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/u/recyclablebanthas please help this guy lol
/r/seduction03/01/19 04:52 AM
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He did say it was risky. He'd rather meet people in social circles he said. Maybe he was talking to me though, giving me advice because I did tell him I wanted to work on my social skills and also he says I might have Aspergers. Trouble with eye contact and fixating on one thing at a time - like seduction, working out, then guitar. He is a five star psychologist as well.
/r/seduction09/11/18 04:40 AM
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We already went over this
/r/seduction08/10/18 11:17 AM
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Nah I'm just pointing out if you want to look good you should wear clothes that fit. I wouldn't worry about why these girls are laughing.
/r/seduction13/08/18 09:57 AM
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Shirt doesn't fit properly.
/r/seduction13/08/18 09:44 AM
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I would use your last photo as the mian
/r/seduction02/08/18 09:27 AM
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Have you read Models by Mark Manson by any chance? Personally I'm not a fan of all the canned lines PUA techniques. This is true I find that when I think of somethin, then say it, it always sounds a little less natural than if I'm coming up with it on the spot Both girls look a bit freaked out and he walks away and I overhear the girls say ''Fuck sake, another random nutter!?'' I jump in and say ''I thought that was your boyfriend!! I was about to tell you how lucky you were as he seems super ni…
/r/seduction02/08/18 09:22 AM
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Don't you mean outcome independant?
/r/seduction02/08/18 09:02 AM
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I think it's when friday is a public holiday
/r/seduction02/08/18 07:45 AM
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I don't get it
/r/seduction02/08/18 07:42 AM
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Sounds like what you did was good
/r/seduction01/08/18 10:17 AM
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I just randomly ejected without saying anything, twice
/r/seduction01/08/18 09:16 AM
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I mean have you leanered anything from them or have you tried learning from them
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:45 AM
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I don't think cutting out carbs will help his depression. That's not what most dietitians seem to recommend.
/r/seduction29/07/18 07:17 AM
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How is their game better than yours? Have they taught you anything?
/r/seduction29/07/18 07:10 AM
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Holy shit dude same
/r/seduction29/07/18 06:41 AM
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This is what I'm going for. Do you have any pictures?
/r/seduction13/07/18 11:56 PM
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Same lol
/r/seduction13/07/18 02:51 AM
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Wow. Youve got sone iron will. Not once did i read i felt so down on myself for not getting any results. You just plowed through. Well done, look forward to reading your next one. I wouldnt say hot AF though. I wouldnt even being up the actually part at all. You can subcommunicate attraction by body language and stuff, and talking with a flirtatious indertone. So, your brother is probably right that you dont need to be so direct verbally
/r/seduction09/07/18 07:32 PM
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I think its better to just focus on having a good time when youre out
/r/seduction09/07/18 04:10 PM
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Because of the implication
/r/seduction09/07/18 09:04 AM
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Whats the most effective way to build a social circle? I assume its hanging out with the most connected guys at school. Ill see what hes doing on the weekend and if im able to come
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:59 PM
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I do do a bit of reading. Its audiobooks though, and only a few of them
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:20 PM
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I would just say something more subtle like thats ok. And in the first place i would bave said why dont we continue this over drinks. When are you free?
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:00 PM
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You just hotta meditate. Thats where i started.
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:51 PM
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Something about that doesnt sit right with me
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:50 PM
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Yea i make sure im not being to timid by just going in close and firm. Thats what i did with my grandma
/r/seduction07/07/18 10:34 AM
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Are you talking to me or the op? I dont know why you think that abiut me and daygame. Most of the experience ive had is doing daygame. I didnt say it was weird for university students to see me at bars and nightclubs as well as on campus. Im not even old enough for those settings, though i can visit uni. I am in high school. All i said was that i want to try going to a campus and seeing what nightclubs bars they go to
/r/seduction06/07/18 01:00 PM
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So now i understand it as focusing on yourself and having a good time when you go out more than your game
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:41 AM
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Ive been doing that, but usually they just pretend that im not there. In most sets ive dont that was the case
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:24 AM
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They say 2-3 seconds max. I read that somewhere. In the past i found myself approaching even if they didnt look back at me
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:21 AM
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Im gonna try this. Just say do you go clubbing often. I havent seen any round here
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:19 AM
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How do you get women to make eye contact with you?
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:14 AM
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Hes just looking for ideas
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:05 AM
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So what does not chasing look like when youre at a bar club school environment.I usually start talking to people in those situations. Even at the beach (the best social grounds ive got at the moment, let me know if you have better i ideas) even there ill still open people,
/r/seduction05/07/18 05:11 PM
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My goal is to become the most effective seducer. At the moment i feel like i am a long to a fair way away from that. Thats why i want to go on a workshop and maybe even try to get on board the team. I dont really see how not chasing women (in general) aligns with what james marshall teaches. What i have been into. Even the buddha says relationships are the wholeness of a whole life I think the essence of what you are saying is focus on yourself. Build an attractive self, and if you see a beautif…
/r/seduction05/07/18 12:10 PM
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How do you get better with women if you arent practising seducing them? I agree with your last line.
/r/seduction05/07/18 11:33 AM
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See women as friends? What if i dont. Women are sexual beings and so am i. I want to make myself as attractive as possible to them so i can get what i want. I dont see how treating them as friends helps that. I do agree thqt i should focus on myself a bit more though
/r/seduction05/07/18 11:27 AM
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I agree and would like an explanation also
/r/seduction05/07/18 09:46 AM
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What does it mean to cut the chase? Obviously you still have to do something
/r/seduction04/07/18 09:15 PM
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I feel like my game isnt good enough
/r/seduction04/07/18 06:53 AM
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A more systematic approach? Heres a set i did Youre having trouble mingling? Lightly weigh my glass against her shoulder in the approach No. Im fine thank you. Cant remember but i think i talked to the guy beside her introduced each other and that was pretty much it Im talking with drunken fat guy (super good game) and a girl is near and hes like shes fair game talk to her and she goes no im not fair game! I reel myself in to her space q bit by the shoulder and say what was tour name again. And …
/r/seduction02/07/18 01:33 PM
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A while ago. Might listen to it again. Also gonna read 3 percent man. I kibd if want some more practical hands on experience though. I feel like that instruction would help me the most as my game is no where near the level of this druken fat guy
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:08 PM
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I talked to almost everyone that night. The main standouts for me were a girl telling me that iwas confident. Meeting a guy that was drunk, but super good at game. And grinding against an old woman. Didnt manage to get anything going with the prettier ones. I would say my sticking points with them, on the dance floor, are not pushing pulling, maybe my touch wasnt right either. I didnt hold them much at the lower back though. I could go a little easier on the touch at first, then let her do ssome…
/r/seduction01/07/18 06:04 AM
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Cringey isnt really the point
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:45 AM
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Does it always have to be immediate and in that order? I once said to a girl she looked funny because of too much makeup, then once she sung on stage told her she was beautiful up there
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:21 AM
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The idea behind self amusement is that you're not there to amuse her. When you take that the full other way though, only amusing yourself, it is not very effective. If she's not amused, the principle becomes a defence tactic, a crutch for your ego. It's better to elimate the ego, or at least be able to observe it nonjudgementally when it happens. Awareness is the first principle
/r/seduction24/06/18 05:07 AM
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Assume attraction, but take feedback. Signs of whether or not she likes you are not the be all and end all
/r/seduction24/06/18 05:04 AM
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Why is that? I mean what's the princples behind those comments. Is it always follow a push with a pull? Sometimes this depends on things so what would a better principle be?
/r/seduction24/06/18 05:02 AM
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The principles behind this, comment on something specific when you compliment - texting is for logistics because there's no body language or eye contact, laughing or anything. Not ideal for flirting
/r/seduction24/06/18 05:00 AM
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It's partly principles but I partly agree with you
/r/seduction24/06/18 04:58 AM
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What princples/tactics would you suggest he change?
/r/seduction24/06/18 04:43 AM
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Impossible or not to say, it's not effective to read into the signs and find out which is the case in every situation. It's more of an instinctual feel. I would suggest OP change his principles/tactics to what /u/zbf suggested
/r/seduction24/06/18 04:39 AM
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Breath awareness. Are you feeling the inner body when you're out and about? Or even all the time as practice? I find that helps
/r/seduction24/06/18 04:36 AM
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I’m fully present of what’s in front of me.
/r/seduction24/06/18 04:33 AM
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both good points
/r/seduction24/06/18 04:31 AM
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Yep. Agree. James Marshall is probably the only one I can think of. Edit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NAVW12aRLC8 this is a better infield
/r/seduction23/06/18 09:21 AM
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Correct. What kind of meditation do you do when you're with a girl? What are you actually focusing on? It sounds like you might actually be listening to your thoughts
/r/seduction23/06/18 09:19 AM
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What do you think?
/r/seduction23/06/18 09:12 AM
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They are both
/r/seduction21/06/18 08:26 AM
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She has a boyfriend
/r/seduction20/06/18 09:04 AM
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So what I gather is that I should start wearing looser clothes, grow my hair long. Start doing funny body language things like Are you sure imitating is the best thing I can do? It doesn't seem very effective. James Marshall doesn't want his clients to imitate him, and I look up to him. I also look up to this good looking guy with social proof, just because he has it all but isn't a dbag
/r/seduction20/06/18 08:58 AM
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WHat if there a more sublt behavioural fuckups that we are not aware we're doing? For example, a group fo guys at school said I used to do weird things/outof place things for attention. I'm not sure what I might be doing nowadays. Should I ask a trusted person?
/r/seduction20/06/18 08:44 AM
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I would like to said did she ask you to do this or you did by yourself. Myself Edit: Also it was me who drank from the cup. It was my cup.
/r/seduction20/06/18 08:38 AM
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See my other comment. One interaction I thought was bad was when I tried to find out more about these guys going to the movies. I'm ok at handling silence, but this time it was a challenge. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8s6fc6/ego_rant/ There's also this^ That's an interaction I thought went badly. But about the movies one, I heard a guy say, "have fun at the movies" this guy is a guy I know at school.We're at school. So I went and asked him what the movie was, that was after tryin…
/r/seduction20/06/18 08:22 AM
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Maybe a problem is I/he has is he doesn't push the interaction far enough
/r/seduction20/06/18 08:15 AM
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Yep
/r/seduction20/06/18 08:13 AM
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Ok, here's an interaction a man had. He was in a good mood after spending some time with his prefaced band in class. Then he went out to the main class and said to a girl I love the way you smiled after you said thanks. (she had just thanked the guest teacher) then she was startled, flustered, whatever. Then the man paused, then said "Yeah, I can't do the exact face, but it was pretty cute." She said thanks, then the man tried to leave the situation by the door.
/r/seduction20/06/18 08:08 AM
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Fair enough see, this is why I'm trying, if I don't get the life I want in high school, to go on a bootcamp. If things are fine after high school, social wise, I will not need the bootcamp. But for now I am really into this stuff and want to get better at it. Do you recommend talking to the social proof guy at school to see what he can help me with.
/r/seduction20/06/18 08:01 AM
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What does it mean to be mature? I like relax my face muscles some times and speak from the emotional point of awareness. Charming, how? One time I gave a girl my cup, then filled it with a water bottle and drank from it. That was charming at the start, then playful. (perhaps even slightly rude) Emotional intelligence is probably the biggest thing for me. I do get a little bit upset/anxious in the body when I can't 'get' the girl, or get to the girl. Sometimes I have trouble navigating situations…
/r/seduction20/06/18 07:58 AM
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What if my current self is not very effective with women. The self isn't really fixed, it's a series of body language habits, tonality and muscle memory, combined with spontateous remarks that also follow principles. So what are the actual foundations.
/r/seduction20/06/18 07:50 AM
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There is one guy who seems to have the social proof. I have man flirted with him a little. Somewhere between acquaintances and friends I think. How would you proceed. He has some friends that are a bit nasty. Made fun of my past, my fighting technique, my past suicidality, my belt, my nails, really tested me on the spot, all in one go. How do I work around them? I was thinking of talking to this acquaintance friend guy, seeing if he can improve my social skills. Because I don't know how to impro…
/r/seduction20/06/18 07:48 AM
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Practice flirting with her instead. Tell her your going though. Then say come with me.
/r/seduction19/06/18 05:54 AM
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Can you explain what you mean by this?
/r/seduction18/06/18 07:35 AM
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Personally, I wouldn't say the question thing. That's just me though and may not be the truth.
/r/seduction12/06/18 10:38 AM
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I asked a girl on a date last year at school. I'm getting back into PUA now after a long break. Doesn't seemed to have stopped me flirting with her.
/r/seduction12/06/18 10:37 AM
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Like the other guy said, everyday meditation helps. I don't practice it formally but take on RSD's passion for Eckhart's teachings. Helps a lot. Other than that, you might find watching infields of top PUA's help. Realize that it's not that hard, especially once you start understanding the ego.
/r/seduction12/06/18 10:33 AM
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I mean don't rely on concepts and mind stuff. Just be in your body. From there you'll be able to learn over time what's right and wrong.
/r/seduction12/06/18 10:29 AM
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It's not going to work because it's a concept in your head.
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:54 AM
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Hi I'm interested in joining the discord.
/r/seduction11/06/18 06:50 AM
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How do you get to that point? You focus on the emotions while you speak, you want to project emotions, not words, mindsets or anything. That's why I'm keeping it down in my body while talking to you. It's more effective. I'd like to go on a bootcamp
/r/seduction10/06/18 08:17 AM
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/u/recyclablebanthas Yeah what are these basic social skills you are talking about? I assume you mean things like saying hi, eye contact, posture, and such, but can you expand?
/r/seduction02/06/18 01:13 AM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction01/07/17 04:54 PM
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HAHA YEAH LOL HE's a complete ego cerntric cuntificated faggot. SPREAD THE LOVE DUDE. SPREAD TRUTH
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:27 AM
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DUDE youre so fucking right brother. YES> You and me are one and the same buddy. We homies forever@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<3
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:26 AM
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"whoops, that sounds like me, so I guess you're not interested in having an orgasm in my hotel room?" Beautiful
/r/seduction27/06/17 09:27 AM
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Naked
/r/seduction26/06/17 09:13 PM
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Yeah
/r/seduction25/06/17 08:16 AM
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I have seen so many different companies show so many staged videos as marketing Do you have evidence that this or that video was staged?
/r/seduction25/06/17 08:12 AM
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What I think about this is tis sad that people are assuming its staged. When I watched, I soaked it up, enjoyed it and moved on. Now I come back here and the top comments are saying its staged. That makes me sad that people could have negative thoughts like that. Or assume something negative about something and believe it. Whether or not it is staged, what it represents is true. That guy had a glimpse of awakening, and that happens in the real world. Peace
/r/seduction25/06/17 08:10 AM
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Wot bout u
/r/seduction23/06/17 03:08 AM
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20+ approaches (excluding school and ones I haven't field reported), no numbers dates or anything. That said, none of them have been an 'appropriate' age. Most just somewhere in their late teens or early twenties. I am sixteen
/r/seduction23/06/17 03:02 AM
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It's OK to escalate on a girl ~5 years older then haha brilliant. Will do! THANKS BUDDY :!!!!!) <3
/r/seduction22/06/17 09:43 PM
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I really think it is just fear and once you meditate you can get over it with enough exposure too
/r/seduction22/06/17 10:32 AM
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I don't think I've ever gotten IOIs without initiating haha! Just go without them. If they ask why, you tell them you thought they were attractive and you wanted to meet them. That's intent combined with eye contact. It's so easy, and when you're present, spontaneity comes into the mix which is the fun part :P
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:22 AM
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Even if they're not looking at you, I still think it's fine like, as long as they're not doing some serious exercise like sprinting (say just walking on treadmill) I think it's fine to talk to them, especially between sets. It doesn't need to be long obviously, just a quick introduction, maybe some playful comments, eye contact yadda yadda, spontaneity and then number. Bam. Gone. Too bad she was 21 and I was 16 lol. She thought I was eighteen from looks though and I thought she was sixteen. I to…
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:02 AM
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I go out to parties and talk to people, get no response, and then later I look at myself in the mirror and go "oh yeah thats why" along with with general ineptitude at most things including conversation, its pretty simple and I dont think its too far fetched. Buddy, that most be awful to deal with. The thing is, you don't actually need to have these thoughts. The mind just creates them for you. You are incredible. You have figured out what I believe is the truth. that most of the people who sudd…
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:45 AM
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I've approached girls and had fun, but never got a number or a date. I'm OK with that, but I would still like to improve my chances of getting results. I am present in the interaction, just as I am present now, I hold eye contact and love the (or love feeling) the pressure of social interactions because it forces me to be present. I love projecting sexual intent and dressing to look good. I enjoy 'game' but I wonder what else I can do to improve the success? I have trouble learning from interact…
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:41 AM
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Upvoted just for the last point
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:35 AM
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OK :)
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:24 AM
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In my opinion Woujo, there's no such thing as a right belief. There are ones that are effective and positive, and there are ones that are ineffective and negative. Sometimes a mix of both. I learnt this from James Marshall. he is a fantastic speaker and seriously improved the quality of my life. I am interested in what you are thinking in the moment. COuld it be juts an illusion of the mind, defending a phantom self that doesn't even exist? because what you really are, what I know you are, is th…
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:21 AM
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Hehe
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:05 AM
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I can approach. I approach girls all the time. And I have fucked more and hotter girls than you ever will. I could approach your mom and fuck her right now. Interesting
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:04 AM
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some people goto the gym to only workout and not to fucking socialize. It's common sense really... You will find out quickly if that's the case. And that's OK
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:01 AM
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https://www.google.com.au/search?q=approaching+girls+in+the+gym&oq=approaching+girls+in+the+gym&aqs=chrome..69i57j69i60l2j69i61.3674j0j4&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 I found this got my mind straight after it. Such a big kerfuffle
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:55 PM
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Well, I mean you can. I've been using it an spiritual practice. Every time feelings or sensations arouse for half eaten food, I meditate and that is my spiritual practice in getting in the moment. Eventually having shit around the kitchen doesn't seem like such a big deal. after all, it is not really shit. It's just a human. Once who I was honest with and expressed my desires for
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:53 PM
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Yeah really proud of this guy
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:50 PM
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This is so true
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:50 PM
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Try to game them? Sounds like you're hung up over something. https://theartofcharm.com/approaching-a-woman/pick-girl-gym/ This article puts it simply and clearly
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:45 PM
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Do I look like I give a fuck what you think about my advice? Yes haha
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:43 PM
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Yeah me too
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:41 PM
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When im there, I am sweaty, I am out of breath, I am focusing on getting my shit done. I dont want to talk to anyone, so I have empathy for her. Fair enough.
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:39 PM
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That was cute and heartwarming and you could see the guy was really happy. So proud. Just so wholesome <3
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:34 PM
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Thanks dude <3
/r/seduction21/06/17 09:59 PM
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So true dude youve really got it figured out. He has belief that are bringing him and others down with him as well
/r/seduction21/06/17 09:31 PM
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Why. What is the worst that could happen? In fact, I did it just today. Said hello. Asked if I'd seen her before. Exchanged names, ages, said she'd see me around. Even if it was not a good interaction, the fact that it's in the gym doesn't matter
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:08 AM
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That implies you're bothering them. If that's obvious, of course I'm not going to stay in the interaction
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:02 AM
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I would bet a thousand dollars you've never cold approached a girl at the gym, had a real conversation with her, gotten her number, called her, gone on a date with her, and then fucked her. You've probably never tried
/r/seduction21/06/17 10:43 AM
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What opener would you even conceive using? "Hi" worked fine
/r/seduction21/06/17 10:41 AM
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Yeah you don't need to befriend the whole gym just to talk to a girl. lol
/r/seduction21/06/17 10:41 AM
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Sometimes you're just being an annoying dick. This comes from fear
/r/seduction21/06/17 10:40 AM
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You're absolutely right as f
/r/seduction21/06/17 10:35 AM
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Other dude is right. Don't. A few of my lady friends who gym always complain about how cringy and annoying it can be getting hit on at the gym This is coming from fear? Is that attractive? Why is everyone agreeing, except for to stay in their comfort zones? Why not be ballsy and take a risk? Why not just stop giving a fuck about the outer technical aspects, and be honest with your intent
/r/seduction21/06/17 10:35 AM
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I am going to be honest. I think anyone who says you cant approach an attractive girl at the gym is afraid of something much deeper than annoying an individual. Think about it. What is the worst that could happen if you say hi to a girl, project present, pure and honest sexual intent and also see if you get a number or some bullshit. I'm not happy with the way the community responded to this question. It shows a lack of open mindedness, a lack .... Woujo is lacking confidence and he's bringing o…
/r/seduction21/06/17 10:33 AM
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Wow. Mind. BLOWN
/r/seduction20/06/17 09:30 AM
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Nah i was just asking out of curiosity bro
/r/seduction19/06/17 09:44 PM
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Don't you think overthink things just a bit? Why not stick to practical tips? What are you doing in seduction right now? How are things going?
/r/seduction19/06/17 09:58 AM
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land private jet
/r/seduction19/06/17 04:01 AM
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NoFap meditation
/r/seduction19/06/17 02:35 AM
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Struth
/r/seduction18/06/17 12:03 AM
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So what sort of adjustments need making?
/r/seduction17/06/17 11:54 PM
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Thats so true man a few users like that on here lol
/r/seduction17/06/17 11:52 PM
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I don't know dude I don't think most kids have asked
/r/seduction17/06/17 10:02 PM
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Interesting. What else do you need?
/r/seduction17/06/17 09:37 PM
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One of your guyss house?
/r/seduction17/06/17 10:39 AM
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You have to zoom out here and look at the big picture. What happened is that her friend noticed a guy talking to her friend and her friend was putting off signals that she wasn't interested and wanted to be bailed out. So she came in and gave her friend an excuse to ignore you. Her friend wasn't what changed the situation: that girl still wasn't interested either way. What happened is that she was given an escape hatch. I dont understand how thinking like this is helpful.
/r/seduction17/06/17 10:32 AM
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Being yourself to me means being mindful, and that always works
/r/seduction17/06/17 10:24 AM
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What did you do that made her say that though? Seems like she just said it out of nowhere
/r/seduction16/06/17 07:50 AM
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I like them juts from watching YouTubes of them. I haven't needed to buy anything
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:36 PM
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Why are they giving advice if she has a husband?
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:05 AM
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I agree mostly with it except the first part and the part to avoid swearing. That is stupid
/r/seduction15/06/17 10:52 AM
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I love wikihow. No one talks about it
/r/seduction15/06/17 10:47 AM
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Or just dont try at all lol
/r/seduction15/06/17 06:32 AM
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Thanks for supporting him
/r/seduction15/06/17 06:31 AM
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Haha
/r/seduction11/06/17 05:05 AM
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This could all b e summed up by Eckhart Tolle's Practicing the Power of Now.
/r/seduction11/06/17 05:04 AM
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I actually agree with you. I thought it was solid and enjoyed watching it People downvoted just cause his hair though lol
/r/seduction07/06/17 08:52 AM
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I think its the negativity
/r/seduction06/06/17 11:02 AM
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I liked him.
/r/seduction06/06/17 10:09 AM
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Nah it's OK
/r/seduction06/06/17 10:02 AM
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That true
/r/seduction04/06/17 03:39 AM
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Easiest is to not give a fuck
/r/seduction02/06/17 05:54 AM
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Sometimes they're gay and useless though. Especially how people are assuming she has a boyfriend and you're bad in bed. UGH that annoys me!
/r/seduction31/05/17 09:09 AM
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how often you were texting her / initiating texting. I've never really understood this. I used to hit up my friend every weekend to hang out. I wondered a bit if that was too much - but no texts other than that
/r/seduction31/05/17 09:07 AM
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never believe what a girl says Wot but this is the alternative story to the actual truth, which is probably a little critical of you. Sorry. This is a stupid thing to assume
/r/seduction31/05/17 09:03 AM
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No waay
/r/seduction31/05/17 08:28 AM
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Yeah that'd be a button down, right?
/r/seduction31/05/17 08:26 AM
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BIG chunk of my self esteem is in how I dress, mainly the fit, the shoes (I like them slim) and that's it I spose. I also like a nice haircut and fun solos
/r/seduction31/05/17 08:24 AM
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lol who gives a fuck about hte seasons
/r/seduction31/05/17 08:17 AM
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I don't really get what social intelligence you could have lacked.it doesn't sound too bad. What would you say you were doing wrong, were you too nervous?
/r/seduction30/05/17 09:57 PM
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How did cold approaching ruin your reputation? What were you doing wrong? Cause other than that approach is just that going up and talking to someone. Flirting with girls is normal. I would not worry about silly reputation things
/r/seduction30/05/17 09:08 AM
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You basically rejected her for a few months and if she had been interested, a few months is long enough that she moved on. Or she was turned off because you didn't have the confidence to invite her out or make moves. What if you're at school and theres a girl like this, but you wanna approach lots of girls and you're not really into her THAT much, but then you decide fuck it, you are. Can't be that bad right?
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:31 AM
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This post is fucking hilarious OMG
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:29 AM
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I agree with you You shouldn't be downvoted
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:27 AM
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How can I film my interactions so I can post them here as FRs. 16 by the way. What setup do you usually have?
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:17 AM
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Mistake is a strong word though. I don't see why you can't talk to people in clubs. I don't see what else clubs are good for if not to get laid
/r/seduction25/05/17 10:50 AM
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I like the brownie points system
/r/seduction24/05/17 09:53 AM
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For every minute you read or study dating advice, you have to go out 3 minutes and practice. Wow I'd be impressed if people can actually do this. I'm basically addicted to this forums. I might spend two hours at the beach I read a tone of theory and watch youtubes but when I had a crush I also made sure to take action once a day (with any girl, even strangers on the beach)
/r/seduction24/05/17 09:52 AM
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Sick I'm actually gonna do that.
/r/seduction24/05/17 09:36 AM
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That sounds annoying. Maybe just continue the set (but not ignoring the guy completely. You can still acknowledge him)
/r/seduction23/05/17 06:46 AM
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but there are more efficient ways. such as?
/r/seduction23/05/17 06:45 AM
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Technically that means my chances are shot with every girl in the school. This doesn't really fit with my mentality, sorry
/r/seduction23/05/17 06:39 AM
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Yeah I'm mostly just going with adult game by watching James M and Liam. They are really good. Yeah fuck it man next time I see her I'm just gonna fucking approach. WHat I find annoying sometimes is when she's crouded by a large amount of girls and that come put ont he slut defense so I pussy out sometimes. May be a sticking point
/r/seduction23/05/17 06:26 AM
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How are you defining 'known'. What if I just talk to this girl at school sometimes when I have the balls.
/r/seduction23/05/17 06:19 AM
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Two weeks is kind of ridiculous though. What if I've had a mild crush for a term but still learning game. Interacting in high school is limiting in itself. There's only so far you can go in the lunch area/hall. And approaching isn't really approaching when you're at school. Maybe I should tell her I want to take her on a date, or just hang out at the beach? I feel like you're telling me not to do this. Just because I have 'known' her for more than two weeks
/r/seduction23/05/17 06:12 AM
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but make sure she is always trying a little harder than you are So what does it mean if she isn't? You should leave the interaction?
/r/seduction22/05/17 09:39 PM
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Proud of you man
/r/seduction22/05/17 10:45 AM
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Either's fine really
/r/seduction22/05/17 10:44 AM
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Proud of you bro. Maybe you'll like day game better.
/r/seduction22/05/17 10:34 AM
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I'm 16 and I just go in (approaching) by myself. Bit of a lone worf the really who gives a fuck!
/r/seduction21/05/17 03:41 AM
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Anywhere. I went to the beach to do it for the first time just today. If I can do it anyone can man. So can you I wanna see you do it
/r/seduction21/05/17 03:33 AM
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Seriously dude.
/r/seduction21/05/17 03:32 AM
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That's fine.
/r/seduction17/05/17 09:50 AM
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haha
/r/seduction16/05/17 09:55 AM
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I think it's funny
/r/seduction16/05/17 09:50 AM
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Shawn Cameron www.asiasocialite.com haha
/r/seduction16/05/17 09:48 AM
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Sad for you
/r/seduction16/05/17 09:47 AM
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Nice! I actually really liked that
/r/seduction16/05/17 09:25 AM
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Really good!
/r/seduction16/05/17 07:00 AM
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He's dressed really well
/r/seduction16/05/17 06:59 AM
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Mmmmm
/r/seduction16/05/17 06:59 AM
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If you just met a girl and you say "I have extreme, crippling anxiety" LOL
/r/seduction16/05/17 06:39 AM
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I like your attitude :)
/r/seduction16/05/17 06:39 AM
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Talking sexually is the equivalent of doing a speed run in Super Mario Brothers. Beautiful!
/r/seduction16/05/17 06:38 AM
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For some reason I imagine keys dropping
/r/seduction16/05/17 06:36 AM
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Thanks bro :)
/r/seduction16/05/17 06:13 AM
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I understand that. In fact today I approached a girl who I know, touched her, made her smile, almost told her I want to take her out on a date and felt really good about it :)
/r/seduction16/05/17 05:56 AM
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Make sure to make your intentions known Yeah just fucking touch her
/r/seduction14/05/17 02:33 AM
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What part of this conversation do you think I am missing?
/r/seduction14/05/17 01:05 AM
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Would you naturally acknowledge that? How?
/r/seduction13/05/17 11:46 PM
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language barrier I am English Australian?
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:29 PM
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I am sorry for you, but I am also proud of you. You have endured, there's no doubt about that. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uyT2nk8nF7Y I think this will help. I watched it a couple of minutes ago so we're not coming from so different places. Meditation is so important. If you can make a habit of redirecting your thoughts, believe me it will fucking skyrocket your experience like something you never imagined. I am not kidding. here are some meditations https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6p_yaNFS…
/r/seduction13/05/17 09:32 AM
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If you don't believe any of this stuff works I do. It's just that this expectations thing and letting go of expectations whilst not giving a fuck is really important to me
/r/seduction13/05/17 08:21 AM
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No, what I think is. If I let go of this expectation. If I let go of all the bullshit, my actions will speak for themselves. I read this thing about humans having a natural ingrained ability to attract, but the thoughts and anxieties they create get in the way. We didn't have these societal pressures in the cave men era, or insecurities. We just had a natural ability. I think you just have to trust that. Meditation is the most important thing
/r/seduction13/05/17 02:57 AM
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I feel like I already have though just by approaching her. I feel like if I put this expectation on myself to grab her round the waist that will fuck up my whole interactions because it's this expectation at the front of my mind
/r/seduction13/05/17 02:53 AM
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Wow. Good question. She doesn't because there hasn't been any physical escalation as far as I'm aware besides upper arm high fives. If I impose that expectation on myself, I don't think it's a good idea
/r/seduction13/05/17 02:34 AM
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Interest how, like in what way? I think we're overthinking here. Better just say fuck it
/r/seduction13/05/17 01:01 AM
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Can't you just make it like you hang out on dates and as you spend more time you get closer and then kiss and bamb she's a gf
/r/seduction13/05/17 12:22 AM
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need to portray romantic/sexual interest quickly See I feel like this is an expectation that we put on ourselves and it ruins the fun for me personally This sets the frame of your relationship as love interests. Your subconscious, when free of expectations, will do that for you I believe :)
/r/seduction12/05/17 10:12 PM
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and escalate quickly from the beginning See this what I find poor because it creates an expectation. My dad said to just let go and you will find that things will happen naturally, or they won't. Having an expectation that you're going to touch this girl kills the fun
/r/seduction12/05/17 09:57 PM
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God damn How can we be mentally fit?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 11:38 AM
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Sounds like a pain in the ass
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 11:31 AM
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First part useless but I like the last two lines
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:28 AM
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The world isn't that bad. Women are just women. I don't know what you guys are so angry about
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:26 AM
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You mean just in the workplace though right? Thats understandable because some bosses dont like that
/r/seduction02/05/17 10:25 AM
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Waaat
/r/seduction01/05/17 01:11 AM
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No you don't. You can talk to anyone
/r/seduction30/04/17 04:31 AM
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What boundaries are you worried about overstepping?
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:13 PM
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Seems like all you have to do is talk to girls then. Have conversations and if it seems like they'd be up for it, ask them to hang out by saying you're going to x and ask if they want to come
/r/seduction29/04/17 07:40 AM
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I wish I knew how to properly solve this. How would you describe these thoughts though? Are you literally thinking, "I am a piece of shit"? Sometimes people can get addicted to this thought pattern and you might be mildly addicted. Try to correct it next time by remembering how well you've done for yourself
/r/seduction29/04/17 05:53 AM
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Good keep doing that and don't worry about the stupid clippers
/r/seduction29/04/17 05:47 AM
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Interesting. Low self esteem is caused by negative thought loops I think. What do you usually do when you have negative thoughts like this?
/r/seduction29/04/17 05:42 AM
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Because everyone has something and it can be good to talk about to reframe it positively. Also curious
/r/seduction29/04/17 05:28 AM
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Saving the conversation by acknowledging the discomfort?
/r/seduction29/04/17 03:04 AM
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You're not cringey. You're just anxious. See what you can do about your anxiety
/r/seduction28/04/17 10:18 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction28/04/17 10:14 PM
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If she was into, she would want to fuck you. You cant fuck by text
/r/seduction23/04/17 10:59 PM
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My authentic response is yes I would like to go on a cruise
/r/seduction22/04/17 12:48 AM
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I don't really get it. You want us to be authentic, but in the right way? Why don't you just ask yourself "what do I feel like doing or saying right now?" Isn't that what you are saying? Where does the right way of doing that come into play?
/r/seduction21/04/17 11:43 PM
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On male fashion advice they say black dress shoes are too formal for jeans so I thought that was interesting
/r/seduction12/04/17 09:01 AM
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But that doesn't mean doing nothing?
/r/seduction11/04/17 03:27 AM
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