FIRST CLUB MAKE OUT College night (23M) NO ALCOHOL LONG NIGHT Started SOOO bad (motivation in the dumps) I seem to be getting a rhythm in my nights, finding my preferred spots. Love (venue confidential) Love (confidential) Night started very slow, I went to (confidential) and couldn’t approach a SOUL. After half assedly tapping my foot to the beat, after the set was done I had to leave out of intense anxiety. I walked around aimlessly, hyping myself to get back to the venue. I brought myself back, and started to dance a bit more carelessly, but I had to take a seat. I went to the smoking area. There was a nice gentleman who offered me weed, I humorously declined, I’m in the USAF, he kept offering jokingly. We had a nice conversation about the USAF and then I turned the convo to music, he invited me to his shows, he told me his niece was playing in the band. Super chill guy. I excused myself because I felt my social flow building; I wanted to go see if I could open, AND BOOM. Approached the hottest girl in the place!! Not even 5 seconds later out of sheer momentum. I asked if she was Filipina and she opened right up to me. I entertained her friends and I was accepted into the group. This girl asked me to play volleyball with her :))) Got her insta. Had an awesome talk with her guy friend who just got out of the military. Awesome dude. I left shortly after, after talking with Phil and his ‘sister.’ Nice to see them.

So i left and went to (confidential), had a quick chat with the bouncer, asked if he was Hawaiian. Super cool guy.

BRUH I PROBS DID LIKE 20 sets tn!!

Right off the bat, a hot Indian girl with her friends made deep eye contact with me. I opened instantly, no hesitation, asked if she was Indian, we began to flirt and I gamed the group (all HB 9+), feeling like a damn pimp. She had a friend who I thought was FUCKEN HOT AS HELL, so I used the Todd V strategy to say that she looks like the most trouble of the group, she reacted like CRAZY, the whole group crying laughter and being like how could you say that??!! I got close to her and almost made out in front of her friends (rookie mistake IK), but she stopped herself. I told them I was gay, I excused myself to the dance floor, I ended up dancing with the Indian girl later briefly once she threw herself into my arms while I was on the dance floor HAHAHAHA.

Quick side note I’m so fucken introverted that when I first started night game I couldn’t even get myself to go into a bar barely a month ago!! Not even a single step into the night without shitting myself. I would just walk around the clubs for weeks. When I started to finally go in it may take me a few to several hours to finally go in, just sitting on the curb. Completely irrational too given I’m a bjj fighter/wrestler and have nothing to worry about physically harming me (excluding weapons ofc but I’m a MAJOR pacifist, I’m mainly referring to be irrational fear of being hurt by women).

I left the club after a while, I was just kind of brushed off by a few girls and it stung my ego a tad. I try to open girls by complementing them because I’m a complete beginner and just vow to myself to say anything!! It rarely goes anywhere (likely due to a lack of experience), so I was beating myself up since the conversations felt they weren’t leading to anything. But I kept complimenting random groups of girls on the street just to work on my crippling AA. After I a while I started to lose momentum, so I decided to go back into a bar as a last ditch effort to take action, my only objective was to talk to a single fucking girl, to utter a sound that is acknowledged by another human. I saw my bouncer dude again, he fist bumped me and I was in. I made my way to the dance floor and within minutes I found the courage to compliment a girl on her hair, she appreciated it. I moved around the dance floor a bit more and found a nice open space to dance (was packed). I started dancing and a hot white chick approached me to dance!?? She mimicked my moves and before I knew it I was spinning and dancing with a group of baddies. I hit the spin handshake at least 10 times XD that’s all I know. These girls were fun lol. Definitely were hesitant when I tried to flirt though and just wanted me as the dance attraction, which is fine!! I don’t mind being used to dance by a group of HBs at this point in my life having barely ever danced with other girls before! These girls left eventually and I was dancing by myself.

Makeout:

So I found another empty* (at least a 1.5 sq ft) area to dance in and found myself next to this cute blonde wearing a pink shirt. I asked “where can I get one” she mimed taking of the shirt and giving it to me XD. I immediately spin handshake and start dancing with this girl. I love how she moves. I flirt with her in her ear and tell her she’s trouble and this sort of basic flirting, nothing crazy. Eventually I brush her hair past her ear, I say ‘good girl’ and start making out. We did this about 3 times between grinding on each other. I was absolutely to the FUCKING MOON. I never thought I’d ever do something so exhilarating, what a rush OMG to make out with a girl I met 2 minutes ago, idek her name bro haha! Her ASD kicked in and she went to dance back with her friends, but I was satisfied. I love the fucking game. I will become good. Really good. TW