating disorder, so I’m just taking it day by day. It’s so hard to be motivated about my schoolwork without sustenance 😅 On the other hand, I got a job offer! It’s seasonal, so not necessarily much to boast, but it’ll be nice to have some money of my own without constantly leaching off my parents. I also went to the study abroad meeting last night and got hit with this by the teacher: “I’m the only teacher chaperoning this trip, so I can only take 20 students 😃” There we…
/r/RedPillWives14/10/21 07:52 PM
1

Yes, but it also wise to not settle down with a man who WILL leave in the case that something happens to your fertility post-wedding and pre-children, even if everything turns out to be fine right now. It’s not a matter of logic; there are clearly logical (and emotional) needs that he needs met. What I think most of us are getting at here, is that you need to protect your heart too. Regardless of how “logical” it is that he wants biological children and won’t accept medical help in the case of a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/21 06:45 PM
1

I’m glad to hear that. For safety, check for endometriosis and PCOS. That being said, this is above Reddit’s pay grade. Go talk to your doctor and bring up your concerns with them, not us. Not many (if any) of us are medical professionals. Also, you’re 20 years old. You’ve barely matured out of being a teenager. Stop psyching yourself out. Your overthinking is going to cause a lot more damage to your mental health in the long run. Chill out. You have time.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/21 04:03 PM
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Get progesterone levels checked. This hormone is essential to keeping a pregnancy. Get in touch with a gynecologist. Eat well & healthy and WORK OUT. Not vigorous, body building workouts, but general conditioning and weight lifting tends to give fertility a boost. Keep yourself low stressed, and get enough sleep. When you start trying to conceive, get off the birth control and wait a few weeks before taking prenatal vitamins.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 06:28 PM
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It’s as simple as “You’re new, of course you’re lost. But you can do it, I believe in you. Everyone starts off this way, but it won’t last forever. I love you and believe in you, babe.” And end it there. If he keeps going on with it, then just put your foot down. “Knock it off. I understand that you’re stressed and anxious, but you chose this job and this position. Stop talking down about yourself, because it won’t do you any favors. Again, I believe in you and have confidence that you / WE will…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 09:39 PM
19

Is it cold to ignore someone? Yes. If you’re not interested, then just say that. Don’t pull him around on a leash until you decide you want to play with him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 04:26 AM
18

For me, it backfired. After our first date, I waited for him to text first, and he never did. Didn’t hear back from him for months until I received a FB message at midnight saying “Yo what’s up”. Pretty sure I got downgraded. Never doing that again. Now if I’m interested in someone again, I’ll let him know. I made the mistake of playing a game, and I messed up. Better to just be completely transparent and go from there.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 04:24 AM
5

We do relationships here, not hookups
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 11:50 PM
10

Uh… good for them? Why the heck would I judge another’s culture based through the lens of my own limited perspective?
/r/RedPillWives09/10/21 07:04 AM
3

Do not form a covert contract based on what you HOPE happens. This is dangerous. It has become violent, and now it WILL escalate if you decide to stay. That being said, if your social skills are truly deficient right now, then let me offer you a piece of advice. DO NOT EVER get up in someone’s face. This is an act of aggression and provocation. Common street knowledge will tell you to not be surprised if the other person retaliates as a response to your own aggression. You provoked him. He gave …
/r/RedPillWives06/10/21 11:04 PM
2

Yes she is! 😌💕 My favorite moment is when she intervened between WWX and Jin Zixun at Phoenix Mountain. I admired her diplomacy and grace in mediating the situation ❤️ It was extremely easy to see why Jin Zixuan fell in love even after initially rejecting her
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 01:29 AM
1

Off topic, but I just noticed that you’re also a Mo Dao Zu Shi fan 🤩 never expected to see another fan in this neck of the woods
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 06:02 PM
6

Nope.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 06:00 PM
16

It’s almost as if she’s asking on how to get out of that mindset… oh wait
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 10:02 AM
4

Because most of the girls I knew in high school were, uh… somehow messed up in one way or another, even the ones I was rather close with. I had maybe 2 - 5 female friends who were genuinely good people, looking back on it and seeing where they are now. So at that time, I naturally viewed my relationships with my male friends as “better” and/or closer, less drama, etc. Lo and behold, it turns out that of the male friends I had, at least half of them sported some type of crush on me. I only have o…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 09:56 AM
1

Slightly off topic, but does not finding bodies sexy in general include women too?
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/21 01:18 AM
6

Gothic looks have their own charm, I think ☺️ Anything Victorian inspired looks really nice to me… that and / or Morticia Addams
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/21 07:54 PM
9

“And the main girl has every right not to be part of any potential fallout” Yes, exactly. This is why we would prefer to not get involved with such a man who would choose to engage in such behavior. Which is the whole point. STIs such as HPV, herpes, molluscum, syphilis, and pubic lice (crabs) can be transmitted even with a condom. This is a basic Google search, and was also taught to us in high school sex ed. I don’t think I need to explain why I and other women don’t want to risk this. “I just…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 07:04 PM
3

Be careful.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 06:36 PM
13

“Side girls don’t get to harbor offspring.” Baby trapping is a thing, you know. Whether it be lying about medical birth control or poking holes in the condoms. Regardless of how YOU may feel regarding your side piece, the side piece is still a woman who may or may not have an agenda of her own because of her own emotional connection to you. And now we have to deal with the emotional and financial fallout of an illegitimate child who now has to grow up in a broken home. This is simply not worth t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 06:32 PM
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I wish her all the best
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/21 09:33 PM
2

UPDATE: My roommates and I celebrated with a shot of lemon vodka and small sips of moscato and sangria… and I think I’m about to pass out 😭
/r/RedPillWives23/09/21 03:01 AM
5

I turned 21 today 😊 On the other hand, I’m way too tired to go out and live it up right now 😂😭
/r/RedPillWives22/09/21 11:47 PM
2

Trust your body! Muscle memory is a real thing, to be sure. Be consistent with it and you’ll be surprised at how quick you can bounce back. I wish you the best of luck! You can do it!!! 💪🏻🤞🏻
/r/RedPillWives21/09/21 04:54 AM
7

Why do you care?
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/21 03:51 AM
2

Holy crap, you’re back! I hope you’ve been doing well! How is your husband, your new baby?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/21 11:37 PM
29

Own your shit and fix it, that’s how.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 06:26 AM
3

This ☝🏻
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 03:57 AM
5

Read your other posts. Kick him to the curb. What he does after that is on him and is his responsibility and his choices, not yours.
/r/RedPillWives19/09/21 12:35 AM
7

Brother is now standing and walking 🙏🏻 They’re planning to discharge him on Thursday after an evaluation on Monday. He’s planning on doing the rest of his PT and recovery at home, so my niece and nephew will be absolutely thrilled to see him… they’ve been missing him so much, and I know how hard it’s been on him to be away from them too… It’s such a whiplash to realize that he was almost dead two weeks ago… nothing short of a miracle… I got to visit my sister-in-law, niece, and nephew last week …
/r/RedPillWives18/09/21 09:14 PM
2

Fair enough 😂 All I can remember is Jackie & Wilson and Jackboot Jump blowing out my eardrums, especially live 😭🤣
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/21 04:46 AM
4

Hozier is low energy? 😭
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 07:08 PM
19

This is probably one of the most delusional, idiotic things I’ve ever read. Your relationship is not a soap opera; this is NOT going to work out in your favor. If you insist on putting yourself through more unnecessary angst, pain, and drama for the sake of it all, by all means do so. Just don’t come crying here when this so laughably and predictably comes down crashing and burning.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/21 08:48 PM
1

Thank you 🙏🏻
/r/RedPillWives07/09/21 02:43 AM
1

Relieved, to be sure! He’s wanted to enter the military for so long…. I love him and want him to be happy, so I was extra relieved to hear that he wasn’t kicked out. That one was my biggest concern besides (obviously) his survival. I’m just praying to God that he successfully makes that full recovery 🙏🏻
/r/RedPillWives06/09/21 05:51 AM
3

It is, which is why I’ve stopped going there. But I’ve definitely learned a few things from it.
/r/RedPillWives06/09/21 05:48 AM
4

I’ve been keeping track of your posts, and your last post was exactly what I was afraid of. If he’s desexualized you completely, then there’s really nothing you can do anymore. I’ve frequented the dead bedroom subs quite a bit, and the men who eventually lost desire for their wives essentially “converted” them into non sexual beings; one man was so uncomfortable that he compared it to as if having sex with his sister. If this is where your husband is at, then I don’t think it can be fixed…. The …
/r/RedPillWives06/09/21 05:37 AM
6

That’s what I’m getting at here. A genuine warning borne out of concern would not sound like this. The “just saying” part gives it away. Combined with OP’s mention that her BF has custody of his son rather than his ex-wife when (US) courts are known to favor the mother, that lends credit to the boyfriend’s side of things.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/21 04:19 AM
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A fake account isn’t extremely freaking fishy to you? That being said, continue on as normal until he actually DOES SOMETHING. If it’s the ex wife, it’s more than likely she’s trying to sabotage him. This isn’t how women who are actively trying to look out for each other warn each other. “Just saying.” I’m sure she is. Without any proof to back it up.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/21 08:28 PM
3

My brother has come through 🙏🏻 They’ve taken the ventilator out and have moved him out of the ICU unit. They’re slowly introducing soft foods back into his diet. He’s working on his PT exercises, and his commanding Sergeant visited and said that as long as he makes a full recovery, he can continue with boot camp! So thankful for this 🙏🏻😭 I had my first appointment w/ a new doctor two days ago. They’ve taken some blood work and urine to determine any underlying issues for me being underweight. Sh…
/r/RedPillWives05/09/21 05:31 PM
6

Q: did y’all actively decide on the date tomorrow, or was it a wishy-washy “hey, we should totally do this on [weekday]!”? Cause the latter is a suggestion, not an active concrete plan, especially if there was no time settled on. In any case, I’d make an alternative plan or outing so that you’re not left waiting around.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 12:51 AM
1

“How can you become a wife without behaving like a wife?” Off topic, but that’s a question we ask regularly here 🤔😵‍💫 If we act too much like a wife and do everything that a man would do with his wife without the actual marriage (sex, living together, taking care of the home), then what incentive do we give him to marry us? Why buy the cow when we’ve already given the milk? Chicken or egg, indeed….
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 01:05 AM
7

Remember, RPW is a toolbox. Take what you need and leave the rest. If this is a boundary for you, then it is a boundary. That being said, if this relationship is indeed ending, then you simply have another thing to vet for now.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:44 AM
2

Well, if you don’t have trust then you don’t have much of anything, I suppose 🤷‍♀️ Sorry to hear that. I’m curious as to what’s causing the lack of trust. What is causing his jealousy? There’s clearly a mature solution to this, and he’s choosing not to use it. How odd.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:23 AM
1

Then please mention that instead of saying that you couldn’t ask him. You certainly can, and you did, and you can do so again. Try asking him again and frame it around wanting to share your love of this music with him, and wanting that concert experience with him, and it’s a tradition that you would like for him to partake in with you. He never knows unless he gives it a shot, and that goes for you too.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:19 AM
2

What do you mean that you “couldn’t” invite him? Did you even ask if he would like to come? Even if he hates the artist, he might have been willing to come because it made YOU happy to do so, and he would be more comfortable being with you knowing that other guys would be there. An artist’s music is ALWAYS better in person simply because of the sheer passion and energy present. I bet your ass he would have come around. Way to shoot yourself in the foot.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:12 AM
5

My brother has possibly contracted Guillain Barre syndrome while at boot camp and has now undergone intubation and is currently in the ICU. I’m terrified of losing him and don’t know what to do. My mom says that the next couple days are critical, so I’m praying to God that my brother can get through this. His life was finally coming together, and it always seems like something comes along that fucks him over. I’m angry and I’m scared. I know that this was a bit much to rant here, but I’m just so…
/r/RedPillWives29/08/21 01:24 AM
7

None if you feel like killing yourself. PLEASE get therapy, please learn to love yourself. Your post history makes it sound like you’ve made your life revolve around your ex. Who are YOU outside of your ex? You thought he was “The One”. How good is someone who is easily influenced by their mother and dumped you on the same night he said he would propose, to be a life partner? Is his mind so easily changed? Also, you sound bitter about everything, especially in regards to your social life. You ne…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/21 04:39 AM
8

Is this the same dude that you broke up with “for good” 288 days ago?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 06:03 AM
6

Because if this person is indeed real, then they desperately need a reality check… hoping for the best 🤞🏻
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 07:27 AM
27

You’re a walking contradiction, that’s why he broke up with you. Fine with open relationships, but no sex? You weren’t interested in him for his money, but all the things that you planned out for your “future” together involved a shit ton of money that he would have to shell out??? What on earth was he supposed to think?
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 07:12 AM
3

Emily Wilson. She walks the walk and she talks the talk and she looks very happy doing it 😊 She gives such WONDERFUL advice regarding personal boundaries and relationships and it has that element that you can tell rings true ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 07:09 PM
5

So a couple days ago, I was in the Chick-fil-A drive thru and the girl taking my order was like “omg you’re so sweet, a lot of people have mean today” and I just 🥺🥺😭 she looked ready to cry… I thought that I wasn’t even saying anything beyond the standard “please” and “No thank you”, so it honestly just makes me wonder how bad people have been treating her to the point that what I considered to be a standard few words of conversation was enough to make her emotional… it costs NOTHING to just be …
/r/RedPillWives11/08/21 10:09 PM
3

And thus, sticking to one’s own personal morals indicates a strength of will, self-discipline, and a firm belief. These are very attractive traits in a man, and a HVM (in the eyes of this sub, at least) is more than likely to have these. If that involves restrictions on sexual behavior because of a certain value system and/or logical reasoning, then I dare say that is certainly not a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 06:54 AM
10

Can’t tell if troll or not 🤨 Post history is suss
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 05:59 AM
1

Today was a pretty good day! I’ve started on my renderings for my project, and I just found out that the novels that I’ve been currently obsessed with are getting official English releases scheduled for December; the preorders for all three are currently topping both Amazon and B&N lists! I’m so excited!!! AND I found that two of my favorite soundtracks have been added to Apple Music. All that illegal downloading years ago has now been made moot 😭😂
/r/RedPillWives05/08/21 05:32 AM
8

Dude… I’m begging you to go outside and take a break from social media.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 07:09 AM
22

HARD no. The possibility of STD’s alone makes me want to vomit. If I ever found out he was seeing other women, he’s not touching me again. My body physically revolts at the thought, not even getting into the emotional toll.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 12:54 AM
1

Indeed! It’s always helpful to remind oneself that your professors only want to help you. Mine have personally been wonderfully supportive and understanding of my personal struggles thus far, and only want to help me succeed. Even if it’s late, even if I’m embarrassed, it’s nothing to the regret I’ll feel if I don’t do this now.
/r/RedPillWives02/08/21 04:06 AM
2

I finally emailed my professor about one of my incompletes asking for feedback, and I finally emailed my advisor about my independent study for this fall… anxiety can be a real hassle, but I’m glad and relieved that I bit the bullet after putting it off for so long.
/r/RedPillWives01/08/21 05:29 AM
24

Let’s break it down. You’ve only been together a month, and he wants to marry you after only being together for less than three. You barely know each other. No sane man would lock himself down this quickly. He’s trying to trap you because you’re gullible. He’s only 20 years old? What is his job? His credentials? His proof? What are his cleaning habits? What is his relationship with his parents, his siblings, his friends? Have you even met them? How does he treat you on a date? How does he treat …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 08:13 AM
3

Well then, look into that career field and see your options! Plan it out, and see what that would look like on your own timeline, what you need to do to achieve it. In my opinion, it’s okay to not have everything figured out, but be smart about it!
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 04:04 AM
5

Have you looked into architecture / urban planning? I’m currently majoring in landscape architecture, and one of the projects my program does at the beginning of each spring is work with a small town community who reaches out to us and asks the students to offer ideas and conceptual plans to address the problems and desires that given community faces. Sort of like a “vision” for the face of that community to inspire growth and resurgence. We create plans, sections, perspectives, sketches, etc. I…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 03:58 AM
2

Just came back from visiting my sister-in-law. My brother is currently at boot camp for the US army and will be for the next 6 months, so she’s currently trying to balance work and 2 children under 4 years old. Her father has been staying with her in order to help out, but it’s pretty obvious that she’s struggling. My nephew is especially acting out because his father is missing, and both my sister-in-law and her father were getting upset at how much he is misbehaving. I adore children, but damn…
/r/RedPillWives26/07/21 03:46 AM
14

Leader of what? Innovator of what? “Hell if I know.” I’d figure that shit out first.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 03:39 AM
9

Question: what do YOU want out of life?
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 03:12 AM
3

I finally finished up regrading all of the contours for the site that I’ve been working on for my studio project, and now I can finally move on to renderings and drawings. I’m praying to God that I will get this project done before the semester starts. I’ve started translating Japanese songs again; I’ve forgotten how much I enjoy doing them, and discovering the different ways to interpret and transliterate the lyrics in a way that I can comprehend the songs’ intents and meanings. Finally signed …
/r/RedPillWives23/07/21 08:08 AM
17

Well that’s a fucking lie if ever I heard one. Jesus Christ, you need better male friends and role models.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 07:29 AM
2

Thank you for clarifying. If you want to be with Guy B, then be with Guy B. Stop seeing Guy A outside of official business matters. Put a stop to all casual encounters and draw a clear firm boundary. You may have a history with him, but realize that you two broke up for a reason. Don’t fall back into a pattern simply because you want to only remember the good times with him. DON’T DO THIS to Guy B. I hope you realize the emotional damage it will cause if he ever finds out. “I’m dating YOU, but I…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 03:58 AM
2

Let me get this straight: You’re dating Guy B and Guy A at the same time? But Guy A…. was your ex? But he’s also your business partner…?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 03:10 AM
3

Indeed
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 02:55 AM
9

….. OP, I’m happy for you, but please fix your spelling and grammar.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 10:28 PM
6

I’ve been struggling heavily with apathy and just general melancholy. I just don’t have passion for anything, and I’m trying to get my life back together, but I’m just constantly wondering “What’s the point?” I’m finding it difficult to feel emotion. And I’m not trying to sound like an emo edge lord when I say that, but I don’t feel like I have a purpose, even that of just living for myself. I know that burnout is a thing, but is it normal to be feeling that for over 4 months?
/r/RedPillWives12/06/21 11:50 PM
26

Fucking RUN
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 08:20 PM
2

Yes I know, this was very much a tongue in cheek comment 🤣 Catch me looking up at God like ”Come ON” as I lay there single and dealing with the internal fire wreaking havoc with no outlet 😫
/r/RedPillWives30/05/21 03:42 AM
14

Main thoughts that encompass my week: “How do I deal with extreme horniness while adhering to my religious principles” “Why is adulting so difficult” —> “Existential crisis inbound” “God I hope that stereotype about geniuses being messy is true because there is so much I have to clean 😭”
/r/RedPillWives29/05/21 06:55 PM
3

I sincerely believe that music is a powerful influence in achieving a peaceful mind and countenance, especially at times when I require meditative contemplation. Gregorian chants, operatic choirs, natural sounds combined with Celtic music, neural beats, folk music, etc. I’ve linked some of my favorites below: Adrian von Ziegler: https://youtu.be/v2qOllkxwiw https://youtu.be/ddZKwg63bRg Chinese flute & guqin: https://youtu.be/d7Mbes50XvA Gregorian / Operatic: https://youtu.be/TwWdDGtH8b4 https://…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/21 06:27 AM
7

Seconding this. If you’re autistic, then you are probably the one who expresses emotions differently rather than him. Remember that it’s all relative, and that what you consider to be “emotional” may perhaps be what we consider “normal” and “within reason”. Either way, seems like there doesn’t seem to be a problem here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/21 02:01 AM
6

“Why I call my husband my Master”......... I’m happy for her, but there’s a line where I’m not sure that I needed to know that. Whatever makes her happy in the bedroom and in her own marriage, but if she’s intending to be an advice channel, then I’m not sure about the type of message she’s trying to send, especially for what it could represent to vulnerable girls.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/21 02:52 AM
11

I would suggest either r/RPChristians or r/cleanlivingkings
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/21 01:46 AM
3

Perhaps a coffee shop or a library?
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 09:18 AM
2

Knock it off. The only one viewing you as less than men is YOU, and that is your own personal problem. YOU have chosen to view yourself as less than, as emotional and irrational and illogical. Here’s the beautiful thing: logic and rationality are traits, sweetheart. You can cultivate them regardless if you’re a man or a woman, and you can also learn to control your emotions with practice. It’s the same as with men. If you want to be strong and buff, then do the proper workout regimen to achieve …
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/21 04:47 AM
1

I think you sound loony
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 07:22 PM
1

Who the heck told you that 25 year old women are too old??? You’re not dying in your 30s or 40s. 25 is considered a proper age to get married and start having kids. Both my sister and my sister in law didn’t have their first child until 29-30. If you’re so worried about your fertility, then get your levels checked by a doctor. But it’s more than likely that you have little to worry about.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/21 06:33 PM
4

Big fat NOPE!
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/21 03:25 AM
2

You’re making an awful lot of assumptions here, not to mention misusing the terms of baby daddy and baby mama. These two terms are meant to refer to people who had their children out of wedlock, and often in a casual manner. That is not the case in this situation. She was married and had all her children with this one man. She hasn’t committed any behavior that would suggest her being “loose”. In this situation, I actually bet that a lot of men would say that she is within her rights to separate…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 11:55 PM
4

Possibly a man who has been in the same situation? Blended families are hardly uncommon. Be kind.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 09:44 PM
7

Realize that if you’re planning for marriage with this man, then you are willing to have sex with this man for the rest of your life. Think about that.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 04:17 AM
2

https://www.instagram.com/p/CK4LHT6DCx0/?igshid=d8q49rrbz8n4 https://www.instagram.com/p/CKPF5J1DE-Y/?igshid=qr7ske3lqd7f Here are two more. If a man wants you, YOU WILL KNOW. If you’re confused, then it’s more than likely that he doesn’t, beyond a booty call. Go forth with a clear and firm heart, and only accept clear answers. A muddy answer reveals DIRTY intentions.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 08:19 PM
1

https://www.instagram.com/p/CNaT1aVjNnN/?igshid=m5en86vy8ip3 Here is one of my favorite feminine influencer’s take on it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 06:10 PM
2

Well, therapy is what YOU make of it. So long as you’re paying for it with your own money, then frankly, it’s ultimately YOUR decision. People are always capable of change, no matter what age they are. The reason most people don’t is because of sunk cost, but that’s ultimately a self-fulfilling prophecy. I’m quite perplexed that your partner would make such a comment.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/21 10:57 AM
-4

Were you chewing with your mouth open or something? Or were you the one making the grunting noises?
/r/RedPillWives31/03/21 07:02 AM
19

Did he ASK?
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/21 12:08 AM
2

Also check the #rules tab and select the green check mark!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 11:11 PM
3

Definitely introduce yourself! The mods have an interview process to check that you’re not a troll. After that, you can request access or ask one of the mods on how to gain access to the rest of the server!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 11:10 PM
7

https://discord.gg/GaMDpbJe
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 07:26 PM
3

The only one that I can think of who might actually be sincere in his convictions is Hozier. That’s literally it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 02:18 AM
15

As someone studying landscape architecture, I’m telling you that it’s just as hard as engineering, if not harder. You literally don’t leave the studio because you’re always focused on figuring out the problem, and then having to have the proper drawing skills and technical knowledge to communicate your ideas. Plans, sections, elevations, perspectives, diagrams, programs, etc. And that’s just for STUDIO. 4.5 hours of sleep is a GOOD NIGHT. Don’t fall for this path thinking it’s gonna be a breeze.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/21 08:29 PM
2

Also “We’re square”... would not surprise me at all if he also got with someone in Vegas
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/21 02:42 AM
3

This is some College Fessing sh*t...
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/21 12:54 AM
3

Is English your first language?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 10:56 PM
3

Yup, this ☝🏻 My dad would take new routes on the way to dropping me off at gymnastics just to see what would happen to find out if there was another shortcut, as opposed to taking the tried and true routes 😂 Most of the time I ended up being 30 minutes late. It drove me nuts!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 06:10 PM
1

“Lickerroom” Ha!
/r/RedPillWives14/03/21 03:07 AM
6

If it’s any comfort, we have a Discord (only women!) where we talk with each other informally, get advice, and just hang out and chill! 😊. Please feel free to come on over! https://discord.gg/WjSJNSBY
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/21 02:36 AM
1

Do you have any advice on how to GAIN weight? My metabolism is on the other side of the spectrum; I’m constantly hungry and when I DO eat, I’m immediately overcome with fatigue and when I wake up, the process starts all over again. For reference, I’m 5’9, size 0-2, and around 120 - 130 pounds
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 01:37 AM
3

Looks like someone’s been burned
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/21 05:43 AM
3

“I’m not having sex with someone I’m not in a relationship with.” How is this strong arming? He’s free to leave if he likes. He does not have to pursue any further if it doesn’t line up with what he wants. Hell, he could lie just to get into her pants and then break up and leave once the act is done. But then who manipulated who in this situation? If he stays after the act and after the agreement to be a boyfriend, then he is there because he likes her for her personality and/or company. The boy…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 05:00 AM
2

I personally don’t intend to strong-arm a man into anything. I didn’t realize that not having sex until deciding to become committed boyfriend and girlfriend (where you can leave at any time?) is such a large barrier for you. What a struggle. My own personal life is irrelevant here. Besides, it’s not like withholding sex is the only way here. It is merely one strategy of many from the toolbox that RPW offers, that we each take based on our own circumstances. Personality, interests, outward image…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 04:42 AM
2

Actions over words, indeed, and apparently she never rejects him for sex, and is therefore ACTIVELY having sex with him whenever he wants and practically follows his every request. Because the reality is that most men will not commit to a woman who puts out easily: this is the lesson she learned, and that is what is taught in this sub. In order to secure commitment from a man, a woman does not want to be easy; otherwise the man doesn’t see the point in committing to her. In order to secure commi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 04:10 AM
6

Did you miss the part where she has affirmed that she never turns him down for sex because she enjoys sex with him? Where she calls him her beloved? Where she praises all of his qualities and doesn’t say a negative word? Does that sound like a woman who’s not attracted to her husband? Where do you see in this post that she has “rationed” sex with her husband? “Why would she care how to interact with her husband or how to maintain her femininity if she isn’t genuinely attracted to him?” Hmm, it’s…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 03:06 AM
17

Ugh, I remember commenting on a post in r/Deadbedrooms and the woman replied that since I posted on RPW, that she “literally had no interest in what I had to say.” She then proceeded to make another account, FOLLOW me, and make inflammatory remarks on all of my posts. All I said to her was that Tinder was probably an unreliable dating site 😂 People are weird
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 10:25 PM
2

The irony given the amount of whining I see on that sub.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 10:18 PM
3

Sounds like a bullet dodged. He sends you a picture of some other girl he’s having sex with while he claims to really like YOU? Just because you didn’t call? How petty do you have to be? I mean, good for him I guess, but if he’s so butthurt that he felt the need to rub it in your face, then it sounds like good riddance. Cause God knows that I wouldn’t want anything to do with him after that!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/21 08:07 PM
1

Alright, you’re trying to rationalize something based a barely-even-slightly probable negative FEELING. You realize that doesn’t hold up in court?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/21 12:11 AM
4

Ngl I dislike that term too. So childish and all I can think of is Teletubbies... and a fat man 😂
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 07:39 PM
9

This better not be you leaching off of him for his money. It’s horribly unclear what exactly your question is.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 06:58 PM
4

If you have a telescope or know a place with not a lot of light pollution, you could go stargazing!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/21 01:54 AM
38

Therapy, my love, you need therapy. You’ve undergone sexual harassment, assault, and likely abuse, and it doesn’t seem like you’ve dedicated the time to addressing and confronting what has happened to you. The main issue I’m seeing here is that you haven’t seemed to ever truly stick up for yourself. You sound like a doormat and you let people walk all over you, and you haven’t ever set the record straight? Even when you KNOW you were wronged? These are things that you need to discuss with a ther…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/21 03:01 AM
3

Seconding this. Being blunt is the most effective way to get the point across.
/r/RedPillWives27/01/21 09:00 PM
1

Question: is this the same guy that you posted about 83 days ago who you were apparently breaking up with “for good”?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 08:56 PM
1

This is my dad’s favorite detective novel. Perhaps it’s time to give it another go!
/r/RedPillWives20/01/21 03:58 AM
16

Love yourself first before dating anybody. Your obsession with your “unattractive” face and how you relate to the opposite sex is super unhealthy and you will NEVER get anywhere with that mindset. For the love of God, cut it out. I don’t know how many times any of us are going to tell you this.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/21 02:04 AM
3

I got my parents to like it too! My dad’s reaction after the first episode was “Someone needs to grab a sword and KILL these sons of b****es!” It was so funny 😂
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/21 08:57 AM
0

Your opinion is respectfully the wrongest of the wrong 😝 But fr, even after season 3?
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/21 08:54 AM
3

Based 🤙🏻
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/21 03:23 AM
2

Basically any channel that is involved with anime culture. That can be reviews, abridges, amvs, or even just otaku or Japan related. Most popular channels include Gigguk, TheAnimeMan, Akidearest, and CDawgVA. I’ve linked Gigguk and Aki’s channels: https://youtube.com/c/animezone https://youtube.com/c/akidearest The boys have an anime podcast that is quickly growing popular too: https://youtube.com/c/TrashTaste
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/21 11:22 PM
10

I’m offended that you didn’t mention Attack on Titan. A near-goddamn masterpiece.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/21 11:09 PM
2

I love anime. It just depends on if it consumes one’s life, just like gaming or pornography. Hell, with all the anime YouTubers I watch (two of which are in healthy relationships), that line is also blurry. The last man I was interested in also loved anime, but he was also in GREAT shape, had a job, and was pursuing a degree in marine biology. I’m currently studying to be a landscape architect and adore reading & exercising. Do YOU like anime? Is it something you’re open minded to? Or is it some…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/21 11:06 PM
5

Question: why exactly are you still talking to him?
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/21 01:18 AM
2

Define her “warning” you of the FWB. Because this sounds like a thinly veiled assertion that she’s gonna keep seeing this guy. She’s avoiding talking about it and shutting you down when it comes up? Are you SERIOUS? She’s clearly cheating on you and the writing is on the wall. This is NOT a mature woman who is willing to settle down with you. She might marry you, but you can bet your ass that it’s just gonna be for the money. I just want you to know that she has to be willing to change FOR HERSE…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 10:25 PM
2

So he’s gaslighting you? He keeps you as his top plate, but he clearly has no interest in exclusivity. If this collides with your values and is not what you want, then you’re incompatible. Plain and simple. You can start the process of separation by slowly disentangling your lives. Start talking to him less, make sure all your things are in a different location, look into hobbies or endeavors that you’ve always been interested in, make new friends, etc. Try to find things that occupy yourself ou…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/21 12:12 AM
5

A person only has control over their own actions. He didn’t have to go crazy over his roommate, but he chose to and decided to blame you to remove any blame on himself and not confront his own issues. And you’re buying into this? Nah, don’t. It’s not your fault that he’s a nut.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/21 06:39 AM
3

Why did you decide to leave? I’m confused here. Why should her texting convince you to not visit your man?
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/20 06:53 PM
24

You wouldn’t happen to be /u/applepies4kittens22 would you? If you are, take the advice other women have given you on your previous posts. If you aren’t, I would highly recommend looking at the responses that the women have given her, because your situations appear to be VERY similar...
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/20 11:48 PM
2

I would say don’t worry over things that haven’t happened yet. This is an imaginary situation that you created in your head. It would be very weird if your (ADULT) children say that to their father about giving a gift. Have they said things like that before?
/r/RedPillWives18/12/20 08:38 AM
7

Girl... you don’t know how much I would LOVE to get up as early as 10 am, but unfortunately some people’s brains are oriented towards the night. It’s a lucky day if I’m up by NOON, because my brain is usually most active and productive around midnight to 3. It is what it is. Perhaps you should analyze WHY you’re having these feelings? Where are they coming from? If this bothers you so MUCH to the point of disgust, perhaps ask him to participate in earlier activities with you? Ask to work out tog…
/r/RedPillWives16/12/20 08:15 PM
6

You’re good 😂
/r/RedPillWives15/12/20 05:41 AM
10

I thought that was only for r/RedPillWomen?
/r/RedPillWives15/12/20 05:33 AM
18

Well you’re in the process of divorcing him anyway, so I fail to understand why you felt the need to ask this. Grow some self respect and go through the separation.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/20 05:32 AM
5

Sigh... sounds like a very serious conversation is in order. If marriage is an absolute must for you, then this must be made known clearly, calmly, and firmly. Prenuptial agreements are a thing, so perhaps a compromise could be made if he’s worried about his own money. Don’t be mad at him, because as you’ve stated, he’s had a very bad experience with his parents. Say you understand, but if he’s going to constantly be afraid of you turning into his mother, then you’ll always be on edge because it…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 01:52 AM
3

Rest your fears and check with a gynecologist
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 03:26 AM
2

Well you better damn well be prepared for those outcomes and know the plan of action for them. Don’t be wishy washy about this. STIs can bypass protective measures. I’m going to emphasize this: DO YOUR RESEARCH.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 08:55 AM
2

Be careful with this. It can be very easy for you to be taken advantage of, not to mention the practical risks. STDs? What if he got another woman pregnant? WHAT WILL YOU DO in either of these cases? As someone already mentioned, this isn’t something you “advertise”. No one wants to know your personal sexual kinks while they’re getting to know you. It’s practically a one way ticket to being a plate. Take some time off Reddit to do the required readings and research as opposed to posting every qu…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 08:46 AM
5

A. You’ve been posting an awful lot on this sub for the past couple weeks. Isn’t this your third post in the past day or so? Perhaps doing the required reading on the sidebar will quell some of these questions that you keep asking. B. Do you actively WANT a partner who sleeps with other women? Or are you just saying this because you want to “advertise” yourself as a more appealing partner? Just a warning: fantasies are fantasies for a reason, and can be very different from your reaction in reali…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 08:32 AM
3

Is this the same guy from the post that you made no less than 16 hours ago that you also claim to feel no passion for and everyone told you to leave?
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 10:37 PM
2

Let it go if you feel nothing. I think that should be fairly obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 11:14 AM
3

“Take a break from the Internet.”
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 08:57 AM
2

Outlander is VERY good in the romance aspect
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 08:01 AM
2

I’m so excited for the third season! 🤩
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 08:01 AM
2

I’m seconding Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms! Rise of Phoenixes is also well done!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 08:00 AM
1

Darling, you really don’t need to be thinking about this stuff. Checking your post history, I don’t think you should be on Reddit at all...
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 07:57 AM
8

If you’re not ready, then you’re not ready.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 07:07 AM
2

They aren’t, but this is the women’s subreddit
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/20 12:04 PM
7

I’d say if it comes up again, ask him to elaborate. “What do you mean?” As an optimist, I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt, and different movements can mean different things to different people. Ultimately his actions will speak louder than his words. If he dismisses you on the basis of your sex, then that may be a sign to hit the road. The thing about black pilled men is that they’ve given up hope and tend to see all the negativity in the world. I’m not going to say that it’s your j…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/20 03:01 AM
8

YES I LOVE HER SO MUCH. She deserves so much more attention in this subreddit!
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/20 02:52 AM
10

I personally wouldn’t even think about moving in until a wedding date has been established. A woman posted here a little while back: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/jj9898/i_32f_moved_in_with_my_boyfriend_44m_with_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 09:41 PM
6

Q: Have you read the sidebar where they already go into all of this?
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 12:00 PM
12

☝🏻
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 11:55 AM
1

We can go private if you’d like
/r/RedPillWives15/11/20 09:43 PM
0

How so?
/r/RedPillWives15/11/20 09:23 PM
2

We certainly express love differently (love languages exist for a reason), but to say that women are incapable of love is absolutely ridiculous. To try to weigh our hearts against each other ultimately serves no purpose except to foster resentment and hatred. Not to mention that it is literally impossible to do so. Trying to answer this question takes up way too much unnecessary brain space, imho.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 09:13 PM
18

Perhaps your mom is worried by how fast you two are going? May was not all that long ago. At the very least, it may look to her as if you are being swept away by NRE and aren’t thinking properly, so she’s asking you to have some sort of control. Of course, you know your relationship better than her, but it might be worth bringing this up to her to see where the concern actually lies.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 08:54 PM
9

You’ve posted here several times before, so much so that I think that you’re not listening to the advice other women have already given you. This obsession with your “unattractive” face (of which I seriously doubt) is downright unhealthy. Please seek some type of therapy or self care, otherwise I really don’t think any of us are going to help you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 08:50 PM
1

BWAHAHA 🤣
/r/RedPillWives13/11/20 11:52 PM
3

It would depend on his character. Some men just go through a really bad patch due to external circumstances and require their partner to step up and support until he gets back on his feet. This was my dad when he lost his job and had my mom go back to work until he could find another. In regards to your marriage, does he plan on working himself up a ladder, or does he plan to just stay where he is?
/r/RedPillWives13/11/20 11:51 PM
3

This happened with me. Ultimately, my way of letting go and gaining closure was essentially apologizing for any creepy behavior that I may have exhibited and telling him that it won’t happen again. Time heals all wounds, and this includes rejection. Ultimately just focus on yourself and have other goals to fill your time. Are you a senior in high school? Dm me if you want to talk about it more, because I was in the same position as you!
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 01:24 AM
4

So is engaging in any other form of media when you think about it. Video games are just one way of engaging with a story, and are good for winding down. There’s no need to be condescending.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 09:10 PM
2

That’s honestly what it’s like 😆 Most of the time it’s because I’m too sleep deprived to be annoyed with someone else’s bullshit 🤣 The cigarette meme dude is the best description: https://imgflip.com/memetemplate/194516701/depressed-balcony-dude
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 05:01 AM
11

If my brothers would have ever let me touch the Xbox when I was little, then I might have been 😆 They let me watch. When my brother convinced me to play Skyrim when I was 13 ish, we played the whole night... and then my dad shamed me for playing it the next day 🤷‍♀️ I do love anime, though 😆
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 03:35 AM
6

I’m the same, and honestly? I’m consistently still annoyed, but I let myself feel it for a moment and then move on with my life. The subtle art of not giving a f**k, and all that.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 02:00 AM
1

Ah, yes.... salt and feelz all over this fella right here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/20 04:54 AM
4

Her post history paints a better picture
/r/RedPillWives07/11/20 02:18 AM
3

Sounds like it just depends on the school then 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWives06/11/20 06:09 PM
5

It’s not about “waiting” for Mr. Right, it’s about only starting to look for Mr. Right while also having to focus on a graduate education that one eventually has to start paying off for (and we all know the deal with student loans). Financially it’s a huge burden to undertake, not to mention that she’s currently 31. It’s generally unwise to have a baby while going through grad school if she manages to find someone, but by the time she would be out of school and get married, she’ll be around 34-3…
/r/RedPillWives05/11/20 11:02 PM
18

Well, she already has a bachelor’s. Going to law school (grad school) is a huge commitment in terms of both time and money, and she’s already 31 years old. Realistically speaking... it’s a huge gamble to make.
/r/RedPillWives05/11/20 10:33 AM
3

Good for you; I’m happy that you know your preferences. Again, it is just a personal challenge for some people. You certainly don’t have to agree with it. But this is OP’s relationship, not yours. What she asked for clarification on was mainly if she should be worried that he isn’t attracted to her. Telling her to question the relationship based on what you personally believe, as an atheist, to be silly, is slightly uncalled for. I think we can agree that OP’s post is slightly vague; I was just …
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 09:16 AM
7

You could turn it into a game of seduction, if you’d like. Sometimes the sexual tension is better than the actual sex. In which case, this sounds like a spicy December in your future 😉 Otherwise, I’d just try to respect his wishes. It’s only a month, and a month really isn’t that long in retrospect. Perhaps a period to get reacquainted with yourself personally? Either way, I don’t think you have to worry about him not being attracted to you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 08:38 AM
3

I would argue that it’s not about an obscure challenge... it’s kind of similar to Lent or Ramadan when you think about it. Restraining from certain desires for a certain period of time is a test for proving one’s strength of will of their mind over their body. This man is question has chosen undergo such a challenge likely for such a reason. For some who struggle with more secular things like porn addiction, this is “the month” to try and restrain from sexual desires in order to properly rewire …
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 08:33 AM
3

I was referring to marriage in regards to your life goals, not the moving part 😆
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/20 02:21 AM
12

His money, his choice of course. I think the wanting to move in so quickly thing is a bigger red flag. And he doesn’t want to get married. When someone tells you who they are, believe them. Does this collide w/ your own life goals?
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/20 12:59 AM
3

Well, then you have your answer, so long as you are being honest with yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/20 12:51 AM
7

In regards to your final question? Yes. However, if he is indeed truly remorseful and sincere (which is for you to determine), then the next questions are: Are you still in love with him? Are you willing to forgive him? / Are you capable of forgiving him? The answers to these will guide you as to whether or not you personally want to put in the time and energy to fix your relationship, or just start anew.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 06:10 AM
1

Well at least you have your priorities straight.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 03:29 AM
1

I think you have way too much time on your hands. As well as define “misbehaving.” If she slaps him, he’s allowed to slap her back. If she starts it, he better damn finish it. Regardless, this guy is dead, and anyone who I encounter in real life who slaps a person unprompted, I try to avoid. Plain and simple. “You women”... ah. You’re a dude. Read rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 03:26 AM
1

Have no idea who he is, and have no idea what the point you’re trying to make is.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 03:18 AM
7

Maybe ask if you could at least clean up after YOURSELF, as opposed to the both of you? In that situation, I personally would tell him that I appreciate it as a kind gesture and a sign of his wanting to take care of me, but I also don’t want to turn into a spoiled brat who can’t do anything either. Just sounds like a simple conversation needs to be had.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 12:33 AM
23

You post a LOT about your self image and how much you hate your face. I really urge you to seek professional help, because more than likely? You’re not as ugly as you think you are. Ugliness or just general unattractiveness comes far more from personality and personal confidence than anything else, and your lack of self confidence is more than likely oozing out in your aura, and THAT is what men find off-putting more than anything else. Please learn to love yourself, first and foremost. Remember…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 09:19 PM
8

🥴🤣
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 03:22 AM
9

Talk to your counselors or a trusted teacher. I recommend one of them as a mediator between your other teachers so that you can reach an understanding.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/20 03:01 PM
6

Well, don’t screw yourself over by continuing to select the wrong man. 20 years down the road, if you stay, you’ll probably wish you had left now. It’s better to take the chance, improve, and find someone better rather than waste your life being stuck with this drug addict child of a man. You’ve known this for at least almost a year. YOU CANNOT CHANGE HIM. A woman can never change a man; he has to have that drive himself. It’s better for you to go into nun mode and carefully try again, and to TA…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/20 01:05 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/20 12:32 PM
12

Well then define wife privileges, sir. What’s the point of getting married if you don’t have to get anything from her? Then again, Mr. MGTOW, you don’t want to get married and don’t intend to, so one can already guess your answer. May I ask why you’re here?
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 11:33 PM
3

My brother in law is a year younger than my sister, and yet he has proved himself capable of taking care of her. They’ve paid off all their combined student debt, have been on a few travels, and are now expecting a baby due next month. This is all within the span of the past 5 years since being married. Age is but a number and doesn’t necessarily indicate maturity level.
/r/RedPillWives26/10/20 10:26 AM
1

If you’re referring to bisexuality.... we’re not. I don’t know how to explain to you that I’ve felt horny for both since puberty. It is what it is, dude.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 10:02 PM
4

You’re right, that is a red flag. In which case, how likely it it then, that he’s either lying about his n-count, or he’s planning on cheating? I think these are two separate situations. I appreciate that you’re just trying to look out for me and making sure that my standards aren’t too high, but I’m also not that stupid. A lack of male friends and too many female friends? Might as well have a red blinking arrow saying that something is wrong. We are in agreement on this.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 09:40 PM
9

Let me straighten out one thing: I’m a Christian, and a virgin. I aim for a partner with the same values. I’m more forgiving if he had sex in long term relationships, but anything higher than 4-5 is a no go for me personally. PERSONALLY. If he’s been going around having sex with god knows how many women, then I’m not letting him touch me. It is what it is. I understand the differences between men and women, but personal experiences in observing men close to me say otherwise in regards to sex. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 09:25 PM
0

No, the point is to be feminine, first and foremost, and this goes for whether one is in a relationship or not. Should we just stop being feminine when we are single? In the end, femininity is just a collection of certain traits. There will always be someone out there, male or female, who is attracted to those traits.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 08:56 PM
3

Also psst... love that Lord Sesshoumaru artwork 😉💕
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/20 02:41 AM
20

Us girls here just want to be WOMEN, to be feminine. As long as we’re all respectful, you’re always welcome! 😊
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/20 07:48 PM
66

Hi! 🙋‍♀️ I’m the same 😊 I view it as appreciating the beauty inherent in both of the sexes, as well as appreciating masculinity and femininity in their own separate spheres! And there’s a lot to love about both of them! 😊
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/20 07:06 PM
1

You’re a side chick.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/20 12:53 AM
5

Haha, I just checked Ceddit. This dude is incredible and has the audacity to lecture when he himself has been in 1-2 affairs, according to his post history. And THEN he tries to posture, and apparently was so desperate for the last word that he had to message you all petty and vulgar. Typical.
/r/RedPillWives13/10/20 10:47 PM
4

And now I’m curious what was said...
/r/RedPillWives13/10/20 07:18 PM
13

Man, I think a count of 6-7 is high, but 50??? 🤢
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 07:00 PM
40

While I personally don’t like tattoos, it really depends on his character first and foremost. I believe one of the ladies here has an SO with tattoos. If he has a good heart, treats you right, and you’re attracted to him, then it’s really your personal call. If you don’t like tattoos, then all the more power to you. But I don’t necessarily think there’s a “prerequisite” for combating an RPW lifestyle in regards to tattoos. They’re just pictures, inked into the skin 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 02:35 AM
1

Read through the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/20 07:55 PM
1

Having sex without commitment would be EXTREMELY dumb. We don’t advocate that here. It’s highly unlikely that he’ll commit to you with CASUAL sex. Depending on how much older he is, it’s likely that he may never commit to you regardless of what you do. Then again, you’re being vague. My advice overall to you would be to stop having non committal sex and focus on getting yourself through college. I don’t know what else you’re expecting for most of us to say.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/20 07:53 PM
5

Read the sidebar (specifically #4) Use your head and not your groin. Personally? If he’s THAT much older and I knew he was pursuing other women, I’d be running a hundred miles in the other direction. I find that kind of person so gross, no matter how rich or handsome he is. Are you seeking permission from us to have sex with him or something?
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/20 07:40 PM
3

Are you having one night stands with these guys?
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/20 07:28 PM
2

I was mortified reading that, Jesus Christ.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 04:01 PM
39

For me personally, I think it’s gross and shows a lack of self control and discipline. “Sowing oats” and all that just makes me want to vomit. What if he got another girl pregnant? Do I suddenly have to deal with the mother too? How does he view sex and love? Is he even able to pair bond by this point, or does sex not mean much to him anymore besides a dopamine release? Does he have or had an STD? Has he even checked? Then again, I’m not sure that I would even ask. If he suddenly goes into his p…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 04:54 AM
1

I don’t have a lot of sympathy for people who create their own problems that they knew they could avoid. Just hope that she swallowed her damn pride.
/r/RedPillWives30/09/20 12:37 AM
1

There’s an entire reading list on the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 08:18 AM
5

Don’t use Tinder for dating. It is pretty much just a hookup app. Google other dating apps that are available in your country and check the reviews on them to make sure that they are relationship centric. And obviously, don’t have sex without a clear established commitment. Other than that, exercise and eating healthy, and experiment with different clothing styles to see what flatters you best.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 03:43 PM
4

You can be as aware as you want, and still not be doing anything. You can read a self help book and advice forums for as long as you’d like, but the end results actually indicate how much of it that you’ve put into practice. And here they are. You’re still fighting with him. Stop playing the victim. You are ALWAYS in conscious control of your actions. You LET things trigger you, and you LET your parents influence you. You LET yourself lose control of your emotions. We all have a will to overcome…
/r/RedPillWives26/09/20 09:25 PM
2

My guess is that he’s giving her a final chance to apologize before he nukes the marriage. I hope she takes it.
/r/RedPillWives26/09/20 09:12 PM
2

Just checked your post history. Honestly, your husband is probably just sick of your bullshit. Did you take ANY of the advice that the RPW sub gave you, or did you just blatantly ignore it? I’m going to be harsh for a brief second: Apologize to your husband for being so disrespectful, and if he’s still willing to work on things, then you need to promise him that you’ll change and get help, and learn to STFU. You blatantly argue with him when you know he’s right just because you don’t know how to…
/r/RedPillWives26/09/20 05:37 PM
4

You’ve been banned too?! Damn, all the best girls are getting shafted
/r/RedPillWives20/09/20 08:08 AM
2

Wait, there’s a discord?!
/r/RedPillWives20/09/20 07:44 AM
6

Hi! 👋🏻 I’m 19 (will be 20 in a couple days), currently single, and I’ve mostly been a RPW lurker since around December / January. Just wanting to reconnect with my femininity after high school while also coming to terms with my bisexuality, and what that means for my future relationships. I’m currently studying to become a landscape architect!
/r/RedPillWives20/09/20 05:15 AM
44

Man, you really said that to him
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/20 04:39 AM
6

/u/LuckyLittleStar /u/CrazyHorseInvisible /u/pearlsandstilettos Your call.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/20 12:08 AM
1

“Step on me!”
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 03:56 AM
8

This statement brought to mind Avalon’s situation. I hope she’s doing alright.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 03:54 AM
7

You and Kara seem to be the most qualified, given your amount of stars. I trust y’all’s advice the most. I’m rooting for you if this is how the mods are gonna go ✊🏻
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 03:42 AM
1

Why did I find this funny 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 03:39 AM
2

They HAVE, but only comments here and there, and they keep deleting their history.... I’m also surprised the mods haven’t banned him yet. He literally has none of the requirements for a man to be offering advice
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/20 07:10 PM
1

Well of course it isn’t, but that effect doesn’t use any religious context? I know what prayer is, but “Can you believe these people” by itself doesn’t call upon God in any way, so I perhaps fail to understand your point 😅
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 07:41 AM
1

Like what?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 12:44 AM
1

Same thing with my brother. Only started taking Catholicism seriously after he married his wife and had my nephew. I believe my own father was the same.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 12:43 AM
1

Sounds like you’ve trained him to not want sex with you, and now that you’re willing, all the resentment he’s held back broke through the dam. Also as a result of the former, he likely doesn’t view you in a sexual way anymore. Have you ever acknowledged and apologized for the pain that the dead bedroom may have caused him? I’m not trying to accuse you or anything, but r/Deadbedrooms goes deep into this.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 05:36 PM
1

I STILL don’t know what they mean by that
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 02:08 PM
12

So either you fix YOUR problem or break up with him as you’re not sexually compatible. In regards to your sudden panic attack in the middle of sex, it could be possible that you’re either: Having side effects to birth control Low estrogen or testosterone levels (get them checked) Aren’t attracted to him Some sort of trauma You’re just asexual If your low sex drive only started when you entered THIS relationship, then what does that tell you?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 06:33 AM
7

I’ve never understood that hang up. Whenever you hear someone say Jesus, it typically is just a substitute for “Oh my god” in awful situations, which is typically meant as “Lord have mercy”. It’s meant as a simple prayer. The hell do they mean don’t use it in vain???
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 03:15 AM
10

r/RPChristians goes into great detail on this. I’d highly recommend taking a look over there
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 01:38 AM
4

Jesus... fair enough, dude
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 01:35 AM
3

Reality is you aren’t and never were. You tried to see if you could go along with it, and it turns out you can’t. Trial and error. You have no obligation to him, especially at detriment to your own self respect. It’s really... NOT abnormal to want and expect mutual fidelity.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 02:45 AM
3

Break up. This is just a difference in values, of which you clearly have. He wants to be polygamous, you don’t. That should be the end of it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 02:39 AM
1

I hope to make some sanguinaccio dolce (blood pudding). Dress up in a gothic Lolita dress and watch either Hannibal or The Addams Family. I hope to one day host a Halloween banquet though! 😊
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 07:25 PM
3

Then... break up w/ him?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 11:34 AM
2

Idk why you’re getting downvoted when you’re right. Technically he shouldn’t be even be replying considering the fine print of the side bar, particularly rule 9. Just a male who likes to hear himself talk, I guess
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 11:01 AM
1

I mean... surrogacy or test tubing could be a good option?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 03:14 AM
8

I like how you always have a whole ass essay for everything you respond to
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 01:29 AM
2

Grammar Are you a man or a woman?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 06:27 PM
7

Not to mention tailors
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 12:41 AM
1

Emily Wilson?
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 12:34 AM
1

If he’s not passionate about it, then he doesn’t want it. Sounds like y’all aren’t compatible. Hypergamous isn’t the same as having different life goals, which is what’s going on here. The longer you linger, the more difficult it’s going to be.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 09:29 PM
1

Are you good?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 09:46 PM
2

She essentially made her boobs look different, and then got mad when he was disappointed that they looked different when the bra was removed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 06:56 PM
29

You sound like you shouldn’t be in a relationship with your self esteem issues. You tell him that it was okay for him to tell you, and then you blow up and start screaming accusations that you know aren’t true? You’re allowed to be upset about his comment, because it was a VERY rude one, but you handled it so immaturely. A lot of things in your story raise red flags, such as your age gap and the fact that you’ve only known each other for two months. Besides that, what exactly is your question?
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 06:40 PM
2

Either chicken with basil, Italian, and special shit paired with broccoli, or broiled salmon with basil, paprika, cayenne, garlic powder, red & black pepper, and occasionally red chili powder... paired with spinach. I used to use a Tuscan spice blend from Wegman’s, but I haven’t been able to find it recently.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 09:45 PM
9

She’s not fearful of her husband’s reactions; she openly admits that she knows she’s just saying things to argue against him, even when she KNOWS he’s right. This is the complete OPPOSITE of being fearful. Her husband has not manipulated her in any way, she’s doing it to herself because of her own low self esteem. She SAYS this. SHE feels inadequate and contributes this to herself, not to him. She lists every single one of his wonderful qualities (treats her like a queen!!!) and you ask her how …
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 09:34 PM
2

Good for you! But then, why did you feel the need to mention it? Did anyone ask? You live such a good life! You seem quite busy that I question what you’re doing on an advice board for women and telling some how un-red pill they are when it has already been stated that RPW is a toolbox that we take from as we need, and not necessarily a whole lifestyle. We apply the knowledge in reference to our own circumstances and situations. In regards to masculinity and same sex attraction... Ancient Greece…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 06:44 AM
3

The thing about alpha males.... they don’t tend to posture and gloat about how manly they are.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 05:59 AM
5

I don’t have advice, but that was a wild ride to read 😆
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/20 10:38 PM
5

Such an ultimatum after only a year? That doesn’t sit right with me either. How often do you two meet up?
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 12:59 AM
1

Sir, that is the comment that you responded to. When she said that “femininity doesn’t equal being a doormat” you responded with “umm you don’t understand that feminine literally = submission tho”, with the THOUGH implying that you were trying to defend the doormat statement, and also undermining her knowledge of her own femininity. Also, femininity is the entire embodiment of traits that are seen as womanly, and does not only consist of submission. If her relationship with her own husband, a ma…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 10:21 AM
3

Submission ALSO doesn’t equal being a doormat
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 07:36 AM
1

Are you the same woman who asked if you were dating a manipulative player?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 03:55 AM
3

So have you actually asked him point blank if he has any desire to marry you? Sounds like you’re just driving yourself crazy when there seems to be a clear lack of communication. Just ASK him, point blank, if he actually wants to marry you. Does he ever INTEND on marrying you? It’s either YES or it is NO. No qualifiers, no excuses. Either way, stop giving him all the milk. Stop threatening to leave him and then not following through, because now he doesn’t take you seriously. Stop nagging him an…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 08:37 AM
54

Yeah, no go. Mentioning his female hookups and calling your text conversations cringy is about as disrespectful as it gets. He sounds gross.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 09:45 AM
1

Actions will always speak louder than words
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 12:14 AM
-3

I would say that it depends on how dark your leg hair is. Light hair is soft and relatively unnoticeable from far away compared to dark hair. Also note that body hair grows back darker and less soft each time, so... honestly it’s your gamble.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 10:04 PM
3

What else is new?
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 03:28 AM
1

Your husband is hot! You’re a very lucky lady 💕
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/20 02:10 AM
3

You.... I like you ❤️ That woman is a holy treasure. I am continuously shocked by how underrated she is. Which are your favorites, if you’ll indulge me? 😉😆
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 04:23 AM
2

Kanon Wakeshima’s old stuff is fantastic! Still Doll and Sand Castle will forever give me that gothic Dracula’s castle vibe
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/20 08:05 PM
8

Loreena McKennitt, Mindy Gledhill, Kalafina, Aimer. If you’d like any recommended songs in particular from these artists, feel free to ask! Two random songs would be King by Lauren Aquilina and Bright by Echosmith
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/20 06:23 AM
6

Emily Wilson. Just an overall beautiful soul.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 03:06 AM
5

This is the issue I have with my brother and his wife; I have no clue on how to act when he does this, especially when the offender is family.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 12:05 AM
2

That’s the one
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 11:06 PM
2

Was it that Jewish account?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 09:53 PM
6

Rambling, non-specific, therefore not worth the headspace
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 09:06 PM
13

Her making that claim while wearing only a sports bra says quite enough
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/20 02:07 AM
22

“Never down for sexy time” = his likely rejection of her and her body. The dead bedroom sub goes more in depth with this (and there are a LOT of female posters) but if sex and physical touch are your particular love languages, lack of such can leave one feeling unloved, undesired, unwanted, depressed, disgusting, etc. This is downright dehumanizing and painful, and she probably didn’t tell you about how long this has been going on (likely for years). It doesn’t matter if everything else was “per…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/20 09:57 PM
5

This sounds more like something r/Deadbedrooms would be able to help advise you on...
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/20 05:47 PM
3

Check their history. This is a dude.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/20 08:37 PM
2

☝🏻
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 04:28 PM
10

That line sounds like it came right out of a comedy skit
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 09:25 AM
21

I like how r/RPChristians tends to reconcile the two by pointing out that if you are NOT attracted to them, then you shouldn’t marry them, but if you’re “burning with lust” for one another, then you are HEAVILY RECOMMENDED (due to Scripture) to marry first, but naturally be smart and vet them. The typical recommended period between dating and marriage is typically two years; long enough to test compatibility and commitment without burnout for waiting two long (specifically for the man). I know R…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 06:09 AM
15

I’m bisexual as well (though like you, I’m not always comfortable with that label). In the end, this sub is about improving yourself and bringing out your femininity, usually in the hopes of attracting a suitable partner. In the end, RPW is a toolbox, and you take what you need depending on your own situation. I’ll put it this way: lesbians / bi women are ALSO attracted to women, and by extension, femininity. How you choose to split roles in your personal relationships with women is just that: y…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 07:54 PM
2

Not to mention bullying an autistic man at work and scaring her little cousin with a screamer video because she was bored and annoyed that the little one was “bothering” her. “She” has been 23 for quite a while now, and made a contradictory statement about her boyfriend in the post where “she” made fun of him for the way he spoke to his cat and calling him “the most macho man ever.” And this was AFTER “she” came here for advice before. Jesus Christ, OP. If you’re gonna be a troll, at least be co…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 07:33 PM
9

I think the “even if she WASN’T married” bit was implied. Let’s not overanalyze and treat it as a ranked list of importance 😆
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 07:19 AM
6

What a heartless and tone deaf response. Her body was violated unwillingly and her husband has disregarded AND disrespected that fact. She has examined her “volatile” feelings (relived her trauma) well and long enough.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 06:23 AM
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I’m thankful that my niece was borne safely and is a very healthy little child, and my sister in law survived the birth while pushing out a ten pounder! 😆😊 Much to be happy and thankful for, even during these times...
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 06:10 AM
4

Darling.... this behavior isn’t very becoming of you. Why are you so desperate for and hyper-focused on this man’s attention? He doesn’t want you because you were hot and cold with him, and now you’re acting petty and obsessed because he lost interest. Unfriend this man on everything and move on with your life; this truly isn’t worth the headspace and going off of your post history, it would be best to focus on yourself for now. This man isn’t worth the trouble.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 05:01 AM
5

Loreena McKennitt’s voice is always one I’ve admired in both singing and speaking... her voice has a very calm, soft, and knowledgeable tone that somehow seems to remain delightfully happy and/or amused... a woman who has seen things and has experienced the ways of the world... Here are a couple interviews: https://youtu.be/WfAuX5kJOl8 https://youtu.be/ZPo_GqCwCc8
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 03:47 AM
5

Why would you even care what we think?
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 07:10 PM
1

Not really. Your post has hurt FEELZ written all over it due to your trauma. This is an advice sub, vs. your post which comes off as trying to get a rise out of people. Again, trying to actually accomplish anything? I recommend the main redpill sub for your vents.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 08:54 PM
0

Okay, and? Why do you feel the need to post this in a sub that is against feminism? We know this stuff already.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 08:49 PM
1

It looks like he’s having a full on breakdown tbh
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 08:48 PM
4

Are you ok?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 08:40 PM
2

I felt/feel the same, and I also struggle with depression... honestly, the best advice I have ever managed to follow is just to take it one day at a time, little by little. I easily get overwhelmed, so it’s much more tolerable when I compartmentalize my duties. I’ve also repeated the mantra of “this won’t last forever” over and over again, and use that as my strength to keep going. Because it doesn’t. It’s just a little bump in the road; quarantine WON’T last forever. A slight setback, but it WI…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/20 06:51 AM
4

Upon reading your post history, I really don’t think there’s anymore you can do except to stop enabling his behavior. I’d honestly recommend the trial separation. If he doesn’t change by then, he never will.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 02:23 AM
9

Giving your partner pleasure equates to you being a slut?
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 04:15 PM
2

He sounds unstable. I understand his anger, but there was no reason whatsoever for him to start calling you names. Although I have to ask: how drunk were the two of you?
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 11:42 PM
9

Unless he has actively done something disrespectful to you, then I would just let it go. There’s no need to worry yourself over something like that, darling. My dad watches and believes a lot of red pill stuff, yet he actively still adores my mother even after almost 4 decades. They were holding hands in the car today, fingers intertwined and all 😊 Don’t let yourself fret, love 💕
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 06:04 AM
1

So he gaslights you and doesn’t listen to you and doesn’t even acknowledge his own hypocrisy? Gtfo of there; this BOY is not a man, he’s immature and projecting
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 06:35 PM
1

Wait, BP is finally dropping an album? 😮
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 11:35 PM
1

Okay but what about this? https://youtu.be/fjj5WbtenTM
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 11:33 PM
3

I’m white, but I just binged listened to a bunch of songs from Sanjay Leela Bhansali’s movies while I pulled an all-nighter 😆 Nagada Sang Dhol and Malhari definitely helped fade off the fatigue
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 06:05 PM
6

I listen to almost every genre of music, but in terms of femininity? Usually neoclassical or folk music, or occasionally soft pop. These three songs immediately come to mind: https://youtu.be/2y4jSkOVgbI https://youtu.be/dS5GfL9F7L4 https://youtu.be/3fUvYUpICW4
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 02:22 PM
3

Believe it or not, it DOES work that way. There’s no reason to go COLD. At this point, I think it’s worth the asking, even if it’s only to save yourself the time. No games, just honesty. “Do you actually want a committed relationship with me or am I just a placeholder for you?”
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 10:36 PM
8

I was just seeing if there were any previous weird behaviors revolving around your previous sexual encounters. My immediate thought after reading his post behavior is that it seems like he’s the type of guy to enjoy the “conquest” or “chase” and then lose interest once he succeeds or has the girl. To immediately leave after sex is a very cold thing to do. To use his friends as an excuse seems to indicate that he wants you gone. I hate to say this, but he could be holding you as a plate rather th…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 10:11 PM
-1

Q: did he ever ask you about your n-count before you had sex?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 09:38 PM
1

I’d just let it go for now. Give an “Alright, then” and be done with it. Hold your frame and focus on yourself. If you actually are radiating masculine energy, then she’ll respond accordingly. Maybe this is her way of trying to respond to that after shutting her femininity down due to toxic feminism. Either way, no use obsessing over it, my guy
/r/askTRP13/05/20 05:14 AM
3

r/deadbedrooms is a good place for you to explore that question
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 04:20 AM
3

With all due respect, many of us HAVE learned some insight from reading there; otherwise, we likely wouldn’t be here, learning how to adapt based on their way of thinking. Many of the men in my own life have gone through the same things that the men in that sub rage about. It’s wholly understandable, but it is still sad and depressing to see and read; naturally, most of us do not want to constantly be in that environment, and thus do not go there often. There’s no reason that both notions cannot…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 03:17 AM
1

Indeed!
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 12:00 AM
2

I don’t think that it’s necessarily a case of not understanding... it’s just the truth that these men are angry and don’t view women favorably. While it’s very understandable WHY they’ve arrived to that place, it’s also just... not attractive. Why would a woman want a cynical, angry man who hates the very core of who she is, as a partner? Like you said, the men may likely be changing for the better, but until that time..... he’s not likely going to be a good partner.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 11:57 PM
2

I was thinking the same thing... like damn, y’all have time to write all of that? The worst part is most of it focuses on their “discovery” of some aspect of women in general.... which they then view as automatic fact based on their own worldview...
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 11:43 PM
3

Stylewe and The Pyramid Collection have many lovely feminine choices, if admittedly on the expensive side. Off topic, but I love your username and can’t help but think of this song that was obviously inspired by it: https://youtu.be/JAEF9m_-TLU
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 11:37 PM
1

Fertility concerns, usually.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 02:05 AM
5

To be fair, we truly have no way of knowing, despite me also having suspicions. However, I think the other commenters have merit as well. If he couldn’t accept it, then he needs to leave as opposed to letting it fester and insulting her. I read a post at r/deadbedrooms recently where the woman told her partner her number and he couldn’t handle it. As in, constantly asking explicit questions about everything she’d done with previous men (as well as random people who she’d never met?). She then di…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 09:49 AM
13

Maybe I’m a rarity, but even if he’s “high quality” the idea of a man having slept with 50 women makes me internally retch. The higher risk of STDs, the lack of emotional security (is he serious about me or am I just another potential plate? Is he just going to give in to the next woman who throws herself at him?) the possibility of a pregnancy or love child and therefore dealing with their mothers (crazy exes), differing views on the value of love-making, etc. To me, it’s just... bad news. I ad…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 09:00 AM
8

I’d be careful about your reasons. It sounds like you just want a family simply for social concerns, rather than your own personal desire. Bearing and raising a child simply because you are feeling either implicitly or explicitly pressured and not because you actually want and love the child is unwise and can inflict emotional damage upon the both of you. I recommend to examine your feelings a little more regarding your plans.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 08:41 AM
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I don’t mean this question disrespectfully, and don’t intend to shame you at all. However, you seem to be avoiding saying the number, as if you actually are ashamed of it. So, pure curiosity question: how many men have you been with? And is your boyfriend privy to that information?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 06:49 AM
1

Okay, but what was his reason for cheating?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 04:44 AM
2

I’m glad you’re getting your bearings together, but just a little piece of advice: try saying “I THINK” instead of “I feel”; feelings are constantly changing and unsure, but thoughts are coherent and show intelligence as well as a better grasp of your own mind. “I feel” tends to unconsciously imply that you’re not thinking, but instead are going off of base emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 10:46 AM
2

Why are you still with him??? O_O
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 10:40 AM
1

I agree. I was referring more to their particular “situation” or “case” ending up there... definitely more likely to be him posting
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 05:19 PM
3

Would you mind recommending some channels?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 08:55 PM
19

Alright, based off of your post history, you need to get yourself in check before you even think of hurting that man again. You have serious self esteem issues that it doesn’t seem like you have addressed, and it wasn’t your previous boyfriend’s job to be your therapist. If you’re not attracted to him anymore, then so be it. If he’s not alpha enough for you, then maybe pin down why and tell him what attracts you. But don’t you dare try again if the core feelings aren’t there. Otherwise you end u…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 03:27 AM
9

Maybe not aggressive, but more... uncalled for? Especially the “wait ten years and see how you’ll like it” bit. Completely unnecessary and a huge leap.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 08:39 PM
1

Clarify their intentions directly. “Do you actually want to see my artwork, or do you have more promiscuous intentions in mind?” I read your previous post, and (to me at least) it seems like HE thought it was obvious that he was hitting you up. Kind of like the age old “Want to come over to my house and study?” As to avoid awkwardness, I personally struggle with that too, but my best advice is to stay out of each other’s way and try not to talk to him one on one (unless you want / need to). But …
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 06:18 PM
11

Sir, the women here already understand that. We abide by RP and praise masculinity. Have you read the sidebar? There’s no need to be aggressive to this young lady, and there’s no need to project.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 06:05 PM
1

Depends on who I’m married to
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 04:17 AM
11

Sir? Postpartum depression is no joke. The fact that she has not brought up her depression to her husband is indeed on her, but it is entirely another thing for him to completely disregard her feelings/concerns/suggestions when she has brought them up. If her husband has ignored her feelings completely, then this leads to the wife feeling unappreciated, unloved, and unimportant. The fact that he doesn’t seem to desire her after SHE HAS ALREADY ASKED only amplifies those feelings. She stated that…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 11:32 PM
9

What is it about sundresses that unhinge you so? 🤔😂😉 Pure curiosity question
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 10:31 PM
7

I really have no idea what the point you are trying to make is...
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 06:16 PM
9

I did. You say “applicable to RPW” and yet you only talked about yourself and how it doesn’t apply to YOU. Then you use pretentious mumbo-jumbo to make it seem like you have deeper philosophical insight when in reality, you just come off as butthurt. If you have things in your life that you enjoy, then these can be considered hobbies. Time goes by fast and life gets busy, so anything that one is able to do at least 3 times a year can be considered an interest, like hiking, gardening, reading, et…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 04:07 PM
7

I mean, what did you like to do before you met your husband? It’s really not that deep. I think OP was talking about girls who OBSESS over anything and everything their boyfriend/husband does and literally have nothing else to do. “Netflix and chill” is not a hobby, I think was OP’s point. I don’t know what your job is, but it’s clear that you enjoy it and that can count as a hobby. You’re reading into this too much.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 03:28 PM
7

Alright, so you’re a pop culture geek who likes to read and learning new random things yet also cares about her family. They don’t have to be “independent” or “unique” interests; simply “learning” can be a hobby in itself.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 01:44 PM
7

I’m 19 and trying to wait for marriage as well 👋🏻 My mom (who’s Catholic) recently told me that she thinks I should experiment. However, I don’t try to frame it as a matter of “purity” but rather as a matter of emotional and logical choice (with a hint of kink 😉). I simply do not want to share that side of myself with anyone except the man that I want for the rest of my life, and who feels the same way. I’m simply too emotional and vulnerable, and if I were to engage in sexual relations before m…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 07:55 AM
1

I just realized that they’re probably a troll account
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 02:54 AM
1

Good luck
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 02:48 AM
2

The literal definition of a slut is a woman who has many casual sexual partners. Stop being an idiot and having constant casual sex. “Alphaness” means nothing to me. Get help, because you’re not gonna get it from men. Mental issues in a woman are not “cute”, or “attractive”, or “sexy.” One last time: You are NEVER going to get what you desire. Face that fact, and hopefully you can salvage what’s left of your dignity.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 01:39 AM
2

Most do; but they don’t like a slut. You’re never gonna get what you desire in the way that you’re doing things now. Accept the harsh truth. Actually? Get therapy. You’re trying to rebel against your abusive religious past, but you’re destroying your body and mind in the process. You view women who follow TRP as” infantile” (which isn’t even true) yet you’re the only one who’s acting like a baby. You let yourself fall into primal base instincts and choose to ignore the strength of will that the …
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 01:25 AM
2

Good for you. But then stop asking for advice, because you clearly lack the understanding as to what actually works. This sub focuses on understanding the psyche of men and utilizing it to achieve the best outcome for both the man AND woman. If you can’t even understand that and are unwilling to listen, then what are you even here for?
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 01:14 AM
3

You’re getting denied, rejected, and abandoned anyway. The fact that you’ve bothered to post this means that you KNOW you’re doing something wrong, which you ARE. You don’t have to LIE about liking something, just don’t engage in actually DOING it. There’s a huge difference; I suggest you learn it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 12:58 AM
6

I’m a high libido virgin who also happens to like orgasms, yet I know how to control myself. Stop having sex until you have guaranteed their commitment. Don’t talk about your sexual past unless you’re in the bedroom. Stop putting out so quickly. Take the goddamn advice the other girl gave you and stop trying to justify your own actions because you don’t like the truth. No one cares if you’re an alpha female or not.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 12:48 AM
5

Your username and post history says everything about you. Take the advice or leave.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 12:40 AM
1

I confess that I don’t watch much of them either, but it tends to be the genre where you find most of the traditional gender roles 😅 Like I said, I prefer mystery/psychological, so things like Steins;Gate, Promised Neverland, Psycho Pass, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 04:54 AM
1

And the rest of Makoto Shinkai’s works — Your Name is a must! ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 04:52 AM
6

Oh boy do I have news for you regarding anime: Most of it IS NOT FOR CHILDREN. It is a medium used to tell a multitude of genres and stories that happens to use animation. Saying that it’s merely for children is simply an ignorant statement.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 04:20 AM
8

Hello, fellow anime fan here! 👋🏻 My favorite genres actually tend to be more of the psychological / mystery / suspense variety, but ones (that I’ve seen) that might be up your alley are Kimi ni Todoke and Ouran High School Host Club. I’ve also heard that The Wallflower is pretty good too... anything by Key and Kyoto Animation tends to be good as well, such as Air and Kanon. Hope this helps! 😊
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 12:17 AM
7

Ehh... to each their own, I guess
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 09:43 PM
8

You mean like the Madonna-Whore Complex?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 07:45 PM
3

Ffs, GO
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/20 05:14 PM
5

Then just say, “I do, but what’s the harm in seeing the physical proof?” Doesn’t it just strengthen your case? Why would it bother you so much? Ugh, I’ll never understand that trust question; it seems too much of a deflection and, in my experience, tends to be used as emotional manipulation. Facts speak for themselves. IF IT WERE ME, then I’d say something like, “A sexually transmitted infection is no joke and something that we both need to be completely transparent and absolutely sure about. I …
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 05:55 AM
1

Reread the last part of my comment. And then take it in, understand it, embody it, live it. At this point you’re making excuses and no one has patience for another’s pity party. Something to think about.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 02:12 AM
1

Then you’re attracted to abusive men. And that’s a habit you need to break, because that attraction could get you killed. For fuck’s sake, you’re not ugly; you’re actually quite pretty. You need therapy for this, whether you like it or not. Honey, this is starting to sound way deeper than being bullied in high school. I won’t pry, but your life will NEVER get better unless you break yourself out of this toxic af mindset. Eat well, start working out, pamper yourself, LOVE yourself, spend time wit…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 02:04 AM
1

Why do you want to be with someone who treats you like sht? There’s no logic behind willingly being with someone like that, unless of course you *enjoy it, but I highly doubt that’s the case. Don’t you want to be happy? And be with someone who contributes positively to your happiness? You sound like you need therapy, darling.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 01:53 AM
1

Well I already know that’s not true 🤣 Men who insult you immediately show red flags of being emotionally / physically abusive. Think of it as having dodged/survived another bullet. NEVER date a man who would put you down that way. EVER.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 01:46 AM
1

Why did you date him if he criticized you? You’re not ugly, you’re beautiful. Your lack of self confidence is what allows you to be manipulated and picked on, not your face. You’re worth more than they’ve led you to believe, sugar.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 01:13 AM
3

Wtf you’re beautiful, and I’m only 19 myself. Some people are just needlessly cruel. You DO NOT look disgusting, I promise you
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 12:52 AM
1

I love Shrike.... oh my goodness, I would bawl too
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 09:07 AM
3

Maybe start with not putting “lol” after listing a major character flaw. It’s not funny or attractive, and if anything it makes you look like you’re not taking this seriously. As for advice, if you’re well aware that your mother is a narcissist, then it doesn’t matter whether she’s your mom or not; why on earth would you EVER trust her advice? You admit that your boyfriend isn’t willing to listen to your self described “shit” which means that you know what you’re doing is wrong (which you have s…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 10:26 PM
1

Drop him. He doesn’t deserve you. There are red flags all over him. If you want to keep him around for the sake of not being lonely, then at least keep a very polite distance until you start reaching out more. The advice my sister gave me before I entered college was that you HAVE to be the one to reach out first. Find a club, activity, group, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 04:12 AM
-2

She’s already stated that she’s not close with anyone
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 04:08 AM
3

I would say that it’s not like it doesn’t happen with men, but that it hasn’t been truly studied. My uncle had sex with several women and then settled with my aunt because she was ultimately his best choice, because all women were now the same to him. I’ve also seen talks by men who say that a man begins to imprint on the location of mating rather than on the woman he’s mating. This reduces his likelihood to pair bond.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 08:45 PM
16

So what you’re saying is that you’re lack any sense of purpose or direction in your life, and you’re actually surprised that you’re attracting the same type of person as you? If you want a good man, you gotta become a good woman. Get over yourself and find a hobby / passion before you even start thinking about relationships. Also stop sleeping around. Empty sex destroys the body and mind, and only leaves one feeling hollow. Stop it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/19 11:24 PM
2

You’ve got the definitions switched, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 10:18 PM
2

Exactly. Personally, I wouldn’t mind trying out kinky things with my lover (I have a couple found kinks of my own), but for things like oral, I definitely wouldn’t want an experienced man who is comparing my performance to his past lovers. Practice makes perfect, of course, but I don’t want to feel inadequate or that I’m competing w/ other girls in his mind while I’d be trying my best. My man would know me, and me only, and I him. It feels more equal, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:46 AM
4

It’s EXACTLY because willingly virginal men are not a slave to their instincts that makes them so attractive to me. I find it incredibly masculine that they possessed that strength of will enough to wait, and it also appears to come with an increased respect for women; more specifically, their future wife. One key aspect of masculinity is the ability to take charge and keep control, and willingly being a virgin is a clear sign that a man is confident in his own masculinity, sexuality, and identi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:14 AM
6

Good god, I think I’m the only woman here who preferably wants a virgin for a husband. A high n-count to me just makes him look like a whore who sleeps around, and he brings emotional baggage and a higher likelihood of STDs. And also because I am a virgin myself and waiting, most of these high n-count men will either likely not be understanding, will cheat, and/or kick me to the curb. I don’t have much respect for them in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:45 AM
2

Is it possible that it is something related to work? A lot of men tend to get irrationally angry over small things when it has to do with finances. But regardless, cool yourself off and just be open with him tonight. If cleaning calms you down, then do a little bit of that, as well...
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 04:34 AM
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