what am I doing wrong?

StellarBella277 · 2020-10-11T11:00:24+00:00

This might be hard to hear, but if it walks like a duck and it quacks like a duck, it’s a duck.

What I mean by this (and this might be hard to swallow) is, maybe you are the problem.

I don’t know the full extent of your situations but if you aren’t a good friend you won’t keep friends. If you only take from a friendship then people don’t like that.

Hell, maybe you’re a bit weird or do things that are a bit autistic. Maybe that’s why you can’t keep friends.

Not trying to shit on you, but it’s possible that you have an overinflated ego and could never envisage that the problem lies with you.

No-Train-6456 · 2020-10-11T14:47:34+00:00

My take on this is that they probably weren't great friends to begin with. They needed someone to hang out with in high school and, while they were respectful then, they were really just looking for someone to latch onto in order to become more popular. It's hard to maintain some friends from the high school to college transition and it is often better to focus on meeting new people instead.

HauntingYam0 · 2020-10-12T05:03:52+00:00

Don't be friends with low value men, they will resent you and justify any bad actions against you. Speaking from experience.

Surround yourself with winners or no one.

Title	what am I doing wrong?
Author	deltaghost7
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	October 11, 2020 10:01 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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