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Lol gotta learn laugh at yourself mate. You are what I would call an Alpha of Betas. Cringing? Too close to home to hear a dude has girl that actually likes them enough to talk to them? Feel like cuck knowing another dude got in with his crush because another bro helped out his highschool homie? Tbh you'd get more love from the ladies and respect from the men if you ernestly put yourself out there - instead of hiding behind the "lol look at that weirdo cringe lol omfg lmfao" fascade. The only pe…
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:25 AM
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Coming soon to r/legaladvice...
/r/seduction26/09/19 08:23 PM
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Twas what I was going for lol
/r/seduction26/09/19 08:21 PM
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Lol. When a bus is packed and she saves a seat but her eyes follow him as he goes past. Then waits expectanly - then maybe the fool should say hi. Honestly I think you need to grapple with the concept that guys can be interested in girls AND duh duh duhhhh... girls can be interested in certain guys. My personal opinion is that you're angry because YOU wouldn't have done anything if you had been me. In fact I doubt you would have the courage to sit next to her even as sbe offers you a seat.
/r/seduction26/09/19 08:21 PM
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Haha thanks man. I have shelved project PUA/dating coach for now. But I still enjoy using my skills to create happy moments like this when I can :)
/r/seduction26/09/19 08:59 AM
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https://youtu.be/r5EXKDlf44M sometimes you walk alone
/r/seduction25/04/19 01:39 AM
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A lot of commenters say you have to work out too or why not run or work out? Imo most guys have at least something to them but cutting your body fat is the key to looking good. If you are like me and have muscle but get a little fat - you look fatter than you really are. So good solid paced walking/power walking/jogging is the key to looking lean and toned. But when I say walking I mean walking with purpose not casually. When I walk for example it isn't unusual for me to feel the burn or blister…
/r/seduction25/04/19 12:15 AM
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At night spiders build webs everywhere and come out to play. Snakes keep to themselves mostly, except the red belly black on my porch last week. But tonight I killed one spider that was in my living room. I walked through one web while walking. And my phone got covered in a different spider web while taking a pic. Oh and I had to shake maybe 10 individual bugs off my spare keys when going inside. Thank god it is nearly winter and the cold means there are hardly any creepy crawlies about.
/r/seduction24/04/19 08:19 PM
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You need to up your walking to include urbex/climbing too. Jump fences, climb things. Don't trespass but there are plenty of places you shouldn't climb but aren't not allowed to climb. That is good for the core. Could always gym too. But walking/jogging/distance is always good aye.
/r/seduction24/04/19 07:14 PM
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Eh game is a little different for everyone I wouldn't say you are 100% correct with your advice all the time (btw I have never actually read your comments I am just generalising). But if it is correct for you it probs will be for others... so it sucks you get downvoted to hell for giving advice. So I getcha. Telling people what they need to hear as opposed to want to hear can be thankless
/r/seduction24/04/19 07:12 PM
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upvoted hah!
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:44 PM
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Mods idk if anyone will bother adding to this... but I appreciate you
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:25 PM
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Instructions not clear: am become Christopher Walking
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:24 PM
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Start at your own pace. A combination of increasing fitness and "fuck this i wanna get where I am going" as you walk more will result in regular walking becoming fast walking. tldr first one then the other
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:22 PM
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I'd say it is endearing yes
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:20 PM
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how many miles is 4.8726 km?
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:10 PM
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Well say I have to travel 3 km and the bus arrives in 20 mins and takes 10 mins to get to my stop. That means I only have to cover 1km every 10 mins. The average person walks at 4km/h. So the average person would take 45 mins. Bus takes 30 mins. But I walk a lot, so I can go 50% faster than the average person. Not that hard to do haha.
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:08 PM
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cheers man glad you liked it :)
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:07 PM
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Haha cheers man I am glad you liked it and I managed to defy expectations in a good way. That's the thing I have come to appreciate about seddit over the years. It is dudes looking to be better, and by extension more attractive. So in amongst all the game n shit users need some solid life advice and self care advice. Get fit get more attractive. Get healthy. Look good. Feel good. Be a more positive person. Be pleasant to be around. The ladies will follow naturally. You'll also make more friends.…
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:06 PM
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Public transport isn't shitty. I am strong. Your comment is starting with the assumption that this I walk because it is the least worst option. If you approach a girl do you want to be "the least worst option" in the room? No. I started out slower. Weaker. But I kept pushing myself until I rose above. Don't take the easy road all the time, sometimes you gotta carve out the better route. Even if it is harder at first. Something something don't take a passive approach to life.
/r/seduction24/04/19 04:45 PM
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erotic. legit wrote this because on the tram I checked out chicks before i caught myself checking out my own legs in the reflection
/r/seduction24/04/19 04:37 PM
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4-16km a day three to five days a week my man. sounds like a lot but it isnt just try a minimum of 3km a day and stick with it!
/r/seduction24/04/19 02:22 PM
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It depends... sometimes i smoke when I walk. Try to aim for 8km per cigarette ;) You an aussie? go onto google maps and pic a route. Bonus points if you can find an oval with a non-offensive chain link fence or something to climb. make it half on path and half on grass. Mix it up to avoid trudging along bored. That's what I do. Like don't break into somewhere but if there is a low wall with an entrance go in the hard way.
/r/seduction24/04/19 12:19 PM
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wait is that because I used the metric system or because americans all ride rascals instead of walking? wait... everyone who isn't American? I am Aussie and we are just as fat and lazy as any american is.
/r/seduction24/04/19 10:49 AM
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this dude gets it. literally take whatever happened to you in the last little while and use it as an opener. good shit man. whatcha study? I do biochem/physiology/neuroscience myself. What was the chemical/fish substance and what was it for?
/r/seduction24/04/19 10:37 AM
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yeah man... endless benefits
/r/seduction24/04/19 10:07 AM
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this hurt to read - go find a new girl to hit on and leave this one alone
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:15 AM
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Gonna have to disagree beckoning someone to you is not an advanced social skill. Yeah the rest is harder but practice makes perfect. alright u/recyclablebanthas what are your thoughts on gaming a group by getting some old ipods together and holding a spontaneous ipod party
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:15 AM
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How do you figure she will think you're talking to someone else? I don't know if I can fit a van in my pocket. Candy is so overated. So instead I'll bring some ipods and headphones and invite some lose women from the bar to join me for an ipod party.
/r/seduction08/04/19 05:16 AM
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Just frustrated. Pickup is about self-improvement, the thing is that after years of all this for me it is just about helping others. I enjoy it. The problem is no matter what I do or anyone else does - everyone has to learn their own lessons in their own time. The basics of all this have existed as game since the 90's. Before that with Casanova. None of this is new. What this is all about is passing on the torch, rewriting and reposting the same stuff so that the next gen can come onto these for…
/r/seduction07/04/19 06:32 PM
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Starter comment: If you are nervous and thinking but what do I do now that she is sitting here. asking for her name and shaking her hand would be a good start. K. But how do I convey interest and get her to view me as a potential love interest? it's all good and well getting her to come over but not all of us know what to do next man. Well the only way she could make eye contact is if she was looking at you and you're looking at her. She knows full well the only thing you know about her is she i…
/r/seduction07/04/19 01:10 PM
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I've seen a lot of people struggle with the fabled abundance mentality... it requires abundance. But that doesn't mean you cannot achieve it, it just isn't easy. You can do it boys.
/r/seduction01/03/19 12:10 PM
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awww cheers man appreciate your support!
/r/seduction01/03/19 09:54 AM
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Can't release it man. Some say it is so hot that it could set fire to the atmosphere - would also violate a number of international treaties. Instead I have to spit this shit bit by bit so that it ain't to hot to handle and instead is a just lit.
/r/seduction01/03/19 08:57 AM
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Haha well it wasn't me. At one point I played with the idea of rapping because due to that street life I could relate to the music. I have the ability to write the lyrics but I'm also tone death and have white boy rythm
/r/seduction01/03/19 08:56 AM
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... is that a compliment? I am a bit afraid to ask that but whatever I gots to know
/r/seduction01/03/19 08:54 AM
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Thanks man I hope to one day be recognized as the Dr Seuss of pickup coaches. Wish me luck!
/r/seduction26/02/19 04:37 PM
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It will happen with time. Relationships and breakups can be a rollercoaster of emotion. There will be highs and lows. In the weeks coming out of it the highs are high and the lows are low. Often people struggle and want it to just end, as you are asking now "how do i fix this?" the truth is you don't. The moments of optimism will tell you that you have finally moved on. While the depression will make it feel like it will last forever. The key is to accept that this will end in the medium term. I…
/r/seduction26/02/19 02:57 PM
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why not? there are masters competitions, masters degrees, masters of martial arts... I think given everything I can safely say I have mastered my game. Nothing is ever perfect, but it is close enough that I am quite comfortable with my statement
/r/seduction26/02/19 09:16 AM
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Probs not but if that is how they behave i probs dodged a bullet
/r/seduction26/02/19 09:14 AM
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I want to tell you that you are doing an awesome job! The fact you asked about dealing with insecurities rather than overcoming your race means you know it is all in the mind - from this I can tell you'll be just fine man proud of you.
/r/seduction25/02/19 08:49 AM
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long and the short of it make a decision and take an action. If it is anxiety holding you back then your options are 1) give up entirely or 2) first I will overcome my anxiety. Pick the latter option. Boil your choices down to a couple options and take action guys.
/r/seduction19/02/19 05:26 PM
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Uh I am actually. But not to the extent that it will be my thesis for my phd
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:37 AM
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How is gathering data from as many sources as possible, before hypothesising and opening your views up to criticism "unscientific"?
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:32 AM
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It is ongoing so to speak and I have outlined my approach in my post. Of course l am learning the best way to gather this data as I go. This far I have a rough set of questions and interview women, I let them guide the conversation and tell me what they feel is relevant. Then I take what I have gotten and analyse it for any trends I can find, then hypothesise on what the possible thought processes underly the trends I observe.
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:29 AM
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Simple. I use as many sources as I can at random. I read posts on reddit, I post asking for advice, I post asking to be proved wrong, I cold approach women at random during the day and at night, I ask women I know, I ask men what they think. I use every source possible to get as many views as possible.
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:24 AM
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yeah and that is prone to selection bias. hence the majority of what I look at is face to face interviews with reddit as well - I bet I could find 100's of anti-vax websites/posts on the internet that doesn't mean the majority of sources are anti-vax so to speak.
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:18 AM
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I mean as a percentage with random sampling
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:09 AM
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will defs hit you up when i have had time to hash it all out. thanks bruv!
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:07 AM
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Not what I am saying at all. What I am saying is there is a real difference in how each gender approaches self-improvement and recognition of problems and the rates at which it happens. Very few men cite womens behaviour as the problem with their dating life. Whereas the majority of women cite men as the main problem with their love life. I'm saying women have a tendency to blame men. Whereas men tend to blame... their race for example (but the male still views it as a problem with himself, wher…
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:05 AM
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Ah look if it didn't go well something went wrong. The important thing is that whether is that when something doesn't pan out you look at what could have been the problem and try something slightly different next time. Don't tell OP to do the exact same thing over and over until a chick it happens to work with comes along. Most guys don't get that many opportunities, women are the choosers and place a real owness on men to step up so to speak. The important thing is not to take it personally bec…
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:01 AM
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I have been engaging with men on the problems they face in their love lives for years now I don't need more data on that front. That is why. You must appreciate that it is the female thought processes and problems which are new to me - this post is my first results/impressions.
/r/seduction19/02/19 05:41 AM
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I don't just mean my clients when I go out I talk to everyone I meet. Men and women. Purely random sampling has given me this view
/r/seduction19/02/19 05:28 AM
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let me rephrase: I already have a wealth of experience and am familiar with guys thought processes and reactions from coaching. Compared to women so far if is night and day. I don't have the time to do a full blown proper study as this is a pursuit of personal knowledge as part of my coaching - the "study" is a means to an end but not the priority, so it is informal and supplemented with prior experience and discussion with peopld such as yourself. If that makes sense?
/r/seduction19/02/19 05:17 AM
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Dude you are fucking awesome! I cannot thank you enough for this comment - you are awesome. I'll admit my sample size is only about 20 "interviews" so far in my rather informal study, which I am aware isn't enough but I was starting to ask myself if I wanted to continue down this road given the results so far so I figured I'd post what I have. I hadn't thought to google other coaches because I try to make my work original if that makes sense, I take pride in that personally even if it slows my p…
/r/seduction19/02/19 05:12 AM
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That's a big statement to make. That may be your experience but it isn't mine.
/r/seduction19/02/19 05:00 AM
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It isn't the same in my opinion. I think you fail to appreciate the significance of the difference that is going on here. I went in with the "we're all human that is the nature of the beast etc." but it became evident very quickly that there is a real fundamental difference in thought processes going on here depending on gender.
/r/seduction19/02/19 04:37 AM
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It is hard to explain but understanding and "manipulating" social situations and the underlying thought processes is my bread and butter... I went into this with good intentions and saw what is quite possibly the ugliest side of women. But to be clear I don't think women blame men for all their problems. In this case I only surveyed dating related stuff, in which I'd say 70% of women blame or attack men. Look at the comment below by u / confidentgirl (hoping not to tag them because it is just an…
/r/seduction19/02/19 01:15 AM
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What if she gets better at finding less creepy guys and identifying the time wasters? two ways women could do this without approaching first. But finding less creepy guys IS approaching first. Yeah well you catch more bar flies with honey then vinegar... something something attraction is more than approaching first. edit: I am unhappy because of how sexist, rude, and entitled women are when it comes to this topic. Shocked by their complete lack of self-determination or agency as well. Just "I'll…
/r/seduction19/02/19 12:33 AM
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Jesus christ: "I will say that there are a lot of women who lack the skills to engage men appropriately" my faith is being restored... "but that also applies to men. My issue with men is that when they... they turn into assholes... really takes I blow... I would think if they... then they would do their best to keep their options content." and there it goes again, falling into category one. Do you see what I am talking about? The majority of all this is putting an owness on men.
/r/seduction19/02/19 12:10 AM
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Haha listen man there is a big difference between being able to recognise and predict behaviours, and understanding the thought processes underlying those behaviours.
/r/seduction18/02/19 11:59 PM
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yeah man. tried that - same answers either way
/r/seduction18/02/19 04:27 PM
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If it was a wrong number then they wouldn't have gone with the initial txt exchange. She gave you a chance and you messed up - learn from it. My advice is txt a bit then call her. If you actually speak. It is much harder to dehumanise you to the point she simply gives you a frankly rude lie to shut you down (coherent lies aren't hard to come up with let's be real, or even saying eh I've changed my mind). The words may be empty but the message is clear. Never ask her out over txt that's my person…
/r/seduction18/02/19 05:46 AM
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exactly how is it against the rules to call out toxic attitudes and bad advice? I don't really understand the criticism edit: looked at the rules. I am not making fun of "friendzoned losers" or FA guys whatever that is. I'm making a point about how ridiculous some advice is if you really think about it. The guidelines say such things "do nothing to help" those guys. I'd counter I am helping them by steering them away from poor mindsets and advice.
/r/seduction18/02/19 05:35 AM
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I'm not saying this advice never works. It might get you laid but it is going to lead to a lot of problems going forwards. Some of you will do it. Some of you will get the chick you wanted, others will find new chicks. The thing that is constant whenever this plays out: it always ends with the relationship screwed up and the guy ends up emotionally numb at best, miserable at worst.
/r/seduction18/02/19 05:09 AM
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Get her number then call her. No guy ever calls a guy, ever. I do it all the time and girls always say it is "weird" but it isn't bad. The fact is once she actually talks to you - you'll be human and you can communicate so much better using voice. Use that conversation to organise hanging out.
/r/seduction17/02/19 02:49 AM
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Why do you feel they are weird or bad? Some games or tricks are disingenuous for sure, but no magic trick is genuine magic but that alone doesn't make it bad. I'll admit that this opener doesn't feel normal or natural - but I'd argue there is nothing bad or disingenuous about this one in particular. Would you?
/r/seduction15/02/19 09:12 AM
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thoughts in the content itself?
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:05 AM
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I've tried that however a problem i have found is that when I post a text post with a link... it can get downvoted to hell because people feel I have bait n switched them with a post that looks like advice and has a link. I agree with you on putting a description on the reddit end of things though.
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:01 AM
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ty for the feedback I'll add a description in the comments of the next link I post
/r/seduction15/02/19 03:46 AM
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If you find my post about how to start a conversation (a big written guide) I use the game to reach the point where I change topic. So I will play the game - change the topic chat and turn the opener into a general conversation Playing it from there depends on the girl. Some girls I go for the number close or kiss close quickly. The most recent girl I used it on, I didn't play the game with her until 10 minutes into the convo and after I played the game that I organised for us to go get coffee s…
/r/seduction15/02/19 01:32 AM
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Yeah I skip the compliments and light conversation, 90% of the time I go straight to it exactly as demonstrated in the video from the first word I say to her. In fairness in the 300-400 times I have run it sometimes I do chat with them beforehand or shoot them a compliment to mix it up - but for the most part I go straight to "hey do you have a minute, for a game I made it takes 60 seconds..."
/r/seduction15/02/19 01:00 AM
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I use it for cold approaching during day game with total strangers. Promise it isn't too much haha
/r/seduction14/02/19 11:53 PM
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Thoughts gents?
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:40 PM
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Upvoted invoking fight club - what a brilliant film/book in every single way. A violent environment certainly does wonders for a persons perspective and heirachy of what is and isn't scary. Also left me with PTSD so not a total win - but for old approaching it really does wonders. r/shittylifeprotips "get into a fight". r/lifeprotips "deal with your shit in a healthy manner."
/r/seduction14/02/19 12:34 AM
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go to the wiki at the end you will find a number of sources. this is free so I am not so inclined as to write a journal article.
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:00 PM
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haha indeed just joshing yah my man
/r/seduction11/02/19 06:21 AM
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You don't have to lie to me I don't judgd ;)
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:36 AM
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to get one dad?
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:17 AM
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What I used to do was go to the grocery store. The girl in this story was on exchange and was only in country for 3 months and I ended up dating for 3 months. On our first date I took to the grocery store so we could buy frozen pizza before going to watch netflix and she started laughing and said "for our 1st date you are taking me grocery shopping!" So I said to her "well of course at best we have 3 months together, due to a lack of time I am moving things between us forwards to domestic couple…
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:15 AM
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Im solo so I got a feeling Im going to be the weird guy in the bar on his phone for the first week or so. To be honest Ive been out twice solo over those six months nervous as hell each time... Not going to lie. Im nervous and feel overwhelmed... Check out my post here, this is the process you are going through The Most Effective Way to Eliminate Approach Anxiety The danger in using flooding as a method is that the girl might be super hostile which could reinforce the fear you have of women. I d…
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:04 AM
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... that situation? oh nonononono no NO. Unless you have a better plan do it. I believe in you. Plus she can't really turn a cheek if you say that. She either has to reject you and stop wasting your time or kiss you. Don't be going to all the effort you have if she just sees you as a friend but wont say it.
/r/seduction11/02/19 04:21 AM
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Well this should put a stop to those same old questions for about 36 hours
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:36 AM
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Last time I hung with a girl who gave me a fist bump after I went for a goodbye hug I said "wooow you gonna brozone me? you've had a boyfriend before right?" she said yeah of course, so I said "well then since it isn't like it is anyones first time, kiss?" and I got the kiss. Try that next time
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:44 AM
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my current go to opener is me: "pardon me do you have a minute?" her: what for? me: "Well I've got a question but it is a controversial question, related to my work so please be answer honestly, and please don't get mad at me for asking. I'll explain exactly why I ask after I ask, otherwise it might change your answer... yeah?" her: ok what is it me: "does being white give me an advantage in the dating game?" her: looks horrified I even asked then answers me: "right so I am a dating coach and on…
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:30 AM
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thanks man. any suggestions for topics or improvements to the next one?
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:16 AM
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yeah boy get back into it u/s4ndman1
/r/seduction11/02/19 01:36 AM
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yeah I kind of mention that don't I? Edit: google the theories I have named and you'll see there is a great deal of science behind all this
/r/seduction10/02/19 04:18 AM
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Look at my recent guide just the flowchart. She noticed and approached you. Then she found a reason to talk to you. But you didn't move it from work related convo to casual conversation, damn son you may be 78% sure she is into you. Now not to be a dick but here comes the kick up the ass you need: I am 100% sure that she has done all the work so far... I am also 100% certain it you don't put in effort she'll lose interest. Would you keep trying with a chick that you approached then she ignored y…
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:53 AM
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Solid post very nice. Confidence: You knew this would be here. Confidence is key, I asked the chick from earlier today to describe me with one word and she chose "confident". She asked me if I just approach people at random and my response was "yeah I am doing it right now aren't I?" she then gives me a look as if I am stupid... Fear of rejection: This one is an exstension of my prior point: You can not be afraid of rejection "Surely you get approached by guys sometimes while you are out cause y…
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:55 PM
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Designed this for those of you who struggle with cold approaching. This afternoon whilst taking a break from writing this I field tested it. After walking out my front door to go for a jog I managed to cold approach a chick I'd never met before who was a solid 7.5/10, chat with her for a bit, get her details, organised to netflix and chill at my place next week, then got the kiss close and was home again within the hour. That was my only approach of the afternoon so thus far this system seems to…
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:22 PM
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I don't think overthinking is a bad thing. What if the difference in mindset is guys who don't approach overthink "why am I not good enough" whilst guys who do overthink about"how can I do better next time, I want perfection" both are clearly aware of an invisible standard they'll never reach in their own mind and neither feels good enough. It is just that lets the bar hold him back, while the winners push it ahead of them.
/r/seduction07/02/19 11:25 AM
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Eh I was just trying to make it easier reading with the travel metaphor. I do appreciate the feedback though. The message I hoped to convey was: humans have a lot of behavioural quirks depending on all sorts of divides. sometimes vastly different people do similar things for totally different reasons. similar people will do things differently depending on the day. Guys are afraid to approach girls as if they are confusing and scary, because they don't make sense to them. Take the approach that h…
/r/seduction07/02/19 10:37 AM
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... do you not see the morale of the story? edit: added an edit to my post does that clarify?
/r/seduction07/02/19 09:07 AM
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It is normal to lose interest over time. But not to the extent you're describing. One lesson I learnt the hard way is that sexual compatibility is a must, being a great girl isn't enough just like being hot isn't enough. I'd set a time limit personally and give yourself some weeks or months to give it time and work on it. After that take old yeller out back and do the right thing
/r/seduction03/02/19 04:03 AM
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Bro you are a fucking legend for doing that. This is the powerplay of the century - I am beyond proud I am so impressed by this. If I ever write a book on pickup or make vlogs etc etc would you mind if I include this tale, you are an example to us all!
/r/seduction30/01/19 06:23 AM
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As far as carrying 90% of the conversation goes I agree you do have to carry it but that doesn't mean talking 90% of the time. That means introducing 90% of the conversation topics, asking 90% of the questions, you have to get her talking 90% of the time - the better you get at it the more you can carry a conversation while talking less. I suspose if I think about it this method does work - as it is what I do if I use a story opener. However, I also have openers I designed to keep it 50/50. Or i…
/r/seduction30/01/19 02:47 AM
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Oh I definitely feel you and I get the mindset for me though since I am out that often (2 or 3 nights a week) if I don't do what I like I burn out super quick. fav opener?
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:25 AM
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Eh dancefloor is not my scene at all. Fun to try it and prove a point but no desire to go back to it. Now chatting up girls at the bar or smoking area... that is my scene. How about you? preferences
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:05 AM
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Nah not a 3some haha. Just pashing on the dancefloor with nothing but eye contact and confidence
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:02 AM
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From an old post of mine. Dance floor was not (and still isn't my scene) but I had demons to deal with and forced it because I had to do it at least once. TlDr is going from never having grinded on a girl to making out with two at once with one simple tip - eye contact. "So the recent attraction manifesto was posted and once point i saw was about how breaking eye contact kills tension. I thought this was bs but I was forced out by mates tonight and thought fuck it let's give it a go. My recent s…
/r/seduction29/01/19 07:46 AM
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Love it man thanks for posting!
/r/seduction29/01/19 07:39 AM
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This is my point exactly! Different advantages and disadvantages for different people. Thank you!
/r/seduction29/01/19 02:41 AM
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Look I advocate that "looks don't matter" but I am working under the assumption you maintain your appearance. If you are fat obviously you should lose weight for looks and health. If you have acne get that shit treated. If you have greasy hair wash that shit. Dress well, clean your clothes etc. This shit is common sense... But very very very few people are truly ugly. If I say looks don't matter that means do what you can. Groom yourself then forget about it. Not literal "looks don't play any ro…
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:32 AM
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That fucking breaks my heart man. My graduating high school class had, for example: English, Australian (that is me Aussie as fuck), American, Vietnamese, Indian, Pakistani, Qatari, Saudi, Chinese, Mexican, Zimbabwean, Singaporean, Thai, Sri Lankan, Greek, Lebanese, Bengali and Macadonian kids taught by: Aussie, Sri Lankan, Iranian and English teachers... probs more but that is all I remember. I stand by my statement: THE COLOUR OF YOUR SKIN DOESN'T MATTER. If daddy's little princess is gonna be…
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:18 AM
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Hey man fat chicks need love too. Most dudes here can't hold a convo with a girl let alone fuck one. If he is good enough to have racial preference and get it - power to him. The paki 'kid' was actually a few years my senior haha. l don't honestly believe I got 100% of the truth a few people refused to answer my question outright or seemed shocked for sure. Ah the bouncers at my local haunt kinda know me I am more worried about her fiance haha... ha. But whatever it is all part and parcel of the…
/r/seduction28/01/19 05:26 AM
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That is why I asked couples, gay dudes, girls in groups with dudes and girls on their own and girls that weren't single. Because I was genuinely curious and I also told them that I coach pickup and to be honest cause that information will help me help others. Plus after 1000's of approaches, spending numerous nights out each week, studying and winging and taking pickup to an extreme I am pretty good at picking a liar or someone seeking my approval.
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:20 AM
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I am sick of hearing about how much harder it is if you aren't white or tall. The pakistani guy pulled just fine, my wing is half latino and is fine. My asian friends do just fine. My wing is 4 inches shorter than me and managed a 3some with some chicks, one of whom was taller than me. Sure I am not denying that it has an effect - but why fixate on what you can't change? I have never seen any of these things be an obstacle to success. The exception is if they believe that their height or race ma…
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:17 AM
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Ok since I am getting downvoted to be clear I was joking... that was just banter people.
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:15 AM
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Hmm it really didn't feel that way. I would say about 20-30% tops agreed it was an advantage. Maybe 2 or 3 person said it mattered a lot. But no one said it was the be all and end all. People acknowledged it is a factor - but it isnt that big of a deal. People often invoked height as a metaphor when I asked then saying "yeah it is kind of like being short it is a disadvantage but it isn't the only thing we care about."
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:11 AM
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Isn't that what I said... people have a variety of persuasions and as the paki guy said "sometimes it does make a difference" but that does not mean you will "never find a girl woe is me" come on. Didn't I ask a variety of genders, ethnicities, sexual persuasions, people of varying relationship status? That no your height and ethnicity or whatever might put off some people, but not all people. Therefore you should stop using it as an excuse.
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:02 PM
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There is just no convincing you people is there?
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:17 PM
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Good cause it isn't my wife said it is perfectly fine ;)
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:14 PM
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My dick isn't small. It isn't my fault this feels like throwing a hot dog down a hallway.
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:33 PM
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what is wrong with you? tell her like it is a fact but you are ok with it if relevant rather than pretending it isn't a thing.
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:16 PM
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Legit response: I didn't say they don't matter but they don't matter as much as you are making them out to. Everyone has a hard time the hottest guys I know struggled with relationships cause they never developed a personality. We all have problems - what makes us is how we tackle them. For example I was insecure about whether I was right in what I said, so I went out and did something about it. Now I am no longer insecure. Dick swinging: Lol I did about 5% of your total count in 3 hours on one …
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:09 PM
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By being honest even when it may be a bad thing. Eg tonight (5 hours ago) I was chatting with a chick but I am also sick atm... so I was supressing a cough and when I couldnt hold it any longer I leant back and coughed and said "yeah don't get too close to me I'm sick at the moment, I spent the last two minutes sitting here trying not to die in front of you" that is how it is done. It isn't ideal but at the same time I just let it happen and explained it with a laugh. Didn't try for the kiss jus…
/r/seduction27/01/19 06:26 PM
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Not the monetization just the assholes who can't pull and make it my problem. Went in field earlier with a mind to prove some points and I did - will post a field report soon
/r/seduction27/01/19 06:19 PM
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Ty I am hoping that humour makes it easier reading
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:23 AM
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glad you liked it man
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:22 AM
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Attention is not my problem. Read my comment in this thread. This post was never meant to be popular but I needed to vent.
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:21 AM
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It isn't that I got "rejected" it is just that I told people to hit me up and my phone just went all day. It was mental which is great right? But no one wants to pay me for actual coaching which is fine they don't have to. However, every single time I actually post advice that answers 99% of questions I get there is no response. Only bs "tough love" posts get a response. Which infuriates me because I work damn hard - people won't just read what I write. I have to say it to everyone individually.…
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:19 AM
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That is the last thing I want right now. Dealing with you people is shocking
/r/seduction27/01/19 08:34 AM
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yeah but it is easier to not worry when you fix bad habits, no?
/r/seduction27/01/19 06:17 AM
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Short answer: This is a forum of guys who actively try to get girls, even then most are shit. So it is pretty easy for them to dismiss most guys. Good news is once you aren't shit you really stand out. Long answer: Same reason that guys can be searching so hard but come up with a lack of success. Because of the fact that when searching you look for the best, once you've found it that is what you want. What plays in a guys favour is that in terms of sex a woman "gives herself to a man" whilst a m…
/r/seduction26/01/19 06:32 AM
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you realize this post was designed to weed out those who think that way. anyone who reads it to the end and thinks "that isn't me" won't be offended by it, it is a good way to see who among us have a little fight in them. same principle as a drill sgt at boot camp - try and break them, see who fights, see who gets back up and refuses to accept defeat.
/r/seduction26/01/19 05:37 AM
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Bonus: How not to be creepy copied from a PM I answered ​ It is probably your body language and tone of voice. To combat creepiness you need to come across as friendlier and more playful. ​ Learn this by looking up what a genuine smile looks like then practice in the mirror, practice looking quizzical, confused, angry, sad, happy, like you find something funny. Except when doing it focus on the way your facial muscles feel when you do it properly - that way when you do it in public without a mir…
/r/seduction26/01/19 05:27 AM
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Fair question Relationships and hookups aren't a problem for me I just hate escalating physically in a club environment. That said social skills, body language, subtle yet effective communication and the sort are my forte. So basically I developed god tier social skills to avoid having to do kino in a club environment. I don't do what I want, I make them do what I want, I hate rejection so why risk it when I can convince them to risk it with me?
/r/seduction26/01/19 05:05 AM
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Sounding like this makes what I say come across as less threatening while allowing me to remain direct. It's a legitimate strategy.
/r/seduction25/01/19 06:15 PM
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I agree. I tried posting legit advice earlier but it was totally ignored then I deleted it. So I took my own advice. I approached, I was rejected, I reflected, then adapted my style to fit the audience. The result was a lengthy drunk post about how much I resent most of seddit. And in come the comments and upvotes. I'm just giving the people what they want Don't hate the player hate the game
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:58 PM
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I mean as long as they are happy.
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:53 PM
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Haha of course. Then they get angry at me when I pull a fairy god mother and tell them "I didn't do anything it was hidden within you the entire time".
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:46 PM
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Of course I am coming off as a dick. I wrote an equally long post about legit strategies in game and it was ignored. So instead I decided to write a lengthy drunk post about how much I hate everyone in this sub. And it got a shit tonne of upvotes I took my own advice. I approached, I tried, I got rejected, I reflected, I gave seddit what it wanted. I don't like it any more than you do.
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:41 PM
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https://join.skype.com/invite/ePG9k7nPXY4Q don't be a bitch do it Tom IntPB add me edit: downvote all you want if you're reading this you've been gamed. Wanna learn or are you still stuck on step 2.
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:34 PM
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do it while i'm still drunk
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:24 PM
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Tell me you're fucking with me
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:24 PM
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One of us one of us one of us. Like you I felt I'd be teaching one day - it's like learning all over again except the hatred is silently externalised instead of internalised. But I feel a kind of duty to rescue my inept bretheren from themselves as pickup artists before me rescued me from myself. Love yah man
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:21 PM
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Dm me and we can chat why not
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:18 PM
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Holy fuck dude your comment was triggering me up until the what happens if two people walk 5mph and I lost it with tears of laughter. Finally someone who understands :')
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:11 PM
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Recognize your username so I know you are real as fuck to. Preach it man
/r/seduction25/01/19 04:25 PM
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Lots and lots and lots of approaches, rejection and reflection. You don't progress in a constant linear fashion, instead you'll hit plateuas. You'll feel like you arent learning dick and suddenly you'll be hit with an insight that massively improve your game.
/r/seduction25/01/19 04:13 PM
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Hey man first of all there is no best way to put yourself out there, what matters is that you are putting yourself out there. You know what I reckon a good talking point would be? Everything in this post. She probably has the same apprehension and excitement as you!
/r/seduction25/01/19 12:55 PM
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Sounds like you aren't happy in your relationship. It is normal to wonder. Not so normal to be active in pickup forums - could there be more to this than you realize?
/r/seduction25/01/19 12:53 PM
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White and 5'11". I am so white I was nicknamed "albino" in primary school which caused me to blush so hard they called me "tomato" and I had to fight other kids that wanted to see if my nipples were white too. Also until age 13 people thought I wore lipstick because I was that fucking paper white with re... holy shit maybe I am an albino. Anyway I just lie and say I am 6' cause it isn't like they'd know. yeeeeaaaaahhhhh... not gonna let you put me into the chad box that easily.
/r/seduction24/01/19 07:14 AM
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... it can be both. I wouldn't give advice to anyone I wouldn't use myself.
/r/seduction24/01/19 07:10 AM
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I started out by grinding like on hard mode. I went out 3 nights a week solo or not. For a minimum of 6 hours a night. For 12 weeks straight. Minimum 5 approaches per night (less than 1 per hour that aint so hard is it?). Oh and I did it all while dead sober cause why learn to do it drunk if I'll have to learn to do it sober all over again. Fuck that whole experience it suuuucckkkedd, zero success, zero numbers, and total defeat (girls can be mean). But by the end I just didn't give a single fuc…
/r/seduction23/01/19 05:52 AM
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bingo. this had nothing to do with whether this forum sucks, or whether the chair thing would work, or how hot she is. This has everything to do with your anxiety about the way you're perceived and you are over thinking it. read the bold part of my post: no one gives a shit what you do so just do it, people live and people die... no one is going to remember random chair guy.
/r/seduction23/01/19 02:16 AM
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Ugh "nut up or shut up worst that can happen in you fuck up" what is she gonna do, steal your kidney? Go try it
/r/seduction23/01/19 01:52 AM
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Then keep doing it
/r/seduction23/01/19 01:32 AM
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It actually is if you put effort into it. Trust me I have done some shit so wild that the stories would be r/thathappened material even on this sub. And you don't think you could talk to a girl about and office chair and get a number? Sounds pretty lame and real life to me.
/r/seduction23/01/19 01:29 AM
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Why didn't you do that... sounds like it'd work. Sounds like you had a good idea but convinced yourself that your idea wouldn't work, so instead of trying it you posted a fake story online and it got upvoted to hell. Because it is simple and amusing. I promise you if you approached girls with the same attitude you come at me with, and gloriously simple ideas that are stupid but amusing, you'd hella pickup. Go do it and post back on here. I dare you.
/r/seduction23/01/19 01:22 AM
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Yes I am spending my time writing this shit as it amuses me. You are reading off a list of my flaws that I gave you, none of this shocks me. First they must be fat, then I must be chiselled, then I look like a foot, therefore the chicks must be desperate... you realize the only person you haven't thought about is yourself? "At least I can afford to pay for my dates haha" is that the only thing that makes you feel good about yourself, even then you add "haha" at the end cause you don't take it se…
/r/seduction23/01/19 01:16 AM
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fuck that we onto project pickup mayhem now
/r/seduction23/01/19 12:51 AM
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You're right I did write it in 10 minutes. A post like this hits the top because all I did was act like a man. I saw a problem and I took quick, simple and direct steps to address it in a way I saw fit. I didn't like the content in this sub so I addressed it and added my own. You're sulking in my shadow telling the world you're just as good and could have done it.
/r/seduction23/01/19 12:50 AM
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You're right I am unemployed, you're wrong about the weight I was fat years ago. I really have nothing better to do. You are right about the validation. Check my post history and you'll see I tried to hang myself recently owing to a shit homelife. I know how it feels to be a guy that feels unwanted, not good enough, and hopeless. Men have insane rates of suicide. Men don't cry. Men don't have effective support networks. I'm willing to bet you don't come from a place in life which is dark and int…
/r/seduction22/01/19 10:57 PM
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has it occured to you that while you're here stalking reddit posts some of us go out and do shit with our lives? Bet you're fun on dates. edit: oh shit I see where the fat chick part comes from... that was only of note cause there was a fit chick and a larger one. Two chicks at the same time! Now sure it was only pashing them at a club and for sure one was hotter than the other. But that was a first for me But I am not going to overthink it.
/r/seduction22/01/19 09:17 PM
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Don't worry man I got you. Also even if your comments get downvoted to hell it aint me doing it. I know height is absolutely a deal to some girls but think of this, you used the expression "how small men are viewed" but if someone were to say "He's the bigger man." that is almost never literal. It always means that he took an action like swallowing his pride and walking away from a fight or whatever. I don't struggle with height at all but I will say I know a lot of guys much shorter than me and…
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:44 PM
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this dude gets it. haha reminds me of a time I was seeing a girl I hardly knew and quite brashly decided I loved her and just said it (mistake but so it goes). She tells me that I hardly know her and I can't possibly know if I love her. To which I reply I absolutely can say that, I explain I know I don't love that garbage bin, I know I do love a certain book, but even if I didn't love her I would still save her over that book in a housefire. In short - don't tell me how to feel or try to change …
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:35 PM
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If you simply directed as much energy towards ripping the arguements underlying the assumption you are unloveable apart as you do towards ripping the idea that you are loveable apart you'll go far. You choose which arguements and beliefs to fight and reject.
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:28 PM
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In the periods I had money I'd throw money at the problem which didn't work. In the periods I had nothing I had to get creative and develop my personality which worked well but not that well. Going back to having money I'd be able to pull more elaborate stunts with added personality which worked a treat. but yes... right now that is my niche and it fucking sucks. Looking forward to going back to the reformed and legitimate niche: the past and excitement of a bad boy with the security of a respon…
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:17 PM
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5'11" but I lie and say 6' because what are they gonna do, pull a tape measure out of their pocket? But for real if you are short or super tall or whatever I'll make this suggestion. Right now you are looking for a reason, any reason so long as it is beyond your control, that you can't succeed like "I have". Because if your height didn't matter or more accurately wasn't what principally defined you, then you would be forced to the realization that your lack of success is within your control and …
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:04 PM
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You can decide who you want to be put in the work and change. If you wanted to become a god fearing church going man all you have to do is walk into a church tomorrow and commit. If you want to become a serial killer then all you need is a kitchen knife and to get to work (don't do that). What I am getting at is that the only thing stopping you from changing is you. Choose to believe you are "undesirable" then guess what you become? So how about instead you choose to become desirable. That isn't…
/r/seduction22/01/19 03:38 PM
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YESSSSSS dude especially when this shit goes through their heads too you're human they're human... imagine the relief if she just said "so this might be awkward but just to confirm this is hookup". Now you just do her that favour and she'll appreciate it.
/r/seduction22/01/19 03:30 PM
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Glad I helped you out man. If you ever need advice hit me up or come back go seddit or whatever. Also if you find something that works pay it forward by coming back to post it for all those who come after you.
/r/seduction22/01/19 03:26 PM
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fucking alright man fucking do it. Let's get seddit Australia together motherfucker. One of us!
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:22 PM
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go watch fight club and think about your statement
/r/seduction22/01/19 01:59 PM
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For sure man just dm me and we can message or work out fb chat or some shit why not. This account has already been doxxed but idgaf what people think so I am not concerned.
/r/seduction22/01/19 01:52 PM
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idk it just kinda happened. see I didn't even realize I was fat until one day I stepped on the scales and thought "oh shit ppl shouldnt be in triple digits". All I am saying is that in my experience all this shit doesn't hold you back unless you let it.
/r/seduction22/01/19 01:41 PM
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Fuck no I didn't "try being myself" when I started. Who the hell believes that when they start out and suck with women? But I heard it enough to know there was probably some merrit to it. Hence in the beginning I made canned material but my own canned material. I preprepared games that I invented. Routines that were scripted but 100% my own. I spent nights awake until 3am giving it my all. It all worked pretty well. You see if a routine was shitty I ditched it if it rocked I kept it. Thing is I …
/r/seduction22/01/19 12:39 PM
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As for how I ended up with the insta chick well I knew her IRL. I didn't even use insta and she also had a tinder with 1000+ likes and she'd flaunt it. But I just adopted the mindset that is so fucking stupid my tinder doesn't have any likes but whatever fine fuck you flaunting it in front of me. Obviously the problem isn't that I'm not as attractive as her - therefore it is Tinder/IG/Snapchat/FB and the rest of humanity that is fucking wrong innit. Or you could adopt the mindset that she was do…
/r/seduction22/01/19 12:26 PM
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read my comment in this thread. agree on the it takes time and one vlog wont fix it part
/r/seduction22/01/19 11:51 AM
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read my comment in this thread
/r/seduction22/01/19 11:50 AM
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read my comment in this thread
/r/seduction22/01/19 11:50 AM
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Getting some comments saying "BeInG YoURsElF isNt AlwAyS a GoOd IdEa cHaD" so let me tell you about me... I am broke. Like $3 to survive the last month, shit is hardcore and miserable. I have PTSD and have girls wave their hands in front of my eyes when I have flashbacks while talking to them. I go on dates even now and have no choice but to say "yea we can do whatever but straight up I have no money." and they end up paying. I can't afford a car at the moment so I can't drive either and I just …
/r/seduction22/01/19 11:50 AM
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You matter to this community man - we have all felt the pain you have swirling within, some more than others. This entire community exists because at one point or another we all couldnt attract women and it really wears you down and I understand how you feel, you are not alone. You know why guys that can pickup chicks post on here? We haven't forgotten you and we haven't forgotten how it feels when the rejection takes its toll. We love you not as someone or other but as a fucking brother. It's h…
/r/seduction10/01/19 05:15 AM
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Haha sorry my title says "this weekend" but it was actually years ago this happened. I was trying to say that sure... I'm that guy that walks up to any girl he wants and gets a close (fortnight ago I managed two chicks at once - winning). I was trying to say for the newbies that yeah it looks easy for me... but when I started I was the guy who managed to crash and burn 78 times in a weekend. What I was getting at is that you cant just read forums or look good, being willing to fail and try again…
/r/seduction04/01/19 12:41 PM
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edited some spelling my bad man. My point was that in the past years ago I once did 78 approaches over a couple nights and failed 100% of the time, but by pushing myself I got a little better each time. So they key is to not give up. And 78 apprpaches isn't too hard in a high energy night club environment when you're always shot down. 78 approaches at 2 mins each is only 2 and a bit hours of conversation, 6 hours each night. Means two or three hours of convo out of 12 hours total - not really th…
/r/seduction04/01/19 12:26 PM
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Ain't nothing to it but to do it man, if you are alone with them they are into you. It is just a question of getting the timing right, that takes practice. An easy way to do it is "Hey let's go to this place like right now!!! C'mon let's go... no time to waste!!!!" She'll ask why and you say with confidence "So that are first kiss is in a romantic location, obviously."
/r/seduction04/01/19 11:40 AM
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I would recommend breaking the touch barrier in the coffee shop with palm reading or whatever you find fun and comfortable, she'll feed off the vibe you give - so just do you in that regard. Move to another location because moving location warps time to feel like she's known you longer than she actually has. Personally I try for 3 different locations on the first meet. Easy escalation - go to the next location and sit on a park bench or something. If you aren't facing eachother it is less confro…
/r/seduction04/01/19 11:32 AM
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Hey man I saw your username and first off props for you for undertaking learning pickup. I've seen you get a lot of negative feedback, sorry to say I have some more for you - I'd advise against trying tricks or games to get the kiss. It is better to use tricks and games for opening and wait for a moment when there the conversation dies and you feel tension with eye contact (early on that tension may feel like awkwardness to you) hope that helps man! On another note you are a few months in it see…
/r/seduction04/01/19 10:25 AM
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Bro do you know how easy you've got it? For me to improve I have to reduce my rejections to successes get hotter chicks. All you have to do to take a massive leap forwards is approach one chick anything that goes well after that is a bonus. You got this man
/r/seduction02/01/19 02:02 AM
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Haha my post about assholes wasnt in regards to this dude. I actually wrote it about the other NYE and the dodgy threesome with a dude poster. I thought hey he messed up but pat on the back for him. Still man I appreciate your words they bring a legit tear to my eye - look at seddit coming together. Love your work bro
/r/seduction01/01/19 10:05 PM
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insecurity
/r/seduction01/01/19 03:42 PM
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upvoted: because you made a good point without calling me a soy boy, suggesting I am not a proper man, or that I lack backbone. All of which I have been called in this thread showing a stunning lack of self awarness. You are the sort of poster we need more of. You're a real... man of culture
/r/seduction01/01/19 03:19 PM
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Dude can you hear yourself right now? Talking about how if I had "the slightest amount of backbone" I'd just do as you say... if I just hardened the fuck up blurgh blurh. I am calling out this "you aren't tough unless you agree with me" type bullshit
/r/seduction01/01/19 03:11 PM
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with power
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:52 PM
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Yeah and I get my soy milk exclusively from your mothers tits which explains why you grew to be the biggest fag of them all
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:52 PM
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Can seddit not rise above? Probably not but to quote Jeremy Clarkson "For something to be done you must first bellllieeeeevvvveee it is can be done"
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:45 PM
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Yeah basically I made one comment replying to my own comment for examples sake. Then someone thought they had caught me failing to switch accounts so my comments got down voted to oblivion - so I decided to burn my own comments section down. But honestly the important thing is the nasty one oneupsmanship stops
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:42 PM
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alright jason you're a dead man. fight me... KFC carpark after school
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:16 PM
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I'm replying to my own comment to make a point. The top one is a piss take, the second one is what I think of comments like that.
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:14 PM
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No I didn't... I just replied to my own comment to illustrate exactly the sort of comment I am talking about and what I think they amount to
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:11 PM
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^ translation: OP is a weak faggot. Females choose the toughest guys. So OP is wrong because a science word. Real men make a strong. That is how retarded some of you sound. Apart from taking a long time to say you gotta be tough, does that comment add anything? No. So actually try and help eachother instead of trying to sound like Mr BigNutz Edit: This is what I think when I read a comment like the piss take I wrote above
/r/seduction01/01/19 01:50 PM
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Jesus OP sums up the participation trophy generation think. Crying because they got their feelings hurt. No woman will go for any guy who thinks like that because biologically females choose tough men - men who can handle a little criticism and overcome weakness. Edit: This is an example of the comments I am talking about. Just toxic bullshit.
/r/seduction01/01/19 01:46 PM
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Dude that's the chick I wanted to to talk about as part of my use a GIF to pickup and giving props to my wing. Do you think I did nothing else all night?
/r/seduction01/01/19 08:04 AM
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right? Truth be told I didnt read the post I saw the title and figured that this dude was upset and got fucked around. Seddit should be a place for constructive criticism and support. I read the post and yes OP messed up in some ways - but he's a brother and we all fuck up sometimes. Why rip into him.
/r/seduction01/01/19 07:01 AM
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I don't really agree with the unnatural part. But I do agree it is a control thing. I think girls are used to being in control - so when you set the frame and are in control it is attractive but foreign and unnerving, building trust so she is comfortable with you being in control is the way to go imo.
/r/seduction31/12/18 09:18 PM
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Yeah this happens the solution is to address her concerns and if you sense she is thinking about it bring it up. Most girls respond really well even when you honestly admit that yes you do run around chatting up girls. For example an exchange I had last night with a girl "when I first approached you did I strike you as a fuckboy?" she said yeah a little. "Haha most girls seem to peg me as one and yes I talk to a lot of girls but not so I can sleep around, I just spend a lot of time practicing ch…
/r/seduction31/12/18 09:14 PM
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Sorry to hear that man. I'd suggest you forget tinder as it makes the "approach easy" but you pay a price. You won't want to hear this right now but try and use this as an exercise in staying positive. Focus on the drinking with your buddies. Now you have a crazy story to tell girls you meet. Failing all else... a guy AND a chick wanted to fuck you - look at you being so damn hot that male or female they want you ;) But yeah I have had this exact 'try n trick into an MMF' thing happen to me on t…
/r/seduction31/12/18 05:11 PM
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Right attitude man. It ain't "sooner or later a girl you like will say yes" what you should be saying is "sooner or later you'll find a girl you click with". Remember - it isn't about her saying yes to you, that makes it sound like rejection is 100% on you. Dating/hooking up is always a 50/50 game. If you're in it 100% and she isn't, then you're not the one that needs to work harder. Edit: But still, you're damn right about the fact that your value has fuck all to do with her opinion.
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:31 AM
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lit, hit me with it
/r/seduction22/12/18 11:15 AM
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man this is what this community is all about. great work bro 😀
/r/seduction17/12/18 09:25 AM
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I wouldn't say no progress... i make a little progress in one area at a time. The goalposts I set for myself in self improvement never measure success in how many holes I put my dick in. See below if you are still "muh no progress no get laid" I progressed in one uber specific area I sucked in. copied from my comment below: That night a pashed two chicks on the dance floor. Had to leave because i was being followed by a girl i met off tinder once. I am getting laid (probably) with a different wo…
/r/seduction14/12/18 08:52 AM
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That night a pashed two chicks on the dance floor. Had to leave because i was being followed by a girl i met off tinder once. I am getting laid (probably) with a different woman tonight. With a date on tuesday with a different woman i just met... and I have been working on it for 3 years. My primary focus hasn't been my "kill count" so to speak, rather developing the skillset. I would say I am advanced enough.
/r/seduction14/12/18 08:25 AM
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why is that so?
/r/seduction14/12/18 08:19 AM
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look I wont lie I DIDN'T REALLY READ THE ENTIRE THING. I skimmed it in 20 seconds while out getting groceries. But it was communicated effectively enough that I gained something of value. That is good teaching.
/r/seduction14/12/18 05:26 AM
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That is actually mental and I love it. I will 100% try that and it'll work or be a right giggle. Ty for the suggestion.
/r/seduction14/12/18 05:20 AM
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Nah. Imagine jim carey in steve buscemis body
/r/seduction14/12/18 05:07 AM
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3 years ago I read the game and have worked on pickup for years. Getting girlfriends was easy, sometimes a couple at a time... but clubs couldnt do it. I always broke eye contact first because i assumed it would show higher value or make them want me to look back - bad assumption? doesnt work in clubs? idk... But your essay had one point that was relevant to me and after skimming it I remembered the one point I needed. When I go out if I see young guys struggle I wing them/teach them a bit and i…
/r/seduction14/12/18 03:14 AM
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Not gonna lie had a lot of girls avoiding eye contact as if looking at me would kill them. K so there is a little more to it than eye contact and it was mostly luck but still... win.
/r/seduction14/12/18 03:05 AM
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