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| 5 | Has anyone had the experience of being someone else's "project"? | No-Train-6456 | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 01:41 PM |
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| 4 | Can those Tinder Warriors out there give a TLDR on some of the scams we have to look out for?Anybody who asks you to go to a third party website is a scam. One of my friends got a match on Tinder who told him to click on a link to get "Tinder Verified". He didn't fall for it but it was probably a site out there to grab personal information. No normal person will direct you to a website when talking with them on Tinder. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 04:40 AM |
| 6 | What steps should one take to achieve happiness in their 20s?Experience something different than your hometown. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | How am I getting no matches on tinderI didn't get any matches until I switched my profile pic a couple of times. Once I found a pic that worked, I got 3 or 4 matches a week. Changing your pic may flip the algorithm a little bit to where your profile may get shown to more people. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How am I getting no matches on tinderYou could try different apps like Bumble, OK Cupid, Plenty of Fish, Meet Me, Zoosk, etc. Maybe Tinder isn't that popular in your area for some reason but other apps may have more active users. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | I can move to another country without blinking but cannot talk to a random girl without having a panic attack.. how can I become overcome the fear?It is possible that your fear of talking to girls stems from being concerned about what you would do if they ended up liking you more than you liked them. For example, if you were to approach a girl that you were mildly interested in but then she turns out to want to go into an LTR when you really just wanted something more temporary. Rejection is the easier scenario as you don't have to deal with them again but having to be the one to end the interaction is more challenging. Perhaps your fear i… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | what am I doing wrong?My take on this is that they probably weren't great friends to begin with. They needed someone to hang out with in high school and, while they were respectful then, they were really just looking for someone to latch onto in order to become more popular. It's hard to maintain some friends from the high school to college transition and it is often better to focus on meeting new people instead. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | “What’s you’re sign”Your answers are super black pill. I couldn't imagine these working, even on the most gothed out goth chick. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | What are some of the "Great Minds" of History that every man should read?Watch Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 04:23 AM |
| 4 | A woman being shitty to you is just her "testing you"??The idea of a woman acting openly shitty as some sort of test is wishful thinking. If she is being that disrespectful, there is probably no interest or connection on her part. Shit tests are real but outright disrespect doesn't mean that she is secretly interested in you. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | No matches on tinderIt could be logistics in all fairness. If you're in a really small town or in an area that doesn't have many people under 40, the amount of matches could be very limited. You may want to try it out in a bigger city to see if you get more matches. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 05:58 PM |
| 2 | CollegeIf this person really doesn't like you, it would be in their best interest to let you graduate so that they wouldn't have to deal with you further. If the career director decides to be a stumbling block, then it would just mean that you would be in the program longer and she would have to continue to have to interact with you on some level. Colleges want people to graduate as that looks better for their statistics. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 05:39 PM |
| 14 | HB9 at a resort - looking for tipsI'd pass and approach other girls instead. She's there with her dad, which kind of diminishes the vibe a bit. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 08:10 PM |
| 2 | BreedingThat's a hella weird proposition on her part. Run for the hills. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had the experience of being someone else's "project"?Thanks, I appreciate it! | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone had the experience of being someone else's "project"?I see it that way for the most part. There were a couple of interactions that seemed to go beyond light bullying, and I noticed them speaking to me in a more disparaging way than they did with other people they knew. On the other hand, I overreacted to some of their jokes which probably wasn't the best move on my end. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 02:26 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone had the experience of being someone else's "project"?A couple of things they did crossed the line, but I don't think they ultimately had ill intentions outside of maybe taking a few cheap shots at me on occasion. I took it as a learning experience and made sure to avoid stuff like that going forward. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | In a bit of a situation and need some real adviceBroaden your horizons and maybe consider relocating to a new area where you won't run into these people. It may be good to focus on making a fresh start for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Equivalent of lifting if you can’t?Look up Sean Stephenson. Before he passed away, he was an accomplished motivational speaker who used a wheelchair due to having a condition called osteogenesis imperfecta. He had alot of success with dating and ended up getting married to another motivational speaker/life coach. Reading some of his stuff introduced me to the concept of self improvement and made me take a more active role in changing my thought processes. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Signs that shes trying to make you break up with her?Ultimatums and forcing you to do things her way in order to keep the relationship going. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 05:49 PM |
| 1 | What should I do?Bumble dating app may be a good route to go. The girls I've met off Bumble seem to be more interested in developing a human connection than those I've met off other apps. Everyone wants a connection and to feel that there is someone they can relate to. I don't think anyone in the world wants to feel misunderstood, disenfranchised, or out of touch with other people. Social and political conservatives make up half of the United States-don't know about other countries-and there are plenty of like m… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 05:15 AM |
| 2 | What to do when having good looks but no gameBeing good looking is half the battle, but maybe you're coming off too one dimensional. You could steer the conversations more towards mutual interests, hobbies, and opinions. If the conversation isn't that engaging, then the interest level diminishes and it become harder to set yourself apart from other good looking people. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Ex's Rebound looking at my insta storiesIf it makes you uncomfortable, it may be best to block him. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone ever feel like an alien trying to learn how to be human?I think alot of people out there struggle with basic communication skills more than they admit. We're socialized to view ourselves as socially normal so we don't get labeled unfavorably, but truthfully there are plenty of people who struggle to figure out what to do in certain situations. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 3 | How to answer "What do you do for a living?" appropriately?But what if you don't have a train? | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever have dates that don’t go well?I've had several dates that didn't go well. Usually the following happened: -I treated the date too much like a therapy session -I was too stiff and didn't relax enough -I asked a question that the girl thought was over the line -I talked to much about my ex and past relationships I've learned from these experiences and kept going forward. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 3 | How to answer "What do you do for a living?" appropriately?You can probably just tell her that you're the vice president of your dad's company. No real reason to hide it. Your dad saw that you were up to the job and made his decision. There are far worse things than that. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 07:20 PM |
| 5 | Went on a date with a strange womanShe could have been cheating on somebody and you were some side action for her. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 01:28 PM |
| 2 | What should I do if being ugly asf is the root of my problems?A couple of things: A girl who is gonna next a guy because of the way his jaw looks is probably not worth it. It sounds like you have alot going for you like your leadership position at work and the fact that you had social success in college. To me, it seems like more of an issue adjusting to life after college than about the shape of your jaw. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | I do not feel the urge to explain myself anymore: a sign of maturity or sociopathy?After awhile, you realize that explaining yourself is only useful if the other party is actually open to what you have to say. It sounds like you've gotten better at choosing your battles and figuring out which ones are worth fighting. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | A woman talking to me off and on for half a year ghosted me?A year is a long time to invest in someone who you don't have a clear way to see them in person. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Who is a real life examples of Alpha male?Bill Clinton | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Guess who's back?I'm posting here because I don't have enough karma and this question really doesn't merit it's own thread. I'm in an LTR of a year & a half but I haven't been able to see my girlfriend in a few months due to COVID-19. She lives with her mom and dad. They are really paranoid about catching COVID-19 and will only allow me to see her in person if she moves into an apartment with me for a couple of months. Essentially I won't be able to see her unless I get my own apartment and agree to let her live… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 07:52 PM |
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