I'm still swallowing the pill so I'm just trying to watch my step in the online game because I've noticed the amount of shit tests girls use over text. And I do my best to pass them since "you don't exist until you're standing in front of them." So they won't take any shit.

Anyway I've made it to pre meetup and there's one thing which I am unsure how to respond to. Most of the girls I've met before are experienced tinderers so it hasn't come up so far.

So she says:

"You should send me a picture of your face because tinder creeps me out. I just like verification ya know. I'll send you one of me"

So I have no problem doing this but I somehow feel like I'm breaking frame by submitting to her demands. Almost like I care enough to meet her that I'll send a pic instead of not give a fuck and let her chance it.

My responses I've considered are:

"Okay, go ahead." Make her send it first and put the ball in my court?

Completely ignore it and say "I met a catfish on tinder once." (I did.)

Another few bonus ones:

"Mystery is half the fun of tinder." Or "let's just meet in a public place you'll have plenty of chances to see my face."

Any suggestions? I could next her but I see no reason too she's pretty good 6-7/10 and got her number second message, pretty easy going willing to meet up, she passed my "friends only" sex partner shit test etc