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DiscriminationNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights02/03/24 09:15 AM
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GeneralNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights10/11/25 12:33 PM
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GeneralNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights08/05/25 12:56 PM
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Social IssuesNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights20/07/22 09:55 AM
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mental healthNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights18/02/26 11:37 AM
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Social IssuesNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights18/04/26 02:03 PM
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Legal RightsNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights13/10/25 10:57 AM
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Social IssuesNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights13/01/26 07:44 AM
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Social IssuesNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights05/10/24 11:52 AM
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Edu./Occu.No-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights14/05/25 05:15 AM
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Edu./Occu.No-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights09/11/25 11:39 PM
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HumourNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights24/06/25 06:04 AM
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Social IssuesNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights17/08/22 12:20 AM
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Social IssuesNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights18/11/25 09:19 PM
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Social IssuesNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights18/01/26 11:14 PM
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mental healthNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights10/07/24 01:07 PM
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GeneralNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights09/04/25 10:41 PM
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Edu./Occu.No-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights30/07/23 11:49 PM
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False AccusationNo-Knowledge-8867/r/MensRights04/02/23 11:03 AM
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What's scarier, a random dude named Rob, or a woman utilising the full force of the state to have you violently arrested by men carrying guns and have your life stripped from you for years under a false accusation?
/r/MensRights16/08/26 04:54 AM
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Nope. Put women on the frontlines, too. And ensure that all children and grandchildren of any congressperson are also serving combat. Watch how quickly the decisions of people in charge change and how capable of diplomacy they become.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 11:43 PM
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I wonder how many alpine divorces are initiated by women?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/26 10:06 AM
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The people who think a medium size untrained not fit man can totally beat Ronda Roussey, eye roll. Maybe, but Juliana Pena learnt pretty quickly that even as a UFC fighter it's best not to fight men when she got decked three times by a line cook. And, let's not forget Fallon Fox beat the crap out of the women they fought. There is absolutely no way that I would say anything to women other than your best bet is avoidance of the situation every time. It's also the same advice I'd give to men as a …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/26 01:58 PM
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The initial set up of the Australian Office for Gender Equality was 100% female employment. I believe it's never dropped below 75%.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 09:20 AM
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No point debating this user. They're not arguing in good faith. Just deliberate misrepresentation and denial of the point.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 12:29 PM
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Straight lies. The TinMen did a response to this lie. It's not about lesbians experiencing abuse from previous male partners. That's not what the study was measuring. It was studying violence from within relationships. Yes, lesbian relationships are the most violent. Edit: to add link to TinMen post https://www.reddit.com/r/TheTinMen/s/1pEBIxVbfF
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/26 11:13 AM
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"Are we the baddies?"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/26 04:09 AM
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Do you ever feel like you are invading that space and changing the dynamic? In my home country we had a series of men's only spaces called "men's sheds" set up which were very beneficial to helping address men's mental health issues. They have increasingly been encroached on by women changing the dynamic of the space for the men there.
/r/MensRights28/06/26 12:28 AM
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I also believe we should tackle issues that affect men predominantly too, and that's not incompatible with how i practice feminism. I'd be curious if you have any examples of feminists that do this well? As you say it's not incompatible, so I would think that there are examples of feminists that do this that you could point to.
/r/MensRights22/06/26 12:27 PM
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Do you want to extrapolate on what you consider to be medical/research misogyny?
/r/MensRights20/06/26 11:03 AM
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I wonder how many men have ever had their partner seek verbal consent? I don't think I've ever experienced that with a woman and I suspect it's probably the same for most men.
/r/MensRights18/06/26 01:25 PM
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certain topics are considered "settled" (e.g. abortion rights are not really up for debate in LWMA). Things not being considered "not up for debate" is unfortunately typical of the contemporary left-wing.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 09:31 AM
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They only think this is oppression because they have been taught that male sexuality is perverse and violent.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 10:27 AM
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Sounds like the type of thing a rapist would say.
/r/MensRights26/05/26 11:27 AM
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Probably because a lot of women lie
/r/EverydayMisandry24/05/26 12:12 PM
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You should organise all the boys in your year to track and document all instances of misandry occurring at your school and by anyone connected to your school, including personal social media profiles. You should then report it back to your school vice principal and if he fails to take action you should take it public.
/r/MensRights24/05/26 11:59 AM
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Her caveat is bullshit and one that is only, and frequently, offered to women, not men.
/r/MensRights16/05/26 12:22 PM
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I was left wing. I'm now probably more right wing because of the misandry and hatred towards cis, straight, white men. I don't hate myself enough to continue to tolerate that bullshit anymore.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 08:39 AM
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It's all projection.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 04:02 AM
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Imagine being so anti-man and anti-family brain-rotted. That want to deprive children of access to their fathers.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 01:09 AM
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It's not all women that lie about the perpetration of sexual and violent offences carried out by men, but it's always a woman
/r/MensRights24/04/26 10:49 PM
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Yeah. I oppose that too.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 08:26 PM
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Gendered data for male involvement in instances of rape, murder etc. are more evenly distributed than the inverse relationship of men's involvement in acts of, and awards received for, bravery. Men should start applying the "not all men, but always a man" commentary to reports of acts of bravery. While the phrase is still in popular use it should be the top comment on any media showing male acts of courage and bravery.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 04:09 PM
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I'm against that too.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:54 PM
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Your fears are valid. You should hold more value for your own genetic lineage. Donating sperm reduces the value of male and fatherly contribution to society.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:53 PM
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Sperm becomes a lot more valuable if men remove their supply. And men should remove their supply in a world that undervalues male and fatherly contribution.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:51 PM
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Yeah, but straight donation in the normal sense is not personal involvement. It reduces fatherly involvement to just a biological factor. It's as a damaging as all the media narratives labelling men bumbling idiots and useless. Fatherly involvement is important in a child's life
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:48 PM
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Do you then also oppose men deliberately choosing to become single fathers? I'm assuming that you're talking about men avoiding responsibility and accountability for their consensual sexual and reproductive choices. Yeah. I'm against that. I'm pro-sexual and reproductive responsibility. To the point that I don't sleep with anyone that I wouldn't be willing to raise a child with. I've said no to a number of women because of that position.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:45 PM
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Yeah. I'm against surrogacy in a lot of cases because it often separates the mum from the child. It's also rife with exploitation.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:41 PM
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This is usually a last resort option. There's going to be more and more women looking at last resort options. To try and indirectly say IVF is cheap and easily accessible is non sense. That's not what I'm saying at all. You're putting words in my mouth. If you have have the economic resources to afford IVF, chances are you have the economic resources to raise the child. Economics is not a substitute for a parent.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:36 PM
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The mere process of sperm donation reduces the male involvement down to a purely biological role. It's as damaging as the constant belittling of fathers in media. It perpetuates stereotypes of fatherly worthlessness.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:32 PM
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Not in all circumstances but to the extent that most western countries have allowed it to be pushed out to. I was much more pro-abortion when it was of the "safe, legal, and rare" standard. I'm pro responsibility for your sexual reproductive choices.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 03:27 PM
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Yeah, and if people want to pursue those shitty options, let them be. If those men don't take responsibility for their reproductive choices, the state can pursue that to ensure male accountability in those circumstances.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 03:22 PM
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Less safe in what ways? Like tampering with or lying about contraception? That should be legally considered rape or sexual assault.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 03:14 PM
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How is sperm donation anti-orphan? I don't see how men can bring children into the world deprived of a mother
/r/MensRights18/04/26 03:10 PM
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Draft only in the case of invasion. If the draft is not equally gendered, men must be given privileges in society equal to the cost of being drafted. That's not currently the case, so yes, women should be equally represented in front-line service. No. I will not be "demoralised" if today's women suffer consequences for the "equal" world they have pushed for.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 03:06 PM
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Do you comprehend what I posted?
/r/MensRights18/04/26 02:59 PM
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Username is suspicious here.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 02:18 PM
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It's much better to complain about the temperature of air conditioning in offices than the safety of young boys' lives /s
/r/MensRights18/04/26 09:53 AM
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Some non-straight, non-white, non-cis, and/or non-masculine presenting me will still sell you out in the hope that they will get a cookie or be treated better than everyone else. Don't trust them.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 07:57 AM
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I have to disagree with you. Yes, they're all gynocentric, but only the left are openly hostile towards men, particularly white, straight men.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 07:47 AM
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You can only believe the miscommunications if it's what you already believe. The idea is so impossibly disproportionate that you have to hold misandric ideology to believe it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 03:27 AM
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And anytime you see an event where women are merely spectators, you should call them out for their cowardice. "Not all women, but always a woman."
/r/MensRights18/04/26 03:08 AM
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We should start using the phrase in commentary for every act of bravery in public. Data shows awards for, and acts of, bravery are like >%95 men.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 03:06 AM
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I think that there's moments that we shouldn't miss to get men on our side and act for change. I think one of those moments is right now in Germany. We should take action to make a difference there, not just speak out.
/r/MensRights10/04/26 02:39 PM
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Withdrawing from society is one thing, but I think a threat to just shut it down is immediate decision-making for the people who will use force to conscription in a war to go die on a battlefield. I don't want men in Germany to withdraw from society only to be picked up from their houses and dragged against their will into some war.
/r/MensRights10/04/26 02:33 PM
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I think that you're correct, but I also think that women have a distinct advantage here in that both men and women have a bias towards women. So men are already at a disadvantage. When women speak up, both men and women listen. When women turn to violent means it's given more leeway. Men don't have those advantages, so it's harder to get a foothold. I think men just need to stop caring about approval and act for what's in our own best interests regardless of the impact it has on others. We have …
/r/MensRights10/04/26 02:28 PM
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I think most people here are smart enough to understand how politicised Wikipedia is and to not trust it. Anyone who honestly points to Wikipedia as a source of information should be ignored.
/r/MensRights05/04/26 10:09 AM
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It is easier to blame men than society and women.
/r/MensRights04/04/26 11:26 PM
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In nearly all cases that they occur, late term abortions happen when the baby dies or has a medical condition that will cause their death and possibly that of the mothers. That's not at all true. When a pre-born baby dies of natural circumstances, it is called a miscarriage (sometimes referred to as a spontaneous abortion) or still birth later in term. This is not the same as a surgical abortion. No one seriously considers a miscarriage or still birth to be analogous to an abortion. Many of the …
/r/MensRights04/04/26 10:13 AM
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I was formerly pro-choice and am now pro-life. Part of my shift happened from just understanding how much of misinformation exists in the pro-choice argument. Part of that for me was a few years back in my state. There was a push to "de-criminalise" abortion. This was communicated in the pro-life circles as just updating laws to put into legislation the way the law essentially operates anyway. In reality, it was extending the legal period of abortion from 26 weeks to the point of birth. This has…
/r/MensRights04/04/26 08:39 AM
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The gender disparity that exists between violence is also the same disparity that exists for heroic action. We should start posting the same comments on posts about male heroic action.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 04:17 AM
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If you allow others to do the thinking for you and never challenge the consensus, you'll never mature intellectually. If you allow others to not hold you responsible or take ownership for your decisions, you'll never mature emotionally. That's exactly what this woman has done. You should be thankful that she has provided you with an insight that you are on the right path and that you desire to never become like her. These types of people are deeply unsatisfied and unhappy. It sounds like you han…
/r/MensRights27/03/26 10:35 PM
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Imagine being 16 and having some random 30 year old woman just prove themselves to be infinitely more immature and pathetic than you.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 09:02 PM
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I think that you are absolutely correct, but what OP is describing here isn't misogyny, and we shouldn't allow it to be defined as such. We need to be very clear on definitions and not allow others to define what we are and are not for us.
/r/MensRights22/03/26 07:50 AM
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Misogynists hate women because they're women. You hate horrible people because they are acting horribly towards you. The fact that a number of them are women is coincidental. Women don't get excused from horrible behaviour because of their gender.
/r/MensRights22/03/26 02:43 AM
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I understand that was the original context, but male friendships for me are not a problem. Romantic relationships aren't inspiring for me at the moment, and I'm certainly not feeling that I'm missing out on anything there, but the way I feel when I reflect on the way society talks about my maleness is somewhat soul crushing.
/r/MensRights24/02/26 05:23 AM
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See, that's not my experience at all. Nor is it what I see in the relationships of my friends. In fact, I more often see my male friends holding their female partners' emotions stable. Sometimes, I do see women being more proactive in a social sense, but that mostly seems to be because in those relationships, those guys are quite content being a bit more introverted.
/r/MensRights24/02/26 05:16 AM
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Ask her why should she be entitled to your money and assets after she chooses to divorce you?
/r/MensRights20/02/26 12:03 AM
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I don't think men had any choice in "setting the system up." When men fail, society collapses. Nature determined "the system," and women placed the expectations. I think a lot of men can attest to what happens when men fail to meet expectations.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 12:57 PM
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Convenient
/r/MensRights10/02/26 11:43 AM
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Why don't you bring it up in your dorm/university, then? Suggest to the university that you want to start a men's rights group, announce it publicly, and see how it goes down.
/r/MensRights10/02/26 11:39 AM
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Because there is a history of them being shut down, people being threatened with expulsion, careers of professors being threatened. Look at what happened to Erin Pizzey, or Murray Strauss, and others who spoke out about male discrimination. Erin Pizzey had someone kill her dog for saying that women can be violent domestic abusers too. They shut her out of her own organisation. They sent her repeated bomb and death threats that she had to get police protection.
/r/MensRights10/02/26 05:40 AM
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Look up what happens when Men's Rights Advocates try to speak up or start communities in colleges?
/r/MensRights10/02/26 01:46 AM
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The idea that women couldn't work is bullshit and it's evidenced in our names. The surnames Webster and Brewster translate as female weaver and female brewer literally from old English. The -ster suffix is proof that women worked prior to feminism.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 01:09 AM
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The best descriptor that I have heard come out of this episode is the description of Good and her partner as suffering from an "unearned belicosity."
/r/MensRights18/01/26 08:39 AM
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The differences between in-group gender bias should in itself dismiss the narrative of patriarchy theory while raising concern of the potential dangers of a female lead matriarchy.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 01:46 AM
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Do this as part of a class action. Don't make yourself a lone target.
/r/MensRights09/01/26 10:25 AM
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What's proclaimed and what's practiced are two very different things
/r/MensRights09/01/26 07:07 AM
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Is this response meant to be to my comment, or another comment?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/25 03:08 PM
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I don't like either major political party, but let's not pretend that the political left is somehow good for men.
/r/MensRights26/12/25 02:30 PM
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If you really believe that the removal of conscription and compulsory service in times of peace will hold in times of war, you're too foolish to be making claims of who's best to vote for. You only need to look to Europe to see all the countries reinstating compulsory service or talking about it, and they're not even at war with Russia. They just see it as a threat. The promise of removal of compulsory service is as hollow as democrats campaigns to regain young men into their voting base.
/r/MensRights26/12/25 02:26 PM
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Would she date you if you held a comparative ideology about women? No. Then why would she expect you to tolerate it? And why are you tolerating it?
/r/MensRights22/12/25 10:18 PM
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What are the odds that this individual has done something like this in the past, and that's why they're so touchy about the subject?
/r/MensRights20/12/25 01:22 AM
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Maybe they should stop choosing the bear then.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/12/25 10:39 AM
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Ah, yes. It must be the testing tearing communities apart. Not the women's actions, of course. /s
/r/MensRights27/11/25 08:04 PM
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And no I think the women you’ve made up in your head would probably actually agree with that… What are you talking about, you fucking idiot. There are so many feminists and feminist organisations campaigning for exclusively the abolition of only female prisons that there is a term for it. It's called abolitionist feminism. There's organisations in many states and internationally. The idea even often makes it to national parliamentary and media discussion. Even some of your most famous feminists,…
/r/MensRights21/11/25 10:28 PM
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what she could have become, her future etc. She's thinking of this young woman's potential to become bitter and jaded like herself.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 09:47 AM
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Another study found that half of all married women have a "back-up partner" in mind.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 03:57 AM
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Right before posting it on here. I attempted to post it there specifically because of the political discourse noting boys' engagement with society. The response was that it was removed because they "did not feel it is sufficiently related to men's issues, specifically to disadvantages or discrimination facing men and boys, or factors that cause and perpetuate those issues." The article is about how disadvantages and discrimination towards young boys are driving them towards right leaning ideolog…
/r/MensRights10/11/25 10:00 PM
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It's probably just that you've commented on both issues in the same post, but have you checked that the bartender has no connection to your ex?
/r/MensRights10/11/25 12:59 PM
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I posted this to the Left-Wing Male Advocates subreddit, and they decided that a discussion of why boys were becoming increasingly right-wing wasn't relevant. I don't know what's going on over there, but the moderation has gone to shit. I tried posting on there a few weeks ago looking for a discussion that I couldn't seem to find through searching the subreddit, and they removed the post as low effort. I posted the same here, and someone was kind enough to link me to the post I was searching for…
/r/MensRights10/11/25 12:43 PM
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Is this specific family law legal aid for dv incidents, or is this any family law legal aid? It seems like this is going to deliberately incentivise false dv reports in order to access legal aid. That's deeply troubling if that's the case.
/r/MensRights10/11/25 11:17 AM
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Do it, but don't do it to try to change their minds. That won't work. Do it so that less ideologically captured users might see the interactions for what they are and realise that the reasonable side exists here and not there.
/r/MensRights10/11/25 11:07 AM
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This, like so much other feminists ramblings, all sounds so deeply insecure.
/r/MensRights02/11/25 10:37 AM
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CNN admitting the supply of gold-diggers outstrips the demand of men wanting to waste their wealth on ungrateful women.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/10/25 07:30 AM
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Thanks so much. This is exactly what I was looking for. Funnily enough, I tried to cross post this in LWMA because I thought the post I saw may have been there, and the post was removed because it was apparently "low effort." I guess trying to find reliable men's issues information is regarded as "low effort" over there now.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 04:02 AM
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Clementine Ford has stated, "Kill all men" in some form or other on multiple occasions, and has received little repercussions for such statements. She has stated so frequently because it is a frequent talking point of feminists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/25 04:26 AM
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AWDTSG? _ What's that? _ Oh, can I see? _ Why is this guy here? He seems like he hasn't done anything dangerous. This guy also seems like he's just being posted for no reason. _ What do the comments say? _ Oh, I see. _ And you engage in this sort of thing? _ That's a bit disappointing. I thought you were a better person than that. _ This just all seems pathetic. Call them out on it by exposing it to their face. Hold them accountable.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 06:02 AM
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If you really wanted to help, you can f#@$ off!!! Why do you think your shitty opinions would be welcomed in male space. The shear egotism is astounding.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/25 04:41 AM
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I don't give a shit what happens to you or other women from "bad people." I don't care about you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/25 07:24 AM
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Another woman who doesn't know how to attract and keep good men in her life and is bitter because of it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/25 12:32 PM
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A woman who constantly complains about men.
/r/MensRights13/09/25 05:47 AM
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Yeah, OP should absolutely report this. How can you guarantee fairness in grading with such displays of public misandry
/r/EverydayMisandry30/08/25 02:15 PM
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Call her insecure. That's the reality of the situation.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/08/25 10:02 AM
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I'll see your Pearl Davis and raise you Billie Rae Brandt. I hate that exploitative, covert feminist, bit$#!!!
/r/MensRights23/08/25 05:05 AM
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I can't go back in time. What's the value to any man today of the history of psychology if its current iteration is filled with a feminist infiltration? Both psychology and sociology are dominated by women and feminists and they are inherently anti-male and ideological.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 11:54 PM
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Oh, you're mean the psychology and sociology fields that are intrinsically anti-male. I think most men here are familiar with how terrible those fields have been for and to men. One only needs to read through the APA guidelines for men and boys to understand why men are never going to engage with that bullshit. It's inherently damaging to men.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 05:58 AM
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Says who? The cultural zeitgeist? The same cultural zeitgeist that wants to label men as toxic
/r/MensRights09/08/25 02:38 AM
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I think talk therapy innately works for women because it helps them deal with problems they face in a world where they inherently are less capable of controlling. For men who are largely handed responsibility to manage and control that same world, reiterating a problem is just wasting time.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 12:29 AM
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That 4B train coming to wipe her and her lineage permanently off the face of the planet.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/08/25 09:58 AM
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She hit him repeatedly with shoe while he was driving. She threw a bowl of cereal at him. She was previously charged with abuse after slapping him in public. And, the headline labels it as emotional abuse.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 01:04 AM
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Considering the number of people in the r/mensrights sub that have argued that Russia doesn't have conscription, I think it's important to post stuff like this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/25 11:50 AM
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Tell them you identify as a woman
/r/EverydayMisandry05/07/25 08:45 AM
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Their own "emotional intelligence" seems so frequently mistaken for emotional diarrhoea and instability by these type of women that can't reflect on their own impacts of their immaturity and lack of self-reflection. Let alone work out what they actually want beyond what some opinionated "journalist" has told them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/25 01:25 AM
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Bernie bros in 2016. Podcast bros in 2024
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/25 08:20 AM
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I find it hard to believe that women who have been through high school and very likely dealt with "mean girl cliques" believe that women leaders wouldn't use others to do their violent dirty work in the form of war.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/25 10:51 AM
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It seems like you're devaluing women's independent thought here. Would you make the same argument for married kings, or is it just women who are incapable of such leadership.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/25 10:40 AM
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I'm pretty certain Russia does have military conscription because they had issues with young men fleeing the country when the war started and had to put into place a whole heap of new laws and fines for avoiding the draft.
/r/MensRights15/06/25 09:15 PM
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You mean the ones celebrated, published, and taught. Also, you're a regular on TwoXChromosomes, which basically spouts the same misandrist bs as the above quotes.
/r/MensRights15/06/25 07:49 AM
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"A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle." -Gloria Steinham "The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race." -Sally Miller Gearhart "To be male is to be deficient." -Valerie Solanas "Honestly, the coronavirus isn't killing men fast enough" -Clementine Ford Go clean up your own side.
/r/MensRights15/06/25 07:32 AM
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It seems peculiar that Russia is seemingly listed as A-tier while conscripting men into meat-grinder war tactics.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 08:32 AM
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Imagine admitting to sleeping with nearly 2 billion people
/r/EverydayMisandry14/06/25 08:24 AM
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And yet feminism encourages women to invite strange men into their homes to sleep with them.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/06/25 05:06 AM
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The last bastion of a losing position.
/r/MensRights12/06/25 02:11 AM
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So all the things that feminism fights against women contributing now.
/r/MensRights12/06/25 12:23 AM
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Do you want to expand on that, or do you just want to make a claim?
/r/MensRights11/06/25 11:57 PM
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We wouldn't be able to have a civilised functioning society without working as a collective.
/r/MensRights11/06/25 11:35 PM
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You want the opposite. Why is yours more valid than mine? Except that there's more of the collective that contribute to good than individuals who do bad.
/r/MensRights11/06/25 11:20 PM
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Choice? Women would have been dead without men's protection and the provision of a civilised world that men built and maintain. Along with it, humanity would have died out. Women's choice only came about once all the hard work was done and set up. Go start some other matriarchial society somewhere without men's help if it's all such an issue for you. It won't survive, just like the rest of them. You're only so bitter because you know that without men, women like yourself are nothing. You're usel…
/r/MensRights11/06/25 11:15 PM
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I have a theory that the majority of male loneliness is simply male societal exclusion and lack of acceptance. I think if society shifted its views away from misandry to the extent it does with misogyny, a lot of the problem would begin to resolve itself. If social media companies (in particular) and other medias started moderating misandry, a lot would start to change.
/r/MensRights11/06/25 07:42 AM
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Nothing in her post other than the education part at the end was targeted to men. There's no real desire to engage with men's issues. Specifically, it's just the same shtick and do it during men's health month to pretend you care.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 01:35 PM
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murdered by other men Asked them if they hold the same attitude towards FGM as it is/was almost exclusively done by older women on baby girls.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 01:20 AM
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I absolutely agree with you. I find myself disinterested in supporting a politic that is essentially outright hostile towards me simply because of my gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 01:45 PM
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It's interesting that the only grifters that these people want to talk about are male "manosphere" grifters. I haven't heard of either of these guys, and I'd be surprised if they're that popular other than for mockery. I have seen probably just as many female as male grifters using bs psych and hippy language, but for some reason, no one seems to want to mock or call out these grifters. I also don't think this is going to be the way the left wins back male voters.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 12:39 PM
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Are you suggesting that people shouldn't be free to share their opinion? Are you anti-free speech?
/r/MensRights05/06/25 09:00 AM
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It gives the same energy as so many female podcasts that act in the same ways as Tate only towards men and then talk about how dangerous male podcasts are. They all fantasise about the worst imaginable male stereotype and then seek to become the female version of that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/25 09:52 AM
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I didn't give myself that name, Reddit did, and I just didn't care enough to change it. I'm also not that overly concerned about US Supreme Court Justices because I'm not in the US. You're filled with assumptions, and it narrows your world.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 09:44 AM
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Sure, resort to name calling. That's always a sign that you're winning an argument/debate and a clear sign of maturity.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 05:56 AM
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Sure, but I'm not interested in the legal argument as being the totality of her motivation. Nor am I interested in simply believing something because it was said. It might align, and it might be true, but I'm more interested in patterns of behaviour, and my experience tells me that I don't see feminists, who claim their ideology as being based in gender equality, holding any impetus to act on gender inequalities if they're not to their own benefit. In fact, I far more frequently see those femini…
/r/MensRights04/06/25 05:22 AM
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You don't think that the fact that it impacted the level of care a helpless old lady was receiving had any influence on it? Considering that there are plenty of other unfair gendered laws that discriminate against males that haven't been addressed.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 02:58 AM
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While I don't dismiss this example, I'll also note that the benefit he received would just allow him to better care for his mother, a woman. I do wonder what would have happened if it was his father that he was in care of?
/r/MensRights03/06/25 02:43 AM
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Patriarchy is just a proxy for hating men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/25 12:37 AM
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I find it fascinating how many feminists immediately stoop to the worst standard of what they claim men do as soon as the chance becomes available to them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/25 06:43 AM
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Only 50%. That seems too low for a negative ideology.
/r/Male_Studies30/05/25 07:28 AM
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Fair point. I wouldn't wish it on my enemies.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:29 AM
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Vivienne Pearson is a freelance writer. and an authoritarian
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:24 AM
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Explain why?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 02:18 AM
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Your username says incel incinerator. Not exactly one to point to names. How about you try to actually articulate an argument based on reason.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 02:07 AM
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Why can't I? Of course I can. People do so all the time.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 02:03 AM
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I'm not disagreeing with that. I'm saying the fear is exaggerated because of other factors, one in particular being feminist anti-male propaganda.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 01:54 AM
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It's valid for her to feel fear because, let's face it, she's basically defenceless, but her fear is massively exaggerated, not because of men, but because of feminists. It's nowhere near 1 in 10 men that she has to fear. I think from memory that the data is closer to 0.2% or maybe 0.02% for violent offenders against women. Additionally, that fear would be alleviated if she had a man in the house towards whom she herself wasn't violent.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 11:50 PM
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A woman's complaint is her confession.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/05/25 07:12 AM
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Weird then that there are more misogynistic women than men because I don't get that pushback from men, but I always get it from women
/r/EverydayMisandry24/05/25 10:32 AM
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As men, I think we need to challenge these narratives when they are brought up. Like, how do these feminists believe the "system" was set up? What were the conditions when it happened? What was the alternative that actually could have happened?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/25 05:21 AM
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I find it bemusing when women complain about men only being interested in sex or solving men's problems through sex. It comes across as revealing to me. Like, do you not have any men in your life of any depth? What type of men are you attracting, and what are you doing that attracts these men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/25 05:00 AM
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I struggled to get through more than 5 minutes of that guy, but I will say this, the majority of abusive relationships are mutually abusive, and there seems to be enough in some of these stories to think that Rhianna, Grace Jabbari, Halle Bailey, and Megan Thee Stallion, at least, aren't completely innocent angels. A lot of people only want to frame women as solely victims, though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/25 01:51 PM
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As an Australian man, I stopped caring about the domestic violence conversation when it became gendered. Once official language changed from domestic violence to "violence against women and girls," I stopped caring. I knew that I was excluded from the conversation and would be excluded from help if I ever ended up involved in it. I see this at its most extreme in the UK, where this phenomenon is so strong that male victims of domestic abuse are classified as "male victims of violence against wom…
/r/MensRights22/05/25 06:12 AM
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Christina Hoff Sommers is a good reference point because she calls herself a feminist.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 11:00 AM
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As far as I am aware, that increase in your first graph is a result of the broadening of the SA definition that you allude to. The deliberate censorship of clarifying data and misrepresentation of the actual reality is almost as if millions of dollars of government funding and peoples very well-paid careers would be dependent on a continuing problem, not to mention the straight political power. Bettina Arndt has done quite a bit covering this topic.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 09:38 AM
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It's the same with incels. Not predominantly white, far-right, teens.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 08:15 AM
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No, it wasn't sex work. I was just saying that I could see how people who get addicted to that stuff. I don't think I could ever be comfortable using a sex worker.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 11:52 PM
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I can totally understand that. It didn't hurt at all that the young woman who was so attentive to looking after me was quite attractive. I could see how some men get addicted to sex workers. I don't think I could afford this type of luxury now that I'm back home either. I will say, though, if you ever get that chance, take it up. It will leave you feeling like a king, and you'll probably hold yourself in higher self regard as a result, but yeah, stay conscious of it. Everything good in moderatio…
/r/MensRights14/05/25 02:18 PM
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I definitely get the "not being manly" stereotype, although for me, I think I've realised (largely from engagement with these types of social media spheres) the perspective falls not on the idea of a spa treatment being "manly" or "feminine", but that the stereotyping actually comes from the idea of men not being a burden to anyone and placing the consideration of others above your own health and well-being. I think a lot of that is borne out of female led societal expectations of men.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 05:48 AM
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If you want to go a step further, you'll see that male specific problems, where this can't be done, are only contextualised in relation to their impact on women. i.e. How the male lonliness epidemic is impacting women's dating/lives/relationships etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/25 04:23 AM
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Jess Phillips?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/25 01:50 PM
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That was why I posted here. Seeing so many taking violence against men as blasé, I had to be reminded that people do still care.
/r/MensRights10/05/25 05:09 AM
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While I think some men have some level of concern with false imprisonment, I think most men worry about the social and financial impacts that an allegation can have well before any legal consequences arrive.
/r/MensRights10/05/25 12:18 AM
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What she's saying is: "In all the cases of custody disputes that I'm aware of, there were two sides to the disagreement, and when I automatically believe the woman's side, her ex looks terrible." Wow, so revealing.
/r/MensRights09/05/25 12:22 AM
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If her argument that men are "biologically evolved" to be more promiscuous, that raises an interesting question about human females' evolution of hidden ovulation. If she's of such a belief that men are biologically evolved to cheat, ask her to explain why human females evolved to hide signs of ovulation, like swelling or scent indicators?
/r/MensRights07/05/25 11:04 PM
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You're such a gas-lighter, and everyone can see through your bs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 08:32 AM
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You quoted the conclusion, which does not refute the point made by the original commenter. It is a strawman argument.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 08:30 AM
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That conclusion is absolutely not the same as what the comment above stated. You seem to be in this thread for the sole purpose of defending the study through gas-lighting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 07:17 AM
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It's just reflective of society at large. The consequences for not sticking to the feminist narrative are strictly enforced, and this silences men (& women) who would otherwise speak up.
/r/MensRights07/05/25 06:49 AM
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To clarify, my comment implied that both men and women can be shitty to each other. Your comment implies that women are only shitty towards men in response to men's bad actions, i.e. there are no shitty women, just ones who retaliate to men's shitty behaviour. The comment itself seems like a pretty shitty action to make.
/r/MensRights07/05/25 06:44 AM
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It might have been a different Scandanavian or European country, but I'm on holiday and can't be arse to look it up right now
/r/MensRights05/05/25 10:05 AM
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Even if it were more males, it would ignore them and just state, "including women and children" as it always does
/r/MensRights03/05/25 11:50 AM
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I remember reading about a WEF study or something that posted Lesotho (I think) as a more equal country (and hence better to live in) than Norway because the life expectancy gap in Norway was like +1.6 years in favour of men and in Lesotho it was like +10 years in favour of women. Norway's life expectancy was somewhere in the 70s, and Lesotho's was in the 50's.
/r/MensRights02/05/25 11:04 AM
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Bropill is pathetic. I got banned for advocating for equal treatment of men and women. Bropill doesn't support men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/25 11:37 AM
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"The reality is that it is equal" This was my biggest realisation through engaging with MRA. The realisation that equality means there are just as many shittywomen as shitty men
/r/MensRights01/05/25 11:31 AM
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The solution couldn't ever just be to teach young girls to treat young boys, even ones that you're not attracted to, with basic common decency and kindness. The problem is never, ever with women and girls. It's no wonder these boys are turning misogynistic. Even when they're the ones being bullied or humiliated, it's still their fault.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 02:33 AM
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Shame, insult, guilt. The way society usually deals with issues it doesn't like that involves men.
/r/MensRights22/04/25 04:36 PM
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The invisible women that feminism ignores is that the wealthy men whose single salary can provide for a family gives women the freedom to also not work and to be able to raise their family. A gift that most men would love to have the choice to do but which very, very few men get. (Even more so when you consider increased divorce rates when women out earn men.) There's a truth to the saying that when men earn more, they think they can provide more for their family, and when women earn more, they …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/25 11:54 PM
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Women who label raising a family as "labour" are toxic and best not inviting into your life lest you unfortunately end up tied to them. They will ruin you.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/25 07:28 AM
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If women don't want to work for them, why do they think we'd want to date them?
/r/MensRights18/04/25 06:16 AM
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The world has had numerous female leaders/heads of state throughout history. Many who identify as feminists. I don't know of a single policy actioned by any of those leaders that explicitly sought to benefit men in the name of equality. I have never had anyone provide me with an example either. Yet nearly all policies that benefited women historically were enacted by men. Women have never demonstrated action that cares for men as a group. The belief that the world would be better if it were led …
/r/MensRights15/04/25 11:17 AM
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It absolutely is a moral panic. It's one that feminism has been building for ~years~ decades. The scary thing is that although I believe the men's rights movement is doing an incredible job at countering the narrative, I'm not yet convinced that the ship has started to slow or turn.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/04/25 12:42 AM
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I don't trust the definition of "insecure" from any woman who hides her identity behind a full face of heavy makeup.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 06:27 AM
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Are there restrictions from trans men voluntarily signing up for the draft? As a cis man, do you feel this invalidates the trans men are men argument?
/r/MensRights10/04/25 06:10 AM
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The brilliance about this strawman argument and the feminists that use it is that it's very easy to expose their moralising. You simply dig a bit deeper by asking them, what are the problems men face?
/r/EverydayMisandry09/04/25 07:29 AM
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Here's a different question. What radicalised the men who are doing "the radicalising?" Do you think that maybe radical feminism and comfortability that society has with publicly allowing statements like: "men are trash," "kill all men," etc. might just leave men a little unenthusiastic about engaging with society? This attitude has been continually pushed by radical feminists since at least the 60's with the S.C.U.M. manifesto and Miller-Gearhardt's "the future is female." That's around 60 year…
/r/EverydayMisandry05/04/25 12:07 AM
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I'll believe when I see it. Even still, I may only believe the change is politically motivated. It may take a genuine apology post implementation for me to ever consider coming back to supporting the political left.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/25 12:00 AM
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When someone shows you who they are, believe them
/r/EverydayMisandry04/04/25 04:36 AM
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The article literally states: "What has weight here aren’t his “rights”" i stopped reading the trash after that for my own mental health.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 10:49 AM
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The discussion surrounding incel men only acts to reinforce their belief that no one in society cares about them. And to a large extent, they're right. Empathy and understanding work better than derision and fear mongering, but society is loathe to offer men empathy and understanding.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/25 10:08 AM
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Less talk, more action. Softly, softly won't cut it for men to change their minds after what we've been put through. Labour, and the left in general, need to take a serious stand against inequality and misandry. They could demonstrate their seriousness firstly by removing Jess Phillips from their ranks. Then, genuinely start addressing inequality.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 09:49 AM
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If trauma, emotion, vulnerability, and mental health are humane, not feminine. Why are you suggesting that people "can and should be in touch with feminine parts of them"? Why are you suggesting that "hetero-normativity is not necessary or helpful" if those qualities are humane and not exclusive to non-hetero non-masc? This bs attitude that emotion and vulnerability are feminine or non-masc is anti-male. I'm sick of that sort of sexism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/25 03:37 AM
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"I want men and women to be equal" I think most, if not all, men and certainly MRA's can distinguish between what feminists say and what they believe/how they act. Even the most milquetoast feminist is more extreme and more anti-male than what they admit because the world and our cultures are more anti-male than what society admits. They may claim they "only want men and women to be equal," but in reality they don't think fathers are as important as mothers, or they don't think men should be pre…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 01:39 PM
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Andrea Dworkin's opinion on anything isn't worth listening to. Her entire world view is framed by a hatred for men. There is never any insight to be gained from people like that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/25 07:54 AM
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There's always going to be just enough types for feminists to dismiss any bad behaviour with the "that's not true feminism" excuse.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 08:25 AM
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It's telling that the argument is that the so-called "anti-female hate" is labelled as a pushback against "female gains in equality" as opposed to public male hatred and oppression. These activist mouthpieces don't want to acknowledge the reality because it will reveal their cause as inherently inequal in nature.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 08:44 AM
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Do these people honestly think rape is only ever used as "tool of war" against women? Do they not think that the type of person that would break laws that make them a war criminal on women for their own pleasure would not also be willing to do it to torture men?
/r/EverydayMisandry08/03/25 10:48 PM
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Liberals spent decades supporting trashing men, and now that it's backfiring on them, their solution is to just ask men to keep supporting them. How about fuck off? Go do something. You're in charge.
/r/MensRights04/03/25 12:55 PM
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Yeah, I got accused of being paedo twice when I was younger. The first time when I was in high school was because a girl that I showed interest in had a friend who liked me. This friend decided that if she couldn't have me, she'd ruin it for everyone. She started spreading rumours that I was a paedo so that the rumour would get around to the other girl and she wouldn't want to be associated with me. It worked. The second time, I was working in social care work with children with disabilities. I …
/r/MensRights02/03/25 01:04 AM
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I'm concerned with the use of the phrase: "victim empathy-based prejudice" it seemingly implies the existence of an occurrence of rape taking place even when there is a lack of evidence. I think the choice of language is critical on this issue where so much bias exists.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 10:46 AM
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No one cares about the separation of this father from his daughter, though.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 09:56 AM
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This isn't necessarily a sign that women are better actors than men in society. We know statistically that women are 50% less likely to be charged and sentenced for committing the same crime as men, and when they are sentenced, we also know they receive lesser sentences for the same crimes. So, we know already know that society treats men and women differently for the same actions, but we also know that men and women often act on aggression in different ways. Data suggests that in intimate or do…
/r/MensRights25/02/25 03:14 AM
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I find it so interesting that the same women who complain about toxic masculinity and men want to model their female empowerment in the image of what they perceive as toxic masculinity and the worst imaginings of how they believe men behave.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/02/25 08:31 AM
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And then the whole train clapped
/r/MensRights18/02/25 04:04 AM
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Feminists act shocked like they're somehow morally superior. At least those men had the decency to talk shit amongst themselves, believing it was in private, instead of blasting misandry publicly on social media.
/r/MensRights06/02/25 01:08 PM
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Women saying men built the system is an admission that women contribute nothing to society.
/r/MensRights05/02/25 08:04 PM
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The implication is that women are inherently disadvantaged and therefore require additional assistance. This, along with all the other women beneficiary programs, fly in the face of equal treatment. Society speaks out of one side of its mouth about equality and the other side about the need to advantage women, while data shows the privilege that women hold in university, hiring practices, and more. You're right to react with disgust at more injustice under the guise of equality.
/r/MensRights27/01/25 09:56 PM
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A woman's complaint is often her confession.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/01/25 05:24 AM
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I don't think that's ever going to happen. Nor do I think it's a good idea. I will add this to my previous statement, though. Any men who are conscripted into war, not just reserves training, should also be granted some form of guaranteed housing program, and in the case of somewhere like the US actual free healthcare
/r/MensRights25/01/25 10:06 AM
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The very idea of conscription abolition is fantasy that can only exist in times of peace. Every man knows deep down that the moment the boots of war come marching to your home ideals and rules are off the table. Men will always be called upon in times of crisis. Men also understand that conscription will never truly be gender neutral. Women won't be placed on the front line. Even if done so, women will not be advantageous but detrimental to active war duties. I think the answer is a draft and co…
/r/MensRights25/01/25 05:30 AM
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Whatever subs this guy follows
/r/EverydayMisandry22/01/25 08:38 AM
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Ask them why they are pro victim blaming? And if they also hold that mindset with gender neutrality.
/r/MensRights21/01/25 10:38 AM
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Are the 1% mostly men? Yes. The 1% might be mostly men, but don't try to tell me that their wives (and ex-wives) aren't beneficiaries of that 1%. All the richest women in the world are divorcees and heiresses. They didn't even have to work for their billions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/25 10:28 AM
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Don't forget that in the UK, all male victims of domestic violence are classified as victims of "violence against women and girls".
/r/EverydayMisandry21/01/25 10:15 AM
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Understanding and communicating the problems that men experience when seeking mental health help would. I'm not sure what the situation is like in Germany, but being part of the modern Western world, it wouldn't surprise me if it suffered from the same problems. Counselling and psychology are heavily female dominated fields with a strong feminist bias. Unlike STEM, there is no interest in diversifying the field through DEI programs that benefit men at the expense of women. If you want to see how…
/r/MensRights19/01/25 02:11 AM
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If it's so simple, it shouldn't be hard for them to provide it.
/r/MensRights18/01/25 09:18 PM
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If those boys have spent their whole school life feeling that they have been treated unfairly in a female led and dominated environment, good luck convincing them to spend the rest of their working lives in female dominated industries that typically pay less.
/r/MensRights18/01/25 03:42 AM
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It's, of course, infuriating, but you might feel better if you choose to see it as pathetic instead. What sort of loser wastes their own time to spout hate for no reason. These people are insecure beyond measure. I pity them, but they're not worth my anger.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 09:21 PM
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Make no mistake. This is how women enact violence. Through the enlistment of usually other men, either the state, such as with the feminist implemented Duluth model, or direct recruitment of individual men, as I suspect happened here. Don't be at all surprised if this is revealed to be wholly led by the girls. These women are violent. They should be labelled that way. Even if they never threw a single punch.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 09:50 AM
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Thanks for this.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 11:40 AM
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"Her story is that this is an example of Male Flight, a sociological phenomenon wherein men leave spaces occupied by women in order to maintain their masculinity." Well, it didn't take long for feminists to make up an excuse from nowhere did it. One that serves their own interests. And what evidence do feminists have for this theory? What research have they done? It's all just fantastical victim blaming. It needs to be called out as such. Feminists are quite content to create make-believe images…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/25 10:48 AM
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For someone like myself, who's not so technically versed, can you explain this a bit more?
/r/MensRights13/01/25 09:11 AM
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Do you know what else returns similar statistics? Jobs in protection industries: police, army, fire dept., security. Awards for acts of bravery +95% men. That sort of data doesn't villianise men, though, and that's their real desire.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/01/25 02:22 AM
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Even where conscription is not active and a draft not present. Men still know that should war come to their door, they will quickly be called upon. I live in a country without a draft or conscription, but political foreign tensions still bring about anxiety.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/25 12:29 AM
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I work in architecture, and 80-90% of new hires are all women. We had a few young employees up for a 30 under 30 prize, a woman, a guy of ethnic background, and a straight, cis, white man. One of the senior female staff members told me in the elevator that the straight, cis, white man wouldn't be recognised because he wasn't the right identity. She was right.
/r/MensRights10/01/25 09:15 AM
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Too often, everyone is concerned with the trans exclusionary part of terf, but the radical feminist part is just as bad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/25 08:55 AM
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None of these misandrist women would feel so strongly opinionated in the real world in front of a real man. Anonymity gives cowards courage.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/01/25 06:01 AM
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16 hours ago, and no comments. I'm not all that surprised. I don't think the feminists here are here for genuine conversation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/25 09:53 AM
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I'd be really interested now to hear what OP thinks of patriarchy? How would they describe it? Has their opinion of patriarchy changed?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 12:43 AM
1

Oh. Apologies. I must have misread a comment or confused it for another thread.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 09:48 AM
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Additionally, and I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but I noticed in a previous comment that you mentioned that you were female. I previously mentioned that if you wanted him to open up that it would be best to do an activity with him side by side. While this would still be the best option, I would temper your expectations. From my experience, I tend to find that many women will often say things just to appease people's emotions. And it's understandable why, but I think they often overlo…
/r/MensRights25/12/24 03:26 AM
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I'm not a researcher, just a guy on reddit, so take my comment with the necessary amount of NaCl. The most common point of reference that I think people will be aware of regarding some of these themes will be Jordan Peterson, but I'm aware that he is a bit of a controversial figure these days so let me point you in the direction of other people who also support these positions on men and therapy. I think one of the most knowledgeable people currently talking about this issue is John Barry, who r…
/r/MensRights25/12/24 03:01 AM
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All I'm doing is agreeing with them. They're going to make the accusation anyway, regardless. Women's irrational fears and emotions aren't my responsibility.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/24 12:18 AM
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Bro— all I’m hearing is you’re a future predator, So this is no different from how society thinks of me anyway regardless of my actions. What impact would that statement have if it's the societal default anyway?
/r/EverydayMisandry23/12/24 11:45 PM
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If you're going to treat people like that, some are going to react.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/12/24 10:58 PM
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Fuck if I'm going to be treated as if I did it anyway I might as well. I spend my whole life being treated like a horrible predator regardless of my actions.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/12/24 10:35 PM
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Men's Rights is not politically ideological. Don't try to bring some left-right bs here.
/r/MensRights23/12/24 01:00 PM
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I'd fight for my brothers, not for my sisters. *Figuratively, not literally. I don't have literal sisters
/r/MensRights23/12/24 03:35 AM
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A lot of this concern is based out of the normalisation that the female way of dealing with emotional stimuli is the default correct way. There is plenty of research that demonstrates that women, on average, are more neurotic and more inclined to reflect on past experiences. There is also plenty of research that shows that talk therapy is far less useful for men than it is for women. My friend, if you want to help your brother, don't try to encourage him to relive his trauma. Give him a distract…
/r/MensRights23/12/24 02:40 AM
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Yeah, play them at their own game. Find a wealthy woman to marry, then divorce her and take half plus alimony.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 10:48 PM
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What sickens me about commentary around false allegations is the drivelling remarks of: false allegations harms "real victims" because it makes them less likely to come forward. No, ma'am, the "real victims" aren't the fictional ones you made up in your head. They are the men who have had their lives ruined because some woman wanted to feel power over them via the proxy of the state and society.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 09:32 AM
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In my country, we have this concept of men's sheds where men can come together to work on tasks as part of therapy. It might be worth looking into for him. Of course, if there's not one in the community, he could always start one himself. https://mensshed.org/about-mens-sheds/ Edit- I forgot to post the link.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 01:23 AM
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It might feel nice that someone has a voice that people are willing to listen to about male experiences, but I don't think trans men are going to be the best advocates for men's lives. Trans men may experience life like men, but this article makes it clear that they still think a lot like women. The solutions are still female oriented. "Be more like women." There's an underlying sexism that exists with this approach. Men are still deficient humans because they don't act like women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/24 03:52 AM
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Go on a holiday to a Polynesian island. No cultural stigma about traditional "dresses" there.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 10:12 AM
1

This is all self-interest. There's a lot of this bullshit around post-election. It is part driven by fear of the election results and part driven by a desire to appear virtuous. None of it has any real substance and needs to be called out for the bullshit it is.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/12/24 08:50 AM
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I'm pretty sure UN Women measure gender equality as women being equal to or better than men. That's how they define equality. If men are doing better unequal. If women are doing better equal. Even the most milquetoast feminist organisation wants to strive for female supremacy.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 08:33 AM
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I think you might be surprised. I've seen lots of gay men commenting/posting, and this sub is full of ex-feminists (a lot of them still trying to hold on to aspects of liberalism while the majority of the left keeps trying to push them away.)
/r/MensRights05/12/24 02:21 PM
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Go read the study you got the claim from. There's a reason this data wasn't previously included. I have no intention to minimize that. And yet you drop the manipulated statistic doing exactly that.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 09:00 AM
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The issue with this argument is that in order to get that outcome, you need to reclassify suicide attempts to include things that were never previously included. It is essentially a manipulation of data that came about to create this talking point. What the study did is add a third category into the literature, which is called something like non-serious suicide attempts. These are essentially attention seeking actions. And women vastly outnumber men in only this category. So prior to this manipu…
/r/MensRights03/12/24 08:24 AM
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my degree in psychology You should maybe look into The Prim Reaper on YouTube. https://youtube.com/@theprimreaper?si=gsDr275K1UkLEYfH She's doing a whole series reviewing the APA guidelines for men and boys. Among other psychology topics relating to male issues.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 08:02 AM
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Are these things you considered before approaching this sub reddit, or is this a result of speaking to people on here?
/r/MensRights03/12/24 06:20 AM
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a feminist (by it’s technical definition of believing in equality) What aspects of male disadvantage do you believe need to be fought for to achieve equality?
/r/MensRights03/12/24 05:39 AM
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I'm sceptical as to how this goes down. These things always end up being ways to blame men. Solutions to men's mental health is to be more like women. Solutions to men's problems are always men need to change/do better. These groups always get infiltrated to have a feminist perspective on solving men's issues.
/r/MensRights29/11/24 09:36 PM
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I think as men, we can understand why it's important not to presume guilt. Still, if guilt is found, I think she should be held fully accountable. It's perhaps concerning that she didn't reveal her trans status during the election process
/r/MensRights28/11/24 05:21 AM
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This is not just you. There's arguments that this is biologically/evolutionarily conditioned. That you are aware of it leaves you better than most.
/r/MensRights28/11/24 04:34 AM
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And now that women have successfully argued for "equal pay." The men now get paid the same amount for more work, as men play best of 5 sets and women play best of 3 sets.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/24 07:37 AM
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The "extreme" feminist are the ones writing all the theories and texts that the others are studying. They are feminism.
/r/MensRights24/11/24 06:29 AM
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I wonder if any of the men or boys consented to be a part of her Handmaid's Tale fan fiction?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 10:46 AM
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I've heard that apparently Nick Fuentes tweeted it, although I haven't seen it. Other than that, I have only heard it used on the "Whatever" podcast in reference to an argument being made to women achieving the vote but not being subject to the draft. Essentially, they can vote for war and not be subjected to fighting for it, which they claimed was essentially women being able to say your body, my choice to men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 09:37 AM
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men aren’t being enslaved and beat bc their men I'm pretty sure there's quite a lot of men in Russia and Ukraine who would consider their literal kidnapping in the name of conscription enslavement and beatings
/r/EverydayMisandry16/10/24 08:02 AM
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At least we don't get to see good counterpoints in the Jubilee video. It would be interesting to see if any of the participants do follow-up videos discussing what was cut, etc.
/r/MensRights30/09/24 09:54 AM
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I commented earlier that Jubilee seems to deliberately choose diverse "MRA's," but milktoast feminists. It seems like it tries to undermine consensus of opinion by choosing extremes. If it wanted to, Jubilee could just as easily throw a radfem or terf in among with the feminists which would make some of the feminists claims much harder to defend.
/r/MensRights30/09/24 09:39 AM
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He's more logical and informed than most of the other "MRA's" they have had on these type of debates.
/r/MensRights30/09/24 09:30 AM
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I think that's probably why Blue-Orange 22 doesn't get much air time
/r/MensRights30/09/24 09:16 AM
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I think there was far greater "diversity" of "men's rights activists" than there were feminists. If they wanted more equal diversity of feminist opinion they probably should have thrown a radfem or terf in there on the feminists side so they weren't all singing from the same song book and actually had to try to defend some of the horrible opinions those people have on that side. It's hard to try to argue that feminists don't hate men when you have someone radical amongst your group, revealing th…
/r/MensRights30/09/24 09:12 AM
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When I see incels being misogynistic, at least it makes sense How do men say such things to demonize their own gender? You notice anything here OP?
/r/EverydayMisandry24/09/24 10:14 AM
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Yeah, the boy scou-..., oh, never mind.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 10:06 AM
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India just seems like a feminist hellscape.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/09/24 08:56 AM
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They bring up male victims of SA, not when conversations about women happen, but when conversations about SA happen. The implication that conversations about SA are conversations about women demonstrates that these people don't believe males can be victims of SA.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/09/24 06:25 AM
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It's all hatred of men whichever side you look at it from
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/24 03:57 PM
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Can anyone share some links to examples of these? It would help in convincing some friends that the left only cares about men in so much as they're useful to them.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 09:16 AM
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Honestly, my response to shit like this these days is: I don't care. It doesn't involve me, and it doesn't affect me. It's not my problem to solve. This wasn't always my position, but it is now in today's society.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 10:40 AM
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Men's mental health, women most affected
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/24 06:21 AM
3

It sounds like Cindy might be struggling to find a man.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 09:54 AM
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I think a lot of women unknowingly disrespect their men by disrespecting the relationship. For some reason, too many women don't believe that seeking attention from other men is disrespectful to their relationship. And men absolutely do think this is disrespectful to both the relationship and themselves.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 09:15 AM
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Ask them to explain what they mean in detail? What do they mean by system? It sounds conspiratorial. How was this "system" set up? What was in place to allow the setting up of a "system"? What were/are the goals of this system, and how do we know? The "system" is an amorphous meaningless blob, which is why it seems so hard to challenge. When you prod for more details and these ideas need to be explained, they quickly start to fall apart.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 10:14 AM
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https://www.abc.net.au/news/2024-04-17/joel-cauchis-path-stabbing-attack-bondi-junction-shopping-centre/103728968
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/24 08:12 AM
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Didn't the guy have a prior diagnosis of schizophrenia and had come of his meds?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/24 08:10 AM
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but i wanted to ask what i can do as a feminist to further support men without hurting women? You're not the sharpest tool in the shed, are you.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:55 AM
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I would have just jumped in with agreement: "This does sound suspicious. There's no way he would have just meant that you're beautiful as a compliment. That's not even a true statement"
/r/MensRights01/04/24 12:05 AM
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Equality is understanding women can be just as shitty as men. You understand equality. She doesn't.
/r/MensRights30/03/24 11:33 PM
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If you choose a woman who really wants you, you risk disaster if you ever break up with her, and she goes crazy thinking about what she might lose.
/r/MensRights22/03/24 07:52 AM
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I'm pretty sure it's a privately owned museum that is publicly accessible. I don't expect anything to come of the case, but the discussion, language, and arguments around it are revealing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/24 12:17 AM
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I hate how, at least in my country, the term domestic violence has shifted into violence against women, sometimes violence against women and girls. It is a complete erasure of male victims, and it has been led by the feminist movement. It's clear as day to me that the feminist movement actively hates men and does not care at all for their suffering.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/24 11:00 PM
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I saw that it was a pattern that would continue to repeat in my professional life, and it wasn't something that I wanted to deal with
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/24 11:27 PM
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As a young adult male, I used to work with boys who were in government care. I worked as a male role model of sorts and assisted with care duties. We (myself, a senior female care worker, and 2 young brothers in our care) were at a park outing. I was accompanying one brother, and the other staff member was looking after the other brother in another part of the park. She messaged me and asked if I could come monitor both boys because she needed to use the bathroom. I came over and took over carin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/24 07:13 AM
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Yeah in gender studies in terms of intersectionality men are considered privileged over women. It's revealing how this comment relates to the next 3 responses. Like, it's so much easier to consider men as privileged if you never bother to consider the disadvantages they might suffer.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/24 06:47 AM
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This is the reason I left working in a care sector around children despite absolutely loving that work
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/24 06:11 AM
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Just point out how sexist it is to hold the position that adult women are not competent enough to make their own decisions over their own romantic life.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 02:30 AM
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The left started losing men once they started painting them as oppressors because of their gender. I'm sure that many contributors to this subreddit will confirm that.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 02:15 AM
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It is no wonder that young men are being pulled right by the likes of Joe Rogan Correct me if I'm wrong, but I was of the belief that Joe Rogan is not right-wing. Joe Rogan is a supporter of Bernie Sanders. The insistence of Joe Rogan being right-wing seems like a false equivalence of maleness and right-wing politics, which is particularly bizarre to see on this sub reddit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/24 07:22 AM
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Girls like this talk up their fear of guys and then go on multiple dates a week with total strangers. It's hard to believe their fears when they act so fearlessly.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 11:53 AM
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Start calling these women insecure. It's their favourite insult, but it's actually valid here.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 08:06 AM
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Men have a higher libido than women, and the sky is blue.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:25 AM
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Me too, now. I hope it's some good content.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 12:33 PM
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These women can only claim that women do most of the emotional labour because they have never been in a relationship with a woman. Women who complain about stuff like this live their entire lives complaining about things. It's all they ever do. And they expect everyone else to listen and tolerate their complaining. They expect everyone else to do the emotional labour of interacting with them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/23 12:44 AM
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If she wants to continue a friendship with you, then you should be clear about your experience and that her actions crossed a boundary of acceptable behaviour. Don't do this emotionally, but you should matter of factly point this out. Try to have some level of understanding, but don't allow behaviour that is damaging to you to permeate your life. As men, we are largely taught to not be a burden on others and to put others first. This leaves us with shitty lives and in positions where others don'…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 09:02 PM
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"Make a habit of asking him questions about what’s on his mind." Dear God, no. This is why women should just be more willing to listen rather than speak on men's issues.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 09:51 AM
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I'd say it says a lot about the type of people they hang around. They either know a lot of men with terrible character, or they know a lot of women with victim complexes.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 05:57 AM
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If innocent men went to prison, they would be the victim. This is where their ideology crosses beyond justice to discrimination. It's clear they don't believe men can be anything other than perpetrators, and women can only be victims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/23 12:09 PM
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Feminists will want you to believe that 95% of all "rapists" aren't convicted or charged, but also that false rape allegations are rare or a myth. What they're actually saying is that in the case of rape (at least when the perpetrator is male and the victim female), the accused should be guilty until proven innocent. Sexual assault and rape are hard crimes to prove, but that doesn't mean every case that is brought up is guilty. They assume the worst of men but never consider the possibility that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/23 06:00 AM
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If OP is going to look into it, she's best doing so with caution because there's a lot of bad faith literature out there on incels. I think Chris Williamson did a pretty good interview with Naama Kates. Although I think his reading on the topic is often from a position where someone like him would really struggle to relate.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 12:34 PM
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Yeah, but women don't realise it also works in the reverse. Those remarkable men don't see those women as anything more than a hole. They're no more than a hole cut into the wall of a bathroom stall. It doesn't matter what's on the other side or how the wall feels just as long as it gets me off.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 08:56 PM
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If they are making a claim, the onus is on them to prove said claim.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 12:37 PM
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I think you're meant to put /s at the end of a sarcastic post
/r/MensRights02/09/23 11:35 AM
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tackling sexual assault/rape investigations properly This mostly involves the presumption of guilt being placed on men. Feminists already go by the mantra of "believe all women." Well before it became a catchphrase feminists were touting claims that 'less than 5% of rapists are convicted' and the like. This type of statistic has to presume all rape claims are factual events instead of needing to be tested in a court of law to determine fact.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 07:40 AM
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I see a lot of discussion on this subreddit about Ukrainian conscription but little reference to Russian conscription. To be clear, I don't support military conscription, but I'm far more critical of conscription used to invade a foreign country than that which is used to defend home soil. To that extent, I'm surprised I don't see more criticism on this sub about Russian conscription than Ukrainian conscription.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 05:34 AM
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Because of the vast difference in the properties of the male and female training data in this 1994 census dataset, we need quite different thresholds to achieve demographic parity. Are they basing their calculations of 30 year old data?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/23 09:49 PM
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A lot of the reason for the imbalance in the social order that you're experiencing comes down to the implementation of the Duluth model. It essentially paints women as victims and men as perpetrators in intersexual violence. It's used in police training and underpins all sorts of social order organisations. If the culture identifies women as victims because of their gender they can't be held responsible for violent actions. Because you're a bigger guy (and because you're half black), it's easier…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 11:53 PM
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fans demand he be fired "or else". Fans? A handful of outspoken women who probably don't turn up to any games.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 01:54 PM
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a dislike of women, but one that you recognise is not rational However, I have just had so many negative personal experiences with the opposite sex that it's become a bit like the mythical dog that bites. When your hand's been snapped off too many times, it doesn't matter how many times people tell you dogs are cute and friendly, or indeed how often you observe the same dog being lovely and cuddly with someone else. They've bitten you so instinctively you're wary and react to them negatively. If…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 10:21 AM
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Honest question: Do you believe that we live in a patriarchy? I'm going to say that I do believe that society has been constructed as a result of patriarchy, but that patriarchy looks nothing like how feminists portray it. By patriarchy I am referring to a male-dominated society where males control majority of economic, religious, social, and political power. Society is the result of men civilising the world, and the biggest benefactors from a civilised world are women. Men still essentially phy…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 09:58 AM
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Have you shared this with your partner? Let her know that you don't think she/we did the wrong thing. You just are struggling to deal with it, and that struggle made you realise that she might also be struggling. You might be able to help each other work through it together. Make a vow to each other to work together to not be in that situation again. And to be able to help each other out if you start to feel that either of you are struggling. You might struggle to share with her your pain, but y…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 06:50 AM
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You tell him that, and he will be the happiest man on the planet. I'm sure you probably already do. And I'm sure he probably already knows it. Because for a man to work the hours he does, he needs the motivation in the understanding that his family acknowledges what he's doing. You sound like an amazing daughter. And I'm sure one day you will also make an amazing wife. Live in that confidence of who you are.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 03:55 AM
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It's weird that people don't see women who are stay at home wives/mums as being served by their husband. Your man will be working to be able to provide a lifestyle for you and for his family. Serving your man in your treatment of him is simply returning the favour of his service for you. There's a lack of appreciation that in those relationships, men are sacrificing a lot. They are often sacrificing time they would rather be spending with their kids and their wife to build a system that serves t…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 03:01 AM
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I don't think we should reduce male historical oppression down to war, either. I know that's not intended, but it so often seems like it's what many men immediately throw to. When the question of women's historical access to employed labour was given to me recently, I simply asked the women, which job in history would you have preferred women to have had equal access to? Is it ironmongery, coal miner, farm work, sewer worker, ...? The list of historical jobs weren't office based, comfortable rol…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/23 05:58 AM
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Sure, but if there is really a disjunction in relationships, which I'm not convinced there is, both men and women should reflect on their roles in forming relationships. If men are complaining about relationships, they should be reflecting on what they're offering as themselves to women, but it's not only men who are seemingly complaining. And so, if women are also complaining, they should also be reflecting on their role. What they're asking for from men, and what they're offering also. I think…
/r/MensRights14/08/23 09:35 AM
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is that women are hurt, it's men hurting women; but when men are hurt it's men hurting men. It's part of their 'men are always the villains' narrative. They'll even spin this narrative when it's women directly harming other women. Blaming patriarchy as the true villain. Point out to a woman that women are the ones enacting FGM, or that women do the majority of slut shaming, and it's swung around to the patriarchy without any evidence.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 04:02 AM
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I also understand that it’s customary for the man to pay for everything, Men paying for dates is only really customary in the US. It's far less common in Europe and Australia. I would suggest, though, that you do three things. Find cheaper options for first dates. Museums and galleries are a good option. Where I live, a lot of smaller galleries will have opening nights, and some will provide free booze. You can head to one, have a few drinks, and if things go well, grab a cheap eat somewhere on …
/r/MensRights12/08/23 11:33 PM
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I think it's mostly that men could be held responsible for financial debt, women couldn't.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/23 08:49 PM
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This exactly. They have based an entire relationship on deception. It's no wonder he's upset. She lied to him and chose to start a family under that lie. Of course, he's going to now have issues of trust.
/r/MensRights09/08/23 02:51 PM
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The subject is actually rather simple! Not for them if you're a straight A student with the capability to do independent research which challenges their propaganda orthodoxy.
/r/MensRights09/08/23 01:22 AM
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"Dudes like this will complain about safe spaces for marginalised groups and then cry about needing a men's only barber as if they need it for anything other than to talk shit about women and not be called out on their misogyny," another woman wrote. The hypocrisy in this comment is absurd. You know she absolutely advocates for "safe spaces for marginalised groups" and is now crying about a men's only barber
/r/MensRights08/08/23 09:05 AM
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It's also worth noting this stupid card game also had the #Whoruntheworld hashtag on it, which of course references the equally loathesome "girls run the world" slogan. Women discrediting their own patriarchy theory for empowerment points.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 05:10 AM
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I'm glad some people here are willing to talk about how bad first wave feminism was. I see too many off-hand comments from people talking about how: "First and second wave feminism was fine because they had good causes but modern feminism is terrible." Feminism has always been led by horrible man haters including first and second wave feminism. We need to be comfortable saying that.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 04:49 AM
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You could talk about the rape culture around male prison rape. How prison rape is a topic of humour. Try to find some examples of women (or even better feminists) joking about men's prison rape. If they're going to force you to study this you might as well drag them into it with you. There was a good post about prison rape jokes previously.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 11:43 PM
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The world of women who claim "Yes all men."
/r/MensRights05/08/23 01:14 PM
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"A lot of the time, it’s not even girlfriends that these guys want, it’s servants," Oloni continues. "They want someone to just say yes to them, which is very misogynistic and problematic." And we should just ignore that this is exactly what a lot of women want from real-life men, too. Men who just say yes to them and allow them to do whatever they want. Isolated men are clearly a target market, which has led to fears that the app could foster online incel culture, with possibly dangerous outcom…
/r/MensRights05/08/23 07:45 AM
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What would be the male equivalent of the Barbie movie Cancelled. It would be cancelled and never see daylight.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 06:45 AM
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Not just financially, either. Women absolutely objectify men for their physical appearance, as well. Men are just less likely to complain about being objectified in that way.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 06:41 AM
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I heard a good discussion once about how society's "objectification" of women actually leads to women's lack of accountability because an object is an inanimate entity and inanimate entities can't be held responsible for actions. The opposite of an object (female) is an agent (male). Agents are always seen to be imparting influence on the world and objects. Hence, men are always held responsible for all the ills of the world.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 12:15 PM
1

We don't have superintendents in my country.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/23 04:39 AM
1

Does the US school system have school principals? Or is that called a superintendent or something else?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/23 04:34 AM
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How about: "The School Principle"? Playing on the word and the job as a double meaning.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/23 04:34 AM
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I agree with you. Most men would prefer a partner in theory, but I think most men also know what goes into that process and what the reward is at the end of it. I think there are a lot of men who are just deciding the juice is not worth the squeeze. I think that's a rational decision.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 02:09 AM
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No worries
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/23 12:51 PM
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Hilary Clinton pushed for an invasion of Libya despite her male counterparts attempting to talk her out of it. South Korea's former female president was largely seen as a threat to diplomatic tensions between North and South Korea despite her male colleagues' attempts to mitigate her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/23 12:38 PM
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Has this person never heard of Margaret Thatcher or Hilary Clinton? A study of world leaders from like 14th C to the modern day found that women leaders are more likely to start war.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/23 12:05 PM
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It's only from memory, so I could be very wrong here, but I recall reading a post, perhaps done by @thetinmen, that stated 1 in 500 men will be convicted of committing a violent crime in their lifetime. So, if you were to specify the crime of rape as opposed to all violent crimes, the number would be a fraction of that figure. I believe that the same post also quoted criminals as stating that their morals would prohibit them from committing acts of crime on women and children.
/r/MensRights03/08/23 06:18 AM
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Breaking the glass ceiling* *to drop bombs on conscripted men
/r/MensRights03/08/23 12:10 AM
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A lot of men are often a slave to their desires, whether it's porn, AI, or just women. Men need to learn that control of their desires, and that's often a lot less costly to do it with porn than it is with women in real life. Having an addiction to porn or AI can be terrible, but the wrong woman can take you for a lot more than porn often will.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:51 PM
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I'm thinking in terms of MGTOW. I can't comprehend people who pay for stuff like OnlyFans. That shit has never made sense to.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:45 PM
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That's what I'm saying. You have to consider that problematic premise as one of the options to draw your conclusion. My point is not that men are driven by sex but that they are choosing a near neutral outcome (AI or online porn) over a negative one (a relationship with a destructive woman).
/r/MensRights01/08/23 01:12 PM
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It suggests that men will take a near neutral outcome over a negative/destructive one. You have to first consider men as driven by sex and women as incapable of contributing destructively or negatively to a relationship before that's the only conclusion left.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 01:03 PM
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You ask them why is it a societal problem when women choose low income jobs like nursing, teacher, and hair dressers, but men's choice when it comes to dangerous jobs? It's an unequal double standard that she is applying to females' benefit. Not much for gender equality.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 12:38 PM
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Men don't ask for much from their partners. Women are currently losing out to online porn and will soon be losing out to AI. Imagine being a real-life woman and realising you're not enough to out compete AI or digital porn. Sometimes, you live in such a world of delusion, but life will eventually give you a reality check.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 12:25 PM
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I'm with you both. A former (maybe still) leftist who has been excluded from discussion by outspoken extremists and those who support them because they don't want to challenge what they're told to think. The thing is, I have seen only here that discussions of gender don't need to be ideologically aligned. It's only the men's rights community that seems to understand this, though.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 12:03 PM
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All the quotes from the article are taken from very young or very immature women. I haven't seen the Barbie movie yet, but from all the reviews I have seen, the movie looks like a good opportunity to talk with women about the problematic portrayals of feminism. I'm wondering if many men's rights advocates are missing an opportunity here to confidently challenge feminism. I don't think we need to do it in a complaining way, I think we can just go to the movie and when it's finished just tell the …
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:21 AM
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Have you got any good studies with reference to that? It seems counterintuitive and doesn't seem like it would track with an evolutionary biological perspective.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 08:13 AM
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"It has been proposed that Barbieland is a matriarchy, but I would argue that their attitude to Kens is instead indifference." From her very description of the movie setting only a paragraph or two earlier: "BARBIES HOLD ALL POSITIONS OF POWER." (Caps my emphasis) F#$King hell, Lucy! Do you ever bother to proofread your own drivel? Also, "Barbieland, where (almost) everyone is happy"? Nice job of just ignoring the feelings of half the population there as insignificant. These "gender studies" ass…
/r/MensRights29/07/23 02:41 AM
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There's no superintendent in Australian schools. OP's best option is his local state representative and then go from there.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 02:04 PM
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should have a primary and secondary contact The school should just be able to have two primary contacts. That would be an outcome based in equality.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:58 PM
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It's a pretty simple process. You add an extra address to emails you send out. This isn't a big change. All students should have both parents as email contacts and the option to have two physical addresses as contacts.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:31 PM
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Contact your local state politician. Whether they are a party you align with or not, they are your local representative on issues like this. If you don't get the response you want from them, use it as an opportunity. Contact a state senate member from an opposition party and let them know what happened. Politicians are self-serving and are looking for opportunities to pressure their opposites. Use that to your advantage. This is an opportunity for actual men's rights advocacy and bloody hell we …
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:27 PM
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From my experience, my only recommendation would be to be true to yourself, but don't beat yourself up on it.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:03 PM
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but by saying that it hurts our feelings. This realies on feminists empathy towards men. I wouldn't count on that as the best solution. Feminists have trained themselves to see men's hurt feelings as signs of their success. I think it would be better to reference boys. Saying it hurts my feelings has less of an impact than I see the damage this language has on my nephew/son, etc. claim that the only people who interpret the word in this way are reactionary alt-right lunatics. This argument is th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 11:13 AM
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Why is it expected that I act in a way that is absolutely not reciprocated. So much for a shared humanity. When I start to see feminists call out misandry in the public sphere, I will again start to call out misogyny where and when I see it. I'm not planning on holding my breath waiting, though.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 04:06 AM
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It's fine to cut her out, but tell her why you're doing it and what your expectations are if she wants to come back into your life.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 10:18 PM
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The feminists paradox of demanding "equal" pay but also demanding a partner who earns substantially more than them.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 05:44 AM
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How many other guys do you think she's pulling this same bullshit with? She's a black hole to your time, energy, and soon to be your money if you continue. You could spend those things much more wisely. End it with her, but take the satisfaction in telling her why. Let her know that no level of superficial beauty can mask the ugliness of her values and ethics. Tell her that she has shown herself not to be worth the meagre sum of $40. Walk away with the confidence of knowing that you turned her d…
/r/MensRights19/07/23 07:13 AM
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It's going to start to change once they are continually the target of that hate.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 05:18 AM
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I'm in Australia too. One thing I've noticed a lot lately that I absolutely hate is that the term "domestic violence" or "intimate partner violence" is slowly but seemingly being replaced with the term "violence against women". I hate this term because it removes male domestic violence victims from the discussion. Male victims already have enough issues with acceptance, false accusations, and the like. The last thing they need is to be further ignored and removed from the discussion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/23 09:48 AM
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Soon domestic violence will actually be gendered violence in the true sense. It's already happening in Australia, where all major institutions are renaming "domestic violence" as "violence against women."
/r/MensRights14/07/23 12:14 AM
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This is the reason I gave up a job in the HEAL sector early in my life. I worked as a respite care worker for children with disabilities. It was a great and rewarding job apart from the accusations of being a paedophile. I left the sector and now work in architecture.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 12:27 PM
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I'll start buying into all these women's opinions on masculinity when I see some actual honest reflection for the role that feminism and women have played in "masculinity's crisis." It's all just empty words, avoiding responsibility, and victim blaming.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 12:19 PM
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Men need to do more “whining”. “Whining” gets shit done. Whining works for women. Whining doesn't work for men because it comes off as feminine, and society detests men who don't live up to masculine expectations. It becomes a catch 22. Men can't whine because whining men are detestable and not worth listening to, and men who don't whine don't make their problems heard.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 11:14 PM
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Your understanding of the situation is embarrassingly rudimentary and misguided. Ukrainian men are defending their freedom and democratic right in their country. The disparity between democracy and authoritarianism is vast. There's a reason why emigration essentially operates in one direction towards the democratic West.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 01:48 PM
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But look at the amount backlash Harry styles or Drake gets for merely wearing nail polish? I think at least a decent aspect of this backlash is less about what Harry Styles or Drake wears and, more so, the celebration of it in contrast to the hatred pointed at traditional masculinity. Don't try to tell me that wearing nail polish or a dress somehow makes a man a better person.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 11:54 AM
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At least in russia men are still respected more. Maybe you haven't seen how Russia treats men in its military.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 11:42 AM
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It's women telling on themselves for their inability to do things like change a car tyre, take out rubbish, or mow the lawn.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 02:36 AM
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Men, myself included, need to get more comfortable with female discomfort. It's clear as day that women and feminists in particular, have very little concern with male discomfort. Men should not be granting women privileges they themselves don't receive. The standard response to women expressing discomfort in men's presence should be: "I don't care" or "so what." It's not my responsibility to always ensure the complete comfort of women in my vicinity.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 06:02 AM
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I wonder how she'd reply if you pointed out the female privilege in the typically more relaxed dress codes for women
/r/MensRights06/07/23 05:48 AM
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Imagine the amount of egotism to write this drivel.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 09:46 PM
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Earlier at my bookstore job today having to help a customer look for a book in the gender studies section (which surprise, only includes books about women) seeing these terms on more than a few of them. I wonder how we as a community go about diversifying the books in that section to include more books from a male perspective?
/r/MensRights27/06/23 03:33 AM
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Reporting it will also give you an opportunity to see how HR handles an issue that negatively affects men. That perspective could be useful later down the track or might be useful in altering their existing benchmark on issues affecting men.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 06:28 PM
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I often use a website called 12 foot wall to bypass pay walls. It doesn't always work but it worked here
/r/MensRights19/06/23 05:43 AM
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Additionally, I'd say what you are missing is that the Men's Rights community is incredibly diverse. A large portion of the community are members who previously were feminists so they have previously engaged with feminist positions previously and in good faith. Despite common misperception, the Men's Rights community is not politically right leaning. It is politically unaligned. Evidence in the Left Wing Male Advocates group. As I have already pointed out, and you have acknowledged, the Men's Ri…
/r/MensRights18/06/23 11:33 PM
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Disagreement does not equal closemindedness. I don't have to agree with you to have an open mind.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 10:57 PM
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The very fact that you're free here to repeatedly spout your propaganda and men are consistently banned from feminists subs for raising MRA discussions is evident that feminists are not as open to discussions as MRA's are.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 09:02 PM
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Men's problems are men's responsibility. Women's problems are also men's responsibility.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 02:45 AM
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Congratulations on starting something great. You don't need to tick every box. Start a conversation on the most appropriate topic or two for your audience. You will have years ahead to expand the conversation and bring others into the discussion to continue this legacy. Make sure your talk is referenced well. Don't tolerate people trying to derail the conversation, feminists wouldn't, and we shouldn't either. If they do, use it as an example of how poorly men's issues are treated. Best of luck, …
/r/MensRights16/06/23 12:53 PM
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This shouldn't be a party partisan issue. It's so unfortunate that it is
/r/MensRights15/06/23 02:23 AM
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You could maybe encourage them to be more inclusive next year and have them ask of "everyone" how they may be able to more positively contribute to the mental health of the men around them. You should call it out. Just do it in a productive and non-confrontational way. When I was teaching and critiquing student work, senior staff talked about giving feedback as a shit sandwich. Praise, criticism, praise. Telling just men to assess their mental health on men's mental health week is, at best, a jo…
/r/MensRights15/06/23 12:27 AM
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All good suggestions. Get him looking after himself and get him socialising.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 05:00 AM
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It just goes to show that even supporting feminists ideas of "positive masculinity" like wearing dresses in public and painting your nails won't keep you safe from false allegations.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 06:01 AM
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I would suggest you ask if she believes in equal pay. If she believes in being paid equally, why doesn't she believe in contributing equally? It seems like an anti-feminist position to take to believe that women are not capable of making equal contributions. My policy is that I don't pay for any dates for any women who, one, haven't yet demonstrated that they deserve to be treated to that and, two, are dating or talking to other men. If you want to be treated as special first, you need to be spe…
/r/MensRights10/06/23 05:48 AM
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People who say this refuse to acknowledge the emotional labour they exert onto others.
/r/MensRights09/06/23 03:16 AM
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Do you have a source? I'd be curious to look into it. I think there's a similar movement in Australia, but I don't think it's feminists led.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 09:06 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 02:47 PM
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I didn't know we had a Mens Rights Australia. Thanks for that. Neither did I. I'm assuming it's a subreddit? I'll have to look it up. I did know about these groups existing in Australia, but I don't use dating apps. I will support the effort to get rid of them, though.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 02:36 PM
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Is there anyone in the family who can bat on your behalf? Maybe a brother in law, a father in law or someone else? If you could drop a hint to someone who might be favourable to you, then you might be able to start cracking the door open to her considering your side of the situation. It sounds like there is absolutely no scope for you to approach it directly with her, but maybe just indirectly might help. Don't even be direct with them. Just start a conversation about how you would have loved to…
/r/MensRights07/06/23 02:16 PM
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That's the one. Thanks for that.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 02:07 PM
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which is not always planned.' And on this point. Let's not ignore that women have vastly more say on the outcomes and planning of pregnancy than men do. Men's experience post conception is pro-life. Pro-choice is only offered to women. Women who also have more say than men pre-conception as well. They know their cycle, they know if they are taking the pill, they know if we are wearing a condom (outside of instances like stealthing that are classified as rape)
/r/MensRights07/06/23 02:06 PM
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'the gender wage gap exists because women have to take time off work for pregnancy, which is not always planned.' What this really shows is that in our society, it is still typically women, particularly women of higher income families, that have the privilege to be able to take on the role of full time primary care givers. That is because women still mostly marry and partner with men who are higher earners than themselves. A lot of the time, these partnerships are highly successful men and women…
/r/MensRights07/06/23 01:59 PM
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I came here to say this, but it never would have been as concise and well referenced as you have done here. Thanks
/r/MensRights07/06/23 01:05 PM
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This would require the utmost stoicism and calmness. The media and society will look for any minor instances to discredit the incident. It would also require the most non-threatening cause possible and then hope the whole thing isn't just roundly ignored. The incident that springs to my mind here is the young college man who wanted to attend the seminar on men's mental health to find out why his friends committed suicide. I believe it might have been in Canada and was maybe shown in the red pill…
/r/MensRights07/06/23 07:10 AM
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Accusation of rape between parliamentary staff members in national parliament house inside MP's office outside of business hours.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 06:38 AM
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Is this womansplaining?
/r/MensRights07/06/23 05:59 AM
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Men don't have the same in-group bias that women have. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15491274/ Men are evolutionarily designed to protect women. Women have no equivalent evolutionary drive
/r/MensRights03/06/23 09:04 AM
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Society's internalised misandry if you will.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 10:20 AM
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So, the argument is that the AI isn't discriminatory against men. It's just a reflection of a society that is discriminatory against men.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 10:19 AM
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Your brother should make sure he gets this privately agreed amount in writing or documented that it's for child support. His ex could turn around and claim it was a gift and have him owing back pay through the courts years down the track if they ever get into a disagreement. I've seen too many men here posting that they have found themselves in that situation. He should get legal advice.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:53 AM
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Not much more than a troll, hey. Anyway, no point continuing a conversation with someone like yourself who denies my experience and gaslights to the extreme.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/23 07:07 AM
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In personal conversations, it happens quite regularly. It's almost guaranteed if they know that I support men's rights. It should seemingly be something feminists should support, but it seems like anything related to men gets a reactionary opposition from most feminists regardless of what it is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/23 02:49 AM
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I think you've just nailed the experience of a lot of men. Can't speak on issues that affect you as a man personally because of social ramifications, but I am expected to acknowledge personal privilege and accept public discussion of how terrible men are in general.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/23 07:06 AM
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According to the book, women are outperforming men. So yes, I would say women should not need to be given any advantages
/r/MensRights24/05/23 03:31 AM
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You should introduce her to "The End of Men" by Hanna Rosin. Tell her to start paying for those dates from now on
/r/MensRights24/05/23 03:05 AM
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Has she ever paid for you?
/r/MensRights24/05/23 03:03 AM
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I just read a review of the book. Seemingly, it's an argument for how women have won the gender war. If that's the case, I might as well start letting women pay for the first date.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 02:31 AM
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I'll be looking forward to using Hanna Rosin as a reason why women should pay on the first date
/r/MensRights24/05/23 01:29 AM
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When I usually get dressed in the morning, I also put on a safety layer, over the top of my underwear, that I would usually wear out if it wasn't so unsafe.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 01:15 AM
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It gives us white men special powers through sunburn from trips to the beach. It's how the patriarchy is imbued onto us
/r/MensRights24/05/23 01:03 AM
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Both conservatives and liberals are cucks. Men need to be careful with who we're voting for and who is being put into positions to run regardless of party affiliation
/r/MensRights21/05/23 06:06 AM
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I don't think we need to as men. I know there has been a lot of talk on here on how to counter the injustice that this represents. I can understand that. I've thought about it myself and have also engaged with it, but honestly, I think we should take it as a benefit. The type of women on the pages sounds like the type of women who would absolutely make a false accusation against you. Count yourself lucky that you may be avoiding associating with the worse women out there. Call them out on their …
/r/MensRights20/05/23 02:31 AM
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Probably for the better. I wouldn't want to date a girl who engages with rumour spreading, gossip, and character defamation. These types of women are the definition of toxic female behaviour. Consider yourself lucky to find out early. I think your best option is to let the woman in question know that on further reflection, it's probably for the better that you discontinue any relationship for the above-mentioned reasons (you don't need to call her toxic, just say you think it's best to not engag…
/r/MensRights20/05/23 01:51 AM
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I think it's multifaceted, and I think all those you have mentioned have certainly played a role. I think men should also seek to create and hold onto male only spaces. There has been a push to remove male only spaces. I think male only spaces have been painted as brewing toxic masculinity. I don't think we should just stand back and watch these spaces disappear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/23 09:28 AM
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I think the trads are very much about two parent families. Dads don't have to play the exact same roles as mums, but a dad that only contributes a wage is barely any better than a child support payment. No father wants his role reduced to a wallet. I think you could easily get trads on board considering the impact that not having a father in the household has on children's likelihood of avoiding jail and going to college.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/23 04:09 AM
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Absolutely. That's why I'm so in favour of him. You just don't see it from feminists is all I'm saying. And they're the biggest voice for gender pay "equality"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/23 01:36 AM
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The usual solutions from most feminists for addressing the maternal pay gap are to provide better solutions that stop women from falling behind through the process of child bearing, but I think a better solution is to encourage more male involvement in the home. Give men greater time to take paternity leave. Encourage more part-time work for fathers. Feminists complain about men not contributing to the family and household in the ways they do, but they never want to allow men to do so.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/23 12:55 AM
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Brie Larson's new role should just be announcing and handing out all future awards to Johnny Depp and other falsely accused men.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 05:50 AM
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"Men are clearly just so much more violent than women." Men just have more capacity to commit violence than women. I think this is evident in dv statistics. Men are not overwhelmingly the perpetrators, but when they act, greater damage is inflicted. Let's not hide the idea that what stops a lot of women is simply the fact that they're physically weaker.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 06:34 AM
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I wonder what would happen if you created a similar FB page called something like: "Who's on AWDTSG city" and then start posting accounts and copies of what's been posted? Do it all under throwaway accounts. At worst, the page gets taken down and again exposes FB anti-male bias. Alternatively, it becomes a tool for men to fight back and expose what's going on.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 07:07 AM
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"Mr Embery claims he will receive just under £10,000, all of which will be donated to groups campaigning to defend women's sex-based rights." She labelled him a creep, a misogynist, and a liar. The girls on the carriage threatened him with violence. And he is still donating the money to defend women's sex-based rights.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 02:36 PM
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I can only speak for myself, but I think most men genuinely want long-term, committed, monogamous relationships. However, a long-term, committed, monogamous relationship goes against men's inate biological reproductive strategy. Where women will usually be very selective in regards to sex, men will usually be very selective in regard to monogamy. especially if they have large sexual access. Men, by and large, want the satisfaction of a fulfilling relationship, but in the meantime, we have a much…
/r/MensRights09/05/23 01:31 AM
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Men are also, by far, the major recipients of awards for bravery. I think, from memory, in Carole Hooven's book "Testosterone," it was given as >95%, which means men are the most dangerous, but also the safest people to have around. So, how do you square that circle?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/23 11:43 PM
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Are those not often gender-based? There's an argument to be made that instances of workplace injury and suicide are gender based violence considering the disproportionate effect it has on men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/23 11:27 PM
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while women may be victim to sexual violence more often, it still has happened a decent amount to men as well. I would posit that male sexual violence in war is largely classified under torture and hence probably doesn't even show in data as sexual violence. The type of criminals that would rape or sexually abuse women in war are the same people who would use sexual violence to humiliate and torture men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/23 11:23 PM
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Just show him this post. Most men are anxious about marriage because they are aware that society doesn't consider the male experience as worthy of concern, and because of this, when marriage fails, men routinely get screwed over. Most men want a loving, committed relationship with a woman who treats them well and wants to understand their experience. The fact that you have sought out understanding separates you from most of the women that men have concerns with.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:56 AM
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I left a job I really enjoyed because of this. Society isn't capable of dealing with male vulnerability, nor is it capable of maturely handling male interactions with children.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:48 AM
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I couldn't imagine any reason why he'd turn down such a classy catch like that.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 12:48 AM
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I used to work with children as a respite carer. Some of the nicest, although disadvantaged (and sometimes troubled), kids. There were always two of us on staff. Typically, a younger person often acting as a male role model for the boys and a more experienced staff member with a nursing background. Once while we were looking after a pair of brothers at the park. The more senior member messaged me to see if I could bring the brother I was with over and mind both brothers because she needed to use…
/r/MensRights02/05/23 01:41 AM
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People often say that men find it difficult to open up emotionally, but I think in reality, men just find it difficult to find someone who is willing to listen with an understanding mind. It sounds like you have that understanding, and no doubt that's why you have found a good man. It is, unfortunately, too rare these days.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 03:48 AM
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This is what happens when feminists speak on men's behalf. They make it about themselves and ignore what men actually experience.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 09:44 AM
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Could do, at least in my country, with legislating more paternity leave. Previous laws were 18 weeks maternity and 2 weeks paternity. Laws have changed recently to 20 weeks split between partners. I'm not convinced this will improve outcomes for fathers.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 06:46 AM
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I'm not at all fussed by this decision. I'm just looking forward to watching it flop
/r/MensRights27/04/23 01:11 AM
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Yeah, ChatGPT fan fiction involving co-workers is absolutely crossing a line. Although, it's probably just going to get laughed off if you were female, but that's just how it goes.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 12:37 AM
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Yes, but to me, it's bigger than the handful of women who make false accusations. The real problem is the societal overturning of the presumption of innocence, if society ever lived by that rule beyond a court of law. The assumption of guilt by society can destroy a man before he's even had his day in court, and even if he gets proven innocent, it doesn't change the narrative.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 04:49 AM
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The problem I so frequently find with this question is that it's asked of women who have never considered the male experience. In doing so, they only think about things that benefit them. It was once put to me that it was beneficial to men that they could now enjoy pink, fruity cocktails at bars 😑 And this is so similar to a lot of the other emasculating suggestions. They predominantly benefit women's fear of being the physically weaker sex. Yes. It is good that men have more freedom to express …
/r/MensRights24/04/23 04:44 AM
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The thing I don't like about the way so many of the stats are talked about is that it seemingly follows the narrative of guilty until proven innocent. Although, I shouldn't be surprised. Approx. 2-10% are known false accusations. Approx. 2% of accusations end in a guilty verdict. Approx. 35% are never pursued. Why is the assumption that all the 88% that don't end up with a guilty verdict or known to be a false accusation, plus the 35% that are never pursued, are actual cases of rape rather than …
/r/MensRights24/04/23 04:10 AM
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I don't think I've read something written so well in quite some time. It's grounded, it's rational, and it's balanced. This below quote though stands out even above everything else you've written. It's one of those things that is just so self-evident that the brilliance of it is easy to overlook. The fact is that I have so rarely heard a woman define this so well. I've had some men in my life who have harmed me, and I've been working really hard to realize that those men were toxic because of wh…
/r/MensRights22/04/23 02:00 PM
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And then suggested that they shouldn't use a blind process in the future because it won't give the outcomes they desire
/r/MensRights20/04/23 11:59 PM
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OP is probably also likely going to encounter a number of comments from non-MRA's/feminists as this sub tends to not ban anyone simply because they have a differing opinion, unlike like some other subs do.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:59 AM
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Statistics for awards for acts of bravery are like +95% men
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:46 AM
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The US perception of black is just as bad. So many see black as a monolith simply defined by colour. Black diversity in Africa is enormous. You're right it's people that define diversity through skin colour rather than culture that are only barely a step above actual racists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 01:08 PM
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local RM Williams watering hole I'm not sure how universal this reference is, but I appreciate it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 12:58 PM
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it makes me feel like an almost second class citizen being denied the right to participate in politics because I don't have the right background. It feels that way because that is exactly what is happening. The extremes of left-wing politics aren't immune to authoritarianism, and I'd say authoritarianism is increasingly entering into left-wing politics. It's why I don't label myself as associated with left-wing politics anymore. No doubt your ex sees the men's rights movement as a "dangerous bun…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 12:53 PM
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This is for everything, not just men's rights. Avoid engaging with the extreme perspective and try to see the best possible view of the alternative perspective
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/23 05:33 AM
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I hate how in this country (Australia) there is a concerted push to just erase any thought that men may be victims of dv. I hate how they have changed the language from "domestic violence" to "violence against women" at times adding children but always erasing men. These people are propagandists. There's no grey area or nuance. It's all exclusively one-sided. And then they wonder why so much of the public is pushing back against their narrative. They act confused at how someone like Tate could g…
/r/MensRights30/03/23 06:41 AM
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I don't think that I'm at all an exception. I think men don't value looks any higher than women. And I think it's a misreading to say that they do. So often, many women have a laundry list of physical desirabilities in the men that they seek. Height, body shape, skin colour, etc. We overlook this drive in women and focus on it in men because of our gamma bias. We need to consider that the vast majority of divorce is initiated by women, and the number one reason given for divorce is not to do wit…
/r/MensRights29/03/23 09:30 PM
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I don't think most men marry for looks, not smart and mature ones anyway. Men marry women they can trust and respect, and with whom they want to start a family. If men married for looks a lot of women that are single but crazy would be married.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 03:41 AM
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“not up for debate” People who respond to topics of discussion like this are authoritarian by nature. They're not good people
/r/MensRights17/03/23 11:03 AM
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My friend @JamesSmithPT is the guy that you're looking for
/r/MensRights12/03/23 08:23 AM
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Wasn't there a whole thing a few years back about women trying to meet a partner in the supermarket? It's apparently the hardware shop these days.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 05:55 AM
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Whether it's the woke left or the conservatives, it doesn't matter. They're simps all the way to the top.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 12:58 PM
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You know it's all just cope from those women that post stuff like that. They fear being left alone if men do go their own way, so they try to pretend that not only are they absolutely, 100% totally fine with the idea, bur they're so fine, and definitely not threatened, by it that they're totally doing it themselves also. It's just not discussed because patriarchy or some bullshit. When I see stuff like this, I just pity those types of women because they can see the writing on the wall, but they'…
/r/MensRights06/03/23 12:48 PM
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Isn't this just a sign that there is more suitable mental health support for women then men?
/r/MensRights04/03/23 08:36 AM
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That's a fantastic effort. You should be very proud of being able to achieve that for yourself. For me, I'm more interested in someone's attitudes towards health and their motivation to look after themselves. I'm far more accepting of someone who is more curvy if they are in the gym. It's when they have the attitude that everyone should celebrate them being overweight and that their weight should be inconsequential to them getting what they want that it annoys me.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 07:05 AM
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You should be able to expect the standard you set for yourself, or close to it, without being shamed.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 06:34 AM
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I'm not saying that I shouldn't have standards for who I want to be with. It just seems like most women aren't understanding what men want in a long term committed partner. As you have said. It means that the type of women that meet these standards are very limited, and if I'm not willing to accept less than that (which I won't) then it's very challenging to find someone.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 05:39 AM
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Why do men feel like no one care about how they feel? Kevin Samuels?
/r/MensRights01/03/23 05:05 AM
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Let's be honest, when women have sexual relations with men under the legal age of consent, it still mostly isn't a thing.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 12:39 PM
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I'm in Sydney, thankfully. I'm sorry for what your friend is going through, though.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 11:58 AM
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I'm a 39 year old male and it sounds like you could be describing my life. I slept around a bit in my teens and 20's I've had a few relationships but to be honest none that really felt like it would last. I'm not so interested in just sleeping around anymore but the women I pursue always turn out to be not worth the effort. Now that I'm seriously looking for a long term partner, suitable women seem invisible. Maybe, I have just lifted my standards because I'm taking dating seriously now.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 04:42 AM
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Maybe my voting record would indicate that I am politically left leaning, but I find many of those analyses mostly useless, and I find myself dismayed by those that identify ideologically.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 09:46 PM
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Oh, yeah. You'll still need to look for those opportunities to be useful but at least you'll hit that itch to be regularly doing something that feels masculine, and it's good for you. That side bar comment is an interesting thought. I've never thought about it in that way. I do think more men should be encouraged to engage in exploring their masculinity. I'm not against guns per se, even though I do see how when used incorrectly or with accidental use, or even during times of a crisis, they can …
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:03 AM
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You should work out. I have just started doing so this year and I get that same feeling after lifting weights. I walk home with a sense of pride when I feel good for what I have achieved in the gym. And it feels awesome when there are other men encouraging each other. Lifted a PB this morning and felt like I might be able to do more. I've been on a high all day.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 04:25 AM
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As someone in Australia, what club did this happen at? I want to do all I can to avoid these types of situations
/r/MensRights27/02/23 03:11 AM
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Report it to the police, ask to access surveillance footage. Hold on to any evidence of previous false accusation. Start building as much evidence as possible. Speak to a lawyer.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 02:07 AM
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I would suggest Testosterone by Carole Hooven. It's an interesting insight into the role that the hormone plays in affecting the way men think and operate. It's maybe less straight down the line in terms of men's rights but probably a good book for most women to read.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 01:56 AM
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"From the article 89.5% of design directors are male, which could be one of the reasons that brand identities mostly consist of male characters." or I don't know maybe most of the businesses founders were men. Maybe men took the risk of creating a business put in the hard work to make it successful and the brand identity is a reflection of that individual.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 01:51 AM
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If you're unsure about whether you should drop your friends or not the best way might be two fold. 1. Set yourself up with an active social life outside of these friends so you feel independent of their friendship. 2. Bring up that their comments are offensive. That these comments would not be tolerated in any other setting and shouldn't be tolerated just because they are made towards men. If your friends handle you pulling them up on this bullshit well. Then you might be able to enact change an…
/r/MensRights27/02/23 01:23 AM
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I read a book called Testosterone by Carole Hooven. It's not specifically focused on Men's Rights but might give you some insight into the male experience through looking at how hormones affect men differently to women. It's very interesting
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/23 12:43 AM
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Hint: the moderate feminists are the same people as the trolls and body shamers.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 02:58 AM
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Have you read much about what is coming out about the Tavistock Clinic in the UK. I think there is reason to be concerned. Not that transgender individuals don't exist, or don't have a right to exist and access affirming healthcare, but some of the culture around trans-identity needs a closer and more cautious examination.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 12:41 AM
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Can you report it at all? Not that it would necessarily lead to action, but we should all be reporting this sort of hate regardless of gender
/r/MensRights11/02/23 04:55 AM
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Just be clear and direct with him. Tell him that you support him but that you're not romantically interested in him. Whatever signals you think you're giving are evidently not clear enough. Use your words, not hints.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 04:51 AM
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Oh no. There is never that much concession. You'd be lucky to get even 2 concessions in any discussion in the public sphere before you are shamed and insulted on mass into submission or distraction and the point is ignored completely so the lie can continue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/23 02:39 AM
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I don't at all blame you. I'm in the same boat. It's unfortunate that having an opinion that differs from others, not because it's offensive but just because it is formed from another perspective, comes with the risk of potential social ostracisation.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 01:43 AM
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Chris Williamson did an interesting interview with Dr John Barry recently regarding this subject. It's worth a watch. https://youtu.be/z9t147FrV4Y
/r/MensRights21/01/23 12:08 AM
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I'll give you another confusing/frustrating thing that feminism does, whether consciously or not. It aims to win arguments through shaming the opposing view into silence. This doesn't convince anyone to change their opinions they just go elsewhere to express it. You end up with outcomes like Andrew Tate and the worse aspects of anti-women forums.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 09:51 AM
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Interestingly, isn't this also what happened at the Salem witch trials. Young women fabricating lies to have people they didn't like falsely accused of witchcraft and punished. You know the witches that feminists are always aligning themselves with.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 03:18 AM
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Past actions is the best indicator of future actions
/r/MensRights20/01/23 02:56 AM
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The reporting in that guardian article is atrocious. He was found not guilty in the re-trial but they are still reporting her as a victim and implying guilt onto him in doing so
/r/MensRights18/01/23 02:06 AM
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Personally, I don't think overturning Roe vs Wade has anything to do with Men's Rights. Men's Rights is not explicitly conservative or progressive. The overturning of Roe vs Wade, as far as I'm aware, was led by the conservative political movement. To try to pin this on men or the Men's Rights community is exactly what the feminists movement would prefer. Whether you agree or disagree with the decision is not a result of the Men's Rights movement. Disclaimer: I'm not from the US so apologies if …
/r/MensRights17/01/23 09:40 PM
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I absolutely support this position but have you tried expressing it to other feminists? I wouldn't expect you to get much support for your stand for equality unfortunately.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 10:29 PM
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I understand that with my issues, I wouldn't be a good partner. A good partner is just someone who loves and cares for the person they are with. Don't let anyone tell you that you're not capable of being a good partner. It's unfortunate that more women don't recognise that this is what's most important. A good woman will acknowledge this and will love you if this is what you offer to her
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:14 AM
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Health, family, money 39
/r/MensRights13/01/23 02:02 AM
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Dad bods are just burly men to most women. They're not overweight unfit men. They are big, strong men that aren't stripped of fat. Women aren't thinking of Danny DeVito or Drew Carey when they talk about Dad bods they're talking about someone like Vince Vaughan or Chris Pratt, tall burly men. I've even heard women claim Jason Momoa as having a dad bod.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 10:21 PM
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I'm sure there's some qualitative research out there. I'm pretty sure I've heard of first hand accounts of men stating that without the existence they "wouldn't have been here." I think as a means of therapy, for a lot of men, a men's shed would be a far better option than an expensive psychological appointment with some stranger, probably a women, who just says sit down and tell me about your problems.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:18 PM
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I saw this too earlier today. I left a comment of a single similar experience I've had. I'm half concerned that I might receive some negative responses. You never know how some people will twist things to try to make the guy out to be in the wrong
/r/MensRights08/01/23 10:41 AM
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In my country there's a program called Men's Sheds. Typically inexpensive community spaces for male gathering. Often these spaces have tools, etc. which allow men to talk as a by-product of doing something else. They were previously male only spaces but unfortunately some are now opening up to allow women as well which I think dilutes their capacity to help men. They were very successful though
/r/MensRights08/01/23 09:53 AM
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Reference well, use well founded statistical analysis, and make the argument in a way that doesn't diminish struggles that women have but expands the view that inequality takes many different forms and effects many different people in different ways. Inequality isn't a zero sum game or a competition.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/23 11:25 PM
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What really annoyed me about this aspect of the discussion is that they were so keen to win their oppression points in their mini oppression Olympics that it was as if they didn't understand that disabled men and bipoc who are also men exist. I'd almost be inclined to think that they know they exist they just don't value them or think their differences are as important.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 10:04 PM
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You're not the only one like that mate. I used to help me ex organise feminists rallys and I still found myself here about a year ago. I quickly realised it's one of the only environments where people don't dismiss my opinion simply because of my gender, sexuality and race.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 01:47 AM
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It's this that led me away from feminism and toward men's rights. It was evident that words didn't match actions. The language was all about equality and compassion but it was evident that men were demonised and in doing so it meant that men were never considered as a part of that equality and never the recipients of compassion. When men spoke up about their issues, either as part of men's rights or just individuals, they were shamed, insulted and made to feel guilty for any deviation from a foc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/22 07:15 AM
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Yeah, that's probably a better way to put it. I think it's also still important to know who they are though whether there's contact or not for health reasons.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 01:52 AM
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the child seeing its father should be the child's decision That's what I said. The child should know who their father is and the child should be able to make the decision as to whether they want to see them.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 01:47 AM
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It shouldn't forfeit his right to see the child. The child is still his, he just didn't get a say whether to bring it into the world. He shouldn't get custodial rights without payment but the child should still be told who his father is and have a choice to see him.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:34 PM
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Let me guess, they're pro-choice but only for women
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:28 PM
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Ain't no one mature enough to consent at age 12. Or 16 for that matter. Male or female.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 09:07 PM
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It all seems pretty normal to me. I think that sort of betrayal would fuck anyone up. That you're with someone else says to me you have handled it well.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 04:07 PM
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You shouldn't forgive her. It's a horrible thing she's done and it doesn't sound like she is deserving of forgiveness. It's ok to have hate and disgust for someone like that. Accept that you found yourself involved with someone horrible and be happy you're now with someone much better. If she comes to you remorsefully know that you still don't have to forgive someone like that. Cut all of that out of your life and allow yourself to focus on the positives you now have. You can move on without for…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 02:08 PM
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I wonder if they would consider sexual assault in settings such as jail and war as gender based violence? My suspicion is that these incidences of sexual assault are overlooked by these feminists institutions because they're blind to male suffering
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:09 AM
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Also, persons 'under 12'. That seems concerningly young.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 07:05 AM
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Oh yeah, absolutely. It should be a viable paid pathway to skills. My personal opinion is that it's beneficial for a state to have ready and trained individuals in the case of invasion. Those men should be well compensated and training should also allow for extended education.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 05:56 AM
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I think for me I don't have such a problem with male conscription as a matter of national defence but with the demonisation of men and masculinity it doesn't give me a lot to fight for.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 02:35 AM
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I haven't read too many but I did really enjoy Testosterone by Carole Hooven particularly when she points out that almost all awards for bravery go to men. That testosterone drives us to instinctively protect others and to face up to dangerous situations for the betterment those around us. That's something we should acknowledge more often.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 11:34 PM
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The best country I have found was Turkey. Not because of the women but because of the men I met there. They were confident and comfortable in their masculinity. They were the most hospitable and seem capable of handling any situation that they would ever encounter. In a world where the men have that self assurance the world seems tamed and at ease.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 10:32 PM
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Mate, I think you should stop letting other people determine your value. I've never met a worthless person. I have met plenty of people who don't value themselves because others tell them so. There is nothing wrong or demeaning in using a sex worker if you decide it is what you want to do. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. In the meantime I think you should start focusing on being able to find value and define yourself in the positive. You are capable of expressing yourself and your vulnerabi…
/r/MensRights26/12/22 10:21 PM
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Yes, in strongly feminist, left leaning aspects of trans ideology trans women are celebrated because regardless of rhetoric (trans women are women, trans men are men) they are still seen as men who reject their masculinity and trans women are still seen as not masculine because they were women and will never be men. To feminists the person doesn't matter it's only their relationship to masculinity that counts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/22 09:47 PM
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You're welcome. I should use you as inspiration to do more to stand up for men in public. Honestly, most of the time I don't feel comfortable doing that because of the negative perceived image of men's rights among so much of the public, particularly the majority of people I know. Unfortunately, I don't think I would ever be able to openly admit I support the men's rights movement with most people I know. I try to challenge some views at times but openly expressing that sort of belief would prob…
/r/MensRights26/12/22 10:45 AM
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I think you're the exception rather than the rule but good on you for sticking up for everyone equally
/r/MensRights26/12/22 10:36 AM
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I don't think I've ever seen/heard a woman be pulled up for something like this. I've many times seen men called out for much lighter social infringements.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 10:32 AM
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The way I've heard it said is that: "men will bully you and not mean it, women will compliment you and not mean it", or worse they will bully you and mean it. I know which one I would prefer.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 10:29 AM
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This was my thoughts. I think the idea that it's mostly straight men not around their partners, with a distraction, also creates a space for men to be able to bond in a way that they're comfortable with.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 06:54 AM
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Yes, but wasn't there also this study that found the grades for attractive women fell during the covid pandemic when studying moved online. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psypost.org/2022/11/attractive-female-students-no-longer-earned-higher-grades-when-classes-moved-online-during-covid-19-64251%3famp=1
/r/MensRights25/12/22 09:07 PM
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The sheer amount of expression of the mental/emotional burden and labour that women claim they do demonstrates that men bare the brunt of it in reality. Men don't complain and shift that emotional/mental weight onto their partners. They absorb it and deal with it internally. That's why women don't recognise it.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 08:08 PM
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Oh man, that sucks. Which country are you from? This year I learnt that International Men's Day shares this date with World Toilet Day and Women's Entrepreneurship Day. Both started 14 years after International Men's Day 😑 International Women's Day meanwhile shares its date with no other day.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/22 09:53 PM
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Some women would say that this is the life they want but they only say that because they never have to consider living it. In reality I don't think it is a life most women would cope with. It is at times incredibly isolating.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/22 08:25 AM
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I was listening to an episode of "The Tin Men" podcast the other day. On it they were talking about covid and lock downs and it was mentioned how during that time it was perhaps the only period in which women could understand this aspect of men's day to day lives. A life where almost everyone looks at you as a suspicious threat. Where people cross the street to avoid you. Where your mere existence is to be feared no matter how you act.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/22 08:23 AM
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When did it start? I don't know but my instinct would be as soon as feminists started seeing men's rights advocates as a threat. Anytime you hear or see them use this attack know it is because they fear the arguments men's rights activists are making
/r/MensRights12/11/22 02:48 AM
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From the outside looking in, as an Australian, it seems to me that the American voting system doesn't encourage either party to appeal towards the majority of voters. From my perspective over here, the need to energise voters to get out to vote seems to be done largely through fear of the alternative. I don't believe thats good for political debate in the country. I think ranked choice voting might benefit the major parties not in giving them more votes but in allowing more fringe parties to app…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/22 10:34 PM
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This might sound controversial to some, probably less so here, but I don't think women should be leading the conversation in the messages we send to boys on what is healthy and good for them. To me it seems clear that so many women instinctively see male/masculine qualities in a negative light and female/feminine qualities in a positive light. To these women, men would be better people if they were more like them. There is no creative ability to see positive masculine qualities and no ability to…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 03:49 AM
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Less men having sex is not good for women because it means women are having sex with the same men. That's more cheating, more one night stands, less fulfilling relationships.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/22 08:18 AM
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I mean the description of "feminist" urbanism they use is essentially just contemporary urban planning post-rationalised to how it benefits women. Jeff Speck is probably best known for the idea of the walkable city. It's basically exactly what they're talking about but doesn't label itself as feminist. It is simply resident/human centred urban planning. Jahn Gehl another leading contemporary thinker on urban planning advocates for much of the same stuff through increased public space and effecti…
/r/MensRights09/11/22 10:23 AM
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Also his femininity is "part of why women are oppressed"? Women have got people believing that in all circumstances they are always the victim.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 09:46 AM
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I hate to break it to this guy but it's not exactly like being masculine would have excluded him from receiving hatred, it just would have come in a different flavour. There is no acceptable way to be a man that insulates you from hate in today's world.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 09:44 AM
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I guess when you see women as the ideal and men only as a negative it's easier to say feminism is benefiting men.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 08:39 AM
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Women like that talk about "toxic masculinity" and men's "inability" to share their experiences and emotions like they aren't the very thing that works so hard to stop us from doing that. Women like her shame men for opening up and then blame men for the problem they thrust upon us. They are the toxicity they talk about.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 05:01 AM
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The "inability" for men to comfortably talk about their problems is blamed on men. Other groups would consider this victim blaming. Societal expectations that place this pressure on men are just as much upheld by women as they are men. Many men will tell you stories of opening up to a partner only for that vulnerability to be later used against them in an argument often in a humiliating way. Many men wil tell you that being vulnerable was the start of the breakdown of a relationship. Mental heal…
/r/MensRights07/11/22 11:37 AM
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What happened to the girl that harassed you for using a public bathroom?
/r/MensRights07/11/22 08:25 AM
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To women like this a man expressing an opinion is mansplaining. And then after you advocated that it's sexist they pull the whole if you have a problem with it you must be part of the problem. As if they would have no issue if a man stated: "women are whores" because they know that they're not a whore so it's fine to say that because they know it doesn't apply to them
/r/MensRights06/11/22 11:29 PM
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They're not only justifying rape, they're justifying paedophilic rape. That's fucked up. Imagine being the type of person that justifies paedophilia because the victim is male.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 07:49 AM
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I think in the US in particular now is a good time to be discussing this idea. If the left want to reinstate access to abortion they should increase that access to include financial abortion access to males in the name of equality. Problem is the conservative side of politics are all white knights and the progressive side are all simps at the end of the day none of them want to support men's rights
/r/MensRights05/11/22 07:32 AM
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Props Dave Chapelle
/r/MensRights05/11/22 07:26 AM
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I'm with you on this. Don't abandon an opportunity to change things for the better but it's a long game.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/22 06:34 AM
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It's these attitudes and how common place they are that led me to walk away from pursuing a career in the care industry. I enjoyed the work but even with that it wasn't worth putting up with the constant image that I'm some sort of predator just because of my gender. Props to you for sticking with it and for being an inspirational dad
/r/MensRights27/10/22 12:07 AM
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No, these were three separate incidents. He wasn't at school when that rumour was started. I think he was probably just under the same socialised assumption most people make that men, single men in particular, are not mature, responsible or nurturing enough to care for children. Although I'm not so sure his wife didn't half have the same paedophilic concerns as the neighbours in the article had. It's hard not to think that way when you've already been confronted with it twice previously and was …
/r/MensRights26/10/22 11:57 PM
40

I know this feeling intimately at many points in my life. In my last year of high school I was talking to a girl in a year below. Her friend decided that she also liked me and was more forward than the other girl. I politely refused and told her that I was interested in her friend. She spread a rumour through school that I was grooming primary school kids. Her friend was no longer comfortable talking to me after that and I spent the rest of my final year unsure how pervasive the rumour had been.…
/r/MensRights26/10/22 11:56 AM
13

Main-stream media
/r/MensRights26/10/22 10:42 AM
2

I mean sure good on her for doing it. I don't know if doing a job should be so inspirational as too get 200k followers and how ever many million likes but whatever, I guess women doing work is still inspiring to some. I do grow tired of the "they're just threatened by successful boss babes/they're emasculated by empowered women" trope though. I don't think too many men are going to feel emasculated by a 5"2' woman. They're probably just annoyed that you get celebrated as a hero for doing a job, …
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:56 AM
8

How many women are in abusive relationships? All the respondents are like no you shouldn't tell him if you're in an abusive relationship. Like abuse is the norm in relationships or something. Why are you in an abusive relationship in the first place?
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:29 AM
3

They refuse to accept the idea that anyone wasn't born a women can have the slightest idea what it's like to be a woman, and frankly, as far as that goes, I can't find any flaw in their argument. I'm sure they don't hold the same opinion on themselves understanding what it's like to be a man though. I have no doubt they're all more than happy to tell men about how privileged their lives are.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 04:46 AM
5

It's two weeks in Australia too. I think standard maternity leave is 18 weeks. Feminists will complain that men don't contribute to family duties but will never advocate for increased paternity leave
/r/MensRights10/10/22 08:02 AM
7

Is that like how female privilege is always called benevolent sexism. They can't even admit their own privilege without trying to turn it around as some sort of attack.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 01:54 PM
1

The gender pay gap calculation is a disingenuously crude calculation that fails to reveal any detail as to the actual experience of male and female earners. It's typically calculated as all female full-time earnings/divided by female workers expressed as a percentage of the same calculation for men. That tells us nothing of real use. All of the highest earners are typically male. What benefit do you receive from having your earnings calculated with those of Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk. You don't ge…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 01:45 PM
3

I remember reading this article a few years ago. https://theconversation.com/ordering-the-vegetarian-meal-theres-more-animal-blood-on-your-hands-4659 Basically it argues the a vegetarian diet kills more sentient creatures than a meat heavy diet but those animals are smaller mice/rodents, insect, bugs etc. so they are often overlooked and discounted. Additionally, if you live in a colonised country like myself, Australia, you can make the argument against vegans that pasture grazing animals can d…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/22 12:39 PM
5

Male stoicness certainly has its good aspects in a time of crisis. It is the fear of a lack of stability and certainty that drives women away from men when they decide that they are too emotional. Even while women are telling men that they should be more emotional. I think also bravery is a very positive masculine trait. In Carole Hooven's book Testosterone at the end Hooven refers to data that states something like 95%+ of bravery awards are given to men. It speaks to men's innate desire to pro…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/22 12:09 PM
8

Prison is sexist to women because prison was designed for men not women. Do people think about these ideas they have before or even after writing them out?
/r/MensRights25/09/22 05:58 AM
4

I work in the architecture and urban environment field. I constantly here from so many people that the fastest growing demographic of homeless people are older women. No one ever cares to note that they are coming of such a low base that any increase would be seen as large. No one ever cares to note that the scale of homelessness is still disproportionately male. No one ever seems to care about the guy on the street just the statistics and how they can focus them away from that guy and onto anot…
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:48 AM
1

Ok, the guys name is Scott Oughton-Johnson, and the group is called The Proper Blokes Club. They have a web page: theproperblokesclub.co.uk Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theproperblokesclub and an email: [email protected] I think it started in South London but has inspired other people to start similar groups all around the country.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 10:40 PM
2

😔 Maybe it's geolocated locked or something. Let me read it and give you some details.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 10:00 PM
6

Here you are: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2022/aug/22/the-people-making-a-difference-the-man-who-set-up-a-mental-health-walking-group-for-blokes It's a good read.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 02:02 PM
2

I'll try to find a link for you
/r/MensRights23/09/22 02:01 PM
17

Start a men's only session and use it as a men's wellness space. You could swim laps and then go for drinks/dinner after with some other local men. I saw something posted on here about a guy in the UK who started a men's walking group and the events became massively popular and really helped a lot of people. At the very worst you might just end up getting the pool to yourself.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 06:20 AM
7

If you want to call yourself a men's rights activist go for it. I think the idea of allyship is stupid. It implies you're less than simply because of an aspect of your being. It's exclusionary by nature and I think that is anti-thetical to the movement in my opinion
/r/MensRights17/09/22 10:55 AM
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I doubt the gender discrepancy in road accidents would look anywhere as bad if we measured it against hours driven. To do so though would go against their agenda
/r/MensRights10/09/22 09:53 AM
1

"How women can take "back" tech". When did women have and lose tech in the first place? Maybe they can just choose to enter into the workplace. No gender needs to "own" tech and there's nothing really stopping women from learning and working in tech
/r/MensRights07/09/22 10:44 AM
1

Both data sources come from census.gov
/r/MensRights29/08/22 07:45 AM
1

There's more women than men. At least in the US but it holds true for most countries as men die earlier. In the US I think it's 50.5% of the population are women and according to the last census 9.7 million more women then men voted last election. While we still live in a democracy women clearly have more power than men. If she wants things to change she should vote differently and get other women to vote differently too.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:06 AM
1

This place used to be fun and wild years ago when it was under different management. Now they're charging $20 entry and trying to kick people out for looking the wrong direction. If it wasn't for the door charge it might have been worth my time going down there just to see if I could get some girl kicked out.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 04:34 AM
2

I was, until I realised that feminists have so little regard for my experiences and inequalities even as I supported their fight to improve their circumstances. If I was to have any respect for myself I could not support a group that actively disregarded my experience and at times worked against my own interest all the while telling me that my gender implicitly made me a bad person.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 05:39 AM
3

I think you have the impression that women are way more extreme with feminism then they really are.... I think men are right to be both cautious and suspicious when it comes to feminists. I live in Australia, during the height of Covid in 2020 one of this country's most prominent feminists, Clementine Ford, tweeted: "Honestly, the corona virus isn't killing men fast enough." She had previously tweeted: "Kill all men." While both tweets received some backlash it was not lead from other feminists …
/r/MensRights20/08/22 05:26 AM
28

This type of bs needs to be called out. Masculinity is not inherently toxic. Contributions to toxic culture do not come solely from men. This is not simply a men problem.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 12:24 AM
2

It's probably also worth noting that graphic 3 is misleading (probably, deliberately so). It implies that 92% ( all other non-male specific) teachings are female specific. I don't know the data but I would guess a sizeable chunk are both male and female targeted.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 05:13 AM
4

Sounds like she would be complete bliss to be in a relationship with 😒
/r/MensRights16/08/22 05:07 AM
1

There's a lot of good comments here. I'm not too sure if it's too late to throw in my two cents but I'll do it anyway. Point 1: Don't push, just create space and trust. Tell him that your always there for him/a door is always open etc. at most don't push for him to share. If you want to create trust share your own experiences don't ask for his. He'll share when he feels comfortable and safe. Point 2: follows from Point 1. Create that safe space. Sharing over a beer is a good option it creates a …
/r/MensRights31/07/22 07:28 AM
6

This is how feminism got so much power and men got screwed. Women speaking up, over even the smallest of things, while men stayed quiet and polite. Men have been socially conditioned to think it's not masculine to speak up and look where we are now. It's important we work to correct this imbalance.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 05:38 AM
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Men, I don't think we should let ourselves become this. We should always set ourselves to be better than this standard. Let's lead by example.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 09:58 AM
2

She had a mental illness guys. Men don't get that understanding though.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 04:04 AM
-1

I wouldn't want women in the draft because I wouldn't trust them lining up beside me. If I came down to it I would fight for the defence of my country. The problem is that modern western women aren't worth fighting for. Ukrainian women might be a different story but the entitled, egotistic women of the West don't inspire men to put their lives on the line.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 09:57 AM
13

Fat girls don't have energy. I feel like fat girl anger or ugly girl anger is more appropriate.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 08:41 AM
3

I remember reading at the end of Carole Hooven's book Testosterone that something like 99% of awards for bravery are given to men. When the sh!t hits the fan men step forward.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 03:11 AM
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