This is my general method after I get a girl's number through day game:

  • Between 30 mins and 2 hours after I meet her, I send a text just to get her responding to me. I keep it short and positive, usually some call back humor from the meeting, and make sure to use her name.
  • If she responds positively, then my next message goes into logistics. I'll say "What's your schedule like tomorrow?" Then from her response I'll pick a time when we're both free and propose it.
  • My propositions are never questions, I like using "Let's." I'll say "Let's do coffee at 3:00."
  • If she agrees, in this example the next day around 2:30 I would call her. My first move is offering to make the coffee myself and inviting her over. If she gives me any static about that I'll settle for meeting at a coffee shop if she's hot enough.

I'm fairly new to pickup, using roughly this method over the last 2 years I've bedded 13 girls, but I want to do a lot better than that. The number-to-date transition is something I'm always tweaking with to improve it.

Any comments, questions or suggestions on this method?