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| 327 | Stefan Molyneux talks to an insufferable beta and his hypergamous girlfriend who wants to be able to fuck other men. | NickJordan | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/15 01:09 AM | |
| 292 | True Love | Field Report | NickJordan | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 01:36 AM |
| 14 | After the F-Close: Should you ever be the one to send the first text or propose the next meetup? | NickJordan | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 02:42 PM | |
| 13 | Texting logistics: Getting information, making commands, and keeping it playful | NickJordan | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 01:58 AM | |
| 4 | Getting consistent make outs on first meet, trouble escalating and getting second meet | NickJordan | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 05:02 PM | |
| 1 | I want an open relationship, she wants to be exclusive | NickJordan | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 09:02 PM |
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| -4 | Stefan Molyneux talks to an insufferable beta and his hypergamous girlfriend who wants to be able to fuck other men."Catchy" answers, "reeking of rhetoric," that are "full of shit." These aren't terms that grown-ups use to make arguments. You didn't say anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/15 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Stefan Molyneux talks to an insufferable beta and his hypergamous girlfriend who wants to be able to fuck other men.What is your last paragraph supposed to mean? So because he makes money from his content it's probably staged? So because the evil restaurant makes money when I eat there, I'm sure they're giving me some kind of fake food that just tastes real... You sound like a tinfoil hatter with no experience in business and a distaste for capitalism because you don't know how it works. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/15 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Stefan Molyneux talks to an insufferable beta and his hypergamous girlfriend who wants to be able to fuck other men.Couldn't make it 2:00 in. He gave no rebuttal to Stefan's argument saying that taxation is force. We all know what happens when you don't comply with government force. He simplifies it to "wanting you shot," but it's hyperbole used to make an otherwise logical point. The video doesn't respond to any of this, just matches clips of him with weird cult people. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/15 03:08 AM |
| 83 | Stefan Molyneux talks to an insufferable beta and his hypergamous girlfriend who wants to be able to fuck other men.Shit, I hadn't even thought of that. If she's willing to admit on a public podcast in front of her boyfriend that she has current "possibilities" in mind, she's most likely actually banging this other dude already. Lmao. That high school football player she always wanted to bang, and happened to run into at a coffee shop. Poof "What do you think about polyamory, Matthew?" | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/15 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Daily meditations/remindersStep 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uk_ilymWo4s in the headphones. Step 2: Get yo swagger on, son. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Why you should listen to stand-up comedyEven better, write something and go to an open mic. You'll probably have a lot of fun and learn about yourself in the process. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Help? Woman want more.If it ever comes up (it rarely does) I usually deflect it with a joke, "Of course you wanna be exclusive, get in line sweetie!" Or sometimes I just ignore it and go on with the conversation. If they press me on it, my logic to them is that I won't be exclusive with any girl until I'm ready to have kids, and that probably won't be until my 40s. There is no other reason to be exclusive, other than the woman's vanity/ego satisfaction. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Monogamous LTR vs Harem style many girlfriendsI see where your head is at and you're not entirely wrong, there is something to be said for mystery and distance. But I don't like the intentional manipulation of telling each one you love them, just so they'll feel (falsely) that you're committed to her. I think there's a middle ground to be had, where you evaluate the girls based on their virtues and your preference, yes you rank them and those higher ranked get more privileges, but still no commitment or statements of commitment to any of th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 12:55 AM |
| 5 | True LoveMy point was that she is professing her rekindled love to her ex using the same mouth that was drooling down my shaft only hours earlier. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 06:28 PM |
| 6 | So have you ever imagined what you will be doing at the age of 85?Managing my portfolio, doing pushups, banging 20 year olds. Same as now. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 06:15 PM |
| 31 | True LoveYou're spot on man, not ignoring those flags though. Definitely not considering anything more than plate status for her. I just think it's funny that I'm gonna ignore her last text, and while her ex is doing everything he can to patch it up I'm gonna be getting a text from her saying she's horny. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 02:41 AM |
| 45 | True LoveBy "good kid" I mean she has all the markers of one, minimal sex partners, qualities I listed, etc. But biology is king, AF BB no matter what foggy notions of love and loyalty float through their brains. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Discussion Article Prompt: "Why Women Need To Start Asking Men Out…Because Men Have No Balls"Or maybe men are learning that it's much better to be chased, than chase. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/15 08:51 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Long Date, Need Some Tips to Stop Being Such a LamerI see what you're saying, but tinder relies heavier on genetics than anything. The main thing is a mindset change. If you act with those principles in mind and don't compromise, your vibe and frame will do more for you than genetics ever could. Oh, and lift. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 10:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Long Date, Need Some Tips to Stop Being Such a LamerDon't use Tinder. Don't go on dates. Your place or hers, escalate within an hour of hanging out or cut it short. Don't text her first, let her text you. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Jack Nicholson, just for the fuck of it.Awesome. Never seen the movie, maybe Jack's character is an asshole but from this clip he just seems red pill as fuck. Look at how they characterize him in the IMDB synopsis: New York City. Melvin Udall, a cranky, bigoted, obsessive-compulsive writer, finds his life turned upside down when neighboring gay artist Simon is hospitalized and his dog is entrusted to Melvin. In addition, Carol, the only waitress who will tolerate him, must leave work to care for her sick son, making it impossible for … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/14 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else shocked at how many of their childhood friends now have children of their own with random women?I grew up largely the same, friends falling into vagina traps left and right. Never has a thread made me feel so good about being a single early 20s dude spinning plates and wrapping up. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Been applying the standard PUA techniques and finally have my first date later today, what can I make sure to do to really blow her mind?just relax, get her talking about herself, tease her and relate to her emotions. don't think about ways to "blow her mind" (impressing her), think about how she can impress you. | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 05:25 PM |
| 0 | How do you flirt with a beautiful, hot girl that is obviously getting hit on by many other guys?ignore her looks, assume she's attracted to you, don't take anything she says too seriously, and LEAD. | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 06:05 AM |
| 0 | My daygame openerwhy not say "excuse me"? if you've ever gone out and talked to strangers before you should know there's nothing wrong with this. if you're trying to "build attraction" and "grab attention" with every line you say to a girl it's going to come off as try hard. you're overthinking it. this is just to get you into conversation, and paired with good body language can inspire interest in itself. | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 03:02 PM |
| -3 | My daygame openeri am selling something. my value as a man. if you have confident body language and eye contact there won't be any misunderstanding. even if she does have that thought, it doesn't matter after the first few seconds of conversation when she picks up on my vibe. | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 03:24 AM |
| 15 | My daygame openeri usually go with, "excuse me, i want to talk to you for a second." with a small confident smile. the boldness of it lights their eyes up. | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 04:07 PM |
| 10 | Tyler's Redpill "Secret Society" frameYou just restated "make women feel emotional" in a longer way. I asked how. Particular conversation topics? A particular frame when you're talking to her? What has worked best for you? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/13 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Tyler's Redpill "Secret Society" frameHow do you turn "Making women feel emotional" into something more specific and actionable? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/13 02:49 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/25/13the best way to build your humor skills is to hang around funny people (or watch stand up/comedy podcasts) and try to be funny yourself. learn from watching and trail & error. | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 09:52 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/25/13if your city is big enough for a mall, there are plenty of opportunities. you might be subconsciously making excuses for not approaching. what type of situations do you look for to open? | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Ask the girls why they left youyea approaching girls and getting sex alone won't solidify your self-esteem. it's one aspect of self-improvement, but true confidence and self-esteem comes from improving yourself in all aspects of your life that are important to you. find what it is in life that's important to you, and you are deficient in. study, do the self work, discipline yourself to work at it constantly, and from that will come your pride. | /r/seduction | 22/10/13 03:15 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/21/13Just as a human being, if another person came up to me while I was walking on campus and said "Hey! I'm..." I would think they were fucking weird, lol. I see what you're saying about the negative frames though. I don't think there's anything wrong with excuse me, you're a random stranger interrupting whatever they were doing. I could change it up to be a little more assertive though, "Excuse me, I want to talk to you for a second. (Ok) Hi, I'm Nick" | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 09:41 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/21/13I usually go with "Let me get your number" or "Give me your number"... then take out my phone, ask about the area code and assume its from this area, "Are you a 405?" | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 09:27 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/21/13If you're coming up to girls cold in the middle of the day, you have to have some neutral way to get her attention, especially if she's on the move. "Excuse me" is just to get her engaged. I don't say any of that with a cautious or meek attitude, I have confident body language and eye contact, and it goes very smooth into introducing myself. I've closed hundreds of numbers with that opener. Do you have something better to open? Going up to a girl in daygame and just saying "Hi, I'm..." would fee… | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 09:24 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/21/13call her around mid afternoon when you think she'll be done with classes | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 06:54 PM |
| -5 | The way I talk to women is too 'friendly' and does not communicate sexual tension. How can this be fixed?talk to girls like you're better than they are. don't be an asshole about it, keep it light and playful. if a girl assumes you to be of a higher social status than herself and you show sexual interest, she'll likely reciprocate. | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 03:34 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/14/13Excuse me, I don't mean to bother you but can I talk to you for a second? (Yes) Hi, I'm m1l4droid, what's your name? ...... then say whatever comes to mind, but keep it short. end it by telling her you think she's cute and you want her to come have coffee with you sometime, then get the number. | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 08:28 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/14/13Cool I'll try that next time. Ended up going to her place and watching the movie. Lots of playfulness, grinding and kissing like before but she wouldn't let me do anything more than that. If she plays this same frustrating game next time I'm not wasting any more time with her. The question is, how to approach the next meetup in a way that will lead to the best results? | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 05:38 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/14/13So once she made it clear the pants weren't coming off to my initial attempts, I should have backed off completely? This did cross my mind but we were just laying there half naked on my bed with nothing else to do... so I just went back to kissing her/trying to escalate. Just invited her for the movie tonight and she's responding positively so I think she's going to come. Any tips for how to play it if she comes over? | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 01:37 AM |
| 0 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/14/13gotta get them digits playa. then you can isolate her. get her number after class one day then set up the date via text. | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 12:38 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/14/13So should I try and meet up with her again asap? She made a comment that she might not want to come over again just for coffee or tea like we had the first two dates. I asked if it was because she thought I only wanted sex and she said yes. I said that wasn't the case (she's a pretty interesting chick). She seemed more open to the idea of watching a movie together. I do want sex to happen the next time we meet, though. So should I go for the next available night for her to come watch a movie? | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 12:24 AM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/14/13the only way to "develop balls" is to flex them. you want to fuck a girl? look her in the eye and tell her you think she's cute, get her number, set up a date (coffee is best in the daytime, wine is good at night). Call her 30 mins before the agreed time and tell her to come to your place. Get comfortable with her then escalate. | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 12:11 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/14/13sounds like you care too much about social validation. if you feel like making a move on a girl, isolate her and do it. | /r/seduction | 14/10/13 11:54 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/14/13Had a girl over for a second date today. Our first date we hung out at my place, I tried to kiss her and she pulled away. Today she went for it, we were kissing and taking clothes off, but she wouldn't let me take her bra or jeans off, saying most of the usual LMR stuff, "I barely even know you" "I feel like you're a player" We laid on my bed grinding and making out for like an hour but she wouldn't let me get her pants off. She texted me an hour after she left joking that she'd have to wear pur… | /r/seduction | 14/10/13 11:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR:Footage]Critique my day game.lol dude why are you literally running up to girls, that was creepy as hell. walk up from the front, engage them and then introduce yourself. tell them you think they're cute and either go for the insta date or get the number. you are making this way too complicated and weird. | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Banged a milf this weekend. How do I proceed from now?Send her some kind of positive text saying you enjoyed it, etc. then ask what her usual week schedule looks like. From her answer you now have a guide for when it's a good time to hit her up. | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Texting logistics: Getting information, making commands, and keeping it playfulBecause I like fucking on the first date. If I worried about taking pressure off or scaring her away and didn't at least propose she come right over, I'd be catering to her desires more than mine. If she doesn't want to come over, then I can still make my decision whether or not to go to the coffee shop and invest most likely more than 1 date trying to fuck her. | /r/seduction | 02/10/13 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Help a dude with anxiety?http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9K8fzRvytCM | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Texting logistics: Getting information, making commands, and keeping it playfulBecause meeting at my place is a lot better use of my time... if she invited me over to her place that would be weird, because that's never happened. | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 02:26 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/30/13Interesting. So at the beginning of the week you'll compare schedules and pick out days to meet? | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 12:54 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/30/13How necessary do you think it is to ask what a girl's plans are for the day/night you want to see her, before you propose the hangout? How much does it change before and after you've fucked her? Ex. "What are you doing tonight?" vs. "Let's do wine and music tonight" I've been asking what they're doing first and I think it's too boring and passive, the response rate is too low. | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 12:35 AM |
| 2 | After the F-Close: Should you ever be the one to send the first text or propose the next meetup?I love getting numbers from chicks with boyfriends. That means I can be way more direct, because even the act of giving up the digits and texting you says she's down to fuck around behind her bf's back. Then all you have to do is be direct and persistent, ignore her shit tests and make her laugh. Fucking girls with BFs tends to be the hottest sex too, because she knows she's being "bad." You can be the guy who gives her the wild, amazing sex her bf doesn't. | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 12:26 AM |
| 3 | After the F-Close: Should you ever be the one to send the first text or propose the next meetup?Thank's for the replies, Curveball, I get what you're saying now. I was valuing her perception of me more than what I actually wanted. By trying to manipulate her into initiating with me, I probably just lost out on a lot of potential fun during the time period I'm ignoring her. Definitely overthinking, heh. Reading so much pick up material can fuck with your head sometimes. I'm just glad these last two years I've finally been applying what I'm reading into action. | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 12:13 AM |
| 0 | After the F-Close: Should you ever be the one to send the first text or propose the next meetup?So you've never had a situation where a girl was initiating with you for sex? If you have, what was the dynamic of the situation? | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 06:36 PM |
| 1 | After the F-Close: Should you ever be the one to send the first text or propose the next meetup?This is what I'm talking about. Same thing happened to me. I DON'T want to constantly be the initiator, it's just not attractive. I have no idea how to get around it though. I guess I just need to be more awesome and fuck better, then girls will start initiating with me. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 06:35 PM |
| 0 | After the F-Close: Should you ever be the one to send the first text or propose the next meetup?I think something definitely changes once you fuck the girl. She is now more invested in you than you are in her. If I'm always the one initiating, I come off as the needier person in the relationship, no? I feel like eventually a girl is going to get bored and move on. (I know I would, if a girl was continually initiating with me) I want to be the guy that girls initiate sex with. Surely this happens, so what are the parameters in place that make it possible? | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Texting logistics: Getting information, making commands, and keeping it playfulIt's a rough estimate, I'm not really sure how many numbers I've gotten and how many dates I've been on in the last 2 years. Any tips on how I can make it more personal/playful while still moving the interaction toward a date? | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Texting logistics: Getting information, making commands, and keeping it playfulhave you had success meeting girls for coffee in the evening/at night? i just assumed it would be weird for caffeine that late, but maybe i'm projecting. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 02:35 PM |
| 0 | Texting logistics: Getting information, making commands, and keeping it playfulhaha i don't think i'd get that extravagantly creepy with it but i get your point. so would you just propose something like this early in the day, as your first text or try to engage her first? i'm thinking you could frame it like you were planning on doing this awesome cool thing by yourself or with someone else, but you want to invite her instead | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Texting logistics: Getting information, making commands, and keeping it playfulI like the theory. So maybe if she can't meet up for the coffee date, wait a day and then invite her out for something more fun sounding to her, like what a weaker beta guy would propose? I live in a medium sized college town. I'm thinking things like... Coming out with a group of friends to the bars Eating at a nice restaurant Going to see a movie But then you come up with some reason why you can't go? | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Texting logistics: Getting information, making commands, and keeping it playfulI'd say out of every 10 numbers I get, I can get half to at least engage. From those 5, I lose maybe 4 through setting up the date. Yea if there's a scheduling conflict and I can't meet them the next day, I'm always lost with how and when to re-engage without giving off traces of desperation. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 02:59 AM |
| 3 | How to maintain a "roster"keep your hangouts brief, sexual, and never more than twice a week. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 05:09 AM |
| 7 | Give them your number without taking theirs. Waste less time.nah, that's not how sexual dynamics work, at least from my observation of western culture. women are unlikely to initiate contact even if they are interested. they want you to take the initiative and lead the interaction. you are the pursuer and remain the pursuer until you have sex, then the whole dynamic flips and she'll start texting you (assuming you aren't bad at sex). | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 06:05 AM |
| 2 | What is a good first date location / activity and what advantages does it have over other places?coffee. either at your place or the nearest coffee shop to your place. coffee increases dopamine in the brain, helps conversation and boosts sex hormones. | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How to keep a conversation going when talking over text.the only point of texting her is to set up a meeting so you can get personal and physical. why the fuck would you want to keep a text conversation going? | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 05:14 PM |
| -7 | Smoking weed and getting laidmake sure to refer to it as "cannabis." you'll sound like a stoner scientist. my weed guy and the usual girls i hang out with are still out of my college town on break right now. can't get stoned or laid. thanks santa, you asshole. | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 04:32 PM |
| 1 | The club scene seems pointless to me but it has the hottest chicks. Solution?if you are going to do night game, use the noise to your advantage. approach a girl from the front and be loud enough that she can hear you when you introduce yourself. if she is enthusiastic about meeting you, reward her with a hug and suggest that you go somewhere quieter. lead her to a part of the venue that is quiet enough for a brief get to know you exchange. after a few questions say something like that you don't like having to struggle to hear interesting people, that this place is boring… | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 04:50 PM |
| 0 | Any one know any good day dates for a college student?coffee. low commitment, stimulates conversation, and often if you make high quality coffee you can just skip the coffee shop and have her come over. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 03:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Approach at the gymwho cares if you keep seeing them? you just won't talk to them, the same as if you hadn't ever approached. and again who cares what these random girls at the gym think of you? it makes no difference in your life whatsoever. my advice is pro advice because it's field tested. the times when it hasn't worked, the girl has had a boyfriend and thanked me for the compliment. being afraid of what people are thinking of you is one of the main sources of AA. let it go because it just doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 04:44 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Approach at the gymdon't approach two sets at the gym, much too awkward. find a cute girl by herself, don't creep stare but subtly notice when she's between exercises and approach. tell her that you don't mean to bother her, but think she's cute. get her name and ask to have coffee with her sometime, then number close. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 05:52 AM |
| 3 | This is my dating technique to get laid as a man.(Works well for me), what are yours gentlemen?or just invite her to your apartment for coffee and make a move after ~20 minutes. easy game. | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Share thoughts and strategies on staying "in state"if you keep working to improve yourself, you'll get to a point where you genuinely believe that you are a bad motherfucker. then the only thing left to do is be confident enough not to give a fuck what anyone thinks of you. you know what you want, so take it. don't be an asshole, just be 100% shamelessly congruent with who you are and what you want, and never apologize for it. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 10:47 PM |
| 1 | My new favorite tool for pinging girls via technology.lol yea i'm guessing this hasn't resulted in the OP getting laid you don't wanna be the "funny picture text" guy. you wanna be the "fucks me so good i can't stop thinking about him" guy. | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Robert Greene and Lonelinessif you're a writer, loneliness means you're doing it right | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 02:58 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/3/2012how do you guys suggest to go back to your place during a first meeting? i typically meet with girls for coffee. first i suggest that i make coffee for us at my place, if they don't wanna do that then we meet at a coffee shop. the suggestion to go back to my place always seems awkward no matter how i phrase it, and i can't seem to build up enough sexual tension in a public place to get her excited enough. what to do? | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Text Game Thursdayswow ok i've been texting within the hour of picking up a girl's number in day game. waiting three days seems really risky to have her remember a <1min interaction clearly. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Text Game Thursdaysi like this. i think i need to make the first text more personalized to my interaction with each specific girl. how soon is too soon and how late is too late for a first text? | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Text Game Thursdayswhat's the first text you send to a girl after you've picked up her number? my pick-ups always involve me suggesting we meet for coffee sometime, so i usually go with "glad we met. can you do coffee (date and time)?" i feel like my response rate has a lot of room for improvement. a more intriguing first text might help. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 11:03 PM |
| 2 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a Datei've been against this tactic in the past but lately i'm getting tired of repeatedly suggesting different meet times when girls are busy. i'm going to try it on my next few numbers and report back. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 06:58 AM |
| 4 | So, you think the friend-zone exists? Let me explain something to you then...if you are consistently hanging out with a girl that you want to fuck, and you aren't fucking her, you are either just wasting your time or being taken advantage of. the friend zone only exists if you let it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Best response to: Why don't you have a girlfriend?"monagamy is so 90s" | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Texting to meet-up: laid back vibe - keep it short and sweet.i'd say keep it to one choice, and don't use such weak language like "i'm free... if you want... etc." pair it down to the essentials and be direct. i say "coffee 2:00 tomorrow?" the most i'll say is "can you do coffee tomorrow (time)?" or "let's do coffee tomorrow (time)." if you are feeling confident enough for just a statement, but i've found most girls are comfortable with the direct question. using direct language is effective because it assumes that she wants to, which shows confidence. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Texting to meet-up: laid back vibe - keep it short and sweet.asking for their schedule seems too vague and requires too much explanation on their part, imo. you want to make it easy on them. you know you've sent a good text for a meetup when all they have to say is "Ok." pick a specific date and time when you are free and propose it. if they are busy, either suggest another time or keep it vague, wait a day or two and try again. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 02:31 AM |
| 1 | A gold mine of pickuo you may have never known: Petsmartthank you for posting this. i've been looking for a new day game spot and hadn't even considered the petsmart in town. awesomeness. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 02:33 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experiencebro you didn't get rejected. those girls missed their opportunity. put in more volume and you'll find a girl that appreciates your attention. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 02:31 PM |
| 2 | The Big Compliance Test Listobviously it's a fallacy. i don't literally believe it. it's simply a tool that one can use to get the best results out of relationships with people. by assuming familiarity and attraction with everyone, you don't miss any opportunities you might have otherwise if you assume they have a negative perception of you. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 05:56 PM |
| 0 | The Big Compliance Test Listwhy use compliance tests or look for IOIs? just seems insecure to me. i assume every girl i find attractive wants me until proven otherwise. you could do one of these tests and she fails, you assume she's not into you but it was a fluke and she actually is. too much room for misinterpretation imo. just assume she wants you and proceed accordingly until she makes it clear that she doesn't. this attitude will automatically create a super confident mindset for you socially as well. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 02:11 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Day Game -- Allies in the most unlikely of placesgood read but how were you "out of ideas" before the gay guy stepped in to help? "You know Roxanne, you are really cute. I want you to come have a coffee with me some time. Let me get your number." | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 12:27 PM |
| 7 | What to talk about with girls?i have this same problem. i'm very intellectual and passionate about my career, but i still want to fuck hot party girls who have boring interests and no ambition. i don't know if i should be honest and make fun of them playfully, or pretend to be interested in them? maybe i'm just coming at it all wrong and a "connection" doesn't really even need to be made if i want to be the guy they casually fuck (i do) | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 07:30 PM |
| -2 | Text Game: Sexting Escalationi think attraction and escalation are best left for in-person interactions. to me it comes off as needy and strange to have such lengthy text conversations with a girl you haven't had sex with. if she is attracted to you to begin with, meet her in person and don't mess around with text. you are only giving yourself an opportunity to screw it up by texting her something she'll misinterpret or be turned off by. i'm not buying that if a girl wasn't thinking about you sexually already, that a length… | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 04:33 PM |
| 2 | The proper mindset when approaching.bro i know how to talk to/pick up girls, i was describing my general mindset upon seeing a girl i want to approach. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 03:22 AM |
| 2 | The proper mindset when approaching."oh, i think fucking that girl would be fun. i'm going to go see if she wants to fuck me." | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What are your daygame spots?wish my town had a legitimate mall... we have a few different plaza strip malls around town. i frequent the clothing stores (ross, old navy, buckle, american eagle, penny's) other than that, the food pyramid and hastings are good because they have coffee shops inside. oh, and walmart in a college town is usually good for at least a handful of opportunities per day. | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Quick question.why would you make a girl feel bad for being available? this is a common insecurity for most girls - if they don't have a boyfriend something must be "wrong" with them | /r/seduction | 06/07/12 03:00 AM |
| 3 | So what exactly is Paul Janka's appeal?have any kind of positive interaction with a girl be confident in telling her you think she's cute/that you should meet up sometime be assertive asking for her number girls love to be approached by confident, congruent guys who can have a comfortable conversation with them. if they feel there is any possibility at all of a connection, most will be willing to give out their number. now, getting them to meet up is where most of the trouble starts and where having a volume of options is key. | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Whats a classy way of saying "Do you wanna come over to my place and fuck?"Have wine and coffee at your place. Assuming you have her number... "Hey I want to see you. Let's do coffee ____" (whenever, usually day time) "Hey I want to see you. Let's do drinks and music ____" (whenever, usually night time) If you don't have her number... "I have drinks and music at my place. Come on let's hang out for a while." Get her number | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Music, Seddit?if you like rock, throw on a classic rock pandora station with variations like Zeppelin, Queen, Rolling Stones, etc. everyone likes that shit and it has good sexual energy to it | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Getting consistent make outs on first meet, trouble escalating and getting second meetYea I think I am kind of unconsciously checking the status of whether or not what I'm doing is "working", rather than just proceeding to the next level, if that makes sense. A subtle form of self sabotage. "Don't make it easy for them to stop and question things and stop the whole thing." Yup I think that's what I'm doing. I'm giving them the opportunity to question the situation when I should be engaging them further. Next time I'll make a point to continue escalation by attempting to remove cl… | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Hi seddit. I'm a woman and want to know what drives you men crazy when you're making out/having sex with us women.When you grab our penis and suck on it, with either genuine enthusiasm or really good acting | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Invited to spend the weekend at a lake house by a group of girls.Remember to post field report brah | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 02:12 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Approached a girl sitting by herself at university, after about 1/2 hour of conversation # close.You probably could have number closed within 1-5 minutes, all you have to do is show some confidence and humor. I like keeping it short; it conveys you are a busy guy and don't have 40 minutes to spend chatting up a random girl. You'll leave her wanting more and you'll be more of a mystery to her. If the conversation is fun though, why not I guess. Good luck breh. | /r/seduction | 24/05/12 05:06 PM |
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