90 rejections in 20 days!!

drewster23 · 2026-03-22T02:01:55+00:00

This is how you become unstoppable lol

Kidcouger · 2026-03-22T03:02:27+00:00

No results/Getting rejected after 90 approaches in 4 months is a result. if you said you were going to approach every day for four months and did zero approaches that would equal no results.

keep grinding all it takes is one yes!

vertascend · 2026-03-22T02:19:30+00:00

I’ve had more rejections this year than my past 9 years total doing approaches, the quality of people have reduced that are receptive to approaches; more people just want to stay away from socialising, they want to be in their bubble and on the phone while sitting with their friends; I noticed this starting last year… probably because all the people who had high school or college during Covid weren’t exposed to this outgoing life; don’t be mistaken… while I had the most rejections… I’ve also had the most wins last year than any other year previously… so keep at it; if it doesn’t work then switch up your location

AstronomicalDave · 2026-03-22T03:49:29+00:00

Nice! This whole month of march got 20 rejections and only 1 make out but i win is a win. Soon ill close

Low_Interview1404 · 2026-03-22T12:13:44+00:00

Hey! For some reason Reddit does not let me post this but I`m looking for some hlep or a coach. Daygame bootcamp or coach. I am looking for daygame bootcamp or coach in London, Milan or Budapest. Or even a skilled or just willing wingman. Who has time and interest to do several long day sessions.

ThemeAppropriate575 · 2026-03-22T07:43:59+00:00

And why are your methods to start your conversation with women ? What do you say in the beginning?

Camdaman0530 · 2026-03-22T16:03:19+00:00

This is the one aspect in life I really want to get better at. It's hit or miss for me when hitting girls up over text/online, but in person it's really hard to gauge who's single and who's interested in socializing.

Joy_Boy_12 · 2026-03-22T10:03:41+00:00

90 approaches in 20 days?! You are the man

CharacterStrategy598 · 2026-03-22T01:13:26+00:00

You learn something new from every interaction.

daemon86 · 2026-03-22T03:02:40+00:00

That's great dude, what do you usually say as an opener?

Karmacosmik · 2026-03-22T15:48:49+00:00

What do you say to them?

PageLeast8629 · 2026-03-23T07:00:50+00:00

Haha love the energy right here. Most guys quit at a few rejections and call it the day. You're treating it like a skill sport, and it is. The real unlock is that each rep is data bro, take note and improve, calibrating delivery, timing, energy. Keep grinding man, the results are coming.

Wonderful_Tip_2023 · 2026-03-22T13:59:53+00:00

Congrats bro! That takes hella courage to do that, and I’m sure trynna understand the patterns and what works for 90 rejections must be tough. My best advice is try the app Shawty that can give you actual metric insight and track your approaches so that you progress improves exponentially.. good luck man!

MetalHist · 2026-03-22T10:02:10+00:00

they say it's a numbers game. 90 rejections isn't much. Especially if you are going for really hot girls who are way hotter than you! Just jeep going (or drop standard slightly if you wanna get laid bad)

EveningBeginning3922 · 2026-03-22T09:44:54+00:00

What do you ask

LogicalChart3205 · 2026-03-22T16:17:59+00:00

you'll keep on getting rejected if you don't learn from each rejection. 90 rejections are too much i think you're just copy pasting the technique on every girl. try to adapt to the environment learn from it. grow better.

random_question4123 · 2026-03-22T20:38:09+00:00

I’m wondering about your perspective of your correlation between the number of rejections and your confidence and self worth. You’re claiming it’s a positive correlation, so just curious if you could expand on that.

RegularAd2850 · 2026-03-23T08:52:38+00:00

if you the results that you will get lately, you'll prefer if you got 900 recetions not only 90

keep up jmi

mjshibz · 2026-03-23T23:11:19+00:00

Where are you approaching

StepGeneral3597 · 2026-05-14T03:05:32+00:00

It took 120

Title	90 rejections in 20 days!!
Author	StepGeneral3597
Upvotes	96
Comments	48
Date	March 22, 2026 12:47 AM UTC (4 months ago)
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