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NorsemanLewis/r/askTRP17/07/19 07:05 PM
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It is often annoying being approached when with headphones. Not that it never works, but more often than not people are in "their zone" when they turn their jam on or listen to an audiobook with headphones. Try to understand that, and instead approach someone else.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:29 PM
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What a happy ending
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/20 06:07 PM
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You dont have to give up values when you pop the red pill, that would be MGTOW. Rather, you change your values understanding the reality of life. In healthy TRP transitioning, men tend to become something that is far away from the "Chad". But society views any man who is successful in intimacy, as well as athletics, physique, wealth as a Chad. It is a defence mechanism just like females have, they feel threatened by you, so they call you a Chad to undermine and dismiss your success as something …
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:19 PM
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Be more direct. You can't find out if she is willing to go out if you don't actually ask her directly giving her a chance to refuse. Dont waste too much time chatting and "small talk flirting". Actions matter more than words, if she refuses to go out, I suggest wasting your time elsewhere.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:13 PM
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Did you go out with her? It is not clear where you stand with her in the post, is she refusing to meet up or have you met up and tried anything?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:00 PM
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Needy much lol
/r/PussyPassDenied04/12/19 01:46 AM
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Or, humans are genuinely stupid and enjoy burying their heads in their own asses. We've seen that before...
/r/askTRP03/12/19 09:17 PM
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Glad to support. Good luck
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:59 PM
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The weak and poor should know their position. It is good you have morality, as should many, but some instances are morally misleading.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:52 PM
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You're right to do this dude, and if you do, stand tall with it.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:23 PM
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I'm saying that if you raped her, or did something horrible to her, then I wouldnt blame her. But I'm sure this is not the case. If she had hurt feelings or some other bullshit reason, running away with your money is a really dick move and I would punish her for it Edit typo
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:10 PM
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I agree.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:04 PM
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It wouldn't be a "cuck" option if there would be a legit reason for it, as in you hurt her so bad she decided to cut you out, but even then not paying you back what she owes you? That's I extremely rude, I'm assuming shes healthy and I'm assuming she doesnt have expenses that are draining her bank due to some illness or things of that sort, and if I'm assuming correctly she just decided not to pay you back because of shitty financial habits in which case she can just play the dumb blonde victim.…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:02 PM
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Two sides of the coin. On the one - taking the stoic approach and swallowing your pride. Yes this is the weaker approach and will just let her get away with stepping all over you (assuming that is the case and there is no other reason for cutting you out). On the other - let one step on you and you open the door to allow others to do the same in the future. Not only that it is extremely rude to cut you off the way she did, but also knowing she owes you 2.5k? It doesnt matter whether you need thi…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 01:45 PM
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Don't over-analyze words. "Why would she write a paragraph if shes not interested" / "Why would she text me first if shes not thinking about me" Females and males do not think alike, simple as that. We are programmed differently, and we process information and respond to it differently. The best advice I was given is "look at what she does, not what she says". If she flakes once, it may or may not be legit. One way to go with it, is to let her fix her mistake, which she will if shes attracted. A…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:41 PM
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This woman just made the young guys life a fucking roller coaster. Sex with males and sex with females is completely different. I'm not encouraging the double standards, but this kid sees it as one of the GOOD things to happen to him. He now grows up with an Insane boost of confidence, not to mention an insane story to go to college with. Men who slept with older females in teenage years often grow up to be happy studs, and most of the people who cry rape here are just jealous. If shes hot, heal…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/19 07:02 PM
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What a lad
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/19 04:03 PM
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I dont understand what's the fuss about the boy is probably happy af. He probably bragged too much and got her caught. Lucky kid
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/19 03:11 PM
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Forget about all of that for a second. Girls, being ripped, or anything else you mentioned in the comments. Ask yourself the simple question, are you free? Seriously, take a moment to reflect before you answer. Look at you, you are bound by social norms and willingly become a slave to their system. Why does it matter so much what your friends will think? They will think less of you, if you try to change. Why? Because you think less of you, yourself. Your eyes are not only receptors, they are als…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:17 PM
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I agree with the honesty part, but it still is not something that is "set" in society. Most women who are considered normal view what she did as "acceptable" and would argue that OP needs to get off her back and chill, as it is "just a friend" and some sort of "a reunion". I agree with you that such a lie is never acceptable, but these things happen often with most women and a male will encounter lying attempts sooner or later. The whole point is that OP reacted to it properly. He did not do som…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:19 PM
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You know what, you're right. I generalized the situation too much. Lying is a no no. The reason I commented in such a way, is because I think OP did well on his reaction, regardless, and I think his actions should be praised as OP is not really complaining and asking for advice about "fixing the situation". Either way, you are right when it comes to lying like she did. Zero tolerance would be appropriate.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:22 PM
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That is also an approach. The zero tolerance approach. Thing is, most "normal" girls today consider her actions as socially normal. Zero tolerance would not be setting a boundary, but a purge policy. I'm just assuming OP did not read her a book of his boundaries like a social robot would do in the first date, and I think it is okay when theres a little room to "set" the boundary. If we stop the relationship every time the other side does something crossing our boundaries, no relationship will be…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:07 PM
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Sure pal
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:18 PM
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I did not disagree with you, your comment is not on the same topic though.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:17 PM
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Read what I wrote again. Where have I said "Re-enforcing" anything? Thinking you can avoid such a situation simply by behaving in a certain manner, is delusion. Boundaries are established by stating them (or showing) and by enforcing. Before the two steps happen - there is no boundary. Your point is completely out of context with what I wrote. Girl crossed a boundary that was stated, she was put into place by OP. She crossed it again, she flew out of the relationship. Everything happened as it s…
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:08 PM
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I agree, but enforcing these boundaries happens during a relationship. When I say "relationship" it mean since meeting the woman to current time. You physically cannot enforce boundaries before the woman crosses them. If that was possible, there would be no need in enforcing anything. OP did a great job enforcing the boundaries. There was no way to avoid the lie, no matter what kind of "boundaries" he would put before the relationship on their literal first meeting. The girl has to cross the lin…
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:03 PM
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Boundaries are set during the relationship, not beforehand. OP obviously made it clear he will not tolerate lying, and when she crossed the line, OP put his foot on the table and threw her away. Well done, and professionally executed. But the idea of "should have made boundaries" is just silly, no one opens a book on the first date and tells a plate what she can or cannot do. You set boundaries based on your frame, and during the relationship.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:21 PM
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Should have asked for more. But, to be serious, he did the right thing probably. I say probably because it depends on the situation. Sometimes it is smart to back off, other times it is smart to stand ground. This is a dog eat dog world in every aspect of life. This is why while on monk mode, it is extremely recommended to learn martial arts. It is good discipline, meditation like practice and extreme confidence in situations like this. My 18 year old self would have done the same. My current se…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 03:17 AM
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You're 22. Men are like wine (CANT STRESS THIS ENOUGH, AS LONG AS THEY WORK ON THEMSELVES!!) Meaning they get better as they age. In my opinion,you should focus on two things. Keep going to the gym, regardless of your bpdyfat, keep sculpting your masterpiece, learn research trail and error all of that. You really need to stop bothering yourself over this factor. Looks matter, that's a fact. I'm not denying that there are other things than looks which attract women, but a good looking man playing…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 01:12 AM
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This is a mindset you need to abolish. It is beta, it expresses neediness. You dont have to pretend and to hold back your views. Instead you should put a distance between people who, you believe, corrupt you. I do it to PC mindset people, blue pill men and feminist women. There was a phase when I hid my views because they were different, but to my surprise, when I allowed myself to freely express my non PC humor and attitude, when I showed the red pill behavior in the open, and openly disagreed …
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:36 PM
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Honestly, I can't add too much to differ from all these good comments. However, I'll drop this short one here; I guess it's time to pick up "Cant hurt me" by David goggins, read it like 4 times, one after the other, and learn this dude's life. From all the things I've been through, his book was definitely my best investment in myself. My mindset shifted drastically, and even today, half a year after reading it, I still find new things within myself. Mind you, I've been on the same boat. "Got the…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 09:25 AM
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100% agree. Not a single time I have played the immigrant card, or the accent card, or the "I'm not born here so it is hard to make american friends" etc. I integrated into the society, learned it's ways and accepted the new identity. I even changed my name when I got the citizenship, while every other immigrant friend keeps bitching about how things are different here. I stay away from people who try to remain the same in a country that is significantly better than their. It disgusts me. Owning…
/r/askTRP03/08/19 09:47 PM
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P.P.S Also, I want to add that this phenomenon is very common in children who's parents are infected. The kid gets it genitally during birth which may be mortal at infancy for some kids but for the kids that the virus "miss" and doesnt outbreak early after they are born, the kid's immune system prevents the virus from reproducing as well. It is common for children to test positive for antibodies but be "technically clean"... i was infected during that girl's shedding lesions, but all the girls w…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 06:06 PM
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Type 2, and yes I am aware, but according to her, when the virus is dormant is does not reproduce. When the first outbreak happens, it means that something triggered the virus to wake up, maybe low immune system or other illness, or certain steroids may do the trick. But some people are carriers their whole life, and it never wakes up to begin the reproduction. She said that science is really behind and has no idea what exactly may cause the virus to infect and host and go to sleep like that (it…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 05:55 PM
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I had a horrible oneitis for a girl that was way too insane to be worthy of anything. Over two years of constant heartbreak, stress, and idiotic decision making. She has herpes on her vajayjay. She told me after we slept together for the first time, and I didnt catch it. But you guys all know what oneitis does to a man. I figured I want to spend most of my life with that bitch, god I was dumb then. After breakup, we hooked up multiple times and as funny as irony goes, I caught it after the break…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 05:24 PM
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That is awesome! Good job. I'm glad you are inspired, and hopefully the idea of "motivation is bullshit" he presents in his book will be absorbed by you quicker than it was by me lol. Took me a little while to truly start giving my 100%. Anyway, keep it up. The true results will hit you like a stealth train all of a sudden. At some point you will feel like you're stuck or moving too slow, and you will take a second to compare how far you've come, and you'll realize "Holy effing shit!".
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:16 PM
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I wanted to write something constructive, but others wrote basically the same stuff. Sex doesn't decline because "muh we dating fir a while". It declines with declining interest. The fact a woman doesnt dump a man, doesnt mean she is still interested in him. They are walking paradoxes, they enjoy the comfort but crave the adventure and insecurity. You clearly said it yourself, you feel as the frequency fades. Means interest fades. Either spice it up and learn to own her in a way she constantly c…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:36 AM
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This. I admire Vasily for killing all them Nazi officers, but this. This is a new level of respect.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:25 AM
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This.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:54 PM
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I also responded with another thing in another comment here that might be useful. Dont worry though dude, everyone has been in that position. I had even returning oneitis as I was getting comfortable with a woman. It is a repetitive skill you eventually get used, repelling oneitis I mean
/r/askTRP26/07/19 01:49 PM
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Not entirely. Your interest might be defined differently to me, or to her. What we perceive as good, doesn't mean it is universally percieved the same. Mating with women and essentially reproduction, from a biological standpoint, is designed to carry on with the strongest gene, as in everything with evolution. We are self aware, and somehow we invented the idea that reproduction has anything to do with being "nice" and "fluffy" with each other. The reality is that mating is a constant struggle, …
/r/askTRP26/07/19 01:46 PM
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There is a biological reason and it is that pussy was not widely spread to cavemen. You had to fight and possibly even kill to secure a mate. However, look at it this way - you invest emotionally when you spin a single plate. Everyone, including studs can potentially get oneitis. If you ever done stocks, it is a similar factor when you put a lot of money on "a sure thing" and end up tracking it so closely you become unproductive, and when you end up losing the money you feel dread, anger and sad…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 01:37 PM
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I think she is attracted to you. A few comments here implied that a hot girl never talks like that to an alpha male, but that is simply not true. Women shit test everyone who let's them, this includes the top tier men, even movie starts and males in power. That's how nature works. I think in the moment, you got offended. That was the problem. She obviously feels threatened. You consistently showed interest to her friends, which is a killer for a girl that is attracted to you. If you receive sexu…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:56 PM
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The pussy is not the main subject. I just gave an example. You cant genetically change that (you can maybe get an inch or two, but that's gymnastics, and not a significant change). Why fight something that is not physically blocking you, and is entirely self-perception related? Stop minding it. Really, that is the most productive thing you can do. Guys harrass eachother in the tribe, they get under each others to make eachother stronger. That's the nature of things, and as soon as you show they …
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:46 PM
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Theres nothing more shameful to take them off in front of a female you just gamed to score. Imagine you're hanging with a girl, you get to her place, and as she takes off her clothes, she takes plastic fillers out of her bra and her double Ds are actual Bs. Is that the image you want? A guy who needs to fake it to make it? Or just make peace with it, learn to own it and dont mind other people picking on you? Here's a little factor to consider, they pick on you only because you're uncomfortable. …
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:37 PM
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This. As harsh as it may be, I went the hard way to learn that. I had a horrible time with my longest ltr, who had far more sexual experience than me at the time. It was torture to me, not only because I reacted to meaningless things but because I refused to see her shitty behavior, and sugar coated our relationship. Once we broke up, and that breakup was harsher than the experience I had growing up in war, I took many many steps back, looked at me subjectively and used "rational male" to teach …
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:31 PM
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Car sales was the thing that cured my social anxiety in almost no time. It is one of the hardest sales positions out there, but if you get good at it, you'll sell anything. Including your leadership to people you meet.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 04:30 PM
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You're not alone. Read "cant hurt me" by David Goggins. The best investment I made in myself. Also look that guy up, check out his story.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:46 PM
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I'm familiar with the concept. Yet, for some reason the more I've been busy living, the further I went into questioning the meaning of it all. My drive was imbetterment, sacrifice for a better future, and the future became way better. With all the enjoyment and fruits of self development, I keep thinking whether it is actually worth it? And that is what scares me the most. Losing that will to be "busy living". I despise the idea of being a robot as well so that's where the struggle comes from. T…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:46 AM
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I actually completely disregarded hormones. Thank you for reminding me, taking bloodwork next week!
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:44 AM
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I'm actually listening it for the second time now. I love this guy and his content. Goldmine of life lessons. That's the thing though. My passions for self-development were developed on the basis of becoming better than I was because I was bad, in terms of "I dont want to feel rejected anymore" or, "I dont want to have a oneitis for a girl who's sleeping with some other alpha guy". My dedication was based on the obsession of "proving" or "showing" myself I can do things. I've gone far, way far u…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:43 AM
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Now now... it's okay. Who hurt you?
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 05:39 PM
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Being called a Chad is not necessarily a bad thing. Calling a guy "chad" would be the same as putting a number on a woman (10/10). Just a form to describe someone or bring a mental image about someone in text.
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 05:33 PM
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