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Does what work? That's not our "game" it's just what we think is funny.
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:09 AM
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Haha. I can see where you're coming from. It's cute. Let me.know how I can convince you. Because that's what matters.
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:09 AM
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Maybe he just has that type of humor. Me and my guy friends do. I love women so much it hurts, and the only dick I like is my own, but me and my friends flirt with eachother and say gay shit all the time. None of us are gay, we're just get secure in our heterosexuality and don't give a shit.
/r/seduction30/11/13 07:45 PM
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If your girlfriend got fat and gross would you still fuck her? Not unless you were so pathetic to think she'd be the only woman to ever be attracted to you. In the same way, guys sometimes get nice in a relationship. The thing that attracted her to you, that part of your personality, you can't lose that. In the same way she can't let herself go, or the attraction dies. It not a conspiracy it's a fact of life. Become a bitch your girlfriend will cheat and break you.
/r/seduction29/11/13 07:10 AM
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Hahaha well. Yes. They were pretty obvious. But there was once upon a time when I would have missed all of that.
/r/seduction28/11/13 12:37 AM
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This made me laugh out loud. Literally.
/r/seduction27/11/13 06:41 PM
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Have an upvote for Game of Thrones.
/r/seduction26/11/13 10:12 AM
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Are you just wanting to hear that she wants you? Always assume she does. Always. But in this case it's painfully obvious that she does.
/r/seduction26/11/13 10:09 AM
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It kind of seems shitty to use women as a game like that. But then again I'm pretty shitty. It sounds like a blast.
/r/seduction22/11/13 08:41 PM
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Assume attraction just because she is hooking up with other people, doesn't mean she doesn't want to hook up with you. She sent the email, unprovoked. She could have never spoke to you again. She didn't have to give you her number. Go for it.
/r/seduction28/10/13 01:00 AM
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Well put.
/r/seduction28/10/13 12:39 AM
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What...?
/r/seduction26/10/13 08:35 AM
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None taken. I know that stuff is somewhat outdated. I don't use it to "get" her, even though it does spark interest. But I use it to get to know her. There's a reason that stuff works. She always says it was 80%+ accurate. Then it's easy to lead into questions to really get to know her.
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:45 AM
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Honestly I did that on purpose. I much prefer giving oral. Sounds weird but that's one of my favorite things to do. Plus I find if you start with that, it does make the girl more comfortable and open. And takes pressure off her.
/r/seduction24/10/13 06:22 PM
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Yes. Women do shitty things. But so do men. Women are not monsters and we have no reason to fear them. We are all shit. It's the ways of life. Just enjoy your relationship, and if it gets shitty, move on to a better one for you to enjoy, until it turns shitty.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 10:58 AM
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Can you be? Unless she has given you reason to believe she'd fuck someone other than you. It isn't fair to assume. Trust in a relationship is the most important thing. Without it there is no relationship. Don't over think shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 10:40 AM
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If you see a girl that you have sexual interest in but don't go talk to her, it's out of your comfort zone. No excuse in the world for not talking to a woman you find attractive is a real excuse. If you want it, but don't go get it, that's your comfort zone. If you don't go dance with your friends because you like to sit and drink, then it means you don't want to. But if you watch your friends dancing wishing you were having fun, then that's your comfort zone.
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:37 PM
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I was just like you. Best friend, a girl who friendzoned me, told me the same thing. But she did get sick of me and stopped our friendship. Now? Now no one, woman or man will ever have that authority over me. To make me feel less than them. I can't give you the trick. There is no magic pill for this. I can offer only simple tips, and a small amount of advice. My world isn't for everyone though. Fare warning. But like I said. I was exactly like you. To a T. I don't want to get in a war on this po…
/r/seduction10/10/13 08:51 AM
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Through texting**
/r/seduction07/10/13 08:29 PM
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Honestly I think girls do this as flirting sometimes. Through testing at least. They want to talk to you so they use some lame excuse. The best thing you can do is tease her and twist it. In a fun flirty way show her that you are strong and won't jump through the hoops. But don't just sit there either. What I do best is be an asshole. Girls think it's hilarious the way I do it. I never say anything sub intent to hurt. And they pick up on that. So I just "go off" on her, and they love it.
/r/seduction07/10/13 08:29 PM
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It's a shit test. Show her that you don't care about age. Show her it's just a number.
/r/seduction07/10/13 08:20 PM
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What I'm saying is be passionate about it, and show that emotion when you talk about your music. That's what they love.
/r/seduction04/10/13 06:42 AM
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I always bring up my music in conversation with EVERYONE so it gets out there. And if the ladies come back to my place, if I play for them, the deal is sealed.
/r/seduction04/10/13 06:41 AM
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Honestly. "You're friend is great. But I don't want her. I want you."
/r/seduction03/10/13 01:10 AM
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Where is the line of alpha leading vs needy little tantrums? I mean it almost sounds beta. I have this problem a lot, deciphering the difference.
/r/seduction02/10/13 06:29 PM
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I personally do. Why are so special to get someone awesome when you don't deserve her? No one owes you anything out of pity. She's with you because you're an awesome guy. Write down a lost of all the things that make you awesome. Don't be humble about this list.
/r/seduction30/09/13 05:43 AM
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I saved this to use as a reference tool. Good stuff man. If it works for you keep going. It's really a numbers game.
/r/seduction30/09/13 02:23 AM
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This kid is the shit. In truth he is doing what he's told. But we could all learn from him. Childlike genuine curiosity in another person, childlike pure courage, and absolute lack of fear.
/r/seduction29/09/13 07:48 AM
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Just be clean, and not shaggy.. Have a hairstyle that looks good on you, wear clothes that look good on you. You don't have to be good looking to look good.
/r/seduction26/09/13 07:32 PM
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I'm good friends with a natural, and this guy has told me similar things about himself. He never makes a move he just sits their until the girl explodes and finally jumps his face and makes out with him. He never kisses them, he let's them come to him. Interesting stuff. I wonder how this dynamic is different. Most of the time I see girls get uninterested because I don't make a move fast enough.
/r/seduction25/09/13 06:07 PM
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It's better to stick to your standards. Even if others may say they're too high. It keeps you strong.
/r/seduction23/09/13 08:41 PM
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Dude. I literally walk up to the girl, or group and say "Mind if I chill with you guys?" Never have I been turned down. It's such a chill environment that people are open. Then you just go from there.
/r/seduction21/09/13 06:52 AM
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Hookah lounges are great for "dates" by the way. The chill level is so high. I frequent my local Hookah lounge so much I know all the guys that work there very well. It's the easiest place to meet and attract girls. Even approaching is easier than anywhere else.
/r/seduction20/09/13 08:12 PM
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I've had a ton of girls say that my confidence in approaching them was good. One girl I approached in a group and her boyfriend was there, and a different girl said "Damb, bro you have balls though!
/r/seduction17/09/13 09:28 PM
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Story of my life, bro.
/r/seduction17/09/13 08:25 PM
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Maybe by saying "I don't want to seem to interested." You brought the game into light. Everyone plays the game, and subconsciously knows the rules, but you can't verbally address those rules. It is weird. Kind of like going up to a girl and saying "I'm here to show you I have balls so we can fuck." Or "I'm not buying you a drink because if I invest in you early you women get uninterested." A playful was would be like... "I wait a day to text girls. I like to play hard to get." It kind of shows y…
/r/seduction17/09/13 07:59 PM
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This is what it's about. Sharing your value to her while she shares with you. Leave her better than you found her.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 07:40 PM
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This is disgusting. I am no white knight in any way. But I have to say, women are no more powerless to change their lives than guys. All of us ended up here because we used to be a beta fag. I changed I'm sure you did. And women can. Now, the likely scenario is that she hasn't, and the fact is if you're looking for a LTR and aren't a piece of shit, then you won't cheat. If you want a LTR you will have to trust that she won't until she gives you a good reason to doubt her morals today. Not yester…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 07:35 PM
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Okay, I see.
/r/seduction13/09/13 06:26 PM
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I think this might have something to it. What happened to assuming attraction? And the whole abundance mentality is a little fantasy like don't you think? No girl should be your main focus, but having 20 chicks on rotation is unrealistic to some people. And maybe he has a point. Cosmo is like seddit for women, but cosmo happens to have it wrong. Girls follow that shit a lot. After three times, yeah move on. But persistence is a virtue.
/r/seduction13/09/13 07:18 AM
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Really it's not about gaming a girl. It's no different than asking about a guy friend who cockblocks you. This is about how to handle my state.
/r/seduction13/09/13 07:15 AM
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Maybe it's because I'm good at it, and am a very ego driven individual... But going down on a girl is probably my favorite thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 08:59 AM
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Is this... Like for real?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 01:49 AM
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What does AMA stand for?
/r/seduction08/09/13 08:56 PM
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On the other hand, I hooked up with a girl who would want me to buy her and her roomate weed or alcohol and all kinds of shit. I would only share mine with them when we Hung out, and then she kept making excuses so I cut it off. Month later she texts me.out of the blue asking me to find them a beer pong table for theory party. Not inviting me to the party. I simply said no. If she texts me ever again I'll tell her to get the fuck away from me. In a situation like that, yes.
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:41 PM
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I see what I want and go for it. Simple as that.
/r/seduction07/09/13 04:21 AM
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Being*
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 08:24 PM
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So this guy is brig begged by a hot highschool girl for him to bang her, and if he does he loses? What? I just... Can't.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 08:24 PM
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I kind of agree with what's been said, but at the same time I think if done correctly that could work for you. Don't rely on it. It will backfire.
/r/seduction06/09/13 07:53 PM
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I use the same line whenever I walk up to a girl. "I think you're adorable and if I didn't come.meet you I'd be kicking myself all day." I use that everytime because it's sincere everytime. I think she's cute, and I want to meet her. Simple.
/r/seduction06/09/13 07:50 PM
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Only if you let it.
/r/seduction05/09/13 07:56 PM
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I would accept, let her sleep on my couch, and fuck her. Not to repay me, but because she would want to. Christ those tits though.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 11:18 PM
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There's no money in comedy for a man that has his shit together. Why do you think Larry the Cable Guy makes so much? He's a made up character. All comediens are.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 10:38 PM
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Both parties have to have no shred of attraction. Of both parties have to be willing to admit, and embrace the mutual attraction. It has to be a give give, not a give take.
/r/seduction01/09/13 03:57 AM
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Yeah... I had a best friend that let me lick her titties a lot. We also Hung out and did stuff like buddies. It wasn't weird. It worked. You can be friends and fuck. That's how opposite sex friends really work. You offer her something, she offers you something. In a platonic male female friendship, you're offered nothing. She gets attention. You get blueballs.
/r/seduction31/08/13 10:03 PM
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Then screw her. If that really is what you want, is to hook up. Move on to the next one. I flirt with every female human I come into contact with. It's my personality. I get girls who don't like it sometimes. I leave them alone, bit of they talk to me, I flirt again. I will not change who I am. Because it's "out of social norms." Wtf has seddit become?
/r/seduction31/08/13 09:50 PM
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Strong eye contact, sly smile. "I know." And then escalate hard. If you're alone then just kiss her.
/r/seduction31/08/13 04:41 PM
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Go up to her. Say hi. Best pickup line ever.
/r/seduction31/08/13 06:59 AM
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Talk to strangers. Go anywhere. Girls are everywhere. Talk to them all. Attractive or not. Do it. Read stuff here, and use it.
/r/seduction31/08/13 02:03 AM
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Best response I ever got was indirectly aproaching the group and talking being myself giving value, all that and then I interupted the convo I was having with one of the guys and do this. To HB:8 Me:Hey, I have a bone to pick with you. HB:8 What? Me:I'm trying to have conversations with your awesome friends here, and get to know them, but you're sitting there looking sexy as fuck and distracting the shit out of me, what's that about? She laughed, and warmed up to me a lot. Her eyes lit up too. T…
/r/seduction31/08/13 01:52 AM
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Well everything you said there is true. I am a man, and will not lie to keep anyone, sexy girl, or bestfriend in my life. I suppose there is a median. But I still won't call some slimey chode out. I got into pickup because I was a slimey chode, and became even slimier and chodier, until I realized (outside of pickup) that women aren't the most important thing in life.
/r/seduction30/08/13 08:08 PM
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I feel like there should be another subreddit for guys like us. We get a lot of downvoted hate here.
/r/seduction30/08/13 07:58 PM
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Seddit, yes is about building yourself into your best self, and leaving value into the world. Leaving the girl better than when you found her. But seduction itself is about getting your dick wet. I ingrained the dark triad into my life and my game, I'm a very good man, I never use my words or my body to purposefully cause harm of any kind. I never compliment ANYONE unless they really deserve it and I genuinely like something about them. And I never insult them in any other way but joking, and th…
/r/seduction30/08/13 07:44 PM
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I escalate until right before the point of no return and just bitch out. I had to learn to cold approach be just doing so I guess that's all I can do here. Is just do it.
/r/seduction29/08/13 05:24 AM
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I feel it's not. I'm forward. Always will be.
/r/seduction28/08/13 05:22 AM
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Hahaha. Nice. I suppose I've seen two or three blond girls face to face that I found attractive, but I'm just not into it.
/r/seduction28/08/13 05:06 AM
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Fair*
/r/seduction28/08/13 04:55 AM
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What I mean is I don't game them like any other girl. I flirt, but not the way I would if I wasn't at work. You said yourself you rarely make sex jokes. I'm very, very forward with my game.
/r/seduction28/08/13 04:55 AM
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Fare enough. But I do disagree about being subjective. Example, I do not find blonds attractive. Period. Not my thing.
/r/seduction28/08/13 04:53 AM
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I hate to double post but one more point. It does not allow overrating. One man's 10 is another man's 6. My perfect 10 is different than yours, so what? The point is what YOU think of the woman YOU are interested in.
/r/seduction28/08/13 03:35 AM
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We are biologically attracted to the image of feminine features. It's no different then girls judging guys for their confidence. Just because our urges are based on the physical is no need to hate. You sound like a feminist white knight.
/r/seduction28/08/13 03:33 AM
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It could be a reserve of you will if you're just out to have fun and get drunk with the guys, but happen to meet a girl you're into.
/r/seduction28/08/13 12:27 AM
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NOOOOOO. If for some reason anyone ever got offended, or I came off as creepy for any reason and she complained? I'd be fired instantly. I do flirt a little. VERY lightly, and I make very none threatening jokes, and the whole interaction although flirty and friendly, is completely nonsexual.
/r/seduction28/08/13 12:23 AM
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Steakhouse for sure. Fancy enough that people won't stiff you for the most part (like applebees or some shitty corporate chain) but not so classy that if you make a joke you'll be fired. Obviously you have to calibrate a little bit. They are there to eat so don't talk about poop or vomit. And don't insult them unless you know for a fact they'll get it as a joke. Plus it gets you in a very party oriented social group. Almost every night some group from my work is at a bar, hanging out at someone'…
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:46 AM
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I like hoe genuine he is. He isn't an expert at talking he has pauses and says "ummm" a lot. Which is real.
/r/seduction26/08/13 02:51 AM
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That doesn't matter. If she's about to be engaged to him it doesn't matter. If she flips her hair, and bites her lip when she looks at you, it's fair game.
/r/seduction23/08/13 06:44 PM
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There's a lot of people who judge for that here. But this is up to you. I feel, if she's interested it's fair game.
/r/seduction23/08/13 06:28 PM
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I always use those guys to model. It's a humbling experience to watch and learn from someone who has theory shit together. You have to do in in a way that you don't think "This guy is better than me.and making me look bad." Just take what you can from them and incorporate it into your own awesome life.
/r/seduction22/08/13 05:51 AM
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Once you realize how women play games, and why they do it, you can see that they are just as shitty as we are. It's easier to take them off the pedestal, and stop getting oneitis. One other thing I did is when I got a number from one girl, I wouldn't use it until I got another one. So I'd meet a girl at say, Starbucks she'd be awesome and I'd get her number, but I wouldn't let myself use it until I found a new girl and got her number. Then I would text girl A, and not text girl B until I got C a…
/r/seduction21/08/13 11:00 PM
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For the most part. Over there they bring the games women play more to light, I feel.
/r/seduction21/08/13 10:42 PM
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This was very interesting. Wow.
/r/seduction21/08/13 05:28 PM
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On my phone so I can't give you a link, but look in TheRedPill subreddit. That kinda pushed it for me.
/r/seduction21/08/13 05:14 PM
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Mystery gets a bad rap. But it's all about YOU. Just like church denominations. Seduction concepts are like church denominations. Baptists aren't getting to heaven any better or faster than Methodists, it all comes down to the belief system and lifestyle you resonate with better.
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:08 AM
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I personally would give ANYTHING for the chance to start a new life on my own terms somewhere else. But that's me, personally.
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:34 PM
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Her having one or not, is not my concern.
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:26 PM
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No need for an argument. This isn't a dick measuring. I asked for advice, no need to call me out. That's what this place is for
/r/seduction17/08/13 04:27 PM
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I remember vividly when I was at that very point. I went out and tried. I failed. A lot. But I read PUA material, and practiced. I'm nowhere near great at game, but from where I was to where I am was a long and dark road. I wanted to give up and be beta again, I wanted to stop making myself go to women, I did give up a little. But right now, you have an entire community here to help you down this road. But you have to take those steps. We cannot do it for you. But we'll do it with you.
/r/seduction17/08/13 07:35 AM
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I asked for tips, not opinions.
/r/seduction17/08/13 07:21 AM
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My mistake, the point to this was to address the negativety that my post attracted. We're all in this together guys.
/r/seduction16/08/13 06:58 PM
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But that's my best move.
/r/seduction16/08/13 06:19 PM
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I don't fuck a girl that Is too far drunk to have coherent thought. Says no. Is the girlfriend of a close friend, or one of my bro/sarging mate's target. Is an uggo. Is not an adult. All else is fair game.
/r/seduction16/08/13 06:17 PM
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You guys are awesome. For sure. Thanks for the tips.
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:31 PM
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That last one. Yes.
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:05 PM
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Spoken like a true beta. Sorry, bro. But I approached this girl, she laughed at my stupid jokes, found every reason to touch me, and could not keep her eyes off of my lips. Then she said she had a boyfriend and when she said it, I could tell she didn't want to say it.
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:04 PM
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Perfect. Problem solved, problem staying solved.
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:25 AM
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True. Although I asked for a general idea. I feel like you can tell when she's genuinely interested or not. Well put. I had this come up before and I calmly said "I was hoping so, he can buy things for you and be romantic, and I'll be the guy that gives you wild awesome.orgasms." it worked for the most part, but I feel like it sparked her antislut defense a bit. I want to fly in under that.
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:49 AM
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This.
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:43 AM
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Dude. I met my perfect ten type at a coffee shop, gorgeous redhead, I even posted on this subreddit about how I was afraid to go up to her. On my way out I went up and said "Excuse me, I saw you and think you're adorable, if I didn't come meet you, I'd be kicking myself all day, I'm Skittles_N_Vodka." She was super receptive and glad I came by. I asked if I could sit with her and boom. Spent the next couple of hours bullshitting with her. They will never be freaked out that you go for what you w…
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:29 AM
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Dat attitude.
/r/seduction14/08/13 06:10 PM
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This. Fucking this.
/r/seduction14/08/13 03:09 AM
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Do you get paid $4 an hour to move gravel? I agree with not paying them for their looks. But being respectful is a different game. I apologize for attacking you though.
/r/seduction12/08/13 06:37 PM
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After leaving a five percent tip the best you can do for her is stay out of her life.
/r/seduction12/08/13 06:42 AM
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You reach down your pants and grab your cock to remind yourself you are in fact a man.
/r/seduction31/07/13 04:21 AM
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Well for I hope for the best and wish you well. Nothing I say will make a difference I see.
/r/seduction27/07/13 07:17 AM
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Sorry for double comment but it seems like it was fate that brought you here. Read on this subreddit with an open mind and it will help you a lot.
/r/seduction26/07/13 09:09 PM
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That's how it starts. Mark my words sir, if she hasn't cheated yet, she will. Shape up, bro.
/r/seduction26/07/13 09:07 PM
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When people call me out for bragging I own it. I say something like "Uh, yeah. I'm the shit. I've worked hard for everything I have. Why wouldn't I be proud? I'm no better than anyone, I'm just better than who I used to be." I then encourage them to brag about their accomplishments. Everyone should think they're the shit.
/r/seduction22/07/13 03:26 AM
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I feel like you're looking for specific lines. It is NOT what you say, it IS how you say it.
/r/seduction20/07/13 08:28 AM
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The point is to have more success in life, and with women. Success, to some, may be defined as finding a girlfriend.
/r/seduction19/07/13 07:12 PM
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This. This is gold.
/r/seduction18/07/13 07:14 PM
10

I can understand getting tipsy to take the edge off the first couple of times, but eventually you should be able to stand on your own two feet.
/r/seduction17/07/13 10:31 PM
17

I've had my game ruined by alcohol before. I see it constantly. I disagree with using substances like alcohol and Molly to get yourself calm, but if it works for you, go for it.
/r/seduction17/07/13 08:48 PM
1

I giggled.
/r/seduction16/07/13 06:40 PM
2

The "secret society" is really just people who get it. Who understand social norms of sexuality. Kurt Spelling for one mentions that the best way to get the girl is to make her think "Wow, this guy gets it." There is no actualy secret society. All the rules he mentions is really just human psychology. The guys who are naturals, or have learned this stuff are the 1%. If you think a girl won't cheat on her beta boyfriend with an alpha, then justify that it doesn't count, you are dead wrong.
/r/seduction16/07/13 06:22 PM
1

I see where I misunderstood you. My mistake.
/r/seduction16/07/13 01:44 AM
1

Well put.
/r/seduction15/07/13 08:49 PM
2

Then maybe by saying the only way to have the success you desire with women you must be alpha is wrong word choice. I usually do lead, but I also like to let others lead sometimes. I'm in a band and have the most experience playing with others in a band than any of my band mates do. But I want them to have the confidence and leadership that I possess so I take a step back at times and follow. Doesn't make me a beta male. I'm not arguing with you, there's no point in it. I'm just hoping what I sa…
/r/seduction15/07/13 08:03 PM
0

I can't... I don't... Is this real English? Did I miss something?
/r/seduction15/07/13 11:02 AM
3

Sometimes bitches be cray. I hooked up with a girl not long ago, two weeks later she sends me a text asking me to help her keep form cutting herself. Wtf...? Yes I'm adult. 22 and so is she. 19, living in a house with a roommate. Took me by complete surprise. Needless to say I got out of there. Fast. I seem to find the secretly psycho ones.
/r/seduction15/07/13 11:01 AM
2

But if it's not in his nature to be the leader in his peer group, and be the mediator on situations, or be the one to speak for the group, it doesn't make him beta. Obviously he's the master of his own life and that is alpha in itself. Just beause you aren't a leader, doesn't mean you're automatically a follower.
/r/seduction15/07/13 10:57 AM
-2

I couldn't give two shits about animals. Cats, dogs, llamas, fuck them all. They can die. But my precious little Bailey is different. :P
/r/seduction15/07/13 10:55 AM
7

I used tough for lack of a better word. Being alpha and being a man doesn't mean you are tough in a classical sense. "Men don't cry, of show emotion at all." Tough guy, macho etc. etc.
/r/seduction15/07/13 10:54 AM
14

I feel like being alpha is right and beta is wrong. I love my dog to death, she's the most adorable long haired chiuaua you'll ever see. I taught her to lick me when I say "Give me kisses" nothing beta about that. It's humanity. Being beta is when you're insecure. Even if you're being over macho and hoping it comes off as "alpha". Being true alpha isn't about brig a Barney Stinson or a James Bond clone. It's about being you and being 100% comfortable in your skin. If someone makes fun of me for …
/r/seduction15/07/13 05:55 AM
8

Touche. I kind of labeled that myself when I read not alpha. You'll read here a lot "it's not what you say, it's how you say it." Similarly, it's not who you are, it's how you are.
/r/seduction15/07/13 05:26 AM
124

"Beta traits" is a bad name for those. That's the kind of guy he is. He's not tough, but that doesn't mean he's not alpha. He's obviously comfortable with who he is. That's alpha in itself. You don't have to be fit and hard to be alpha. Just be who you are, don't let people walk on you, and protect what means most to you. Simple as that.
/r/seduction15/07/13 04:49 AM
6

I did this too!!! God, a girl I lost contact with and saw again and she was super excited! She was leaving the venue and we said bye and I stuck my fuckog hand out, and she got this disgusted look on her face and just looked down at my hand, and I realized what I had done...
/r/seduction14/07/13 08:29 PM
0

I would start by smiling.
/r/seduction10/07/13 02:39 AM
1

I would very much appreciate if you elaborated on some of this. I have been searching for advice on how to limit texting more. Please do, go on.
/r/seduction09/07/13 09:01 AM
1

Why do you care so? Regardless of what wording we use the outside world is still going to look in and judge. My own brother called me a douchebag because I mentioned rejecting a girl for unacceptable behavior, and that it didn't bother me because I could find another. He got angry because he is absolutely horrible with women and gets used constantly. White knights want sex just as much as the next guy. And when they can't get it they justify it with "that's not what I want." Which is bullshit. F…
/r/seduction09/07/13 08:56 AM
1

Honestly, these are for people to learn. They have good advice, and they are helpful. Who are you, or who am I for that matter, to decide what a success is?
/r/seduction09/07/13 07:36 AM
3

Congrats man, I'm sure that's a great feeling.
/r/seduction08/07/13 02:09 AM
1

Punctuation, bro. I thought this was about being a tranny.
/r/seduction06/07/13 04:33 AM
4

To each his own. Don't hate.
/r/seduction05/07/13 12:15 AM
1

This IS a question about intrigue in general. Not how I can make this one girl intrigued. I only used her as an example.
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:21 PM
1

Who has balls? Men. It's a manly thing to do. Which is where to term ballsy came from, being courageous, and being a man. Basically they are saying "you are a fucking man, and not afraid to go for what you want, take me now."
/r/seduction28/06/13 01:53 AM
-5

Being a woman's wingman is too easy. Walk over to the guy she wants say "Hey, see that girl over there? She swallows." Done.
/r/seduction25/06/13 09:27 PM
2

I've heard a lot of hate towards him for teaching peacocking. But it works. It depends on your style. For example, my style is very rockstar. Faded, torn or dark jeans, wallet chain, lots of skulls, piercings, fauxhawke. It's me. My personal style and I feel comfortable in it. I wear interesting designs on my shirts, necklaces that have something somewhat flashy, but in the realm of my style and taste. I wear an armband with a nice design on it a lot and it gets compliments. It depends on your s…
/r/seduction25/06/13 03:06 AM
1

Thank you for posting this. This hit almost too close to home.
/r/seduction22/06/13 06:27 PM
2

I actually had my first sexual experience outside of a relationship by texting "Did I tell you about that dirty dream I had about you last night?" She replied with "No. Tell me. Or show me." I was going to make a joke about how she fell in mud and was dirty! But that worked better. Context.
/r/seduction20/06/13 08:44 PM
2

I'm risking sounding like a douche, but bros before hos was said for a reason.
/r/seduction15/06/13 04:36 PM
24

As a guitarist, this makes me happy.
/r/seduction14/06/13 01:43 AM
5

I never was into sports, still am not, have no interest to be. I am a music enthusiast, I play guitar and love all kinds of music but my root is metal and rock. The metal head look with the long hair, scragely beards and the over sized shirts is NOT a good look for anyone. I have a fauxhawke, dark hair, piercings, tattoos and a rockstar attitude, and Outlook on life. You don't have to be a jock. Just be yourself. Your best self. Your alpha self.
/r/seduction14/06/13 01:41 AM
2

I think learning to have a sense of humor is important. And that comment "fingerpop the asshole." That's a ballsy move to just do. Of course it's over exaggerated to do that, but it's like just looking her in the eye and pulling your Dick out. Only a man can make that work. Think like this. Act like this? Maybe. But definitely think like this.
/r/seduction12/06/13 10:14 PM
1

I fucked up a threesome with a 7 and a 6. I even had multiple chances with the 7 but fucked up by staying in my head. It's rough man. Rough.
/r/seduction11/06/13 06:46 PM
7

Regardless he had a good time. It made him feel good. I feel like people are too critical on here sometimes.
/r/seduction30/05/13 09:42 PM
1

Ah. Got you.
/r/seduction30/05/13 09:38 PM
0

I'm not talking about bdsm. Simpley the man being dominant. Women get turned on by masculinity. Never met a girl who doesn't have a fantasy about a.guy throwing her around. Softly, but firmly.
/r/seduction30/05/13 09:37 PM
-3

Women want what they want. And I know for an absolute fact that they want that.
/r/seduction30/05/13 06:28 AM
4

Not sure what you mea.t by your orgasm question. But if you want her attatched to you, make her cum and demand that she looks into your eyes as she does. Girls love that, and it is a hook line and sinker from there.
/r/seduction30/05/13 12:07 AM
7

Keep doing what you did. Put yourself in those situations and realize that nothing bad happened. Did the girls laugh at you or call you stupid to your face? Did a guy beat the Shit out of you? Did North Korea decide to launch a missile because you approached two girls? You'll eventually see that your anxiety is pointless and you can just talk about what you see. Tell her your a CIA agent and you have to tale her outside for questioning, say it with deathstare eye contact and a smile on your face…
/r/seduction29/05/13 11:52 PM
-17

Without saying a word, take her by the hand, spin her around shove her into a wall, pull her hair and without choking her place your hand firmly on her throat. The rest is in your hand sir.
/r/seduction29/05/13 11:49 PM
1

It works for me. It sets up the frame that I have. I'm a cool, interesting guy, and she's my little sister's bratty friend that I bust on. And obviously I approached her so I'm interested. But it starts things off light, playful and somewhat less threatening. Sneaks in under her radar.
/r/seduction25/05/13 09:18 PM
2

You got me. Yeah I always say "Excuse me," or "Sorry to interrupt "
/r/seduction25/05/13 09:16 PM
5

"Hey, I thought you were absolutely adorable and if I didn't come meet you I'd kick myself all day, my name is Skittles_N_vodka" Like a Goddamn charm.
/r/seduction25/05/13 07:47 AM
1

I understand you. I do. There is nothing wrong with knowing how awesome you are, and showing it. Only of you try to put others down and make yourself look better. He already said he doesn't do that. It sounds like he had a lot to offer people. It sounds to me like everyone here has a deep rooted issue with the word cocky. Even you mentioned it. "That guy in highschool you hated." "Harem of nerds who now look up to you." Maybe you were the nerd. Maybe you hated that guy in highschool because you …
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:22 PM
1

Forgive the spelling mistakes. I'm on my phone.
/r/seduction23/05/13 10:00 AM
3

I said it in a sincere way. She was upset at first and we didn't talk for a couple of weeks but she came back around. In the end she respected me more for it.
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:28 PM
15

I got out of the friendzone with this. "I really don't do the whole male female platonic friend thing too well, and you're just not that special of a person." She qualified the Shit out of herself to me. Worked well. We hooked up after.
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:13 AM
1

Exactly. Tell her it would be nice to see her and invite her out next time you go out. If she says no and says sorry etc. Say "Hey, no problem. Your loss kiddo. :P have fun with (her excuse here) I'm going to go have the time of my life." nd then go do just that. She'll catch on that you're an interesting, fun guy.
/r/seduction20/05/13 08:32 PM
2

Or maybe she is very passionate about her goals and is driven. Maybe she has a strong personality and won't let a guy get in the way of her goals. Maybe she does want to see him. I feel like the fact she's taking the time to say she is interested in seeing you is a good sign. Of she didn't she would just give you an excuse that she couldn't and not tell you she wants to. Maybe she has legit excuses. Go out meet other girls have fun and invite her into your world of fun. If she comes cool, if not…
/r/seduction20/05/13 08:28 PM
1

I've decided to go for it. Tonight at a party she was there and she told me I looked hot and she liked my haircut. AND she got in a fight with her boyfriend. I haven't sealed that deal yet but I will. I'm positive. Haha her boyfriend is built and I'm a little scrawney so hopefully the beating will be worth it.
/r/seduction20/05/13 09:42 AM
1

Haha can't argue with that kind of logic.
/r/seduction19/05/13 08:01 PM
1

I see what you're saying bit that sounds very reactive. I mean is there a way to turn it around. He didn't ruin my night. The way I reacted and let him ruin my night, ruined my night.
/r/seduction19/05/13 03:07 PM
1

I agree with what you say. Honestly I'd be using her for just a fuck, maybe fwb. So she wouldn't be using me really. But I do like your rule of not knowingly harming anyone. Well said.
/r/seduction18/05/13 08:16 PM
2

I agree. I mean, any step in the right direction that actually pushes you is a victory. But if you take the same step every day for a month, then you get nowhere. So I agree I need to keep putting myself out there and keep pushing myself.
/r/seduction16/05/13 06:56 AM
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