Hi guys,

I went to a club with a friend, I honestly didn't really wanted to go out but I promised my friend we'll hangout at that day.

In the entrance I saw a cute girl who came to help her friend to get in, I assumed this is her boy friend or at least someone she's interested in.

In the club I saw another guy talk to her, I thought that maybe she's not interested in the guy from earlier as I thought, few minutes later I saw that guy and recognized him since we met once. I immediately told him let's go to the girl he was talking to and her friends (one girl and the boy I mentioned above).

I just went to introduce myself and try to open the set as mystery would say, nothing special since I wasn't sure who's the guy and his relationship to the girl I'm interested. I was about to leave and then the cute girl stopped me and wanted me to stay and of course we danced together the whole night and talked a lot, we end up in my apartment but didn't have sex, I usually escalate too fast but with her I wanted to stay in touch after that day, we still talk, hopefully we'll meet again but if not I'm still proud of myself.

Why I'm sharing it? First of all I must give to myself high five for my successes same as I know to criticize myself when I mistake which leads me to the second reason is that I'm like most people, we don't our to our value, my insecure voice in the head immediately try to prevent me from going to the girl because I saw her with the guy in the entrance (she told me he's gay) I must fight those caveman instincts and realize that it's ok to talk with people I don't know an especially girls I'm interested in. I guess some people can relate to it, again I'm not a PUA I'm a regular man that every success or failure I have probably happen to many other people.

Always happy to share thoughts and improve ourselves together guys.