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NgoloC/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 04:32 PM
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NgoloC/r/Divorce_Men05/10/22 12:55 PM
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NgoloC/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 10:23 AM
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NgoloC/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 04:36 PM
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Boxing and bjj are activities I take part in but I am just going through the motions now I lm physically here but it's like my mind is disconnected from my body
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 06:42 PM
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I went through all the emotions and thought I had gotten over it I know that's a hard time. But this is quite hard to explain the thing is I can't even feel happiness, empathy anything. I had a date on Friday night and when she would ask me a question about a past time I was unable to even think back i feel like a robot with no emotions and no memories when I've lived a life full of love and amazing memories but I can't even think back on them now
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 06:40 PM
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At the end of summer my wife said she wanted to work things out came home early from a night out and cuddled upto me in bed, I asked her was it just because summer was over and she's had her fun or did she really want to work it out. 3weeks later she left her phone on the kitchen counter open on a message from her manager they had been seeing each other for months, for months she had lied to my face, even tried gaslighting me telling me im overreacting and they haven't even done anything even th…
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/22 04:52 PM
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Your only human and will get these thoughts and feelings. I felt I was coming along way recently, Wednesday was our anniversary and all the emotion and feelings that I felt I had overcame were flocking back and once they are there it's hard to shake them but just got to battle through and stay strong
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/22 10:25 AM
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Personally I blame my dick for that mistake, but nah for real i don't know others situations but when I got with my ex, she was always free to do stuff her mum lived 2 doors up and she would have her son go there anytime we met up so the reality to me was blurred I was young and didn't even think about the possibility of being a stepdad hypocriticaly I can't picture ever doing that role again but I have 2 kids of my own now and it's pretty tough to find a woman without kids these days
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 11:39 PM
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First thing I done when we split was went and bought a new xbox which reallllly pissed her off but it was no longer about trying to make her happy. I don't know your entire situation but if yous don't have kids then 8hours a week gaming should be totally fine she should encourage what makes you happy. I used to ask my wife to sit while I gamed she was going to be on her phone anyways so we could talk while i played i often found she kept me calm when I was in pressure situations but she would ne…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 11:25 PM
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My ex wife was the exact same I didn't play too much but if the opportunity arrose I would jump online for a few games and she hated it but when I chose her over gaming we would sit and pick a show to watch and within 2minutes she would be on her phone paying no attention to me or the show. I gave up my console and next thing she wasn't happy that I would be on my phone even tho she was literally glued to hers you can't please them sometimes
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 09:13 PM
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I was in the same situation until Monday I had to live with my ex for 5months and it doesn't let you heal or move on. Mine done the exact same as yours going out and not coming home most nights but she would then say she wants to work it out I think women get off messing with men's emotions sometimes just to feel like they have that control. But now I've moved out reality has hit I'm down sometimes because it's so different and weird just you on your own no noise, no one to talk to. I got my kid…
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 08:50 AM
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My ex has undiagnosed bpd I beg her to get help but she admits anytime she goes to the doctor she lies to them but she's aware she needs help. She used to be the most beautiful caring soul I had ever met now I don't recognise who she is and for that reason my heart seems to hold onto hope that the woman I fell in love with will return but I try to be strong in my head and its not easy. But someone once told me without trauma there is no strong men and you will come out of your pain stronger and …
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 08:46 AM
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Bro wth mine has just done the exact same and tick all the same boxes as yours. They know how to fuck our heads that's for sure. After 4months of living with her while I tried to find somewhere with many of nights on the sofa I moved into an apartment yesterday and apparently she wanted to work on things all along while ya know also sleeping with her boss
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/22 11:18 PM
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It was a few years before I even got purposed and I do put a lot of trust in the person and I am very grateful for them because half isn't going to my ex I'd rather be robbed by them than give it to her
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 06:37 PM
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She moved out of the home we lived in, rented another house in her own name and as separated on the application, technically I've never lived here with her. She wants to move now but has to end her lease which still has 7months to run so landlord wants the payment and its nothing to do with me. I signed my assets over to a family member before I got married on the agreement that when I wanted the money for them it would be available to me but legally I have nothing so she gets nothing. Ps didn't…
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 04:22 PM
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I am not on the lease she left the house we were in and took this house on her own. She now wants to move and has to pay a fortune to get out
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 04:04 PM
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It wasn't a home we owned simply a rental
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 03:38 PM
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Sorry for late reply. So the next day I got a phone call from a friend saying he has an apartment it's there if I want it, ive took and moved my stuff in on friday didnt tell her so when she came home from work she went full meltdown mode blowing up my phone, i refused to answer and would only communicate through text as she threatened to let the dog out on the middle of a road and leave the kids at my parents door and drive off, now i have threatening and abusive texts from her, and threatening…
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 02:44 PM
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My STBXW when I met her and for along time was the most wonderful woman I had ever met, beautiful and the most caring kind hearted person. But about 6months after our first child she started to change she wanted to be a party girl, so after a few months of going off the rails she finally went and got help. Soon after the woman I fell in love with was back again. We got married had our son after then about 20months later she's back to being off the rails. I am pretty sure she has BPD also. But I …
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/22 06:02 PM
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Little update guys appreciate all the comments. Today I booked a one way flight to London and got a ticket to the match the day I land then onwards from there, where I will end up who knows but it's sure as hell exciting
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/22 11:48 AM
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OK guys maybe I am being erratic so would like some clear heads and outside perspective here if yous will. Financially I am sweet atm and haven't worked in the past 3months so I am free in that sense. Not able to get anywhere to live and feeling like this where I do I've considered booking a flight and heading off for a month, only problem is the kids they are my reason for being here and that will never change but I am far from the best version of myself atm and think that the time will help me…
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/22 09:29 PM
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We live in Ireland, she obviously had a headstart on searching for somewhere else to live and society favours helping single mums and from my experience judge single dads. Any private landlord I have went and met has said to me it's not a party house I'm 30 with 2kids and haven't drunk since May yet because it's a single man they assume that's what I want to do. But currently there are 9 properties on the letting sites and I have enquired about everyone of them but there is over 50people enquiri…
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/22 09:24 PM
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Thanks for the comments guys appreciated I've no interest in reconciling but it is the mental torture I am struggling with. I live 15mile to the nearest town and don't have a license atm so I feel completely isolated and the have no outlet for the anger I would give anything to be back in the gym working a bag
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/22 03:12 PM
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