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First of all there's no way i'm going out to places i don't feel safe.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 10:14 AM
1

The gender gap can be analyzed ONLY when we take same positions, same responsibilities, and work time. BUT two women/ two men can earn differently. What then? It's not gender gap, obviously, some other factors come into play. So why can't those factors be considered when we take opposite genders?
/r/MensRights27/03/26 08:31 AM
1

In games we had this LGBT/ woke agenda that had some impact on gaming industry, but i guess we have this behind us. Tbh don't care about such titles, or modders do the job very fast to correct it. Also remembers, such games received huge negative feedback from gamers so it wasn't widely accepted.
/r/MensRights19/03/26 10:38 AM
0

Never heard about it, seriously. Addition to porn is mocked, yes, but masturbation in general? No.
/r/MensRights19/03/26 10:00 AM
3

The embryos were frozen when they were married and didn't think about the divorce, so naturaly her husband was a donor. If the courts decides she can have a baby and he needs to pay child support it will have huge impact on society and men approach to starting a family.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 06:02 AM
2

I guess she simply has no more eggs, only those frozen already impregnated by him, so it's his child or none.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 05:10 AM
153

Yes, goes viral right now. Imagine what would happen if a woman was forced to give her egg and pay child support later.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 11:36 AM
11

From some scums.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 11:44 AM
2

Ah, the classic.
/r/MensRights07/03/26 05:26 AM
3

Even in puberty/ highschool i had my standard, and rather high.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 01:41 PM
8

??
/r/MensRights03/03/26 09:01 AM
13

That's what i'm talking about. Unless they make a law that guarantees parents who volounteer that their kids won't be drafted, they won't have a soldier out of me.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 08:27 AM
17

The only way i'm going to fight is 100% guarantee my son is excluded from draft.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 08:10 AM
47

I heard this argument plenty of times, even from my mom (who in general is very reasonable woman): "Cause men always want it."
/r/MensRights02/03/26 04:11 PM
1

1) If cheating as a cause of divorce is proven, cheater go out with suitcase, leaving everything behind 2) Paternity fraud is a crime with heavy consequences 3) If women decide about abortion, men decide about financial abortion
/r/MensRights02/03/26 07:11 AM
1

Question is would they give their life for their husband?
/r/MensRights25/02/26 09:25 AM
1

Yeah. I had a female friend at work. Strong and independent! She was successfull, nice looking 6.5-7/10, languages, travelled, i liked her. She claimed many times she needs no men. Until she hit 30, and one time she broke down completely, and admitted she'd take any man and the only requirement she had was: "i just want him to take care of his hygiene".
/r/MensRights02/02/26 08:47 AM
19

Wife didn't care a out my happiness, had to take care of it myself and paid less attention to wife
/r/MensRights25/12/25 11:53 AM
7

Wife and mother truly believe there's a female discrimination, and they don't care about facts/ numbers/ statistics. We don't argue about it, it's just like talking to "flat earther" about round earth.
/r/MensRights23/12/25 05:54 AM
1

Which country?
/r/MensRights16/12/25 06:23 PM
-3

I don't care, it's math. The same some cars brands insurance is more expensive.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:43 AM
1

I wouldn't 100% abstain from marriage, but! 1) I'd have high expectations as obviously you offer a lot 2) I'd talk with a lawyer what are possible ways to legaly protect your assets- and i don't mean prenup that can be rejected during the divorce. A real ways to protect is. 3) Assuming you found a decent woman use those legal ways to secure yourself, and if she has a problem with that- she's not the one.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 11:54 AM
1

What ???
/r/MensRights04/12/25 04:37 AM
1

Plenty of harmful things women do to hurting men are not considered "violence" so I don't give a shit about those definitions.
/r/MensRights16/11/25 03:36 PM
1

There were 2 very serious situations. In both cases I had a job. 1- unemployment back than was close to 30%, most of people were working for minimum wage, doing extra hours for free just not to get fired. So despite working 80-120 extra hours a month/ person we didn't have enough to live (choices like: pay the rent or buy food?). She said back then something I will never forget: "I wish we earn enough so I can eat a yoghurt every day." 2nd- was completely different, we were doing fine but when c…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 06:27 AM
8

1st financial crisis about 25y, 2nd about 40.
/r/MensRights14/11/25 11:51 AM
197

My wife when we hit financial crisis: "the most important is we love each other and we're together, we will get through this together". 25yrs together and counting. But she's old school women, close to extinction :/
/r/MensRights14/11/25 07:09 AM
1

Don't know where you live but in mu country EU this stereotype died with our grandparent's.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 04:41 AM
1

So why there's financial abuse? Men can't get (by default) sex elsewhere while wife can go to work. Call it however you want, but limiting sex in marriage is a form of abuse.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 08:33 AM
16

Yeah, for example my wife saying "men earn more". The difference is, when she asked for a raise and was declined she complied. When i was in the same situation i said i quit. Next day promotion and a raise. At least in my country there's only 1 systemic discrimination of women, while plenty of systemic (meaning: supported by law) discrimination for men.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 06:49 AM
18

When military service for men was mandatory in my country there was never talk how it impact men's career. Also: most of women stop working the day they find out they're pregnant, even if they feel completely fine. Also: they can get back to work pretty fast but they choose to stay with a child instead of father. Wife stayed with our 1st child, I stayed with 2nd. Absolutely great time!
/r/MensRights21/10/25 07:03 AM
89

Any remarks to how men look: you have a beer gut, you're half bald, your beard is not maintained well, your trousers dont match the shoes, and so on. Try to say something like that to a woman....
/r/MensRights18/10/25 11:04 AM
1

Yeah, hair weist long did the trick I guess. Everything stopped when I grew a beard.
/r/MensRights09/10/25 02:23 PM
2

I was mistaken for a girl in real many times :p
/r/MensRights09/10/25 02:16 PM
1

1) My wife MUST WORK and MUST contribute cause if i can't work for whatever reason she needs to take the lead in that matter. Therefore we equally share all spendings. 2) Women that bring religion forget, that according to those religions a wife completely obeys the husband.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 07:25 AM
3

Don't know if it's the issue now, but when I was at school/college girls had it so much easier.
/r/MensRights29/09/25 07:33 AM
6

Yea well, it's not rocket science that men are more prone to violent crime. A women cheats on husband and make him raise not his own child? No biggie. For me it's a paternity fraud crime. Wife refuses sex to husband? No biggie. For me it's sexual/ emotonal abuse (or call it anyway you want). And so on. Women do shitload of dirty stuff, the point is it's legal, not right, evil, but legal.
/r/MensRights18/09/25 05:08 PM
13

Married :D But if i'm single again i'm pretty sure i'd stay single.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 03:09 PM
2

That's exactly what I'm asking. Why do people allow their SO not to work? It's not only for situations like yours, it's your backup plan if main provider (you) can't work for whatever reason.
/r/MensRights09/07/25 07:55 PM
2

1 question: was she SAHM? If yes, why did you allow that?
/r/MensRights09/07/25 06:27 PM
2

No. It raises the risk the you'll create the bond and in case of split you suffer. If kids ale mid teens you can still make a bond and in case of split they'll understand.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 03:31 PM
71

I can imagine it in 1 situation: - she's a widow - you knew them before her husband death and know they were a decent couple - kid/ kids are nice, polite, well behaved Other than that, the risk is too much, unless you only think about dating and nothing serious.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 06:17 AM
4

>no you should treat others well is not the same thing as you should be treated well if your good, because it implies that you should be REWARDED for doing good things. Ok, i think there goes my english skill (not native) and i couldn't properly say what i mean. If anybody deserves to be treated well, it's those who act well. Not that they should be awarded or they may demand it.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 09:53 AM
6

Wait...so who deserve to be treated well if not those who behave well? >you should treat other good people good you kinda contradict yourself >have a good heart and remain vigilant and you will find one proper lady i'm with my wife for 25 yrs, not looking for a change, but i do observe the world and if for whatever reason i'm single again, i know i'd struggle to find a decent woman.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 09:45 AM
27

"Always do what your wife tells you."
/r/MensRights03/07/25 09:35 AM
23

A woman who acts like a lady deserve to be treated well. Now find me a lady like woman :D
/r/MensRights03/07/25 09:35 AM
4

"It was a pleasure, i wish you the best, bye."
/r/MensRights03/07/25 08:33 AM
6

In this situation i'd put it on my mom/ dad.
/r/MensRights01/07/25 11:54 AM
1

What about your friends, buddies, bros?
/r/MensRights30/06/25 11:56 AM
2

TBH i never understood this "emotional help". Men (in most cases) need real solution not patting their back and saying: "now now, it's gonna be ok, you'll see".
/r/MensRights27/06/25 11:08 AM
1

>emotional workload they take on for men like what?
/r/MensRights27/06/25 10:53 AM
2

Zero.
/r/MensRights19/06/25 04:16 PM
1

Yes, but my way is family, with wife and kids.
/r/MensRights12/06/25 12:22 PM
3

In my country it differs. Women retire at 60, men at 65, while women on average live 8 years longer.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 07:43 PM
6

Retirement age.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 10:20 AM
4

I can't say how i'd act in specific situation, but if i ever risk my life for a stranger (men or woman) it's because i have a wife, daughter and son. If i expect someone to risk their life if i'm not around, i need to offer the same. Other than that, i feel no obligations.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 09:23 AM
2

Happened to 1 of dudes i know. He worked in construction, building houses, finishing interior. Working whole day, sometimes even slept on construction site to provide to his family. After 40y health issues occured. He knew he won't be able to work for many more years. He pushes himself even harder so he can retire when he's 50y. At 45y wife divorces him, the judge sets allimony based on his income. He has doctor's opinion he can't work anymore especially such demanding job as construction. Judge…
/r/MensRights30/05/25 05:08 AM
1

Not native eng speaker ;)
/r/MensRights30/05/25 03:54 AM
-1

I bet every divorced guy had a trust as core value at the wedding day.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 03:07 AM
7

Depends on specific country's law. In my country 2 things: assets separation and prenup.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 08:14 PM
8

Yes. We had ups & downs but keep going.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 11:57 AM
25

25 yrs together. I remember rejecting my wife twice in my life: 1) We were in college and i had project deadline approaching, like really really every minute was gold so even a few minutes quickie was not an option. I rejected her and she pressured me quite a lot. 2) I was very tired (don't remember why), she didn't press so much.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 11:22 AM
7

literaly: Fap few times a day to have clear mind and make reasonable decisions not driven by your lust. And i'm 100% serious.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 05:21 PM
2

>think that women even remotely wanna help.... Don't care tbh.
/r/MensRights24/05/25 04:11 AM
2

Me 2. Don't know how it looks in your country, but here where i live guys buy basic stuff just as women do. The difference in "not basic stuff" is huge though.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 12:40 PM
3

Women buying thing for family like food or infant goods is not an issue, if not mom dad would buy it. Women buy waaaay more clothes, cosmetics, things like fur itunes, pictures, vases and so on. Men would live in empty apartment with only basic things like bed and some hobby related things while women spend a lot to make their surrounding nice.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 11:53 AM
2

This is obvious, but that's not the case.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 11:37 AM
2

I met my wife when i was broke 19y old dude, broke, and she was earning very good. It was 25yrs ago and i can't believe how much have changed in such a short time :(
/r/MensRights16/05/25 09:20 AM
2

I think it's terrible for a child to have a single parent. If it happens by accident (like 1 parent dies in car accident) it is what it is. If a person (man or woman) decides to have a child as single parent i do think it's very selfish and bad for a child.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 11:18 AM
15

Yea. If i live alone my apartment would have: bed, gym equipment, video games station (pc or console), fridge, 1 plate+1glass+fork...just 1 set, 1 closet for minimum clothes, minimum cosmetics and so on. I am married so i have plenty of not needed furnitures, set of plates for 20 people, plenty of pictures on the walls, vases, lamps- plenty of shit i completely don't need. Yes, she works, but in general she used a lot of my earned money to finance it.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 11:12 AM
53

Tell it to any women, they won't accept facts and statistics.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 11:06 AM
2

It is against nature as long as gay couple can't have a child on their own. >No set of parents is perfect True. But it's about probability and proper role models. I am fully aware that my perspective is conservative but that's exactly what i believe. I also think we'll have a huge reset in society in nearest future. People don't want to get married, more and more single moms/ dads, i bet in 1-2 generations it will be perfectly normal in modern countries for gay couple raise kids, just like today…
/r/MensRights13/05/25 11:01 AM
1

I just think that men and women bring specific- very important values to child's life and it's against nature. That is far from hating gays, or saying they're bad people.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 09:21 AM
3

No problem. Have the best life possible.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 06:09 AM
-24

Gonna be honest here i wouldn't grant full rights to gay couples, like i'm against gay couple adopting children, but in general- gay or not, doesn't matter. You think about specific rights?
/r/MensRights13/05/25 05:59 AM
1

Can't retire yet, kids college generate huge costs. But I think I can retire by 60 which is also good.
/r/MensRights27/04/25 11:02 AM
10

Wanted to have a family (wife + kids), my own house + land, and a dog. All boxes checked by 40y. I don't care about fancy things, cars, vacations, i don't give a single f*ck what other think about me. Now my goal is that my kids once they become adults will think i was a good dad and they had a great childhood. Once they leave my home i will buy an old car, put it into pieces and restore it completely. It may take 10 years, no problem. I will grow my own veggies, and leave modest stress free lif…
/r/MensRights26/04/25 05:41 AM
1

Yea, with kids it a tough one. 50/50 imho should only be allowed if a cheater when leaving with a suitcase is still able to provide for kids and sustain proper level of life which in most cases would not be possible anyway.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 12:31 PM
0

Personaly i think it should be considered as a serious crime. In most cases (i assume) you destroy your SO life and most likely your kids. Punishment? For me a cheater (men or woman) should go out with suitcase and nothing more leaving everything to a cheater, but with rights to see kids or 50/50 custody.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 12:16 PM
1

I hit a girl once, when i was lik 7 or 8 yrs old (close to 40yrs ago), in school. Teacher asked other kids who started, class confirmed "she hit 1st". Teacher said: "girls, don't hit boys, they are stronger than you." And that was about it. Never happened again but i'd never hesitate to hit back in self defense. Reasoning behind saying "you should never hit a girl" comes from the fact, men are stronger. But as i'm not a huge guy, i can find plenty of guys who are way stronger than me just as i'm…
/r/MensRights11/04/25 11:30 AM
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My dad is in very bad condition (dementia included). I once asked my mom if she considered elder care home. She said: "he was a wonderful man his whole life and i won't leave him as long as i physically can take care of him." Talk about right role models.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 06:54 AM
6

False accusation may destroy your life so. What are we even talk about? Both things are very bad but only 1 is a crime.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 01:12 PM
2

Like i said. Plenty of people would take amphetamine, yet we don't allow them to do it cause they're too young. O course young boys are into their attractive teachers. It makes no difference though and should be a heavy crime.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 07:16 PM
3

Should be the same crime as when men do it. And i don't accept explanation, that boys want it. Plenty of them would want drugs, alkohol and other things- yet we don't give it to them cause just they want.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 04:43 PM
5

It really depends how you approach marriage. If you're one of those (and your potential wife) who see a divorce as simple solution- yep, don't get married. For some (me included) marriage is a serious commitment. Sure, it doesn't guarantee you'll stay together forever or that you'll be happy together but it is something that differs you by A LOT from people that just date/ are together. Marriage has way more meaning that just tax optimization. Now...i'm married, 25yrs together with my wife. Do i…
/r/MensRights13/02/25 12:57 PM
1

https://qz.com/967895/throughout-history-women-rulers-were-more-likely-to-wage-war-than-men
/r/MensRights11/02/25 03:44 PM
30

Any idea why only she is tied with ropes while men are not?
/r/MensRights10/01/25 09:57 AM
1

Why not openly use SO's phone if there's a need?
/r/MensRights05/01/25 11:02 AM
4

Cause we work and we have no time to protest and play those games.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 06:43 AM
1

Yes. Just can't specify it. There's just something in that persons that doesn't seem right. Sure, you can specify some points like what they say/ how they act, but those are minor things. I met few persons like that in my life, just like i met few persons had great connection with them from the beginning without knowing why.
/r/MensRights21/11/24 09:54 AM
5

Had this one friend (he moved far away). One day his dog of 14 years died (i knew that dog since a pup). He called me in the middle of the night, mid week, if i can come and help him bury the dog. He lived in the city, had no car and needed to go to outside the city to do that. Tbh. i felt extremaly honoured that he called me. Not his sister or parents who all live in the same city and have cars. I know that despite we live far away if really need help he'd shake earth to help me. Such bond is r…
/r/MensRights21/11/24 09:33 AM
4

Sounds great, but what about simple liking someone or not? I mean there are people i simply like, and some i literaly hate for no specific reason. Did you have this problem? Do you have long distance members or only guys living close enough to show up?
/r/MensRights21/11/24 09:24 AM
8

Yeah, don't know how in USA. In my country we have over 300shelters for homeless mothers and ONE for homeless fathers ... :/
/r/MensRights15/11/24 04:09 AM
41

Imaging making statement of fact and there must be someone who turns it into hate. This suit here perfectly: "Your comment has nothing to do with the story, how about you spread awareness about this kid instead of turning it into your own hate Storm."
/r/MensRights14/11/24 07:39 PM
140

Imagine shitstorm if that would be a single mother and a daughter. This boy will be quickly forgotten.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 08:55 AM
14

It happened in my son's school. A girl was making jokes about cancer sick kid. Next day she came to school bald completely.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 06:19 PM
144

There was a discussion here on reddit: random girl: guys, please understand. Most of us are short (i'm 4'8) so we need tall partners so our hypothetical son have a chance to be tall. random guy answered: I'm 6'2. Why would i date a midget like you and risk my hypothetical son be as short as you? Badum tss.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 07:45 AM
3

Whenever I spoke about it with women they had 1 response: boys want it.
/r/MensRights11/11/24 11:35 AM
19

You have no idea how it is being at his age, still expected to perform. And again....we all hear that men should show emotions, and here's that guy who's being judged by his own son when he does it.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 09:49 AM
1

50/50 custody. If not, i'd probably stay to not be separated from my child.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 07:45 AM
34

Our child was switched in hospital. Fortunately seconds after being born my wife marked his hand with permanent marker just in case. They did put a band on his hand but somehow managed to switch the babies when later brought her a child for a feeding. Fun fact: we had a boy, and she got a girl for feeding with male name on a band.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 07:21 AM
83

- man takes condom during sex and women gets pregnant= rape and heavy consequences for man - women says she's on pills but she's not, gets pregnant, man must pay and zero consequences for women Equality my ass.
/r/MensRights28/10/24 09:16 PM
129

Decision for women, financial abortion for men--> yes, i'm 100% pro choice.
/r/MensRights28/10/24 09:04 PM
2

Everything in moderation and anyything both sides agree to.
/r/MensRights26/10/24 10:56 AM
59

It is not discrimination on lower levels assuming women were most welcome, just didn't want the job. True discrimination is if more experienced/ qualified men were rejected from managers positions to reach 50/50 gender ratio. I'm all about equality, but euqlity of possibility, not the outcome.
/r/MensRights11/10/24 10:28 AM
1

So what? Look at the question in the topic. It's about "is it wrong" not "what are the chances".
/r/MensRights06/10/24 04:56 PM
0

Its the same. Preference. Can you get it? That's another thing.
/r/MensRights06/10/24 08:49 AM
1

Everybody can have any preference, but the world own them nothing. I might want 1 of Top3 female hollywood stars being a total average random- nobody cares.
/r/MensRights06/10/24 05:09 AM
49

I can't imagine list of things she might offer to compensate such a bad deal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/24 07:08 PM
5

My mom (now retired) was once offered a managers position and refused. I asked why? She said: "There needs to be a man to handle those crazy women, i don't want to deal with them." (90% of department were women). Badum tss.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 06:38 AM
11

Alsto statistically, taller men earn more. There are also pay gaps between women on the same positions, so why TF they focus only on gender pay gap?
/r/MensRights29/08/24 06:35 AM
2

To bros, make fun also. To girls: you're insecure cause you're so used you don't even feel normal size.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 04:54 PM
-10

Yea well, germans during ww2 also followed orders, that is no justifications for crimes.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 07:29 AM
-20

Young Russian soldiers dying: bad Zero empathy for the invaders.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 06:40 AM
9

Jesus F8cking Christ...
/r/MensRights28/06/24 08:20 PM
14

Consent is not a problem. The problem is, even if you have written consent she can always say she changed her mind between 3rd and 4th trhust, and if you finished the thrust- you raped her. Extreme example but in general this is the danger here. Imagine your tinder profile that literally says: looking for a female partner for casual sex, and you meet through tinder and later she says she didn't consent. WTF will the judge say?
/r/MensRights28/06/24 06:18 PM
38

It's rather for people that are both high/ drunk. Before only dude was responsible if she said she didn't consent.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 10:39 AM
1

Yeti this is not a conventional warfare. Otherwise we'd need 1% of forced we support now.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 01:46 PM
5

A tank driver doesn't mean she only drives. She needs to help mainain the tank, help carrying ammo and so on. She can drive a tank in tank factory, on production line, not as a soldier. A soldier isn't always a one with the rifle. Of course not. But we as men don't get to chose if they send us to the front line or to the kitchen 50 miles from battle line.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 06:50 AM
-5

Jesus christ....So if you declare you're as strong/ light as a woman you're a total exception, no reason to bring it up.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 06:42 AM
-1

Still better than a woman. Simple example: If you have the bravest women in your squad, you got shot and need to be carried out of the battlefield to get help, she is physically not able to carry you. Mandatory draft is a bad thing, that's for sure (Yes Ukraine, looking at you), but since men are fored to die in war, why not force women to rebuild demography of society? And i did thought it through, as i have a daughter and a son.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 04:53 AM
-2

But women can't come even close to be as effective soldier as men, just like men can't give a birth.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 04:11 AM
0

Yep, i think it's comparable.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 04:11 AM
1

Poland. Prenups and separation of property is working pretty fine here. Spousal allimony is rare (usually a spouse must be unable to work for whatever reason) to get it. Child support based on your income and sometimes possible income.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 09:03 AM
3

You underestimate army's capability to enforce obedience on people with your attitude :(
/r/MensRights25/05/24 05:55 AM
5

Paternity fraud is something only women can commit so I don't see it becoming criminalised any time soon Many countries (i think UK also) don't have in their law's definition of rape: rape of female on male, therefore only man can commit rape, and it is criminalised.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 09:22 AM
41

Yeah. Last year a director said there will be no bonus at the end of the year cause the company barely managed through covid and we still need to recover. Few days later he posted on his FB purchase of a new Jaguar (car). Badum tss.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 06:51 AM
0

I know i'm not gonna change the world, but i do have a daughter and since she was small i teach her she will suffer the consequences of her actions. I will support her as a father, but it will be on her mainly.
/r/MensRights17/04/24 07:07 AM
2

I don't give a single f*ck about church, but the christian values imho are universal. I mean: don't steal, don't kill, don't cheat, don't lie and so on. World would be great if everybody follow it.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 03:55 AM
6

But you acknowledge that it's a tiny fraction of men, for which we all have to compete? Also, it's a scientific fact that men are more agressive and willing to suffer sacrifices in order to take those elite positions? It's not that they get it cause of penis.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 07:37 AM
2

Farting. Don't forget the farting!
/r/MensRights26/02/24 09:30 AM
1

My mom & dad had car accident (due to brakes failure they ended up in a ditch near the road). My mom hit her head hard and had some other injuries. She was asked MANY times if it wasn't my dad trying to hurt her on purpose, despite her saying everything is ok and there's zero problems in marriage. In the end also neighbours were asked by police if there are any signs of home violence :/
/r/MensRights23/02/24 11:34 AM
1

Married, 24 years together and counting. She's not perfect just as i'm not, we're more than good together, although we had ups & downs, close-to-divorce crisis. At this point i love her to death and i'm in mental/ physical pain when she leaves for work for more than 2 days.
/r/MensRights22/02/24 09:36 AM
11

Tried with my mom. Baaad. Very bed. Patriarchy strong. But, i managed to convince my wife that patriarchy is a myth.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 08:13 PM
2

No. SOME woman claim they should be paid for the work they do for their family. In response such post was made.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 12:16 PM
3

That's not how relationships work. You don't get credit for work you didn't do. Absolutely agree. So if you didn't notice, this post is exactly what women claim- that they do they housework and don't get paid for this, so men can counter with the same claims.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 12:07 PM
3

A guard guarding a bank/ shop/ event gets paid no matter if something happens or not. In fact he's there to lower the probability of something happening.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 11:41 AM
2

I've been using seatbelts in my car for over 25 years, yet i've never had a slight collision/ accident. Are seatbelts useless? Your men is your safety policy, and you're lucky you never needed him in such situation.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 05:49 AM
6

I believe there are some ( a minority) of women who cannot control or help their emotional state That's literally a justification of shitty behaviour. No. We're not chimps, we're responsible for our actions, no matter if those are driven by our will, emotions, or drugs.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 08:18 PM
26

I'd add, every time we go out i'm responsible for safety, where's my bodyguard payment?
/r/MensRights22/01/24 06:25 PM
0

I met my wife when i was 19, 23 yrs together and counting. I'm living proof we want it and cherish it :D
/r/MensRights19/01/24 03:55 PM
4

Condom + pulling out is the most you can do, probability is tiny it won't work. But if she do gets pregnant, the 1t thing you should do is DNA test before you sign the papers.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 04:50 AM
44

Imagine this: "i'm sorry i have a baby with another woman, we couldn't get a better car cause i had to buy things for that baby and support his mother. I'm sorry i didn't have time for you cause i had to take care of 2nd family. I hope you understand, if you want i can bring the baby if you want to see him."
/r/MensRights30/12/23 07:23 AM
67

"Women most affected".
/r/MensRights21/12/23 06:30 PM
29

Where can i read the whole study?
/r/MensRights18/12/23 12:23 PM
1

I value far more fit body shape :P
/r/MensRights13/11/23 08:41 PM
7

Tons of women (including in my family infortunately) say that young boys are absolutely happy to be sexually harrased. Of course, they'd probably be the same happy if given alco/ weed/ amphetamine. It doesn't mean it's good for them though.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 07:03 AM
28

My parents had a car accident (they bounced off other car and ended in a ditch next to the road). By default the case was issued that my dad wanted to damage/ kill my mom, althouhg Mom declared during 1st hearing that they are happy in their marriage and there are absolutely no grounds for such accusations. It took 3 trials/ hearing to close this case.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 07:19 AM
4

Women complaining, that chivalry is dead. Feminism killed it.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 06:41 AM
1

Of course, just to make them feel how it's like to be segregated. Also i'd love to officially declare that this is cause every female is a potential false sexual harrasment accuser etc.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 05:15 AM
13

Soooo....when you learned this... what is your relation with mother now?
/r/MensRights20/10/23 05:21 AM
2

I'm 40+ and had periods (years long) of zero of v. high libido. Personally i loved zero libido. I developed my hobbies a lot, had plenty of time and was very productive at work. However i consider libido as health marker so imho long time with no libido is not a good sign.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 05:27 PM
4

Of course not, cause we all have our "must haves" and "don'ts". Give me the most beautiful women in the world: if she has a tattoo, or drinks alcohol i'm completely not interested. Give me average or below average girl (face) with fit body shape- oh yes, i'm in.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 04:26 AM
5

Wait...who did you support before?
/r/MensRights28/08/23 04:32 PM
1

This is how it is in Poland: if you want to come to our country, work, live, honour our culture and tradition- you are most welcome. If you want to bring your traditions, culture and demand we act accordingly, it's not a place for you. I don't see any xenophobia or other phobias here.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 11:51 AM
1

So they can talk about how much they want to bang one another as long as they don't say I love you? In such situation the border was crossed long ago.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 01:53 PM
9

Probably OP means "more often than in the past". That's how i understood it.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 11:56 AM
10

Oh crap...that's the border of real cheating from my perspective- "i love you" should be exclusive to your SO.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 11:16 AM
7

It was also bad. I despise cheaters on botch sides.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 11:00 AM
1

What's an example of emotional cheating?
/r/MensRights25/08/23 09:57 AM
9

Aaaahhh ok. I thought you simply disagree with what i wrote. I met my wife 23 years ago. We were our 1st, we're still together and i can't imgagine (if we divorce) dating someone with bodycount of 30 :/
/r/MensRights25/08/23 09:19 AM
2

What's the problem Mr Cookie?
/r/MensRights25/08/23 09:10 AM
19

I think you're wrong. In that case she should simply leave if she wasn't happy, BEFORE she cheated, case closed. I am in general very strict about loyalty and honesty, these are my among my top highest values.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 08:25 AM
17

For me there's literally no justification for cheating- doesn't matter if it was 1 mistake or 1y affair. Not acceptable.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 07:45 AM
24

Cause i think cheating is a horrible thing and despise people who cheat.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 07:31 AM
18

I'm doing my part and already told my kids (teens now) that if they cheat i won't stop loving them, but they'll lose tons of my respect.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 06:01 AM
17

But also studies prove that men are far more honest in studies regarding loyalty/ infidelity :/
/r/MensRights25/08/23 05:06 AM
261

My perspective- cause today it is socially acceptable, there's no bad consequence. 50-80 years ago a cheating wife would be socially rejected. Today? "Oh, it must have been her husband! He was an asshole, and didn't give her what she needed!"
/r/MensRights25/08/23 05:05 AM
1

Yes, please specify what's wrong with that.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:52 AM
0

There's nothing wrong on nationalism. What EU is doing is pure fascism and we don't take free money. We pay a huge price for membership. Learn what were the foundations od EU when we joined it. Far from EU is today.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 01:56 PM
2

Last data says in 2021 over 500k approvals for imigrants outside EU were granted. 2022 not available yet.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 01:46 PM
1

Why do you event way that?
/r/MensRights23/08/23 01:38 PM
2

And what's the problem with that?
/r/MensRights23/08/23 12:09 PM
2

I live in Poland and i love nationalist aspect of it.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 11:48 AM
10

Absolutely not UK, Australia and Canada! Divorce rapes are common there. East EU countries i'd say are not so bad (yet!).
/r/MensRights23/08/23 07:36 AM
4

In my country sposual allimony is extremaly rare. Partner must be seriously disabled, unable to work, otherwise no allimony. I truly believe you take divorce to cut everything and start a new life. And i completely don't understand why one is entitled to have the same standard of life like while in marriage. Beeing in marriage is 1 of the costs you pay for those specific benefits!
/r/MensRights23/08/23 06:31 AM
3

Unfortunately yes. So many picture perfect couples i knew divorced. They were just acting good. I'm married, 23yrs together and i'm sure we're perfect outside, but we did have ups & downs. We were just lucky to get through this.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 05:15 AM
5

You don't need to get married to be in happy relationship.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 05:12 AM
4

I disagree. We follow the rule: "don't force me to anything". I hate dancing so we don't go dancing, my wife hates cycling so i don't force her to. We do things we both like together, and things we both don't like separately. Even if we go to the cinema there are only few movies we can both enjoy. Most movies i watch with my buddies or son. Tbh i think this compromise idea is a BS.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 05:00 AM
5

Check this out :D https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iS9Bf12Mby8&t=29s
/r/MensRights01/08/23 07:26 AM
1

Nobody has the right to tell you what matters to you. For me also PAST IS VERY IMPORTANT. I am also strongly against one night stands, fwbs and so on (don't care who do it, i don't do it and would not accept my SO had it in her history). You do you, don't care about the others.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 04:46 AM
5

Why do you even care?
/r/MensRights22/07/23 05:17 PM
3

In my country spousal alimony is extremaly rare and in most cases you split assets 50/50. I can't imagine why any guy marries with the risk of such alimony.
/r/MensRights12/07/23 04:47 AM
15

My wife used to tell me she doesn't like muscular guys. I was a regular skinny fat dude, nothing special. Once i started lifting weights and improved my physique our sex life exploaded (strange, right?). And now she loves to touch my arms, during sex or even when we walk on a street. They can say what they want, but it's deep inside them. Go improve guys!
/r/MensRights10/07/23 05:16 AM
3

I see no point as marvel/ dc has plenty of female superheroes.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 05:43 AM
8

> it doesn’t matter how much he wanted it, it doesn’t make him lucky and it puts him in a vulnerable position ​ Yea most of young dude would also like to drink alco, use crack/ meth and yet we don't allow to do it and punish those who provide it to them.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 04:19 PM
-1

I work in military business. I see all the time women in the army and they fail basic physical tasks. 95% are not capable of carrying their own gear not mentioning fighting with it on back. Let's not forget they are indeed important to rebuild population after the war until we figure out artifical uterus.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 09:25 AM
0

I am a father, have a son and a daughter so i took some time thinking about it. We can't deny women are not physically capable to stay on the battle field. They can't endure to conditions and carry the equpment. Therefore let the men do the job, be we should once and for all stop allowing spreading the opinions "men are not needed,men are disposable". But in the end army should be proffessional, mandatory draft is surely not a good solution. Some may say that there are posiotin for women in the …
/r/MensRights03/07/23 08:19 AM
1

Yes of course. That's why i added my remark regarding relationship itself. Can't use you advices as it's too late for me :( Personally i'd never marry again and i will strongly advice my son not to do it.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:01 PM
2

This is a guide for someone who marries with very high probability of divorce- i know statistics. I'll add something from my (23 years together) marriage. Be THE MEN! I was a Simp Lord, not gonna lie. Once i focused on myself everything changed. My marriage (relationship and sex life) improved signifficantly when i stopped asking if she's in the mood (sex) and when we were making important decisions i just said: "we do it this way because i said so". They say they want emotional guy, BS! They wa…
/r/MensRights30/06/23 11:36 AM
14

Got married close to 20y ago. Back than in my country it was not acceptable by older members of family if we lived together without being married. I wouldn't say it wasn't not socially acceptable, but rather uncommon. I just followed the trend not really caring about it. Today there's no way i'd marry again. Except tax optimisation i see completely no benefit from making your relationship legal.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 11:25 AM
-1

If the guy squeezed her ass I’d agree but also a man should be able to do that too. That's what i mean. > But for what you said a sexual proposition that’s a little broad to allow that sorta behavior That referred to ladies and gentlemen's from the past behaviour. Surely today verbal sexual proposal is not a big deal. >girl friends slap their boyfriends pretty dang hard That is not a lady's slap, that's literally physical violence. By lady's slap i mean something similar a gentleman's use to do …
/r/MensRights26/06/23 01:30 PM
-5

Share your perspective.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 09:40 AM
5

My perspective: the reasoning that a man should never hit a woman comes from physical attributes. By default we are stronger and therefore can do more damage. If i hit a guy twice my size and he will knock me out everybody will say: "wtf were you thinking? Look at him! He could kill you without any effort! You got what you deserved!" If a woman hit me and i hit her back, we may have the same size/ stregth proportions but suddenly i'm the one to blame and she's a victim. WTF? Where's the logic? ​…
/r/MensRights26/06/23 09:09 AM
-11

1 exception. A lady could give a man a face slap if he behaved inappropriate (like sexual proposal) but it wasn't a real hit, more like a symbol.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 08:56 AM
3

Is it a sexual violence if my wife refuses to be intimate with me and it lasts 8 years? Personally i feel it that way, cause due to being married i can't do it outside marriage, and it's not urge to try some kinky stuff- simple sex to fill physical needs.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 12:11 PM
1

What is wrong with you? I know i have no saying where my tax money goes, but i can have an opinion on that. ​ Again, i am against treating abortion as option for contraception. I know what it is. ​ No child should ever be born....agree. And women's bodies....Yet the 1 of the possible consequences of sex is a pregnancy. If a person wants to have sex, he/ she needs to deal with possible consequences. Again- pay for it yourself and problem is solved.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 08:14 PM
11

My wife does more house chores- true. I do some of them + pay bills, take care of house/ car/ maintenance. Once she said i should do more house chores. I suggested we switch our responsibilities 1:1, she didn't want to. Case closed.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 07:58 PM
1

But i have nothing against abortion paid by tax payers if it's life saving or in case of rape, or genetic problems with the fetus. I'm against paying from taxes for abortion as an option of contraception. This should be payed by interested person only.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 07:33 PM
1

I completely don't understand what you mean :/ ​ edit: ok, now i get. I completely don't give a s*it about others lives. If they are willing to pay for an abortion after 1 night stand- feel free to do it. If they want to have it payed by tax payers- now we have a problem.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 06:15 PM
2

Up to high school not so much, but in college...oh yes, girls had it soooo much easier :/
/r/MensRights14/06/23 06:45 AM
2

Yes, and that will change in time, i truly believe it. But also there's no reason to initiate a 1st date in fancy restautrant. Simple coffee/ ice cream is enough.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 05:19 AM
-1

Inviting person pays. If she wants to go with you she can invite you.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 09:02 AM
3

If we talk about wage gap- we need to talk about THE SAME POSITIONS. Women are less likely to ask for a raise or negotiate a higher salary during interview, they take more sick leave, they work less on overhours, so yea, they earn less. If we talk that men take better paid jobs it's simply cause they are far more competitive then women, they are more likely to take better paid but more dangerous jobs, they work more hours/ a week. It's really so simple and i don't believe in system/ patriarchy a…
/r/MensRights07/06/23 12:28 PM
1

Clearly she prioritized her friends more than her bf. Something similar happened to me but fortunately i let my wife know it was 1st and the last time and i will never accept such shit again.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 11:46 AM
3

Not a physical assaulkt, but i was threatened by a friend's female partner. She said she knows where my kids go to school, where i work and she will destroy my life. I went to the police and they said there's nothing they can do until she acutally do something, BUT....i'm not the first who came to them with this problem so they put some kind of supervision over her.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 07:47 AM
1

So when he pulled his arm away what exactly did she do that was considered a sexual assault?
/r/MensRights30/04/23 03:58 AM
1

What does it mean "refusing to link arms with her"?
/r/MensRights29/04/23 05:35 AM
7

Just wait till the guys have the same mindset. Oh her daughters might hit the wall veeery hard.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 06:46 AM
5

Want a true love? Get a dog.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 07:06 PM
16

And in few years an article: "Ukrainian women can't find educated partners! Women most affected!"
/r/MensRights20/04/23 03:58 AM
2

Lol lol lol, not trying to offend you. Thought "You Sir" would be enough to feel i'm joking. Seriously, if you feel offended i offer my apologies. >Do you happen to have any actual advice for me that doesn't involve taking her to court? Yes. Simply stop paying her and tell her to make what's necessary to cancel the need of child support according to the law. I couldn't be with the person who didn't do it on her own will. I mean....how can you see your future with her if you need to pay her? ​ Go…
/r/MensRights18/04/23 04:31 PM
3

You Sir are a shame to men kind. Seriously, when you took her back cutting off child support should be 1st mandatory condition. What were you thinking? If you can prove kids live with you (and she), you go to the lawyer right now and fix it!
/r/MensRights18/04/23 03:25 PM
1

Question is, would it be possible in EU/ USA/ Canada? I don't think so :(
/r/MensRights18/04/23 06:15 AM
2

Condom may also fail.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 01:59 PM
1

That is very good reason to avoid 1 night stands and have reliable partner.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 09:59 AM
5

Not as contraception method. Should be available to save mother's life or if fetus has some issues that will have serious consequences in the future, also available in case of rape (false rape accusation should be extremaly punished). I'd accept no restrictions and leave the decision to women as long as it comes together with financial abortion for men.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 09:56 AM
1

If a woman behaves like a woman, she is feminine- she deserves me behaving old fashioned chivalrious way. If she's a bitchy feminist, or masculine creature- no.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 05:00 AM
2

That should be by default.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 03:54 AM
25

Absolutely.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 10:44 AM
84

I'd like to try full 100% equality. Women wants to be a CEO of a company? She must compete with everybody else, no bonus points for being a female. Same with STEMs field schools and other "male dominated" areas.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 09:54 AM
14

I have one problem with defending my country. Politicians lie and steal, they tear apart the country for their benefits and once it has to be defended they leave and order common people to defend it. I'd gladly fight but i want them to stand by my side. Not saying i'd just run away, but i'd really like to follow leaders rather then obey orders.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 05:55 AM
1

It's a reference to Hilary Clinton's speech.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 12:47 PM
4

I already provided 2 grands so no talk like this with my mom, but i get you and im perfectly sure soon there will be a huge debate how to solve it, and i truly hope guys will have enough balls to simply say: "we had enough how we're treated by the law and society!"
/r/MensRights30/03/23 06:45 AM
15

I was 8 years in dead bedroom with my wife. After that time i gave up, stopped trying completely. I started really taking care about myself. Heavy lifting, lot of reading/ self education, i sank in my hobbies and i was really happy! And then she asked: "why don't you want me anymore?"
/r/MensRights29/03/23 04:52 AM
3

Hooold it right there!
/r/MensRights29/03/23 04:41 AM
3

It is cheating unless husband accepts it.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 04:41 AM
18

If men die they can't work to support women, therefore- women most affected. What is not clear here??
/r/MensRights27/03/23 03:19 PM
1

My wife's libido matched mine perfectly. After 7 years of being together our son was born, and her libido shut down completely for many years. You can't predict that :(
/r/MensRights18/03/23 03:41 PM
2

Of course i only speak for myself.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 09:48 AM
4

We're good, no need to worry.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 04:52 AM
6

I don't think so. I never had any urges toward other women.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 04:27 AM
15

Had the same when my wife gained some weight. Once she took care of herself mojo came back.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 08:46 PM
41

I was blamed by my wife for high sex drive, but she knew i only wanted her. I wasn't interested in any other women. I will advice my son never to marry.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 05:45 PM
19

Make a record in police station ASAP.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 07:14 AM
2

From my perspective your boundaries are a minium and should be completely out of discussion. But tbh i'd never allow my wife to go for a tip like this.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 04:54 AM
4

Separated account, i pay bills, wife pays kid's school, overall it's 50/50, but we don't count every penny.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 08:09 AM
1

What's Stacy?
/r/MensRights06/03/23 05:42 PM
1

I disagree. We will f*ck whatever, but relationship or marriage is a different thing.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 05:37 PM
27

Can't say for other men, but i go to the gym, keep my hygiene and so on cause i feel good that way. Also a woman will get upset when she sees other women get more attention. If i see a guy with better muscles i won't be upset, i will ask him about his routine cause he looks great.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 12:39 PM
1

Just to be clear. Approaching means talking with intention of date invitation or simple talk?
/r/MensRights03/03/23 06:00 AM
5

Last time i've checked, in my country there are about 300 shelters for homeless women and 2 for men. Budget for health risk prevention for women is X times higher comparing to men (like breast cancer vs prostate cancer), in divorce court men get literally raped, women get bonus points when they apply to college althogh there are more women in colleges than men. It's not that no one cares how men feel, we are literally treated like second category human. War? Women most affected, cause f*ck that …
/r/MensRights01/03/23 05:50 AM
1

She's retired now. I know the problem, she was part of the team she was supposed to manage (only females). She knew how they work, that's why she didn't want to be the manager.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 06:06 PM
1

Production facility, she was in quality control and was offered manager's position of 1 of the departments).
/r/MensRights28/02/23 04:39 PM
5

Yes, i had it. Looked kinda similar to your conversation and i presented my offer: we switch 1:1, you take all my responsibilities (including bills, mortgage, all the cars payments, my house chores- i agree, my part is smaller) and i take her chores + taking kids to/ back from school. She said "no" and never brought back this conversation.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 04:11 PM
169

My mom complains about wage gap a lot. Me: why do you complain, you were offered manager's position and didn't take it? Mom: do you have any idea how responsible this position is? I don't want that. It requires a strong man to handle the workers. Badum tsss....
/r/MensRights26/02/23 12:26 PM
6

I am amazed that subs like this sooner or later get banned, while femaledatingstrategy is perfectly fine.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 09:19 AM
10

When i met my wife i was 20y, totally broke, earning lowest salay allowed by the law and i wasn't 10/10 Chad. My wife was earning much more but she lowered her level of life and adjusted to mine. She moved half of the country to be with me. 22 years together. I was lucky back then, but today it'd be like winning a lottery.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 12:20 PM
-4

I will just mention male menopause starts around 30y.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 05:34 PM
1

Nope, i don't give a shit.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 09:39 PM
1

Later: Women can't find financially attractive men. Women most affected.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 07:46 AM
1

I have a few single male friends- none of them is considered a freak or so. I guess it depends on the country/ culture?
/r/MensRights31/01/23 10:09 AM
6

Just wait till virtual reality develops to the point you'll get 100% sensation from vr sex. What reason would you have to pursue women? Some will- those who have strong desire to start a family, but for regular dating?
/r/MensRights31/01/23 07:54 AM
13

When i invited my wife for a date and wanted to pay (yea, over 20 years ago) she said "ok, but i pay for the next date" which she did. It works only cause we allow it to work.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 12:32 PM
-54

TBH i don't see a problem here. If you're just dating and not in committed relationship no girl has a right to expect you're dating only her. If you're married/ engaged/ in committed relationship and you date others, you deserve to be f*cked. Have some honour, finish in a good manner 1st relationship and go fishing. There are also groups "are we dating the same girl".
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:21 AM
2

There was also a blond girl, Eva? She was also defending men and i can't find her videos anymore :/
/r/MensRights19/01/23 06:54 AM
6

Exactly. I was in deadbedroom for 8 years, but i analyzed pros & cons of leaving decided to stay (no religious issues, just life choices like contact with my kids) so i know how hard it is.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:30 PM
7

Depends how you look at it. For some people is extremaly important and braking it/ taking a divorce is a huge thing (for some even divorce is absolutely not an option). What i mean is: if A (husband or wife) stops giving money to B, B ca go to work, no problem. But is sex stops for whatever reason there's no option (for those who valure marriage and their oath). Some don't care, find a lover and fix the problem, but i think we're not talking about such people?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 04:32 PM
11

Never said it. I said both men and women do it. I just agree that man very rarely use sex as a manipulative tool.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:36 PM
13

Please read what i wrote: you have obligation to loyalty not to have sex. Once 1 part does not want to have sex his/ her partner has no options.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:34 PM
5

If you're not married you can simply walk away and you have no obligations. In fact she has no power over you. Once you're married you've made an oath of loyalty, those are two completely different situations.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 02:37 PM
2

Yes, totally agree and it's deep in our nature. However there's 1 very important thing we must mention: if "a women" does it, personally i can understand it. Her youth/ beuty/ sexual energy are 1 of ways nature gave her to survive. But if we're talking about "a wife" there's a huge difference cause we have obligation of loyalty and that's absolutely unacceptable.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 01:18 PM
19

Paying for sex is ok. Perhaps someone has no time to look for a partner, go for a date, he just want's to get it done. Never did it, but i surely understand the idea.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 01:09 PM
6

Agree. Women do it far more often, but men do it too.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:21 PM
2

Agree. I ment when i'm angry at my wife.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:15 AM
4

Cause she told me: "forget about sex until...."
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:10 AM
9

Yes, and works both ways.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:06 AM
2

Some couples have sex to finish the argument ;)
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:03 AM
92

Of course. But if you're angry at your wife surely affection or intimacy with her is last thing on your mind.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:03 AM
4

Let the women decide, and we decide what "real woman" is.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 06:32 PM
-1

Fortunately not in my country and tbh i think we're at the peak of it worldwide. Today cameras are everywhere, and i'm sure if there was such situation in a company men would simply start recording on their own. The problem is, false accusations are not prosecuted yet as they should be, but i believe it will also change.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 07:41 AM
1

Well....women become masculine so it's hard to find a man that has "more man in man".
/r/MensRights15/12/22 06:27 PM
30

In the end we will have some official statistics. And we'll see that for each 1 raped woman in Ukraine, there were 50-100-150 men killed, and they still will say "women most affected".
/r/MensRights14/12/22 09:48 AM
5

Wohoo, that's a very good point!
/r/MensRights13/12/22 06:26 AM
3

Not missing the point. Why do you think men get broke in divorce with high allimony and child support? If the trend continues politicians will see it doesn't work anymore cause men simply don't want to marry, and they will find a new way to transfer money men--> women. Example: in the past in my country there was a tax for people who were not married.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 06:06 PM
2

Government need money from taxes and women are reponsible for over 80% of consumption. If not the transfer politicians would have so less money from taxes- therefore they need to transfer it from earning men to spending women.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 05:19 PM
1

The problem is, government will find a way to transfer money from men to women (they are already doing it, but they can do much more). Mark my words.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 12:49 PM
5

Mortgages dont have feelings but kids living on that house do have.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 02:10 PM
13

Yea, the idea is that those money were used to pay for child support. I wonder if i could tell i used those 2 milions for my child support therefore they can't demand paying it back :D
/r/MensRights07/12/22 01:23 PM
17

Ask her if she would be ok if her husband had another 2 children with other women and had to pay them child support= limit her recources.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 01:06 PM
45

Guilty of paternity fraud. As you say, there's no law that classify it as a crime, but it should be. ​ Just checked the law in my country: once you find out the kid is not yours you can start procedure to cancel child support, but you won't get back your money.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 12:55 PM
34

She must have known it was possible and that's enough to consider her guilty.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 12:41 PM
28

I wonder if she'd forgive if the killer was a man.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 10:35 AM
81

"Despite branding Mawhood as "evil", the heartbroken mum said she had forgiven the killer." WTF?
/r/MensRights07/12/22 06:13 AM
2

I (male) hit a girl once, was like 9 or 10y, and it was ~30yrs ago. The teacher asked the kids who hit first. She did. I was dismissed, her parents were called to school. Today things would turn out completely different. I can tell you honestly, when i was a kid boys didn't hit girls, cause they were girls, obviously (we fought each other daily) but the girls didn't dare to hit boys cause they knew they would hit back. These were clear rules everybody knew and worked perfectly fine.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:35 PM
6

In my country it was socially unacceptable to live together before marriage, not mentioning having sex or kids. I was married in 2007 and the fact we lived together pre-marriage was hidden before our grandmothers. Now, today i see absolutely NO REASON to marry, therefore it is nothing we owe them. It should be a huge honour to women (far bigger than in the past) that someone is willing to take this risk and propose.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 12:48 PM
5

This is what Hilary Clinton said about war.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 05:15 PM
12

Funny is: they vant together in vitro and contraception financed by tax payers. WTF? Make up your mind? First you want to damage your health by pills, than wait till geriatric pregnancy and you think you deserve tax payers to pay for you to have a child?
/r/MensRights30/11/22 09:37 AM
1

Common solution is taking another unofficial job.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:41 AM
3

You are right, but damn this is changing and i really see it. There are still many white knights, but also so many man wake up. I think future for our kids will be better.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 06:51 AM
4

Well, the one we see in the picture could be hit by artillery projectile and there it looks how it looks. Or, they might have prepared good trenches but the frontline moved and these had to be prepared ad hoc. What are you trying to prove?
/r/MensRights30/11/22 05:41 AM
47

Women most affected :/
/r/MensRights30/11/22 05:39 AM
2

My brother took few shifts with ONZ forces in places like Lebanon or Kosovo. After coming back there was a funeral of one of his friends close to every week. Usually suicide after finding out their wives were cheating on them/ had kids out of wedlock :(
/r/MensRights25/11/22 08:12 AM
0

Law literally says "one can discriminate only white man...."? I'm very curious how this law sounds.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 05:45 PM
1

Unless discrimination is legal in your country, take them to the court.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 05:07 PM
48

Oh yes. Life in Russia is arranged for men, like you can go to the war and get killed within few days.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 05:54 AM
9

I'm 42 and didn't witness this in high school, but in college? I wasn't the best student of the year, but believe me, girls passed all egzams with no effort and when they were in projects groups you could notice the no nothing on the subcejct :/ ​ Can you do anything about it, do you have any tools? Did you try? If yes, with what effects?
/r/MensRights09/11/22 10:32 AM
1

Well, IT is used to find relatives all over the world and also allows you to check if your kids are yours, do should be perfectly suitable for you.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 02:09 PM
3

Isn't simple ancestry.com enough? It's pretty common, not expensive. nobody asks questions.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 05:50 AM
31

Did you notice how her skin looks below her neck? She's using some kind of filter to make her face look young. So there goes "i look good".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/22 03:26 PM
1

Meat.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 04:43 AM
5

It may come to situation when naturaly fertile man will be very hard to find.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 12:38 PM
4

Really? What's the proper name then?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/22 05:28 PM
1

In most cases father= discipline while mother gives unconditional love (not saying fathers don't love their kids, they just have their limits and reason). Both parents have their place. I can say without any doubt, that crime statistics have solid roots in fatherless homes, can't say however if motherless home will be better/ worse than fatherless in general.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:25 PM
7

During and after WW2 nurses were among the most hated (by women) groups of women. Why? Soldiers coming back from war usually had to go to the hospital for some time and the nurses were the 1st to pick the best husbands materials :)
/r/MensRights24/10/22 10:42 AM
4

There's a difference between not caring about someone, and forcing them in camps. And not caring vs sending them to die in war :)?
/r/MensRights24/10/22 09:59 AM
9

Wrong assumption. We also have cooking/ cleaning machines (better and better every year) and yet we don't close women in breeding camps, cause all we need them is to give births. I believe women need men more than we need them. Men built critical infrastructure and supports it. Without men this all collapse within a week or 2.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 09:35 AM
1

Fair & simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:51 AM
1

Yea, but women got government support, why men can't?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:49 AM
1

When in history women were able to take care of the kids? Never. And it's not supposed to be that way, natural & reasonable way is both parents. Sure, there are situation like 1 of parents die in car accident, cause of disease etc. but it's also very common people simply are irresponsible. The only way to improve this situation is making them suffer the consequences. In the beginning it will be hard, but in long run should improve society overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:48 AM
3

- physical activity (for me lifting weights, cycling, running) - hygiene (obviously!) - mental activity (reading books, studies, educating yourself) - do what makes you happy (but not destroys you!) I don't list socializing as i'm introvert.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 07:42 AM
5

Fair point, i admit. TBH i also don't like seeing this "agenda" pushed into movies/ tv shows as i think there's too much of it at once. But not that it's repulsive, disgusting, usually simply don't fit the plot/ scenario. What's interesting, i have a gay co-worker, (great guy btw) and he shares my opinion about it: "too much in short time". In fact he told me that from his perspective it's counterproductive for gay community (gay, not LGBT if that makes any difference).
/r/MensRights20/10/22 07:12 AM
8

You tell me. I never witnessed ostracism you're talking about. Seeing a man wearing a crop top i think: "what a bad taste regarding clothes", nothing more. I don't give a shit, cause why should i?
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:23 AM
9

Dressing feminine is yucky. I also think that way. And i find women wearing pants masculine, not feminine. So what am i? Anti everything? C'mon. And guys can be unmanly, no matter if they are homo or hetero. It's the way they act and i don't give a shit about their sexuality. The thing is if they are gay one is called homophobic, but if he's hetero nobody will call him heterophobic.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:13 AM
15

What are men who advocate for masculinity and men's rights doing to reduce the level of homophobia in the movement ​ Speaking for myself cause i feel i have no right to speak on behalf of the whole movement: Doing nothing as i see no reason for that. We don't see homophobia here. Has anybody told you to sign out cause of your sexual orientation?
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:01 AM
7

I don't find it homophobic. It's just his opinion and he has full right to have one. Homophobic imho would be taking active actions to change what he's talking about. He is not hostile in any way. The same way i could say that every pro homosexual content/ comment is heterophobic.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 05:55 AM
10

Perhaps because there are far more women than lgbt people? Take both populations, smal % is willing to fight for their rights and there you have it.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 05:50 AM
2

What's more important for you? LGBT or MRA? Answer yourself and stick to it.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 05:45 AM
4

I'd stay close and once they hit the wall and no one wants them i could say in their face: "you got what you f8cking deserved" :D
/r/MensRights20/10/22 04:46 AM
1

I live in shithole country for most of Americans (east EU). Yet, none of this crap happens here (perhaps in huge corporations where they try to be more international). Not long ago there was a bikini competitor training in my gym. I don't know her at all. I asked how she keeps her breasts in such good condition despite so low body fat. No problem, no sexual harrasment, she answered with some tips and we went back to our training. Can you even imagine something like this in countries like USA, Ca…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 11:00 AM
18

Whole critical infrastructure is supported by men. What did she expect would happen during this 1 month? Golden years for women? I'd sayat the end of week 1 there would be "Mad Max" reality on the streets.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 10:42 AM
2

Unfortunately yes. Statistics leave no hope. 56% of all cases mother gets full custody, close to 98% child stays with mother, and father has the right to visit. 50/50 custody is very rare as mothers don't agree to this. To get a full custody she must be hopeless junkie, alkoholic, prostitute and so on. But even then a court will give her a chance to fix her problems, so this may take years before you get full custody.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 09:57 AM
1

Everything you have before marriage is yours, period. She can't have any of it. What you earn/ win after the marriage belongs to both of you, unless you make this "assets separation". This is very common among couples that run a business, also politicians do that :) Allimony for wife in Poland is extremaly rare, she must be ltierally unable to work, like paralysed, child support is a thing if wife gets a child.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:02 AM
-2

OK, no problem.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 08:46 PM
1

What is the question again?
/r/MensRights18/10/22 07:42 PM
-1

Ok then, so be it.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 01:57 PM
2

Our discussion is really about finances and other financial assets. That's why i'm asking about France. Normally if a child stays with a mother, you may loose a house (for the sake of a child), get child support/ allimony. What about if it's not yours, but you can't play this card cause it's illegal to test it?
/r/MensRights18/10/22 10:51 AM
3

That's another topic however and doesn't just apply to marriage law. It doesn't? I think it's critical for a guy to know, that his child is his (especially if there's a divorce and child support is on the table).
/r/MensRights18/10/22 10:41 AM
3

Can you confirm that in France it's illegal to make DNA test to confirm that the child is yours?
/r/MensRights18/10/22 10:08 AM
12

Poland.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 07:57 AM
-5

So it's black or white, nothing in the middle?
/r/MensRights18/10/22 07:11 AM
-3

Define what you mean "homophobic". I don't like seeing 2 guys kissing each other, or raising a kid, but i will not be agressive towards them, chase them with torch and shout "sinners!". I just don't think this is normal, not good for society long run. I do have gay college at work, great guy, completely no problem with him. I like to work and socialize with him, but i wouldn't support his petition for kid adoption. So, am i homophobic being truly neutral in gay community causes or not?
/r/MensRights18/10/22 06:22 AM
14

Depends on the country. In my country you can have completely separated accounts, assets, everything you own/ your wife owns, everything you both earn is separated and in case of a divorce she has no legal way to put her hands on it. Mind, it's not a prenup! It's a safety protocol in fact. For example you run a high risk business, you earn great but a chance of bancrupcy if high. So you make this property separation, cause otherwise your wife will be responsible also for your debts and will take…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 05:54 AM
29

She can't quit cause she's afraid she won't another job, yet she is in her 30's, so it's the end of a line for her. How long can she stay on the market, 3-5 years? And there are plenty of girls like her who have no idea what's comming.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/22 07:20 AM
-1

From my perspective yes, mostly cause they justify lying as doing something good or cause it concerns minor issues (like buying new clothes) and in their opinion it's nothing important.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 07:28 AM
13

1st of all, 20 years ago girls were little bit different than today. 1st shit test was money. I was a poor student, she was earning 3x my salary. She didn't care so i knew she wasn't a gold digger. She was a virgin (yep, a unicorn). And, she changed her college and moved half of the country to live with me (i was very impressed by that as it required a lot of effort from her side). 22 years later were still together, had our ups & downs but it's better than ever now.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 05:36 PM
50

Stronger and more independent!
/r/MensRights06/10/22 03:59 PM
21

Exactly. Fortunately i found good womens that healed me and proved not all are the same.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 01:28 PM
113

Well yeah, we need more female roles with bad CGI and twerking in suit. That surely will do a lot in favour of female roles.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 12:37 PM
47

When i was a teenager i heard many times from girls: you're a good husband material, but not a boyfriend material. I was devastated (yep, i was a picture perfect nice guy) cause i had no idea what it means, what's the difference. Now i know :/
/r/MensRights06/10/22 10:31 AM
43

As a boy- bullying. Parents of bullied child have limited options, and teachers/ other institutions approach it as "boys will be boys, they just play". So many of boys are simply afraid to go outside/ to school cause of this. As a man...you literally need to be a machine. You're not allowed to fail, to have bad days, you need to perform. You can't fail financially cause there are no shelters/ support for homeless men, no psychological support (cause as a man you just need to get over it), you ca…
/r/MensRights06/10/22 10:19 AM
8

Also, our taxes should not be directed to treat those issues. ​ What is the exact context, cause it's hard to have an opinion just based on "those who do not have uterus should stfu".
/r/MensRights05/10/22 11:10 AM
3

Equality....I remember just before covid there was a huge campaing to prevent breast & prostaate cancer. Breast C: medical bus in every major city all over the country, every 2nd week. Every women could free of charge make tests and be guided how to treat herself. Prostate C: 1 bus, 1 city, 1 weend in the whole year. In general, a women could make a test max 50km from home, in max 2 weeks. Man had 1 opportunity in a whole year, many times hundreds of kms from home. There are plenty of examples w…
/r/MensRights05/10/22 08:52 AM
8

I am 100% feminists. Full equality. Women to the mines, garbage industry, to the high voltage lines and so on. If they don't want it, than call me a conservative guy who would like to see women in their feminine roles.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 06:36 PM
1

What are the other reasons?
/r/MensRights02/10/22 07:27 AM
1

In France it is illegal to make a DNA test. You do it, and it's financial penalty + jail for you.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 04:25 AM
2

Putin yes, but to launch nuke there are plenty of people needed to cooperate. 1 denies and the plan is off. I really believe there's 1 brave soul thinking about possible consequences ready to sabotage this action.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 11:42 AM
12

I'm in similar situation. I've learned, that nobody will appreciate you, love you and care about you than you (Except a dog. Dog loves you to death). Also married, kids, no debts, paid car, settled pretty good in life and my wife seems to think this is normal, nothing unusual, like you get that for free without any effort. Well, it's not. There are plenty of people around who struggle with debts, illnesses, mental/ physical disabilities, tons of stress and other life problems. We don't have thos…
/r/MensRights28/09/22 11:22 AM
5

Men don't need emotional support in general, they need solution to their problems. If you have a problem with your car/ boss/ health you don't want someone to hug you or just hear you out, you want exactly to fix the problem (not that men don't like hugs or talking!). Perhaps i'm weird and i speak only for myself, but am i wrong?
/r/MensRights26/09/22 11:51 AM
1

For the future, google finds reddit topics perfectly. Just google.com, type first few words from the topic and there you have it: https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/74ujxi/i_26f_asked_my_boyfriend_27m_of_five_years_to/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/22 08:04 AM
2

Poland.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 04:07 PM
2

It depends on the of specific state/ country. In my country there's no spousal support, only child support (ok, ex wife can get allimony but she literally needs to be paralyzed, completely unable to work, and such decisions are extremaly rare made by a divorce court). Also, what you've earned before marriage is 100% yours and there's no way she can get a penny of it. ​ Also prenup is pretty much respected by divorce court, no bullshut that she was under pressure and didn't know what it ment.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 04:44 AM
0

Officially huge part of russian society supports Putin in his actions. What's your point of view?
/r/MensRights21/09/22 07:20 PM
1

I feel sorry for you. I have great parents and brother. Never felt rejected by them in any way :/
/r/MensRights08/09/22 03:35 PM
2

TBH it's all about what they agreed about. If they're exlusive no matter how many times a man refuses to have sex, how bad in bed he is, how he is not providing pleasure....if she wants other dick- she simply brakes the relationship. The same works both ways.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 04:36 PM
2

I live close to the battle zone (war in Ukraine). Until the war we had plenty of feminists and you could often hear that men are expendable, women are independent and other crap like this. Once the war started everything changed within blink of an eye. Before the war women wanted to go to the army to have easy job, now guess what....
/r/MensRights04/09/22 12:03 PM
4

Which one agree/ disagree?
/r/MensRights04/09/22 09:14 AM
107

Clear signs of danger for women but not for men? Was there a pack of wolves to fight or what?
/r/MensRights31/08/22 09:00 AM
1

Yea, but i told her that "me playing video games is as obvious as moon cycles, you can't change that. It was before you, is now, and will be if you're gone". I'm 42 and i play quite a lot.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 05:07 AM
141

The first sentence says all: "Science is finding that women struggle more than men when it comes to staying faithful in relationships. ​ It's not that they cheat more, it's that they struggle more which means it's harder for them. Again trying to justify women cheating.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 04:55 PM
2

Od course its a premarital sex. I no conclusion here. The point the priest made was that premarital sex is not bad as you eliminate one very important factors that may be root cause of divorce.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 07:29 PM
3

What's your perspective on "sex before marriage"?
/r/MensRights11/08/22 06:31 PM
13

It is not so simple. I remember speaking with a katholic priest (i'm not religious, but he was a really smart and open minded guy, and we needed to have this conversation before getting married). We spoke about marriage, raising children and so on. And he told me (contrary to the common opinion) that in family: "you and your wife as a single individual units + you two as a couple are far more important that kids. Cause if you won't be happy, there's no way for your kids to be happy. Also, one da…
/r/MensRights11/08/22 07:55 AM
4

I agree here with 50: the person who invites pay. Pro tip: 1st date should be a simple coffe, walk in the park or something like that, not dinner in fancy restaurant.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 12:27 PM
1

I did that when i was young and stupid. Now i get sex whenever i want.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 07:31 AM
2

Cause most they can get it: "lucky you!"
/r/MensRights01/08/22 11:30 AM
2

It's not selfish, it's normal. Wait if the roles reverse, you have low libido and she has needs. ​ I had the same situation: after having a kid 8 years of dead bedroom. But in my life i had both: very hgh and very low libido, and i can assure, it's no fun to have sex while you're completely not interested in this. There's something f*cked up in women mind, that once they have a kid every other things literally don't matter. Can't really help you, i have no advice :( I managed to go thrugh this a…
/r/MensRights30/07/22 06:53 PM
1

Check what Ronda has to say about it: https://youtu.be/ZLrNBmXhr1M
/r/MensRights20/07/22 02:42 PM
7

And now imagine the audience loves to see their asses kicked and buy ppv, or tickets. Companies will pay more and more for ads during those games as the audience grows, and female players in the end will demand more money. Sport is enterteinment, nothing more.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 01:26 PM
2

Still, IT doesnt matter you win or not. If people want to ser you they will psy for tuckets/ payperview, companies will psy more for ads during your Play and you will warn more on the end.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 11:29 AM
26

In sport it's not who's better, it's who provides more profit. If people (in general) prefer to watch male competitors, they will bring more money and they will earn more. Once women start bringing more money, they will be better paid. Simple as that.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 10:36 AM
2

What is "CS"?
/r/MensRights12/07/22 04:49 AM
2

No. I live in east Europe and we don't have issues with women like i read here. In fact, i can approach any girl in the gym, compliment her form/ body shape without being called a creep. In my lifting career i trained with random girls on one machine, spoke with them about their workouts/ diets, never had any problems, and i'm not 10/10 Chad. I like it the way it is but reading horror stories from US/ Canada i'd surely want to have male only gym.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 09:22 AM
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The example i gave is anegdotal, nothing more. But the fact is that 50% of my workes are women and they simply work less= they earn less. It's not systemic oppression, it's just simple math.I don't care if it's good or bad that man take less sick leave, it's just a fact they do= they earn more.
/r/MensRights04/06/22 03:11 AM
1

If your role is so critical that you cannot be on sick leave, then you are a single point of failure and the company You are completely right. But it's not that the company will fall apart. Rather it means delay in projects i'm leading until they sort things out, 3-4 months of delay. I am aware this organization sucks but that's just the way it is.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 09:11 PM
1

Yes and no. My superior don't care if i stay at work or take sick leave, he wants the job done.And if i want it done, i need to be there. Perhaps i'm not good manager cause i can't prepare my crew for my sick leave? Yep, possible. But this is a part of being a manager, you have big responsibility, and you can't just take sick leave like a regular worker who can be easily replaced.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 08:56 PM
0

You have plenty of muslims and they multiply much faster than native french. I'm sure in few decades women will crave freedom they have today.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 09:34 AM
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That's exactly what i think. They want superior position and salary, but also be able to stay at home with kids, take sick leave and so on. They don't want all the effort & stress linked to high ranked/ paid positions. I am a manager, over 100 people below me. In my 15 years career i took sick leave twice: when i had head surgery and when i lost vision for about 2 weeks due to some kind of eyes infection.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 07:58 AM
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My mother is a feminist, she always talks about pay gap, glass ceiling, discrimination and so on. One time she was offered position as a manager and she refused. I asked why. "There are only women in my department, working with them is horrible. Manager must be a man who can handle them". Honk honk.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 06:15 AM
1

And that's 1 of the reason marriage rate drops so much. I think we will see changes for the better in next 1-2 decades :)
/r/MensRights03/06/22 03:52 AM
2

Just to comfort you, i live in EU (Poland) and in our country spousal allimony is very rare. You need to be absolutely unable to work and your ex needs to be in very good financial situation to get anything from him (works both ways). There are still countries with reasonable law.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 12:37 PM
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I am also proud to announce that my 15y old son was very happy how this ended as he tracked with great attention the whole thing. In the beginning i thought it was simply cause he liked Jack Sparrow character, but it turned out that he was more focused on false accusation thing.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 07:21 AM
167

Since she has financial problems can't you get 100% custody?
/r/MensRights01/06/22 07:37 AM
11

I'm not native english speaker but i use this language every day for the last 10 years, read books/ watch movies without any problems. I can't understand 60% of what she wrote....seriously, wtf is going on? Language is changing so fast or is she somehow retarted?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 05:58 AM
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I guess it depends on the law of every country, but in general false accusation can f*ck up your life and career. Sure, you can move to different city or even country and start over, but i for example have old parents who need daily care. I can't just leave them. I can't imagine what i would do in such situation :/
/r/MensRights25/05/22 05:59 AM
1

Ok, i don't know how to call it, but in my country as long as the trial goes you usually go to jail. And it may take years.
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:59 AM
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It was a famous issue in my country. Married couple were divorcing, everything was going smoothly, they agreed how to divorce. Out of nowhere wife says in the court: "he raped our daughter". And the "justice machine started". He was put in jail, divorce ended quickly (wife got the house and basically everythin else). He lost his job. In jail he was raped, beaten, his health got extremaly bad due to injuries and stress. After 2years it was clear, no rape or other sexual activities were done and h…
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:58 AM
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It's not same type of crime Which is truly worse? 1) Women get raped- you get trauma for life. That's for sure. But in general you live your life normal. 2) Men false accusation of rape - prison, loosing a job, house and other belongings. Your life might be ruined and if you won't move to another country it might be really hard or impossible to bounce back.
/r/MensRights24/05/22 07:41 PM
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I was like you 15 years ago. I was 1 step from divorce with all the consequences and decided to stay. But i focused on myself and kids 100%, started educating myself, lifting, dieting, in general i improved myself a lot. I also told my wife officially i don't care what she thinks and i will do what i want. Yes, i was an asshole sometimes. After some time my wife also improved and now we're better than ever. ​ Now the question is, would i be better leaving my family and starting from scratch? I d…
/r/MensRights24/05/22 09:28 AM
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False accusations should accompany a person till the death, as an official information, for employee, or landlord and so on.
/r/MensRights24/05/22 09:22 AM
3

I don't track this Deep vs Amber stuff. Did he do to her anything close to cutting a finger?
/r/MensRights24/05/22 06:54 AM
1

I'm a manager of production line, about 100 workers, close to 50/50 men/ women. The basic salay on specific position is exactly the same for men and women. In the end men earn more. They take far less sick leaves and take extra hours more willingly. They are also far eager to take up new tasks/ challenges. To be fair, women are better at doing the same work every day for the whole year (like soldering the same component 8h for the whole year with the same quality). ​ I get it- family is more imp…
/r/MensRights22/05/22 04:23 PM
2

And in the end when they will have less quotation= less drives= less money, they will protest: MEN EARN MORE! Good job.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 03:41 AM
1

Tbh i don't think it applies where you have a choice. In my country your car insurance depends on gender, where you live, what kind of car you have, your history or accidents and even speed tickets. A lot of factors. But you can change the insurance company and negotiate the conditions, sometimes suprisingly effective. ​ It's like the same product for women and men, that are cheaper for men: so called pink tax. Why TF instead of complaining women simply won't buy cheaper men products, which are …
/r/MensRights05/05/22 10:00 AM
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I am married. When i met my wife she was earning close to 3x more than me. She never treated me badly cause of that, and in time i started earning more. We share all our bills, i've never felt she drains me out of my recources. Just wanted to say it is possible to find good person. Wouldn't take the risk again though.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 06:13 AM
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Good light + some photo skills + 5000 pictures taken to choose THE ONE and you have it ready for tinder. That's why 1st date is only a coffee + 15 mins chat to verify things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 05:28 AM
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Why would a 6ft+ man take a 5.2' woman and risk his son to be short?
/r/MensRights15/04/22 09:06 AM
2

In most cases it is our nature, our need. You can't fight it just like you can't fight hunger just by your will. In my case (married) i two was in dead bedroom for years. One day something clicked, i just stop giving a shit about sex. And it was such a relieve, freedom i never felt before. I wish this kind of enlightment to all the guys who struggle with sex terror from their partners.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 06:43 AM
1

"Equality" at it's finest :/
/r/MensRights14/04/22 05:10 AM
2

Don't know that show but we have similar also with actor, but they use real cases records and recreate it.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 12:11 PM
2

Well, tbh "good girl/ good boy" sound exactly how you pet your dog, which would indicate how he sees his team. On the other hand, saying "God job, you did it girl" would be imho perfectly fine.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 11:48 AM
2

In my country (east EU) it is still normal to compliment a woman and not being called perv. In fact, only 1 time in my life a crazy girl called me names for holding door for her. 99.99% cases you'll get polite "thank you" and a smile.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 09:00 AM
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Smart hands?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 08:03 AM
13

Yeaaa, let's have healthy people endure pain of cancer, cause why not?
/r/MensRights07/04/22 06:53 AM
2

I live in East EU, no feelings like that (male perspective) also my wife and daughter don't see men as predators/ potential criminals. I hope this shit won't come to us :/
/r/MensRights05/04/22 09:49 AM
1

I live in East Eu and literally nothing like this happens. You can still tell a woman on a street she looks nice, no matter if you're Chad or gery average guy and 99% you'll get a smile in return. But Western Europe...
/r/MensRights04/04/22 06:03 AM
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Sure, as long as it doesn't go the wrong way, like "boys scouts". But in the end i want to go my gym which is very close to my home and i would be very upset once it turned into "female only". Btw, i live in east EU, and for about 15y of litfing i heard abount zero harrasment issues in my city gyms.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 07:53 AM
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That's exactly what happened to me. My father is 6ft+, my mother is 5.3'. My brother is like my father, guess how high i am :/ Fortunately my wife didn't care and in the end my boy at the age of 15 is already 6ft+.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 05:41 AM
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I never said she should stay cause i earn more. Damn, i was happy to stay even for the cost of less monthly payment. I earn more cause i'm en engineer working with explosives, not cause i'm a man. My wife choose less paid profession and there it is. >it will always be easier financially for the parent making less (mom) to take time out of work ​ The problem is, women choose more earning partners, this is in their nature. Even if she's a doctor and outearn 80% of male population she'd still look …
/r/MensRights02/04/22 05:31 AM
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Men taking time out would work. But it will reduce his earnings too. Combined with the loss of his wife's income There's no loss in wife's income cause if husband stays with a child she works.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 03:10 PM
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I'm also happily married, but 20years ago girls in Europe were different. Seeing how they behave now, i give my son many lessons what awaits him if he take a risk.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 11:17 AM
2

So women can commit a sucide to avoid worse fate like rape?
/r/MensRights01/04/22 09:04 AM
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My mother who (i was really surprised cause in general she's a very reasonable person) is a great suporter of pay gap myth. Once she was offered a manager's position but she refused. I asked why. She said: too many women in this department, you have no idea how shitty it is to work with them. They need a strong man as manager, otherwise it won't work. Case closed.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 08:54 AM
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And you cannot solve it. You can. Except the period of breast feeding there's no reason why a father can't stay with a child instead of a mother. They just prefer to stay (claim, they will do much better than a father) and demand compensation. But it should be solved between husband and wife/ man and women, government should not be involved here. In my case- usually my wife stays with kids if it's needed simply cause i earn more and it's more effective financially, but if she can't stay for what…
/r/MensRights01/04/22 08:06 AM
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​ That wouldn't be such a problem. The thing is, they officially say a men starts at 6 ft, no matter how small she is.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 07:37 AM
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This is by far next to FDS the most toxic community :/
/r/MensRights29/03/22 07:14 PM
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More a scientific approach. Mind, i'm not saying it's bad that women have this opportunity- they simply tyake advantage of the technological possibility, everybody would do that. I'm just showing the effect it has on society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 05:19 PM
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Of course. In the past women got validation in their own neighbourhood/ school/ work. Now they get hundreds of thousands likes. It's very corruptive for the personality, self esteem and ego. Boys on the other hand don't have that luxury (unless they are in top10% of Chads). It may go only direction in long run.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 12:41 PM
1

I don't live in the USA and as i can see you can choose any country. Signatures outside the USA are are still valid? If yes, why?
/r/MensRights24/03/22 07:13 AM
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Holy shit! Although i live on different continent that's absolutely a breakthrough! Go Texas!
/r/MensRights24/03/22 06:32 AM
1

I agree, my wife does most of the house chores (i do some though). I suggested i take house chores and she pays the bills. Guess what, she didn't want to. Amazing!
/r/MensRights18/03/22 04:59 AM
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You are right. This cannot happen in peace times, but as far as i googled some parts of the country are in a state similar to state of war (something like highest readyness). People will be nervous, and border may be patroled by those who are not properly trained- shit may happen. Just be careful whatever you decide.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 01:31 PM
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I was never in your position. Perhaps go legally across the border and tell some kind of lie, that you're sick and can't stay/ fight? Like diabetics or something? Or your mother can fake she needs special care. TBH i wouldn't try to pass the border in those times. If they notice you they may even shoot on sight.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 01:22 PM
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Of course. The operation mode is that they detect a person on cameras and send the "chasing" squad to the location.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 12:37 PM
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My parents are too old to run away. It's also for them. There are far more reasons to stay rather than just be a hero.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 11:20 AM
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What i mean is, i'm absolutely against forcing man to fight while women are allowed to flee, but i'm also 100% willing to put my life and fight, all i ask in return is to take care of my kids.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 11:13 AM
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As far as i know polish border guard is doubled if not tripled due to incidents on Belarus border. You might expect there are plenty additional patrols like police and soldiers.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 09:02 AM
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I spoke with a friend who works in border patrol. He says that they use thermal cameras and will notice you miles away. You need to figure out how to cheat the camera if you plan to cross the border through the forest/ mountains.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 07:47 AM
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>My mom would pretend to be a single woman since my dad would probably decide to stay and fight and not jump into the trunk like me. ​ I'm a father, and a son myself. In the beginning i thought: how can you leave your father and escape? But giving it a second thought....i as a father would literally order my boy to run, save himself and take care of mom and i'd gladly take his place. Good luck dude.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 07:22 AM
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The difference is, it was in a culture when women is less valued than a camel. Right now women in Western cultures have opportunity to show "girl's power" and join legion formed in Ukraine. Everybody can join and fight. C'mon ladies!
/r/MensRights01/03/22 07:05 AM
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When my hair started thinning i heard from many women in my family, that my hair look bad and i should do something about it. Of course they seen nothing wrong in this. When i made my remark about them gaining weight shitstorm started.
/r/MensRights17/02/22 07:56 PM
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Does "a guy below 6 ft" fits your topic, or male pattern baldness?
/r/MensRights17/02/22 01:04 PM
1

It is paid 80% (according to the law), but if a worker takes a sick leave often it is a problem you need to deal with, so obviously worker who doesn't take sick leave is less problematic= better= deserves better bonus. As i said, base salary is the same.
/r/MensRights17/02/22 04:45 AM
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Interesting fact: our CEO is a woman :) ​ Aaaand it just came to my mind. I had a guy who has very ill mother. You know what he asked me for: "give me extra work so i can earn more and hire someone to take care of her".
/r/MensRights16/02/22 05:02 PM
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Agree. I had a conversation with 1 of the women regarding her salary. She had a lot of sick leaves cause she had to take care of sick children. Long story short, here how it went: - XXX got higher bonus than me and work on the same position. - yes, but you took Y days off and she didn't, that's why higher bonus for her. - my kids were sick and i had to stay with them. - Ok, i understand kids/ family are the most important, why can't your husband stay with them and you work? - he won't, he has a …
/r/MensRights16/02/22 04:05 PM
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I'd say 80% have families, some are too young to be married/ in serious relationship or already divorced and single. And "well payed" is honestly too strong word. The gap is maybe 3-4%/ month.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 01:45 PM
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I don't know how it works in USA, but here how it works in my country: 1) Men on average live 7-8 less than women- fact 2) Assume men and women had similar salary, and put same amount to social security system: X $ 3) This value X$ is divided by expected lifetime, so if women lives longer SHE WILL GET LESS every month- this is kinda balanced imho. 4) Ih her husband dies she can switch to his social acc- kinda fair, wouldn't you like your family to take what you earned instead of the system? It's…
/r/MensRights16/02/22 01:23 PM
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I think this discussion makes only sense when we speak about exactly the same position occupied by men and women.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 01:01 PM
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Not exactly. On some positions men are better, on some women are better.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 01:00 PM
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Live action i witnessed: Gathering at production line, 1 women crying like she lost a child, dozen of her colleagues try to comfort her. I asked 1 of women what happened- her husband is cheating on her. Ok, i won't interfere, quite a situation. Few days later i found out that "cheating" was finidng out her husband watched porn. And for that reason we had delay on production line. Seriously? As for men, they do have personal problems but in general they are far less emotional and don't whine abou…
/r/MensRights16/02/22 12:43 PM
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Of course it's anegdotal. Should have underline it in the beginning.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 12:25 PM
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Please read withunderstanding. BASE SALARY IS THE SAME. Men earn more cause of extra hours or less sick leave. And yes, if a woman cries cause of home problems while men work at the same time, men will get higher bonus, why wouldn't he?
/r/MensRights16/02/22 12:23 PM
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I work in quite big company, over 3000 people, as manager. My crew is about ~100 people, men and women (production line). On every position men and women have exactly THE same base salary. Men earn more. Why? - they take FAR LESS sick leaves - they don't bring their emotional problems from home to work (women do!) - they are far more aggressive when it comes to promotion- they are ready to compete, to give their 120%, they are more willing to take the challenge - they work far more extra hours -…
/r/MensRights16/02/22 10:55 AM
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1st of all, here where i live (east EU) we have racist jokes, gender jokes, jew jokes, you name it. Nobody gives a shit, nobody is offended, a joke is a joke. Other than that, double standards are everywhere.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 08:28 AM
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I work in a factory, about 2500 people. My experience (i'm in managment for over 10 years). Women are great in routine, same work/ same task every day. They'd do the same thing over and over again, and you can expect the same quality of work day 1, and one year later. Men on the same position go crazy after 2 weeks. They need more challenge, more stimulation. No for wage gap. Base is the same for every gender on the same position. But women tend to take more days off and don't want to take extra…
/r/MensRights08/02/22 09:17 PM
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That's exactly what i mean. They should be EQUAL not BALANCED. In government's opinion they are balanced now (which in fact is favourising women). ​ In the end, we think about the same thing but use other expression.
/r/MensRights06/02/22 08:58 AM
3

Balanced laws What do you mean balanced? Equal is the right way!
/r/MensRights06/02/22 08:36 AM
23

What's "reiki"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 12:53 PM
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I don't give a single f*ck what they think about me.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 10:37 AM
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Been there, done that. What a misery it was :/
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:20 AM
1

aaaand electricity, and plumbing, and transport, and security, and garbage disposal and so on...
/r/MensRights25/01/22 06:36 AM
1

I'm a project manager and it's in my contract that i don't get paid extra hours. Fortunately it happens rarely. I'd say up to 10hrs/ month at most. East EU.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 10:19 AM
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She can't even clean her room and expects you to put her whole life in order. Nope.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 05:57 AM
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Oh yes. But to be fair, it works both ways. Somethimes women crave men and they avoid sex for whatever reasons.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 06:55 PM
4

If you're curious you may chat me (pm). There's no reason to reveal my story here.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 03:07 PM
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I had my adventures with deadbedroom, now it's solved but the misery i suffered....WOuldn't wish it to my greatest enemy :/
/r/MensRights14/01/22 08:36 AM
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My perspective as a manager of production department (close to 100 people). The base salary is the same for both genders. What i noticed is: - women don't like to change positions, which may be good. They will do the same thing for years, don't get bored with it and keep the same quality, while men need more stimulation, challenge, they need to change their positions. The problem is, a man can always come back to old position which makes him more flexible worker while women simply don't want (mo…
/r/MensRights14/01/22 06:27 AM
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Depends where you live. I live in east EU and comparing to USA / Canada we can go absolutely over the line. ​ Imagine this: i'm a gym freak and there's a hot girl in my gym that competes in bikini division. Once i approched her and asked how did she sustain good condition of her breasts since many lifting girls with low body fat are usually flat. She answered it's simply genetics, and that's about it. No harrasment bullshit, no issues, we carried on with our training. Background: my wife who fin…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 06:07 AM
1

Serial killer agrees :D
/r/MensRights14/12/21 04:31 PM
2

Ok, but how you used it, it means you don't give a fuck what i think about the topic or what?
/r/MensRights14/12/21 01:23 PM
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What does it mean (not native eng speaker)?
/r/MensRights14/12/21 12:57 PM
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30yrs ago when i was in school a girl hit me few times. Hit her back once, teacher asked what happened, understood it was self defense, informed girls they should avoid violence especially towards boys who are stronger. Even my parents were not called to school. Good old times :/
/r/MensRights14/12/21 10:42 AM
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I think quite the opposite. Imagine divorce and: a) Women says: he raped me as i didn't consent b) man says: she raped me as i didn't sonsent I'm pretty sure the judge won't give a crap about man. Even if the situation was exactly the same, women will be a victim while a man will be opressor.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 04:17 PM
1

Yea, body language, but still there's verbal communication. I: start a fun time. My wife: not today, i'm tired I: stop the fun time Wife: ....why do you stop when i said "no"? That shit really happened. I don't remember being so confused ever in my life.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 03:18 PM
1

So perhaps like this: ...no...maybe...i dunno...whatever.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 03:05 PM
1

My mother (retired now) who is 100% feminists (in negative way) when we talk about glass ceiling or wage gap admitted herself, that she'd always choose a male boss over female. Also, she was offered a managment position many times but there were mostly women in her department and as she described it, the was no way that she'd deal with all the drama they bring to work.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 06:24 AM
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For me it's very simple. If she wants to keep the baby and he wants abortion, she shouldn't have any rights to child support.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 06:08 AM
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Fortunately only few people followed him. He became very aggressive including sending priv messages. I reported him, blocked and continued the discussion.
/r/MensRights22/11/21 07:15 AM
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Yea...I participated in a discussion about socialism vs capitalism. One guy wrote: "no point to speak with him, he's on XYZ (mensrights) sub!"
/r/MensRights22/11/21 05:58 AM
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that they admitted that responsibility should fall solely on women after getting pregnant You should read it: "if i want to give birth and receive child support i decide, if i want abortion i decide, men have nothing to say here".
/r/MensRights21/11/21 06:36 AM
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Funny, the original study was deleted: https://theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e ​ but this chart is still avaivlable here and there: (For whatever reason i can't paste here the chart. Google- okcupid how women rate men and google graphis). ​ Of course it's about online dating only, and we're talking about how women rate men vs how men rate women just by looks, nothing more. You see the difference right?
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:07 AM
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And men aren’t any less picky when it comes to how attractive a woman should be. THEY ARE! You didn't see the study, did you?
/r/MensRights20/11/21 12:10 AM
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You saw this study on okcupid were sample was counted in thousands which proved that for women 80% of men are simply not attractive? Check it, you'll be surprised.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 11:02 PM
2

More likely you live in bigger city, and i live in a shithole :D
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:20 PM
8

They want to be seen sexually but from chads not ordinary guys (6/10 and below). Simple. Just ignore.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 01:08 PM
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20 years ago when i met my wife she was earning 3x my salary. She moved half of the country to be with me and lovered hel lifestyle a lot by that. Never complained, always supportive. Imagine something like this today...
/r/MensRights18/11/21 04:42 PM
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I live in East EU. It is comming here also, especially in big cities. But in general it is not bad, you can still find a decent girl- wife material, and nobody will call you a sexist for "manspreading" in a bus. False rape accusation are very rare and thoroughly checked. It's up to my generation to sustain it.
/r/MensRights18/11/21 01:34 PM
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Dude c'mon. Society condemns that kind of behaviour. She simply didn't understood that as a 16y child. This is pathology and any normal mother would call it that way.
/r/MensRights17/11/21 03:48 PM
3

Yes, he's soft on feminism He ahd a lot of problem, court included, problems at work for what he says. I'd say he's as subtle as he must to make his point.
/r/MensRights13/11/21 06:29 AM
3

Even if you make them pay in some mysterious way, it would only raise the prive of armaments and tax payers would cover it.
/r/MensRights13/11/21 06:27 AM
4

Government has no problem making man pay in case of paternity fraud, so why not extra tax for military service for those who don't want to go to the army?
/r/MensRights13/11/21 06:26 AM
0

Really? I'd say quite the opposite :)
/r/MensRights12/11/21 05:36 AM
1

What exactly are you refering to?
/r/MensRights11/11/21 05:21 PM
16

I didn't press charges for false statements or whatever, sorry, I just wanted them gone forever from then on. That is one of serious factor why it's even happening :/ You can't let go dude!
/r/MensRights10/11/21 05:58 AM
11

Is this kind of writing common for some areas? I'm not native english speaker and it hurts my eyes just to read it :/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 07:08 AM
21

It is very simple. Those who say "men must never hit a women" justify it that men are stronger, theforethey should hold themself. Ok, but if i hit a guy twice as big/ strong as me society will say: "you saw he's bigger/ stronger than you, wtf were you thinking?" As marriage/ relationship rates droppes i truly believe the law will change and in the future we will get true equality. For now, we need to stay united.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 05:57 AM
4

In my country it's not rare to have agreement with the lawyer: "You take my case and get 20% of what you win". You just take simple low costs of trial, which are pennies comparing to lawyer payment.
/r/MensRights07/11/21 04:05 AM
5

Because we don't want to? Look at the most egalitarian societies: scandinavian. Gender gap is the biggestthere cause this is natural way. Jordan Peterson spoke about that.
/r/MensRights04/11/21 04:12 PM
4

Well of course, cause even if she's the cause: she cheated, she gets the kids and the house, how is man suppose to feel? Give him the kids, house and order her to pay child support and statistics for men after breakup will be far better.
/r/MensRights04/11/21 07:22 AM
5

From biological point of view- yes, we are. 1 man can impregnate countless women, so for the species survival men ad expendable. However, we're not animals and this no longer applies.
/r/MensRights04/11/21 06:24 AM
1

I'd say it was her day cause i simply didin't give a single f*ck. For me it was another opportunity to meet with my friends. Fun fact, she had post wedding depression- i seriously thought this is BS, but it's a fact :D She cried like a kid that after 1year of preparations it's over :D
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:43 AM
5

Not native english speaker, please explain the difference: ""paternity fraud isn't a crime, yet a false paternity fraud statement is considered a crime.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 05:46 AM
6

Thanks. I'm not native eng speaker and i appreciate those remarks a lot. This really helps!
/r/MensRights31/10/21 04:22 PM
19

This all started long ago. Look at cartoons like: Simpsons, Family Guy, World of Gumball. All of them present male as a stupid person/ loser, and his wife is literally the only "force" that keeps everything together.
/r/MensRights31/10/21 11:59 AM
1

>Essentially, my military career was over, injections had too many risks of getting angry or getting depressed at either end of the cycle ​ I understand there are the rules made by military, not the doctor? If the doctor said it to be the reason not to work for army he's simply a moron. Testosterone replacement therapy is not a cycle, it's not ment to make you a steroid hulk. It's supposed to REPLACE what your body should naturaly, produce, therefore no anger, no mood swing and so on.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 07:27 PM
1

Exactly. What are they going to do? Water pumps giving less pressure so women can hold fire hoses, even at the cost of shorter range and efficiency?
/r/MensRights29/10/21 07:20 PM
14

Absolutely. And unfortunately, they are not.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 04:48 PM
12

Cause my daughter said she's a little women and she doesn't want to go to male's room. Why shouldn't i respect this request since women do that also?
/r/MensRights28/10/21 03:23 PM
2

In my country police don't care, as long as you don't have a wound that is confirmed by a doctor, like knife stab/ cut, unless of course you have a video record of it.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 03:22 PM
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Few years ago the issue of females in military was quite a thing in every news. There was a live interview with high rank officer: Journalist (female): so what do you think about female soldiers? Officer (male): oh yes, great idea, we need women in military J: how many would you like in your unit?O: none J: ?? O: Women do a great job in some positions, nurses/ doctors in field hospital, assistans general staff, logistic department and so on, but my unit operates in a field, we don't want women t…
/r/MensRights28/10/21 03:19 PM
17

I did went to women part when my daughter was small, just cause mothers with small sons were in men's part. Victory :)
/r/MensRights28/10/21 12:44 PM
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Oh no problem, as long as they fulfill the requirements (including physical) that man.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 10:15 AM
3

I am married, all is fine, but tbh when i think about it...what's the point of marriage? Relationship ok, but marriage? I married quite young (24y), i thought that's the way it should be, but now...Why do i want to involve church and government into my relationship?
/r/MensRights28/10/21 09:10 AM
1

Couldn't care less since i don't use discord :/
/r/MensRights28/10/21 09:07 AM
1

What about muslim countries?
/r/MensRights28/10/21 08:52 AM
8

It's really a matter of the law where you live. In my country it's not as bad as in USA. If a woman hits me and i hit her back in most cases it will be considered as self defense and no problem, especially if you have a clear record.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 08:20 AM
2

It doesn't happen more often. Just when women is abusive it's not considered as violence against a man, cause he can take, it, he has no feelings you know. I have a friend who has relationship with single mother. She moved in, after some time he decided he wants to finish relationship. She literally told him she's not going anywhere, or she'll call the police that he molested her daughter. He went to the lawyer and all he could advice him was to record everything she says, and be very carefull c…
/r/MensRights28/10/21 05:20 AM
5

Those are too huge just cause they make money out of air. Once money had to be covered in gold, and elites couldn't keep too much.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 12:33 PM
1

I am married and MGTOW type for sure. You just need to realize that a family may be "Your way", not as they describe it.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 10:38 AM
2

East EU. In my country slapping girl's butt would be simply rude, but on rare occasion she'd take it to the court. As sexusal assault i'd define any physical action (from simply holindg in arms touching intimate zones, kissing, trying to rape) where a victim can't simply walk away. A man holding a woman in a park, trying to kiss her, touching her breasts and so on- sexual assault A woman pressing her body against man's body, putting her hands on his butt/ chest/ groins- sexual assaulty (especial…
/r/MensRights27/10/21 07:22 AM
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Econom collapse due to men's money not being spent on BS. This will not happen. Men don't buy BS, they buy simply other stuff. It doesn't matter if it's a new bike, car, fishing rod, remote controlled plane, gym gear. Money will be spend, just not on stuff women used to spend it. It will not make economy collapse, just some companies will bancupt while others will flourish.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 07:04 AM
1

Is this some kind of a rule made by government or what? Who ordered security bulletin to work that way?
/r/MensRights26/10/21 07:23 PM
9

East Europe. Sorry for not being more specific, i prefer to keep a little of privacy. Mind, it is just what i read in Western Europe media. In my country we have like 1% of non-whites, so this issue doesn't concern us at all.
/r/MensRights26/10/21 10:01 AM
15

Oh yes, or: "up to 20% of victims were women". Funny way to say "80% of victims were man".
/r/MensRights26/10/21 09:49 AM
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Media present it and it's ok. It is not condemned, while if reversed there's a shitstorm. Also, i live in Europe and here's what i see in TV/ on internet news: If a crime is made by white man news will say: white man robbed/ killed/ etc. If it was a coloured man, you will read/ hear: "a person robbed/ killed/..." or: "white man murdered women...." while "a women died after argue with a man" (coloured)
/r/MensRights26/10/21 09:30 AM
1

Abortion: should be agreed by both parents. If a father has nothing to say about it, it should be his decision if he wants to participate in child's life or not, and pay child support. Child support: by default child custody should be 50/50, zero child support. If parent A wants only 30%, A can pay B some child support equal to this 20% gap. Now how high the child support should be. I believe- the same for EVERY child, obviously low enough so low earning people can afford it. Why? There's an ass…
/r/MensRights26/10/21 09:13 AM
17

You can't be racist toward white person, or there are events/ or places even in college campuses where whites are not allowed, yet make one where coloured are not allowed...
/r/MensRights26/10/21 08:48 AM
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I expect the same from him. I really like this idea and i absolutely support it. In general i don't expect anything i can't give in return. Good for you :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 04:54 AM
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Tbh when they reach 30 usually they are already obeese, so they can keep it. Buy your dress at 20 and keep that size, that's should be the rule for women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 07:20 AM
9

Watch/ read some of his materials: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D-xf9hKfLws
/r/MensRights25/10/21 07:00 AM
1

I saw it, but once i was pretty open i had only 1 women in my life (my wife) people suddenly changed their approach. My bros admitted they are not sex machines/ can't always perform and females friends (yep, i have few) seems to really appreciate it. My suggestion: stop giving a single f*ck what other people think about you.
/r/MensRights25/10/21 04:53 AM
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Just a few of them: https://hbr.org/2009/09/the-female-economy https://gueuropeanhorizons.medium.com/the-future-is-female-consumption-b985bb377551 https://gueuropeanhorizons.medium.com/the-future-is-female-consumption-b985bb377551 Unfortunately these or not the sources i remember, but that's what i've found for now.
/r/MensRights24/10/21 06:02 AM
14

Was there any consequence for her for defamation?
/r/MensRights23/10/21 02:15 PM
1

He/she said somehing like: "i bet you think going to work and wearing clothes is natural."
/r/MensRights23/10/21 12:16 PM
1

Who's the brigader?
/r/MensRights23/10/21 06:34 AM
1

I'm sorry, i don't really understand what you're asking for.
/r/MensRights23/10/21 05:54 AM
1

Perhaps similar story, but that's not it.
/r/MensRights22/10/21 03:56 PM
2

It is for many years.
/r/MensRights22/10/21 07:14 AM
5

People watch the news and don't bother into researching the reason. They hear "wage gap" ok, but why? They don't care. It doesn't matter, that women work less, choose less paid proffessions.
/r/MensRights22/10/21 07:09 AM
5

People have always hunted and ate meat. Wtf are you talking about?
/r/MensRights22/10/21 07:08 AM
9

I am married, together for over 20 years. Literally only 1 time she asked me to not go to my buddy cause our kids was sick and she doesn't drive. Other than that i go out every weekend (not for the whole night cause i'm too old for this shit). I lost however few great friends once they got into relationships, exactly cause she didn't let them go :(
/r/MensRights22/10/21 05:45 AM
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That's a kinda wicked logic. I think i get you point, but still....I was raised in very strick home (father was high rank military officer). I had discipline, oh yes. My brother rebelled a lot, me- close to none. Looking back i think my childhoold was great, no regrets. I can even say, i never felt opressed. Rules were rules, just like the law.
/r/MensRights22/10/21 05:35 AM
1

So if a guy just says "i'm non- binary" he's ok? Anyway...land of freedom my ass. (I have over 1m long hair).
/r/MensRights22/10/21 05:30 AM
2

Health in general. There are plenty of shelters, free psychologist/ psychiatrist consultation for women, close to none for men. In my country there's a huge campaign regarding breast cancer, free mobile labs in every bigger city all over the year. Men and prostate cancer? 1 day in 1 city through the whole year.
/r/MensRights22/10/21 05:25 AM
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Not long ago there was an issue in my country where after divorce father won full custody over 2 kids. Mother killed kids and herself, and left letter saying if she can't have them nobody will. You would think this will be condemned by society? Well, yes. At least by a male part. Women said things like: "this is what happens when you take kids from a mother" or "only mother can love so hard".
/r/MensRights22/10/21 05:17 AM
1

I researched it ~2-2.5 years ago so it will take some time to find them. I'll try during the weekend.
/r/MensRights21/10/21 03:54 PM
2

"Women" vs "some women". As not english native speaker i see no difference, but i get your point. P.S. The most egalitarian countries (skandinavian) show the most diversity- women themself debunked the myth there's is some kind of glass ceiling or any other obstacles that prevent them from working in specific fields.
/r/MensRights21/10/21 11:02 AM
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We must restrict nothing. Full equality if that's what they want. They already have privilidges in technical colleges, rules like X% of managment in companies must be women. Show me similar privilidges for men. I have nothing against female manager, but she should prove she's good enough to get there, not thanks to bonus points for having vegina.
/r/MensRights21/10/21 11:00 AM
1

I have far faster and cheaper idea: why don't you simply be careful in front of who you spread your legs?
/r/MensRights21/10/21 09:53 AM
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I'm 40+ and i think women got what they deserved. We are not the same, we are not equal on so many fields. Women are better on some, men are better on others, there is no point in bending reality. If women claim they are as good as men, they have opportunity to prove it. This post sums it up pretty good, although we all know they physically stand no chance.
/r/MensRights21/10/21 09:32 AM
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Depends how you define feminist. If feminist= women fighting for equality, i'm great supporter If feminist= women fighting for privilidges, i'm anti ​ Guess we all know the truth ;)
/r/MensRights21/10/21 08:56 AM
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There's also a stereotype that a man will f*ck everything that won't run, including women he's completely not into. I like fit women. Everything above (including NORMAL weight) is not my game. Also another sick stereotype: if you have an erection you want to have sex. BS!
/r/MensRights21/10/21 06:05 AM
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I don't think we can do it on the law level. Politicians will listen to women as their votes counts. What we can do is teach our sons: no more simping, no more white knighting, no more marriage and if: only with a lawyer assistance. It has to be changed on generation level. It is already happening: marriage level drops down significantly. Wait till we can contraception pill for men, and advanced sex bots. Women will loose their power completely.
/r/MensRights21/10/21 05:03 AM
1

TBH i researched this topic and it seems right. However if you find studies that debunk this statement i'm very open to read it and change my mind.
/r/MensRights21/10/21 04:53 AM
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My friend has a fitness club and was looking for fit womanto work at reception desk. As she was supposed to be the "face of the club" she had to be fit (not BEAUTIFUL!). Fat girl came for casting, he politely rejected her saying thei'r looking for someone fit and healthy. And she accused him for fat shaming and sicrimination. Fortunately the judge closed it instantly and she had to cover the costs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 04:52 AM
4

Yep.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 05:45 PM
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Google: "women responsible for 85% of consumption". Plenty of sources. Of course some say 70%, some 80%, but 85% occurs very often in studies. ​ Mind, it doesn't mean they literally pay for 85% of consumption spendings. They drive the spending, like they convince husband to replace furnitures, or car, or the fridge, or that kids need new clothes.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 05:25 PM
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What OP wrote means literally: numbers show there are more single man than women. It is a fact. What title say means, that it is more probable than a man will be single rather then woman. It may, may not happen, and not clear to what degree.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 04:08 PM
11

Husband: "wife, would you like to perform sexual act in 15 mins? Wife: yes...no...maybe...i dunno...you decide.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 12:35 PM
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Curvy today means fat, just as "bigger lady" and so on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 12:31 PM
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The title of the article is: "Men are now more likely to be single then women." not what OP wrote.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 12:20 PM
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It may be a conspiracy theory, but women are responsible for 85% of consumption, therefore big fishes promote them and their meaning in our life so they can produce/ sell more.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 08:43 AM
1

And again, it was never about equality, it was all about priviledges.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 05:04 AM
9

Yea but the point is...you don't like the rules, don't participate, wtf is the problem? They can run their own beauty contest without any rules.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 04:52 AM
3

I don't think we can reverse what they did with the law, so MGTOW is more probable.
/r/MensRights19/10/21 09:38 AM
7

Holy crap!
/r/MensRights19/10/21 09:26 AM
1

In my country (East EU) it's still hilarious. Can't understand how people f*cked USA, Canada and few other developed countries. The problem is, we're following your way. I will however teach my son to be careful and i hope other father will do the same.
/r/MensRights19/10/21 08:26 AM
2

What is "basic relationship care"? Never heard of it.
/r/MensRights19/10/21 06:14 AM
6

Exactly. This is the huge problem of modern society. Women know that as long as there's a child she can go with really hardcore stuff. And tbh, whas was the judge thinking? This woman should not raise any child, she's some kind of sociopath, what will her daughter learn from her? Surely we can't expect her to raise a vaulable member of society.
/r/MensRights18/10/21 03:55 PM
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Happened in my country. Guy married single mom with few months old daughter. When kid was ~3y old, she said he molested the child. He was put to jail, lost his job, house, basically everything. His family never gave up, continued fightining for him. 3 years later Expercts decided the child is old enough to ask her few questions and perhaps she remembers something. The child literally admitted, that everything she ever said about "daddy touching her" was what mother told her to say. Guy was relea…
/r/MensRights18/10/21 11:03 AM
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I'm a guy. Used to have long hair (over 1m long). Close to 40 my hair were starting to shedd. Women in my famil said: "you should cut it, they don't look so good". My response was: "you shold loose some fat, it is not healthy". Oh the shitstorm. It wasn't important that haird i mainly genetic and you can do very little to help, while they can do pretty much with their weight. At the end i asked: - why is it ok to say things like that to men, while we have to be very careful not to hurt women? - …
/r/MensRights16/10/21 02:10 PM
3

Unless law suit against company is on the horizon and PR is important for the company. It really depends on so many factors, it's hard to determine what options is optimal.
/r/MensRights16/10/21 05:48 AM
0

Exactly. It's not about enforcing punishment for this women, just to leave a track something like that happened. One day shithits the fan and you'll have proof (even if you don't work there anymore).
/r/MensRights16/10/21 03:51 AM
63

For reporting? Well, we have to choices. Accept it or resist.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 07:53 PM
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Report it to HR and demand confirmation, that report was received.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 05:40 PM
14

My though would be quite similar but....you can't blame Bezoz that he made so much money. The system is broken. If it wasn't for the governments printing the money and bank system creating money without cover in gold or any other goods, that would be not possible.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 12:27 PM
1

¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/MensRights15/10/21 07:57 AM
5

I will give you a shot, i'm all about 100% equality, but also i support freedom of speech, which unfortunately reddit strangeky defines.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 06:59 AM
8

The problem is that young people are comparing themself to others, especially all kinds of celebrities, tik tok models and so on. They should only compare themself to "yesterday them" and try to improve. There will always be someone better, more beutiful, stronger, smarter and so on.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 06:27 AM
2

That's exactly what she said: “Women have always been primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, fathers and sons in combat.” Public speech, November 11, 1997.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 05:07 AM
4

Lol, you nailed it.
/r/MensRights14/10/21 03:51 PM
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"Women have always been primary victims of war. Women loose their fathers, their husbands, their sons in combat" - Hilary Clinton. ​ That's the same issue as hitting back woman who attacked you. You can't, cause by default you're stronger. But why TF she attacked you in the first place? If i attack a guy that i bigger and 100 lbs heavier, he will kick my ass and people will say: "you asked for it, you knew he will beat you" but if we put the woman in this situation she has all the ases. She can …
/r/MensRights14/10/21 08:27 AM
3

As i see it: feminine women= weak, and she must be strong and independent masculine man= toxic When we got together my wife was earning 3x more then me, and moved half of the country to be with me. She dated down totally. Can you imagine this today?
/r/MensRights14/10/21 06:56 AM
2

I'm with you. My mother also said "you can't rape a man" and i was shocked. She said, if he gets hard he wants it. Damn, between 15 and 30 i got random boners very often, not mentioning any touch of a girl with no sexual context. If even your mother is against you on this, it's seriously hard to convince whole society :/
/r/MensRights14/10/21 06:45 AM
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I'm with my wife for ~20y now. The more i read about today's dating market the more i think i catched the last of the kind, a unicorn, an old fashioned feminine women. God help me to raise my daghter properly :/
/r/MensRights14/10/21 06:32 AM
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Few years ago there was a huge shitstorm when a high rank male officer was asked what does he think about women in military. It went more or less like this: - there are plenty of positions women can take, like nurse/ doctor, communnication operators and so on -but what about regular soldiers, operating in field? - it's a bad idea - this is discrimination! - women are not physically fit. If i get injured on the battlefield i want my soldiers to carry me out, women can't do that Oh the shitstorm i…
/r/MensRights14/10/21 06:27 AM
5

Karma works :)
/r/MensRights14/10/21 06:21 AM
17

My friend had similar situation, but the girl told him: we do it, or i will tell you raped me. Guess what were his chances that people will believe him?
/r/MensRights14/10/21 06:17 AM
4

Cost optimization :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 06:25 AM
3

Not english native speaker. What does she mean by "they are even hidden food lately!"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 05:20 AM
3

And surely she made 5000 pics to choose 4-5 best :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/21 08:15 PM
44

Ahh yes :D I am 40y myself. Just pre-covid we had a high school class reunion. Damn, out of 16 girls, where most of them were at lest 6/10 in high school, ALL BUT 1 looked terrible. Fat and seriously damaged by partying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/21 12:08 PM
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Still, assuming those pics are real and up to date, she looks ok to play with for a while.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/21 12:00 PM
3

Sooo...wasn't a sex work empowering or something?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 04:58 PM
1

But i guess it works only together with high libido? Pre trt i had zeroed libido, didn't cum for 2-3 months, no difference.
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 05:00 PM
10

Focused on myself, started lifting, educating myself, improving- that helped with my crushed self esteem. ​ As for relationship, since i was focused on myself i stopped asking my wife what she thinks/ wants which means i often was simply an asshole to her. Questioned why we have to do this/ that i answered: "because i said so". Don't know if it helped by me being more alpha- therefore more attractive to her, or if she simply became afraid i may go away. The point is, once i stopped simping/ whit…
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 12:27 PM
1

I diet,m exercise and sleep well. Don't meditate, don't know what semen retention is.
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 11:29 AM
1

Most of FAMILY GUYS.
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 11:23 AM
3

I went my own way but i was limited by options i had.
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 10:40 AM
8

In my case she changed not after marriage (we were together for 7 years), but after having a baby. Instant change from friend/ partner/ lover into "mother mode 24/7". Took me 8 years of misery until i red pilled and fixed it.
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 06:04 AM
2

We laughed at Bundy a lot, but in fact he achieved what most of family guys want: stable job (even if it sucked) that allows you to support nice house, classic dodge, healthy kids, and hot (Peg was a lazy bitch but she had THE BODY!) wife that wants sex all the time.
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 05:04 AM
4

they want to be married but don't want to be a wife. Do i hear Kevin Samuels here :D?
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 05:01 AM
2

Absolutely not. The risk is too high. I'm with my wife over 20 years, girls were different back than, there was no internet, social media. Today you enter a mine field when you propose.
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 04:51 AM
2

When i tried that approach my marriage was a misery. One day i said f*ck it, i do what i want. Now it's better than ever. I wish 50/50 works, but in my case it was a dead end.
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 04:49 AM
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My wife tried to do something like this. I told her i didn't move out from my parents so now i have to obey someone else. Case closed. ​ Guys who are in marriage, STOP being pussies!
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 09:46 AM
3

No, but not because i'm afraid of vaccine. I see this opression as a test what can the governments force us to do/ take in order to go to stupid resutaurant. I am perfectly sure this is just a beginning and if we show we are willingly selling our freedom we're done. ​ Vaccines should be available in pharmacy for everyone to buy. 1st they spent our tax money to buy it, now they force us to take it. This smells shitty from the beginning.
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 08:18 AM
2

I work in production so our "explosions" are planned, boring. But we do have a research & development department where they blow things up and often don't know what to expect. There's where all the fun is :D
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 04:55 AM
-8

If you're a pussy, yea.
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 03:57 PM
5

Nope. Most of our firings are boring and look absolutely the same. However guys that prepare marketing materials can make out of it great clips.
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 03:08 PM
7

To be honest it's boring :D Procedures are extremaly strict, no place to be creative, but that's how you stay safe ;)
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 10:15 AM
6

My wife, my mother, my mother in law. 3 closest women i know, all of them decent. Far from perfect just like i'm not perfect. My father has terrible mental issues since he finished 50 and my mom stays by his side taking care of him (obviously he doesn't work). My wife was by my side when she was earning 3x more than i did (and it lasted years), helping me a lot. Mother in law also have her story. ​ There are unicorns, but the finding one today is a huge risk comparing to 20y ago.
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 08:58 AM
22

In my work we also prefer family people not cause we want to have power over them, but we want people who will stay longer in the company. If he has a family here, it's harder for him to move. We work with explosives. Training a new worker is long and expensive. Usually takes up to 3 years to let a person work alone. It was never a deal breaker for us to reject candidate cause he's single. Just a small bonus point if he has a family/ house near the company.
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 08:48 AM
4

Oh i've been there and from there i got here. Then my life changed and is SO MUCH BETTER!
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 07:12 AM
2

Not so good of course. - Most (about 40%) of cases end with women's custody, rest is split, and small % father's custody. Also it's rare that women limits visitation. ​ - rape complaint against woman- i admit, pretty rare. - police arrests...- man is not quilty by default, YET. We don't really know which way it will go, but for now there's no way you'll be kicked out of your house just cause women said you hit her. ​ - spousal support- extremaly rare. In general you will only split what you earn…
/r/MGTOW226/07/21 09:31 AM
1

Not exactly. In my country marriage laws comparing to USA are still ok. In muslim countries i believe it's also different.
/r/MGTOW226/07/21 06:48 AM
5

Don't think so but i will throw you a "pill bomb". Jordan Peterson discussed about the effect of pills in long term. So... ​ It is scientifically proven that women during ovulation period find more man attractive. This allowed even those less attractive to have their chance. Once the pills were introduced this mechanism was shut down and women starting to look only on TOP10. In long run, we have over 50% of men like none existant for women, tons of single mothers (they go for TOP10 and have thei…
/r/MGTOW226/07/21 05:53 AM
8

No we don't. If you want to, ok. I have no such need. If i have a problem i prefer to be left alone and deal with it.
/r/MGTOW223/07/21 06:46 AM
11

I am married guy, 40y old, 20y into relationship. First of all if you think marriage= love, forget it. Not only this...my life was a fairy tale before our kids were born. Seriously, despite being poor we were happy together. Once the kids were born my wife turned from friend/ wife/ lover into "mother mode 24/7". I was only a provider, nothing else. ​ Focus on yourself, love yourself. That's all you really need. Or buy a dog.
/r/MGTOW223/07/21 06:36 AM
3

On the contrary- fasting makes you burn fat faster. Your body goes into "hunter mode". Raises adrenaline and growth hormone, gives you energy to go hunting/ search for food. After 72 hrs sure, starvation mode starts, but daily fasting will not put you into starvation mode. In general we are very good prepared by evolution to fast.
/r/MGTOW223/07/21 06:21 AM
28

Exactly. They were not 666 guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 06:15 AM
2

Had this problem also but i've fixed it and damn, life's so much better.
/r/MGTOW223/07/21 04:54 AM
3

Lifting weights. Keeping your body in low body fat keeps your libido low (unless you're genetically gifted to have low body fat).
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 10:11 AM
8

>"I have had a companion since I was 18, why would I stop now?" ​ Nothing wrong in having a companion. Just don't marry, don't live with her, don't let her leech on you.
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 05:59 AM
1

Assuming you don't have a family to pass it on, i'd look among my neighbours/ friends. Surely there are poor families that can't afford to pay for education, or medical treatment of good kid. I would avoid charity fundations as they burn big part of money they collect. I'd prefer to choose myself who is worthy of my help.
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 05:55 AM
2

It's really a matter of culture you live in, how you raise your kids and what is the law in your country. When i read all those stories i am terrified. Seriously. I live in east EU. My kids don't cry cause i didn't give a shit if they did (there was never a reason to cry so why should i). My wife works and if she wants something she needs to earn it and buy herself. ​ My brother lives in UK and his family is a living nightmare. Kids are horrible and his spouse....can't even describe it. ​ But to…
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 05:31 AM
1

I am married with kids and i do the same. Work, gym, chill. I want to spend my time with kids- i do, i want to be left alone, i am alone. I want to go for a night to my friends, i do. This is what my father did, and it worked great. You can be free and have a family, just don't be a pussy and stand your ground. Nobody will take care of your needs except you.
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 05:23 AM
1

In my country it wouldn't be so easy. We don't have common-law, but once you rent a room/ house to somebody, they can f*ck you up totally for many years.
/r/MGTOW220/07/21 08:38 AM
11

this is what society has taught women as being the normal/accepted. This. I couldn't trust a woman grocery shopping list once she cheated.
/r/MGTOW220/07/21 07:57 AM
6

It is a thing. In my company it was very common that man would go for a business trip with a woman (engineer + purchase department). Now all the guys demand 3rd person and give any stupid reason why it's necessary. The board goes crazy about extra costs.
/r/MGTOW220/07/21 06:49 AM
16

Don't search for logic. Even sport stars, guys like Bill Gates or Bezos are not good enough, how can any of us be?
/r/MGTOW220/07/21 06:41 AM
3

Mine is good and i'd never ever take the risk again.
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 10:26 AM
29

I am married, together for 20 years, we had our ups & downs but damn, the more i read the more i'm sure i was the last generation that could find a normal (mind i don't say decent/ perfect) girl. Seriously, this world is going towards edge of the cliff with the speed of light :/
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 09:17 AM
1

As a former ultra simp and white knight, couldn't agree more.
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 05:14 AM
2

You work from home, or don't need to work anymore?
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 11:56 AM
1

Not USA, but i believe the pattern may be similar everywhere. So my idea was save as much as you can. Even when i was on minimum wage (allowed by law) and renting apartment costed me ~60% of my monthly salary i still managed to save. ​ When i reached ~34y i was debt free, owned apartment and had some saving that allowed me to start investing. Also i was progressing in my career, my salary now was not super high, but about twice the average national salary- i was still living low life, saving as …
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 05:47 AM
2

They wan't 10-20% of top, but they want attention and benefits from the rest. ​ Also, looks at wider perspective. Less men need to support women, so they work less (like 2 days a week instead of 5-6) / retire earlier. That means there are less people on the job market: car mechanics, plumbers, electricians- those are critical for women and they can't find one or the prices go crazy high. ​ There are far more consequences than just dating.
/r/MGTOW212/07/21 07:49 AM
15

My words would be: "pack your things, we're done" ​ To my friend: "run you fool!"
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 12:16 PM
3

This is absolutely awesome! Once my parents pass away (hopefully not too fast!) this is the goal i will chase.
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 07:17 AM
3

East EU, sorry for not being more specific.
/r/MGTOW208/07/21 04:04 PM
3

Not in my country. Our law is not so f*cked up as in USA. Spousal allimony is extremaly rare here. Even if women has seriosu medical issue that prevents her from work there's very little chance to get allimony from ex husband, and even if it's limited by law. As for him, i'd start stashing money, and limiting money spending on them. She wants more, go get a job.
/r/MGTOW208/07/21 12:09 PM
1

Of course. But those who use BMI don't give a shit. I have periodical medical tests required by my job and the better my health the more i'm allowed to do= better money. Last time doctor wanted to put me in overweight range (based on BMI). I have visible abs (not shredded but visible), run 15km every 2nd day, can do over 20 pullups, cycle ~100 miles easily, and DOCTOR still sees me in overweight range.
/r/MGTOW208/07/21 11:54 AM
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""I can't afford any of that stuff, they take it all. ​ He's simply a pussy. For kids you are responsible, sure, but that doesn't mean they need to have everything they want. Wife wants money? There's something called "a job". There's no way my wife stops working and i have to support her, unless serious medical condition.
/r/MGTOW208/07/21 08:06 AM
1

I was already married and with kids when i discovered MGTOW. Didn't leave my family, but i do what i want, how and when i want. I literally go my own way and i kept my family. Win win.
/r/MGTOW208/07/21 05:07 AM
1

According to BMI i'm borderline overweight/ obese. This marker does not include body composition factor. Basically every guy who is lifting will be overweight even if he has abs.
/r/MGTOW208/07/21 05:06 AM
1

1st of all i was married long ago before i discovered MGTOW. I am still married, do what i want= i go my own way. ​ 2nd, i don't live in USA. In my country the law is not so f*cked up. We don't even have spousal allimony (well, we do, but it's extremaly rare, in 95% cases it's only child support and unless you're a celebrity with milions the law defines highest amount you should pay per child).
/r/MGTOW208/07/21 05:04 AM
1

That is BS. Nobody will tell me what is my way. If i choose to have a family that is my way.
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 12:40 PM
3

I am married, 2 kids. I wish it would be different, but i truly believe father and mother (man and woman) play specific role in raising a child. ​ What should you do...You didn't say in what country you live. If the law in your country is not flawed you can have a regular family with female SO without wedding, but with specific prenup that would guarantee your money/ children rights and so on. That would of course require finding a unicorn. ​ I assume your will to have a child is simply to have …
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 12:38 PM
27

I officially admit i have fatphobia. I was fat as a kid. "Michelline puppet" like fat. I don't want it ever again, and i don't want any of my friends/ family members to be like this. I know exactly how it is like, what impact it has on a persons mental or physical health. Also i find it absolutely repulsive ("not attractive" is way to subtle) in regards of physical attraction, and i see nothing wrong about it. ​ I do have a fat friend, he's a great guy, it's his choice and we never touch this su…
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 08:26 AM
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>"there's no way i can afford property or...." When i was 25 i was earning minimum wage allowed by law in my country and had to count every penny. When i reached 30 i had my apartment bank load payed back. Now i'm building a house for cash. I am financially stable not cause i earn a lot, but cause i live low life, don't need fancy car to impress neighbours of expensive holidays to show on my insta. Also, work smart, not hard! I rejected better paid job (30% better) for less paid but also less st…
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 08:00 AM
23

They call it BBW :D
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 07:51 AM
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Fun fact is when they say: "you can't expect women to weight 120 lbs cause average american women weight ~185 lbs....yet they want absolute TOP of population :D
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 07:27 AM
1

So what is such person supposed to do? Go to jail cause can't afford to buy a house?
/r/MGTOW201/07/21 06:34 AM
2

What do you mean anti homeless? What if you can't afford a house and van life is your only option? It is illegal?
/r/MGTOW201/07/21 05:33 AM
12

Fathers should simply show them r/FemaleDatingStrategy and if that won't change their minds nothing will.
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 11:42 AM
14

1st pic, exactly this happened to me. Women at work were complaining that they have to spend an hour to prepare for work while man takes 5 mins to shave and brush teeth and is ready. I told them there's no company code forcing them to have make up or done hair, and guys in the office wouldn't give a single f*ck if they stop doing it (we don't work with customers, and are pretty closed for visitors outside our office). Shitstorm is a very subtle way to describe what happened next.
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 08:38 AM
21

Sex in marriage :D? Go see r/deadbedroom and their stories :P
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 06:02 AM
4

Female co-worker i know for over 10 years. Around 26-27 she was really hot, firm 8/10. Her list of "must have" for potential man was crazy long, but as years went by she had less and less demands. Around 35 i asked her again about the expectations, and she answered: "you know...any guy would be fine, he just must take care of his higene."
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 05:01 AM
2

In my country there was such a flat with "no kids rule" but after some time one couple accidently (or not?) had kid and it turned out there was no law saying they must leave. Declaration they signed while buying apartment had no meaning for the court. And to be honest i don't know why this can't be done. We have christian only communities, or muslim communities, lately i heard about LGBT friendly flat, so why not bachelors?
/r/MGTOW229/06/21 07:40 AM
1

I think you're mixing 2 completely different situations. You don't need to love to breed, and you don't need to breed to love. We're kinda more than any other animals on the planet.
/r/MGTOW228/06/21 06:49 AM
5

I believe they can. My father had mental problems since he was ~55. At the beginning we all thought he took some kind of drugs, or he was simply alcohol addicted. Few years later medical diagnosis was terrifying. My father had very advanced as for his age dementia. Doctors could not even understand how this happened at this age (he was an engineer a good one, active in many fields in his company- symptoms emerged and intensified within 1 year to the point he had to leave his job). ​ We had a ser…
/r/MGTOW228/06/21 06:46 AM
3

Even if she has shitty face she can still achieve hot body trough diet an exercise, and therefore level up to "butter face" which would absolutely get her more dates. No compassion, get a dog.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 06:35 AM
5

Ignore.
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 07:12 AM
2

50/50 works, absolutely. Married here, together for 20 years and i never supported her, nor she supported me. We share all the bills and i can't see it other way.
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 08:26 PM
3

Yep. We share all the bills, i have full access to her account so i keep track of things ;)
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 08:12 PM
6

It improved a lot and surely i am not the same person i was, just as she is not the same person. ​ Just to be clear, i wan not a simp from the beginning. We were together for about 7 years before having kids. Than my wife turned into mother mode 24/7 and i was reduced to the role of provider. Started simping to win her back. Didn't work, and then red pill happened.
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 07:29 PM
3

In my country there is no spousal allimony, my wife earns similar as me, so basically we share our assets in half.
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 07:13 PM
12

I am married with kids. Used to be ultra simp, white knight and my life sucked cause obviously it was not even close as rewarding as it should be. Once i discovered MGTOW, red pill i focused totally on myself. Started lifting, educating myself, self improving. Of course no more simping towards my wife. Quite fast i got promotion at work, started investing. Today i am secured financially (not 100% to stop working but i'm getting close), and i literally do what i want, when i want (yes, having kid…
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 11:33 AM
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For me it's clear. If she can't support the child obviously she's not capable of being a mother, therefore a child should stay with father. As for this show...this is all staged, right?
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 07:20 AM
20

I'd add to the list: Prioritize yourself above anybody else. Once you're happy, you'll have more energy/ will to help your relatives (parents, siblings, friends).
/r/MGTOW223/06/21 09:27 AM
8

Dude c'mon. My mom is great and i had great childhood. She helped me a lot, i help her a lot. Fucked up dating market is one thing but don't do that to all mothers.
/r/MGTOW222/06/21 12:15 PM
1

Listen to Kevin Samuel's show. Very often he speaks with single moms and asks them: - would you like your son to get into relationship with single mom like you? and after few seconds of silence...NO.
/r/MGTOW222/06/21 12:12 PM
1

I'd really would like how many guys she turned down ^^.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 11:15 AM
1

Wait till you use T :D
/r/MGTOW218/06/21 08:42 AM
1

Preference is one thing, but what she accepts and be happy with is another. My preferred car would be ferrari or maserati but i'm absolutely happy with V8 chrysler.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 12:23 PM
1

I am good. Do what i want, when i want, how i want. No need for a divorce, but i wouldn't take a risk as a single knowing what i know.
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 06:57 PM
2

Which posts?
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 06:38 AM
12

aaaand she finishes with: "If only I could put my age on hold…"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 06:34 AM
2

How old are the kids? You said something about boyfriend, so surely they have a social media/ facebook. Perhaps this is the way to contact them? Leave, save money. Once they adults mothers can do shit and you can reunite with them. Just don't let them think you forgot about them.
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 05:45 AM
2

PNC is absolutely a thing. DO NOT make serious decisions before you unload yourself.
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 04:57 AM
2

Wrong advice. Hiding?! He should buy flashlight with the most features possible and explore all those in their bed whenever he wants to. It is his fold he accepted it. I know, i was the same simping pussy but had none to tell me what to do. I wish i knew all i know now 15 years ago.
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 04:45 AM
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I can sum it up faster. Everything except sex you get from your buddies/ dog. And now we have tinder, craiglist and so on, so even sex is more accessible than ever. ​ I am married (happily) but seriously, there are no benefits in marriage anymore and i'd absolutely stay single if i had to choose again.
/r/MGTOW214/06/21 08:00 AM
2

>Not just by feminists but by other guys also ​ By simps and white knights. These are not men whose opinion you should take into considertion.
/r/MGTOW214/06/21 07:56 AM
1

Sure. But you can park your car 1-1.5 mile from work and take a walk. That will give you 4-5k steps daily.
/r/MGTOW212/06/21 06:48 AM
1

I walk to work, to the grocery shop. In general i use my car once every week at most. I walk everywhere.
/r/MGTOW212/06/21 05:58 AM
1

Do you have a medical condition that stops you from doing more?
/r/MGTOW212/06/21 03:28 AM
1

RTS= real time strategy. ​ 1st love: Dune on Amiga. ​ Later: Starcraft, no doubt. ​ Latest: Battle for Middle Earth 2
/r/MGTOW211/06/21 10:18 AM
1

You said nothing about yourself, what you need, how many kms/ year you make, are you gib guy or rather small, are you alone or with family/ dogs...Dude, c'mon.
/r/MGTOW211/06/21 09:53 AM
1

Health wise yes, but to loose weight you need caloric deficit. 2kg of fat/ month sounds like well planned cut, not something that comes out just from recreational walking/ running (assuming you're not obeese). ​ P.S. 15k steps minimum daily is what my smartwatch shows, up to 30k.
/r/MGTOW211/06/21 08:33 AM
2

Marriage was ok as long as government was not involved, after that natural balance was disrupted and we have what we have.
/r/MGTOW211/06/21 04:50 AM
30

This winter i found a phone on a snow. When i turned it the owner called shouting at me, that he will find me and kick my ass. I answered: "Calm down dude, i found it on a snow and it took me over 6 days to dry and start it. I want to give it back, no problem." ​ He disconnected, never called me again and didn't come to pick it up. Some people are weird.
/r/MGTOW210/06/21 07:27 PM
6

Peterson has a lot of problems, accusations, court trials and his career was almost done, but he keeps fighting. We need more like him.
/r/MGTOW210/06/21 03:59 AM
0

I also don't live in USA. We don't even have divorce spousal allimony (ok, we have it but it's extremaly rare).
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 01:31 PM
1

Major red flag- the law of your country. If it favours women, case closed. If prenup is not honoured in case of divorce...what are we even talking about?
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 12:42 PM
11

Women in my family make a lot of remarks about my haircut. Then i say "You fat so i propose this: the day you will loose weight to healthy limit i get my haircut done". That cuts all the remarks instantly.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 06:53 AM
48

You forgot 1 very important thing. Women are told (and they believe it!) that they can ride cock carousel up to 30 and then find their prince charming and this is a huge problem. If you find a girl at early 20s be with her for a few years, have your ups & downs she's pretty good marriage material and you have quite a high chance of success. If you want to take a risk with over 30y leftover, good luck.
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 12:44 PM
9

I did bend but was a blue pilled simp at that time. My son will be fa better educated than i was.
/r/MGTOW230/05/21 04:43 AM
2

Years ago i changed well paid but stressfull job to less paid (like 30% less) but non- stress. Best decision ever. However money is freedom, so as i'm 40y now i work + invest in stock to retire as early as possible. I drive old car, live in a low standard house cause i don't give a f*ck how people see me, but i can't deny that money is important to have a freedom of choice.
/r/MGTOW228/05/21 05:54 AM
2

Men are better cooks, nothing new. ​ P.S. Although married i cook for myself for about 14 years. If you want something to be done properly, do it yourself.
/r/MGTOW226/05/21 11:55 AM
7

2/10? You're so generous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 11:35 AM
1

This theory applies to animals and humans are above that, so no, i don't believe we should apply this to humans. Same way a serial murderer can't explain himself it's his nature. ​ Women who want to excuse themself with this argument are no more than animals for me. Same for guys who can't keep their dick in pants while in relationship.
/r/MGTOW225/05/21 06:11 AM
12

And it's getting harder and harder for them, digital print is a thing. Just wait till apps show up that will check a tinder history of a person, look for her photos and so on. Or even a companies that will specialize in checking a girl's background before you decide to go into serious relationship. Oh i'm gonna enjoy popcorn watching this.
/r/MGTOW219/05/21 09:02 AM
2

>took a lower paying, less stressful job ​ Did the same years ago. You can't buy health. 40y and not a single grey hair, 8hrs at work and go home, no extra hours, no nagging boss, no sleepless night due to work problems. Best decision ever. ​ P.S. Why do you need 1+ cars?
/r/MGTOW219/05/21 08:53 AM
1

That's something new. Any source to back it up?
/r/MGTOW218/05/21 05:15 PM
2

Wouldn't call it a cheating since you're fully open about it.
/r/MGTOW218/05/21 12:12 PM
3

In general ok, but... ​ You're on 140mg of testosterone a week which makes you superior to natty guys. Most men produce 4 to 7 mg a day, and their levels are highest in the morning and go down in the evening. You levels are stable 24/7 and that makes a difference, HGH is another story. Not saying this is bad. Add those two compounds and basically whatever you do: cycling, hiking, swimming, you'll get good results. ​ I look for the middle range of motion, while end points are usually where I may …
/r/MGTOW218/05/21 11:56 AM
2

You can't use it in a court unless she knew you made a video. That could put you even in more trouble.
/r/MGTOW218/05/21 08:42 AM
2

Have a friend who is pretty active on Tinder. About a year ago he put in his bio he requires signed consent + veneral diseases tests from lab, of course he offers the same. Some girls are offended, some are ok with it. I'm all about it, show them it's not only their weapon.
/r/MGTOW218/05/21 08:41 AM
20

Halle Barry is crying she needs to pay child support :D
/r/MGTOW218/05/21 05:00 AM
3

For me it's crazy that a child in most cases stays with mother and she needs alimony and child support. If she needs money it's obvious she's not capable of raising a child and therefore a father should be prioritized (unless he doesn't want to) in child custody.
/r/MGTOW218/05/21 04:59 AM
2

This is not simping. MGTOW guys can still be nice, c'mon. We don't hate women!
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 06:56 AM
1

If it was calculated it's surely a manipulation , an investment to obtain you goal. Simping would be when you truly believe this is the right way and leave all the decision making on her side.
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 06:55 AM
2

but my first guess is because he's not helping men find and stay on the red pill, but he's helping women connect with men True but you must admit, on good terms.
/r/MGTOW214/05/21 12:14 PM
95

Cause this is what we are, we want to be left alone. This is one of misconception that MGTOW= hate towards women.
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 12:36 PM
3

Sorry, i eat a lot of meat, like 1kg daily. I eat veggies cause it's healthy, but no meat is a big no no for me.
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 07:34 AM
1

Married, 2 kids. I was a white knight and total simp giving all i could to my wife. When our kids were born she turned into "mother mode 24/7", no sex, no time for me, i was just a provider. Started simping even more to get her attention, time, sex. Divorce was not an option due to financial reasons and kids. ​ Few years laters discovered MGTOW, red pill, focused on myself, started lifting, working more to have more money (which i kept for myself and kids), focusing on my hobbies, and most of al…
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 06:31 AM
2

I listen some youtube channels, don't watch them. Same reason i don't read blogs- have no time. I listen while i exercise/ lift/ run/ walk my dog. So from my perspective visual side importance of your material would be close to zero. ​ As for audio side, i really appreciate youtubers who can speak fluently without using filler words like "uummm..". You say you're not a good speaker, so as long as you can read preapred material properly i'm fine with that. ​ As for content every single creator bu…
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 10:18 AM
20

There are good mother and bad mothers, nothing more nothing less. Surely in most cases this is pure love, later the reason usually (SHOULD) come into play. ​ p.s. Want pure love, get a dog.
/r/MGTOW207/05/21 12:34 PM
2

I was disturbed by the thought that, man is only loved or respected if he is worth providing something. It is nothing new. I am really surprised that your father once he knows that, continues living like this.
/r/MGTOW207/05/21 08:05 AM
4

Oh wait, perhaps i don't uderstand correctly. What does "I am waiting for the large pension amount" exactly mean?
/r/MGTOW207/05/21 07:52 AM
4

So what are his plans now? Is he somehow securing himself even by giving you some of his wealth so in the end she won't get as much as she planned?
/r/MGTOW207/05/21 07:45 AM
1

Ansolutely this.
/r/MGTOW205/05/21 06:16 AM
0

MGTOW= Men Go Their Own Way. Nobody will tell me what is my way.
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 08:19 PM
0

Married, used to be simp and white knight, wengt MGTOW after ~10 years of relationship, still married but now on my terms. Happy AF :) Not exactly what you asked for, but marrier :)
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 07:11 PM
2

Exactly my routine. It disturbed my social life but cause of benefits i never looked back.
/r/MGTOW230/04/21 04:36 AM
6

Go to sleep at the same hour, wake up without alarm clock- in general, sleep well.
/r/MGTOW229/04/21 12:24 PM
27

6 years...seriously?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 06:30 AM
7

I'm absolutely amazed how your system works. In my country (east EU) there are no alimony and child support is quite limited- law defines what is the cost of supporting a child so unless you're a million business owner or some kind of celebrity with huge earnings child support will not ruin you and mother is still expected to work.
/r/MGTOW229/04/21 05:24 AM
16

If she's not working/ paying rent why would anybody even give her a custody? She's clearly not capable of taking care of herself!
/r/MGTOW229/04/21 05:12 AM
3

Just find what you like to do and start doing it. My life is stable, every day is the same, boring for most of the people and i love it. ​ If you need a companion get a dog. You'll get to know what it feels to be loved. Mind, the day will come your dog will pass away and it's very hard to swallow.
/r/MGTOW228/04/21 05:00 AM
14

Her FIRE plan seems somehow flawed. I mean, in 10 years "the house is almost paid off" and in 15 years retirement. She's gonna save for lifetime in 5 years or does she simply scream: "I'm gonna pay off MY HOUSE and you better provide for my retirement!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 09:28 AM
20

This pics says literally: i need a good beta ATM guy, but if there's any Chad still interested i'm all yours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 07:09 AM
17

10 and 13y old kids need babysitter? WTF?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 07:23 AM
48

My gym, supplements, car maintenance takes a lot of money and effort. Pay the damn dinner lady, it's literally the least you could do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 11:14 AM
3

It's not a necessary part. I just wanted a family and i have one. But i'm far from thinking it's "a must have". Just your own way and follow it's path.
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 10:47 AM
16

Of course. Used to invite girl to aquapark. But the hit rate was kinda 1/15.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 06:58 AM
1

I'd find a FBW, not dates!
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 05:23 AM
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When i was in college i had a friend who dated A LOT. 2-3 dates/ week. He gave me advice how to filter gold diggers/ entitled bitches. Take her to a zoo or botanic garden. For studens it's absolutely cheap (like 2$/ person) so you surely can afford it. If she's interested she's into you, if not, you know what to do. Used this many times :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 05:11 AM
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It is old fashioned cause women usually didn't work, therefore they had no money. Now EQUALITY, INDEPENDENT AND STRONG so they can pay their share.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 05:09 AM
1

In my country monthly rentla is quite similar to bank loan installment, so unless you plan to move there's no valid reason to rent.
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 11:44 AM
1

Holy crap. That can't be true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 08:48 AM
7

I do it only when asked. When i started openly speaking about it, brought up divorce statistics, so called "male privilidges", some of my friends turned out to be total simps (i was one too!). So no, not anymore. ​ I will however educate my son when the time is right.
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 08:14 AM
1

Why so many? They seem to be the same models.
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 05:38 AM
7

I wasn't born in rich family. We were not hungry, but everything we had was as cheap as possible. I left my home when i was ~20. It was hard. There was a time i had literally nothing to eat for one whole week. ​ 15 years passed since then. I have no debts, own a house, have saving to live without work for ~10 years, and yet i still have this fear that i can get to the bottom again. I guess i will never get rid of it, but on the other hand it keeps my spending in order.
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 05:12 AM
3

Looking back, was it cost effective to rent for 21 years instead of buying similar property?
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 05:09 AM
20

I know. "Equality".
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 08:41 AM
47

"it's not wife's right to provide sex in marriage, it's her body her choice" ​ TBH i agree with this, but also wife is not entitled to anything from her husband. It's his money/ time/ recources- his choice. Works both ways.
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 06:44 AM
2

Question is, who is happy? Married or single? An animal may live longer in a zoo cage than in natural environment, but what's better for this animal?
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 06:25 AM
2

I don't hate or disregard women. In fact, i'm all about the equality. They should also pay for dates, work in mines, sewers, 50/50 child custody, pay home bills and so on. ​ I am married and it works ok for me having family and following MGTOW philosophy.
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 07:46 AM
1

As morpheus said, it's not a movement but a philosophy, a way of life. ​ P.S. Every big journey starts with a small, first step.
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 07:21 AM
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Mine is only 6 so we have plenty of time before serious subjects. I start with simple things like: ​ - there will always be someone smarter, more beautiful, more important than you, but for me you're the one - don't lie! - whatever you do/ say, think about the consequences (she understands) - if your "friend" doesn't want to play with you she's not your friend, same if she forces you to do things you don't want to do - respect adults
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 11:57 AM
2

I like Better Bachelor. TBH i don't expect any breaking news from them. I like to listen to him cause i like his music/ sound themes, i like and to improve my english. Oh, and i like "the dating profiles of the day". Not that i don't know them from "r/whereareallthe...." but still like it.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 07:07 AM
4

Used to train a lot: karate, capoeira, mma, boxing. In general every experienced fighter i spoke to had similar opinion: ​ 1vs1- boxing and all grappling/ wrestling techniques are very effective ​ 1vs more- run ​ Also, you can train for many years, but unless you fight a lot there's no way you'll be able to use those techniques in real dangerous situation. I tried that and had so many injuries i had to stop :( I don't think it is possible to exercise at home without a sparring partner and prepar…
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 06:22 AM
3

It’s been working so far? Yep, it's working pretty good. Has the internet culture of the last few years changed that? TBH no, but you need to be patient. There will be times when your account status may be like -40%. Not everybody can handle that. But i invest in long run, 5-10 years ahead.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 05:49 AM
2

No, far from that. I follow W. Buffet philosophy and choose companies with strong fundaments.
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 08:28 AM
3

My business is investing in stocks. I still work in a corpo but my investments give way better profit. If everything goes like that i retire before 50 with financial independence.
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 07:29 AM
1

This is BS. We are not apes. We can control our sex drive, we can fast willingly for weeks, we can do or not do things according to our will. Some of us are weak and they fall, but in general humans are above animals that act according to their instinct.
/r/MGTOW222/03/21 07:42 AM
1

Ugly doesn't mean unattractive. Position, power, money, there are many factors that make a man attractive to women. So yea, ugly guys can be MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW222/03/21 07:36 AM
14

In my first job i had a great team: 4 guys. If any of has had a problem to finish his task the other would simply stay longer to help him, no questions asked. We had parties after work, barbeque, hiking trips. After 1 year they moved me to a different department (completely new for me, i had no idea what to do there). I was the only male, team leader was a female. The first day i asked her about something (work related), and she anwered: "it is not proper to ask your co-worker about things like …
/r/MGTOW222/03/21 06:27 AM
2

At least when you read the comments they see the problem and identify misandry as hate crime too.
/r/MGTOW219/03/21 06:29 AM
1

Very simple. I don't give a shit what other people think.
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 10:32 AM
4

It says: " has been jailed for three and a half years " so like....it already happened.
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 06:26 AM
5

It is alreadyhappening: less marriage makes diamonds/ wedding industry go down. Also, demand on housing/ apartments market is huge, cause less couple= more people need their own place. Less couples= less kids= demographic crisis= more single moms= more social benefits for them= higher taxes.
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 01:23 PM
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I am married, together 20 years, used to be ultra simp and white knight, but i managed to follow MGTOW path. You can PM/ chat me cause this is a long story.
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 07:26 AM
5

Health in general, not only mental. Take statistic from any country and compare funding of breast cancer treatment/ prevention vs prostate cancer. ​ As for mental....have a friend- psychologist (male). He says that the only situation a man is socially accepted to consult a psychologist is to improve himself, boost his potential, help to climb the ladder in his company. He can't simply ask to be fixed, just like you said.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 01:29 PM
1

Most of succesful man jump start their career about 40y old. This is linked with dropping testosterone levels. They no longer chase pussies and start focusing on higher goals. Never seen a studies linked to their IQ. ​ Also, specific countries laws/ culture has a lot to do. In my country there are no allimony in case of divorce and prenup is pretty good way to secure your money, so obviously a risk is lower and smart guys may also marry.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 01:17 PM
62

Holy shit, i'm in!
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 11:01 AM
1

TBH it's pathethic it has only 654 signatures. People outside UK also count?
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 06:44 AM
6

Married and i love MGTOW. My way is having a family, and nobody will tell me what to do. + i do everything else i want to do. Have my hobbies, buddies, go out when i want, buy what i want. My wife works and she doesn't use my money. Family is just another puzzle of my life that makes it whole. I will teach my son about women nature and MGTOW. Hopefully he will make his choice and it will be his way. ​ Also, i wouldn't marry again, but 20 years ago in East Europe things were far different.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 06:26 AM
1

I might add this: https://youtu.be/52eTlKDBgBA
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 08:03 AM
1

For me it's easy. Cause they are still parts of our lives. We have mothers/ sisters/ daughters, we still pay taxes to support them. You can't simply cut off yourserlf oout of the system (you can from your family is that what you want, i don't).
/r/MGTOW213/03/21 04:38 AM
3

TBH nothing to complain about. As i said, i had my years of misery. 8 years to be precise. Had no money to divorce, had kids i didn't want to leave and few other factors that forced me to stay in this. After 8 years i found out about MGTOW, started really focusing on myself and totally not giving a shit what my wife thinks. Started lifting a lot, working on investing, stopped simping/ white knighting completely. I have no nagging, she works and we share our bills, i go out for night with my budd…
/r/MGTOW212/03/21 05:25 PM
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I don't think reddit is a good place to ask. Get a good lawyer and go through options possible in your country/ state. ​ Personally, i would never engage women in such situation. She can always chase you for child custody/ child support.
/r/MGTOW212/03/21 08:48 AM
3

I am married, was ultra simp and white knight, for the last few years MGTOW supporter and practitioner. As far as i believe AWALT, there are some who can get over their instincts and be a good person (just like not every man is a sexual predator). ​ That being said, it is possible to have a good relationship but the risk is too high. Would i marry again? F*ck no! Am i happy now? Yep, although i had my years of misery.
/r/MGTOW212/03/21 08:13 AM
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Financial independence for me: i can stop working and sustain my level of life till my death- still working on that. ​ Financial stability: no debts and savings allowing to live without working for 5-6 years sustaining my level of live. Achieved. ​ I still work on achieving financial independence, hope to get there in another 5-6 years.
/r/MGTOW212/03/21 06:43 AM
2

Lifting weights improved my self esteem A LOT and gave a life lesson- only you are responsible for your self development and progress. Also it's not about working as hard as possible, but as smart as possible. ​ Start lifting today, and see how your life changes in few months.
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 09:07 AM
1

We're not friends anymore. We do speak time to time but i'd say it's 5% of contact we used to have before.
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 07:09 AM
9

~20. I had (and still have) great relations with my parents. I just thought it's the right thing to do. Was absolutely shitty poor, to the point there was 1 week i had literally nothing to eat. I was too ashamed to ask my parents for help, but in the end it made me stronger. No regrets. ​ As for advice. I think it's very individual and depends on many factors. Have a friend who still lives with parents, he's 45+. Over 10 years ago he moved out, but after few months his parents asked him to come …
/r/MGTOW208/03/21 10:50 AM
2

Surely gonna celebrate it with my mom.
/r/MGTOW208/03/21 07:58 AM
0

But let me ask you this do you think good girls wear make up ? They can, sure.
/r/MGTOW205/03/21 07:21 PM
2

Married, 2 kids. By the end of 30 paid all bank loans i had (including house) and started saving as much as possible- this means shitty old car, totally cheap holidays (if any), no crazy spending on any sort of goods (like clothes). Part of saved money stashed in case of emergency, rest invested in stock market. I'm close to 40 now and saved/earned enough to stop working for another ~10 years. According to my calculations, in ~5 years i should have enough for lifetime. Note, i'm not going to spo…
/r/MGTOW205/03/21 10:01 AM
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But i wouldn't say MGTOW purpose is to abandon women completely. You can have fun with them, just do it in a way so they won't drain your recources, don't put yourself at risk of loosing your stuff/ honour/ dignity. ​ You do you. Go your own way, whatever it is.
/r/MGTOW205/03/21 09:45 AM
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I believe there are good girls out there, unicorns, but still. Have a friend without a hand (elbow down) and he dated normally (got even married). I don't give a shit about her comment. I've learned that it's actions not words, that can tell something about woman. It's easy to say something, but support it with action- that's a different story.
/r/MGTOW205/03/21 09:40 AM
1

Long time ago and i'm on a very good way to close my "things to do in life" list.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 10:06 AM
2

Socially acceptable? ​ Only your hapiness it the key. Sure, making other happy can make you happy, but you should always be no 1.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 09:32 AM
12

Holy shit, is this legal? I mean, if you can publish this, why not "rape for dummies", "how to murder and stay free" or "be a burglar in 3 easy steps"?
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 07:35 AM
2

I am married, and i'm absolutely serious here- happy (had my times of misery though). Almost all of this is 100% truth. Stay away from marriage! If you really want a family you can try, but don't engage government into your relationship!
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 07:30 AM
1

I have no need to justify anything. It's just what i experienced, but as i mentioned, it dies with my generation (i'm 40). 20+ yrs girls are now corrupted by social media/ western way of life and do the monkey branching, especially in big cities. In small towns it is still possible to find a good girl, there's only one question: what for? Let's be clear here: i married, i've been ultra simp, but since i found mgtow i changed a lot and i'm happier then ever, even though i'm still married. Wouldn'…
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 06:08 AM
2

So I wouldn't bother searching. Of course, that's why i wouldn't bother to do the searching/ chasing. They'd have to win me, i'm the prize, and it'd be a long and hard "hunger games" for them. Once you learn to love yourself it's so liberating you don't need a woman. Oh, have a dog, this kind of love is also great :D
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 06:02 AM
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Paternity test is mandatory here!
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 11:17 AM
2

believe in the NAWALT ​ Cause i live in east EU not USA and i see huge difference how women are here and in USA. This also has reflection in divorce rates, how many of them can cook, do the housework, how many of them work and so on. For example: where i live it's very rare for a man to pay his gf: her bills, car, rental, which is quite common in USA as i see. Also, we don't have allimony. ​ Now i see they are coming the same direction as women in USA, and those from big cities are already rotte…
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 07:47 AM
1

insists on going dutch What does it mean?
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 06:54 AM
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I don't give a f*ck. I'm with the same woman for the last 20 yrs, and she has proven herself when i was down. Wouldn't marry again, but i'm sure there are good women just like there are good guys out there, and assholes.
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 06:53 AM
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Absolutely. I know few of them, and i noticed 1 thing commong among them. No social media. No tic toc, no facebook, no instagram. They simply don't give a shit about it. They don't use aggressive make up, wear modest clothes and can have interesting conversation. Surely they are very hard to find, but they still exist.
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 08:25 AM
1

I hate broccoli but i absolutely see it's good for me, so i eat it daily.
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 06:49 AM
4

Simply they think it's the best for the kid. Best genes from alpha+ money from beta.
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 06:41 AM
1

Agree. But you don't have to hire a pro. Just a student wanting earn some extra cash. Those usually have bodycount close/ equal/ lower to regular ccriders.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 05:58 PM
1

It's the grossest experience ever if the escort is fresh from the last date A lot of girls do the cock carousel and those guys who fuck them don't care.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 04:42 PM
1

Perhaps or hire women as doll controllers But there are no women, right? This is what we're talking about. As for hiring a woman as doll controller...why not simply hire an escort? Doll control would have to be really cheap.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 04:00 PM
1

Perhaps VR is the way?
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 01:13 PM
1

...and until they can hold a true conversation Do we really need that from women/ sexbots? TBH the only thing your bro can't provide you is sex (unless you're homo). Other than sex...guys can provide and very often are far better companions than women.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 12:34 PM
3

if all the women were gone we would be sad Why? Sexbots development would skyrocket and i'm sure we'd perfect it in less than a decade :D
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 12:06 PM
2

I really don't like their perspective than MGTOW hate women.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 11:53 AM
2

I hate kids, but i love my kids. I absolutely respect those who don't want kids. You do you, go your own way. My kids are part of my journey, never regreted it.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 07:31 AM
2

Joker made this comparison, what would happen if instantly all women dissapear, or all men dissapear. women- everything collapses very fast. There are not enough women in critical facilities like power plants, oil/ petrol industry or simple sewerage system, not even to maintain it, but also to train/ educate other ​ men- we have enough men in women dominated professions like nursery- in the beginning it would be hard, but in the end we have enough to train new guys ​ In both cases we have to fin…
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 07:04 AM
1

You both refer to demographic crisis and the fact, there are many people that rely on social help, or pick a shitty education like gender studies. I'm fully aware of this problem :/
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 06:09 AM
1

Please elaborate. What will happen in 10 years?
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 01:22 PM
1

My father was/ is alpha (he's a pro soldier, old school tough guy). He simply didn't explain to me how it works with women. I got a good role model but i didn't understand it and couldn't use it properly. Took me many years to figure it out. Too bad i found MGTOW so late :)
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 01:16 PM
1

All this until she hits the wall which i've seen so many times.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 01:00 PM
5

> that marriage has actually benefited women by securing their access to resources and a provider ​ Now daddy gov secures this. Nothing to worry about for them :/
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 12:46 PM
2

that's an interesting one, isn't it? Yes. This is what my father should teach me. He always was like this and as a kid i thought it's a little too rough. Nope, he was right all along. Almost as if society did its possible best to anesthetize that part Absolutely. Fortunately, guys are waking up and can teach their sons the right way.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 12:36 PM
2

he behaved as a AAA+ simp, and fixed everything with her. Yea. I did that also, but didn't work. At some point i just said "fuck it" and focused 100% on myself, with zero attention to my wife (still cared for kids though). And that was a breakthrough. I really believe i became far more alpha male i ever was and that raised her attraction towards me. I continue my journey and have best years of my life.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 12:16 PM
8

"wife falls out of love when baby is born, and has to be regained from scratch" ​ That's exactly what i suffered but it's not about love, as a woman may claim/ believe she's still in love. She just turn into "mother 24/7" mode and gives no shit about a man as long as he provides everything she and the child need. That's the reason i'm with you guys.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 11:30 AM
2

From my perspective what made modern is government protection so as long as the gov is not cucked i don't think religion makes any difference how women behave. Once they feel secured they devour the system, once there is no systemic protection they need their man.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 10:52 AM
0

"Was" and "is not" anymore? Anything has changed?
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 10:22 AM
3

No no. Work, pay taxes so they can provide to single mothers.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 08:04 AM
3

So what did you do next?
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 06:40 AM
2

Tell her "there are no decent women like you anymore, mom..." That should do the trick ;)
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 09:29 AM
4

I'd say it's never worth a chase. Not against relationships- if you find the one, she's also into you- no need for stupid games. As for sex- good escort, or other "pump& dump" solutions.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 08:12 AM
2

Had the same problem (married). Tons of weight lifting helped me a lot. I just trained till there was no juice in me for other things.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 08:09 AM
5

Other is that it's a traditional relationship Assuming she does the house chores, cookes, cleans and so on.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 07:56 AM
5

If i understand it correctly...she completely depends on you? She doesn't work or what? If yes, why do you keep this parasite?
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 06:34 AM
8

I got banned when i wrote white people suffered slavery just like black people. Guess the truth/ history facts are not allowed on reddit.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 06:17 AM
6

I found out about MGTOW about ~5 years ago and after few weeks of educating it really pushed me hard for self improvement. Results? - promotion at work, ~40% salary raise - started investing, and for now i can stop working and keep my level of life for about ~10 years, have a house, car, debt free. ​ I'm 39 and i hope to get financial independence in another 5 years. Life's good my brothers, when you realise you're the kings :D
/r/MGTOW219/02/21 07:04 AM
2

Ah yes, absolutely agree.
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 11:06 AM
3

What's your problem with calling women bitches if they are in fact a bitch. Well, there are women in my family who i respect so there's no way i will call ALL women bitches.
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 10:57 AM
5

Fast google search: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3379858/ Mind, i'm not looking for articles saying women are bitches and should go to hell, but true scientific approach. This is what i found in few seconds, i'm sure there are more articles like this. "Clinicians should be aware that the behavioral expression of the disorder might differ between women and men. Female sufferers more often seem to show emotional instability, verbal violence, and manipulation of social networks, and…
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 09:54 AM
0

Ooohhhh i thought you quoted a scientific article in the main topic. I really hoped it was published officially :D
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 09:44 AM
1

Source?
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 09:33 AM
6

If you're talking about defending against burglar/ pickpocket thief, or a simple bully in a bar...no, not really. If you hurt somebody in self defense you're in trouble. If you hit a woman, you're going down.
/r/MGTOW217/02/21 06:24 AM
3

You should not hit a woman cause your'e stonger than her...Ok, so if i, rather a small guy (80kg) hit a huge dude (130kg) i should expect him not to hit me just cause i'm smaller/ weaker? C'mon!
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 09:43 AM
1

I've lost contact with all friends from college, but not from high school :)
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 06:34 AM
2

In my country there's no way she'd graduate primary school with such grammar. Seriously, i'm not a native english speaker and my eyes bleed when i read this :/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 06:29 AM
2

Of course it works both ways. It's up to you if you want to fight or not. There are loosers and winners around you. If you want to be a winner you just need to remember, that they are also only humans with weaknesses and problems just like you.
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 11:20 AM
4

No matter how succesfull one is, everybody has his own demons. Everybody has insecurities, problems, you're not unique. My parents had a friend. Rich guy, had his own plane, yacht, sport cars and so on, always happy, smiling. One time he told me, that for the last 10 years he fights to sustain his way of life and play games with debt collectors, and he can't do it anymore, he don't know how much longer he can take it. ​ So whenever there's a problem i just think: "you're not a snowflake, everybo…
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 10:10 AM
3

Married for 20yrs. Used to simp to my wife A LOT. Seriously, for years. Once i learned about MGTOW i changed totally, focused on myself and my relationship improved in every way. I literally became far more attractive (sexually also) to her once i started being asshole. This is really sad as i'm not that kind of person, but this is what it is. ​ So imho there are 2 types of guys: those who swallowed red pill and decided to make use of it, and those who swallowed it and continue acting like they …
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 07:04 AM
1

Absolutely, cause i like technical gadgets. But it all depends what we get for what price and what is the risk cause i seriously don't want a bot to bite off my dick due to software error :D
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 12:53 PM
1

I was also banned, don't even remember why, and i don't care.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 01:12 PM
3

You do you. I'm married and do what i want and i don't give a f*ck that some think you can't "go your own way" if you're married. Just to be clear, i wouldn't marry again, but i'm perfectly happy the way i am now.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 10:50 AM
1

I think we approach this topic from totally different points of view. What i mean is: -if we remove women, human race dies within 6-8 decades (unless they develop a way to continue our species without women) if we remove all men society collaps totally in few months as they won't be able to sustain critical facilities This is why i consider men superior. We simply have far more time to find a solutions if such event happens. Other than that i absolutely agree the are fields men are inferior to w…
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 06:01 AM
2

but you can't take procreation and child-rearing out of the equation like that and pretend you're doing a fair, objective analysis I did it cause it works for both genders, so in fact it's not an argument we should take into consideration in this discussion.
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 07:03 PM
5

Better Bechelor spoke about it. If we remove completely one gender we have 2 different results (assuming procreation is not a problem): - remove women- we survive - remove men- everything collapses ​ Why? Cause there are enough men in women's fields like nursery/ teachers/ and so on to train new guys and continue their work, and there are not enough women to train new workers in absolute critical fields like maintaining power plants or plumbing system. ​ So depend how you look at it men are supe…
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 10:18 AM
1

She left her last bf cause he was working too much and had no time for her....and he was working cause she wanted to travel and a big house :D
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 06:18 AM
16

Tbh, i think it's easier to find a unicorn. ​ Had a female friend, very religious, a virgin, modest girl. She kept saying how important it is for her to love each other and other family bs. Up to the day her bf proposed. Now she wants a big house and travels. And guess who's gonna earn for it?
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 01:20 PM
4

You do you, if it's your own way, go this way.
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 08:20 AM
1

I think it mostly depends on the law in your country. In some countries you can wipe your ass with prenup as the court will not honour it in case of divorce :/
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 08:09 AM
1

Although i am married for 20 years, i never stopped doing what i want. I have my hobbies i travel alone/ with friends, meet with them every weekend and so on. However i've lost few good buddies once their got married/ into relationship :( ​ Also i noticed that many female partners of my buddies don't like me as i do what i want and don't ask my wife if i can, so this might be critical to keep your friendship. ​ In the end i think it's all about your friends. Are they willing to tell their wife/ …
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 07:41 AM
4

Insecurities yes, but still they think they're too good for 90% of men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 01:50 PM
11

She says "i'd give anything to be hot" which means she acknowledged she is not, which means you're very generous scoring her 3/10 :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 12:14 PM
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When i started my work i really liked it. Now i kinda burned out, i don't hate it, it's ok, but nothing special. There are lots of things i'd rather do and enjoy it far more. Why i do it? Money is good, it's stable income (not affected by covid) i'm good at it, and it allows me to do what i really like after work.
/r/MGTOW204/02/21 07:37 AM
1

As a married guy (over 20 yrs together) i can add my perspective. ​ We had our ups & downs. There were times of honeymoon and total misery. Today i'm happy (note: i say I'M, not WE, as i can't say for both sides). Was it worth it? In the end yes, i have great kids and i always wanted kids/ family, i like my stable, boring life. ​ Would i marry again? F*CK NO! I might say i won the lottery, but the risk is huge. Unless there is a law allowing you to sign up prenup that will be honoured in court 1…
/r/MGTOW201/02/21 06:19 AM
2

I live in Europe and it's my national stock market.
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 05:53 AM
13

Stocks investment counst? Started few years ago just out of curiosity. Now i make more than from my regular job.
/r/MGTOW228/01/21 09:44 AM
1

Yea, my friend went to couple therapy. Basically, a male therapist was a total simp. EVERYTHING was his fold, she was a diamond and he should be happy she's with him. Total BS.
/r/MGTOW228/01/21 08:48 AM
2

As for covid- It's only temporary, vaccines are on the way, soon everything will be open as we can't continue this. As bad as it sounds, those who are sensitive to covid will die, those who are resistant/ immune will prevail. ​ As for the choosing good man/ girl. You see what's going on? Girls share their thoughts why it's good to have few baby daddies cause of child support! This is not going in a good way. If parents care about their daughters it doesn't matter if there's covid or not, they wi…
/r/MGTOW228/01/21 08:25 AM
2

I'm 40. I'm on a very good way to reach financial independence in about 5 years. That includes securing my kids education. ​ So once i'm secured i'm going to sink into my hobbies, train/ lift as long as my health allows, learn a new language. Also i really want to get a doctorate degree, not for financial purposes, but simply for self development.
/r/MGTOW228/01/21 07:40 AM
5

Live at as low cost as you possibly can, BUT ON ON THE COST OF YOUR HEALTH! ​ Save as much as possible, and learn about investing- stock market is my way to go. I invested in video games companies (as i love to play and know this stuff). I started investing with ~2500$, in few years i earned enough to stop working for another ~10 years. I hope to reach full financial independence in ~2-3 years.
/r/MGTOW225/01/21 06:57 AM
3

We don't eat out too much (i live in East EU) so probably the only savings is on gasoline. Still, it was worth it and there's no regret.
/r/MGTOW224/01/21 05:45 PM
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I learned money can’t buy time Absolutely this. When i was ~30y i had a well paid job but it took me ~40 mins drive one way to get there, so ~1.5hr wasted in a car every day. I changed my job, my salary was now 30% lower, but i walked like 10 mins from my home. BEST DECISION EVER. Money came in time, but in new job stress is much lower, i'm 40 with not a single grey hair, work very close from home, have plenty of time for my hobbies. Live's getting better :D
/r/MGTOW224/01/21 07:21 AM
11

1 lion is worth more than an army of sheeps :)
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 12:48 PM
5

I see him and others of his kind as a pioniers who will women show how it's gonna be from now on. He make take some hits, therefore- he's taking one for the team.
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 12:29 PM
13

A minute of silence for our brother, who volounteered to take one for the team. Show them you're a king, a prize, and they need to earn your company. Make us proud!
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 12:21 PM
23

Well...if you feel entitled to huge house, luxury cars, holidays few times a year + of course you don't work...surely an average guy can't provide that.
/r/MGTOW219/01/21 11:46 AM
4

Lots of trials and errors. Always health was a priority, taste and time to prepare 2nd in line. So i kept it simple as much as possible. Now it takes me less than 10 mins to prepare daily meals. Good youtube channel, not exactly for noobs, but fun to watch: Food Emperor.
/r/MGTOW218/01/21 07:00 AM
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Also, no sex, but you can fuck other people! Just not her.... After some time she'd take him to court cause he cheated on her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 06:26 AM
1

then we’d have to give back all payments ever, no? No. If they decided to cancel debts taken,say 4-5 years ago, refund all the students loans from that period that were already paid back. Treat people equal.
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 05:44 PM
1

If the government decided to cancel debts they should refund also those who decided to take the burden of paying debt back. It's so simple.
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 05:37 PM
2

2 fathers/ mothers/ parents, same financial situation. 1 work 2 shifts, saves every penny to pay for his child education. 2nd don't think about the future, live their life and when it's needed take a loan which is cancelled. Responsible one receive nothing. Do you seriously think, it's fair? Which one
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 05:21 PM
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But why do so many MGTOW men swear off relationships with woman entirely? ​ Cause in many countries (Canada, Spain i think?) you don't have to be married and still a woman can fuck you up, even with allimony or take some of your stuff. ​ It all depends on the law in your country.
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 06:18 AM
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You're missing the point. This situations shows that "i don't have to take responsibility for my debts, i just hope there will be a politician that will cancel my debt. And if there are enough people like me, we will make them cancel our debt!". In long term (IMHO) this is very damaging for the whole society. No. Nobody forces you to sign it, but once you sign it you should honour it. If all students gather and say: "fuck it, we won't pay such high tuition/ take huge loans!" colleges and banks w…
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 06:16 AM
4

That does not justify breaking the agreement.
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 04:19 PM
1

I don't think you understand what agreement/ contract is if you ask such question.
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 04:19 PM
9

Forget about motivation, you need discipline!
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 08:47 AM
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There's nothing wrong with free education and i support it 100%, but the agreement is an agreement. Once you take a loan you must pay it back, other way those who busted their asses off to finance education are totalle f*cked in their asses. Mind, not all who paid upfront or paid back the loans are rich people for whom that was barely noticable expence. Some of them saved half of their lives to pay for kids education.
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 08:40 AM
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This is literally fucking up sense of responsibility of future generation.
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 07:15 AM
19

See college loan forgiveness Is this a fact (I don't live in USA)? If yes, what about those who paid back their loans or paid for college upfront? Do they get a refund?
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 06:17 AM
14

Yep, that's what i'm talking about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 01:41 PM
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And the worst part is, even if she's a nice girl, wants to improve, you take the risk, create a bond with kids, and it seems to be going in the right direction, sooner or later you will hear: THEIR NOT YOUR KIDS! YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO PUNISH/ REPRIMEND THEM!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 01:08 PM
2

You can't be sure what they took and what you take. There are videos of official vaccination where they use empty syringe or don't even push the piston. I don't really understand what's the masquerade for. There are plenty of things they could inject to pretend it's vaccine, why did they use empty syringe?
/r/MGTOW212/01/21 08:04 AM
1

If i'm forced to take one, i'd choose zeneca also.
/r/MGTOW212/01/21 07:54 AM
1

No. Not cause i'm anti vaccine freak. Took many other vaccines. The problem is, our government pushes very hard for everybody to take it, doesn't matter if you have antibodies or not. Also, they push to take pfizer's, you can't really choose which one you prefer. A lot of my close friends/ family members had it, i have no doubts i had it also, therefore i don't think i need it, and even if, there are plenty of people in risk groups that should take it earlier. ​ I am afraid we will have no choic…
/r/MGTOW212/01/21 07:51 AM
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" The 42-year-old, who has been doing sex work on and off for more than two decades, said she was struggling to afford to buy food and has resorted to vouchers. " Funny she doesn't see the link between less customers and her aging. She thought she'd be on top forever?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 07:10 AM
3

He might just have a gynecomastia.
/r/MGTOW211/01/21 01:38 PM
2

Ok. I often don't catch up with subtle jokes as non-native eng. speaker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 12:22 PM
15

I have a technique my friend called firewall: "deny all the bullshit she says". Unless my wife clearly defines what's on her mind i assume everything is fine and i don't give a shit.
/r/MGTOW211/01/21 11:30 AM
3

The father. He might not be around but he also might try to play his role in his daughter's life but wife's actions prevent it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 07:58 AM
5

I wonder what's the father's opinion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 07:16 AM
0

Yep, young & virgin.
/r/MGTOW201/01/21 06:38 PM
17

I am ~40y, married for 20y. Those guys are pussies. Since the beginning of my relationship it was clearly told i'm a free man. I can go to visit my bros for the whole night, or for a bike trip for a weekend and there's no discussion. Of course i have kids, i have some responsibilities, so before plans like this i ask if there is anything she wants me to take care of. But there never was a doubt "if i can go". I just inform her i am going. ​ From my perspective, i have only 2 friends who are marr…
/r/MGTOW231/12/20 10:44 PM
3

40 here, married for 20y. We had our ups & downs and i can honestly say i'm happy now, but i'd ABSOLUTELY NOT MARRY TODAY, and that's what i'm gonna put into my son's head over and over again.
/r/MGTOW231/12/20 07:59 AM
2

Stay strong bro, i wish you all the best. Please keep us updated.
/r/MGTOW231/12/20 06:47 AM
1

Holy shit! I thought this is some kind of digital rape/ restriction, cutting her off home wifi or something. That shit is ab surd!
/r/MGTOW231/12/20 06:42 AM
1

I'm not english native speaker and i really don't understand what both of you mean :/
/r/MGTOW230/12/20 06:22 PM
4

What does it mean to "gRape"?
/r/MGTOW230/12/20 01:20 PM
7

I'd say East Europe like Czech/ Slovakia, Poland perhaps, Russia. Question is: do you want to live there?
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 09:10 AM
3

Moved out when i was 20. You need to take care of your finances, everything else will come naturally. ​ My advice no 1: save every month! No matter how low your salary is, SAVE even few bucks. It's more about having a saving habit in the beginning, rather than saving a real money. There was a month when i spend too much on books (was still learning) and i woke up one day having nothing to eat. Like literally, nothing. I didn't eat for one whole week until next paycheck. I was too ashamed to ask …
/r/MGTOW221/12/20 07:06 AM
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How come they think "i've had my fun times" part is an asset they bring to the table?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/20 01:48 PM
6

My best method ever: teach something (note, not somebody, as you won't find a person who will be willing to spend time listening to you). ​ Take a teddy bear, rc car, fish in aquarium, a pillow- whatever. Once you read a chapter- teach our "student". Every time you freeze and don't know what to say just go back to your notes, read it again, and continue. Speak normally (vocally), not in your mind. ​ This is in fact scientific proven trick. Once you need to teach someone/ something about any topi…
/r/MGTOW215/12/20 08:39 AM
4

The problem is when a man is young and extremaly horny, he will lower his standard A LOT just to ease his lust. But with time you learn to control your urges and your libido goes down but the fat chicks still expect the same attention and willingness. So in college although she was 2-3/10 she probably had no problem to find a 5-6/10 dude to fuck her. Not anymore :D
/r/MGTOW215/12/20 07:49 AM
4

As i have a family, i should find this offensive. But i don't give a shit so no, not really :P
/r/MGTOW211/12/20 01:28 PM
6

Each new video/ article proves a point, and there are plenty guys who just discovered the truth. Don't really see a problem here, experienced guys can just skip what they find not interesting.
/r/MGTOW207/12/20 11:21 AM
3

When i moved out from my parents home we (me nad my wife) were very poor. Shitty food, shitty rented apartment (it was 14-15'C degress inside during a winter cause we saved on heating), no restaurants, no movies, no holidays, no car. I remember my wife saying she wished we had enough money so she could afford a yoghurt every day. Yet we were still saving every month just in case. I'm not talking about people who are struggling to survive, but people who earn relatively normal salaries but simply…
/r/MGTOW204/12/20 04:56 PM
7

It is a mystery for me how can one live without savings.
/r/MGTOW204/12/20 01:54 PM
2

I have no idea, i don't live in USA. I just know their health care sucks totally.
/r/MGTOW203/12/20 10:50 AM
1

Don't live in USA, but as the gossip say, get a good health insurance.
/r/MGTOW203/12/20 08:41 AM
1

Right! Thanks a lot :D
/r/MGTOW203/12/20 06:08 AM
2

I managed to master it through lifting, no need anymore for any help :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 05:46 PM
2

I didn't test mine per se but I didn't initiate because I wasn't interested myself. After some time i mastered my urges and it was liberating AF. Had i known how it feels to have no sex desire i'd look for some kind of pills to turn off my libido.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 09:26 AM
10

Couldn't leave due to few reasons, but i sunk into my hobbies, focused on myself and tbh, never looked back, never regreted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 01:33 PM
12

I've tested my wife the same way. After 1 year she asked me "why don't you want me anymore?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 11:18 AM
3

I don't know the english name for this, but in my country they talk about taxing single men just for being single and with no kids. Of course no tax for single women.
/r/MGTOW230/11/20 06:52 AM
12

Cause the last photo was made after 1st child :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/20 12:05 PM
2

You can hurt your dog so many times, and he will still love you. I say it's as close to unconditionally as it can be. Don't try this!
/r/MGTOW224/11/20 01:40 PM
2

Dog is the answer.
/r/MGTOW224/11/20 01:39 PM
1

It really depends on the law in specific country. In USA/ CANADA it is fucked. Western EU fucked. East EU, still pretty ok. I am married with kids and it's working for me, but seeing direction it is going, i will worn my son to secure himself as far as possible if he ever decides to mary/ cohabitate.
/r/MGTOW224/11/20 06:43 AM
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IMHO: MGTOW= Men Go Their Own Way. If your way is a family, then go for it. I'm the men and nobody will tell me which way i wanna go. ​ I am 40y, married and together for 20yrs, with kids. Am i happy? Yes. Would i marry again? FUCK NO! Until the law is fair and the women are not favourised you risk a lot. Now should you take a risk? It depends in which country you live and how f*cked the law is in case of divorce. Do you have a prenup and assets split, and is it honoured by court in case of divo…
/r/MGTOW220/11/20 12:46 PM
3

2 college degrees: philosophy and gender studies perhaps?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/20 09:56 AM
4

Every day is a man's day. You take care of it, not the rest of the world.
/r/MGTOW220/11/20 09:38 AM
2

There are many competent women, but from my experience, they do great in some stuff/ tasks/ projects, in other they suck (just as men). Fortunately women in our company seem to know that and don't demand gender variety in managers position. Btw, i am also a manager, about 80 people below me. Next step would be directorate, about 400 people. I officially say, there's no way i'd take that responsibility.
/r/MGTOW220/11/20 08:38 AM
2

My mother as she got older she started saying that women should be entitled to get things for free...sad. Anyway, i remember when used to work, that she always complained about female manages, and always preffered to have a male boss. ​ Also in my company, it is quite rare situation that a women takes manager's position. They know how hard it is and literally say "no" when are offered the position.
/r/MGTOW220/11/20 07:53 AM
3

> "wow! I wish I knew this when I was younger!" Since my parents are happily married i thought marriage just looks like this. What i didn't know, that although i had married (seriously!) a nice, loving girl, all this changed dramatically after our child was born. She turned from friend/ lover/ partner into "mother 24/7". This was absolutely unexpected, shocking and caused my misery for years. I don't know if you plan to cover topics for married MGTOWs (yes, i truly belive it is possible) so that…
/r/MGTOW219/11/20 10:43 AM
8

9 women can't give birth to a child in 1 month. You can have 100.000 scientists, and the trials still need time. ​ So yea, you can have many teams working independently but still each of them needs time for trials to verify if the vaccine is safe. Also, i've read (and it was not reddit or google but regular medical book about viruses) that the covid viruses are specific cause they mutate very often, therefore vaccine is a waste of time.
/r/MGTOW218/11/20 08:08 AM
2

1st it's not a rape when it's Chad. ​ 2nd, you should have asked what would she bring to the table for your protection.
/r/MGTOW217/11/20 07:46 AM
4

Why would anybody prefer to take the pill daily instead of vasectomy that can be reversed?
/r/MGTOW217/11/20 07:37 AM
5

Had a talk about such issues with a cousin F. (Close to 50). So, in her eyes, choosing a bad husband/ bad boy, abusive relationship and so on she considers as "out of women control" and such women deserves compassion and help. I told her "NO, this is action and reaction, choice and consequence, this is what life is about, nobod knows what future brings, we all take risk, some of us make better choices some worse, but these are our choices". ​ Well...our relations are not so good anymore. But thi…
/r/MGTOW216/11/20 12:50 PM
1

It is a lot more difficult to go your own way with a family. Not if a family is the way you want to go. It was my choice.
/r/MGTOW214/11/20 05:00 AM
3

I thought that she was making 3x more than you? She was when we started dating. Took me few years to reach her level of income. If tomorrow she wants to divorce, will you be fucked? In my country she needs to prove i was an asshole, cheating on her, taking drugs and being violent, abusing her and so on. It's not like: "oh he beats me!" She needs solid proof. Otherwise court will give her divorce but she will be guilty of braking marriage and that puts her in shitty position. Allimony is extremal…
/r/MGTOW213/11/20 05:28 PM
2

you are more or less the woman... You’re living off your spouse finances... Sorry, perhaps my english is not so good. You mean she's supporting me financially? If so, not at all. I earn more, we share all expenses 50/50.
/r/MGTOW213/11/20 01:57 PM
5

Yeah but on the other hand....I'm married for 20 years, my wife is feminine, she does most of house chores and supported me when our finances were terrible (she was making 3x more than i). On the other hand i do what i want, go out when/ where i want, night with friends, few days bike trip- never asking, just informing that i go and she's fine with it. I seriously feel free, and i have a family. Yet, i was banned on MGTOW cause "you can't go your own way with a family, with a woman". BS. ​ Just …
/r/MGTOW213/11/20 01:00 PM
8

1 thing worth to mention. I married a nice girl, a virgin, definitely not a gold digger and our life although poor (financially) was like a fairytale. We were great together. Up to the day our kids were born. My wife turned instantly from wife/ lover/ friend to "mother mode 24/7". I didn't exist for her anymore (of course she denied it). Seriously, first 8 years after my kids were born were a misery. Then i discovered red pill, mgtow, focused on myself and now i'm happy. ​ Just mind, that everyt…
/r/MGTOW213/11/20 09:50 AM
8

I don't know the law where you live. If you can sign a prenup and define 50/50 child custody, split of the assets and so on it should be fine. But as far as i know in many countries you can wipe your ass with prenup and the courts will still favour women.
/r/MGTOW213/11/20 09:00 AM
4

The only person who's ever allowed to drive my car is my father. Not my brother, not my wife, none of my friends. What the law (i assume it's USA) say about such situation? Isn't she obliged to cover your loss?
/r/MGTOW213/11/20 07:31 AM
2

3..2..1.. HE RAAAAPED ME!
/r/MGTOW209/11/20 01:12 PM
8

Tbh, i'd find a hooker, quality one (not so much about skills/ 10/10 look, but reliable regarding health). Hire, fuck, pay, gtfo, and you're the master of your own.
/r/MGTOW209/11/20 12:46 PM
2

A new definition of "equality".
/r/MGTOW206/11/20 06:50 AM
2

Welcome to the club. I really though MGTOW is free of those crazy mods...
/r/MGTOW205/11/20 10:39 AM
6

I live in east EU. Here we don't have divorce rape, we don't have allimony. Even if my ex can't find a job, she won't get a penny from me. The only thing she can get is child support which is also very limited. Also, since it's strongly catholic country she must prove in court there are serious reasons for divorce, otherwise she'll be on lost here. In general in case of divorce we split our assets, but since our earnings are similar i wouldn't be hurt so much.
/r/MGTOW205/11/20 10:36 AM
4

Seriously, why do you call my life a plantation?
/r/MGTOW205/11/20 10:05 AM
7

1st, it's not a plantation if it's your decision to have a family. 2nd, i married 20yrs ago, long before i even heard about red pill/ mgtow. 3rd- you're right, i signed the contract. Today, i wouldn't marry again, no way (and that's what i will teach my son), however i have zero reason to divorce as i seriously do whatever i want. So as long as my situation might not suit perfectly MGTOW philosophy, i took from it as much as possible and applied to my daily life. Works perfectly.
/r/MGTOW205/11/20 09:21 AM
4

Thisa is totally f*cked up thinking. We share all the bills/ expenses, i go out whenever i want, buy whatever i think i can afford, we have separated accounts, we share responsibilities and house chores. This is my own way and i'm a man. You're a very narrow minded.
/r/MGTOW205/11/20 06:02 AM
2

Just when i was banned on MGTOW. Well said.
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 12:13 PM
25

Exactly what i did over 20 years ago. I told my gf i earn 30% of what she made and can't afford her lifestyle. I watched as she tried to adjust to lower status and live the way i do. No more restaurants, cheap holidays and so on. But she stayed with me and never complained about the money. Married for over 20 years and still going. One of the best shit tests ever.
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 08:03 AM
1

Banned cause i'm married and said you can GOW, have a family, do what you want and when you want. Never expected this to happen :/
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 06:26 AM
1

My uncle is a pilot and he told me a lot about the policies of airlines. I am quite sure they only took the picture, but were not allowed to fly together unless it's some kind of small private company.
/r/MGTOW02/11/20 07:29 AM
0

Go your own way. You want to try it, try, you don't want to, don't. Just keep your emotions on check, don't support her financially (split the bills!), don't reject your hobbies/ friends cause of her. If it still works perhaps it may work for longer period.
/r/MGTOW28/10/20 11:15 AM
9

I am sure they will find a strong independent women to finance this startup . Girl power right?
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 12:46 PM
21

How about opening another "Women only restuaruant/ cinema/ gym"? You go girls!
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 12:44 PM
2

Like any other girl you're not attracted to. Had few female friends in high school, college. They were totally not my type, but great as persons, more like a buddies/ bros for me than a girl. I truly miss them but can't find them on FB/ any other way anymore :(
/r/MGTOW227/10/20 10:37 AM
3

There was a family in my area, totally poor. They lived in 1 ROOM HOUSE! Yes, garden shed size house. 4 daughters, but they really wanted a boy, so there goes 5th pregnancy. Mother dies during the birth. Now the father asks for money, cause he can't work with 5 babies. Badum tss...
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 09:51 AM
13

So i did some research on this issue. As far as i'm supporting the right to decide if the child has no chance to live normal life, i am against abortion "just cause i want to". What worries me here is, in all the articles i found, interviews and so on, women keep saying "my body my decision". Not even once i saw a man/ father role in this matter. So what they want is the right to kill a child no matter what father thinks, and if they decide to give a birth they'd want child support no matter wha…
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 09:30 AM
1

So in India it is legal to kick out your wife in such case? Can't she take C to the court for child support?
/r/MGTOW26/10/20 12:43 PM
16

Post nut clarity is a thing.
/r/MGTOW26/10/20 09:43 AM
1

There's no problem in going the easiest way, guys do that also. The problem is, later they say "my past doesn't matter" and they don't want to bear the consequences of their choices.
/r/MGTOW26/10/20 09:42 AM
2

I'm 40y and it's a compliment when i hear i look younger. You will appreciate it too :)
/r/MGTOW23/10/20 11:10 AM
7

I'm not paying a single cent to anybody for marrying my daughter. I do my best to raise her to be feminine, respectful and person of values. If i fail, i'll be the first one to warn you, that you're dating a bitch. If i succeeded, you'll thank me later.
/r/MGTOW23/10/20 11:07 AM
11

There are 2 sides of the coin. Have a friend who's deep into photography hobby. He spends all cash available on it, and goes into debts to buy new gadgets. I understand his wife bitching about it cause he lost all reason in this matter.
/r/MGTOW23/10/20 10:17 AM
17

Inner world is: estates, stock, gold, cash...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 08:40 AM
10

Had a friend in college who was a genius "in the game". Every week he had a new 8-10/10 girl, he changed them a lot. Years later he married a 4-5/10. I asked him wtf? You always dated TOP10, a she's you know...regular. He said, that first of all, all those hotties were wooden logs in bed, while this one is a total sex beast, 2nd, hotties are not a wife material and this one is. ​ I guess it's the same as with women looking for a nice guy after riding CC. ​ No reason to be jealous about hot gf. B…
/r/MGTOW23/10/20 06:00 AM
1

I was working in HR department and questioned candidates a lot. I liked asking a question like: - looking at your CV/ school/ hobbies/ accomplishments, i see you on position A, B, C in departments X, Y, Z. Which one would you like? ​ Soooo many people responded: "whatever". NO! Pick any for whatever reason, show some interest, show that you're have some initiative, that you know what you want.
/r/MGTOW22/10/20 10:13 AM
1

They neves asked me to stay, it was my decision. I will never ask my kids to stay, but i will be very happy if one of them decide to stay close.
/r/MGTOW222/10/20 07:34 AM
2

Have a friend ho hires escorts quite often. He is so dissapointed how fake pictures on their profiles are. Fortunately he doesn't give a fuck and if she pushed it too hard he says: "i didn't hire you, i'm waiting for the girl from this picture."
/r/MGTOW22/10/20 07:26 AM
2

Uhm...the same way that children iherit after parents? Sure, they could just sell everything they have and pay it for care in their elder years. I think it's fair. My parents are 70+ and i see no option to leave them on their own.
/r/MGTOW22/10/20 07:23 AM
3

My parents are 70+ and their health won't get any better. No way i'd let them alone.
/r/MGTOW222/10/20 05:37 AM
8

He could bring few other girls to check if she's not jealous.
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 06:44 AM
1

Fun fact is, women can't take the consequences. For them it's like: "ok, i regret not choosing the nice guy when i was 20, i want one now!" Once they admit they fucked (IF, which is rare!) they still think they deserve their prize.
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 05:39 AM
2

Shit, i still forget to mention i live in East EU. It's little bit different here regarding the law.
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 03:41 PM
6

If you're s pussy and let a woman dominate you, it's true. But if you stand your ground you can have both your family, hobbies and your life.
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 12:51 PM
21

Amen reverend!
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 10:44 AM
24

I think this is quite safe Age and he can experience a little bit on his own (of course if you notice he's confused you can start explaining). 16-18y is a good age to start educating him, and he can simply read posts on r/femaledatingstategy or listen to BetterBechelor. That's the route i'm taking with my son.
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 10:40 AM
4

You should have added "SPOILER ALERT!" as i still wait with "The Boys" until full season is released. Is there any chance, that Fatherland forced the Butcher's wife to act like she wanted to cheat instead of simply raping her?
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 10:18 AM
3

My wife pays half of the bills, does a lot of house chores, and there are some more benefits, so i guess i'm lucky. But yea, today it's a unicorn.
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 06:12 AM
56

I can rely to that as i've suffered the same condition, also for about 9 years. My wife was very passionate lover until the day our child was born. The same day she instantly transformed from wife/ partner/ lover into "mother 24/7". I no longer existed. That was the time when i turned red, when i focused on myself. After ~9 years (guess when kids were older and didn't need her attention so much) she realized how fucked our marriage is. At this point i honestly didn't care. I had my hobbies, gym,…
/r/MGTOW16/10/20 05:03 AM
1

Holy crap, even this event is rotten :/
/r/MGTOW15/10/20 09:51 AM
2

Wait...so if a 20y hottie is looking for 50+ rich guy she will be matched with 20y poor chads?
/r/MGTOW15/10/20 09:21 AM
2

I'd go to have some fun. You don't earn 6 figures? Next! You don't weight below X (whatever is ok for you)? Next! You don't want to spoil your king? Next!
/r/MGTOW15/10/20 08:54 AM
11

Seriously, how can he even have doubts...
/r/MGTOW15/10/20 06:48 AM
5

Have 2 kids, play and always played a lot of video games. It's a matter of time management, no if you have kids or not.
/r/MGTOW15/10/20 05:11 AM
12

Cause they think that CC will last, and once THEY decide (not the wall) they want to settle down, they will just pick one of Chads and he will be happy to propose and commit.
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 11:37 AM
1

Those subs are gold mine for young guys. Gonna introduce it to mu son in few years.
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 11:21 AM
3

This whole sub just like femaledatingstrategy is a cancer.
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 10:57 AM
5

Google. Father/Mother/ friends. Proffessionals.
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 10:40 AM
23

Men should masturbate much more often. Post nut clarity is a thing!
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 09:38 AM
1

Also as a married man i confirm, unfortunately.
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 09:36 AM
2

https://www.healthline.com/health/food-nutrition/can-love-make-you-gain-weight ​ " One study that tracked the weights of over 8,000 people found that, on average, married women gain 24 pounds in the first five years of marriage. Women who cohabitate, but aren’t married, only gain 18 pounds, while women who are in a relationship but living separately gain 15 pounds. " ​ 10 seconds on google, i' sure you can find plenty more.
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 09:26 AM
2

Dude, if she want's to cheat she will go to the grocery shop for 20 mins and do it. You can trust your dog, not a woman.
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 05:27 AM
1

But they want no man, and in the future there will be no man/ simps (according to their vision).
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 05:02 AM
1

I just don't like this stereotype, that man must like beer.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 04:02 PM
12

Yea but sooner or later attraction comes from one side and there goes the friendship.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 10:58 AM
2

Remember we're talking about women only society. Daddy gov don't have any money, they will have to put a taxes on....women?
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 08:28 AM
10

I don't really care what she does. But the fact is, she speaks of herself as Marie Curie Sklodowska, while a simple garbage man bring more value with his work to the society.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 08:15 AM
5

So very important degree to human kind. She's so smart and will push humanity into new level of development.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 07:07 AM
1

Of course. Till 30y: i can have every man i want! After 30: why nobody wants me? ​ Also i noticed, girl at work were easily offended with sex jokes pre-wall, after wall they find those jokes funny.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 06:41 AM
4

It will be developed sooner or later. Military use (fetus with great gene pool) or space travel purpose. We will have plenty of fields to use it, and tbh i don't think men will ask women what they think about it. Once it's developed every guy can have a child without a woman. And then the shit hits the fan.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 06:35 AM
3

Scientists have already grown fetus in artificial womb, so it's a matter of time only. ​ For now they are developing AW for fetuses that would die in mother's womb, so it's more like a life saver, not ment to replace natural reproduction, but....
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 05:59 AM
2

I don't drink alco, any kind. Nothing beats lifting weights :)
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 05:54 AM
3

What about child support and allimony?
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 05:52 AM
2

I think he is pretty sane although the body is old. If he had mental issues he would probably have special care and therefore limited power over his own money, and therefore blondie wouldn't go for it. Assuming above, he could arrange this marriage with his lawyers and secure the money. Remember A. Nicole Smith case?
/r/MGTOW12/10/20 09:20 AM
9

I wrote about it many times. I live in East EU, and girls here are little bit different (not in big cities, but in small cities they're not so bitchy yet). 20 years ago they were FAR more feminine, and oldschool. As for me, i passed the time of simping, begging for sex (never said my marriage was a fairy tale, we had ups and downs). It made me stronger, i focused on myself and damn that worked. Today i literally do what i want (within the reason, i still have to go to work as i'm not financially…
/r/MGTOW12/10/20 07:08 AM
6

They musician who played on my wedding 20yrs ago always says hello when we meet somewhere (once every 1-3 years). I asked him how is it possible that he remembers me. He said, that he knew we're gonna make it, and it's very rare so he remembers us.
/r/MGTOW12/10/20 06:19 AM
2

Naaah i wouldn't be so sure. They were 6/10 at most, and had lots of simps cause there were no other girls around. Imagine with all the attention they had, going into the real world where they have to compete with 8-10/10 for attention.
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 11:12 AM
-8

Is there any point to bump it here? Or is it somewhere on fitness sub?
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 10:12 AM
1

I graduated Univeristy of Technology (electronics). Few hundred guys and only 12 girls. 2 of them were smart, really smart and into engineering. The rest...well, they did completely nothing and always lots of simps were doing every single project for them. I wonder how they are doing now.
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 08:34 AM
1

My kids definitely make me happy and it was long planned decision not basic instinct to have them. I think humans (or at least some of them) are above animals in this regards.
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 08:04 AM
11

Sooo, there's no gender diversity policy in your bank ? You could directly prove they brake their own rules.
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 05:10 AM
2

I get what you are saying but my point is that with extra expenditure it makes it more difficult to achieve early retirement. The point is, that IF you want kids, they are one of your goals and TBH i prefer to delay my eraly retirement by 10 years and have kids earlier, that start my family when i'm financialy stable at 45y.
/r/MGTOW208/10/20 12:25 PM
6

I see 2 error in your point of view. ​ 1) Many guys simply want kids. Spending money on your kids is like spending it on your hobbies, you don't see it as a burden (it is another cost, sure). 2) You assume that wife doesn't work. My wife works, we split the bills and i don't see any other option, i wouldn't support a parasite. ​ I still have a plan to retire early, and do what i like and i'm getting pretty close although i started poor AF. It is possible.
/r/MGTOW208/10/20 12:11 PM
2

1.Yes, but still 6.0+ tall ​ They earn disrespect by their behaviour. You get what you deserve. Men have it harder cause most of dating is initiated online where your look mostly matters (and bio if you're tall). Dating is not riskier for women. You can have date in public place and go back by a cab. Nobody forces you to go to his place. ​ Contrary to women, men have to earn our place. Lots of women got their high position cause of gender equality policy of companies. Also women have it easier i…
/r/MGTOW208/10/20 11:53 AM
10

I wonder who they will chase for child support.
/r/MGTOW08/10/20 11:38 AM
21

Women will say they pay less taxes cause they earn less.
/r/MGTOW08/10/20 11:00 AM
27

The thing she is not saying is, that once she hit the wall there will be so much less guys available.
/r/MGTOW08/10/20 09:58 AM
22

Need for attention, for whatever reason.
/r/MGTOW08/10/20 07:50 AM
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