Can you transform yourself from a man with zero success to a man with many successes?

m0rb33d · 2025-08-09T23:48:23+00:00

Ofc...

Life-Income2986 · 2025-08-09T23:47:17+00:00

I have found no upper limit to my ability to extract what I want out of any social situation. As long as I am still interested in learning about how humans interact, I keep improving.

Wanting to fuck a million women does nothing to make you more successful at doing that. Wanting to understand people and interpersonal relationships does.

CrvCrx27 · 2025-08-10T01:31:19+00:00

That’s what every man does in every aspect of his life. You start with zero success in something, and then once you start practicing and working at it you eventually have many successes.

NicoDl · 2025-08-10T00:20:55+00:00

Neuron activation moment be like

This is why folks need to dare and get laid. You're in a good place, mate!

nintendoborn1 · 2025-08-10T00:57:21+00:00

Probably

Natural-Wrongdoer-85 · 2025-08-10T02:09:02+00:00

That's what life is about

Wireframewizard · 2025-08-13T22:15:43+00:00

Only when you don’t think you are, Know you are.

borko781 · 2025-08-10T22:36:47+00:00

И аз така братле, я пиши едно лс да разкажеш малко че ми е инт и съм в подобно положение?

BigBroYoshi · 2025-08-13T21:42:12+00:00

Yes. I went from a 25 kissless hugless virgin to many to count and keep track of. I never thought it was possible but it is. Just keep having faith in yourself and it'll come.

What worked for me best wasn't approaches in real life or clubs, but online. It's brutal, but you need to make your profile stand out to the point where you get 100s of matches, then you move from there

burncushlikewood · 2025-08-09T23:59:57+00:00

You can absolutely but it becomes an issue of how hard you're willing to work at getting better with women. At your age you should be going to university to better yourself and find a career that will earn you more money, you should exercise and strength train, while improving your social skills. I once was hopeless with women and after years of studying material I got better, much better I lost my virginity one month before my 17th birthday, but it wasn't until my freshman year of university that I got really good

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-08-10T03:22:31+00:00

Quality over quantity. Find a good woman and if it's sex you want, you can have it thousands of times with her along with crrating a memorable journey together beyond the physical.

shlomobo · 2025-08-10T06:37:04+00:00

It is definitely possible! I think a lot of guys that are interested in seduction and successful with women started years ago as guys with low success in dating.

It‘s hard work and it takes time but it‘s worth it. You‘ll have to face a lot of your own anxieties and insecurities.

I recommend to not focus on sex so hard because it makes you desperate. Rather develop a genuine interest in people. Be able to hold a chat with other guys and with women you‘re not interested in.

And practice to feel comfortable when talking to other people. In social conversations the way you feel you’ll make other people feel. If you feel super awkward when talking to someone he / she is going to feel super awkward as well soon. If you feel comfortable and relaxed the other person will feel more comfortable and relaxed as well. This is crucial for approaching women.

epimpstyle · 2025-08-10T09:22:42+00:00

For several months I have been actively doing hard approaches and trying out in night clubs but I have no success

I'm curious how you do this to achieve the result you said. You can't read social cues? You don't know about calibration? What do you do? Did you change something, or do you keep doing the same things, even though they are clearly a failure?

LeatherDonkey3806 · 2025-08-11T18:40:09+00:00

Its not just about game either. Alot of why im more successful now vs 10 years ago is bc im significantly more attractive, im more built, have a better hair cut, straighter teeth, darker skin, better clothes, taller (i wear shoes that give a boost). Ask yourself if you're maximizing all those areas

Magonbarca · 2025-08-10T12:31:44+00:00

Exercise you're advantages and look for females that might like your type like asians,indians maybe third world countrys especially if you are white

I_suckyoungblood · 2025-08-09T23:54:35+00:00

Like Kendrick said, “Once a lame, always a lame..” - Euphoria

Kidding, of course you can if you actually do something about it.

ookami597 · 2025-08-10T03:02:58+00:00

I went from 5.5 years no sex to a body count of 85 in my 30's however, this transformation took place before the pandemic. Today? Maybe. It will have to be the sole obsession of your life. Wake up every day with it in mind and go to bed the same. Im 6'2 btw

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-08-10T00:14:57+00:00

One of my coachign clients is from Bulgaria, Sofia. He literally went from being friendzoned by his crush and completely anxious to cold approach women during the day in public, to getting numbers, dates, and hookups with random women he cold approached on the street or public spaces during the day in a few months.

You can book a coaching session for free here as a trial to see if you can learn something. And no its not a sales call, it's literally a coaching session with practical advice you can apply right after to approach women and seduce them.

Title	Can you transform yourself from a man with zero success to a man with many successes?
Author	No-Box-1528
Upvotes	47
Comments	61
Date	August 9, 2025 11:42 PM UTC (11 months ago)
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