Outright Denial: They flatly deny that events occurred or that they said something hurtful, even when presented with proof. e.g. false accusations are a myth, paternity fraud is a myth, misandry is a myth, men get custody if they are for it

Trivializing and Dismissing: Your feelings or concerns are labeled as "overreacting" or being "too sensitive" to make them seem invalid. e.g. false accusation don't ruin life, you are overreacting, paternity fraud is no big deal and it's a child and you should keep paying child support..

Shifting Blame: They deflect responsibility for their actions by making it your fault (e.g., "I only yelled because you provoked me) e.g. men created the system, if you don't want to be falsely accused, don't grape, you married her and it's your fault that she cheated, now shut up and pay alimony. You are a misogynist, sexist etc.

Rewriting History: They systematically change the details of past events to fit their current narrative, leading you to doubt your own recollection. e.g. both Amber Heard and Johnny Depp were abusive to each other at the same level. Amber Heard didn't lie and we should believe them. You didn't see the trial with your own eyes, look at our interpretation and if you don't you are a misogynist

Weaponizing Insecurities: They use your past mistakes or deepest fears against you to undermine your credibility and self-worth. e.g. you are an incel, no woman is gonna touch you, you give me an ick,

DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender): When confronted, they deny the behavior, attack your credibility, and claim they are the actual victim
e.g. combination of all the above.