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Yes, exactly, most people go through a few partners before they reach a stable relationship and try and experience different sexual things, and people who start later don't have that time, I'm just looking for sexual experiences but I also want to settle down someday.
/r/seduction03/01/26 04:48 PM
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That having one-night stands with women is not good?
/r/seduction03/01/26 10:02 AM
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How did we end up having so many meetings?
/r/seduction02/01/26 07:36 PM
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So you have a lot of time ahead of you, I wish I was 18!
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:42 PM
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I don't know how you were okay with that.
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:41 PM
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Доста си древен значи?
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:40 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:40 PM
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That's right, you just want to go through this too!
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:39 PM
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I want to see what it's like, a lot of men go to a party and leave with a girl, or they just have sex left and right, it's my dream to go through that.
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:38 PM
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Wow, you're a big expert?
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:37 PM
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For about a year I've been talking and doing everything I can to meet girls and the result is only two, how do you achieve these high numbers, maybe you're living the dream of a byakoi? Or is that just something some people can't do?
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:35 PM
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For about a year I've been talking and doing everything I can to meet girls and the result is only two, how do you achieve these high numbers?
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:33 PM
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Well done bro, you're living some people's dream? Now how did I achieve it, I've been talking to girls for a whole year and doing everything I can to meet them and the result is only two?
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:32 PM
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But you're saying that because you've been with hundreds of girls, and I don't know what it is, like I really want to have casual sex?
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:30 PM
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You can't stop thinking about these things until you experience them, right?
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:29 PM
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What do you want to say?
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:28 PM
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Why do you think so?
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:28 PM
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Yes, the truth is that until I do it, I will never feel good!
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:27 PM
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I'm happy for you! How did you do it? I've been talking for a whole year, trying different things, but I've only managed to get to 2 girls, or can't everyone do it?
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:26 PM
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Yes, but experience is priceless, sexual experiences are a valuable experience, for example, I regret that I missed my teenage years and I don't have the opportunity to experience such things again,
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:24 PM
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I understand them, but until you taste the cake, they can't just tell you it's no big deal!
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:21 PM
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Naitina, as someone who hasn't had many dates, I can't understand you. I'm not saying you're wrong. It's nice to have a steady partner who loves you. But I really regret the time I wasted not experimenting and I really wish I could go through that. The thought that I didn't fuck other women, that I didn't make out with a random girl from a club overwhelms me. It's as if you, as a man, have access to another world that I don't. And yet I don't have that opportunity. Maybe you're the man that wome…
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:19 PM
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Because I've never been in one before, and this opportunity just came up with a girl that was exactly what I was looking for, but I feel like there's something that needs more experience.
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:17 PM
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Yes, I can't say it better, I was obsessed with seeing what it was like to be in a relationship, but it turned out that it wouldn't fix you and it even turned out that I have attachment anxiety.
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:15 PM
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First start talking to women everywhere Then analyze where you're going wrong Start reading psychology and how both sexes work Work on your appearance, hairstyle, clothes, hygiene. And most importantly, just keep doing it and analyze where you're going wrong!
/r/seduction30/12/25 09:12 PM
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I asked but they can't explain, they feel tense around me.
/r/seduction19/09/25 01:47 PM
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I'm not sure if this is a social disability and I don't even know if there is a doctor who deals with such things, I saw that you left a comment and I thought you would like to help?
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:34 AM
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Lying doesn't work that well for me, I've tried it but it's hard for me to lie about the situation.
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:32 AM
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How can I do it, I don't even realize that I'm in a hurry or that I'm even bringing negative energy into the conversation, otherwise I feel like I'm missing out and maybe that's why I'm in a hurry?
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:31 AM
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How can I do it, I don't even realize that I'm in a hurry or that I'm even bringing negative energy into the conversation, otherwise I feel like I'm missing out and maybe that's why I'm in a hurry?
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:30 AM
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How can I do it, I don't even realize I'm in a hurry?
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:26 AM
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Do I really want it, or not enough?
/r/seduction12/09/25 06:54 AM
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Why do you think my behavior contradicts them (3)? It's not certain to me that someone else succeeds and I don't?
/r/seduction11/09/25 07:59 PM
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On the street, I have no problem making cold approaches.
/r/seduction11/09/25 07:58 PM
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Why didn't they help you?
/r/seduction11/09/25 07:56 PM
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Well, when I think about it, there's never been a girl who's ever smiled at me, I know, I'm afraid to do it, especially when they're in company.
/r/seduction11/09/25 05:13 AM
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I'm sick of them, they don't like clubs.
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:45 AM
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There have only been one or two times when someone has danced with me, but for a moment, I haven't had the chance for someone to like me and continue dancing together, otherwise I look them in the eye, I've reached out my hand, but I'm afraid to grab their hand directly?
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:43 AM
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I do it but it doesn't lead anywhere, they don't want to dance with me?
/r/seduction09/09/25 09:19 PM
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What??
/r/seduction09/09/25 09:19 PM
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I understand you, I'm not ugly or whatever you mean, but I have a hard time keeping busy and it doesn't come naturally to me even though I dance.
/r/seduction09/09/25 09:15 PM
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What if I dance next to them and they don't pay attention to me or if I talk to them they cut me off?
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:05 PM
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Can you tell me how things work?
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:48 PM
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I do both but no results!
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:36 PM
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You mean on the street in front of the club?
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:35 PM
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Can you explain more?
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:02 PM
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My English is difficult and I probably make mistakes, I apologize!
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:02 PM
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Do I dance or do I approach the conversation?
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:01 PM
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So I try to have fun, then I try to pick up women?
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:48 AM
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But is this the way to get there?
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:47 AM
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But for me, having sex or kissing a girl is a victory, I've been making cold approaches for a long time and don't consider them difficult?
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:46 AM
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I'm 23 and this year I went to a club for the first time and I associate the club with a place to approach women, I never thought of just going there for the sex, for example, but the women there are also acceptable.
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:45 AM
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I'm 23 and this year I went to a club for the first time and I associate the club with a place to approach women and that scares me, I find it hard to have fun, I just pretend to dance sometimes I like the music but most of the time I don't, the truth is I want one-night stands and kisses but I feel discouraged almost every night I watch someone making out with a girl.
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:44 AM
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I understand you, believe me, it's very difficult for me, I struggle with negative thoughts and low self-esteem and I don't know what the solution is, and watching people in other countries live and slow down is killing me, I don't have a personality, you know?
/r/seduction29/08/25 02:07 PM
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Yes, I know, and I'm clearly not a funny person who might like it.
/r/seduction29/08/25 12:04 PM
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I tried doing positive affirmations, but it didn't work very well.
/r/seduction29/08/25 12:02 PM
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Yes, I agree with you, my self-esteem is low, although I have been making cold approaches for several months and I am used to being cut off on the street, or at least I don't take it too personally, but in the club I somehow feel more vulnerable and often anxious to even approach, although I do, I live in Bulgaria and here I don't think it is accepted to directly declare sexual intentions, I have noticed that first you have to talk to her about something, then dance and then act, although I may …
/r/seduction29/08/25 07:17 AM
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Thank you for your answer! I have a strong sexual desire, but maybe I have a hard time showing it, although I talk even though I have to push myself, the bad thing is that so far I haven't met many women in clubs who want to stay with me but they often refuse to dance with me and I can't understand it, it's also difficult with friends, I'm very worried about talking to a girl with a group, in general it's so easy apparently and for me it's so hard I don't even know when my first date in a club w…
/r/seduction29/08/25 07:13 AM
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Yes, I agree with you, my self-esteem is low, although I have been making cold approaches for several months and I am used to being cut off on the street, or at least I don't take it too personally, but in the club I somehow feel more vulnerable and often anxious to even approach, although I do, I live in Bulgaria and here I don't think it is accepted to directly declare sexual intentions, I have noticed that first you have to talk to her about something, then dance and then act, although I may …
/r/seduction29/08/25 07:04 AM
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Hello, first of all I want to thank you for taking the time to write this comment! Yes, I agree with you, my self-esteem is low, although I have been making cold approaches for several months and I am used to being cut off on the street, or at least I don't take it too personally, but in the club I somehow feel more vulnerable and often anxious to even approach, although I do, I live in Bulgaria and here I don't think it is accepted to directly declare sexual intentions, I have noticed that firs…
/r/seduction29/08/25 07:01 AM
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It's strange to me, I don't know anyone else who was virgin at that age.
/r/seduction25/08/25 09:27 PM
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I lost my virginity at 23 and I definitely feel old.
/r/seduction25/08/25 08:47 PM
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But is it possible?
/r/seduction20/08/25 08:19 PM
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Well, I see unattractive people around me succeeding.
/r/seduction16/08/25 08:06 PM
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The photographer was not an ordinary one, he was into dating photos but it clearly didn't work out, I don't know anyone who can do it well, when we go out they often don't take pictures of me properly and otherwise I started going to the gym but I don't have much money for a nice wardrobe but I'm working on it, cold approaches work, I know people who have success from there but it's hard.
/r/seduction14/08/25 02:09 PM
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I already tried with a photographer but it didn't work.
/r/seduction14/08/25 09:53 AM
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I'm not doing well there at all.
/r/seduction13/08/25 11:58 PM
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So there's still a chance.
/r/seduction13/08/25 11:58 PM
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Well, to some extent, I go to the gym and try to keep myself in good shape.
/r/seduction12/08/25 07:05 PM
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Yes, it happens, but so far I haven't been able to completely overcome the anxiety.
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:58 AM
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It's rare to find women of other races in my country, but I'm open to it.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:11 PM
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What does this have to do with anything?
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:10 PM
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I literally approach every woman I see on the street or in the mirror coldly and like her appearance. I change things when I see I'm wrong, but there's no one around to tell me what I'm doing wrong.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:09 PM
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Well, there aren't many players in my country.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:07 PM
0

20 attempts is very few.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:06 PM
0

There is no other program in my country, honestly I'm not sure, there is a lot of emphasis on the inner world and cold approaches but it still doesn't work?
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:05 PM
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Why do you think I haven't decided?
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:02 PM
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Unfortunately, even though I don't want to focus on sex, I can't stop thinking about it. Otherwise, I'm definitely not as stressed out as I was, but I still feel stressed.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:02 PM
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I don't live in the USA.
/r/seduction10/08/25 05:56 PM
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Yes, that's exactly what I think.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:20 AM
1

But to get to quality you need quantity, right?
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:20 AM
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But will it be enough for me?
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:19 AM
2

you are not very sure.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:19 AM
1

But you started early, and two months ago I felt like I was just fighting the wind, otherwise I give a lot of myself, I do cold approaches constantly, I'm currently in a coaching program and I don't think I'm doing much, it's clearly not enough, I train hard in fitness, I'm trying to improve on many levels and I feel completely hopeless with women and one of my goals in life is to change that, now I'm going to be a first year at university and I hope to change that.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:15 AM
2

I'm already in a program like this, but it's local, I'm talking about relatives, haven't I gotten to adventures and things like that?
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:04 AM
1

So you don't think it's possible now, has Covid changed a lot of things, otherwise I'd be constantly thinking about it and getting angry about it, but the more I want it, the more it just doesn't happen anymore?
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:00 AM
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For a moment I thought you were serious, I've been working on this a lot but the lack of results is really frustrating.
/r/seduction10/08/25 05:43 AM
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However, I feel like I started late and I'm worried that I might not achieve the success I want?
/r/seduction10/08/25 05:37 AM
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I'm trying to speak passionately but it clearly feels like you're not doing anything super cool.
/r/seduction10/08/25 05:31 AM
2

I'm also interested in interpersonal relationships, but I really feel like I want sex, but the more I want it, the more it doesn't happen.
/r/seduction10/08/25 05:30 AM
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And how can this be learned?
/r/seduction09/08/25 11:18 PM
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Is 23 too late?
/r/seduction05/08/25 06:38 PM
1

I understand you, but as I said, I give value according to the situation. If I talk to a woman, I try to be fully engaged. If I talk to a bank employee, I don't give any value at all. I give priority to my priorities. You might do it with everyone regardless of the situation, which is good, but I invest the most of myself only with women.
/r/seduction05/08/25 07:06 AM
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You literally judge by a comment on Reddit, I definitely don't give 100% of myself in every situation and when I talk to women I try to give as much as I can, but I don't do it everywhere and with all people, at least my language is difficult and I have a hard time writing long comments, so I appreciate your time and if it's not a problem you can ask me specific questions so I can answer them.
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:19 PM
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Here in Eastern Europe it's not that easy, even phone numbers aren't given out.
/r/seduction04/08/25 06:42 AM
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If you are interested in something specific, I will answer you, otherwise thank you for your time, in principle I talk a lot but I am not a fan of writing.
/r/seduction04/08/25 06:41 AM
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I am Eastern European, I am 185 cm tall, I weigh about 89 kg (until a year ago I weighed 110 kg), I look normal in appearance, I am thin but I do not have strong muscles, that is why I now go to the gym, my financial situation is not very good, I am a student but I do not see the problem here, I do not get to the point where women ask about it, my social situation is not good, I do not have many friends and I am not in mixed companies, I do not know many people, and my mental health is fine.
/r/seduction03/08/25 07:19 PM
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I ask them about Instagram but then they often don't accept my invitation or don't respond at all, so should I tell them I want to see them again if the conversation was longer and cooler and nothing?
/r/seduction03/08/25 07:15 PM
1

But in the end it doesn't help me.
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:37 PM
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Well, on the contrary, I take action to be cool!
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:36 PM
1

Well, can I say that I have some of these things and still fail?
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:35 PM
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Yes, I've definitely improved since my first conversation, otherwise I'm not sure where I'm failing, before I avoided close contact, now I try to have it, I really do what I can at the moment, yes, it's hard for me to understand where the problem is? I notice that the girls I talk to quite often have a boyfriend (not all of them say it just to cut me off) and it doesn't say it on their face, I'm somehow attracted to such people without knowing it, the other thing I notice is that even when thing…
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:34 PM
1

What do you mean by atmosphere?
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:30 PM
1

What if you try and it doesn't work?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:12 PM
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It's worrying that not everyone is created to succeed.
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:11 PM
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Why do you think so?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:11 PM
1

Well, in the end, we all play for the result, I can't pretend that this doesn't bother me?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:10 PM
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Is that what I do?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:09 PM
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I hope it's possible.
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:08 PM
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But I know people with 100-200 with more results than some who have a thousand under equal conditions and that worries me?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:08 PM
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And to get there, what do you have to do, I try many times?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:07 PM
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I'm doing a lot of things, but so far it's hard work?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:06 PM
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What do you mean by better than it was, I'm actually taking a cold approach but this is leading nowhere, is this better?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:05 PM
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Isn't it strange how most people don't even know about this and no one teaches you how to be cool?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:04 PM
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If you do everything they tell you to get there and it doesn't work out, it definitely discourages me a little, and what do you have in mind for a below-par performance?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:03 PM
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If you do everything they tell you to get there and it doesn't work out, it definitely discourages me a little, and what do you have in mind for a below-par performance?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:02 PM
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Am I really doing what you're talking about?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:01 PM
1

Can you refer me to someone?
/r/seduction02/08/25 04:45 AM
1

However, in some situations I am super sociable and the result is still the same, I don't know what this energy is?
/r/seduction01/08/25 08:20 PM
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Clearly, what can be done draws a lot on the issue, but I don't see much difference?
/r/seduction01/08/25 08:10 AM
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Did you do that, I don't think I have the physique for it, I've been going to the gym for 2 months but I'm not getting as big as I want p.s. by the way, what I'll say is that I know not very attractive men who still have a lot of sex
/r/seduction01/08/25 08:08 AM
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Well, I think so too, in general I'm often tense and carry a slight anxiety inside me, it's even visible in the photos, is that what you mean? I feel like it's some kind of energy?
/r/seduction31/07/25 12:14 AM
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No, unfortunately, there's only Mark Manson.
/r/seduction31/07/25 12:13 AM
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That's what you think, but I see some men with very beautiful women next to them, I personally haven't seen this effect live but I know that social proof is very important, otherwise is this true about pheromones, I thought it was a scam?
/r/seduction31/07/25 12:12 AM
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So I started 8 months ago and so far I haven't had sex from talking on the street or in a club, I've only slept with one girl in the 5th month and I was active before that and had never talked to a woman, maybe that sounds slow to you? P.S. I'm marrying an average looking guy, if you want I can send you a picture?
/r/seduction30/07/25 11:49 PM
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No brother, everyone is different!
/r/seduction30/07/25 11:40 PM
1

Generally from women's reactions and going out with someone else.
/r/seduction30/07/25 11:37 PM
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People don't express themselves in person the same way they do in writing.
/r/seduction28/07/25 05:51 PM
1

I'm talking about myself, I'm not a person of abstinence and I want to have more sex, the problem is that I don't get there.
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:08 PM
1

Well, that's literally true.
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:07 PM
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And I thought you were talking about cold approaches, but I haven't been to a meeting like that in 6-7 months, otherwise, online meetings don't work for me, I don't reach matches.
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:05 PM
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I don't go out with other guys from the mentorship group, but the head coach doesn't go out with us and we work through video meetings.
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:03 PM
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I don't know, I don't see many men with problems and I'm Bulgarian.
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:02 PM
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Well, I think my skills are still not as good as I want them to be, otherwise I have a strong desire for sex and I also have problems with my inner world that I am working on, otherwise I am currently in a mentoring program and working with coaches.
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:01 PM
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No, but there aren't many men in my country.
/r/seduction28/07/25 10:09 AM
1

How many years do you think?
/r/seduction28/07/25 10:08 AM
1

Which?
/r/seduction28/07/25 10:08 AM
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That's why I started doing this, my social skills were terrible.
/r/seduction28/07/25 10:08 AM
1

Well, I'm not angry in front of people, or at least I try not to show it, but I have tension inside me, I don't know how to fix it, I feel like I'm missing the moment and the fact that I'm not succeeding makes things even harder.
/r/seduction28/07/25 10:07 AM
1

I generally have a hard time remembering names, but why could that be a problem for women?
/r/seduction28/07/25 10:05 AM
1

2 months about 3 times but this hardly affects the results.
/r/seduction28/07/25 10:05 AM
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I've done these things before, I'm sure I'm not doing it like a professional, but I don't know why it doesn't work, I've had conversations that lasted 20 minutes.
/r/seduction28/07/25 10:03 AM
1

Life will be hell if you don't have sex, don't talk like that if you have a lot of sex.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:59 AM
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I hope you feel it, and not because you think so because you have no choice, sex is an important and key part of human life.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:58 AM
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This leads nowhere.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:52 AM
1

Well, I think so, but how do you do it? I try to flirt and tease and have close contact.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:51 AM
1

I'm not having any success there either, I'm not even getting to the matches.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:50 AM
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I don't speak English well.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:49 AM
1

How to have a conversation, how to approach women, work on the inner world, etc.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:45 AM
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Well, my confidence is lower, otherwise I think I can handle the right things, although I don't know what you have in terms of social proof.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:43 AM
1

I don't believe anyone can not expect results, how many months did it take you?
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:42 AM
1

Very often women like to be talked to and I haven't noticed that it feels creepy to have friends.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:39 AM
1

Boys you go out with to talk to and sometimes even women, although I know I can do better.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:36 AM
1

I do self-reflection and try to go deeper, but I don't see what's happening, they even tell me that I'm behaving very well on sets.
/r/seduction26/07/25 08:21 AM
1

But why can't you try and stop later, it sounds a little strange to me, don't try having a lot of hair, it's not that cool, it's like I won't feel good until I see it for myself, and for me it's something magical to pick up cool girls in the club, otherwise I want to try everything, I want a serious girlfriend but I also want to try club boys, now I'm a student I don't know if this will help me but definitely having more hair is a boost for my self-esteem and I want to be that kind of man, but w…
/r/seduction23/07/25 11:35 AM
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I don't know, brother, I want to try it, you say it's not that difficult, but I can't do it, and it looks fun. I feel like I'm the only one who doesn't have access to grapes. I want to go through this before the quality women. The more I want it, the more it runs away from me. What's the secret? Can anyone do it? I'll do what I have to do. I hope you understand me, brother!
/r/seduction22/07/25 06:05 AM
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It's not that easy to boost your self-esteem, I've been going to the gym for 1 month now and I intend to improve my appearance, but the fact that I'm so far behind is holding me back a lot. In the club or in general? On the street about 150 so far, in the clubs much less.
/r/seduction21/07/25 08:08 PM
1

Well, I see the difference and the benefits, but it doesn't lead where I want right now.
/r/seduction21/07/25 05:57 PM
1

Well, some girls are successful.
/r/seduction21/07/25 05:55 PM
1

I put and will put everything into this. I didn't know that something in life would make me put so much into it and want it, but do you believe that everyone can?
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:33 PM
1

I've actually been doing this for a few months now, talking on the street, reading books, but I'm not having much success. I have inner anxiety, especially in clubs, and sometimes I can't believe how easy it is for some people and I wonder if I can become that good.
/r/seduction21/07/25 10:37 AM
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Yes bro I'm in Bulgaria and there's a pretty strong club culture here I'm currently working with a dating coach and he told me to go to a club by myself once a week and just try to have fun but I don't know why it's really hard for me the music is loud and it scares me a little and it's hard for me to relax and I really want to be like those guys who have a lot of fun and pick up girls it's just one of my dreams to become good at the game I even talk on the street or in the mall this is one of t…
/r/seduction21/07/25 10:35 AM
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The bad thing is that I've been doing conversation and other things for a few months and I'm not getting any further and I'm worried that I'll stay that way and I really like it, it's one of the coolest things I've ever done and it's definitely the thing I like the most so far. P.S. If you have any advice, I'm open to it.
/r/seduction21/07/25 10:28 AM
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The truth is that I have a hard time having fun there the music scares me and often there are no cubes with music to my taste I'm working with a dating coach now and he told me to go alone because when I go with a group I close with them but I'm not sure what the idea here is he told me that sooner or later I'll feel like having fun by myself but it still worries me and here I feel like there's something wrong with me if I can't have fun it's just that I went to a club for the first time a few m…
/r/seduction21/07/25 10:26 AM
1

It worries me a lot, but my progress is small and the bad thing is that mental tricks don't help.
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:47 PM
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The daily game isn't that difficult for me, although I don't get to meet up, I'm somehow afraid to speak up as much as I do in the club, but I really want to become good at both, but I just wonder if anyone can become good, but I'm ready to do whatever it takes, so if you have anything to share, brother, I'd be grateful.
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:46 PM
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I want it and I'm ready to do whatever it takes!
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:39 PM
1

I'm trying to dance, but I have the feeling that they can sense that it's not coming from within me.
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:39 PM
1

I have few friends and they don't care about it.
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:37 PM
1

I feel like I have some kind of fear of girls.
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:46 PM
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There's no one to invite me to house parties, otherwise I go to bars too, but I think it's really cool to rock out in clubs.
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:46 PM
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I have no idea, I feel like I have some kind of inner fear of women, as if I don't feel like I deserve them and that prevents me from escalating, and in clubs I'm afraid to speak up at all, but how do I know what to do to change it? I'm just asking you for your friendly opinion and advice on what you would do in this situation. I'm 23 and I want to do all the cool and hot things with girls. I don't want to live like this for years, but I'll definitely do whatever it takes!
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:36 PM
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The hardest part for me is the entertainment part.
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:06 PM
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Honestly, I would do it.
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:00 PM
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I'm already in a mentoring program in my country but I haven't had any success for 6-7 months?
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:52 PM
1

Honestly, in most cases I don't get there because they cut me off. I actually talk on the street or in malls and I don't have a big problem with the rejections, but in the club I take them more difficult and in most cases I look at the girl and I'm afraid to say anything, so you're saying it's not easy and it takes a lot of time, just because I see how guys do it easily and it makes me feel stupid.
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:45 PM
1

So there's time for kissing, I'm definitely worried about getting close, I hope it doesn't take me years to do that?
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:42 PM
0

I'm not really handsome, but I can say that I'm a cool guy. Well, you're right. I don't have a good time at the club. I'm more like, why not? What do these guys do that make my girls want to kiss them? Can you tell me what I should do? I feel like I don't leave women with emotions or I don't know?
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:41 PM
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I'm really bothered by comparisons with others, especially when it comes to things like women and sex. It's so natural, and now that it's not working out for me, honestly, no matter how much I don't want to, I'm jealous, but I'm ready to do what I have to do to make things work out for me.
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:37 PM
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You're right but it looks easy especially when I often see teenagers doing it even younger than me it makes me think that I can't even do something like that and I want to progress for 7-8 months I've been talking to girls on the street and I don't have much success and when I see how guys in clubs do it I have the feeling that something is wrong with me? P.s so you're saying that it's not impossible but it requires a lot of work what is your suggestion for progress what should I do?
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:35 PM
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You just described me I was bullied at school and I have a little self-esteem over the years My mother was bossy and my father was not interested in me I have been in a dating mentoring program for 6-7 months and I actively pick up on people on the street The program works on the basis of cognitive behavioral therapy but it is still very difficult for me what do you mean by sexuality I somehow have a hard time talking to women as well as to boys I am even worried that there is no solution and I …
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:20 PM
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I go out relatively rarely and for some reason I find it difficult to engage in it. I recently read advice that I should go out at least once a week.
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:14 PM
1

What do I need to be able to do to get there?
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:12 PM
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???
/r/seduction20/07/25 11:09 AM
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I've been doing it for maybe 8 months now and I'm not having any success and that hits me hard but I really envy men like that and I just want to be like that. I go to the gym, try to dress well, talk on the street or in the mall but nothing, and the clubs are the icing on the cake. What's different about me from the others?
/r/seduction20/07/25 11:09 AM
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For?
/r/seduction20/07/25 11:07 AM
1

Yes, here's the question of how to do it, I won't lie, I want this too, but it seems pretty impossible to me right now.
/r/seduction20/07/25 11:07 AM
1

Well, in most cases I'm even afraid to get close and my energy drops, but I really want to do it?
/r/seduction20/07/25 10:29 AM
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So, does it look like this?
/r/seduction20/07/25 10:28 AM
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But I want to fix it, I can't be bothered but I want to leave with some boy from there
/r/seduction20/07/25 10:27 AM
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I know bro, but it's stronger than me, especially if you see how some people do things that you still can't do, the idea of kissing a random girl in a club is even alien to me.
/r/seduction20/07/25 10:26 AM
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I am a 22-year-old virgin male and I put a lot of effort into self-improvement, but it doesn't lead to results.
/r/seduction27/02/25 07:00 AM
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