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Outer Game dbmsmanagear/r/seduction22/03/26 03:21 PM
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Debatedbmsmanagear/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:31 PM
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Debatedbmsmanagear/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 10:35 AM
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Debatedbmsmanagear/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:57 PM
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Debatedbmsmanagear/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:05 PM
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Debatedbmsmanagear/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:37 AM
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If you have one unwanted kid, that's your problem, If you have 100, thats state's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:26 AM
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I won't say it's disgusting, it's just entitled behaviour. You let me hit it raw, you act all cute and cuddly afterwards, so I know you were into it. I would assume that you are on birth control and have a budget for abortion in rare case it fails. Why should I be the one to pay for your irresponsibility..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:18 AM
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Well most of them were pro choice but became pro life when I refused to pay for the abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:04 AM
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I can understand pro-lifers. If you think that the foetus is actually alive, then you can't fathom abortion to be anything other that murder. That's why you should never make abortion a forefront of your election manifesto. Many prolifers would begrudgingly tolerate Abortion as long as you explain to them the pitfalls of banning abortion and promise them it's "safe legal and RARE" and be chill about it. Not remind them over and over again that you are pro abortion. But if they ever see you celeb…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:56 AM
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If anyone is genuinely interested, read on!! Its a defense mechanism for women. When they see attractive qualities in a man, confidence, preselection, muscles etc etc. It makes them attracted. Problem is, if women fuck anyone they would find attractive, they are gonna be pregnant all the time. It's not a good evolutionary strategy. So instead they shit test. They say things like "oh, you must say that to every women". So a man may reply in defensiveness, like "oh no I don't etc". It's a way to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:01 AM
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You won't need to expose people if they are honest about their adultery
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:22 AM
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Life is more complicated. If we have such strong morals, we miss out on opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:18 PM
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Whether relationship is saved depends on whether you are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:41 AM
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Yes, but they can't decide if they are in the dark
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:26 AM
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Have you cheated before or cheated on before?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:25 AM
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You don't owe anyone explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:17 AM
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Only reason to divorce is if you want to marry someone else. Otherwise there is no point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:11 AM
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I am not her boss. So no power dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:09 AM
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You have sex by having sex, not by ending the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:00 AM
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But you will be having sex, which was the whole point of it all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:56 AM
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How is ending your relationship gonna solve any problems. If you want sex, solution is to find a woman to have sex, not divorce your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:53 AM
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You know if i distrub your peace, you can just not read my posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:52 AM
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It's not a joke though. I had an extremely high libido phase due to certain circumstances in my life and I couldn't focus on my work. The women i never noticed before were distracting me. That's when one of the intern and I started our thing. It does help you get through the day. I guess you can jerk off, but a bj is still better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:51 AM
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You are talking though, you are not going behind her back. You are telling her that you need to get your dick sucked regularly so you are going to ask the neighbor out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:33 AM
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Why would you get a divorce though. It's not like you have found a worthy woman to be your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:29 AM
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Sometimes the woman is not worth trying to put in the effort or "trying other things". She needs to add enough value to your life for you to justify going to therapy etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:24 AM
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I mean, you may not need to commit adultery initially because your wife is blowing you regularly. But things change. It's not reasonable to sort out everything from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:22 AM
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Yes!!! People become so obsessive about something that's nbd. Like they keep repeating it over and over again. In theory i get that there is a deeper issue that trigger this "state" but it's still annoying. Like where do they even get the energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:17 AM
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Trick is to have your intern blow you before starting the day. Keeps the mind clear for 8ish hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:13 AM
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She texted, “Oh, I can tell you're a grandpa because you're using GIFs,” Shit test so I sent her a “Grandpa Simpson” GIF, and got a ton of laughing emojis back. Shit test past, attraction spiked I kept it short while going from one plate to another in between. When you pass shit tests and get good response, then it's time to qualify her and push for a meeting. Otherwise the state will break As I was planning to text her the day after, she went silent. State broke I thought, well, it was probably…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/26 03:51 PM
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"welfare of kids" "in the best interest of the child". These are used to screw over man in favor of woman a lot. Feminists use "the best interest of the child" argument to fight against equal custody rights. What's in the best interest of child you say? To be with the mother? Who decided that? Children of single fathers fair better compared to single mothers anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:51 PM
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That's the most idiotic part. Having a SAHM is not as cracked up to be. You have to do chores and childcare anyways. She just takes care of kids when you are not home and then you have to listen to her lecture you about mental load because she had to ask you to buy diapers. Like you are supposed to work and earn money and then have the audacity to not be on the top of household stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:47 PM
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Right so kids who go to daycare are doomed. We can neglect that fact that kids of parents who have money perform better in life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:44 PM
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How am I supposed to game a woman if she won't bitch about things?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:43 PM
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There are two kinds of 9-10s Bitchy one and polite ones. Bitchy ones shit test you from the get go, that's their way of weeding out unattractive men. Then there are polite ones. They drip feed you attention, they toy with you. They will be super nice and caring to keep you talking. They make you feel good and desired and cared for. It feels incredible. You don't want it to stop. It hits the deep beta cravings of a man. These chicks feed on that attention. They love that they have that power of b…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 06:20 PM
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Oh it's you, i should start reading usernames before commenting.. I would like you to realize something. You ARE making progress, because unlike many people here, you actually listen and can muster enough courage to do the work despite the paralysing dread you face each day. But progress is never linear no matter how much you want it to be. Worst thing you can do is get to much into your own head. Here is what you are doing, you are judging your progress based on your wife's reactions. Because y…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 09:02 AM
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She, she, she, she, she, she, she. Let's not waste each other's time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 05:29 AM
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I did not plan for that but it came up naturally. A bunch of DEERing from my side I should have STFU. If you DEERed then it didn't come out naturally. You just get defensive. That's just losing control over yourself. Not showing vulnerability required to let things come out naturally. She did hit the nail in the head though saying (along the lines) "I feel you and I shouldn't be together, or at least you don't want to be together. I feel you're in between either you want to leave the relationshi…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 04:46 AM
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Sex twice this week. This is a lower number than what it's been for a while. This didn’t really bother me until I realized now, writing this out. Then I have the urge to think about why this happened (ego protection I think). If I’m not bothered though, it doesn't matter, and I can stay the course. That's the difference between wanting sex for sex and wanting sex for validation. She should fuck me everyday if she feels I am attractive. That's validation seeking. I had a good week and was satisfi…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 03:31 AM
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The few times it has been better are when I hold my ground against some building shit storm eventually to be broken by my wife coming to me sad and depressed about her life, reactions and outlook. The other post that is getting me is I’m Enervating. I am gonna read between the lines. You are affected by her emotions, arnt you? Not the big ones, when shit hits the fan you know what to do. You read a lot here and you know how to act. But thats not who you are. When things are normal, then she can'…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 03:29 AM
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First, on “Oh, you think you can grab me out?” I replied, “Too many mistakes for the word ‘Agreed,’ ” and got nothing but tons of laughing emojis. Weak, in her frame, no outcome independence. After that, I messaged her later, being more specific and mentioning her work: “When should I come pick up my package? On day X or Y?” Again, in her frame. Wanting her to make the decision, not assuming attraction. Just TELL her when YOU are free. You would do that if you were a busy man with lots of abunda…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/26 03:10 AM
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No most men don't, but if you harm them, they will protect themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:54 AM
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Funny thing is these feminists are the reason trump won the election. They were happy to alienate men from their movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:44 AM
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What about MRAs who campaigned against a women’s right to an abortion and have found success there? MRAs are not responsible for abortion ban, no mens rights organisation lobbied for it. It was all conservatives. What about MRAs who advocate for life sentences for women who cannot successfully prove their accusations, even if they are true? Source ? We can see that it didn’t work out and it got rescinded. No it didn't get rescinded on its own. MRAs had to lobby HARD to get it done. Feminists wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:24 AM
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https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2020/may/06/betsy-devos-sexual-assault-title-ix-rules https://theweek.com/articles/808638/defense-betsy-devos-title-ix-plan Here is Connecticut Supreme court's remarks on the Yale University case where accused was not given a semblance of due process. https://www.fire.org/news/connecticut-supreme-court-issues-blistering-critique-yales-unfair-title-ix-proceedings All of this because Feminists are evil
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:14 PM
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No what's fundamental right is the principle of natural justice. You should be given a fair chance to defend yourself. How are you gonna do that if you can't cross examine the accuser when in most cases only evidence is the testimony? How can you destroy someones life based on heresay?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:05 PM
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They openly say it They successfully lobbied obama administration to take away right of accused to have a lawyer present and cross examination in college campuses which thankfully trump administration reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:04 PM
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Feminists want to take away presumption of innocence and right of accused to cross examine the accuser
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:59 PM
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But they don't promote equality, they promote violation of fundamental rights of men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:54 PM
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No believe women shouldnt be default For a specific case, there is equal probably of truth or lie. Each case should be judged separately
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:54 AM
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How are statistics relevant to a specific case?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:24 AM
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Problem with that kind of thinking is that you kinda have to apply the same logic to minority community. So let's say if a minority has higher rate of violent crimes, then should a person of that minority community be presumed to be most likely guilty on the face value. Of course not. That would be abhorrent miscarriage of justice. Every case is different. What we are saying is that every case should be judged based on merit without preconceived notions. And MOST importantly, we should have the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:09 PM
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Men have been known to leave the tribes to spread their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:59 PM
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"believe women" is very problematic You are a woman so you find excuses to conform with your group by making excuses for it like historical wrong, trust in system blah blah blah. This helps you relieve the anxiety of your group being wrong but muddying the water a bit so that you don't have to face that you think differently than your group. Men on the other hand are like, WTF are you talking about. How are we gonna decide if the accusation is genuine? Stop BSing me with your historic wrongs, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:56 PM
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Of course it's not that complicated. That's the point. You don't fixate on noise, you fixate on trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:51 PM
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They don't even need to fight. Let Romania have him first. Oh they can't? Because judge realized that there are irregularities in prosecution's case. Fine refile it, what you haven't? Why not? Just get to the trial already it's been years of "investigation". He hasn't even face trial and it's been years. They don't have shit against him. They are just covering their asses. UK be like we want him extradited but romania won't let him. But romania won't let him have a trial. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:50 PM
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Men are susceptible to a different kind of social proof. A more positive kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:45 PM
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It's not that complicated. There is a reason your spacial awareness increases as you reach puberty. There is a reason your reflexes improve as you reach puberty. Women and men are just evolved differently. Exception doesn't contradict norms
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:43 PM
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That's the thing Feminists thing being misogynist is so catastrophic that men should conform to feminism instead What they don't understand is that men are not interested in what feminism has to offer so their views don't matter that much. There is no reward for not being a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:39 PM
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Not all of them. Redpill makes sense to some men. Redpillers think that some men are cucks or whatever based just on their views. Those "cucks" are not joining redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:37 PM
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really? so men are actually dependent on a group and change their opinion to fit it? Of course they are. Social proof works on men. And they don't want to not because it is hitting their ego and questions status quo? Sure, sure. It's not ego, it's that if you attack them instead of the argument at hand, it feels out of place to them it's not consistent.. That's what freaks them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:35 PM
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Men also want to be part of the group, that's why social proof works on men. That's why Andrew Tate is so effective. What doesn't work is fear of social exclusion and disproportionate reaction. Look at the BBC interview, she is trying to label him and he despite being aggressive is not out of place with his arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:32 PM
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So when red pill screams that men are cucks, betas, simps, white knights, low-T, etc. at men who conclusively disprove their claims, what does that count as? Rules don't change. If redpill is being disproportionate, then it will freak men out as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:30 PM
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That's what I am talking about And most people, male or female, dislike Andrew Tate That's you trying to generate social proof. "Most people male or female" hold a belief that they don't like Andrew tate. You don't know if it's true but you are portraying it as truth to create social proof. Like I am supposed to just accept it because you said that "most" people believe it not just because of his abhorrent views on women, Sure I guess.. but also the fact he's a convicted human trafficker and rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:27 PM
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Your problem is congruency, it always has been. You can initiate correctly but if you are a loser otherwise, it's not gonna work ours while we were camping, so much that it pulled me out of the day. See, you can fake your way through gaming your wife. But unfortunately for you, she is there where you lose frame, when you start hamstering or pull away. im no longer making a joke of my desire. Exactly, the shame or hesitation that comes from acknowledging your desire comes from the lack of outcome…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/26 06:00 AM
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Okay let me give you a trick. Don't pass comfort tests, pass the shit tests. She will eventually give you a shitty-comfort test, that's when you pass the shit test part of the shitty comfort test and then initiate sex. Be dominant about it. If you initiate like a pussy, she is gonna shit test you harder. If you do mess up, keep passing shit tests and she will fuck you. Then you can comfort her after sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/26 04:40 AM
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https://illimitableman.wordpress.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/seduction23/03/26 03:29 AM
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I approached the first girl without really thinking about game too much just to try to get some momentum. Good, time for thinking about game is at home. In the field you just go with the flow. I had a kind of pink top on and she was all in pink and just tapped her and said that only I was allowed to wear pink or something along those lines. Let's me read between the lines. You timidly tapped her and gave an opener. Understand that the opener you gave is very dominant one. If body language is not…
/r/seduction22/03/26 05:43 PM
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I don't agree that it is just about screening. But I get the point of not wasting time too much
/r/seduction22/03/26 05:08 PM
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Always err on the side of Assuming attraction
/r/seduction22/03/26 05:07 PM
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you must take all the girls to this spot" No, just the big nosed ones "i bet you say that to every girl" Bummer, i thought they could keep a secret. I think you can, you are not like other girls. "You only want me for my body" Not the whole body 😏
/r/seduction22/03/26 05:05 PM
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I get all of that. But eventually game will come to one on one banter. It's just gives you more control over your options.
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:59 PM
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That's it? Dude I have seen girls who blankly stare at you for 10 minutes while you run your game. They wont respond, they are just testing whether you can keep going with no validation from her, just so she could test your frame. In all your examples, she is merely dismissive, just keep teasing? You say, “Nice nails, are they real?” and she responds, “One hundred percent.” So you just say that your grandma used to wear nails like them, she loved to bake and always left them in her lemon pound c…
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:53 PM
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Depends on the context. Emotionally charged opener Teasing Negging. Anything to rattle her emotionally so that she shit tests..
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:12 PM
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I read your comment, i think we just fundamentally disagree on what game is.
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:06 PM
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It doesn't matter if you are try hard initially. It will probably make her shit test you. When shit tests start, that's when the inner game is tested. You can't be a validation whore and pass shit tests.
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:04 PM
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If she is attracted to you, just qualify her and isolate her. What you are saying is for you to do the chasing. I am saying is for her to do the chasing from the beginning or even before an interaction started. That's not good game though. If she is already attracted then it's fine but if you only go after women who are already attracted, then you will have limited option. This is what abundance guys do and what guys with purpose do. They get the girl to be attracted to them even before the inte…
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:01 PM
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What happened to this subreddit? There was a time when there were daily field reports and people were actually interested in learning gam. Now it's just chest thumpers like you, and whinners.
/r/seduction22/03/26 03:49 PM
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Sure she needs to qualify before you switch from attraction to comfort but attraction always comes first
/r/seduction22/03/26 03:41 PM
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certainly see why counseling gets a bad rap. I had to correct our counselor twice on why we were there. Things got blue pill flipped and made me the bad guy. I held my frame, answered and corrected in a calm but firm tone, but I already sense there’s a bias. Couples Therapy is the ultimate frame battle. Because therapist defacto has higher value than you. So it takes lots of effort to take control of the frame. But if you can do it, then things get exponentially easy. When I was on my cheating r…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/26 03:38 PM
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Like a bit of a smart ass I asked if she was able to do anything about it which shut her down more, Good later in the car I empathized with her, Boo, made mommy mad so want to manage her emotions and then later I played around with her and invited her to have some fun with me. She laughed and started to get out of her mood but didn’t qualify. You didn't let the feelings fester bro. I started brainstorming what how I could Neg, DHV, and present another hoop but couldn’t think of anything. Been th…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/26 03:27 PM
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It's not enough to get rejected, write a damn field report FFS... Then take criticism and improve
/r/seduction22/03/26 03:10 PM
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I just disagree with you thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:38 PM
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There is no nuances here A man is always right in wanting a virgin. We can debate his reasoning but it doesn't matter at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:30 PM
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There is no limit we can argue on morality but it's still his right to want a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:27 PM
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No, it's always okay to want a virgin and it's always okay to get abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:23 PM
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Sure and reasoning for abortion can be fucked up as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:11 PM
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Consent need to be informed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:00 PM
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Sure but they are not wrong in wanting you. You are not wrong in rejecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:00 PM
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Sure and women's reasons for wanting Abortion can be wrong..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:57 PM
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That's like saying only murderers want abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:42 PM
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I don't care for virgin women because I am married and not looking for anything long term with these women.. I don't think i would want a virgin if i want to marry again. But even if I do, I am well within my rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:41 PM
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Bodily autonomy>>>>hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:39 PM
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Yes . I don't lie about my marital status, I don't lie about my job or my intention. I still get laid anyways. Most women don't care, only losers lie. You need informed consent, otherwise you are a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:35 PM
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You are not the first one to make fun of victims of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:34 PM
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Yes, it's not hard for you.. But it's hard for him to get a hot young woman. But if he did succeed, then he will have the option to just replace you with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:40 PM
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Equity!!! Men will get equity
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:47 PM
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Equity
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:45 PM
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They are not obligated to, there partners can do it with other people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:49 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:44 PM
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We can import women from other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:28 PM
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They weren't forced to evacuate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:15 PM
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Let women have "character" for once
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:50 AM
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What reward would you get from being a real man? Honor to die in trenches ? Let women do it.. Pregnancy shenanigans have to stop if women are drafted. If we send them anyways then they would stop these shenanigans.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:47 AM
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Well stop falsely accusing men, do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:46 AM
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We can't also falsely accuse our wives of abuse to get a better divorce deal..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:45 AM
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Yeah nah... Thats not how it works. Even if you can't get a criminal conviction. In family court, your testimony is taken as evidence if you face cross examination. A woman who was truly traumatized wouldn't use her trauma to win an internet argument, she would avoid bringing this all up. You are FULL of SHIT.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:40 AM
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Nope most courts don't care anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:36 AM
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Stats man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:34 AM
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I don't believe you. Otherwise why wouldn't you have full custody. i hate false accusers..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:31 AM
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Women do commit more sexual and physical abuse towards children
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:26 AM
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They also ran away to Europe like cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:25 AM
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That's fine. But he is not wrong because he is not infringing on his wifes bodily autonomy. A contract doesn't supercedes bodily autonomy. He is right to have sex with hotter younger women in his marital bed whether his wife likes it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:24 AM
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So Ukrainian women should be dying in ditches and men should be allowed to leave the country
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:20 AM
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System is designed to keep babies with mothers because it's falsely believed that mothers are better parents, it's the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:19 AM
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Just send pregnant women on front line anyways You do that few times and the shenanigans will stop
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:14 AM
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It's time they become boss babes in battlefield
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:13 AM
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Ukraine as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:12 AM
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Women are not fairer sex, they are boss babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:12 AM
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If women get drafted and go die in wars, men will be perfectly happy to do it. Children of single fathers fare better than those of single mothers anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:11 AM
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There is a thing called bodily autonomy There is nothing right or wrong as long as you exercise your bodily autonomy and don't infringe on others . So If a man is not getting sex from his wife, he has every right to bring other women to his marital bed and have sex with her. He is not infringing on bodily autonomy of his wife, he is just exercising her If a man is not getting sex act he wants, he can get another woman to do those sex acts in his marital bed, he is not infringing on his wife's bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:09 AM
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Relationship is men trading commitment in exchange of not pursuing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:59 AM
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Don't be salty about it I get not being desired by someone.. When someone who seemed so into you, change into someone who dislikes you. It's life,
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:43 PM
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Yes, works like a charm. Something about talking about your wife in an indirect but positive way cause incredible sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:27 PM
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Problem is that men hide that they are married or tell women they are unhappily married. They NEED to be honest about being married and deceptive about being unhappily married. This way they become more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:12 PM
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Lot of time, when you love a woman, you just want sex with her to be close to her. Problem is that when she rejects you, it seems like she is rejecting your love. That's a wrong way to look at sex, sex for anything other than desire for a woman is gonna make you feel shitty. That's the time to actually look at your wife and decide objectively if she is worth the effort. Most of the time, she is not. There is no way she can compete with a younger hotter slimmer woman. That's why her being a good …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:10 PM
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Yeah, well if you are stupid enough to join military that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:01 PM
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Doesn't matter what you think my motivations are, either both men and women win or both lose
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:01 PM
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That's a good question, why not put effort into the wife? But you also have to ask the question, why put effort into the wife? What's so special about her that other younger slimmer woman can't give you? When men actually ask themselves this question, then truth becomes very clear. I
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:58 PM
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Not if you are honest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:52 PM
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I don't need you to "want" to work with me, i just need you to understand that you will never win as long as you are not working with me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:51 PM
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Casual sex is not enough, You NEED to have emotional affair as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:50 PM
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Really? Was he abusive? Never really understood the psychology behind abusers, like why do you care about this woman, what's so special about her that you would waste your time abusing her when you can, I don't know go to sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:49 PM
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You don't need divorce to have sex with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:42 PM
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"working with women" doesn't work. Women sabotage men's rights. Look at metoo, they defamed men without evidence. You need to make women do the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:40 PM
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No need to be clear before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:37 PM
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No, goal is to not reach redfems a lesson. Goal is to drag women into a gender war where both men and women lose so that women decide that it's not worth it and just give men their rights in exchange of men stopping the war.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:33 PM
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Why not? You have the right to life, it doesn't mean it's not leveraged in wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:29 PM
1

He should..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:27 PM
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Do you actually desire this woman? What's so special about her? Figure that out and you get the motivation to game her or leave her.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/26 03:26 PM
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Not behind his back, that would be shitty. Just tell him upfront
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:23 PM
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Not against feminists, against women's interests so that feminists lose their legitimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:12 AM
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Why would national organisation of women lobby against equal rights in florida? Why would feminists organisation write open letter in support of Amber Heard? Why would feminist organizations lobby against govt funding for DV shelters for men? Even if most women don't want this, feminists on power do, they need to be defeated and only way to do it to make them more of a liability to women. Because they can do it because of women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:01 PM
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In terms of materialism Chinese > korean > japanese. Only japanese women are nice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:53 PM
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It's not that japanese women are better, it's that korean women are not interested or too demanding financially and men can't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:28 PM
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Tell that to Margret thatcher lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:04 PM
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Abortion goes to the heart of legitimacy of feminist establishment. If they can't protect it, they lose power
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:03 PM
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Ah south korea!!! You are right, women actually are unified there Men just started importing japanese women now and it's causing problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:02 PM
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No, i said men should vote against women's rights so that they can leverage restoring those rights in exchange of women supporting mens rights as well. Women are unwilling to do it on their own, so we have to make them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:59 PM
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Nothing is stopping women for fighting for their rights, but we will fight against them and decrease their chances of winning. Why trust us? Because we arnt actually against abortion rights or other rights, we are just using them for bargaining leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:57 PM
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We don't have the critical mass needed to vote for a paternity fraud legislations. We need women, women are either not interested or unwilling. We need leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:55 PM
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Definition is irrelevant, actions are what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:39 PM
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You don't need justification for war. You just need bargaining friction and substantial disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:38 PM
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So men and women need to enter a marriage of convenience. If women want men to vote for abortion rights, birth control rights, etc, then they need to vote for protection against paternity fraud and against conscription etc. And vice versa. Problem is that we can't leverage abortion rights to get what we want, if women have those rights in the first place. So first step is to take away the rights of women by vote then make a deal with them that we will restore it as long as they also support our …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:36 PM
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What actually happens id that the demogrpahic being threatened is denied their rights regardless of what they do and they have to fight for them anyway. Yes, and men need to leverage that. Women can't say that abortion is their fundamental right and they are entitled to it. If they want it, they need to support protection against paternity fraud, equal custody etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:29 PM
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Yes, but you can't follow the money if you are not in an open conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:27 PM
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It took decades for establishment to admit that men have real issues. Even then they keep making fun of men for having issues. We don't have another decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:10 PM
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I get it. Wonder how that sub was after election.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:08 PM
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That's take a lot of time though. If you can instigate shit tests, then you can generate attraction faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:06 PM
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How else am I supposed to make them shit test me and generate attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:00 PM
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I get that you are using a metaphor, I just don't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:59 PM
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Being racist is against the rules of this sub, being sexist or misogynist is not. You can be racist for all I care, i am friends with lots of racist and I am not even white lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:56 PM
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Don't be racist, that's all I am saying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:55 PM
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Hey I am not saying you had bad intentions, it just didn't read right to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:48 PM
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If you fight for equality, they will not give you a good deal. If you fight against them, they won't have a choice but to make a good deal to make you stop
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:48 PM
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Spiting feminists is the happy side effect. Primary motivation is voting against women's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:46 PM
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It's a war.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:45 PM
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Let's not use the word "blacks". Even if you are Black. It seems too 1960s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:44 PM
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That's what I was thinking when they went on sex strike after election. You weren't fucking them anyways lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:43 PM
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You can't handle the truth doesn't mean the truth doesn't need to be spoken
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:42 PM
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EXACTLY I don't think you understand the evolunary genius of bitchiness. You can just annoy people into doing your bidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:41 PM
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You are thinking as if i am in her frame, I am not.. That I am doing it to get some reaction or action out of her. She is only relevant if she molds herself according to my worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:40 AM
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Lady, listen.. even if it hurts her, she should know the truth. Because alternative is that she is clueless about it happening. She can walk away from me and start a new life. She has that choice now. By hiding it from her, I will be robbing her of that choice. As much cruel as you think I am being honest with her, hiding it from her is more cruel..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:45 AM
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They are cowards, who have no respect for their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:25 PM
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It's not cheating tho,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:16 PM
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Yeah,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:11 PM
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I think it's completely fine to keep wanting as much sex as your want. It's also okay to get other women to fulfill your needs. Just don't hide
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:10 PM
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They definitely don't have the power to just open it for themselves only. They can't control their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:07 PM
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I have good game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:05 PM
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Consent is only relevant if it's related to your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:59 AM
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It's the chicken and egg thing. Preselection gets you women , but you need be women to have preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:59 AM
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Most divorce courts don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:53 AM
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Sure, deadbedroom is also disrespectful but there is no point getting mad about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:52 AM
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You don't have to rub it in her face tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:51 AM
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How can it be not technically cheating but still cheating lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:51 AM
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Disrespect is if you hide or lie to your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:50 AM
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It doesn't need to be agreed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:49 AM
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Adultery is basically moot point in marriage nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:47 AM
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What her reasons for staying are is irrelevant.. An attractive man is an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:46 AM
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I know the consequences.. I know she can hurt me in family court. Thing is, I am not really scared about anything in my life anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:44 AM
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Thats BS of the highest order, " don't want to hurt the partner" 🤣🤣 Cowards do hide behind ethics
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:42 AM
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I never said it was ethical, i said it wasn't cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:40 AM
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the first time you did it was tho. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:38 AM
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It's unethical to trap men into monogamy without guarantee of sex. It's better that they fuck other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:36 AM
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There is no agreement, just words.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:35 AM
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But your partner has no authority to stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:35 AM
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And I find abortion unethical, but I still think a woman has the right to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:34 AM
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You just need to be honest, you don't need permission. She can leave, sure but she has no authority to stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:33 AM
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What i am saying is that I don't need my partners consent to have sex with other women. But it's wrong to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:32 AM
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Nope, it's all about emotions. It's insecurities, that the partner will leave them. People many times cheat because they feel their partner doesn't desire them. Otherwise why would you ever hide it. It's better for your partner to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:30 AM
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It's preselection. The fact that a man cheats with young women makes him top 10 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:28 AM
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That was the point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:27 AM
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Does that bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:25 AM
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That's a lot of bullcrap. They hide because they are ashamed or scared. It's all driven by emotions, rationalization comes afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:23 AM
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Yup, that's why it's important to have sex with other women, because your wife might stop and you can do nothing about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:22 AM
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Nope,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:20 AM
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She actually filed once, I even got served. Then she took it back. She doesn't have clarity of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:20 AM
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Sure, but I changed my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:17 AM
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First time, when I didn't tell my wife, i cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:16 AM
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You will be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:15 AM
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That's one way to put it, but I never really cared to justify my affair..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:14 AM
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Yes, divorce is justified if you are not okay with your partner boinking someone else. But cheating is when you lie or hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:13 AM
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I havent put much thought into it. I have no idea if I will be fine, she gonna have to fuck other man for me to figure it out. After I cheated, my world view changed. Life has so much to give right now, it would be injustice to myself if i give too much thought to hypotheticals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:12 AM
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I havent put much thought into it. I guess I will find out of she decides to do it. To be clear, if she informs me before doing it, I also won't consider that cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:09 AM
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It's important that there is an objective criteria by which we judge women, otherwise how would they know what to do? The goal should be achievable and reward should be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:47 AM
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You are responsible for your children because they are your children. That's not true, it's just society tells us that it's true, in order to control men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:45 AM
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I told you to go away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:45 AM
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Men can only be saved if they are valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:43 AM
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Not how men feel about mother, how she objectively is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:37 AM
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So what? If every child gets a father then value of father decreases. If select few gets a father then the value of father increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:36 AM
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What I am saying is, men should be good parents to children of good wives, not bad wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:35 AM
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Stop gaslighting me, stop emotionally abusing me. Paternity fraud is real, you can't change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:33 AM
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I mean Hillary clinton merely talked about drafting woman and women lost their fucking minds!!! She never spoke about it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:33 AM
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Men suffer as well. No one comes to save them Men should look after themselves first, men can have many children. If some suffers, it's nbd
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:31 AM
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Why are you lying? Ukraine is forcing men to fight but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:28 AM
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Paternity fraud is real. Deal with it. Stop being a narc, stop gaslighting, stop being an abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:28 AM
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They weren't forced to though.. It's like sex, you shouldn't be forced to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:26 AM
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Revelation is that men should be good fathers, it's essential that they are. That's where the value lies Then they can be good father to children whose mother deserve it the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:25 AM
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Are you dense? Paternity fraud is when woman lies that it's your child. Just fucking make the biological father pay. What the fuck is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:24 AM
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No one deserves jack shit. Men on ukraine didn't deserve to force to fight while women left to live comfortably in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:23 AM
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Paternity fraud is real The man who got girl pregnant should pay... I am not even gonna discuss it with you any further. You seem to be a gaslighter and a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:21 AM
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Women weren't like that though, you guys fought for it and some men actually supported you. Shame you guys pay men back by "killallmen"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:19 AM
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Fairness should not come in the way of an ideal society for men. Men should be ruthless about rewards good behaviour and punishing bad behaviour. No mercy, none. Women have used children to manipulate men from eternity. It's important that men do that same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:18 AM
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Feminists control men by shaming them out of dating younger women. I don't see how my way is any different. You want women to behave certain way, you reward them with something they actually value
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:16 AM
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Men definitely should make sure that their wives are not default parent as long as wife is a good wife. Otherwise they should do bare minimum to justify equal custody so that they don't have to pay child support. It's essential that they get equal custody, so that money is saved for the child they should put actual effort for. Ideally they should just abandon the child but society punish men for it financially, so they need to do JUST enough so that they have custody, but not even a little bit m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:13 AM
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Yes, a man should be an incredible father. He should go above and beyond of the child. But he should be selective of which child. If he is good father to the child of bad wife then it's not fair for his good future wife
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:09 AM
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Yeah, you need heavy social engineering to reach equality. Otherwise men are just more stronger than women. If men in USA decide tomorrow that they want sharia law, nothing women can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:06 AM
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Men are disposable as well. They are sent to die in wars. Men are forced to pay child support even if they are victim of paternity fraud. All in the name of good of society
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:02 AM
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Man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:17 AM
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Benefit of marriage is NOT getting easy divorce, benefit of EQUALITY is getting easy divorce, for men and for women. There is a reason women fought so damn hard for it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:15 AM
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Benefit is that you can stay with a woman, build a nice life and just replace her with younger woman at the drop of the hat and keep living the same life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:04 AM
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Benefit is that he can leave for younger woman and He doesn't get financially wrecked. He get hotter younger wife He still has to do childcare and house work so that doesn't change. Basically by leaving you for a younger woman, he has to do the same amount of work but not has a younger hotter wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:56 AM
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Sure but it's better that both are equal in terms of money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:44 AM
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If a man can't get a younger woman to fuck him, why should his wife fuck him? He is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:41 AM
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You don't give him benefits, he already has benefits. If you are working a good job, he is equal partner in terms of childcare and household, He can leave you for a younger woman and he doesn't have to pay alimony or child support or lose his children. Goal is for men to support equality, so shaming men from reaping the rewards for equality for their own benefits is bad. Because as marriages become equal, the value a woman give to a man decreases, he has to do housework and childcare. He can lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:39 AM
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What most men do is try to justify their cheating or make excuses whatever. For preselection to work, you need to actually show that cheating is just natural to you because you are a high value man. I cheat, it's nbd. Women lap it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:32 AM
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The conclusion is pretty evident if a man actually tries it. There was a time when I was sexually frustrated with my wife, and it just made me more repulsive to women. Then a woman just for whatever reason came on to me. I cheated first time. Wife found out, and everyone found out. To my surprise women started being friendly with me. Even my wife's friends, who talked a lot of shit about me btw (my wife was kind enough to make me read those messages) but when we met, they were all touchy feely. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:21 AM
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Women do love to be a trad wife for a right man, but that right man is also willing and capable of leaving e her for younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:16 AM
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It's actually the opposite. If you have the reputation of leaving a lot of women, you get more women. It's preselection at play. A man should have a reputation of being a cheat than a nice guy who is not successful in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:14 AM
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Well, you can't enforce morality any other way at a large scale
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:03 AM
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On one hand you have equality which enables you to leave your wife without high monetary consequences. But you are under social pressure to not leave your wife. So when your wife is a not a good wife, it makes men think that Feminism is the problem or that if she was a trad wife, she would understand and respect him more. Basically he is forgoing younger woman to be with his wife and his wife doens't appreciate him so he thinks equality and feminism is the problem. No the actual problem is the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:00 AM
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You are not the only person who is scared of admitting what he desires to himself because then he would actually have to work towards it and face the possibility of failure.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/26 01:16 AM
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I was being hard on you because I thought you have made progress. I assumed that you would tell me what your plan to fix things and open that plan for criticism. But you didn't do it. Was I too optimistic about you?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 02:20 PM
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Maybe she started acting a little bratty which feels like a countermeasure to me showing a tad bit of more confidence (or larping it?). It's a sign of attraction.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 12:39 PM
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Tell her directly what you need to do or not to do, don't tell her how it makes you feel just so she could take pity on you that you feel bad and change her behaviour. Your feelings are not her responsibility, her responsibility is to do what you tell her to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 12:36 PM
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Has she done the lie detector test?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 12:26 PM
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Bumped into some guy she knows said hi to me then he goes straight into chatting with X like no one else exists, X looks awkward af, I walked off after 10 secs- didn’t wanna 3rd wheel that. Here is the trick for that Instead of leaving, you go behind your ex's back, hold on to her shoulders and push her in front of that guy. What you need is to make the situation extremely awkward for both of them. You do that by bringing the elephant in the room on the full display. You, your ex and the guy kno…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 12:10 PM
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talked dirty over text; got a no when I initiated and it turned into a conversation about me needing to try to be more romantic. Shit test Used a mix of amused mastery and some genuine feedback, Eh! Stick to amused Mastery, genuine feedback is too logical when you are gaming made her laugh a little and then I said a couple loving things to her that put her in a better mood. Her being in anxious mood is a GOOD thing when you are gaming. It creates an emotional storm that will make her horny. Stil…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 12:01 PM
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I continued operating under the mental model that my wife is dead. I caught myself seeing tasks leaving tasks to her like I normally would have. One notable task I avoided all last week was making myself breakfast after the gym or earlier when I wake up. I enjoy breakfast with the family but end up grabbing breakfast on the way to work half the mornings anyways. I think my behavior is some kind of avoidance. I used to make breakfast for myself every morning and stopped because my fiancé made us …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 11:35 AM
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I need to fix my sex life with my wife or leave her. No you don't. You don't need to do jack shit. You can cheat, you can stay celibate, you can get a pocket pussy. You don't NEED to do anything. You are CHOOSING to do it. Why are you making the choice though? Because you are a nice dude? Moral dude? All this messaging girls I know or downloading dating apps is just a way for me to avoid that confrontation and avoid problems. That's true, I will give you that. As I'm listening to the Book of Poo…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 11:29 AM
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Oh look, someone actually listened to the advice. Maybe there is some hope for you. While I was brushing my teeth she came up and grabbed my ass and asked if I wanted a BJ. I said I would like that and went to the bedroom, she sat down on the bed. I generally have a hard time expressing myself here. This time, I used my words, directed and was more authoritative. There was some push back and shit tests along the way but I held strong and finished in her mouth. Life is so easy when you pass the s…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/26 11:14 AM
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That's all fine.. But I was replying to very specific comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:14 PM
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The male on male doctrination about fighting in wars also hinges the pride of the tribe etc. They portray it as the tribe needs you and your sacrifice. That's what feminists are trying to do.. problem is that they don't tell men that it would be honorable for men to respect women, they say that if you don't respect women, you are piece of shit and women are entitled to respect etc. That's also reason why feminists are not effective
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:14 PM
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I wish you the best as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:10 PM
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I am not denying that actions have consequences. But if women don't give a shit about men leaving then they won't care enough to inflict consequences..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:08 PM
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Yeah, i watched his videos. There were lots of clowns, he wasn't one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:06 PM
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Fighting other tribes vs inflicting violence on your own tribe are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:06 PM
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They do give a shit. Kevin Samuels, may be rest in peace, pretty much proved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:03 PM
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Are they? Hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:02 PM
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My argument is, feminist indoctrination doesn't work. So even if feminism has noble goal(debatable because they also fight against recognition of female on male rape for some reason) their methods of indoctrination are not effective on men. Whether feminism is needed depends on whether their methods work or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:49 PM
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Women react to men leaving not by crying about it. They react by demonizing men, calling them misogynists, or creep, saying they are weak that they can't handle western women and have to have power differential etc. That's prevalent among African Americans women. They respond to men marrying women of other races by demonization, exclusion from the community, etc. Women are actually very brutal about it. If they didn't care, they would be completely silent about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:46 PM
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No patriarchy is pure either,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:42 PM
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But what equal means is also up for interpretation. That's why feminists were able to get away with affirmative action. What's equal is matter of interpretation and interpretation is the matter of negotiating leverage. Because sure affirmative action may be justified because women are disadvantaged. But by how much? And how long and what percentage? These are the questions that are not decided by rational decision making but by negotiating leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:40 PM
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Sure, but equality is different from generosity or morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:32 PM
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It's all about "the game". Rollo is pretty much irrelevant in PUA circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:31 PM
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I think you really overestimate the attachment men have with evolutionary psychology. The "belief" in it is a very pragmatic choice. If it was not useful to them, it would have been discarded. It just explains women and game very well. Feminism just doesn't explain women or their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:29 PM
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You can preach equality, but how do you enforce it is the question
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:23 PM
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Evolutionary psychology is accepted in redpill circles because explains how women behave and why game works. Rollo came very late to the scene, I don't know who made him the defacto face of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:20 PM
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There is no such thing as equal, there is just negotiating leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:15 PM
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Equality is not limited to gender, there is equality in income, wealth, religion etc. it's a noble goal to have Equality needs to be enforced. With regards to gender, feminist indoctrination is just not effective way to do it because men have evolutionary escape hatch against that indoctrination.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:10 PM
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Peterson is dangerous because he make men feel obligated to be good men. Men need to be good in exchange of something, not for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:00 AM
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No, duty is free labour. What better is a trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:58 AM
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If you dont need evidence, I dont need evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:53 AM
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Women are responsible for making tate famous. He would have been irrelevant, now he is a martyr
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:52 AM
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Peterson is more dangerous that Andrew Tate. Peterson makes men believe that they have duty towards the society. Tate also says that but he also want men to expect something in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:51 AM
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Blah blah blah Just don't preach "believe women". Just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:47 AM
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FFS!!.. TLDR: just because you have right to speak up doesn't mean it absolves you of the responsibility of the consequences. You had the right to cancel tate, you also hold the responsibility of making him famous
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:47 AM
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Yes, just don't tell men or anyone else that they need to do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:32 AM
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I just have problem with feminist saying that we should believe women. They should be saying believe whoever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:31 AM
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If feminists want us to automatically believe women, we should also be allowed to do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:29 AM
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Romans went head first into battle with Hannibal. Were they not justified? Hannibal was burning their country to the ground. Then Fabius Maximus came along, and said to them. It's not a good idea to fight him in open battle, we need to avoid it. But they didn't listen, they were OUTRAGED. They asked shouldn't they be allowed to fight Hannibal in pitched battle? So they didn't renew the dictatorship of fabius and went straight into the battle of cannae. Lost 20 percent their military aged men.. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:25 AM
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No, i have problem with feminists preaching "believe women". Just believe whoever you want, it's a free country
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:34 AM
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Let's see In late 2024, the Bucharest Court of Appeal identified significant "irregularities" in the prosecution's case. The court ordered prosecutors to either amend or withdraw the indictment, citing flaws in how charges were explained and the exclusion of certain witness statements. Seems like a prosecutor trying to throw whatever they could to get clout because feminist made Tate brothers enemy no 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:32 AM
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She lied you dumbo, she lied about donation, she lied about makeup brand, she lied and lied and lied. And with so much "evidence" she had on Depp, not one video or audio of him being physically abusive. She claimed a lot of things, but no evidence. Her words arnt enough because she lied so much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:14 AM
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Did not one read the UK court judgement except me? Judge said that since she donated her settlement, she had no incentive to lie. Well what do you know, she didn't donate jack shit. She lied in uk court as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:09 AM
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Depp was accused of lots of things, none was substantiated in court. Amber took the stand and failed miserably in her cross examination. So her verbal testimony is unreliable. Johnny took the stand and faced intense cross, but they couldn't stick any dirt to him. Heard confessed to hitting him. Also tell me, why would Amber Heard say that she used the brand of makeup (to hide the alleged bruises) that wasn't even produced when the incidence happened? I mean why lie, if there was so much damn evi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:03 AM
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What Johnny did was reactive abuse. Amber was the main abuser.. Every clip of Johnny showed a man who was pushed to the limit. Why does amber have so much footage. Because she will abuse him and push him to the point where he would react and then record him. Amber on the other hand, pooped on his bed, cut his finger, hit him.. Amber was physically abusive, plain and simple. What Johnny did can be excused because he was doing reactive abuse and it was never directed at Amber, it was directed at c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:51 AM
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There was a ton of proof that Depp likely initiated the abuse and that Heard was reciprocating. No there is plenty evidence that amber Heard was extremely emotionally abusive and Depp was responding to her abuse by getting drunk and being drugged out and hitting some cabinets. There is not a shred of evidence that Johnny hit amber Heard there is plenty evidence that she hit him, cut his finger etc. The most convincing thing for me is that Johnny was constantly under surveillance from Amber, cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:40 AM
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I dont get this andrew tate thing. People barely knew him but then he got cancelled and now he is worshipped lmao. If you guys had just left him alone, he would be irrelevant. But no, feminists hasd to flex their muscles. They had to show the world that they can destroy whoever they want with impunity. Most of Tate's appeal is that he is being attacked by feminist mob. Same with jordan peterson. We barely knew him until he started getting attacked and then he became a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:23 AM
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A rational mind would say "believe evidence" but feminists are far from rational
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:06 AM
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So you are saying that people get to have racist opinion.. I disgree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:54 AM
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Well sure, racist, antisemitic opinions also exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:52 AM
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I am not talking about jail. In both cases, we have to prove beyond reasonable doubt.. I am talking about "court of public opinion". We shouldnt shamed for believing a woman is lying based on just words of man, if feminists are allowed to believe the man is guilty just based on the words of woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:47 AM
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How does that differs from what I said. I am saying that feminists are free to "believe women" as long as we are free to "not believe them" We shouldnt be shamed for calling women liars based on no evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:45 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:55 PM
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I went through hell. There is nothing in my life that I haven't given a good thought to. So I have an answer to everything. If I am not giving it to you, it just means that your question is not interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:50 PM
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Would i feel bad, I am not sure. But I am too old to invest too much time into feeling bad. Think of it this way, I live my life like it's my last. So would I want to live last day of my life crying about my wifes cheating or fucking some hot chick.. I think i would prefer the later. Feelings don't matter what matters is that you live s little.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:41 PM
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Well young lady, nothing is for free. I have told you enough and i dont see why should I tell you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:37 PM
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You want to know about my personal life? You got lot of nerve
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:34 PM
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I am too broke for you😞
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:33 PM
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Depends on what you mean by accept. Will I care, probably not, will I give her my blessings, nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:26 PM
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How would we game women if they stop bitching?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:14 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:12 PM
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Didn't leave her, no But younger woman was involved
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:11 PM
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Yeah, I think men put too much emphasis on how they need to be financially successful. Women being financially independent is a good thing. If you can't get a woman who doesn't need you for money, then it's better to just get a sugar baby. Atleast you can fire her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:01 PM
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Because cobra venom in your tea is not natural
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:53 PM
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Women should prioritize their careers a d financial independence. Otherwise man would have to pay her alimony to leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:52 PM
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How hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:40 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:37 PM
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Let men whine. People need to cope to survive. When I was skinny fat and in once a month sex marriage with a woman who despised me, I also used to whine. It's natural. Then for some weird reason a young woman threw herself at me and i cheated. When my wife found out, she started whining. I then realized how irritating i must have been.. That's when I found redpill and actually started to putting in the work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:30 PM
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Old folks home is a freaky ass place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:21 PM
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It is natural. There will always be a better man than you and there will always be younger woman than her. It's just that as you get older and successful, better men than you decrease in number and younger women than her increase in number.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:05 PM
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I disagree, men are not better. They are conditioned to be "the real man" from the childhood. Sooner or later a man will realize that there is nothing in it for them by being a "real man".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:02 PM
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That fine, I was talking more about reward from the society. So basically there is a social stigma about men leaving for younger woman or just dating younger woman. My argument was that society doesn't reward, just punish. So the shaming of men who do this is not effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:59 PM
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But I told you that's not true. Reverse burden of proof is used in cases of statutory rape..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:02 PM
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Burden is on you to prove that you took reasonable actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:57 PM
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I mean if a doctor gave you wrong medicine he has to show that he followed proper protocol and was not negligent. He can't just say, oh it was an honest mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:38 PM
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Her duty is to be absolutely sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:18 PM
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How does that in any way prove that I ever committed dv?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:20 PM
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Just read again
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/26 03:06 PM
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Okay false accuser
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:54 PM
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Why are women like you so comfortable with throwing false accusations?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:45 PM
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Even if they did go to jail, it's not like they were gonna be in jail forever. If someone wants to kill you, you better run for president or go into hiding because if you don't have secret service watching your every move, you are gonna die. If someone is determined to kill you, your chances of survival are very low. They just need one opportunity. Hell they even let it go and get cancer 20 years later and suddenly the cost of murder is not that big. Going to jail is not a deterrant. It's just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:43 PM
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I am actually fine with it.. But we have to give access to the database to men as well. If he is married, then he check too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:33 PM
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So what? Many diseases are incredibly rare. You don't condemn people because they are statistically insignificant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:01 PM
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No, it's on woman to tell the man that he may not be the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:40 PM
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No we send women for failing to ensure the paternity. If they dont know it's their duty to find out and not take the nearest chump and straddle him with the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:34 PM
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Interesting. Women can't help themselves but falsely accuse can they.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:33 PM
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Would you have let sam bankman fried, skip jail if he was a single father? I guess people could have done their due diligence before investing in FTX but they trusted the man and he lied or hid information. Should he be let go?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:26 PM
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As I pointed, women have "duty of care". Since they hold the fate of man and the child, they have obligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:20 PM
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No.. paternity fraud is just such a disgusting thing to do and woman have all the power to not do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:19 PM
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You can't prove it. Because here is the thing, no matter how many excuses you make, or reasons you give as to why you HAD to commit paternity fraud, truth is, you didn't have to. You could have done the right thing, you chose not to. So I can't think of one situation where you couldn't have prevented yourself from defrauding a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:12 PM
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Her having a belief is not enough. She has the duty to ensure that if there is ANY possibility, she take steps to ensure that she has real identity of the father. She needs to prove that she couldn't have reasonably figured out that the man was not the father. Having a belief doesn't absolve you from crime and doesn't remove the trauma of the victim. Your feelings are NOT enough if you neglected your duty and harmed other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:06 PM
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First of all, you Profile pic is a jumpscare Second of all, I am giving 6 month grace period for woman to come forward and tell man that the child may not be his. Woman has the responsibility, if she failed to fulfil her duty, she should be punished
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:59 PM
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But in this woman has not taken any material benefit from the man, so it's not fraud. A man has the opportunity to counter the claim. Once she start taking any material benefit like his resources, his time, his attention, she needs to inform him that he may not be his father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:46 PM
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I mean, Taxpayers pay for DNA tests for other criminal cases as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:39 PM
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You know what scared Rome most, a slave uprising
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:33 PM
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If a woman is suicidal, the child should definitely not be anywhere near her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:25 PM
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I am saying that overreach is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:24 PM
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There is singapore drug law which has reverse burden of proof and mandatory death panelty. But I am not fan of hanging people for drugs, I am definitely fan of putting pedos in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:23 PM
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Either you die as a hero and live long enough to be a villian. Feminists overstayed their welcome and became like people they hate the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:21 PM
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Slapped a wife one time, mandatory therapy Broke her nose, straight to jail. I know how DV cases go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:19 PM
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Of course we fucking do. Lots of laws are for edge cases or related to very rare cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:15 PM
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Women don't have to do extra work, state does it for them. They can apply for assistance and sit back and relax. State will give them money right away and look for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:13 PM
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Same thing when man who beat his wife is sent to jail and she is sent to psych ward. Child goes to foster care
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:05 PM
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What no? It's established law that you need to show that you couldn't have known that the person was not minor..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:04 PM
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You can't cry rape to get away with bad behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:03 PM
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Yes, Amber Heard is a victim even after bed pooping and finger chopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:02 PM
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That's actually what feminists say on their subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:01 PM
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You get jail time in france if you do a dna test without court order. It's definitely illegal Like euthenasia is illegal without court order
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:00 PM
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There was a time when DV was not a crime. So when women said it should be a crime, we should have said, "well it's not so suck it up".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:58 AM
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Caveat being that they are not lying about it just to avoid jail time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:57 AM
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Ah the perpetual need to be victims!! We learned it from women..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:56 AM
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The duty of care is the basis of all the bs feminists have come up, affirmative consent is one example.. You have the duty of care to ensure that the person you are having sex with is not minor for example, it's not on prosecution to show that you didn't do your duty, it's for you to show that you did and made an honest mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:54 AM
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That's what happens in when you have "reverse burden of proof". Either you oppose reverse burden of proof or you don't. You can't be selective about it. If you oppose reverse burden of proof in statuary rape law, you will have very hard time, getting convictions. That's just the reality of jt. Now you can say that 'hundred guilty may go free but one innocent should not be imprisoned " but then you are gonna let lot of pedophiles go
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:51 AM
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Something similar happens nowadays. Woman can write the name on birth certificate and ask for state assistance. Then state will sue the man for child support. He has to give his DNA to prove otherwise, if he fails to do that, be will be presumed to be father. If then he doesn't pay he goes to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:47 AM
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If you don't know the father, you have 6month grace period to come clean. Not doing your duty to inform the man that he may not be the father should be a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:44 AM
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And you only care about kids when you want to invalidate mens issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:42 AM
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Well you take the stand, wave your 5th amendment rights and give a testimony. Let prosecution cross question you and pray to god the jury believes you. If you have a problem with the whole concept of "reverse burden of proof" you are not alone. But there is precedence for it. Singapore has reverse burden of proof for drug offences and they have mandatory death panelty. The prosecution only has to prove the possession of drugs, then burden is on you to prove that you were not planning on traffick…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:41 AM
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Men need protection as well, paternity fraud is very traumatizing In most cases, prosecution has to prove Mens Rea. Exception being statuary rape. I am saying that, the exception should apply to paternity fraud because women have the duty of care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:37 AM
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I mean, if you are accused of statuary rape by a minor, and you were actually raped or blackmailed or threatened by the accuser. The burden of proof is on you to prove that. The prosecution only has to prove that sex act happened. Otherwise everyone will claim that they were threatened by the accuser and no conviction will happen. If you put burden of proof on prosecution then every woman will claim rape to get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:34 AM
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Why are you lying? What do you achieve by lying? i said jail time for failing the duty to not inform father about uncertainty regarding paternity or straight up lying to the man? I never said not knowing who the father is, should itself result in jail time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:32 AM
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If it happens rarely then only some women will get affected by the law. If you are okay with small percentage of men being defrauded, you should be okay with small percentage of women going to jail for it. If small percentage of men are statistically insignificant for you, then small percentage of women should also be insignificant for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:29 AM
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Funny how you care about kid now but at pretty okay with him not knowing who the real father is. Even if you don't have empathy for men, think how traumatic it is that your own mother lied to you and not let you have the relationship with the real father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:27 AM
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Not in statuary rape cases, the accused has to prove that she did take reasonable steps to ensure that the accuser was not underage. You can't say I didn't know he was underage and get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:24 AM
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if a women offends a man, she and her children are to be punished for it Can you tell me where I said that. I can't seem to find it? Just show me where I wrote it or anything implying it. __ If a woman doesn't know who the father is, fine. If a woman tell a man that he is the father or if she let the man believe through inaction that he is the father. Then that should be a crime. Woman has the "duty of care" since she hold power to determine the fate of the man and the child. Woman has the right…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:22 AM
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I don't see how these are new standards, there is definitely precedence for it. Woman have "duty of care" regarding identifying the real father. The fate of father and child depends on her actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:16 AM
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If a father beat his wife and she enters into depression and is unable to care for the child. Father is locked up and the child is sent to foster care. If a mother defrauded her husband, and cause huge emotional trauma so that he is unable to care for the child, or is unwilling to, the mother should be locked up and child should be sent to foster care. Woman should be not be able to get away with crimes just because she is a mother. Solution is not to let women walk free but improve the foster s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:11 AM
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Thing you need to ask yourself is, can you hold your frame while being vulnerable? Suppose you are being vulnerable about your weakness or whatever. Women being women, they mirror your emotional state. They also feel the discomfort. When that happens women will either shit test you or they will avoid you. But here is the thing, even if they avoid you, a shit test will come about something different. She is gonna test your frame with those shit tests. If you pass them, attraction spikes, if you f…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/26 04:51 AM
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What tools?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 04:40 PM
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What I am saying is for you to calm the fuck down. You don't have to initiate everyday. You don't have to apply what you read on mystery method right away. Do it when you genuinely want to fuck your wife I am not a big fan of "no sex month" that they advice in "no more Mr nice guy". But you are initiating sex for wrong reasons. Either for validation or because you want to meet a quota.. Read mystery method, atleast 10times. Actually read it, try to connect the dots. The big picture of inner game…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 04:09 PM
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It's all about the state, other rules don't matter. If state breaks, then you have to start over again. If she is in the state, you can dance like an idiot and she will find it endearing.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 03:21 PM
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I tried a few times and each attempt felt a bit ham-fisted and forced. Maybe that’s the awkwardness of trying something new Let me help you with that. I can see why her forgetting [important date] makes you so angry, why don’t we grab the kiddo and go for a walk around the neighborhood? "I get it babe, I would be red in my face. Grab the kiddo and go for a walk to calm your mind." Difference? Don't tell her what she already know. Don't give her option or ask her question. Tell her what to do ins…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 02:44 PM
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We had a really great date and she laughed a lot with me. I then called her 4 days after the kiss at noon to ask for her number, There is something called "the state". When you game a woman, when her attraction is high, that's when she is in the state. Then you qualify her, isolate her and have sex with her. If you can't do that you NEED to keep building comfort and sexual tension. If you contact her 4 days later, her state will be broken. You need her to invest before the state is broken. Best …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 02:25 PM
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I simply replied “that doesn’t work for me” and disengaged, Standard are fine, if you can uphold them she hamstered a bit I assume you didn't DEER and acted like you are feeling like shit. Your vibe didn't change, you remained congruent. Anyone can have standards, anyone can have boundaries. Most become needy mess when their boundaries are challenged. You succeeded. then got up and freshened up (as she likes to do beforehand). Great session. Life becomes so simple when you are congruent. Everyon…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 02:09 PM
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initiated every day, at least once. Getting turned down all the way to Friday. Good, Shit tests started to show The fact that the shit tests started so late means that you initiated like a pussy. They should have started the first time you initiated. Dude she is not attracted to you, so to generate attraction, you need her to shit test you. and I was able to pass some of them, Bull fucking shit lol. but I still cut the erotic tension with comfort and neediness. See, your game sucks, you can't ev…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/26 01:48 PM
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NoT aLL FEMiniSts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:36 PM
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I mean, I gave you examples of my claim. Feminists do say these things.. It's as genuine as it can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:35 AM
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Nothing is guaranteed in court but this put limits on judicial discretion. I have written a lot of appeals. Judicial discretion is the most frustrating thing to deal with. Sure miscarriage of justice happened but we won't accept your appeal because the judge acted under limits of his discretion. With equal custody presumption, judges have to be extremely careful and give a good reason for their refusal to grant equal Custody. That's why this law is such a big fucking deal. That's why feminists o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:46 AM
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They learned it from feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:39 AM
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Sure but you won't have to if it was the motherfucking law. Also, 2 weekends a month custody is mere consolation prize. I am talking about presumption of equal custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:37 AM
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It's the law despite of heavy lobbying from feminists. So a reasonable question we should ask is, why would feminists oppose a law if men get custody just by asking for it. Like if that was the case, the law would literally have no effect. If you want to argue about shitty laws etc from the past then the women will win this argument every time. "But what about poor women?", "would someone thinks of the poor women?", "you can't see your kid without expensive court battle? Sucks for you, but women…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:36 AM
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It wasn't before 2022, Feminists successfully convinced governor to veto the bill one time, but failed the next time. Now it's the law
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:27 AM
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You need to educate yourself and tell your feminist overlords to stop fighting against equal custody legislations!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:26 AM
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Here is the fact, feminists oppose equal custody legislation. Even feminists don't deny it. You can't have it both ways. You can't oppose a law that will just make what's according to you, already happening, mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:20 AM
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No they are not. Family courts are the most opaque and corrupt courts in US of A. Judges have too much discretion and they have been known to have been in nexus with big law firms as well. Florida law allows unequal custody but shifts the burden of proof to the mother and judges have to give a very strong reasons to deny equal custody to fathers. That's what scares feminists, that women might have to give proof of their accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:16 AM
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"ask for it" means spending thousands of dollars in family court to fight a battle where burden of proof is on you to show that it's in the best interest of the child to be with you half the time while woman doesn't have that same burden. There is a reason feminists so fiercely opposed equal custody presumption law in florida.. If men could just get custody by asking for it, the law would be moot point. As they say, watch what they do, not what they say. On one hand they gaslight men by saying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:06 AM
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"ask for it" means spending thousands of dollars in family court to fight a battle where burden of proof is on you to show that it's in the best interest of the child to be with you half the time while woman doesn't have that same burden. There is a reason feminists so fiercely opposed equal custody presumption law in florida.. If men could just get custody by asking for it, the law would be moot point. As they say, watch what they do, not what they say. On one hand they gaslight men by saying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:05 AM
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Sure but this post is about feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:55 AM
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Are you seriously implying "Not All Feminists" here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:18 AM
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Mystery method is worth its weight in gold. It's let's you find out your weaknesses incrementally and gives you framework to work on. Game is something you learn by doing and you are gonna make mistakes, it's your job to figure out how to fix those mistakes next time. The framework of mystery method gives you a starting point.. Then you can focus on one specific issue at a time.
/r/seduction27/02/26 06:21 AM
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As tyler used to say . Only way out of fear is MASSIVE action
/r/seduction27/02/26 06:15 AM
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5 in a month, that's rookie numbers. Your goal should be atleast 30 in an evening
/r/seduction26/02/26 03:10 AM
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Pursue her.
/r/seduction26/02/26 03:09 AM
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There is no such thing as long game, because there is no ending to it. We fool ourselves into thinking that there is any meaning or purpose in life. That's why you go hard at life and learn to enjoy it. The unpredictability of life is what makes it worth living. But that doesn't mean you dive into hedonism. It just means that you build yourself up to the point that you enjoy life in full. No one is fucking models on regular if they are skinny fat. Sure you can be an unemployed loser and fuck som…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/26 03:03 AM
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Pass the shit tests... Repeat after me Pass the shit tests.... That should be your priority this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 04:48 PM
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It's not technically good idea. But it will expose the real weakness inside of you. When you are rejected by your wife and other women give you attention, it's easy to be addicted to them. But you also can't learn game without actually gaming. So go, make women attracted to you but resist the urge to get addicted to that feeling. Then make a post here.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 05:51 AM
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Had a moment where I was discussing something about my dad and emotions came up and I shed two tears. Honestly I did not even plan to get to that level but it happened. She did not know what to do I think and caught her by surprise. I simply kept the conversation going and got myself together. I did not like showing this side of myself but it really came unplanned. I think the best thing I did was not apologize and feel sorry for myself, and get myself together and keep on normally. Yeah women a…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 05:49 AM
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I was thinking about getting some side pussy, Do it if you actually want it. Go to a bar instead, game some women. You don't actually have to fuck them..
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 05:39 AM
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Don't over complicate it.. She is feeling dread because you are becoming outcome independent and leaving her frame. It's all dread response, that's emotionally stimulating her and making her feeling tingles. You not being a grumposourous, is what's helping her to enter your frame. Your fiance, DEERed and fucked you. Big fucking deal. Real shit storm is about to come. Because she fucked you. There is nothing "scarier" that a woman who thinks she got tricked into fucking a low value man. So she wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 05:36 AM
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The reason why I won't accept starfish is because I believe it signals that I'm a needy, low value man and that her lack of desire doesn't matter. I want genuine desire. For fuck sake. Again, you are judging yourself by her actions/reaction. Here is what gonna happen, you don't accept it. Just be congruent about it. Because boy is she gonna shit test you. And you are gonna bomb it because on top on her "rejection", her bitchiness is gonna make you spiral.. That won't stop happening until you get…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 03:20 AM
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You are a fucking pussy!! Not really in the mood to date right now though. Avoidance AWALT. Rationalization for avoidance This is my real test, which is exactly why I’m here in MRP. Rationalization for avoidance Need to become fireproof and fully internalize red-pill principles. Rationalization for avoidance, (first need to become fullproof then I can approach women) Training, training, training. Distraction, distraction, distraction. (Scared of actually being vulnerable and approaching women, I…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/26 08:17 PM
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The first few days I was very horny and pushing for sex at every opportunity, day and night. I got many Nos but I did not care because that's what I was expecting anyway. Attaboy!!!, you do what's in your hands. You take action, that's whats important. Rest is not in your control. We had some unenthusiastic sex after that I did not initiate. I don’t even remember what we did, it was nothing special. Good, your outcome independence earlier did lead to sex The next day I was still horny and feelin…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/26 08:05 PM
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It's actually simpler than you think On the third day of nos in a row, I took it better but not OI. Put on a good face and left to get some work done (work I decided before hand to do either way), did the dishes, which was obviously dragging my feet before going back to bed, stayed up later than normal. I am confident saying that I was able to choose my response to my impulses. On a scale of 1 to 3, where 1 is victory and 3 is failure, I’d rate it a 2. Yes, but she doesn't know it yet. She still…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/26 07:48 PM
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This is why I love game, you can talk shit about lot of things but game exposes everything. I joined her in the shower after the gym. Good!! We talk about the week ahead of other projects. Why though? Afraid of initiating directly so you try to "ease" your way in. Coward. I force a greater connection and initiate by saying I want some lovin, That's actually good. It's clumsy, sure. But that's not relevant. Even you know your clumsy initiation is not gonna make her jump your bones.(Or did you?). …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/26 07:19 PM
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Uk court decision? Have you read the judgement? I did!! It's mostly hinges on her donating the proceeds of her divorce to charity.. judge basically wrote that she wouldn't have donated her divorce settlement if she was lying. Spoiler alert, she didn't donate it 🤣 and lied in court
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:36 PM
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She lied, that's proven in court. Johnny may have been a drug addicted drunk, but he never hit her like she claimed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:30 PM
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I prefer you laugh at my penis, it's the size of a baby carrot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:09 PM
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It's not about the victim but the nature of the evidence. You need evidence that a crime happened you need evidence to connect the accused to that crime.. Witness testimony do that (if they stand up under cross examination) Tearing doesn't do that on its own.. Text messages prove that crime happened and they connect the accused to the crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:59 PM
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What scares me is not that feminists can be wrong sometimes, any one can be. Feminists are just s resistant criticism, that they will go on path of destruction and convince themselves that they are doing good... They don't have a feedback look that can correct them when they are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:49 PM
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I fucking told you. Right to cross examine the accused Right to have a lawyer present Right to point out inconsistencies in accusers testimony and not brush them away (because of stress of whatever)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:39 PM
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I think you underestimate how many calls cops get about it and how many fall apart on basic investigation.. The 2-10 percent is for those cases which progressed further or were proven to be false. In reality, more than 90 percent of accusations to the police, don't stand up to basic scrutiny. That's why cops are cynical about believing women. Because so many woman lie.. You won't get that in a research journal though. Teach women not to falsely accuse, then cops will believe more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:38 PM
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witness statements They are not, they need to stand up in cross examination. and vaginal tearing It's not, it's corroborative evidence and should match the testimony of the accuser. The prosecution needs to prove that the tearing happened during the incidence and was done by the actions of accused. Sexting an underage boy though, that's definitive evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:34 PM
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Best thing feminism can do to make cops believe women is to teach women to never falsely accuse. So when cops see that most cases are not falling apart on basic investigation, they will take the claims seriously..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:31 PM
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There is no authority on feminism. That's what makes it so scary. It's like hydra, you cut on head, other appears.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:29 PM
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Holy shit, when you want to take away the guardrails that protect innocents, then it's completely reasonable to fixate on false accusations. Because that was the whole fucking point of those guardrails.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:29 PM
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Don't do bad things to men, it's not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:08 PM
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Oh, he brought the sexual texts with him.. Now why would she send sexual texts to an underage boy? That's what we call, undeniable evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:06 PM
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But it's not a criminal charge.....? There is no law that says you can't have attorney present for civil case? In a school? Yes? School and pupil are bound by contract. School is providing a service. You can't get out of contract without proper proceedings. Right, so what you actually want is for schools to involve the police. I completely agree, they absolutely shouldn't be keeping this shit in house. You know we cross examine in civil proceedings right? Verbal testimony is only accepted if it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:05 PM
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Cops should take her testimony verbatim. Then question her about the details in full.. Ask if she has other evidence or witnesses. Take their statement Then investigate the claims.. There is an open secret in police community, they don't tell you this but they do talk. Most of these cases are false. Because understand, they actually investigate and most testimonies fall apart in investigation.. that's why cops don't believe women automatically. It's not pure laziness or misogyny. Feminists won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:59 PM
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For fuck sake lady, you need to PROVE a crime before you send people to prison.. that's NOT negotiable. No matter how difficult it is to prove, you don't fucking reduce the burden of proof or allow faulty evidence or testimony.. That's how we protect innocent people.. It's not blaming the victim, it's accepting the fact that even though it's understandable that a victim is not able to give proper testimony, that doesn't mean we should just put people in prison despite of it. Best way is to preve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:54 PM
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What should happen is, if she is not able to give good testimony and there is no other evidence, accused should walk free. It's the responsibility of accuser to give a proper testimony. When that case goes to trial is tricky. Accused has the right to speedy trial and he can't be charged without the statement of the accused. so if she gave poor statement for whatever reason, it's her fault. It sucks but you just don't send people to prison on faulty evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:42 PM
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A woman can say that she was raped by Steve. I will believe she was raped, but won't believe by Steve unless she gives some Evidence or faces cross examination by an attorney..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:38 PM
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Sure and many women pay thousands of dollars to have a photograph with Chris Brown Just because some men and women do stupid things like that doesn't mean majority of men support hot teachers fucking their students and majority women support domestic violence. So when DV is brought up, i could also say that since women pay thousands to meet chris brown, it means that women have their seal of approval for men beating their gfs. But I don't do that because I don't think minority woman doing someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:36 PM
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Context is important When you say believe women, when you say we should not cross examine women because it will "traumatize them", when you say we should disregard inconsistencies in woman's testimony just because she might have been stressed Then it's not weird to fixate on false accusation because you are trying to systematically dismantle that guardrails that protect falsely accused man. You can't destroy the protections granted to an accused then tell them that they shouldn't complaint about…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:32 PM
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Go to twox, go to feminism, go to any feminist dominated sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:29 PM
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No the woman who took charge against weinstein fucked a underage boy and from his words, she was very pushy about it too.. He is the victim. She tried to pay him off and even threatened him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:28 PM
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Testimony is evidence, IF the woman face an adverse cross examination from an opposing counsel. Is testimony in itself sufficient? That's for the jury to decide. What i hate most is that feminists are trying to take away the rights of accused to point out inconsistencies in testimonies because "woman might have been too traumatized" and you should ignore her inconsistencies because she might have been too stressed etc... Or that a woman should not be cross examined at all because of may "traumat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:27 PM
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No, we don't believe them, we also don't disbelieve them. We take their statement, verify the facts and gather evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:20 PM
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As long as you don't name a particular name, I will give you all the comfort you need. Even if you name names, I won't stop comforting you.. If you expect me to believe you that his guy did it, then you need to present evidence. I had a woman grind on me on metro, its sexual assault. I know i can't prove it, even though I know the woman's face. Should I plaster her name in all of Chicago? Sure. But I also accept that people may not punish her in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:20 PM
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You said men are responsible for system we live in. We are not, women are majority voters. They are responsible for this system perpetuating..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:17 PM
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He didn't do it, he probably didn't even know about it. Betsy Devos did.. under HEAVY lobbying of Mens rights groups. Biden tried to change it back, then Connecticut Supreme Court gave the decision on the Yale guy case. So they let it go for now. I am sure kamala would have reversed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:15 PM
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Let's see, I as a man have been systematically discriminated in college campus admissions and job market because women are given preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:13 PM
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Women have been majority voters for quite some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:11 PM
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If you say you are a victim I will believe you and support you. If you say someone is perpetrator, i will ask for evidence. It's that simple, I don't care how rare or prevalent false accusations are. I won't have blood on my hands. Women need to accept it, they have right to demand that they are supported in healing from their trauma, they don't have the right to demand we support them ruining someone's life without actual evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:10 PM
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Women are majority voters, their will is imposed on us Men don't even vote that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:07 PM
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Attorneys are allowed now? Trump administration changed the title 9 rules. Now colleges can't deny access to an attorney..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:06 PM
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Thats what game is, it works wonders on women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:05 PM
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It's difficult to have definitive proof. Same is case for false accusers, more of them don't see the prison cell because it's difficult to find definitive proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:04 PM
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Powerful and famous men sure. What about the Yale guy who was expelled? Or the Australian guy whose wife was caught punching herself in elevator on camera and accused him of DV. And police stole his property and arrested him and gave his stuff to this woman.. Or what about the Muslim guys who were accused of rape by British girl, they spend months in jail and their community was attacked.. then it was found later that she made up. Or what about a good Samaritan in australia helped woman change h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:02 PM
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Here is what I want in college campuses 1.Right of accused to have a lawyer present.. 2.Having proper quasi judicial procedure.. Ability to cross examine the accuser before accepting her testimony as evidence. Verbal testimony without cross examination shouldn't be accepted.. "Standard of proof" doesn't need to be "beyond reasonable doubt". It can be "preponderance of evidence" AS long as we have same standard of proof for expelling a woman if she falsely accuse.. So if balance of probability is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:56 PM
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I can believe a woman was assaulted. There is no cost to me or anyone to for me to do it. At worst she is lying and I wasted some time on her. If she says this perticular guy did it, then i would ask for evidence before I believe her. Because now there is cost in believing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:51 PM
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Mens rights don't understand that they need to employs women's tricks of emotional manipulation, defamation, social exclusion to fight against feminism This think that they can win just by winning an argument.. If feminists are proven wrong, they will just attack a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:49 PM
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Everything is propaganda.. advertising was used to be called propaganda, before it was used for war.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:47 PM
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Little? Women get lesser prison sentence than men..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:46 PM
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Funny thing is the woman who took charge against harvey weinstein is also a pedo, she raped a teenager. When that teenager spoke up, she did all those things to silence him. Every accusation is confession, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:44 PM
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Like you don't wanna talk about female teachers raping their students
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:43 PM
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Truth is funny,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:42 PM
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Propaganda is "talking" with an aim to organize people to do some action. Like a pussy hat march, stop having sex with trump supporting husbands or, lobbying against equal custody rights
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:41 PM
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As i said "understandable" doesn't mean you get to cause as much damage as you want. Yes October 7th attack was horrific, that doesn't give israel the right to do what they are doing. Sure, if some Israeli come to me and ask me to think why their government had such easy time committing genocide and justifying it to their population, i would say that I get why that happened. What happened that day was very horrific and traumatizing. Doesn't justify their actions though.. You dont get to punish i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:38 PM
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If someone say that they were mugged, i would believe them.. If someone say that they were mugged by u/Waschaos, i would ask for evidence.. See the difference? Words have consequences, social, mental, even physical. I don't wanna assume that you mugged someone and cause you distress without evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:33 PM
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You are go to a subreddit called askfeminists.. Look for the "gaslighting pattern" It doesn't exist-> it exist but it's not a big deal-> it's a big deal but our problems are more important -> you are a bad person for bringing about it So take false accusations.. False accusation doesn't exist-> they exist but don't ruin lives-> they ruin lives but are rare-> they are a problems but actual assault is more important problam and if you even bring up false accusations, then you are a bad person. Pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:31 PM
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I think it's comparable to mens rights propaganda. Women do horrific things(like raping their students at ALARMiNG rates, alienating fathers, weaponising legal system against men etc) and you shouldn't be surprised that men are radicalised by it. But women and men motivated by such propaganda, should never be anywhere near power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:27 PM
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Feminists convinced Obama administration to take away right for the accused to have a lawyer present and any kind of due process in title ix hearings. Even Connecticut supreme court called it gross negligence of due process rights of accused. Feminists were responsible for "primary aggressor" doctrine in domestic violence cases where a man is more likely to get arrested irrespective of if he is the victim or not. Feminists have opposed paternity fraud legislations and equal custody legislations.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:23 PM
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What about game, other women? You are almost 49, it seems that you are still sleepwalking through life.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/26 02:23 AM
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Birds arnt real either
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:05 AM
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I would like you to be an Anchor. Something she can hold on to while she rides the stormy water of her emotions. Don't try to guide her because even you don't know what you want. Just be a safe place, she can anchor herself. Soon she will start to enjoy the ride.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 05:26 PM
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It does, doesn't it? Since I put so much effort into this comment for you, tell me what actionable advice did you actually get from it Formulate it for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 05:08 PM
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what do I actually say. What keeps it light, fun, and pulls her in without oversharing. Good fucking question!! Do I ever bring up past relationships positively. You know what's even better, bringing up current relationship positively. Do I touch on dating or relationships in general at all. That's the difference between a player and a loser. A loser talks about dating and relationships because he is so fucking insecure that he needs assurance that they are on the same page. A player knows that …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 05:05 PM
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You my friend, are a validation whore. Nothing about you is authentic. Every fucking sentence of your OYS is catered in a way to "show something". You know why you are angry? It's a defense mechanism.. Because your mind is realizing that "being a validation whore" is kinda pathetic, and you had fooled yourself into thinking that being a dick swinging circus monkey, actually make you look powerful. So instead of accepting the fact that you have been an idiot all your life, you resort to be mad at…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 04:53 PM
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the idea of her starting to threaten me and get angry with me is a really unnerving thing for me Okay, so how do you fix it I hear you ask? Narrow your focus to the task at hand. When the feelings of dread start to take over, acknowledge it, and it will pass. Then focus on the task at hand It's important here to have an actual task at hand. Be busy. . I have noticed I feel like I need to manage her emotional state and if she’s mad at me or upset with me in any way I’ll do whatever I can to fix i…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 04:40 PM
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Passing shit tests lead to passionate sex? Who would have thought? Stop being an imposter in your own body. Learn to believe your own bullshit. Because if you don't, no one else will.. The feelings of self doubt and "heaviness" you felt while giving her instructions, like a wall stopping you, that's because you are not allowing yourself to be vulnerable about your own damn desires. I caught her looking through my room and closet. I drew my boundary firmly and she left the room Your mother did fu…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 04:19 PM
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Fundamental mistake you are making here.. Game is about "the state". Once the state breaks, you will have to restart it.. With that chick with a "boyfriend", keep her emotionally stimulated in texts and get her to meet in real life in a bar, where you can use some preselection and then game her and fuck her that day. If you don't, you gonna have to do it all over again. With your coworker, well why would you want to fuck a coworker, but heart wants what it wants. Get her engaged with you in real…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/26 04:07 PM
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Of all the things I had to learn in my life, game is actually easy. Have an emotionally loaded opener Get shit tested, pass the shit tests Qualify her Emotionally engage and build rapport Then get close to her, touch her, kiss her Then Fuck. Never fails
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:22 PM
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I guess it can be sarcasm but it was not my intention. Mostly because how you would perceive it, never really factored into my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:10 PM
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Oh well that's true. She doesnt have to like talking to you, she should just want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:04 PM
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Sure but that's not what game is. We can talk to death with women and they won't fuck me unless I say the specific things in the specific ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:00 PM
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Sure I can get any girl to enjoy talking to me. But getting her aroused enough to want to fuck, that's what game is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:53 PM
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Dating for men is easy, all you have to do is have good game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:32 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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