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'Oh cool, what's his name?' if she realy has a boyfriend you can slowly let the conversation die and move on. If she doesn't she likely has a hard time comming up with a name and you look like you don't care
/r/seduction09/11/18 09:28 PM
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I am not a pro by any means but I feel proficient with apps like Tinder. The problem with online dating is that it is the easiest way to approach girls as all you have to do is swipe right on the toilet. A lot of (needy) men are swiping like crazy for that reason as real life approaches are way way scarier. Some actual profile tips then: Photos are super important. Save every picture of yourself where you look good on. Also go back into you holiday pictures. With todays high quality cameras it i…
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:00 PM
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Todd made all the free good stuff after he left RSD. He is now in a lawsuit against RSD if I am correct.
/r/seduction06/03/18 09:56 PM
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pls use the search bar next time, so many topics on texting. You try to solve a problem (keeping the convo going) that is not a problem! texting 101: keep it to logistics as much as possible, no need to text a girl every day. She will ask some stupid question if she wants to text more like 'how was your weekend'. In that case answer with something simple. If you text less then she is by trying to keep it to logistics you control the pace of the texting and having control of the situation is a go…
/r/seduction05/03/18 10:16 PM
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It is true, however that it is easier for them does not make it a better alternative. The fact that woman get approached means they have a lot less control over who they date and have sex with, as they can only choose from the guys that approach them (most of them being creepy, needy, very drunk or whatever). Because men approach we have the luxury to only talk to the girls we are interested in in the first place. In other words: For woman it is easy to have sex but hard to have sex with someone…
/r/seduction03/03/18 01:38 PM
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First of all don't watch to much of these videos as it will result in an info overload (you will start to think to much). In the end you simply have to say 'hey' and its a suprise what happens next. I haven't watched a lot for a while now but here is what I used to watch: if you are not native english try to find something in youre own language. This helped me the most Todd, recently stopped with RSD. Started a new YT channel that is way way better. Also has some free website program. Never like…
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:08 PM
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Okay stop! Don't get nervous, you got one date you can get another one. For the rest, stop trying so hard. Bragging is uncool and cool stories is kindof showing off, Unsexy! Just relax, lean back and enjoy!
/r/seduction01/03/18 06:00 PM
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It sounds like you are looking for advice that says: do step XYZ to sleep with lots of woman. Models in that case is not the book you are looking for. It sure helps to sleep with woman, but the book has more focus on how to get quality relationships. There are enough other books out there with plan xyz if that is what you want to read. Manson describes a confident mindset and it is up to the reader how to achieve it as the way to get that mindset is often different for everyone. The book often d…
/r/seduction01/03/18 03:46 PM
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Most likely some first time performance anxiety and nervs. It could also be something else like a condom that feels to tight
/r/seduction16/02/18 09:46 PM
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Why?? I know enough guys with a good job/study, good looking, lots of friends and interesting hobbies that completely fail with woman..
/r/seduction14/02/18 01:22 AM
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The bill for 2 coffee is what, 5 dollar or something! Why would you take the effort to split a small bill like that.. If it was something more expensive I would understand. That being said, if she wants to keep communicating over Tinder is weird and a bit of a red-flag for me
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:45 PM
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Option 1: Drink less! The most healthy option, however it is college so there is social pressure on drinking (to much). Option 2: Care less! Remember that everyone is drunk at these parties and forgets almost everything. Often I woke up with the regret of doing stupid thing A and B last night, but the next time I met my friends they didn't even remember. I have done insanely stupid stuff when drunk, but I think it happened only twice in my life that friends came up to me the following day that I…
/r/seduction13/02/18 12:13 PM
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Atleast we can have a good laugh with all the BS they produce..
/r/seduction11/02/18 01:49 PM
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Not used a dating app in a while but if a girl opened with a 'Hey' on Tinder I used to give them a little shit replying with 'Original opener'. Worked fairly well. It's a funny reply as it is the worst opener a man can use, but woman can't come up with something original either..
/r/seduction09/02/18 06:59 PM
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I do a lot of pool dates. Some girls are insecure about their pool skills so don't want to do that, in that case I just go for a drink. If you try this over text with something like Tinder it may not work, because as soon as you mention something she doesn't really like she can go cold easily. Usually I go for a simple drinks online date. If I want to do pool I would bring it up in person, Like hey I know this cool pool cafe down the street. If she says no I don't like pool you just go for a sim…
/r/seduction06/02/18 03:16 PM
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If you did nightgame from 10pm to 3am+ for 3-7 times a week, what did you do with the rest of your time? Sleeping?
/r/seduction05/02/18 11:37 PM
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Just text her. Only logistics is more a rule to keep beginners from texting their date every day with a "how was you're day". If you text a girl ones a while with something interesting/funny in between dates it's fine.
/r/seduction05/02/18 04:30 PM
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I used to drink a lot at parties (sometimes I still do). I never stopped drinking altogether but I did limit the amount I drink at parties (alcohol and parties go hand in hand in my opinion). These are my rules to limit drinking: no pre-party drinks. Arrive sober cash only (take a limited amount with you), it limits the amount of drinks you can buy. You will spread the drinks more wisely over the night beer only. Shots, mix and wine just fck you up. It is easier to control your alcohol level wit…
/r/seduction05/02/18 01:49 AM
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not really
/r/seduction31/01/18 09:37 PM
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I have no idea! I think he does it somewhat naturally. I have to say one thing do: there are a lot of people that don't like him at all and others that do. He s very polarizing and does not care what others think about him.
/r/seduction31/01/18 08:07 PM
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I have a friend with asperger, he has girlfriend after girlfriend. Although I think he doesn't even know what the word 'game' means he is doing absolutely fine with woman
/r/seduction31/01/18 07:40 PM
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Body language. Not leaning in to talk to girls in loud party environments for example
/r/seduction31/01/18 04:20 PM
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Thanks for the reply! It is a little hard to bring up these topics at the start as I would not mind a serious (monogaous) relationship myself. It often starts off not to serious, but some stick around a little to long so it becomes a more serious relationship. Although I like this girl a lot for some reason it does not feel right for me to go for a monogamous relationship with her.
/r/seduction31/01/18 02:35 PM
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Thx for giving me your vision! I have had the scenario before were the girl indeed comes back after a few months.
/r/seduction31/01/18 02:35 PM
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FWB means 2 people having meaningless sex. She is single so you can date her if you want to. I have had FWB and it is often this (weird) situation where you enjoy the sex and each others company but not really want a relationship either so you just end up having sex until you find someone else.
/r/seduction28/01/18 02:18 AM
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I stopped when he started talking about his stupid watch.. Just use smiling photo's of doing activities you love to do (climbing, traveling, golf, beer, traveling, whatever).
/r/seduction28/01/18 01:35 AM
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Most of it is experience.. Back in the days my mentality was does she like me? Now it is more a I hope I like her. And a she wants to go on a date with me so she must be interested mentality. After I don't know how many dates I feel fairly good at it. Just lean back in your chair (literally on the date), smile and relax. Most girls want to see me again. Even when I think the date went far from smooth they still text back to see me again. Even if you think you are awkward as fuck it does not real…
/r/seduction28/01/18 01:16 AM
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It sounds like you are in pickup overdrive mode. When I am with friends doing fun stuff I am not sprinting of every minute to talk to girls.. Maybe when out in a night-club but even then I return often back to my friends. Sure approaching girls is a good thing, but loosing you're friends doing so like a RSD/pickup madman is not. Or find new pickup 'friends', but I don't think only having pickup 'friends' is a healthy thing either..
/r/seduction28/01/18 12:52 AM
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Being honest doesn't mean you have to share shit like this. Being honest means: If they ask, Tell the truth. If they don't ask don't tell. I have never had a girl ask me about my first time, it doesn't matter! If they specifically ask the question: did you lose your virginity to a hooker? I would probably answer honestly. Most girls wont even ask tho.. Maybe they will ask how old you were when you lost it, but then assume it was with a random girl or GF.
/r/seduction28/01/18 12:40 AM
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You are half true I think. Most guys from a more traditional standpoint want a relationship with one girl (me included). The difference is that most guys want a high value girl. They need to learn how to be a player to attract that girl in the first place, but also need the self improvement to keep that girl in the long run.
/r/seduction28/01/18 12:28 AM
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I think this sub does a fairly good job in balancing the self improvement theory with the pure seduction/pickup theories. On one hand the hit the gym self-improve strategy is getting popular but I know examples of friends that are muscled AF but never sleep with girls, because they don't know how to talk with girls. Self improvement is more then style and hitting the gym though (I enjoy sports but hate the gym). It is also a mental mindset you have to learn. On the other hand there are a lot of …
/r/seduction28/01/18 12:21 AM
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You lose control of being able to text/call her when you want. If you give a number you have to hope she texts you back. If girls would text back every time it is not a real problem however a lot of times that is not happening so you lose control of the situation by giving your number instead of taking hers
/r/seduction26/01/18 02:17 AM
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I would be bored as fuck living alone. There is also the realistic chance of your brother wanting to get better with woman when you are better with woman (as it can inspire him to get better).
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:59 AM
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Yes, people/girls are always somewhat worried about what other people think about them. If it is your home and some housemate is home it doesn't matter that much though. Most girls I meat live just like I do myself with housemates. It is significantly easier to get the girl to my house (where she doesn't know anybody) then going to her place (where housemates potentially judge her)
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:41 AM
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Not saying sitting opposite each other is ideal. However I actually did quite a bunch of table sitting dates (benches full, no benches in the bar she picked in her city). The easiest way to start physical contact table sitting opposite of each other from my experience is taking her hand and ask the story about her rings, bracelets, necklace (most girls wear some), while holding her hand lightly (and see how she reacts to that). Another one is the how big are your hands game (make some comment: h…
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:30 AM
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A similar story happened to me at least the first 2 or 3 dates. Take getting friend-zoned as a good starting point to get better. At least you were not a narcissistic dick nobody wants to see again. Getting friend-zoned means you are a fun guy to spend time with (good starting point) but you did not make it sexual enough. All you have to learn is how to make you're next date (with another girl) more sexual. Good ways to make it more sexual is physical contact and at least always try to go for a …
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:04 AM
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From personal experience I would say don't think to much. I have spend half hours thinking for one original opener (not worth your time!!). Just don't keep it to simple with a 'Hey, whats up!' Keep it simple and fast! If she is interested she will most likely answer interested. And if she answers interested you will get more info to go deeper ask more in depth stuff. (sidenote: I did get more matches then I could actually date from Tinder with my time)
/r/seduction24/01/18 03:11 AM
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About the earplugs, buy some good ones. The beauty of good ear plugs in nightclubs with loud music is that you can actually hear the conversation (what the girl says) better than without earplugs. Where I live in Europe earplugs are actually quite common. About drinking: you don't have to drink that much or at all. Alcohol/beer is also something you have to learn to drink (like coffee). I have seen people go from 'I hate it' to 'I love it'
/r/seduction24/01/18 02:56 AM
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You sound like a smart guy.. Boring is such a relative term. One girl loves cats the other hates them (its different for every person) You have to do something with your time (unless you sleep 20h a day). If you are truly passionate about something it is not boring (and if a girl rejects you because she thinks it is she is not the right girl for you anyway). There is most likely somewhere a smart girl (possibly super hot) that enjoys your passionate story about the stock market. It does not real…
/r/seduction24/01/18 02:38 AM
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You have summarized very well how I am thinking after reading and watching all types of PUA and self-improv stuff combined with my own dating experiences. Thank you very much for this post!
/r/seduction22/01/18 04:24 AM
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In the beginning yes. However I used Tinder more as a dating app, I believe I did a real hook-up only once. Now I use Tinder more as a backup plan (haven't used the app in 2 months) and see more people I meet at parties etc.
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:53 PM
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I was slightly younger (mid 23) and not a comple virgin (1 girl). It started Tinder because some friends told me succes stories. Got some dates followed by a friendzone. I basicly improved from there. Since mid 24 I get laid regularly (like atleast ones a month). Still looking for someone I want to be more serious with though.
/r/seduction07/01/18 07:58 PM
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Well it is definitely not the best book to teach you how to be the best version of yourself!
/r/seduction06/01/18 09:34 PM
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I am reading it right now, because I was asking myself the same question (halfway). It is better then I expected after reading The Game. If you are looking for a basic book on how to talk to woman, a book like Models is way way better. everything with the mystery method is super indirect and as a step by step guide I would not recommend it as far as I have read it so far (most openers and methods today are direct, MM is indirect). For some more 'advanced' tactics it is a fine book. Unlike most o…
/r/seduction06/01/18 08:45 PM
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Take something stupid your good at or like and make it funny. Add 3 of them together and you have a personal bio. Example: professional pancake baker, ... , ... FYI: your bio does not really matter. 95+% is about good pictures
/r/seduction30/12/17 06:11 PM
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Man and woman have different advantages/power. Man have the power that they can approach every girl they are interested in (woman normally do not approach). Woman have the 'advantage' that they can pick the guy they like most from all the guys that approach them ('advantage' as rejecting people is a super unpleasant experience). Man just reject woman way more subtle (by not approaching) then woman have to do. Man have the power (if done right) of always leading the interaction, leading where it …
/r/seduction20/12/17 02:06 AM
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I drop everyone on a regualar party (even my best friends) when I can take a girl home. Wingmans are super overrated! The general sense I get when I hear the word wingman is someone else approaching a girl you like to get introduced later because you are to scared to do it yourself. The only reason I ever use a friend/wingman is when I talked to a girl earlier that night and forgot her name (It's unimpressive when you forgot, but happens when you talked to 10 new people that night).
/r/seduction20/12/17 12:57 AM
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I have asked out a girl working behind the bar/cafe (not a club) a month ago when I was there with friends. I got rejected but nothing awkward (she told me she had a boyfriend). When I asked her out I still felt an adrenaline rush. last week I had a small party at the same place when she was working, I did not get recognized. Seeing her again made me a proud for trying as she was cute AF. It makes you realize it is not the rejection that is painful. It is the regret of not asking someone out tha…
/r/seduction16/12/17 07:14 PM
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As a fellow engineer I have also done some tests to see how these apps (Tinder) actually work. Tinder has been extremely frustrating and time consuming for me in the past. Now I actually enjoy the app (as a free user)! Some of my tips/findings: These apps take some intelligence to be funny over text. It is a 'skill' you can improve. Save every picture you can find of yourself from every event you went (place them in a separate folder on you phone). Zoomed in pictures with a good camera can make …
/r/seduction12/12/17 09:48 PM
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I 100% agree with this! The only thing I would add to this is that I do not text/reply during work/school hours (until 4-5 pm).
/r/seduction09/12/17 08:53 PM
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Thinking you are inferior is bad indeed, you do not want to put woman on a pedestal. But I think there is a difference between: I am a great guy so I want to date great girls (being more equal) or acting superior. Acting superior to me sounds like fake ego entitled stuff you want to stay away from
/r/seduction03/12/17 11:24 AM
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'Condition your mind that your are better than her and she craves your more than you crave her.' I think you have to be very careful saying stuff like this. I think it is quite a toxic mindset to condition yourself. It can help in some short-term success, but for longer-lasting relationships it is a terrible mindset. Nonetheless patience is indeed a beautiful thing as it builds attraction by doing literally nothing. Patience not only applies to texting like you describe. In a similar way it appl…
/r/seduction03/12/17 10:27 AM
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It should not be a problem. Last virgin I dated was though (she also lived quit far away). She was waiting for the absolute perfect guy to come around. Every time I kissed or touched her her reaction was super cold. It was a cute girl but after 8 dates I was kinda done with it. Logistics were not good and the differince in sexual experience were to big I guess. Learned a lot from it though!
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:50 PM
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Relax the fck down! Atleast you are meeting someone for coffee. Dating and talking is a learning process itself, maybe it was simply the wrong girl.. It took me multiple dates to get comfy and not awkward about it. Atleast you try to improve. Don't try to fake it, just be honest Same with college/school/university. What is wrong with studying longer then other people? Enjoy it, you can work the rest of your life anyway.
/r/seduction09/11/17 01:49 AM
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Start with Mark Manson - Models and Corey Wayne - 3% man, No more Mr nice guy is also good in general but very good if you are the guy that gets friendzoned
/r/seduction28/10/17 10:08 PM
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They are slightly scummy (rsdtodd example). It is a big business, currently milking there popularity like crazy. They come with a lot of (expensive) programs while there is only so much to tell so there is most likely overlap between them (never ordered one though). Sometimes they say stuff that is good for there business but not for personal growth. It is somewhat based on tricks/performance (most here are from the self improve idea). A lot of there free vids are random subjects and how to be a…
/r/seduction27/10/17 10:55 PM
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True, but from my experience al lot of low 20 year old girls won't pick up the phone. I had girls get angry with me for trying to call them... Depends on the girl I guess
/r/seduction26/10/17 11:48 AM
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Take the lessons if you really want to. I don't think it really matters when you want to use it to pick up woman in a nightclub (girls are mostly drunk anyway). I don't think I can dance although I am sporty but dancing on the dancefloor is just doing simple stuff and not giving a shit as long as you enjoy your evening.
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:37 PM
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Depends on you're age. If you are older go for a call, but with the next generation youngsters messaging is all they do (most girls are simply scared to pick up the phone nowadays). Just keep the messages to mainly setting up dates. Don't try to attract a girl over text, with a call this can work as it is more personal.
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:29 PM
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I would not care about cold or sweaty hands. Everyone has that sometimes. The worst that can happen is that she jokes about it, but you can't do anything about it anyway so it doesn't matter. The 'trick' I mainly use with hand contact is holding there hand very lightly (I want to know if they keep handcontact or the desperately pull there hand back). Examples: in a nightclub I ask whats you name and give her a normal hand (with good eye contact), I then proceed by holding her hand so lightly she…
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:19 PM
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Recently I have been successful with a minimum amount of time investment. Rule number 1 is good pictures and selective swiping! It may take a while but save every picture you look somewhat good on. With current quality cameras even when you are in a distant it can still be a perfect tinder picture if you zoom it in a lot (current cameras are so good you can do this without destroying picture quality). Use like 4 good pictures, some with friends and you doing hobbies. Tinder bio's are way less im…
/r/seduction25/10/17 09:58 PM
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Few drinks, pool, movie or board games at home (sometimes little bigger step for first date to invite someone to your home), indoor mini golf, ice skating. Whatever, the point is most dates cost some money. Most of the times I split, It is kindof a red flag for me if a girl is not willing to do so. If I end up paying the first date, I usualy say something like the seccond one is on you. This also works on a date where you visit two bars. You pay the first, she the seccond (Or you pay the ice rin…
/r/seduction18/10/17 03:38 PM
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Wtf am I reading. It reads like a little kid trying to be funny.. be to the point! Also if possible turn off all the last online/message read nottifications. It only f*cks with your desperate brain. Not sure if possible in imessage, but in whatsapp you can
/r/seduction16/10/17 04:27 PM
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You are only 19, a lot can change!!! I haven't even kissed a girl before I was 20. Why? Because I got bullied in school for no 'real' reason. It took me at least 3 years to realize I was not this low self esteem bullied piece of shit. I made really good male and female (not the friendzone type) friends during university and learned to make silly jokes with them out of nothing. Got very very very drunk more then a few times and learned not to give a f*ck from it!! And now live goes a lot easier. …
/r/seduction07/10/17 10:47 PM
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Now 1,5 year further I would not date her again to be honest (various reasons, she was hot though and very complex). But at that point in time I had the feeling of being perfectly in love. And I still like to remind myself of that feeling sometimes.
/r/seduction07/10/17 09:45 PM
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I think the lipstick line is fine in the sense that it is a polarizing complement not based just on her beauty but something she put effort in (similar to: I like your clothes, how you did your hair). Maybe I would ad a joke like: are you one of those girls that has 50 colors of lipstick like my sister (A: its true in my case B: only say it if actually true). I think she just wasn't interested. Quite often I have had very positive reactions on simple: where are you going and what do you study li…
/r/seduction07/10/17 09:17 PM
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This!! Last 1.5 year I have been with multiple girls, but there is still that one girl from 1.5 years ago I loved more then all the others and still think/dream sometimes about her (sounds a little creepy).
/r/seduction07/10/17 08:44 PM
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It doesn't matter!! The feeling you describe like just going to a party and doing nothing special and still get a girl is fantastic. The lay-count number is useless if you fuck a ton of girls you do not really like. Yes I have fucked girls mostly because I wanted to have sex, but in the end that was never satisfying. I would rather have sex with 2 meaningful chicks I really liked then 10 Tinder fucks just for the sake of having sex.
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:54 AM
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It is great to call. However a lot of girls think it is super awkward if you call them, but do show up for a date with a stranger.. I often use some 'would you pick up if I would call you right now' line over text to see if she is okay if I would call her up
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:52 PM
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Be honest and explain why you gave a false name! Sounds simple..
/r/seduction18/09/17 09:53 PM
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Funny that every video always comes with these cringy 'love your shoes, had to come say hi' lines. While it is so much easier to say hi and just see where the conversation goes...
/r/seduction15/09/17 10:41 PM
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Textgame is not about learning to be talking buddies with a girl (#friendzoned)! Its about getting her on a date. Tinder does that sort of but has its own downsides...
/r/seduction07/09/17 10:18 PM
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Tinder?
/r/seduction07/09/17 09:51 PM
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Dude, Rdam is big city with a big university with a lot of girls... stop complaining then!
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:18 AM
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Both are about 75-25 at worst right now I think.. The only cities with a subway are Rdam and Adam, both filled with girls!
/r/seduction05/09/17 09:59 PM
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Which city? I am from the Netherlands maybe I can help..
/r/seduction05/09/17 08:47 PM
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I did a few times. I always felt bad afterwards. I used to have the same flacid condom problem until I started using larger condoms. Now I am fine with using condoms. Have you tried different condom sizes like MySize (not sure about availability in US as I am from EU)?
/r/seduction29/08/17 04:59 PM
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Do a little les gaming and more outside. Relaxing walk in a park is a good start. Maybe you cros a girl with a cute dog or something. Point is you are not going to meet anyone playing videogames, get a hobby
/r/seduction29/08/17 01:30 PM
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have a lot of fun! stand upright, do not lean in to much.
/r/seduction29/08/17 12:16 AM
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Walk over, give a hand and ask her name, hold hand very lightly and start dancing. Keep talking a bit but don't lean in to much like most people do. If girl wants to say something she can also reach your ear by standing closer to you or on her toes. This way you can keep your more confident straight body posture
/r/seduction27/08/17 07:50 AM
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Took care of multiple drunk woman not able to walk by bringing them to my bed.. I dont have sex with wasted woman. The next morning was often fun though :)
/r/seduction25/08/17 09:21 AM
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Relax, she is on a festival. Maybe she dropped her phone or her battery is empty. Tinder dates do flake a lot, but often not after 2 months. Anyway 2 months is a lot of texting without knowing someone irl
/r/seduction25/08/17 09:07 AM
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Guys don't really do dick measurement contests that often.. So don't be sure on yourself, before measuring. I had trouble because my grith was bigger and because of that had trouble with condoms
/r/seduction17/08/17 09:05 PM
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5 inch long or grith (circumference)? Length does not really matter, grith does! And yes I have experienced similar problems
/r/seduction17/08/17 08:52 PM
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Although The Game is a good book, most of the 'game' is based on lines and tricks. I have recently read the book Models from Mark Manson that could be interesting for you as he describes the differences between a 'nice guy' and 'asshole' and how some people can transition from one to the other. I think this book describes a natural and logical way of seduction/neediness. I am not a reader at all but could higly recomend reading it, as reading your story I think if you look at your past you will …
/r/seduction17/08/17 07:34 PM
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