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DiscussionNefariousnessLife220/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:05 PM
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Question For MenNefariousnessLife220/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:48 AM
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Do you know what cracks me up the most about these type of posts? You care more about getting your rocks off than about the human you were responsible for creating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:58 PM
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Who’s talking about anecdotes from acquaintances? These are my lived experiences, boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:56 PM
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Um. Ok? Didn’t know you cared so much 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:55 PM
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I’m not saying it should. I’m just pointing out the obvious. Same shit, different day. Like beating a dead horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:39 PM
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The point was is that you didn’t see what happened before or if anything happened before. I agree that posting those kinds of videos online just to get attention is wrong. Same as I said elsewhere in this thread about men posting pics of upskirts. Unless you’ve lived in a woman’s body, or have observed it yourself. You’re not going to understand what the experience is like. I used to travel for business quite often with a coworker. One evening we were at the hotel bar eating dinner. Only because…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:34 PM
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If you don’t push back on being groped, then that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:14 PM
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OK, then, how are we supposed to give you “proof” if you don’t want us recording? Keep this up and we’re not far away from everybody wearing body cams anytime they leave the house. Dash cams are already pretty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:03 PM
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I’m sorry your dick is so small that it makes a difference to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:49 PM
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The daily paternity test post has arrived, I see! How do people not get tired of this shit? It’s the same damn thing every day. I’m gonna have to take another break from the sub because it’s just so fucking repetitive. Maybe in another week or two you’ll come up with your next cause du jour. 😂 How about just wear a g-d condom or get a vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:43 PM
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If you wanna start invoicing, I could do the same for reading your bullshit. My going rate is 300 an hour, 250 for government rate. I’ll be generous and give you a 25% discount for the holiday season. If you believe what you’re saying, maybe the problem is with your dick 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:34 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:33 PM
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So then “these women“ need to be put in the same category as guys who post pictures of surreptitious upskirts and videos of women’s asses that are walking in front of them on a public sidewalk. Done and dusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:31 PM
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This is exactly the reason I don’t do weighted hip thrusts or use the hip abductor machine at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:25 PM
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That you know of. What man goes around bragging that he’s raped women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:18 PM
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Go to the bathroom to do that shit. Nobody wants to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:13 PM
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Looking and staring are two different things. I have the right not to be harassed in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:09 PM
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You’re rights end where mine begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:05 PM
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Clearly, bullshit is in the eye of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:03 PM
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You’re trying to educate me on women’s anatomy? Lol. Did you know that your penis gets smaller every time you go into a different vagina? It’s only natural because it’s wear and tear, right? Just like a pencil each time it goes into a pencil sharpener. It gets smaller and smaller each time. That’s how ridiculous you sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:02 PM
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Elsewhere ITT some other guy is making fun of me because I carry pepper spray. 🤷‍♀️ I’ll do as I wish, tyvm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:42 PM
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So, is this boyfriend suppose to accompany me any time I go out in public? Ludicrous. Do you not see the ridiculousness of it in the year of our Lord 2023?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:01 PM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:58 PM
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Irrational. Sure, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:57 PM
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White guys. What’cha gonna do? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:53 PM
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You think people misrepresented their income category?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:52 PM
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If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:51 PM
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Who’s going to enforce/verify that (age)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:47 PM
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Fantasy? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:36 PM
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It’s not “extremely rare” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:34 PM
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/r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:34 PM
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I carry pepper spray because I got accosted in the supermarket parking lot because a man thought letting him in front of me in line at the cash register was me flirting with him and an invitation to ask me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:30 PM
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Tough cookies. I’ll protect myself by whatever means necessary. 🤷‍♀️ My insecurities?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:14 PM
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How about just being a grownup?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:05 PM
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The ignorance is strong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:02 PM
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It actually does work that way, buddy. Innocent until proven guilty is only valid in a court of law. Deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:01 PM
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You can’t help it? Are you a caveman? Underdeveloped amygdala? Severe Asperger’s? What’s your excuse? Your dick rules your brain, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:58 PM
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Get a boyfriend for “protection”? That’s your solution? How sexist can you possibly get? Do I need to hire a f-ing body guard so I can have dinner at a restaurant in peace?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:52 PM
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Are you seriously insinuating that a woman’s sense of safety is less important than you getting your dick wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:49 PM
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Typical male response.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:46 PM
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How many times have you been raped, exactly? Kindly fvck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:43 PM
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Your kind is the reason I have to carry pepper spray.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:55 PM
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It’s 👏🏻 rude 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 stare 👏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:52 PM
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Yes, that is staring. If you have to look away more than once. Creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:20 PM
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You don’t see the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:16 PM
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Didn’t men used to have a “little black book” in the “olden days”? I think that’s what it was called.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:46 PM
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Ok 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:43 PM
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The things you guys complain about … I swear 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:40 PM
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Jeezus Christ on a pogo stick! Take a fucking chill pill, dude! 😂 You’re wayyyyy too invested in this. It’s not healthy, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:16 PM
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Why not answer the question then? I’d rather ding you about the fact that you have a “baby mumma” or that you refer to previous sex partners as “bodies”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:38 PM
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Why? Because you’re her “best ever” since she has nothing to compare it to? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:40 PM
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Gotcha. Side note: a pet peeve of mine is a guy assuming that if his previous partner loved a certain technique, you must at as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:38 PM
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Last time we all went on vacation to Costa Rica, not everyone wanted to do the same activities. It only made sense to split up and do what they preferred. I went eco-hiking with one husband and the others went zip lining and my best friend preferred to stay behind and relax in the hot tub. There’s nothing odious about it and nobody gives it a second thought. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:03 PM
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That’s what sex toys are for. 99.9% success rate. 🤷‍♀️ You have to admit though that for most men, climaxing isn’t difficult with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:27 PM
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You can tell that real life experience = 0 with some of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:09 PM
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What about my girlfriends’ husbands? Am I not allowed to consider them friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:07 PM
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Right? Kinda ridiculous. Am I not allowed to be friends with my girlfriends’ partners/husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:49 PM
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Getting to “smash” doesn’t always mean getting off. Especially in the case of OP I’d hazard to guess the chances of the woman’s sexual fulfillment would be very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:40 PM
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The OK Cupid “scientific study” from many years ago. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:21 PM
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🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:49 PM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:29 PM
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As if older women date 3s. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:26 PM
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This made me laugh out loud. For real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:22 PM
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I’m not usually one to #whatabout, but statistically men cheat more than women. Men are more likely to have physical affairs wheras women tend to seek out emotional affairs. Of course, this also depends on their ages. But just go to the Google Oracle, and you can find a “study” that swings either way. I found it disingenuous to insinuate that only married women cheat. The data dump from the Ashley Madison site should be enough proof (the real accounts, not the bots).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:15 PM
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“Brave and determined and willing to push the envelope and experience new things” is a lot of words for “do anything to get their dick wet”. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:04 PM
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I think what he’s trying to say is: men’s standards are lower if it means getting their dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:03 PM
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Lost me at “priced themselves out of the market”. We’re not commodities, we’re humans. Humans that you buy/sell/trade are known as slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:59 AM
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Pfffft! Boxed wine 🙄 We can afford the good stuff, yannow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:55 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:52 AM
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I mean, dude. This is Reddit. It’s all a fun pastime. Ain’t nobody getting paid to do this shit. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:51 AM
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OK, I’ve typed this about three times now. Of course you talk about the things you like and don’t. But you don’t say: Oh, I’ve done this with 3 different guys! The way Bobby did it was the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:48 AM
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Talking about things that you did versus who you did it with is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:46 AM
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Exactly. My point was with other people. Saying you like xyz and saying Bob used to do this xyz thing is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:45 AM
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Talking about the “what” is fine, not the “who” and “how many”. So: “I have experience tying people up” is different than “I’ve tied up 12 partners” or “Peggy Sue really loved it when I tied her up like a hog”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:44 AM
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WTF does this even mean? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:33 AM
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That’s what this reads like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:26 AM
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Like who does that even? Oh, wait. I know the answer to this: insecure people!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:23 AM
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You want government supplied pussy. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:04 AM
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ChatGPT?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:03 AM
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I judge men for caring about the “number” of previous lovers. Who the hell discusses what sexual things they did before with other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:03 AM
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No, you do as you wish. I’m not telling you what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:51 AM
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It’s called “extrapolation”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:41 AM
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You and I know that, but tell that to these guys. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:37 AM
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Getting there. Progress is the main goal. #1 is to be able to do an unassisted pull-up by Feb. I’m 3/4 of the way there. #2 is DL my bodyweight (prob in the next week or two) #3 is getting to 100 on bench. Also likely doable by Feb. I do it because it makes me feel good. The fact that my back, shoulders, and arms look nice in sleeveless tops is a bonus. I actually had one guy on a date tell me: “I can tell you work out, but you might want to pull back a bit. Being “cut” isn’t feminine. Needless …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:36 AM
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I’m still neither. lol Calling me “mommy” squicks me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:22 AM
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Is feminasties a new way to get around saying feminazis? 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:20 AM
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Everybody’s experiences are anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:42 AM
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Yeah, I have to take regular breaks for my sanity 😂 The obsession over paternity testing is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:35 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:54 AM
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Did you know dicks decrease in size the more vaginas they go into? Like a pencil going into a pencil sharpener. It gets smaller every time! It’s only logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:54 AM
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How is that not subjective?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:52 AM
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Well, you’re clearly lying right now because all of the guys in the sub say that all women go after the same guys. We don’t have different tastes or preferences! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:47 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:38 AM
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What else are personal experiences than anecdotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:36 AM
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Probably as many times as I’ve been told that I’m lying when I make a comment. I was just told that when I said, my best friend of over 30 years is in love with her husband that I am clearly making shit up 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:33 AM
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It’s like spitting in the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:56 AM
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Or somewhere on the spectrum. That would track. Probably leaning towards Asperger’s since they have a hard time relating to others socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:55 AM
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No wonder we get along so well! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:36 AM
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Look at n-count graph.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:19 AM
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I’ve only been seriously powerlifting for three months. Before that it was just dumbbells and crap. I bench 90. DL 150, squat 120.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:05 AM
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I’m not a mommy. Can’t you read flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:02 AM
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It is a useless conversation because whatever I say he says it’s not true, so what’s the point? It’s not because he doesn’t agree with me. It’s because I’m stating my opinion and he says I’m wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:59 AM
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They don't believe us anyway, so I don't really see the point. :shrug:
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:46 PM
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so it's very hard to believe that you can reliably prove that it is not that common place when I can't see the evidence for myself. So your anecdotal evidence trumps mine? (WTF is a "muscle mommy"?)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:41 PM
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Like there's any real debate going on in here. LOL Hearts and minds are being changed on the daily here!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:40 PM
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Ok, tell me, bud. Do I count the rapes in that total? The amount of coercions? Here, I’ll give you my n-count: 5. It’s the number of men who made me orgasm, so those are the only ones I’ll count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:54 PM
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I mean, I’m able to do a lot of things. I could mow my own lawn, but I choose to outsource it. I could mop my own floors and scrub my bathrooms (lord knows I’ve done plenty of that in my youth) but I choose to hire somebody to do that for me. Same with my retirement fund. I hired somebody who is a specialist to do it. Its what he does for a living. I just don’t have an interest in following the stock market relentlessly. I have friends who do, it’s just not my jam. I do the things I like to do a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:44 PM
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Just had this happen less than an hour ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:37 PM
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Then what’s the point of commenting at all? Everyone is speaking either from personal experience or selective stats that confirm their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:36 PM
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Dude. I'm mid-50s. My n-count has absolutely no bearing on anything. It's not "powerful info", it's just irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:27 PM
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Golly, wonder why🤔 Shhh. Don't burst his bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:26 PM
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No, because then the whole 80/20 bs would be debunked. The whole point of Reddit is talking about personal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:24 PM
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All women lie in this sub! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:23 PM
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which litteraly nobody is going to bother looking at to figure out the answers from X or Y anonymous reddit user, like seriously wtf Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:10 PM
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I kinda was. Didn't think it was *that* many, but apparently it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:05 PM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:01 PM
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No, it's because Blue Pill men have better things to do with their time to argue with you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:58 PM
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And ya, he eventually got a charge. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:55 PM
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Being in love doesn't mean a man is suddenly unconcerned with paternity. And how many children do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:54 PM
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Especially considering you'd share it through a survey and not directly through a comment. How was I misinterpreting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:53 PM
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professional virtue signalers Best laugh I've had all day. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:31 PM
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Yeah, same. I don't know what the big deal is about echo chambers. It's what I choose to expose myself to. I have no obligation to "understand" the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:30 PM
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I guess this helps explain why I read a lot of posts here and my first through is “that’s not how people work.” Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:20 PM
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I'm glad I can amuse you. I am pretty "emotional" about n-count because it's fucking stupid as a metric. Again, nothing is truly anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:13 PM
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Honestly, I don't see many AA women on Reddit in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:12 PM
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Interesting. I hadn't heard that. Then again, I don't follow the demographics of the "incel" community closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:11 PM
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I don't think many women stick around here for long. Every day it seems to be the same type of posts over and over. Gets kinda boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:04 PM
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Believe whatever you want to believe, dude. IDGAF anymore. I have no incentive to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:03 PM
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Because theory and practice are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:00 PM
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The TRP sub was shut down as well, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:00 PM
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Ok, sure. Whatever. Useless fucking conversation as I've grown accustomed to on this sub. "You're lying." I get that every damn day on here. LOL That's your only "defense".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:57 PM
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No, I said I would never share it. Not in a comment, not in a survey, not anywhere or anytime. Period. Full fucking stop. Can you not read? You're practically saying the opposite of what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:54 PM
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I don't believe they're attracted to their partners either. Either? Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:46 PM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:32 PM
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but I think using hours spent as a filter is probably a good starting point Valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:32 PM
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They leave the country to adopt because they only want WHITE babies that are under 1 y/o. You're still not explaining the outlawing abortions thing. You don't give a shit about the children born into this situation. You just hate women, or maybe rather the fact that women can more easily get laid because men have fewer standards and primarily want to get their dick wet however they can. but since women are selfish man haters This to me is the equivalent of Godwin's law. Discussion over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:30 PM
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Eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:26 PM
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Now knowing that the majority of posters on this sub haven't been in a sexual relationship allows me to better understand why so many of you (generic you) describe women who are the polar opposite of the young women I know and encounter IRL (as well as online). I don't understand where you see or read that I've ever made fun of virgins for being virgins. If I did, please show me where. As far as the 80/20, I think that's bogus based on personal experience. Due to the demographics I believe that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:23 PM
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It's nobody's business. There are things I share freely on Reddit; n-count is not one of them. That's my choice. Out of the blue pill women over 40 who took the survey, only 1 is in the US. And she is married and christian of some flavor, so definitely not me. I've also posted my height and weight more than once on other subs, so it would be super easy to pinpoint me. Again, anyone with rudimentary spreadsheet skills could've narrowed it down in less than 2 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:50 PM
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One has to assume readily available internet and not homeless. Also, the majority of respondents categorized themselves as lower to upper middle class. (Annual incomes between roughly $40K-$114K in the US, probably different in other countries, such as India.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:45 PM
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Definitely feels like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:42 PM
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The majority of the population of the US is white The vast majority of the population in the US who have reliable internet service is white. As of 2021 the estimate was 59.3% white, so yes, a majority, but not a huge one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:40 PM
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but I'm struggling to find the push to really help when the people who need it are so convinced they're right with zero experience or evidence This is similar to what I'm feeling. I'm a helper by nature and I'm a problem solver by trade. But I feel like any comment I leave in here is met with "You're lying!" or falls on deaf ears, so I get to choose where to spend my time. If it's all just a waste, I can go elsewhere. It's not like there aren't thousands of other subs on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:37 PM
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I'm in the process of writing up the "how it's making me see posts in this sub in a different light" as requested by another user. Gimme about 15-20 mins.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:34 PM
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I'm far from man-hating, but whatever makes you sleep better at night, dude. As far as: Outlaw abortions for women since they have zero responsibility then. Or force them unless the man agrees or birth them, and seize the child. You'll need to expound on this. Outlaw abortions, why? Because we need more unwanted children in this world? Do you not even think about the child being raised by a reluctant parent? (Answer: no) Zero responsibility, how? Seize the child? Jeezus tap dancing Christ. What …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:33 PM
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TBH I don't really have a desire to understand TRP "philosophy" any more than I already do. :shrug: But thanks for the explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:29 PM
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I also shouldn't sleep with other men. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:27 PM
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You're reading into things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:25 PM
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The title of this post says “survey results”, or did you take your reading comprehension hat off for the day already? I can only parse the data that is there. Do you not think it’s representative?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:54 PM
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Do you really see red pillers as optimistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:51 PM
2

I’ll look into it only because I’m curious. There’s plenty of subs I have in my home feed that I scroll past every day and don’t read all or any of the posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:36 PM
2

Yes. It would’ve been easy enough to narrow it down based on the minor two facts that I am Gen X (over 40) and blue pilled. Everyone has access to the raw data. Anybody with an 8th grade education could figure it out. Not sure what you find so funny about it. 🤷‍♀️ I work in cybersecurity, my dude. Trust me, nothing is truly anonymous on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:33 PM
4

Also, I’m pretty sure that wasn’t all of the data. I’m certain mine was disqualified because I refused to answer n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:56 PM
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I’ll tell you after I get back from the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:47 PM
6

Thanks for the info. Does the post simply showing up in someone's feed count as a "view" or does the user have to actually click on the post for it to be counted as a "view". I'm assuming the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:45 PM
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Is this your way to ad hom an entire sub? No, and that's not what I said. You have a perception problem. That's what you're reading into it. I'm saying that in light of this info, it puts the way I read things in this sub in perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:43 PM
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36 Black Pill 16 Purple/leans red 15 Purple 7 Red Pill 7 Purple/leans blue 5 Blue Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:35 PM
9

According to the survey results Nope. Very few virgins identified as blue pill. Gimme a sec and I'll give you the actual numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:31 PM
3

Members != users who actually participate. Maybe the mods have access to better metrics as to how many users are actually active in the sub. I've "joined" more than one sub and haven't interacted with them in over a year. I notice it when I clean out my subscriptions when I have an annual decluttering fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:22 PM
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Not totally surprising, but it seems to be the vast majority, which I didn't expect. It does explain ... a lot, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:17 PM
1

Not my problem. Your problem being that you're so obsessed with height/race/location/whateverelse that it's off-putting. And therefore likely that it's your attitude that is keeping you from getting laid. Not your looks. If I'm picking up on this over mere text, I can only imagine how off-putting it is to women IRL. I'm seriously trying to be helpful here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:15 PM
1

Because you're just looking for confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:07 PM
1

Asking everybody about their race and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:06 PM
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Have you ever considered that you attract a certain type of woman with the Red Pill attitude? Or that other types of women are repelled by it, therefore you can’t compare them personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:14 PM
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He can’t explain “why”, just throws a bunch of numbers out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:09 PM
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I'll sum it up for you: Single women = bad. Married men = good. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:41 PM
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Nah. You just spout off numbers without background, meaning, or causality. It's worthless and inflammatory for no real reason. Unless you have a reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:00 PM
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That's certainly your prerogative. This is Reddit. You can comment however you'd like. Nobody's stopping you. I wasn't asking you though. I'd rather hear it from the horse's mouth since he seems so "hot to trot" about this particular subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:50 PM
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Do you speak for him? No? Let him answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:27 PM
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But they aren’t willing to go to church Why would anybody go to church if they're not religious? Why would anybody go to church to find a partner if they're not religious? Don't religious people go to church anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:26 PM
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Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:24 PM
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It seems you have some fvcking axe to grind regarding this. Wonder what tripped your trigger? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:15 PM
1

Which country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:56 AM
1

Upfront?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:25 AM
0

Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:54 AM
-2

lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:53 AM
2

Literally SCOTUS overturned Roe v. Wade. Have you been living under a rock? Jan 6 ring a bell? Charlottesville? Kyle Rittenhouse? George Floyd? Tamir Rice? Philandro Castile? Brionna Taylor? Yeah, nothing happened. I vote dem only because I loathe republicans and what they stand for. Our two party system is fucked and always will be due to the electoral college. It’s always been a choice between the “lesser of two evils” in the US since I’ve been of voting age. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:47 AM
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It’s called a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:36 AM
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Why? Seriously? Attack on reproductive rights. SCOTUS nominees. Exhalatation of religious nutsos, jingoists, and fascists. That’s just for starters. I’m not a democrat. I’m a liberal. Know the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:23 AM
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I survived 2016, so anything is possible. I’m not in the age range where it affects me personally, but I grieve for the young women in my life. I benefit financially from a republican administration because of my high income, but that’s neither here nor there. I haven’t voted republican since Bush Sr., so that’s not going to change. Even if it affects my wallet. IDGAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:11 AM
3

Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:01 AM
2

Hanging the mother? You’re like The Handmaid’s Tale personified. Yikes!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:00 AM
1

How. Do. You. Know. ? Can’t help you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:58 AM
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Reading the most recent survey results and seeing that 80% of participants are virgins explains a lot, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:44 AM
10

Wut? No. Most blue pillers hate Trump. You’re confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:19 AM
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This sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:16 AM
3

Women “making themselves vulnerable”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:16 AM
5

Watching the triggered responses is just :chefs kiss:
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:15 AM
2

I do every now and then. Thanks for your permission that I didn’t need. I need breaks from this sub on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:03 AM
1

I think double standards are stupid. I think “ladies nights” are stupid, too, but that’s a business decision and it clearly works. So, I can’t blame proprietors for doing this. Same with $1 mojitos at the Mexican joint on Wednesdays. Gets people in the door on their normally quietest evening. I also don’t know what you mean by “skill set” wrt men vs women. Except maybe that men have lower requirements than women for just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:42 PM
2

He’s wrong, but this is Reddit. :shrug:
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:36 PM
1

It’s “hear ye”, as in “listen to me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:35 PM
1

Pushing back on the “what’s your height and race” dude. He sounds like a broken record.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:34 PM
1

I was highly supportive of your comments up until this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:29 PM
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Give it a rest. You are so thirsty I can’t feel it through the screen. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:28 PM
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No, it won’t satisfy you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:27 PM
2

What is your obsession dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:27 PM
1

JFC. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:25 PM
2

Probably sick of y’all’s sh!t and left. I’m right behind her (whoever she is/was.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:24 PM
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That’s what kind of surprised me. Like, 80% of participants are virgins? This explains a lot about the discussions we have in here. Now I’m not as shocked anymore. I’m also less inclined to participate now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:20 PM
1

I’m 5’9” and 160 lbs. I lift at least 5 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:18 PM
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So, 80% of people in this sub are virgins? That explains … a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:13 PM
1

Giving a child up for adoption puts the onus on the government. I thought you were against "welfare state"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:04 PM
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If logic isn’t your thing, I totally get that. Stay blissfully ignorant. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:25 PM
1

So can I, even though my name isn't Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:15 PM
2

Once you deposit your sperm, your choice is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:13 PM
-1

Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:12 PM
3

How so? The woman ovulates every month. Eggs come and go. Without sperm, there's no fertilization, so ... who controls reproduction?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:23 PM
1

No person can receive social benefits until they are born. Period. They are not legally a "person" until birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:15 PM
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But of course! Highlighting y'all don't give a shit and are willing to stick your dick into any willing "wet hole".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:14 PM
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Putting the onus on women. Such a predictable answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:10 PM
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The number one cause of death for pregnant people in the US is homicide, and it doesn't have to be that way. #facts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:51 PM
-1

It's not a random arbitrary date. It's the point of birth. Is a foetus eligible for a social security number (in the US)? Is a foetus eligible for social services $$? No. Go fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:48 PM
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Financial abortion is the default unless a man opts in. She wants a kid, she can pay for the kid. Nope. That's not how life works. You need to be responsible for where you deposit your sperm. Women do not get pregnant in a vacuum. Women spread their legs for chad and get knocked up because they took no steps to protect themselves. And the man has absolutely nothing to do with this. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:44 PM
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Ready? Does she know how to grow organic vegetables and cooking/pureeing them into baby food? Learning sign language to communicate before the child is verbal? Reading books about child psychology? Because that's what I'd expect to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:23 PM
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As soon as we put restrictions on the daily "paternity test" posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:14 PM
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Do you know what a shit-show the foster care system in the US is? Or do you want to open up orphanages again? I'm sure the churches will do this (not!) and it will fall on the government. The only babies that get snapped up immediately for adoption are the lilly white ones with non-drug addicted mothers. Those usually go to the highest bidder. While the majority of kids in foster care (in the US) are white, they come from very disadvantaged or abusive (read: undesirable) situations. Also differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:14 PM
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I'm leaning towards abortion illegal and welfare state gone So, you want women and their children they can't afford to just suffer and die in the streets? I guarantee you'd be one of the guys complaining about all of the homeless women with children in the streets begging for money at every street corner. Heaven forbid a man be responsible as to where he deposits his sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:01 PM
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Up to the point of viability No difference Can she raise the child without government assistance? Universal. I believe abortion laws should be nationwide. No exceptions. No questions asked. On demand. Should be as easy to get one as going down to 7-11 for a candybar. (Just like it is in China.) Or could the child already be 10 years old and the father could be like I’m done. Oh, come onnnn. Are you one of those "abortions are allowed up until and right after the birth", Marjorie Taylor Greene-st…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:58 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:51 PM
1

if women just stop sleeping around. And what of the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:50 PM
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Step 1 is casual sex. If women insist on doing such a thing, nothing else works or could ever work differently than it does now. Who are all of these men having casual sex with women? It can't be the same "Chad and Tyrone" over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:49 PM
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Worst advice for men is to treat women like an equal. What a great attitude to have, there. No wonder you attract these sub-par women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:48 PM
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Women who require this "dancing monkey" attitude are not worth pursuing. Same with the ones complaining about men not approaching. They need to put on their big girl panties. It's 2023 for ghod's sake. Women still expect men to do the heavy lifting in dating. Same as above.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:47 PM
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So, what do you expect her to do after you have kids? Are you gonna hire a nanny? Not being snarky or anything. Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:00 PM
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I’d posit you’d find very few of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:53 PM
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Meh, I’d call it sugar baby with a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:51 PM
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Sounds like a glorified/legalized sugar baby to me. If it works for you and her? By all means. Huzzah! Kinda rare, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:50 PM
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Hence the title of this post … “parallel families”?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:12 PM
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It’s called “Prime-nesia” for a reason. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:06 PM
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Washing the dishes she creates making food for you both/all. I know you said “aside from”, but it’s a big part of daily tasks. I was never a stay at home, but I was a stepmom to 3 teenage athletes who ate nonstop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:02 PM
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Based. Except for the entire last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:57 PM
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I asked whether women had initiated sex with you on the first date. You didn’t specify whether you followed through or not. I mean, the girlfriend would be obvious, but not the second example you gave. Hence the follow up question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:52 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:18 PM
3

This gave me a chuckle, especially with the influx of paternity testing posts. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:17 PM
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Re: divorces … at least in the US all states (now, IIRC NY was the last holdout) have “no fault” divorces, so even if the underlying reason was infidelity, it’s not reported as such in official stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:16 PM
1

And yet ...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:34 PM
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I could not find a single scientific paper investigating this phenomenon. I mean, due to the nature of the secrecy one must/attempts to maintain, there can be no study done WRT to this. We can only guess/extrapolate. Same as unreported rapes. You cannot accurately quantify because they are by definition "unreported". Apparently such behavior has never been even attempted to prosecute under monogamy laws Divorces? bastard child I'm usually not one to be the "politically correct police", but the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:33 PM
1

Men aren't going to have a problem with you sleeping with them on the first date. They are going to have a problem with you sleeping with other men on the first date but then making them wait. How would you know what she did with other men? Do you not see the dichotomy of your statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:10 PM
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Then again if your to be wife had sex with you early on because chemistry was there I would consider it a double green flag vs. she's easy and i dont want her for sth serious Because you're contradicting yourself here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:04 PM
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Another I'm pretty sure I never even spoke to again. But you had sex with her, or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:03 PM
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I don't really have an answer to your damned if you do, damned if you don't predicament. I don't think there is an answer and I think it's a legitimate problem for women. This is exactly the issue I'm trying to highlight. It's not a problem for me, per se, but it is for a lot of younger women looking to get into a relationship for purposes of potential marriage and all that jazz. You seem a bit dismissive of the idea that women can use sex (the withholding or the giving) to manipulate. That's fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:02 PM
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Attack? You have a perception problem, then. I'm merely fascinated that most men in this sub will have sex with a woman on a first date if she acquiesces, but then immediately put her in the "not relationship material" category because of it. (Hence my previous question as to whether you'd consider the boring, but attractive woman for a relationship, and not just sex.) As already stated elsewhere, Red Pill men seem to want women to be the "gatekeepers of sex" while in the next breath complaining…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:06 PM
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But she should only do so with me and not with other men. The hypocrisy is strong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:52 PM
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I'm not putting words in your mouth. Just trying to get clarification. I'm a huge proponent of casual sex, but I can't fathom letting a guy stick his (condom-wrapped) dick in me if I think he's boring. That doesn't track for me. No D is that good. I'd rather use a vibrator than have sex with someone I don't even like. Guaranteed orgasm, too. lol Maybe it's so foreign to me because I lean sapiosexual. Boring wouldn't turn me on at all. More likely to be a complete turn off. So to me it sounds lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:50 PM
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I see the daily paternity test post has arrived 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:49 AM
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especially so for hetero women Why women more than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:22 PM
1

I was responding to “American women mostly”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:21 PM
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What a “confederate” take. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:34 PM
1

So why not just say you don’t want a woman who’s bisexual instead of “too bisexual”? It’s just a weird way of wording it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:26 PM
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I was once in a job where I worked alongside a lovely man. We were hired on at the same time, same seniority, same experience, same job. When annual raise time came around, he told me what they bumped him up to. It was 15% more than I was making. When I asked management to get me to the same salary level, they flat out told me and I quote: ”Well, Randy has a wife and kids so he needs it more than you do.” Do you know what happens to whistleblowers? [Archer] “Do you want to get get blacklisted as…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:19 PM
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Nah, I live it, tyvm, but in the infamous words of Journey: “Don’t stop believin’! Hold on to that feeeeelin’!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:44 PM
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Well, a 1 is straight 100%. (Oh, by the way, the pay gap is real.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:16 PM
1

I think in this case it would be more like a Magic 8 Ball. Or 20-sided polyhedron die.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:15 PM
1

Then why do so many men in the online dating subs say that they mark themselves as “apolitical” or lie about being conservative, because they know it will result in fewer matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:13 PM
2

I’m waiting for the: ”But bacon!” comment. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:42 PM
2

So, you’d be ok with a 3 on the Kinsey scale, but not a 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:39 PM
1

Yet you can’t help yourself! Aw, you’re adorable 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:20 PM
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Hell, my swipe right rate was 0.64% last I checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:17 PM
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You can hit the 3 little dots and select “Block Account”. I’m surprised someone inferior to you has to point that out to you. Really not sure what you want me to “feel bad” about here? I feel bad for having that extra slice of pizza, but that just means an extra 15 minutes in the gym. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:04 PM
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Am I putting some kind of gun to your head to read my comments? It’s really easy to block me if you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:50 PM
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Tetchy, today, are we? 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:39 PM
1

“Fucking communicate” I love Freudian slips!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:34 PM
1

So then you would get into a relationship with a pretty, but boring woman if she has sex with you on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:32 PM
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Ok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:22 PM
2

I think that deserves to be embroidered on a pillow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:02 PM
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I thought women would prefer having no sex for at least a year. I mean, that's totally up to you and the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:19 PM
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What double standard ? If you don't see it, I can't help you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:17 PM
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My thoughts exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:16 PM
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Nah. If I cared about what these men thought of me, I wouldn't put "Whoreasaurus Rex" in my flair. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:21 PM
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Not sure where you're getting "bitterness" from? Whatev's. lol It was a thought experiment brought on by the many comments I've read on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:14 PM
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My issue is with the men who will try to initiate sex on a first date, then shame the woman who gives in to him. Again, personally, I don't care either way. I simply find it hypocritical. As stated elsewhere, there seems to be a total dichotomy amongst TRP between expecting women to be the "sexual gatekeepers" and then in the next breath complaining that women are the supposed "sexual gatekeepers"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:13 PM
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I guess you could've read "you're" as "you are" vs. "you were", but I didn't mean hypothetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:08 PM
1

And then what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:07 PM
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Again women will break rules for guys they found arousing You're ok then with a woman breaking the rules as long as you're the one getting laid. Got it. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:07 PM
3

The double standard is still alive and well. Surprising coming from a "Blue Pill" guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:04 PM
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Okcupid in the 2000s is not Tinder, Hinge, or Bumble today. Or even a remotely scientific study.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:02 PM
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That's a first. lol Of course, you turned them down though, right? Because you wouldn't want to sully yourself with a 304!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:58 PM
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I personally don't have any issues WRT it. Perfectly fine with my choices. It's the double standard I'm trying to point out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:58 PM
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It's not "lesser known". The Kinsey scale goes from 1 to 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:55 PM
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Not sure what you're even talking about here, so can't give you an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:54 PM
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is she arsoused by him that she'll have sex with him by the first date So you've experienced women trying to initiate sex with you on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:51 PM
2

I was asking: Has that happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:50 PM
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Dated seriously? Only 1. Slept with? None of your business. You do know that women talk amongst each other, no? Also, go check out some of the online dating subs. Plenty of evidence there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:49 PM
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make accurate predictions by extrapolating behavioral cues Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:46 PM
1

Because you're a grown as woman who can say no? Sure. But you are then saying the man is blameless for trying to have sex on the first date? He can't help himself? Blame the testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:45 PM
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I don't care. I resent the implication. Don't care. There's a reason for it. Had you read the essay, there's a 5% chance you'd understand why. Clearly you don't want to know. That's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:41 PM
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Yes, they want the blushing virgin who has the sexual prowess of a porn star that she somehow gained via ... osmosis? And then 10 years later they're complaining on the deadbedrooms sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:39 PM
2

it's more like we want to avoid women who have sex on first date especially when we are young So, if you're on a first date, the woman initiates sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:35 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EPEkk6qWkg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DVV6bGayxDo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LR8W-k3dOP4 That's just the highlights :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:33 PM
2

That's pretty much the way I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:28 PM
2

I appreciate your honesty. I really mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:26 PM
2

Yes, I use that term frequently. It's true. We kinda have to. It's a really good essay, by the way. Did you actually read it? Maybe you'd understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:25 PM
2

Not trying to get a reaction, just a real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:23 PM
2

People on this sub are weird at times. On this, we can agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:15 PM
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i dont want my wife to sleep with a guy so easily But you'll have sex on a first date with a woman who will put out, then. You just won't consider her as "marriage material", is what it sounds like you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:14 PM
6

Well, you guys think women are all the same, so ...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:10 PM
2

I dunno man, did you see how he patted her down/grabbing her hips after hugging her at the RNC? So creepy. lol Or the way he kisses her vs. his "wife"? And that's in public!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:58 PM
4

Put off meaning, for the prospects of an LTR. Gotcha. Just confirming the double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:54 PM
1

But it wouldn't be ok if she has sex with you on the first date, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:54 PM
3

So you’re put off by women who “put out” on the first date? Does that mean they tried to initiate sex, but you turned them down?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:40 PM
5

But women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:36 PM
3

So do you tell the woman you’re expecting sex on the 5th date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:35 PM
1

Of course I would have to be the exception to the rule. It’s par for the course, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:12 PM
2

I mean, Trump wants to fuck his own daughter, so ….
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:00 PM
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Come on. If you’re so sure about yourself, you should be able to give me at least one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:59 PM
3

Madonna-whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:53 PM
2

Like ... what, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:14 PM
4

There is a reason that the biggest slut shamers were typically other women. So very, very, very wrong. A man may recognize intellectually that it would be better if most women waited longer; but he will often still get overcome by desire and try to make sex happen sooner than he intellectually feels is ideal. And if she gives in too soon, you'll get your rocks off but immediately write her off as a 304. Don't you see the total dichotomy of expecting women to be the "sexual gatekeepers" and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:11 PM
5

Low n, for instance, is a great predictor. There's no "pussy odometer", you know. Do you count the notches on her bed post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:07 PM
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he figures it out How? Truth serum? Talking in her sleep? He would be able to figure it out or suspect that something was up. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:06 PM
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Well, you and I know that. They don't seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:58 PM
3

What does age have to do with it? Is sex upon moving in too late nowadays? Yeah, you'd be in the minority there. Who moves in together before a year of serious dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:50 PM
2

It's a thought experiment. Engage your critical thinking. Totally in good faith!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:48 PM
4

Oh, I totally agree! You're talking about normal people there. Thus, TRP really has no idea what they are talking about when they say that all men are the same, although I've never read any Red Pillers actually saying this. The TRP guys say that all women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:46 PM
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If you put out on the first date for one guy, and withhold for the other guy, that other guy will see it as a lack of sexual desire. But ... how. do. you. you. know. what she did with the one guy and not you??? Men don't want to date women who don't sexually desire them. Duh. Neither do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:43 PM
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It shall be NOT greater than the shortest time one made the other guy wait. It shall ALSO be NOT LESS than what the other guy had to wait FOR. Aaaand how would you know what she has done in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:32 PM
1

focus on finding a guy who’s values towards sex line up with whatever yours are *whose, but ok So, how does this play out on a first date? Give me an example of the dialogue here. If you were someone that sleeps with people after the first date, How would you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:30 PM
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make a woman's N count higher Ah, yes ... the "pussy odometer" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:24 PM
5

For YOU it's 2 or 3 (which one is it now?), for another man it's 5 or more. It's stupid AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:23 PM
2

Yes, this whole thing is silly. You're catching on!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:21 PM
4

So, my point being: How is a woman to know what your magic number is? Guys in here say if she waits too long, it's not worth it, but if she gives in too quickly she's "for the streets".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:01 PM
6

The part about how you keep track of your ex's dating habits?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:58 AM
6

How? How would he know? What woman discusses these kind of details outside of her close friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:47 AM
5

Can you put words together into a sentence that makes more sense, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:29 AM
2

Yes, there are and I appreciate them. They are a few and far between though from what I see. The majority are TRP refugees.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:28 AM
3

My proof is my personal experience. Your proof is yours so …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:25 AM
1

Are you new to Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:21 AM
3

Oh, I know. I’m just poking the hornet’s nest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:14 AM
9

And how would you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:10 AM
2

Oh, make no mistake, I personally don’t give a rat’s ass. I’m just trying to call out the hypocrisy of the Red Pill men in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:09 AM
13

According to the RP men in this sub, you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:07 AM
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I’m not putting it solely on men. It’s a team effort. There are two humans involved in this process.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:05 AM
6

So do I. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:37 AM
1

My dude, this is Reddit. Are you new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:36 AM
4

OK. So for you it’s second date. For somebody else it’s the third of the fourth. What’s the magic number? How are we supposed to know which date is the magic number for you? Is it branded on your forehead? You guys are so fucking ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:34 AM
1

Yeah, you’re not grasping it. Not unsurprisingly. So, what’s the magic number?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:33 AM
-5

WTF? How is it “on me”? Nah. GTFO with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:31 AM
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Nah. Why would I? What’s my incentive here? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:30 AM
0

Wow, looking at the replies, you guys seem to be so triggered by this particular line! Fascinating!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:27 AM
1

I was responding to the comment above, but thanks for being patronizing! That never happens. How refreshing!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:26 AM
1

Of course you’re one of the “body count” guys. Tell me, does a woman’s pussy have an odometer? How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:24 AM
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I think you just perfectly summed up the men in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:23 AM
2

I have no idea. I have two friends who are pilots and I don’t find anything wrong with their voices.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:40 AM
1

And this affects your life how, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:36 AM
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I'm not you're "bruh" or whatever. If you think people are interchangable, then I feel sorry for you. Live long and prosper.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:18 AM
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Maybe you should ask yourself why you were in Reddit jail to begin with? Self-awareness is key!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:16 AM
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I did respond. Are you daft?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:13 AM
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Be pissed off, dude. Makes no difference to me. Why other people are bothered by what other people do is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:13 AM
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Every man on this sub has different expectations. Be it first date, second date, 4th date. We don't have a crystal ball to know which number is right for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:11 AM
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Heaven forbid you would have a relationship with equals! I feel sorry for you folk, and it makes me extra grateful for the sane men in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:10 AM
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Lost me at "female". Buh-bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:08 AM
1

Oh, it's you. No further explanation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:04 AM
1

Follow the link and you'll get a full lesson on it. Also, google/wikipedia is your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:56 AM
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Oh, sure! You're putting the onus on women. Gotcha. Not like women should expect for men to be responsible adults, right? You're basically making the case that men aren't fully formed humans. This is rich!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:53 AM
2

It was confusing to me too. Glad I'm not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:49 AM
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I gave you an answer and then some. Do you want more?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:49 AM
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Don't have sex on the first date, but don't make him wait. Seriously? Do you not see the ridiculousness of that statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:48 AM
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No, I don't give a rat's ass. Vocal fry is not gender specific. (Ira Glass comes to mind, but y'all don't strike me as the NPR type.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:45 AM
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You're not listening. If it's done right, you don't notice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:43 AM
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be better at vetting Why are you putting the onus on women? How about "men, be better"? don't have sex on the first date How about: Don't pressure the women to have sex on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:36 AM
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*you're
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:35 AM
8

Typical answer in this sub. All women are liars. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:34 AM
1

Be curious! Eager to learn new things! Try something different! I've run into more than one guy who said: "I don't read." (they're proud of it) or looking down on people who want to see the world/travel/experience different cultures. There's a whole anti-intellectual movement in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:33 AM
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You're asking women what they need to improve themselves? I guess if I'm going off of the comments I read in this sub (which is so not what I experience IRL). Women need to realize their value and not be subservient to a man. We're more than just a wet hole to stick a dick into. Make your own money so you're not dependent on anyone. Cultivate friendships with other women Find a hobby that you love Be in control of your fertility as much as possible. Invest in therapy. Everybody needs it to one e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:27 AM
0

None of the things you listed. Like 0. Those are all things TRP tell you are important. The things I value in a man are: Kindness Intelligence Self-awareness Healthy habits (working out, eating well (for the most part)) Ability to communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:12 AM
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He needs a Real DollTM or an AutoBlow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:01 AM
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The thing you don't realize is that cosmetic surgery that is done right, you don't notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:59 AM
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I mean, I agreed with you up until the "vocal fry". LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:58 AM
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Reading these comments. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:53 AM
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When a woman finds you hot enough, it honestly won’t matter Nope. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:50 AM
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They must be dumb, because yeah, we know y'all lie, but I figure it out way before clothes come off. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:49 AM
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You lie, like they all do. Then as soon as the woman figures it out, she dumps you. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:48 AM
2

I'll be sure to tell the buck 20 years younger than me that I'm invisible to him. Didn't seem like it a few hours ago! We'll have a good laugh about it after the 3rd go-round this weekend :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:32 AM
2

It sounds a little more serious than that! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:30 AM
2

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:32 AM
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Stereotyping man says what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:55 PM
2

*laughs in mid-50s*
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:11 PM
3

When does it stop, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:06 PM
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Why does this sub feel more red pilly by the day? Because it is. It's just a substitute for the banned TRP sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:01 PM
2

Amen, sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:59 PM
6

The use of the phrase "emotional tampon" tells me all I need to know about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:50 PM
1

Not if you go by most of the men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:08 PM
2

In America, if the government needs to know something, it will typically do so if they have a warrant. Ummmm ... does the name Edward Snowden ring a bell?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:07 PM
1

We'll have to agree to disagree, then. That is the complete opposite of my experience there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:52 PM
0

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:17 PM
1

Just thinking about it makes my blood boil. This would apply to any perfect stranger touching any part of my body uninvited, especially for the sole purpose of hitting on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:49 AM
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Lost me at “females”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:29 AM
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They’re looking for tradwives overseas. Those women are looking to escape from poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:29 AM
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I had this argument with one of these guys a week or two ago, complete with links and receipts and they still didn’t believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:25 AM
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I said above that the reason most women file for divorce is because it’s easier to be a single mom with kids than to be a married single mom with kids and an adult baby to take care of. Apparently this is lost on you. The men are the reason. It better for children to live in happily separated homes than miserable togetherness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:01 AM
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Apparently, this is why I have “magical fucking unicorn” in my flair, because I’m so unique that I’ve never run across these kinds of people. I’m not entirely sure that you can claim this sub is “balanced”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:29 AM
2

Because men never have anal sex with a woman. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:10 AM
2

Homophobia. That’s the difference 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:10 AM
5

I dunno man, I just had a date with a guy at a food truck gathering. It was fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:09 AM
8

Incel economics? Like boy math?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:05 AM
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If you can’t afford $500 for a trip, then yeah, it’s bleak for you. Who hates passport bros? They can do whatever hell they want. Most of them just seem to think that threatening us with going overseas will make us fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:02 AM
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Men aren't as shallow as women. This is the funniest thing I’ve read all day! Kudos!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:55 AM
1

Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:04 AM
3

No, men afraid of bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:37 AM
2

Again, you guys must live in opposite world because where I live, it’s men who are afraid of bisexuals not women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:15 AM
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“Liberal feminist” is redundant. 😂 I haven’t met a conservative feminist in my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:53 PM
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I wouldn’t be able to determine that because I don’t hang out there. Like I said, not my jam. Not my people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:49 PM
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I’m confused. If you’re saying nobody does, then it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:46 PM
3

What the hell is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:40 PM
3

Yeah, definitely not me. I would legalize abortion on demand, legalize all drugs, free birth control for everybody, legalize prostitution. I’m all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:37 PM
2

Shit. I wanna live where you live. That’s cheap as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:29 PM
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Sure, bud. I feel sorry for you if see it that way. Not what a healthy relationship is based on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:07 PM
2

70%? Was that a Cosmo poll? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:05 PM
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Only if it’s someone else’s. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:02 PM
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Making abortion illegal just means there will be more back alley abortions and more women having complications or even dying from them. It’ll still happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:57 PM
2

I have not. Not my mileu, I guess. I don't identify as "4th wave" and neither do any of the women or even young women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:41 PM
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Nah, it's the religious nut jobs on the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:35 PM
7

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:33 PM
2

Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:30 PM
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There you go again with the "sexual market". Don't you realize how odd that sounds? Like the stock market? Buy, sell, trade? Ah, wait. Just realized it. You think of women as commodities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:29 PM
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"Sexual market"? Whatever. So, you also then realize that more women will be free to become sex workers and take your money for it? If legalized, you'll be able to get sex from a professional. If that's what you want, then obviously you're not looking for a committed relationship. Also, the legions of men who are unable to find a woman to have sex with them can get their needs met with a sex worker. Really not seeing the downside to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:27 PM
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Not against legalizing sex work at all. I'm all for it! Really not seeing where this would be "bad" for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:15 PM
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Don't tell him China has abortion on demand!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:11 PM
0

So really this is just a western issue. American women mostly. The issue is with the puritan/sexually repressed culture in the US. When I lived in Europe (continent, not UK), everybody was very sex-positive and nobody gave a flying fuck as to how many partners someone had in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:08 PM
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pulling my earbuds out of my ear and asking for a date Oh, man. I would go ballistic if a guy did that to me. Probably reach for my pepper spray.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:53 PM
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"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." So, do as you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:30 PM
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I don’t know where you live, but a good friend of mine is a family court judge. 50/50 custody is standard nowadays. Only if there are mitigating circumstances or the father doesn’t want 50/50 will it be less. In her experience only about half want 50/50 and the others want their “freedom” and get every other weekend plus one evening during the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:15 AM
0

A lot of times it’s easier to be a single mom rather than a married single mom with an adult child to take care of. That’s why most women initiate divorce. Men are happy with the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:16 PM
0

Confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:10 PM
2

That’s not the point, but you do you, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:55 PM
2

I ask myself that same question every time I read this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:33 PM
2

Younger women are going for older men (isn't that what you guys always complain about)? "Quick sex." Lol Tell me you're a lousy lover without telling me you're a lousy lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:21 PM
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Oh I’m absolutely going to shame childless women. Go for it, dude! Doesn't affect my paycheck or my life either way :) But for accuracy, we're childFREE, not childLESS. There are unfortunately women who would love to conceive, but medically cannot. There's a difference. You don’t get to postpone adulthood until you’re forty without getting mocked Postpone adulthood until you're forty? LOL What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:14 PM
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Not evolution. Biology. You stated: Nobody would be having sex if it didn’t also makey de babies. Categorically untrue. Unless you're actively trying to conceive, you're not having sex to make babies. You're having sex because orgasms feel good. Otherwise birth control would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:12 PM
1

It is not "rude" to talk to a stranger. Talking to a stranger vs. hitting on them are ENTIRELY DIFFERENT INTERACTIONS. Asking for directions vs. hitting on them are ENTIRELY DIFFERENT INTERACTIONS. Asking somebody to help you reach something at the store vs. hitting on them are ENTIRELY DIFFERENT INTERACTIONS. Online dating vs. job searching are ... you guessed it, say it with me ... ENTIRELY DIFFERENT INTERACTIONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:41 PM
2

Exactly. This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:24 PM
1

Lol, that's cool but notice how you went from "I can't exchange messages" to "I don't want to". Yes, do you not see the difference? I don't want to get to know man better who thinks that walking up to me in a parking lot is the way to get me to go on a date with him. It's rude. I don't want to date a rude person. The 70 year old lady asking for help at the store is entirely different than being approached for a potential date. Apples and oranges. Dating apps are more than just one picture (for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:16 PM
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First off, kudos for giving her your number instead of asking for hers. That's the way to go if you ask me. It puts the ball in her court and doesn't put her on the spot and in a possibly uncomfortable position. Wish this became more mainstream. The problem with cold approaching is that one needs to differentiate where it's appropriate and where it's not. There's a time and a place. Accosting me in a parking lot is not the time, nor the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:10 PM
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Yeah, that's some olympic-level non sequitur right there. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:04 PM
2

A coffee date is certainly a low effort way to get to know each other a bit, just don't let him walk you out to your car at the end of the date so that he can take down your license plate number and find your address that way so he can stalk you when you politely turn him down for a second date. Ask me how I know this. True crime didn't ruin cold approaching. PUAs did starting in the early aughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:01 PM
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You are more likely to find a classy long-term woman cold approaching in a local jazz concert than any nightclub. Approaching a women at an event where you might have something in common, like a jazz concert, or even a shared hobby/interest is entirely different than approaching a women running errands, on public transportation, or grocery shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:58 AM
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You can exchange messages with someone who cold approaches you for at least a few days as well. No. I don't care to get to know someone who invades my space uninvited and is judging me based on my looks alone. That's a disqualifier for me. "Interacting in a more intimate way than online"? Hardly. Explain your rationale for this. Is it intimate when I'm grocery shopping and he can see what's in my cart? WTF? when that exact same standard is as applicable to dating apps I explained to you above ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:54 AM
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A plant-based diet and weight training 5-6 days a week seems to be working for me. I'm an "elder" Gen X (mid-50s) and I'm bedding men up to half my age on the reg.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:39 AM
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“You people”? How condescending. With online dating, I know more about the person than just their outward appearance. Hopefully there’s at least some bio and we will have messaged each other for at least a few days before meeting in person. How do you not see the advantage in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:12 AM
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That’s a given. It’s the reason I categorically don’t date men in sales, marketing, cops or other types of LEOs, military and such; finance guys are iffy. Same with lawyers. Sales guys can lie to you with a straight face because they do it for a living. That’s a big nope from me. BTDT.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:20 AM
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And you think being physically attracted to someone isn’t a good enough reason to get to know someone better? That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:09 AM
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How was I open to being approached while sitting in my car in a parking lot of a strip mall reading messages on my phone before going to the gym? This happened to me a few weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:57 AM
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“Love at first sight” is a misnomer. In actuality it’s “lust at first sight”. Norepinephrine is a helluva drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:44 AM
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At least once a week. Not as much as when I was in my 20s and 30s, but yes, it still happens. My ass isn't wrinkly. You can bounce a quarter off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:28 AM
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Oh, you sweet summer child. I envy your naïveté.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:24 AM
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Funny some yahoo commented on my post like having kids is not pushed on people. Its very much pushed still today ... You only have to read comments on this sub to verify this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:20 AM
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but what about some guy just striking up a nice lil chat? Seems harmless to you, I'm sure, but it gets really annoying when you can't run errands, go the grocery store, or go about your business on a daily basis and feel like you have to be "on guard" at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:16 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:14 AM
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Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:56 AM
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The issue I have with cold approaching is that you know absolutely nothing about me other than my looks/appearance. I find it objectifying. Surely most women have been in a position where they want to talk to a guy they think is attractive but don’t want to make the first move and hope that he does This is 2023. Women should not rely on the man to make the "first move". Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:49 AM
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Because men have higher levels of testosterone. This is basic biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:19 AM
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Well, I guess you’re right. We are already in back alley abortion territory, thanks to the religious right bozos. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:05 AM
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Hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:05 AM
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So predictable, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:36 PM
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The benefits women receive ON TOP of their contributions is the money that they DID NOT EARN What are these supposed benefits that single, unmarried women receive on top? I followed your link to the ssa benefits and it's not clear to me. Point me to the exact table number where your point is proven. ELI5.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:26 PM
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Yeah, I agree. He makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:21 PM
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I call for modern times when women still need men in every aspect and facet of their lifestyle Sorry, Charlie. The 50s ain't coming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:19 PM
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Post tax? That's some bullshit, right there. I think you should at least be able to deduct it at the end of the year. But I don't make the laws, nor do I have a dog in that fight. I do believe the person paying child support gets to claim the child/children as a dependent. It's shitty, I agree. Or you could get full custody and have her pay you child support. If she qualifies for Medicaid, her income is very low (poverty level) and one could argue that the kids would be better off with the paren…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:55 PM
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Some can. Some can't. One past boyfriend felt "emasculated" when I picked up the check at the restaurant. He got so butthurt that I got him his own card (on my account) so that it would appear that he was the one paying and could pretend that he was a generous tipper. Needless to say it didn't work out for various reasons, but that was one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:29 PM
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Don't know where you're getting that from, but I don't (nor do women I know) expect that. I'm no sugar mama and do expect him to cover costs that are his alone (clothes, car, etc). All the things he would pay for if he weren't with me. But as for vacations and anything above and beyond? I don't expect him to cover anything. If he wants to pitch in, fine. I don't expect a man to overextend himself for something that I want. My only condition is that he can accept it as the gift it is intended to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:14 PM
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How would you feel about dating a woman who made more than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:04 PM
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Nope. A lot of men don't want to date a woman who makes more than them. They find it somehow "emasculating".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:02 PM
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I will happily die alone before living with a man again who is an asshole and makes my life miserable. I don't know what's so controversial about that. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:01 PM
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Absolutely. I was in the same boat, so I can attest to it personally. I knew I didn't want kids when I was 15 y/o. But we're conditioned to believe it's just what you do. Follow the path of everyone before you (relationship escalator); you have no real choice in the matter. It wasn't until I was 25 when I realized: Wait, you can't make me have kids! Then when I found alt.support.childfree on Usenet back in the day, it was a watershed moment when I found many other people like me and realized I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:51 PM
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My only quibble now is that you seem to think women have children in a vacuum. Pregnancy doesn’t happen without sperm. What of the men? By not paying child support aren’t they the ones taking advantage of the system? I would fully support abortion on demand. No cost, no questions asked, up to the point of viability. That would be infinitely less expensive than government assistance in the long run. As far as giving up kids for adoption, do you want to reopen orphanages again? That would cost mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:35 PM
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Yes, yes, yes. I know you'd be thrilled seeing people die from hunger, unhoused and preventable/treatable illnesses. We've established that. Go live off the grid if you don't want to participate in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:45 PM
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Everyone (regardless of gender) who falls below the income threshold depends on everyone else (regardless of gender) who do pay taxes. I pay close to $4K a year for "school taxes" and don't have children. Society benefits from an educated populace. You can't just opt out of taxes that you don't agree with or that don't benefit you directly. That's not how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:09 PM
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I don't want women to 'need' men again, I just don't want to pay taxes to subsidize them, like medicare/medicaid, SS, SNAP, etc. They can be strong and independent without my tax money. Then this is unnecessary and merely inflammatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:41 PM
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Do you really want just a "pussy" at all cost and don't care about her as a living human being with thoughts and feelings? Well, I think some definitely do. Can't count the number of times I've seen men in this sub comment to the effect of "that's all women have to offer".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:50 PM
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I don't want women to 'need' men again, I just don't want to pay taxes to subsidize them, like medicare/medicaid, SS, SNAP, etc. They can be strong and independent without my tax money. Didn't we cover this last week? Women aren't the only beneficiaries of government assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:48 PM
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Concur. I sure as hell didn't want to subject another human to this crazy planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:53 PM
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empty house with no-one but herself and pets and wine boxes, while having enough stocks and gold and crypto to last three lifetimes, Don't threaten me with a good time! (Need to add in some vibrators, though.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:37 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:22 PM
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That wasn't the point of my comment, but ok. Nobody is putting a gun to your head to believe her. So, don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:27 PM
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Nevermind. This is lost on you. Clearly I would never be attracted to you. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:43 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:32 PM
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No, it’s more like: I can’t be attracted to men that aren’t smart. Do you see the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:31 PM
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men with advanced degrees “Edusexual” I already told you that was "sapio-sexual".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:11 PM
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Because your assertion was false.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:08 PM
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No, you're just so "superior" that you invalidate anyone else's opinion that doesn't agree with yours. Do you know what those kind of people are called? Your degree in Human Sexuality is from what university?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:58 PM
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Reluctant, how? I said it's not universal. It doesn't factor in for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:57 PM
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Well that seems like a silly thing to not count as a factor in your attraction To some people, it doesn't factor. We're all different. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:42 PM
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no woman whatsoever would date a man who doesn`t have any of those traits because then he is not physically or sexually attractive Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:42 PM
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Feel free to ignore it then! Doesn't apply to you anyway. Call it bullshit all you want, that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. No need to tell other people how they feel. You're not in their head or their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:39 PM
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I'm not demi, but I'm sapio-sexual and I have in fact repeatedly jumped on a 5'9" (my height) balding Indian guy's dick over the last 12 years, because he's smart af. Just because you don't have the ability to see nuances doesn't mean they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:35 PM
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What part of "it's not limited to straight or gay or NB" do you not understand? Demisexual is not reserved for heterosexuals. Can't you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:33 PM
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Physical attraction IS sexual attraction. There can be a difference between "I find this person attractive, but I wouldn't want to fuck them." and "I find this person physically attractive and I would want to fuck them."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:32 PM
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It doesn't, but keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:30 PM
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No, it means that she can't be sexually attracted to someone she doesn't have a connection with. Not just a personality, but need to really getting to know someone first. It's not limited to straight or gay or NB. It's as much of a thing as any other "-sexual".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:27 PM
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It's a real thing. Like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:23 PM
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One of the many reasons I don't reply to these asinine posts anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:22 PM
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Don't you just love it when you answer a question and these yahoos tell you: "No, that's not really what you think! You're wrong about your own opinion, woman!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:42 PM
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Back in the day, users would only swipe right on the people they would actually want to meet if they matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:28 PM
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Then what are you going on about if you're Canadian? Canada has universal healthcare, no? Canadian Pension Plan vs. Social Security. I know if I get hurt and long term disabled, I'll just die Unless you off yourself, there's a pretty good chance you will suffer in pain for quite some time. I don't know what the laws are in the Philippines, but in the US, most insurance companies will not pay out if you commit suicide. I'm sure your mail-order bride (assuming that's why you want to move there) is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:54 PM
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I'm pro enjoying the consequences of your bad actions and not forcing people to bail out bad decisions through taxes. My sister damaged her neck while working as a nurse at a long-term healthcare facility for adults with developmental disabilities. The surgeon botched her C5-C7 laminectomy and she was unable to work at all at the age of 38. But I guess if you had anything to say about it, you'd have her euthanized because she was a "burden" on the taxpayer since she was on SSDI. What was her bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:16 PM
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You want sick people to suffer or die because they can’t afford healthcare? I have no sympathy for you. Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:38 PM
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Nope. Not at all. I'm very supportive to all of the men in my life (even my ex-husband!) Maybe not my step-brother because he's an asshole. The men I surround myself with strongly support feminism (2nd-3rd wave, not the toxic 4th wave bs) and I support them whenever I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:56 PM
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The men in my life don't whine about this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:51 PM
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Do you think any female partner will support? Yes, if we see you making some real effort besides whinging online. We're not going to do the work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:44 PM
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Women are voting to raise your taxes? Sure, buddy. Got some backup for that claim? In November of 2022, individuals who voted (not just registered to vote) were 53% women and 51.3% men (U.S. Census Bureau). Those 2.7% of women are the ones that are out to get you, right? medicare, social security, unemployment benefits These are not gender specific. You're also confusing medicare with medicaid, which is for the most part equally divided between men and women. The child tax credit is for anybody,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:40 PM
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It's stupid, is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:20 PM
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Ah, this explains why you’re so hostile towards me. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:50 AM
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Whore-maker apps. 😂 What does that say for the men on said apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:34 AM
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Yeah, this sub is a black hole of negativity. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:33 AM
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No. We don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:30 AM
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This sub just gets more ridiculous by the minute. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:43 AM
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Which blue pill tenants, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:51 PM
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The quality of male sperm also declines in multiple ways once you near 40 y/o. So, hop to it if you want offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:11 PM
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Oh, you're one of those. Are you going to list all of the things that women are supposed to do in order to sway conception to one gender or the other? Like, pH level of the vagina, foods she eats, her stress levels, certain positions, Chinese astrology, doing a headstand during a full moon? (Temperature is a new one for me, I'll give you that.) Anything to distract from the cold hard fact that it's the man's sperm that determines the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:57 PM
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Women only notice the top 1% of guys This gets trotted out on this sub multiple times a day. Funny how the percentage seems to change depending on the guy posting it. If it were so true, there would be a real static number. Not pulling a number out of ... a hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:30 PM
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Wait. I was told by a Red Pill guy that pussies have odometers on them! Was he lying? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:25 PM
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I believe the best sexual achievement and metric of your sexual worth is taking a bunch of virginities. Sure. Having sex with a lot of women who have no experience makes you "the best they've ever had". Until they have sex with the next guy. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:24 PM
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or if this is more of an internet incel/pill phenomenon In a word: Yes. IME this is specific to the Red Pill community.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:21 PM
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Oh, is it 1% today? What happened to 80/20, top 10%, top 5%?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:08 PM
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I found this a little ambiguous as well, because by the numbers "high income", but I spend like I'm "average income". I live well beneath my means and that's how I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:01 PM
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You are equating an assault to a hate crime What are you going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:50 PM
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doesnt matter had sex Oh, yeah. That sounds like a super responsible approach to bringing another human into the world. "Hey, kid. Look, I just wanted to nut into your mom. No hard feelings, eh?" Make sure you set a fund aside for your future offspring's therapy. They're going to need it. LOL ​ you think conducting a date like an interveiw makes men want to commit What are you even saying? Maybe put some effort into sentence structure because I don't have the time to try and translate your mumbo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:48 PM
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Not just the first one! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:09 PM
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Who says I'm bitter? Are you projecting? I know a few women who are, but I'm not one of them. I'm pretty happy with my life as it is right now and so is my guy. Sorry if that bursts your bubble. ¯\(ツ)/¯ Be well!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:05 PM
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That's why ED meds (Viagra, et al.) are used prolifically. It's mainstream and commonplace now. Go tell the seniors in The Villages (Central Florida) that sex sucks in their 60s and 70s and watch them laugh at you. It's known as the "STD capital of America". LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:34 PM
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Men at 30 very often feel no rush because we can have kids at 50 if we want. Men's sperm quality starts declining around 40. Lower sperm count, motility, morphology (shape), and fertility. I mean, men *can* absolutely have kids into their 60s and 70s (Al Pacino, Gordon Ramsey, Robert DeNiro, Mick Jagger, David Letterman, for example). Should you? Of course that's up to the individual to decide. Women are having babies well into their 40s now due to advances in medicine. But think about having a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:27 PM
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Women become more bitter as they age Hmm. I wonder why that is? Could it be that she is bitter because of the shit people she's encountered? Nah, that couldn't be it. Bitter women just get that way with no external input. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:13 PM
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No insult intended Yet you just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:09 PM
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No. There are many different types of romantic feelings. Infatuation, lust, limerence, devotion, adoration, and yes, love. This is an entertaining podcast episode that describes the different hormones that kick in at different times and how they affect us. https://radiolab.org/podcast/91744-this-is-your-brain-on-love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:52 PM
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YOu are an inspiration Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:29 PM
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by 30 men aren't even horny What the everloving f*ck?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:28 PM
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Ah, yes. You're trying to tell me how I feel. So novel! LOL So it's fine for him to comment morose and negative replies over and over ITT, eh? Whatever. You know, I thought we established last week that you don't like the things I say in this sub, so why not just block me and get it over with? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:13 PM
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Yes. “Teenagers” applies to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:08 PM
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Sure. Another man on Reddit telling me how to comment. So droll.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:36 PM
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I’ll tell my great-grandmother that she was wrong if I see her in the afterlife 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:20 PM
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Doesn’t have anything to do with losing things. You just get less and less bothered about what other people think of you and live life more genuinely. It’s freeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:18 PM
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Not all women want children. The “biological clock” is mostly a social construct and peer pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:17 PM
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Can confirm 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:15 PM
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Reading some of these guys’ opinions makes me extra thankful for the men in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:44 AM
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Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:34 AM
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How can straight men be “full of cum”? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:00 AM
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I didn’t come up with that saying. It’s been around for many decades. There’s a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:54 AM
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It’s really sad, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:53 AM
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Don’t believe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:52 AM
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I wish a motherf*cker would!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:51 AM
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Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:48 AM
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40s are even better. Once you run out of fucks to give, the world is infinitely better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:48 AM
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You sound like you have a reading comprehension problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:42 AM
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As you should. I’ve earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:41 AM
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I had a nap this afternoon, so I’m good. Thanks for your concern, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:36 AM
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You’re the one who called me princess, you wannabe pastry chef.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:12 AM
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Yes, I’m sure. a) The store wasn’t busy. I didn’t see any other women around. b) I looked straight at him after he did it. There was no doubt he was targeting me. c) This happens to me almost every week (not the wolf whistle necessarily, but getting cold approached mostly). I assure you I’m not inviting this in any way. As a matter of fact, I intentionally dress down when I’m running errands. I do not have huge tits (I’m a smallish D cup) nor a huge ass. I do work out most every day and I powerl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:10 AM
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Yup. I was 5 y/o when I was first sexualized by a stranger. These dudes don’t get it. They never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:51 AM
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Typical Red Pill guy. Won’t listen to anything that goes against his rigid belief. Why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:48 AM
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If I’m a princess, why are you even talking to me, peasant? Know your place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:40 AM
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I don’t care if they look, stare, whatever. Just wish they could keep it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:38 AM
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Gaslighting is serious shit. Don’t dilute it by using that word frivolously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:37 AM
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I also don’t know what he means by “meeting”. I walked past this guy in a grocery store. I wasn’t hanging out in a bar all dolled up looking for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:34 AM
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For real. This guy was in his late 30s/early 40s. He had some balls though, because said fire department is less than a mile down the road. If I really wanted to be a bitch, I could’ve sent an email to the chief of the station informing him that his employees are being lewd towards women while on duty (and in uniform). That’s some “conduct unbecoming” shit right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:26 AM
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I didn’t. Why would I? You are misinterpreting my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:15 AM
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Young, dumb, and full of cum. So the saying goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:11 AM
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Could’ve fooled me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:02 AM
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I can’t argue against such ridiculousness. He’s so far gone that anything I say isn’t going to register.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:01 AM
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Lost me at "female women".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:58 AM
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I don't understand why people seek out relationships past 30 or let alone after a divorce. What are you, 16?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:56 AM
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You sound jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:50 AM
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It's not real sympathy. It's sour grapes. The thing that amuses me the most is that they actually think it hurts my feelings. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:48 AM
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Honestly, if I could tell you why, I could get them to stop doing it to me and start doing it to you :D Good luck for realz!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:47 AM
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Free advice: Maybe if you put some effort into actually learning how to play an instrument (not your keyboard or your imaginary tiny violin) you wouldn't have such a problem. Musicians get laid. Hell, even my 5'5" guy friend who plays a 17th century lute in a chamber music group is swimming in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:46 AM
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Nobody was asking you. I was talking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:35 AM
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I appreciate the thought, but I really wasn't looking for sympathy (for those yahoos reading this). It's just frustrating that it doesn't seem like I can leave the damn house sometimes without being objectified. Sometimes, I really miss COVID days. Got everything delivered to my house and had my peace and quiet. Oh, I know what these bozos in here are going to say: "It's flattering! You should feel good about it! You want the validation!" No. No, I don't. I don't want or need the fucking validat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:09 AM
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I honestly don't know what's wrong. I can't go a g-d week without getting hit on and I'm in my fucking 50s. Just today at the grocery store I'm minding my own damn business, wearing jeans shorts (that fall just above the knee) and a baggy T-shirt, no makeup, hair in a ponytail, flip flops and granny reader glasses perched halfway down my nose. Some firefighter dude thought it would be cute to wolf-whistle me. :eyeroll:
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:57 PM
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Romance declines steeply into the mid 20s before it falls off a cliff in the 30s After 30 relationships become cold and transactional Sex is mediocre at best and also becomes transactional If you are 25 or older and haven't had a lover then you'll never experience love at its best. You'll always be developmentally stunted in romance and love. Love and romance in the 30s or later is like trying to bring a rotting corpse back. So very, very wrong. But if that’s what you want to believe, by all mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:50 PM
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There’s more to the world than just the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:48 PM
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I didn't look at cities in particular, but I'm sure the Google oracle can tell you. I would guess the list of cities would look a little different, but again, I think "per capita" is more relevant than just pure numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:33 PM
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Well, London is a city, not a country, so that's probably why. Hong Kong is technically a part of China, but it does have its own degree of autonomy. So that could be quibbled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:23 PM
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The USA is the wealthiest country with the most millionaires. Maybe by the numbers, but not per capita. The US is fairly large, so yes, more people live here. Ergo, more millionaires. Per capita (that means percentage-wise) the highest rate of millionaires are in: Iceland Luxembourg Switzerland Hong Kong Australia USA I know USA-ians tend to be jingoistic, but we're not the only country in the world. We do however objectively and by far lead the world in incarceration rates (followed by Rwanda, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:58 PM
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Ah, so mail order brides?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:50 PM
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Who's complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:49 PM
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Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:11 PM
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Apparently Reddit is governed by EEOC regulations. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:33 PM
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Go for it, dude! You think women are going to care and somehow change for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:29 PM
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You’d have to be good at it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:09 PM
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I don’t care. I don’t ask about past relationships or sex-capades. The past is the past and you can’t go back and change it, so why dwell on it? As long as the STD panel is clean, I don’t care how many women (or men) he slept with before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:16 AM
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Learning? 😂 Nobody on either side in this sub is going to change their mind on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:08 AM
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Chewing too loud or slurping drives me insane. I have misophonia. That won’t fly with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:32 PM
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If the average is 4 times a month and some couples are having sex 3-5 times a week. Imagine what’s on the lower end? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:48 PM
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My Starbucks date took down my license plate number and used it to find my address and stalk me after I politely turned him down for a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:29 PM
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Come on. Tinder is the bottom of the barrel. Lol Great for ONS but not much else nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:24 PM
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World peace!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:22 PM
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I get it. You’re new here. I’m going to be polite about this: I do not take kindly to people telling me how or how not to comment on this platform. Only my boss gets to tell me what to do (and I’m my own boss). Take your tone policing elsewhere, please. I really don’t care about your opinion of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:54 PM
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Well, once you have kids they're kinda part of the package LOL In the case of my best friend, she was single for years after the divorce. She wasn't dating men to "take her in" (actually, she had her own house and her new husband moved in with her). But she was looking for companionship and all the other things that go with a relationship. She wasn't out to "get" a man to support her or whatever you're trying to imply. She found a man and they liked each other, dated for a while, then got marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:24 PM
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Do you really want me to tally up the AWALT comments on this sub for just one 24-hour period?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:31 PM
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That's all this sub is. Almost every post. Red Pill vs. Blue Pill. Women vs. Men. Women are bad. Women are evil. Women are selfish and narcissistic, they only get on dating apps for validation and the dopamin hit. All women want to do is snag a man to enslave him, beat him down, make him pay for everything, emasculate him, withhold sex (while calling women who enjoy sex "sluts" and "whores"), and nag him to death and then divorce him so she can take half of all he's worked for. I started countin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:30 PM
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They log on and get gassed up by the dopamine hit they receive from average guys throwing infinite attention and validation at them You guys have some really strange views about women. No wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:41 PM
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No. Not all women desperately need validation from men. Sorry to burst your bubble. “… they gradually become invisible by 45.” *Laughs in mid-50s*
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:12 PM
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I do approach men. Granted, it doesn’t happen very often, but i have no problem doing it. I have calling cards with just my name, number, and email on it. That way it puts the ball in his court whether he wants to contact me or not. To me, this is much more preferable than putting someone on the spot and asking them for their number. I prefer that strategy because personally I get annoyed when men cold approach me when I’m running errands and then get butthurt when you turn them down and don’t g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:57 PM
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This type of post is on one of the OLD subs every damn day. 🥱 The woman who hates that men don’t make the first move anymore needs to suck it up and join us in the 21st century. Women can approach men. Really!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:47 AM
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Yeah, I pay for the landscapers to do it every week. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:26 AM
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That’s saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:21 AM
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Aside from that, the woman would have to be in her fertile window for this to work. We only ovulate once a month(-ish).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:19 AM
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Yeah, unhappiness because he isn’t pulling his weight helping with the kid, or because he reveals himself as an asshole, or because he doesn’t do shit around the house so she figures she might as well do it on her own without the addition of having to take care of the grown man baby, too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:27 AM
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“But … but … I saw it on TikTok!”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:55 AM
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How young are these girls? I have nieces that range from 18 to 29 and none of them are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:21 AM
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Dude. No. Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:02 AM
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And they wonder why they can’t attract women with that attitude 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:07 AM
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50 shades makes a mockery of D/s relationships. So cringe. So, so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:01 AM
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Id say a lot of women still in your situation ask for what I’m talking about. Then why did you say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:25 AM
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Most 'femcels' just seems to transition from femcel to cat ladies as they get older. At least that's the impression i get. Where are you getting this impression from?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:18 PM
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Where are you seeing this time and time again? Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:14 PM
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I don't think RP guys can wrap their brain around a 50/50 relationship. It's a partnership, not a hierarchy. You know, we each take care of each other? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:13 PM
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Nope. Not at all. Egalitarian all the way, except in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:12 PM
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Just sayin’. Also, not everyone, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:58 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:56 PM
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You're the one who mentioned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:32 PM
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They lived in an apartment the first few years until they could afford a house. Can't really work on cars without a garage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:27 PM
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I mean, you need a license to catch a fish, hunt a deer or connect a trailer but you don't need one to MAKE A HUMAN LIFE? You're preaching to the choir, sir. I've been saying this for years. You need to take a test for a driving permit, in my county you need a permit to panhandle, you need a license to CUT HAIR. Any alley cat can breed. There's no skill to it, really. Hell, even Sudafed is more regulated in the US. But mandatory (or any!) parenting classes? Pish posh!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:26 PM
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Your Ph.D. in psychology is from which university?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:18 PM
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Some of you all would be a lot happier when you stop caring what others think. Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:11 PM
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Sure, but then you have an abortion. Not everybody is comfortable doing that. It's a very personal decision. Especially women who were planning on children in the future and always wanted them. Maybe it's a religious thing. For some, it's not as cut and dry. Now for me? I'm CF too and knew since I was 15 that I didn't want kids. The one time I got pregnant, I was barely 25 and married; we were in the process of separating. One stupid night of going out to shoot pool, having a few drinks, got bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:08 PM
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To paint all single mothers with the same brush is really disingenuous. Ah, but that is this sub's forte!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:46 PM
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It's easy not to get a bad reputation. Don't be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:44 PM
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Even celebrities care about how they are perceived. Because their job is "image". Their livelihood depends on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:43 PM
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That's pretty sad, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:43 PM
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It's not hard. Really. Being your authentic self will serve you better in every area of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:40 PM
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Gossiping is one of the most worthless ways to spend your time and energy. It only generates negative energy. Why do that to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:40 PM
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Everyone does. No. Not everyone does. You get to a point in life where you really have zero fucks to give about other people and how they lead their lives unless it affects you directly. That saying "live and let live"? It exists for a reason. Caring about what others think of you leads to a "keeping up with the Joneses" mentality that does not serve people well and makes people succumb to societal pressures and external expectations, rather than one's true desires that leads to happiness and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:36 PM
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While I believe that single men with no kids should only date single women with no kids Why? This almost sounds like: "You should date within your race/culture" bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:28 PM
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How did she choose poorly, exactly? She didn't know about the never ending restorations until a few years in. Was she supposed to have some kind of crystal ball to see into the future? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:29 PM
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And you've been married how long? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:10 PM
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RP claims that all women go for the top %. And the top 10%, 5%, 1%, 3.14159% (or whatever the number du jour is) are all "Chads, Tyrones, or Enriques"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:48 PM
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My best friend was married to a man who was an antique car enthusiast. She knew this and was perfectly fine with him having at least 3 cars he was "restoring" (but never finished) at any given time and did not begrudge him his hobby and the hours he spent in his garage. He was a decent dad for a number of years. They had two girls and then he pressured her into having a 3rd child because he was hellbent on having a boy to "carry on the family name". Guess what? They had another girl. He was not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:14 PM
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You've never seen a married couple with more than one child? How bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:37 PM
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Lizard brain's gonna lizard. The sure sign of an unevolved man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:34 PM
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Women need to understand this We don't care. Die mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:20 PM
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Not everybody's genes need or deserve to be replicated. I know, a lot of men think they are special snowflakes and believe that the world can't survive without popping out a mini-me or two. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:28 PM
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And most of the posts in here are based on scientific research? Puh-leese.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:22 PM
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Why does she need to know. Why would I tell her anything at all? She needs to know because it's only fair for her to know what kind of mindset she's dealing with. But plenty of people hide their true nature when it comes to dating and then after you get comfortable in the relationship and the mask falls. This is the part where you guys say: "Well, you should've picked a better man!" I'm not personally invested in this man, so he can do whatever he wants. I only wonder if he's so certain about wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:14 PM
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This again? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:42 PM
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Mhmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:01 PM
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as it is we already have weirdos who think public libraries are a waste of American tax money. Exactly. Conservatives are positively allergic to any kind of government assistance (unless it's bailing out banks, or agriculture subsidies). FOX "news" would have a field day with a government-run OLD app.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:00 PM
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Oh, the lies they tell themselves. It's actually quite amusing. Sad, but still amusing. This guy sounds like he has a virgin fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:54 PM
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A woman’s pussy gets looser with use. The more men she has been with the looser it gets. Jesus take the wheel! Clearly you have no idea what you're talking about. Do you also believe that women absorb the DNA of every man they have sex with? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:51 PM
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This is about bringing awareness to the fact that most women have “roast beef” vaginas Learn some anatomy, you rube. It's called the vulva. The vagina is internal. If someone is so turned off by it, might I suggest a Fleshlight?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:47 PM
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Preach, my childfree brother!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:42 PM
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they can't sense a jack shit, and most of them overestimate how interested a woman is in a sexual encounter by a huge margin Insert butterfly meme: "Is this flirting?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:34 PM
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Yeah but that's to be noticed by men Push the other button. It'll say "everything women do is to attract a man".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:28 PM
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Sure, buddy. Sure. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:17 PM
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Please don't think that. It's self-defeating and negative self-talk will impact your mental health. You are not a garbage person (well, there are some garbage people out there who are vicious and evil, but I'm assuming you're not one of them). IANA-dating coach, but my grandmother would say: "There's a lid for every pot." I'm hoping you just haven't found the right woman yet. I'm rooting for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:05 PM
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you dont mention, how much money they make, how fit they are, how their face looks etc. You're right, I didn't mention it. Because it doesn't mean as much as you guys think it does. :shrug:
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:05 PM
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Not really, but I’m not in the mood to educate you tonight. JFGI.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:28 AM
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Namaste
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:04 AM
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Sweet dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:02 AM
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My bad. It’s late. I should get to bed 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:01 AM
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That was my point. /r/whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:53 AM
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Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:52 AM
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Blah blah blah. 80/20. Whatever makes you sleep better at night. Y’all keep on with “the majority of women”. Guess what? We all have different preferences! One of my friends is into Asian men. Does nothing for me. One of my friends is into punk guys with blue Mohawks and tattoos. Does nothing for me. Another is into country guys with beards and a pickup truck. Ewwww. Bit she’s happy and he treats her well. That’s all that matters to me. I have a weakness for brown eyes, a baby face and dimples. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:46 AM
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I’m more than twice your age, so I’ve lived life a bit more than you have. Like I said: May you have the relationship you deserve. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:38 AM
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Biological clock is a myth. Just like so many young women in the US dream of their fairy tale wedding since they were little girls. It’s the Disney-fication of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:35 AM
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May you have the relationship you deserve if pumping out mini-me’s is more important to you than the love of your spouse. Clearly you’ve never experienced deep love with a partner. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:25 AM
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If you want to attract shallow bitches? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:17 AM
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I just got pounced on for saying the same thing. Apparently I now “live to be offended”. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:58 AM
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I don’t live to be offended. I just choose not to unnecessarily trigger people and be aware of my language usage especially when it comes to the holocaust. As for back in the day: “Gay” used to mean happy. “Sick” used to mean ill, not cool/awesome. “Meat” used to mean food, but now just refers to animal flesh. “Bad” used to mean bad, not good. “Terrible” used to mean causing fear, now it means bad or dreadful. The swastika used to be a symbol of good luck in other cultures. Evolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:46 AM
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So, you can keep track of all the times they say we’re lying and I’ll keep track of all the AWALTs. 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:36 AM
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AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:32 AM
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Let the record reflect that for a nanosecond I agreed with you on something. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:30 AM
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Ask the Red Pill guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:27 AM
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He reinvented the red pill wheel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:23 AM
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Is that like the axiom: Fast, Good, Cheap. You can only pick two?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:22 AM
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She speaks the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:21 AM
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My first fleeting thought was: “Is he really going to suggest sending women to the gas chamber?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:20 AM
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Glad I’m not the only one who picked up on that. It was quite jarring the first time I read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:55 AM
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I find your usage of “final solution” to be extremely crass, but I guess they don’t teach history in schools anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:49 AM
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Well then, there sure are a lot of them on this sub. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:44 AM
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He’s probably the kind of guy who would leave his wife if she had infertility issues and get himself a newer, nubile model.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:10 AM
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That is what most women over 40 want: sex and companionship. What’s so wrong with that? Do you think they want to start a family at 40+? Yes, some do, but they’re few and far between. Not that I really care, but we’re a far cry from being put out to pasture. You probably think I’m so “biologically worthless” in my 50s that I should just be shipped off to the glue factory. 😂 If however you’re implying that women over 40 are “biologically worthless” because they can’t be a good broodmare for you, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:56 AM
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But ALL women go after the same type! /s Just because a man is one woman’s yuck, doesn’t mean he’s not another woman”s yum. But this will forever fall on deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:47 AM
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I do for the most part. I don’t suffer fools, though. Not IRL at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:31 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:26 PM
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You’re gonna have to turn in your man card if you say you don’t care about n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:23 PM
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Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:19 PM
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AWALT. Sure. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:17 PM
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Neither gender is a monolith. Until you guys can grasp that concept, it ain’t gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:17 PM
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One of my exes is mega-demi, but certainly not ace. I can vouch for that. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:15 PM
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Because we not allowed to generalize about them, but they’ve allowed to do it about us. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:13 PM
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If a woman is going to live with you or marry you and help take care of this child, she deserves to know your mindset upfront. But never mind me. I’m just a feeemale.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:10 PM
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Funny how you guys can claim nuance, but when women do, we’re called liars. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:08 PM
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You know, you guys in here crack me up. LOL In this thread alone there are multiple AWALT statements. Any time we try to point out that there’s nuance, we’re called liars. I mean, even another reply to this very comment is “Pure copium”. I’m not long for this sub anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:08 PM
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Lying is such a great way to start off a relationship! I’m sure you would be just fine with it if she lied to you about her (stupid) n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:30 PM
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Hopefully he’ll set aside some funds for the kid’s future therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:25 PM
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Just raise the kid by yourself and be done with it. “Just lie!” Such a man answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:23 PM
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Why should I? Only if they’re my friends. I chose very deliberately not to have kids of my own. I care about the offspring of my friends and that’s where it ends. I pay my $4K a year in school taxes. That’s my contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:20 PM
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I already met my high quality comment quota for the day. Better luck next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:10 PM
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What about single moms? You guys don't want to date them either. If you mean, whether a single mother would be more willing to be a step mom? I can’t speak to that. Not my wheelhouse. However, to put myself in her shoes, I would find it extremely strange for a man to do this. It’s like saying “I wanted a kid, but I didn’t want to deal with a woman and wanted full control without any other input, so I went the surrogate route.” That would make for some interesting first date conversation. I can a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:56 PM
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Who wants to be a stepmother? BTDT for 3 years. Nuh-uh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:47 PM
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I would not be talking to his ex about their sex life when they were together. I don't ask my partner(s) about how many or who they slept with. As long as the STD panel comes back clean, I don't care if he fucked 500 women (or men) before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:40 PM
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That was one of the mildest things he did, but yeah, took me long enough but I did finally get him out of the house. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:32 PM
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The kind of Gen X that doesn't trust the government? Yup. Working for them only reinforced my beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:09 PM
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This is Reddit. You get all the quality content you paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:08 PM
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Because it’s pointless. Nobody’s changing hearts and minds in here. It’s just endless arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:29 PM
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Whatever suits their narrative at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:28 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:04 PM
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Silly woman! They want the bitchy hot girls just to fuck and the nice virgin girls to marry. 10 years and 3 kids later he'll be posting in the deadbedrooms sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:01 PM
1

I agree. They're in the business of making money for their shareholders. They have no real incentive for you to actually find someone long term and leave the app. They want to keep you on as long as possible, so you'll keep paying (if you want to take advantage of the premium features, such as unlimited swiping).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:54 PM
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Um, isn't this a discussion sub? Do you only like the posts that align with your belief system? Don't see anybody complaining out the RP posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:36 PM
-1

I had an ex like this (the super insecure and abusive one). He demanded that I come up with a sex act that I had never done with another man to make him feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:59 PM
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I didn't realize there was a difference. Sex worker, prostitute, whore, street walker, etc. all the same to me. Now I'm curious, what's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:56 PM
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Maybe I didn't express myself clearly. For many men, a woman could be mediocre in every other aspect of the relationship but if she’s having sex with him whenever he wants it he’ll be pretty much content. I've seen men on this sub say that women are only good for sex and have nothing else to offer. That would align with the statement that you LOL'd. They're not sexless, quite the contrary. That's all they want a woman for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:54 PM
2

Women aren't happy with bad sex either, but I've never heard a woman say: "He has nothing to offer but a hard dick." (WRT to seriously dating, not ONS) I don't think anybody should put up with shitty sex. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:50 PM
1

I would be a big fan of displaying someone's swipe right percentage on their profile and be able to filter on it. Weed out the suicide swipers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:27 PM
2

Free birth control = less unwanted babies = less abortions = less government assistance if they have kids they can't afford. It really would be more cost efficient. Other STDs aside, HIV cases in the US have been on the decline for years. I'm a big fan of condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:25 PM
3

Just cold hard cash? What about jewelry, designer clothes, gifts? What about women who were in sugar baby relationships in the past? (Just curious)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:07 PM
1

Double standard, much? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:05 PM
2

Right? If you're incompatible, it's not going to work (or someone is going to be unhappy/sexually frustrated).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:05 PM
5

Every girl I’ve ever dated has tried to pry about my treatment of previous partners That's stupid and is an indicator of insecurity (men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:03 PM
5

You are the real MVP! I'll bet good money that you never leave your partner hanging :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:01 PM
3

Ah yes, slut shaming is still alive and well I see. Yannow, if you're not sexually compatible, just move on. No need to use slurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:53 PM
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How do I loathe it? Let me count the ways: Privacy concerns (as if the government doesn't already have enough information on you - do you really want them to know about your dating preferences and sexual proclivities?) which then leads to: People who are concerned about this aren't going to sign up - lack of trust. A dating app is only as good as its user base. The bigger, the better. (Have you ever heard of the phrase: "We're from the government and we're here to help?" HAHAHA) Do you really wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:06 PM
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It's already happening. Bumble stock is down. Men are getting frustrated/discouraged and leave. Women are overwhelmed and sick of wading through hundreds of profiles/likes to maybe find a needle in the haystack worth going out on a date with. Much less second. They're leaving, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:16 PM
4

Not according to men in this very sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:12 PM
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Men on this very sub have said this. More than just a handful. To them, women are only good for sex. They see no other value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:11 PM
3

There's a big difference between demisexual and asexual (ace).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:08 PM
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If you don’t trust your wife fully, you shouldn’t be undertaking one of the highest responsibilities of procreating with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:49 PM
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Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:46 AM
3

Under His eye 👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:44 AM
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Agree. Suicide swipers have ruined dating apps. Hurts chances for both sides. Lose/lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:43 AM
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I guess there’s more ridiculous ways to spend our tax dollars, like subsidizing the dairy industry to the tune of billions of dollars each year in order to keep the price of milk artificially low. Which then leads to overproduction and environmental damage. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:42 AM
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LOL Are you new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:37 AM
-1

C’est la guerre, I guess 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:16 AM
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A man calling himself a feminist? I guess from the weeks I’ve been reading this sub I was expecting calls for him to unalive himself for being a traitor to his gender, a soyboy, or something along those lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:15 AM
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/r/whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:05 AM
2

Are you on disability? Nobody is entitled to pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:49 AM
1

That’s reported rapes. 2 out of 3 go unreported. https://www.rainn.org/statistics/scope-problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:47 AM
4

I mean, free birth control would result in less abortions, but the anti-abortion crowd just wants to control women’s sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:40 AM
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Google 3rd and 4th degree tears if you dare. It’s enough to make you buy a lifetime supply of condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:27 AM
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Abortion and sterilization on demand. No questions asked. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:23 AM
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Really? You wouldn’t call him a “pussy” because he enjoyed getting pedicures and called himself a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:50 AM
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Never was.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:43 AM
2

Years ago I think it was better. People used to swipe thoughtfully and actually read the bio and only swipe right on people they would actually want to match with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:40 AM
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Once all the homeless are housed, our veterans taken care of, no more hungry children (or adults, for all that matters), and we have universal healthcare? Then, and only then would I even consider government subsidies for OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:34 AM
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I know, but he won’t believe me whatever I say. So IDGAF anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:27 AM
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Fuck no. How do you justify wasting taxpayer money so you can get your dick wet? You think Facebook doesn’t monetize the hell out of it? It’s not a charity. Zuck is worth over 100 Billion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:26 AM
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Where did I say men are just cum dispensers? I’m saying it takes two to make a baby. The egg(s) come and go every month. Without sperm, there is no fertilization. No fertilization, no baby. In your scenario the man has absolutely no culpability. Yeah, this is a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:07 AM
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Exactly, that is the key word: letting. Like the man has nothing to do with the process. You’re putting the onus on the woman. Because, of course you are. I would expect nothing less around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:34 AM
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First you’d have to find a woman who will have your kid. Baby steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:31 AM
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You don’t recognize sarcasm when you see it, I guess. You have no experience being part of a healthy LTR or loving married couple. But you spout off shit like you do. 😂 Going behind your partner’s back is not fine. You don’t go to therapy and not tell your partner. Unless you have a crappy marriage. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:16 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:11 AM
1

How long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:58 AM
9

The cognitive dissonance is strong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:55 AM
2

Seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:49 AM
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“Letting him creampie …” Like the man has nothing to do with it 🙄 How about: Men, do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:47 AM
6

Who’s going to subsidize this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:44 AM
2

I remember there being more than a few attractive men on Bumble, but with a shit/no bio. Swipe left.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:41 AM
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Someone else in here suggested that there should be a government run dating app. 😂 I’m still laughing about that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:39 AM
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Mmmkay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:55 AM
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It’s a mantra. They can’t help it. Just like “looks, money, status” that they repeat over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:49 PM
2

Maybe if he had a higher than 8th grade vocabulary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:45 PM
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<image> You first. Start with this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:35 PM
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One of my former coworkers would sternly point it out when men talked over me during conference calls or if one of the men just repeated what I said 10 minutes before and tried to take credit for it. “Excellent idea! That exactly what NefariousnessLife220 said a few minutes ago!” I never asked him to do it, but I appreciated it. He is a Marine and always looked like he’d just gotten off of a Harley. Bald, buff, tattooed. But he was a staunch feminist and went to get pedicures with me when we tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:28 PM
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I do call other women out for shitty behavior. I’m not even polite about it. Of course, the people I hang don’t disparage others, so it’s not like I encounter it closely. And I work in a heavily male-dominated field. Sure, my best friend and I rag on her ex-husband, but he is objectively a crap dad, and we don’t say it to his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:20 PM
2

Hey, how funny is this? 😂 https://imgur.com/a/qzFUt33
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:13 PM
4

Not according to the men in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:46 PM
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IKR?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:46 PM
3

Of course, sire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:45 PM
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You take ONE post on the Bumble sub. Hang out there for a few days and see how many women complain that they match and send an opener, then they either don't respond or unmatch, because most men just suicide swipe and only look at the profile after they match. Can I create a profile on most online dating apps and get hundreds of likes overnight? Yes. But 99% of them are crap because they clearly didn't read my profile. It's not all rainbows and unicorns for women on OLD. The onus is put on them …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:38 PM
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It's almost like I had this long ass back and forth with a RP guy who insisted that women need men to protect us from the bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:24 PM
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I’m going to have to look into this. I don’t see where it accounts for age. Am I as a single childfree woman in her 50s making more than a 30 y/o single childfree man? Probably. Am I making more than a childfree single man my age? Highly doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:19 PM
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They always say we're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:43 PM
6

Noooooope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:39 PM
0

Single childless women outearn single childless men Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:29 PM
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Yup. It absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:57 PM
3

NYC, LA, and Miami are hubs for fashion models and rich, plastic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:36 PM
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This analogy is inaccurate since women have access to drinking water (Relationships) Women have easy access to sex. Not necessarily relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:30 PM
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but the resulting advice is mainly around being the best partner you can to attract the best man possible. I suppose that really depends on what kind of man you're trying to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:58 PM
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secret GO bags because "I might abuse her" when there is no prior abuse is honestly one of the dumbest things I've ever heard after I thought about it. Secret paternity tests when there is no prior infidelity is honestly one of the dumbest things I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:05 PM
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Confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:04 PM
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So ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:43 PM
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If you can't trust your partner/wife and think she's f*cking around on you, why the hell are you having kids with this person?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:22 PM
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I know my limitations. I mean, had the abuser I was living with found out about it? He would've been livid and probably would've pulled the trigger instead of just holding the gun to my temple. There was one time I didn't feel safe in my own house with him in it, so I left and checked into a hotel so I could get some sleep. I didn't take my phone with me, so he couldn't track me. He lost his shit when I came home the next morning, but at least I had a bit of sleep and these things are easier dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:13 PM
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The money in the bag was a big mistake. You have to be a bit stealthier, like leaving the cash with a trusted friend or a secret bank account that you have instant ATM access to. There's other stuff too, but I'm not about to reveal the "How to protect yourself" playbook on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:57 PM
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That's patently untrue. I have friends who love me unconditionally and I them. Sorry you haven't experienced it, but it's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:32 PM
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Yeah, never heard that before (except the first 20 times). Of course I'm the special f*cking unicorn in here. I'm childfree and work in a male-dominated field. I've been discriminated against/passed over more than once (and have seen it happen to other women) because it was assumed I would have kids and either leave, go part-time, or not be able to work overtime because little Johnny has to be picked up from daycare at 5:30pm sharp, or having to stay home every time little Suzy gets sick. It's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:30 PM
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I’m just marveling at your flair and wondering how you can be a feminist and a red pill woman at the same time. The dichotomy is mind blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:56 PM
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“If I'm in a car accident I expect my girlfriend to leave me and vice-versa and that's exactly what is going to happen with the majority of people.” Gee, you sound like a real peach. With that kind of attitude, no wonder you think relationships are worthless. A partner who would leave the other after a car accident is a shit person. Regardless of gender. (I’m looking at you, Newt Gingrich.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:48 PM
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The “religious” part would likely be the hinderance. The majority of childfree women don’t subscribe to organized religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:38 PM
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The majority? Every 3 out of 4 posts in this sub are about bashing women. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:03 PM
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I don’t call the plumber to diagnose my wrist pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:01 PM
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It’s a different dynamic, I suppose. Doesn’t mean I don’t like to treat sometimes, like taking one to NYC for his birthday because he’d never been. It was fun showing him the city over a 3-day weekend. But I do those kind of things because I enjoy it, not because he expects it. Buying them things or paying their bills? Hell to the no!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:55 AM
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Cheating is not the only reason people get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:49 AM
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Of course we’re perfect angles, because you’re obtuse. 😃 [EDIT: I guess geometry jokes aren't appreciated in here.]
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:43 AM
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Yeah, that’s about right. $500 won’t get you very far. You don’t want to leave a credit card trail and be tracked (gas, hotel, meals, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:39 AM
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Blue and Purple Pill women outnumber Red Pill women in this sub from my observations. That’s prob why you’re not seeing it as often, but it does happen. I’d be happy to link you to a comment thread that happened just today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:34 AM
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Rape is NOT a crime of passion, it’s about CONTROL. JFC, you really know nothing about this. Sooo funny, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:21 AM
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I mean, my escape plan didn’t have much physical evidence lying around to be found. I did have a secret bank account with emergency funds. I live in the land of hurricanes, so having some things ready to go isn’t suspicious. You just “forget” to unpack the bag after the season is over. Whether or not the man is wrong for being upset about it? I don’t think I’m in a position to give you an unbiased answer due to my history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:49 AM
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That’s the risk you take. She should’ve kept her legs closed, I guess. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:42 AM
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Same. I will continue to treat strange men as Schrödinger’s rapist until proven safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:41 AM
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Most rapes go unreported because of the lack of consequences for the perpetrators. A lot of times there are no witnesses and it’s just he said/she said. After being raped you don’t really feel like running the gauntlet with law enforcement and reliving the trauma. Even if you do report, have you not read about the thousands of rape kits that were collected but never sent to the lab? Or they were sent to the lab, but sit in a backlog for long periods of time. A lot of women don’t report because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:16 AM
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It’s certainly not shamed in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:07 AM
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Oh, yes. We’re always lying 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:06 AM
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A highly scientific study, I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:01 AM
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Well, I guess if you’re happy 🤷‍♀️ Personally I’m finding this sub to be too negative, especially towards women, so I guess I’ll see my way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:58 AM
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Because this is PPD. That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:53 AM
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Reading through some of these comments … makes me grateful to have my people who love me unconditionally and I them. It’s sad to read some of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:50 AM
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Man, I truly feel sorry for you if you really believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:44 AM
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I know I wouldn’t pay a guy’s bills. Don’t have to. They’re just happy to get great head and pussy and I get a hard D all night long. Win/win. (No chance of pregnancy makes things extra fun)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:35 AM
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I mean, that’s my thought as well. If I meet a guy and he really trips my trigger I see nothing wrong with having sex early on. Like, why should I pretend I don’t want it? Why should I punish myself? Lol. Seems silly to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:02 AM
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Why would you want to have cake and not eat it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:58 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:58 PM
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Guess I can’t help you there 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:55 PM
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Well, then. That's the vast majority of men on the OLD subs. It's like they use it as a "shit test".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:52 PM
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I think every woman should have some kind of "escape plan" should things go South.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:43 PM
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Go on the dating subs. The men there will specifically say if a woman has sex with them on the first date (even if it's the man pressuring them) she's "for the streets". But it won't stop them from getting their rocks off. They only respect women and consider them for LTR if she refuses him for a while. Makes no g-d sense to me, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:41 PM
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Those kind of women are vapid and flaky. Find a woman of substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:35 PM
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What do you girls think? 24 no relationship, too late? No, it's not. Maybe once you're 40 and have never had a relationship, then mayyyybe we'd consider that a little sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:20 PM
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You are responsible for your sperm. Full stop. No sperm, no pregnancy. Women's eggs will come and go every month. Unless there's sperm, there's no fertilization possible. If she damages a condom (you really should bring your own) or stops taking the pill after agreeing to be on it, that's full on deception and coercion. IANAL so I'm not sure what recourse you might have there. I don't know how you could prove a woman digging the condom out of the trash and inseminating herself unless you had pho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:51 PM
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Men have no rights to equal custody. From what I've read, in most states if the dad asks for 50/50, they'll get it (barring anything crazy like drug use, etc.). You have my sympathy wrt to your ex. She sounds like a real piece of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:54 PM
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there is something hot about a woman who is feminine and lets you take the male role in certain aspects, but ALSO is very independent and has her shit together and can stand her ground. I know. That's exactly why I have no problem attracting men who aren't assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:50 PM
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I can relate. I'm pretty happy rn with my roster of men half my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:48 PM
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May you be ever so successful in your sugaring :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:45 PM
1

What does that have to do with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:44 PM
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... and being kind, not a d!ck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:40 PM
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she probably is also successful financially, has her own house, is incredibly attractive (since she is in good shape), travels Waaaaaaait a minute. I cannot count the many, many (many!) times that you guys\) (generic you) say you don't give a rat's ass about a woman's income, career, etc. That all women have to do is be attractive and spread their legs for them. And that women only care about money/status/looks. Hmm. You sir, are an outlier. \In this sub and all of the dating subs)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:38 PM
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I know the narrative on reddit is that most young women are childfree but I don't buy it, most do try for a kid at some point. Reddit is an echo chamber. Believe whatever you want to believe. When it comes to actual dating where reproduction is not the goal then even 60 yo women can find a partner if they really want to. Absolutely. 15-30 minutes on Tinder will do the trick. Most older women don't date not because they can't but because they're post-menopause and don't give a shit anymore. Eh, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:30 PM
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Sugar baby, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:22 PM
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More older women are fucking younger men than ever. Yes, we are :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:20 PM
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All we want is sex, peace and quiet and an absence of gaslighting and nagging. Ask your doctor if sex workers are right for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:17 PM
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You used the phrase at least 3 times. Maybe your jokes are so lame that you have to copy/paste those as well? Did you not say that women just have to be "hot and submissive"? Or was that a "joke" too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:15 PM
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Be sure to wrap your willy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:59 PM
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That is so grossly oversimplified it's hard to even respond properly, but I'll try. Each state (assuming we're talking about the U.S.) has different laws about presumptions of time sharing and child support calculation. For your statement to be true, all states would approach it the same way. Claiming the deduction and credits makes the person's share of the support higher, because it affects income, the men asking for the deduction are paying more money in child support as a result. The state g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:54 PM
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Also, look at the types of guys actually reproducing with a dozen women each in real life. You really want civilization following their example? We need better education and free birth control for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:42 PM
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It ain't dying out anytime soon. To think otherwise is egocentric. Not everybody has to have kids in order for the world to go on. "Survival of the fittest" ring a bell?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:41 PM
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All good. We can agree to disagree on that particular point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:39 PM
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Not until after lunch, but thanks for your concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:38 PM
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Deranged fuming anger? Wow. No wonder you are failing at life. You can't pick up on social cues and read way more into things. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:28 PM
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Appreciate the thought, but I don't need it. Sounds like you do, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:23 PM
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Cool. We agree. Except for the phrase "pro abortion". I think "pro choice" is the better description, because nobody (except maybe the nihilists and anti-natalists) is trying to talk a woman into an abortion if she wants to have the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:19 PM
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Yup. Sure, if you want to take it to that extreme, but if abortion were readily available, women wouldn't have to take off work to travel and whatnot (think Texas, where New Mexico is a 12-hour drive from Houston and a 10-hour drive from Dallas.). Low-income women struggle to be able to afford the time off and travel to access abortion in other states. Not sure if you're being facetious or not, but it would still be cheaper than the years and years of government assistance that would follow. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:42 PM
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How the man's genetic material was obtained LOL Ok, I'll try to be serious about this. Again, you're responsible for your genetic material and where you deposit it. If you used a condom and you don't dispose of it properly, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:28 PM
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Can you imagine all of the women in the world doing this? The sound of men crying "I need pussy! Why won't women have sex with me???" would be heard in outer space. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:22 PM
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Personally I don't think people driving fancy cars are very fiscally responsible, but they can spend their money however they see fit. My compact hybrid car gets me from point A to point B just as well as a car costing 4x the price. Except I get to pocket the difference and use a lot less fuel. (Go Go solar panels!) Everybody has their priorities. I get that. If a woman is impressed by a guy's fancy car, I'd be suspicious of her intentions. I've observed generally, men who have fancy cars want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:16 PM
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You're calling out tropes based on gender. That's another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:10 PM
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You sound like a broken record\): if feminism doesn't address it it will fail if feminism doesn't address it it will fail if feminism doesn't address it it will fail if feminism doesn't address it it will fail if feminism doesn't address it it will fail One of your friends (if you have any) needs to grab you by the shoulders and shake you so you can snap out of it. \Yes, I know you're too young to understand that reference)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:57 AM
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Copy/paste, copy/paste, copy/paste. Is that all you know? I’m starting to agree with another commenter ITT … enjoy your LARP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:38 AM
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No, it’s not. He’s living in a fantasy world to believe that. In all of my years on this planet, I’ve never observed a couple that handles their finances that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:36 AM
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See again here … you’re just copy/paste your generic nonsense and didn’t address anything from the comment above. Starting to thing you’re just a shit stirrer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:22 AM
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If believing that makes you sleep better at night, by all means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:57 AM
2

Yet the patriarchy is still alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:55 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:48 AM
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Yet here you are. Complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:46 AM
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You said several times ITT that you want “hot youthful women”. I can read just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:45 AM
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Do you just copy/pasta the same thing over and over again?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:41 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:28 AM
2

We can totally continue civilization! What makes you think we can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:25 AM
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Nach mir die Sintflut! One man can impregnate hundreds of women in the time it takes one woman to gestate. We just don’t need as many men to continue the species, which is what so many of you are seemingly so worried about. You wanna go? Gooooo already.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:17 AM
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Oh, ok! So this whole post is a joke? That makes a lot more sense now. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:45 PM
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Oh, the mystical dance of numbers! They pirouette through equations, twirling in the cosmic ballet of mathematics. Imagine a waltz where integers tango with fractions, their rhythmic steps echoing in the chambers of calculus. Fibonacci's sequence orchestrates a symphony of patterns, while prime numbers form an enigmatic chorus, singing in the language of mystery. The enigmatic pi, an infinite serenade, whispers its never-ending tale, while imaginary numbers paint a surreal canvas in the realm of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:41 PM
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Yeah, not sure where you get that idea from, but that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:38 PM
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From where then? If it’s so “of course”, you should be able to cite specifics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:21 PM
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I’m not shocked that you think all feminists hate men. So I guess we’re even. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:16 PM
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😂🙄🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:12 PM
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Bye! I really wish the MGTOW guys would actually GO!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:09 PM
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“That's my unique genetic material and me leaving laying around (or up in a coochie somewhere) does not imply consent to use it for reproductive means.” It kinda does. You put your sperm into a fertile woman. Are you saying you had no input (pardon the pun) into the fertilization of her egg?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:00 PM
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So women have children “out of wedlock” all by themselves? Are they using turkey basters?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:16 PM
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I haven’t heard it used in decades. And even then only from books set in pre-50’s era.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:14 PM
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Can’t make a baby without sperm. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:55 PM
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… or even engaging in sex for procreation only!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:55 PM
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People who judge others for their reproductive choices? 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:52 PM
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Interesting. I wonder why that is? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:47 PM
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How exactly do women get more money in taxes than they pay, praytell?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:32 PM
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A man can wear fancy clothes and drive a fancy car, that doesn’t mean he has resources. It could mean he’s up to his eyeballs in debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:52 PM
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So, let me get this straight. You oppose abortion vehemently, but wouldn’t support any measures to prevent it. If the woman cannot get an abortion and she has the child, will you adopt it? Or are you just going to bitch about her being a “mooch” because now she needs government assistance because she couldn’t afford to have a child in the first place. Free birth control would cost far less than government benefits to the mother/child and would save all of those precious babies you claim to care …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:28 PM
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Dude. I got my tubes tied over two decades ago. I’m saying if abortion bothers you that much, you shouldn’t have a problem with free birth control. It would reduce the need for abortions drastically. “Pro-lifers” should be supporting this! But you just proved that it’s not the “innocent children” you care about, you merely want to control women’s sexuality. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:16 PM
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Ah, my bad. Carry on! 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:00 PM
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Oh, totally agree with you there 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:42 PM
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Then stay away from those kind of women. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:38 PM
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My original comment was: No, not jealous one bit. It leaves the younger guys for me :) I don’t need a study to speak from my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:38 PM
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I guess bottom line is: If OP doesn't think it's respectable, she is within her full rights not to. Just like the phrase: Don't like abortions? Don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:35 PM
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Because you're living in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:33 PM
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Them: They're offering all their skills and talents and effort You: No they are not. You: I only date women who offer love and support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:32 PM
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Cool! Huzzah! Enjoy :) Then what are you complaining about in here again?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:29 PM
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I mean, I agree that marriage isn't necessary in order to have a happy and healthy relationship with someone. I've just never seen those kind of people in a happy and healthy relationship call the mother of their child(ren) by such derogatory terms (baby mamma and or bastard).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:28 PM
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Well, then what are you complaining about? So you don't interact with her or are you in a non-hetero relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:23 PM
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So, which is it then? You're contradicting yourself all over the place here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:20 PM
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Women boldly say that they don't want to cook or clean, that they're the table, that doing anything for a man besides fucking him in the relationship is being his mother This is a trope as well, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:18 PM
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You do you, bro. Nobody's stopping you. Go find your tradwife and be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:17 PM
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I don't really bother to interact with women tbh. Um, wasn't this you a few minutes ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:16 PM
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I don't really bother to interact with women tbh. This is my shocked face. But they don't provide anything that a fat neckbeard male friend doesn't provide, except sex. Until you see women as more than just a wet hole, you're not going to attract a decent partner. It's your attitude that's hurting your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:14 PM
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99% of jobs have men and women working together im harmony for equal pay Oh, you sweet summer child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:10 PM
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the most visible way to bring a lot more to the table is resources. How do I know about your "resources" up front? Do you show your bank statements on your dating profile or on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:07 PM
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Make abortion more accessible. On demand, no questions asked. Even better, how about free birth control for everybody!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:00 PM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:55 PM
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Again, if you're not going to date these women, why would you care? If the fat, ugly, single women didn't have such "high demands" would he want to date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:53 PM
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But he doesn't want fat, ugly, single women, so why would he care about what their demands are?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:53 PM
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Fucked how? He has clearly stated he doesn't want a fat, ugly, single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:45 PM
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Finally, discussing these societal expectations is often taboo for men. Our struggles are frequently seen as less valid, which is unfair. Well, according to some of your comments: men don't care how good women are in bed, just be hot and submissive (3x this) most men like and prefer hot youthful women that aren't mentally ill, ... Let's compare and contrast, whall we? mosrt men should use women for sex Because the majority of women are actively trying to use men for free money food and attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:35 PM
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Women can have whatever standards they want. It’d just be nice for women to know men’s common standards to minimize the chance of them selecting and getting used by men who have almost no chance of committing to them. Since the men who then typically would commit are less likely to do so, as those women then tend to possess less of what the men were actually seeking in the first place. I'm really trying hard to make sense of this paragraph. Women can have whatever standards they want. Men can ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:20 PM
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That's not what feminism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:15 PM
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Ooooh, the irresistible jaw line! Women must be falling at your feet. /s But seriously, it's being discussed plenty. I mean, we're discussing it right now, but it doesn't seem like you really want a discussion. You're just stating these things as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:40 PM
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Well then it sounds like you found your match! Huzzah! What are you complaining about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:39 PM
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But most likely women who don’t care about your money or hight are going to reject you because you don’t have nothing to offer them, because you are obsessed with status and money and uninterested in the thing they are interested in. Right. Because women who don't care about those "traditional values" find a guy like this toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:38 PM
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No, he wouldn't date an undesirable woman. He only wants the "hot and youthful" women as he's stated a few times already ITT.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:31 PM
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You keep saying the same thing over and over. What does women "waking up and stopping being delusional" mean? I'm sure if you asked women whether they thought they were "delusional" or not, they certainly would say no. Ergo, you're the one who thinks women are "delusional".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:25 PM
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How so? What does feminism "failing" look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:23 PM
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What is your idea of feminism "winning"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:22 PM
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women are seldom shamed for their standards, in comparison to men I keep reading this from men on this sub. Who is shaming you for your standards? Where are you being shamed for your standards? So far, the only answer I can get is "everyone" or "the left", which is very nebulous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:21 PM
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You keep saying the same thing over and over again. Try using your words more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:18 PM
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Yeah, all this bitching and moaning isn't doing much to solve their "problem" now, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:18 PM
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Apparently there are all of these single moms y'all complain about, so obviously society is not going to collapse anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:54 PM
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yes but most women with delusional standards just choose to be alone rather than wake up to reality be with a man who makes them miserable There, FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:53 PM
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You think the "average man" is entitled to a "hot woman"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:51 PM
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Yeah, I wanna know the answer to this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:50 PM
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And how would you go about this, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:41 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:33 PM
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I would almost argue that feminists by default do not believe in traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:33 PM
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They don't understand that it's the attitude that is positively radioactive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:30 PM
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Yes, all feminists are man hating, ugly, and purple haired. LOL feminism will fail if most women still require traditional standards from men Have you actually met a woman who is feminist? I'm assuming not, because you have this stereotype in your head as is evident by your writing. Most women who subscribe to feminism (2nd and 3rd wave, which is the norm) believe in equality of both sexes. So they're generally not looking for what you RP guys believe to be "traditional standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:29 PM
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You’re barking up the wrong tree here, son. LOL Are you implying that I’m jealous? Why would I be?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:24 PM
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https://ballardbrief.byu.edu/issue-briefs/the-underreporting-and-dismissal-of-sexual-assault-cases-against-women-in-the-united-states
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:23 PM
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I was talking about attraction. That was the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:18 PM
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No, I’m saying it’s circular logic. If you know who all the good guys are (which are all the ones who are protecting a woman), then why not just get rid of those bad guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:45 AM
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I mean, if they already know who the “good guys” are, why not just lock up the “bad guys now? 🤷‍♀️ Textbook case of circular logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:26 AM
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You don’t realize how bizarre that sounds? We need men because we need to be protected from other men? It’s not like men come with a “good guy” or “bad guy” ear tag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:53 AM
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Are you saying we need men to protect us from [checks notes] … other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:30 AM
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🎶🎵Federal tax money doesn’t fund abortions. 🎵🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:11 AM
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I don’t agree with that guy, but wanted to make you aware that (in the US) only If a rape is reported, there is a 50.8% chance of an arrest. If an arrest is made, there is an 80% chance of prosecution. If there is a prosecution, there is a 58% chance of conviction. So I’m afraid about half of the bad dudes aren’t going to prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:02 AM
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So, how would this work? Men are lonely, so just legalize sex work (which I’m 100% for, btw) and then the lonely guys can legally pay for sex and then the women will … what now? How would it “cripple women’s edge”? Or are you saying all the guys who are with other women already would drop their girlfriends/wives and go to the brothel and then those lonely women might consider a lonely guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:49 AM
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:cough: Hyde Amendment :cough: So you don’t want to pay for others mistakes? Then surely you would support free birth control for everyone! There would be far, far fewer mistakes. Right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:42 AM
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Yeah, I only see the opposite problem. Men cold approaching us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:32 AM
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So, get with a woman who doesn’t wear makeup. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:17 AM
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How did I make it about gender? Because I said sexual orientation is clearly not a choice, else I’d choose otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:47 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:27 PM
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“Almost never” means very few times. I can tell you from my own experience that it’s not just incidental.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:03 PM
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You mean older women don’t get shit for dating younger men? That’s some bs right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:47 PM
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“at last something we should be concerned about.” Thoughts and prayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:38 PM
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I didn’t say all either and even some I’ve never heard about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:24 PM
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No, I’ve never heard of it. Certainly not the way you describe it as a mental breakdown. That’s pretty extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:18 PM
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So you’re saying the man has no choice in the matter? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:16 PM
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I agree with most of this, but If you flip the genders and a woman would’ve said that in this sub? The roasting would be immediate and she would be called a stuck up b*tch. I guarantee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:15 PM
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My question was about the thing you said about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:04 PM
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Huh? How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:04 PM
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Love it. 😂 Yeah, sales, marketing, LEOs of any flavor are an immediate no-go. Finance guys I’ll engage with, but alway err on the side of caution. Now I’ll have to add ad men to that list :) But aren’t the supposed to be creative?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:00 PM
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Never heard of this phenomenon. Who is claiming this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:53 PM
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I get you. When I was finally able to get my abusive ex out of my house, the people who knew him would say: "Oh, but he's such a nice guy!" I'm like, "Yeah, he's nice outside of the house and at work, because he has to be charming. But you didn't have to live with him." He's the main reason I'll never date men in sales again. I absolutely believe you how hard it is to find a childfree partner. Check mah flair :) Take some time to heal, treat yo' self, and good luck out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:47 PM
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Have at it. Fap away! I like porn, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:31 PM
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No, because we like how it looks on us. Some women like makeup more than others. Some see it as an outlet for their artistic/creative side. I happen to fall into the "ooh, shiny!" category and have more eyeshadow than I'll ever use and I only put makeup on maybe once or twice a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:22 PM
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Women in this sub are saying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:17 PM
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Look, I'm sorry that happened to you and I too had an ex who was a narcissist and made my life a living hell. I get it, you're angry. But in this sub men seem to blame women for picking bad men. Single moms are derided in here on the daily for choosing to have sex with men who don't stick around. So I'm a bit confused. So either we all take responsibility for our choices, or not. You picked the wrong person. A lot of people have made this mistake before. Don't beat yourself up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:16 PM
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And porn existed before the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:10 PM
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Where are you finding these shitty women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:59 PM
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Your choice ends the moment you decide where to deposit your sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:57 PM
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Then I found out How did you find out? Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:50 PM
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I agree. I think I read it wrong? She said: Women more often express your stance - it’s better to be with someone who wants you, not needs you. And you said: I definitely feel like anyone espousing this kind of idea as being very controlling, and manipulative. So, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:46 PM
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*Voice of Reason has entered the chat*
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:41 PM
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Some guy is going to want to fuck her and enter a relationship with her. Not sure why you're not blaming the guy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:38 PM
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Who are these women that are constantly whining?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:35 PM
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I work out so I can be a baddie and deadlift my own bodyweight. Workin' on it. My top 3 reasons were: Increases bone strength (decreases risk of osteoporosis) Functional fitness/strength (being able to lift and carry things) Mental health I mean, the side effects are nice, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:33 PM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:21 PM
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Huh? Women are giving you unsolicited advice telling you how to dress? I mean, my guy gets my opinion on something sometimes, but he's a grown ass man who can dress himself. Mind boggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:21 PM
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Ok. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:18 PM
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Nah, that's 100% RP. I was hoping for something more purple. That wasn't it. I mean, I know he totally believes it is; that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:03 PM
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Every. Damn. Day. It's my main source of entertainment currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:41 PM
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Well, aren't you just delightful!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:41 PM
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Jinx!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:39 PM
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I think a lot of women wouldn’t date you because you’re going to the strip club with your daughter and her friends. You might be onto something there ...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:38 PM
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That's codependent tendencies and she should get some talk therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:35 PM
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Why and Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:33 PM
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Nevermind. I was hoping for a reasonable response, but thanks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:30 PM
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No, not jealous one bit. It leaves the younger guys for me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:12 PM
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You seem like a knowledgeable chap. Do guys get dressed every morning, walk by the mirror and say: "Hellooooo, Ladies!" to themselves? Do guys pick out their clothes every morning based on what he thinks women will like? I mean, I can just see men in public and tell you that is absolutely not the case. When guys keep saying that women dress for men, (just take a look at the comments on the thread a few days ago about "provocative" clothing), the only reason I can come up with is that they do it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:57 PM
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If that's your stance, then by all means stick with it. Whoever is giving you flack needs to back off. It's your life to live, not theirs. Kindly tell them to f*ck off :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:34 PM
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Give me some examples of what might disqualify a woman for you and who is telling you that you're wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:26 PM
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Because as many times as we tell them that we don't dress or put makeup on to please them, but to please ourselves, it doesn't sink in. They can't grok that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:24 PM
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gym or exercise or making money, is precisely what make them desirable to women in the first place. #notallwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:54 PM
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Captain Obvious, reporting for duty, I see. ​ In any case, those women are more attractive to employers, not men, but it is fair since those women are probably prioritizing employment anyway rather than a family. Yes, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:49 PM
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I'm talking about financial rape which never gets spoken of This is the funniest thing I've read all morning. Never gets spoken of? Are you kidding me? I hear it All. The. Time. The men I work with are comfortable enough around me that they let their guard down and let me overhear their chatter about their wives and girlfriends. I just smile and nod :) One refuses to get divorced because they've been married for 20 years and "the b*tch will get half of everything I've worked for" (no mention of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:34 PM
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Yes, sir. Within the privacy of your own 4 walls, you can call other people Tr*nny, Tw*nks, Sand N***ers, Rag Heads, K*kes, C*nts, B*nt, Wet Backs, and the list goes on and on. But outside here in society, you're going to get judged for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:17 PM
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You mean, you need to put in some effort to be more than just a sperm donor? Perish the thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:58 PM
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You’re welcome! You’re entitled to your own opinion, but you’re not entitled to your own facts. You’d be better off finding a time machine so you can go back to the 50s when AAs needed the Green Book to travel safely across the US. Times change, man. Either get with the times or stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:53 PM
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Oh, so you’re transphobic? Sorry, can’t help you there. Also if you don’t lock down your social media accounts where you are easily identifiable? Or post controversial topics publicly? That’s on you, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:45 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:38 PM
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Why would you be scared to say facts if they are scientifically valid and not just sourced from biased posts on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:31 PM
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Blame biology for that. A man can get dozens of women pregnant in the 9 month time span it takes for a woman to have a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:28 PM
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Yeah, this claim sounds very fictitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:26 PM
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Yeah, it heats up as a function! I like it a lot. Google "heated vibrator"; there's one by Calexotics. Takes about 2-3 mins to get up to a little warmer than body temp. The tongue simulators are cool too. Add a little lube, put your noise canceling headphones on so you can't hear the mechanical noise and it almost feels like the real thing. Except it doesn't get tired ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:42 PM
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As stated elsewhere ITT, women of childbearing age are often subtly discriminated against because employers don’t want to invest in training, etc. because they assume the woman is going to have kids and either go part time, quit to stay home with the kids, or be less effective because they can’t work overtime since they have to pick little Johnny up from day care at 5:30pm sharp, or stay home when little Susi gets sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:33 PM
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I’m sure others will address the other items. This particular one happens to be one of those things I have specific details on off the top of my head. If I start arguing with you about how more women call into suicide hotlines, more women are diagnosed with depression, and more women attempt to commit suicide, it’s just that men tend to use more lethal/violent methods (gun, etc.) you’d be jumping down my throat and frankly, I don’t have the energy for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:29 PM
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This is not always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:21 PM
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This is almost worthy of the badwomensanatomy sub. Plenty, you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:19 PM
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Women in their 20s and 30s tend to get passed over for promotions in technical fields because of the potential that they’ll get pregnant and either be out of the workforce for a while or possibly quit or go part-time after having kid(s). Regardless of whether they are actually planning to have kids or not. The excuse is that they don’t want to spend a lot of time and resources training a woman if she’s going to run off and get pregnant in a couple of years. Sure, it’s supposed to be against the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:17 PM
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Underrated comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:11 PM
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Apparently convincing a fertile woman to let them nut inside of them is a Herculean task.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:04 PM
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This one gets trotted out every time the subject of privileges comes up. Did you know that the Selective Training and Service Act of 1940 was passed by a congress which was comprised of 97% men? If you guys are so appalled by it, get organized and contact your congress critters en masse. In 2019 there was a bill introduced to repeal it (H.R. 5492), but it’s been stalled ever since. US Congress is still 3/4 men. 🤷‍♀️ So put the blame for that squarely where it belongs. If you’re not in the US, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:36 PM
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I agree, though I do know a couple that got married primarily so that the boyfriend could get on her health insurance plan. They got married in a tiki bar by a notary public and all the men wore crazy bright Hawaiian shirts. It was a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:28 AM
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Verily. I’m really heartened by the amount of younger couples I’m seeing who are opting for other gemstones or lab-created diamonds. The whole diamond engagement ring was a marking ploy by Madison Avenue (and De Beers, of course) and people became so brainwashed that it became the de facto standard. Glad people are wising up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:17 AM
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Tangent: I just got a new vibrator that heats up. It’s niiiiiiiice. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:11 AM
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Subjective means based on an individual’s taste. As much as some people in here assert that all women are attracted to the same guy, it’s just not true. I have decades of personal experience and observations to back this up. One person’s yuck is another person’s yum. Just going by appearance, some women may like tall, slender Nordic-looking men. Some women prefer rugged husky guys with a beard. Some women drool over the bodybuilder type. All 3 of those types I know I wouldn’t be attracted to phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:03 AM
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Dude, I know what he meant. You’re reading way more into it than was intended. I was agreeing that attraction is not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:38 AM
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You shouldn’t have to compromise if you don’t want to. So don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:08 AM
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I agree, marriage is a scam. Along with the entire wedding industrial complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:57 AM
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I mean, I wouldn’t mind the c&$@, but it has that pesky life support system attached to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:46 AM
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If you don’t understand it by now you never will. I wasn’t aware I’d have to express myself at the lowest common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:41 AM
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I said that sexual attraction is clearly not a choice, because I would not choose to be attracted to men. Yet I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:32 AM
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There’s your answer then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:25 AM
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Well, then that is a supply vs. demand issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:22 AM
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Do it all you want. You do it anyway, so what's the problem here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:56 PM
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