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You don’t have a car?
/r/seduction25/07/26 04:12 AM
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Yes bro, it’s an overwhelming world at first, I gotchu. Read The Game, but not for actual advice, just for the soul. Watch a bunch of Todd V/Sergio Sorokin. Watch this: https://youtu.be/2bQjfTHlwzU?is=Zb3uM\_VUuiCOqKQ9 Watch Todd’s opening series. Learn and watch as much as you can, but at the end of the day you really need to “go out and try”, don’t get caught up in the theory. Learn a few openers, direct during daygame, indirect for nightgame. Strive to get numbers, get dates, escalate, lead, …
/r/seduction20/07/26 11:27 PM
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How many girls are you attempting to close a week?
/r/seduction08/07/26 03:19 PM
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Talk to women. Approach. Problem solved.🤙🏽
/r/seduction05/07/26 12:35 AM
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Read my field reports
/r/seduction30/06/26 05:06 PM
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Reticular activating system; like selective focus. An RSD concept where you throw off the girl’s RAS which makes her react more emotionally than logically.
/r/seduction29/06/26 03:59 PM
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How you make cold approach more socially acceptable is you do it without giving a f what others think lmao. Don’t tell people that you do it that you don’t have to. I think you need to do at least 30-50 a week, this is easily done in one day game session and 2 night game sessions.
/r/seduction29/06/26 03:47 PM
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Confidential info
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:17 AM
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If you’re out approaching it doesn’t seem to make a difference
/r/seduction29/06/26 12:57 AM
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Guys say they don’t have time for game yet spend 5 hrs per day on their phone. Enjoy getting no action lol.
/r/seduction29/06/26 12:54 AM
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Look at it this way, 3-5 hrs/wk of swiping for no results, or 5-10 hrs/wk gaming for infinitely more results. The choice is yours.
/r/seduction27/06/26 09:50 PM
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Dude over the course of that week I got zero matches. If I relied on them I’d have little to no success. After starting cold approach the results 10-20x if not more. Quality is much higher too. Not easier tho.
/r/seduction27/06/26 08:33 PM
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PM me
/r/seduction27/06/26 06:32 AM
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Do you want girls? Then go talk to them
/r/seduction24/06/26 04:37 AM
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This is literally all I do: https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ?is=xy-ijcWhGaQaxuNX https://youtu.be/uDjttWpPRzQ?is=NK5FyZT1PHK5wwa8 https://youtu.be/XXRVv9UkUNc?is=kVkbCZFj0vyCf1gN Learn a body roll, girls will go crazy for it I also learned how to shuffle Learn how to spin handshake, and other ways to spin a girl Just start learning how to dance on YT and in a few days you’ll be better than 95% of people on the dance floor and clean up.
/r/seduction24/06/26 01:30 AM
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As a member I think that’s the last place I’d do it. Literally every other place is better for it.
/r/seduction24/06/26 01:15 AM
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Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Onto the next✅
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:41 PM
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Try to bang them. Look into value vs comfort (Todd V has all the info on that), you need more value and less comfort. Be more playful and sexual early on, it takes practice, fake it till you make it.
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:36 PM
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You got it 🤙🏽
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:25 PM
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It’s just to blend in with the crowd when out solo and don’t have wings to talk to between sets. The structure of my night is approaching one set every 4-10 minutes, sometimes there’s downtime, or I need a break, it can be weird just staring into space or looking around. So during that time I study a branch of math called real analysis to prep for my classes. Just a weird thing I do that makes me comfortable in the environment, no one questions it.
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:24 PM
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Thank you! What part of that are you confused about?
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:06 PM
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Check out my field reports. Don’t worry about IOIs, just approach. Aim for 12+ sets a night. Start getting the numbers in. You got this🤙🏽
/r/seduction22/06/26 10:23 AM
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Yes, some elements you might have already dialed in from being naturally talented or socialized; some really won’t have to try as hard as others. What I’m saying is that not EVERYTHING in game comes naturally to everyone, and even if game becomes automatic with practice, it didn’t come naturally by definition, it was implemented with deliberate correction; practice doesn’t make perfect, perfect practice makes perfect. But I think a lot of game you’ll naturally improve by just going out, I’d argu…
/r/seduction22/06/26 10:16 AM
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Not in quality of women, if that’s how you’re interpreting it. More like I’m not gonna try more than a few lines to hook if she’s giving me one word answers, low standard of initial engagement..
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:16 AM
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How’d it go?
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:03 AM
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Game changer! I just watched everything I could find on “how to dance/grind with a girl at a club”
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:55 AM
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Sure thing 👌🏽
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:36 AM
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As RSD Tyler said “action feeds ego”. Right on🔥
/r/seduction22/06/26 01:27 AM
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It doesn’t come at all naturally for me lol, just read my FRs XD I’m an autist. It’s consistency and discipline just like anything. It comes naturally once you’ve put in the reps though, like RSD Tyler said “everything in game autocorrects” (I paraphrase), that’s thousands of approaches though and working on yourself. I’ve seen pretty good results just having done around 1500 approaches though.
/r/seduction22/06/26 01:00 AM
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LETS GO!! Get better at dancing, watch YT tutorials like: https://youtu.be/\_jStE6-uQgQ?is=bjs5\_mtuyw0jaG3T https://youtu.be/4vJxPNQGv8Y?is=X\_EwMazyJvi4eiFP And more or just approach girls in the areas more conducive to talking in the club. Good luck, keep pumping your numbers, try to build up to 12+ sets per night.
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:43 AM
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Thanks for the recognition👊🏽
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:16 AM
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Glad to hear it!
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:12 AM
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Not gonna dox myself completely lol, but in a central location, and yes I do. Moving away for the summer unfortunately:(
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:10 AM
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Ohh mb, I’ll make them public for like a day. That’s a pretty big question, that’s: (1) how to escalate, and (2) how to pull. (1) there are three ways to escalate: logistical, verbal, and physical, here’s a good vid for that: https://youtu.be/19wDKBoT2zU?is=GULt6qVhpeHTuqW\_ (2) This is good stuff to your second point: https://youtu.be/bTD-S6M0whA?is=jT9OFMSwpWPs-Ttr There is some overlap; pulling is the last stage of escalation. When I started pulling, I used baby steps. FOR EX: Isolate from he…
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:00 AM
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I’d say taco, tacquito, and taquito
/r/seduction21/06/26 11:24 PM
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Autism ftw😎 Mid 20s, 5’11”, I get next to no results on dating apps, so my looks are prolly mid, although in great shape
/r/seduction21/06/26 10:57 PM
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Thank you. Of course it’s important to be aware of sticking points, that’s how growth occurs. I can list my sticking points, and have in a previous post. On the flip side, there is too much to fix all at once, so in the meantime I “just approach”, focusing on a couple sticking points at once while realizing it’s a matter of being at the right place at the right time; I’ve gotten quite good results being technically imperfect. Cheers🍻
/r/seduction21/06/26 10:51 PM
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Appreciate it!
/r/seduction21/06/26 05:36 PM
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Ty:)
/r/seduction21/06/26 05:36 PM
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Damn show me how it’s done bro. Only got 2 in 24 hrs. Jokes aside I gotchu👊🏽
/r/seduction21/06/26 05:33 PM
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Mid 20s :)
/r/seduction21/06/26 05:32 PM
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🦈
/r/seduction21/06/26 05:31 PM
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Thanks gg🤙🏽
/r/seduction21/06/26 05:31 PM
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Thanks g😎🔥
/r/seduction21/06/26 05:31 PM
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That formula has simplified night game for me, thanks bro!
/r/seduction21/06/26 05:30 PM
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Tbh I would’ve thought it was not too long ago😅I’m also autistic and can’t tell if you’re joking or not
/r/seduction21/06/26 05:30 PM
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It can absolutely work! I’ve went on dates and closed, last year especially, struggling to close this year yes, so many frustrating close calls though. College can be one of the easiest opportunities in your whole life to meet the hottest girls. Check out my field reports. I’m wasian, 5’11”, not incredibly good looking, not ugly, but in great shape.
/r/seduction24/03/26 05:22 AM
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Night clubs, college campuses, and beaches
/r/seduction23/03/26 11:15 PM
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I hear you, burning it to the ground is important. But I think that mindset could lead to outcome dependence and entitlement if overused. I became outcome dependent when I started getting success and it hurt me. Outcome independence has been more sustainable for me.
/r/seduction22/03/26 11:07 PM
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Yeah man👌🏽 you can never really know unless you go talk to them.
/r/seduction22/03/26 08:49 PM
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Happy to! I was talking with my friend last night who has done a few approaches, but when he’s gotten rejected, he said it would ‘haunt’ him. I’ve dealt with this too, attributing my self worth to being rejected by a girl. After getting rejected many times, I can’t even remember the faces or names of the girls who reject me. It couldn’t affect me even if I tried to think about it. Because I’ve gotten success, I know what I’m doing will work. I also know that 99.9% of guys are too scared to appro…
/r/seduction22/03/26 08:47 PM
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I mean yes of course I try to learn. At the same time I’ve had great success in the past if you’ve read my other FRs you can see some of them. Definitely trying to adapt each time. I should point out that I’ve gotten many numbers and makeouts from this but haven’t pulled or sealed the deal on dates. It feels like statistical variance, because the shit that I’ve done has absolutely worked before. Idk.
/r/seduction22/03/26 07:57 PM
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💯yes thanks boss
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:42 PM
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Intriguing insight! Yes I’ve also had the best results last year despite much rejection as well. I just moved to SD but damn it is tough out here! Still love it though, endless opportunities.
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:41 PM
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Appreciate it bro! 😎
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:37 PM
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Thank you! For daygame I do standard direct openers. At night I do indirect, or indirect-semidirect. Direct: excuse me, I had to say I thought you were cute and wanted to come say hi. (Many variations of this) Indirect semi direct: (an example but I have lists of openers) “sorry I’m late”, “hey how’s your night going”, “what are you drinking” … “oh by the way I love your style” Stuff like that.
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:37 PM
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Yes. My sticking points in night game are ejecting too quickly; not persisting in the open, dealing/engaging properly with friends, too much time between interactions, approaching too many groups of 2 girls, avoiding difficult (larger mixed) sets. For day game I think I’m pretty decent. I thrive in one on one conversation. I know because when a girl is receptive I can carry engaging convo for 10 mins at least, I used to only be able to handle 30s.
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:35 PM
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Dangg I’m in the US. But hope you find someone!
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:26 PM
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I’ve been opening only 9s that’s probably a big reason😅I’ve pulled a few 9s last year so it’s hard to go back.
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:24 PM
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For daygame I do standard direct openers. At night I do indirect, or indirect-semidirect. Direct: excuse me, I had to say I thought you were cute and wanted to come say hi. (Many variations of this) Indirect semi direct: (an example but I have lists of openers) “sorry I’m late” … “oh by the way I love your style” Stuff like that.
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:23 PM
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I write them all the time and have posted many here. Chill bruh.
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:19 PM
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LETSSS GOOO
/r/seduction22/03/26 02:04 AM
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Seems she just wants to string you along for the attention. Been there. Just cut her off, and go after other girls like you said. Bring those girls to your work so she can see (if that’s feasible). Good luck!
/r/seduction01/03/26 03:40 AM
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Yes it would be weird that this is the only thing I could be practicing and getting worse as a result😂thanks for the statistical insight man
/r/seduction28/02/26 11:56 PM
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How many girls have you approached? How many have you asked out? Edit: I see you have only asked out a couple in the past year and used to do hundreds. Did you ask for their numbers? Did you try to pull any girls from a bar? Are you doing day and night game? Are you in a location with tons of hot girls? All you can do is keep approaching, keep working your game and keep getting in shape. Analyze your mistakes with field reports. Can’t be asking only a couple a year though. I’ve approached more t…
/r/seduction14/02/26 09:49 PM
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It’s hard but it still works. Approach 50 girls a week and you’ll see.
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:07 PM
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Just keep gaming bro, try to do 30 sets a week if possible.
/r/seduction01/12/25 10:14 PM
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Genuinely, why would you do this?
/r/seduction01/12/25 12:01 AM
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So…that’s not bad, and congrats on taking the first steps, but I did 35 in the past two days. I did not get any results. However, this doesn’t change the fact that I pulled the last 4 weekends before this. If I had spread these 30+ approaches out over the course of the past 2-3 months of course I’d feel like I was in a drought. But this isn’t the case. My advice: try 30+ every weekend. It’s not hard to do this in a few hours if you work up to it. I think your results will change drastically. Goo…
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:49 PM
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Bro terrible advice on here. I’m assuming you quit because you have the resources to do so, that’s even more impressive than having a job imo, but you can always say you’re on vacation or something. I’d try Vegas or NYC! You’ll never run out of options, and I’d recommend doing day and night game. I think if you work up to even just 50 approaches a week, and I think you’ll have your problems solved quickly. Also get in shape asap (if you’re not already). You’re going to get rejected a lot, but I …
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:37 PM
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I agree somewhat, but approaching with ‘sheer determination’ is more effective imo
/r/seduction21/11/25 10:25 PM
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Seems like a confusing analogy for “just work on yourself”.
/r/seduction21/11/25 09:48 PM
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How many is multiple?
/r/seduction21/11/25 09:34 PM
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What?
/r/seduction21/11/25 09:30 PM
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5% is quite good, you can do that in a weekend easily. However I’ve noticed since I’ve increased my interaction times to 5 min or more during Daygame I’ve had even higher conversion rates up to 10%! For night game it’s been historically around 4% but I’ve pulled 4/5 of the last nights I’ve been out so it’s nothing to complain about.
/r/seduction20/11/25 02:50 PM
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About 3 months of night game, perhaps a year of daygame
/r/seduction19/11/25 10:43 PM
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Get out of your house with the intent to approach on a consistent basis multiple times a week. Eventually you’ll become frustrated enough with yourself that you’ll finally do it. This took me a LONG time but I eventually did it and never looked back. Start small, ask for directions, give a compliment. Give your friend money, if you don’t approach he can keep it. Also, you’ve already taken more than the first step, great job, keep going!
/r/seduction18/11/25 08:02 AM
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Look up “Todd V how to flirt” on YT. There’s endless info on this topic if you just look.
/r/seduction18/11/25 07:57 AM
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?
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:42 PM
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Use it to your advantage. Being autistic makes us very analytical, we can use this to get better faster. Also, keep approaching, desensitize yourself, EVERYTHING gets easier the more you practice. Lastly, meditate, learn to be present.
/r/seduction17/11/25 07:51 PM
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Sometimes we just wanna smash ngl. Or they’re just not interested. Girls do the same too, that’s life.
/r/seduction15/11/25 06:48 AM
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Ooo yea I don’t do direct approaches on girls I’ll see again (last day of class if anything). It’s fine though, time will heal, even faster if you get rejected more. Good job though, reward yourself!
/r/seduction06/11/25 03:42 PM
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It’s just hard work and approaching a lot lol. It’s fun though.
/r/seduction05/11/25 02:31 PM
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Are her friends cute?
/r/seduction04/11/25 05:56 AM
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Dang dude that’s sad. Only option is to move on. Stay strong. Good luck.
/r/seduction03/11/25 03:09 AM
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Do you mean of rejection and how it increases approach anxiety? It hasn’t gone away for me at least, but what I noticed is that at first when I started gaming it took me hours to approach if at all. Now it takes me just minutes to overcome it. You’ll learn to act in spite, but I’ve learned to love the rush.
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:28 PM
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Deep breath bro. Have you tried Todd V? It’s not important to study game ‘religiously’. At a certain point though you just have to get off the internet and into the real world. Desensitize yourself. Go to a bar, go where there are lots of girls. Keep going until you’re comfortable, you don’t need to even approach yet. Next, try to do easy approaches (e.g. “do you have the time?”) work up to harder ones, (e.g. “I like your style”) then finally do a direct approach (look up what this is if you don…
/r/seduction31/10/25 08:16 PM
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Refer to field reports:)
/r/seduction30/10/25 06:33 AM
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Direct approach: Immediately making your intentions clear. Some variation on “hi I thought you were cute I wanted to come say hi” Pros: immediately establishes man to woman vibe, easier for beginners, good during the day Cons: more polarizing, immediate rejections Indirect: Not making your intentions immediately clear. Examples are: complimenting a girl on something not connected to her looks, carrying conversation from there. Asking for directions, or starting a conversation in any way other th…
/r/seduction29/10/25 02:24 PM
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Get off dating apps, go outside, approach girls. More rewarding, stimulating, and better results.
/r/seduction28/10/25 04:57 PM
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At bars, clubs, at the beach, and on campus mostly. Night game I go indirect, day game I go direct.
/r/seduction28/10/25 04:18 PM
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Yeah. Prolly has her own room or smth. Either way I got my own place so I took her there.
/r/seduction27/10/25 11:00 PM
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They are tough but they’re so hot😭 Yes I totally hear you on that rejecting yourself part, we reject ourselves worse than any other girl can (for the most part lol). I like what you said about the rejection affecting us less. Someone asked me about this, “does rejection hurt less the more you get it?” In my experience it doesn’t but we get over it much faster. Gg😎
/r/seduction27/10/25 04:18 PM
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You’re welcome! Best of luck.
/r/seduction27/10/25 04:14 PM
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Yo! Great question, there’s too much to say on that but I’ll try to not drag on. I’d really check out anything Todd V has on escalation. A few things: I wouldn’t say “wanna come back to mine” that will immediately trigger her slut defense. Instead, offer to do things that you could do at your place. Seed the pull/soft close, for example: “we should go check out my guitars, (watch Blues Clues, listen to music etc…) a little later” Wait for 10ish minutes, build sexual tension, then try to pull. Al…
/r/seduction27/10/25 02:37 PM
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Yes it’s pretty good thanks! I didn’t get anything based solely on my looks before I gamed, but when I started it did help. Looks can only get your foot in the door, but game keeps it open. I’m not THAT attractive though (just under 6ft, 155lbs lean wiry build, not jacked), there are plenty of more attractive guys every night I go out, but because they don’t approach ever (or well), I get better results than most guys. Also, I’ve seen short ugly guys pull hotter girls than I’ve ever been with. S…
/r/seduction27/10/25 03:52 AM
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Absolutely💯thank you!
/r/seduction26/10/25 08:15 PM
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Sure! I go out alone almost exclusively, never had a good wing so when I do go out with a friend, they don’t know what they’re getting themselves into lol. I prefer solo because I can go at my pace. Here is something I wrote in a previous post in reply to that question: “The biggest thing I was scared of at first is the fear of standing around and being seen like a creep. What I did to combat this is literally walk into a club, find somewhere to stand off to the side, and pull out my dick, cough…
/r/seduction26/10/25 04:01 PM
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Yeah well fuck em. I can promise they don’t represent the whole population of women though. Sorry this happened to you.
/r/seduction26/10/25 08:50 AM
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Naw it’s bc you fucked up😂 All good, it happens, onto the next girl.
/r/seduction26/10/25 08:36 AM
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Sure :) I start by looking at my phone. Usually I chime into their conversation when I feel I have something meaningful to add. Most girls are bored in line. I don’t try to flirt with them, just be friendly, everyone’s there to socialize so they’re mostly receptive. If not, I’ll just stare at my phone like I was before. For example. Last night I overheard a girl mention she went to see Kaytranada, and I asked her how it was because I’ve wanted to go see him (genuinely). Another night, a girl was…
/r/seduction26/10/25 03:44 AM
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Poor me
/r/seduction26/10/25 03:39 AM
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1/6 is celebrity numbers, or if you’re a girl. 1/30 is much more realistic (1/100 isn’t uncommon for beginners or maybe intermediate), when you build momentum, that’s easily achievable in a day or two:)
/r/seduction26/10/25 03:24 AM
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Shoot your shot. Sorry to break it to you, but if it doesn’t work, then talk to 100 other girls and realize she’s not that special.
/r/seduction26/10/25 03:21 AM
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You have to play the game. If you’re consistent you’ll start to see results. Being a virgin at 21 is one thing, but being a virgin at 30 is much harder to overcome. It gets harder the longer you wait. You’re young tho, you got this man.
/r/seduction26/10/25 03:16 AM
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Kissing releases sexual tension, it takes away the mystery of whether you like them or not, it can get boring. I still do it, but don’t do it TOO much when you get more advanced. Girls will go crazy when you hold back, they’re not used to it.
/r/seduction26/10/25 03:10 AM
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Last thing, do easy approaches at first. Girls sitting down, or lying on the beach, by themselves, find a place where there are lots of girls to game.
/r/seduction26/10/25 02:26 AM
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10-15 minutes maybe. And SHE was the one that brought up going home, this was right after I took her to grab a drink. It took a long time because the bar queue was long, so I just said hey I have some nice wine we should try, and walked out with her arm in arm. Sounds unbelievable I know, like I’m about to say “and then I woke up” but that’s how it went down.
/r/seduction26/10/25 02:13 AM
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Thank you! Well most of them DIDN’T want to talk to me, but that’s the nature of night game (bars/clubs). Higher highs, lower lows. If you night game, you will receive polarizing reactions. Most will blow you out, because they are drunk with no filter. But the ones that don’t, well damn, that’s why night game is goated for getting results because you can go from meeting to banging a girl with in a short amount of time (my record is 8 minutes). If you want to meet girls who are more open and frie…
/r/seduction26/10/25 01:37 AM
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Yes! Here are my ‘low risk’ openers when I’m just starting the night and need something to say: Low risk openers: Hi I like your ____ (style, look, shirt, shoes, etc…) Or any compliment opener, followed by: how’s your night going? (If someone is mean because you complimented them, that’s THEIR problem) Is this the best bar in town? Does my ____ make me look gay/fat Who lies more men or women? What are you drinking?
/r/seduction26/10/25 01:30 AM
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Thanks for the feedback! I’ll look into what you mentioned. I agree healthy identity is a better definition, however I’m referring to an old RSD concept. Ah I see, well all I know is I try to make improvements with my game and improve my ability to not only create attraction but all other elements of game, where I’ve seen improvements in the quality of women I get, I’ve pulled some pretty hot ones this year so I think I’m not just shotgunning the same shitty approaches. I hear you though, I’m mo…
/r/seduction26/10/25 01:17 AM
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Hey dude i feel you, i enjoy hearing that I wasn’t the only one who struggled, because that’s how it felt in the beginning (and now sometimes, but not as much). Happy to help. When I started it took me a long time to get success. I knew about the game for 7 years before i did anything about it. I felt like a woman would never like me for who i am, and i HATED them for it. I went on Tinder dates for a year and didn’t get anything. Worse than you, I went out to a mall for a year and approached one…
/r/seduction26/10/25 01:15 AM
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Get after it man! I started when i was 22 (one month before 23).
/r/seduction26/10/25 12:30 AM
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SD
/r/seduction25/10/25 08:06 PM
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Great question, I’ve dealt with that heavily. Here are a few things that came to mind: Long term: Realize that we have an innate drive to seek companionship, and reproduce. And unless we give up the will to have a family one day and have kids then we will have to confront this issue eventually, and deal with rejection. When it gets too hard, take a break. On the contrary, rejection makes us stronger, so keep going if you can, and remain consistent. Game is hard. As cliche as it is, if it was eas…
/r/seduction25/10/25 08:04 PM
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Oh it got all fucky with the copy paste from notes sorry. Originally I set the goal to approach 5 girls (last time I only did 4), so: 3 more approaches minimum (to meet goal) 2 more approaches (because I did one) I decided those approaches were weak asf, then you see me ramp it up, hitting (5), (6), and so on. If you’re curious about more notes I have more detailed ones in my other field reports.
/r/seduction25/10/25 07:38 PM
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Oh I should add her main friend was with a guy so it’s hard for her to rationalize cockblocking
/r/seduction25/10/25 07:19 PM
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Yeah it’s all made up, a guy on Reddit couldn’t possibly get laid.
/r/seduction25/10/25 07:17 PM
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Thank you! Yea I’m definitely in the FTOW boat as of late haha. I felt pretty beat down, felt unattractive since there were so many guys getting with girls. A real mindfuck is when you see an obviously less attractive guy getting with a 9+, but it’s also motivating. After a point of rejection, the club becomes my game. Despite feeling demotivated, I realize it’s the price of success, because it makes pulling successfully so much sweeter. Game wouldn’t be fun if I always got what I wanted (probab…
/r/seduction25/10/25 07:16 PM
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Thank you!😊
/r/seduction25/10/25 07:08 PM
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Those are the number of sets! And my comments along the way. Didn’t have too many bc I was zoned in.
/r/seduction25/10/25 06:24 PM
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💯
/r/seduction25/10/25 06:23 PM
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I’ll take my $5 hah I have receipts. It’s rare sure but happens once you pass the threshold number of approaches. Crazy things happen at night my man.
/r/seduction25/10/25 06:22 PM
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Her friend took a pic of my ID lol, this girl was really in a party vibe, I’ll agree it’s not common but ‘yes’ girls will always follow your lead
/r/seduction25/10/25 06:18 PM
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LOL
/r/seduction25/10/25 06:16 PM
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THANKS YO😊🙏🏽
/r/seduction25/10/25 06:16 PM
1

They are definitely harder, in my experience, harsher blowouts
/r/seduction25/10/25 06:16 PM
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Half white half Asian :) I go for latinas disproportionately so we make it work haha thanks!
/r/seduction25/10/25 06:15 PM
1

About 8 mins? I met a girl on the street outside of a club by herself. Basically talked for 3 mins then walked 5 min to my car.
/r/seduction20/09/25 09:06 PM
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Two things: I) you have to expose yourself to the social environment more. When I first started going out I felt weighed down and unable to do anything. That changed simply the more I went out. I realized that most likely, nothing bad will happen. II) define what your goals are in a social environment. Whether it be to just socialize, or to meet girls (since you’re in this subreddit), it’s important to decide what you want to accomplish. For example, when I go out to meet girls, I’ll try to talk…
/r/seduction19/09/25 09:05 PM
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Do you break eye contact during conversation? Honestly I wouldn’t put too much weight into this, people close to us can have different perceptions than the general population. Just keep hammering out approaches and eventually your ticks will iron themselves out. Another easy fix is to video journal for absolutely anything for 2 mins (and watch it back).
/r/seduction19/09/25 05:11 PM
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Right on! Yea true it doesn’t help per se but it’s a great excuse to bring a girl home loll
/r/seduction19/09/25 04:20 AM
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I wish I was 6’4” and black 😂 A couple pieces of advice: I) you can get into music production and play an instrument if you want to. It’s pretty easy to learn guitar to the point where you can impress girls with it. Just a few chords and BOOM II) learn cold approach! Go to bars/clubs, and approach cute girls during the day.
/r/seduction18/09/25 03:11 PM
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Probably wants your attention with no plans of actually meeting up with you tbh. I’d say after 3 times MAX trying to set up a date with her (unsuccessfully) is the point you should move on.
/r/seduction18/09/25 03:00 PM
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It’s hard to know for sure because I’ve never talked to you. This is just general advice. Perhaps ask a close friend or family member why you may be giving off this impression.
/r/seduction18/09/25 02:44 PM
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Short term solution: look up “Todd V Approach Anxiety” on YT. Long term: go out multiple times a week. Eventually if you keep going, not taking action will hurt more than the pain of rejection, and you’ll just do it. That’s how I did it. Good luck!
/r/seduction18/09/25 04:33 AM
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Act in spite of past experiences. That’s what’s great about cold approach is that no one knows you and you can be whoever you want. Start approaching girls during the day, go to bars/clubs. You should start seeing success within months if you’re CONSISTENT. It took me less than three months to start seeing results. Check out my field reports.
/r/seduction18/09/25 04:11 AM
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Respectfully, you’ve spent too much time online man. Get out there :)
/r/seduction18/09/25 02:58 AM
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Completely? Unless you’re enlightened that’s probably not going to happen. There’s a couple of ways to go about this. One, you’ve been with close to 100 girls, so logically you know that you’ve got it before and you can get it again, so there’s no reason to desperately need something you can get easily with some effort. Second, since it’s unlikely to completely detach from any outcome (ultimately we wanna get laid eventually) unless we’re monks or some shit, however we can act in spite of feelin…
/r/seduction18/09/25 02:56 AM
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Why do it when there's so many other places to meet girls XD ? I'd recommend at least dating app or better yet cold approach. Problem is it's gonna be hard to not seem desperate.
/r/seduction17/09/25 08:11 PM
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I know this feeling all too well. I walked around not approaching for years. Baby steps. Ask for directions, give a compliment if you have to. Then do your first direct approach. It may take you hours, days, and even months/years. But if you go out with intent to approach you’ll do it eventually. Soon the pain of inaction will outweigh the pain of rejection. Refer to my field reports, my early ones especially.
/r/seduction17/09/25 07:49 PM
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Smile, talk slower, use pauses, stick to light topics (not involving religion or politics).
/r/seduction17/09/25 07:45 PM
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Lmk what I can do to help!
/r/seduction17/09/25 03:56 PM
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Yes perhaps, it was an interesting one
/r/seduction17/09/25 03:56 PM
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Thanks! 😊
/r/seduction17/09/25 03:54 PM
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Alone almost always :) I prefer it. That was a struggle for me to know what to do between sets. According to Todd V, just go on your phone, no one will even notice you if you’re in a club. He does this behind his students while they’re in set and it’s as if he’s invisible, the same can work for us. This is a little weird of me, but I’ll pretend to be on the phone while listening to the Todd V show on Spotify XD, it’s almost straight out of the movie ‘Hitch’ where he’s relaying advice during the …
/r/seduction17/09/25 03:54 PM
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Get good at cold approach.
/r/seduction08/08/25 04:23 PM
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So relatable and practical, thanks so much
/r/seduction08/08/25 05:58 AM
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Thank you! Yea it’s fuckin insane lol. Mood patterns of myself or the girls? Can you elaborate on that point?
/r/seduction08/08/25 01:30 AM
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Yea I agree. While IOIs help, I’ve had girls be interested with or without them, without especially during day game. I don’t wait for them or else I would’ve missed many opportunities.
/r/seduction07/08/25 05:33 PM
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😂yessir and trust me I’ve tried
/r/seduction07/08/25 05:04 PM
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Try to go dance, and bounce around the venue. If you’re worried about being judged, don’t, no one cares or even notices you, especially if you’re on your phone. Get used to going out consistently, soon you will see opportunities to approach, then you just have to do it. Can even just ask people for bar recommendations, or give a compliment, see if you can carry the conversation from there. Just like that, you’re already doing cold approach. One step at a time, even if you just go out it’s a win …
/r/seduction07/08/25 03:50 AM
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During the day, direct. I usually go with, “excuse me, I know this random, but I thought you were cute and I wanted to say hi.” I flirt for about 5-8 mins, suggest an activity to do together, and grab her info. Look up Coach Kyle and Todd V for more in depth stuff.
/r/seduction07/08/25 03:42 AM
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😂a dozen rejections in 2-3 years? That’s cute read my FRs I took 18 in one night. Two nights ago I took 12 then I banged the 13th one within 10 min of meeting her. I should add 1/30 is normal as a beginner. Don’t let that take you 6 years please.
/r/seduction25/05/25 04:42 PM
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Go out more, approach more women, write field reports, learn from mistakes, screen logistics, move to area where your type of women/girls are abundant, be in good shape (although destroying your body to with steroids to get women is a bit demented thinking and unnecessary ngl but do you), dress better. These things can help. But we need to be ok with wherever we’re at and build on it, if we’re constantly unsatisfied that’s not a sustainable mindset of getting better, be kind to yourself. Good lu…
/r/seduction24/05/25 10:43 PM
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If you’re practicing at least 2-3 times a week approaching 10 girls a night, not too long. It only took me a couple months to get some results I was happy with, still not where I want to be though. Hardest part was getting to the point where I could go out consistently and talk to multiple girls a night.
/r/seduction24/05/25 05:35 PM
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Solid, stealing that!
/r/seduction24/05/25 04:15 PM
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What is your definition of success? It seems like you’re doing very well, getting 6 new girls in over a year is nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/seduction24/05/25 04:14 PM
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I mean not to make you feel bad but I also always go out alone and do bar game (clubs too). Are you approaching a lot? Like 12 per night? Yea Daygame has never worked nearly as well as night game for me but has awesome interactions with 10/10s.
/r/seduction24/05/25 03:01 PM
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4 years?! My god I’d lose my shit, good on you for sticking to it.
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:41 PM
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🙏🏽💯💯💯
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:30 PM
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Thanks! Yes the more I game the more I realize how important it can be to find that girl that makes it easy, and being indifferent about the ones that don’t (while learning). Gg😎
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:17 PM
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Thanks bro 🙏🏽🔥
/r/seduction23/05/25 10:34 PM
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Often if you’re me. And if you approach a lot of girls. Most guys are pussies.
/r/seduction23/05/25 06:54 PM
2

I just used Google voice to get around it lol
/r/seduction20/05/25 02:48 AM
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Fuck that I’m tryna smash
/r/seduction19/05/25 06:38 PM
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Check out my field reports. Lately having best success at clubs and bars (night game), but I meet girls at beaches and on my college campus. Cold approach.
/r/seduction19/05/25 05:21 PM
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Funny enough, I was doing it for a few months before I saw Mystery’s 12 set rule and already had some nights where I did like 30😂I was like damn I can chill, it felt more sustainable. If you can do 7, 8 is no big deal and so on…I set timers for myself.
/r/seduction19/05/25 05:19 PM
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Approach more girls. Get used to going out every week and build up slowly. Build tolerance to rejection.
/r/seduction19/05/25 05:09 PM
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In SoCal
/r/seduction19/05/25 04:47 PM
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Night game, and approaching like 12 girls per night
/r/seduction19/05/25 03:47 PM
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Are you approaching many girls a night? Are you escalating? Are you trying to pull? At least 1/20-30 girls in my experience will likely be down to go home or at least grab their number to go on a date later.
/r/seduction19/05/25 03:43 PM
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Awesome write up!
/r/seduction19/05/25 08:24 AM
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Move on, talk to more girls
/r/seduction18/05/25 09:50 PM
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Yessir😎I’m more like og RSD but I noticed they stole many of his concepts that after reading the game and some MM. I do try to follow his 12 set rule tho. lmk how it goes for you!
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:25 PM
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DUDE hell yea I practice like every week multiple days, and that includes gaming my college and I especially love game on the beach and at clubs. I’ve known about game for maybe 8 yrs now (since RSD), but couldn’t pull the trigger for YEARS. Been at it seriously for less than a year, when I started doing night game, and have gotten some epic results. Soon I’m gonna transfer to a university and plan on hitting up its neighboring uni that is one of the biggest party schools in the US (with hottest…
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:19 PM
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Yea bro special warfare and shit
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:04 PM
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This is such useless advice. “Just be cool bro, just be social”
/r/seduction17/05/25 10:27 AM
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That’s either because you 1) are afraid of failing so want to save yourself from possible embarrassment (be brutally honest with yourself). Or 2) aren’t that attracted to her (idk why you’d approach her in the first place). If 1) then fucking get out there bro. If 2) then just text her you’re sorry but you’re not feeling it or reschedule and ghost lol.
/r/seduction23/02/25 04:08 PM
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10 mins? Maybe 30.
/r/seduction23/02/25 03:08 AM
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I’m probably that too. Yes just look up ‘Todd V shit test’ on YT and you’re good to go👌🏽
/r/seduction22/02/25 11:39 PM
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Could very well be😂
/r/seduction22/02/25 11:04 PM
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Yes all my notes throughout the night are an emotional rollercoaster😂appreciate you!
/r/seduction22/02/25 10:43 PM
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Thanks 😂lol
/r/seduction22/02/25 10:34 PM
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Fawk man like 20 seconds without saying a word😂sometimes girls we just know when we look at each other. Ideally we want to wait, but it’s fun to do sometimes. Only now have I had to hold back because it can hinder the pull and release sexual tension. I’ve had a girl in each arm (HB 9s) and making out with both looking like a pimp sat down at their table and k closed two others that night. One trick I use is disqualification, say something like “you’re crazy/trouble” “stop looking at me like that…
/r/seduction22/02/25 10:32 PM
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Exactly! These bratty girls think they’re so original and little do they know we have 5 responses lined up😂it’s like playing Skyrim
/r/seduction22/02/25 09:46 PM
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Then call the police
/r/seduction22/02/25 05:52 PM
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I bet it’s more than 90%. 90% don’t even approach. And of that 10% most of them will get discouraged from getting blown out, will be sauced, constantly need a flock of their buddies, and won’t be consistent.
/r/seduction22/02/25 05:51 PM
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Thank you for witnessing my journey🙏🏾
/r/seduction22/02/25 04:37 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction22/02/25 03:09 PM
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The biggest thing I was scared of at first is the fear of standing around and being seen like a creep. What I did to combat this is literally walk into a club, find somewhere to stand off to the side, and pull out my dick, cough I mean phone. If I stare at my phone no one will even question why I’m there lol. Eventually I got bored, which is good because now I’m no longer scared of going into a club alone, and started approaching out of boredom. If they ask why I’m there alone I just friends are…
/r/seduction22/02/25 03:08 PM
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Fawk been there bro. Or like when I had her right there and took too long to escalate and she gets bored😂I’m 23 and in college so it helps ig.
/r/seduction22/02/25 03:00 PM
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Thank you for saying so. Idk if it helps but back in March 2024 ish I didn’t even have the confidence to walk into a bar/club and would sit on the curbs. Consistent effort is what made the difference. I treated the act of leaving the house with the mere intent of being social (sometimes I’d talk to or look at no one) as a win. I progressed to walking into one club, as a success, then two, then three. I desensitized myself over time and now I’m starting to see results. Gg bro😎
/r/seduction22/02/25 06:37 AM
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Bang hotties diss fatties
/r/seduction22/02/25 06:15 AM
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We’re actually trying to set something up, she’s a sweet girl. These nights I forget all my failures, thanks for your support!
/r/seduction22/02/25 06:01 AM
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Yessir, every night
/r/seduction22/02/25 05:00 AM
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I’m a fuckin nerd ik 😂
/r/seduction22/02/25 04:28 AM
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Thanks for reading my friend!
/r/seduction22/02/25 04:27 AM
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Talking to one girl or a group. It takes the ego out of the equation so we can look at our approaches like practice or repetition. If I was talking to 3 girls it’s called a 3 set.
/r/seduction25/01/25 04:24 PM
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🙏🏾
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:33 PM
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Nope, wasian from🇺🇸😃
/r/seduction06/01/25 04:12 PM
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Why not just game after work? The issue is your game has to be perfect otherwise one unreceptive girl can put your job on the line.
/r/seduction06/01/25 12:50 AM
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You need to go out and meet girls. Obviously have other cool stuff you got going on, be in shape, get money, but there’s nothing wrong with getting girls. So what if you break someone’s heart, that’s the price we all pay for dating, and it probably won’t happen that often. Remember, girls want to get laid too. Start approaching, you are responsible for how your dating life looks at the end of the day. You can choose to act or not. Don’t try to anticipate how you’ll feel, because our feelings are…
/r/seduction05/01/25 07:19 PM
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💯 cool! Yes I make sure I mix in day game in my weeks so I know I can game just fine sober. I have a couple beers when I go out at night. Guys can be hostile, but as a guy with cauliflower ears I don’t deal with it too much lol. Mostly they’re supportive, in fact, two girls and one guy is one of the best scenarios because the guy is usually tryna isolate his girl. I try to find the odd one out and it works out in my favor. Good luck with the game bro😎
/r/seduction05/01/25 02:20 PM
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US of A 😎
/r/seduction05/01/25 02:09 PM
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Rsd, tryna lose my virginity when I was 16. Got a gf and gamed her. She fell in love. Then she shattered my heart. Now I want revenge on society XD Kidding, but seeing the kind of ish Julien was doing back in the day enlightened me to the dark arts of game and I’m hooked.
/r/seduction05/01/25 02:05 PM
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Absolutely 💯
/r/seduction05/01/25 02:57 AM
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I’ve been on dates with two girls who I learned were virgins on the first date. It was nice temporary excitement but was a waste of time. They were quite awkward, and it is frustrating for both parties when we don’t get what we want. After several dates I don’t think you can expect anything different in the future, she might be using you for attention. I’d ditch this one, sorry.
/r/seduction05/01/25 01:52 AM
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Make an agreement that you’ll approach at least one set before drinking (guys, girls, doesn’t matter at first). Or that every night you go out you have to hit a certain number of sets, even if it’s just a quick compliment. It seems like you just got to start getting used to being social/talking to girls/women. Go to very crowded venues, so you know no one gives a fuck or notices you. Try dancing. Try day game if you really want to conquer your AA and without alcohol. I’ve done this so I give mys…
/r/seduction05/01/25 01:44 AM
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Wdym close, wdym gentle? Let me say this, If you want to pull girls, being gentle as a main focus isn’t going to attract them. Ofc don’t be an asshole, but guys who are too nice usually end up in the LTR zone or friend zone, unless that’s what you’re looking for. You have to balance comfort and attraction. Just learn game man. Start meeting new girls every day/week. I don’t get the sense that you know what you want yet, and that’s ok bro, go find out, you’re young and can figure it out as you go…
/r/seduction05/01/25 01:33 AM
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It depends on the dynamic. Girls require push and a pull. Comfort vs attraction. It builds comfort, but make sure to let her know you’re not completely sold, or else you give your power away. Just keep trying new things.
/r/seduction05/01/25 01:20 AM
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Username doesn’t check out
/r/seduction05/01/25 12:34 AM
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Except she wasn’t, was perfectly receptive and friendly. Stop making assumptions based on nothing.
/r/seduction04/01/25 11:47 PM
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Fingering is one of the lowest chances of STDs. If you’re afraid of fingering a girl this isn’t really the right sub😂
/r/seduction04/01/25 11:45 PM
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You’re literally making a generalization based on my race right now
/r/seduction04/01/25 06:22 PM
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Someone who knows. People be so nitpicky on the first few words when there were thousands that came after.
/r/seduction04/01/25 06:09 PM
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Thanks for the support. Everyone so quick to judge and discredit based on so little. Not knowing how much work it took to improve my approaches to get consistent results. I’m enjoying these wild nights, and if people on this sub are too good for that it’s not my problem.
/r/seduction04/01/25 06:06 PM
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They’re beautiful
/r/seduction04/01/25 06:02 PM
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I do groups of girls usually, usually groups with not more than a couple guys. This set had just one guy with like 4 girls. I always warm up on the dance floor. I make eye contact, or do a quick opener. Girls even approach me sometimes to dance. Once I’ve got my first few interactions out of the way, I can approach any girl anywhere. I like, “I can’t hear you come over here…” (to isolate) I would strongly urge against random grinding, but hey if it worked for you I can’t really say anything. Tha…
/r/seduction04/01/25 06:02 PM
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Nah bro 12
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:46 PM
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Half white, half asian.
/r/seduction04/01/25 03:23 PM
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Near LA
/r/seduction04/01/25 03:22 PM
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A
/r/seduction04/01/25 09:42 AM
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Thank you! Not about the opener but what comes after. It’s a low level situational opener that’s worked wonders for me. Care to share better ones?
/r/seduction04/01/25 09:41 AM
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Todd V buyer analogy: just because we are interested in something (or in this case, someone) doesn’t mean we have to be completely sold yet..
/r/seduction03/01/25 02:53 PM
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This is really great, I never thought of asking the friend directly like that. Saved.
/r/seduction31/12/24 03:36 AM
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These comments are weird and beta as fuck, that’s a perfectly normal thing to wonder, who wants to have to hit on a girl with her best friend scrutinizing your every move? Two sets are the most difficult, and made for wingmen. If you don’t have a wing, know it’s going to be very difficult to isolate, she won’t abandon her friend for a random guy she just met. your best bet is usually a number close. According to Todd V, your best opportunities are mid sized groups of girls, 3ish, two girls and o…
/r/seduction31/12/24 03:26 AM
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Nice post!
/r/seduction31/12/24 01:36 AM
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First off, that’s nice of you for being considerate, it’s very sweet. Next, because you’re inexperienced, and can’t tell whether he’s serious or not, you have a few options: 1. Just ask! (“What are you looking for?”) 2. Let him fuck you on the first date, but only if you want to, if he’s smooth about it, and if you’re having a good time with him. Maybe he’ll stick around, maybe not. I’ve been in relationships (albeit not long term) with girls I’ve banged on the first date. 3. Make him wait, 3 da…
/r/seduction30/12/24 07:59 PM
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Um so do you want sex or not? Do you want a bf? As a girl you have the discretion to decide if our game is good enough lol. If you don’t feel comfortable sleeping with a guy then don’t. If he turns you on then do ig lol. If you want to look a man in the eyes then it’s just practice. Use it to test his confidence.
/r/seduction30/12/24 06:51 PM
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I always see beautiful women when I go out in SoCal, might be subjective. Dating apps are going downhill I think. Probably the best time to game bc men are too brainwashed by the media saying they’ll get metoo ‘d from just approaching. Less competition than ever before. But that’s just how I see it. I’ve gamed wayy more this decade
/r/seduction30/12/24 02:36 PM
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I mean whatever I like that allows me to feel good to transfer it onto them. Usually EDM or even lofi. Anything chill. Nothing polarizing, no gangsta rap or metal lol (even tho I love both). Girls who like Suicideboys are definitely trouble in my experience.
/r/seduction30/12/24 02:32 PM
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If your goal is to kiss then sure man. But if your goal is to pull her then I’d wait until you aren’t in a rush, you run the risk of killing the sexual tension. My plan for coffee dates has been: coffee>offer to take a drive with her>escalate a bit>seed the pull (let’s go listen to some music, grab a drink, go jacuzzi)>pull home>seal the deal. Have a goal (either getting to know each other, banging her or whatever), a plan and execute.
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:36 AM
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Coffee date is a good place to start. I would try to go somewhere else to escalate though. Like a park, a scenic location, wherever (building compliance is your goal) then eventually find a way to pull back to your place. A quick coffee date doesn’t lend itself to good logistics though.
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:23 AM
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Probably the gym. Jk nah but work on your physique. In the mean time clubs, coffee shops, stores, bars, malls, parks, campus (if you’re in school or <25), heavily foot trafficked streets, preferably a nice upscale promenade, probably not the beach tho. Where ever girls are, find where that is in your city.
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:19 AM
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Clubs have been successful for me lately night game wise. I’m in college so I cold approach on campus. But my favorite day game spot is the beach, I’m pretty shredded so that helps.
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:10 AM
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Yes but at night you don’t have a choice to approach a girl by herself 99.9% of the time. Sometimes a girl will be kind of outside the circle, not tight knit, maybe looking bored, that can be a good opportunity. Two girls and one guy is another good one. Just send it, go indirect/situational, and find out what works for you. Last couple weekends I’ve been using an opener for two girls that works well “are you guys dating?”
/r/seduction24/12/24 04:17 PM
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Lol I've done it twice in the past two nights, having gone clubbing for a few months. Practice, no really, practice in the mirror basic dance moves (two-step is pretty much good enough, throw in a body roll here or there), follow this advice by Richard La Ruina: https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ?si=sHchVdnrTbjdwbxI, and look your best (hygeine obviously). Go to venues where there are a lot of women. Girls have basically fallen into my lap doing just this.
/r/seduction24/11/24 12:49 AM
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They get on their tippy toes haha
/r/seduction23/11/24 06:14 PM
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A combination of game, physique, and learning how to dance makes more of a difference in night game than having a few more inches imo, heck when I wear cowboy boots I’m 6’1” so maybe even try that. Fortunately, these are things we can control. Hope this helps man.
/r/seduction23/11/24 07:45 AM
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I’m 5’11” so there are many taller guys when I go out, but my physique is what would get me any bonus points if anything (lean and muscular from years of competitive bjj and wrestling). The average guy still towers over these little club shorties lol (girl last night was like 5’1”) and just remember guys like Todd V and RSD Max are 5’7” I’d say it’s mostlyyy a limiting belief but ofc it helps I won’t deny it.
/r/seduction23/11/24 07:37 AM
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Ik dude every time!
/r/seduction22/11/24 07:53 PM
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Cool bro 😎🔥gg
/r/seduction22/11/24 04:43 PM
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Another one tn😈
/r/seduction16/06/24 06:31 AM
1

Another one tn!
/r/seduction16/06/24 06:31 AM
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That’s the plan. Thank you🙏🏾
/r/seduction15/06/24 12:52 AM
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Thanks for the support! Was pretty epic.
/r/seduction15/06/24 12:46 AM
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Yea man I’ll take it thanks!
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:30 PM
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Australian shepherd dog
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:29 PM
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Appreciate the feedback thanks!
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:25 PM
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Dude those are some celebrity numbers😂. I’m a bit skeptical about those results I mean I’ve never heard of anything remotely that good but I mean hey good on you I’m pretty jealous.
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:06 PM
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Great practical advice and thanks for the support!
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:59 PM
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Glad to help!
/r/seduction10/05/24 01:47 AM
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“Are you always this talkative?” Try to be compelling ofc, I’m sure you know that. Try to ask open ended questions that don’t elicit low investment. Another idea is to try to call them. Or send voice memos. Good luck though, it’s hard out here.
/r/seduction10/05/24 01:44 AM
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Thanks! 🙏🏾
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:45 AM
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And she had glasses this time😂 threw me off fr.
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:17 AM
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Well yes but I mean I’ve approached a lot so I think it was bound to happen. And yes I’m working on that very sticking point you mentioned. I’ve abbreviated these interactions quite a lot so you know. I’m doing about 5 minutes per interaction at this point, up from like 30s-60s when I started.
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:15 AM
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Practice. I mean I’ve been at it for like 6 wks and got a gf for spring break…But let me guess, you think getting numbers lead to nothing and you’re not wrong (very low % conversion), and that’s why I’ve been working on building more of a connection (and on other sticking points as they arise in FRs), and even having done so some girls who seemed interested ghost. I should note these interactions are very abbreviated otherwise it’s an essay. At this point I’m convinced it’s really a numbers game…
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:11 AM
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Thank you! 🙏🏾 Yea I sure hope but if not it’s all just reps. Texting a lot of the girls from this week tho so…🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:04 AM
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Yes I don’t know if I’ll die tonight, we never know the future. I just know that I’d rather live going for what I want rather than wondering what if. I appreciate the concern and your input🙏🏾. Gg.
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:46 PM
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My cc reputation won’t define me on my deathbed. Too each their own🤝
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:08 PM
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Thank you! Must be amazing down there. Gg bro🔥
/r/seduction20/04/24 03:31 AM
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Will do thanks! 🙏🏾
/r/seduction19/04/24 06:04 AM
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My 4th set today was a 2 set btw
/r/seduction19/04/24 06:02 AM
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Ah I love this question because I was super scared not too long ago about this. I’ve done multiple, mostly at the beach next to a cc campus. Basically I direct approach my target, and introduce myself to the others. A bonus is to almost game the other girl so she likes you, but in a platonic way. After this I do mainly interact with the girl. Basically at a minimum I acknowledge the presence of the other girl which allows me to direct my game at my main target. They’re the gate keepers, but have…
/r/seduction19/04/24 06:01 AM
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For daygame yessirr. A side note: I’m considering doing night game and will probably try to make a habit of getting practice on not just hotties to build momentum, which is going to be a major paradigm shift for me. But yes only baddies at my college.
/r/seduction19/04/24 05:55 AM
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Yes I go to a community college in CA. Thank you!
/r/seduction19/04/24 04:42 AM
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Mainstream nonsense. Girls don’t just magically appear unless you’re some kind of famous actor or rockstar, or pro athlete.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:53 PM
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Agreed 👍🏽
/r/seduction08/04/24 06:28 PM
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Much appreciated I’m looking forward to you seeing the journey🔥🔥🔥
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:32 PM
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Wordd 🙏🏾 As a newbie I need to just stay consistent. Thanks for the support!
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:26 PM
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Um not that it matters imo, but it was hours later lol. And one responded last night.
/r/seduction06/04/24 03:06 PM
2

Very insightful. Thanks for this🙏🏾
/r/seduction05/04/24 05:54 PM
1

I like this. Thanks for the good practical advice🙏🏾
/r/seduction05/04/24 06:04 AM
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Thanks for the great practical feedback. I appreciate this. Will do🙏🏾
/r/seduction05/04/24 03:20 AM
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I like this.
/r/seduction05/04/24 03:11 AM
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My apologies XD
/r/seduction05/04/24 01:45 AM
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Thanks man! I appreciate it.
/r/seduction05/04/24 01:43 AM
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Facts💯😎
/r/seduction04/04/24 07:34 PM
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Yewww agreed brotha🔥thanks!
/r/seduction04/04/24 07:23 PM
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Roger that🫡
/r/seduction04/04/24 06:47 PM
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Make sure you don’t invest all your effort into her my man. Maybe you ask her out and she says no, maybe it goes amazing. What’s important is that you have practice and options with multiple girls, especially as a beginner. It’s going to be weird since you didn’t initially convey your interest off the bat and you’ve been talking so long, so your two options are go direct: (she’ll either blow you out or she’ll say she also likes you back) or indirect (requires that your flirting skills are on poi…
/r/seduction04/04/24 05:44 PM
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Cool bro I’ll give it a shot🔥thanks for the support🙏🏾💯
/r/seduction04/04/24 05:10 PM
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I don’t really care dude. Girls can decide to text or not text for 100 different reasons out of my control. The fact that something can happen is all I really care about at this point, the ability to approach is a big deal for me at this stage in my game. I have gone on dates from numbers anyhow so for now so whatever it’s good enough for me.
/r/seduction04/04/24 04:41 PM
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My only goal was to just do it and say anything. And in those scenarios I resort to canned lines where I’m especially nervous. The first one I did a pick up line, “do you guys have a shovel? (No) bc I’m digging you” they laughed. I actually got her number after talking to them for a few minutes. The second 2 set one I just said hey excuse me…I know this is random but I like you. she was very giggly, flattered and friendly, and so was her friend but said she had a bf. I think this goes to show it…
/r/seduction04/04/24 03:38 PM
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Naw I get it bro. It’s not easy to convert, and I am not a master, and am jubilant asf. But I’ve started only recently and have already been on dates. Thanks for the encouragement.
/r/seduction04/04/24 12:43 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement brother! Yes some need to go outside lol. Godspeed🔥😎
/r/seduction04/04/24 12:13 AM
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Bruh you wild💀😂
/r/seduction03/04/24 11:30 PM
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Lol sorry I’m not living up to your standards g. I’ll go cry over here with these numbers.
/r/seduction03/04/24 10:49 PM
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This was at college and girls with their friends on the beach 😂 But man I’d really like that.
/r/seduction03/04/24 10:37 PM
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A proper todd v approach is open, premise, qualify, close. I just count as an approach if I close/ask for #. But its up to you!
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:02 AM
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