Tense energy?

Life-Income2986 · 2025-09-17T19:15:49+00:00

So you are in a hurry, and people don't like this, and you're confused about something? Seems pretty open and shut to me man stop behaving like you're disarming a bomb constantly or get used to people not liking your company.

Rhino3750ss · 2025-09-17T19:25:55+00:00

Tense energy manifests in many forms, but it's source is your thinking, feeling, and acting with urgency.

The sense of urgency outside of emergency situations is toxic.

Urgency shows you are compensating for a shortcoming in any aspect of life.

Specifically when it comes to seduction, what you are compensating for is lack of options.

If you show you are not patient, you are also appearing like you are not preselected. That actually makes girls feel unsafe.

Solution: slow everything down. If you want people to be comfortable around you, put patience into your tone, your cadence, your choice of words, your body movements, your motives, your actions. Doing that will create inviting, relaxed energy.

StepGeneral3597 · 2025-09-17T19:45:40+00:00

Smile, talk slower, use pauses, stick to light topics (not involving religion or politics).

jhdz3138 · 2025-09-17T23:37:58+00:00

Honestly it all comes from experience and consistency. I understand you’re not an expert at it but my best advice is pretend like you are. Tell yourself this is the 1000th time you started a conversation with a 10/10 woman and this is nothing new and she’s going to accept a date just like the rest of them.. you think Tom Brady thought he was going to be a 7 time champ in his first game? No but he played like he was You think Messi started in his 1st game knowing he was going to be a future BDO and WC champ? No but he pretended like he was.. pretend you are a different person

Title	Tense energy?
Author	No-Box-1528
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	September 17, 2025 7:05 PM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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