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Dating After DivorceNo-Ground1625/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 03:52 AM
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Dating After DivorceNo-Ground1625/r/Divorce_Men31/01/25 04:37 AM
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Dating After DivorceNo-Ground1625/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 10:05 PM
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Agree. Everyone grieves in different ways. Everyone heals in different times. I've been 3 years out of a toxic marriage that lasted almost a decade. You don't just get up and shrug it off after a decade of emotional abuse and toxicity. My friend on the other hand after 6 months of dating during the divorce process already is living with his new gf. This was 2 years ago and he's still with her. Everyone goes through the motions at their own timeframe and it's extremely ignorant to assume otherwis…
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 11:10 PM
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Thank you for posting this. I think there are a lot of men, including me, that stay silent but feel very much like you mention here. I've been divorced for 3 years, had played with the idea of casual dating. I downloaded apps, even paid for service. I have friends that try to force me into going and meeting women, but I don't feel it. I want to know there are options but I have been hesitant to move to someone else. I'm not stuck on my ex-wife. I am grateful we divorced because why be with someo…
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/25 02:38 AM
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Been like 14 years since i really dated. Ex was my last real date. So yeah i am def out of touch with the dating scene but not hopeless. I can still engage.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 03:46 PM
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Thanks man. No kids, but i wanted children. Ex lied and never told me she couldn't which wouldn't have been big deal but kept that detail to herself until years later. No wonder i got trust issues lol the divorce took a lot away, i had left my job to pursue a passion with money i saved up but left me soon after and she took that too - she never really worked in all those years, too. Regardless, I'm working on myself and we'll see TRT i saw has done crazy recomp to men but it scares me too much t…
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 03:23 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 03:16 PM
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That's actually a great idea. I really appreciate that suggestion. The touch aspect is something that I miss, and I have some reservation about. Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 04:52 AM
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Yea, that scares the shit out of me. Especially STDs. How do you even bring that up while dating? I'm clean as a whistle and already deal with anxiety. Can't imagine.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 04:50 AM
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You learn to cope. It takes time, years and sometimes decades but you will never fully forget. You just learn to live with it and move on. I dated a girl from 2 decades ago almost and I still "feel" for her. This is even after a new relationship, marriage then divorce that happened to me. Some people just stay with you. Remember love and pain is like ying and yang. There is no love without pain. You just decide which one takes up how much space. Cherish the memories but remember, that's all they…
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 11:25 PM
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I know my man. We're obviously 2 different people now and I'm not looking to fix her. I know we tend to romanticize things as years go by and I'm not foolish enough to not pick up on that. I just want to establish a connection again, even as a friend. she was and will always be a part of me and I still care for her well being. I just don't know how to communicate. I was thinking a call but that could be too much pressure for first contact. I dunno. And I've also been taking care of myself and lo…
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/24 12:30 AM
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I'm not gonna say you're wrong. I've dated but slept with only 2. But regardless, she was someone I deeply cared for and this isn't so much of lets get back together. I know it's over, not naive to think otherwise. But maybe a potential for a friendship. Maybe it'll bring closure for me.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 10:40 PM
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Thank you for your response and you make perfect sense. I guess not knowing has been more comforting than maybe hearing a no since I've been carrying her with me for such a long time. Do you think I should leave voice message or call her directly?
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 10:25 PM
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No. Partner for life.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 07:01 PM
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He has tried from my understanding. She is the one that refuses to. It takes two. If she's checked out, no matter what he does, it won't make her wake up and say 'oh ok. I love him, too.'
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 07:37 PM
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Just want to add that the longer you stay, if you make more than her, you may owe more alimony money + child support. A friend of mines wife waited until 10 years, the day right after, to file. This bumped up her alimony paycheck a bit. Don't wait man. The writing is there and she's being pretty fucking raw and straight with you.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 07:34 PM
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I stopped reading after she said i dont love you. You're working on yourself and doing better. It's done. I suggest you consult a lawyer and file first. Don't hold onto it. It will happen, it's just when.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 07:16 PM
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