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Men are two-faced & will say one thing to you & a whole other thing about you

No-Village-3946

March 31, 2022
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Title Men are two-faced & will say one thing to you & a whole other thing about you
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No-Village-3946

Upvotes 837
Comments 74
Date March 31, 2022 6:44 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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[–]AphoticEnigma_FDS Newbie 181 points182 points183 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow wtf

I’m glad she put him on blast

[–]thanarealnobodyFDS Newbie 660 points661 points662 points 4 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link

This is why I don’t take it seriously if men start flattering you - they know that women will take it to heart, and therefore will be more pliable.

Also this woman wears scrubs so I assume she’s a doctor or nurse - and she fosters kids. If a man did these things, he’d be worshipped like Jesus. Someone who is hardworking and compassionate and generous. Somebody admirable.

But to men that shit doesn’t matter - she’s just t*ts and an easy lay 🤪

[–][deleted] 331 points332 points333 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

If a man did these things, he’d be worshipped like Jesus. Someone who is hardworking and compassionate and generous. Somebody admirable.

That's something I've been thinking about too. Like how even the most sociopathic men revere Keanu Reeves for being a (seemingly) really good person and love to talk about all the times he's helped people. But the weird thing is that if a woman helps people, it's not received the same way. Men will designate her as overly sympathetic and understanding, so they'll throw as much bullshit her way as possible to break her and appease their own egos. Or they think she's damaged in some way and is only helping people in order to compensate for not having a man and distract herself from her sad existence (like in the screenshot). Or they don't respect her selflessness because she then ceases to be this aloof, mysterious ice princess that challenges and excites them. Either way, weird phenomenon I noticed.

[–]DeterminedblondeFDS Newbie 178 points179 points180 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Projection. They don’t volunteer their time or give back unless it’s to fill a void of not having a woman.

[–]AsizellaFDS Newbie 112 points113 points114 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's hilariously sad how often they project. "Women need men! You're going to die alone!" No, men need women. We're the ones who continue humanity. I'm not scared of dying alone, but you seem to think it's a big deal.

"You're crazy, lonely and desperate for a man because you (checks notes) foster kids!!" No... But is that the only scenario where you could envision yourself doing the same? Because of a woman, or lack thereof? I guess when you don't see women as humans, their motives can be baffling.

[–]purasangriaFDS Disciple 80 points81 points82 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Or to trawl for a woman at their "volunteer opportunities."

[–][deleted] 59 points60 points61 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s why i never go out of my way to help men. Only women.

[–]AsizellaFDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dolly Parton is received well for her philanthropy. She also constantly calls herself "trash" and men friggin love it.

[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True, kind women get called fake and attention seeking, even by other women. We can't win.

[–]KristeninmyskinFDS Apprentice 123 points124 points125 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this is why I don’t take it seriously if men start flattering you - they know that women will take it to heart, and therefore be more pliable.

That was the first thing I noticed, too! It’s like pre-love bombing.

[–][deleted] 42 points43 points44 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree completely, to the extent that I'm no longer flattered by anything "nice" men say about me in any capacity in the beginning of getting to know one another, as I see it as a red flag that they're just trying to play me.

In my opinion, it feels incredibly unnatural and disingenuous for men to say anything complimentary when they don't even know you well and long enough to give you a genuine compliment.

Superficial compliments from men at the onset are fueled by lust, and are as superficial as his motives with you. The men of substance I've met in my life never said anything about my appearance, and instead just took the time to get to know me as a human -- genuine compliments came later on after getting to know one another.

It's also incredibly gross and I instantly walk away whenever I hear men give compliments that they "think" they're "supposed to" say -- "I can tell you're smart." "I love that you're so independent." "You're beautiful." "I respect you (if he has to "tell" you this/who he is -- he is, in fact, the opposite 🙄)."

They are honestly so uninspiring and lacking all creativity with their compliments; they just utter any buzz words that they think women like to hear about themselves. 😑

[–]52490FDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup. Men use compliments as downpayment for sex or to manipulate us to do what he wants in general (platonic relationships included).

[–]MyBeautifulSweetsong 335 points336 points337 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I saw the original if him talking about her but not the kids.

So he doubles down in being an ass and goes after little kids. F'n psychopath.

[–]millennialpink2000FDS Disciple 335 points336 points337 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Men: iT'S jUsT a JoKe

The punchline: Hurrr hurrr it's cuz ur fat!!

*slow clap*

They all think they're Lenny Bruce

[–][deleted] 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The arrogance of this guy too -- insulting and undermining her intelligence with that completely obvious lie; it's clear his default position is that he's smarter than women as a whole, and can therefore "outsmart" them. 🙄

He seriously thought she would buy it -- it just goes to show how truly ignorant and lacking in self-awareness these guys are, and how truly little they value women. Avoid.

[–]millennialpink2000FDS Disciple 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, these guys really think they moonlight as CIA operatives with their 'clever' retorts that are as transparent as Saran Wrap

[–]Biracial_tooth_fairyFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I see you met my ex :D

[–]juliaroberts111213 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How I know I found my place: someone brings up Lenny Bruce >>>

[–]millennialpink2000FDS Disciple 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeahhhhhh that's how we do :)

[–]ashimo414141 225 points226 points227 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah had a breakup recently and found out he was talking shit behind my back about how he didn’t want to have to financially support me forever and that my job is a dead end and all my friends/coworkers are dirt bags. He always told me how much he admired my job and my independence and I literally never asked for/got a dime from him. Delusional

[–]thewetdog_Ruthless Strategist 155 points156 points157 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Next time get the dime.

They’re gonna talk anyway.

[–]elainejay82FDS Apprentice 103 points104 points105 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

🌟🌟🌟🌠 Next time get the dime! 🌠🌟🌟🌟

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahah legend

[–]missdanielleyyFDS Newbie 217 points218 points219 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Although this is horrible (!!!) at least she knows what a scumbag he is and didn’t waste more time.

[–]18hourbruhFDS Newbie 118 points119 points120 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

100% would rather know than go on the date like an idiot

[–]saint-jezebelFDS Newbie 302 points303 points304 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Another reason I don’t support dating apps. Men always want to see full sized pictures of your body so they can sample and categorize you before meeting you. Then, they determine how you are and there is no changing that. This man likely had a picture of her from a dating app and then sending it to his friends. He pushed her in the P category as if he was sure he had a chance. He showed more of his ass then she did tits. How about that?

[–]Bonds_GirlFDS Apprentice 75 points76 points77 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Women need to FULLY UNDERSTAND that men are not on dating apps looking for “the one.”

They are solely looking to get laid.

Women need to wisen the F up 🙄

[–]elainejay82FDS Apprentice 46 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep! They are on there for the sole reason to spin plates and get more notches on their bedpost, and women are willingly serving themselves up to them while actually looking for love.

Men on there are NOT looking for love!

[–][deleted] 70 points71 points72 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are so many of these men on dating apps. It's abysmal.

[–]SunshinePrincess_ 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What does “P category” mean?

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just Pussy

[–]Responsible-Squash17 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s such a hard balance to find photos of me that I like which aren’t full-body… which is making me realize I’m inadvertently picking photos that make me appear smaller/distant with an appealing body outline. Like it doesn’t matter that you can’t see my face… I need to take a serious look at the photos I’m sharing online because I’ve grown accustomed to objectifying myself :( Not anymore!

[–]lanaknol 99 points100 points101 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I just want to see what he looks like 🙄🤣

[–]Lilith-epiphany 49 points50 points51 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

probably hideous lol. those ones have the most to say about women

[–]shoesfromparis135FDS Apprentice 138 points139 points140 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It’s never an accident. He meant to send you that. Don’t give him the benefit of the doubt.

[–]apple_coresFDS Newbie 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t think it was on purpose. This idiot accidentally sent it to her and tried to save face but he knew it was over. He was just hoping she was dumb enough to buy his lie. Which explains why he sent her those follow up messages playing victim.

[–]Get-in-the-llama 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh really? Like negging? This is one of the few places on Reddit where I don’t assume things are fake!

[+]Platipus61 points 4 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

First shit-test was "I'm not going to shower or change to see you, you're not worth it" disguised as "I'm so excited to nut see you I'm rushing straight from work" and giving an order (compliance test) "You'll have to accept it. Sweaty balls or nothing, sweetheart"

and she accepted him showing up like a slob ❌ dropping down to his level and being CoolGirl ❌ while also approval seeking by letting him know she has a decent job ❌ and that she's understanding and gives him the benefit of the doubt after his shit❌

1st option : block after his downgrade.

any other time a previously good guy tries this : "ooh no thanks, take your time for a shower"

He confirmed he knows what he's doing. These assholes target you and test you within the first 2 messages! Slow down and read them carefully. "It all happened so fast" only happens to giddy and desperate women.

[–]2340000FDS Apprentice 87 points88 points89 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Tell them, sis!

I read the text like 👀...

Plus he used too many flirtatious emojis.

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Same! She was a bit too flirty as well (to be dealing with a man, unfortunately); he knew he had her at "that's sweet" and "🥰." It's sad we have to police ourselves so heavily with men, because what she said is genuine and respectful; men just see this and instantly think of ways to manipulate you. 😑🤯

[–]mandoa_skyFDS Disciple 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i'd reply with the same - like deliberately dress-down to find out how they react

[–]Medusa_Alles_Hades 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I for real did not catch all that the first time I read through but everything you say is 💯

[–]GoldandGlowingFDS Newbie 147 points148 points149 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men are sociopaths and that includes the scrote who will inevitably report me for saying that 💕

[–]elainejay82FDS Apprentice 102 points103 points104 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Wow, scrotes really be out here talking shit about a girl who fosters children, is a nurse, travels, and looks like an absolute goddess.

What an idiot.

[–]CheapTea108 94 points95 points96 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Always always always get an ear to listen in on his convos with friends if possible and otherwise look for red flags. This is horrifying.

[–]absurd_falofl 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even better would be somehow getting access to their boys' Messenger/Whatsapp group(s) - it's disgusting and would put you off men for life. These men approach women with 'respect' to her face and talk smack about her in their group chats. The members of one group I saw would take secret photos of women they sleep with (after sex, while she's putting clothes on or something) and post it to the group. I have lost so much faith

[–]purasangriaFDS Disciple 128 points129 points130 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Queen. She stood him up and made a TikTok video instead.

Definitely a better use of her time than going out with this loser.

[–]Natural-Object-4628 42 points43 points44 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm so tired of men at this point in life and I'm just 23. 🙄

[–]Interesting-Bat3992FDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Same here 😂

[–]thowawaywookieFDS Newbie[🍰] 43 points44 points45 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Every guy is a sociopathic liar until he proves otherwise over time.

That's very different from the trust but verify and give men the benefit of the doubt bekind claptrap I was taught.

[–]absurd_falofl 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is absolutely the best and most pithy piece of wisdom I've unfortunately come to know the hard way.

[–]Sweetheartsorrow 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I saw this! I felt so awful for her. Talking about someone else my ass. This is why we VET VET VET FOREVER.

[–]NonaOrganic 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

False flattery. Denigrates and sexually exploitative. Idiotically sends demeaning texts to victim. Pulls slack jawed ridiculous explanation from his ass b/c he still expects to fuck her. Insults her intelligence and actually attempts to dupe her w/birdbrain explanation. Genuinely thought she’d show up for a date after he makes disparaging & contemptuous comments about her body, is a moron who accidentally sends to her, plays her for stupid w/lame ass excuse, b/c he’s admittedly “desperate” and plans to get his dick wet then ghost her. Goes full asshole with parting insult & cruel attack on innocent children.

And ppl are flabbergasted why women are willingly celibate when the dating pool is full of these dumb apes that no intelligent women would want to mate with, reproducing their dodo DNA.

[–]absurd_falofl 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's unfair on the dodo

[–]Clapback1000 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She fosters kids because she "can't get a man"... impeccable logic there, buddy. Who's next on his hot take list, Doctors Without Borders? More like Doctors Without Spouses, amirite? God, that's infuriating. A single medical professional who fosters kids should be fucking lionized. Giving littles their lives back and a chance at a future? I wanna kick this dude square in the nuts.

[–]thelionmermaidFDS Newbie 63 points64 points65 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She was far too good for him💅🏻

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They always jump straight to "you're crazy" when we don't just eat up whatever they're dishing out. Predictable.

[–]ihurlpearlsFDS Newbie 75 points76 points77 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

No words…

[–]ihurlpearlsFDS Newbie 78 points79 points80 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“Broken little kids” he’s so disgusting

[–]pickmeishabegone 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

sis your pfp hahahahaha💀💀💀💀

[–]ihurlpearlsFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ahaaa ❤️🤪

[–]AutomaticTeacher9 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I read this yesterday. This guy is disgusting. The woman is gorgeous and an angel for taking in foster children.

[–]throwaway7uvufuduf 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The thing he said about her fostering kids was really disturbing. What a sick person

[–]No_Sprinkles_6078 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hopefully this guy is never able to reproduce

[–]Sierra_Shadow 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She’s an absolute queen. Doesn’t even give this clown the time of day to respond to his nonsense. As if any woman (other than a pickme) is going to write off receiving that kind of dehumanizing BS about another woman. Like trying to pretend it’s not about her doesn’t help his case at all. Glad he accidentally revealed himself.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hope she won't ever get a man that would even think of women in terms of numbers. She's out of his league as a wholesome, compassionate, and hardworking being( working with kids isn't easy).

[–]apple_coresFDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“So you’re just not going to show…” what did you think was gonna happen lmao

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Solid 4. Smh

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Same type of guy who will bash a woman for wanting to be physically attracted to the men she dates.

[–]23eggzFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men are the biggest liars lol. One of my exes told me he liked the songs I sent him the whole relationship until the end when he told me actually thought they were cringe. The dude was literally so spineless

[–]FancyCocktailOlive 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow! What an asshole!

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow what a disgusting piece of shit.

[–]Medusa_Alles_Hades 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What a fucking douche and misogynist!

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