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You can’t make people not stare at you in a public area even if its weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:01 AM
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If you’re in a shared public area, you’re giving other people in that area consent to look at you. Staring is weird, but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:23 AM
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Multiple sources back this up. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202308/what-motivates-straight-women-to-kiss-other-women https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-sexuality-and-romance/202001/why-are-so-many-heterosexual-women-not-totally-straight https://nypost.com/2024/02/04/lifestyle/59-of-women-share-this-sexual-fantasy-but-what-does-it-really-mean/ https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19947774/straight-women-lesbian-porn/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:51 AM
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I’m referring to the women who do want to decenter men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:47 AM
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You can feel that way about men internally without making it your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:09 AM
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Sure, but even then many women center men by making man-hating a part of their personality. So many of women’s conversations are just “look at how much we don’t like men” circle jerks. That still shows that men are the center of their lives, not themselves or other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:06 AM
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How am I a hypocrite, and even if I am, how does it invalidate my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:54 AM
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Not as much as women do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:50 PM
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The prime thing and the sexual past stuff is mostly said by niche red pill manosphere people. I find women attractive well over 30 as long as they still make the effort to look good and be sexy and I don’t care if a woman has a past as long as she doesn’t have STDs or she didn’t do sex work. Splitting the bill or doing basic chores or taking care of the kids you decided to have are just part of being a good partner, don’t know why that’s unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:38 PM
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Making out with each other, throwing ass on each other, having sex with each other, fantasizing sexually about other women, getting off to lesbians https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202308/what-motivates-straight-women-to-kiss-other-women https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-sexuality-and-romance/202001/why-are-so-many-heterosexual-women-not-totally-straight https://nypost.com/2024/02/04/lifestyle/59-of-women-share-this-sexual-fantasy-but-what-does-it-really-mean/ h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:30 PM
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Self-identified straight women hook up with other women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:10 PM
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That would make sense, except women who identify as straight constantly engage in homoerotic behavior when their inhibitions are lowered. The same kinds of behavior that they’d find gross with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:09 PM
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Humans are different from other animals. I’m sure there are many women with different kinds of sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:22 PM
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How do you know that’s how it is for all women? And not just certain kinds of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:50 PM
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Why not? What do women need to provide for men to love them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:45 PM
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This is a thing that happened to you one time, not a pattern that exists on the societal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:41 PM
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I’m sure you do. It’s just those hormones you feel all the time (even though they are quite literally a part of you) but sure. Hormones’ fault 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:41 PM
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Sis… are you really going to blame your period for you loving chocolate and hating vegetables?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:24 PM
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Its not that women are super desirable, men just have extremely low standards for sex, and women think that means men desire them just as much for everything else. That’s why its called hoeflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:17 PM
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Because I have free will??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:30 PM
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Not really, I don’t have any desire for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:17 PM
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You wouldn’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:06 AM
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At that point dude, I don’t think it’s women seeing you as “lesser than her” for being submissive, but rather that not a lot of women are going to be comfortable with injuring their partner like that. And not gonna lie you concern me a little, but hey I’m not gonna yuck your yums, if you can find a crazy psycho bitch who does that to you then good on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:59 AM
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Lmao that’s a funny guy right there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:47 AM
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If she leaves you its not cause shes stepping on your balls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:19 AM
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Dude nobody cares if you want your woman to spank you and step on your balls. As long as you’re consenting adults do whatever the hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:23 AM
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Because men are horny and delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:08 PM
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Goddamn it’s like some guy told you “choose better” one time and now it’s in your head 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:35 PM
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Depends if it looks good or not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:48 AM
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Love how when your contradiction is called out, you immediately misdirect and attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:54 PM
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I’m not straight up unattractive, but just because women don’t want me doesn’t mean I’m going to fucking castrate myself lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:26 PM
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Because (on average) men want women more, so they’re willing to tolerate more shit from then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:10 PM
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I don’t “hate” women. I just don’t see the point of dating them as a heterosexual man. That’s far from hating them. I still respect them as human being’s, but you have to be realistic looking at your dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:26 AM
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That’s to be expected, when most women don’t bring anything to the table except for their hole. Meanwhile, once you’re actually in a relationship with them, most of them are whiny, complaining, see everything you do as an “ick”, want to change everything about you, spend all your money, shit talk you and your gender 24/7, and don’t even have sex as much. I think it’s pretty easy to see why most straight men find hookups more enticing than LTRs. Some women out there are worthwhile but they basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:14 AM
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So she stopped dating because… she can’t make men see her as relationship material?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:08 AM
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Maybe he didn’t actually have such a great time, and he just wanted to smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:04 AM
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I never said that. But it certainly doesn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:19 PM
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Women who bring qualities other than their body are getting committed relationships than men. But horny simps give women so much sexual attention that they think that their bodies are enough to get them into relationships, then they’re surprised when they only offer their bodies and get used for their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:15 PM
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Men are actually dating women that they see as relationship material. But many women just bring their hole to the table and expect to be taken seriously, then complain like this when the man hooks up with her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:07 PM
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Such as what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:36 PM
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One man’s experience doesn’t represent the entire dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:07 PM
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Women aren’t men, they’re not going around raping and killing men because they hate us. As long as you leave them alone you’re fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:14 PM
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Maybe their phones told them to? Maybe they’ve always felt this way and are finally free to express it? Who knows. The only thing you know is that you can’t control the way other people feel about you. So if women hate men, not my problem and not yours either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:30 AM
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Its usually the man who wants sex more but it can depend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:18 AM
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I never said women couldnt want it more I said it depends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:14 AM
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Depends who wants it more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:09 AM
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Then the friendship is a separate thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:51 AM
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Good luck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:34 AM
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How do you fall in love with someone who comes into your life, spends all your money, tries to change everything about you, complains all the time, talks shit about you and your gender, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:22 AM
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Women get sex too, but men’s best option for getting consistent sex is getting into a relationship. Women can get sex any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:09 AM
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Romance is a transaction of sex and resources, not love. Also I never said women don’t want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:06 AM
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All relationships between men and women are transactional. The man gets sex, the woman gets resources. When both parties get what they want they produce dopamine and oxytocin that tells them that they’ve got a good deal. There is no such thing as non-transactional romantic love, because romance is inherently a transaction. A relationship between a man and a woman that isn’t transactional is called friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:49 AM
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Given how women respond to that kind of thing I’m calling BS
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:37 PM
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Honestly I’m inclined to agree as a guy. I’m confused when guys say they find most women attractive, because most women I see are old, fat, or just plain. Guys aren’t thinking about women that look like most women they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:44 PM
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So you’re telling people what they are supposed to do even though those standards don’t apply to you? What if a man told you how to be a “real woman”? Bet you wouldn’t like it so much, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:39 PM
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Women are women. Women from Thailand or Brazil or The Philippines don’t have any innate differences from women in America or Sweden or Germany. They all operate with the same nature, if a woman doesn’t genuinely want you in the West they won’t genuinely want you elsewhere either. All you’re doing by being a passport bro is giving yourself the chance to be used for your money and green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:34 PM
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If you’re seeing this kind of stuff everywhere, that’s probably because of your social media algorithm showing you that kind of content all the time. Pedophilia is sick and wrong, but it’s very rare and definitely not an issue with men as a whole. 99.99% of men are only attracted to and date adult women. My recommendation, take a break from social media, and stop watching content about sexual predators, for your own mental health sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:59 PM
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> But why is it that always when asking about what “Men feel invisible” and “Men want ACTUAL sexual desire from women” mean? We know that women CAN experience true sexual desire, it just doesn’t happen for most men. Most heterosexual men find women by providing something to that woman, not by making her want him. When you compare women’s behavior in those relationships to women’s behavior in relationships with high status men or in sapphic relationships, it’s clear that there’s a different level…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:52 PM
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You, like many women these days, are severely overestimating the impact of porn on our minds. No, we don’t expect women to be insatiably horny the moment they catch a whiff of testosterone. It’s a fantasy, and the vast majority of guys know it’s not real. That’s like saying romance novels lied to women because there’s no 7 foot tall billionaire vampire mafia bosses out there to fuck them. But god forbid a man indulge in the fantasy of being sexually desirable and suddenly he’s “entitled to women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:30 PM
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Anything else related to sex or gender. Half the posts on this sub are about what women’s standards, either complaining about or justifying them. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:53 PM
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I wish this sub had a more interesting topic to discuss than women’s standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:26 PM
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Do you think the ancient greeks were right or wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:53 AM
1

Who are you to say I wouldn’t want a woman with a penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:45 AM
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Happy enough to stay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:40 AM
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Plenty of men accept sexless marriages with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:34 PM
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Complete non sequitur but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:16 PM
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This is probably meant to be a strawman, but I’ll take the bait and answer. Most men can be wanted for the things they do for a woman. Their ability to provide for her, entertain her, convenience her, et cetera. In fact this is the most common way a man gets a woman’s attention. Nothing to do with him in particular, but external qualities or actions that he brings to the table. Very rarely though is a man ever wanted just because of who he is. Men often want women just because they are women, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:41 PM
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You all love dodging this question and that says a lot. I think you all know the answer but don’t want to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:49 AM
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If a parent commits a crime, they’re put in jail and can’t take care of their kid. It sucks for the kid, but that’s how laws work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:45 AM
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It should be, but men are too pussy-whipped these days to ever put a law like that on the books. 25 years is a bit excessive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:52 AM
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Real life is great for making friends, but for dating the criteria are the same as the apps. Apps are just much more cut and dry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:36 AM
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They can tell you’re misogynistic with 100% accuracy, it’s just a coincidence that all the misogynistic men are unattractive and/or neurodivergent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:26 AM
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Richard Ramirez, Wade Wilson, Ted Bundy, Charles Manson and more would disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:20 AM
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“You have no examples” Here’s an example “Your example is invalid” Keep shifting the goalposts buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:42 AM
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Wary of all men except for the serial killers yall send love letters to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:39 AM
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Blue pill is usually associated with an optimistic look on dating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:37 AM
0

Point still stands, that saying hypothetically if you were gay/lesbian doesn’t make you gay or lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:26 PM
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I often hear “If only I was a lesbian” or “I’m unfortunately cursed with straight” or “Being attracted to men is embarrassing” and the like from women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:13 PM
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Except women do say that kind of thing all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:05 PM
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What are some examples of this “micro cheating”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:57 PM
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You’re implying that by saying that if a man cares about his friend and stands up for him it’s a sign that he’s attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:52 PM
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He says he’s not gay. Recognizing that a man would be a good partner doesn’t mean you want his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:51 PM
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That’s not how it comes off to me, just a guy who’s really defensive of his friend. Saying stuff like that also reinforces the idea that straight men can’t have close bonds with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:48 PM
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Maybe catty, but there’s a big jump in logic between being catty and “he’s clearly gay for his bestie”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:26 PM
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You’re basically telling on yourself that you ignore everything else men open up about besides their sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:17 PM
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Why does it sound like he’s into his friend? Because he’s describing his good qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:12 PM
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>One woman cheats with a shitty guy >Most women want bad boys One anecdote doesn’t make it true for an entire demographic. You’ll need more evidence to make such a broad generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:10 PM
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As opposed to it being ironically illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:23 AM
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This just sounds like you ranting, not any actual thing that’s happening lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:49 PM
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I’m just saying, it’s unlikely that ALL men don’t appreciate a woman’s personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:34 PM
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Keyword growing up. Like I said once you’re past high school this shit doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:27 PM
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That is what I am arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:11 PM
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There are four billion women in the world. One of their opinions does not represent all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:04 PM
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One woman. Doesn’t mean every woman feels this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:01 PM
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Sexual rejection isn’t marginalization
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:51 AM
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How dare a horror movie monger fear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:49 AM
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Explain how this makes me a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:44 AM
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I believe that abortion rights are a big deal. Because they’re rights. I really don’t see how this has anything to do with the topic of my post, so you’re going to have to justify bringing up abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:39 AM
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Money affects everything in your life, looks affect how much random people want to fuck you. One is more important than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:37 AM
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They definitely complain, you just don’t pay attention to it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:34 AM
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That doesn’t mean women should have the right to control their own bodies taken away from them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:33 AM
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Where is the correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:53 PM
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I’m saying having too much female attention would almost definitely be worse
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:29 PM
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You could be attractive in other ways, like having an interesting personality or making good money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:02 PM
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Halo effect is real, but unless you’re a hideously unattractive man then it doesn’t really hit you negatively, it just gives other guys an advantage, which like good for them I guess. Yes, women have a leg up in dating success but that comes with the downside of everything else I just listed in my post. The attention is constant and all-consuming. And there’s always the danger of harassment and rape. It’s only really an upside if you consider romantic success to be the most important thing in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:44 PM
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That’s on Norah Vincent. I’m pretty sure she was mentally ill beforehand anyways. Women have romantic relationships handed to them yes, but it doesn’t stop when they have what they want. They just keep getting men get all up in their face over and over again and it never stops. And some of those men might be crazy. Some of them might be psychopaths. I suppose it’s nice being seen as non-threatening, if you need everyone to like you all the time. But if you don’t then it’s fine not having everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:33 PM
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If you could have no one pay attention to your appearance in any way, no lust and no mockery, just being looked at as neutral, would you take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:29 PM
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There’s such a thing as too much of a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:25 PM
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You can have friends and still be invisible to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:20 PM
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It might be just a me thing cause I hate attention. But I have a feeling I’m close to the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:18 PM
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It’s not really a good analogy when you need water to live. You’ll be fine without pussy, just get a hobby or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:12 PM
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It’s relatively easy to be happy single. Almost no one is happy with constant overwhelming attention unless they’re have a narcissistic personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:09 PM
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Being rich isn’t the same as being beautiful. Being rich effectively solved all your problems, being beautiful just means guys wanna stick their penis in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:06 PM
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I’m an average looking man so I’m effectively invisible. And I’d much rather be invisible than to be constantly watched. The attention would drive me crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:04 PM
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I would say that men are more female-centered nowadays than women are male-centered. Which is the opposite of mgtow’s goals
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:36 PM
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Did men go their own way?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:23 PM
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Yet another case of “I assume that a few trolls on the internet represent what all men really think”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:07 PM
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I like debating stuff and I’d miss having a place to debate gender dynamics on relatively neutral ground. But some people do have an unhealthy relationship with gender war stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:58 PM
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I’m pretty sure women’s biggest fear is being raped
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:30 AM
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All the women I’ve been friends with have just been one of the guys. Not sure what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:53 PM
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“Confirmed bachelor” is an old euphemism for a gay man. That’s not really the same as a modern single man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:56 PM
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I’m happy single, but it seems that way more men struggle with singleness than women do. I don’t think it’s an innate difference, but because there hasn’t been a male equivalent to the “decentering men” movement for women (MGTOW was an abject failure). Obtaining women is still seen as a status symbol for men, meanwhile it’s seen as embarrassing for a woman to have a boyfriend. It would require a change on socialization but we could see men be more satisfied being single in the future, but that’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:56 PM
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The store? They’re just trying to buy stuff. Don’t make it weird. The gym? They’re just trying to work out. Don’t make it weird. Hobby groups? They’re just trying to enjoy their hobby. Don’t make it weird. Parties or clubs? They’re just trying to have fun with ✨the girls✨. Don’t make it weird. Your friends? They just want to enjoy their friendship with you. Don’t make it weird. Just don’t bother approaching. If a woman likes you, she’ll make it known. If not, she’ll always think it’s weird for y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:10 PM
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👆The honest answer👆 For a woman, being approached by a man is no different than being approached by a salesman or a missionary. It’s annoying and inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:06 PM
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All love is conditional. Everyone just has different conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:39 AM
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Some of them do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:38 AM
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So we’re extrapolating one woman’s behavior to represent the rest of the 4 billion of them? This is so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:31 AM
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I think it’s no longer being talked about because it’s seen as common sense now. Men have received the message, it’s old news now. No point in talking about something everyone already knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:43 PM
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That’s very valid. I agree, prefer being anonymous to having a spotlight on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:58 PM
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Hell no, I would not want that curse. The pros, are what? You get to dress up more? Get more compliments? The cons, you go through periods, menopause, pregnancy, childbirth, sexual harassment, possibly rape, weaker muscles, weaker bones, harsher beauty standards, constant infighting and drama, taken less seriously, paid less, not to mention having sex with men, yuck. If I turned into a woman I hope to god I would be a lesbian. Thank god for me being a man. I would not change my sex if I got a mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:53 PM
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I never said that only women were having their autonomy violated. But any violation of bodily autonomy is a risk to everyone and should be pushed back against
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:52 PM
1

And how does that make it right to take away abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:03 PM
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Yeah I’m opposed to conscription too what about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:28 PM
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Your post says that a lack of romance makes men unhappy because they can’t have it, not just that it’s something men want to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:57 PM
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So then why do you feel that being single is a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:49 PM
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Maybe the lack of community was your problem, not being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:46 PM
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That’s all well and good, but if having a relationship with a woman is ultimately what determines your happiness, then your life is still female-centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:42 PM
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You feel that way because your life is centered around women. If you stop making them the main focus then whether or not you have female approval doesn’t contribute to your happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:37 PM
3

Bodily autonomy is a fundamental right of all humans, and that includes the right to terminate your own pregnancy. If the government is willing to take away women’s autonomy, what makes you think they won’t take away yours as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:58 AM
2

Yeah in group bias we all know this, next?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:07 PM
4

If you think that having a partner is less expensive than not that definitely says a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:04 PM
3

If you’re a straight woman yeah. Women are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:48 PM
4

You all sound really triggered by this topic. Why does it bother you do much if some women hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:46 PM
4

You “disproved” it by bringing up that man vs bear fad. That’s not exactly hard evidence. Even if it is true, I frankly don’t care how women see me or what they do because of it, as long as they leave me alone. If the thing we’re debating doesn’t matter m, then the debate is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:31 PM
2

This is just true. There will always be gap between men and women that can never be closed due to a lack of lived experience. Homosexual couples don’t have that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:27 PM
2

Bad for me in what way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:21 PM
2

Ok good/bad for them i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:08 PM
5

How does that affect me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:45 PM
7

And that’s my problem why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:05 PM
8

And I don’t ever have to interact with those women, problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:00 PM
27

You’re only being “punished” if you constantly consume gender war content. None of this “all men” shit exists irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:35 PM
11

I don’t think this is a gendered thing, there are men and women that do this, and there are men and women they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:34 AM
5

Bluepill posts down 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:04 PM
3

Older women are still women. As long as they don’t let themselves get fat at whatnot they’re still good enough for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:49 PM
3

I don’t have any desire to date around just because. I’m open to pursuing a specific woman if I catch feelings for her, but otherwise I have zero desire pretty much for anything romantic. Also, this sub is pretty entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:39 PM
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Yeesh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:41 PM
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I don’t really get crushes in general but I do find some older women attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:07 PM
2

No shit, we don’t agree with stupid ass opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:55 PM
54

So a man who was a complete bum strings along an intellectually disabled woman for her whole life, gives her his child to take care of and dies? What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:57 AM
1

Men and women are different, no matter how egalitarian things become.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:25 PM
24

I’ve literally never seen someone say repeal the 19th besides some far right trolls on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:11 PM
5

Not always, there’s a lot of human trafficking in sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:49 AM
1

Then what makes him ideal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:32 AM
0

What attracts men that straight men don’t know about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:07 PM
0

If he wanted to attract his ideal man wouldn’t that man want his woman to have personality and depth?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:06 PM
1

Some men are into that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:19 AM
3

Yeah makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:42 AM
2

What about his attitude specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:33 AM
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Maybe we’ve figured out that spending our lives trying to impress you isn’t worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:57 AM
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We get it dude, you’re a pussy wizard. Wanted to get that off your chest or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:50 AM
1

Even the “good ones” are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:17 AM
1

Fair point. I don’t there is much in it for them. Mostly just emotional validation really, for women who crave male approval, since those are the types who mostly still date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:47 AM
1

I agree for the most part, most guys really only want women as a way to have sex, and everything else is just the icing on the cake. But when you point out the obvious, everyone throws a hissy fit and acts like men are beautiful romantic beings that love women sooo much. It’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:10 AM
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I think it’s mostly because we socialize men to base their self worth around their ability to attract women. If we stopped telling men that having girlfriends and wives was important, there’d be much less resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:50 PM
1

Many women are perfectly fine without having sex, especially as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:16 PM
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Most men don’t really want romance with women, they just want to have consistent access to sex. Just look at how often it’s the man complaining about a lack of bedroom action rather than vice versa. Men will say and do all the romantic things because they were told to do so but the moment sex is off the table they’re no longer satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:04 PM
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40s if they age poorly, 70 if they age well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:41 PM
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Your post is the list
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:31 PM
4

All of them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:25 PM
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Not really, unless they’re attractive enough to become a status symbol to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:21 PM
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We know why
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:10 PM
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More of Lilith’s schizophrenic ramblings about things that don’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:08 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:50 PM
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Because they’re conditioned to want them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:45 PM
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I meant sex that wont give you aids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:28 PM
-1

Holy white knight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:17 PM
-1

Do you do anything besides say buzzwords
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:07 PM
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Yes, but most men can only get sex through relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:38 AM
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No, the main topic is man flu.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:37 AM
-17

Not the main topic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:30 AM
-17

Derailing the conversation to a different topic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:18 AM
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Whataboutism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:16 AM
2

The friendzone doesn’t exist. There’s a “I really don’t want to associate with you but I’ll call you my friend so you don’t murder me until you lose interest and go away” zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:09 AM
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How can you still be affected by the sight of scantily clad women in the big 2026? They just put it all out there so much you should be completely desensitized to it by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:59 AM
1

First good take OP has ever had
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:16 AM
4

If I get the message that I’m not wanted somewhere, don’t expect me to stay for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:13 AM
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Men assume that women are as desperate for relationships as they are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:08 AM
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Sex is a physical process. Neurons fire in your penis/clitoris, feels good. It’s not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:38 PM
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It’s also a red flag to use an android, or have your name start with J. That phrase doesn’t mean anything anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:17 PM
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I would explain why, but mods decided to ban that kind of discussion here. So… enjoy your echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:52 PM
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The “bi” women: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:32 PM
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I’m trolling because every guy talks about romance like it’s some magical thing, but the only thing about it that you can’t get somewhere else is consistent sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:30 PM
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Cry me a river
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:20 PM
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You can hold your friends hand, you just have too much internalized homophobia. Again, all you mention is fucking, and same vague “romantic” feelings. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:49 PM
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In what way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:37 PM
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Romantic relationships don’t bring anything to the table that close friendships don’t, besides fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:09 PM
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False equivalence, taking things into the justice system changes things. Now, if a partner wanted to run a background check on me, I would have no problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:56 PM
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You must be projecting because women do this all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:39 PM
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Reassurance? Maybe he has a reason to doubt you? I can’t speak for every man, everyone has their own reasons for wanting a paternity test. But if you’re as honest as you say you are, why is simply confirming your kids’ relation to their father such a burden?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:21 PM
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If you’re not cheating, why do you have a problem with paternity testing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:14 PM
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Wanting your partner not to cheat on you is obsessive and controlling. Right. The bar is truly in hell for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:50 PM
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Proof
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:00 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:55 PM
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I agree with the fact that women’s in-group bias is one of the most harmful things in modern society. They will be pro-female and anti-male to the point of complete delusion, molding reality itself to fit their worldview rather than ever even coming close to admitting that a woman could be wrong or a man could be right. However, where I disagree is that this is exclusive to women, or that men are somehow better arbiters of unchecked power. Men are just as easily capable of lying. exaggerating, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:53 PM
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The comparison was very unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:10 PM
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Yay I love the suffering olympics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:31 PM
2

I’m almost flattered. Little weirded out though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:26 AM
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profile stalking, personal attack, strawmanning, blah blah. Average PPD woman, what else is new 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:23 AM
1

Seeing a word longer than two syllables and crying AI says more about you than it does me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:18 AM
8

At this point just ban every opinion that doesn’t treat the female sex like ontologically omnibenevolent goddesses
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:15 AM
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Women’s interpretation of feminism = good Men’s interpretation of feminism = wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:13 AM
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“I don’t have a good point against this topic, so I’ll ban it” alright sure. You can control what topics are allowed for discussion here but you realize how it makes you be perceived, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:12 AM
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Manosphere sucks, but you’d have to be pretty awful for an entire community to form based solely on talking about how bad you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:17 AM
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The fact that none of them answered my question answers my question
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:02 AM
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It’s a catch all for all the weird shit women have creeping around down there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:43 PM
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No one did. I guess there’s really nothing, huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:42 PM
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I fucking wish
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:58 PM
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I think that says more on how women treat other women vs. men than it says about me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:58 PM
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Most men hating content is directed towards other women, not men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:55 PM
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Even if I used protection why would i want to fuck someone with aids and vagina bugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:51 PM
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They’ll probably say some shit like “because we’re perfect” or “we’re all tens and we’re the prize” or some dum shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:50 PM
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I’m looking for what qualities woman have that make them likable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:48 PM
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Whatever you want to call it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:35 PM
5

So you just think you know men better than they know themselves? How delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:29 PM
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Anything to justify your intrinsic, unconditional hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:23 PM
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Women are more honest about themselves online
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:22 PM
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Delusional take. “Yeah us women hate men, but… but men only think they love women but they actually hate them they just don’t know it! Uh… uh… yeah! Checkmate!” Get outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:19 PM
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At least you’re honest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:12 PM
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It’s always “ragebait” when a woman says it, but when a man says the same thing just in reverse it’s “hating women”. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:59 PM
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I don’t want to get aids
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:57 PM
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https://x.com/NewStatesman/status/2044378074506993936?lang=en Women are 3x more likely to have a negative view of men than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:48 PM
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Feminists, and the elites.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:18 PM
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Misogyny may be more extreme but misandry is much more common
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:17 PM
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Women have never encouraged men to approach them, the last thing any woman wants is for some guy to walk up on her and start “putting game” on her while she’s just trying to go on with her day. It’s the ruling class who wants men to approach, so that people can make more babies, who grow up to be workers for the economy. You’re hearing mixed messages because there’s two different groups telling you to do two opposite things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:09 PM
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Well I’m gonna believe how women treat men and talk about them over your word alone. Then again, maybe I’m blind, deaf, and schizophrenic and don’t know it, so I might be seeing things wrong. But unless I am, then it’s pretty clear that you all don’t actually view men as full humans, even if you read about watch fictional male characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:01 AM
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Women don’t actually like passport bros, they just see an opportunity to get a better life. Take away the green card and money and he’s just another man. And we all know what women think of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:56 PM
2

You mean an insult like, oh I dunno, all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:39 PM
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You mean books and movies written by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:39 PM
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Go be fake-polite somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:08 PM
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Right because a single word choice is the only thing that matters, right. Uh huh, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:07 PM
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I know you literally see men as people, as in fellow homo sapiens. But you all don’t view men with the same full, complete personhood you see in your fellow women. We don’t have our own lives to you, we exist only in relation to yourself. Useful at best, usually a minor inconvenience, sometimes a threat. But never a full person with their own agency, desires, and emotions. When you realize that we are, you get “the ick”. That’s what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:03 PM
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You’re assuming that women see men as people. That’s your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:50 PM
2

Right… because men are the ones with big egos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:45 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:37 PM
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Just wait
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:18 PM
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The shift that we’re in hasn’t fully taken place yet. That’s why I said to wait 10-20 years. Things will be looking much different then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:06 PM
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Your mistake is implying that the increase in sexless men is already “done” and will stabilize at current rates. But the fact is our society is just in the beginning of a major shift in gender dynamics. As more and more women walk away from dating men, and learn to reject compulsory heterosexuality, the rates of sexless, relationshipless men will keep rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:57 PM
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Can you read? Notice how I said “either”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:50 PM
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Maybe the fact that most long term relationships end in either infidelity, divorce, or become dead bedrooms. Men and women don’t actually like each other, they like the idealized versions of the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:24 PM
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Most men who are in relationships and having sex are from 30+ years ago when women were still being indoctrinated into dating men. How about we wait 10-20 years and see what happens then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:15 PM
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The problem is women going for men when they’re not attracted to men in the first place, so they wonder why it seems like they never “feel the spark” with any guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:04 AM
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Women dress for the attention of other women. Not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:31 PM
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Ok, prove it. Download a dating app, use a picture of an average to slightly above average man, and see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:12 AM
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What else is there to want?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:04 AM
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I personally never want children. Not my own. Not someone else’s. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:36 AM
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“The sky feels blue today”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:20 PM
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People in the past were wrong about plenty of things. Geocentrism, four humors, phrenology… it’s not unreasonable that they were wrong about women being the more carnal sex, especially when all the evidence supports the other way around being true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:01 PM
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I suppose you’re right. I mean, women are so uncontrollably attracted to men that men can’t even walk down the street without having women hitting on them. Men are so overwhelmed with sexual attention from women that it becomes a burden. While women struggle with trying to get guys attracted to them, men struggle with having so many options that it’s difficult to filter through them all, and figure out who wants commitment and who just wants to get some dick. Oh wait, I accidentally swapped the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:16 AM
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Well that perspective just doesn’t line up with reality. All I have to do to disprove you is to go to any club or to show you any woman’s dms.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:02 AM
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Historical fact? You’re telling me you think it’s a fact that women have an insatiable lust for men and can’t get enough of them, while men are too logical for lust and are unaffected by women’s bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:56 AM
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Or alternatively, hear me out here, the people who lived hundreds of years ago… were wrong? I know, crazy idea. But maybe they were just bullshitting. After all we know that people hundreds of years ago had pretty backwards views on women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:48 AM
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She only ever argues with people in bad faith. Ignore her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:20 AM
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Believe what? That most women are lesbian? Because I have eyes and ears that work properly. That patriarchy doesn’t mean anything? Because you refuse to give it meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:48 PM
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I don’t believe women are more inherently attractive. Attractiveness is not an inherent quality, it doesn’t exist in a void. Gay men are living proof that men can be attractive too. I believe that women are more attracted to other women. There’s a difference. Anyways, can you actually define patriarchy? Go ahead, prove me wrong, and show me that it actually means something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:45 PM
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The more you talk about patriarchy, the more I believe that it doesn’t actually have any concrete meaning, and you just use it as a generic catch-all for any behaviors or opinions you don’t personally agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:37 PM
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You speak about men with the confidence of someone who’s lived as a man their entire life, like you know us better than we know themselves, yet it’s clear you have no comprehension of the male condition whatsoever. Men don’t wake up one day and say “I’m going to systematically reduce the value of women to their sexuality in order to uphold the patriarchy”. They’re just attracted to women. That immediate, unconditional attraction is such a foreign concept to the female mind that you all create te…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:28 PM
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I think you’re overthinking it. Heterosexual men have a strong desire for women that is almost never reciprocated. This leads to frustration, which leads to the manosphere. It’s as simple as that, yet so hard for women to wrap their heads around because it’s hard for them to understand the desire men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:09 PM
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Because I have eyes and ears
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:46 AM
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I’m referring mostly to the time period before social media. Just because we were trending towards learning about each other more doesn’t mean there was any shift nearly as big as the information social media revealed about each other. As for these conversations, think about how redpillers talk about women, or how radfems talk about men. One specific example is when andrew tate became popular and women were horrified. There was never a “rise” in incels. Men always talked that way about women. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:45 AM
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Maybe I made a mistake in saying that women used to view men with mystique as well. It’s also probable that women never have truly pedestalized and obsessed over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:36 AM
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There are certain conversations that women used to only have around other women, and men with other men. Those are what social media has revealed to the rest of the world. Just because dating books and talk shows existed didn’t mean they gave us insight into every aspect of the opposite sexes. At best they were secondary sources, someone else telling us what other people were like. Now people just say these things themselves. Social media was the biggest shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:32 AM
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So the romantic feelings never existed on the part of the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:30 AM
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That’s not a contradiction. With self help books we didn’t hear each other talk the way we do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:17 AM
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I think it’s a trend that got more over time, just social media was the final nail in the coffin so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:12 AM
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Those are part of the same trend, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:01 AM
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There was a lot more romantic feelings than there are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:36 AM
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His experience wasn’t the main line of reasoning though, it was simply a personal anecdote that ties in his argument to his lived experience. Purposefully attacking it alone as if he were only using that experience to justify his claim is a strawman at best. Not only that but your implication is that, because he has personal experience with closeted women, he is completely unqualified to talk about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:15 AM
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Idk, pointing out his trauma and using it to invalidate his argument seems like a personal attack for me. Maybe I’m just too civil though. Maybe this is normal around here. I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:54 AM
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So you ignore the points of the post and go straight for the personal attack? Lmao, the ladies of ppd will never change, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:46 AM
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I’m so glad men are finally waking up to this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:38 AM
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So if we had a man who could only orgasm with other men, and not with women, what would we call that, hm?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:08 AM
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Fallacy fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:00 AM
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Those are closeted gay/bi men. Straight men don’t experiment with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:31 PM
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I’m sure these straight men that I’ve never heard even a single example of in my entire life before this interaction with you are totally real and not fabricated for the sake of your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:37 PM
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If they do, they usually try it, don’t like it, and never do it again. Straight women repeatedly touch and have sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:32 PM
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Straight men never experiment with men. Lesbian women never experiment with men. Gay men never experiment with women. It’s only “straight women” who feel this intense urge to sleep with people they supposedly aren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:00 PM
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It’s not a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:59 PM
13

MyBoyfriendIsAI isn’t exclusively female though, it actually seems to pretty split pretty evenly by gender
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:53 PM
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I’m sure men didn’t start writing that stuff for no reason at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:17 AM
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Dating is a hostile environment for men though. To treat it otherwise would be extremely foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:31 AM
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ITT: “It’s fine to feel frustrated, as long as you don’t talk about it and just stfu like a good boy”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:29 AM
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Funny because their entire philosophy rests upon the “patriarchy” being responsible for the ills of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:28 AM
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I open up emotionally with my close friends, and most men I know do as well. Maybe actually talk to men instead of assuming what their experience is like, if you actually want to learn about them. Oh wait, you don’t view us as humans but as another species to be studied clinically but separated from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:03 PM
0

You forgot the part where 50% of the female users are bots, and half of the ones left are either promoting their onlyfans or just looking for an ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:52 AM
2

This post is a truthnuke and ppd is hiroshima. The radfems and whiteknights aren’t based enough to hear ts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:49 AM
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Depends on the value
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:28 PM
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So you think that if a man is willing to have sex with an awkward woman, he’s also a pedophile, necrophile, and zoophile? Not only is that an insane extrapolation, but it’s also pretty damn offensive to those awkward women, if you estimate their value so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:27 PM
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Value in terms of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:22 PM
3

Now all men should learn about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:45 PM
2

*Desire for their bodies. Nothing else about them is desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:26 PM
2

I think women are just allergic to hypothetical scenarios Edit: That don’t involve them turning into worms
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:21 PM
4

Yeah they are. It’s just a coincidence that every man they meet gives them the ick. And it’s also a coincidence that they only watch lesbian porn. And a coincidence that they start kissing women as soon as they get drunk. And that they claim that women are objectively more attractive than men. And that they all experiment with each other. All coincidences!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:19 PM
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Idk, I’m a straight man and I’ve never once thought “hey, I should kiss my guy friends, I might be gay who knows lol”. Also, lesbians seem to know damn well that they’re only attracted to women. It’s only straight women who struggle with latent attraction to the same sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:17 PM
1

That’s convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:56 PM
4

TL;DR: Us men are as attractive as we are useful tools
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:51 PM
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Sure they do, they just coincidentally get the ick every time a guy looks at them, while watching lesbian porn every day and making out with women in bars every night
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:44 PM
-1

It’s pretty much a meme in the bi community that bisexual women are attracted to all women and 1 guy every 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:40 PM
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Nope, I’m not responsible for validating your claim. I’ll just assume that these studies aren’t real. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:14 PM
2

Just because pickmes do doesn’t mean 99% of other women do There’s a reason all women hate pickmes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:12 PM
3

Disagreeing with women makes you a pickme. Plain and simple
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:54 PM
1

You know what you did
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:39 PM
1

Politeness isn’t the same thing as character
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:37 PM
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I’ve yet to witness counterexamples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:36 PM
1

I can’t see these “studies” you’re taking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:31 PM
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Saying “studies show” before your blatant opinion statements doesn’t make them any more persuasive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:44 PM
2

You’re the pickme
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:21 PM
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You’re doing the exact things I wrote about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:04 PM
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Yeah, uhh, no shit? Women protect other women because they relate to each other. Men can’t put themselves in those shoes so they don’t care. We only care about our tribe, that’s how shit works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:25 PM
4

What makes women the prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:10 PM
6

You can always just scroll past. Plus, this post was directed to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:07 PM
6

Desperate for what exactly? Or is that just a word you throw around when feeling called out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:02 PM
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Substance is when glazing women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:59 PM
3

Not all of us are attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:18 PM
1

If you don’t want to follow my advice have fun living in Ginaworld 10 years from now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:03 PM
1

Yes and I still believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:02 PM
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They should do it just because. Women don’t do it so they can get sex, men shouldn’t focus on sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:29 PM
-1

I never said none of them were true. One of them certainly is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:24 PM
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So everything is just about sex to you? When did I make this about sex? Why is everything sexual to you? This is about behavior and gender wars, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:18 PM
1

Right because women are totally known for all of those
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:07 PM
6

So women aren’t a monolith, but all men would cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:15 AM
1

So it’s “women aren’t a monolith” but “all men cheat”. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:01 AM
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The friendzone is a common thing. Much more common than cannibalism I assure you. Also no, I’m not that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:02 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:40 PM
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The friendzone doesn’t exist. So you’re telling me that never once in the history of mankind, from the moment hominids first emerged in Africa to this very second, has anyone ever been put in the friendzone? Lmao, just because getting fuckzoned personally affects you more doesn’t mean the friendzone isn’t real. Even if you argue that it doesn’t matter, it exists because it’s a thing that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:32 PM
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Who’s complaining about loneliness? It’s always men. Women just don’t complain about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:18 PM
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There is no disbalance… whatever price a woman sets, there’s always gonna be a man desperate or horny enough to pay it. Plus the idea of women being bitter and alone is a male fantasy, women actually like being single more than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:01 PM
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I don’t think you know what inherent means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:48 PM
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Think of the most beautiful painting you’ve ever seen. Think about all the intricate details, and the use of color, and whole mood that the painting creates. Now tell me, do you want to pull your cock out and start fucking the painting? No? But you just said you liked looking at the painting. That means you must want to fuck it, right? That’s how women feel. Women are pretty, that’s easy to see. But straight women don’t want to fuck women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:16 PM
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“True standing” doesn’t really matter. It’s just basic supply and demand. There’s more demand for women than for men, so they rate their value higher, because in the dating market, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:06 PM
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Your post assumes women want to avoid ending up alone and partnerless at all costs. Most women are perfectly content being single, in fact they’d much rather do so than date a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:52 AM
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Then why do men constantly complain about women, even their wives, not having sex with them? Why do men “play” women by promising them commitment only to use them for sex? Why is it that men’s love language is always sex? It’s obvious, men just think that their sexual appetite is romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:55 PM
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Thank you. Yes, to men sex is their definition of love. I don’t know how people can hear how men prioritize sex over all else and still think men experience romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:42 PM
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If arguments had to include every edge case and outlier we’d never get any discussion done
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:34 PM
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I like women enough to be honest with them instead of bullshitting them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:31 PM
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Would men create those things without the promise of sex? Don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:18 PM
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I’m honest about it to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:12 PM
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Men can get “feelings”, but the root of those feelings is sexual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:06 PM
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You made a false equivalency
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:23 PM
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Should I post subway surfers gameplay as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:18 PM
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So you agree that what defines a woman as straight is her romantic attraction to men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:06 PM
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I don’t know exactly because I don’t have the mind of a woman, but I can give an educated guess. Those stories are probably primarily focused on the romantic elements and character dynamics, which usually appeal more to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:05 PM
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In general, a woman’s sexual focus is on the female form, while the male acts as her object of romantic attraction. Women generally obsess over the female body, they sexualize themselves by indulging in their own desirability, through both beauty as well as fantasy such as romance novels. It is the female body that elicits the desire to have sex within women. The male in the interaction acts mainly as proof of the woman’s sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:35 AM
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Women’s attraction involving men is a roundabout form of homosexuality. The sexual focus is on the female form, the male’s role is to be the focus of romantic attraction and provide validation by proving the woman’s desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:21 AM
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Because most women are heteroromantic. Romantic attraction is different from sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:18 AM
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I addressed romance books in the next paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:17 AM
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“A novel” and it’s barely a dozen paragraphs. Then again, it is Reddit, I guess I expected too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:16 AM
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Porn stats isn’t the only cause, it merely supports the notion that the primary sexual focus of women is on other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:14 AM
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How would you define romance, other than the desire to form long-term, deeply emotional relationships? Keep in mind that romantic attraction is separate from sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:13 AM
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Ad hominem after one comment is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:06 AM
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If you don’t wish to engage mentally with my post just move on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:05 AM
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Does “lesbian” mean to you more about being romantically attracted to women, or being sexually attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:02 AM
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I never said one was better than the other. That was your interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:59 AM
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Mankeeping is a psyop that’s being pushed to keep us more divided, there’s no such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:56 PM
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Women are gonna be more honest about their preferences anonymously where they arent facing social pressures to conform
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:21 PM
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Humans sexuality is more complex then animals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:37 AM
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Human sexuality is more complex than animals. Most species dont have sex for recreation or bonding. All animals think is breed breed breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:16 AM
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I don’t disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:11 AM
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They have a very male centric view of female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:07 AM
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Just because you don’t relate to sapphic women doesn’t mean they are not out there. The patriarchy affects them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:03 AM
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I don’t use “pretending” because that implies an intent to deceive. Women have been socialized by the patriarchy to view heterosexuality as the norm, and same-sex attraction as the deviation. Leading many of them to repress their true sexuality. (whether consciously or not)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:01 AM
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The notion that heterosexuality is the default was created by the patriarchy. The label is inherently patriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:57 PM
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I think there are more gay/bi men than most people are aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:54 PM
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I would not say “pretending” because that implies an intent to deceive. They’ve just been conditioned to view heterosexuality as the norm, and same-sex attraction as the deviation. Leading them to repress their true sexuality. (whether consciously or not)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:50 PM
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I fixed the bbc link.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:20 PM
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The purpose is not to erase heterosexual women. But to show how these patriarchal labels are failing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:13 PM
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Explain “heteronormativity” Heteronormativity is the way society enforces the belief that heterosexuality is the “default” form of sexuality, rather than simply one of multiple, equally prevalent variations. Most women are obviously heterosexual Most women feel pressured by the patriarchy to conform to heteronormativity. Women largely have not been given the chance to explore their sexual identity free of societal and cultural pressures. What would women use to do to act correctly heterosexual? …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:10 PM
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The links I have provided are reporting on scientific studies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:52 PM
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Again, the study took place worldwide, with women across 6 continents and different generations, and got almost the exact same results throughout, which strongly suggests that the phenomenon of women being more attracted to other women than men is independent of culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:15 AM
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If you’re going with the cultural/consumerism argument, shouldn’t there be just as much demand for the sexualization of men for the female gaze? After all sex sells, and companies aren’t going to miss out on the opportunity to sexualize men to half the population if there really is demand for such a thing. Yet as much as the male gaze of women gets criticized, I’ve yet to see any examples of the female gaze of men. If there really was a market for women who were into men, it would have been capi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:36 AM
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The women in the studies were shown pictures of attractive male models. So that argument doesn’t hold up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:18 AM
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Gay men are still super attracted to men, despite living in the same, woman-sexualizing culture as you, and getting much more stigma for having sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:11 AM
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Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:02 AM
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https://academic.oup.com/jsm/article/22/1/57/7906528 Most women, including self-reported heterosexual women, have gynephilic sexual preferences, meaning they are more aroused by images of women than men. These results are also independent of geographic location. https://www.bbc.com/news/health-34744903 Only 28% of self-reported heterosexual women were more aroused by men, compared to 68% of homosexual women being more aroused by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:01 AM
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Because they’re more attracted to women, more emotionally attached to women, conditioned to pursue women, most women are gynephilic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:40 PM
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It’s an interesting thought that women were conditioned to sexualize other female bodies, but that begs the question that if most women really do prefer male bodies then shouldn’t there be just as much demand for the sexualization of men in our culture when that is clearly not the case? Feminists are quick to criticize the “male gaze” towards women in media, yet I’ve yet to see an example of what the “female gaze” towards men looks like. Also in the figure you cited the difference between women’…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:37 PM
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https://academic.oup.com/jsm/article/22/1/57/7906528 Most women, including self-reported heterosexual women, have gynephilic sexual preferences, meaning they are more aroused by images of women than men. These results are also independent of geographic location. https://www.bbc.com/news/health-34744903 Only 28% of self-reported heterosexual women were more aroused by men, compared to 68% of homosexual women being more aroused by women. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39721969/ Men strive for rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:21 AM
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Avoid them at all costs. They’re all ticking time bombs, waiting to go off when it serves them.
/r/MensRights09/01/26 05:27 PM
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Bro I wish I was gay or even bi, but the male body does absolutely nothing for me so I’m stuck in hetero hell
/r/MensRights07/01/26 08:57 PM
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Being gay is a blessing in 2026. Let the blessed enjoy themselves
/r/MensRights07/01/26 07:11 PM
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Rule 5 - Be neurotypical
/r/MensRights07/01/26 07:03 PM
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The gaslighting never ends…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:52 PM
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This is just how women really feel about men. For a long time, the patriarchy oppressed them so they couldn’t reveal these deep-set feelings. Now, they’re free to let us know how they have really been feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:48 PM
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Yeah, men empathize with men and women empathize with women. We only care about what we can personally relate to or imagine happening to us. Thats how humans work
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:31 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with feeling cute. As long as you realize women don’t feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:53 AM
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Guy and cute is an oxymoron. Except to gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:46 AM
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You know what they say, if you meet one asshole, you met an asshole. If every man you meet is an asshole, well…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:33 PM
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Looks get your foot in the door. Brains keep you in. I thought we knew about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:21 PM
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Because these actions, that you’re so confused by, are the actions of people who actually like the opposite sex. Such as taking chances for them, even if it’s more likely not to work. Or putting in effort to win them over. If even the chance of rejection is enough to deter someone from doing such things, that person probably loves their pride, not the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:17 PM
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Believe it or not, men are into women. I know, hard concept to grasp, genuinely wanting to be with the opposite sex. But it’s true. Men like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:50 PM
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People don’t exactly trust institutions these days now do they
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:53 PM
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Even unattractive men will usually have “options”. However, average men usually don’t have the option to get in a relationship out of mutual desire. Either they have to go way below their own standards, or be a woman’s “safe, boring guy” that provides everything for her while she wouldn’t touch him with a ten foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:49 PM
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An extroverted revealing woman gives “I’m receptive to being approached” vibes. A shy virgin woman usually gives “leave me the f- alone” vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:39 PM
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The problem, more specifically, is that most of the west is a low-trust society, and that trust is only getting lower with time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:09 AM
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For one I would make my intentions clear and not play games with men. That alone would get me ahead of 99% of the competition
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:32 PM
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If I poof became a woman I’d want to be cute looking but not attractive enough to get hit on by weirdos every day. Assuming I’d be straight, female me would be pretty good at locking down the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:42 AM
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Plato felt the same way as you “To my great delight, I have broken free of that [sex drive], like a slave who has got away from a rabid and savage master” from the book Republic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:28 AM
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Chris Brown makes pop RnB while Einstein is one of the most important scientists of the last 200 years. I feel like they aren’t equally accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:15 AM
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In what situation are we putting Chris Brown and Einstein in the same group of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:07 AM
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It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:36 PM
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And they’re terrible people too, what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:06 PM
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If someone refuses to get adequate help, then any evil thing they do is on them. Especially if they take innocent lives, especially if those lives are children. Same thing with school shooters, serial killers, rapists, whoever, it doesn’t matter what battles you’re fighting, anyone who hurts other people like that is a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:47 PM
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There was a story a while ago of a woman who killed her children then herself, and most people were sympathizing with her, saying how she was a victim of mental health and how it’s so sad that postpartum got to her. Newsflash: Most people with postpartum DON’T ANNIHILATE THEIR FAMILIES. For some people it is quite literally impossible to see women as perpetrators. Against men, other women, children, whomever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:28 PM
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Why do you think the archetype of “settling for a safe guy” exists
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:21 PM
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Sex is what separates friendship from relationship (With the exception of asexuals ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:08 AM
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Are you sure? I mean, I’ve never heard of men needing an “are we dating the same woman?” group. Just sayin’
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:31 PM
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Whether or not this is true, the “biological clock” has always been cope from men trying to say that men are the prize. Even if women could only have children for a year and then be infertile for the rest of their lives, men would still be chasing women more than women would be chasing men. The biological clock is practically irrelevant in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:17 PM
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Yes you need a big veiny swingy snoogly diddly snake worm schlong or you are gonna have 0 pussy for the rest of your life and die of virginity no in between
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:31 AM
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The fact is, women care a lot more about charisma than men do. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:25 PM
5

The things that make men unattractive to women are universal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:25 AM
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It’s not really wrong, but it’s not effective either. There’s nothing inherently different about women from different parts of the world, they all have the same DNA. If you can’t get a woman in America or Britain, you’re probably not going to get one in Colombia or The Philippines or Thailand or wherever the fuck. And if you do, it’s probably not you that they desire Edit: Looks like the planecels got mad at me. Must mean I’ve said something right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:21 AM
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You don’t go to school at 1 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:29 AM
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Women get the most women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:21 AM
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The male loneliness epidemic is nothing new. There’s different numbers, but it’s pretty consistent that less than half of all men in history ever reproduced, while something like 80% of women have. There will always be a bunch of men that nobody wants, that is by design. The idea that there’s someone for everyone is new and artificial.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:14 PM
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Or just admit upfront that you want a living ATM? It’s okay to do that, there’s plenty of rich bachelors out there willing to enter a transactional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:35 PM
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Holy ChatGPT. Write in your own words
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:12 PM
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Men: “Why aren’t women honest about what they want?” Women being honest about what they want (it’s not them):
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:41 PM
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And who is expecting that? If you walk outside with no makeup, baggy clothes, hairy legs, messy hair, as long as you’re not in a formal setting I guarantee you 99% of men won’t give a damn. Those expectations are coming from corporations who want you to buy an endless amount of products you don’t need. No real man is going to give a shit if you don’t make yourself pretty, but beauty companies want you to keep $pending, so they create those expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:37 PM
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“Nerds” on tv are always played by top 1% actors
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:46 PM
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