| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | my boyfriend wants a threesomeWell if it's another male I see no problem | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Daygame in Sweden, my experienceyeah i know its for that post, i meant like write posts about each country. would like to hear about it | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Daygame in Sweden, my experienceshare your experience in tallin and krakow please | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 09:48 AM |
| 6 | 90 rejections in 20 days!!90 approaches in 20 days?! You are the man | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 10:03 AM |
| 1 | We should include ages for people asking for adviceDon't believe in that, age is just a number. If I made a mistake is up to my experience not to my age. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 02:18 AM |
| 0 | What’s the difference between seduction and dating?I would say that seduction is the art of attracting people and make them stay with you. Dating is the formal process where you and the female seduce each other, if the woman did not seduce you you will leave and if you did not seduce the woman she will leave. Since each of us is a different human with different brain one way to seduce person A might not work on person B | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 07:09 PM |
| 7 | if i lock eyes with a girl how do i tell if she's into me vs creeped outFelt like you're talking to me, thanks | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 09:42 PM |
| 8 | What qualifying questions to ask womenSounds like an interview | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 06:38 PM |
| 6 | If she’s not showing enthusiasm…NEXTExactly what I thought. OP needs to mention on which stage he is with the girl and what their current status | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 07:15 AM |
| 1 | People are surprised when I say I get no girlsWhat is low body count? | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 05:02 PM |
| -1 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.I like your post. The action itself in life is always debatable, the process is where we can get the intention. With that being said it sometimes hard to analyze it so just keep on open mind that no one in the world ows you a shit | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Remember: hell yes or noYou are absolutely right. Tiny tip with huge affect | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Berlin, Budapest, bucharest or where? 41M single traveler.I doubt that in Poland you don't have LGBT or black people these days | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Berlin, Budapest, bucharest or where? 41M single traveler.“For instance if you go to Poland it's just all white people they don't give a shit about wokeness so it can be a major cultural shock in comparison with the rest of the fallen world.“ | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Berlin, Budapest, bucharest or where? 41M single traveler.Can you explain your comment about Poland? | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 12:30 PM |
| 0 | What’s more attractive: the guy who sends 10 messages, or the one who replies when he wants?Important to say that it is relevant for men also so we need to be aware of ourselves also. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Bad logistics while traveling- any advice?You think too much logically. No one really cares where you stay, if you charm the girl she will sleep it you wherever you are. I would prefer to save the money of the hotel, go to hostel and the rest of the money to invest it for my future family rather than spend it for a hookup. If she was something more serious I would spend the money on hotel but at your situation nuhh | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Anyone still go out and use the Mystery Method?I wrote in the comment: "For example for me neg doesn't work simply because it doesn't match my personality but instead I'll use a funny light joke." | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Anyone still go out and use the Mystery Method?Mystery method is Gold. The structure is great and relevant, the only things that need to be adopt is the tactics. For example for me neg doesn't work simply because it doesn't match my personality but instead I'll use a funny light joke. I take the structure of mystery method and adopt it to tactics which good for me same as I don't use magic just because it works for mystery | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 12:35 PM |
| 11 | The Best Book You Have Read About SeductionHighly disagree. It talks about the game but is not a seduction book since it's not teaching you anything. It's basically biography of the author on his time with mystery. It will tell you that the game is real but will not teach you the game. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | How to express feelings without losing attraction?Where can I read those? | /r/seduction | 10/10/25 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Best pickup books?Mystery method book is very good, helped me to structure my game (the way I will seduce be different but will have the same structure). The game is a book that I felt was simply telling how good is mystery method instead of actually teach us mystery method so I would not recommend the game. | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 12:31 AM |
| 6 | Does ignoring help?Sounds like what mystery wrote about his method | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 12:23 AM |
| 1 | What was the most key mentality change that helped you the most to flirt?Understanding that my value has nothing to do with the actions of my target but tied to my actions. I can control how I flirt with a girl but I can't control about the stuff that going on on her life which might get me to different outcome | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else Use ChatGPT?I use chat gpt to get inspiration, to build my mindset. I also got some lines but knowing myself remembering lines doesn't work same as come up with them naturally when I'm in the right mindset | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 06:40 AM |
| 30 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?You got the most important point. 2 guys can use the opener but deliver different meaning | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 07:59 AM |
| 6 | Some men only know rapport building;HAHAHAHA lol I also felt like the post was cut in the middle | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 09:30 PM |
| 3 | its 35 yo a good age to start, or its already too late?If you think about last year maybe but if you'll look 5 years from now god damnit it's a great time to start | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Fear of what other people might thinkI would like you to send me your guide man | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | What is the best piece of advice you got from this subreddit?What does it mean inner game? | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 05:04 PM |
| 26 | Drop the ‘Does she like me’ mindset and focus on the connection instead.Damn man, this shit is do relevant for me, thanks. But I want to challenge you: I approach women who I think look good, isn't it automatically put her in power? | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 06:06 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever used Instagram as a Dating App? Is it possible to get dates?I have a friend who met his wife on Instagram. It is a great tool for dating, I personally don't use it because I try to avoid social media but social media has some good advantages that might help me for sure | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.Girls sometimes would prefer give Instagram because of two reasons: 1. It's easier to block a person 2. She gains more followers I see it that if a girl give me her Instagram instead of phone number it means she's not interested in me, maybe with the ig she might be interested in the future but currently she's not so I take phone number or nothing. (I also doesn't have an Instagram lol but it won't change my point if I had) | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 01:54 PM |
| -2 | How to attract beautiful girls as a short guy?Same as tall guys. | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIThat's true, still I beleive that if she was interested we could have sex at another time if not in the first time | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIIndicator of interest | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIWell if she was only for hookup so I didn't miss much | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOII definitely incompetent in recognizing sexual attraction. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIYeah that might be true but I would guess it depends on how much the girl is drunk | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIwe definitely didn’t have a friendly interaction but a sexual one. i didnt feel she wanted me to escalate to sex yet, maybe I skipped some escalation stages and maybe I missed signals from her | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIWe were in the club, I don’t know how much she drink but she did drink, I saw her buy one glass. cant say if I was talking to her or to the alcohol though | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOITo my apartment, I was needed more time in my apartment to get to sex and didn’t want to rush, it was very late and I had to wake up early for work. no way I would put a girl I just met before my work | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIYeah I skipped some stages in the escalation | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIPartly agree, we did meet in the day after | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 08:09 AM |
| 3 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIThanks for sharing bro | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 08:08 AM |
| 3 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOISh didn’t say she doesn’t want to meet but i told her to grab a drink twice and she had reasons she can’t without offering an alternative so I assum she isn’t interested which is definitely ok. your explanation about the mentality in the club is make sense, I thought about it but still wanted to see if there might be something more than ONS | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 03:16 PM |
| 5 | You’ll Never Reach Your Potential Without Real Life ApproachesTell us about the story in Poland | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 12:38 PM |
| 1 | How I overcome my insecure inner voiceThanks for the advice man, I will use it | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 10:31 PM |
| 2 | How I overcome my insecure inner voicehaha bro, I just meant that I talked to the group, mystery call it "open a set", that's it. When i said voice I meant to the inner voice, like my thoughts, not my actually voice. As I said I am not a PUA, not even close, that does not stop me from trying to get girls and I am ok as long as I learn from the experience. Would like to get some tips to how to escalate once I get the girl home | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety tipsBe mindful about your thoughts, it will help you to filter the thoughts of the insecure inner voice inside ourselves. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 02:33 PM |
| 6 | What healthy and uplifting advice do you have for a soon to be 22 year old virgin?I lost my virginity at 24 and I'm still alive. Take everything in proportion, all good | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How to become good at flirting?I read the game, didn't like it. It's more to share his experience than providing us the necessary skills | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How to become good at flirting?I would want to frame it as potential partner for both of us. still has no idea how to frame it | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 10:51 AM |
| 1 | How to become good at flirting?what is the right frame and how can i set it? | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 11:47 PM |
| 3 | How to become good at flirting?What do you mean by play 20 questions? | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 09:40 PM |
| 7 | Modern Dating Basics: What Every Beginner Needs to Know in 5 MinutesThank you man. I would like you to do a post about the difference between friendly and flirty interaction. I feel like I'm good at attracting but not at seducing. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Would it ruin my reputation?sounds good man, thanks | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Would it ruin my reputation?I need to reprogram my mind about it. I always worried other people will say I’m trying to hit everyone. last night I met a friend of mine and spent with her a few minutes and many people saw us nothing sexual between us but when a cute girl who knows me recently came close to us I had a thought that she might think I try to hit my friend | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 08:33 AM |
| 2 | How to move from friendly to flirting interaction?Thanks for your comment. I'm new to bachata, definitely not the best nor pro but I tell myself that my secret weapon and the reason I'm here is to have fun, cute girls are just bonus. I feel like the physical way is better as we here to dance, even though I'm a beginner if I enjoy and dance with confidence and happiness I can attract women(not necessary sexual attraction) and then I'll need to make this attraction a sexual one | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 07:19 PM |
| 3 | How to move from friendly to flirting interaction?I need to know how to flirt without talking about sexual/romantic topics. How can I do push pull on a place like this? | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How to move from friendly to flirting interaction?Yeah I definitely dance with 5 and 6, I usually approach a girl who is close to me by distance. Sometimes it happens to be a good looking girl but that's definitely not the main reason I approach 90% of the time. Didn't understand your first part of the comment | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How to move from friendly to flirting interaction?How can I tell she's not just friendly? | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | W3: Going out solo and sober tonightFeel the same as you. I've noticed that succeeding in dating and socially have a lot of common. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | W3: Going out solo and sober tonightYour attitude by doing it is the real victory, the girls will follow your attitude at some point for sure. Inspiring | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Picking up at salsa class and socialsI fee like asking her directly is not good for me, women get used to it that guys always look to hit on them. i do see important in having a good time with them, and it might be longer than a dance or two but would escalate by asking her out or escalating over text for activities only for the both of us. being that direct might be too much for women | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 01:49 PM |
| 5 | Picking up at salsa class and socialsWhat is a point blank question? | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Fear of Rejection Adviceit's mainly insecure of us. For every 1 outcome which the rejection is because of me there are 99 outcomes that the rejection has nothing to do with me. We will still pay more attention to those 1's outcomes because some insecure thoughts in our head. The chances we tried to hit the wrong girl are larger than we making a mistake so we should hit them anyway because that's the way to find the one | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Picking up at restaurantSounds like you managed to do something which is tough. How long was the whole time with the girls? | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 10:24 AM |
| 12 | What improved your first dates the most?I disagree with your approach, if she dislike something I said that's definitely ok. I'm here to find a suitable woman not to attract every good looking girl | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 08:17 AM |
| 8 | How do you guys get over approach anxiety with day game?Your brain tricks you that when you approach you either succeed or fail and if you don't approach you can't fail. Not approching is failure so when you approach you just might get a different outcome than failure. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Walked around for 3 hours, no approaches.You're the man. You inspired me | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 06:15 AM |
| 2 | W2: Going out solo & sober tonightThanks for the tips. If there is something that I should take is that never take it personally because being a creep is not a fact but the pov of the group | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 12:38 PM |
| 3 | W2: Going out solo & sober tonightHow do you interact for the first time with a group? I feel like I can only interact when it's a girl alone | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Our Time for Dating Is Running Out Faster Than You ThinkHaha you're the man, I'll contact you if I'll arrive in Latvia | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Our Time for Dating Is Running Out Faster Than You ThinkGreat post man. btw Latvia is a place I want to visit for a long time, any tips for pick up there? (For long term and short term) | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 12:23 PM |
| 3 | How To Sexually Escalate On A DateSame here buddy | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 12:15 PM |
| 2 | How To Sexually Escalate On A DateI disagree with you bro. girls won’t go with anyone who offer them to come to his room lol, you need to make her feel like it’s ok to go specifically with you to your room and this is where the game is needed | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Whats your approach?The last sentence is so important | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 08:48 PM |
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