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| 5 | How to hook a girl?A great quote by Henry Ford "Whether you think you can or you think you can't - - You're right." If that is truly what you believe and you don't believe yourself to be a good looking man, you are essentially shooting yourself in the foot. That will be in the back of your mind in any interaction with a girl and it will bring on a wave of insecurity and low self-esteem. I hope you're just trolling me here and you don't really believe that, because it's not true. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Leading Gets You Laid (link) - With Audio ClipsYou're bringing up a very important topic. I would say it's OK to have some canned and scripted material in the back of your mind to use when the conversation is getting a little boring but ONLY in the beginning. Not the beginning of your conversation but in the beginning stages of you trying to get good. There is a very small ceiling for you to get good if you only use canned material because YOU won't learn what works and what doesn't because you aren't being your true self. I am a huge advoca… | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Can get dates but cannot concludeI'm sorry. This same offer goes out to anyone who is reading this. I am here to help | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 06:12 PM |
| 5 | Can get dates but cannot concludeHey man. I have a TON of tips that I can think can really help you, especially at the stage you are currently at. I was stuck in this shitty stage for months where I could talk to girls and entertain them no problem but I just didn't understand flirting or how to go for the kiss, Not to mention how to pull a girl home. In order to limit the redundancy here, I want you to read these 2 articles How to kiss a girl you just met: http://myeasyconfidence.com/how-to-kiss-a-girl-you-just-met. The easies… | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Leading Gets You Laid (link) - With Audio ClipsThat's definitely a good idea. Thanks for the feedback man! | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 02:11 AM |
| 1 | A guide to having fun & hooking up at festivalsGreat post bro. | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Leading Gets You Laid (link) - With Audio ClipsI tried something new by posting audio clips of me explaining the topic (as well as the reading). I would really appreciate if you guys could leave a comment, either here or on the post, and let me know if you liked that style. Otherwise, I'll have seriously no idea if I should continue with audio clips or stick to writing. Thanks players. | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 06:36 PM |
| 3 | How to change your mindset when trying to talk to women? How do you become the kind of guy who doesn’t worry about failures anymore?Hey man. First off, that's amazing that you realized what is holding you back and are trying to take action to fix your sticking point. I wrote a few posts that I feel will be extremely helpful from the position you are in right now. How to get over the fear of rejection - this will help you with changing your mindset towards the "whatever" attitude. https://myeasyconfidence.com/how-to-get-over-the-fear-of-rejection How to get over social - This will outline the 2 best tips I have (rapid-fire ap… | /r/seduction | 22/07/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | I met a girl on Friday and I’m not sure what happenedHey man so based on this story it definitely seems like you were way too passive. What happens when you wait too long to make a move is the girl starts to view you either as a friend or as someone who is not confident enough to go for what he wants. Both equally as bad for your cause. When you wait too long to make your intentions clear and then eventually go for it, it becomes weird for the girl because she has already pegged you as a "friend" or she has at least lost attraction for you. This c… | /r/seduction | 22/07/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How To Kiss A Girl You Just Met (LINK)If you guys have any questions at all please feel free to email me directly at [email protected] or leave a comment. I will be glad to help! | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Inner GameAnd if anyone ever has a question or wants to run something by me, feel encouraged to email me at [email protected] | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Inner GameI tried to use the * as bullet points but it got all fucked up. I hope this is helpful to some people out there. | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | 3 Boss tips for getting rid of Approach AnxietyHope this was helpful for you guys | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Podcasts, videos or articles??I don't know any podcasters doing pickup related material but if you are looking for just self-help, in general, I can definitely recommend some to you, just let me know. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | The EASIEST and most fun way to flirtLet me know how it works out for you. Also keep in mind this is a skill and just like any skill it obviously gets better and easier to think of shit the more you do it. Good luck player | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 02:33 PM |
| 1 | The EASIEST and most fun way to flirt😘 | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 02:31 PM |
| 2 | The EASIEST and most fun way to flirtThanks man appreciate it. Id love to hear a funny roleplaying scenario you've used and it could definitely be valuable for everyone reading to get another perspective on it. | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 01:36 AM |
| 3 | The EASIEST and most fun way to flirtPlease let me know if you guys liked this or found it helpful because otherwise, I'll have literally no idea if I should keep making articles like this. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 09:09 PM |
| 0 | The BEST way to day approach a girlpeople found it helpful, so why wouldn't i? | /r/seduction | 28/04/18 04:43 PM |
| 0 | The BEST way to day approach a girlyeah, my blog post | /r/seduction | 28/04/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Tips on cold approaches, I’m gonna go out and try this for the first time tonightNo offense taken whatsoever. It was akward in the begining but I pushed through it. And i am happy you came to the realization that you don't need to say the perfect thing or even anything special for that matter, that is exactly the point I was trying to get across. I am glad this helped man! | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Tips on cold approaches, I’m gonna go out and try this for the first time tonightI highly recommend reading this https://myeasyconfidence.com/ultimate-guide-to-day-approaching and https://myeasyconfidence.com/running-after-a-girl-approach. The first link is an article I worte on the fundamentals of day approaching. The second link is actual audio of me approaching a girl where I actually ran to catch up to her. Hope this helps bro and good luck out there, you got this! | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | My crush hit on me. What do I do now?Do you have her on any social media | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to meet girls in bars and what tips do you have for a newcomer to the scene?The best thing you can do at first is to get comfortable in a bar setting. You want to become comfortable approaching and meeting new people in general, not just girls. Two things that really helped me get better at this is, first understanding what bitch butterflies are. Bitch Butterflies- This is the feeling of nervousness right when you initially think about approaching a social situation. This is something that almost every single person experiences on a day-to-day basis. But the amazing thi… | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 01:16 AM |
| 1 | My crush hit on me. What do I do now?Hey man, I am happy to hear this. My suggestion would be to shoot her a text and ask her out. I don't really know your dynamic with the girl but you can simply say something along the lines of "Hey___, you seem like a cool girl, we should definitely hang out sometime." I think you need to strike while the iron is hot. 2 weeks is definitely too long of a time to wait. If you think she is into you, do somethign about it now because if you don't you are going to risk either getting put in the frien… | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 01:08 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand flirtingRead this https://myeasyconfidence.com/how-to-flirt-with-girls-the-best-technique-you-can-learn | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 11:38 PM |
| 16 | The BEST trait a man can haveGlad you get some value out of it my man | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | The BEST way to use push/pull in a bar or club environmentSorry for the inconvenience everyone but the Body Language post is now back up | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | The BEST way to use push/pull in a bar or club environmentIt's not just you, I am having some website issues at the moment but it should be good in an hour or 2 | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 03:14 PM |
| 3 | The BEST way to use push/pull in a bar or club environmentGive it a try, it's crazy effective | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 08:55 PM |
| 14 | The BEST way to use push/pull in a bar or club environmentYou're absolutely right. Often times you see relationships die off because you stop doing things like push/pull. You almost take the girl for granted and instead of trying to be witty, charming and spike her emotions, you just become boring. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 08:55 PM |
| 5 | The BEST way to use push/pull in a bar or club environmentwhere the concept of "what you say doesn't matter" comes from the breakdown of communication. non-verbal communication makes up 90% of everything you communicate (body language, eye-contact, tone of voice, etc...). What you say only makes up 10% of what you communicate. Think about it... if you say "you're a fucking bitch" to a girl with a smile and in a joking way, it will be read as a joke. But if you say that with anger in your voice and body language that screams you are not confident and/or… | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 08:51 PM |
| 25 | The BEST way to use push/pull in a bar or club environmentHahaha that would be gold, "Yall act like you never seen a white person before" | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 08:12 PM |
| 18 | The BEST way to use push/pull in a bar or club environmentAppreciate that. Glad you got some value out of it | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 05:38 PM |
| 2 | The Absolute BEST Way to Get Over The Fear of RejectionHey man so I hope you take this constructively because I am going to give you some tough love. If you can't re-frame your mindset to look at failure as a good thing you are in for a long and painful road if you ever want to get good at pickup. Rejection is not only a learning experience but it's a way to naturally filter out people you meet to find ones you TRULY connect with as a person and find women who are TRULY attracted to you for who you are. This is only possible of course if you are pol… | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 05:37 PM |
| 1 | 3 Simple Fixes To Killer Body LanguageWhen I am saying "power pose" I am referring to a stance that is outward and positive rather than inward and negative. Even if this means standing in front of a mirror with your hands stretched out as far as you can and your back up straight...That would be considered a power pose, and that is actually something I do. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 11:33 AM |
| 5 | The Absolute BEST Way to Get Over The Fear of RejectionGlad to help! | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 01:41 AM |
| 2 | 3 Simple Fixes To Killer Body LanguageThanks man, glad you got some value out of it. | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 09:06 PM |
| 4 | The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girlI love the enthusiasm and drive. I recommend going out and using the motivation you have immediately. Going off the second part, that would definitely be a nerve-racking thing to do BUT the best way to get good at something is to fully immerse yourself in it. You want to expand your comfort zone so that this sort of thing no longer scares you. You can't do this by taking baby steps. Well, you can but it will be a long and painful road with extremely slow, incremental improvements. You can do wha… | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girlThat's a great point you made and if you really think about it, that is directly in line with what I am saying. I am not saying go out and use these openers that I use word for word, I am just saying you should be direct and I wanted to give examples of what I mean. By you saying "Hi, my name is Tim" and not giving her a bullshit reason why you are talking to her like "Hi, my name is Tim, do you know what time it is?", aside from the fact that that would be creepy as fuck, you are essentially te… | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 05:49 PM |
| 3 | The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girlI don't know about girls outside of London but I studied abroad in London last semester and this worked very well for me | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 12:54 AM |
| 12 | The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girlthanks dog | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 12:44 AM |
| 45 | The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girlThanks for the addition here, this is a great example of what I am saying. Although this guy clearly has a lot of confidence, he is DIRECT and tells the girl his intention right from the start. You DO NOT need to be this confident to see results because the fact that you are walking up to a complete stranger and telling her she is cute will automatically make you appear confident in her eyes EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT. Obviously she will eventually be able to tell if you truly do have very low confiden… | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 12:01 AM |
| 6 | The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girlI suggest you be direct. This has worked countless amounts of times for both myself and my students and like I said above: you have substantially better odds meeting a girl who finds your directness attractive than you do meeting a girl who finds your passiveness attractive. I don't think anyone can deny that fact. Obviously, there are tweaks that go along with the approach I am teaching here but I am just laying down a structure for people to work off. You need to implement trial and error and … | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 11:57 PM |
| 22 | The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girlThat sucks that you feel this way because it is SO NOT TRUE. If you don't see results doing this it is because you are coming in like a pussy and have very low self-esteem. These are both things that will improve the more you do it though. It is obviously not going to work every time but on the flip side, NOTHING WILL WORK EVERYTIME. But you have substantially better odds meeting a girl who finds your directness attractive than you do meeting a girl who finds your passiveness attractive. I hope … | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Where did I fuck up or was it just legistics?Yeah there you go, you should definitely just act like it's no big deal and keep a fun vibe. The answer to your question has the same underlying principle that MOST things in pickup follow and that is: if you find it weird, she will too or if you find it uncomfortable, she will find it uncomfortable. Going off that, if you think it will sound needy or desperate odds are when you ask you will have an upward inflection in your voice or your body language won't be strong and essentially you will be… | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Where did I fuck up or was it just legistics?Hey man so first off good shit on pulling the trigger and trying to get her home, a lot of people aren't that direct and it really will work towards your advantage. I also love the excuse you gave her to try and get her back. People tend to overthink what to say but you can literally say anything. I'll, a lot of times say some shit like, come back to my place I am going to make you the best mojito you've ever had or I am going to make you the best pasta you've ever had. Now obviously it's not go… | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Why drinking can prevent you from getting better at pickup (LINK)Also if anyone reading this ever has a question or wants to run a problem by me please feel encouraged to email me at [email protected]. I am here to help. | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Why drinking can prevent you from getting better at pickup (LINK)I'd love to hear your feedback so I know if I should keep creating posts like this. | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 09:16 PM |
| 1 | How oft n do your nigh s totally bomb?I consider myself to be good at pickup and this still happens to me ALL THE TIME. That is the variance factor to pickup. Some nights you will find that things just don't click. This could be for a number of reasons but the one I find more often than not comes from a lack of socializing. Whenever I find myself doing a project or overwhelmed with work I will go days, maybe even a couple of weeks without really going out and talking to people much and you temporarily lose your social skills. The go… | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I pick up girls on the street?I do this all the time because I find it actually way more fun than being in the bars (I hate clubs too). I like this more because you can actually talk to them but it is SO IMPORTANT | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I talk to girls?sure | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 02:12 AM |
| 3 | If you approach a girl at a party and she is into you do you stick with her for a while or do you walk off after like 10 minutes and come back to pull later on?Savvyxxi couldn't have explained it better. But to answer this part of the question... If you get the feeling she is down, GO FOR IT. There are so many variables that can come up in between this feeling and the end of the night (if you choose to wait). Countless amounts of times I thought I had it in the bag, the girl even said were fucking tonight, and then something like her friend getting too drunk and starts throwing up, comes up and it's over. Strike while the iron is hot my friend. Good lu… | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | The vibe you NEED when getting a girls number during the dayIf anyone reading this ever has a question or just wants to run a problem by me feel free to email me personally at [email protected], I am always here to help. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Eye contactanytime man | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How I ripped apart my social anxiety problem (LINK) Hope this helps playersthanks man | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How I ripped apart my social anxiety problem (LINK) Hope this helps playersThat's really an amazing strategy. I have a very similar system that I used for myself | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Be real when you are approaching a girlThanks man, appreciate it | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | "Audio Approach Series" - For anyone struggling with day approaches - it's so simple (link)I recommend reading the Ultimate Guide To Day Approaching before you listen to the audio clips. but they can all be found under the dropdown menu "Audio Approach Series" | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 12:10 AM |
| 6 | Eye contactYeah I do know what you mean., but you should still look them in the eyes anyway. This isn't about you making random friends with these people, it's about you trying to grow. Who gives a fuck if you creep them out, again this is about YOU. Most eye-contact interactions you have with people will be relatively short but it's your job to hold it until they look away. | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 11:57 PM |
| 2 | What to after coming on too strongHey man so the first mistake I see you made is that you've been talking to her for a couple of months and have not made a move or made your intentions clear. This is THE SINGLE fastest way into the friend zone. Especially since you got drunk together one night and you didn't make a move. One thing I need to know before I can really give you suggestions on what to do is how many times did you contact her and what were you saying in these texts/calls? And what did she say to you about it? DEFINITE… | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 11:11 PM |
| 18 | Eye contactOne thing I still to this day do to keep my comfort level with eye-contact strong is this simple exercise: Start off simple and for the next 2 full days everywhere you walk lock eyes with someone and don't break it until they do. I am not telling you to stare this person down with an angry face but just keep eye-contact. You will find how common this problem really is because MOST people will look away relatively quick. If someone confronts you or says anything (which will MOST likely NOT happen… | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 11:05 PM |
| 0 | Be real when you are approaching a girlI feel you, man. I personally love that book and listen to a chapter in it at least once a week. It works so well to help keep me in a positive mindset. Whether it's a scam or not, it helps me. | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 02:22 PM |
| 3 | What are some direct openers that are not cheesy or sound "canned"?The #1 best thing you can convey to a girl you are just meeting is honesty and directness. You don't need a specific situation to occur that now makes it ok for you to talk to her. You don't need a reason other than you think the girl is attractive to open a conversation with her. Tell her the real reason you are talking to her. "Hey, this is going to sound random but I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you. What's your name?" She will love your directness and she'll think of you as super… | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 04:17 AM |
| 1 | How To Talk To A Girl – Stand Out From 99% Of Men (LINK)awesome man, glad to hear it | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 08:53 PM |
| 1 | How To Talk To A Girl – Stand Out From 99% Of Men (LINK)Also if anyone of you ever has a question or just wants to run a problem by me feel free to email me personally at [email protected], I am always here to help. | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How To Talk To A Girl – Stand Out From 99% Of Men (LINK)If you guys like these articles let me know because otherwise, I have literally no idea if I should keep writing them. | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Good resource for "building attraction" during daygame?Hey man, SO I Can't stress enough this point. The best and fastest way to show the girl confidence (EVEN IF IT'S NOT THERE) and build attraction is to approach a girl and be completely direct with her. MEaning you state your intentions right from the start "Hey, this is going to sound really random but I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you. What's your name?" This immediately makes you real in her mind and it avoids the fuckin creepy angle that most men take "Hey do you know where the n… | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 06:36 PM |
| 3 | First date flake - what to doThe first thing I think you did wrong was talking to her for a month before trying to meet up with her. It is so hard and I would go as far as say it's borderline impossible to really get to know someone and build a comfort level with them strictly over text. This is probably why she flaked and I agree with SJ_Shark_Byte when saying flake rates are very high with online girls. SO for the future, you should absolutely go for the meet-up much, much, much earlier and if you don't...get her number a… | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 06:33 PM |
| 5 | How do I talk to girls?Hey man so your number one problem is thinking you need a real reason to talk to a girl. You thinking that she is cute is 100% reason enough and if you tell the girl this right away you will look like a fuckin boss in her eyes. When it comes to what to say - Say anything...Be polarizing. If you don't know what this means, to explain simply, being polarizing means being yourself to the absolute extreme, telling the jokes YOU find funny and talking about the things YOU want to talk about. This may… | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 06:02 PM |
| 107 | Cockblocking friendsOne major thing that comes to mind right away is 1) It's very important when meeting a group of girls to get her friends on your side. This can be as simple as politely shaking their hands and introducing yourself but it's not always this simple. One thing I like to do when initially meeting a group of girls is to A) do what I said above and politely meet all of them (maybe talk to them all as a group for a min and then B)say "Do you guys mind if I flirt with your friend here for a second" - The… | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 09:11 PM |
| 48 | I think l’m just mentally fucked.Hey man I know it's hard but I genuinely think your mindset is what is holding you back. In addition to that, you are putting too much pressure on yourself. This is evident simply from your statement "shitty experience with 'reading girls' and knowing when exactly to say or what to do physically in a moment". A very important part of picking up girls is to be present in the moment. Before I can really help you I need to know a few things: 1) What type of approaches do you do? in other words, do … | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 09:01 PM |
| 5 | What’s the best way to get a girlfriend or get laid in college?I highly suggest walking around and day approaching random cute girls you see. Be very direct with them and state your intention almost immediately, if not immediately ex) "hey, this is going to sound random but I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you. What's your name?" It is way easier and than you probably think if you've never done something liek this before. You don't need to be super witty or confident to be successful with this. Take a listen to this post I just posted an audio fil… | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Why do people say natural game is pure marketing?Natural game is realistically the only option you should explore. Why would you want to use canned material to attract a girl? That defeats the whole purpose. You are trying to find a girl who is attracted to who YOU are as a person. You will have an extremely hard time, like you said, dealing with roadblocks if you memorize routines and lines. Not to mention it will be extremely hard to build good self-confidence if it isn't actually YOU picking up the girl and making her attracted to who YOU r… | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 07:10 PM |
| 7 | Audio of me approaching a girl with her family - including a full breakdownAlso feel free to shout out some ideas for approaches. In other words, do you want me to do more where I run after a girl, approach a girl when she is eating, approach a girl when she is with a group of friends, approach a girl in the library, etc... | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Audio of me approaching a girl with her family - including a full breakdownLet me know if you guys like this otherwise I'll have no idea if I should keep making more. | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Audio of a day approach where I ran after a girl to catch up to her - with a full breakdownI don't know what 'I would have said' necessarily because the emotions that are going through your mind when you initiate a conversation with a hot girl are much different than what is going through my analytical mind as I type this BUT I could have turned that same question around on her and said "so what is there fun to do around here because everyone I've talked to basically said nothing good about (college name)" I could have said "So what do you do for fun except meet really handsome random… | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 03:59 AM |
| 3 | How to flirt with girls in public places? Is it possible (without scaring them)?Sounds good man and if you ever have a question or just want to run a problem by me feel free to email me personally at [email protected], I am always here to help. | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Audio of a day approach where I ran after a girl to catch up to her - with a full breakdownNah I actually didn't | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 03:15 AM |
| 6 | How to flirt with girls in public places? Is it possible (without scaring them)?I definitely can see where you are coming from but here are my thoughts on it. Yes, by telling her you think she's cute is, in a way, is like telling her that you only talked to her because she was cute BUT most girls are cool with that. I've approach hundreds if not thousands of girls and no girl has ever responded with "wow so you're only talking to me because you think I'm hot?" And even if she did I would respond with honesty and say: "you're right I do think you're very attractive and that'… | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 02:51 AM |
| 6 | How to flirt with girls in public places? Is it possible (without scaring them)?Hey man so you are right. The approach you are talking about will 100% lead to weirdness and awkwardness but that is because of one fundamental flaw. This flaw is the fact that you are not being direct and stating your intentions. There is nothing werid about going up to a girl you think is cute and wanting to meet her UNLESS you pretend like that's not the reason you are there - in other words it's so fuckin creepy to go up to a girl with the intention of hitting on her and saying "hey do you k… | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 01:03 AM |
| 0 | The Approach; The Target and Non-targetHey man. So im not 100% sure what a target vs. a non target are but I have a system for day approaching that works really well for me. If you are interested I have an audio upload with a full breakdown of a day approach I did on a college campus in which I saw this cute girl pretty far ahead of me and I literally ran after her to meet her. I am a huge advocate of being direct and stating your intentions with a girl. I think you should definitely check this out https://mysimpleconfidence.com/real… | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 12:57 AM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being too awkward, and getting rejected/ignored by girls and my inability to get laid or get a girlfriend.Hey man so what I think one aspect of what might be going on here is that you are not really your true self around these girls. What I mean by this is you are probably trying to be nice/ please everyone and probably try to be friends with everyone, instead of showing them your 100% real personality. This is the concept of being polarizing. If you don't know what this means -to explain briefly- being polarizing is being yourself to the absolute extreme. Being yourself 150%. This means saying the … | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Audio of a day approach where I ran after a girl to catch up to her - with a full breakdownI absolutely will | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Need help with grocery store day gameI think that you are being way to indirect with your approach. You should tell her the real reason you are talking to her ex) you think she's cute instead of beating around the bush. By opening with "have you tried that" and then trying to continue a conversation onto a different topic, the girl will pick up what your trying to do and it will make you seem insecure. If you are not comfortable saying something like "hey this is going to sounds super random but I thought you were cute and wanted t… | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Audio of a day approach where I ran after a girl to catch up to her - with a full breakdownThanks bro, glad to help. | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Audio of a day approach where I ran after a girl to catch up to her - with a full breakdownI appreciate the feedback, thank you! | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How to eat with a girl you never saw before ?Honestly, you should just man up and go sit down next to her. People overthink how you should go about meeting women all the time. The fact that you think she's cute is reason enough for you to go talk to her. I suggest grabbing your food and going right up to her and say either "Hey this is going to sound really random but I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you. What's your name?" or if you don't want to be that direct you can even say "Hey why do you look so bored" (with a smile, not a… | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 10:58 PM |
| 9 | Audio of a day approach where I ran after a girl to catch up to her - with a full breakdownPlease let me know if this was helpful because otherwise, I'll have no idea if I should continue to do stuff like this. | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How to pull in clubs? Heading out shortly feeling depressedThe single best thing you can do is when you get to the club - immediately talk to EVERYONE. Guys or girls, doesn't matter. This doesn't have to be a long interaction at all (can even be 15 seconds if you want I.e. tell a guy you like the jersey he is wearing or tell a girl you like her dress. You can even go as far as messing with people and pretend to hit on a guy-- whatever you find funny) The goal here is to socially lubricate yourself and get into a fun mindset. Don't go more than 30 second… | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Guide to Day Approach (with actual audio of an approach)Yeah I used an app called VoiceRecorder and put in one headphone (the one with the mic) and it makes it look like you are casually just listening to music. Very effective for analyzing yourself and how you sound. | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 05:16 AM |
| 3 | How do you know when to cool it off?My first piece of advice to you is to NEVER let it get to that point. When you like a girl and don't act on it you WILL be put in the friend zone. I had a very similar situation before I got into pickup where I was obsessed with this girl for legit 2 years before I finally got the balls to tell her how I felt. Like I expected she was not into me the same way I was into her. Anyway, what I think is going on in your situation is that you have been friend zoned and now she is picking up on the vibe… | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 12:40 AM |
| 5 | When you get rejected by a girl in a bar/club and other girls see it...That's actually hilarious. I agree that if you said that with confidence and owned it, you will prob make the girl laugh out loud. | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 12:28 AM |
| 9 | When you get rejected by a girl in a bar/club and other girls see it...This will not be a problem unless you believe it will be. If you believe the girl won't hook up with you after you got rejected, you will carry that vibe into the conversation. If you laugh it off and act like it's no big deal (because it isn't) and go hit on her, she will actually be turned on. She will be thinking that you have balls of steel and go for what you want in life. I wrote a post that might help put this into perspective a little better. It's all about getting over the fear of rejec… | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 12:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you ask someone out that you don't want to date?I'd take her to a bar or something along those lines | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Guide to Day Approach (with actual audio of an approach)If you guys enjoyed the audio let me know and I can incorporate more of that in my future posts | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Telling women they are pretty or not?You should absolutely compliment a girl. Honestly no matter how many times you hear a compliment, if you feel it's coming from a genuine place, it will be nice to hear. BUT DO NOT shower her with compliments. This will come across as needy and will cause all of your compliments to lose their meaning and value. The BEST way I found to balance compliments is to do push/pull because this keeps the girl guessing whether or not you are into her even though she already knows you are. I wrote a post on… | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | how to pick up girls without being an alpacaI love your mindset on this. There is no need to be alpha, you just need to be the man. Ex) choosing where to go on the date, leading and being confident. I wrote a post that I think can really help you out. https://mysimpleconfidence.com/how-to-talk-to-a-girl-stand-out-from-99-of-men Hope this helps. Also if you have any questions on it you can email me at [email protected]. Also feel free to shoot me an email if you just want to run a problem or question by me. I am always here to he… | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Is learning to have fun at parties/cafe/bar/talking a thing ?Sounds good man | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Asking out a complete stranger?It will never go away, you're right. But you can definitely get to the point where it just becomes a little exciting nervousness that you feel. In other words, it can get SIGNIFICANTLY better. | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Asking out a complete stranger?Were there any parts of the article that didn't really make sense to you? I am new to writing and still learning to communicate my thoughts as clear as possible. The best thing that helped me learn to have fun with it is to go out and purposely try to get rejected. BUT you cannot half-ass this. You need to go full throttle and get rejected in the funniest way possible. When I say funniest way possible I mean, the funniest to YOU. So, for example, A couple weeks ago I was at the bar and I went up… | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 03:50 AM |
| 5 | Asking out a complete stranger?This is great. The fact that you approached a random cute girl legit separates you from 90% of the population that is too afraid to do so. I wrote an article that I feel will definitely help put this into perspective for you. It's all about rejection https://mysimpleconfidence.com/how-to-get-over-the-fear-of-rejection If you have any questions about it or if you ever just want to run a problem by me, I am always here to help. You can email me at [email protected]. Keep it up player | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Is learning to have fun at parties/cafe/bar/talking a thing ?Hey man, I think it's great that you realize this. This type of self-awareness is more important than anything when it comes to improving your game. To answer your question...YES. Having fun with game is the whole point...it's called GAME for a reason. I am telling you man, once you learn to have fun going out it will transform you because it will no longer feel like a chore and it will no longer take that emotional toll on you. I wrote an article that I feel will help you a lot https://mysimple… | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 03:06 AM |
| 5 | What are some tips on how I can find a joke in something, or how I can be more witty? How I can tease a girl etc. On a date.Yep you get it! Good luck out there player. | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 09:24 PM |
| 10 | What are some tips on how I can find a joke in something, or how I can be more witty? How I can tease a girl etc. On a date.This article might help you bro, good luck https://mysimpleconfidence.com/how-to-flirt-with-girls-the-best-technique-you-can-learn | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Slightly new to this whole thing, but for some reason I find approaching in Malls less 'creepy' than street approaching...am I wrong?I 100% understand your mentality but you have to remember its a self-fulfilling prophecy almost. If you think it's creepy, you will give off the vibe that it's creepy and the girl will pick up on that. The only reason approaching in a mall comes off "better" is because you are probably at the mall for a specific reason ex) shopping instead of on the street where you are just walking around. One perfect way to fix this is to re-frame your mindset to think it's normal..because it is, and if the gi… | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 06:56 PM |
| 3 | My confidence is completely goneOne of the worst things you can do (in this situation) is to stop going out. You are more than likely rusty when it comes to talking to girls. SO with that being said, the first few times you go out might be rough but you will break through that if you go out consistently. Shoot to go out 3 days in a row. Now, this doesn't mean you have to go to a club or bar or even go out for 2 hours. GO out anywhere that you can meet girls and talk to them for 3 days in a row. I wrote an article that I think … | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with Number Closing: Give me all your lines and situations!good for you man, act on whatever motivation you have. Lemme know how it goes. | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with Number Closing: Give me all your lines and situations!This is something that was always heavy on my mind as well. It actually fully prevented me from approaching at times. Really what you have to frame your mind to think is WHO THE FUCK CARES. It's way easier said than done but the only way to reach this state of mind is to go through it. You will never be able to feel this emotion of not giving a fuck without actually experiencing the thing you don't want to give a fuck about. Another good thing to think about is that the girl actually won't think… | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with Number Closing: Give me all your lines and situations!There is only one way to act. Act like it's no big deal because IT'S NOT. You need to put your self in the mind of a guy who gets numbers/laid all the time. Do you really think he's gonna sulk over the fact that he didn't get a number? Of course not. Just say "It was nice to meet you" and laugh it off because that shit is hilarious. If she says she has a boyfriend, I like to respond with "I'm not trying to hook up with you (turn it on her a little bit) You can just introduce me to your friends a… | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm very blessed and fortunate to be an attractive guy, however my game and skills with girls is absolutely ass.Hey man I certainly feel your pain. I'm 22 right now and went through some rough years but I have finally found my own and I really want to help others get there too. I've written some articles that I feel can benefit you a lot at starting to understand what your mindset should be like when picking up girls. I think you will definitely benefit a lot from them. How to flirt with girls - https://mysimpleconfidence.com/how-to-flirt-with-girls-the-best-technique-you-can-learn How to get over the fea… | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 04:10 AM |
| 2 | I get surprised when girls are REALLY in to meYour current system of positive thinking is what isn't working. You need a new perspective on it. Trust me man, it's worth the tiny investment to buy the book and read it (very short read) for something that can change your life or at the very least teach you something new about yourself. | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 03:00 AM |
| 1 | LearningSounds good my man. I got a lot more content like that on the way. Good luck out there. | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 02:49 AM |
| 2 | LearningThanks homie, I appreciate that. Be careful with that because it's a dangerous game. Some people are either unwilling to change or unwilling to push themselves. This can be detrimental to your game if you go out and spend most of the night trying to get them to approach. I made this mistake so many times and it's absolutely exhausting. I obviously don't know your friends but I just want to give you my little insight so that you can be aware and watch out. And if you ever have any questions don't… | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 02:39 AM |
| 2 | I get surprised when girls are REALLY in to meYour reality is what you make of it my friend. You are the only one who can say you aren't confident because who the fuck is someone else to tell you otherwise. Confidence is relative and no one can take that away from you. Pickup is borderline impossible to be good at when things are not right in the other sectors of your life. If you wake up and feel unconfident and have negative thoughts all day, then you are going to react accordingly. It's the law of attraction, you get what you put out the… | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | late bloomer socially not sure if I have much hope?Hey man, I can totally relate to what you're saying.I am currently 22 and I've been through some dark years. I am not sure necessarily where your insecurities stem from but have you ever tried reading any self-help books. If you haven't you probably have a bad connotation towards them but I can NOT recommend them enough. I've written a review on 2 of my favorites that you should check out. These 2 books have seriously changed my life and the way I view society and myself.They are both extremely … | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 01:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I quit comparing myself to other men and stop being depressed over my lack of success with women? Nothing I do works, and I can’t seem to get laid or get a girlfriend.I COMPLETELY understand where you are coming from. I too came to college a virgin and felt absolutely hopeless when it came to women but once I got into pickup that started to change mainly because of this one major principle and if you are constantly getting put in the friend zone, I am almost positive that this is affecting you too. This idea that I am talking about is called being polarizing.Essentially this means being yourself to the absolute extreme. When you talk to girls you should talk … | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 11:12 PM |
| 7 | How to make a girl like you when you've already been showing that you're too much into her ?It really depends on a ton of factors. 1) How long have you been talking to her and not made a move?(or have you made a move) 2) When you say "you've been showing that you're too much into her" it would be very helpful if you could specify a little. 3) Is she attracted to you in any way?(it's ok if you don't know for sure) 4)How often do you see her and in what environment do you usually see her in? The answer to these questions will drastically change the approach I'd recommend you take. You ca… | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with Number Closing: Give me all your lines and situations!When you say "I just can't get over the rejection of number close" what exactly do you mean? Do you mean you are afraid to go for it because of the rejection or you just keep getting rejected when you go for it? If it is the first scenario I mentioned then definitely read this post I wrote https://mysimpleconfidence.com/how-to-get-over-the-fear-of-rejection If it is the second scenario and you just keep getting rejected, there are different approaches you can take depending on whether it's day g… | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 10:28 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who only became successful with the ladies in your mid to later 20s, what changed?First off I love your outlook on looking back on these years as a necessary part of coming into your own. This is fantastic and 100% true. People like us, who struggle with women, truly have an advantage over the naturals. We have the potential to get way better at pickup than they do. I feel this way because we weren't born with this natural ability to pull girls and that means we had to indulge ourselves in self-improvement to learn. I think this gives us an advantage because we then become aw… | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 10:16 PM |
| 3 | I get surprised when girls are REALLY in to meThat's actually a very insightful point and the fact that you are aware of that is a great start. It shows that you have self-awareness and trust me that will go a long way in the self-improvement field. One of the major keys to pickup is constantly testing new strategies to see what works for you personally. What works for one person may not work for the next. What I found to be extremely helpful when taking this approach is to choose ONE thing to work on for a period of time. ex) for the next … | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 09:30 PM |
| 2 | LearningYou can email me at [email protected] if you have any follow up questions or want to run things by me anytime! | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 08:13 PM |
| 2 | LearningThe fact that you are confident in yourself shows that you are far ahead of the 'typical' learning curve when it comes to pick up. So for that, congratulations. That seriously puts you in a great position to learn. Going off that, really the key to getting good with women is to 1)Stop fearing rejection https://mysimpleconfidence.com/how-to-get-over-the-fear-of-rejection This will allow you to remove your ego from the equation and test out many different techniques until you find what works well … | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I have no one to go to my favourite bar with. Need advice on going aloneGoing out alone is actually one of the fastest ways to get good at night game. Think about it... You IMMEDIATELY rid yourself of any safety net (meaning you can't just sit around and talk to your friends). I recommend: 1) When you get to the bar, within 30 seconds, talk to ANYONE. Girl or guy-- doesn't matter. You just want to get socially lubricated (I don't recommend talking to this person for a long time, just talk to them for a minute or two) 2) Once you feel a little warmed up socially, the… | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 06:10 PM |
| 3 | I get surprised when girls are REALLY in to meI used to feel the exact same way except I wouldn't necessarily ask them about their past relationships. Mainly because at the time I've never been in any relationships and I was extremely embarrassed about that. Instead, I would push away because I would convince myself "it's only a matter of time before she 'realizes' what all the other girls do and she stops talking to me." The feeling you are experiencing comes from a lack of entitlement. You don't feel like you are worthy of these girls and… | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 06:00 PM |
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