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If YOU like yourself (which is awesome btw) what makes you think there is nobody of the female gender that will also like you? I mean unless you think of yourself as an extremely rare person (which would be a little grandiose) there are many women who are just like you that are also shy and feel overlooked. Just gotta keep widening your friendship base and networking more - you don't have to change, the right people are out there waiting to be found. Focus on meeting all kinds of people (with si…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/24 07:26 PM
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It's truly fascinating how they don't see that the "bubble" argument could apply just as easily to them. Also I've seen them time and time again not allow anecdotal evidence and then just give their own generalisations based on anecdotes 🙄
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 11:59 AM
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That's a privileged stance to take. Not everyone can afford a visit to an endocrinologist. But I forgot this sub is about just turning our brains off and slating all the men that are groomed by these content creators instead of trying to offer empathy, understanding and a way out of the cult 🙄 Literally being down voted bc I don't think boosting test makes you "toxic". There are videos about boosting estrogen for women- are they "toxic" too? Are those women stupid for not going to a doctor inste…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 05:10 AM
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It's because these people are terminally online and don't touch grass. If hypergamy was such a hard rule, when you go outside you should see a Chad with a harem of women walking around with him while the majority of men are single and alone and childless. But a cursory glance at the average married middle aged man will let you know that you certainly don't need to be a "Chad" to get laid/gf/married.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 11:27 AM
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Perhaps they "should" go to a doctor but there are a plethora of reasons why someone may Google it or YouTube it first. Also if you suffered from a health problem and solved it, I think it's valid to share your tips online as long as you are transparent about not being a doctor....which he is. I heavily disagree with the immediate association of attempting to boost testosterone with "toxic masculinity" - that's ridiculous.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 12:52 AM
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Perhaps to counteract a whole host of problems that can be caused by low test. A quick Google brings up: Reduced sex drive. Reduced erectile function. Loss of body hair. Less beard growth. Loss of lean muscle mass. Feeling very tired all the time (fatigue) Obesity (being overweight) Symptoms of depression.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah I actually peeped this and stopped watching long before they engaged directly with the red pill community. They peddle the same anecdotes as universal facts that redpill do e.g. they say if a man cries in a relationship its inevitable that the woman will lose attraction. It's the same RP crap just slightly less unhinged and like you say...more palatable.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 07:45 PM
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What's wrong with thr testosterone one? There truly are ways to naturally boost testosterone - I personally know of someone who swears by it.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 07:35 PM
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Legality aside, I find it so bizarre when people with that kind of age gap interact. Like I'm in my late 20s and a 17 year old is living such a wildly different life to me that I cannot imagine crossing paths. I'm busy with job, family, marriage and babies - why the hell would I be interested in socialising with a 17 year old, what exactly is our common ground? If a 30 year old man legitimately is entertaining a 17 year old, I have to assume either he is mentally stuck at the same age or he is p…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/23 05:45 AM
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The type of person who says something like that is usually extremely sad and lonely inside. Perhaps rather than beating yourself up for not having a reply, think of how pathetically low you would have to be to go out of your way to put someone down and lead them to believe they are unworthy of love. Think of how low your self-esteem would have to be and how powerless you would have to feel to do something like that. Transform your feelings and the voice criticising YOU in your head to PITY for t…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 11:02 AM
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I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's wrong and you don't deserve it at all. I think your husband might be using a Red Pill technique on you called "Dread Game". You might find reading through the steps they use below helpful to see if any of it correlates with your husband's behaviour. I wish I had advice for you but I think I'm out of my depth, I cannot imagine how painful this must be for you. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerp…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 04:03 PM
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That's the most gag-worthy part. Like how the hell did anyone write that paragraph out and not think..."hmm...am I a sociopath?" 🤔
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 12:12 PM
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I'm sorry you went through that. As someone who also got manipulated by a dark triad personality type, I think it's not so much about learning to trust men again but learning to trust yourself and your judge of character. The only way to build that confidence in yourself back up is to keep reflecting, staying connected and true to your values and feelings and always maintaining firm boundaries. You will become off-putting to manipulative types because they'll realise quickly that that crap doesn…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 12:11 PM
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A lot of them say marriage counselling is a trap because most psychologists are women and therefore biased against you from the start.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 08:50 PM
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the wall is undefeated hur hur hur - they collectively lose their shit when post-wall "tainted" women appear to live well and defy their expectations...oh its so sweet when that happens! Sweet seeet redpill tears.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 06:56 AM
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I don't think they were intentionally created to demonise the male gender but I think if you're a woman/disempowered individual, it's really easy to make a broad simplistic statement and blame "men"/patriarchy as a whole for your problems without nuance. It's kinda like how in the conversation about racism, white poor people get lost in it and grouped into complaints about white supremacy. We could all benefit from a little more nuance when having these conversations but nuance doesn't make head…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 02:01 PM
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Yeah tbh I've always had this problem with the label "patriarchy". I think those with the most strength and ability to impose themselves on others will ultimately gain power/control so it makes sense that in general women, children and physically/financially weaker men all end up subjugated.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 01:44 PM
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But it then takes just one click of the "wrong" video or entertaining a short for a few seconds to long for it to loop back into your recommendations again. It really does feel like YT pushes this stuff specifically in a way I haven't had any other video rammed down my throat but I could just be biased.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 01:53 PM
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That's unbelievably depressing and SUCH a good point.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 11:20 AM
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I think you might have misunderstood my wording. By saying "cost", I'm saying the "price" of sleeping with their wife (like a sex worker) because they view the relationship through this transactional lense so sex would also be another "service" they pay for. Obviously in a healthy relationship these things are done out of love and mercy e.g. caring for your own kids lol As for the money side. Again, I was pointing out that this is the consequence of thinking transactionally about relationships a…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 11:17 AM
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Lol yes sorry to have got your hopes up! I thought I would try not to paint every RP community with the same broad brush in my post in the interest of balance but yes...MarriedRP is still gross and in some ways more horrifying because they're inflicting these manipulation/narc strategies on the person they made vows to.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 11:13 AM
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Congratulations on your sobriety! I think a lot of TRP dudes have been burnt by BPD/Narc women. I think what's helpful is realising narcissism exists in both genders and for as many men that have been burnt, many women have too. Sometimes women have it worse - imagine getting pregnant and being abandoned by a narc and then the entire Internet is shaming you for being a single mother and not choosing better...I feel sorry for victims everywhere. I'm glad you have enough morality in you to have ba…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 01:28 PM
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Most of the time I see comments under her video of RP guys condemning her - I honestly have no idea why she keeps entertaining that side of YouTube....I guess it makes her relevant. The formula for her date with Andrew and Myron was this -- they say something "shockingly offensive" about women/relationships; she gasps in horror and retorts back (usually unconvincingly); the comment section goes WILD because their brain dead Internet daddy "owned" her. Rinse and repeat. It's 100% a grift and I no…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 01:03 PM
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It's not a weakness to be vulnerable. As you grow and learn more you will be better able to discern who can be trusted and who can't. Also, the internal work you do on yourself will give you the resilience to cope, if someone you trusted let's you down. Ultimately your self-worth shouldn't be wrapped up in this other person. Having boundaries also means knowing where you begin and the other person ends. I recommend learning about Co-dependency, CPTSD and enmeshment.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 07:50 AM
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You are in a great position and when you finally meet someone who can love you as truly and passionately as you love them, you will understand that. Sometimes when we are lonely, we can have porous boundaries and sadly there are people who can sense our desperation, take advantage and hurt you deeply. Please, please do not allow that to happen to you - it's the kind of experience that can damage you for a long time. As another commenter said, take this lonely time and turn it into a time of intr…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 10:59 AM
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Also when married men Google certain common marriage problems e.g. "dead bedroom" they can get recommended RP ideas. It can start of innocent enough but snowball really fast.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 10:37 AM
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Gotta second @Mean_Mechanic9889 - very easy for guys to say you should go ahead anyway even if you get called a "slag". A ruined reputation can have a lasting impact and effect the way guys you haven't even met yet treat you. You could be immediately categorised and mistreated as a consequence of what has been said/implied about you.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 12:20 AM
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I think "flirting" isn't one rigid thing. Sometimes gentle ribbing and teasing that would just be seen as friendly in a platonic setting can be "flirty" in a sexual/romantic setting purely because of the nature of the interaction. Generally being confident, relaxed in your own skin and authentic will be received well by basically anyone - it could be then labelled as being "flirty" or it could just be charisma/charm - as long as you're having fun - who cares?
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 10:49 PM
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Say what you want about FDS but I think they invented the word "scrotes" to refer to guys and I have to admit...kinda hysterical 🤣
/r/ExRedPill02/12/22 05:05 PM
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I forgot the word "scrote" for a while and omg you just brought it back. It's such a hilarious word😂
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 05:59 AM
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Wow, this is so well-written and spot on. The term "mastubatory glee" is literally the perfect description of how happy these guys are to see a woman suffer. What I love though is their collective meltdown when things don't quite turn out as terribly for a woman as they think she deserves (see: the case of singer Ciara marrying Russell Wilson and having a seemingly good marriage after becoming a single mother aka an "untouchable" lol).
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 08:50 PM
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What "truth" are you talking about? She shared a personal experience based on what she went through and what women she knows have gone through. Is it anecdotal? Yes, but anecdotal evidence is still evidence - just the lowest kind and should be accepted with caution. How does her sharing her experience make her a liar? Good grief.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 06:25 AM
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Look up codependency and covert contracts if you haven't already. Sometimes codependents can fall into the trap of assuming that if they pour all this love into a person that maybe they will pour it all back. Sadly it doesn't always work that way - people don't always share your values and ethics; some will lie to you. It sucks. But don't despair. Don't allow these individuals to change the best parts of you. Generosity, kindness and empathy are super powers and to the right girl it will be a gi…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 03:54 PM
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How would confirming that women do in fact abuse men and are capable of harming them help you, when the reason for the abuse has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with that person's poor values/ethics or personality? It's not about men vs women, it's good vs evil and evil comes in many forms. Imagine joining TRP after being abused and exploited by a woman, only to be exploited and abused by TRP gurus instead. Deal with the problem my guy - it ain't women.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 03:48 PM
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Very well said. I guess what's annoying is the constant assertion they make that what they're saying is evidence-based and the overused motto of: "facts don't care about your feelings". It's so ironic when they're basing their opinions on exactly that...feelings.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 03:42 PM
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I can relate to getting exhausted by small talk lol. There are definitely benefits to working on your social skills and becoming a better conversationalist. It can be fun and also create opportunities for you romantically and job-wise. I would suggest honing in on your natural listening skills and becoming really good at asking people about themselves and really letting them "shine". People generally love talking about themselves and what they think so it will endear them to you and it also take…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 05:35 AM
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I think my response was a little dismissive actually so I apologise for that. I think you're right that a lot of men don't understand that they can be abused by women and what that can look like. They know the obvious red flags like cheating but beyond that it seems they think there is nothing else to worry about. This is definitely changing though with more high profile cases of women abusing men - which is great news.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 05:27 AM
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I think you're generalising. I've meant plenty of guys who have the "women are evil" mindset because of things that they witnessed growing up. I actually had the opposite experience. I thought most men were ethical angels and was super naive until I met someone truly awful. It shattered my world view and made me distrust my own judgement. I knew "bad boys" existed but I still thought they were ethical in that they were forthcoming about being "bad". I was not prepared to meet liars that pretend …
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 12:55 AM
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Omg I love it! I don't always agree with his takes - he sometimes shows a lot of empathy for some really douchey characters (e.g. Big Ed) - but his breakdown of how people's traumas can control how they react to conflict in relationships was SO eye-opening for me!
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 12:50 AM
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There's plenty of resources that tell you what to watch out for - they're just not gender-specific. I recommend content that teaches you about narcissistic behaviours. I know it sounds really funny but I really like the "Psychology in Seattle" YouTube channel - he has this series where he reacts to 90 Dat fiance and explains the breakdowns in communication and I've found it SO helpful. It's entertaining but super informative.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 07:24 PM
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This feeling that you have to choose one path or another may be linked to being on the spectrum and having a preference for rigidity. If you want to improve yourself keep working out and also work on developing empathy and interpersonal skills. Try not to over-think as to whether something you are doing is masculine or feminine or, strong or weak. Think more about developing your ability to relate to others and you will attract people who appreciate you and are compatible with you. You are still…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 04:04 PM
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Nobody should be defending "men" or "women" as a collective. Both genders are capable of doing wrong and being wronged. Defend people thar are worth defending regardless of their gender. The way to avoid being a Pick Me is to ensure you're never being too one-sided in your criticism and bring balance and nuance to the argument.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 06:06 PM
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I'm too impatient for that lol he's a better guy than me 😆 I would just want to tear them to shreds
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 01:48 PM
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I appreciate him being there and trying to unpack all the idiocy using a "softly softly" approach so as not to spook them. It's obviously frustrating because I would love it if he would just come in and humiliate them - which I know he has the ability to do - but I think he wants to keep debates friendly to have the maximum positive impact and influence on FnF, Sneako and their audience. Watching these conversations honestly feels like my brain is being damaged. I sincerely feel less intelligent…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 10:11 AM
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Wow you really summed it up 😆 I would also add a new set of contradictory claims TRP are making. One minute, modern women "don't cook" and don't serve their men, therefore they are bad. Next minute, women cook and give their man an extra portion of food in a diabolical scheme to make him gain weight so he will become unattractive and no other woman will want him. They're cooking so frequently that they actually have the ability to make their poor husband fat. At this point I think TRP guys suffe…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 10:02 AM
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Yes...yes they are that delusional. Kevin Samuels unironically rated himself a 9/10.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 04:10 PM
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The trouble with TRP is they believe that the worth of human beings exists in what material value they bring to the society. Men are ATM machines, women are human incubators. If you want to believe that that is all we are, that is your choice. But human beings and the human experience is far greater than that. There are plenty of people who are poor or infertile - who still deserve to live. I think it is worth looking into getting some therapy to unpack how you've been convinced by this cynical …
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 08:46 PM
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I found out I was codependent so I did a lot of work on myself to establish a "self" separate from others and firm boundaries. I realised my codependency affected ALL relationships - not just romantic ones - and dealing with this problem helped me in all aspects of life. Although I didn't get formal therapy, I watched a lot of YouTube content about codependency, BPD and NPD and it really helped me. I also have to thank my siblings and friends who were a source of support and willing to be a "sou…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 06:32 PM
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This is actually awesome.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 02:16 PM
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Is this a story that happened in Asia? If its the one I'm thinking of, that story actually turned out to be false. It was actually a tongue-in-cheek advert for a cosmetic surgery clinic. The gag was supposed to be "the only thing you have to worry about is the children" as in the surgery is so good nobody will ever know you were ugly. Sadly so many people thought it was real and ran with the story and the poor model in the picture was harassed and her life ruined.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 07:09 AM
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Yeah I found it so funny when KS would talk about being in his prime and seeing himself as a 9/10. They think 20-somethings are salivating at the thought of being with the crypt-keeper. Yes, for financial security and stability women will select an older man, but he is no way the preference. And to think you are is delusional. Another thing about this "men are fertile for longer" thing is...Well just because you CAN doesn't mean you should. I wouldn't want a husband in his 50s bc by the time kid…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 07:05 AM
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Gosh you put it so well - a revenge fantasy is exactly what it is! I've seen the glint in guys like Rollo or F&F's eyes when they inform beautiful women that they've hit the wall. It's like they resent pretty women for the options they have and are gleefully waiting for the day when they will feel as optionless, rejected and invisible to society as they do. Imagine being that nasty and spiteful ew
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 06:58 AM
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Dang some of the posters here are being kinda harsh. TRP preys on vulnerable men and often - from the experiences they share online - I suspect they are victims of a BPD/NPD type they were dating. OP you have my full empathy. Been there and as others have said totally get how it can make you lose hope and trust in the opposite gender. I'm glad you're on this sub as I guess it means on some level you realise it was illogical to blame all women for your ex's behaviour. Wishing you a speedy recover…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 09:00 PM
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Women with masculine traits are not as rare as you might think and I actually think a growing number of women prefer more egalitarian relationships - isn't that why a lot of TRP guys have their panties in a bunch? Wistfully wishing for the good ol' days when women were feminine? I think like you said, certain traits are praised in men and condemned in women and vis versa. Therefore it's very much possible that in the same way you might feel a pressure to ACT dominant in order to appeal to the op…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 10:27 PM
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It's complicated because - for me at least - when I say "best friend", it isn't equal to any kind of friendship I have with anyone else. Maybe that's the problem. The special relationship between romantic partners can't be called a friendship or purely just lovers - it's something entirely different and unique. I don't know what the best name is for it but "friend" just feels like the best approximation rather than what it actually is. So in this unique relationship it is possible to have the at…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 05:40 PM
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It's definitely possible. But it's rare. I believe its a combination of luck and hard work. I know because my partner is both those things (best friend and lover) to me and I to him. We were lucky to find someone so compatible in the first place but the hard work is maintaining that connection and keeping the lines of communication open even when life tries to tear you apart. The "hard" part isn't that being in the relationship itself is hard, it's that you can't assume everything will do well o…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 01:50 PM
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TRP works in some ways but for the wrong reasons. It's kind of like answering a math question where the answer is right but the working out is all wrong. Take Dread for example. Dread is all about "waking up" a partner that may be taking you for granted to the reality that you could leave them and in turn make them put more effort into the relationship. However the methods utilised are manipulative and abusive. It could end up working and your relationship could actually improve but it will have…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 09:16 AM
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The "truth" you speak of is usually confirmation bias. I noticed Red Pill types tend to be very cynical, glass-half-empty people and so find the most depressing conclusion/interpretation of an event/phenomena to be the most appealing because to them it's "just being realistic". Except it's not. Being overly pessimistic also skews your world view and is a kind of delusion in itself. Example: A man breaks down in front of his wife after the death of his mother. His wife - in watching him cry - wit…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 08:33 AM
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I think what has to be the grossest part of Dread is that when I read the "Dread Framework" (aka the manual for emotionally and mentally abusing your partner) they actually say "no Dread when your wife is pregnant". So these maniacs actually understand that they are causing distress to their partner and should not do it while she's expecting lest it harms the baby...like WTF is wrong with these guys, it's horrifying.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 10:31 AM
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I like it too but I find it awfully convenient. Like "wife goggles" exist for men but apparently "husband goggles" don't exist for women and women are just lifelong, opportunistic succubi who will monkey branch to a higher value man at the drop of a hat. It's just another example of how they view men as the moral sex and ignore so many cases of women sticking by men through hard times only to be abandoned when the roles are reversed (e.g. women being 6x more likely to be divorced post-cancer dia…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 09:24 AM
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I think the first reply covered all the bases really. Only thing I would add is my perspective as woman who used to have the same feelings you have but against men. You really do see what you want to see - that confirmation bias is powerful particularly if you have been in an echo chamber for a while. Honestly what changed my outlook was realising that the problem isn't men vs women, it's ethical people versus unethical people (who may or may not have personality disorders). What can you do? 1. …
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 11:08 PM
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I guess I'm just in disbelief at how RP types are unable to see the flaws in what they espouse. I guess that's what happens when you're part of a cult.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 10:53 PM
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