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NewZealandSed/r/seduction07/01/16 02:04 AM
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Most average guys aren't out getting laid (and if they are its often infrequent). Get that notion out of your head. There's less sex occurring in the younger generations than before. It's normal to feel jealous of guys getting access, but it doesn't serve you. I'd recommend stop pitying yourself and work on developing the traits you see average guys exhibiting that's working for them. Befriend them and learn from them even. You'll move closer to losing your virginity when you take control (and l…
/r/seduction04/01/26 06:52 PM
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Don't be high around him. Have some respect. Sounding awfully entitled and bratty. What exactly does your father do that makes him a beta other than providing for you and not wanting you high...?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:55 AM
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Yes girls definitely can have boundaries. What did you do to cause her to state her boundaries?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:03 PM
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You're the boss/masculine figure/protector in that moment.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:30 PM
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It's not good. I imagine it was your weed. You, in a way, paid for her time using the weed and got a bit of kissing out of it. And you're trying to convince us that it's because the conversation was great. It means not only was she horny and stoned, her senses increased and decision making ability decreased and sending signals she's into you, you still didn't do shit. A few more joints and a boob grab and you'll have full blown oneitis
/r/askTRP09/12/19 07:11 PM
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Zyzz - the story behind On youtube
/r/askTRP07/12/19 04:32 AM
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Example of the shit tests dudes will give you. Frame.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:41 PM
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Bouncer here. You being Asian will get you shit tested by males and females a lot. Within a couple shifts you'll have heard it all and it won't be an issue as you adapt. However, certain races/ peoplewill have an issue with it, trying to imply they'll attack you (always the chance they will) Be socially smart and you'll be fine. Your size isn't too big of an issue. You'll develop skills to compensate and there will be big boys on your team acting as a deterrent. If you can't handle being a bounc…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:35 PM
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Me too. Looking back on it, it's always been that way. Even as a young kid. Gotta accept reality as it is and use it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:18 PM
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Crabs in a bucket mentality. From their perspective, you're not really a friend. You're competition. And from that standpoint, they're losing. You make them feel insecure. Get better friends.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 11:37 AM
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10-20 percent.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:41 PM
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Perceived dating up.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 12:25 AM
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People doing the work are getting tired of catering to lazy people.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:05 AM
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He said he got it on finance
/r/askTRP29/01/18 11:35 AM
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Did you do what right? Slut shame her? I don't see the point of your post.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 07:32 AM
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Get her to buy you a drink
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:13 AM
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Get a part time job asap, regardless of when you're moving out.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 04:22 AM
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You're self analyzing things well. Stop talking to her so much. You're walking into her relationship trap. Find new girls to talk to. Stop investing in her further. How many girls are you seeing? Is she your plate? Is she a prospective girlfriend? Good work cancelling the "date" that can't lead to sex - but why are you seeing her in that way? I'm confused as to whether she's a prospective girlfriend or you're trying to plate her, cause you're definitely sending mixed messages. Anyways, things ar…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 04:11 AM
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Do you wanna fuck her in the coming days when she's not making a drunk fool of herself? She's left the door open imo
/r/askTRP30/09/17 06:24 AM
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Best advice.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 06:20 AM
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If you didn't wanna get laid, you handled this real well. Other wise, she threw so many stupidly obvious hints she STILL wanted you to fuck her. And you wouldn't take initiative and fuck her. The safe message could go either way, sounds like she wants to maintain talking so you can fuck her if she didn't fuck things up too bad. Could also be that she is belligerent.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 06:15 AM
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Lift and learn a mma. He only acts like that cause he seeds you as a beta
/r/askTRP30/09/17 06:10 AM
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You've got the best response you're gonna get. Never ever do this again.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 06:09 AM
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Two things - Bad idea to have an agreement to have sex with her.. obviously, creates pressure and an obligation opposed to something she feels right about and just 'happened'. You failed the shit test but she was (mixture of both) still into you, and a total slut - so you're doing a reasonable amount of things right. You basically communicated to her you're not worthy of her by providing resources in exchange for sex, and forced her to agree. Having an agreement for sex and an agreed prices is 1…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 06:06 AM
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If he follows this route, keep the phone call short. Do not try and court her on the phone.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 05:59 AM
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I always make the girls add me on snapchat and 'prove' they're not a catfish. They follow your lead, invest further and you get to see what they actually look like. Since she's already offered i'd remove the catfish part. I'd say "add x on snapchat, you send first." . Then when she snaps you, obviously don't comment on her looks. Just reply back with your face, she replies with text bla bla and you set the date asap. As in that message. She obviously wants to meet, give it to her. I like your wa…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:58 AM
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You messaged her too quickly after the date. She had no time to wonder about you. Now you come across as semi desperate. A double whammy cockblock special. Second reply should of been a tease with a follow up demand to meet, with a time and location. She thinks you're popular with the ladies, so something like. "Now it's even more obvious you like me. I'm gonna be at x and y, you should come." She shit tested you and you failed. Also - The smilies will always make you come across as feminine. La…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:42 AM
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You should delete this, or you'll get banned. This is ASK trp
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:34 AM
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Internalize that being afraid of failure is counter productive as it makes you fail at life. Winners win, but first they lose, learn and win. Develop confidence with every positive decision. Learn from your mistakes, you won't make that mistake any time soon. You should care what people think. Those people should be people who have earned your respect. You're currently valuing other peoples opinions of you above your own, indicating low self esteem. Internalize why you value their opinions above…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:29 AM
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I have no idea what she actually did. He was intentionally ambiguous, probably offering a biased perspective. He obviously said/did something to cause the disrespect. At that point I'd next her and practice basic skills on a new target, learning every interaction. Chances are she'd fuck you after that, but I wouldn't.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:14 AM
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Doesn't matter what she thinks, it's what you think.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:40 PM
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You're an idiot op. Get out. NOW.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:35 PM
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1). Need? No. Prefer? Yes. Cold approach solves this issue. Cold approach will yield results much faster and isn't reliant on other people, other than the girl, to get things done. 2) A friendship I value over most friendships. He'll be top 10-20% in many areas with shared interests/goals to me. 3) People invite you out often, are happy to see you, speak well of you and provide value regularly. 4) No opinion. 5) Several close friends. The others are people I know/get along with. They are acquain…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:29 PM
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Not healthy. You're trying to prove you're the big man. Which means you're not. Chill out. None of the shit you mentioned matters much, you're letting people have power over you and that makes you weaker. Develop your social skills (you are, keep at it) and solve engagements instead of saying fuck off cause you're emotional. You'll be happier and the outcomes will suit you a lot more. You really broke frame with that chick and now you've run the risk of cock blocking yourself from her any of her…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:04 PM
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I've banged 2-3 girls who unprovoked go on about how blonde hair on guys looks feminine, they don't like it and prefer dark hair.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 09:33 PM
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Don't lick your lips as you stare. You'll be alright.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 09:17 AM
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Where's the question?
/r/askTRP02/04/17 02:54 AM
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Because they see you as not a man. They want you to be one.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 11:52 PM
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I'd definitely bang the slut. A fair few fathers take their sons to hookers to lose their V so they learn banging hot chicks isn't a big deal.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 01:46 AM
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You get a lot of jealous looks.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 04:08 AM
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One. If shes not putting out shes not a plate. Chick youre just meeting, three max.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 12:02 AM
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NZ here. Pm if you wanna know anything about NZ
/r/askTRP29/03/17 11:59 PM
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Rsdtyler beta shaming Youtube that
/r/askTRP29/03/17 11:55 PM
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listen to music, her cook you dinner.. whatever it is. Lie.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 06:35 AM
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Yes, dear.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 06:30 AM
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Better question. Does sex in gynocentric movies seem genuinely portrayed at all?
/r/askTRP29/03/17 06:29 AM
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Correct response would've been to reject the maybe. You are a busy man and don't have time for maybes in your schedule. "too bad" wasn't the smartest response over text. That shit can fly in person. Not over text. Next time just make plans for when it suits instead of saying "too bad" Your gut is right, set plans for when you're free and go on with your life. If I had accepted the maybe and then had no set plans with her I'd make my own plans and reschedule when it suits me best. Follow your gut…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 11:36 AM
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Tynx is right. If you're struggling after 6 weeks send me a pm.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 08:52 AM
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Never had the sugar daddy problem. I've never spent more than 15 bucks on getting laid. Average about ten. Personally I don't care what they find me attractive for, I care about fucking attractive chicks, not what they like. But to answer your question, it's always best if they want your genes. That's real attraction.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 08:48 AM
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Something about riding, following the car theme. Yeah, I've kept her around because she's the only one whose ride I enjoy who can keep up with my drive. It's a bit long but gives you something to go off. Why are you flirting with her over text, anyway?
/r/askTRP28/03/17 08:40 AM
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Pink was a boys colour until around 1910.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 10:45 AM
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you can become an incel like most of /r/short or you can swallow the pill. Max out your own SMV, aim to get girls shorter than you are. Do the best with your own genetics. It's good that you want to improve your game - your tall natural buddy will have weaker game than you if you stick at it. Like you say, chicks throw themselves at him. He's got the attraction built in, like a chick, but a man hunts.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 09:21 AM
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Leykis Egg McMuffin is the best way
/r/askTRP25/02/17 07:49 AM
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Nothing.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 03:10 PM
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Don't initiate contact. Let her come to you. When she does contact, arrange the meeting. If she doesn't contact you, hit her up in 12 or so days.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:35 PM
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Yes assume IOI unless it's a kick to the balls or the likes.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:33 PM
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Approach it like it's not a date. Because it obviously isn't.. Approach it as a hook up. You're there to figure out if you wanna fuck her and she's determining if she likes what she sees. Touch her, flirt, tease, lead the conversation and lead things physically. As someone else mentioned, assume things are going your way. You're going to meet her, run your game and then you're going to fuck. Simple as that. Lean back a little. Strong eye contact. I tend not to smile too much, but that's just me.…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:30 PM
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"Just say it. You want me. Stop being so shy". Add a playful smirk. You can mix up your response a fair bit, but the idea is the same.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:24 PM
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You shouldn't pay for dinner for two reasons. A) you want her to have fun with you and a dinner is an interview. B) and more importantly, you don't want to be a chump. She will take you for one if you pay for her shit. She's not a prostitute. I don't spend more than $10 on any lay.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:21 PM
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Depends on how you perceive what wrong is. What's wrong in this case can only be determined by you. Society will pressure you to get married, but there is no law requiring it and it isn't morally required, either. Do you really need a ceremony, or a title to gaurantee you get half of you partners shit to feel in the 'right'? If you do, then that can easily be considered wrong. I view it that way. You don't need a ceremony, or as you put it, a party to perform wifely duties or have a committed re…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:11 PM
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Indeed very interesting. Doesn't surprise me that the Russians performed this study, either.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 10:01 AM
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I like how straight forward your response is. Also, I wouldn't mention the ED or anything related when you contact her.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:49 PM
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Juan he's using satire to troll you.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:24 PM
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this
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:35 AM
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Yes and no - Depends on you as a person. It's difficult to be in a calorie deficit and hit your macros while drinking alcohol. Best to cut it obviously but depends on how that impacts every other area for you. The 90 day no fap is the most difficult part of what's there imo - don't plan to, but expect slip ups. When you slip up in any area of your daily goals the most important thing is to not get demoralized and create a domino effect. E.g I fapped last night, wouldn't be that bad to fap tonigh…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:18 AM
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This.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:14 AM
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How about this. Why don't you convince us that arrogance is good?
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:05 AM
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Cmon man. NO. Mystery will passively create more fantasy and it becomes her own fantasy which is much more powerful than what you want to impose.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 11:57 PM
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Fantastic practice and a momentum initiator if you're young and need to get into the game. When I was younger I saw it like the scene in superbad. "The point is to be good at sex by the time you get to college. You don't want (hot) chicks thinking you suck dick at fucking pussy" "I've got like two solid months of sex. By the time college rolls around I'll be like the Iron Chef of pounding vaj."
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:27 PM
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It's only shocking while you're learning and experiencing AWALT at first. I got used to it and used it to my advantage. It's stress free dating knowing largely how things are likely to happen with the direction things go. How many men can say they have this area under control truthfully? Be outcome independent. It's not worth being hung up on whether your relationship will be permanent. Most and I mean most are not. If she sticks around and you keep her great. If not, you'll find a hotter chick …
/r/askTRP06/02/17 02:07 AM
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Why is it very depressing?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 12:16 AM
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If she does it to him she will do it to you if she can.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:11 PM
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Exactly how you would any other girl. If you're treating them different than other girls then that's probably why you're getting different results. How's your dominance over girls our age?
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:04 PM
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22 y/o here. I've banged a few cougars and milfs They like the thrill, validation, going against social norms. Most importantly they expect you to have the stamina of a young man. In December I had sex with a woman in her early 40s. She was bragging about how I was a couple years older than her son. She liked youthful looking guys. Had sex with 38 year old mid last year - she wanted the stamina/ looks. When I was in my last year of high school I had sex with a substitute teacher from my school -…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:50 PM
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Do you smoke? How often do you do cardio? I suspect the sex stories aren't helping.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:41 PM
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What riiimoh suggest sounds worth giving a try.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 09:29 PM
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Silly as it sounds, pea knuckle works for me
/r/seduction01/01/17 08:23 AM
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Clearly a troll post. Stop taking the bait.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 02:47 PM
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i'm not American. But either way, girls tend to not make the move unless they really want the guy (irresistible).
/r/seduction18/12/16 08:01 AM
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Don't label me you (insert label) fuck!
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 11:21 AM
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I would fuck her.
/r/seduction24/11/16 07:46 AM
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Hit me up. I can show you mine, had great success in the first 24h.
/r/seduction24/11/16 07:42 AM
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Thanks Tommy. In a similar position to op, cheers.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 03:09 AM
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I've never paid them much attention and my game is better than ever. There is plenty of FREE content online that is undoubtedly better.
/r/seduction22/11/16 02:45 AM
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Mansplaining? That's a sexist term in of itself. This world...
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 06:10 AM
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I've had psychosis off shrooms before. Can relate.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 10:59 AM
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This!
/r/seduction03/11/16 01:40 AM
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I'd say planning things in your head is counter intuitive for you. Try and focus on the present and do what feels natural in the moment, not what you have theoretically learned to do as it seems to trip you up.
/r/seduction03/11/16 12:47 AM
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Fifth date. Sure ramped up the intensity.
/r/seduction03/11/16 12:42 AM
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Anybody with a head should know looks matter!
/r/seduction02/11/16 10:58 PM
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You'll do great. If a girl were to approach me, the best way for her to get me interested would be a small intro, bla bla, "I think you're really handsome and would love for you to take me out some time. Here's my number"
/r/seduction02/11/16 10:57 PM
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Depending on what the guy is like and your attractiveness, it's most likely that you'll make his day. Or week. It would only be considered creepy if you're unattractive.
/r/seduction02/11/16 09:26 AM
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I'd think if you're asking Thursday night, yes.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 12:53 PM
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I second all of your comment.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 08:26 AM
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Nobodies know why. What matters is that she isn't interested. Move on.
/r/seduction21/10/16 04:06 AM
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Good on you. It amuses me how my plates in the past get up set when they realize I'm the one who decides the terms of sex.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 04:07 PM
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I don't word it like that but I use it. Helped land me a 20 year old christian virgin this year.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:05 PM
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It shows that you put low value on her which causes her to earn value back.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:01 PM
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She definitely sounds crazy. I hope that guy never actually meets her, she will try and lure him into that psychotic web of hers.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 10:55 PM
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Say you find her attractive and would like to see more.
/r/seduction13/10/16 02:50 PM
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this
/r/seduction10/10/16 09:39 PM
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You've got to want it. To want a better life, a better you. That's where the motivation comes from.
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:32 PM
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Do not go to a movie unless you only want to enjoy her presence. As someone posted, create an environment for conversation then do something fun that suits your personality.
/r/seduction09/10/16 06:43 PM
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check the sidebar
/r/seduction04/10/16 01:29 PM
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You should do what you want. Tell your sister when you're ready if you consider it her business.
/r/seduction04/10/16 01:22 PM
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Everyone you've ever known were once strangers at one point. Someone had to make the first move.
/r/seduction03/10/16 03:24 PM
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Build your bridges and or develop a new social circle. Cheating isn't a good idea. What did you expect would happen when you treat your girlfriend that way?
/r/seduction02/10/16 06:38 PM
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I personally would never pay for sex. If you want to, that's only something you can decide. You need to decide what you want to do. Court women or pay for them. You won't develop many skills fucking escorts so you could get caught in a cycle for an unforeseeable period of time. My buddy sure did.
/r/seduction02/10/16 01:37 PM
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Depends on your own values. Your values determine your actions. Only you can decide what's correct to do here.
/r/seduction02/10/16 11:26 AM
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Often enjoy reading your posts. Good stuff.
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:08 AM
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If that were me I'd read relationship books, aim for girls a couple years younger and date them. Are you strictly hooking up and expecting a relationship to form? What is your strategy?
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:04 AM
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If M = Male and G = Girl, what is "S"?
/r/seduction01/10/16 09:25 AM
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What I do know is that the tv shows I grew up watching conditioned me to behave in a negative manner which took a while to overcome.
/r/seduction01/10/16 09:20 AM
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Are you clingy and needy without meeting her?
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:15 PM
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Good work.
/r/seduction30/09/16 07:32 AM
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Girls use that as a diffusal mechanism to reject the guy to not cause a scene/ hurt feelings. Who knows, maybe she will message you.
/r/seduction30/09/16 04:10 AM
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I tried this when I was 17. It involved acting, talking and behaving in a way that I understood as attractive. Through experience and trial and error I learned what did and didn't work. One thing I learned at that age is that sometimes appearing confident can be as rewarding as being confident. One approach could be to thing of it as a role playing exercise or an alter ego of some sort.
/r/seduction30/09/16 04:01 AM
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I agree.
/r/seduction28/09/16 09:45 AM
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No problems. I couldn't say. In my history I've slept with plenty of girls I'm not too attracted to. Could be that you're not attracted to her, could be that you're looking for an excuse to justify your behavior.
/r/seduction28/09/16 01:40 AM
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Did you have definite plans or just a maybe? Has she flaked before?
/r/seduction27/09/16 03:12 PM
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You communicated after breaking up that you're happy to be her friend. You're happy to be her emotional tampon without the benefits of having sex. You didn't want to break up but you went along with it so she "didn't do something stupid (bang another guy? Or hurt herself? Either way, not your problem). You didn't want to be her friend, you wanted her back so you showered her with attention and support to show what a great (boy) friend you are. You should of ceased contact with her and told her t…
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:39 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/seduction27/09/16 01:56 PM
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I'm broke as anything. Always have been. It's never been an issue with any of the women I've slept with. I haven't spent more than $10 on a date and I can't recall any bad dates in the past 18 months. You can definitely get laid for $10 a week. On one side, being broke means any girl that likes you likes you for you. I like this aspect. I need a little bit more info.. How exactly is money stopping you from approaching, going out to cheap/free events and getting laid?
/r/seduction27/09/16 01:50 PM
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This. Also, she is on the rebound. 5 years of a relationship is a long time. She will not be over him in 2 months completely. If you're going for lunch you're doing things friends do. Furthermore you're behaving like a friend by not making a move. So yes, she will see you as a friend unless you start behaving like a potential sexual partner. Be upfront in your intentions. You're fearing being rejected which causes the effect of being rejected ie no sex. You've got to decide what you value more. …
/r/seduction27/09/16 01:42 PM
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You want to get sexual as soon as it's appropriate. If the date has gone well and the kiss was effortless invite her back to your place for a drink, or a movie, or whatever seems appropriate. (imo) The purpose of a date is to have fun and to make sex happen. No point going to see her, spending time and effort on her for an investment on a maybe for when you watch a movie next. It's your job to sort out the logistics of sex. If you go out and can't get her back to your place because you sat and t…
/r/seduction27/09/16 01:39 PM
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Agree to a certain extent. The way you behave is extremely important. I think you're undervaluing looks to women, though. Obviously if you're good looking but you behave like more than a women than they do, you're out. The truth is women love to be approached by attractive, confident, charming men. Being good looking will open doors.
/r/seduction27/09/16 11:30 AM
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That's the dating tip you give your worst enemy.
/r/seduction27/09/16 11:24 AM
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If you behave like a friend you will be treated like a friend. This includes taking girls you're interested in to lunch, coffee etc as a means to seduce her. If a women doesn't respect you, she will never love you. Women are attracted to men that other women are attracted to. Although it's obviously not true, when interacting with women always assume they like you.
/r/seduction27/09/16 11:23 AM
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This is what I would do. And it works for me. I would wait a good 5-6 days. Call her and say you had a great time bla bla bla and say you have something planned, don't tell her what it is, if she asks, it's something fun (not net flix and chill!) for the next time you go out, when are you free? No real need to hit her up ASAP, if she likes you she will like you later in the week. If she doesn't like you, then you now know and it's onto the next one with the experience you gained. If you don't pu…
/r/seduction27/09/16 11:08 AM
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You're going to have to help yourself a little bit.
/r/seduction27/09/16 09:12 AM
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You may have spoiled things. One way to find out. There's a good chance you haven't. It's your job to lead the sexual interaction and logistics. Don't expect her to do it. If you don't take care of business this time she will doubt your masculinity and you will most likely end up friend zoned. Just go for it.. What's the worst thing that can happen? She rejects you. Which is the same as not gong for it.
/r/seduction27/09/16 08:57 AM
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Helps if you're physically attractive. Women are visual, too. Figure out how to flirt and how/when to apply the flirting. Women are attracted to men that are attracted to them. Figure out when it's appropriate to touch them, even if it's a light touch.
/r/seduction27/09/16 08:55 AM
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Some people have a predisposition from having natural talents before trying learn, such as being articulate, funny, confident, tall, muscular, handsome, courageous. That would speed things up. I read a book a week for a period of time while I was seeing one girl, then two girls and so on. I was reading several different books at the same time at one point which wasn't the best idea. Find a book that you value, read it, wait a few days, reread it again and so on. Make sure you APPLY what you've l…
/r/seduction27/09/16 08:50 AM
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English.
/r/seduction27/09/16 08:41 AM
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Most men date girls with the intention of having sex.
/r/seduction27/09/16 08:41 AM
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This doesn't help me much. Might be of value to some.
/r/seduction27/09/16 06:19 AM
2

You're welcome.
/r/seduction27/09/16 05:08 AM
1

The thing is that this can be changed. I don't have experience with autism but I do know some tips that might help. Work on making yourself someone anybody would want to spend time with. Look attractive, put on muscle, become more social, have interesting hobbies. Over time you'll notice improvements and eventually you'll be able to choose the women you want. I'm sure there will be info on the internet as to how to interact with women while having autism. Spend time researching things like that …
/r/seduction27/09/16 05:05 AM
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I view it like this : Every girl is just another person trying to live life and would be lucky to spend time with me. They're secretly rooting for you to be the man they want. That should help you be able to stay yourself around the opposite gender.
/r/seduction27/09/16 05:02 AM
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That's what it is. She will probably still talk to you but she communicated point blank she's not going to date you aka sleep with you. That's the friend zone.
/r/seduction27/09/16 03:56 AM
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What she really means is "I'm too busy to date YOU". Read between the lines. You didn't make a move and now you're delegated to friend zone/ no romance.
/r/seduction27/09/16 03:42 AM
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I think it's true. I fit a lot of what is considered typically attractive and experience the benefit of this. Was in denial until I has 21-22 about this, though.
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:54 AM
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Dates should be about that long. Generally including heading back to your place. Good work. Try improving and pushing further every date. Don't worry about looking like a creep.. She's not there to find out what political party you vote for.
/r/seduction27/09/16 01:40 AM
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Keep your head up. You'll get there with persistence. Not much is more attractive to a woman than a guy who is sure of himself. Don't forget that and use it as drive.
/r/seduction26/09/16 05:47 PM
1

Some will try and shame you for having sexual urges. They would hate it if nobody had any. Don't worry about it. Makes me curious though, why does it matter to you what one woman thinks? What about what you think? Why does her opinion have more weight than yours?
/r/seduction26/09/16 05:27 PM
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Do what's best for you. They're your exes. You owe them nothing. Don't be that nice guy. Go for what you want, not what she wants.
/r/seduction26/09/16 05:26 PM
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Yup and that's probably what she told the first guy too. Always wear a condom. She has a broken track record bro, I know I'm some guy on the internet but watch out. You're only 20. Play it smart. Nutting inside a single mum is a seriously, seriously bad way to go. If she wanted to get pregnant again, what would she tell the guy she's seeing? "don't worry, I want you to cum inside me, I can't get pregnant." Seen it happen too many times before. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sESMzXEPSps What I'd…
/r/seduction26/09/16 05:11 PM
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Spoken like a true seductionist.
/r/seduction26/09/16 05:06 PM
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You can't realistically interact with them all equally. Pick which ones you give attention to and how much of it. I'd say less is more. The exes you give less attention to may want you more because you're giving attention to another ex. Enjoy the party, exchange a bit of witty banter with each of them and figure out which one has the strongest IOI and go from there.
/r/seduction26/09/16 05:01 PM
2

It's not creepy at all because she wants it. Creepiness is unwanted sexual advances. She's just testing him. He's definitely masculine and handled that well. Deflected the kiss and walked away from her. It's obvious from that scene that he could of had her if he wanted, but he chose to walk away. Obviously has options with women. Also, he said "when I fuck you". not "if you let me fuck you". It's when he chooses and it's definitely going to happen. Women often respond to that sort of confidence …
/r/seduction26/09/16 04:52 PM
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Schizophrenics do this all the time. I have no experience with it, it might work.. Who knows? Don't get caught doing it though, I have a flatmate who talks to himself. Not a good look.
/r/seduction26/09/16 04:39 PM
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This is definitely more suited for /relationships. I'll reply anyways. If she has a kid already and you get her pregnant she'll most likely keep it. Watch out. You don't want your kid to have a mum with problems like this. She has emotional problems and you probably won't be able to solve them. There's a good chance she will have trouble opening up to anyone, if that's the case don't take it personally. Every girl is insecure and emotional. Some more so than others. Sounds like you have a girl o…
/r/seduction26/09/16 04:30 PM
1

You shouldn't feel obligated to talk to her out of fear of being rejected. In your opinion, what does talking to her as much as possible achieve?
/r/seduction26/09/16 04:21 PM
1

Which part?
/r/seduction26/09/16 04:19 PM
1

I do understand what you're saying. What I'm saying is that I find your method less effective. I don't have to agree with you to understand you. If only you knew how you come across.
/r/seduction26/09/16 03:58 PM
1

Had a chuckle at "mlre seripsuly". Cmon bro focus on taking the basics more seriously first.
/r/seduction26/09/16 03:29 PM
1

Runefest was just last week. There's always next year.
/r/seduction26/09/16 03:00 PM
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It works for me pretty well. The girl doesn't know where she stands and is left wondering about you which is beneficial. Send around three messages before you meet and you're golden. OP is balancing 5 different girls, the main thing he needs to focus on is the balancing act of making the girls feel special in person to counteract the low contact via the phone. Texting isn't going to do much for him except drain a lot of time. Don't be a cold asshole and never text them first and don't ignore the…
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:59 PM
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I keep it to myself. I have a "buddy" who is trying to learn pua and failing. I don't think it's a good look for him while he learns. I wouldn't want a reputation as a pua in training. What I would say is that you're working on self development, enjoying meeting new people etc. People will judge you for saying you're trying learn game.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:55 PM
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You're getting a little heated.. Anyways, from my experience your approach is less effective for me. You talking about yourself is going to do little in regards to raising her attraction.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:53 PM
1

I've tried the game tactic a couple times and it has proved seriously inferior to getting the girl to talk almost purely about herself. I won't be doing that again.The less she knows about you the better.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:50 PM
1

Once or twice per year? Attractive women enjoy sex much less than unattractive women? Is that what you really think or is it what you want to think?
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:45 PM
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Women keep other women in check by shaming them for having sex with too much of the available pool of men which leaves the shamers with less options. I don't think too many guys care if a girl is a slut. I prefer it. The thing is that if you're a slut you're not relationship material, you're a fun time. I'd imagine most guys see it this way.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:44 PM
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I'm relatively successful with women. The odd one I develop feelings for but most I use as a bang and to hang out/have fun with. I don't see an issue with it. Why feel guilty about your primal instincts?
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:40 PM
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No problem. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:38 PM
2

Simple case of locate your balls and use them.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:36 PM
2

Wit? Study a lot, practice humour and get into social situations more. Expect a learning curve. Confidence? Work on becoming a whole person.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:33 PM
2

Text game is a thing. It's very different to real life conversing.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:29 PM
2

The more you "talk" to her the less she'll want you. You say you really like her, if she's running game she has options. Chances are she doesn't like you as much as you like her. You need to separate yourself as the best "bf" or sex mate by displaying more masculine traits than your competition which will make her like you the most.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:24 PM
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Sticking around as her friend hoping she will throw you some ass is a bad way to go. Move onto a new chick that you're not friend zoned by.
/r/seduction26/09/16 10:02 AM
2

What's stopping you from escalating? How are the dates going well if they're non sexual?
/r/seduction26/09/16 09:22 AM
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Sex is almost always on the table. What are they going to meet a guy off tinder for? To find his religious views? No. Some girls will have the mentality that I don't sleep with guys on the first date. It's normally the second date. No real secret, what's your game like? Maybe I can give advice from Hamilton.
/r/seduction26/09/16 08:16 AM
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That's good. Hope things work out for you. If you're approaching and setting dates I assume you're masc/top? I just re read your post. One thing I would consider changing is how you're setting th"e dates. "Hey great to hear from you, it'd be good to see you, when are you free?" is generally how coach describes it. When do you think you can get together" doesn't have the same confidence appeal to it for me.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:14 AM
2

I'm seeing a few girls, all via tinder. Get them to meet you, go for a drink, if they seem cool then take them to do an activity. If you don't like them end it at the bar. Haven't met a girl off tinder who I haven't slept with on the first or second date.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:04 AM
2

I really don't know how Corey's teachings apply in a gay context but it works astoundingly well for women. I've followed him for 11 months. I feel that if you make a date 5-7 days after getting the number, if the person liked you they will be keen.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:01 AM
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The women are gorgeous over there. You can find attractive girls everywhere in Aus, it won't be much different from EU or USA in regards to how to find women.. I'm from NZ and go there every year or so. I was cold approached by a cute nursing student when I was catching a train into Brisbane cbd.
/r/seduction26/09/16 01:26 AM
1

Coach Corey Wayne has it all sussed imo. He gets a number in a charming manner and then waits 5-7 days to make a date the following week. I do that and it works. It won't work 100% of the time but it's a good strategy. He has an amazing understanding of female psychology.
/r/seduction26/09/16 01:22 AM
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This.
/r/seduction26/09/16 01:18 AM
1

Address your self confidence and insecurities before you worry bout the hottest women as you say you don't feel good enough. We are all equal, no need to feel that way. In regards to looks, it helps if you're tall and take care of yourself. Looks matter but your behavior/ personality trump. Some girls value looks a lot, though. Being insecure because you can't get the women you want is going to turn into a vicious cycle if you don't watch out. Getting girls doesn't make you a better person. It's…
/r/seduction26/09/16 01:10 AM
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I'm very direct. Women love it.
/r/seduction13/09/16 10:54 PM
3

Where isn't a good venue is a better question. One thing to consider is logistics. How can you get her back to your place, get to hers.
/r/seduction02/08/16 07:30 AM
1

I really couldn't tell you. Some girls are flirty.
/r/seduction02/08/16 07:28 AM
2

You exhibit neediness. Girls are repelled by it. Also, you're meeting them for coffee. That's what friends do. How are you supposed to seduce a girl over coffee? Have a look at how your conversations went with the girls who did want to meet you and see where you went right. Apply to future conversations.
/r/seduction02/08/16 06:17 AM
1

At my last job one of my managers tried to charm me superficially. She only did it so that she could try and get me to do things for her more easily, which didn't work.
/r/seduction02/08/16 06:13 AM
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That's how I read it. I don't like my room mate. I'm better than him.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 12:45 AM
1

This is easily the most disgusting filth I've ever read in the past few months. Thank god there was a happy ending.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 10:12 AM
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Yup. Men who understand women will never argue with them.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 08:53 AM
4

This is a lot to absorb.. Bookmarking for reference. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 08:45 AM
0

Lifted today. Will try this technique at least once in future.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 07:31 AM
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They're just girls. Nothing to worry about. If you're a virgin, I imagine you probably fap to porn. Cutting out the porn will remove much of your social anxiety around women.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 01:45 PM
2

Make a definite date. If she doesn't know when, just say great, let me know when your schedule is more open and then leave it at that.
/r/seduction08/05/16 11:48 PM
2

Just my opinion. I'm not a PUA with flawless strategies. You could message her, which could yield your desired result.
/r/seduction07/05/16 11:03 AM
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If it were me, I'd pull back and wait for her to initiate. There's only one reason why she'd message you and that's because she wants to meet up. If she doesn't initiate, then you know.
/r/seduction07/05/16 10:18 AM
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If you're having conversations then one of you is initiating it. If it's you, you're chasing her a bit and you haven't met her. If she's interested still, she will message you. At that point a simple "Hey (name) great to hear from you. When are you free to get together?" should suffice.
/r/seduction07/05/16 09:54 AM
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She didn't have the courtesy to tell you that she's out of town for the date and she hasn't offered to reschedule. If it were me, I'd assume that she's not interested and if she is, I'd wait for HER to text me. If she texts me, I'll schedule a date asap, none of this Friday or two weeks from now nonsense.
/r/seduction07/05/16 09:32 AM
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Girls can't help it. Imo they want to know the guy they're interested in is confident and not just fronting.
/r/seduction07/05/16 09:25 AM
0

"What, you don't want to come over for a coffee after TWO dates?"
/r/seduction07/05/16 09:19 AM
1

Can you give me the scoop? Would love to hear how this worked out for you.
/r/seduction01/05/16 10:33 AM
1

Worked on my girl too. Been together 1 week tomorrow. Female psychology is interesting, right?
/r/seduction01/05/16 10:30 AM
2

Nope. There are plenty of kids there who will won't get laid for a long time.
/r/seduction30/04/16 02:37 PM
1

I work at McDonalds. My motto is "Don't screw the crew".
/r/seduction29/04/16 03:34 AM
2

Not sure that needing a girl in your life is a healthy way to look at your situation, but here's my POV. She's given you enough hints to show that she's not happy in her relationship. I've found that girls line up potential guys when their relationship starts to fail. If it were me, I'd go for it and see what happens. But, if she does cheat on you with her bf, expect her to do the same to you.
/r/seduction26/04/16 10:46 AM
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Roasted
/r/seduction15/04/16 12:06 PM
1

You could give us examples and context of the negs and get feedback.
/r/seduction02/04/16 06:41 AM
2

That's the thing. You're either comfortable being friends with her, which is the only real outcome following your current trend OR you walk away and focus on your own life and if she likes you, by the sound of which she does, she comes to you and you can escalate. If she doesn't come to you, you save yourself heartbreak. If she comes to you, you can make the best of it. It's a win win. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2q5AWN81-3E https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_cnbV_OSi4
/r/seduction22/03/16 07:28 AM
1

Mark Manson's buddy said that. Not sure if he is Style or not.
/r/seduction19/03/16 09:14 AM
1

That was pretty good. I sat there thinking what I would reply with and I was bang on the money with Craigs' responses a few times.
/r/seduction08/03/16 04:34 AM
2

I HIGHLY suggest you read The manual : what women want and how to give it to them.
/r/seduction07/03/16 10:26 AM
2

Having a clean shaven appearance will help.
/r/seduction02/03/16 01:25 AM
2

Having a bad day, yokhai?
/r/seduction29/02/16 05:23 AM
2

Confidence can be dependent on situations. You may be confident in other areas of your life however it sounds like you need a certain level of experience to build your confidence in social interaction. My advice is to practice, read books related to social interactions and practice more.
/r/seduction28/02/16 10:50 AM
1

It's up to you whether you continue. Nobody can definitely tell you if it's a waste of time. I'm in a similar situation, however I'm 90 minutes away and talk with her less but see her once in a while. She wants a relationship and once I put that off the table, she has given me the cold shoulder a bit which is fine. I'm not going to invest much time into her but I am inviting her down for Valentines day next month so for me, it's not a total waste of time. I'd say you need to escalate and move to…
/r/seduction13/01/16 06:08 AM
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There's a cute girl, a receptionist at the gym I go to. We flirt and banter and after a few days I asked her on a date. She was flattered, but she said she has a boyfriend. I replied with "Are you REALLY happy with him??" and her eyes LIT UP and widened to their peak. She was stunned. After a few seconds she said yes. I accepted defeat at that point. If I had more game I should of said "your mouth says yes but your eyes say no, how about we just go for a coffee?"
/r/seduction11/01/16 11:15 AM
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