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/r/askMRP12/05/16 06:52 PM
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That's her working push/pull on you.
/r/askMRP06/05/16 07:21 PM
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If you are not married and your relationship is in such dire straights that you would take the time to post and respond on reddit, then the proper course of action is to GTFO of the relationship and work on yourself. Your GF has seen your weakness. It's much more advantageous for you to fix yourself and then enter into a new relationship with someone who only knows the better you than it is to stay in a relationship with someone who is waiting for that weakness to return or even worse, actively …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 03:08 PM
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Red flags prior to marriage become Green Lights for divorce once you say your vows. Her fiscal immaturity alone is enough of a reason to break up. Fighting over the finances is one of the top reasons for divorce. She said I was controlling her and that all I cared about was money. and... I told that I found it disrespectful and somehow she played the controlling card again. You need to take a step back and ruminate on this. I don't know the nitty-gritty details of your relationship, so I can't t…
/r/askTRP29/04/16 07:53 PM
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She may have a beta lined up and wanted to give you first dibs. You may get a LSNFTE (Long Soft Next For Temporary Exclusivity) as she goes to pursue a more stable prospect. Scroll down to the "Questions and Answers on Time Frames" section at the bottom of the article to see how he deals with LSNFTE situations.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 07:36 PM
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Is it a sign of seeking comfort? At the very least, this is drama to her. Drama, to a lot of women, is entertainment. Ghosting on her for five days has destabilized her conception of how much control she has in this relationship. She understands that she's crossed a line. She is now conducting a series of low-intensity dominance engagements, from a submissive orientation (topping from the bottom) in an effort to gain a clearer understanding of exactly where that "line" is.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 07:18 PM
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She can be the most beautiful woman in the world, but if at the end of the day you feel like shit when you're around her, you feel like shit.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 07:09 PM
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It's entertainment. You have a socially acceptable scapegoat that you're allowed to rage and shout your vitriol at in a safe environment. Afterwards you go to a bar with your friends and exchange tales of your badassery over drinks.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 06:01 PM
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These events get their venue's name into the media's eye, give a paycheck to the presenters, and provide a forum for dramatic theatre (entertainment) along with "a chance to make a difference" (without risking their safety or having to exert much effort) to the attendees. Everybody wins.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 05:54 PM
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I'd be interested to see what their reactions are like when one of their orbiters is happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 05:57 PM
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My friends could tell that seeing him had affected me. They took me to a more private area of the house to talk it out; they reminded me to not get ahead of myself, he's still the same guy who lied to you. Her friends are trying to make her feel better by blame shifting everything on Will, obviously the feelings with this one are strong. Negative. Her friends were luxuriating in the tingles and emotions that were unfolding that night. The Alpha Widow's drama was the emotional equivalent of an al…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 05:39 PM
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And she is so confident & comfortable that she often talks about how she has all the power (re: divorce) and could have gotten a better guy than my dad. She will say things like this in front of me and my sister. And my dad just takes it. Your dad had a side-piece, got caught, and continues to have a side-piece. Your mother and father have an unspoken understanding. She gets to talk shit and bluster and generally call the shots in every department that doesn't matter to him: home decor, family c…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 06:54 PM
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Or she views your determination as a chance to get free drinks/dinner and validation. My game sucks, but alarm bells are going off on this one. She isn't interested in "hanging out" or "doing something fun," she calls it "getting to know each other." Note: not even "getting to know you," but each other. I take this as code for "I'm going to use you for validation or as an emotional tampon." Again, my game sucks, so someone more savvy please chime in. I think that you should do drinks and be upfr…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 09:06 PM
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Based on your phrasing, she seems like she's sounding you out for an orbiter slot.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:50 PM
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It's her duplicity in this matter that should be concerning, not the number itself.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 02:56 PM
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Really? She's a client. I'm not in sales, but when I was a young lad in retail, I learned that you agree with the customer to get their money.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 02:46 PM
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Today I was wasting time with her and she started talking to me about how last time they interacted sexually, he got into bed and touched her back while she was setting her alarm. Her words were: "My stomach immediately turned and throughout my body I felt this gross disgusting feeling like if a dirty homeless person was getting fresh. I felt violated." That's known as "the creeping hand." I immediately wondered if I had been that guy in the past.... Odds you have been that guy. Apparently it's …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 02:44 PM
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They want the money. The more nights the children spend at her house means more money coming her way.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 06:32 PM
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"You found me out. I'm a fount of rage right now." "Why" <Insert bullshit over-the-top reason here and start a silly conversation> "Are you mad at me?" is code for "I'm emotionally bored and am looking for entertainment. You're not giving me feels right now so I'm going to try to poke at you until you do."
/r/askTRP08/04/16 02:31 PM
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Tell them that you're in a cutting phase, no extra carbs 'for a while.' If you don't drink at all, then tell them that. Hold fast. If you don't drink at all, you're going to have to take a stand sooner or later. Sooner is usually easier. The added bonus is that if you decide to have a drink every once in a while, the person you're drinking with will feel special that you chose to have that drink with them. If you want to keep your teetotaling on the down-low, then find your server when they're a…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:41 PM
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It stems from the pedestalisation of women; men will put their bodies on the line for the slight chance of pussy. I don't think this is the case in your situation. I think you were involved in a Group Monkey Dance. Her role in that situation was to incite some poor chump into doing something that would allow her cohorts to engage in socially acceptable violence. They gained cover by their victim attacking a girl and then made sure to broadcast that message to the crowd. Why shout it? Because the…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 02:57 PM
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If you're not feeling good about the relationship feel free to walk.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 02:31 PM
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She thought you were cute, but completely and utterly fucked up her approach, most likely due to her lack of social skills that people with asperger syndrome usually have. She's not a good prospect, mainly because she doesn't know how to handle deceit. No, not you. Most guys are up-front about what they want. What you would have to worry about is that the manipulative lesbian that convinced this girl that she was gay could manipulate her into believing that you raped her. Bad juju.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 02:12 PM
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Her: (laughs) No you're not! I'm 5'6 and I'm taller than you (she isn't). I suck at game, but to me that line suggests she was trying to re-engage and keep the banter going. She enjoyed the verbal sparring.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 01:54 PM
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The other day I brought something up that happened during one of our rough patches. She honestly couldn't remember us having any issues, and swore that what I was describing never happened. I wonder if she viewed that as a comfort test. If so, she wasn't responding to your actual words, but the subtext: "I'm thinking of rough patches. Are we in a rough patch now?"
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 07:08 PM
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Law Enforcement Officer
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 06:59 PM
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Michelle Langely's Women's Infidelity goes into much more depth.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:51 PM
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If you're just not clicking or the two of you are going in different directions in life, then by all means, have a sit-down and agree to end it. If she's being shitty to you, then she's not worth your effort. Giving her closure is your making an effort to do something for her. She's being shitty to you, so why should you go out of your way to provide that service? Closure is also a form of entertainment. You're giving her an experience where she can savor the lead-up to the event and also the em…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 02:54 PM
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Exactly, he fucked up his message control. Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others They would agree and nod their head. I thought they were soaking this shit in so I told them more. I should have known they weren't listening because they weren't applying any of the shit I told them. OP's male friends used what he said to other him to their social circle. They sold him out to look better to the girls. The girls then set these guys onto the OP for entertainment in the form of drama and t…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 03:47 PM
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We need a new sub: RPTwoXStyleVictimPosts
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 04:01 PM
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I can reduce the list to one line: If you don't the way he acts, he's Red Pill.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 06:56 PM
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I need more info. How did you suck and what standards did you set? What was the environment? What types of people were you talking to? Did you open or did they? When did things go badly in the conversation. If nothing went badly, why do you have negative feelings about that encounter? How much talking did you do during the encounters. How much did they do? What do you think held you back from achieving your goal?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 03:00 PM
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Look at the list through the eyes of a woman with a schlub husband or boyfriend: "He'll lose weight? That's great! Not that I don't wuv my widdle teddy-bear. Heh heh hurrnnnnn.. He'll lose weight, right? And if he get's new clothes then I get new clothes too! I think that's fair." "He'll try even harder to please me in bed? Grrreeeeeeaat!" "I can say no as much as I want and he won't do anything? Yuuussssss!" "He's going to even MORE(or in some cases, any) chores! More Facebook time for me!" "If…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 03:22 PM
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Abortion: Reduces the state's long-term expenses. If there is no child, the mother does not request assistance from the State to help in raising it. Renouncing Paternity: Very probable that it will increase the state's long-term expenses. With less income and one less body available to care for the child, the mother is more likely to approach the State for services. The fun part is that I could foresee a government passing something like this. It would green-light this law in conjunction with a …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 05:44 PM
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You do not gain revenge upon Chad by fucking his girl and telling him. You gain revenge upon Chad by fucking his girl and not telling him. This allows her to continue fucking other Chads and possibly bringing a juicy STD home to Chad or maybe Chad gets to raise someone else's child. Your best option is to just walk away. If she's duplicitous enough to cheat on two of her boyfriends, she could be duplicitous enough to cry rape if you threaten her comfy living arraignments by outing her.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 03:32 PM
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It just struck me on the weekend the creepy guy is probably how a beta orbiter looks to a woman to a degree. Maybe women just get so used to the Nice Guy thing; take what you can as an entitlement for gracing them with your friendship. You're close, but a bit off. Vis a vis your situation, the creepy guy would be viewed as a creepy guy. A creepy guy is someone who wants something, but provides no value and shows no potential to do so. A beta orbiter is someone who wants something, but provides v…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 05:11 PM
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Is she ordering for you? No? Then it's because it is no longer the norm for a man to order for his date. It has become the norm for the waiter to take the woman's order first. The waiter sees that you're ready to order, gives the non-verbal cue of turning towards the woman and she starts talking.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 07:25 PM
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I'll be honest and say that I feel shame that my daughter has historically displayed better trigger-discipline than my son. Kids are little learning machines. I let them get into whatever they want as long as they are having fun. About the only time I step in is when one of my wife's social circle tries to interdict my son. Most of them only have girls, so they're not used to the behaviors of a little boy. My wife, raised in a matriarchal household and surrounded by women, used to be freaked out…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 05:43 PM
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the original quote substitutes Treason for "Red Pill" so are you saying that Red pill = Treason? It's just a play on the original quote. In the original, if you go against the government and fail, that's treason. If you go against the government and win, then it's not treason, it's a "glorious revolution" because treason is bad, m'kay? It's the same path with the Red Pill. I've found that if I spit Red Pill Truth, Team Woman is going to try and re-enforce the narrative (Red Pill is bad, m'kay?) …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 03:21 PM
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The Red Pill doth not prosper, for if it prospers none dare call it The Red Pill. Blue-Pillers have worked hard for years to establish the narrative that the Red Pill is a poisonous one, and it's taken root. Unfortunately for them, if you don't mention RP, the blupes have a much harder time dissuading people from paying attention, because most RP is, at it's heart, plain-old, common-sense good advice. This has trickled-down into BP strongholds. In 2012, advising choreplay was all the rage. The A…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 11:50 PM
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You're leaving out one important part: he's making money off of telling the world that his wife admitted to him that she got double-penetrated by two seven-foot-tall black athletes.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 08:45 PM
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If Bill Burr found himself in the idealized RP marriage he'd blow his own head off within six months. Everything about the guy suggests that he loves a good dust-up. He needs to fight, he craves vicious (but not malicious) banter. He probably looks forward to the verbal sparring that comes from shit-tests as much as the average joe looks forward to his next blow-job. I've no clue what their marriage is actually like, but I'm guessing that she likes a good verbal knife-fight, feeds him energy wit…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 08:40 PM
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Ah, the hypocrisy. Everyone checks out the opposite sex. It's just that women have better peripheral vision than men do, so it's easier for them to get away with it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:02 PM
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Ok, first, /brohug, you're in a shitty situation. Second, you're a fucking dumb-ass. Jan 1st my[27] wife[28] left for 7 months, Jan 2nd I discovered TRP. Devoured it and began implementing immediately. She only returned because of my transformation, Sounds like she separated because she wanted to test-drive someone else. She returned because he didn't knuckle under when she showed her true self. I phrased her shit tests as needling because it is distinctly different to the shit tests my married …
/r/askMRP05/12/15 12:33 AM
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As soon as he "fails" her he'll be blamed for ruining her relationship with her mother.
/r/askMRP05/12/15 12:09 AM
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Abandoning the kids is kind of a moot point, considering how most women dont allow visitation(even if they are suppose to) I haven't seen this. The few divorced men I've talked with have had access to their children. Sure, not as much as they'd like, but usually 50/50. Even if you're not allowed to see them, you're not paying money for visitation, you're paying money to provide for their well-being. Since you can't be their full-time guardian (fuck you, State) dollars will have to do. Even if I …
/r/askTRP04/12/15 07:34 PM
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I am amused that the article is in the "Business" section.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 05:59 PM
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Their policy makes perfect sense and everyone but OP adhered to it. It's most likely that because he was the only one to violate the rule that he got so much flak for it. Everyone obeyed and then he rolled in like a special snowflake and pissed off everyone who had wanted to bring their SO, but didn't because they obeyed the rules. You know who doesn't have to obey the rules at functions like this? Important People. Why? Because they usually are the ones that make the rules. That's why the COO d…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:49 PM
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She left looking for beta comfort. For whatever reason that didn't work out and you are her unspoken Plan B, but she wants her Plan B to provide beta comfort so she's probing to see if you'll provide it. I've been married for a long time, and I've never spun plates, so I'm hoping that a spinner who knows this ins and outs can chime in here, but I think that, at this time, you should you soft re-next her. She nexted you for beta. She's looking for beta right now. Until she gets her fill of beta a…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 05:11 PM
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Can anyone elaborate on why no using smileys / emoticons and haha or lols? They are at best viewed as vapid communication. Sent alone, they show a willingness to gain their favor, but with little or no effort to actually do so. Lol, used with other words, turns a direct communication into a cardboard caricature of itself. There is no depth to it's meaning, it is trite and boring.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 06:58 PM
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My daughter said to me that mommey told her she cant get divorced because we are too poor, she also said to my daughter that she still loves me. Wow, that's some serious hamster-speak. she cant get divorced because we are too poor Translation: Whomever files for divorce is a very, very bad person and you should blame that person for whatever hardships you(daughter) have after that person files for divorce. It's not going to be me, because I would never hurt you, but seriously, blame that person …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 06:26 PM
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She's testing you dude!!! You're not getting it. Stop being passive & a "victim" & decide what you want. It's not a test, it's a loyalty shift. By telling him it's over (and telling her friends and coworkers) she's attempting to avoid judgement when she sleeps with someone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 04:16 PM
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If you don't mind telling us, how old is she? She never has had friends in the 15years of marriage. All other things being equal, this a red flag in and of itself. In the context of the rest of your post it suggests that she's a lonely person. I'd guess that once she gained her friends, she would be desperate to fit in and scared of losing them. She has been pulling away for over a year and has made new girlfriends, most are divorced. ...and these are the friends she's made. I wonder how she'll …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 04:13 PM
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What he is doing, is it a cancer I need to address or is it pretty harmless and she's just romanticizing it? She's mentally shit-canned your marriage and is looking for someone to take care of her so she can leave you. <--Not sure if she deleted texts but I don't know if they entertained the idea of her moving to be with him or something. She would have deleted all of these texts if she was doing any form of OpSec. Then she said, 'Well no paperwork has been filed and time is ticking. I'm late 30…
/r/askMRP02/12/15 11:21 PM
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Also how is it not cheating on her bf because she slept with him (her ex) already? She's not nuts, just entitled. I'm of the mind that women generally tell the twuth. Twue |tWōō| noun: in accordance with a woman's feelings at that moment Twuth |tWōōth| noun: that which is twue in accordance with a woman's feelings at that moment At that particular moment, she felt that the OP was her boyfriend. Why? Because doing so allowed her justify her actions and avoid internal judgement. Feelings => Decisi…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 04:42 PM
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You're in college so... spirituality and meditation: head over to the religious studies department and talk to one of the professors during their office hours. yoga: head over to the phys ed dept and talk to a professor or check out their bulletin boards. lifting: Gym. Go. Lift. Talk to bros, but not too much. Gym for lifting. women: ... self-development: too vague guitar: Music dept. Check the bulletin boards or talk to a professor. If it ain't there, start it yourself: go back and post flyers …
/r/askTRP02/12/15 03:56 PM
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From Shit My Dad says: Let women figure out why they won't screw you, don't do it for them.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 06:10 PM
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Can't find it, but in TRP there was a lawyer suggesting that a judge can see this in a negative light. Over the years I've seen this stated a few times. Right off of the bat, you look like a conniving shit-weasel to the judge.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/15 05:05 PM
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I'm of the mind that women love stability in their man. They can't get enough of it. A stable man is generally organized, non-violent to her and her possessions (family, children, pets, etc,) and has the potential to be prosperous. What women despise in their man is complacency. In the past, a man who sat on his fat ass all day would be the guy who didn't stop the tiger from killing her children, or he'd be the guy who didn't harvest the crops in time and opened the family up to starvation and s…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:13 PM
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You come off as butt-hurt and wishing to punish her. Your focus is on how to correct her actions. Let that go. Trying to control other people actually gives them control over you. You want her gone. Let her be gone. Trying to punish her for something so trivial (it's trivial because she's a plate) is a waste of your resources.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 02:47 PM
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Hypergamy. She didn't leave him because he wouldn't sex her up. She left him because he's a former NFL quarterback. She has the SMV and social status to get a man at the top of his game. Why should she settle for someone who's been shown the door? The "lack of sex" reason is just genius. Every man who pursues her for her SMV and social status is going to be thinking that she's not a slut (because she waited) and that if he's good enough, she's going to fuck him into the mattress (because she wai…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 06:19 PM
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She told me that Sshe broke up with this guy 5 months ago and he still calls her daily and texts her and she doesn't respond. What's the best course of action? Keep away from her. Why? Don't ask me why she hasn't blocked him. If she hasn't blocked him, then odds are she still talks to him. Why? Because she likes the attention she gets from courting crazy. While girl-crazy will slash your tires, guy-crazy will slash your throat. Stay away from crazy.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 04:39 PM
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SMV doesn't have much pull in these cases. SMV is one facet of a man's value to a women. I'm of the opinion that, when it comes to branch swinging, a woman is going to be looking for a guy who corrects the deficiencies of her current relationship. She's looking to solve her problem, which is that something is lacking in her relationship, while assuming that she will suffer no loss in the benefits that she receives in her current one. She may feel that she'll have all of those needs met in the ne…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 10:01 PM
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They don't understand how logic and reason work, but they understand it enough to use basic shaming tactics and when to switch from appealing to people's emotions. I love it when sentences have depth and in this case, the depth is tied one word: work. You used the word in one way that was intended to support your point, but at the same time it supports that you are wrong. How do reason and logic work for you? I've no clue... well I have a clue I'm just not going to go into it. But I'll tell you …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:41 PM
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After a few minutes of chit chat she says "ok, I'm going to bed". Earlier she was talking about wanting to fuck, now she says she's going to bed. I go over to her and say "ok, good night babe" squeeze her ass , and give her a hug. She puts her arm around me and starts saying something. I kiss her then I keep moving to leave the bed and she says "where are you going?" I tell her to the family room to watch tv. She's shocked that I am not sticking around to force her to fuck me. She says ok in a s…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 04:04 PM
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They're twisting his words, not because they believe what he said about ISIS, but that he committed the mortal sin of pointing out what privileges women have in today's (western)society. I feel like a broken record every time I write this, but I see it in action on a daily basis: When a woman sees that you're successfully utilizing a tactic against her, she will attack your use of that tactic. In this case, Adams' is spreading information that is counter to the FI's narrative. Worse, he's doing …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 03:15 PM
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Adam's isn't conforming to their social narrative, therefore he's a target. Because he is a cartoonist, he is viewed as a soft target.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 02:36 PM
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Meh, she came into the den and said that to you because she felt powerful from believing that she controlled the sex. She could refuse you sex at will and she could make you come crawling back for the sex too. What else could you do? Well, she just learned that "what else" included your tossing her ego into a verbal blender and then setting fire to it. All other thing being equal, she's learned that when she overtly fucks with you it's going to be painful.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 09:22 PM
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And they don't expect a roof and a chicken; they want steak in a McMansion. They want a lifestyle at least comparable to, but preferably better than their social peers. If everyone else just has a roof and a chicken, they'll be cool with having a roof and a chicken. They may angle for trading you in for a guy with a roof and three chickens. They want +1. This is why social media is destroying their happiness. Their peers are posting their highlight-reels. Your average woman sees this, but they a…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 04:40 PM
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Girls probably want to join the Boy Scouts because of what the Boy Scouts offers: a chance to have fun. Personally, if that was the end of it, I wouldn't mind. Before puberty hits, most girls can go toe-to-toe with boys, at least on the physical side. On the mental side of things, those girls that wouldn't want to do such things would self-select out of joining in the first place. Then why is it a bad idea? Because of the parents. Parents always bring in their adult bullshit baggage and fuck thi…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:16 PM
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Monique Junot: I figured if we had nothing to say to each other he would get bored; go away. But instead he uses it as an excuse to put his testicles all over me. Lane Myer: Excuse me? Monique Junot: You know, like octopus? Testicles? Lane Myer: Ohhhh. Tentacles. N-T. Tentacles; big Difference.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 12:32 AM
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I'll kick that out to the group. What reasons have girls given you for having a high number? I'll start it off with, "I was in a bad place at that time of my life." Red Flag: She feels bad -> she uses sex with multiple guys to feel better. What do you think will happen if you LTR her and you (eventually) go through a rough patch?
/r/askTRP21/11/15 12:27 AM
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If you don't have time to read a book, what makes you think you have time to date?
/r/askTRP21/11/15 12:23 AM
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She has cheated in the past, she has an addictive personality sexually and otherwise. I see so many successful marriages with kids, how do I get one? Step one is to avoid someone with the red flags from the first quote. I'm of the opinion that someone having a high number isn't cause for disqualifying them in and of itself. What will raise the red flag will be the reasons they have for having such a high number.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 12:17 AM
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Heh, this discussion could have just turned meta. People don't like your main's posts on /r/theredpill?
/r/askTRP20/11/15 11:21 PM
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It ain't over until you're in the ground.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 06:27 PM
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Reasons for the dump. Had financial (child support) hardship 8 months ago. I had to stop socializing and spending. she didn't like this, took a all inclusive Caribbean vacation with her daughter and friends, and I had to take a second job. 4 months later, says she wants "more." Gone, baby, gone. What? Why are you pissed? You should be fucking celebrating. She showed her colors before she completely destroyed you.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 06:04 PM
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You're assuming they're using the same communication style as you are. A rational thinker is going to communicate their thoughts consistently over time. Their statements will line up with facts and evidence. If their statements change, it is because the facts have changed, they were wrong before, they are wrong later, or they are working an angle, i.e. lying. "Rational" is the key word. (rational: based on or in accordance with reason or logic.) Men, being primary logical thinkers, usually base …
/r/askTRP20/11/15 05:57 PM
3

She may be into you, but sucks at throwing IOIs your way. You're her Plan B or C guy. She wants to make sure you're always available. You're not available if you're someone else's guy. She wasn't fucking with you, she was fucking with the other girl. She, consciously or subconsciously, views you as "hers." She may want your attention, but only when you're giving it to a competitor. She sees you as a brother/orbiter and may not have liked either girl, so she decided that you were too good for the…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 04:06 PM
7

You've supplied almost nothing in the way of details. Because of this, any advice you get is going to be hit-or-miss.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 03:26 PM
2

Internally, they've made a decision: to not take the blame for making the decision if it goes bad. A woman's shield is plausible deniability. It's a smart move to only give up that shield when they absolutely have to.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:14 PM
3

No noticeable drop in T that I've experienced. No change that I've noticed. In my social circle, every wife whose husband has undergone the procedure talks smugly about it. I could speculate why, but I honestly have no frame of reference, and I wouldn't expect an honest answer from them if I asked. So there's that. Athol Kay has said that some women become disgusted when their man has a vasectomy. They don't know beforehand, it's just some subconscious thing that kicks in when their man can no l…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 04:38 PM
2

When a woman finds that a man is successfully utilizing a tactic against her, she will attack his use of that tactic.
/r/askMRP19/11/15 03:14 PM
3

Well, since no one liked "K" as a response, how about the old Chateau Heartiste classic: "gay" Edit: btw it's a shit-test. She's trying to see how invested you are in addition to how much she's able to influence you.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 03:08 PM
-1

K
/r/askTRP19/11/15 07:03 AM
2

Her finding out you "do trp" can hurt your credibility and make things harder for you. She'll use it as leverage against you. She'll also use it to gain social currency with her peers. The funny thing is that if you've improved yourself, your relationship with her, and your family's well-being, she'll use the info more as entertainment than to gain sympathy or to turn people against you. Women are the more pragmatic sex. They're not going to nuke a beneficial relationship unless it really, reall…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 08:55 PM
3

He roofied women often enough for it to become unspoken common knowledge in Hollywood.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 08:38 PM
43

Scott Adams has been saying whatever the fuck he wants for years now. He's also been able to defend his opinions eloquently enough that he's gotten away with it.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 08:36 PM
1

You handled it well. You interdicted her and then held your frame. Your son saw his father protect him without having to go apeshit aggressive. If you walk into a situation in which your wife is in a dominance engagement with your son, she's going to stay in a dominance engagement mindset. Once she becomes angry, her feels take over and she just wants to win. It doesn't matter whom she prevails over, she just wants to win. When you entered, she switched her focus from her son to you. You did a g…
/r/askMRP18/11/15 06:13 PM
5

Men won't act collectively. There will be no beta uprising. People will always act in their own best interests, more or less. A beta uprising will be led by an Alpha and it will be meant as a vehicle for the Alpha to achieve whatever it is that he wants. The problem for the Alpha is that interesting things happen when a wolf gets the sheep all riled up.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 04:48 PM
1

If she's cheating on you, she'll shrug, you two get divorced, but that's where you were heading anyway. Now you know. This applies if the OP is providing nothing that the wife wants in her day-to-day life or if her affair partner is a substantial upgrade whom she thinks she can get to commit. If she's not, she'll realize she completely misjudged you, lose her shit, and start freaking out on you. There are many reasons for her to act this way even if she has an affair partner. Personally, I think…
/r/askMRP18/11/15 04:22 PM
1

Do whatever keeps you progressing and motivated.
/r/askMRP18/11/15 03:51 PM
0

Blowjobs seem to be considered a measure of relationship success around here. They're considered as such because BJ frequency usually declines in LTRs. Normally the reason is A) She's sore from me pounding her or B) She hasn't taken a shower. RP taught me she'll only blow me if I really turn her on - if she's so turned on why would she let these obstacles get in the way of being fucked? Giving BJs is a mate-retention tactic. Her pleasure in the act comes from knowing that she's giving you pleasu…
/r/askMRP17/11/15 06:57 PM
6

She tossed that line out there as a bit of flirting. She may have no intention of wearing them tonight, but at that moment, she was flirting with you. So.... return the favor. Hanging the decorations that require the ladder takes twenty minutes? Do you own an overcoat? Tell her she has to wear the lingerie, and nothing else, under the overcoat, outside, while you go get the ladder and hang the decorations. Tell her she gets bonus points if she flashes you when no one is looking. At worst, you're…
/r/askMRP17/11/15 06:46 PM
8

he just tells me that I don't understand a complicated scenario. Tell your dad that you and your brother know and that it's OK. Then forgive him for whatever he admits. (He's gay, btw.) Then tell him that you'll love him no matter what and that he should stop letting his wife blackmail him.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 06:32 PM
3

Men usually need a reason, however flimsy, to congregate. This is why men's clubs used to exist. If a stranger rolls up on me out of the blue and is all chummy, I usually think he's selling something.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 03:13 PM
1

Go find an un-cropped photo of that page. What's the female model looking at? A male model tied up in wrapping paper. Based on visual evidence, out of the three models on the page, which one had their eggnog spiked? Exactly: the model on the far right. He looks like he's fucking boring to be around and the other two were just trying to get him to loosen up. The other two laughed, he cried, and then he threw his 5-year AA chit into the trash and proceeded to go on a 3 day bender that ended with h…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:07 PM
27

The lion does not like to work hard & he won't. He'll let the women kill each other. Woman, Discovery Channel, DO YOU WATCH IT? Lions aren't there to fuck up prey, they're there to fuck up other predators. Where are the lionesses when these predators come in? They're watching from the fucking sidelines while the lion takes care of business. He does not like to share, he will be the first of his boys to have sex with you & he won’t be back for seconds. Wow... just wow. If you're going to fuck eve…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 07:21 PM
6

Meh. Women use men as agents to advance their own interests. At some point, fucking over the men will result in their harming themselves. Women will then push back against the narrative, not because it is the right thing to do, or because they believe that it is harmful to men, but because their man is being harmed, and thus they are being harmed. In addition to this, there is a point at which men will say, "Fuck it, because if no one cares for me and I have nothing left to lose, then I will fig…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:12 PM
7

The book that is going to make a mint is the one that yokes TRP values to women's self-interest and does it in such a way that it flanks the feminists' "Errrmerrrgerrrd 1950's!" invective.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 06:45 PM
9

Is it a myth/convenient excuse for fucking the wrong people or what? Not a myth. I've done it a few times in my life. Because if it was possible to lose consciousness while still functioning normally, that would have huge philosophical implications on the notions of free will, responsibility, agency and such. Nope, we're all machines. Someone on ELI5 explained it once. IIRC, the hippocampus is the brain's DVR. You experience things, it goes to the DVR and then whatever shit is "important" enough…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:58 PM
8

Instead of letting me handle it, she does it the night before and gets mad at me. That's a dominance play. She wants to show you that she she thinks you're ineffective. She then creates a situation where she can blame you and you can't prove otherwise. So Choo-choo motherfucker, here comes the Blame Train! Her taking away your choice also gives you plausible deniability. She can't prove you wouldn't take out the trash. You can't prove you would. Don't argue her point or your point, that's where …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 05:50 PM
5

It's like dating a pornstar/prostitute but even worst narcissistic cop whose sister is the DA and brother owns all of the local news outlets. Sooner or later you're going to take a beating, and there is nothing anyone can do about it. Edit: Read the article, her ex deserved that beating.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 03:16 PM
2

I don't think it's actually how she views you. It's just the rationalization she uses to allow herself to act the way she wants to act towards you. If you're a "good husband that is trying to do his best for his family" then, when she acts like an insufferable bitch, she's just being an insufferable bitch. But if you're an "abusive asshole," then when she acts like an insufferable bitch, she's actually being an "abused woman defiantly standing up for her principles."
/r/askMRP10/11/15 06:25 PM
1

These are the people she's complaining to. Don't worry about what they think, she's already painted you as an infantile asshole to them. Moreover, these women may not be as "concerned" as they appear, they may just be needling your wife now that she's obviously lost control of you. i.e. jockeying for position within their social circle.
/r/askMRP10/11/15 03:16 PM
2

Yeah, but they don't kick your ass out of the Navy if you fail Buds, do they?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 02:45 PM
1

A Kardashian by any other name...
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 02:44 PM
6

How is that manipulation? The advice I give to both men and women is: You're the prize. She's acting as if she's the prize. You should be acting as if you're the prize. Enjoy your turn.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:56 PM
28

Gah, just abstract it out: She cheats because she wants to. Feeling => Decision => Rationalization The "reason" comes last and it is usually tailored to whatever audience is asking for the "reason" at that particular time.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 03:35 PM
1

Most of them own their husband outright and say things like " I'll have him bring the kids to practice" Ooooh, so close. What I used to hear all of the time is "I'll let him do <chore>." The women in my circle now know better to say this in my presence, as I refuse their kind "offer" and "let" them do it themselves. Tingles must be provided, if not by you then by me. Or someone just like me. Tingles don't keep the cads away, it's fear. Fear of judgement, fear of loss of status or possessions, fe…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 03:31 PM
1

If she wasn't carrying anything else then she can carry her own damned bag. If you allow yourself to be treated like a servant often enough, you'll eventually be viewed as a servant. That being said, if she doesn't usually ask this of you and she had a lot of other things to carry, or if she had a particularly bad day, then there's nothing wrong with offering the occasional beta comfort.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:41 PM
1

Yup, low-level shit test to see if you're the compliant type.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:34 PM
4

Alternate titles to the article: When 4's Get Married Everyone's Options Are Limited My Husband Married the First Woman He Had Sex With To Get Out Of His Mother's House Are You a Professional Blogger? Marry an Autistic Man For Stability How I Found True Love After I Learned That Even My Doormat of a Husband Has Other Options: One Woman's Journey I Have Borderline Personality Disorder, But I'm Not Going to Come Right Out and Say It Ladies: Did You Know That If You Don't Treat Your Husband Like Sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 03:50 AM
3

Full-court press on getting her into treatment for vaginismus. If she's had it for any length of time then sex = pain for her. That's an incredibly damaging association for her to have if you both want a healthy sex-life.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 03:23 AM
30

Him: "Here's the milk babe. Hey, what's that sound?" Her: "Oh, that's just me moving the goal-posts."
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 10:50 PM
1

Ah, leave it. That's right up there with "Cellar Door."
/r/askTRP05/11/15 10:48 PM
9

"Hi! I'm a stranger on the street with a camera asking you a question that, when answered, could open you up to adverse judgement from your husband/boyfriend, loved ones, friends, enemies, and strangers alike. The video will then be placed online, where anyone, at any time in the future, could then use your answer to harm you. Please answer honestly."
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 10:40 PM
6

If her reputation is about to destroyed, why not try a Hail-Mary Pass and see if it pays off? I mean, it's all hypothetical, but the foundation for every part of her play has already been laid. There are stories documenting controlling and abusive boyfriends. There are stories documenting "creepy" guys using hidden cameras to spy on unsuspecting women. There are stories documenting women turning the tables on their oppressors. So why not fabricate a story you know will have a receptive audience?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 09:47 PM
4

Gentlemen if there's any resistance just tell them even a feminist says to "put out" not for your benefit but for theirs. "A wife having sex with her husband for his sake is demeaning. Having such behavior become socially acceptable is damaging to the progress women have made through the decades." This narrative was planted long ago and it's roots have become strong. In non-religious circles, women who go against this narrative are judged and they are judged harshly. I've been noticing a few art…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 08:37 PM
14

You get back from vacation and show her the gentler clip of them kissing. Her predictable response: "He kissed me, it was just a kiss! Nothing more happened! Why won't you believe me?! We just kissed! I'm getting sick and tired of your accusations I don't need this!" [She reframes herself as a victim yet again, emphasises how "spying on her" is wrong and completely overlooks the fact she's cheating. Will attempt to guilt trip you into feeling like a piece of shit for spying on her, the fact you …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 06:01 PM
1

Refusing to be her verbal punching bag isn't treating her like shit, it's enforcing boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:33 PM
2

Dammit, re-reading OP's post, I can say he did a decent job. In the first instance she sensed he was in a degraded state and made a run at him. It was a shit-test. She wanted him to act according to her wishes when doing so would be against his interests. "You want to do X, I want you do to Y, even though it's obvious that you should be doing X. What's it gonna be?" His response basically said, "I recognize exactly what you're trying to do. It's obvious, it's bad, and you should feel bad for try…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:38 AM
1

Everyone else has the "She's done something wrong" angle handled, so I'll go the other way. You've been together for six years. If she's stayed with you while you were very overweight and BP, then you're either bringing a ton of BB to the table or else she doesn't think she can do better. Remember, you two aren't married. If she could have traded up earlier, odds are she would have. So while you think you now have an equal SMV to your fiancee, odds are she thinks you've pulled ahead. If she coul…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 09:38 PM
12

Maybe add, "No, you misunderstood me. I didn't insult you" Everything in that sentence plays into her hands. "No": an overt refutation. She can now go to Victim if she wishes. She can validly continue/escalate the argument based on conflict. "You misunderstood me.": "You" language. She can now maneuver and claim that you're telling her what she has to think. That your way of viewing the events is the only way. Mansplaining 101. "I didn't insult you.": The same as the above, but including the emo…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 02:58 PM
9

In this case, she really felt that way, and he really made her feel that way. That's the beauty of emotional arguments, we don't know if that is actually the case. She could have said that to create a Victim Shield as cover for when she made a run at the OP.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 02:44 PM
9

Total. 9/10ths. Loss. Of. Frame. You can do better than that. Edit: She saw you in a weakened state and went after you.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 02:35 PM
25

I'll make a note to keep an eye out for AllenP89 in deadbedrooms next year. His post will follow the usual pattern: "Known each other for 8 years, married for 1, DB for 2. She said it'd get better after we were married. What happened?"
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 02:07 PM
2

"You don't care about anyone but yourself" If you only hear this sporadically, from certain people in certain situations, particularly where these people are trying to get you to act against your own best interests, then I don't think you have much to worry about. If you are hearing this frequently from a lot of people, and not in response to specific circumstances, but in general, then maybe some introspection is warranted.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 08:48 PM
1

I asked her today, do you have a list in your head of what you find attractive to you as a female? She looked at me dumbfounded and couldn't understand what I was asking. She even got kinda mad that I am "over analyzing". I am beginning to realize that it is true what they say. Women don't think logically. Her response was completely logical. You asked a direct question that required a direct answer. She knew that it was not in her best interests to give you one, so she evaded the question. If a…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 08:35 PM
2

I wonder if it really is THAT blue-pill of those guys that stay for the sake of getting to see their children every day and end up eventually forgiving their whore wives... If it were that simple, I'd see no problem with staying. Let's say that you were the living, breathing, definition of a fuck-up. You became this fuck-up after you married. Your wife feels that she's been bait-and-switched, but gives it the old college try for her kids. Day in, day out, she's giving it her yall and you're fuck…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:06 PM
2

Feels => Decision => Rationalization She felt he was a chump. She decided to categorize him as a chump. She rationalized his helping those kids made him a chump. Edit: Gah, too many variables. That and the local ABC store finally restocked Blanton's (glug, glug, glug) is throwing off my cognition. I re-iterate that my first two points are spot on. The third: rationalization is... open to refutation. So she felt he was a chump, decided that he was chump, but the rationalization is only conveyed b…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 01:47 AM
1

The human capacity for empathy is one of the qualities that put us at the top of the food chain.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 01:37 AM
-1

"bow chica wow wow"
/r/askTRP30/10/15 11:02 PM
1

That'd be a good reason to check. Trashing you to her family or girlfriends is her looking for validation. Trashing you to a man is broadcasting to them that she may be open to having a +1 in her life.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 06:09 PM
11

Show of hands, how many people think that a significant portion of these outraged indignation posts are from guerrilla marketing firms? Why the link? Why are we giving these people revenue? OK, that being said, I didn't click on the link here. I clicked on the link that the cosmo intern posted in TwoX last night. This article is designed to socialize the concept that it's OK for a woman not to spend the night. You're there to fuck him. Once you get what you want no further association is needed.…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 03:12 PM
5

Lines up nicely with Rollo's Open Hypergamy predictions.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 02:47 PM
2

Fear. Outrage. Indignation. Revenge. Pity. Compassion. The Guardian is a business and feels sell. Recognize when you're being manipulated. Whenever someone is telling you to conform or to not conform to a standard that is defined by an ambiguous set of terms, recognize that you're being manipulated. "They" do it all of the time. "We" do it also. Neo: Why do my eyes hurt? Morpheus: You've never used them before. Edit: mixed up standard and term
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 02:44 PM
4

Yes, his girlfriend mandated that they visit her family. That's why he left. The guilt he is feeling is not his fault at all, it's his girlfriend's. Oh the little lies we tell ourselves to get through the day. Edit: spelling
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 02:26 PM
1

Every time Jack gives Jacob shit, Jacob either ignores him or tells Jack he is willing to fight him, but nothing has ever come of it, and so the bullying continues. Well, it sounds like Jacob is handling it all on his own. Jack knows that Jacob is a safe target. He knows where Jacob's "line in the sand" is and he makes sure not to cross it. Bully's like victims that won't fight back. If Jacob, or you, want Jack to back off, you'll have to provide some disincentives. Possibilities include: Jacob …
/r/askTRP30/10/15 02:20 PM
3

OP clarifies it in a later post. He opened the door. Point blank, he opened himself up to those accusations.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:49 PM
2

Next thing I know it's 2am and the wife is waking me up. She wants to talk about me being deceitful and not being upfront with her. Now I'm sure most of the vets here would have just laughed at that and gone right back to sleep. Me being groggy and confused I begin to engage. That's called a psychic ambush.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 10:19 PM
2

I think it'd increase your MMV (Marriage Market Value) which provides incentive to the woman to switch from her short-game to her long-game. In her short-game, she has a lower set of standards for both you and herself. She will overlook glaring defects as long as you provide what she's looking for: entertainment(sex.) She is may do things with a short-term partner that she'd never do with a BB, because she doesn't fear being judged. You're disposable. But if she tags you as BB, then she's going …
/r/askTRP29/10/15 07:28 PM
1

He's constantly making songs about how he yearns for woman. KYC
/r/askTRP29/10/15 05:14 PM
16

She went out of her way to advertise that she attracted high quality men. Those high quality men were spinning her as a plate. The Cheapskate was weeded out because he violated a covert contract that she had. Her covert contract was along the lines of "If I invest in X, then you will invest in Y." Historically in male-female courtship, Y is usually quite a bit more than X. When she saw that he was frugal, he indicated that he wouldn't give a good return on her investment so she ditched him. In t…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 04:42 PM
1

Pleae, define posturing and give some examples.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:38 PM
2

This: I agree I am 3 out 10 in terms of looks. Means that this: I go to bars on weekends and wait for IoIs from girls. is going to be fruitless. Looks. Do. Matter. If your looks are not the best, that means you have to make every effort to increase your SMV in other areas: dress better, be interesting to be around, etc. Basically if you don't have good looks you need to have higher social status and combine it with confidence. You need to give the girl a reason to look past your looks. The cool …
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:03 PM
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She would look over at me, roll her eyes, and make a gun to her head gesture. All while she is saying sorry to him for his loss. I saw she didnt give a fuck, as she was laying on top of me while they spoke. She gave a fuck. If she didn't she would not have answered the phone. She was making those gestures to show you that she's on your side. (She's not.) If she was physically with her boyfriend she'd be acting in such a way to show that she's on his side. (She's not.) She's with her boyfriend be…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 05:34 PM
1

Heh, she was conflicted. She knew that it was her responsibility to be on time, but felt that you had some part of the blame too. She wanted to see if you'd let her off of the hook by apologizing, and thusly assuming all of the blame.
/r/askMRP28/10/15 02:34 PM
4

I have access to her phone and she knows it. That's when they google "He has access to my phone" and they learn about burner phones and secondary email accounts. I'm not saying that she's cheating. It's just that if she knows you're watching her, there is a ton of information out there on how to avoid detection.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 02:15 AM
7

They are questioning more and starting to call out double standards and hypocrisy. Truth will out. What is interesting there has not been blow back from the Feminists or SJWs, at least not yet. The Red Pill provides a nice, convenient, easily identifiable wrapper to all of the information and strategies that can counter the tactics of their sexual strategy. It is, point blank, a godsend to the SJWs. They work very, very hard at associating information and tactics that are effective with the conc…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:04 PM
1

Lessons Learned: The Internet is "Today." Did some stupid shit ten years ago and someone finds an archive: it happened TODAY. That stupid shit you say to your friends when no one is listening? Everyone does it. No one else is listening. That stupid shit you post on social media? That's like shouting it out in a packed auditorium. Everyone is listening. Odds are somebody is going to have an axe to grind. Don't do it. Social shaming is effective. Remember this about the story, they both used the s…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:59 PM
6

Everything about your post screams that your current place of employment is complete shit. Your goal should be to make it to six months of employment and then look for another job with higher pay. When interviewing, don't complain about your current employers. When you get a better job and conduct your exit interview, don't complain about your time there. Telling it how it is won't unfuck their management and you could open yourself up to retaliation.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 07:04 PM
1

Bonus story: When I found TRP last summer, my father was trying to convince me not going to the gym. He claimed that it was for economical reasons, however I was paying myself from money I earned myself. He then went on about how working out is for people with self esteem issues, for people without a brain etc. I have no idea why he is tried to stop me but not listening to him made me feel like my own man and was probably better for me in the long run, but it's still sad that my father of all pe…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 03:01 PM
1

Poe's Law, when you recognize the truth, but that truth is so fucked up as to be indistinguishable from parody.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 02:41 PM
1

How to give flowers? Send them to her work. Put on the card that she has to tell a different story to each co-worker for why you sent them, a 'la Heth Ledger's "You wanna know how I got these scars?" bit from The Dark Knight. Then ask her what she told people at the end of the day. Enjoy the stories if she did as she asked, tease her lightly if she didn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 02:33 PM
1

Thanks for the tip on the book. Just ordered it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 04:34 PM
5

You could be unconsciously selecting women who are more prone to do this. You may be fitting some profile that queues women to see you as BB. You could be "fighting out of your weight class," either up or down. A higher would be on the BB part of the AF/BB roller-coaster, sees you as comfortable and also very good in bed... you'll do for now. When you decline, she leaves to find her chump. A lower would see you as the best she's going to get. So she wants to lock you down before you realize you …
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:25 PM
1

In my case I need tunes for running. Running is boring. My mind has nothing to do other than pay attention to the distress signals my body is reporting. I've found that I run faster for longer distances when I'm listening to music. Because my goal is to work my body, I'm going to listen to music. Using them, I'm more effective and it's a more rewarding experience overall. I don't fear my body failing. I know it's going to fail. My fear is that my body will fail in a situation where I really, rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 04:10 PM
1

I advise that you guys try doing the hard cardio minus the tunes. You might find your will falters at the fragility of the body. That's why I bring the friggin' tunes!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 03:15 PM
0

Saw this couple in their late 30s/early 40s. Woman clearly wearing the pants. Every time the guy took something from the shelf the wife looked at him with raised eyebrows and ordered him to put it back. There is absolutely no context for this scene. There is as much possibility that the guy is a fuckup as there is that the woman is a controlling bitch. If the guy is a fuckup, then yes, he should put up with that "bad behavior." In such a case, odds are that that "bad behavior" is the thing keepi…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 02:42 PM
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Based on one of your other replies, I don't think you'll ever be able to "sell" your living arrangements to the type of plates that bailed. Chris Rock dropped some wisdom once, "Women cannot go backwards in lifestyle." These women are that way. Until life absolutely, positively crushes their hopes, they're always going to be hoping to get back into a McMansion. The only angle I can think of would be "I live small to travel abroad." The problem with that being it's a BB strategy. More and more I …
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:12 PM
2

The women in your age range are all looking for provisioning. They're also being ripped to shreds by their McMansion social circle when they let it slip that you live in a trailer.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 01:44 PM
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<All of this is assuming your house doesn't look completely shitty on the outside.> They're looking at you as a BB. I don't think they equate you with being 'poor' as much as thinking, "If things go well, he's going to want me to move into that. What will people thiiiiiiiiiiink!??!" Crap, they probably don't even get that far as thinking about moving in. They probably are hoping no one sees them when they're at your house. The problem with your house is that it's not mainstream. Because of this,…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 01:41 PM
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The idea of a woman getting alimony makes the woman feel good, so it's a good thing. A woman paying alimony makes her feel bad, so it's bad. The fact that the two positions are logically inconsistent and unjust doesn't enter into her thinking. Feelings has nothing to do with it. You're not factoring in solipsism. Say you have a situation where two parties, a man and a woman, have a conflict and are observed by a third party, a woman (observer). The observer, if she doesn't have prior motivation …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:22 PM
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If you walk away and calmly call her out each and every time she acts like a selfish, insufferable cunt she will stop. No she won't. Most likely she'll escalate. This is what she's looking for. She's not acting this way because he tolerates it, she's acting this way because he ACTIVELY REWARDS it. She knows that if she keeps needling him that he's going to break frame and say or do something "hurtful." When he does this, she gets the thrill of experiencing that drama first-hand. She obtains soci…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 04:53 PM
1

Outside of TRP, almost all of the talk I hear of women having an expiration date is from women complaining that society is telling them that they have an expiration date.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 02:37 PM
3

Next week will feature a wife with total control over her husband. Fear, Outrage, and Revenge all sell very well.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 02:26 PM
2

I can't stand how unfair she is, and how she treats me like a character I call "Evil Asshole Monster", as if I'm the worst person in the world. That's just her hamster working the plausible deniability angle. If she can convince herself that you actually are the worst person in the world, then she's justified in treating you horribly. Do I continue as normal and act as if her meltdown doesn't bother me? At an abstract level, this is correct. You need to hold frame. Your strategy may change when …
/r/askMRP21/10/15 06:24 PM
1

Once you figure out the tune she's dancing to, you can change the beat.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 03:32 PM
3

She was trying to position you as the Bad Guy who demands a divorce and walks out on her and the children. That's why she was leading you toward the topic of divorce without overtly stating it. If she can get you to say you want a divorce, then she can tell family and friends (and the kids) that you're the one who wanted a divorce. She then tossed out the implication that you would be the one leaving. Which conveniently leaves her with the house and the children. You dismantled that with your ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 03:24 PM
1

If you don't want to lose muscle, then you at least need to eat more than your minimum on workout days. There are some calculators out there that do "body recomposition" wherein you have different caloric goals for your workout days vs your resting days.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:03 PM
2

"Do you even still love me anymore?" and "Are you cheating on me?.....If there is someone else I need to know so I dont end up looking like a dumbass." She wants to know that she's safe. As long as she feels safe she doesn't have a reason to change. Life is good, queue up the emotional tampon, have some fried chicken and pop that cork on the bottle of wine. I actually asked her last night if she cheating since she asked me and she said "No, Im too fat and ugly". Don't ask that question. Ever. If…
/r/askMRP20/10/15 01:59 PM
1

I'm astounded at the fact that while she seems to be really upset about what is going on she has done absolutely nothing to change herself or the situation. Because she doesn't think that you're cheating. She thinks she still has enough of a hold over you that you'll give up on changing your ways to 'prove' to her that you're not cheating. Also, be very aware that projection is could be a factor here.
/r/askMRP19/10/15 07:26 PM
2

I'm married with children. If I could go back, knowing what I know now, I would change nothing. Because changing anything along the line would mean that almost certainly wouldn't have the children that I have now. If I couldn't have the kids I have, would I still get married? Yes. I would, just not to my current wife. Knowing what I know now, I could make it work, but knowing that I know now means I remember all of the pain that I allowed her put me through. Taking kids out the equation, I would…
/r/askMRP19/10/15 03:41 PM
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I've got fuck all for any practical information, but based on what little you've written I think while that she may have been into you, she dropped some hints that you didn't pick up on and now she's moved on. She may also have just been looking for an orbiter to help her do her homework. She sees that you're not bringing that value to the table so now she's working the other guys. I haven't asked her out because I'm just practicing my convo skills, Then don't make this girl your white whale. So…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:24 PM
2

To them we're service and/or entertainment. If you have your provisioning and service squared away, have established and are defending your boundaries, and she's still shit-testing(not comfort testing) you? That tells me she's looking for entertainment. I would think that if you supplied other avenues of excitement that she would latch on to that for her 'fix' and not go after you as much. The masochist in me could see her addiction as a good thing.* You're going to know exactly when you're disp…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 02:15 PM
2

Anything that regularly involves some form of non-cooperative full-contact sparring. By full-contact sparring I mean sparring where you're trying to land blows that would damage your opponent as opposed to landing blows for "points" which would lead toward optimization for point-scoring in a tournament vs real-world application. This means you're doing your best to punch them in their smug face and they're attempting to do the same thing to you. This doesn't mean you're banging away at full-forc…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 03:48 PM
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No Ego: As a gun owner, you have to be cool-headed, more-so than the police ever have to be. You do not ever run around pretending to be the police while carrying a gun because then, stuff like this can happen. You do not start stuff, act aggressively, flip the bird, roll your eyes, talk smack, or even raise your voice to anyone, ever. A combat instructor (who happened to be Buddhist and a Marine) once said to me: "From now on, when dealing with (ed.) crazy / possibly violent people, you will lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 03:23 PM
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However it works out, you're on the right track.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 01:49 PM
1

but now shes telling me im not there for her emotionally... Someone translated that once, but I can't find it. I think that phrase means that she's looking for more entertainment, not comfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 01:47 PM
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From another post it sounds like she didn't tell him about the crush, he found out through snooping.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 01:44 PM
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Let him work through them. Sometimes it's easier to see your own bullshit when you move them from thoughts in your head to words on paper. Right now it looks like his natural inclination to Next is banging against the perceived sunk cost cumulative value of his marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 01:43 PM
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Possible reasons she didn't say anything: She probably didn't know anything was "missing" until a guy someone came along with something that she didn't even consciously know she was looking for. She did tell you, but she did it extremely subtly, as women tend to do. Many times a high-volume broadcast in womanese is a whisper in guy-language. Underlying both of these points is her need for provisioning. Deep down, she knows that life with you is better than being alone. She's not going to risk go…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 01:37 PM
5

I still miss that dog, but SHE WAS A BURGER WHORE! I thought Walker Texas Ranger was different... and then one day I found seasame seeds in his fur. ADALT
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 01:27 PM
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Married man here, so I wouldn't know, but to the spinners out there, isn't it around 5 or 6 months that the plates usually start pestering for commitment?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 01:39 AM
2

If you have a lot of issues in your marriage, then sex comes last.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 03:03 PM
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The article's goal is to provide justification for a mother shirking her duties and also for her indulging her whims. In addition, it places the role of the father as lesser to that of the SuperMom. Stay inside all day in your pajamas with your kids plopped in front of the TV? Fuggedaboutit, you're a SuperMom. Feel guilty about doing/not doing X, Y, and Z? Fuggedaboutit, you're a SuperMom. Husband wants you to do something? Fuggedaboutit, you're a SuperMom. He doesn't do what you do. Who does th…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 03:02 PM
7

She didn't make a sexual advance, she made a business offer.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:52 PM
7

Is the future going to be total shit? This question has been asked about every new generation. She's throwing all of it up there no matter how much it contradicts. Empowered womyn! No slut shaming! They should not be judged for having sex! Womyn shouldn't be objectified! Magazines and movies exploit womyn! Womyn make less money! Womyn have the right to their bodies! Rape culture is everywhere! Asking permission is sexy!! Womyn aren't in enough prestige colleges! etc. She does this because it "wo…
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:40 PM
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Enh, she's obviously the headliner in that franchise. The only other actors I could name are Donald Sutherland, Jenna Malone, and Woody Harrelson, all of whom have relatively minor roles. Abstractly, if their screen time and importance to the plot is equal, they should get equal pay, but that's not what drives their casting and salary negotiations. An actor or actress is able to command a higher payout because they've been proven to put asses in seats in the theatre RECENTLY. If the actresses ha…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:28 PM
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Understand? I think that they understand. They know that it's not in their best interests to admit these things. Outliers aside, if a woman steps outside of her shield of plausible deniability she either thinks that she "holds all of the cards" in the situation, she is so worked-up that she is caught up in a purely emotional state*, or the benefits of going overt in the moment far outweigh the future protections plausible deniability would provide. * Causing her to disregard her logical side whi…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:13 PM
1

I dated him for 10 months when I thought he was penniless, proof I'm not a fucking gold-digger. No, she was a silver-digger. When she thought he was merely copper she kicked him to the curb.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:07 PM
1

You're in a small-town high school? Somewhere along the line a Queen Bee, an Alpha, or a male/female beta classified you either as unattractive or socially undesirable and the narrative was formed. Unattractive would encapsulate that you have bad social skills (creepy douche-bag,) are not physically handsome, or failed some shit-tests that that guys or girls threw your way. Socially undesirable would mean that you may be "attractive" but there are other factors that make you an untouchable: you'…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 01:33 PM
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She knew what kind of "partying" Jack and I would get up to and she did not want any sluts stealing her man She knew that she'd have a free room and a fun time largely bankrolled by you and Jack. She wanted a separate room for ASD reasons. A large portion of the value she gained from that trip was from sharing her experiences with her friends. Having to explain that she was in a room with two guys could leave her vulnerable to judgement from the herd.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 12:43 PM
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Afterwards she joked that I was jealous and told me to admit it. She said it's actually cute. "There's a difference between jealousy and responding to enemy action." Why would a girl think it's cute? You showed her that you find her valuable. She also probably thought it was cute because: She wasn't interested in the other guy. She was still interested in you. Obvious other-guy was being clumsily obvious. This is considered bad trade-craft by women. So it was a DLV to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 10:58 PM
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The value of male commitment now lies in that which the State cannot extract. She needed his resources, his time, his energy, in order to fulfill her biological imperative to reproduce successfully. Women can get the State to wrest a man's resources from him, but they haven't figured a way to legally harness the other two. One thing I see being ignored is the inherent disincentive to arbitrarily kicking her man to the curb: there will be costs involved. Basically, she knows that if she gets rid …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 10:48 PM
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Are they just stoked to be hanging out with a young alpha? They like knowing that they can get a 29 yo. Because of this, in their minds, they're able to convince themselves that they're just as hot now as they were when they were 29. They want to buy me stuff, cook me dinner, drinks, with seemingly nothing in return. This is how they convince themselves that they're in control of the relationship. In addition, it provides some ASD cover. They're not just looking for some tawdry hookup that may g…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:04 PM
1

Gonna guess BJJ or just about any MMA gym where they'll teach you (at least) the basics.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 03:32 PM
2

Sparring has repeatedly shown me that what I think I'm doing in a session and what I'm actually doing are usually two different things.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 03:13 PM
1

There's nothing like applied reality to challenge abstract misconceptions and lies we tell ourselves. There is something satisfying about telling someone that they're dropping their guard, hearing them categorically state that they are not doing so, and then seconds later presenting them with "empirical evidence" that proves them wrong.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 03:08 PM
6

Rick just wants him around for his <ahem> Morty-waves.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:10 PM
2

A misconception of that sub is that it's purpose is to fix your deadbedroom. It's not, it's purpose is to provide it's users solace and a space to tell their story. People in a DB don't talk about it with others. It's usually TMI to discuss in your average friendship. It's creation was a godsend for me. I learned that I wasn't alone. That there were others out there with the same problem and that there were similar patterns present within those DBs. It was through that sub that I learned about N…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 01:09 PM
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The other guy's high SMV is just icing on the cake. She's doing it for "reasons." Whether the guy is hotter may factor in, but odds are it's just one reason among many.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:43 PM
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But isn't this such a female move? Actually it seems like the "Tit for Tat" strategy. She's playing the same game that the people across the aisle are and she's doing it for the same reasons: rile up the base.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:40 PM
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Once she got his dick inside her (he could have been on drugs or passed out sleeping, only waking up part way through it) he could have wanted to beat the shit out of her, but then it would just look like he had raped her. Now he knows he is powerless and the law is already tilted heavily against black males, and the woman who just raped him can further use the system to victimize him twofold. I've seen this in a few other male-rape survivor stories. They're told that if they resist and people c…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:36 PM
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A man's rape is far worse than a woman's during and after. All your points are valid and I'll add one more: A man can get raped and then be forced by the State to finance the care of the resultant child.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:34 PM
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It looks like his friend posted it on Facebook to cash in on some social currency.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:30 PM
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I'm going to guess that woman is not socially and/or physically attractive.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:26 PM
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The other guy laughed because the story sent the group into "uncharted waters" so to speak. He didn't know how to respond in a group-acceptable manner. Taking it too seriously could lead to a loss of social status if the guy telling the story was laying it out there as an ambush. So he did the safest thing he could do with the info he had: he made light of it. I'd like to think that he calmed down once the camera was off and his friend stopped giving mixed signals such as smiling and nervously l…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:23 PM
2

I flipped the genders and laughed.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:12 PM
1

Getting caught in "Woulda, Coulda, Shouda" thinking is living in the past. If you're living in the past you're not looking to the future. If that regret is your sometimes-cookie, then use the resultant anger over past deficiencies as a motivation to take an honest inventory over how you are now and use that to improve yourself going forward.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:18 PM
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If they're alphas why are they sleeping with girls below them? That seems desperate not alpha. Higher chance of success. A male '8' will have to work harder to get a female '8' who is being approached by male 7-8-9s. If he goes after a 7, then he's at the top-tier of the 6-7-8 range of guys that are hitting on her. It's the "Ennnnh... she'll do" strategy of guys trying to get laid that night.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 04:59 AM
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"The men I want to fuck either don't want to fuck me or don't want a committed relationship."
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 04:52 AM
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Seriously what the hell is this? Wow, you gave her the emotional equivalent of watching the hottest porn you've ever seen. Men's porn is primarily visual. Women's porn is primarily emotional. They want to get riled up. They want to feel something. Men's porn is relegated to the shadows. When you make the connection that women's porn is something that stimulates their emotions, you'll notice that women's porn is everywhere. And their porn, like ours, is usually not performed live. There's a diffe…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 04:35 AM
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The question you asked and the way you asked it leads me to think that you actually want to use the confession to self-destruct your marriage and move on. So, based on that, yes, confess away.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 04:10 AM
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Epiphany Phase. She wants a BB. If she goes with the med student he might get rich in the future and he might marry her after he makes the transition from poor student to rich doctor. Or he may decide to trade her in for a newer model. But if she lands one of the senior bankers, then she's landed someone who is already rich and still wants her. There's less risk and more reward, both short and long term, if she's trying to land a long term relationship.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 09:01 PM
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It'll cost them a few thousand to get into production and they'll make tens of thousands over the years in filing and billing fees. If people want to pay that voluntary tax for the plates, then it seems OK to me.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 09:10 PM
0

What's the definition of a 10? A 2 and 8 million in the bank.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:46 PM
0

The Male to Female ratio is such that they think/know they can do better than you. They're already part of a harem and don't want to risk their access to the alpha. Their herd doesn't like you and you approached publicly. You don't have enough value for her to risk their wrath. Their herd is stroking their ego /sabotaging them. She can't do better, but she doesn't know this and none of the herd sees any advantage in setting her straight. You remind her of Barry. Yes, THE Barry. The one who fucke…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:45 PM
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She also said she felt like she was now at my beck and call whenever I wanted sex, and that I got so mad when she didn't comply. This would explain why she now asks for permission not to have sex. But it is a bit confusing for couple of reasons. First, I never get angry now. I usually go do something else. I may still be showing that I'm butthurt (I know, I need to control that better). She may be interpreting that as anger. She's not. She's "Going to Victim," appealing to gender narratives, and…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 06:26 PM
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Should I stay out late and ignore her? No. Should I try to explain why I tried to leave the room? No. Should I explain myself at all? No. What if she "wants to talk"? "Sure, babe. What's on your mind?" Any advice? I'm thinking that your wife thought she had you on lock-down and took you for granted. "Trp_dude? Attractive? HAH! If I don't find him attractive, then obviously no other woman will. I told him to get a girlfriend, because I know that he can't get one!" She had you firmly in the "serva…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 08:07 PM
1

So show masculinity to a girl and she will try to emulate it. That would not be good. Right? You show masculinity to a girl so she knows how to recognize it. Should we play good cop, bad cop? It comes natural for us. Mother being the nicer, while father being the stricter. Mother calming her down when hysterical, if the nice approach does not work for 30 mins father goes there and barks and order to shut up right now. This is how our parents were and comes fairly natural to us. Mom nurturing, da…
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:19 PM
1

That takes a special kind of beta faggotry. If you let yourself be a punching bag by your spouse, you'll be treated as a punching bag by your spouse. Given enough time, being a punching bag is assumed to be your natural role in the relationship. I don't have any info on that couple, but I'll bet that she's invested a lot of time and effort in isolating and instilling learned helplessness in that guy.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 02:53 PM
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There are some countries where people with my skillset can be considered more equal, especially if the company would hire 4 or 5 people with my skillset AT ONCE, but there are NONE on the market. Holy shit! Liam Neeson posted on askTRP!
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:20 PM
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That's what she actually said, after explaining to me what she's on about. "I make the rules". When people show you who they are, believe them the first time. Edit: Honestly, I'm getting more and more angry somehow. This came out of nowhere. And it's good, because next time I'll be prepared. The anger is coming from the part of you that loves the thrill of the chase being annoyed by your subconscious sounding off every damned alarm-bell it can reach.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:13 PM
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Sounds like she's in the Epiphany Phase. She's BB hunting and doesn't want to waste her time. She's going to want to weed out guys who can do better than her right off of the bat. If she pre-eliminates any competition she ratchets up her value to you. If you forego all others, she'll also know that she's the best that you think you can land. A very bad way to start off a relationship.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:11 PM
1

She's testing to see if you'll pursue her to get her to change her name.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:05 PM
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her: I won't be taking your last name you: Probably
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:03 PM
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What does "charged with sexual harassment" they don't mean In real court do they? No it means they'll expel you if you keep it up. I'll be more careful with my choice of words in the future. A campus sexual harassment charge would be extremely embarrassing, I have no interest in women in that way whatsoever. This was gold. The way it was phrased will lead them to think you're gay (not that there's anything wrong with that.) Because they think you're gay, the system can't automatically lable you …
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:37 PM
1

It's a neg designed to trade hope for services. The neg comes from the unspoken declaration that she's too good for you now. The trading of hope for services comes from the long time-frame involved. If you want to land her when she's 30, it's implied that you'll have to stay in her good graces until then.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:54 AM
1

Drama is entertainment and validation to them. It makes them feel alive and it makes them feel like they matter.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:28 AM
2

I'm talking to a girl I just met, trying to get her number: "Okay, let me talk to her and see what she's like..yadayadayada - wait, what if asking for her number seems too fast/forward? Maybe I should ask more questions and amp up the wittiness..wait, that might be too much fucking around" /u/motivatedcat has it right: too many fucks given about the small things. I think this is a classic case of your lacking "abundance mentality." You care too much about what the girl thinks of you and overproc…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 01:54 PM
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what is weird is she told me her dad would never approve, You're entertainment to her. One of the thrills you provide is that you're potential drama. She likes the idea of doing something socially unacceptable on the sly and getting away with it. This theory is based on the barest of information that you've supplied. It'll probably fall apart if you provide more details. If it doesn't fall apart, then under no circumstances should you LTR this girl. That thrill she gets? That's the same thrill c…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 01:22 PM
4

I would only fuck around with white guys White guys aren't marriage material to her. So they're not real. They're just toys. Reminds me of a story a coworker once told me. A gentile girl he'd been dating came by his house one day. His father pulled him aside and said, "This isn't serious, right? You marry a jewish girl. Shikshas are for fucking."
/r/askTRP21/09/15 06:15 PM
7

The true hero of that movie was Ned Ryerson. It took him decades of reliving the same day to wear down Phil Connors to the point where he could sell that useless bastard an insurance policy. Perseverance pays off.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 02:29 AM
1

Money affords the ability to provision for your woman. It's viewed as a service. Services are beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 03:32 PM
1

You can be the right guy, in the right place, at the wrong time. This was the case for you five years ago. There was no leverage to work with when you tried to get a raise from your boss. In your wife's situation, everything lined up perfectly and it worked out for her, and also for you. You become jealous of someone when you feel that they have something they don't deserve. You feel that your wife doesn't deserve the raise. You know what, you're right. Because no one deserves a raise. They're e…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 03:29 PM
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I didn't read the article you linked, but based on what you quoted I think you're off in your interpretation. Everything referenced is her attempt to shame men in her SMV range into providing more services and comfort for her: They’re selfish and lazy in bed In a LTR the focus should be on ME! Not your own pleasure. they use the evils of chivalry as an excuse for making you do their share of the housework as well as theirs In a LTR, my share of the housework and your share of the housework is de…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:16 PM
0

Seems like some good NLP shit to induce feelings of sympathy and associate them with her. Well done. I tip my hat to m'lady.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:17 PM
2

If you're already applying dread, and it's working, then I don't think you need to amp it up. She's initiating more, and is going to the gym(albeit not as much as you'd like,) then that shows the dread is working. If you amp up the dread even further while also continuing to improve your SMV, she may feel that she can't keep up and will then give up. Give her some structure. Have her set up a weekly meal plan or write one up yourself. Purge the house of junk food. If she's eating well, praise th…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 05:03 PM
2

Ok, you have guilt over gaming. Why? I'm guessing for one of two possible reasons. Option #1: Escapism. You consistently spend time gaming when you know you should (not could, should) be doing something that holds a higher priority. Solution to #1: If Option #1 is true, then yes, you should be gaming less. Option #2: Conformity. You're learning a lot from these subs. You're finding tons of good advice from those people. So their opinion matters. Many posts bash gaming as escapism. You're followi…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 02:44 PM
11

Stop thinking about her. You were a major source of validation to her. In your relationship, your validation went from being earned to being assumed. Once that happened the tingles stopped. She left you because even though you were providing 95% of her needs, she still yearned for that 5% that you weren't providing. Since she assumed that she'd always have the... state of mind that she had with your providing validation, she thought that leaving you for the guy who gave her tingles would give he…
/r/askTRP16/09/15 02:12 PM
6

The lynch mob will form when the oribiters and day-to-day privileges dry up. They'll utilize the State when they find that that can no longer easily trade hope for services. Men will help them do it too. Some incel is going to get pissed at another incel. He'll hack that guy's bot and it'll end up hurting somebody. Queue the "Think of the Children" campaign.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 02:57 PM
-1

Certainly not enough to pay for a two bedroom apartment to accommodate our children. Head over to /r/divorce or /r/legaladvice and see if she can take the children out of your home without your permission. She takes yourselfherself so seriously, I cannot find a way to tease her. She views you as a servant. Some people don't like being sassed by their servants. I'm thinking of thanking her for her support and talking about how I know we've had a rough couple of months lately. I wouldn't bother. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 02:35 PM
1

Girl #1: Errrmeegrrrd, DeShaun kissed you! Kissed-Girl: Yeah. Girl #2: Ewwww.... Why would he kiss YOU? Kissed-Girl: Because he wanted... Boy #1: Hah hah! He did it on a DARE. Girls: Lulz! Kissed-Girl: *Dials 911* The dumbass did something that would bring extreme shame to girl in High School. What a fucking retard.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 02:03 PM
1

The long term effects are going to be either assimilation into western culture or localized insurrections, riots, and pogroms. If the governments show some spine and aggressively deport the hardline crazy clerics who try to implement sharia law, then I think assimilation will have a chance, but I don't think they'll do that until a whole lot of people die from massacres.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 03:15 PM
0

Want to keep the majority of women out of prison? Shut down for-profit prisons, end the War on Drugs, repeal a goodly portion of the Mommy State criminal code, grant amnesty to past non-violent offenders caught up in those laws, and transform our current warehousing prison system into one that actually tries to rehabilitate the offenders left in prison.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 01:14 PM
2

It's empowerment/revenge porn for women. It feeds to our (yes, I'm including men in this) belief that if we're ever wronged grievously enough we can intelligently and intricately lay waste to those who wronged us. It appealed particularly to women because, at the end: Pike's character wasn't caught Affleck's character lives in fear of his wife.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 03:52 PM
4

An HR Director is primarily concerned with protecting their company. Helping the employees is their secondary role. They're not going to say that, because the ones that do get fired. You go to HR when you have a complaint that is backed by law, ie assault, harassment, etc. You go to HR when you want to ask for something that will make you look better to the company, ie getting tuition assistance for training or a degree. You don't go to HR for petty shit.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 01:46 PM
1

If she'd checked out her "talk" would have started with two sentences: "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." and "I think you should move out." The mix of "I" and "You" statements she gave leads me to believe that she's noticed his improvement, but isn't sure it'll last.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 10:29 PM
2

I originally was thinking "attraction is contextual," then I moved to "acceptance is contextual," but that doesn't fit either. So I'm asking for help here. What's a good term for "lack of disgust?" Lack of disgust is contextual. The context is the woman's needs at that point in time. If you don't have anything she wants and you try to engage her, you're a creep. Edit: If you do have something she wants, then her lack of disgust extends to your provisioning. So... Briffault's Law using different …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 06:38 PM
7

Women want service and entertainment from men. He's a provider of validation and resources. He's a servant. He may also be entertainment. Maybe he's witty. Maybe he's great in the sack. Maybe he takes her out for a great time. And maybe, just maybe, your sister has an occasional girls' night out and has a ONS. Do you think she'd tell her brother that she's cheated on her boyfriend? ... she's serious about him, even considering marriage. That describes a lot of women who are fucking Chad on the s…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:51 PM
14

My kids don't get up until 7:30 or so. (I know, they're amazing right?). So if she goes at 6am, I can't. Cool. I was going to ask if you had to stay home. It's a sabotage attempt and a dominance play. She wants to knock you out of your routine (sabotage) and her method she's using is to take priority over your established schedule (dominance.) Most gyms that women go to have day care services. If the kids are not school aged then she can just pop them in there. She doesn't need to go at 6am. If …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 12:56 PM
3

my ltr has been treating me less-than-okay for quite sometime. Your girl believes she has the upper hand, got it. I felt so guilty that I told my ltr about the girl and how we hung out and the original intention Included having sex if it happened, however I told her I had too many feelings for her and cared too much to do that to her behind her back. You set up a situation where anyone with any self-respect would end the relationship. Simply put, you knew you are in a bad relationship, but didn'…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 03:00 PM
1

Aliens. Turned an action/horror movie into a comedy.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 04:01 AM
2

Bring on the Pouty Face. Somebody should do something.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 10:22 PM
1

"Why are you angry?" == "I want attention."
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 03:09 PM
5

I have no problem arguing with my wife in front of the kids. I just don't do it that much. Kids needs to see that adults can have disagreements and still get along.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:29 PM
0

Lightly flirt. When they gossip, listen, but don't gossip yourself. Women crave validation and social status. So if one of them does you a good turn, make sure you let them know you're grateful. Women have a herd mentality: if you stand out, they will notice you. Women are jealous: if you stand out, or over-acheive... watch your back. Expect the office-equivalent of a public mafia assassination. It's always the 'best friend' who does it.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:25 PM
3

That article was emotional porn for women. It was selling fear.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:15 PM
2

The implication is that the casual sex game is worse for women that play the causal sex game looking to marry. That's true, but the women looking to marry hit the epiphany phase and switch to the beta hunt strategy. Women aren't pissed with playing the causual sex game. They're pissed because they've lost control. Queue up the Pouty Face articles.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:13 PM
4

Kids are awesome. Marriage... not so much.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:08 PM
45

I don't need to tell my fiance, do I?" That's usually not in those posts. Instead there's usually verbage to insinuate a "rough patch" or an "anger problem" on the part of the fiancé (but he's making A LOT of progress and is much better now.) If she tells, then VERY BAD THINGS may happen: he may leave and take the dog, which he drunkenly kicks; or her father, just recently taking a turn for the better after a long illness, will be utterly DEVASTATED; her troubled, trans-gender, sister Timmy has …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 06:39 PM
30

Then as if intentionally to complicate things, out of nowhere, "the one that got away" messaged me online. I'm positive we don't belong together based on how absolutely perfect my fiancé is for me, and I for him, but curiosity got the better of me and we made plans to meet up. I love how she started in the past tense, segued into the present tense talking about her fiancé and then transitioned back into the past tense for the meet up. Putting the past tense together. What she thought then: Then …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 06:28 PM
1

"It's just that once a girl has actually talked to me for a while, they can't handle my trippy weirdness." Is parallel to a woman saying: "Men just can't handle a strong, independent woman." They can handle your trippy weirdness, they just don't want to. It's unattractive to them. Fat chicks hit on me all the time and I hate it. That's another indicator that you're acting in a manner that makes you unattractive. You're like a scuffed-up display model:but those who can't afford to pay full price …
/r/askTRP02/09/15 06:07 PM
28

I hold the door for anybody. 15 ft rule. Unless it's my boss, then it's 20ft.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:44 PM
1

"Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do." "Don't mistake activity with achievement." "I was built up from my dad more than anyone else." John Wooden
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:24 PM
1

OK then, invite them to do whatever it is you do when you're not drinking. Alcohol is expensive eh. Is it illegal to operate a still? (Guessing so)
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:45 PM
1

No you don't have to limit yourself, just be aware of other people's limitations and adjust how you present yourself accordingly. If you're building a business, and doing it online, then every facet of your online personality is going to be associated with that business. In essence, every post you make is you selling yourself.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:42 PM
1

I don't know the culture in Australia, but I don't think hoofing it to a pub for a pint and chips is going to be that big of a barrier to entry for your average Joe. It's social, try not to overthink it. If you do so then, well, someone on here will be along to ask about your autism shortly. :)
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:29 PM
1

Stopped playing rugby because everyone on the team was a cunt to me. Annnnnd why were they like that?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:21 PM
1

I'd go with /u/George_frasier's advice. Invite people one-on-one for a drink at a pub or something. Then, take a page from Dale Carnegie: “To be interesting, be interested.”
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:19 PM
1

Expelled for what? Behavioral problems?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:14 PM
1

I'm 19, 20 next year so thats why I am a bit worried about just jumping into a college full of 18 year olds. perhaps I'm stressing over nothing. You're stressing over nothing.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:13 PM
2

I just feel like been the one to ask if they are all drinking on campus Dial in on that please. You're asking if they're all drinking on campus?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:10 PM
0

Online sales? I thought that personal training would be a bit more face to face. Anyway, people "like" things that they can easily relate to. Set the bar too high and you look like a braggart, as you did with your 425lb deadlift video. Set the bar too low and you appear... I can't even finish that. With social media you can't set the bar "too low" unless you're violating your group's social mores: racism, sexism, propriety regarding sexual imagery, etc. So lower the bar, or to use different verb…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:07 PM
1

Do a search here for IOIs and also hit the googles. Free PUA, TRP and generic body language info is plentiful.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 12:22 AM
2

I know of a couple of girls that might actually be interested in me if I could somehow overcome my currently crippling fear fucking for the first time but faking it till I make it is a pretty damn difficult thing to do. That's your best argument for hiring a professional right there. Iron Rule of Tomassi #<whatever>: The sex is never worth the wait. And you've been waiting 31 years. Hire the professional. Do you know what you're going to think while you're banging her? OK, after "I'm having sex!…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 12:18 AM
2

The hamster exists in everyone at every age.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 01:14 PM
4

If her behavior was a one-time thing then it was a one-time thing. She's apologetic, good. Make sure she knows you aren't the only one she needs to be apologetic towards.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 01:13 PM
7

Kardashians = Star Wars Gamblers/Smugglers Got it. Did not click on link. Will not click on link. May God have mercy upon your soul for asking us to pay attention to them.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/15 05:21 PM
2

I continued painting the house and asked her if I missed some spot on the wall. I did. But I couldn't care less. She says it is better that I leave and she is super pissed with me - because i looked at her phone... I love the fact that she let you continue painting, but once you were done: "I'm pissed at you and you should leave."
/r/askTRP28/08/15 03:04 PM
2

We're visual creatures and all other things being equal, we'd rather look at attractive things. It's also possible that your girlfriend is giving more acceptable non-verbal indicators of interest (not IOIs in RP terms) that make the guys feel more comfortable talking to her. She may have a relaxed expression and body posture while you're rigid and giving the guy a laser stare. I'd need more information to give you better advice. Also, in the last example, the salesman talked to her because she a…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 02:59 PM
4

How much did staying together for the kids factor into your decision to stay, versus "history?"
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 01:31 PM
2

I've been using this for a month or two. Hat-tip to /u/abdada, who mentioned it in a skincare post a while back. I still get whiteheads every now and then, but I haven't had a flare-up since I've been using it. I highly recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 05:37 PM
5

How could he not know that it was going to be a hit piece? It was on Fat Shaming! When you take the position that Roosh did and use the invective that he used, then you're essentially displaying a two-story neon sign that says "HIT ME!" to anyone that wants to further themselves by appealing to women.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 06:51 PM
1

Plausible deniability used as a shield: "Sure all of the physical evidence shows that I was physically aroused and primed for sex, but you can't prove that I was emotionally aroused! Which I wasn't. So I'm not a slut."
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 06:43 PM
17

Themes pushed in that article: Men should do more chores. Men shouldn't discuss their relationships with their wives with other men. Unless, of course, they're saying good things. Men who appear unhappy with their wives are actually trying to manipulate them.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 06:30 PM
4

This is why women cloak their intentions in plausible deniability to all but their most trusted confidantes. She really,really,reallyreallyreally, wanted to brag about the provider she thinks she landed, but didn't want to baldly crow about it. So she slathered on a schmere of Victim as a shield. And whaddya know? Only one out of the four replies ignored her diversion.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 06:17 PM
2

Never going to happen. There is too much anonymous information flow. They keys to the shackles of men have been given to them and more and more are using them every day. If a woman pitched this to the average Joe, he's going to know, in his gut, that it's a bad, bad deal. Back in the day, Joe would have an extremely limited set of information sources to turn to. A few friends, maybe some family. If the woman could leverage her FSM against the other males in Joe's life, then she could use it to c…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 06:01 PM
2

Different story. The one who died was in Iraq.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 03:08 PM
13

My theory is that his genes kicked in. Thousands of years of evolution imprinted a basic code in him. Getting attacked? Run or fight. He tried both. IIRC, there were people between them and the camera when it happened, but you can definitely her her connect. He treated her like a child having a temper tantrum until she landed a solid blow, then she became a legitimate threat to his health. Then she had a Bad Day™.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 03:03 PM
2

I look forward to the day when a woman can ride the CC, reach the epiphany phase at 29 or 30 years of age, and then find a stable provider to settle down and have children with: a 45-50 year old man who has also tired of spinning plates, has all of his assets in blind trusts, and wishes to have children.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 05:43 PM
1

Being direct opens them up to judgement from men, but more importantly from women: their female peers that they are competing with for social status.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 05:25 PM
4

I think you may have blown a comfort test. If "what can I do to be a better wife" came before the question "you would rather me be submissive, wouldn't you?" then I think she was looking for leadership or for you to tell her what you think your leadership is going to be like. You two may be in a space where she knows that she doesn't have control over you. You're defeating her when she tries to project her authority, but you haven't moved forward and attempted to project any control over her. (W…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 05:36 PM
1

You're fine not answering directly. She's laying traps and trying to control the frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 05:26 PM
1

Focus on doing cool shit. People are boring and bored so they'll gravitate towards people who do cool shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 05:17 PM
1

Don't look bothered by his remarks. That can easily be viewed as weakness. If it's a one-off, ignore it, but if your gut is telling you that he was sounding you out, then don't ignore it. If it becomes a pattern and you don't respond, you could be viewed as weak and others will be incentivized to pile on.* On the other hand, guys tend to lightly give each other shit. It's not as common is some office environments as it is in others, but it happens. It's how people figure out the social pecking o…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:40 PM
2

Keep your chin up. What happened was normal. Whenever a woman thinks, but isn't sure, that she has the upper hand in a relationship, she'll try to renegotiate for her advantage. Edit: If she's sure, she just does whatever she wants, she knows she doesn't need your buy-in.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:21 PM
5

If a woman wants to fuck you they'll find a way to fuck you. If a woman doesn't want to fuck you, they'll try every excuse they can think of to avoid sex.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:16 PM
1

If you two were active before this then you have a huge red flag. She's testing to see how much control over you she has. This is some serious foreshadowing of how much sex you're going to get once you get married. She's showing you that once she thinks she has your commitment she'll be free to close her legs and still keep you around.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:12 PM
3

She pulled the rape card to create drama. She wanted some juicy, angry-entitled-bro rant to screenshot and post next to his shirtless pic on her tumblr page. OP foiled that when he just told her goodnight.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:07 PM
3

What does it even mean to have "kinda" "a thing" with a guy. It means she's not interested in the OP and that she doesn't want him to hit on her.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 07:34 PM
1

*rubs hands together* Where's the list of side-effects? Taking bets on explosive diarrhea being in the list. How about clitoral elongation? Labial psoriasis?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 05:04 PM
2

She was making a dramatic gesture. Now that I think about it, it showed that she knows how tenuous her authority over OP is. If she was driving, the OP would have to capitulate immediately. A woman with a total lock on her man would go this route. She added a delay of a few days. She needed to throw some push-pull at him to throw him off balance. This shows that she knows she has a weak hand.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 04:56 PM
1

"This is his home. He stays in his home. If you want to take the next step, that's fine. Once you have a new place and the separation papers have been filed, we'll work out a fair and equitable custody schedule."
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 04:46 PM
1

What your post told me is that you think you went too over board. How do you think you did that?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 04:43 PM
3

This is why I say this is coming from left field. It's textbook, actually. When a woman sees that you are using a tactic successfully against her, she will attack your use of that tactic. Her being nice and then bringing up her leaving is just carrot and stick. She's showing how good things could be, and then bringing up your punishment (her leaving) to show you that you're the one that's causing the good times to end. BPP mentions that it's looking more like a comfort test, which I agreeish tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 04:12 PM
14

He was expecting a shiny, expensive present. I don't doubt that his mother has been telling him that his father absconded to the Philippines with mountains of cash.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:52 PM
223

Because they love their children. Children: Marriage's little hostages.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:48 PM
1

What immediately came to mind was the mentality of someone who's been driven to give up drinking or smoking by someone else. As soon as they're mad at that person, they'll use it as an excuse to fall off of the wagon. As far as monogamous relationships go, she's broken. She should just give up on that and concentrate on being a good mother. But she's not going to do that, because she wants a sugar-daddy. So she's going to reel in some Beta and destroy that poor guy's life.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 08:46 PM
2

It means the thread skewed towards the RedPill and the mods feared brigading.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 08:42 PM
3

They feel that the caliber of man who hits on them reveals their value. So if a woman has a lot of 5s hitting on her, they're broadcasting to her (and more importantly to her social group) that they think that the best she can get is a 5.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 08:31 PM
1

Stay single. Don't get married until you want children within the next year. If you don't want children, there is no benefit to getting married unless not being married will negatively impact your career.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 03:58 PM
4

Oh crap, watch out or it's Mosquito Coast all over again!
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:22 PM
3

Join every study group you can when you go to med school. You should form some bonds in those. I have a few evening(7-9pm) martial arts classes. A lot of times people in the group will go for a beer or dinner after class.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 10:46 PM
1

Her being moody with me is an indication of trust. She knows she can trust me, hence she is showing me all her sides. No, it's not trust at all. It's leverage. Again, this is assuming that she can hold it together for strangers and casual acquaintances, but unleashes on you. She believes that she has secured your enough of your commitment to her that she can engage in this behavior without consequence. Ask yourself, would she act this way on a first or second date? Men have evolved to be the she…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 10:27 PM
1

Women view men as providers of service and/or entertainment. Plates are viewing their man as entertainment. They're getting what they want out of the relationship and thusly have no problems with the man having equivalent expectations. Odds are they have orbiters available to provide the services they require. Women will constantly renegotiate for increased benefits. Once they believe they have achieved leverage in the relationship they will attempt to extract services from their man. In failing…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:22 PM
3

I've noticed too that when I stick around and try to help it doesn't do much. However, when I tell her I don't have time for this, she is a lot more responsive. That tells me you're getting shit-tests. She's feeling out where your boundaries are in regards to her behavior. PMS is just her shield of plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:03 PM
3

I agree with what you are saying. In this case, the interpretation of the word "mood" is subjective, as the OP hasn't defined it. My basic definition of a "mood", vis-a-vis my wife, is pre-aggression. In my case, if my wife rolls in in a "mood": If I'm currently drinking alcohol, I pour it out. Alcohol is off the menu. Ambushes are coming. I mentally review the game-plan if I'm ambushed or drawn into a fight: I like being right. If my wife brings up valid points in a reasonable manner, and she i…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:52 PM
1

Simply put, she is not attracted to you. She knows you are still attracted to her. Knowing that she has the upper-hand, i.e. that she has something that you want, but she could do without, she is attempting to negotiate for more goods and/or services.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 01:59 PM
1

Women view men as providers of service or entertainment. This guy is obviously entertainment to her. Once she's in a situation where she desires his provisioning(service,) he's going to come up short and she will fall out of love.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 01:52 PM
5

The metric I use to discern whether her moods are not shit/comfort tests is to see what she's like with non-family. If she can hold it together for her co-workers, friends, and strangers on the street, but not for me, then she's throwing me shit or comfort tests.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 01:48 PM
3

I wanted kids and I wanted to be in my childrens' lives on a daily basis. They've inherited my crazy, which is awesome. Well, it'll be awesome until the boy discovers matches or lighters... Gonna have to get ahead of the curve and start educating him on those dangers.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 06:50 PM
1

Note that the appropriate time for bystanders to step in is not when the man is attacked repeatedly, but when he defends himself. Note that as soon as he defended himself she came to her senses and got as far away from him as she could.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:44 PM
1

the way I read it, she had some trust/comfort issue. Nah, he appeared to have very high MMV and she was negotiating for advantage.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 02:41 PM
2

Yaaaay, guerilla marketing. This is almost as well done as the post shilling the plain-jane-attracts-hot-stud highschool rom-com a few weeks ago.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 08:02 PM
2

Someone saw it on reddit and told his sister. Who then told everyone and confronted the OP to collect her own social status points.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 01:43 PM
1

The best part of your story was that she's your ex. Good on you for getting away without being permanently injured or put in jail on a domestic violence claim.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 01:40 PM
1

Yeah my troll alarm is starting to go off.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 06:50 PM
3

Solipsism, her sister is thinking, "What if I was raped?" She would want all of the advantages that the OP gave to his GF. So it's in her best interests for her brother to "do the right thing."
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 06:48 PM
11

It's not dread game. She's not crawling back because he's leaving, she's crawling back because his posts have gone public and she looks like a complete shit-heel instead of the Victim she's been working (very hard) to portray herself as. Right now she's riding the wave of feels that this drama is creating, but once that calms down she's going to be seething that her "servant" has put her Nice-Victim-Girl image through the wringer. Prediction: She's going to be revenge-fucking her coworker within…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 06:37 PM
2

The cool thing is that hiring managers now have an easy counter to her inevitable sexual discrimination lawsuit when they pass on hiring her. They can just claim their lawyers told them she poses too much of a legal risk to hire.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 02:16 PM
2

Never underestimate the power of a woman's ovulatory cycle. You probably banged her when she was ovulating, so plan B was a good call on your part. Then, a few days later, her hormones shifted and your whiskey dick + the pregnancy scare scared the shit out of her. She wanted you because she wanted to fuck. Now she's in a part of her cycle where she doesn't want to fuck and she doesn't want you. Wait a few weeks until she enters her ovulatory phase. See if she calls then.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 06:20 PM
1

I suggest that OP do suggestion #2 first. If so, it'll soon be followed by suggestion #1.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 06:13 PM
1

It's not blue pill, it's very instructive. If you read that book, and then read forum posts dealing with infidelity, you will see the similarities between the two in most of the posts. Don't read the book for how to fix your marriage, read the book for how to recognize the bullshit women try to pull on their partners and the warning signs of infidelity.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 05:55 PM
11

I also learnt just how powerless and useless most women are with the amount of high things i reached for and boxes i cut open for them Really? No. Really? Women's power comes from getting other people to do things for them. They weren't powerless, they just utilized the most efficient tool for the job: you.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 03:54 PM
1

Maybe it was a result of the white middle class sorority girl type crowd, who knows. Universal across all lines. For women, Drama == Entertainment. It gives them feels.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 03:48 PM
1

How is Dread Game enforcing a boundary? I view Dread Game as indirect behavior modification. You're projecting influence onto someone else. ie I don't like your doing x, y, or z, so I'm going to do DG and hope you change your ways. I used the word hope because you aren't directly coercing someone to perform the actions you want them to, they have to want to do it themselves. I view boundary enforcement as an overtly stated action I take after someone has violated one of my boundaries. You've don…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 02:36 PM
1

They married and remained together for 15 years until she died in a freak skiing accident. (Bumped her head skiing on the bunny slopes and died a day later.)
/r/askTRP09/07/15 07:06 PM
3

It'd increase her competition. So she dissuaded him from taking the role. It'd be akin to your fiancee telling you she was going to become a part-time bartender at a high-end meat market bar 100 miles away. Sooner or later, one night she's not going to come home.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 04:45 PM
2

2) Who cares if she views you as a bad guy? Because she's socializing it and creating a narrative about you. If that happens enough times (which also means that you're bad at choosing women) then people begin to apply the "where there's smoke there's fire" addage and you could take a social hit that could affect other areas of your life. Edit: I do prefer the dump in silence tactic. If someone else would ask me, then I'd just tell them "I thought she was cheating on me. Wasn't worth it."
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:56 PM
3

If you want to do damage, don't tell a woman why you're dumping her. If you tell her why, when she shares with her friends (because drama,) she'll be able to hamster the reason to her advantage. If you don't tell her why, when she shares with her friends (because drama,) she'll let slip that you didn't say why and all of her friends will internally run through the list of her shortcomings and share those with their friends (because drama.) Silence, the gift that keeps on giving.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:48 PM
1

I'd follow the advice that I've seen from other posts like yours: Graciously wish her well with her new BB beau and then graciously accept her back as a plate in 6months to 3 years when she circles back for your AF.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 03:19 PM
1

Think it's actually fictional? Who cares? Your strategy and tactics should not change.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 03:16 PM
2

Yeah, I think that after her first kid she feels old and is seeking her youthful and carefree days.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 03:07 PM
1

Next step: enforce the boundary. How? The only viable thing I can come up with is to file for divorce. Everything else is just talk.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 03:04 PM
1

Heh, is she a teacher?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 03:00 PM
1

You gave her feels.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 02:50 PM
4

Men are viewed as providers of service and/or entertainment. She's relegated her husband to the service bracket and doesn't believe that he's there for entertainment. It could be that she's just a broken person. Nothing her husband does can fix that. It could be that they have an open relationship. The husband doesn't care because he's getting his on the side too. Married RP men, have you found anything to be effective to keep a woman loyal? You can't "keep" anyone loyal. I gave up chasing after…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 06:22 PM
1

I sometimes get the feeling that it's too late to turn things around now at 20... Psshaw. Every day is a new day that you can use to turn things around. Every. Day. Gain some healthy weight: Lift weights or do some bodyweight exercises. Take up Boxing or Muy Thai: Learn to hit and learn that you can take a hit and the world won't end. The harsh reality is that those people who picked on me are probably going to be 10x more successful and happy than I ever will. Fuck the successful part. In 100 y…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 06:25 PM
1

When things were bad I enjoyed the living hell out of the silent treatment.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 06:47 PM
4

He wasn't thinking clearly. If it was at 2030 on a cruise ship, I'm going to guess that alcohol was involved.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 06:39 PM
3

Because if you consistently ignore insults directed at you: the aggressor tends to escalate your status and reputation take a hit if you're in a group setting
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:37 PM
1

He was a big fish in a little pond. He found out that there were more powerful things out there when the State came a knockin'.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 02:19 PM
3

He was being a stand-up guy and protecting his organization. He took one for the team.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 02:06 PM
1

It was designed to send him over. She was hoping for a new victim card and increased leverage.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 08:57 PM
7

My wife's family is similar to yours. I've learned to not stand up for the other males. It puts the spotlight on their weakness, so they'll push back on you for pointing that out. Then they'll sell you out, hoping to make points with their wives or MIL.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 08:45 PM
2

Change your dropoff to be in the lobby of the local police barracks.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 07:28 PM
7

I think that her making $5M makes going halfsies the safest option. What kind of red flag would you see if a woman making $5M insists that you pay? If Jeter suggested it, that's a good filtering move on his part.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 04:03 PM
6

She was caught actually having a date with Derek Jeter and his $265M. So her options were to go halfsies (or even suggest it) or potentially give up Derek Jeter and his $265M. What I would like to know is what would Hannah have said about going halfsies with Derek Jeter and his $265M prior to actually dating Derek Jeter and his $265M.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:28 PM
2

This bitch wants the entire world. It doesn't matter that she already has custody over the children, the house, and a boat for crying out load, she is stalking the man and actively trying to sabotage the man's life with his new GF. Women view men in two lights: service or entertainment. This woman's ex is pure entertainment to her. It's pure malice, but it's entertainment. That is why she has such a laser-like focus on him, even divorced he still provides her with feels and she doesn't want to g…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:25 PM
46

So a guy in Derek Jeter's position can't win. Yes. Yes he can win. He is winning. He has won. She was in public and therefore needed to present herself as having status and options (ie having high SMV.) In her social circle, a girl with "status and options" wouldn't be caught dead paying for her own meal. Jemele can talk all of the shit she wants, but if she had a shot at Derek and his $265M, you can bet she'd be going halfsies on a $20 pizza. But since she has about 0% chance of landing Derek a…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:17 PM
3

Aye, OP's offer of a buy-out makes her think that there are untapped resources to be had. Her overtures are efforts at reconnoitering OP's situation. She's not looking for reconciliation.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:04 PM
1

If you're deep in the hole, any attempt at self-improvement will be seen as threatening.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 06:52 PM
2

Other common ones are overly laughing at all your jokes, In a group, she'll look at you to see if you laugh if someone (you, her, anyone) tells a joke.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 05:36 PM
5

I'm going to go the other way from the rest of the guys and say that she thinks you've pulled "too far ahead" of her in SMV. This should be nuclear level dread, right? Wrong. If this situation was reversed, in her mind, she'd be treating you like shit, divorcing you, and/or cheating on you. But you're not doing any of these things. So she knows you're not going to leave her. Dread negated. Since she knows you're not going to leave.... well that couch looks mighty comfy, may as well set a while. …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 03:28 PM
2

Do you have children with her?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 03:21 PM
1

My wife and I both have careers. I earn much more than her, but she earns a living wage. She also spends "+1". Whatever she has +1. Whatever we have +1. She would max her cards. When I had extra money, I'd pay them down. After we bought a house, I couldn't keep up. I paid almost all of the bills. I realized my cc debt was increasing. I used to wipe my balance every month, after the house, it kept going up. She refused to cut back. So I just cut her off. I'd pay the bills, buy some groceries, may…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:24 PM
2

Edit- I forgot to add something. She thinks that my new attitude is my way of punishing her for what happened in the past. I'm not trying to punish her. I really love her a lot but there is no way I can go back to my old BP self. That's her solipsism at work. No matter what you say or do, in her mind it will always be about her. Always. No really, always.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:10 PM
18

In fact, cutting off sex completely might be because she got diagnosed with an STD. Or as a method to push you away so she'll feel less guilty. Usually when they cut off sex, it's because they've loyalty-shifted to the other man. If she had sex with her husband, in her mind, she would be cheating on her lover.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:02 PM
2

I'm considering moving into a hotel while kids are gone and cutting off contact with her during that time. That would be a 'try to save things move' to reassert dominance. That doesn't seem dominant to me. I would view that move as running away.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:00 PM
1

If you're just starting to show changes in your behavior you're going to get pushback. The longer you've been BP with her, the longer she's going to test you. Edit: And if you've been BP for a long time, or if you've been especially spineless as some point, expect her to escalate her shit-tests, even to the point of threatening divorce or demanding you leave your home. She'll see you as a rebellious servant, not as a husband asserting himself. Whenever you fail a shit-test during this time, you …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 01:55 PM
4

A phrase like that should be used by a man who has already packed her shit up and thrown it onto the front lawn.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 02:33 PM
3

VAR in the pocket at all times would be a good thing too. It'll exonerate the OP if his wife claims abuse, it'll also help the OP be mindful of how he interacts with his wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 08:57 PM
5

She really loves that word, "abuse." She's been "advised." I'm guessing she's getting advice from an unscrupulous lawyer or a divorcee who had an unscrupulous lawyer. Set up a narrative, socialize it for an appropriate length of time so that the character witnesses will be able to claim the abuse went on for a length of time, then break out the RO, use it to get him arrested, and then use that leverage to take the OP to the cleaners.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 08:46 PM
2

She join a cult or something? Her wording is rather twisted. I also like where she's relegated you to a non-human 'abuser' object. That's cute. "As advised." Someone else is pulling her strings. Time to eject.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 08:40 PM
6

She's playing the long game, bro.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 08:19 PM
2

The best shit tests are the ultra-vicious nuclear sneak attacks that come after a long lull. There is nothing as fulfilling as getting emotionally nuked, turning, thinking "Wha..MOTHERFUCKER! OK, We're going to WAR!" and then realizing what she is actually trying to do. Then fighting that impulse to strike back and moderating the adrenaline that was just dumped into your system and calmly and completely crushing her attempt to get you to engage in socially unacceptable behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 02:24 PM
3

You may just been the most interesting thing she had to look at at the time. Some people just have a natural resting Bitch Face.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 05:54 PM
2

Their solipsism precludes their sympathizing with each other. They can only view themselves in any given situation. But here's the fun part: because of that solpsism, they're able to exude psuedo-sympathy. IIRC it was Tomassi that speculates that the patterns created by each woman engaging in solipsistic behavior translates into strategic gender-wide behavior. If each woman is going to ruthlessly want what is best for herself in any given situation, and she projects herself into the other woman'…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:04 PM
3

Any "advice" you are given by women is going to be pure, unadulterated, projection. The Office co-worker wishes that her Alpha who kicked her to the curb years ago would have come crawling back. Your mother is mad that you were not treating your ex the way that your mother felt she deserved to be treated by a man.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 03:57 PM
1

I want to lose another 20-40 lbs. My weight has been slowly creeping up, and not a lot of it is muscle (I was 15 lbs lighter at one point). I don't want to use lifting as an excuse to eat garbage It sounds like your lifting is sabotaging your weight loss and you know it. I'd lose the weight first. Combine your weight loss with some bare bones lifting regime that you know will not undermine your weight loss efforts.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:07 PM
1

Video games haven't advanced any cause of mine, but they've given me some good times over the years. Right now I'm thinking about my four year old son, sitting on my lap, trying to advance through the rooms in Portal. Or, um, his shouting "Hahaha, Cry some moooore!" playing the Heavy in Team Fortress 2.* Trivial memories, but I'm glad I have them. * Yes I know it's not "acceptable" for a four year-old to be playing TF2, but I couldn't pry him away from the game after he saw me light someone up a…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 07:41 PM
2

You're misreading him. I've got money that he directed this latest comment to you because he thought that you're the least likely person in the room to not have a date for prom. He's made some sort of statements in the past and you've handled it. So he knows that you can handle what he throws at you and you're not going to be "triggered" and run to your momma and try to get him fired for using humor in the classroom.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 07:23 PM
1

Will the radiculitis heal or fade over time? If so, just stay the hell away from anything that will exacerbate that and then hit the gym full-bore once you're healed up.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 07:05 PM
2

Lat pull downs and/or cable rows are about the only exercises that come to mind. Bent over rows and t-bar rows would probably give you problems if you can't deadlift. Edit: I'd head over to r/fitness and ask this question.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 06:50 PM
1

Who is the arbiter of defining what is your full potential? Who is the arbiter of the OP's definition? Would each arbiter have the same metrics for making their decision? Soundbite chastisement accepted. I'll give my opinion: OP, what is the value that you get from having and playing video games? Is there any benefit at all? If so, where do you draw the line between having and playing the games being beneficial and being detrimental? That's the line where you should make your decision. At what p…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 06:42 PM
-1

All things in moderation.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 06:13 PM
1

It's the saturation of that attention that causes them to raise their standards and pay attention to the signal vs the noise. If your baseline signal is that everyone is attracted to you, you'll eventually become with that and only pay attention to the signals that stand out. The stand outs being very attractive men or men interacting with you in unconventional ways.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 03:46 PM
2

As long as you're not overtly insulting them it's entertainment. It's a lightweight dominance engagement(drama) with playfulness, as opposed to a heavier, nastier shit-test or rejection that may escalate. Think of wrasslin' with a five year-old child, but understand that both sides think that the other is the five year-old.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 03:33 PM
2

Now, I love dominating and being in that position and I love all the kink stuff. Problem is I am afraid of reminding her of her ex when I do these things. I feel like I am living in his shadow and I have to tread super carefully lest feeling for him will come rushing bac Ugh, you're not surrendering to her frame, you're surrendering to his. You're in a LTR for you. Kick her alpha-widow ass off of that pedestal and start doing what you want to do.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 04:06 PM
2

Her response shouts that she believed you to be her Beta Plan B.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 03:55 PM
3

This is just a misguided attempt to display her "value" to you and create Dread. Ignore. You're in a pseudo-competition with someone that you've already beaten. Walk away the winner and get on with your life. Leave the high school drama behind you.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 03:52 PM
2

An upswing in "unplanned" pregnancies.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 02:31 PM
1

When isn't there BP propaganda in theatres?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 02:15 PM
4

She's the DUFF. That's what I got out of it. The girls wanted to give their friend some charity social validation and experience with guys, so they marked the OP as training-wheels for the night.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 02:14 PM
3

She is not listening to it though. She says because I'm selfish it's somehow bad for her because somehow being selfish = being bad. Being selfish means you are doing things for yourself and not doing things for her. It's a dominance/control issue for her. She's mad that you're no longer under her heel. She thinks like a woman, so she thinks that your brazenly admitting that you are more selfish has opened you up to a social shaming attack and that you would back down instead of facing the wrath …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 03:41 PM
3

That's one of the cornerstones of the feminine imperative: encourage the free-flow of information sharing among women about their tactics and strategies for dealing with men, but restrict to the utmost the ability of men to exchange information or commiserate in their dealings with women.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 03:00 PM
6

"Come on to me pretty strong." --> They took control in bed and outside of it like a man should, and she loved it deep down. Nope. Her words: I'm always the one saying to take things slow and then all of a sudden, it's over. I'd speculate that she would only have sex once or twice before they left. Why? She's in the Epiphany Phase. Per Rollo Tomassi: For other’s it may be some kind of forced celibacy; a refusal to have sex under the hypergamic auspices of her ‘party years’ in the hopes that a we…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:59 PM
9

I think she was great in The Dark Knight. She was bland, boring, frumpy, and forgettable. Exactly what I picture a big city Assistant DA as being. Think Marsha Clark.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:12 PM
7

Meh, I thought she did well in Stranger Than Fiction and Secretary.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:08 PM
9

Odds are she has something that sets her apart from the hollywood pretty set. I ran across a thread on "The Worlds Greatest Extra" in which extras stated that it's relatively hard for the low-level beautiful people to get roles as extras, but the people who are more "distinct" in their appearance have regular work. Female roles seem to fit into three stereotypical categories: eye-candy/love-interest, mother, or strong-willed matriarch. At her current age and (more importantly) physical appearanc…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:05 PM
1

Maggie G suffers from "Justine Bateman Syndrom:" Hot, Hot, Hot, WHATTHEHELLHAPPENEDTOYOU?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:50 PM
1

If you were are you previous job for more than a year you made the right move. For some reason many employers have the attitude of "If you were actually competent you would have already left for money. Since you haven't, you must not be worth what you are asking for." Hopping jobs for higher pay now seems to be accepted practice. (After spending an "acceptable" period of time in a position.)
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:48 PM
5

Recognise that an argument with your wife will almost never stay limited to a rational argument, it will devolve into a dominance engagement. It's not as important to your wife that she wins the argument as it is that you lose. Notice that I didn't add the words "the argument" after "lose?" That's because she doesn't give a rats ass about what you're arguing about. She just wants you to lose. How does she do that? Well someone has already linked to the Bill Burr video and that about sums it up. …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 02:35 PM
3

She was never diagnosed with anything, but she is absolutely troubled. Typical "not the favorite child" situation, her sister hates her, she has zero self esteem and depends 100% on the validation of her peers, which is particularly bad because she recently cut all ties with her childhood/teenage group of friends from the small town she's from, her new group of friends doesn't take her seriously at all (they interrupt her, they never really listen to her in the first place) and it's killing her,…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 07:41 PM
2

Does anyone cheat thinking they'll be caught?
/r/askTRP20/05/15 07:36 PM
2

Amen
/r/askTRP20/05/15 07:31 PM
2

... didn't want to undress in front of me to take a shower... This signifies a loyalty-shift. In her mind, she's not "your" girl anymore.* Edit: *This is assuming she isn't trying to hide any physical evidence of infidelity. Edit #2: > ...proceeded to telling me that all her "i love you"s were a lie... She's re-writing the relationship's history. A sign of a woman checking out of the relationship. Edit #3: If she did cheat on you during the 2 day silence, and loyalty-shifted that quickly, then t…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 07:21 PM
5

The "Dad Bod" meme was introduced as a vehicle to allow women to re-re-re-introduce the "Mom Bod" meme.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 01:29 PM
6

SJWs will lose by winning. Once their tactics saturate the social discourse, the average person will become desensitized and not react with the "proper" amount of outrage. This will cause these narcissists to ramp up their efforts in order to reclaim the attention they feel is their due. In doing so, the average person will realize that these tactics are merely power-plays and self-serving cries for attention and validation. Every new outlandish claim will then be met with increased levels of sk…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 07:58 PM
1

The ironic part is that only sluts hate sluts. If you are committed to virginity until marriage then more sluts means less competition. You're forgetting that people with use othering as a means of creating social cohesion within a group.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 06:58 PM
1

I didn't include the context, my bad. The cases that Michelle Langely, the author of Women's Infidelity is describing are where women are having affairs and their husbands are unaware. The women are in the cake-eating phase: they're getting BB support from their husbands, but have cut them off from sex and affection, reserving those things for their affair partners. So in these cases, they're using their sexuality as a means of control. They give their husbands oral sex, which gives him hope tha…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 06:49 PM
19

Don't forget "tagging." From Women's Infidelity: The women started getting used to their new lives, which included freedom, independence and stabilizing de- votion from their husbands. And when that was threatened, they usually tried to eliminate the threat by performing oral sex on their husbands. What? I know it sounds bizarre, but it’s true. Many men told me that just when they finally started to accept that their marriages were over, their wives would initiate a sexual encounter. I’d never h…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 05:13 PM
2

I introduced some of it a few weeks ago and it went over HORRIBLY. I pulled some of it out last night and things went to the next level. Positions we hadn't done in forever. Track her cycle. She may have been in her ovulation stage of the cycle last night, where she's more willing to submit to a dominant frame. I made her cum railing her on top of a pile of laundry last night. A woman who wants to fuck you will find a way to make that happen. All of those bullshit excuses: "You didn't stack the …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 02:16 PM
7

Fix your bed.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 02:10 PM
9

If you don't want to bother with women, don't bother with them. There is nothing wrong with going monk mode when you feel like it and re-engaging women when you feel like leaving monk mode. Go forth and do interesting things.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 06:27 PM
5

Because he acted like a dumbass. Once the story broke, his dumb ass was associated with his employer, so they dropped him. Lesson: don't be a dumbass in public.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 03:15 PM
2

She'll stay with her 6 until she gets a clear indication that 8 is a successful investment, then she'll loyalty-shift to the 8 (sex with 6 goes bye-bye) and then either continue to extract resources from 6 while fucking 8 or just branch-swing to 8. is she gonne be turned off by everyone else and trying to reach that guy? She'll stack them up as alternates (orbiters.)
/r/askTRP12/05/15 06:47 PM
56

I got banned this morning. I just shrugged and figured it was some SJW'n. Why are reddit politics so vicious? Because the stakes are so small.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:19 PM
6

When you get married (or move in together, or legally entangle yourselves together) you give up your greatest leaverage in the relationship: the ability to easily exit. When that happens, she, consciously or not, knows that she has additional leverage over you. And, consciously or not, she will exercise that leverage. All other things being equal, what's the worst that could happen if you don't get married? She leaves you for another guy? A guy that is offering her "more?" Well, evidence has sho…
/r/askTRP12/05/15 04:45 PM
6

Finally, there seems to be no cash incentive for her to pull this move in the short term. I'm an engineering student and she's a high school English teacher. Lol. "If you want to be a general's wife, marry a lieutenant." She knows damned well you're going to be making more than her in the future. If you go to Vegas and get married by Elvis, you can be damned sure the state will be involved.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 04:40 PM
1

Anyway, this morning, before work, I went up to give her a kiss goodbye and I pinched her fat a couple of times. Kind of a dickish move on my part. Looking back at it I should have not done anything bet left for work. You recognized your mistake and you realized what you need to do if the situation comes up again. What's done is done, be better going forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 04:10 PM
1

It's posted from time to time. I remember a guy using it several years ago. He gave an ultimatum to his wife: sex or I'm leaving, and was able to get some submission sex from her. Tons of discussion on the morality of playing that card. DeadBedrooms has a large female percentage, so it's always on the lookout for RP content. Usually it's done indirectly by referring the guy to NMMNG or MMSL.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 03:15 PM
4

Ripping off r/ShowerThoughts, tell them that you're 5'8". Pause a beat and then say, "Those were two separate measurements."
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:38 PM
2

Finally, to wrap up this epic Redpill conversation, she asks if she gets into an LTR in the near term if I would still be willing to have sex with her on the side, behind the new guys' back. Her voice wavered, I could tell the question was important to her. Sounded like she was testing the waters to see if you'd "man up" and make an honest woman out of her when faced with competition.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:36 PM
6

Keep your frame and don't play her game. One way she wins is if her pussy "conquers" you. The other is if she pushes you to become so cold and hurtful that you're the obvious villian of the piece. She's all about the drama, but beware teh crazy drama.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:06 PM
6

It seems like she's playing out a stereotypical trope that is a staple in RomComs: adversaries in lust.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:03 PM
2

I felt nothing for this woman, no remorse as she left and I wouldn’t care if I never fucked her again. If you're surrounded by salesmen pushing bad deals, you don't feel bad for saying "no."
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:50 PM
3

One guy hopped the bar and started chucking the 5ths of liquor bottles at people. As a functioning alcoholic, I believe that man should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law!
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 08:41 PM
1

Because getting laid is what you've set as the pinnacle of your success. That feeling of failure is your unconscious telling yourself that you didn't accomplish what you've set as your highest priority.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 04:36 PM
1

It's more of the "would this guy ever marry me" thing, which could have been a comfort test hidden in a sea of shit tests. It's more of a "why am I wasting time with this guy when I know I won't get long-term access to his resources?" thing. Once it sinks in that you won't get married, if she has a decent SMV, expect an ultimatum and then a break-up. That or she'll hold on until she has her next lined up and she'll cheat or branch-swing.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:48 PM
1

so, the thing is she's written a message this morning telling that a female friend wants to go with her to a play at a local theater on May 22nd. That's the day before her period. The play is semi-erotic in nature. Then she asks "Permision???". If she's in the ovulation stage, she should be a bit more pliant and submissive. That may be why she asked your permission. The problem with the timing is that women are usually horny in the few days leading up to their periods.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 03:16 PM
2

still had gotten the speech that I'm egotistical and had put a lot of distance between her and I. That I didn't care for her at all. Question for the group: would this be considered a comfort test?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 03:08 PM
3

I believe he saw me as a threat because he made no effort at convo after she went back to work. Or he legitimately didn't give a fuck about you. The beta that I detected stems from his sticking around for a minute or two after she left. I don't think she's trying to put you back in orbit. She brought her "man or whatever" by to compare the two of you side-by-side. Her calling you afterwards shows you what decision she made from that comparison. I'd be wary of a 9 with a 4.5. Unless he's rich or …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:04 PM
2

No amount of pleading, begging, crying or screaming at him changed a thing. He was done with me and he let me know it in no uncertain terms. But the worst thing that happened was that when my Dad went over to confront him as to why he broke off our wedding (considering my parents had already sunk a fortune into it) he told my Dad the reason. Obviously my Dad didn't believe him and they almost came to blows but then my Dad asked me & I came clean. By then I had already quit the job, it lasted les…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:36 PM
1

The Red Pill doth not prosper. For if it prospers, none dare call it The Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:28 PM
1

Ayup, going the other way, one of the things I've heard (but haven't seen any first-hand accounts of) is that if a woman is ovulating and is especially nasty to you, then that is a sign that your sole value to her is as an ATM. You're not what she's looking for in a sexual partner and is most likely getting sex elsewhere. Get a paternity test if you have kids.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:27 PM
1

"You're being such a dick lately?" "You're being such a dick lately?" = "Why are you being such a dick lately?" = "I'm directing you to explain to me why you think your actions should be acceptable to me." She's attempting to suck you into her frame and get you to qualify yourself to her. "Go on, just walk away like you always do." You've adopted a tactic that is proving to be effective against her. She is now attacking your use of this tactic by pseudo-ordering you to do what you're trying to d…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 02:17 PM
3

Because you want to be doing something else as soon as you get in the gym. Then you're lifting the bar and your body is giving you all of this painful feedback and your brain is concentrating on that and not on your lifts and whythefuckamIhereIcanjustgohome. ADD here. Been there. Still go there. Just get to the gym and make a habit of it. Even if you aren't lifting weights, make a habit out of getting to the gym. Go there and read a book on the treadmill for an hour. The treadmill doesn't even h…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 09:01 PM
1

Afgan women don't cheat because there's no one to cheat with. Women are viewed as "unclean" and therefore not worthy of the D. So the Taliban spend their time banging their buddies, who, according to their religion, aren't "unclean," and various livestock. Google "Man Love Thursday"
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 08:43 PM
1

Reading between the lines the husband probably is the Chad here. He failed her comfort tests repeatedly and was too alpha, overshadowing her. Nah, she's a narcissistic dependopotamus. She'll stay until she gets half of his pension and then she's going to eject.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 08:37 PM
1

She's pleasant. She'll also defer to me more or ask for my opinion. Back in my Pre-RP days, when our marriage was in dire straits, she's just be plain old nice. This would throw me for a loop, considering that the other 26 days of the month she'd be antagonistic.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 06:57 PM
1

My personal experience two days ago was nearly a full night of her saying she feels afraid to tell me no, to talk to me, voice her opinion, doesn't know why I don't believe in marriage whatever. That's a shit test: she's attempting to manipulate your behavior. I've noticed that my wife will shit test me just prior to her ovulation window and then become very nice during the window itself.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 06:01 PM
3

Shit-test. She feels like she's losing control of you and used the razor kit as a focal point to instigate and argument and take you down a peg. In cases where the woman has been in charge for a long time, she'll usually escalate the intensity a few times. She's in charge, you're not, so she's going to take you head-on. Once she's realized head-on confrontations don't work, look for her to shift to attacking whatever tactics are working for you. "You're always to smug! Like you're laughing at me…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/15 05:46 PM
5

I suck at game, but wouldn't going overt strip her of plausible deniability? Her ASD would roar to life.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 04:19 PM
7

...women seem to have two voices. A high pitched voice that they use when they want something and think they can manipulate you into doing what they want, On the flip side, listen to your friends when they're on the phone with their girl. Their voice usually softens and goes up in pitch.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 02:46 PM
1

I'll add that marriage counseling is generally horse-shit. My wife played our counselor like a violin.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 02:30 PM
3

Yes, threats of infidelity are exactly that: threats.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 02:14 PM
1

A good therapist will call you out on your bullshit. One problem with therapy is that it's pay to play. You run the risk that the therapist is going to see what's ailing you, but will spoon-feed you advice over time so that they can keep collecting money from you. Any tips for guys struggling with self-esteem or confidence issues? See /u/iq8's post.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 02:12 PM
2

By "TokyoRose11" That's someone advertising that they're a troll.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/15 08:58 PM
3

Use the herd mentality against her: stage an intervention. My opinion: she hasn't hit bottom, and she's going to stay in denial until reality punches her in the nose.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/15 03:03 PM
51

It's genuinely hurtful and discouraging to know that (for the most part) guys aren't hanging out with me because they think I'm fun or interesting. Just FYI, guys will willingly hang out with you because you are fun or interesting if you are actually fun or interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 02:21 PM
9

Why would you want to do that? She's already sucked your dick and shown that she wants to spin away that guilt. Moving the goalposts toward "It's not cheating because when he comes back you'll be with him full-time" or whatever drivel seems like it will work with her. Why set yourself up for bait-and-switch indignation ("Errmegerrd, he promised he'd be with me if I left Billy Beta. He lied. Rape!") when you have a good chance of getting everything you want and still have a built-in eject button …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 04:40 PM
1

These are what gave me the thought. My wife called me about an hour ago to say that she was out shopping for a few things, didn't know when she was coming home... she didn't respond when I eventually said goodbye). We haven’t slept in the same bed in I don’t know how long. Loads and loads of profanity from her to me. She has explained that she feels justified in using it when I upset her enough. she explained that she hasn’t been OK and still doesn’t forgive me for the long time I spent away fro…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 03:19 PM
1

Based on what little information you've provided, I'm getting a cheating vibe. Loads and loads of profanity from her to me. She has explained that she feels justified in using it when I upset her enough. That’s her prerogative. If it's legal in your location, get a VAR and secretly record her tirades. If she respects you as much as you're indicating, she's going to cite emotional/physical abuse in the divorce (you're getting divorced btw) and having evidence of her misdeeds could help nullify th…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 08:36 PM
2

You went from creepily sexting your wife to talking to a divorce attorney in one day... Just needed some thoughts from the MRP'rs. Don't troll the sub?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 08:25 PM
1

Value. Value. Value. she was mad because I didn't change the sheets She felt that you believed her value to be so low that she didn't even warrant the time to change the sheets. The obvious existence of a competitor removes her cloak of plausible deniability. She lost respect for me because I wasn't good at juggling multiple girls, and "you shouldn't bit off more than you can chew." This was her trying to damage your perceived sense of value. She was trying to take you down a peg. She also gains…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:52 PM
6

Why can they just not give a fuck? Because, unlike you, they are social justice warriors.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:07 PM
1

You've lost 20 pounds, keep it up. Losing weight will get you mostus for the leastus. Play the long game, keep working at it and give it time. Edit: I'll add that she's still into you if she's having sex with you twice a week when you're morbidly obese.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 03:06 PM
2

EXCEPT TWO. The 2 who didn't bother were both attractive females in their late 20s. Possibilities: They were in relationships with high-value men and didn't want to appear to be flirting with you. They were single and wanted you to approach them. They were single and wanted someone else to approach them, so they made sure they kept the approach open as much as possible. They were single and didn't want to look desperate (and thus grist for the social gossip mill) in front of the other women. The…
/r/askTRP30/04/15 03:03 PM
11

It could also mean that he's raised his SMV and she wants him more, but he hasn't stepped up his dominance game with her (told her what she has to do to make him happy) and she's freaking out that if he's not taking what he wants from her he's taking what he wants from someone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 12:05 AM
3

Tonight we had been invited to a friend's for dinner and on the walk there my wife made some comment that my shoes were "clickier" than hers and that I looked like I was auditioning for a boy band. FR: example of a woman negging
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 11:58 PM
2

So she is offering to help you but you think she is out to get you? You have known her for 5 years. If you were truly a "creep" she wouldn't talk to you, she wouldn't hang out with you, and she certainly wouldn't associate with you. Unless she was using him as a vehicle to gain social points with her group. Ugh, I just re-read the post. "Over the top feminist" AND a co-worker? At BEST she's a "frenemy." OP: AVOID LIKE THE PLAGUE. Everything you say can and WILL be used against you. At WORK.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 07:48 PM
2

the potential reasons why she is doing it She's doing it because it makes her feel better when she does it, she's gotten away with it in the past, and she thinks she'll get away with it in the future. If it's just intermittent low-level aggression on her part, then introduce some negative feedback. Make sure the trouble she gets outweighs the feeling of grrrl pwrz she gets from calling you a creep.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 07:41 PM
2

Heh, she noticed the younger competition at the event.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 08:30 PM
1

They're attempting to 'other' the 'slut' to promote group cohesion, either as group of women or her and you. They want to show that they have higher value by pointing out that the other has lower value. Slut-shaming is just low-hanging fruit in this process. If they don't have slut-shaming, they'll switch to another tactic.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 04:19 PM
1

She kind of had this coy look and again laughed it off. Ah, the "Did he just?" stage. i do believe she would have lit me up in the old days. Women use tactics as long as they're effective. Verbally punishing you for not obeying was used until you showed her that it was no longer useful. (Did it escalate before it died down? My wife went to '11.' Good times, good times.) They'll pick up the tactic and use it from time to time, just to see if they can get away with using it. It'll come out of NOWH…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 02:55 PM
7

Random thoughts: She really wants that addition. Under the cloak of plausible deniability, they'll imply that they'll suckie-suckie long-time if you give them what they want. You ripped that cloak off and offered her an overt contract: sex three times a week for that addition. Your wife implicitly trading sex for goods/services/currency is... being a wife. Your wife overtly trading sex for goods/services/currency is prostitution. You indirectly (which in womenese is still very direct) called her…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 02:37 PM
4

If she's entering the ovulation stage of her period, then she should be more open to physical affection and sexual advances. This is just based on 'internet reports,' but the only times I've heard of women going out of their way to reject sexual advances when they're ovulating is when their men are hardcore betas or they've switched allegiance to another man. Basically they want a stud fucking them, not their beta provider. Another possibility is that she's internally aware that she wants more s…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 04:58 PM
88

For a minute or two at the end his eyes were shinning like he has seen Jesus himself and "everything makes sense now bro" to him. (OMFG! I can so use this to score points with the chicks at work. I'll show them what douches other guys are and I'll finally be the HEEEEEERO.) "Wow, I've never thought about it like that Maddington12. Tell me more."
/r/askTRP15/04/15 01:54 PM
1

When a woman finds that you are successfully utilizing a tactic against her, she will attack the use of that tactic.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 02:07 PM
2

She was comforting you. She was indirectly saying that he was a sad person leading a sad life. He has bigger arms, but doesn't have his kid during the week and doesn't have a wife on his arm, and while you may have smaller arms, you have the other, more important, things.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 08:39 PM
3

If this is the first time he's stood up for himself in a long time, adding beta is going to be misconstrued as weakness. He's in a dominance engagement, she's enraged that he's out of the box and she's going to be shifting tactics constantly in an effort to stuff him back in.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 08:28 PM
1

Happened to me too. I had zero fucks to give at that point, so when she asked me to move out I told her that I was the one paying for the house, but if she wanted to move out, the kids and I'd miss her. This was followed by two weeks of the silent treatment. Blessed, Blessed Silence.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 08:26 PM
1

The texts are being used as drama currency. She can take them and show them to her friends/family. They become especially valuable if you blow up over text or try to A&A and she can spin the context to make you into the bad guy. Keep the big issues out of text. Text is for sexting and "We need milk."
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 08:23 PM
0

Go to counseling. She pays. No. Seriously. She pays. This is a perfect time to work on establishing and maintaining boundaries and frame. Things to watch out for: He said, she said appeals to authority: Your counselor isn't a judge. Don't treat him like one. Have your dialogue with your wife. DARVO: Playing the Victim is one of a woman's most powerful cards. Feminist or not, expect her to play it. Choreplay: Also known as "service for hope." I'm of the mind that you should just brand it a covert…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 03:46 PM
0

My SMV is higher but somehow she doesn't see it or act like it. Your SMV could be through the roof, but if there is no perceived threat (she witnesses you getting IOIs and/or your inclination to act upon them) then she's going to view you as "safe" and thusly you warrant no sexual effort to secure your allegiance.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 03:20 PM
1

The biggest challenge I'm facing is the fact that my wife is going through a living nightmare with her Mum and I'm struggling to sense where the line is between improving me and supporting her. When in doubt, favor improving yourself over supporting her. You're not her servant. She is spending every waking moment with her Mum which, after several months had put huge pressure on me to hold down my job and manage our two kids. You're doing what you can with what you have. Good on ya. Yesterday she…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 03:11 PM
1

You're attempting to extort(threatening) a cop during a traffic stop. They don't take kindly to that.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 02:49 PM
1

No, you'll both get arrested.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 02:34 PM
1

Is she saying this about you or making a statement about women and men?
/r/askTRP09/04/15 02:25 PM
38

“Churchill: "Madam, would you sleep with me for five million pounds?" Socialite: "My goodness, Mr. Churchill... Well, I suppose... we would have to discuss terms, of course... " Churchill: "Would you sleep with me for five pounds?" Socialite: "Mr. Churchill, what kind of woman do you think I am?" Churchill: "Madam, we've already established that. Now we are haggling about the price”
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:15 PM
120

"My vagina is no longer serves to provide entertainment, it's for garnering investment."
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:04 PM
4

Watch out for the "oops" pregnancy.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 05:30 PM
1

I literally said lets meet at her dorm and she said "why" and changed it to a public setting. Boom, that's her answer right there. She wants an orbiter. Good luck with the next one.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 02:28 PM
1

They offer "hope" for services.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 02:22 PM
1

"Gay"
/r/askTRP07/04/15 02:18 PM
1

almost every average to above average girl thinks she's gods gift to dicks. Because they have the largest percentage of males hitting on them. Uglier women are approached less because only the ugly guys want to fuck them. The hottest women are approached less because the less hot guys think they're out of their league and self-select themselves out of the game. The average and above average get hit on by the whole spectrum of males: Ugly guys throwing a hail mary, average guys who think they hav…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 03:53 PM
20

Now apply the solipsism filter to that statement: "I didn't like it when boys asked me where to go on a date. I wish the boys had picked a a place and told me where we were going. I didn't like being forced to make that decision."
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 03:11 PM
0

You don't have to go for week-long vacations. Take a weekend a month or every other month and visit some of the big cities in the US and Canada. Do some research and find things to visit in each of the locations: zoo, famous gallery, famous library, universities, etc. Make a point to talk to two or three random people on the way out, while you're there and on the way back. Be interested in them. Get their story. When you come back, you'll be able to talk about the city you've visited, the intere…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 07:48 PM
4

I dont think she consciously knew that the reason for that is because girls are illogical/irrational. She didn't say it to rationally convey information (if you argue with a woman, you're less of a man). She said it to intimidate you into avoiding arguing (and winning) with her.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 02:17 PM
3

Really? They'd argue the loudest. Plausible deniability and all that. She didn't leave him because he lost his job. She left him because he was angry and abusive and after he lost his job it just got worse *sniffle*.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 02:14 PM
1

One other thing, OP, you're a big guy. If a much smaller guy is making a go at you, and he's not out-of-his-gourd drunk, look for the weapon, because unless the guy is a MMA champion, there's gonna be one.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:04 PM
1

He and his brother also made the "BullyProof" videos. I highly recommend them to anyone who has kids.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:01 PM
11

It says that if you're the BB in a relationship, when you lose the ability to be the BB, she's going to drop you like a bad habit.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 01:44 PM
2

"Sounds like somebody is going to be having corn flakes for dinner."
/r/askTRP01/04/15 08:49 PM
2

when it happens with somebody that is keen on actually fighting. I think that's why the sucker punch was invented. Fair fights are for suckers.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 08:39 PM
3

Sometimes you have to get into it. I'm assuming that you mean that in a verbal sense. "You wanna go, bro" is posturing in a social dominance engagement. One term for it is "Escalato," another is "Monkey Dance." Stages of the Monkey Dance according to Rory Miller: A hard, aggressive stare. A verbal challenge, e.g., “What you lookin’ at?” An approach, often with the signs of increased adrenaline: gross motor activity of arm swinging or chest bobbing, a change in color, usually with the skin flushi…
/r/askTRP01/04/15 08:37 PM
23

Poor little aspie bastard. He was a rich little impala systematically hunted by two lionesses.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 08:51 PM
2

But some women, from my mother to some dates, persisted in accusing me of being irrationally angry, sometimes even enlisting others to help them, even though I ignored their efforts. In some cases is won't be projection. They may be trying to set a narrative, either for that particular engagement or possibly the relationship. Lock someone in as being "irrational and angry." Socialize that narrative, and if you ever do something to make them legitimately angry, you've already laid the groundwork …
/r/askTRP31/03/15 06:38 PM
1

Sounds like you're running sour grapes game on yourself to protect your ego: "She's not worth it so I'm not going to try." If you're not ready, you're not ready. There's nothing wrong with that. Keep practicing your game on whomever you feel is worth it. When you finally get to the point where you feel you can close, then I think your standards will self-correct and the girls will appear more attractive.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 06:31 PM
8

You should act OI (Outcome Independent.) You're initiating because you want to do it. That's your power. Her power is to accept or reject your advances. When you mope around or get mad and argue when she rejects you, you're signalling to her that she has power over you. Once she realizes this, she's going to exercise that power for her own feels. When you act OI, you're signaling to her that her actions don't have any influence over your state of being. She'll realize that you'll be a cool, calm…
/r/askTRP27/03/15 04:42 PM
1

For women, the Red Pill never prospers. For if it prospers, no woman dares call it the Red Pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 02:44 PM
1

Giving her a firm number allows her to make a judgement on you. In her mind she's the arbiter of what a "proper" number is for you to have. Playing the number game is engaging in salacious gossip. Salacious gossip == feels. If you give her your number, you've given her feels at that moment, and probably a few more times when she tells her friends (you're not around.) If you don't give her your number, every time she thinks about it, she gets feels. Every time she probes you, she gets feels. Stay…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 03:12 PM
2

Looks more like an opportunity to peacock for the ladies than anything else. Campus Social-Justice == Courtship Theatre
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:36 PM
2

Don't move out. If she wants to separate, then she has to make the tough choice: does she make the sacrifice to leave or not. This looks like a classic dominance engagement. If she's been in complete control for long enough and you've been a complete doormat for long enough, she's going to be very, very invested in keeping you under her control. Her conduct will become worse before it gets better. She's used to browbeating you into submission. When she engages you, just remember this: the only p…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 05:42 PM
392

She wanted him to yell and scream like a beta who's not in control of his emotions. She wanted him to display weakness so she'd feel better about herself. She wanted him to hand her a Victim Card. He didn't and she's pissed that her easy-out hasn't appeared. Edit: I agree with the commenters. It's very matter of fact and straightforward. It reads like a guy wrote it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 03:07 PM
8

Please stop being so judgemental. You triggered me
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 02:55 PM
1

I am assuming this is not a long term plate. Staying stoic could open yourself up to regret-rape. If she doesn't seem stable, I think a safer course would be to work the feels, get a "I had a great time last night" text from her, and then slowly next her.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 02:45 PM
1

We don't know the particulars behind his mother "living the frugal life." I'm not rich, but I've all but cut my wife off from my money. Why? Because she spends +1: all of the money she has access to, plus maxing out her credit (+1.) It took years of me living the frugal life, because she was spending all of my money, before I realized the only reasonable way I had to contain her spending was to cut her off and let her hit her credit limit.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 02:40 PM
1

His '4' was from a previous experiment. So odds are that he was portrayed differently in that experiment.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 05:55 PM
2

Huh, thanks for saying that, it caused me to re-evaluate my statement: There is also the possibility that Jenny's friends decided they didn't like you and made a concerted effort to get her to ditch you.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:19 PM
2

It was social and emotional damage control on her part. Someone else expresses interest in her. If she is in a LTR with a "Good" man and leaves him for a better prospect, then she runs the risk of being labeled a gold-digging whore. So she re-writes the relationship history. The good guy becomes a bad guy. She socializes all of his bad qualities to her social circle, so that she gains victim-to-hero credit for putting up with you and then finally leaving you.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 02:59 PM
3

He was the bouncer, you couldn't walk away. His quips keep him from being bored as fuck doing a boring as fuck job. I would chalk this one up to experience. Next time have a light, care-free attitude about the banter. Someone else can chime in on whether it's a good idea to AMOG the bouncer. I think it'd just get you refused entry or kicked out.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:16 PM
6

You can display "empathy" by mirroring a woman's typical reaction in the same situation. Have you ever told your problem to a woman? I'll bet the first thing they did was hijack the conversation with a rambling, indignant story in which something remotely similar happened to them. They then go on to talk about how that problem affected them, ignoring your problem altogether. So just do that, but make sure to preface it with, "OMG, I know exactly how you feel." Boom, you're displaying female empa…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 02:38 PM
2

Her boyfriend needs to fake his death and disappear because if he breaks her poor widdle heart, he's gonna be accused of rape.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 02:20 PM
1

But even if you put in all the work she's not going to go back to looking up to you. Oh, she will. It's just that she'll always know, in the back of her mind, that he was a beta. Whenever he shows any weakness, she's going to reset her opinion of him back to "beta."
/r/askTRP19/03/15 02:13 PM
3

When I regress, she has no idea what to do with herself but to turn against me. and When I succeed, her pride and exuberance about it is higher than mine. When I fail, she is more crushed about it than I am and falls apart. Your statements remind me of a quote from Winston Churchill that I use to describe my wife's emotional range when I either hold or lose my Frame: 'The Hun is always either at your throat or at your feet'.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 08:48 PM
1

She's going to be on Tinder even after she sleeps with you. If you're not cool with that, GTFA.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 03:14 PM
23

I hope this post wasn't too long. I tried to keep the information to the bare bones necessary minimum. Please let me know what you think. Next step: eliminate lines like the above from your posts.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:09 PM
15

Or should I do what she wants and get back in shape and push hard on my career, which I know will make her as affectionate as when we were first married? Yes. But don't do it for her, do it for yourself. You may get your sex life back to the way it was before, or you may not. You've shown her that you can be weak, and she won't forget that.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 02:57 PM
5

23 and you're making 100k? Get out there and travel. One or two times a year, get out into some other part of the world for a week. Make it a point to meet a few people there. Tell them your story. Ask them what their stories are. Then share those stories when you're back home.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 09:00 PM
1

Lol, I'll bet someone did tell her. Then she told her father, or her grandfather/grandmother, or Uncle Jim that they were an old dinosaur who didn't know anything about the "modern" world.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:26 PM
3

They already have that base covered: sex work, in and of itself, is oppression.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:19 PM
1

This isn't red pill because it's still all about her. Just fade, man. Go no contact and live your life for yourself.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:43 PM
3

You've just described my struggle. Do you have ADD? I ask because I've noticed that a lot of ADD types have the 80-percent-done-is-good-enough attitude. They put a lot of work in on a project when it's a challenge, and then once they get the internal validation that they've accomplished something, they'll drop the project. The focus becomes more about finishing the project than the accomplishment of doing whatever it is you're doing in the moment. Finishing is work and fuck that. The only way I'…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:35 PM
5

the hamster brigade will chime in with things like "You should help out around the house more." No no no! They should communicate! Try talking to her. If that doesn't work, have you thought of counseling? The problem with r/relationships is that it gives a ton of good advice, if both parties act in logical manner and in good faith. Which, most of the time is not the case.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 03:27 PM
4

It's not that they're incapable these things, it's that they blindly accept feminism telling them that everyone deserves a ludicrously high value man. They don't believe the feminist's argument (overt communication , i.e. logic) that they deserve a ludicrously high value man, they feel they deserve a ludicrously high value man.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 03:48 AM
12

Well he did immediately pick up a girlfriend. Based on what was implied in the article, he divorced his wife after they got back together and she revealed what she'd been doing for that year.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 03:12 AM
9

If the book is anything like the article describes it, it proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that the rationalization-hamster is real.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 03:09 AM
26

Still sorting through the psychological debris of an abusive childhood Annnnnnd everything is explained. Don't marry a defective partner.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 02:57 AM
1

I would have asked her which one was the pitcher and which was the catcher.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 02:42 AM
3

They saw that the girl may have been "interested" in hooking up with someone. One of them probably made an initial verbal probe to see if you were dangerous. Once they determined you weren't, they used you as an avenue for male-bonding (us vs thatguy) and also tried to poach her. Basically you were entertainment for them. If you gave as good as you got, and their comments weren't hostile or nasty, then I think they were also entertainment for you. Nothing like a little fun competition to keep yo…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 08:05 PM
4

Similarly, the last time she was forced to assess YOUR SMV, back when YOU were on the open market, Your SMV was probably lower than it is today. You were younger, but thats less important for men. But (if you've been lifting etc) you are probably fitter now. Hopefully back then you had an "entry level job" but now you are a "manager or supervisor" say. You're more confident. You're more assured. You've alpha'd up a fuckton at a bare minimum. She probably hasn't fully processed that yet. Boom. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 02:50 PM
2

He sees my success with women as wrong and what I do as manipulative and evil. He doesn't trust me and thinks he's another person I manipulate and use. Someone linked to the site The Rawness yesterday. One of the articles I read there described the difference between people with a Winner mentality vs those with a Loser mentality: Now you can always tell a winner mentality from a loser mentality by how they react to viewing situational winners. Losers see winners in a situation and try to visuali…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 02:15 PM
6

I would love it if it basically functions as ultra dread game for women at large. What I think will happen is that women will socialize the acceptance of affairs. They'll by hyper-sexual to lock down the BB. Once they do that, they'll shut of their vag. This will cause the BB jack into the VagX2000. They will then use their deadbedroom to rationalize their affairs.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 06:26 PM
10

He'd be a fool if he forgave her. Their oldest child is 6 years old. Youngest is 1.5. She straight up told him that she was faking her "love" since the birth of their oldest. Women re-write their relationship history to serve their current needs. The woman leaving her multi-year LTR suddenly has stories about the ex being "creepy and controlling." The alpha-widow with a long history of being pumped-and-dumped by Chad Thundercock, is hooking up with him again, because "He's a changed man." Or jus…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 08:29 PM
7

He lost his frame towards the end. She now knows that going full Victim is a viable tactic to use against him. I do love that he made her call her father and explain the threats she made. She lost some serious social status with her family over that.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 03:04 PM
15

Me: I think you are being unfair when you refuse to stop eating candy all day, while still expect me to be physically attractive. Her: Well I think YOU are being unfair for asking me to stop eating candy all day! Me: Have you considered the possibility that you are taking this too personal? Her: Have YOU considered that I'm NOT taking this too personal?! Me: I think you require me to spend too much time with you on a regular week. Her: I think that you require TOO LITTLE time to see ME during a …
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:51 PM
3

Women engage in this behavior because they have learned, over time, that acting this way is effective for getting what they want. Reduce the reward given and they lose the incentive to engage in that behavior. Warning: if she's been able to act this way for any length of time, these tactics will never disappear from her toolbox. Even after you've consistently defeated these tactics, she will occasionally bring them out to see if they can be effective again.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 02:04 PM
1

Her first request wasn't a shit-test, but the reversal was. She was feeling lazy and wanted to dump the undesirable chore on you. When you stepped up to the plate and shouldered the burden without complaint, she then felt guilty. You were doing more than her. In her mind, you made her feel bad about herself. So she went into damage-control mode to reenforce her belief in herself as the primary caregiver. That was the shit-test. I would reply to the second statement with, "No. I said I had it. Go…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 01:58 PM
1

Rugby Club. (Hope you're OK with drinking...a lot)
/r/askTRP09/03/15 07:58 PM
3

Nah, she was "topping from the bottom." She responded with, "See, you think your can decide for us that the coversation is over. I need comfort." I hugged her, kissed her cheek, then saw her on her way. The "I need comfort" was her playing the Victim card, but even then it was displayed in Command Mode. She still sees herself as dominant, and until he responds to her tantrums with "Feel free to leave. Don't let the door hit your ass on the way out," she's going to see herself as dominant.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 05:36 PM
5

Last I checked, texting "K" was womanese for "I'm pissed at you." It sounds like she is looking for validation through drama. She wants to live out the fantasy of having two men actively compete for her affections. If she keeps pinging you, I would take u/FrameWalker's advice, stay positive and keep the door open for future encounters: "I had a good time. Good luck!"
/r/askTRP03/03/15 08:48 PM
4

Women are not men. They don't appreciate male values like loyalty, devotion, provision, etc. They like that you're capable of offering them, but they're as thankful for it as they are for running water. It's not something in the forefront of their brains. For these are things that servants(orbiters) provide. In youth, any woman with half-decent SMV can acquire these servants at will. Post-Wall, most women can call upon White Knights or utilize their female social network to temporarily obtain th…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 03:28 PM
3

Where for the conversation got interesting is when we got on the topic of sex. She said that she’s beginning to realise that sex isn’t important; that she didn’t think she would need that much sexual satisfaction in her married life. This just means that she's not attracted to her BF now. Once she meets the next guy to give her tingles, she'll experience a sexual "awakening."
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:32 PM
1

The only reason for a man to get married today is to provide a stable two-parent household for the raising of children. That's. It. In every other way, the risks outweigh the benefits for today's man.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:43 PM
1

Tell him that at best he'll come across as weak and/or creepy. She'll tell all of her friends. Tell him that at worst, she'll call the cops on him or socially smear him as being a stalker.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 03:27 PM
3

she was fired 20 times last year). I think his lawyer will be extremely happy when your friend tells him that. Tell him to STFU with the divorce talk with his wife unless he wants a domestic violence charge or he wants his throat slit/dick cut off in the middle of the night. Check the laws in Ohio about recording single participant recordings. If it's legal. He should go get a voice activated recorder and keep it in his pocket at all times. He should keep his back-ups offsite. Recording her outb…
/r/askTRP25/02/15 03:20 PM
2

And make sure she knows that anything she "forgets" after you drop off the boxes is yours will be thrown out.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:35 PM
2

She was working you from Victim Mode and decided to up the amperage to obtain the next level of privileges. You stood your ground. She failed. Good for you. Now that you know her objective and the means she uses to obtain it, you'll know to stay the fuck away from her.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:23 PM
3

You go the only way you can go, you keep improving yourself... for yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/15 03:38 PM
2

Golden Vagina Syndrome. She feels that the value she's providing to you: access to her vagina, is superior to the value you are providing to her: entertainment and investment. Note I didn't say "sex" or "access to your dick?" Why? Because if she wanted those things from you she wouldn't be hitting you up with the phrase: "I don't feel comfortable with sex being the basis of our relationship." Sex is freely available to a hot woman. It doesn't hold the same value for them as it does to you or me.…
/r/askTRP19/02/15 06:37 PM
1

It's a ploy in a dominance engagement. Essentially you're jostling for a higher rung on the social ladder and that unsettles everyone's security. From the other side, a way to keep people in check is to accuse them of being a "try-hard." They'll self-censor to keep from upsetting other people. This is especially effective on the people-pleaser types.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 05:47 PM
1

"You know that's a hypocritical statement, right?" (stolen from /r/showerthoughts)
/r/askTRP19/02/15 05:36 PM
2

I don't think men would have a problem being with a strong, independent woman who was pleasant.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 08:10 PM
10

That sounds like another case of a woman re-writing history after the relationship goes south.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 03:58 PM
2

Huh, I can see this two ways: One way is beta advice that your mother would give you: the girl is a shining star to be put on a pedestal. The other was is a warning that an uncle or a grandfather would give you: if she's not making an effort for you, then she's not worth your investment.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 06:54 PM
3

Because if I leave, Im the father who abandoned his son and didn’t make his relationship work. There’s a lesson here gentlemen. If your relationship with your wife is going fine, your children are cherished treasures. If it's going poorly, they're hostages.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:33 PM
3

What was his major? This is total speculation with no data, but if he was on-track to enter a lucrative field, his fiancee may have been playing the long game on him with an eye on his future ultra-provisioning. (If want to be a general's wife, marry a lieutenant.) Isolate him from any independent social support and then grind him down. Make your world his world so that anyone he interacts with is on "your" team and he has no clue that he has Game of his own. Been there. Sucked. Thought about ea…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:28 PM
6

Robin Williams had dementia. If I knew my mind was going, and that there was little possibility of treatment or a cure, then I'd considering making The Long Walk myself, rather than draw things out and burden my family with crushing medical debt.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:14 PM
2

Women need Beta (support and labor) and Alpha (excitement.) Single women have implemented strategies to meet these needs. They accumulate the orbiters to meet their emotional need for validation and their non-sexual physical needs, such as entertainment, moving heavy things, paying to take them on a vacation, or buying them meals. They "pay" for this support with the by dangling the unspoken opportunity of sex with their orbiters. They attempt to meet their excitement needs via the Alphas. It ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 04:57 PM
13

Furthermore, if she also has a reputation of putting out on the first date and she's making you wait because you're 'so special'... why would any self-respecting man stay with someone like that? Well now you know why women stigmatize men who talk about their sex lives.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:39 PM
1

Not knowing the specifics in each of your examples, I can only respond generally. In all of your examples, the men had value that the women were attracted to: The hot girl may have been tired of being played by the bad boys and entered into a "safe" relationship with a Nice Guy. She knows she's the best he's ever going to get and she knows that he will never cheat on her. If the relationship provides enough value to her, she'll keep at it, but if she ever finds him lacking, she'll drop him for a…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 09:05 PM
2

They don't 'notice' those men. Those men are the movers of heavy things and nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:37 PM
3

80/20 rule applies here. Women look for two things in a LTR: provisioning and entertainment. Provisioning in the 80. Once that's squared away and taken for granted, they're looking for their 20 of entertainment. If there's a consistent dearth of it, they'll focus on what's missing and become "Unhaaaaaapy." I liken it to the old saw: Sex is just one part of the relationship, unless you're not getting enough, then it's everything. I'm right there with you. I spend so much time holding the line in …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 09:08 PM
1

A money-making opportunity here: create high-end aesthetically pleasing mini lock-boxes for celebs. Hrm, probably can't make them lock to avoid the obvious rape accusation, but maybe install a speaker and contact points in the lid and have it emit a high-decible alarm when it's opened.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 03:42 PM
2

Well, maybe she was the last girl he banged that night.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 03:35 PM
1

As an analogy, this came to mind: Your shower shoes have fungus on them. You'll never make it to the bigs with fungus on your shower shoes. Think classy, you'll be classy. If you win 20 in the show, you can let the fungus grow back and the press'll think you're colorful. Until you win 20 in the show, however, it means you are a slob. -Crash Davis
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 03:33 PM
2

You did OK. The choice was AppleBee's vs IHOP. It's not like you promised her a five star restaurant and then reneged. She wanted to throw a shit-fit. The real cause of her ire being Tinder. The change of venue was just an excuse. I don't know how to terpically smooth over the Tinder SNAFU, so I'll leave that to others. But I will say that you may want to be on the lookout for a "It just haaaaaapened" incident as revenge/evening-the-score for your perceived attempt at infidelity.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 03:03 PM
100

She's angry because his lack of emotional attachment lessens her chance to secure future investment from him.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 06:13 PM
6

Women mainly dress up in public to impress other women. Odds are the hotties ping on your wife's radar before you even know they're there. Her giving you shit for noticing is just her way of attempting to control you via shame. It's in our nature to appreciate beautiful things, don't allow yourself to be shamed for that. Very Late Edit: By "our" I mean everyone. Men and Women. Brad Pitt walks by? She's gonna be looking.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 06:50 PM
2

If it comes down to it OP, try this.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 04:19 PM
7

Her: You were looking at the woman in the red dress! Me: Yeah! *I give her a confused look* Me: You weren't?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 04:16 PM
1

Smiling during conflict can be a submissive fear response. Usually accompanied with terse vocal responses. The smile says, "I'm a friend. Don't hurt me." and they say as little as possible, because the more they talk, the more they could anger you. Basically it's a "Shit just got real. Please don't kill me." response.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 04:09 PM
1

Let him know that, no matter what, he can always call you. She has him isolated. You can't pry him from her claws, especially if she's ground his self-esteem down. You can however, let him know that you're still his friend and that if he needs you, he can call you. Edit: After re-reading your post, it sounds like she's his beard. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:54 PM
1

What I don't understand is why she would say "I broke up with him because he was poisoned by TRP. Because she was tailoring her message for the forum to which she posted. Using the term "TRP," in a disparaging way, in a women's forum is an almost guaranteed way to get women to flock to your banner. tl;dr; I'm a Victim. HE's the reason we broke up, not me. I did nothing wrong. He was great but changed. I did nothing wrong. It must have been from an external influence, not his reacting to me, who …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:42 PM
6

I'm about to dump her. What am I missing? The resolution. Her actions are telling you, loudly and clearly, that she isn't LTR material. Why aren't you listening?
/r/askTRP20/01/15 04:38 PM
26

What a "loser" boyfriend provides is Drama. Drama creates feelings. They're addicted to the emotional roller-coaster, even if its mostly negative. A woman addicted to losers will occasionally have their fill. She'll trade up for a nice stable guy. After a period of time, this stable existence will unknowingly bore her an she'll be "Unhaaaaaaaapy." She will then sabotage the relationship or branch-swing in an attempt to feed the Drama that she craves.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 03:18 PM
1

"We are Victims. Therefore, we always hold the moral high-ground when we attack. We would not express overt glee at the pain of others if we were not Victims."
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 02:59 PM
8

You want loyalty, find some male friends. Failing that, get a dog. If you want actual loyalty, I'd reverse the order.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 04:08 PM
5

The female answers on that board say that they are both immature and at fault, not just her, but the guy's too. When divvying up assets: "What's mine is mine and what's yours is ours." When divvying up blame: "What's yours is yours and what's mine is ours."
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 03:14 PM
6

When a woman finds that a tactic is being successfully employed against her, she will attack the use of that tactic. Because TRP is the encapsulation of many tactics that can be successfully used against her, she will despise and attack TRP as a whole. Due to their innate solipsism, women think strategically, what affects one woman affects all women. When a woman sees a tactic being successfully employed against another woman, she will attack the use of that tactic, as she sees that the tactic c…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 01:49 PM
2

Apologize for not clicking the glasses (their house, their rules.) Tell her to piss up a rope if she mistakes your decency for weakness and seeks to berate you or demand further concessions.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/14 08:15 PM
13

The daughters were ensuring that they could invalidate any will that bequeathed assets to their step-father.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 03:14 PM
6

For a lot of people X is never enough, they always want X + 1.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:10 PM
2

And that's just what I can remember. Honestly, you don't need much more. The kids are a weapon, tools. Possession of the children is her access to resources.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 02:09 PM
5

Steven didn't next her. He threw a tantrum wherein he stated he would not be her friend while she was dating the OP. Translation: I'm going to hold my breath and stomp my feet and not give you your validation kibble until you stop fucking that other guy! That poor girl. She has no one to make popcorn for her during the next Buffy The Vampire Slayer marathon.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 02:53 PM
2

If the correct answer is obvious, /r/relationships usually gets it right.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:25 PM
2

"She cheated on me. I know what I should and want to do, but she's the hottest chick I've ever slept with and I'm worried I won't be able to do better if I break up with her. Please boost my ego so that I can feel good enough to kick her ass to the curb."
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:21 PM
3

By and large, women are the more pragmatic sex.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:16 PM
9

Which explains women's pervasive use of plausible deniability.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:14 PM
0

Well, out of the 9 members of the court, three are men. So there's your 33%.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 01:46 PM
3

"Hi! In an article I wrote, I pretty much branded myself as an undatable shrew. My co-workers have now found out about the article, and have read the comments section and are shaming me. I was just KIDDING! It's hard for every-AmericanMenAreJustAsBadOrWorse-body out there, so can't we all get along?"
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:37 PM
1

$28 an hour? That seems pretty good for that type of job. If they want NBA-level pay, then how about they schedule an event at the arena that just has the cheerleaders. After they demonstrate that people are actually coming to the games to see the cheerleaders, and not, you know, the basketball players playing a basketball game, then I'm sure negotiating high salary contracts for those ladies should be a walk in the park.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 01:40 PM
3

I liked the argument, but the catty cross-dressing segments open you up to attack by just about everyone.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 01:36 PM
9

She probably meant 'slim' in relation to the average american's size.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 01:28 PM
20

Ah, the visceral hatred that emerges when those that are beneath you have the temerity to view you with disdain.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 01:23 PM
32

"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing."
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:58 PM
3

Her beta bucks escaped. Must punish.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 02:15 PM
10

She had sex with the ShamWow guy in Topeka?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 05:59 PM
1

Sounds like a good wake-up call for her to develop an actual personality.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:58 PM
2

Or the abridged version: "Duuuuuuude" followed by a head-shake.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 12:52 PM
17

"See a therapist" is code for "You're doing it wrong and fucked things up enough that it's easier/more acceptable for me to tell you to see an uninvolved third party to learn how to un-fuck things than it is for me to tell you how to un-fuck them and risk your anger or a public backlash." It's passing the buck.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:16 PM
3

Yeah, they get ad revenue. Why help the haters?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:07 PM
123

Yeah, troll account. A woman wouldn't admit to yelling at their children without five paragraphs of how the children "made" her yell at them.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:06 PM
3

If Katie Holmes had ever tried to publicly declare that sort of arraignment, she'd have shown up at the next premier cross-eyed and drooling.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:30 PM
2

Both can be saved. Everyone has their tipping point. Everyone. Barry is more likely to be a spree-killer though. Make sure invest in kindness to people like Barry. It'll pay dividends when they give you 30 seconds to get out of the kill zone.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:10 PM
29

Golden Rule: Those who have the "gold" make the rules. That being said... The nature of their marriage, and advertisement of it, leads me to believe that one of them is in the closet. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:47 PM
30

I was such a Beta. My wife is a high self-monitor and an extrovert. She has very good social skills. I'm very much an introvert and, as my wife likes to tell me, probably on the autism spectrum. When we first met, I was 195lbs, lifting weights regularly, seeing my friends and family regularly, and going to martial arts classes. First off, I allowed myself to become isolated from social support group. She was/is much more proactive about scheduling activities, and I soon found my calendar filled …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 04:14 PM
4

I always thought that you're paying $100 for the pussy and $4900 for confidentiality.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:59 PM
37

Ever call bullshit on a group of people's common behavior? They'll close ranks and counter-attack.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:39 PM
4

If she's walking all over you: Figure out what your boundaries are. Broadcast your boundaries. Enforce your boundaries. In general: You are the prize. If you know you're not the prize, then take steps to improve yourself until You are the prize. You do things for "The Good of the Household." Some of those things may be fun, some may be shitty, but you take care of your household.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 11:26 PM
2

First off, I agree with /u/linktochaos. She wanted to spark drama and lighthearted indignation in her friends. Now, on to this phrase: "It's his fault, he was so rough." Wow, that sentence is so loaded I keep expecting it to sink down one line from its weight. First off, you have the blame shifting "It's his fault." Right on its heels is claiming Victim Status with "he was so rough." Not something overtly generous to you like, "good," but "rough." She's rockin' the plausible deniability in case …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:07 PM
16

Hey now, NAWALT. There are some that keep the orbiters orbiters for maintenance projects, feeding their pets when they're on vacation, and moving heavy things.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 03:02 PM
441

I then saw the pattern... They were hamstering - they were trying to get me to eat the cake so they won't feel bad themselves. Exactly like how slutty girls tell their friends to do something slutty so they don't feel bad when they sleep around. They were trying to include you in a group bonding ritual. You show acceptance of the person that is having the birthday by accepting the offer of cake. When you rejected the cake you implicitly rejected the birthday-girl and the group. "Oh, you're too g…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:12 PM
2

Why is she marrying Clooney? Best reasoning I have is this. Just flip the genders.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:59 PM
13

"No way I'd hit that. She has sharp knees."
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 01:47 PM
11

She's just lamenting that he's out of her league now. Chubby + Med Student (Future doctor) = He's a Great Catch and, due to his lowish SMV, she may be able to reel him in. Bodybuilder + Med Student (Future doctor) = He's a Great Catch and, due to his high SMV, she has absolutely no chance unless they have a ONS and she has an 'oopsie.'
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 01:46 PM
46

On the surface it seems like a good strategy for women. The app maximizes the women's options while it minimizes the men's. But it falls apart quickly. The women have to make the first move, by allowing the man to see her pics. So the guy will know that she's seen his profile AND liked what she saw before he even makes a move. For the men on the 20 side of the 80/20 rule, it's going to be like shooting fish in a barrel. For the women, it's going to quickly turn into a bucket of shit. Why? In a w…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 01:39 PM
3

Three can keep a secret, if two of them are dead. -Benjamin Franklin
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:23 PM
1

You could abstract secrets up to drama. Hrm, then you could abstract drama up to emotions.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:16 PM
5

No, women are just incapable of telling you straight out how to solve your problem. Oh, they're totally capable of it, they just choose not to. Why? Because if they stake out a position without the rest of their peer-group's consensus, then they risk being the odd-girl out, and thus open to social attack. As soon as they know that their opinion is vetted by the people she thinks 'matter' (Usually her FSM) then she'll tell you, and them, exactly she thinks. I think this is why a lot of women get …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:14 PM
2

Last year I was talking to a detective in NoVA that had recently transferred out a sexual assault department. He told me that out of every 100 cases, 90 were either vindictive gfs/wives, exes, or mentally unstable women making false claims. They were usually obvious about it and their stories fell apart under scrutiny. Of the remaining 10, 5 wouldn't testify, not wanting to endure the rigors of having their lives laid bare by cross-examination, and the case would fall apart. The remaining 5 case…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:27 PM
3

Is that Watson or the chick from Twilight?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:15 PM
5

Keep it coming! More! More! More! Crazy, cloaked in plausible deniability, is insidious and very hard to combat. Crazy out in the open is easily destroyed.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:10 PM
6

You showed bravery, which is what your GF appreciated. If you want to punish him, file a complaint with the school. They'll make him and his lineman buddies sit through a sexual harassment course. Or do a bit of sleuthing and find out which of the gurrls on the shcool paper are womyn's rights activists. Feed him to the SJWs. If you're going to lose a fair fight, don't fight fair.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:07 PM
9

I'm married, my game sucks, and I'm practically autistic in my lack of ability to comprehend complex social interactions... ...but even I can see that it's highly probable that she sees you as the chump who pays for her entertainment. I think this is a skittles opportunity: do something cheap, but fun, and see how she responds to it.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 07:29 PM
4

TIL women don't know when they're being shit-tested by other women.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:48 PM
3

Genius: trying move the suspect's arms by pulling on the upper biceps. extending the suspect's arm, but not rotating the wrist to lock out the joint. trying to hold down the suspect by pushing on his shoulder with her hand. Your knee is right there, dumbass, let your bodyweight do the work.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:33 PM
12

Athol Kay has a post regarding #3. tl;dr; on the post: The opposite-sex host will only allow the guest to stay at the home if they're potentially fuckable.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:59 PM
1

Would have loved to have seen just two more sentences: "And the neighbor's dog keeps barking, day and night. It JUST WON'T SHUT UP." Because if you're going to be delusional, at least have the saving grace to bat-shit crazy delusional.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:36 PM
2

Overt bragging about one-off drive-byes from strangers is just her letting you know she still has SMV. She's running a bit of Dread Game on you. The thing to watch out for is if she consistently mentions a guys name over a period of weeks or months and then goes completely silent about him.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 12:54 PM
1

that reminds me. i'm seeing the fear in random girls already. a couple weeks ago my friend and i were crawling the bar district, and a girl came up to us to ask for a lighter outside of a bar. she said her friends goaded her into asking strangers for a light to get her to socialize. this girl was somewhere around 27-30, and she dressed and acted like a boy: short haircut parted at the side like a preppy boy's cut, light blue button up shirt like i would wear to work, and non-feminine glasses, je…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 08:46 PM
1

It seems that 20 year old fatties think that they are entitled to muscular CEO with looks of a movie star. I think that good old Pareto principle 20/80 doesn't apply anymore, it's more like 5/95. Meh, everybody say it with me: actions, not words, show their true intent. What they're going to say: "I am entitled to a muscular CEO with the looks of a movie star." What they're going to do: Go to the animal shelter and adopt another cat.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 08:06 PM
6

What's the definition of a '10'? A '2' and eight million in the bank.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:35 PM
3

They also have a child together.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:13 PM
1

I'd love to see that pre-nup.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:17 PM
0

Its a fight over nothing. Which means it's most likely a dominance engagement. Why do men engage in arguments like the OP's? Because they believe that they're right. Why do women engage in them? Because they believe they can win.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:06 PM
2

Meh. I'd just go silent for a few days and concentrate on my own life. But that's just me. I'm married. So I'm dead inside. Losing the relationship means the shackles come off. So I stand my ground (generally) when it comes to principles. Either way I win.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:07 PM
14

If I die, my children are destined for a life of poverty. If you want a seat, you'd better arrive before I do or have the ability to take mine from me.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 01:23 PM
2

Female Social Matrix, basically other women.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 02:22 PM
3

I've seen full spiral and I'm of the mind that there are two reasons that a full spiral is employed: You're in a dominance fight and she believes she's the Alpha. A full spiral is an emotional reaction to your successfully handling a shit-test that she expected you to fail. She wants to win. It doesn't matter what the facts are, she is supposed to win and you are supposed to lose. She will continue to toss shit your way until you submit. She's setting you up! She needles and goads you until you …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 08:44 PM
5

If multiple women have asked him to wear their underwear, then I'm going to speculate that he's either actively selecting the type of woman would ask such a thing, or that he's been dropping hints that they should ask this of him.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 07:53 PM
6

Three years ago I would have sworn in court that my wife had BPD. Once I was able to set boundaries and show that I would consistently defend them, her cranky shit-weasel ways began to change for the better. Because they're constantly testing you, a woman will treat you as badly as you will allow them treat you. If you show them that you'll allow teh crazy, you're going to get teh crazy.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 07:47 PM
5

Now she has a knack of knowing I'm going to leave and turn it into she's "kicking me out" so I try to go elsewhere in the house. When a woman sees you effectively utilize a tactic against her she will attack your use of that tactic. Your wife has gotten inside of your head and made you question leaving the house. You do what you want to do. She has no control over your actions, other than the control that you give her.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 07:37 PM
3

I agree. That letter was a very public way of pissing on her back and telling her it's raining.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:28 PM
29

The husband has to sell the lie, even to himself, or otherwise admit that he failed to protect his children.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:14 PM
0

It's a real-life soap opera in which they feel they have a walk-on role. Quote from Rollo's article: Women need indignation. Watch one episode of ‘Dance Moms‘ and you’ll get a much clearer picture of the value indignation holds for women. Whether the source is gossip, living vicariously through third parties or eating it up in popular media (Oprah, Tyra Banks, romance / fan fiction media), in the absence of indignation, women will actively manufacture it for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 01:34 PM
3

It's a woe-is-me article. She's seeking beta support and validation. Based on absolutely no scientific evidence whatsoever, I'd venture to say that she wrote this a week or so post-ovulation, when her estrogen levels were peaking. You'll note that 12 days prior, during ovulation, she was scrutinizing photos of Chris Pratt's washboard abs. Because, you know, he's a pig. Look for a "You go grrrrrrl" type article in 2 weeks or so. Edit: or better yet, don't.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 02:51 PM
1

Wait one year, then write about how she applied for a "secret" credit card after two months. Placing the responsibility upon her husband does nothing to resolve the problem. As soon as she wants it back, she will firmly tell him to give it to her. And he will, because he doesn't want to open himself up to the "evil, creepy, controlling, abusive husband" accusations that are so common today. Take the card out of your wallet and put it a drawer. If you need a more firm mental barrier to keep you a…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 02:36 PM
1

Fast forward another few weeks at another party, where she claims she can shoot a gun more accurate than me. She loses that bet. What do I win? She goes in for the kiss again. Next day excuse? Yeah you guessed it. It was the alcohol. Well, to be that guy, don't handle firearms after drinking. Yeah yeah, "We were safe," but it never seems to be the buzzed shit-head that gets shot, it always seems to be the innocent in the next room over.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 02:17 PM
2

Gotta have that drama.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 01:39 PM
2

He also modeled for his children how to step up in an uncomfortable situation and show some class.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 07:00 PM
2

Mmmmmm.... the Quarterly Plan. Been there.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:51 PM
1

Low and high self-monitors
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 03:00 PM
1

Due to the rise of gopros and cell phone cameras, they'll have to explicitly target men in the law's definition. Otherwise, a shitload of women are going to jail.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:48 PM
6

He's being smart with his method, but isn't confident enough in himself to not turn to fucking reddit where armchair warriors will tell him that he should pay. He's most likely getting the full-court press from her team and white knights IRL. He came to reddit to get a sanity check.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:46 PM
3

I gave my wife an ultimatum to pay off her CC debt or the wedding was off. She paid off the debt, with my help (maybe 1/4th) over a period of eight months or so. She held it together for another year or so, until our daughter was born. She's held CC debt ever since. She would fight me when I asked her to keep to a budget, so I went the other way: I cut her off and let her hit the CC limit. Now reality curbs her spending. She has a teacher's pay, so she can't get new cards with a large limit, and…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:42 PM
2

I know, right? If everybody wins, then everybody wins. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 05:14 PM
3

I'm going to be the devil's advocate here. I've heard* that the first thing you do when you get a girl's number is to call it right then and there to "give her your number" and also confirm that she didn't just give you the number to the local radio station. So if everyone has a cell-phone, giving out a fake number isn't going to work. That said, her not telling the other guy to fuck off shows that she has poor boundaries and the boyfriend has a possible "It just haaaaaaaapened!" in his future.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:34 PM
8

I view that article as a single's ad. To speculate: she's still single because she's still attractive enough to ride the carousel. Yes, she can't compete with the 20 year olds, but those women go to clubs and she seems like the wine and cheese party type. She writes for the Atlantic, so odds are she rubs elbows with the upper-class and her hypergamy is still hoping to land a 40's version of that 50 Shades of Grey character. She's a feminist, so odds are she hangs out with other feminists which m…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:09 PM
2

I think the sub-text that the article is trying to convey is that the wife can stray with a bad-boy and then possibly be taken back by the ex-husband when she's her new life turns sour. The article whole "Women's Infidelity" vibe: wife leaves for tingles, after the fog lifts, she realizes that she's unhaaaaapy with her bad-boy and wants her stable provisioner back... until the next set of tingles walks through the door.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 04:05 PM
6

..and Ray Rice himself gets a slap on the wrist and married. So Ray Rice got the worst of it.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:33 PM
18

The logical end-point of all of this enthusiastic consent claptrap is for each encounter to be recorded.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:21 PM
6

One is entertaining to talk about, one is not. Our value, when provisioning is not an issue, is the entertainment we provide them. Either through discussing us to their friends(and the resultant status they gleen from entertaining their friends,) or the experiences/feeling we give them directly.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 03:30 PM
6

I'm also thinking that she's angry at the fact that he's five years older than her and can morph from schlub to hot in six months. In six months he was able to hit near his peak of SMV. At 35 he can improve himself enough to elicit tingles, but Tracy's best days, even if she hits the gym three hours a day, seven days a week, are behind her. A woman can get toned past the age of thirty, but generally they can't revert to the lush suppleness of youth, they become hard and angular, which lowers the…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 02:17 PM
95

Wow, it's as if she had friendzoned him in her imagination and is now mad that he's attempting to break out of the friendzone in real life.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:00 PM
1

The Feminine Imperative: Just like Big Brother, we are always watching and judging you. Conform.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 03:07 PM
2

"I'm going to leave. I'm so high value that you're obviously going to fall to pieces and probably stalk me like men do in the LifeTime movies I watch. Here is some toilet paper. I don't owe you anything. Don't stalk me."
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 02:53 PM
1

You're right, shutting the chips off directly would open them up to attack. So a logical evolution is that religious extremists wouldn't do the deed themselves. They'd release circuit diagrams, code, and step-by-step DIY instructions anonymously. Then it could be done by anyone passing you on the street.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 01:50 PM
7

Dopamine fog. So yeah, the "fog" does exist. "It just happened" and "I had no idea" is total bullshit. I've also read "Women's Infidelity." That's a brutal, brutal book, but I think it tells the true story.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 01:57 PM
65

That's a classic. It reaffirms my belief that, while in the heat of passion, in that moment , women are honest about their feelings. She really does love you. She really hates your guts. She thinks you're an idiot. She thinks you're perfect. All those feelings expressed in the heat of passion: true. In that moment. Then the moment passes, and the slate is wiped clean.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 01:48 PM
26

She currently has a guy that is higher than her in SMV. The fact that she caught this guy at all has given her confidence. So now, odds are, she thinks that her SMV is equal to his (because he's dating her) and she wants to take that SMV out for a spin and see if she can trade up.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 01:33 PM
17

Oy, she's going to get drunk at a party, cheat, and then use her intoxication as an excuse. She's going to flunk out of college, too. Her instructors in college will expect her to capitalize the first letter in a sentence. "wanna"
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 01:29 PM
20

The money was good, hell it was great, but my first night I knew that this was a mistake because this was not the glamorous lifestyle I thought it was. The customers were all guys who were no younger than 40 but a few that I swear were close to 60. Hypergamy. She was shopping for an upgrade and it blew up in her face.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 02:30 PM
2

To a woman, a man is either "selfish" or "servant."
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 02:27 PM
1

I'm of the mind that they "realize" it, but only on a subconscious level. I agree with 6T, he should leave, but not just yet. I don't think that he can win the guys over, not unless he improves himself enough to display enough high value to shock and awe them. He knows he's going to get flak. He also knows that he's not that great at standing up for himself. So how is he going to get better? Practice. He should ghost when slapping them down becomes second nature, or after escalato ends in violen…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 01:18 PM
3

I agree with your analysis, but don't think he should leave... just yet. Engaging these fucktards should give him some good practice in standing up for himself.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:32 PM
6

Based on the way the OP wrote his post, I'm guessing he's been taking shit for a while and thought he had to suck it up and take it. He's started standing up for himself, but isn't used to it. When the group piled on, and he stood up for himself, they tried to convince him that his behavior was unacceptable. He feels that he's doing the right thing, but is experiencing cognitive dissonance from what he feels is right and what the group is telling him is right. So he came to an uninvolved third-p…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:24 PM
45

It was the "we" that she used that set off alarms in my head. No encouragement for his wanting to better himself, she wanted a low bar set for both of them. It's his life and he hasn't married or otherwise formally/legally committed himself to her. Essentially they're still dating. Dating is the process of vetting potential life-long mates. She didn't meet his standards. Next.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 01:50 PM
23

The members of your group are using you as a punching bag to build cohesion and garner social status amongst themselves. At this time, there is a narrative formed by the group: you are the punching bag; you are supposed to take these jabs; you are not supposed to fight back. If anyone feels low or un-empowered, and they want to feel better, they take it out on you. Your fighting back challenges the stability of the social hierarchy of the group. So if you resist, eventually everyone is going to …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 01:39 PM
158

She was actively championing an unhealthy lifestyle. One that you no longer wanted to be a part of. Next. The next time you talk with your siblings, tell them that you wanted both of you to better yourselves. She wanted you both to be fat. You couldn't live like that any longer. You had to end it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 01:21 PM
6

Most of the men in I know that are in unhappy marriages are staying to be close to their children. For a woman to leave a marriage, she just has to be unhaaaaaaapy. For a man to leave a marriage, he has to be miserable enough to separate himself from his children. If the US family court system switched the "default" custody parent from mother to father, you'd see a HUGE spike in divorces.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 02:42 PM
1

IIRC, I've read here that the three classifications women have for men are: Sexual Useful Invisible
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 02:03 PM
1

The fun part is that everyone involved, singer and audience, knew that they were only applauding because she was unattractive to the point of deserving pity.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 01:06 PM
3

IIRC on these courtroom shows, everyone gets paid. The guy 'won' the case, but the only thing she lost was her reputation.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 01:54 PM
1

Wouldn't this be 'pull' in the push/pull dynamic? If you're normally Alpha, then being Beta would actually work for you. Until Beta becomes the norm. Then the disdain begins to creep in.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 01:33 PM
75

Crazy spans all of the tax brackets.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 02:33 PM
-2

I do now, thank you for clarifying.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 03:16 PM
19

Bad analogy. Women don't care where you worked and how much you made in the past. (Prior to meeting and provisioning for them.) They care where you work and how much you make now. (How much you are able to provision for them now.)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 01:55 PM
1

She was using her sister as a shield. She knew that the other people present would prevent any ass-kicking coming her way. I think CH has a post that posit that women want the thrill of pseudo-danger, akin to being on a roller coaster. It's scary, but they know they're safe. I have no doubts that she knew that if she'd have started that crap with no witnesses present, that she'd have ended up crumpled in an unconscious heap in the corner.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 01:47 PM
3

Women fear the free flow of information not tainted by the Feminine Imperative. They know their mere presence will corrupt that flow. Failing that, they will send in their White Knight lackeys. Once the men know that they're being watched and that they can take a social and/or financial hit if their words or actions are deemed hostile to the FI, their guard goes up and the free flow of information stops.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:37 PM
4

I view it as that the eldest felt that the youngest was "winning" after securing a husband, having a child and having a strong ties with the family. Now the eldest wants to reclaim her rightful place in the family and is playing catch-up. Cue lane-change and call to Daddy.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 03:39 PM
0

Sniiiiiiiiiifffffffffffffff Mmmmmmmmm, that smell of racism out in the open.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 03:36 PM
8

Wow, if you read between the lines you can see that she only sees him as a provisioner. We get Married, life is good. He has a good job and makes good money, he hates his new immediate supervisor but who doesn't. Im just afraid that he is going to either hurt himself (he's never said anything about that but I worry) or hurt Bob or he is just going to wither away. I'm also afraid he is going to be fired. Look I get that this is deeply affecting him and I know I was wrong but this is over a decade…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 01:34 PM
4

Female rating system is binary: Hot. Would fuck. How much money does he make?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:40 PM
7

I would have liked to see a scenario where the female confederates don't attempt to force collusion by talking to the marks when the male confederate isn't present. Have the female confederate walk away first and the male confederate starts up his spiel. I'd also love to see how many male marks would speak up, both in the scenarios from the clip and the one I described above. I don't know (but I think everyone here has a good clue) as to how the women would react in my scenario. As for the males…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:37 PM
1

I had this happen too, but without the cops being called. I moved her out of the way with my butt, boxed her out, basketball-style. "STOP HITTING ME!" "What, with my ass?"
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 03:08 PM
9

I respond with "Well, there you go." Which is what I say when I classify someone as an idiot. I no longer bother trying to educate idiots.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 03:01 PM
2

She asked "Why not" because she thought his SMV was so low that he'd have no choice but to remain as an orbiter and exchange his services as an emotional tampon for pity-fucks.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 04:02 PM
1

Is this why she's your ex? What'd she decide?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 03:59 PM
3

Taking a break means that she thinks she can do better, but isn't sure, so she wants to keep you around as a back-up in case her plans don't pan out.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 03:54 PM
1

Or the other guy was a bad lay. She was out of contact for a few days: Her: Give me a few days to think about this… In her mind, they were on a 'break' for a few days.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 03:47 PM
1

After she fucked Matt, she got buyer's remorse and wanted to see what the both of you looked like in a side-by-side comparison. When she invited you to the pool, she was setting you up for a nice, little game of "Let's You and Him Fight." Her being The Prize, of course.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 07:56 PM
2

The email's subject was just bait to get him to open it.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:56 PM
6

It's what she looks like in the images that stands out. Poor girl, she went full retard.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 07:25 PM
1

'Easy pickings' and all, I would expect women to socially evolve and become psychopathically devious in their methods for consciously trapping the remaining men that are interested in them.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 04:34 PM
1

The 'only' women who will be threatened will be... all of them. Every relationship goes through rough patches. So every woman will know they can be replaced at will if the relationship hits a rough-patch. If sex-bots ever have the ability to become actual competitors for women, they will be outlawed.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 04:29 PM
2

Married man here. If everything is going well, I'll hold onto it. If I'm getting a ton of directives/shit-tests, then I'll either respond with "I'm not your valet," or I'll smile, take it, say "Thanks!!!" and then wink at her and let it drop to the floor.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 03:11 PM
1

Roller Derby Queen
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 05:26 PM
0

Her friends call her Tuffy but her fans knew her as Spike?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 02:41 PM
1

'gay'?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 02:40 PM
0

My point is this, women will play aloof or the role of clueless when they are out in a social situation It's called plausible deniability. In a woman's world, covert is more powerful than overt.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 02:39 PM
1

I think he raped her, because that girl is obviously mentally retarded.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 02:20 PM
1

This was just a proxy-fight between her and her ex-husband. She obviously viewed her custody of the children as a way to show that she was better than her husband. Her solipsism caused her to believe that if she thought that way, then her husband must think that way also. Custody of the child = points. Must win.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 04:49 PM
2

Because calling it a rape joke is more powerful than saying he said mean things that hurt her in the feels.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 04:27 PM
2

That's r/relationships. Outside of pointing them to MMSL, /r/DeadBedrooms usually tells the person to either DTMFA, cheat or divorce.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 05:18 PM
6

She mentions in the article that she's getting older...
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 03:11 PM
-1

If it's helping the kid land pussy, then scotch-guard the coat! He's reacting to what the kid has on his jacket. He needs to find out what the kid believes. "Son... do you know what that means?" "Yeah dad, but chicks eat that shit up!" "Son... are you having teh sex?" "Daaaaaaad!" "SON!" "Yeah..." "That's OK, Son. You're wearing condoms, right?" "She said she was on the pil-" *SLAP* "Wrap it up, boy! ALWAYS!"
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 06:33 PM
2

I don't really know how to handle it when women who are clearly involved with another guy in the same room start giving me IOI. It gets really awkward when it's your SIL.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 01:19 PM
0

Because this isn't a discussion about religion or politics. Well, it's not a discussion about non-gender related politics.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 01:03 PM
4

No. The women will then convince themselves that foreign men are 'better' and go abroad, too.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 01:02 PM
3

Neither books are excellent works of literature. My wife asked me to read it. It's the only book I've physically thrown across the room to get it away from me. If your woman asks you to read the book, just tell her you know what she wants and then tie her to the bed with a tie and spank her. Then growl "I want to claim your ass." Just a horridly written book. Putrid, even.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 12:48 PM
17

Meh, it's possible that he can 'pass'. His father has some serious caucasian features and the kid looks like he has his father's nose. A simple $90 DNA test would remove any doubt, one way or the other.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 06:38 PM
2

But the most important person in your life is you, and only you. An alternate way of saying that would be that "You are nobody's servant."* * Until you're a parent. Even then you're not so much a servant as a benevolent dictator.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 02:04 PM
3

and a lot of guys have problems finding sex because the other person only wants friendship, and is getting sex from someone else. FTFY
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 01:10 PM
14

I don't see women writing 'pump and dump' either.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 06:40 PM
1

Someone for Wallace's Literary Trust must be a fan of TRP, because the video was pulled at 10am today.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 05:48 PM
4

they tell me shit like "sigh this guy is totally in love with me, what a loser". Heh, "I have value!"
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 03:42 PM
3

yea and she even told me she wanted to work out with me in the future when we get married Heh, never believe what they say, only their actions tell the truth.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 02:22 PM
0

but always be friendly, always happy and wishing her the best, be CHEERFUL even, fucking giddy, excited for the future.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 02:17 PM
2

Damn, that was a powerful speech. Thanks for sharing that!
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 02:04 PM
1

How does that verbiage make women immune to committing crime? It looks like it states the ammendment doesn't affect those laws, but Congress is free to repeal the laws as they stand or enact new ones.
/r/MensRights21/05/13 02:15 PM
1

Well of course they're not going to pay attention to you. A guy in finishing school? They think you're gay.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 02:58 PM
1

The guy works and comes home straight into his PJs and sits and watches hours of television. That's what happens when you feel trapped in your own skin.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 01:56 PM
8

Be a mirror; reflect what you get ... This is a damned good jumping-off point for those looking to shuffle off their blue-pill shackles.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 01:32 PM
2

When a crab tries to craw out of the barrel, it's in the nature of the other crabs to latch on and try to pull him back in.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 01:25 PM
1

Ignore her.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 07:09 PM
1

I will offer my seat to anyone who looks like they're worse off than I am (and isn't a dick about it.)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 07:06 PM
0

There's just something about the guy in #1 that tells me he's going to lose the weight in a few years and either put her ass on a treadmill or kick her to the curb.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 07:24 PM
14

I've heard all of those things within minutes of meeting a girl. Why? Because I think in grrrl-world, those statements are made to demonstrate value. They get so many, "You go grrrl!" statements from other women that they assume they'll get more of the same from men.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 07:05 PM
11

She seems like damaged goods.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 06:59 PM
5

Exert control over your actions, either by inhibiting them ("You are not going to the game on Sunday.") or channeling them according to her authority. ("You can go out with the guys, but be back by 10pm.")
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 07:21 PM
2

I eat pop tarts daily and Im 11% bodyfat I hate you
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 01:08 PM
5

Meh, treason does not prosper, for if it prospers, none dare call it treason.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 07:50 PM
7

Throughout the years they were all rather... grim.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 02:12 AM
4

I couldn't finish that.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 08:06 PM
1

I thought they loved crucifying people? Different kind of pegging, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:38 PM
2

errr.... traditional conservative?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 01:59 PM
2

And any action on my behalf would be viewed as the aggressor. Predominant Aggressor Notice the strong implication that the batterer is the male and the victim who merely 'fights back' is the female.
/r/MensRights29/04/13 07:45 PM
5

My wife, even to this day, attacks any initiative I show. It took me a while to pattern it out, but once I did I fought back against it. At first we'd have knock-down drag-out arguments, but now I just laugh, pat her on the head and go about my business. The hard part is realizing where you're being manipulated. Once you can discern a pattern to her behavior, then you can formulate an action-plan to deal with said behavior.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 04:23 PM
0

That chick is a poster-child for female insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 02:39 PM
7

Hmmmmm..... it's been a while since I've seen such a richly eloquent flame. She's the head of their chapter, right? They've been limp-dicking it and she's giving them a rightly deserved email-delivered shot to the balls. Leaders should be leading. Good for her.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 05:10 PM
7

Nice hamsterin' :)
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 02:44 PM
1

The article seems to give the perception of "I've got it all, yet I'm still a victim!"
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 06:45 PM
9

Hah, that's what you think. She's playing the long game, bro.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/13 03:12 PM
1

mutter apologies Hah! You made a funny.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/13 02:57 PM
1

Enh.... what do you call a 10? A two and 8 million dollars.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/13 08:03 PM
7

From another comment: I know all too well now that it was a situation that I should have just avoided. I didn't initiate anything, he started putting the moves on me and I just let it happen... Yeah....
/r/TheRedPill03/04/13 07:49 PM
1

There are tons of reasons for a DB. I love seeing the posts from the beta-males. Why? Because they're easy to diagnose and, if the poster wants to put in the effort, the easiest to fix.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 07:27 PM
1

Mmmmmm.... loves me some Poe's Law.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 07:22 PM
6

Also, if she was so traumatized by their conversation, she could have also just turned around and told them to STFU.
/r/MensRights21/03/13 06:15 PM
5

We are at war with Oceania. We have always been at war with Oceania.
/r/MensRights21/03/13 05:59 PM
1

Damn, what a wonderful definition. I'm stealing that!
/r/MensRights21/03/13 05:58 PM
7

We've all known red flag crazy girls She isn't crazy. Beating on men is her ticket to fame, fortune, and glory. She knows this. She's not crazy. She's a predator.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/13 03:40 PM
19

He's apologizing because he lost his job over it and is hoping that a public display of humility will either get him his old job back or help him get a new one. One added bonus is that his apology simultaneously humanizes him and adds to the perception of Richards as a power-tripping jackass.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/13 08:17 PM
6

Does he just use her for sex and move on - nope, back to beta boy behavior. Well, it is a show marketed towards women. My guess is that the only alpha-type shown on the show would be one of two molds: The sleazy type who 'takes advantage' of one of the girls. or The White-Knight Alpha that is X's true-love, but leaves to direct the construction of a new anti-malaria desalinization plant in Africa. ie 'The one that got away.'
/r/TheRedPill18/03/13 04:32 PM
4

Heh, still better than a lesbian relationship: Psychological abuse has been reported as occurring at least one time by 24% to 90% of lesbians (1,5,6,11,14). Edit: I wonder if what we refer to as a routine 'shit-test' would be considered psychological abuse by a woman?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/13 06:38 PM
1

Or marry well, do the things that have been proven to keep your wife on the straight and narrow, and be a damned good father to your children.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/13 06:37 PM
7

Woof, did anyone follow his link to the factsheet on lesbian-on-lesbian violence? Bold emphasis is mine. About 17-45% of lesbians report having been the victim of a least one act of physical violence perpetrated by a lesbian partner ... Why would a lesbian batter another woman? Lesbians who abuse another women may do so for reasons similar to those that motivate heterosexual male batterers. Lesbians abuse their partners to gain and maintain control (9). Lesbian batterers are motivated to avoid f…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/13 06:22 PM
3

A bit staged, but cute.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 11:23 PM
-8

Wow, that's... that's some hateful shit there.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 09:12 PM
2

About demm'd time. All hail the Matriarchy!
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 06:34 PM
2

Let's say you said you'd do the dishes and you didn't. Is that a shit-test??? No, it's a legitimate gripe. If you said you'd do the dishes, do them. If you don't want to do the dishes, just flat out refuse. Saying you're going to do something and not delivering opens you up to criticism.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 04:21 PM
1

The idea is that the 'hamster' is going to get on it's hamster-wheel and start spinning. It's not going to stop spinning the wheel until she's come up with a good rationalization for her behavior.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 04:10 PM
9

Turns up later that the dude was a drug addict that would go on 24-48 hour binges. If that's the case, she's a saint for even bothering with counseling. She wrote her post like a fucking Eat. Pray. Love. advert, but honestly, I think leaving was the best option as it is healthiest for the child(ren).
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 02:05 PM
3

The only time you should fear a parent is when you're in trouble.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 01:56 PM
4

Need? No. But I think a child would be a more well-rounded individual for growing up in a healthy household. I chose my wife for her mothering skills. I knew that, based on my personality, that I needed a wife that would bring a different skill-set to the table when it came to parenting. She's very good with the soft-skills. I'm better at consistently enforcing discipline. She'll follow up on the invites to play-dates and birthday parties. I'm out playing kickball with them in the back alley. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 01:49 PM
2

touché!
/r/TheRedPill10/03/13 04:37 PM
4

Just what is going on... For the last few decades in the U.S., bullies have increasingly been driving their victims to a> suicide or b> shooting the living fuck out of the school where they've been bullied. The lawyers of these school districts have forced their administrations to enforce a "zero tolerance" policy in an attempt to divert legal liability away from the schools. Now this is all well and good, but people who break the rules in the first place (bullies) generally don't tend to give a…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/13 05:02 PM
22

Question is, in my view, does The Red Pill also extend to this situation? Women and Children First has always been a myth. Well, strike that. MY women and children will make it onto the lifeboat. After that I'm also going to be on board and if a white knight takes exception to it, I intended to... well, to be blunt, I'll kill him. Flat-out. As a husband and father, it is my duty to protect and provide for those under my care. Those that interfere with that do so at their own peril.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/13 09:11 PM
1

Heh, you know their names? I only know Barbara Walters, and that's because whenever I hear her voice I flash back to Gilda Radner's "Hello, I'm Barbarah Wawa." Edit: Wait. I recognized Whoopie. Wawa and Whoopie.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/13 04:38 PM
-5

I've heard some of his other stuff, but here he came across as a bit of a ranting jackass. If you have a decent argument, I don't think you need to constantly interrupt and screech the person you're arguing against. Edit: I understand that he's trying to be entertaining, but his style came across as mean-spirited.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/13 07:51 PM
6

She hasn't admitted to it, but it looks like she gained permission from him to a> have a threesome and b> "play the field" (fuck other people). He rolled over and played dead. The marriage has maybe... three years left. Then she'll ask him to move out so she can 'find herself.'
/r/TheRedPill05/03/13 06:26 PM
3

I'd bet otherwise. Ladies, if you treat a guy badly for long enough, he's not going to want to fuck you. I asked if he’d like to accompany me back to my room. Surprise of surprises: he declined. Exasperated (and horny) I asked “Why?” Lo and behold, he flipped the gender script and told me some version of: “I’m happy to have you back in my life. I don’t want to move too prematurely because we are rebuilding our relationship.” What the guy was actually saying was, "I trust you about as far as I co…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 07:17 PM
-1

I'm going to break from the group and say that you should kiss her ass. This is business and you're on the clock. She may be hopeless, but you knew that she wasn't interested in hearing any legitimate advice. So don't give her any. 'The customer is always right'. You want her cash in your pocket, so you smile, nod and keep dem white lies coming.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 06:51 PM
19

I think it's more important to realize that these traits are ones she'd like to see in a man she's attracted to, but it is predicated on her being attracted to him. None of those are traits she is attracted to. I think you're absolutely right. I dunno where I read it, one of the bloggers IIRC, but someone posited that when you ask a woman what they're attracted to, they'll give you a laundry list of betaish found in men the deem as having long-term mate qualities; not the qualities of men they a…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 06:31 PM
3

herri replies "you gotta understand, we have brought life into this world" And notice that Steve Harvey called her out on it, too.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 05:24 PM
6

I interpreted the "Maybe something else can happen" line to mean, "Well, you were a scrub back then, but you have success and status now, so... call me." Buuuuuuuuut..... the way she phrased it as conditional: 'Maybe'. And her using passive and vague verbage: 'something else can happen". Tells me she knows that he's now waaaaaaaaaay out of her league.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 05:23 PM
4

How the fuck do women like this decide they can afford to gold dig? Chubby chasers?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 05:11 PM
27

"ambitious" is code for "rich and successful"
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 05:03 PM
2

...and now most of them look like sad, unhappy bitches. I'm noticing this too.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/13 08:41 PM
3

I looked at that and thought, "Miley Cyrus in 10 years." Edit: Not hating on Miley. The pic just looks a bit like her.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 09:45 PM
20

So it's a local equivalent to The Onion?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/13 09:06 PM
2

I was only going after the white-knights. :) (Those are just the guys, right?) You have a very interesting viewpoint on how a lower-status woman would approach the issue. And her inherent solipsism will make her think we're wrong because she'll make the mistake of assuming all women are like her inside.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:59 PM
3

They are guided by emotion, not logical thought trying to win, by any means.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:21 PM
3

White-knights are misguided, but can be brought onto the good path with effective application of both reason and targeted shaming which nips at their specific insecurities. I think you need to add that you must first ascertain the hotness of the woman the white-knight is currently beta-orbiting. If she's 8+, don't bother wasting your time until he's been abused and dumped or realizes he's been irrevocably friend-zoned.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 08:49 PM
-1

Because it's the workplace. If he gets a rep for being tough to talk to, then that may limit his potential for advancement. I agree that he should shut the rudeness down, but I think he needs to finesse it a bit more.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/13 08:55 PM
3

It's not that antagonistic at my place of work, but yes, the guys do shut up when a female coworker comes around.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/13 08:52 PM
7

See, this is why we can't actually be friends. They don't really care about my life or what I'm saying. They are too solipsistic for that. Most people are like that, not just the women. What's one of Dale Carnegie's secrets for meeting people? I think it's "Be interested, not interesting." I will agree with you though, women do tend to be more overt about this than men.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/13 08:47 PM
4

I wanted children. I chose a good mother. Correction: I chose a very good mother. A wife? mutter mutter It's still a work in progress, but once I started making some changes, so did she. Edit: I accidentally a 'a'
/r/TheRedPill19/02/13 05:07 PM
1

OK, I can see that. If he's worried that his core demographic is going to flee and he's left with the estrogen club, then yeah, I grok his decision.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/13 07:48 PM
1

"Waaaaaaaah! This isn't exactly what I want! I'm quitting!" He wanted a strong-man class. He built a strong-man class. Women joined. Some of them complained. Why is he giving a fuck? If he doesn't want to tailor the class towards women? How about he not do that? If the PPPs were giving him shit, how about he .shut. .them. .the. .fuck. .down. when they do it? I view the guy as somebody that, when his exclusionary fantasy was infringed upon, threw a hissy-fit, and then took his ball and went home.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/13 03:58 PM
1

I think Workthrow was pointing out that feminism in a way is a shit test. I think for others it's a psychic-salve. These are the people that aren't in the running, not even for the gammas. The big F is a way for them to retain some semblance of self-worth. "All of this shit that just about everyone on the planet cares about? Eeeeeeets BAAAAAAAD!"
/r/TheRedPill25/01/13 07:18 PM
0

They want all the rewards and none of the consequences. What the hell is wrong with that? I'm a guy and I'd love to have all of the rewards and none of the consequences! 'Murica, FUCK YEAH!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/13 07:12 PM
3

this was too much to shrug off. I grok that. I think he could stand with her shitting on father. I think it's that she decided to shit on the memory of his father that pushed him over the edge.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 09:10 PM
2

I think it was a party. I'm guessing that when the news of the breakup spread, all of his friends that she'd scared off over the years came out of the woodwork to welcome him back to the land of the free.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 09:07 PM
2

I've never seen him so depressed and I can't believe I helped do this to him. Translation: "OH SHIT! What'd I do to my gravy-train?!?!"
/r/MensRights17/01/13 08:38 PM
4

Sex Rank, I believe.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/13 06:45 PM
5

Suggesting things like "you have a moral obligation to sleep with your husband" You bastard!
/r/TheRedPill08/01/13 07:59 PM
5

I disagree. This wasn't some back-alley informal contest, this was a sanctioned tournament. If it's "expected" that a guy is going to win vs a girl in a wrestling match, then I don't think the guy'd catch much flak for, you know, actually winning. And if the girl was a badass, then I don't think the guy'd catch much flak for losing. (Once she'd established she was a badass.) I'd like to know what the "fouls" were.
/r/MensRights30/12/12 04:34 PM
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