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It's not a compliment! Exactly and viewing it as such is delusional at best and detrimental at worst. Women really allow jerks back into the ring to take a second beatdown because they think oooh he just couldn't stay away, i'm so special to him, he must've been tired of looking for me in every other woman. Like no! Your own ego will be your demise. That's not to say you're not amazing, but that's just not where his mind is at. At all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 03:28 AM
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Appreciate the sentiment but I think the truth is much worse. They're only texting you again because they're looking to use you, not because they suddenly woke up and realized your value. If anything, them contacting you after ghosting or dumping you just shows that they only see you as a participation trophy. Either way, not worth dignifying with a reply. Also, we block & delete way before this kind of thing can happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 01:48 AM
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There are many days when I feel like I'm just drowning in regret and can't breathe. How stupid I looked in front of men and others because of "love", how much I degraded my self worth, and, worst of all, how much time I wasted. How much of my sweetness I lost because I became hardened and jaded by the heartbreak. I gave up so much that I cannot get back and I cannot accept it. I wish I could take it all back. I would give anything up to just walk the other way every time. Pre-men, I used to be s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 07:05 PM
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In my culture, the men love to rip American women, whether it's the American white women they deem "easy" but use for effortless sex before they're ready (or pressured) for marriage or the Americanized women from their homeland that are not subservient like the women back home. Americanized men from my culture (esp. ones that "rediscover" religion, or rather become newly enamored with it after realizing the control it allows them over women) think they're doing something to the Americanized wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 07:41 PM
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The good times won't last forever. You will fight and he will throw it in your face that you live and die at his mercy. He will up the ante on his bullshit because he knows you're not going anywhere. He will think less of you because you have nothing going for you in life. He will come to view you as a burden when your novelty to him wears off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 04:27 PM
47

She's a cuckette
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:36 PM
13

Life with them is so miserable. Their lack of self-awareness blows my mind sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:28 PM
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There's nothing you can do or say to a man who isn't into you that will change that fact. There, I killed the "hack a man" book industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:27 PM
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She's married to a pedophile. I feel for her but she's weird as hell for letting him call her "baby doll" and "little girl." That's child predator shit and it's a race to the bottom of his degeneracy from here. Also, a lesson: men will always find a way to push the envelope. He needs to so he can feel like he's in control. Even if you're the "cool girl" in bed, he will eventually push for some really depraved shit and all of a sudden, you're a sex-negative, judgmental prude for refusing even if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:20 PM
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And men think they're simps for paying the dinner tab lol women are the real simps 99% of the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 12:59 AM
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It's weird how much men rip women who pimp out their own bodies on OF but the subtext is always that they'd do it too if they could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:04 PM
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I don't either. The funny thing is they wouldn't know a decent human being if it hit them in the face anyway. It's rich when men pretend to be arbitrators of good character and decency. It's funny because the average woman is at least 100x more decent than the average man. It's funny when men pretend they don't select women based on what they think will get them fist bumps from other men. It's also funny when men pretend they care about women's personalities beyond what serves their own selfish …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:52 PM
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“Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it's all a male fantasy: that you're strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren't catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you're unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole, peering throug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:51 AM
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Sort of. I don't feel competitive, but I feel the need to be stronger, smarter, more self-sufficient, and more successful than them because I never, ever want to be in a position where I need a man for anything. I've seen too many women fall on hard times and fall prey to men who exploited the hell out of that and made their lives even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:42 AM
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I just let it all wash over me. Days I cried for hours remembering things, days I felt too angry to function, days I get hung up about the past and can't stop replaying it in my head, days I feel hopeless after reading like a million stories in a row about shitty men on various subs. Just gotta feel the feelings and keep moving throughout it. There's some self-policing involved, otherwise there'd be days where I wouldn't get out of bed at all. I wouldn't trade this pain for anything, because I t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:38 AM
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Damn, I hope he DMs her lol. Men do the bullshit they do partly because they're horrible but also because there's no reason to change since there are plenty of women tolerating their shittiness. So, no, I won't chill out on male criticism. After all the atrocious shit they put women through historically, globally, etc., the very LEAST we can do is criticize them. Every time you're lenient towards a man who does not deserve it, you enable him to become worse. Just leave him. Do not reward his bad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:29 AM
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Reminds me of makeup artist Charlotte Tilbury saying that her husband of 7 years has never seen her without makeup (https://www.insider.com/charlotte-tilbury-says-husband-never-sees-her-without-makeup-2021-9). She wears makeup to bed to "keep the magic alive." Idk if this is her weird way of pushing more product, since if you're going to wear makeup around the clock, you'll need to buy more of it, and also because she references products from her own cosmetics brand in the article. It just struc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:22 AM
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Women of that age think the key to keeping a man is becoming his entire world: his "rock," second mom, pride, maid, cook, vixen, muse, purpose, assistant, nanny, roommate, therapist, ride-or-die, etc. If you can't keep up with all these roles at all times, he's then justified in cheating. We're expected to walk on eggshells and inconvenience ourselves hourly so we don't disrupt a man's fantasy. Men love fantasy; it's what draws them to porn, video games, and superhero movies. They need constant …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:09 AM
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Safety over everything and with sickos like that running around unchecked, you can't ever play it too safe. Imagine having to fight over dick with your daughter. You carried her for 9 months, raised her, sacrificed for her, everything and then some, and then 16-17 years later, she feels like hot shit compared to you because your depraved man wants to fuck her. At that age, the male gaze is the oxygen she breathes. She will do whatever it takes to be considered sexy by men. Especially if she is a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:49 PM
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Right. Just remember what happened to anti-work. There are people out there who are seeking to humiliate us in front of an audience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:54 PM
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Yes! Please do, everybody. You won't miss the daily death threats and hate mail. Use your non-FDS for messaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:49 PM
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Just looked up his account. He's in a sub about podcasting, looking for a cohost and claims "Im really into fucked up humor so If you can get down on that join." Probably rape "jokes" and locker room talk. He is feigning ignorance about our sub and the problem LVM (the overwhelming population of men) have with it. Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:07 PM
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sweetheart = sucker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:30 PM
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It just wasn't enough for her to burn nearly a decade of her life with him. She had to sink $18k into the ground too. What is wrong with these women?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 07:26 AM
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They want women who haven't been affected by shitty men (while being shitty men themselves.) We want men who haven't been affected by porn, redpill, and general misogyny. Sucks, I guess, since both are in short supply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:53 AM
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I feel like I'd say that after hearing the same stories over and over again. First time, can't blame you. Second time, you should know better since he showed you who he really is but second chances or whatever. After that, I can't have sympathy if you keep choosing the guy after his hundredth fuck up. We could talk all day about how men should be but that won't make them any better. I just can't waste my time, energy, and saliva comforting somebody who's just doing it to themselves at that point…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:04 AM
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I have a hard time trusting there are HVM though. I know this sub believes there are, otherwise there would be no point in categorizing some men as LVM, ZVM, NVM, etc. I just find it hard to believe that there are truly decent men out there that really think like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 04:04 AM
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It's not as complicated as you're making it out to be. Most men, especially in a religious/spiritual thing, won't make moves on a woman in front of others. You know they're interested in you when they start trying to talk to you and get closer to you. At which point you refer to the handbook to vet. But as for him showing interest, it'll be obvious when he's trying to get closer. Don't read body language or subtext. Don't try to read between the lines or try to turn nothing into something. That'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:27 AM
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Just to not bother with men at all. I probably shaved years off my life at this point from stressing over what he really means when he sweet talks me, what he's really thinking about me, how he really feels about me, where he's really going and what he's really doing when he says he's "working on business ideas", when he's going to discard me, what he's trying to get out of me, why he won't text me back, who that girl he just followed on IG really is, etc. Just drove myself crazy for no reason w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 11:20 PM
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None of these men sound like prizes by the way they treated their exes or how they insult the women who were willing to have sex with them, and yet they always feel they deserve more and better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 11:08 PM
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To keep you on your hands and knees so you don't end up like those 'other women' he hates so much. Then one day, he'll be telling your replacement about what you used to do and how she better not end up like you. It goes on and on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:20 PM
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Men all around the world heard the news about the invasion and starting praying for women's suffering so they can exploit them. War is a dream come true for those sickos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:18 PM
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Perverts think that their perversions should be the default setting. Men don't even talk about how much they wanna kiss you or hold you anymore, just how they want to fuck you in your ass! It's wild. Like in their minds women who don't want to be fisted or peed on or beaten are prudish or close-minded or sexually stunted. It cannot be because those acts cause psychological and physical pain, which to men is somehow not a sufficient reason for women to refuse those things? Degeneracy is a mental …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:12 PM
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Men really think they're the center of our universe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 03:34 PM
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The really sick part is both parties have convinced themselves that this is called "taking back power." If you were abused in some way, you can "take back the power" by agreeing to be abused by some guy. See, that guy that gets hard from punching you just really just wants to help you psychologically recover! What a nice guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 04:12 AM
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This is where liberal feminism got us. Men now bet on the fact that some women will agree to provide them with unrestricted, commitment-free, undeserved sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:14 AM
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I'm really sorry. I can't even begin to imagine. Praying for peace for you and yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 02:35 AM
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A man abandoning his wife during postpartum is a monster, period. Nothing affects these men. Not even their own child or the vows they made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:38 AM
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Men are terrifying. Truly the biggest threats to womankind and they know it, but they'll pretend otherwise to "own" a feminist or get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:35 AM
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OF is just digital pimping on a mass scale. Libfems don't think the poor woman on the side of the road with like 6 teeth left in her mouth wearing a tube top as a dress flagging down cars to sell $10 blowjobs is empowered but somehow think the women on only fans selling vids of themselves peeing are because they're ...cosplaying anime and have LED lights? There's like a million women getting a couple bucks here and there from suckers, some make more than others, some are more sought after, but t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:37 AM
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They're all laughing bc if they don't, they'll cry. I wonder how they account for A-list actors marrying A-list actresses, doctors marrying doctors, engineers marrying engineers, lawyers marrying lawyers, professors marrying professors. Also, what do these lunatics want?! They don't want you to want them for their money but don't want you to make your own either? They just miss the days when all they had to do was work a factory job to secure a woman for life because her options were either beco…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:23 AM
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The more women bend to the whims of men, the lower the bar descends into hell. We will reach a point where men start asking women for gas money to take them out on dates and even that will be characterized as fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:13 AM
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Anything is worth more than a woman. Even a $20 entree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:29 AM
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Everything you need to know about how a man feels about women can be observed by his opinions on "older" women (women over 30 *rolls eyes*). You may not get fat, you may not get "ugly," you may not ever outdo him financially, so it's important to know how he'll feel when you get older, the only for-sure thing in this life besides taxes and death. Men are getting worried they can't neg "older" women into settling anymore and they're even more worried that women in their late teens & early 20s are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 04:01 PM
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One of the front page posts the other day was of a cat sulking in their carrier after moving to a new home and in the picture, there's somebody's knee in a seated position just barely visible at the bottom. Apparently, it was the OP's niece who was taking the picture of the cat. I lost count of all the depraved comments from grown ass men talking about how "phallic" it looks (it literally doesn't? it looks like a knee, but I guess that's how porn-fried their brains are at this point.) One of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 03:45 PM
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because they feel the need to punish us, so they sit around in forums and provoke each other into assaulting or killing us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 08:15 PM
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Every time men say that line, it just reminds me of a snake luring prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 06:40 PM
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Men live in fantasy land. I think it's because they imagine how extremely wealthy ballers, entertainers, and executives treat the young women they rotate and discard. Men literally hide their money from women because they are no longer providers. Most of the time, they're mooching off the woman they're with. The most you'll get with most men is splitting a check evenly down the middle at Sizzler. If a man does pay for your $30 meal, 95% of the time he'll be expecting to sleep with you that night…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:44 PM
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They feel entitled to easy access to women they regard as being "lesser" (a woman who has been rejected by the man she carried a baby for). Men seek validation from other men, so they want the women that other men want and vice versa. If even the "lesser woman" doesn't want them, then they cannot use her situation to coerce her into "overcompensating" with sex and servitude. They're mad that one of the options they thought they had for effortless sex and female company is off the table. Same rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:57 PM
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I wish society directed half the contempt they have for single mothers towards men who recklessly impregnate women and abandon their children. Also, with so many single mothers, you have to wonder how many men are out there "starting fresh" and still living their lives to the fullest without anybody else knowing they left a woman pregnant and alone and a child fatherless. Too bad women can't do that or they'd literally be considered a sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:07 PM
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That's all women are to them. Just arm candy to parade around for the approval of other men until they age out and become invisible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:41 PM
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Men think they can frame their negging as "questions of curiosity" and get away with being disrespectful. Also, men think feminism means easy sex, not ever paying for a woman's anything, and getting to punch women because "equality." There is no intellectual debate to have here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:11 PM
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I've been described by a man as "paranoid." Well, my suspicions were right all along. My only fault was ever doubting my instincts. Our "walls" are critical to our emotional well-being and physical safety. It's a gift all women should embrace and trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:05 PM
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Ahh, the virtues of online porn: being raped in the ass by your husband multiple times and having to wear a diaper in your 30s. It's all about power for him. I can just picture his disgusting, porn-fried brain lighting up when she agreed to anal yet AGAIN after literally being injured for months because of it. Crazy thing is you can't even ask men for passionate lovemaking to "spice up" your sex life, but they can request anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:53 AM
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Makes sense. All the male doctors/surgeons I've ever known are married to other doctors/surgeons or lawyers. She was explaining how they met and she claims her mom co-managed her IG "health influencer" account and followed a bunch of male med students (sure lol) and so he messaged her asking her what speciality she's looking to get into, assuming she was a med student too. The video is extra cringy bc her bf looks like he wants to jump out of his own skin the whole time she's telling that story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:43 AM
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I've seen some of her tiktoks. Her whole life is structured around catering to her doctor boyfriend. Her whole identity revolves around being the forever gf of a doctor. Idk why some women get such a kick out of being with successful men as if it's their own success or as if they really expect to share in the fruits of his labor. Men don't do loyalty like that. She regularly makes tiktoks where she waits in the hospital parking lot for him for hours with lunch (she jokes about being his personal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:46 AM
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It's telling that they assume you feel insecure and that the assumption leads them to prey on you through ulterior flattery. It's so predatory and sick. Like they're trying to become your main source of validation so they can exploit you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:51 PM
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Because they expect us to to shoulder the burden of managing the way THEY perceive US. Just so he doesn't see me in the same light as the pornstars he watches getting spat on and slapped, I am expected to go above and beyond in presenting myself as the antithesis of a pornstar. I need to dress and act like a "classy lady" at all times, so I don't remind him of the gross shit he watches and so he doesn't hold that same contempt for me. Men just can't keep it real with themselves. They have much h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:15 PM
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Building self-esteem so as to not tolerate mistreatment and to not feel obligated to sexually cater to a man. Remembering that most men are looking to use you for sex, so guard yourself, because no one else will. Remembering that, as unfair as it is, there is a MUCH higher cost for women to have casual sex: pregnancy, disease, vulnerability, attachment, reputation damage, emotional damage, etc. Remember that those libfems won't be there to dry your tears and help you through the trauma of gettin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:38 AM
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The second to last sentence is something I'm personally struggling with. I have had many traumatic experiences with "love" that have left a sour taste in my mouth. Now I am repulsed by the idea of talking to men ever again. I feel scarred for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:51 AM
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Sad indeed. For every woman who won't put up with his bullshit, there are a dozen others who will in a heartbeat because male validation is their oxygen. And those women preach pickmeism to the next generation of women and the cycle continues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:57 AM
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They could've made their hypothetical hero anything else... like someone who cures cancer or ends world hunger... but no, it's just a really hot guy who gets pussy on demand & unconditionally. Because that's literally all this whole thing is about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:44 AM
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Why is the default treating porn like it's air or water? We don't need it!!!!!! Life was at least relatively better for women before online porn since men didn't have a million videos at their fingertips of women being brutalized. Literally, women are beaten, peed on, spat on, forcefully penetrated, crying, and insulted till they're cowering in fear and men are AROUSED by it! Men will even comment that it's not "rough enough" bc after watching this filth everyday for a decade, they now need to s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:54 PM
40

This times a trillion !!!! Clowns feel way too comfortable using those slurs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:46 PM
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See https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/post/establishing-assertiveness--queen-energy-from-day-one (part about emotional baggage) No, do not ever talk, at any point, about your ex to a man you're vetting/dating/whatever. There is literally no reason to. You should keep your self-deprecating personal anecdotes to zero. Do not overshare. Do not provide anyone with that ammo. What do you get out of it? Save it for your girlfriends, though I am of the opinion that most of your Ls should be kept …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:20 PM
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It's about the power trip for them. You said you didn't want to do X and so they are now making it their mission to coerce/manipulate you into doing X so that they can feel special and powerful for getting you to do something you initially refused to do. It also shows them just how fixed your boundaries are and if you budge on this one thing, you'll probably budge on other things too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 12:19 AM
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These men are beyond childish. Like quitting right because you know you're about to get fired. You feel like you're saving face but deep down you know the difference between leaving and being told to leave was just time. These men are driven solely by ego and pride, which often possesses them to physically harm women. Steer clear. You don't know how far these men are willing to escalate a situation just so they can feel good about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:15 PM
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he feels you might be the one ( since they supposed “know” within -24 seconds of meeting you, based upon arbitrary whateverness inside his head) I always wonder how this even works in practical terms. Like when guys say "I knew 10 mn into our 1st date." Like what could you have possibly learned about that woman in 10 mn that cemented her as your soulmate? Or when they say "I saw her from across a crowded room and immediately knew she was the woman I was going to marry." So just based off of her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:03 PM
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So they can make it feel like it's your own shortcoming when they don't pursue a relationship with you after the "fun" (using you for sex) is over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:11 AM
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Only lazy and insecure men want women to approach them and even then they only want that so they can get laid easier. They won't respect or pine for the woman that does the chasing because it is so against everything we've been socialized to believe. Whether it's fair or unfair, sexist or not .... not really the point. You can pretend these traditions and norms don't exist even though they're universal but no one will play along with you, not even the men who only stand to gain from being pursue…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:22 PM
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Is it sad that I'm a little relieved she's not like 20-something? Same sad story though, guy hustling with "average" wife on his side, becomes commercially successful, swaps out "average" wife for "conventionally hot" girlfriend, rinse and repeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:55 AM
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This is a really well-curated selection of screenshots to remind us all why we're on the right track and what we're fighting. We have nothing to lose by guarding ourselves against men who will only take and never give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:17 PM
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Glad to hear that women as a collective are starting to be honest with themselves, even if it hurts. He didn't want to, so he didn't. You cOmmUNICATEd with him, but he's still not doing it because he still doesn't want to. If he wanted to, he would. Simple truth that will prevent women from making excuses for men that are ok with disappointing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:07 PM
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I'm sure he could've reached that conclusion on his own, but I think he just didn't care until it started to inconvenience him. He didn't have some grand epiphany like she made it sound. He just assumed she would do everything for him forever with no reciprocity. He works, she mentioned. So does he similarly think all the money he makes from working is his alone because it's his job? No. He knows that he is a father and a husband, so there's none of that kind of talk. What's next? Letting the tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:30 PM
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Don't send her a wedding gift no matter what. She's such a selfish and delusional shit show of a person. She disrespected you so many times! From the unfounded disparagement of your life's direction to accusing you of jealousy, lying about getting your money back, going bridesmaid dress shopping with her other friends and not you, etc. Sorry this happened to you, but she does not deserve any more of your time or money. Cut your losses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:51 AM
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Hilarious how some women really believe that if they become servants to a man, he won't just regard her like a servant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:10 AM
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True, pickmes jeopardize our cause by cementing the false notion that men are the prize. The sad thing is that despite all the free and unreciprocated lobbying they do on behalf of "treating men like kings" or "50/50," men view them as doormats and don't respect them. They just hype them up so they extract services from them. Deep down, men don't believe that a woman of quality would be willing to receive the bare minimum (if that!) from a man. It's this lose/lose situation (for women) where men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:07 AM
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YONI EGG?! He's trying to poison her vagina after all the bullshit he pulled. Shameless and disgusting. Men HATE your smart, confident, CARING single friends. That's why they try so hard to get you to dismiss their valid concerns by fixating on the fact that they're single. They *must* be jealous of my amazing dream man who neglected to do anything right on Valentine's Day. No romantic experience, just walking on an incline in the dirt. No meaningful gifts, just some chocolates I'm avoiding and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:50 AM
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Well, at least he's not cheating rofl (which she doesn't even fully know; he could be messaging women or watching porn or meeting women on the golf course because his buddies don't owe you shit). He just doesn't care about his wife at all, which is *so much better* than cheating. Ate at mommy's, fun with the buds, drop off flowers so he won't get yelled at, nap time, he's just living his life. Imagine having to open up a marriage that is supposed to be between 2 people only for all of eternity b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:25 PM
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It's surreal how these women have managed to lie to themselves about liking to be treated like punching bags during sex. Like do they even hear how they sound to everyone else? "I like being tossed around like a frisbee!" "I like being strangled within inches of my life!" "I like being pimp slapped!" Sounds like she already has brain damage. As if it's no longer abuse because they're naked. They sound so sick in the head. I wish they would ask themselves why their pain and suffering arouses thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:51 PM
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That's the right sentiment. Don't waste your life trying to resonate with someone who is committed to twisting your words around so that they can rage at you. The ComMuniCatiON bullshit rests on the assumption that there is a magical pairing of words you can say to a man that will finally alert him to the hurt he's causing you. It assumes that he cares that he's hurting you. It assumes that hurting you is not his intention. It assumes that if you just master the rhetoric, he'll finally see where…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:12 AM
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Men will waste your time and punish you for their own resentment for eternity if you let them, as this thread shows, just for not being the "dream girl" they'd still treat like garbage anyway. The "dream girl" ceases to be the dream girl once he gets her. Then she's just another girl like all the others, stripped of the mystique and unavailability that once made her so riveting. They all lie and say they'd become "man enough" to be with such a woman but why would they? She's just a template girl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:58 AM
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Yet when women cry quietly to themselves while watching rom-coms, they're mocked for being emotional. Men vandalize cities because of sports and nobody bats an eye. Men are allowed and even encouraged to express themselves by any means necessary, even if that means violence or property damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:06 AM
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If he gets on his soapbox about it, dump him. Block him. Delete his #. He's trying to intellectualize treating you like shit on a day where you're supposed to feel extra loved and appreciated. On a day where all the other women get jewelry, teddy bears, chocolates, beautiful bouquets, dinner, etc. You get his excuses instead. Men will whine like "V-day is a capitalistic cash-grab invented by Hallmark blah blah blah" when they clearly have no problem blowing money on weed, gaming consoles, sneake…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 10:31 PM
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Also, if you take a guy back after he does you dirty, later he'll smugly say that he doesn't regret what he did to you because it made your relationship "stronger." He will make his problem(s) your responsibility to navigate and work through just so you can prove you're dedicated to mending the relationship, as if you damaged it in the first place. He will humiliate you by showing everyone just how sad and desperate he made you to be willing to deal with his bullshit with a smile. Like in this i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 08:57 PM
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It's beyond cucky when women do that, like what're u gonna do next? Offer to wash the sheets after ur man fucks another woman? in your bed? Women wanna be so cool so bad but there's nothing cool about being pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:18 AM
5

We'll see what she says when she's given that guy a decade of her life and a couple kids and he trades her in for his 20-something secretary. Sad part is she made a follow-up tiktok in response to somebody accusing her of having too much faith in her man, to which she said that as long as you have a degree and a resume, you can always end up getting a job later when "things goes south." What she's missing is that it's hard enough to get work without a giant gap on your resume, a bitter divorce, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:01 PM
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Yeah, I honestly think he wouldn't have done it if he didn't know about the trauma. He just wanted to stick it to her and revel in the fact that he could bring her back to the dark place anytime he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:11 AM
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Sad part is that even if his wife let him have anal w/ her, blew him in the car, fulfilled his most perverted "kinks," he would just relegate her to the category of "whore" like he undoubtedly did w/ his exes. He didn't think they were marriage material for doing the exact same things he was doing. The hypocrisy is maddening sometimes. If his wife let him do what he did to his exes, he would cease to think of her as a good mother, a good woman, a good wife, etc. You just can't win whether you're…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:23 PM
28

They always think their situation is somehow unique. Like they're not a delusional, spineless bangmaid and like their SO isn't a cruel leech. If women took the phrase "if he wanted to, he would" to heart (it is now tattooed on my brain), there wouldn't be sad subs like that. It's painful to watch. I really want better for all of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:52 PM
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Don't know how to express my gratitude or where to even start but I so appreciate your time and wisdom. You really went in and went all out to help me. Thank you times a trillion <3 :)
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