| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 179 | Girls on OLD are messed up | Field Report | No-Forever-7283 | /r/seduction | 08/08/26 11:32 PM |
| 75 | Officially done with dating apps | Field Report | No-Forever-7283 | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 03:14 AM |
| 46 | Looks from girls | Inner Game | No-Forever-7283 | /r/seduction | 11/08/26 10:59 AM |
| 43 | Cold Approach might be Key | Lifestyle | No-Forever-7283 | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 07:13 PM |
| 22 | Just had my first OLD date | Field Report | No-Forever-7283 | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 11:09 AM |
| 16 | Deleting all dating apps | Inner Game | No-Forever-7283 | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 11:02 AM |
| 7 | Dating apps | Fundamentals | No-Forever-7283 | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 06:47 PM |
| 4 | Crazy difference | Field Report | No-Forever-7283 | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 03:26 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | How important is being lean enough in these days for dating and confidenceI got lean this year and it does help a lot. I get compliments on my look all the time. It doesn’t just make ur body look better but it gets rid of face fat which enhances your features like your jawline eye area etc. It’s definitely help a lot. But at the end of the day, my issue is that I never work on my skills. So it’s not like random girls will be throwing themselves on u. | /r/seduction | 15/08/26 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Just had my first OLD dateYeah u got a point. I feel like I scared her away by escalating too much. I should not put so much pressure on the kiss | /r/seduction | 13/08/26 02:58 AM |
| 30 | Escalating during movieI had one date where the tv was on the longitudinal side of the bed back in uni. So to be comfortable me and the girl had to be laying down and cuddling to watch the movie. From there mid movie I just kissed her cheek and she turn around and we started making out. Hopefully that story helps 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/seduction | 13/08/26 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Just had my first OLD dateThat’s true. Maybe my escalation was off. | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Just had my first OLD dateI don’t remember what she said, but I think just said it’s comfortable for her. Some random excuse | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Just had my first OLD dateThen why even agree to the date and show up? Why even entertain it? | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Just had my first OLD dateYeah you’re right. But it also feels discouraging. Ever since I ended a relationship in december, my dating life has just been super discouraging. I’m hotter than I was in December but I’m getting less girls 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Looks from girlsThat’s what I mean, I’m in really good shape, but still no looks. The girls I’ve been with all tell me I’m one of the hottest guys they’ve ever met, and that I have a really good physique | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Just had my first OLD dateI was doing that too 😭😭. We compared hand sizes, I check out her nails. Maybe it did come across as forced or something idek atp. It feels like I’m just shooting in the dark. | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Just had my first OLD dateNo I was definitely in the moment spending time with her. And I asked her “why are your arms crossed? Are you cold” (it’s currently really hot in Toronto btw so that was sarcasm). | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Just had my first OLD dateI mean the date was flowing naturally. I guess she just lost attraction | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Just had my first OLD dateYeah but my issue is I don’t know how to improve cause I don’t have any feedback from her. So it just feels like a waste of time | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Looks from girlsMe too 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 11/08/26 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Have You Tried Not Being a lil Bitch?Thanks man, I’m also trying to talk to people at work and employees more. Like small talk and stuff. Just to get in the flow. My goal is to be able to approach any girl right away | /r/seduction | 11/08/26 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Have You Tried Not Being a lil Bitch?I can see myself in third person, so I think I got it | /r/seduction | 10/08/26 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Have You Tried Not Being a lil Bitch?Yeah recently I went to the city and tried to approach and I realized I’m a lil bitch. Spent the whole day trying to approach and only got one approach in. I’m trying to be better. I’ll get there eventually | /r/seduction | 10/08/26 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Girls on OLD are messed upLOL “salutations oh fair maiden!!! Top of the morning to you my queeeen” that’s how u do it | /r/seduction | 10/08/26 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Girls on OLD are messed upI’m Happy for u. I guess for girls selecting the right guy is a lost art. The same way a lot of men don’t know how to get girls. | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 12:57 PM |
| 9 | Girls on OLD are messed upUm not really the same thing. Women have it easier | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 04:48 AM |
| 4 | Girls on OLD are messed upBut if I wanna be one of those bodies? I’m just trying to hook up without paying for dinners | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 04:46 AM |
| 7 | Girls on OLD are messed upThat’s the thing. I was never the type of guy that cared about my height. I personally have no issues with it. But it’s been 3-4 years now where literally everyone just throws it in my face and tells me how inferior I am because of my short height. Also all this hype on social media isn’t helping and it really start effecting me. Even a confident person can take so much. Everyone has their limit | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Girls on OLD are messed upYeah I left my tinder height blank. Which is why I’m doing so well on that platform. But the girls also take forever to reply and when I ask for the number they ghost. | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Girls on OLD are messed upTinder doesn’t, but the other apps do | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Girls on OLD are messed upI’m getting no conversions because every girl the even replies want to use me for my money (which I don’t even have) | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Girls on OLD are messed upSo why would they match in the first place? | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Girls on OLD are messed upWhat is it requires you to put something? | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 12:39 AM |
| 13 | Girls on OLD are messed upDo u meet a lot of gold diggers tho? Girls don’t make u buy stuff or go on expensive dinner dates? | /r/seduction | 08/08/26 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Officially done with dating appsFor some reason Hinge is dead for me. But all the other dating apps are poppin | /r/seduction | 06/08/26 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Officially done with dating appsThat’s the issue. U need to focus less on cardio. I do strength training, where I lift heavy 5-6 times a week. And my cardio is getting 10-20k steps a day walking. Then you need to watch you diet. Eat clean and eat in a calorie deficit. | /r/seduction | 06/08/26 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Officially done with dating appsThat’s what’s confusing me. I’ve watched lots of YouTube videos and they say that if your pictures are good and your presentation is good, then girls will be throwing themselves at you | /r/seduction | 06/08/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Officially done with dating appsI did 😔 | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Officially done with dating appsWhere can I learn this skill? | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Officially done with dating appsBut that’s the thing. They get so many girls from just texting. Like they have no problems with women | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Officially done with dating appsI have friends that are good texters help me and a lot of these girls are still dry. | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Officially done with dating appsMajority of the girls don’t even get back to me until weeks after if at all. I’ve even had some friends that have very good game message them and still nothing. The other girls don’t give me their number when I ask. And the ones that do take it off the app either ghost or are super entitled | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Officially done with dating appsDo u have any tips? I’ve been working on my profile, and have a bio that works, and high quality photos too | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Officially done with dating appsIt’s a few, but the issue is the girls are kinda entitled. And wanna go to fancy places and stuff. Overall the quality of women on there isn’t good | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Officially done with dating appsNah tbh on her dating profile her pictures were proper. She seemed like a good long term thing. We agreed to a ramen date too. But then on Instagram she started asking for a fancier date and had revealing pictures in her Instagram. Even then I was like, it’s fine I’ll just smash. But then she started acting really entitled. | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to make a girl like me after I had a glow up?U glow up. And then fuck one of her friends | /r/seduction | 02/08/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Dating appsI can show u if u pm me | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Dating appsYou guys will have to PM for the glow up, It doesn’t let me send it in the comments | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Dating appsOk lemme see | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Dating appsThis is really good advice thank you. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 07:36 PM |
| 1 | I can't wrap my head around preselection?I slept with one of the most attractive girl at my workplace because I was flirting with her, but she also saw me flirting with two other girls. It made her jealous and want to chase. This isn’t the first time it happened. I feel like being a guy that can just flirt or talk to a lot of girls is its own version of preselection. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 02:36 AM |
| -1 | Women Who Say They Don’t Want FWB but Do…It’s probably her anti slut defense. She just doesn’t wanna see herself as a whore. You’ve already made it clear that you don’t want anything serious. You can just keep it going and keep sleeping with her. It’ll be a friends with benefits 🤷🏽♂️. Just don’t be romantic | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Do women want to get approached? If so, why do they flake?It’s also how they flirt sometimes. When it comes to flirting I noticed that 50% of girls will be receptive, and 50% of them will just be mean upfront. It’s hard to tell. So I just always assume they like me | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 04:20 PM |
| 3 | How often do women approach you?I’m from Toronto too, and I have a friend who’s 6’3 with an average face that gets approached. His brother is 5’9” and looks kind alike Zayn Malik, and gets approached by girls. I personally never got approached by a girl outside of university. But from what I’ve seen girls don’t approach guys unless they’re super promiscuous (or escorts). The last girl I was with said she used to do it when she was younger, but she stopped as she got more mature. | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 10:19 AM |
| 0 | What about men appeals to women the way a woman’s body appeals to a man?U gotta get the golden ratio | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 10:14 AM |
| 1 | If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for itI agree with this, and I’ve seen some pick up artists do the same thing. Instagram is a good way to get to know someone before the first date. What might be a better route is to have her take down YOUR Instagram username, and then don’t message her. Every story u post after that is a chance for her to respond if she likes u, and it would make u seem less needy. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 12:00 AM |
| 2 | How much exposure do you actually need to create real abundance?Maybe. Do u think height plays a huge role? Do u see any girls approach short guys? Just wondering. I don’t go to the club, I actually don’t go out that much, but I’ve never had a girl approach me outside of university | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 04:47 PM |
| 4 | How much exposure do you actually need to create real abundance?How often do girls approach you? What are the girls like in terms of quality? Like are they attractive? I’m just asking because I get told I’m attractive, I’m not tall, but I never get approached. I think I’ve been approached once in my life. | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach might be KeyReally??? What do you think contributed the most to the lack of results? | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach might be KeyYeah but I don’t wanna talk to dudes. My day is already super busy everyday, I can only make time for girls | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 07:48 PM |
| 7 | Cold Approach might be KeyDid u get results cold approaching? How many approaches did u do? | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Have a girl thats super into me, but I need to know how to keep her like this.Yeah that’s the thing I’ve experienced too. A girl that gets attracted and goes all in really fast, also loses interest really fast too (later down the road). I was in a similar situation with a girl that had a past and we had things move really quickly. I never made her my girlfriend but she wanted to eventually get serious down the road. But after a one year mark she just all of sudden lost interest and became a completely different person. Like she just didn’t want anything to do with me and … | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Are young women not attracted to men anymore?I think that’s just a small group tbh. Alot of girls in their late 20s to early 30 have a “I don’t need a man” attitude. And it’s because they sleep around in their early 20s with the small percentage of guys that don’t care about them and end up getting their heart broken. Then they generalize for all men. | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Am I cuckmaxxing?Honestly bro, she may or may not be hooking up with another guy for the night. University is pretty competitive and there many other guys hitting her. Plus from my experience in uni, girls typically explore all there options. If you guys haven’t slept or u haven’t escalated in the first for times you’ve met her, then she has no obligation to wait for u. And trust me, because I’ve noticed this countless times, the girls that seem the most obsessed with you initially are also the ones that lose in… | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 03:45 PM |
| 1 | The limits of looksmaxxing to an unhealthy level as witnessed by the suspected overdose of ClavicularWhat’s LDARing? | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 11:42 PM |
| 13 | The limits of looksmaxxing to an unhealthy level as witnessed by the suspected overdose of ClavicularWhat’s your opinion on height? I’m 5’ 5” I try to max out my looks in every other metric u mentioned. Still don’t seem to be seeing results. Especially on online dating. How do u recommend someone like me meets women? | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:46 PM |
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