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Big yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:08 PM
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What on earth is a "push present"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:16 PM
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Thinking with the wrong part, as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:31 PM
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Pickmeisha/groomed woman: At least he hits the toy and not me. So far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:31 PM
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He's not going to pass the bar the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:17 PM
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Yes! His mom is the textbook example of the kind of LVW mom who normalized that type of awful and abusive behavior, so he accepts it from others and probably internalizes a lot of the blame for things not his fault because it's how he was raised. This is NOT the norm but it does happen! I hope he can one day unlearn some of these toxic patterns so he doesn't seek out a LVW in a wife or girlfriend. This is just human decency, people. Don't be abusive a-holes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:50 PM
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I think it's some of the male conditioning that women are crazy, hormonal, emotional, etc. and they just come to expect it. A HVM might have grown up with examples of LVW and loved them because they were family members, childhood friends, or young girlfriends and he didn't know better. I think the narrative that wives are nagging and controlling, mother-in-laws are monsters, and girls are illogical and unreasonable (or just on their period so they can't be held responsible) is so pervasive that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:55 PM
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Haha how dare you ask to put this innocent young man in a potentially compromising situation? If he had walked you to your car with no other witnesses, what was stopping you from falsely accusing him of assault and ruining his life? Have you thought about that? Nooo, you only think of yourself! It is a dangerous world out here for men, especially after #MeToo - you know how us women can be soooo predatory. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:40 PM
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It's a safe area for him, an adult male. There are no truly safe areas for a woman walking to her car after dark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:36 PM
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Wow. I'm glad you reflected about this. Those sound like things any good friend or even polite acquaintance would do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:33 PM
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Oh, 100% there are men who are into inducing vomit due to deep throating. If they were looking for real sounds of intimacy and pleasure, they passed that stop a looooong time ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:32 PM
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"Ooooh, what are you going to do if I don't, hit me? Oh, wait! You would, because you're a degenerate and that's why you're part of MGTOW and hopelessly single in the first place."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:30 PM
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I'm dying laughing. This is on par with children's playground scrabbles: "I'm the princess, you have to do what *I* say!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:28 PM
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So, the boyfriend and prime suspect was arrested due to a February 5th incident where Anitra's windows at her home were smashed and her tires slashed. Why, oh why did this angel agree to make up with this guy to go out with him on Valentine's Day? FDS: the first red flag, walk away. Second chances get people killed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:26 PM
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Talk about how it might be nice to rent a little apartment down by the river. I couldn't help but think of, "You'll be thrice divorced, living in a VAN down by the RIVER!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:45 PM
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I so hope she interrupted them and acted like it was her own surprise birthday party - aw, you invited people for my BIRTHDAY? You really hid this so well, I thought you weren't even going to get me anything! Oh, sorry, you can't smoke hookah in here since I'm PREGNANT, but I'm so glad you came. Where are the refreshments?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:54 PM
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The obvious answer is to ask him about it. If it is an engagement ring for you, he'll save it enough to where things will still be special later on. If he's been engaged before, held on to another woman's ring, or keeps a family heirloom for sentimental value, then there's only power in knowing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:20 PM
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There's a lot to unpack here, so we're going to start by throwing the whole suitcase boyfriend away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:28 PM
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If you're grown, don't settle for this. That being said, relationships have seasons just as life does. When my boyfriend and I were 18, he bought a pizza, got my favorite movie on DVD, and we crashed a big screen monitor classroom at college and had a FANTASTIC night. This weekend now that we're many years past that? We have VIP tickets to a great concert with dinner beforehand and you better believe flowers (already got some to start the week). Time and a place, ladies. It's not the price tag o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:11 PM
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What a wonderful resource for the women at Griffith University. I hope they all take it to heart and demand nothing less than respect from the people they date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:18 PM
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Brava en tus realizaciones! Más vale tarde que nunca, y estás en una viaje personal profunda. Como las otras han dicho, es un proceso que toma tiempo pero es vale la pena para ser la persona madura, independiente, y fuerza que eres. El porno es un maestro muy duro y los efectos no son saludables para nadie. Pero hay curación y esperanza. Esta comunidad de mujeres apoyantes es una luz para muchas a ver su valor y dignidad. No más vamos a dar nuestra tiempo y energia a los hombres con bajo valor y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 10:30 PM
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Just to let you know, the names of the commenters are totally see-through, if you were trying to protect their privacy and yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:58 PM
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The 4.5 guy...did he use his mugshot as his pic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:39 PM
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Something to keep in mind - not every single bartender knows about this. It is a concept that sounds good in theory, but rarely gets put into practice. Some bars have custom shots that are already called angel shots and they'll serve you one and be confused when you don't want it. There are better ways of communicating to a bartender that you feel unsafe and need an exit route: Tell them Slip a note to them Flag down another girl in the bathroom and ask her to get a staff member Stay in the bath…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:50 PM
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I feel so bad for the wife and bad for this young girl too, as it is obvious she's been groomed by this man. He is a child predator, abuser, and master manipulator. No, he will never leave his wife for her, even though his wife deserves better than a scumbag cheater like him. If any woman is 'developing' severe mental health problems due to a man in her life, please let her know how to get help and see that it's abuse NOT love. This girl's entire identity is based on being attractive to men, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:26 PM
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This just in: fingering can now get you pregnant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:05 PM
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Even the amount of push needed close the door of an SUV is enough to really hurt if it catches someone's arm or shin as they're trying to climb out. I hope you don't ever have it happen to you, it certainly does hurt and it's insensitive not to check to make sure your SO isn't getting out the other side of the car!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:21 PM
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No, not unless OP is listed as the main tenant and methane-producer over there is a sub-tenant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:28 PM
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If you thirst-post on social media, you will inevitably get LVMs flocking to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:18 PM
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It was her choice to divulge that type of information, but as we have seen in the media coverage of her, now her entire image has been reduced to her as a sexual object. The LVMs around her I'm sure view her as a sexual conquest and her virginity as the "prize." That attitude makes it very hard to meet and develop a committed relationship with a real man. But think about Tim Tebow's same confession back in the day - sure, there was a little bit of women peacocking about how THEY could take his v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:15 PM
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I know five - not three, not four, FIVE - women who got pregnant with the copper IUD, all before the time that their doctor was supposed to remove them. I have a couple friends who had such painful complications with IUDs that they had to get them removed before they were supposed to. One friend removed her entire IUD when the strings got caught with a tampon. The irreversible hormonal effects of birth control last a lifetime. Mental health, physical health, reproductive health all goes to shit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:28 PM
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If it is even true that local laws may have any impact whatsoever on their relationship (there are places like this sadly, but I just don't know if I buy i from this drama king right here), then it is so much better for her to be without him. He sounds like dead weight, and while there should be healthy mutual support in relationships, if you need your girlfriend to be your "pillar or strength" when your car's check engine light comes on, then buddy - you need to grow up a little on your own. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:58 PM
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Nope. I'd rather know and be able to protect myself from STDs, STIs, and from having a child with a serial cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:21 PM
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Learnt that from my mothers ex husband who was always 'at the gym' but still looked pregnant. I am WHEEZING!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:08 PM
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Yes is the short answer. I would definitely ask a man why he likes it, what is it about it that he finds interesting or appealing. It may open the door to good, deeper conversation. Or, it may show his true colors of being borderline a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:43 PM
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This is already happening. I work with victims of trauma (I have to be vague) and I get to see families and people in their individual homes and environments. Men watch porn while children as young as infants are in the room. Middle school boys have porn playing on their cell phones. TW: SA Recently got to bring charges against a GRANDFATHER babysitting his toddler granddaughter because he wouldn't stop bouncing her on his lap while he watched porn on the living room TV. He claims he didn't mean…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:44 PM
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First, we let them spank us. Then, we let them tie us down. Sometimes we let them blindfold us. When that wasn't enough, they bit us, slapped us, and choked us. Then implements and tools had to be introduced. When that got stale, they wanted electrical shocks and wax burns, bruises and welts, so that their depravity could be visibly displayed on the canvas of our skin and bodies. It's not lust, it's bloodlust. All that to say, the porn-educated man of today is taught one thing: it is pleasurable…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:40 PM
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Why is there barbed wire on the wall?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 04:30 PM
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It's a great sign that you even recognize all of these things already. You didn't sugarcoat anything, you're calling it like it is. He is verbally abusive. Yes, in the past you have done things to him and treated him in a less than ok way. THAT IS NEVER AN EXCUSE FOR SOMEONE TO BE ABUSIVE. Unlike you, he isn't recognizing his behavior is toxic and changing it. The biggest lies we tell ourselves include, "I deserve this." One of our biggest fears is being alone. But what you have with him right n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:36 PM
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Because we're HVW and we don't need to replicate the gross behavior of LVM? Don't bathe with pigs and expect not to get dirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:08 PM
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There's a reason for this. It's not that they're not watching porn, it's that they can't cope with having a real life woman in their conscious vicinity and not be allowed to view her for their own pleasure as they would porn. They feel entitled to accessing visual stimulation from anyone at any time, so when there's a woman texting them, they drive themselves crazy because she may not immediately gratify them with showing herself. Sure, he can see whatever he wants to in porn, but that doesn't m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:40 PM
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I haven't encountered a lot of men calling women incels. The more common rhetoric I hear is they resent us for not having to ever face that issue, since they believe sex is so easily obtained for women no matter what they do or look like, whereas for them it's: "Woe is me, I am cursed with mediocre looks and a terrible personality/Oedipus complex, I can't get my dick wet."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 04:39 PM
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This is financial abuse, which is one of many indicators in the wheel of power that he is an abusive, domineering, controlling man. Where do these men get the idea that this level of control over another person's finances is acceptable and practical? Was she homeless and broke before she met him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:58 PM
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Reminds me of one of my favorite old tumblr posts about a girl pretending to not know she was pretty: "Oh thank you good sir, this is my first day out of doors and papa never let us see a mirror lest we fall prey to vanity!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:43 PM
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Get out get out get out get out for the love of god we will help you but GET OUT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 07:39 PM
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It's a sign of classic narcissism = inappropriate confessions and oversharing too soon. That in addition to women being conditioned as nurturers and listeners. Men seek out women who display a modicum of empathy because they are so deprived of real, deep connections with other humans that they think they've met their soulmate as soon as they feel comfortable enough to dump all their emotional baggage on you. It's a red flag and a tactic. The tactic is that it gives them a false sense of connecti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 06:56 PM
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Never negotiate with terrorists. As soon as the suicide card is played, block. Emotional manipulation and gaslighting in its highest form.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 05:51 PM
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I straight up think that's a stock photo he's using as his profile pic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:23 PM
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Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 06:50 PM
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...says a rich celebrity who looks like that ^^^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 06:36 PM
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It matters. A woman who says it doesn't is lying. But dick size mattering does not mean that bigger is automatically better. I'd rather have a relatively decent, average size dick than a Mandingo who thinks repeated jabbing is good sex. Vagina shape and size matters too, which is why there will never be a magic dick size that will please all women every time. One of my partners had a comparably sized dick to my ex but managed to hit my cervix just right with every thrust and I thought I would di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:35 PM
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No excuses are ever needed, but I do yoga, play guitar, knit, hike, cook, go out with my friends, watch Netflix, volunteer, DIY projects, and most of those are free or low-cost. If I ever get bothered by someone who thinks I don't reply fast enough, I hit them with the, "I'm just not someone who's glued to my phone 24/7."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:08 PM
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Men don't change. Men don't change. He won't change, I repeat, he will not change. Also, babies are never bandaids that fix anything. Break up babies? I'm-sorry-I-cheated babies? Anti-divorce babies? I've lost all sense of commonality and attraction to my partner, so might as well introduce a baby into the mix? All horrible reasons and only make matters worse. It's like the 'either break up or get married' weddings but on steroids. Hopefully OP finds the sanity and strength to move on without th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 09:17 PM
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I went on two dates with a guy and quickly knew this was NOT it fam, so I told him politely and firmly that I wasn't interested in seeing him anymore. This was back in the day of keyboard phones and grainy, regrettable nudes. Well, naturally, he threatened to send my nudes to my school. I led him on via text so all was in writing, "Oh no, whatever will I do, please don't, etc." Eventually I got the perfect storm of damning evidence written by him expressly asking me to exchange sexual favors in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 08:16 PM
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My dad used to say that being a wife entailed taking over a lot of the "mothering" duties that a woman does, even for an adult son. That always repulsed me. I dated someone who got a running injury during our time together. He asked me to call the doctor to make an appointment for him. I told him matter of factly, "I am not your mother." Turns out, he was 28 years old and his mom had made every single one of his doctor's appointments throughout his adult life so he didn't even know how to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:55 PM
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she never cheated on me (although even when I was the most beta I've always told her:"If you think you could do better, go"). I did fuck other girls, but it's only that. Honestly, this sorry excuse for a man should do her a FAVOR by letting her go because otherwise she'd get stuck dealing with his insufferable narcissism and objectification, not to mention guaranteed cheating on her while married, pregnant, then parenting since he's already done it and is so flippant about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 09:14 PM
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