Many of you are on the your own personal journey to become a PUA. Guys often think "once I master game I will get girls and life will be awesome." But there are two sides to it. So I'll give you my last 48 hours as an example of what you can expect if you put in the hard yards.

This has been a fairly full on 48 hours but none of these are that unusual for me: started out to get a girlfriend, then become a PUA and then took it further and now I make a little money coaching and teaching pickup online (hint hint dm me). Anyway ...

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Sunday:

Ended up having a mate call me for advice with girl problems which happens a lot because it is free for friends and why not. At any rate he and his girlfriend were fighting and I ended up talking to her to ask what was going on, she then messaged me saying "Hey Tom will you kiss me?" and followed it with explaining she wanted to get back at him. Obviously the answer was no, anyway I ended up talking them both through it and at the end I showed my mate what she sent me, he wasn't happy but they somehow got over it. Best friends girlfriend coming onto me, having to tell my best friend that she did that, gut wrenching.

Started talking to two girls, one off of tinder and another I met at some event. At this point I have let the one from the event fizzle out as she wasn't into it, but had a decent chat with the tinder one (I am not into random casual sex so don't "bro why didn't you just fook the sloot?!" me). Also hit up another one I met a week before that but she never replied, win some lose some. Thing is on my phones notifications I have four girls hitting me up at once, those 3 plus my mates girlfriend. But I was just unpacking as I moved house on Saturday and wasn't really chasing girls at that instant. Since mastering game I somehow have a bunch of random messages from girls without really trying and I am not sure why that just happened, don't question a good thing haha.

Then I had a chat with my new land lords, who are a young couple about 30 yrs old with a 3 yr old who is adorable by the way. I finished off the day by having a casual chat with the wife of the couple, and then later at night chatted a bit with the guy. Both seemed nice. It got a little uncomfortable though because I was getting a lot of indicators of interest from the wife so I ejected from that situation quick smart. Abundance isn't always a good thing and once you become an attractive person (no I wasn't born this way, it took years of work) sometimes you'll get interest that is a little uncomfortable.

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Monday:

I went out after I had finished unpacking after the move and was on the bus home, bored I checked my phones gallery and saw a selfie with two chicks. I am not a chick and I did not recognize these girls at all. After a little investigating I realized that I had asked these girls to take a photo of my friend and I at an event which they did, I just didn't realize that they took some selfies too. Not going to lie having random girls leave photos of themselves on my phone for me to find later stroked my ego a bit.

Throughout I was and still am messaging the girl off of Tinder who seems really cool. She is just a really cool, down to earth girl and for the first time in a long time I now get a little excited to see a specific girls name pop up in my notifications. By developing my game sufficiently I can switch off while talking to girls such that without any effort I can actually find a girl I like and build a little connection/spark without even trying.

After all of that I got back home and sat down to study for a bit. Then I got a call from my father asking "What the hell is going on?" I told him I didn't know and he said he was on his way. Weird. He turns up 10 minutes later at the place I moved into with bags and the car. I asked the couple what was going on and they told me my father would explain. My father told me that this couple had called him to come help me collect my things and that I was being kicked out after 2 days living there at 8:30PM with 15 minutes to pack my things. When I asked what I did that was so wrong they couldn't speak to me about it and had to call my father I was told "You said something to the wife and it made her uncomfortable." This is bullshit, I talk to a lot of girls and don't act weird around them. I was on my best behavior with my new landlords and I'd have to be fairly fucking stupid to hit on my landlords wife. Unfortunately the night before she made a lot of efforts to talk to me, and call me back to the lounge to chat, and just being overly friendly. Which upset the husband. Mastering game and just becoming naturally magnetic got me kicked out of the place I had just moved into at 8:30PM with 15 minutes notice, simply because there are times when women will be into me and guys will become jealous. It sounds like bragging, but if you imagine the shit a 10/10 chick can go through with being harassed - well attractive dudes can go through it too.

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In conclusion: Girls weren't always this into me, in fact they pretty much ignored me until I started working on my game to become a PUA. I took it further and became a PUA Coach. However, learning all of these things and changing yourself will manifest in your life in a variety of ways. Sometimes these manifestations could destroy a friendship (didn't this time), other times it is awesome with more chicks coming at you than you can handle. The effects of mastering game can lead to very uncomfortable encounters, or it may be as simple as a random photo you see and you think "huh, that's neat". My favorite effect is the ability to effortlessly bond with or find girls you actually get along with. My least favorite effect of my becoming an attractive man and mastering game is becoming homeless at 8:30pm with no notice (all good though the lease isn't up on my old place so I am moving back into there, just a fuck around). So guys when you set out to learn game remember IT IS A LIFESTYLE and IT WILL IMPACT YOUR LIFE IN WILD WAYS YOU NEVER COULD HAVE PREDICTED OR IMAGINED IT WOULD!

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Edit: To add to all of that, if you truly commit to it you will probably end up with stories so crazy that people don't believe you. Which happens to me a bit, I swear every single story I tell is 100% true... just mastering game and you'll have problems like "living a life so epic or wild at times that you can't tell the story because people will think you're a compulsive liar or crazy or something." Not a problem I though I'd have, but that's the power of solid game.

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