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I'm sorry, but your text game is complete shit. You seem like you take things said here too seriously...what the hell is up with you not responding to her for five days and then getting FAR FAR FAR too mushy/emotional on a woman you haven't even taken out yet? Saying you're available every weekend this month is basically saying I have no life and am waiting for you to decide you want to go out with me. This girl took it easy on you, but most would have just stopped responding or called you creep…
/r/seduction01/12/14 05:40 PM
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You have it backwards. It's "Perfect is the enemy of good." Meaning, people will strive to make/obtain something perfect and in the pursuit of trying to reach perfection, end up a lot of times with nothing at all. Grass is always greener syndrome.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:05 PM
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You're not being genuine. Your interactions are not coming across as unique or emotional for that specific woman, and they can sense it.
/r/seduction25/02/14 04:34 PM
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I'll only go to places that have some kind of "activity" to do, I don't do bars where you just drink and stand around. I need a dance floor, a pool table, a shuffle board, something. I'm an introvert and have a pretty major case of clinically diagnosed ADHD. I don't spend all night in set, I need some recharge time even when I'm out. If there's nothing to do, I'll go crazy. In all this time going out alone, there is one thing more important than all the rest. Get there early. Chat up people as t…
/r/seduction12/02/14 05:24 PM
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She was leaving the bar shortly after we spoke because the night bar tender was coming on. I think I text her probably 30 minutes after getting her number. She text me after we hadn't talked again for a few days.
/r/seduction12/02/14 05:08 PM
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Thank you. Unless you're some celebrity or other social figure, game is always going to take the man approaching the women...always. I get approached and complimented a lot, but you have to look at it like this. Think about how often an attractive women gets hit on, now think about how many of those potential mates she's actually, genuinely attracted to. Flip it for an attractive man. Regardless of his attractiveness level compared to an attractive female, he will get hit on far, far less...whic…
/r/seduction12/02/14 04:57 PM
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Way to simplify what people so often preach here, "inner game." I'm confident, I dress nicely, I treat myself well...I have built a good life. People always say that once you have yourself where you want to be, "running game"/"doing pickup"/"pulling women" becomes infinetly easier. I don't have myself where I want to be by my standards, but I will say that every minute of time I invest in myself pays dividends with women. This is a small example of that. I don't have FR after FR of women fawning…
/r/seduction12/02/14 04:36 PM
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I can't help it if people don't believe what I post. Like I said in another FR of mine, I'm not here to make up stories. I'm out all the time.
/r/seduction12/02/14 07:08 AM
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Sure...couple random face pics sent over.
/r/seduction11/02/14 11:34 PM
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Thank you. I'll continue to post field reports of things I find interesting or noteworthy.
/r/seduction11/02/14 06:48 PM
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Stop thinking, right now. Stop. Stop wondering what if, what's going to happen, what she's going to think, just stop. You're spending more time thinking about approaching someone than it would take to approach 20 women. Just go do it. Then do it again. And again.
/r/seduction11/02/14 05:53 PM
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You will NEVER get rid of that feeling if you don't just start approaching. Ever. You HAVE to talk to girls to feel more comfortable talking to girls, there is short cut around it.
/r/seduction11/02/14 05:47 PM
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I'm just going from personal experience. I get told fairly often that I look like Adam Levine or Paul Rudd, and it makes me cringe to think that I could walk up to some girl and ask her who I look like. When you strip away the celebrity angle here, what you're essentially saying is "My friend said I was attractive, do you think I'm attractive?". No one's going to ask if they look like an ugly celebrity.
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:20 PM
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Like everyone else said, you should have gone. You're basically conveying to her that one, you're too intimidated by her and her friends to show up, and two...you're not that spontaneous of a person. You're asking about building trust over TEXT....that's not going to happen. You could have shown up and had a great time. You could have shown up and realized this chick is bat shit crazy and you don't want to be around her. You could have shown up and fucked this girl. You could have shown up, said…
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:12 PM
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Don't do this. It's validation seeking behavior and lame. No one but you really gives a shit if you look like someone else.
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:06 PM
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Just dumped her boyfriend. Chances are her and her boyfriend are still talking, she's dealing with that relationship ending/deciding on whether or not she's going to keep seeing him. She's probably also being approached by all her guy "friends" who have been waiting on a chance for her to be single. And then there's you. I don't know what your intentions are with her, but reading your post gives off the vibe that you'd like to date her. She's not interested in dating at all right now.
/r/seduction03/02/14 07:14 PM
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Two options. Be direct, "I notice you keep flirting with me, why don't you just ask me out already?" Or, freeze her out. Don't be rude, just don't play back into her little game of attention whoring.
/r/seduction03/02/14 06:34 PM
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Personally, I don't bring up other women I'm seeing in conversation myself. If she asks, just be completely honest but short. She wants to hang out, but you already have plans for Friday? Just say you're busy for Friday, if she asks why, simply say you have a date and leave it at that...don't act ashamed or worried, just state it very matter of fact. Anytime someone I am seeing asks about other women, I talk about it in a nonchalant way...like of course I'm seeing/talking to other women, aren't …
/r/seduction03/02/14 06:31 PM
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Look up the Apocalypse opener. It's the hailmary of "pick up" lines.
/r/seduction03/02/14 05:34 PM
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Because Tinder requires a lot less investment that OkC. I'd also venture to guess a lot of girls feel better about being on Tinder than a "dating" website. You also have the girls that installed it, swiped through a few guys, and never log into it again.
/r/seduction03/02/14 04:48 PM
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If you're looking to date a girl, or keep her in your life in some capacity, then you can't always be so apathetic to her or your feelings towards her. I am a strong believer in creating a "she needs you more than you need her" MINDSET, but that mindset is easy to establish, especially early on. Once she feels that way, further reminders will just make her feel insecure and unsure of your feelings for her. Be sweet, be nice, be romantic, just don't let her consume you.
/r/seduction01/02/14 12:38 AM
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It's really as simple as defining your boundaries and your morals and sticking to them. If you're not OK with hooking up with a drunk girl, then don't. Personally, I won't sleep with a girl that I think is too drunk to make decisions she would otherwise not make when she was sober.
/r/seduction31/01/14 09:24 PM
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Ask yourself why you would want to keep a conversation going with someone that isn't receptive. Guiding and persisting with the interaction is fine, but why are you going to force a conversation neither one of you is really interested in having?
/r/seduction31/01/14 07:09 PM
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If you dead set on taking her out to dinner, do something fun before hand. Some type of activity, create some sort of common bond between you two. You'll have plenty to talk about, you'll get an idea of her personality, her interests, etc.. Be playful, ask her to try your food, ask to try hers, tell her to feed you. Make jokes with the waiter, tell them it's your first date and ask them if you think your kids would be cute.
/r/seduction31/01/14 07:08 PM
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Is this /r/relationships or /r/seduction? If you want to be more than her friend, tell her. Be prepared to completely ruin the friendship if she says no. If you're not prepared for that, go date other girls and forget all about her. Maybe she'll come around.
/r/seduction31/01/14 07:01 PM
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I'm going to try and explain this in a way that makes sense, sometimes I have a hard time getting my point across. Most women, at least those you're interested in approaching, will very likely be talking to/fucking multiple guys at once. They probably have a favorite guy out of that group, maybe one they're waiting on, etc.. She also has her group of friends/girlfriends that she wants to go out with, spend time with. So when you're asking for a Friday date, or a Saturday date for a day one or tw…
/r/seduction31/01/14 06:58 PM
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Missing out on some strange isn't a reason to compromise my beliefs. I have slept with hundreds of women since my divorce, one thing I've come to realize is that if staying true to yourself means you miss out on getting laid every once in a while, oh well. Pussy is not the be all end all. Now...had this been a woman I wanted to have a relationship with, that's an entirely different story. Everything changes once emotions get involved.
/r/seduction31/01/14 06:11 PM
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Who's angry? It's about knowing what you will and won't put up with. About knowing that even though it may not seem like it at the time, there are so many other options and choices than the one you have in front of you. Be it food, girls, plans, jobs, friends, anything. You don't have to pick the low hanging fruit just because it's easy. So even though this was a sure thing, an easy pull, I didn't want it anymore. I was turned off by her actions.
/r/seduction31/01/14 06:02 PM
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I'm not approaching it negatively or positively. I have literally no emotional involvement for one night stands like this. I'm not invested in the slightest, and as soon as it's no longer something I want to put up with, I'm out. It'd be no different for a girl that got too drunk, or started some stupid high school drama while I'm out with her. I'm not here to take care of her. I'm here to make her pussy wet and fuck her like a stranger. I'm very patient, but I have my hard limits with what I'll…
/r/seduction31/01/14 05:55 PM
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Of course. But it's not like I'm begging to fuck this girl. It's not like this is some rare occurrence that happens and if I don't take her up on the offer I'll have to wait weeks or months for another chance to have sex. It should have been 10 minutes, max, from the bar to her house. Instead it took closer to two hours between following her, her wrecking, going back to where she actually lived, figuring out how to get into her place without going back to the car to get her keys. I didn't want t…
/r/seduction31/01/14 05:05 PM
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Imagine this...you're sitting at a nice restaurant, waiting for a table. They tell you it's going to be a thirty minute wait. So you sit there, getting more hungry by the minute. After 45 minutes, you finally get seated at a table. You're ready to eat, you can't fucking wait to order. The waitress takes 20 minutes to come over, and when she does she spills your waters all over the table. You get up and fucking leave. You don't sit there and eat still because you just put in all this work, you le…
/r/seduction31/01/14 05:01 PM
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Good, because I'm not trying to sell anything. This sub is full of guys trying to crack the proverbial code of "pickup". I'm a guy who's been out at least a few nights a week going on three years now. Dive bars, clubs, house parties, random girls on the street, yada, yada, yada. I feel like I have a TON of real world experience to share, and if people don't want to believe what I have to say, then I won't post. Maybe I should make my next FR about the girl a buddy and I tag teamed in the handica…
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:49 PM
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Yup. I'm not her baby sitter, I'm not her friend. I made sure she was physically OK, and left her to deal with the fallout. It was a bar hookup, a one night stand, it shouldn't have be this hard.
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:43 PM
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Nothing. We never exchanged numbers, I don't remember her name. I saw the friend of hers out a couple times, we shared a "wtf happened" moment and that was that. Haven't really thought about it since except to tell the story.
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:39 PM
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God no. I know this may be hard to believe for some people, but there comes a point in time that pussy becomes more trouble than it's worth. That time came when she wrecked her fucking car. I have no problem walking away from a sure thing when I've had enough, she was one girl, one night. I'm not here to brag, so I'll simply say that taking a girl home the same night I meet her has become so trivial that I'm unwilling to put up with drama and excessive trouble just to get my dick wet.
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:37 PM
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I'm too old and too busy to come on here to think up fairy-tale stories for fake internet points. This was close to a year ago, and if you think this is made up then I better not even bother posting some of my other nights out.
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:32 PM
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You don't need to be the most attractive guy there if your only objective is to get her. You need to be the most attractive guy to HER that's willing to show her she's the most attractive woman to YOU. Don't try and emulate the drunk "alpha", as you'll just come across as awkward. Be friendly, but be sexual with her. Let it be known to her that you are attracted to her through your actions. Start with grabbing her hand and leading her somewhere, try and isolate her from everyone else before maki…
/r/seduction30/01/14 11:52 PM
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Are you serious right now? She's obviously showed massive interest in you, couple that with the fact that she's willing to tell you she just wants to fuck, and you have yourself a FWB waiting for you to make the move. Tell her you want to hang out, invite her over for a movie, fuck her. Tell her that was fun and you'd like to do it again. Fuck her some more.
/r/seduction27/01/14 10:21 PM
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I have "Send me your cheesiest pickup line" as the only thing on my bio. It makes it easy to respond back with one of your own, start a little bit of playful banter about how bad hers is, or open her with one yourself. I've had 200+ matches since I joined three days ago, swiping right to everyone. No way I have the patience or time for that....so be cautious if you're in a highly populated area. And yes, I'm bragging.
/r/seduction08/11/13 05:41 PM
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There was no other choice but to be direct at this point. Things were starting to fizzle out due to me being a slacktard. We had conversations and had hung out more than once before this exchange happened. I knew EXACTLY what she meant when she said what she did. The point of my convo with her wasn't to tell her I wanted to fuck her, it was to tell her I don't want a relationship with her. Whatever else comes from it at that point is gravy in my book. You're completely missing it anyway. She did…
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:50 AM
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Just make them known before the relationship turns into something you don't want it to. Early on is good, but don't be a creeper and tell her you want to fuck her after talking for 5 minutes...unless of course it's obvious that she's down for such an adventure.
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:15 AM
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/r/seduction07/09/12 08:12 AM
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I wanted to fuck her...which is the case for just about every good looking girl I meet. We hung out tonight, watched a movie, had a little make out session. She has some serious issues from other boyfriends that are preventing her from taking it any further. And that's totally cool, she's a good chick with a lot of friends, a perfect person to have in my social circle. You don't need to fuck every girl you run game on. It's about forming a relationship, and sometimes that includes sex.
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:11 AM
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Holy shit, sir. You friend zoned yourself, don't tell her you're cool with just being friends if you're not actually cool with just being friends. Women like to be around harmless guys that they can call their "friends" when they know damn well you want more. They know you won't leave, because there's always some hope inside you that she'll see how wonderful you are and how much you like her and blah blah blah. You have two options: 1.) Walk the fuck away from this girl. She's being self serving…
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:09 PM
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I'm 29, she's 33...this isn't a matter of asking her "out" like we're in high school. Women at this age either see you as a friend, someone they would fuck, someone they would date, or someone they don't want to be around. If they think you want one thing, and they don't, they'll just keep blowing you off until you get the hint. Some, not very many, but some are forward enough to just tell it like it is.
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:00 PM
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I've made it clear that I want her in my bed prior to this, and we've had some pretty serious make out sessions already. Her hang up appears to be the fact that she thought I wanted a relationship out of this.
/r/seduction06/09/12 08:28 PM
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A simple, "I'm not interested in dating right now, I just want to meet people I can have a good time with." would do. Steer the conversation towards relationships and casually mention that, she'll know what it means and either she's on the same page and the interaction will continue to mature, or she won't be and you can move on to the next.
/r/seduction06/09/12 08:12 PM
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No, because I do have intentions. I want to fuck her with a chance of turning it into a FWB type situation. Obviously the first time we meet I'm not just going to come out and say, "Hey, let's be fuck buddies". I shouldn't have been so passive about things with her, I knew very quickly that she would never be someone I would date, but someone that I would certainly fuck. I had ample opportunity the times we've hung out to make that known. I didn't, but I continued to try and see her, which in he…
/r/seduction06/09/12 08:11 PM
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I would have realized that the joking she started after you told her your number was probably her way of showing you it was a turn on. Who gives a shit if you've only been with three women, she been with 33 guys and wants to fuck YOU. Take that and run with it, look at it as a positive thing.
/r/seduction06/09/12 06:39 PM
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You and me both...even if nothing comes of it tonight, at least I learned not to let this happen in the future.
/r/seduction06/09/12 06:24 PM
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Word for word what was said this morning. We've had conversations prior to this, in which I wasn't clear what I wanted from her. Just lots of back and forth about random shit...a lesson I won't soon forget. Frame your expectations, let them be known, proceed from there. Never be afraid to just walk away if you're not on the same page.
/r/seduction06/09/12 06:12 PM
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